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Speaker 2: She was talking about when we argue, I get quiet.

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Speaker 3: You know that you were gonna be like a legend

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Speaker 4: It's always so crazy. Never had any formal dance turns.

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Speaker 1: They're hanging in there. Russe and I were at a

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Speaker 5: We have to talk about you know, Rush.

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Speaker 1: That's the first time we even met each other in person.

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Speaker 1: It's no one's ever said it that way, but that's

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Speaker 1: The conversation and the way that we did like that

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Speaker 5: I feel like you and Russell argue like I love

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Speaker 4: No no, no, you name.

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Speaker 5: Every time y'all argue a baby.

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Speaker 4: No no, no, no, no, no, no.

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Speaker 5: No propaganda.

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Speaker 4: Okay, you'm not falling for it. Okay, the prayer is

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Speaker 4: all that you need.

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Speaker 3: Uh. You can't be a wife and a bass Motherhood

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Speaker 4: This is a good one.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you something.

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Speaker 5: Okay, what's up? Y'all's your girl les Pete?

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Speaker 3: And it's sure girl's ray in the call and you

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Speaker 4: Weear a drunk mind speaks sober.

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Speaker 5: But we gotta guess today. We gotta guess today. Now,

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Speaker 5: hold on, hold on, hold on. Okay, First of all,

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Speaker 5: let me say this is the biggest guest had to date.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and when I tell you a legend, a singer, songwriter,

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Speaker 1: I'm so happy to be here.

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Speaker 5: We're excited to have you here.

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Speaker 4: Hey, the vines are right in here.

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Speaker 5: Yes, before we start, let me ask how are you doing? Mentally?

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Speaker 3: Because I feel like every time I go on your

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Speaker 1: You know what I say. I'm out here grinding like

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so you are you going to sign some art?

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Speaker 1: And let me tell you, Okay this Mama God, I

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Speaker 1: This label thing, honey, Like I said, I'm ground, like

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Speaker 1: I'm really focused on, you know, the business of ten

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Speaker 3: People want music, they want it. You drop a song

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Speaker 1: So I no, first of all, thank you for that.

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Speaker 3: You give me fearless because the way you crawled up

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying my head a little bit exactly.

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Speaker 3: So you know we have to talk about you know, Russ,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I think that. You know, when you're in marriage,

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Speaker 1: Like I think that's where like really amazing things happen

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Speaker 1: for a second he was talking to me and the

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Speaker 1: words is going over my head because.

439
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Speaker 4: I was just there.

440
00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:25,080
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, she's so beautiful. His

441
00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:32,320
Speaker 1: eyes are so brown tone is so scared that you

442
00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:34,600
Speaker 1: know what, no one's ever said it that way. But

443
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Speaker 1: that's just what I was doing. I was just you know.

444
00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 1: But when we talked and like really just like took

445
00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:45,359
Speaker 1: we took our time to talk. When he left out,

446
00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:47,320
Speaker 1: he said to his friend he was with because he

447
00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:51,240
Speaker 1: had his friend and because it wasn't like a formal date,

448
00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:53,399
Speaker 1: like he actually came to my place because it was

449
00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:56,200
Speaker 1: better to be more uh private, because when you step

450
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Speaker 1: outside and you get to know someone, they automatically label

451
00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:00,399
Speaker 1: you and that just gets in the way, like putting

452
00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:01,800
Speaker 1: the cart before the horse, like let's get to know

453
00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:04,240
Speaker 1: each other first. But when he walked away, he said

454
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Speaker 1: to his friend, he was like, you know, he basically said,

455
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Speaker 1: I was the one. Then I called my best friend

456
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Speaker 1: Yoly because she and he was coming over, and I

457
00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:11,520
Speaker 1: was like, Yolis, like I want gez anything. But I

458
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Speaker 1: think he said, and I didn't want to say, she's

459
00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:16,720
Speaker 1: like the one. I go yes, So you know, it

460
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Speaker 1: was different, you know, just to be honest with you,

461
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Speaker 1: I never had a connection the conversation in the way

462
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Speaker 1: that we did in all my years, like out the gate,

463
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Speaker 1: the way that it was like that was God, you know,

464
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Speaker 1: like I just know and we say when you know,

465
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Speaker 1: you know, we were just allied in all things. Like

466
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Speaker 1: we talked about things like wanting to build a school

467
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Speaker 1: one day, and like wanted to write books one day,

468
00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:44,879
Speaker 1: and like God is so good that we've launched a

469
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Speaker 1: school in Seattle. It's a charter school in Seattle, and

470
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Speaker 1: we've written you know, a book together? Why not you book?

471
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Speaker 1: And so I don't know, man, there's just power in

472
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Speaker 1: the tongue. Yes, right, there's power in the tongue. There's

473
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Speaker 1: power in what you envision, and there's power power in

474
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Speaker 1: who you envision things to get with. And I think

475
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Speaker 1: that when you you know, are in sync and you

476
00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:07,120
Speaker 1: are speaking life into things together, you just create more

477
00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 1: opportunity for those things to happen.

478
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Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, So when you got in this relationship, were

479
00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:16,080
Speaker 4: you like very intentional about I want to get married,

480
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Speaker 4: Like I want to be serious and I want to

481
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Speaker 4: make sure that this is actually going somewhere in the

482
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Speaker 4: direction that I'm trying to go. Or were you just

483
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Speaker 4: dating and it just ended up being your person?

484
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Speaker 1: No? So before Russ came into my life, well, first

485
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Speaker 1: of all, I thought I was gonna be single for

486
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Speaker 1: a little bit.

487
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Speaker 4: I was like really yeah, like let me just yeah,

488
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:37,640
Speaker 4: let me just do me for a second year.

489
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Speaker 1: Let me just like I just have my son, and

490
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Speaker 1: I'm like I want to like, let me just work

491
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Speaker 1: on me. Right, But before he came into my life,

492
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:48,399
Speaker 1: I definitely had clarity on where I wanted to go

493
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Speaker 1: in my life next. Okay, Like I was very clear,

494
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Speaker 1: and I know I've talked about this before, but you know,

495
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Speaker 1: I think it just comes a time in your life

496
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Speaker 1: when you're ready, right, you know, you you start to

497
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:05,679
Speaker 1: think a certain way, you start to see a certain way.

498
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 1: You know, you know sometimes you can you know, want

499
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Speaker 1: something for your life that you can taste it like

500
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:15,640
Speaker 1: that to me is like that's a spiritual thing, right,

501
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:19,080
Speaker 1: It's like when you feel through your body. So before

502
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Speaker 1: he came into my life, I honestly knew the level

503
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:26,640
Speaker 1: of seriousness that I was ready to go to, right,

504
00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:31,560
Speaker 1: I knew it. I was very clear on it. And

505
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:34,439
Speaker 1: that really that thought process like where the It's just

506
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Speaker 1: how I wanted to be loved, how I wanted to

507
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Speaker 1: be treated, like, you know, how was it? How was

508
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Speaker 1: a person going to speak to me? How are they

509
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:44,480
Speaker 1: going to speak you know into me? Right? You know,

510
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 1: how are they going to be?

511
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Speaker 4: What do they feel like? What do they look?

512
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Speaker 1: Like how do they walk like? I mean literally like

513
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:53,160
Speaker 1: you know, because when you to me, when you start

514
00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:55,320
Speaker 1: to vision what you want your life, whether it's in

515
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:59,440
Speaker 1: your relationship or your career, whatever it is, you see

516
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:01,000
Speaker 1: it right away when it's in fun of you.

517
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:04,439
Speaker 4: But you can't see what you want if you're not

518
00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 4: clear on what you want right.

519
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 5: You have to know what the right.

520
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Speaker 1: So once you start saying this is how I want

521
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:14,480
Speaker 1: to live my life, then you also start to like

522
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:18,440
Speaker 1: unsee things. You also start to be like that don't

523
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:21,119
Speaker 1: look like that, you know what I'm saying, like or

524
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:25,280
Speaker 1: it's just how it goes like with anything like relationship, business,

525
00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:29,200
Speaker 1: like your mind it starts here, starts spiritually first and

526
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:32,280
Speaker 1: then and your eyes too, and then it's just like

527
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:33,960
Speaker 1: it just it all like you just.

528
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Speaker 4: See it, you know, and it makes it easier to

529
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Speaker 4: remove the things and the people that don't. Yeah, it

530
00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:47,280
Speaker 4: can be friendship outside of anything, right, And it's like, God,

531
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,560
Speaker 4: you do the work, because I'll be trying to do

532
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:53,959
Speaker 4: this work and some clearly something main work, you know,

533
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Speaker 4: you know, so it's like okay, God, let me, let

534
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Speaker 4: me let you jump up in the mix. You know

535
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Speaker 4: what I'm saying.

536
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Speaker 1: Because I was saying someone like you talked to God

537
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:05,600
Speaker 1: like he's your homie. Yeah, you go ahead, you go ahead,

538
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,440
Speaker 1: take this real quick suicide. You know what I'm saying.

539
00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you do your thing.

540
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:13,440
Speaker 5: I'm gonna let you leave me. I'm right. I feel

541
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 5: like you and Russell argue like I love you more?

542
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:17,240
Speaker 4: No, no, no, I.

543
00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:22,760
Speaker 5: Said, I love you more like that's how y'all are

544
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:31,440
Speaker 5: you made me? That's how I'm trying to love you more?

545
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:33,120
Speaker 5: God damn it, Oh my god.

546
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 1: Have you guys seen those tiktoks where couples like argue

547
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 1: and they I think it's like they're in someone's face

548
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 1: and you have to be like you know what I'm

549
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 1: talking about.

550
00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:44,840
Speaker 4: You gotta be like really close.

551
00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:48,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, like yeah, you gotta be like you know, how

552
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:49,760
Speaker 1: do you do it? Why would you do that with?

553
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 5: And what you say that turned me on?

554
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 3: No?

555
00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:04,399
Speaker 5: No, no, when the door for me?

556
00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:05,639
Speaker 1: No no, no, no, that's not us.

557
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:05,920
Speaker 5: Say.

558
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:09,000
Speaker 1: First of all, I'm not gonna lie that we don't

559
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 1: argue often, but when we do it be because we

560
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:16,359
Speaker 1: don't do it often. We have our process and I

561
00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 1: will give my my honey some credit. He's really good

562
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:24,400
Speaker 1: at this because I get quiet, like I get he'd

563
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:27,120
Speaker 1: be like, he know when I get quiet, he will

564
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:39,040
Speaker 1: come back and be like, hi, baby, silly babe. Wait,

565
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 1: let me see the phone real fast.

566
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 3: Bottom Too many times I'm here with the lady.

567
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 5: Hello, how are you?

568
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:52,639
Speaker 1: We was talking about to now okay, so wait, babe.

569
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:56,639
Speaker 2: She was talking about when we argue, what it's like,

570
00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:57,640
Speaker 2: and I said, we don't.

571
00:27:58,119 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 1: Can you hear me?

572
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:00,680
Speaker 4: It's so loud.

573
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:04,680
Speaker 1: It's so loud. I was saying that we don't argue often,

574
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:08,600
Speaker 1: but when we argue, I said, sometimes I get you smiling.

575
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:11,720
Speaker 1: I get quiet sometimes, right.

576
00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:20,120
Speaker 5: And then yeah, yeah yeah he said, yeah, yeah yeah.

577
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:23,280
Speaker 1: He gets hurt. He goes up here.

578
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:29,360
Speaker 5: Period.

579
00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 1: Okay, can I I'm gonna tell them what I did.

580
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:33,920
Speaker 4: And he said, he'll let me walk down the stairs

581
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:35,080
Speaker 4: on myself. Oh hey, by, I gotta go.

582
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 1: Your background is so loud that it's gonna be crazy

583
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:39,720
Speaker 1: through the mics. Okay, I love you.

584
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 5: Bye.

585
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 1: You know that's right, baby, Bye.

586
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 5: The goddamn phone. I said, I'm trying to glow with

587
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 5: my man.

588
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:53,320
Speaker 1: Oh my god, so funny. He said, I get quiet

589
00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 1: and he gets loud when he said the one that

590
00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 1: guy don't do is I don't let you walk down

591
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 1: the stairs by yourself. Because one time I was so mad.

592
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 1: I was no, I said, I about to go down

593
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:04,960
Speaker 1: the stairs because I can't. He said, I'm coming with you.

594
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:06,280
Speaker 4: That's what he told me.

595
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:10,760
Speaker 1: Were like two little old folks. That's what I'm saying

596
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:12,960
Speaker 1: in my head. But I was like, because I wanted

597
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 1: to be in my stubborn place so bad.

598
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:18,200
Speaker 4: But no, we don't argue often.

599
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:21,520
Speaker 5: When we do, I mean, every time y'all argue, a

600
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 5: baby pop up?

601
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 4: No no, no, no, no, no, no no, no, listen,

602
00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 4: it cannot be arguing.

603
00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 1: Baby happens. These guys have, Thank the Lord, we have

604
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:36,959
Speaker 1: been blessed to have the babies and the timing that

605
00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 1: we have hoped for. Okay, but yes, no on the

606
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 1: on the arguing side, it's funny because I do get

607
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:48,800
Speaker 1: quiet and he gets here. But I will say, like

608
00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 1: I was saying earlier, what he does so sweetly is

609
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 1: he will come back around. Our pastor said, okay, first

610
00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 1: of all the pastors like you can't he was talking

611
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:00,360
Speaker 1: out in a sermon one days, like you can't use

612
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:03,400
Speaker 1: the D word? Ever, what's the word if you're married?

613
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 1: What's the D word?

614
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 4: That's the rule.

615
00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 1: That's the rule. And then he said.

616
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 3: The boss no said speaking life, I am a tortured woman.

617
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 4: We gotta get out of that.

618
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 1: That's why I'm next to line.

619
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Speaker 5: All your friends getting married?

620
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:37,200
Speaker 1: Please, Oh my god. Okay, wait, but let me stop.

621
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 5: No, no, y'all, lord.

622
00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 1: Lord, Well she's trying to come out to date the

623
00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:50,040
Speaker 1: gate dropping them. She just said, you got to switch that. Okay. No,

624
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 1: what I was gonna say is you also have to say,

625
00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:56,360
Speaker 1: and this is hard because I'm stubborn, will you forgive me? Okay,

626
00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 1: that is like a thing. That's a rule that we have.

627
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 1: And I want to say a pastor kick that off

628
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 1: for us or ruskin at all one take one or

629
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 1: the other. But like that's sometimes hard to do. But

630
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 1: when you do it automatically, like you know, it shifts

631
00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:16,400
Speaker 1: the atmosphere, right, and then the Bible also talks about

632
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 1: like not going to bed mad at each other.

633
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, so it's very rare that we do that.

634
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 1: But it does take time. You can take a couple

635
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 1: of hours to process. But thank the Lord, we bring

636
00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:28,480
Speaker 1: it back because we win.

637
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:32,440
Speaker 4: Me and one thing about us, we're gonna site me

638
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 4: gotta apologize, Like I know, he be apologizing.

639
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:40,200
Speaker 1: It depends on who's wrong, right, and again it's hard.

640
00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 1: It's hard because I'm just stubborn by nature, like you know.

641
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 1: But you know, it's like, okay, let me if I

642
00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 1: if I'm the one that, like you know, cause a

643
00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:54,040
Speaker 1: turn up, which you know, I'm very rarely the one

644
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:57,640
Speaker 1: that cause a turn up. If I'm the one though,

645
00:31:57,680 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 1: you know.

646
00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 4: Like this, and then walk out the door, like, let

647
00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 4: me apologize first.

648
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:09,000
Speaker 1: Well I have to, because I mean, let's just start understanding.

649
00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 4: We have, you know what I'm saying.

650
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:13,320
Speaker 1: So and again it's hard to you, but I don't know.

651
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 1: I think that when you you know, when you have

652
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:19,400
Speaker 1: an understanding of what you want in your love, that

653
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 1: also impacts the decisions that you make. And then when

654
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 1: it goes back to love, like you know, the Bible

655
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:28,880
Speaker 1: also says how love conquers all, right, and that was

656
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 1: a part of our vowels too, like when the pastor

657
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:33,040
Speaker 1: was speaking as well, it's like love conquers all like

658
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 1: you know.

659
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 4: The greatest of the effort. What is it.

660
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:38,760
Speaker 1: I don't want to start misquoting the scripture, but it's

661
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 1: in Corinthians, I want to say. First Corinthians thirteen but

662
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,880
Speaker 1: it talks about like the power of love. It all

663
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:46,560
Speaker 1: comes back to that, and then we say Jesus at

664
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 1: the center. So you know, sorry not to get too spiritual,

665
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 1: but that's just honestly the base.

666
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 3: For us scripture because you are you are big on marriage.

667
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 3: Because I saw an interview that you did at the

668
00:32:57,400 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 3: BT Awards and I think you were talking to was

669
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:03,400
Speaker 3: it Jim John? Oh, yes, get married, you know, and

670
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:05,480
Speaker 3: everybody's like, oh, if you become Sierra friend, you know

671
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:06,320
Speaker 3: you're finna get married.

672
00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 5: I made a joke.

673
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:10,000
Speaker 3: But talk about that because since we talk about like

674
00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 3: tiktoks and stuff, because I saw TikTok and they were like,

675
00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 3: you know, Sierra be introducing the people and they get married.

676
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 5: They like, is it my turn? But talk about that?

677
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:22,080
Speaker 5: Is that like intentional or like?

678
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 3: Because I do believe like black love is beautiful and

679
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:27,120
Speaker 3: that's something that a lot of us want.

680
00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:27,960
Speaker 4: So do you.

681
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 3: Intentionally be like, you know what, this is a good

682
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:32,160
Speaker 3: girl and I know this good guy and I know

683
00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:34,240
Speaker 3: they will work together, or it's just like you know what,

684
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 3: these two friends, let's see if it'll work. Yeah.

685
00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 1: No, I do believe both rust and I love connecting people.

686
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 1: You know, I have people in my life, like it

687
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:44,560
Speaker 1: can be my a doctor of mine that won't call

688
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 1: her out, but you know, or are people that know

689
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 1: I be like, she's been like at a firston, I

690
00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 1: know it's been single for a Lunchi'm like, I've got

691
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 1: to find a guy for her. Like I just like,

692
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 1: I feel like everyone deserves to experience love in some

693
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:59,000
Speaker 1: capacity that they desire. So I always want that for people.

694
00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie when I know they want it,

695
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:03,720
Speaker 1: you know. And so Russe and I have been very

696
00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 1: fortunate that we have, you know, had friends that you know,

697
00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:10,479
Speaker 1: like I've had my girl that's been a certain place

698
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 1: in her life and she's ready for love. And then

699
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:16,319
Speaker 1: russ is knowing someone that a fellow that was like

700
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:18,640
Speaker 1: looking for love and the guy bird you know, was

701
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 1: speaking about what he wanted and we're like, he should like.

702
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:24,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, it should be so.

703
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:31,880
Speaker 5: Inded love. You know what I'm saying, Come.

704
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:33,279
Speaker 1: On, well, what we're going to do though, because you

705
00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 1: said you'd be talking.

706
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 5: About, well, you know what I think it is.

707
00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:38,560
Speaker 3: If I'm being honest, Hey, I think I have been

708
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:42,200
Speaker 3: through so many like negative experiences and I just show

709
00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:44,760
Speaker 3: up as like my vulnerable stuff. Because when I was younger,

710
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 3: of course I was having fun, but like, as I've

711
00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:50,359
Speaker 3: grown into the woman I am and being more like

712
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 3: going to church and focusing on my career and stuff,

713
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 3: I'm like, Okay, you know what, this is the kind

714
00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:56,479
Speaker 3: of life I want and this is what I see

715
00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:59,960
Speaker 3: for myself. And I feel like the higher my standar,

716
00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:02,799
Speaker 3: it's like the harder it gets for people that.

717
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 5: They can't meet.

718
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 3: And I'm and I don't even I don't feel like

719
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 3: I don't even be asking so much. But like you

720
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:09,920
Speaker 3: said earlier, you were like, it's important to find somebody

721
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:10,880
Speaker 3: that's equally yoked.

722
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:11,399
Speaker 4: That's it.

723
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. This sounds really really bad what

724
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:15,799
Speaker 3: I'm about to say. I had a conversation with my

725
00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 3: homegirl the other that I was like, and she's very

726
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 3: successful as well.

727
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:20,279
Speaker 5: She was like, I don't know.

728
00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 3: I feel like as black women, the more successful we get,

729
00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:26,560
Speaker 3: it's like we're being punished because it's so hard to

730
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:28,960
Speaker 3: find somebody with the same you know what I'm saying.

731
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 3: It's like the more successful we get, the harder it gets.

732
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:34,239
Speaker 5: Because when I was when I was broke, oh, I

733
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 5: was outside.

734
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 3: To find somebody, but as you know, you get closer

735
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:42,719
Speaker 3: to God and you get more successful, and the more

736
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 3: things you do, it's like the pool gets smaller and smaller,

737
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:50,359
Speaker 3: and it's so it's very tough. I think you can say,

738
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:52,400
Speaker 3: you know, kind of the same thing. Maybe I don't know,

739
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:53,080
Speaker 3: how do you feel?

740
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:54,640
Speaker 5: No, Yeah, I can attest to that.

741
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 4: And I feel like in my last because I just

742
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:58,400
Speaker 4: got out of a relationship, So in my last relationship,

743
00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:00,480
Speaker 4: but I feel like I was very intentional and how

744
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:02,760
Speaker 4: I was dating, and I do feel like i'm marriage

745
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 4: minded now, but it still didn't work out.

746
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:09,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's like it's I think the thing with

747
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:11,080
Speaker 1: love is like it's going to work out for you

748
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:11,920
Speaker 1: when it's supposed to.

749
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:12,760
Speaker 5: I agree.

750
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 1: I think if you start putting like a timeline on

751
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:17,680
Speaker 1: something like, that's when it starts to get weird, you know,

752
00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:19,759
Speaker 1: like I think for us, because then you start to

753
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 1: feel like you're trying to like make something happen. And

754
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 1: it's like, when it's right, it's easy. They say, yeah,

755
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 1: and that's really true. But there's something you were saying

756
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,279
Speaker 1: to you made me think about that. I wanted to say.

757
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:35,319
Speaker 1: The thing about this is that when you you know,

758
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 1: aspire to to live life at a certain capacity within

759
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:44,319
Speaker 1: yourself if you are trying to, like, you know, what

760
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:46,920
Speaker 1: you're looking for is special. So it doesn't mean you

761
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:48,960
Speaker 1: you just you just may not it may not be

762
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 1: like right there, or it could be right there. But

763
00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 1: it's just like I think, trusting the process, you know,

764
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:57,879
Speaker 1: like trusting the process because that person that's out out

765
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:00,400
Speaker 1: there for you is like going to be special and

766
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:03,680
Speaker 1: unique for you, right, and so it's like knowing that

767
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 1: is real, Like and you wanted.

768
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:06,960
Speaker 4: To be right.

769
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:09,640
Speaker 1: Yeah you know what I'm saying, Like you wanted to

770
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 1: be right, you know. So that's that's how I kind

771
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 1: of see that, you know.

772
00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 4: It's like, yeah, we got to take our time. We

773
00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:19,880
Speaker 4: do be patient.

774
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:23,719
Speaker 1: And like I say, you know, sometimes I think maybe

775
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:25,800
Speaker 1: you might have to just put yourself in certain environments.

776
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:27,120
Speaker 4: You have to change up your environment.

777
00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't go nowhere. I'm okay.

778
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:34,800
Speaker 1: So let me tell you, are you guys my best

779
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 1: friend who I talk to you guys about, who's my

780
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:40,400
Speaker 1: mention of honor? She was living with me or not

781
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:43,160
Speaker 1: living with me, but we were inseparable, right and we

782
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:46,440
Speaker 1: both were like in interesting points in our lives at

783
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:49,400
Speaker 1: one point in time, and I just remember her, you know,

784
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:52,439
Speaker 1: talking about love, and we always like worked and went

785
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:56,279
Speaker 1: home and like luckily we had each other. Yeah, but

786
00:37:56,400 --> 00:38:00,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, Yolie, like if you want love, like you

787
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:02,960
Speaker 1: have to like get out, we gotta you gotta put

788
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:04,320
Speaker 1: yourself in.

789
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 4: A place to like experience love.

790
00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:11,800
Speaker 1: Literally, she went onto this matchmaking thing and now fast

791
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:15,920
Speaker 1: forward to thirteen years later, she's been married, Wow.

792
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:17,240
Speaker 4: To the love of her life.

793
00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 1: But she put herself in the space like you ain't

794
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:23,319
Speaker 1: gonna find your man sitting up in the house.

795
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:28,080
Speaker 5: Why be hoping he's just gonna ring my doorbell? No?

796
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:32,880
Speaker 4: And this one right, he is crazy?

797
00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:36,200
Speaker 5: Lord, I love I'm a hug.

798
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 4: I feel like so many people look at your relationship

799
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:43,279
Speaker 4: with Russell and like so many other relationships that we

800
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:46,120
Speaker 4: see online, and they're like, oh, I want that, But

801
00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 4: you found your person, so it's different. I think sometimes

802
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:53,319
Speaker 4: people do try to force relationships and force them to

803
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:55,759
Speaker 4: fit into this box or make them work just out

804
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:56,799
Speaker 4: of fear of.

805
00:38:56,719 --> 00:38:57,720
Speaker 5: Being single again.

806
00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like they just don't want to be single again,

807
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:02,000
Speaker 4: or they don't want to reach a certain age. And

808
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 4: it's like, Zam, you still single, Zam, you still have

809
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:08,680
Speaker 4: a handcage. Yeah, meatality, but you're miserable because this is

810
00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:09,920
Speaker 4: not your person.

811
00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:12,359
Speaker 1: Yeah No, I think you gotta like you gotta want

812
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:14,919
Speaker 1: what's for you when it's for you. I agree, Right,

813
00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 1: I think that's important, like you know, and you want

814
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:20,120
Speaker 1: it to be right, yea. And sometimes what I've learned,

815
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:22,399
Speaker 1: especially for me, like even on the business side of life,

816
00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:25,560
Speaker 1: it's like I've seen so many women that have inspired

817
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:27,919
Speaker 1: me that I'm like, you know what, God, you got

818
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 1: it for like the things that I aspire to do. Right,

819
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 1: It's like some women don't hit those moments until they're

820
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 1: fifty yep or sixty years old, even like you know,

821
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 1: like my best friend was like in her late forties

822
00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:42,239
Speaker 1: when she met the love of her life.

823
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:45,360
Speaker 4: Yeah right, it's like you know what I'm saying.

824
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:48,319
Speaker 1: So it's like perspective, like you just want it to

825
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 1: be right, and you want to be intentional, right, and

826
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:53,319
Speaker 1: like I say, like the equally your thing is real,

827
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:56,000
Speaker 1: Like I think that's you know, if I can reflect

828
00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:57,799
Speaker 1: back to me as a young woman and trying to

829
00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 1: find my way, you know, and love. You know, sometimes

830
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 1: a person can be like very attractive on the outside, right,

831
00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:08,319
Speaker 1: and then maybe there's some pieces that you actually do

832
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:11,000
Speaker 1: you relate on, but like it can't be a disparity

833
00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:13,160
Speaker 1: in like how one person likes to live versus how

834
00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:15,720
Speaker 1: you like to live, right, because that's when it starts

835
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 1: to become like you start to bump heads a lot,

836
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 1: and you start to like it's just kind of like

837
00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:24,719
Speaker 1: oil and water, right, because like one person loves to

838
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:26,400
Speaker 1: club a lot and you don't like to club a lot.

839
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 1: I'm just making up scenarios, right, but you know it's

840
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:33,200
Speaker 1: like one person, you know, likes to like I don't

841
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:35,560
Speaker 1: want to say work out otherwise, know because sometimes Russ

842
00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:37,960
Speaker 1: he'd be gim ratt and I'd be like, I'm I'm

843
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:42,360
Speaker 1: gonna sit up there. But no, okay, so let me

844
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 1: tell you we both love training the same. So let

845
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:46,600
Speaker 1: me just say that like we both for app I'm

846
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 1: an athlete to you know, low key, I used to

847
00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:51,440
Speaker 1: run track and all that. So again we relate on that,

848
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 1: like you train together. But sometimes I do be tired

849
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:57,560
Speaker 1: and I'd be like, okay, I seeing me come back. Yeah,

850
00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 1: you know, but we do relay on the gym side.

851
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:03,799
Speaker 1: But just saying, like, you know, it can't be like

852
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:07,319
Speaker 1: polar opposites and the things that you like, like, and

853
00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:09,360
Speaker 1: I think sometimes for us as women, that's where we

854
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 1: get tripped up. Yeah right, I think does that sound right? No?

855
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:15,239
Speaker 4: I agree. I think women a lot of the time

856
00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:17,759
Speaker 4: they will try to make things work with men who,

857
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 4: like you, were already getting signs early on and he

858
00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 4: probably wasn't the one, but you turned a blind eye

859
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:26,720
Speaker 4: to those things because it's like, okay, well we agree

860
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 4: on this, and we agree on that. But I think

861
00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:31,600
Speaker 4: when it comes to the important things you and someone

862
00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:34,279
Speaker 4: need to align, you have to or it's also fear

863
00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:35,640
Speaker 4: of feeling that too.

864
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:37,080
Speaker 5: People don't want to give up.

865
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:40,839
Speaker 1: Like man because this isn't didn't work out, Like I'm

866
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:41,560
Speaker 1: gonna look crazy?

867
00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:43,640
Speaker 5: Do I fuck? Do I look crazy? Yeah?

868
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:45,520
Speaker 1: You know what I'm gonna say. And then I think

869
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 1: this is important in conversation, it's like, what's not right either?

870
00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:52,880
Speaker 1: Is that sometimes two guys love bomb people?

871
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 4: Oh? I right, yeah, because that's not right either. I

872
00:41:58,160 --> 00:42:00,600
Speaker 4: was in a relationship like that, right.

873
00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:03,880
Speaker 1: It's like you coming in all strong, you know, turned

874
00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:06,440
Speaker 1: up making it like you woo, and then you just

875
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:07,719
Speaker 1: drop somebody off like.

876
00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:11,439
Speaker 4: You can't do that, show up as yourself. That ain't right.

877
00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 1: It was representative. That's not right either, right, you know,

878
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:17,440
Speaker 1: but you know though I do believe you know, like

879
00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:19,399
Speaker 1: you know, how does a person talk to you, how

880
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:22,279
Speaker 1: do they feel, how do they move in a room,

881
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 1: how do they talk to other people?

882
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:29,160
Speaker 4: Like that's important, right, you see it? Like you know,

883
00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:31,440
Speaker 4: because you'll be out with the guy, he'd be talking

884
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:38,839
Speaker 4: to the waiter crazy exactly, because that's what really makes

885
00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:39,480
Speaker 4: the person too.

886
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:40,480
Speaker 5: I say that all the time.

887
00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:44,239
Speaker 4: It doesn't matter how people act when they're happy. It

888
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:46,960
Speaker 4: really matters how they act when things are going wrong,

889
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 4: how they show up, how they respond when they're not

890
00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:55,040
Speaker 4: getting what they want.

891
00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:59,280
Speaker 5: It was like, do you suffer? Well, oh yeah when.

892
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 3: I when I go thout it things. I don't put

893
00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:05,400
Speaker 3: that on other people. I don't make you feel like,

894
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:06,880
Speaker 3: oh you gotta suffer with me?

895
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, what you're saying is actually

896
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:11,120
Speaker 1: I was thinking about it for you earlier. Yeah, you

897
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:14,240
Speaker 1: were talking and you were saying, like you I forgot

898
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:17,680
Speaker 1: you described like past relationships and the greatest thing is

899
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 1: oh you said like you didn't say I said PTSD

900
00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:23,239
Speaker 1: to you. But I think the greatest thing to your

901
00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:26,360
Speaker 1: point is like when you move forward in your life

902
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:29,480
Speaker 1: whenever you're ready to do it. You have to leave

903
00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 1: your past behind. Yeah, because it's not right. You know,

904
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:34,920
Speaker 1: people talk about baggage. It's not fair for you to

905
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:38,240
Speaker 1: walk into the door with this new person, new energy

906
00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:41,839
Speaker 1: and carrying old energy with them. Agreed, it's not right. Right,

907
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:43,960
Speaker 1: we got to give the person that's in front of

908
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 1: us a new opportunity. Doesn't mean you be reckless. It

909
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:49,200
Speaker 1: don't mean that you not like, let me just make

910
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 1: sure before I like give you all of me that

911
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:53,640
Speaker 1: I can safely give you all of me.

912
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:56,080
Speaker 4: You need to be, you know, be cautious.

913
00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:59,359
Speaker 1: But I think sometimes that's easier for people to do

914
00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:01,560
Speaker 1: than not is to walk in through the door with

915
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 1: the old bag versus like letting that be behind you

916
00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:08,920
Speaker 1: did a new chapter, newness, Like, I think that's really important.

917
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:12,080
Speaker 3: And I think a red flag too that I recently

918
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 3: caught on was like somebody who's always upset at something,

919
00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:20,840
Speaker 3: Like if the day starts and you're already complaining about something,

920
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 3: it's like it's always something because I feel like it's

921
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 3: just a matter of time before it's you that they're

922
00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 3: complaining about. They're complaining about this person. The next day,

923
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:30,719
Speaker 3: this person did something wrong. Next day, this person did

924
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 3: something wrong. It's only a matter of time, Like there's

925
00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:35,920
Speaker 3: always something wrong, Like are you ever happy?

926
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:39,400
Speaker 4: Because you're not waking up with gratitude? It's always something

927
00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:42,680
Speaker 4: to be gracious about. It's always something to be thankful.

928
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:46,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, you know what that same idea to me

929
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:50,319
Speaker 1: or to apply to friendships, like you know, how does

930
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:55,840
Speaker 1: a friend speak? Or they always negative? And right? What

931
00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:58,879
Speaker 1: energy you be on? Yeah, all that stuff matters, it does.

932
00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 1: But you know what, when people are mad like that,

933
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 1: it weighs you down. Yeah, right, it weighs you down,

934
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:12,759
Speaker 1: like it's really heavy, Like life is too heavy anyways, right,

935
00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:15,760
Speaker 1: Like we really be all out here, like I'm just saying,

936
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 1: and I really believe it's all of us, like I am.

937
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:22,040
Speaker 4: Blessed, but we be shaking it up like.

938
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:24,759
Speaker 5: A girl.

939
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:26,400
Speaker 1: We'll be on this deep conversation.

940
00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:37,200
Speaker 4: We need a drink, you know it up, we'd be

941
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:40,359
Speaker 4: all out here like trying to like no, it's just

942
00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:44,240
Speaker 4: take it up exactly remix poor Mind's remix.

943
00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:48,040
Speaker 1: Like we'll be out here trying to like, you know,

944
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:52,680
Speaker 1: like live, like figuring it out, like life is way

945
00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:56,239
Speaker 1: too short, you know, and like there's too much opportunity

946
00:45:56,280 --> 00:45:58,200
Speaker 1: in life to be walking around will wait all the time.

947
00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 1: I got time for that. Like that stuff will hinder

948
00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:05,960
Speaker 1: you relationship, friendship. If anybody's coming with negativity. Oh, if

949
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:09,160
Speaker 1: someone's coming negativity all the time, it will get in

950
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 1: the way.

951
00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:13,320
Speaker 4: Oh for sure, right you know. So like that, energy

952
00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:17,120
Speaker 4: is everything, and especially when you're a positive person. I

953
00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:18,759
Speaker 4: think a lot of the time people be like, oh,

954
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:21,800
Speaker 4: well I'm positive, so I'm gonna come into this person's

955
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:24,040
Speaker 4: life and be like the light in their life.

956
00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:26,960
Speaker 5: No, they call them energy vampires.

957
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:30,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, because they will drain your Then they go outside

958
00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:33,520
Speaker 3: and a nice and treat everybody else well that they

959
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 3: come back to you and they're me but they suck

960
00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:36,480
Speaker 3: your energy.

961
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:38,399
Speaker 4: Out and that's too much weight.

962
00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:46,800
Speaker 1: Anybody got time for that? No, we don't. Ain't nobody

963
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:58,919
Speaker 1: got time. Myself turned up. It's really good, all right.

964
00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 4: So today's cock till it is bold, it's beautiful. It's

965
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 4: a banana Dacrie styles. So basically it's a little bit tropical,

966
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:10,439
Speaker 4: it's elevated, and it's effortlessly cool, just like our girl

967
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:13,960
Speaker 4: Sierra over here. And so because we were also talking

968
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:19,239
Speaker 4: about this topic, this is called CEC's prayer because we

969
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:27,120
Speaker 4: all need the prayer. Whatever you need, okay a friend indeed,

970
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:29,879
Speaker 4: all right. So we have some of her beautiful ten

971
00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:33,879
Speaker 4: to one spiced rum. We have some banana lcour, some

972
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:37,200
Speaker 4: lime juice, and then I made a vanilla and maple

973
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:39,880
Speaker 4: de marara syrup, so it's just made of brown sugar,

974
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 4: just to kind of bounce off those notes.

975
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 5: Of the rum.

976
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 4: And then we have some crimber laid bananas, so I

977
00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:47,120
Speaker 4: put some of that brown sugar on top of the

978
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:49,319
Speaker 4: banana slices and then I gave it a little bit

979
00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:52,600
Speaker 4: of a torch there. All right, send it on fire,

980
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:59,879
Speaker 4: just like she do it. The charts. I had to say,

981
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 4: I want those six parts. Are you topping a chart?

982
00:48:03,080 --> 00:48:03,600
Speaker 5: Influence?

983
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:05,640
Speaker 4: You're one of the reasons that I moved to Atlanta.

984
00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 4: So this is to you. Cheers to you. This is

985
00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:10,960
Speaker 4: for leveling up. And I heard you say something on

986
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 4: your page and I've been It's been sticking with me

987
00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 4: because it happened at the right moment. We are blessed

988
00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:18,640
Speaker 4: out and I'm less and I appreciate you more than you. No.

989
00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 4: I love that it is amazing topic and they have

990
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 4: drinking amazing. Look, I'm a little I need to be careful,

991
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 4: and I do want to ask you. Yeah, that's what

992
00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:38,359
Speaker 4: I was going to ask you. What inspired you to

993
00:48:38,440 --> 00:48:41,720
Speaker 4: get into the leaquor business and investing and someone. Yeah.

994
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:45,160
Speaker 1: So it's funny because back when I was turning twenty one,

995
00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:48,360
Speaker 1: that was my first chance. I got to have my

996
00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:51,399
Speaker 1: first drink. So I have my first trink in twenty one.

997
00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:54,799
Speaker 1: And it's funny because you know, back in the days,

998
00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:57,920
Speaker 1: they would do you know, like MTV Cribs and all

999
00:48:57,960 --> 00:49:00,640
Speaker 1: the whenever someone does a show with the English accent,

1000
00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:04,479
Speaker 1: it just sounds expensive. So they'd be like Paris Hillton

1001
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:09,680
Speaker 1: does is lovely parties one in Miami, one in England,

1002
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:11,719
Speaker 1: one here, and I'm like, i want to do.

1003
00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:13,400
Speaker 4: A party like Paris Hills. Yeah.

1004
00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:15,640
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm a ceasing about Paris Hills the stuff.

1005
00:49:15,800 --> 00:49:18,879
Speaker 1: So then I had my team put together a whole run,

1006
00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:20,200
Speaker 1: and my whole thing was I was looking forward to

1007
00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:23,719
Speaker 1: having my first drink. So we started the party tour

1008
00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:25,680
Speaker 1: and then by time we got to the third run, like,

1009
00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:28,239
Speaker 1: it was actually in the Caribbean and the weather was

1010
00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:31,040
Speaker 1: bad and I wasn't a party person like that, so

1011
00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:33,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, this party tour is a rap

1012
00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:35,239
Speaker 1: because I mean, like, I'm good, like I'm trying to

1013
00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 1: do this thing, but that ain't really my jam, right.

1014
00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:39,879
Speaker 1: So then the cool thing was that I actually, even

1015
00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:41,400
Speaker 1: though I didn't finish my party run, I did have

1016
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:44,239
Speaker 1: my first drink. And my first drink was rum, so

1017
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 1: I always had a strong connection to rum. And then

1018
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 1: I knew I always want to be in the space,

1019
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:50,959
Speaker 1: but it was important to be authentically connected and tied

1020
00:49:51,000 --> 00:49:53,400
Speaker 1: into the space. So it's just a matter of time,

1021
00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:55,520
Speaker 1: you know, before getting into it. And then, like I

1022
00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:58,880
Speaker 1: mentioned you guys, I was in the pandemic and you know,

1023
00:49:58,960 --> 00:50:01,239
Speaker 1: I had just finished I had given birth to Win.

1024
00:50:01,280 --> 00:50:04,120
Speaker 1: I was breastfeeding for like ten months long enough, and

1025
00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:05,960
Speaker 1: it was time to celebrate that moment. And I had

1026
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:08,120
Speaker 1: my first drink and my first drink was ten to

1027
00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:11,480
Speaker 1: one in a mohito, and I was always still talking.

1028
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:14,960
Speaker 5: I was happy, I'm having a time right now.

1029
00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:21,160
Speaker 1: No, it's a vibe. So my partner, Mark Farrell, he

1030
00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:23,600
Speaker 1: had actually started ten to one like shortly before we met,

1031
00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:26,279
Speaker 1: and I got to shout him out because he's had

1032
00:50:26,320 --> 00:50:28,440
Speaker 1: a great business story. But he was the youngest vice

1033
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:30,320
Speaker 1: president Starbucks.

1034
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:31,520
Speaker 4: And then he.

1035
00:50:31,480 --> 00:50:34,160
Speaker 1: Went off and started rolling. And then Howard Schultz, who

1036
00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:38,719
Speaker 1: was the reason why Starbucks exists, he invested into ten

1037
00:50:38,800 --> 00:50:42,240
Speaker 1: to one and then I met Mark shortly along shortly

1038
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:43,880
Speaker 1: after along the journey and I joined me as a

1039
00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:48,920
Speaker 1: co founder. But honestly, I just I loved what this product, well,

1040
00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:50,919
Speaker 1: how this product was when I first tried it, which

1041
00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:54,040
Speaker 1: matters most. It always comes back to product, right. Rum

1042
00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:57,839
Speaker 1: was my first in my first spirit love and like

1043
00:50:57,960 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 1: my jam, like whenever I would go out, I always

1044
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:03,319
Speaker 1: ask for so it was super authentic, you know, and

1045
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:05,399
Speaker 1: just the way the product was crafted. I'm like, it's

1046
00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 1: all the things that I wanted, the boxes to be

1047
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:10,479
Speaker 1: checked off on checked off. And the great thing about

1048
00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:12,880
Speaker 1: Rum is like when it comes to the quote unquote

1049
00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 1: celebrity space and the gin tequilas and vodka spaces, there's

1050
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:20,600
Speaker 1: is super crowded and the Yeah and the Rum Tequila

1051
00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:24,360
Speaker 1: and the and the Rum space, there's not that many

1052
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:28,480
Speaker 1: of us, but also women. So I just saw tremendous

1053
00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:30,600
Speaker 1: opportunity to be in this space but with something that

1054
00:51:30,640 --> 00:51:33,920
Speaker 1: I was authentically connected to from day one. And it's

1055
00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:36,160
Speaker 1: just it's beautiful, Like it's honestly really special.

1056
00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:39,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, and that's so season I do.

1057
00:51:39,560 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 4: I feel like you were always such a seasoned woman

1058
00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 4: because my first drink was for loco?

1059
00:51:45,000 --> 00:52:02,320
Speaker 5: What is? What is? You went outside already reached was

1060
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:04,400
Speaker 5: in the That was freaking dom peron.

1061
00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:11,319
Speaker 1: God, y'all know, you know, just be under.

1062
00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:12,680
Speaker 5: It was a mock liquor.

1063
00:52:12,800 --> 00:52:13,040
Speaker 1: It was.

1064
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:20,080
Speaker 4: Many right, it was like a forty but a little

1065
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 4: more like you was doing it like that, but it

1066
00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:23,960
Speaker 4: was like more fruity a can.

1067
00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:25,319
Speaker 1: It came into the jam.

1068
00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:27,880
Speaker 4: Okay, I know you heard a lot of marita. You

1069
00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:34,040
Speaker 4: had a lot of maritas, right, girl, I.

1070
00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:40,600
Speaker 5: Heard really was in her bank. Probably don't know about

1071
00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:46,440
Speaker 5: about marina. What about bo? No nouveau was one of

1072
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:48,640
Speaker 5: my first drinks soon and which one is new?

1073
00:52:48,680 --> 00:52:48,759
Speaker 1: Bo?

1074
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:49,720
Speaker 5: He paints?

1075
00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:55,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was in a battle That was a good

1076
00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:57,880
Speaker 4: but I was drinking whis I was like nineteen.

1077
00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:01,920
Speaker 1: He was, all right, you lived a little bit. I

1078
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:03,960
Speaker 1: missed college life. I didn't get to go to the Yeah,

1079
00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:07,799
Speaker 1: I really wanted to. I want to go back at

1080
00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:08,200
Speaker 1: some point.

1081
00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:09,239
Speaker 5: It was fun.

1082
00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:11,360
Speaker 4: I feel like you should, I mean go to school

1083
00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:14,759
Speaker 4: at some point. Yeah, everybody should have that experience.

1084
00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:17,320
Speaker 5: But I feel like living way.

1085
00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:18,839
Speaker 4: Better than no no, wait, wait, listen.

1086
00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 1: Now, I'm not saying I won't live in university.

1087
00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:22,760
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm saying I won't go back to school.

1088
00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:24,040
Speaker 4: Okay, I'm at my education.

1089
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:25,040
Speaker 1: I want to level ve.

1090
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:29,719
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, you have way more of a time than this,

1091
00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:31,359
Speaker 5: But no shout out to poor.

1092
00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:32,680
Speaker 1: The need to that is.

1093
00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:35,000
Speaker 5: Shut down.

1094
00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:38,680
Speaker 1: Everybody's saying, no, I heard this all.

1095
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:42,280
Speaker 4: You know, I have loco.

1096
00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:43,920
Speaker 5: You know that she's.

1097
00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:47,719
Speaker 3: One too, you know, because y'all know what to call

1098
00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:51,080
Speaker 3: coca cola. Oh they said they had a little one

1099
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:59,680
Speaker 3: and oh look that's what he allegedly. Allegedly they were saying,

1100
00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:00,439
Speaker 3: what a loco.

1101
00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:02,759
Speaker 5: That's why we was doing local. If I'm not right

1102
00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:06,440
Speaker 5: right going local, literally, I'm wrong with her for a loco.

1103
00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:07,560
Speaker 5: You hit it on the head.

1104
00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:10,880
Speaker 4: Drinking's all right, Dre, We're gonna move on to the

1105
00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:11,640
Speaker 4: next time we.

1106
00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:15,680
Speaker 5: Have had a ball. I love it.

1107
00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:18,120
Speaker 3: I was like I was about to say early becau,

1108
00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:19,680
Speaker 3: I'm a little tipsy. Now so you're my friend. Now

1109
00:54:20,480 --> 00:54:22,760
Speaker 3: you're my friend. I wasn't so nervous.

1110
00:54:23,440 --> 00:54:25,479
Speaker 5: I was good. I was so nervous where you walked

1111
00:54:25,520 --> 00:54:27,920
Speaker 5: in here, I was like, oh my gosh, Like, what

1112
00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:30,600
Speaker 5: is she like? I don't know, but like you cool.

1113
00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:37,800
Speaker 5: I went from nervous to calling her c I was like,

1114
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:38,760
Speaker 5: okay about sixteen.

1115
00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:47,200
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, you're my dog nowe her?

1116
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:50,279
Speaker 5: Oh my god.

1117
00:54:51,120 --> 00:54:54,040
Speaker 4: Let me get into topic number two. Want to play

1118
00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:57,279
Speaker 4: a little game with you. We love a game. So

1119
00:54:58,120 --> 00:55:02,200
Speaker 4: this is called are you falling for it? Propaganda that

1120
00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:04,600
Speaker 4: you're not falling for it? Okay, and we're gonna see

1121
00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:05,320
Speaker 4: what you think about it.

1122
00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:05,640
Speaker 5: Okay.

1123
00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:10,440
Speaker 1: The prayer is all that you need, uh am, I

1124
00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:13,800
Speaker 1: phone for it or not? Like no, all that you

1125
00:55:13,920 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 1: need for like love or anything like hon it's not

1126
00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:19,200
Speaker 1: all that you need. No, no, no, you need to pray.

1127
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:22,040
Speaker 1: But you got to pray and then you can I

1128
00:55:22,160 --> 00:55:23,000
Speaker 1: expound on my answer.

1129
00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, so you have to.

1130
00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:28,560
Speaker 1: Pray, but you also got to follow through. I agree, Right,

1131
00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:30,160
Speaker 1: you can pray about something, but what'll we be doing?

1132
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:32,279
Speaker 5: Yeah, you can be like what I pray for this

1133
00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:32,520
Speaker 5: is this?

1134
00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:33,360
Speaker 4: But I'm over here doing that.

1135
00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:35,359
Speaker 1: It's like I gotta pray for this, isn't I gotta

1136
00:55:35,360 --> 00:55:36,800
Speaker 1: start walking like exactly.

1137
00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:39,400
Speaker 3: I've seen a clip that Tamar Braxton says, you know

1138
00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:41,719
Speaker 3: what I went through? She said she went through a

1139
00:55:41,800 --> 00:55:45,000
Speaker 3: tough time in her life. Financially. And then she said,

1140
00:55:45,040 --> 00:55:47,600
Speaker 3: all of a sudden everything started happening for her. But

1141
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:49,480
Speaker 3: she said, I just gave it up and started praying.

1142
00:55:49,640 --> 00:55:51,759
Speaker 1: She said, but wait, but what I say earlier about

1143
00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:53,759
Speaker 1: like letting God take over there, That's what she said.

1144
00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:55,600
Speaker 1: But can I also tell you something on that note.

1145
00:55:56,520 --> 00:56:00,759
Speaker 1: A lot of my moments, whether it's financial or successful

1146
00:56:00,800 --> 00:56:03,000
Speaker 1: moments that have happened in my life one I spoke

1147
00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:06,960
Speaker 1: life to them probably a while ago. But I also like,

1148
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:11,279
Speaker 1: the less I start trying to make it happen, the

1149
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:12,200
Speaker 1: more it happened.

1150
00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:12,680
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1151
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:16,000
Speaker 1: It's like when you like want money, money, money, It's like, wait,

1152
00:56:16,520 --> 00:56:19,040
Speaker 1: like what does that mean? Waitmen, let me just let it,

1153
00:56:19,160 --> 00:56:21,160
Speaker 1: let me, let me just do the work and it's

1154
00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:21,640
Speaker 1: gonna come.

1155
00:56:21,760 --> 00:56:21,960
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1156
00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:25,600
Speaker 1: So sometimes we forget about the process that matters the most,

1157
00:56:25,920 --> 00:56:27,799
Speaker 1: which is the process before getting there.

1158
00:56:29,680 --> 00:56:32,080
Speaker 3: People always say like they want the money, you know what,

1159
00:56:32,239 --> 00:56:35,040
Speaker 3: I promise this is a prayer that I have seriously.

1160
00:56:36,120 --> 00:56:39,320
Speaker 3: So I just bought a house, right engratulation, thank you,

1161
00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:41,600
Speaker 3: and I was like praying for this house.

1162
00:56:41,640 --> 00:56:42,960
Speaker 5: I was like, Lord, please let everything go through.

1163
00:56:42,960 --> 00:56:44,440
Speaker 3: And I'm like, you know what, Now that I got

1164
00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:47,040
Speaker 3: this house, I pray every day that the Lord gives

1165
00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:48,360
Speaker 3: me the discipline to keep.

1166
00:56:48,239 --> 00:56:50,719
Speaker 5: It, yeah, and to keep growing man found on it.

1167
00:56:50,760 --> 00:56:51,319
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying.

1168
00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like a lot of people pray for things, but

1169
00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:56,719
Speaker 3: like even with poor minds, Like like I said, I'm

1170
00:56:56,760 --> 00:56:59,200
Speaker 3: having a moment like I'm sitting with Sierra bro Like

1171
00:56:59,320 --> 00:56:59,960
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying.

1172
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:03,440
Speaker 5: So it's like I always you know what I'm saying. So,

1173
00:57:03,760 --> 00:57:05,719
Speaker 5: but this is a big moment for us.

1174
00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:09,880
Speaker 3: And I do want to say that because it's a

1175
00:57:09,880 --> 00:57:12,120
Speaker 3: big moment for us just because a lot of times

1176
00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:14,600
Speaker 3: we feel like we be getting looked over, like like

1177
00:57:14,719 --> 00:57:17,040
Speaker 3: you up here. So it's like, you know, the fact

1178
00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:19,080
Speaker 3: that we were like Okay, we are in this, like

1179
00:57:19,280 --> 00:57:21,560
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. So the fact that we're here,

1180
00:57:21,560 --> 00:57:23,640
Speaker 3: it's like I always pray for us that we like,

1181
00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:24,800
Speaker 3: you know, poor minds is great.

1182
00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:27,920
Speaker 5: But let us keep loving, let us keep it.

1183
00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 1: That's the way to be.

1184
00:57:29,160 --> 00:57:29,400
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1185
00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:33,320
Speaker 1: I appreciate you. I do, and I mean even for me.

1186
00:57:33,600 --> 00:57:35,680
Speaker 1: I'll just share with you guys, like you know, as

1187
00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:38,760
Speaker 1: blessed as I am. Like I literally was talking to God,

1188
00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:40,040
Speaker 1: like I just randomly.

1189
00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:40,280
Speaker 4: Thought to God.

1190
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:42,280
Speaker 1: I'd be like like even when I was in Africa,

1191
00:57:43,040 --> 00:57:45,720
Speaker 1: like just the feeling I felt being there around the people.

1192
00:57:46,360 --> 00:57:48,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, God, man, you brought me all the way

1193
00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:51,440
Speaker 1: over here, like thank you, Yes, like I will not

1194
00:57:51,600 --> 00:57:53,720
Speaker 1: stop saying thank you and I will not stop praising

1195
00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:56,959
Speaker 1: him and like it's something I was doing with Russ

1196
00:57:57,600 --> 00:58:01,120
Speaker 1: just recently, you know, or even like the joy in

1197
00:58:01,200 --> 00:58:04,000
Speaker 1: my house with my babies and the joy that we

1198
00:58:04,160 --> 00:58:06,840
Speaker 1: have with each other, and how I'm excited about life

1199
00:58:07,440 --> 00:58:10,880
Speaker 1: with my family, Like thank you for that, Like never

1200
00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:13,880
Speaker 1: stop thinking them and never stop praying over what you

1201
00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:17,200
Speaker 1: have and God protecting it and covering it and you know,

1202
00:58:17,440 --> 00:58:20,120
Speaker 1: like God shown me the way, you know, like never

1203
00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:22,320
Speaker 1: what you're doing is like I believe in that.

1204
00:58:22,520 --> 00:58:24,680
Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah, once you get the things that you want,

1205
00:58:24,760 --> 00:58:26,439
Speaker 5: you can't stop praying over.

1206
00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:28,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, you got to keep praying.

1207
00:58:28,640 --> 00:58:33,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, gotta keep Okay, So now what is what is

1208
00:58:33,120 --> 00:58:37,320
Speaker 5: his next one? Fall for?

1209
00:58:37,960 --> 00:58:45,560
Speaker 1: No? No, First of all, I won't get well now, listen,

1210
00:58:45,880 --> 00:58:48,560
Speaker 1: I I do not roll that out. I'm falling for

1211
00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:49,080
Speaker 1: that for sure.

1212
00:58:50,600 --> 00:58:51,200
Speaker 4: You know the right.

1213
00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:55,920
Speaker 3: But this ain't no fake because the way he called

1214
00:58:56,080 --> 00:58:59,600
Speaker 3: and he said put on the I don't know's that.

1215
00:59:04,240 --> 00:59:06,960
Speaker 5: Time he said, excuse me? He said, get me to

1216
00:59:07,080 --> 00:59:20,120
Speaker 5: my wof we're not God said, you can't be a

1217
00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:24,680
Speaker 5: wife and a boss and the boss. You can't be

1218
00:59:24,760 --> 00:59:25,920
Speaker 5: a wife and a boss.

1219
00:59:25,960 --> 00:59:28,000
Speaker 1: Oh you can be a wife and a boss. Hey,

1220
00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:31,959
Speaker 1: you gotta your man's got to support what you're doing.

1221
00:59:33,040 --> 00:59:35,880
Speaker 4: Feeling like negative about that though, So I'm glad that

1222
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:36,640
Speaker 4: you're saying that.

1223
00:59:36,800 --> 00:59:39,040
Speaker 1: You feel like, Yeah, you need to be able to

1224
00:59:39,120 --> 00:59:42,400
Speaker 1: live in your fullness of you and if anybody is

1225
00:59:42,440 --> 00:59:45,200
Speaker 1: not allowing you to do that, then you gotta.

1226
00:59:45,160 --> 00:59:47,600
Speaker 4: Figure out out. They're gonna have to figure that out.

1227
00:59:48,560 --> 00:59:51,439
Speaker 1: Right, you know, there's there's you know, I think that's

1228
00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:53,800
Speaker 1: that's important for us. Like whatever it is that throws

1229
00:59:53,800 --> 00:59:56,360
Speaker 1: your cup, make sure you're able to do it. If

1230
00:59:56,400 --> 00:59:59,800
Speaker 1: someone comes to your life and they stop you or

1231
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:03,560
Speaker 1: I feel like they're like not celebrating you and you

1232
01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:05,800
Speaker 1: know supporting you, Like that's not the right energy.

1233
01:00:06,000 --> 01:00:08,400
Speaker 3: Yeah. I like to see couples that support each other,

1234
01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:10,520
Speaker 3: like how you and rest are kevil Stage and his

1235
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:16,040
Speaker 3: wife Melissa Angela Bassett important event like I love to

1236
01:00:16,240 --> 01:00:18,920
Speaker 3: see because it lets me know like there are supportive

1237
01:00:18,960 --> 01:00:19,520
Speaker 3: men out there.

1238
01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:22,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, we got to be able to have that r. Yeah,

1239
01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:23,240
Speaker 1: Like I think That's the way.

1240
01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:26,560
Speaker 4: I think a lot of black women get scared the

1241
01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:29,680
Speaker 4: more successful that they get, because they feel like, Okay,

1242
01:00:30,160 --> 01:00:32,800
Speaker 4: like the pool of black men that are really successful

1243
01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:35,560
Speaker 4: is already small, so the pool of black men that

1244
01:00:35,600 --> 01:00:38,560
Speaker 4: are going to be successful and supportive is even smaller.

1245
01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:41,120
Speaker 5: And I think a lot of the time men.

1246
01:00:41,080 --> 01:00:43,360
Speaker 4: Will be supportive until you get to that point where

1247
01:00:43,400 --> 01:00:45,840
Speaker 4: they think you possibly might super serve them.

1248
01:00:46,040 --> 01:00:50,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that comes back to like confidence and insecurities

1249
01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:52,480
Speaker 1: and like where person is in their lives true, right,

1250
01:00:52,600 --> 01:00:55,720
Speaker 1: And I think it's so so too, like you know,

1251
01:00:55,840 --> 01:00:58,200
Speaker 1: think as from a woman's standpoint, Like we talk about

1252
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:01,960
Speaker 1: like being submissive, m right, I do think there there's

1253
01:01:02,040 --> 01:01:06,200
Speaker 1: also like I hope I say this right, but it's

1254
01:01:06,280 --> 01:01:09,880
Speaker 1: like I like being a boss in my world, but

1255
01:01:09,960 --> 01:01:13,440
Speaker 1: I like the heat. I sometimes I like I'll be

1256
01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:16,080
Speaker 1: like is the boss man here? You know, Like I'll

1257
01:01:16,120 --> 01:01:19,160
Speaker 1: say I like that I can like to pull back,

1258
01:01:19,680 --> 01:01:21,200
Speaker 1: you know when I'm with him, But not I mean

1259
01:01:21,280 --> 01:01:23,120
Speaker 1: that I didn't my life, right, It just mean like

1260
01:01:23,160 --> 01:01:26,640
Speaker 1: I let him like lead, Like I think that's important.

1261
01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:26,720
Speaker 5: Too, Right.

1262
01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:30,160
Speaker 1: We can be bosses and then we can also be.

1263
01:01:30,280 --> 01:01:33,919
Speaker 4: Led to personally, I personally like that that makes sense.

1264
01:01:34,840 --> 01:01:36,840
Speaker 4: I have a good question for you. Do you feel

1265
01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:41,720
Speaker 4: like being submissive is something that people have to like

1266
01:01:41,880 --> 01:01:44,520
Speaker 4: create the environment for or do you feel like, as

1267
01:01:44,560 --> 01:01:46,720
Speaker 4: a woman, you just automatically should be there.

1268
01:01:48,640 --> 01:01:52,280
Speaker 1: The school that I come from in my mind is

1269
01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:55,600
Speaker 1: that I believe like that is a part of the

1270
01:01:56,200 --> 01:01:58,080
Speaker 1: and I want to make sure I'm saying this right.

1271
01:01:58,120 --> 01:02:00,440
Speaker 1: But that's the pocket that I like to be in.

1272
01:02:01,160 --> 01:02:03,520
Speaker 1: I don't want to be the one that's like yeah,

1273
01:02:04,240 --> 01:02:07,120
Speaker 1: like I don't like I think that respect for my

1274
01:02:07,240 --> 01:02:11,520
Speaker 1: husband is important, So I do believe in like being

1275
01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:14,760
Speaker 1: that way. That doesn't mean that I'm not that I

1276
01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:16,400
Speaker 1: don't have a voice, It doesn't mean that I don't

1277
01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:18,240
Speaker 1: say when I feel something. It doesn't mean that i'm

1278
01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:21,920
Speaker 1: my confidence shifts. It's just mindfulness to me, Like it's

1279
01:02:22,440 --> 01:02:25,280
Speaker 1: you know sometimes because I'm so used to you know,

1280
01:02:26,520 --> 01:02:28,360
Speaker 1: leading in my world or what I'm going to be

1281
01:02:28,400 --> 01:02:30,800
Speaker 1: like ooh, I'm coming to the hat, you know, because

1282
01:02:31,000 --> 01:02:33,160
Speaker 1: again I want to be respectful, but I am mindful

1283
01:02:33,200 --> 01:02:35,760
Speaker 1: of that. Like I think being submissive is important.

1284
01:02:36,040 --> 01:02:38,800
Speaker 5: But do you feel like you're naturally that way or

1285
01:02:39,440 --> 01:02:40,200
Speaker 5: brought that out.

1286
01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:43,160
Speaker 1: Naturally that way? Okay, Yeah, I'm naturally that way now

1287
01:02:43,440 --> 01:02:44,840
Speaker 1: has he probably had to check me a couple of

1288
01:02:44,920 --> 01:02:46,800
Speaker 1: times just because I'd be coming a hat, you know,

1289
01:02:46,960 --> 01:02:49,000
Speaker 1: I get it right well, not like just in life

1290
01:02:49,040 --> 01:02:51,640
Speaker 1: in general, Like you know, that's like natural stuff to

1291
01:02:51,680 --> 01:02:54,280
Speaker 1: have was in a relationship where you sometime a girl

1292
01:02:54,320 --> 01:02:55,920
Speaker 1: can come off too hot or a god can come

1293
01:02:55,920 --> 01:02:58,240
Speaker 1: off like where you're coming from. You know, like that's

1294
01:02:58,360 --> 01:03:03,600
Speaker 1: natural stuff. But like naturally that's always my way. What

1295
01:03:03,720 --> 01:03:04,640
Speaker 1: do you guys think about that?

1296
01:03:05,120 --> 01:03:08,560
Speaker 4: How do you feel like it's okay? I don't want

1297
01:03:08,560 --> 01:03:10,919
Speaker 4: to say it's conditional, but I just kind of feel

1298
01:03:11,040 --> 01:03:13,920
Speaker 4: like if a man wants you to be a certain way,

1299
01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:15,480
Speaker 4: he should create the environment.

1300
01:03:16,000 --> 01:03:16,680
Speaker 5: Like how do you.

1301
01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:21,440
Speaker 4: I feel like, how I'm naturally peaceful okay, but if

1302
01:03:21,520 --> 01:03:25,920
Speaker 4: you creating chaos and it's gonna be kaoti, I'm not

1303
01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:28,840
Speaker 4: gonna be peaceful and you not creating peace for me,

1304
01:03:29,640 --> 01:03:32,000
Speaker 4: Like I kind of feel like it's a conditional thing

1305
01:03:32,200 --> 01:03:34,240
Speaker 4: kind of, but I do feel like That's why I'm

1306
01:03:34,240 --> 01:03:35,840
Speaker 4: glad you said that, and that's why I asked you,

1307
01:03:35,880 --> 01:03:39,640
Speaker 4: because I feel like some women are just naturally that way.

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01:03:40,800 --> 01:03:44,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. No, I just I think like if a person's

1309
01:03:44,040 --> 01:03:47,600
Speaker 1: creating chaos, and that's like something else. I do think that,

1310
01:03:48,040 --> 01:03:51,440
Speaker 1: you know, respect is earned, you know. But at the

1311
01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:53,480
Speaker 1: same time, I do think there's a stand up baseline

1312
01:03:53,560 --> 01:03:57,439
Speaker 1: with men and women, and you know, you gotta feel

1313
01:03:57,520 --> 01:04:02,160
Speaker 1: safe to like move a certain way someone, right, But

1314
01:04:02,400 --> 01:04:06,160
Speaker 1: I think that a man should make you feel sure

1315
01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:09,280
Speaker 1: enough and feel good about being submissive.

1316
01:04:09,680 --> 01:04:10,200
Speaker 4: I agree.

1317
01:04:10,520 --> 01:04:13,440
Speaker 1: I think that's important, right, you know, it's like don't abuse,

1318
01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:17,160
Speaker 1: like you know, sometimes a person can like take advantage

1319
01:04:17,200 --> 01:04:19,160
Speaker 1: of like when you're trying to like operate with them

1320
01:04:19,200 --> 01:04:20,960
Speaker 1: a certain way and then they just really feel like

1321
01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:23,120
Speaker 1: it's like, no, it's not that kind of energy, but

1322
01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:24,800
Speaker 1: I am actually that way.

1323
01:04:25,320 --> 01:04:27,000
Speaker 4: And see I feel the same way, Like I feel

1324
01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:29,840
Speaker 4: like initially I'm always that way, and then depending on

1325
01:04:29,920 --> 01:04:34,479
Speaker 4: what happened, Yeah, that's well, you're going to protect mode.

1326
01:04:34,640 --> 01:04:35,800
Speaker 4: We're going to protect mode.

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01:04:35,880 --> 01:04:38,240
Speaker 1: Like sometimes a person can make you like be like

1328
01:04:39,240 --> 01:04:41,840
Speaker 1: something about you is making me preserve ten percent of

1329
01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:42,800
Speaker 1: myself Now I.

1330
01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:43,960
Speaker 5: Don't know if I can give you.

1331
01:04:45,040 --> 01:04:47,120
Speaker 1: And then now when it's like that and something is

1332
01:04:47,520 --> 01:04:50,360
Speaker 1: at least yeah, it's probably not right.

1333
01:04:50,560 --> 01:04:52,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, we getting some good advice.

1334
01:04:52,760 --> 01:04:53,120
Speaker 1: We are.

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01:04:53,960 --> 01:05:00,800
Speaker 5: It's made out of wifey material. Oh my god, I'm learned.

1336
01:05:00,880 --> 01:05:04,640
Speaker 5: Pay I'm learned. Pain, You ain't wrong, legs going wrong.

1337
01:05:04,800 --> 01:05:08,800
Speaker 5: I'm just it's getting good. Okay.

1338
01:05:09,040 --> 01:05:10,720
Speaker 3: I want to ask I want to ask this when

1339
01:05:10,720 --> 01:05:14,680
Speaker 3: I'm gonna skip down. Okay, motherhood ends your career.

1340
01:05:15,000 --> 01:05:16,080
Speaker 4: No, this is a good one.

1341
01:05:16,200 --> 01:05:18,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, I definitely, because we don't have kids yet.

1342
01:05:18,640 --> 01:05:20,880
Speaker 1: And let me tell you something. Okay, this is a

1343
01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:25,320
Speaker 1: lot of work having my precious babies and like being

1344
01:05:25,400 --> 01:05:27,400
Speaker 1: there for us and trying to run my own label,

1345
01:05:27,520 --> 01:05:27,880
Speaker 1: and like.

1346
01:05:28,960 --> 01:05:30,640
Speaker 4: It's a lot of work. I'm not gonna lie.

1347
01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:33,800
Speaker 1: But what I have learned and what's important to me

1348
01:05:34,000 --> 01:05:36,320
Speaker 1: is to live. I remember talking to a few of

1349
01:05:36,360 --> 01:05:40,840
Speaker 1: my friends that are really successful in entertainment, and they

1350
01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:43,760
Speaker 1: both said to me in the same conversation, man, I

1351
01:05:43,800 --> 01:05:46,600
Speaker 1: wish I would have had more kids, and they can't

1352
01:05:46,960 --> 01:05:49,960
Speaker 1: have kids anymore because now they've reached that point. And

1353
01:05:50,240 --> 01:05:51,920
Speaker 1: I knew where they were coming from because at that time,

1354
01:05:51,960 --> 01:05:54,960
Speaker 1: I think I was like just pregnant with my second child,

1355
01:05:55,920 --> 01:05:59,880
Speaker 1: and I just think, more often than not, in my industry,

1356
01:06:00,960 --> 01:06:05,920
Speaker 1: people give so much to end up with nothing. And

1357
01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:08,080
Speaker 1: like in the Bible it says, what good is a

1358
01:06:08,160 --> 01:06:09,600
Speaker 1: man to gain the world and lose his soul.

1359
01:06:10,760 --> 01:06:11,840
Speaker 4: And that's a real thing.

1360
01:06:12,080 --> 01:06:16,280
Speaker 1: Right. I've realized that I love being an artist, but

1361
01:06:16,400 --> 01:06:18,360
Speaker 1: I love something that would never love me back how

1362
01:06:18,400 --> 01:06:18,760
Speaker 1: I love it.

1363
01:06:19,360 --> 01:06:20,480
Speaker 4: I love music.

1364
01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:23,880
Speaker 1: I love being successful, but it's never it's not going

1365
01:06:23,920 --> 01:06:26,560
Speaker 1: to be forgiving. Like I may have a really successful day,

1366
01:06:26,680 --> 01:06:28,920
Speaker 1: and then I may have a really bad day, and

1367
01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:31,320
Speaker 1: it's like, Okay, what's my baseline of success?

1368
01:06:32,160 --> 01:06:33,680
Speaker 4: What is my baseline of wealth?

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01:06:33,840 --> 01:06:35,960
Speaker 1: Right? You have to start really having clarity and like

1370
01:06:36,080 --> 01:06:39,280
Speaker 1: how you see life as it relates to those things,

1371
01:06:39,360 --> 01:06:43,400
Speaker 1: because if you put your validation the value of your

1372
01:06:43,480 --> 01:06:46,920
Speaker 1: validation in man or things, you will be forever disappointed.

1373
01:06:47,800 --> 01:06:50,720
Speaker 1: So it's like, my baseline of success is me living

1374
01:06:50,800 --> 01:06:53,800
Speaker 1: my life as a woman, living my life, you know

1375
01:06:54,000 --> 01:06:58,919
Speaker 1: now as a mom. You know, like people oftentimes really

1376
01:06:59,040 --> 01:07:02,000
Speaker 1: lose it mentally because they're not giving space for themselves

1377
01:07:02,040 --> 01:07:04,360
Speaker 1: to do those things. Like too many of the people

1378
01:07:04,400 --> 01:07:06,760
Speaker 1: that I admired and looked up to either or not

1379
01:07:06,920 --> 01:07:10,280
Speaker 1: here because they sacrifice everything for the game of music

1380
01:07:10,360 --> 01:07:12,560
Speaker 1: or entertainment or right now are in.

1381
01:07:12,560 --> 01:07:14,880
Speaker 4: The weirdest place. And that's scary for me.

1382
01:07:15,920 --> 01:07:19,200
Speaker 1: So I have decided I'm going to live my life

1383
01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:21,720
Speaker 1: and it's a lot of work, it's a lot of sacrifice.

1384
01:07:21,800 --> 01:07:25,880
Speaker 1: I honestly be tired, you know, probably often times and not,

1385
01:07:26,040 --> 01:07:28,800
Speaker 1: but it's a season for that. But I believe that

1386
01:07:29,120 --> 01:07:33,160
Speaker 1: I can go live my life and you know, be

1387
01:07:33,920 --> 01:07:37,240
Speaker 1: like as a human and still go and be successful,

1388
01:07:38,200 --> 01:07:39,600
Speaker 1: you know, as an entrepreneur.

1389
01:07:40,920 --> 01:07:41,240
Speaker 5: Why not.

1390
01:07:42,360 --> 01:07:46,520
Speaker 1: I honestly feel like empowered through my journey as a mom.

1391
01:07:47,280 --> 01:07:49,400
Speaker 1: I feel empowered through my journey knowing that my kids,

1392
01:07:49,480 --> 01:07:52,760
Speaker 1: these beautiful, precious babies of mine, especially my girls, they

1393
01:07:52,840 --> 01:07:55,000
Speaker 1: see me doing my thing and then they can be

1394
01:07:55,120 --> 01:07:57,120
Speaker 1: inspired to go and do their thing.

1395
01:07:57,280 --> 01:07:58,560
Speaker 4: Like that's legacy for me.

1396
01:07:58,800 --> 01:08:01,320
Speaker 1: So like, I don't know, I'm not going to always

1397
01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:05,120
Speaker 1: be able to be strong KD gangs forever. I could

1398
01:08:05,120 --> 01:08:09,280
Speaker 1: be forever, you know, matrix and I'm not when I'm

1399
01:08:09,840 --> 01:08:13,560
Speaker 1: I will say this whenever I've spoken about something out loud,

1400
01:08:14,360 --> 01:08:17,360
Speaker 1: in most cases has happened. I don't think I want

1401
01:08:17,360 --> 01:08:18,840
Speaker 1: to be fifty five trying to hit the matrix, like

1402
01:08:18,880 --> 01:08:21,080
Speaker 1: I hope, I hope I have the matrix of zero's

1403
01:08:21,120 --> 01:08:25,800
Speaker 1: in my account at that point. But like living, yeah,

1404
01:08:26,960 --> 01:08:29,479
Speaker 1: just the fun of it, you know, because the account's

1405
01:08:29,520 --> 01:08:33,559
Speaker 1: so nice, you unit stands you know, but my point

1406
01:08:33,680 --> 01:08:36,160
Speaker 1: is is that, you know, no, I just want to

1407
01:08:36,200 --> 01:08:38,960
Speaker 1: be able to, like, when I get to certain point

1408
01:08:38,960 --> 01:08:40,800
Speaker 1: in my life, I'm going to be able to really

1409
01:08:40,880 --> 01:08:43,559
Speaker 1: even like live through my my cares through my kids.

1410
01:08:43,960 --> 01:08:49,000
Speaker 1: Yeah this doesn't last forever, right, but like legacy that does,

1411
01:08:49,280 --> 01:08:52,439
Speaker 1: you know, Like, and I just that's important to me.

1412
01:08:52,920 --> 01:08:56,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I agree. I mean I don't have kids yet,

1413
01:08:56,160 --> 01:08:58,920
Speaker 4: but that's something that I always think about to I

1414
01:08:59,080 --> 01:09:02,040
Speaker 4: want to like build with a legacy and like just

1415
01:09:02,400 --> 01:09:04,960
Speaker 4: give my kids like a fun life and a good

1416
01:09:05,040 --> 01:09:08,599
Speaker 4: time because when you get older, so many people always

1417
01:09:08,640 --> 01:09:11,680
Speaker 4: say that like you take for granted the chaos, like

1418
01:09:11,720 --> 01:09:13,599
Speaker 4: how you said, like, oh, I be tired a lot

1419
01:09:13,640 --> 01:09:15,800
Speaker 4: of the time, like we booked out, But people take

1420
01:09:15,880 --> 01:09:18,960
Speaker 4: that for granted, and then when you become an empty nester,

1421
01:09:19,880 --> 01:09:22,120
Speaker 4: you miss it. You're like, oh, I miss the chaos

1422
01:09:22,240 --> 01:09:25,880
Speaker 4: of my kids all being yeah, us having these these

1423
01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:28,280
Speaker 4: times together. So it's like it might exhaust you at

1424
01:09:28,320 --> 01:09:31,240
Speaker 4: the time because you're trying to balance motherhood and career,

1425
01:09:31,880 --> 01:09:32,600
Speaker 4: but it's worth it.

1426
01:09:32,840 --> 01:09:33,760
Speaker 5: It is worth it.

1427
01:09:33,920 --> 01:09:36,680
Speaker 1: This is so much better for me that I get

1428
01:09:36,760 --> 01:09:38,720
Speaker 1: to take my kids around the world with me and

1429
01:09:38,880 --> 01:09:41,080
Speaker 1: I get to like share it with someone, and like

1430
01:09:41,880 --> 01:09:43,639
Speaker 1: you know, I was trying. I've been trying to think

1431
01:09:43,680 --> 01:09:46,760
Speaker 1: to God, like man, like how do I like when

1432
01:09:46,760 --> 01:09:49,160
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about like Russ and I doing life together,

1433
01:09:49,280 --> 01:09:53,080
Speaker 1: Like how do I describe it? Like I'm always trying

1434
01:09:53,080 --> 01:09:55,000
Speaker 1: to find the words like how do? And I'm like

1435
01:09:55,880 --> 01:09:59,080
Speaker 1: the love that I feel from the legacy for building

1436
01:09:59,120 --> 01:10:02,320
Speaker 1: together through my family, that's different, Like that's a different

1437
01:10:02,439 --> 01:10:05,880
Speaker 1: level of love from my perspective, Like I feel like

1438
01:10:05,920 --> 01:10:08,320
Speaker 1: I'm really doing something by what we're when I look

1439
01:10:08,360 --> 01:10:10,360
Speaker 1: at our babies and how we're loving on them and

1440
01:10:10,800 --> 01:10:14,000
Speaker 1: how we're raising them together, Like there's so much power

1441
01:10:14,160 --> 01:10:16,880
Speaker 1: in that part of our love. Like that's a part

1442
01:10:16,920 --> 01:10:20,559
Speaker 1: of my identity. And like oftentimes we did come from

1443
01:10:20,600 --> 01:10:25,800
Speaker 1: a world where CEOs and labels would like look down

1444
01:10:25,920 --> 01:10:26,640
Speaker 1: on you if you.

1445
01:10:26,760 --> 01:10:29,719
Speaker 4: Decided to have a child, Like I think they still

1446
01:10:29,800 --> 01:10:30,040
Speaker 4: do that.

1447
01:10:30,560 --> 01:10:31,600
Speaker 5: They still do that, and.

1448
01:10:31,680 --> 01:10:34,240
Speaker 1: They just behind because ain't nobody living like an'tybody.

1449
01:10:34,600 --> 01:10:37,800
Speaker 3: When I seen cardibal Bus that's split on stage just

1450
01:10:37,920 --> 01:10:40,000
Speaker 3: still went and won her Grammys, I was like, you

1451
01:10:40,080 --> 01:10:43,759
Speaker 3: know what, go ahead, girl, you know what I'm saying.

1452
01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:44,600
Speaker 4: Why not?

1453
01:10:44,920 --> 01:10:45,479
Speaker 5: I love it?

1454
01:10:45,640 --> 01:10:47,640
Speaker 3: And I just love this for you like I just

1455
01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:49,800
Speaker 3: felt like, like I said, the longevity that you have

1456
01:10:49,920 --> 01:10:52,599
Speaker 3: had in your career and to see you just thriving,

1457
01:10:52,800 --> 01:10:55,680
Speaker 3: still making great music because we finna talk about some

1458
01:10:55,800 --> 01:10:59,320
Speaker 3: music because now it's time to get into the bop.

1459
01:10:59,479 --> 01:11:08,000
Speaker 5: Hey bou boubou bow bow. So you just dropped a

1460
01:11:08,280 --> 01:11:13,400
Speaker 5: song with a lot of so talk about that collab

1461
01:11:13,479 --> 01:11:14,280
Speaker 5: and how it came about.

1462
01:11:14,439 --> 01:11:17,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, So this right here, that's the name of the song.

1463
01:11:18,160 --> 01:11:20,280
Speaker 1: I got a shout out Jazzy Fay because as you

1464
01:11:20,320 --> 01:11:23,400
Speaker 1: guys know, he was a big part of where everything started.

1465
01:11:24,880 --> 01:11:27,799
Speaker 1: And it been like almost it had been like almost

1466
01:11:27,920 --> 01:11:31,479
Speaker 1: eighteen years we worked together. Yeah, so it was long

1467
01:11:31,600 --> 01:11:35,479
Speaker 1: overdue for us to you know, to join forces again.

1468
01:11:35,560 --> 01:11:39,560
Speaker 1: And so, uh, this song this right here. Actually my

1469
01:11:39,640 --> 01:11:42,479
Speaker 1: friend Taran, who I executive produced my project with, he

1470
01:11:42,680 --> 01:11:45,080
Speaker 1: was over at Jazzy's and then he was like he

1471
01:11:45,120 --> 01:11:47,320
Speaker 1: played the songs he see and I'm like, play me

1472
01:11:47,400 --> 01:11:49,120
Speaker 1: the record. And then I heard the record, like, oh,

1473
01:11:49,160 --> 01:11:53,840
Speaker 1: this right here is like this right here, yeah, like

1474
01:11:55,120 --> 01:11:57,639
Speaker 1: the Jazzy and I synced up and then I said,

1475
01:11:57,680 --> 01:12:00,560
Speaker 1: you know what this is atown love, this is so sickignificant.

1476
01:12:01,000 --> 01:12:03,160
Speaker 1: I hit up lot On, I said, Lotto you know,

1477
01:12:03,280 --> 01:12:05,240
Speaker 1: will you would you join me on this record? You

1478
01:12:05,320 --> 01:12:08,280
Speaker 1: know it's it's me and Jazzy and she answers so fast.

1479
01:12:08,840 --> 01:12:14,840
Speaker 1: She got in the booth so quick. Miss so sweet,

1480
01:12:15,800 --> 01:12:18,560
Speaker 1: she got on it right away from me, and I

1481
01:12:18,680 --> 01:12:19,960
Speaker 1: just thought it would be the perfect fit, you know,

1482
01:12:20,000 --> 01:12:22,280
Speaker 1: because Lotto is really carving out a lane for herself

1483
01:12:22,320 --> 01:12:25,240
Speaker 1: and she is a true at L girl, and I

1484
01:12:25,360 --> 01:12:28,479
Speaker 1: love her sauce and just how she like flows. So

1485
01:12:28,720 --> 01:12:31,000
Speaker 1: it was just a perfect combination of everything. And it's

1486
01:12:31,040 --> 01:12:34,080
Speaker 1: just true at town love. This right here is super

1487
01:12:34,160 --> 01:12:34,439
Speaker 1: a town.

1488
01:12:34,479 --> 01:12:35,519
Speaker 4: It's very nostalgic too.

1489
01:12:35,680 --> 01:12:44,040
Speaker 5: It is the background. Yeah, yah yah, I said, I'm

1490
01:12:44,080 --> 01:12:45,800
Speaker 5: ready for the video. I can't wait. You know what

1491
01:12:45,880 --> 01:12:47,720
Speaker 5: I'm saying. Now, let me ask you this, because you

1492
01:12:47,800 --> 01:12:50,960
Speaker 5: got the album, you're working on the album? Yes, what okay?

1493
01:12:51,080 --> 01:12:54,080
Speaker 5: Because we're happy that Jazzy fabite. When don't we gonna

1494
01:12:54,080 --> 01:12:55,920
Speaker 5: get that? Missy? Miss well?

1495
01:12:55,920 --> 01:12:57,639
Speaker 1: You know it's a funny because Missy and I we've

1496
01:12:57,680 --> 01:13:00,280
Speaker 1: been so fortunate a lot of our big songs that

1497
01:13:00,400 --> 01:13:02,439
Speaker 1: have happened, and the both of our careers have been together.

1498
01:13:03,600 --> 01:13:05,960
Speaker 1: I feel like me and Missy we just always picked.

1499
01:13:06,000 --> 01:13:08,080
Speaker 1: We just find the right time in line. Okay, we

1500
01:13:08,240 --> 01:13:12,120
Speaker 1: just did tour together, which was really fun, and you know,

1501
01:13:12,360 --> 01:13:14,120
Speaker 1: like I say, you know, she joined me on a

1502
01:13:14,200 --> 01:13:17,920
Speaker 1: level of remix which was amazing. We just always and

1503
01:13:17,960 --> 01:13:20,719
Speaker 1: then obviously we have goodies and uh sorry not goodies.

1504
01:13:20,720 --> 01:13:23,240
Speaker 1: We have one two steps and lose control and uh

1505
01:13:23,320 --> 01:13:26,120
Speaker 1: my song work. You've actually had a great bit of songs.

1506
01:13:26,160 --> 01:13:31,000
Speaker 1: So I feel like, okay, where there it is. I

1507
01:13:32,439 --> 01:13:32,600
Speaker 1: like that.

1508
01:13:32,720 --> 01:13:33,120
Speaker 5: I like that.

1509
01:13:33,200 --> 01:13:35,920
Speaker 1: I like that I'm always loving me and my sisket together.

1510
01:13:36,040 --> 01:13:41,320
Speaker 5: Okay, period, that's right. Okay. Now do you feel like

1511
01:13:41,400 --> 01:13:43,320
Speaker 5: you give good advice? I know you give good advice.

1512
01:13:43,360 --> 01:13:45,320
Speaker 5: I think I do.

1513
01:13:45,479 --> 01:13:47,840
Speaker 1: Okay, I think I'm okay.

1514
01:13:48,600 --> 01:13:49,599
Speaker 5: I mean you're great.

1515
01:13:49,760 --> 01:13:51,080
Speaker 1: You know what I do more than anything is I

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01:13:51,120 --> 01:13:53,240
Speaker 1: give advice with love. I just I may not be

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01:13:53,360 --> 01:13:55,360
Speaker 1: right all the time, but it's always in my place

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01:13:55,360 --> 01:13:55,639
Speaker 1: of love.

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01:13:56,280 --> 01:14:02,360
Speaker 4: I think CCT I feel like she gives great advice.

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01:14:02,960 --> 01:14:05,920
Speaker 4: I wanted to before we get into the advice. So

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01:14:06,080 --> 01:14:08,160
Speaker 4: I wanted to do the week and I wanted to

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01:14:08,320 --> 01:14:13,320
Speaker 4: give you with some products. Yeah yeah, from I have

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01:14:13,439 --> 01:14:17,920
Speaker 4: a cosmetics flying it's called Colation, it's called Beauty Collection

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01:14:18,880 --> 01:14:20,680
Speaker 4: dot com. And I just wanted to give you with

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01:14:20,720 --> 01:14:21,719
Speaker 4: a whole bunch of goodies.

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01:14:24,720 --> 01:14:25,719
Speaker 1: So tell me about your goodies.

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01:14:26,360 --> 01:14:26,559
Speaker 3: Yeah.

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01:14:26,680 --> 01:14:30,960
Speaker 4: So it's lip glosses, it's lip liners. Mad like with lipsticks.

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01:14:31,000 --> 01:14:36,879
Speaker 4: We also have some jelly bushes, mascara, eye line, jelly blushes.

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01:14:37,080 --> 01:14:38,280
Speaker 5: Oh I like that.

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01:14:38,600 --> 01:14:41,880
Speaker 3: Let me can I tell about the jelly I'm sorry, okay, So,

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01:14:42,040 --> 01:14:43,599
Speaker 3: because I know you you fresh.

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01:14:44,880 --> 01:14:47,840
Speaker 5: So when you and Russ on vacation and you ain't

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01:14:48,080 --> 01:14:51,320
Speaker 5: makeup just a little bit, it's a little bit that

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01:14:51,479 --> 01:14:55,840
Speaker 5: jelly blush. Oh girl, limp and you.

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01:14:55,840 --> 01:14:57,280
Speaker 4: Can put it on your lips to it. It's like

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01:14:57,320 --> 01:15:00,280
Speaker 4: a lip saint, yeah, gloss on top. But it's really

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01:15:00,360 --> 01:15:03,360
Speaker 4: really good. It's like a little jelly stain on your cheeks,

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01:15:03,880 --> 01:15:06,280
Speaker 4: no makeup needed. It gives you like a nice little glow.

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01:15:06,600 --> 01:15:07,080
Speaker 1: I love that.

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01:15:07,920 --> 01:15:16,400
Speaker 4: I'm gonna check it out. Thank you, pocast, thank you,

1542
01:15:17,120 --> 01:15:25,080
Speaker 4: thank you. Yes, let's get into pour your heart out.

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01:15:25,280 --> 01:15:30,320
Speaker 4: So first question, Hey, lex Andrea, I just wanted to

1544
01:15:30,320 --> 01:15:32,479
Speaker 4: say I love the podcast and thank y'all all for

1545
01:15:32,560 --> 01:15:35,000
Speaker 4: the last and joy I've been a listener for about

1546
01:15:35,040 --> 01:15:37,320
Speaker 4: two years now. I'm a twenty two year old black

1547
01:15:37,360 --> 01:15:40,080
Speaker 4: girl in a big world and I'm currently serving in

1548
01:15:40,120 --> 01:15:40,759
Speaker 4: the Air Force.

1549
01:15:40,880 --> 01:15:41,679
Speaker 5: On active duty.

1550
01:15:42,200 --> 01:15:45,600
Speaker 4: I work in security forces, military police. I need some

1551
01:15:45,720 --> 01:15:49,360
Speaker 4: advice on loving myself. Older people and everyone around me

1552
01:15:49,640 --> 01:15:52,439
Speaker 4: always preach about self love, but I'm not sure where

1553
01:15:52,479 --> 01:15:55,559
Speaker 4: to start or even what that really looks like. It's

1554
01:15:55,600 --> 01:15:57,800
Speaker 4: easy for me to love and care for others, but

1555
01:15:57,880 --> 01:16:00,080
Speaker 4: when it comes to myself, I truly don't believe I

1556
01:16:00,320 --> 01:16:03,160
Speaker 4: deserve that love. If I could just get a nugget

1557
01:16:03,200 --> 01:16:06,000
Speaker 4: of your wisdom, I'd really appreciate it. Thank you for

1558
01:16:06,120 --> 01:16:09,160
Speaker 4: your time, love, y'all. That's really good.

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01:16:09,439 --> 01:16:13,280
Speaker 1: Self love is the best love, right, I think self

1560
01:16:13,400 --> 01:16:17,160
Speaker 1: love is. It's very even for me, like being married

1561
01:16:17,200 --> 01:16:18,840
Speaker 1: and have my kids, Like I have to take moments

1562
01:16:18,880 --> 01:16:20,840
Speaker 1: and just love on me because I feel like if

1563
01:16:20,880 --> 01:16:22,800
Speaker 1: I don't take care of myself at some point, like

1564
01:16:22,920 --> 01:16:25,160
Speaker 1: I'm not going to be good for the house. So

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01:16:25,240 --> 01:16:26,680
Speaker 1: I think that, like, what are those things that you

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01:16:26,880 --> 01:16:30,280
Speaker 1: love doing, like like watching TV shows? Like something I've

1567
01:16:30,320 --> 01:16:33,439
Speaker 1: been really loving lately is taking baths, Like it's just

1568
01:16:33,520 --> 01:16:36,439
Speaker 1: so peaceful. Like I'm normally a shower kind of girl,

1569
01:16:36,520 --> 01:16:39,080
Speaker 1: but I'm like something about I always shower. Do you

1570
01:16:39,200 --> 01:16:40,080
Speaker 1: shower and then bathe?

1571
01:16:40,680 --> 01:16:42,000
Speaker 5: I'm not a bath.

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01:16:41,840 --> 01:16:45,960
Speaker 1: Girlhower, Yeah, so I shower and then I sit in

1573
01:16:46,000 --> 01:16:50,280
Speaker 1: the back anyways, whatever TM, I maybe maybe that makes sense.

1574
01:16:50,200 --> 01:16:52,840
Speaker 5: Because I'm care of girly, so that's when I I'm

1575
01:16:52,880 --> 01:16:53,559
Speaker 5: just sitting there everything.

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01:16:53,680 --> 01:16:56,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's like, you know, I like doing that

1577
01:16:57,000 --> 01:17:00,360
Speaker 1: and it's so simple, but sometimes I'm just need to

1578
01:17:00,439 --> 01:17:03,160
Speaker 1: do those things for me. So I would encourage her to,

1579
01:17:04,040 --> 01:17:07,160
Speaker 1: you know, think about those things that she loves doing, right,

1580
01:17:07,720 --> 01:17:11,080
Speaker 1: and like literally carve out your schedule. You can carve

1581
01:17:11,120 --> 01:17:13,879
Speaker 1: out your schedule to fit you as best as possible,

1582
01:17:14,400 --> 01:17:17,880
Speaker 1: and sometimes we have to intentionally make time for those

1583
01:17:18,000 --> 01:17:20,600
Speaker 1: things so that we can actually do those things. And

1584
01:17:20,720 --> 01:17:24,000
Speaker 1: I promise you there is a one hundred percent sex

1585
01:17:24,600 --> 01:17:27,639
Speaker 1: sex success success rate.

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01:17:27,600 --> 01:17:29,519
Speaker 5: And we didn't even get into the bedside of that

1587
01:17:29,680 --> 01:17:30,439
Speaker 5: ten to one.

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01:17:32,840 --> 01:17:37,680
Speaker 1: One hundred percent success rate that when you carve out

1589
01:17:37,760 --> 01:17:41,519
Speaker 1: time for yourself, you are going to feel better.

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01:17:43,479 --> 01:17:44,000
Speaker 5: I agree to.

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01:17:44,080 --> 01:17:46,800
Speaker 3: And the way you love yourself reflects and the people

1592
01:17:46,840 --> 01:17:47,840
Speaker 3: that you surround yourself.

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01:17:47,920 --> 01:17:49,200
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, it's huge.

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01:17:49,400 --> 01:17:52,200
Speaker 3: Oh it definitely helps, like when you love yourself properly.

1595
01:17:52,200 --> 01:17:54,439
Speaker 3: And this is coming from like I struggle with that

1596
01:17:54,520 --> 01:17:56,599
Speaker 3: a lot in my twenties of like not having confidence

1597
01:17:56,640 --> 01:17:59,680
Speaker 3: in myself and not really believing in myself and who

1598
01:17:59,760 --> 01:18:02,439
Speaker 3: I was as a person and my personality always feeling

1599
01:18:02,439 --> 01:18:03,960
Speaker 3: like I'm too much, and I was like, you know

1600
01:18:04,040 --> 01:18:05,960
Speaker 3: what it was when I got around like Drea and

1601
01:18:06,040 --> 01:18:08,000
Speaker 3: my other friends are like, girl, you're not doing too much.

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01:18:08,080 --> 01:18:10,360
Speaker 5: The people around you just not enough, you know what

1603
01:18:10,400 --> 01:18:10,840
Speaker 5: I'm saying.

1604
01:18:10,920 --> 01:18:13,559
Speaker 3: So when you love yourself, you attract the right people

1605
01:18:13,600 --> 01:18:15,280
Speaker 3: and you are in the right spaces.

1606
01:18:15,360 --> 01:18:19,560
Speaker 5: So you are going to thrive in life when the

1607
01:18:19,640 --> 01:18:20,360
Speaker 5: first step.

1608
01:18:20,280 --> 01:18:22,960
Speaker 3: Is loving yourself and going we will deserve and feeling

1609
01:18:22,960 --> 01:18:25,320
Speaker 3: like you truly deserve all good things.

1610
01:18:26,320 --> 01:18:32,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, well, Seer has spend the time of my life. Literally,

1611
01:18:32,640 --> 01:18:35,840
Speaker 4: I am so glad that you came on the show today.

1612
01:18:36,160 --> 01:18:38,840
Speaker 4: She appreciate you so much. And I know your new

1613
01:18:38,960 --> 01:18:41,519
Speaker 4: album is coming out on August twenty.

1614
01:18:42,080 --> 01:18:44,960
Speaker 1: It's a second Baby pre safe pre download.

1615
01:18:44,640 --> 01:18:46,519
Speaker 4: And so tell us a little bit about the album.

1616
01:18:47,080 --> 01:18:49,040
Speaker 4: Obviously we will even tell them where they could find you.

1617
01:18:49,120 --> 01:18:49,960
Speaker 5: They already followed.

1618
01:18:51,840 --> 01:18:54,679
Speaker 1: The album is called to CC and CC is my nickname,

1619
01:18:54,760 --> 01:19:02,560
Speaker 1: as you know, no because y'all my girl, Okay, but

1620
01:19:02,680 --> 01:19:07,000
Speaker 1: she's been saying that a yeah, So it's it's CC.

1621
01:19:07,160 --> 01:19:10,000
Speaker 1: That's my nickname. My fans have called me that for years,

1622
01:19:10,000 --> 01:19:11,800
Speaker 1: and I feel like there's something personal when someone calls

1623
01:19:11,800 --> 01:19:15,800
Speaker 1: you about your nickname and also my family that's just

1624
01:19:15,880 --> 01:19:17,280
Speaker 1: been kind of like the name that I've you know,

1625
01:19:17,360 --> 01:19:19,759
Speaker 1: got my nickname I've gone by. So there's just something

1626
01:19:19,800 --> 01:19:22,479
Speaker 1: about that when you say go see see go seec go,

1627
01:19:22,680 --> 01:19:24,439
Speaker 1: like there's an andergy that comes with it. You know

1628
01:19:24,479 --> 01:19:28,760
Speaker 1: what I'm saying exactly, Yea, all that all that.

1629
01:19:29,360 --> 01:19:33,040
Speaker 4: Don't come out live tr you know.

1630
01:19:34,080 --> 01:19:37,160
Speaker 1: And then most more than anything, I think this might

1631
01:19:37,200 --> 01:19:39,240
Speaker 1: be like I sometimes do my life in chapters. Yeah,

1632
01:19:39,520 --> 01:19:41,720
Speaker 1: so I say like, this is the chapter of gratitude

1633
01:19:41,760 --> 01:19:43,920
Speaker 1: for me, and it's me just reflecting back on the

1634
01:19:44,000 --> 01:19:46,320
Speaker 1: journey and just thinking like, man, God, you're so good.

1635
01:19:46,400 --> 01:19:48,960
Speaker 1: It's twenty one years since my first album. I'm so thankful,

1636
01:19:49,000 --> 01:19:50,360
Speaker 1: and I want to say thank you to my fans

1637
01:19:50,680 --> 01:19:52,240
Speaker 1: because what I've been doing with this project is I

1638
01:19:52,400 --> 01:19:55,360
Speaker 1: was I released the first half or the beginning of

1639
01:19:55,400 --> 01:19:59,160
Speaker 1: the project and an EP and then like songs like

1640
01:19:59,200 --> 01:20:03,000
Speaker 1: how We Roll, which almost platinum thanks to everybody, how

1641
01:20:03,040 --> 01:20:07,360
Speaker 1: You're Preaching Breezy, and then but I kind of like

1642
01:20:07,880 --> 01:20:09,960
Speaker 1: I have been releasing songs like in moments like when

1643
01:20:10,000 --> 01:20:11,840
Speaker 1: I was on tours giving my fans songs like I'm

1644
01:20:11,880 --> 01:20:13,400
Speaker 1: sitting on all these songs.

1645
01:20:13,520 --> 01:20:14,360
Speaker 4: That they haven't heard yet.

1646
01:20:14,439 --> 01:20:16,720
Speaker 1: Let me just give them the full project because again,

1647
01:20:16,720 --> 01:20:19,599
Speaker 1: I just want to say thank you ready for I'm excited.

1648
01:20:19,640 --> 01:20:23,200
Speaker 1: The CEC album is really fun, feel good. Shout out

1649
01:20:23,240 --> 01:20:25,439
Speaker 1: to everyone that joined me. Also shout out to Tiger.

1650
01:20:26,080 --> 01:20:27,880
Speaker 1: We have a really fun record that we recorded live.

1651
01:20:27,960 --> 01:20:29,040
Speaker 4: One is stream.

1652
01:20:30,800 --> 01:20:34,240
Speaker 1: Called Dance with Me and look out for visuals for that.

1653
01:20:34,560 --> 01:20:36,000
Speaker 1: And then there's some other.

1654
01:20:36,200 --> 01:20:37,200
Speaker 5: Who else who else?

1655
01:20:37,439 --> 01:20:38,120
Speaker 4: There's some other.

1656
01:20:41,000 --> 01:20:48,040
Speaker 1: Wait, I gotta live bit for the release lead phenomena.

1657
01:20:49,000 --> 01:20:51,120
Speaker 5: Now I know that album release, I expect to see

1658
01:20:51,120 --> 01:20:51,799
Speaker 5: an invite.

1659
01:20:52,400 --> 01:20:54,240
Speaker 1: Yes, ma'am, you will see it.

1660
01:20:54,280 --> 01:20:56,439
Speaker 5: And I'm gonna show up. And even if you don't invite,

1661
01:20:56,479 --> 01:20:58,160
Speaker 5: might be about remember.

1662
01:20:57,920 --> 01:21:02,280
Speaker 1: You said they say listen, okay, we get it right here.

1663
01:21:04,439 --> 01:21:08,439
Speaker 1: I'm gonna hear it okay in the building. I need

1664
01:21:08,479 --> 01:21:09,360
Speaker 1: an energy in the party.

1665
01:21:09,479 --> 01:21:13,320
Speaker 5: No, okay, I need that drance on the whole time.

1666
01:21:13,720 --> 01:21:17,439
Speaker 1: Yes, ma'am, CEC, thank you like I cannot.

1667
01:21:18,200 --> 01:21:20,519
Speaker 3: This is really fun, so much fun I had with you,

1668
01:21:20,640 --> 01:21:24,080
Speaker 3: so I love you down, thank you so much. Joy

1669
01:21:24,120 --> 01:21:25,640
Speaker 3: you got anything to be Before we get out of here.

1670
01:21:25,840 --> 01:21:26,360
Speaker 1: I do know.

1671
01:21:26,720 --> 01:21:33,000
Speaker 5: I don't have anything cross y'all. Make sure y'all caught

1672
01:21:33,120 --> 01:21:34,920
Speaker 5: that album and we'll see y'all next week.

1673
01:21:35,160 --> 01:21:40,479
Speaker 1: Yay, thank you guys so much. Man, Yeah, I shall

1674
01:21:40,560 --> 01:21:43,720
Speaker 1: not fit on man but God, yea man but God.

1675
01:21:44,720 --> 01:21:47,880
Speaker 1: So walk through the valley of death. Hey, I said,

1676
01:21:47,920 --> 01:21:52,040
Speaker 1: so many tears for all. Wait, Please God welcome me,

1677
01:21:52,120 --> 01:21:53,599
Speaker 1: grab it and take me to whoa.

1678
01:21:53,760 --> 01:21:54,840
Speaker 5: He said that. I know he said that.

1679
01:21:56,240 --> 01:21:59,560
Speaker 1: Hey, listen back in Element you read, I thought, I

1680
01:21:59,680 --> 01:22:02,439
Speaker 1: don't mister read, let me alone. I grew up most

1681
01:22:02,439 --> 01:22:03,120
Speaker 1: of died read.

1682
01:22:03,400 --> 01:22:03,679
Speaker 5: It'said.

1683
01:22:03,760 --> 01:22:06,080
Speaker 1: My mind can't find a place of rest until I

1684
01:22:06,160 --> 01:22:06,920
Speaker 1: got that thug.

1685
01:22:06,840 --> 01:22:09,160
Speaker 4: Life tat no my chest it can you feel me?

1686
01:22:09,400 --> 01:22:10,679
Speaker 4: I'm not living in the past.

1687
01:22:10,840 --> 01:22:13,280
Speaker 1: You want to last, Just be the first to blast.

1688
01:22:13,479 --> 01:22:16,160
Speaker 1: Remember Cato. No longer want to see the seas, call

1689
01:22:16,240 --> 01:22:18,599
Speaker 1: on the sirens, see the murder in the streets. Now

1690
01:22:18,760 --> 01:22:21,599
Speaker 1: rest in peace is there heaven for ad g Remember

1691
01:22:21,720 --> 01:22:24,920
Speaker 1: me so many homies in the cemetery, shed so many tears,

1692
01:22:27,320 --> 01:22:30,040
Speaker 1: I said, for thugh some years, and shed so many tears.

1693
01:22:32,880 --> 01:22:33,639
Speaker 5: For through some years.

1694
01:22:34,680 --> 01:22:40,080
Speaker 1: Hey, I saw so many and shot so many tears.

1695
01:22:40,280 --> 01:22:42,679
Speaker 1: Now that I'm struggling in this business by any means.

1696
01:22:42,880 --> 01:22:45,760
Speaker 1: Let me be greeting, getting greed, but seldom seams at

1697
01:22:45,840 --> 01:22:48,320
Speaker 1: the world because I'm cursed. I'm having visions leap in

1698
01:22:48,400 --> 01:22:50,519
Speaker 1: there here when the hurst God, can you feel me,

1699
01:22:50,640 --> 01:22:52,559
Speaker 1: take me from away from all the pressure and all

1700
01:22:52,600 --> 01:22:54,120
Speaker 1: the pain, Show me some happiness.

1701
01:22:54,240 --> 01:22:55,439
Speaker 4: The game, oh coming bly.

1702
01:22:55,760 --> 01:22:58,479
Speaker 1: I spend my time to sell and living well. I

1703
01:22:58,560 --> 01:23:01,679
Speaker 1: know my destiny is what did I fail? My life

1704
01:23:01,800 --> 01:23:04,560
Speaker 1: is in denial and when it died baptized in the

1705
01:23:04,640 --> 01:23:10,519
Speaker 1: turn of five, shed so many tears. I shot so

1706
01:23:10,640 --> 01:23:11,200
Speaker 1: many tears.

1707
01:23:13,479 --> 01:23:21,400
Speaker 4: Hey, hey, los amitikins and shot so many.

1708
01:23:21,240 --> 01:23:23,840
Speaker 5: Ts know that learn or work?

1709
01:23:24,320 --> 01:23:28,240
Speaker 1: Bo bo Hey, that's a backup, faul back.

1710
01:23:31,840 --> 01:23:36,920
Speaker 5: I need her, I need hers come back. Damn damn right.

1711
01:23:37,080 --> 01:23:46,840
Speaker 5: I read f and that around