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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello Everybody. We're scrubbing in. Hello everybody, I.

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Speaker 1: Mean happy Monday. It's an embarrassment of riches. We have

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Speaker 1: a new Taylor Swift album that is new and like

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Speaker 1: just came out of nowhere. We have a new episode

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Speaker 1: of Grey's Anatomy, and we have Honka my very first honka.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, so much talk about where do we start?

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Speaker 2: Where do we start? Taylor? I just have to say,

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Speaker 2: you know, I last week on the podcast that we

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Speaker 2: talked about like how people are allowed to have different opinions,

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Speaker 2: and that's okay. But then I see someone post in

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Speaker 2: the Facebook group about just something along the lines it's

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Speaker 2: not even bashing her, but just being like, does anyone

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Speaker 2: not get the Taylor hype? Like I don't. I feel

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Speaker 2: so left out because I don't get the excitement of

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Speaker 2: her dropping a new album, and I get like defensive.

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Speaker 2: I had to calm myself down and.

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Speaker 1: Be like, that's okay, it's totally okay. But you know

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Speaker 1: what's so funny is like Taylor Swift is like an

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Speaker 1: infinity pool and I just want to keep swimming in

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Speaker 1: it all day along. Like I cannot get that's.

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Speaker 2: So sometimes that is so creepy, do.

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Speaker 1: You guys, aund nothing so funny my Red Star. I'm

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Speaker 1: having dinner with Red Stars brother and sister in law

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Speaker 1: this week. We're doing outside.

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Speaker 2: Outside a backyard social distance hang got it.

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Speaker 1: But she said, she goes. She texted Red Star and said,

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Speaker 1: I'm listening to the Taylor Swift album, so I I

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Speaker 1: think I can talk to Tanya about I was like,

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Speaker 1: that is the cutest, sweetest, most endearing thing I've ever heard.

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Speaker 2: That's really nice. Yeah, it's I think I just I understand.

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Speaker 2: Even Becca Tobin are Lady Yang Queen said, I it

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Speaker 2: makes me sad that I'll never understand the hype or

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Speaker 2: the excitement of Taylor slip dropping a new album or

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Speaker 2: an episode of the Bachelor. And I was like, man,

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Speaker 2: those are two things that we talk about. I mean,

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Speaker 2: as a society, we talk about so much in pop culture.

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Speaker 1: I know, but I get it, like I get the

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Speaker 1: the the non tailors I feel like are people who

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Speaker 1: don't really I want to say, don't have emotion, but

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Speaker 1: like I feel like Taylor's one of those people. That

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Speaker 1: her music is very transcendental.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, feels didn't feel great, didn't flow.

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Speaker 1: Didn't flow. It like takes you to this place where

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Speaker 1: you just feel things deeply. And some people just are

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Speaker 1: not like that, you know what I mean. Some people

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Speaker 1: are just not wired like that. Like you could listen

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Speaker 1: to a song and just have it won't move you, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean. But like for Taylor people, you

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Speaker 1: hear a song and you're just like transported into another universe.

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Speaker 2: But what's transcendentscend What did I say transcendental or something?

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Speaker 2: Why didn't you think that I would be one of

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Speaker 2: those people who want it?

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Speaker 1: Shockingly?

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Speaker 2: Yes, I know, so I think that's why I don't

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Speaker 2: really understand how just to appreciate if you don't like

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Speaker 2: the melody, to at least appreciate the lyrics. If you

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Speaker 2: don't like the lyrics, appreciate the melody. But anyways, it's

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Speaker 2: interesting when and a lot of people commented and they

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Speaker 2: were like, same here, and it's just kind of a

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Speaker 2: difference of opinion. But for some reason, I'm like, how

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Speaker 2: do you know, how do you not get excited about it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? If you just I think all the people who

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Speaker 1: are listening that aren't Taylor. People give it, give it

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Speaker 2: And if you don't, that's fine too.

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Speaker 1: And read the lyrics along with it.

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Speaker 2: That helps, Okay, So getting into Evermore, we'll start there.

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Speaker 2: I listened right like you know, when it came out

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Speaker 2: at nine pm here, and there was not I there

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Speaker 2: wasn't one song that on the first listen, I was like,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, that's just oh my god. And I

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Speaker 1: I had a few of those. Two of those, to

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Speaker 2: What were they?

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Speaker 1: Willow number one, But it's hard when you go so

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Speaker 1: hard out the gate with number one, it's hard for

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Speaker 3: Doing our top threes? Is that what's happening right now?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 4: Album as a whole, pick top three, I feel like

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Speaker 4: we got to do five, okay, because even with five,

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Speaker 4: I have a couple honorable mentions. Okay, it's a whole Okay,

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Speaker 4: maybe just ranked the album all right. So Willow and

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Speaker 4: Long Story Short were my straight out the gates like boom.

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Speaker 2: Like one listen and you were like hooked Okay, Yeah, Mark.

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Speaker 3: Easton, Yeah, okay. Long Story Shorts in my top three

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Speaker 3: as well. I also was very into No Body, No

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Speaker 3: Crime because you know, I am into this differently than you, guys.

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Speaker 3: We've talked about this before. I'm not one of these

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Speaker 3: people that's analyzing the lyrics, that's trying to come up

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Speaker 3: with whatever more songs are connected to which folklore songs,

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Speaker 3: this is part two of this other song. I don't

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Speaker 3: care about any of that stuff. I just want a melody.

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Speaker 3: I just want a good chorus, great chorus in Long

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Speaker 3: Story Short and Nobody No Crime. And I also really

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Speaker 3: like Dorothea because it's a great melody.

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Speaker 1: I now Dorothea was a slower one, like a slow

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Speaker 5: I am not catching the hype of Nobody No Crime.

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Speaker 5: I like the Olive Guard mentioned a lot.

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Speaker 3: In that song, but that's made for you, dude.

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Speaker 6: I know.

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Speaker 5: I really thought that more of it would hook for me.

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Speaker 5: But Ivy is a big stand out for me. I

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Speaker 5: the first listen through that one really caught me. Along

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Speaker 5: with Willow, those are my two standouts from like right out.

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Speaker 1: The gate Ivy's It's so good good.

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Speaker 2: I love the lyrics of Ivy, and I will say

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Speaker 2: so I went into that night being like a little

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Speaker 2: it's fine, I'm going to listen to it in the morning,

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Speaker 2: turn on my fireplace, just like go through it. And well,

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Speaker 2: I actually liked Nobody No Crime, but I kind of

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Speaker 2: wish time would have been had more on that song. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but I fully appreciated the Olive Garden child out. I

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Speaker 2: I was on TikTok and someone did a mashup of

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Speaker 2: All Too Well and Champagne Problems, and so that when

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Speaker 2: all of a sudden had my attention because I was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: then I if I had heard evermore before I heard Exile,

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Speaker 2: I think I would have been more blown away by it.

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Speaker 2: But because Exile with bone yever, don't know how if

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Speaker 2: I'm saying it right, Yeah, body it was. So it

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Speaker 2: was my top listened song at twenty twenty. Wow, And

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Speaker 2: so I was just kind of like, it's really good

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Speaker 2: and it's beautiful, but it didn't have the instant reaction

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Speaker 1: Evermore is neither here nor there for me. It's okay,

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Speaker 1: it's like I'll take it. I'm not gonna skip it.

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Speaker 1: But it doesn't doesn't really do things to me.

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Speaker 3: But whereas Exgil, I remember you wanted that song in

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Speaker 3: and around your mouth, in.

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Speaker 1: And around my mouth, in and around my mouth.

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Speaker 3: So the creepy things you say linger in our minds

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Speaker 3: sometimes in the way.

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Speaker 2: She's an infinity pool that she wants to swim in forever.

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Speaker 3: And yeah, if somebody sent you that, DM, Tanya, you

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Speaker 3: would report them and block them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah I would.

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Speaker 3: Tanya, you are an infinity pool. I'd like dis women

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Speaker 1: No, I actually like that. I'd be like, thank you

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Speaker 1: so much, quite the compliment. So Long Story Short, I

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Speaker 1: those are my top two Willow and Long Story Short.

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Speaker 1: Top two. Love the lyrics, love the melody. Long Story

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Speaker 1: Short is just like such a red song. I can't

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Speaker 1: Didn't love it at first, and now, like it's saying

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Speaker 1: And then I didn't like closure very much, and people

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Speaker 1: like it more now. And then same with Happiness. I

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Speaker 1: and then I started reading the lyrics as I listened

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Speaker 1: I almost felt like people know me better than I

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Speaker 1: know myself because they were like, Tanya, how do you?

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Speaker 1: This is the most Tanya song ever? So then I

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Speaker 2: But I think you're a melody person, So first I

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Speaker 2: think you hear melody and what catches you? And then

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Speaker 2: I even remember when My Tears Ricochet came out, it

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, they'll be happiness after you. But there

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Speaker 3: Because that's good, so good. Those struck me too, and

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Speaker 2: Laundry on his Laundry is the most aggressive sounding laundry

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Speaker 2: the something like someone was like about the time, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah. You know what's funny is I have a

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Speaker 1: tailor stuff, because like they're just like, I cannot get

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Speaker 1: keep going, And I'm like, keep going, just keep giving

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Speaker 1: it a little more than I would like, tell them

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Speaker 1: like three songs to focus on, like my face favorites

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Speaker 1: like this album, Like they think it's like the cheap

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Speaker 2: Okay, but then other people. What made me feel like

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Speaker 2: I was really missing out is that some people are like,

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Speaker 2: this is her best album ever. But I earlier in

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh, there's some just she has some

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Speaker 2: amazing songs. You know.

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Speaker 1: What I just love about Taylor is that she's just like,

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Speaker 1: you know, Oh, I dropped an album in August, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I have all these songs. I'm gonna PLoP out another

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Speaker 1: one because I own my own now, and I'm just

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Speaker 1: And it's obviously good, like you know what I mean,

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Speaker 1: Like everybody's still obsessed and she's just on her own terms,

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Speaker 1: I think she knows that it's not for It's not

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Speaker 2: You had pelvic floor this week? How'd it go?

449
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Speaker 1: I'm happy to report you guys that my pelvic floor

450
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:46,800
Speaker 1: exercise I have been doing and I've been doing my homework,

451
00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:49,760
Speaker 1: and now I have graduated and I only have to

452
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Speaker 1: go once a month now instead of every week, and

453
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Speaker 1: just as like check in, check up, and I've been

454
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Speaker 1: symptom free for like five or six months gone.

455
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:03,280
Speaker 2: Would oh she reached on to the.

456
00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 1: Ground and yeah, so all's good.

457
00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:08,040
Speaker 2: I'm really stoked, great, proud of you for graduating.

458
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Speaker 1: Thank you so much.

459
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Speaker 2: So once a month, I am starting real like therapy therapy,

460
00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:17,720
Speaker 2: not not saying the pelvic therapy isn't real therapy, different therapy,

461
00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:18,840
Speaker 2: a different kind of therapy.

462
00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:22,480
Speaker 1: Withercising vagina, You're exercising.

463
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Speaker 2: Your emotional yeah, emotional trauma.

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Speaker 1: I want to be correct. It's not my vagina, it's

465
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Speaker 1: my pelvic floor, which is similar but not it's like

466
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Speaker 1: the best favorite differentiation. I just want to make that clear.

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Speaker 2: Oh, just so you know, a lot of people understand you,

468
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:47,880
Speaker 2: which concerns me sometimes a little bit that so many

469
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Speaker 2: people are like, I give what Tanya saying, Like I

470
00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:52,119
Speaker 2: agree with Tanya, I get what she's saying. I'm like,

471
00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:57,000
Speaker 2: so there's more, there's more like minded there's more people,

472
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Speaker 2: you know what, I appreciate it.

473
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 3: Well, people say they understand you. But this is what

474
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:07,159
Speaker 3: I'm dealing with On Facebook for the past week. People

475
00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:11,360
Speaker 3: continue to post about it and DM me about it,

476
00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:15,440
Speaker 3: the whole favorite versus best situation, and I think they

477
00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 3: are giving an interpretation. I think they're trying to give

478
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:19,840
Speaker 3: you a benefit of the doubt that isn't there. But

479
00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:21,480
Speaker 3: I wanted to ask you because maybe it is there.

480
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:24,159
Speaker 3: Maybe I'm wrong, because I think it's human nature to

481
00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 3: try to take the weirdness that comes out of your

482
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:28,479
Speaker 3: mouth and make some sense out of it when sometimes

483
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 3: there's just no sense to be made. So they think

484
00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:36,480
Speaker 3: you were saying Christmas is my favorite time. No, Christmas

485
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Speaker 3: is the best time of year, but winter is not

486
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Speaker 3: my favorite season. Correct, that's what you were saying.

487
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:47,919
Speaker 2: She is just agreeing because this actually makes sense.

488
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:49,840
Speaker 3: But yeah, that's not what you were saying.

489
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Speaker 1: That's exactly what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: Then why didn't you say that?

491
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Speaker 2: Why did you say summer is your favorite season? Winter

492
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:58,800
Speaker 2: is not your favorite. Winter is not your favorite season,

493
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Speaker 2: but Christmas is the best, like vibes.

494
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Speaker 1: That's what I said.

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Speaker 3: No, it isn't.

496
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Speaker 2: You never said winter or summer.

497
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Speaker 1: Okay, read between the lines.

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Speaker 3: Oh you said Christmas is the best time of year,

499
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Speaker 3: but it's not my favorite time of year.

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Speaker 1: Your swift level and just get on my test.

501
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:20,399
Speaker 2: I don't even think you knew that until someone else

502
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 2: broke it down.

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Speaker 3: I agree that because you said time of year for

504
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Speaker 3: both Christmas is the best time of year, but not

505
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:29,199
Speaker 3: my favorite time of year. That makes no sense to me.

506
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:32,159
Speaker 3: Christmas is the best time of year, but summer is

507
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Speaker 3: my favorite season. Makes absolute sense.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and like Christmas is the best time of year,

509
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:43,640
Speaker 2: it's so fun, everyone's so jolly, but my favorite season

510
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Speaker 2: of the four seasons is summer.

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Speaker 3: That makes sense. And honestly, I think I agree with

512
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Speaker 3: that statement.

513
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:50,360
Speaker 2: I too.

514
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Speaker 1: I think I'm very validated and vindicated by our listeners

515
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:57,159
Speaker 1: sometimes because sometimes like I leave here and I'm.

516
00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:00,600
Speaker 2: Like, am I nuts, Tanya? You can look me in

517
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:02,920
Speaker 2: the eye and tell me that's exactly what you meant.

518
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 1: Yes, but not in those words.

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Speaker 3: Oh here we go.

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Speaker 5: Someone DM me yesterday and I thought this was comparable

521
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Speaker 5: to what Tany was meaning. Like I posted about the

522
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Speaker 5: Beach Boys and about my favorite members, and someone pointed

523
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Speaker 5: out there, like Brian Wilson is the best beach boy.

524
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Speaker 5: But Carl Wilson is my favorite. Brian Wilson started the band,

525
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Speaker 5: he wrote pet Sounds, He's like the most influential. It's

526
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Speaker 5: the same thing and then but Carl is my favorite

527
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Speaker 5: because that's like, that's quantifiable too, because not one necessary

528
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Speaker 5: brains of the band quantify.

529
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Speaker 1: Are we in a quantity? Are we living in a

530
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Speaker 1: quantifiable world? That's not a world I want to be

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Speaker 1: living in.

532
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Speaker 2: All I'm saying is I don't someone made sense of

533
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Speaker 2: what you said, but I don't think that's what you meant.

534
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Speaker 2: So I'm sticking to that, and I whoever the scrubber

535
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Speaker 2: is that that said that, I appreciate you and I

536
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:04,439
Speaker 2: agree if that's the case, but that is not what

537
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Speaker 2: once you said.

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Speaker 1: I just like being in my unquantifiable universe over here,

539
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Speaker 1: and I'm just going to stay in it. Okay, what

540
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 1: way do you put the toilet paper on the right way,

541
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 1: which is whichever way it comes out of the bag.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I just take it out of the

543
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Speaker 1: bag and put it.

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Speaker 3: On the over the roller under the roll it comes

545
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Speaker 3: out over.

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Speaker 1: They're probably all different. The mic, yeah, because I just

547
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Speaker 1: take it out of the bag.

548
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Speaker 2: This is a this is a crime.

549
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Speaker 1: Just put it on the roller.

550
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Speaker 3: But if this is something people are very passionate about

551
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 3: over the roll or under the roll. But like why

552
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:45,720
Speaker 3: but so you don't know? Okay, Easton, yours over the.

553
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 1: Roller, under the roll, becauseaid mind's right.

554
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Speaker 3: Check, tell her to check multiple bathrooms she is.

555
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:53,919
Speaker 5: She's going, we have no rhymorieson at our house. It

556
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Speaker 5: doesn't matter.

557
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:59,479
Speaker 1: Really, they're both right, all right, So there we go.

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Speaker 3: I did the right Most people say that the correct

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Speaker 3: way is over the role.

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00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:04,400
Speaker 1: Over the role.

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Speaker 5: People go really crazy about this.

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Speaker 1: They're very passionate.

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Speaker 2: Yes, okay, so Tanya's are on the right way the

564
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:13,920
Speaker 2: two that I checked. She still has a bathroom downstairs

565
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Speaker 2: that I'm gonna examine. On the way out, I posted

566
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Speaker 2: that someone in my home who was hink put it

567
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Speaker 2: on with it coming under. It is more effort for you,

568
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:32,920
Speaker 2: as a user of the TP to have to go

569
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Speaker 2: under the role to grab it as opposed to it

570
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Speaker 2: coming over. So I posted like the disrespect, and so

571
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Speaker 2: many people were like, no, that's the right way that

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Speaker 2: it's supposed to be on.

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Speaker 3: My wife and I have gone back and forth about

574
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Speaker 3: this quite a bit. Over the past twenty three years.

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Speaker 3: She is strongly over, and I was raised with under

576
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Speaker 3: the role. I say that because I now acknowledge the

577
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Speaker 3: error of my ways. I raised the white flag of

578
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 3: surrender in this argument probably fifteen years ago, and we

579
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Speaker 3: are now a fully over family. And I put some

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Speaker 3: polls up on social media and it always comes back

581
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Speaker 3: overwhelmingly over. So I'm all in on the over. Kind

582
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Speaker 3: of like the under, but it's okay.

583
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 2: Oh you like the under.

584
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:19,960
Speaker 3: I do like the under, but it's all right. I'm

585
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:23,520
Speaker 3: not not passionately enough to have these discussions any further.

586
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 1: I have no passion on this topic. Same.

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Speaker 2: That's so interesting. Maybe it's because of Maybe it's because

588
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:33,800
Speaker 2: Phoebe like at one point when she was little, she

589
00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 2: used to be able to reach the toilet paper and

590
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 2: she and if it was going under, it was easy

591
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Speaker 2: because it would just naturally fall down that way and

592
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Speaker 2: she could get into it. So I do feel passionate

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Speaker 2: about about it, and a lot of other people are

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Speaker 2: very passionate about it. And the directions for toilet paper says.

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Speaker 1: Over like, I've never even I've literally taken my toilet

596
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Speaker 1: paper and I just put it on there. I don't

597
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Speaker 1: even think about it.

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Speaker 2: You got lucky because two years are right.

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Speaker 1: That's probably how they come in the role. That's probably

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Speaker 1: like I just literally take it out and go like this,

601
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Speaker 1: you know what I mean.

602
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 3: Like it doesn't come a certain ways.

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Speaker 2: You don't know all about how you take it out.

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00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:14,280
Speaker 3: Really, I bet Socrates has an opinion on this.

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00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:16,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, we can ask him.

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Speaker 2: That's a red star for scrubbing.

607
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 3: Sorry sorry, he's Socrates.

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Speaker 2: His radio nickname red Stars scrubbing.

609
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Speaker 3: At least they didn't call him by his actual name.

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Speaker 3: That would have been embarrassing.

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Speaker 1: Well, you know, actually not really embarrassing. So I have stocking.

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Speaker 1: Oh by the way, I have to tell you the

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Speaker 1: cutest thing ever. Hold on, I'm gona asking them really

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Speaker 1: past what is it? Are you over under?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? For toilet paper. Oh, by the way, while you're

616
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Speaker 3: typing that. I once interviewed a very famous celebrity when

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Speaker 3: I worked for the Rick D's radio show, and I

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Speaker 3: asked her, and it's funny. I asked her two different questions.

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Speaker 3: One she refused to answer because it was too personal.

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Speaker 3: I asked her whether she or her husband controlled with

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Speaker 3: the remote control at home, and she refused to answer

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Speaker 3: That when I but when I said over or on

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Speaker 3: her toilet paper, she said under, which was shocking to me.

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Speaker 3: And that celebrity is Jennifer Lopez. Wow, this is back

625
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 3: when she was married to Mark Anthony.

626
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Speaker 2: I was literally about to say, who was she married

627
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Speaker 2: to you at that time? I would imagine j Low

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Speaker 2: has control over the remote. I agree, get that energy.

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Speaker 3: I thought it was a good question, but she didn't

630
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Speaker 3: want any part of it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, wait, I had to tell you the cutest thing

632
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Speaker 1: because so I'm doing Honkah for the first time.

633
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Speaker 2: I was just gonna ask about this.

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Speaker 1: I I know, I'm actually a lot of people have

635
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Speaker 1: been dming me like about obviously I'm Christian, I celebrate

636
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:37,560
Speaker 1: Christmas and I've been posting a lot about Honkah, and

637
00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 1: so they're like, what you know, like how has that been,

638
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:43,120
Speaker 1: like what is it like? You know, just all those

639
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 1: all these questions like are you still going to celebrate Christmas?

640
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 1: And I was like, yes, of course, but Hankah's first,

641
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 1: so that's obviously what I'm doing now. But so on

642
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 1: Friday night, we did like a decorated my Christmas tree,

643
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:54,480
Speaker 1: so it was kind of like a it was the

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Speaker 1: we celebrated the first night. It was actually the second

645
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Speaker 1: night of Hankah, but we kind of just celebrated the

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Speaker 1: first night of Honkkah and like Christmas together Chris Macca

647
00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 1: Chrismica and so he made homemade latkas and and he goes, uh,

648
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Speaker 1: you might want to get something out of the stocking

649
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Speaker 1: that the stocking Santa left you because you might want

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Speaker 1: to use it tonight. And I was just like, you

651
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 1: don't know how, Like he doesn't know how stockings work

652
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 1: because he's never had a stocking before, do you know

653
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Speaker 1: what I mean. So, like he came over and he

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Speaker 1: puts some stuff in my stocking for the night. But

655
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Speaker 1: I was like, you don't really get your stocking until

656
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 1: Christmas Day, you know what I mean? Like Santa comes

657
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:30,560
Speaker 1: on Christmas even fills the stockings, and that's what you

658
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 1: do on Christmas Day. So he didn't know. So he

659
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 1: was like, you might want to get there's something that

660
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 1: you might want to there's something they want to use

661
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:38,960
Speaker 1: tonight in your stocking. And I was just like, bless

662
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 1: your heart, not how stockings work. You know, just get

663
00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:45,800
Speaker 1: to pull stuff out of your stocking throughout the month, Like.

664
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Speaker 2: Was it Laingerie something you'd want to.

665
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Speaker 1: Use to No, I know I thought it was and

666
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 1: I was like, and then second of all, you don't

667
00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 1: put like dirty things in the stocking. No, it was

668
00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:59,440
Speaker 1: like this really cute little like Santa like outfit that

669
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Speaker 1: you put on your wine bottle. It was like a

670
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:03,680
Speaker 1: cute little like koozy that you put on your like

671
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 1: a little Santa hat. Yeah, it was really cute. But

672
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Speaker 1: it's just funny because he's never celebrated Christmas, so he

673
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:12,400
Speaker 1: doesn't know, you know what I mean. Yeah, and like

674
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 1: I've never celebrated Honka, so I don't. I don't know either,

675
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 1: Like don't think about the shamash and how you know

676
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 1: he says the little prayer and you light the candles

677
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:22,080
Speaker 1: from right to left, and I didn't realize that, like

678
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 1: you have to put stuff under the manora because the

679
00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 1: wax falls down and gets all over your stuff.

680
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Speaker 2: Like yeah, it's all just learning. Yeah, it's really fun

681
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:32,160
Speaker 2: that y'all are doing that. So you get how many presents.

682
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Speaker 1: Do you get one to night, one to night for

683
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:34,000
Speaker 1: eight days?

684
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 2: Wow, it's really fun.

685
00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 1: It is. It's really fun, and like you have to

686
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 1: get creative because eight is like a lot. Yeah, it

687
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 1: is a lot, but it's it's nice. It's showing me

688
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:44,560
Speaker 1: how thoughtful he is.

689
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:47,720
Speaker 2: Cute. Yeah, what have you gotten so far?

690
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 1: There's he got me these little ornaments that are like

691
00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 1: a guy and a girl, and the guys he likes

692
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:56,240
Speaker 1: to ski, so the guy is a skier and the

693
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 1: girl as a tennis player. So that was cute every year,

694
00:33:59,880 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 1: like adding to my tree, you know, like cute little ornaments.

695
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 1: And then he got me this heart necklace.

696
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:09,880
Speaker 2: It's gorgeous. Yeah, diamond hart necklace.

697
00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:14,360
Speaker 1: It's really pretty and really pretty meaningful. And then these

698
00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:16,719
Speaker 1: little these like coffee table books that are all about

699
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:18,239
Speaker 1: like women in history.

700
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:20,440
Speaker 2: Like women empowerment, empowerment.

701
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:22,719
Speaker 1: History, like for my coffee table. So they're like really pretty.

702
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 2: And big for you. Yeah, great job, red Stars.

703
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, so far, so good.

704
00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 2: I'm actually my sisters and I are road tripping to

705
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 2: Louisiana for Christmas, which is twenty five hour road whow

706
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:42,719
Speaker 2: but my whole thought process drive the way. Yeah, Oh,

707
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:44,279
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm sure we could take turns, but.

708
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Speaker 1: You're not like staying in a motel or hotel or no.

709
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 2: We're gonna stop. We're gonna stop and find I'm just

710
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:52,200
Speaker 2: looking I'm like researching hotels that are like no contact,

711
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 2: you know, like where you just check in on the

712
00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:56,560
Speaker 2: I think a lot of them are like that now

713
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 2: I think, yeah, I think most of them are. But

714
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:01,799
Speaker 2: I just thought flying it's one thing for one of

715
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:03,840
Speaker 2: us to fly, but with three of us flying, and

716
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 2: especially not knowing what it's gonna be like right now,

717
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:09,719
Speaker 2: we were just like, let's just make a fun road trip.

718
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:11,799
Speaker 2: So we're just stopping in places I've always wanted to go,

719
00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:14,920
Speaker 2: but when it really go there unless I was driving

720
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:18,799
Speaker 2: through there. So I've done it once from Louisiana to

721
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:22,279
Speaker 2: LA and it was we just drove, like we just

722
00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:24,279
Speaker 2: drove as many hours in the day as we could.

723
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Speaker 1: It was a brutal I can't tell if that's fun

724
00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 1: or like horrible.

725
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:34,759
Speaker 6: We're really excited about it, okay, because because there's just

726
00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 6: not much going on here that I don't feel it's

727
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 6: like we kind of have our time.

728
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:42,480
Speaker 2: We can take our time and get there and feel like,

729
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:45,880
Speaker 2: you know, like we're quarantining here and like while in

730
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 2: LA and then just hitting the road. So I just

731
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Speaker 2: feel like it's the safest way to do it. Should

732
00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:51,920
Speaker 2: I do a road trip, I'll let you know how

733
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Speaker 2: it goes. And then on the way back, because we're

734
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Speaker 2: going to be coming back, I think we might take

735
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Speaker 2: a different route, even if it takes longer, see different

736
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:01,680
Speaker 2: things and see different things, so it would be fun.

737
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:04,920
Speaker 2: I might drop drop the car off and have it

738
00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:07,600
Speaker 2: like shipped back or something. If it's like brutal, but

739
00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:08,479
Speaker 2: it needs to me fun.

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Speaker 1: That's kind of fun. I actually like that because I

741
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:17,200
Speaker 1: think we I'm gonna take some vacation, even though I'm

742
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:21,239
Speaker 1: not going on vacation. I'm taking vacation from work and

743
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:24,839
Speaker 1: I haven't gone anywhere, but a road trip sounds kind

744
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:28,560
Speaker 1: of not very far. I don't think I could do

745
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 1: twenty five hours.

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, it's pretty ambitious, and Texas is going

747
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:34,600
Speaker 2: to feel like it's never ending.

748
00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 3: I feel like, yeah, I've driven across the country quite

749
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 3: a bit, and I do enjoy it. I do enjoy

750
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 3: the time, and I enjoy seeing the world. And I

751
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:43,000
Speaker 3: would love to show my kids more of the country

752
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:44,839
Speaker 3: than they've seen. But we'll see.

753
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 1: Because a lot of people have been doing that, like

754
00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 1: renting rbs, just like going.

755
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 2: On I mean, yeah, now is the time to do it.

756
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 2: If you're gonna do it, I feel like, so, yeah,

757
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:58,760
Speaker 2: I'm excited about that. And I was, you know, debating

758
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:00,879
Speaker 2: on if I was gonna go home for Christmas because

759
00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 2: I stayed here for Thanksgiving, and I just, you know,

760
00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:05,920
Speaker 2: I'm trying. I'm trying to do my part, but I

761
00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:08,200
Speaker 2: want to see my family. So we're we're we're doing

762
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:08,799
Speaker 2: what we're doing.

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00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:11,399
Speaker 1: I like, I love that.

764
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Speaker 2: Anyways, we didn't have emails last week, but y'all wrote

765
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 2: in today needing some advice, so we're gonna help you out.

766
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:24,680
Speaker 2: I also would like to say sometimes I think about

767
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:27,880
Speaker 2: the conversations Tanya and I have with our significant others,

768
00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:30,680
Speaker 2: like if we're struggling or we're fighting, and like the

769
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 2: things that our relationships struggle in, and I think, what if,

770
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 2: like people wrote in about these things, what are advice

771
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:42,840
Speaker 2: to myself? Yeah, and too, And I would just like

772
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:46,360
Speaker 2: to preface these emails with saying, I know it's different

773
00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:49,440
Speaker 2: when you're in the relationship because there's certain things where

774
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 2: I think we reach out to each other and talk

775
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:55,520
Speaker 2: about things and always wonder what if someone wrote in

776
00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:57,319
Speaker 2: about these things, we'd be like, you need to get

777
00:37:57,400 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 2: out of that relationship and we'd like be so dry

778
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:02,560
Speaker 2: in it. But I just want you all to know

779
00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:05,479
Speaker 2: that we are aware that it's easier to say things

780
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 2: from the outside looking in.

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00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:12,600
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, and Becca is right because there there

782
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:15,360
Speaker 1: are multiple times I would literally I look at myself

783
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:17,359
Speaker 1: and I'm like, what would I what would I tell

784
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:20,799
Speaker 1: myself if I was writing in or something like that.

785
00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, and the and the advice changes.

786
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:28,359
Speaker 1: But with that being said, I do think that sometimes

787
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:32,480
Speaker 1: it's important to hear those things and then you digest them.

788
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:35,360
Speaker 1: I agree, you sit with them and you reflect and

789
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:38,440
Speaker 1: you really just kind of sit with it. That's what

790
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:39,080
Speaker 1: I'm learning.

791
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think that's kind of what when we

792
00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:43,280
Speaker 2: give advice on this stuff. It is for you to

793
00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:47,520
Speaker 2: think about a different perspective. Yeah, and maybe it just

794
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:49,320
Speaker 2: sits in the back of your head. And if things

795
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 2: continue to get worse so they don't get better, you

796
00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:57,239
Speaker 2: have those words, you know, of advice to lean on. Yeah,

797
00:38:57,719 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 2: but love is complicated. Relationships are complicated.

798
00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:04,759
Speaker 6: Especially in a pandemic, and there's not always just a

799
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:06,280
Speaker 6: white or black answer.

800
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 2: So anyways, let's get started.

801
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 3: Mark, I can't wait to get started, But first you

802
00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:16,000
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804
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Speaker 3: we should tease the mini episode this week. Tanya.

805
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 1: I'm so stoked. I know you are, because not only

806
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Speaker 1: am I stoked about this, but they're actually now a

807
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Speaker 1: sponsor of the podcast Your Work. Yeah, we have Lauren

808
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Speaker 1: Shulti Wong on the podcast. She is the founder and

809
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:55,799
Speaker 1: I believe creator of the flex, which is one of

810
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:58,759
Speaker 1: the menstrual cups. So she's gonna come on and kind

811
00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:02,439
Speaker 1: of I want to talk about the journey of why

812
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,280
Speaker 1: she came, how does she come up with this idea,

813
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 1: from like inception to creation to being on the shelves,

814
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 1: how long that process took, and then I want to

815
00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:13,000
Speaker 1: also talk about like how hard it was for her

816
00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:14,480
Speaker 1: to kind of get it off the ground, because I

817
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 1: still think even now people are a little bit like

818
00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:19,640
Speaker 1: squeamish about a menstrual cup. So I don't even know

819
00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:21,320
Speaker 1: when that she started this, but I feel like probably

820
00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:22,200
Speaker 1: back then people.

821
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:24,240
Speaker 2: Were like, oh yeah, even more so, even more so.

822
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:27,000
Speaker 1: And it's such like a man's world, you know. Investors, Yeah,

823
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:30,440
Speaker 1: it's really hard for females to get investment, especially in

824
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 1: things like that.

825
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Speaker 3: So we're gonna hear from her fantastic that's going to

826
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Speaker 3: be out on Thursday. All right emails. This is from Brittany.

827
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Speaker 3: How do you guys feel about your significant other looking

828
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:44,840
Speaker 3: at provocative photos of other women or men porn, Instagram

829
00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:47,600
Speaker 3: websites that have these types of photos. Does it make

830
00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:50,840
Speaker 3: you feel insecure? My boyfriend says, every guy does it,

831
00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 3: and any guy who says he doesn't do it is lying.

832
00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:55,400
Speaker 6: So I know.

833
00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 1: I just got a response about the toilet paper for

834
00:40:57,320 --> 00:40:59,920
Speaker 1: it red start. He said, there is no such thing

835
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,120
Speaker 1: as an under toilet paper person, only over or wrong

836
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 1: strong right star.

837
00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 2: It's like we just get each other. Wow, that feels

838
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:16,839
Speaker 2: validating because Tony saw like looking at me with the

839
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:20,279
Speaker 2: most like the same look that she looked at me

840
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:22,480
Speaker 2: while I was talking to the side the dog interpreted,

841
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:27,160
Speaker 2: interpreted whatever psychic the dog communicator the same look of

842
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 2: just like you, idiot. So I feel validated.

843
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:33,400
Speaker 1: He's never mentioned it to me before.

844
00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:35,880
Speaker 3: You know, it's possible that you put him on the

845
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:37,480
Speaker 3: wrong way and he fixed them and you didn't even

846
00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 3: realize it.

847
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:40,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do that to people stile a paper if

848
00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:41,320
Speaker 2: I go somewhere.

849
00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 1: Very true.

850
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:44,800
Speaker 3: So that's kind of a funny thing. So the Midia episodes,

851
00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:46,160
Speaker 3: we said, what do you guys want to do? And

852
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:48,440
Speaker 3: Beca said, I want to talk to my dog for

853
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 3: you a psychic and Tanya said, I got to talk

854
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:56,480
Speaker 3: about my menstrual cup and well, yeah, just announced sometime

855
00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:59,279
Speaker 3: before the end of the year, we're doing a market

856
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 3: Easton show. Yes, or it's gonna be the Boys Takeover

857
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 3: Takeover for a mini episode, and then.

858
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 1: One another mini episode is going to be our Highs

859
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:14,560
Speaker 1: and Lows of the Year O fun like you know,

860
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:19,040
Speaker 1: and we're gonna drink for that, yeah we are. Yeah,

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00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:22,120
Speaker 1: So during the we'll do the lows first and have

862
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 1: a little sippy sip after each low, and then we'll

863
00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:27,120
Speaker 1: get high and then and then we'll dream. Yeah, and

864
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:29,799
Speaker 1: then we'll dream for twenty twenty one and it'll be fun.

865
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Speaker 3: All right. I just read you an email. What do

866
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Speaker 3: you want to say to Brittany?

867
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:38,160
Speaker 2: Oh, Brittany, this is what I have to say. I

868
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Speaker 2: I don't like it. I I would like to think

869
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:46,680
Speaker 2: that not every guy and every girl or whatever looks

870
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 2: looks at pornographic or provocative or sorry, provocative photos of

871
00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:57,040
Speaker 2: other women or men. But I could just be totally

872
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:57,919
Speaker 2: naive and wrong.

873
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:01,439
Speaker 1: I mean, we have two men here.

874
00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, we could turn the tables over

875
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 2: to the to the men that we have in the room.

876
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 1: Do most men want to do these things?

877
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:13,120
Speaker 3: Uh? Yes, and all men have done these things. But

878
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:15,440
Speaker 3: I think every relationship is different, and you have to

879
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 3: establish your parameters of what you're comfortable with. And if

880
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:20,560
Speaker 3: he knows that you're not comfortable with this and he

881
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:22,880
Speaker 3: keeps doing that, that's a red flag. We're not telling

882
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 3: you you got to go or whatever. You know, you

883
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:27,319
Speaker 3: kind of you know, we're not the ones that tell

884
00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:29,520
Speaker 3: you to end your relationship, but I do think it's

885
00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 3: a bad sign if he keeps doing it after he

886
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:32,880
Speaker 3: knows it bothers you.

887
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:37,200
Speaker 2: I have a friend that I was talking to the

888
00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 2: other day and she was saying that she's kind of

889
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:43,040
Speaker 2: seeing a guy and it's a complicated. They're not officially together,

890
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:45,800
Speaker 2: but you know, they're seeing each other and they're sleeping together.

891
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:48,359
Speaker 2: And she said that she woke up and he had

892
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:51,080
Speaker 2: on his photo it was like an advent calendar, but

893
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:55,839
Speaker 2: it was a like like a ten second like or

894
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:57,840
Speaker 2: like a girl like taking off her you know, just

895
00:43:57,880 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 2: something like that. And she was like, what are I'm

896
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 2: literally in bed next to you, like what are you

897
00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 2: doing and he was like, oh, it's just so you

898
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:08,359
Speaker 2: know something my friend sent me. It's just like ten

899
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:11,120
Speaker 2: seconds everydow. Oh no. And she was like, well, if

900
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:15,520
Speaker 2: we're like together, sleeping together, I'll send you photos, but like,

901
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:18,239
Speaker 2: don't do that, and especially don't do it right in front.

902
00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:20,279
Speaker 2: Or she said something like if you want those kind

903
00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:22,080
Speaker 2: of photos, I'll send them to you if you'll stop

904
00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:24,080
Speaker 2: looking at that. And he was like okay, and I

905
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:26,319
Speaker 2: was like, he's not gonna stop looking at that, so

906
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:28,200
Speaker 2: now he's gonna get a photo of you or a

907
00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:29,239
Speaker 2: video of you and that.

908
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:32,279
Speaker 1: Here's my take on it. I've never been one to

909
00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:36,480
Speaker 1: like if they're gonna watch porn. I do feel like

910
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:39,440
Speaker 1: there's this thing with like dudes and they just like

911
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 1: watch there like they steal their dad's playboys or back

912
00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:43,160
Speaker 1: in the day, you know what I mean, Like there's

913
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:46,520
Speaker 1: this weird thing. I don't get it because I don't

914
00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:49,080
Speaker 1: enjoy porn myself, so it's like it's hard for me

915
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:55,439
Speaker 1: to grasp that. I don't judge it. I have never

916
00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:58,120
Speaker 1: found porn on Red Stars anything, and I think I

917
00:44:58,160 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 1: would be her if I did. But I wouldn't be

918
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 1: It wouldn't. I wouldn't. It wouldn't be like a break

919
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:08,520
Speaker 1: deal breaker for me. However, if it was like one

920
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:11,239
Speaker 1: of those sites where they like do it and you

921
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:13,439
Speaker 1: tell them like you're talking to them, I would have

922
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:15,800
Speaker 1: a major problem with that, like with the three D

923
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:20,600
Speaker 1: or like the combos, but like watching a video, I

924
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:24,799
Speaker 1: feel like wouldn't bother me as much. But I don't know.

925
00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:25,839
Speaker 1: I don't know.

926
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:27,879
Speaker 2: I wouldn't like it, and I think you have every

927
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:30,920
Speaker 2: right not to like it. So if you're uncomfortable with it,

928
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:34,279
Speaker 2: like Mark said, I think you establish that you're uncomfortable

929
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 2: with it. And if he continues to do it and

930
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 2: can't stop looking at photos of other girls or guys

931
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 2: or whatever he's doing, then that's something to think about

932
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:46,960
Speaker 2: because I could be wrong, but it doesn't If if someone,

933
00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:50,680
Speaker 2: if the person I'm in a relationship with, said I'm

934
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 2: uncomfortable with you doing that. It hurts me. It makes

935
00:45:53,719 --> 00:45:57,040
Speaker 2: me feel jealous and insecure, I would take that and think,

936
00:45:57,440 --> 00:46:00,640
Speaker 2: all right, that's not something. These photos that aren't even

937
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 2: like a real life aren't worth me losing my relationship over.

938
00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:04,320
Speaker 1: Yeah.

939
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 3: Next one, this is from Jessica. My boyfriend and I

940
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:10,080
Speaker 3: have been together two and a half years. It's not

941
00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:11,920
Speaker 3: been a perfect fairy tale, to say the least. This

942
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:14,759
Speaker 3: week I find out he cheated early in our relationship,

943
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:18,279
Speaker 3: sometime within the first year of dating. He refused to

944
00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:21,279
Speaker 3: tell me if it was once more than once, what

945
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:24,680
Speaker 3: he did and what happened. He swears that for the

946
00:46:24,719 --> 00:46:28,240
Speaker 3: past year since we started living together, he's been totally faithful.

947
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 3: Where do we go from here?

948
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:34,480
Speaker 1: This is a hard no for me.

949
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:35,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean too, I didn't know what you were

950
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 2: gonna say. Yeah that I would say it out he

951
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:45,120
Speaker 2: if he can't even just acknowledge how many times it happened,

952
00:46:45,160 --> 00:46:47,239
Speaker 2: and he won't even share that information with you. There's

953
00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:48,719
Speaker 2: other stuff he's not sharing with you.

954
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:51,800
Speaker 1: I'm not a big like once a cheater, always a

955
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:54,560
Speaker 1: cheater type gal like. I don't really believe in that.

956
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:56,560
Speaker 1: I do think. I believe in grace and I believe

957
00:46:56,560 --> 00:47:02,000
Speaker 1: in forgiveness. However, I do believe if you cheat, there

958
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 1: is a huge character flaw in you. Somewhere, there's some

959
00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:13,759
Speaker 1: character something that's not right that would I couldn't get

960
00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:15,400
Speaker 1: past that part, do you know what I mean? Like,

961
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:17,400
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be necessarily be worried that he was going

962
00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:20,879
Speaker 1: to cheat on me again. But I would have such

963
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 1: an issue with that character flaw because to me, cheating

964
00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:25,959
Speaker 1: is just like the ultimate disrespect.

965
00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:32,400
Speaker 2: Yeah. I just don't see you being able to trust

966
00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:32,879
Speaker 2: him again.

967
00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 1: Yeah I was once or twice or ten times.

968
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just see you being in this limbo of

969
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:40,520
Speaker 2: always wondering where he is, who he's talking to, no

970
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:41,520
Speaker 2: matter where he goes.

971
00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:42,759
Speaker 1: And here's Mike, what was her name?

972
00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:44,320
Speaker 3: Her name is Jessica, Jessica.

973
00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:48,959
Speaker 1: Here's my question too, And really think about this. What

974
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:54,880
Speaker 1: is what is stopping you from not being with this guy?

975
00:47:57,480 --> 00:48:02,040
Speaker 1: That's see, that's not the reason to stay. It's fear.

976
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:03,759
Speaker 1: A lot of things, a lot We don't do a

977
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:05,799
Speaker 1: lot of things because of fear, fear that we won't

978
00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:08,760
Speaker 1: find somebody else, fear of starting over again, fear of

979
00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 1: whatever fill in the blank. And I think that's what

980
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:14,279
Speaker 1: stops us from doing the thing that we feel like

981
00:48:14,280 --> 00:48:15,520
Speaker 1: in our gut is what we should do.

982
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 5: The relationship can be rebuilt, but it's just going to

983
00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:23,799
Speaker 5: take so much work. And you know, we all love

984
00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:27,440
Speaker 5: Jana Kramer and Michael Costin, but they've made the relationship

985
00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:30,040
Speaker 5: work but oh boy, I don't think I've ever spoken

986
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:33,239
Speaker 5: to them where they weren't going to therapy after whatever

987
00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:36,239
Speaker 5: we were doing. Like they're in individual therapy, they're in

988
00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:39,960
Speaker 5: couples therapy. It takes so much work from both people

989
00:48:40,360 --> 00:48:43,560
Speaker 5: to come back from something like that, and it is possible.

990
00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:45,680
Speaker 5: But you just got to think, like, am I willing

991
00:48:45,960 --> 00:48:49,400
Speaker 5: to have my relationship change this much? That's something I

992
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 5: thank you?

993
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:53,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree. It's almost like and Mike and Jana

994
00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 2: were married with a child and so there I think

995
00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 2: a lot of that came from a lot of that

996
00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:00,879
Speaker 2: came from let's try and make that working. I mean,

997
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 2: they're so open and honest about how hard it is.

998
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 2: So you're in a relationship you don't have the commitment

999
00:49:06,239 --> 00:49:09,200
Speaker 2: of marriage or a child together. Is this the person

1000
00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:12,560
Speaker 2: that you really see as your future? Like, is everything

1001
00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:17,200
Speaker 2: else just so great that the cheating, the working through

1002
00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:19,000
Speaker 2: the cheating feels worth it right now?

1003
00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:24,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's a lot. It's true though, everything just fear, fear.

1004
00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:27,080
Speaker 2: Tony is still going.

1005
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:29,680
Speaker 1: That's what I'm realizing, is just fear.

1006
00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:32,720
Speaker 3: Is there a quote like everything you want in life

1007
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:34,000
Speaker 3: is on the other side of fear.

1008
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:39,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's like everything at its core, every decision

1009
00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:44,760
Speaker 1: that we make is rooted somewhere in fear. It's true.

1010
00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:49,320
Speaker 1: I had a light bulb moment therapy last week. Yeah,

1011
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:57,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna yeah, you just wait what Taylor Swift on

1012
00:49:57,239 --> 00:50:01,279
Speaker 1: them When I come back in twenty twenty one, I'm

1013
00:50:01,280 --> 00:50:03,480
Speaker 1: going a cocoon for a week. I'm gonna like just

1014
00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:05,719
Speaker 1: go off the grid and just like write in my

1015
00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:11,640
Speaker 1: journals and like do my vision board and I'm gonna

1016
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:14,640
Speaker 1: come in hot like a Taylor Swift album and just

1017
00:50:14,680 --> 00:50:16,880
Speaker 1: with the measter eggs. You're gonna be like, what.

1018
00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:20,840
Speaker 2: Oh good. I feel like every vision board you've done

1019
00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:27,200
Speaker 2: has these stregs. Accidentally iv on guard mm hmm. You

1020
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:31,279
Speaker 2: love saying avan Guard. It's like it's like one of

1021
00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 2: those things that you just throw in and even if

1022
00:50:33,560 --> 00:50:35,480
Speaker 2: it's kind of like questionable.

1023
00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:36,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, it just makes me sound chic. I feel.

1024
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:44,400
Speaker 2: Well. On that note, it's time for us to say goodbye.

1025
00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:46,560
Speaker 1: And it's nighttime. Do you want to go look at

1026
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:48,200
Speaker 1: at Christmas lights into Luca Lake.

1027
00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:50,759
Speaker 2: I can't tonight, but I would be down another night

1028
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:55,400
Speaker 2: this week. Sorry, I was shut down live on the podcast.

1029
00:50:56,160 --> 00:50:57,399
Speaker 1: Story of My Life.

1030
00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:03,880
Speaker 2: Oh God, eye roll We love you guys. Have a

1031
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:12,640
Speaker 2: great week. Be safe, be kind, be awesome, and fearless.

1032
00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:19,920
Speaker 2: Be fearless, and be the clean of your life and

1033
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:20,680
Speaker 2: the king.

1034
00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 1: Of your life and the infinity pool.

1035
00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:26,160
Speaker 2: And be in an infinity pool that Tawny wants to

1036
00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:31,759
Speaker 2: swim in forever forever. And just know that even if

1037
00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:36,959
Speaker 2: winter isn't your favorite season, it is the best time

1038
00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:41,839
Speaker 2: of the year. Correct Always know that, Always remember, never

1039
00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:45,000
Speaker 2: forget it, and never forget it. How to play the guitar,

1040
00:51:45,640 --> 00:51:49,160
Speaker 2: Oh no, because that wouldn't mean that vocals would happen,

1041
00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:51,000
Speaker 2: and that is not something we need.

1042
00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:53,000
Speaker 1: I think I could do it.

1043
00:51:53,600 --> 00:51:58,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I think no, it's it hurts. It's

1044
00:51:58,160 --> 00:51:58,879
Speaker 2: not easy at all.

1045
00:51:59,000 --> 00:51:59,319
Speaker 1: It's not.

1046
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:02,960
Speaker 2: But I love that you see other people people do it,

1047
00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:04,719
Speaker 2: who have been doing it for years, and you're like, well,

1048
00:52:04,760 --> 00:52:06,600
Speaker 2: that look's easy. I'll do that.

1049
00:52:06,640 --> 00:52:08,360
Speaker 1: I'm looking for something to do on my vacation.

1050
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:12,520
Speaker 2: You should maybe like knit or something that seems more

1051
00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:13,080
Speaker 2: your speed.

1052
00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:15,200
Speaker 1: Nit, when did I what do I want to be

1053
00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:16,840
Speaker 1: a ninety year old lady for?

1054
00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:20,520
Speaker 2: What do you see the things people are able to create? Okay,

1055
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 2: young people, relax, judge, I got my sister a sewing machine,

1056
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:33,040
Speaker 2: just personally Christmas gift for somebody. She's like, no, knitting cool. Well,

1057
00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 2: I do think knitting's cool. But my sister's gonna learn

1058
00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:40,160
Speaker 2: to sew. And when I have some homemade clothing items.

1059
00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 5: And it's very cool, let me tell you it's very well.

1060
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:46,600
Speaker 2: I agree. I think it's a really cool. Uh what's

1061
00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 2: the talent? Like? I really do think it is cool.

1062
00:52:48,680 --> 00:52:50,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I just think it's like, it's cooler if

1063
00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:53,400
Speaker 1: I'm sitting on my couch with a guitar instead of

1064
00:52:53,440 --> 00:52:54,520
Speaker 1: like a crocheeny.

1065
00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 2: But are you singing? Because it's not cool?

1066
00:52:56,760 --> 00:52:58,600
Speaker 1: You know I'm singing.

1067
00:52:58,440 --> 00:53:01,319
Speaker 2: You're like you. I love that you sing and don't care,

1068
00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:04,359
Speaker 2: but you're quite like tone deaf.

1069
00:53:05,680 --> 00:53:08,280
Speaker 3: Yeah that's an issue, your tone deafinis. But then go ahead,

1070
00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:10,719
Speaker 3: go for it. You got two weeks on the show

1071
00:53:10,760 --> 00:53:13,080
Speaker 3: on January fourth. Play us a song, Play us what

1072
00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:13,560
Speaker 3: you've learned?

1073
00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 2: Yeah there you no?

1074
00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:16,760
Speaker 1: I actually you get a guitar?

1075
00:53:17,120 --> 00:53:23,680
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, maybe you're on a used one toy one.

1076
00:53:24,040 --> 00:53:29,920
Speaker 6: Okay, then how do I learn what it is?

1077
00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:31,960
Speaker 1: YouTube? It you think?

1078
00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:32,200
Speaker 6: You know?

1079
00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:34,440
Speaker 3: I actually taught myself some chords on YouTube, so you

1080
00:53:34,440 --> 00:53:35,720
Speaker 3: could do that. Just some basics.

1081
00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:39,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Well, on that note, if there was ever

1082
00:53:39,560 --> 00:53:43,799
Speaker 2: a teaser for the New Year, there it is. We

1083
00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:48,279
Speaker 2: love you guys, stream evermore and we'll be back for

1084
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:51,040
Speaker 2: mini episode on Thursday, so check it out.

1085
00:53:51,320 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 3: Bye.