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Speaker 1: your favorite store. Second date update. We've never done this before.
Speaker 1: A guy named Nick reached out to us for a
Speaker 1: second date update. The strange part is he says he's
Speaker 1: never even went out on a date with this girl
Speaker 1: to begin with, so it's we would need a first
Speaker 1: date update. Then, Yeah, Nick, I'm hoping you've at least
Speaker 1: talked to this woman and it's not your neighbor that
Speaker 1: you're looking at through your telescope right now? Nick? Is it?
Speaker 1: I hear heavy breathing? I am here, I'm here. I
Speaker 1: was just laughing. Okay, sound like you're doing more than laughing. No,
Speaker 1: there's no telescopes involved, that promise you. Okay? Is the
Speaker 1: woman real? Does she have a name? Does she exist? Yes,
Speaker 1: her name is Whitney, and she exists, and she's in
Speaker 1: my and Whitney sounds like a made up name. Yea, guys,
Speaker 1: how do you know she's amazing. If you've never gone
Speaker 1: out with her, we've never met in person, but we
Speaker 1: have met and communicated at online. Okay, there's a lot
Speaker 1: of people I use that in air quotes online that
Speaker 1: aren't real in real life. Right, No, I know she exists,
Speaker 1: like we have facetimes. We've had extensive communication online where
Speaker 1: we've actually seen each other. Good. So why aren't you
Speaker 1: going on a date with her? Well, because she lives
Speaker 1: in a different state. We didn't tell us. That's very
Speaker 1: important information at the beginning. Maybe lead off with that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I really, honestly, guys, I really felt like
Speaker 1: I was falling in love with this girl. Okay, whoa,
Speaker 1: you've fallen in love with this girl? You haven't even
Speaker 1: seen her face? I mean, I mean, you know, we've FaceTime.
Speaker 1: I was so connected with this woman, Like we have
Speaker 1: very similar like families. We have we both have sisters,
Speaker 1: we both have similar holiday things that we do, like
Speaker 1: hold on, I heard that she has a sister, he
Speaker 1: has a sister. Sounds like they connected. That's love right there.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay, you're you know what you're having?
Speaker 1: Anything to do it? Get the marriage documents ready, you guys?
Speaker 1: Both have sisters. I think I think that it's romantic
Speaker 1: and that it's refreshing that you were connected to a
Speaker 1: woman on a much bigger level than just a physical
Speaker 1: five G level. I was planning on flying her out
Speaker 1: or flying out to see her, that was the next step.
Speaker 1: But things just haven't been the same for a bit,
Speaker 1: so things aren't really working out the way the way
Speaker 1: I had wanted. So that's why I contacted you guys.
Speaker 1: All right, So this would normally be the time where
Speaker 1: I would ask you about the date that you took
Speaker 1: her on, but you haven't done that. So yeah, I
Speaker 1: feel like we have. Because it started out that we
Speaker 1: would talk like times a day, just like little things
Speaker 1: here and there, check in, and then it got to
Speaker 1: the point where we would be communicating for like hours
Speaker 1: every night. Wow, that's intense. Yeah, I know. And it
Speaker 1: was going so well. We would talk constantly and it
Speaker 1: was great like that for about like three weeks, I
Speaker 1: would say, and then she started not responding as quickly. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and then she wasn't like we weren't talking every night.
Speaker 1: There must be something that you have done during these
Speaker 1: conversations that has turned her off. The last photo I
Speaker 1: sent her I took a photo of my breakfast and
Speaker 1: it was like two heart shaped pancakes that I made,
Speaker 1: and then I and I kind of spelled out like
Speaker 1: I love you and bacon. And I know that's corny,
Speaker 1: but it's also like sweet, and that's how I feel it.
Speaker 1: I mean, it seems like a lot to drop the
Speaker 1: L word and never seeing each other in person. I mean,
Speaker 1: I spelled it in bacon. Okay, you're spelling out the
Speaker 1: word love and bacon to this girl already. That's what
Speaker 1: he's doing. He's testing the waters to see if what
Speaker 1: was her response to that? I mean, not much good?
Speaker 1: I know, And I haven't really heard from her in
Speaker 1: about the last forty eight hours, which is rare because
Speaker 1: ever since we started communicating, we've never gone for any
Speaker 1: that was without at least checking in. So how do
Speaker 1: you want us to help? Because she obviously doesn't listen
Speaker 1: to our show. Um, I don't know. How can we
Speaker 1: get her? How can how can I get her to
Speaker 1: listen to me? How can we get her get her
Speaker 1: on the show? Is what I'm thinking? Okay, or find
Speaker 1: out if you did something wrong or he's just scared.
Speaker 1: It sounds like he's just coming out a little too strong,
Speaker 1: but you were both feeling it the chemistry at one point,
Speaker 1: so that's great. Well. Also, oh, I forgot to tell
Speaker 1: you this as well. Um, she she did mention she
Speaker 1: had this friend that was kind of hesitant about our relationship.
Speaker 1: And I don't know if that has something to do
Speaker 1: with it, like her friend is like jealous or just
Speaker 1: doesn't trust me because of the whole online thing, or
Speaker 1: maybe she's found something, like met somebody else. I don't know.
Speaker 1: My mind is just kind of racing well about the
Speaker 1: whole thing, and I was hoping you could help me
Speaker 1: in some somehow. All Right, we'll just calm down about
Speaker 1: it a little bit, maybe pop a valium because you're
Speaker 1: getting a little bit excited talking about her. I am
Speaker 1: amped up because you know, I care a lot about
Speaker 1: this girl, and if there's any chance that you can
Speaker 1: help me out communicate with her, I would just really
Speaker 1: appreciate it, because you know, I just don't know what
Speaker 1: else to do, honestly. All Right, I guess we'll do it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess we're doing it. The whole point of this, Jeffrey,
Speaker 1: why do you hate love so much all of a sudden?
Speaker 1: What is your problem? This is just different. This guy's
Speaker 1: never even been on a date with her. But you
Speaker 1: know what, this isn't the first century, Jeffrey. Okay, it's
Speaker 1: a different way that people fall in love. Just catch up, man,
Speaker 1: And the fact that they call each other every day
Speaker 1: in this day and age, that's crazy. That's more than
Speaker 1: most people than you are just via an internet scream. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, well, we know what. Maybe we're gonna prove
Speaker 1: me wrong. We're gonna play a song. We'll come back
Speaker 1: and we'll give Whitney a call and see if we
Speaker 1: can get you a second date up date. Okay, Nick,
Speaker 1: thank you. Guys. Just hold on, we haven't gotten you
Speaker 1: the date yet. We're just making a call. Okay, that's
Speaker 1: the energy I want. We'll be back after this second
Speaker 1: up date. How do you know when you're really in love?
Speaker 1: Is it when you memorize that person's favorite coffee order?
Speaker 1: For sure? That's pretty good sign. Is it when you
Speaker 1: include them in your Facebook profile picture? Yo? That's official?
Speaker 1: Is it when you can confidently leave the door open
Speaker 1: while taking a number two in their apartment? That's just
Speaker 1: a long time in marriage. I don't know if that's
Speaker 1: a long something. I think The real sign of true
Speaker 1: love is when you can spell out that person's name
Speaker 1: and breakfast sausage. Oh man, it's always about the meats,
Speaker 1: and then send a photo of that in a text message.
Speaker 1: Because that's what our listener Nick did for a girl
Speaker 1: named Whitney, even though they've never gone out on a
Speaker 1: real date or seen each other in person. They live
Speaker 1: in different states, but they've been chatting on the phone
Speaker 1: and over Skype for hours on end, but lately she's
Speaker 1: become tough to reach. Yeah, and Nicoll admit I was
Speaker 1: skeptical when we were talking before, but during the song break,
Speaker 1: I thought about it, chugged a ton of ni quill,
Speaker 1: and I definitely feel different. That's it. Yeah, I love that.
Speaker 1: Thank you for the court You're welcome you guys. I
Speaker 1: believe you. Nick. I think that love can totally happen
Speaker 1: that way. Do you. But do you regret sending that
Speaker 1: picture because it does seem like that was the moment
Speaker 1: things shifted. Yeah. I think I would have had to
Speaker 1: do it again. It would have been a little different,
Speaker 1: But I mean, it's just bacon. It's not like you're
Speaker 1: actually dropping the elbomb. Now. I think bacon is the
Speaker 1: highest form of of romance right above diamond rings. So
Speaker 1: you can't go anywhere but down from here. I agree.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, let's get your bacon lover on the
Speaker 1: phone and we'll see if you can get you a
Speaker 1: second date update. Okay, all right, I'm nervous. All right,
Speaker 1: I'm going the dollar phone number right now here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Whitney please? This is her. Hi, Whitney.
Speaker 1: My name's young Jeffrey. I work for the radio. What
Speaker 1: is it about? This is about you? Oh my god? Okay, sorry, no,
Speaker 1: you didn't win. Well, maybe you want something in a way. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you've probably never heard our show, Whitney. We're in a
Speaker 1: different city than you, different state. Actually, so why are
Speaker 1: you calling you that? We're calling you because we do
Speaker 1: something on our show called a second date update. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm guessing you don't know what that is. But basically,
Speaker 1: when one of our listeners needs help figuring out why
Speaker 1: they're not getting a call after a date, we're willing
Speaker 1: to do that for them. And we're calling on behalf
Speaker 1: of a guy named Nick. Do you remember going out
Speaker 1: with Nick? But they never really went out? That's right.
Speaker 1: This is so different than what we normally do. I've
Speaker 1: totally screwed this up. So you've been chatting recently with
Speaker 1: someone named Nick and he feels like you guys have
Speaker 1: been on quite a few dates because of how much
Speaker 1: time you've spent online together. All right, what did you
Speaker 1: say about me? He said, he loves you. No, No,
Speaker 1: he didn't say it like that. Down he said a
Speaker 1: picture to you and bacon. He thought everything was going well.
Speaker 1: He felt like he's never connected to somebody like he
Speaker 1: connects with you, and he was really excited. I did
Speaker 1: about it, and now you're not calling him back after
Speaker 1: he sent one simple picture of I love you, spelled
Speaker 1: out in bacon, and he's wondering if he freaked you out. Well,
Speaker 1: to be honest, the bacon message, who has definitely a
Speaker 1: little overwhelming Okay that you know I was falling for
Speaker 1: him to so you were on board. How come you
Speaker 1: didn't bacon text him back? Then? Well, I talked to
Speaker 1: my friend and UM, my friend's always someone that you
Speaker 1: know gives me really good advice, and so I a
Speaker 1: pull back from that. I'm not Yeah, who is this
Speaker 1: friend's a guy or girlfriend? Um, exactly like my very
Speaker 1: practiced stuffed animal that I've had for a long time,
Speaker 1: and it's like my inert self. I tell me, you know,
Speaker 1: being they're okay or not? Wait? What are you joking?
Speaker 1: Right now? You want to talk to her? Wait? Wait Whitney,
Speaker 1: Whitney are you joking? Oh? It's kind of like how
Speaker 1: mister Rogers does it? You know mister Rogers does it? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you don't remember having the Little Puppets. You have a
Speaker 1: puppet friend that's telling you not to day a guy.
Speaker 1: Yeah it's Sparkle. I've had her room. He put Sparkles
Speaker 1: on the phone. We'd love to chat with her. Hi,
Speaker 1: this is Sparkle. Sparkles. Hello, Oh my god, I don't know.
Speaker 1: But Sparkles, Wait, why don't you like Nick? Because he
Speaker 1: might not like me. He might throw me away and
Speaker 1: I never see Whitney ever again. Okay, this is yeah, Sparkles.
Speaker 1: You do realize that Whitney deserves to be loved and
Speaker 1: that Whitney won't let you be thrown away? Right? I might.
Speaker 1: I'm doing this. If he likes sweet me, he has
Speaker 1: to keep me too. Hey, Sparkles, have you ever met
Speaker 1: Nick before? It? Does Nick know about you? I don't
Speaker 1: think Nick knows about me? If he knows about me,
Speaker 1: he might throw me away. Okay, so weird. I think
Speaker 1: we need Whitney back on the phone. Yeah, let's talk
Speaker 1: to Whitney again. Please sod Whitney. Whitney. This is Witney. Whitney.
Speaker 1: Have you told Nick about Sparkles. No, I haven't told
Speaker 1: him that Sparkle. I can't imagine why. I'm sure Nick
Speaker 1: would like to know about Sparkles. Maybe maybe Sparkles and
Speaker 1: Nick should have a conversation so that you guys can
Speaker 1: actually go out. Don't you think it's definitely a possibility. Well,
Speaker 1: we are giving you that chance because we didn't tell
Speaker 1: you this. But Nick has been on the other line
Speaker 1: listening and he heard everything that you and Sparkles said,
Speaker 1: and he wants to talk to you both. I guess
Speaker 1: Nick to her, Yeah, is he's still that He probably
Speaker 1: hung up the Nick. Yeah, yeah, I'm here. Wow, just
Speaker 1: I have a lot of questions. Um. Yeah, Sparkle is
Speaker 1: just basically like my her voice, you know. Yeah, Whitney
Speaker 1: is okay with you guys going out, but Sparkles has
Speaker 1: an issue, right, and maybe Nick you should talk to
Speaker 1: spark Can we get Sparkles back on the phone so
Speaker 1: Nick can have a conversation with Sparkles and then maybe
Speaker 1: they can work something out. I don't want to know
Speaker 1: it's done. I don't know as I'm ready for that. Okay, wait, Nick,
Speaker 1: I mean when she explains it like that, that it's
Speaker 1: just basically she's having an inner dialogue with herself. It
Speaker 1: comes out. Does that sit okay with you? I understand that.
Speaker 1: I think we all have that, but most of us
Speaker 1: kind of keep it internal. That's a good way to
Speaker 1: put it. And a lot of people still have stuffed
Speaker 1: animals and blankets from their childhood. I still have a
Speaker 1: broodcast stuff. Yeah, I sleep with stuffed animals every night.
Speaker 1: They don't talk to me very often. But but my
Speaker 1: stuffed animals were okay with me starting a relationship and
Speaker 1: getting married. And yeah, she's married, and trust me, Whitney.
Speaker 1: My husband has tried to throw these things out many times,
Speaker 1: and I have just stopped that you can do that
Speaker 1: in your relationship. Honestly, I wouldn't go out with you,
Speaker 1: Nick if you wouldn't accept Sparkles. Yeah, um, okay. Do
Speaker 1: other people know about Sparkles. I don't show Sparkles to everybody,
Speaker 1: only those that I trust. Oh my god, Wait, Whitney.
Speaker 1: The entire time you were talking about your friend, you
Speaker 1: were referring to Sparkles. Yeah, oh right, okay, wow, So
Speaker 1: Sparkles is the friend that is not okay with Nick
Speaker 1: and we being together. Well maybe, yeah, I'm not sure
Speaker 1: about Nick. I'm just not sure. Is it Sparkles on
Speaker 1: the phone again? Okay? Try this Isles it Sparkles? Do it?
Speaker 1: You have to. I don't know how to do this.
Speaker 1: You got to do it. I mean, Sparkles is on
Speaker 1: the phone. I think we start with Sparkles, then we
Speaker 1: go to Whitney. All right, Sparkles. Here's the deal. Nick
Speaker 1: really wants to go out with Whitney, So if you'll
Speaker 1: let her, we would pay for Whitney and Nick to
Speaker 1: go out on a date. If it's okay with you,
Speaker 1: as long as I can be there, it's okay, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, yes, yes, Now, Whitney, Sparkles has signed off
Speaker 1: on the relationship. Will you go out with Nick one
Speaker 1: more time? We'll pay for it, or for the first
Speaker 1: time we'll pay for it. Okay. Wow. Yeah, I'm surprised
Speaker 1: that Sparkles is okay with it, and why I'm on
Speaker 1: one with it? Okay, all right, well that's a excitement.
Speaker 1: We did it, okay, Nick? Yeah, Nick, congratulation you got
Speaker 1: a second day or a first day. Let's poke the
Speaker 1: brakes a little bit. I think, do you have a
Speaker 1: friend that's a little bit hesitant about this too? Do
Speaker 1: we need to get him on the line. I think
Speaker 1: that maybe we, Um, we had been rushing it a
Speaker 1: little bit. Oh um, And I think with this new information,
Speaker 1: I think maybe staying on as like friends on the
Speaker 1: phone and chatting. I think that's probably right then. Okay, Sparkles,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, this is just how I'm feeling. Um. I
Speaker 1: can't believe him talking to Sparkles right now, but I am.
Speaker 1: And can I talk to Whitney again? Yeah? This is Whitney.
Speaker 1: What's your problem with Sparkovs? I've got could really get
Speaker 1: into it, but um, I think maybe that's conversation for
Speaker 1: a later date. So are you telling me that you're
Speaker 1: gonna tell Sparkov I love you and Bacon two? Because
Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, that will be helpful for you. I
Speaker 1: don't think i'll do that, Nick, with you don't face
Speaker 1: the rage of Sparkles. I think, yeah, sorry, we couldn't
Speaker 1: get you a date there, Nick, that is quite all right.
Speaker 1: I learned a lot, and that's the most important thing.
Speaker 1: I think you're never online dating again. I don't think so.