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<v Speaker 1>A guy named Nick reached out to us for a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. The strange part is he says he's

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<v Speaker 1>never even went out on a date with this girl

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<v Speaker 1>to begin with, so it's we would need a first

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Then, Yeah, Nick, I'm hoping you've at least

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<v Speaker 1>talked to this woman and it's not your neighbor that

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<v Speaker 1>you're looking at through your telescope right now? Nick? Is it?

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<v Speaker 1>I hear heavy breathing? I am here, I'm here. I

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<v Speaker 1>was just laughing. Okay, sound like you're doing more than laughing. No,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no telescopes involved, that promise you. Okay? Is the

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<v Speaker 1>woman real? Does she have a name? Does she exist? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>her name is Whitney, and she exists, and she's in

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<v Speaker 1>my and Whitney sounds like a made up name. Yea, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you know she's amazing. If you've never gone

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<v Speaker 1>out with her, we've never met in person, but we

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<v Speaker 1>have met and communicated at online. Okay, there's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people I use that in air quotes online that

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<v Speaker 1>aren't real in real life. Right, No, I know she exists,

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<v Speaker 1>like we have facetimes. We've had extensive communication online where

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<v Speaker 1>we've actually seen each other. Good. So why aren't you

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<v Speaker 1>going on a date with her? Well, because she lives

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<v Speaker 1>in a different state. We didn't tell us. That's very

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<v Speaker 1>important information at the beginning. Maybe lead off with that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I really, honestly, guys, I really felt like

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<v Speaker 1>I was falling in love with this girl. Okay, whoa,

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<v Speaker 1>you've fallen in love with this girl? You haven't even

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<v Speaker 1>seen her face? I mean, I mean, you know, we've FaceTime.

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<v Speaker 1>I was so connected with this woman, Like we have

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<v Speaker 1>very similar like families. We have we both have sisters,

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<v Speaker 1>we both have similar holiday things that we do, like

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, I heard that she has a sister, he

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<v Speaker 1>has a sister. Sounds like they connected. That's love right there.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Okay, you're you know what you're having?

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<v Speaker 1>Anything to do it? Get the marriage documents ready, you guys?

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<v Speaker 1>Both have sisters. I think I think that it's romantic

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<v Speaker 1>and that it's refreshing that you were connected to a

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<v Speaker 1>woman on a much bigger level than just a physical

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<v Speaker 1>five G level. I was planning on flying her out

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<v Speaker 1>or flying out to see her, that was the next step.

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<v Speaker 1>But things just haven't been the same for a bit,

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<v Speaker 1>so things aren't really working out the way the way

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<v Speaker 1>I had wanted. So that's why I contacted you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So this would normally be the time where

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<v Speaker 1>I would ask you about the date that you took

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<v Speaker 1>her on, but you haven't done that. So yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like we have. Because it started out that we

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<v Speaker 1>would talk like times a day, just like little things

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<v Speaker 1>here and there, check in, and then it got to

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<v Speaker 1>the point where we would be communicating for like hours

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<v Speaker 1>every night. Wow, that's intense. Yeah, I know. And it

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<v Speaker 1>was going so well. We would talk constantly and it

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<v Speaker 1>was great like that for about like three weeks, I

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<v Speaker 1>would say, and then she started not responding as quickly. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she wasn't like we weren't talking every night.

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<v Speaker 1>There must be something that you have done during these

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<v Speaker 1>conversations that has turned her off. The last photo I

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<v Speaker 1>sent her I took a photo of my breakfast and

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<v Speaker 1>it was like two heart shaped pancakes that I made,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I and I kind of spelled out like

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<v Speaker 1>I love you and bacon. And I know that's corny,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's also like sweet, and that's how I feel it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it seems like a lot to drop the

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<v Speaker 1>L word and never seeing each other in person. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I spelled it in bacon. Okay, you're spelling out the

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<v Speaker 1>word love and bacon to this girl already. That's what

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<v Speaker 1>he's doing. He's testing the waters to see if what

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<v Speaker 1>was her response to that? I mean, not much good?

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<v Speaker 1>I know, And I haven't really heard from her in

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<v Speaker 1>about the last forty eight hours, which is rare because

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<v Speaker 1>ever since we started communicating, we've never gone for any

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<v Speaker 1>that was without at least checking in. So how do

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<v Speaker 1>you want us to help? Because she obviously doesn't listen

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<v Speaker 1>to our show. Um, I don't know. How can we

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<v Speaker 1>get her? How can how can I get her to

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<v Speaker 1>listen to me? How can we get her get her

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<v Speaker 1>on the show? Is what I'm thinking? Okay, or find

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<v Speaker 1>out if you did something wrong or he's just scared.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like he's just coming out a little too strong,

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<v Speaker 1>but you were both feeling it the chemistry at one point,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's great. Well. Also, oh, I forgot to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you this as well. Um, she she did mention she

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<v Speaker 1>had this friend that was kind of hesitant about our relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know if that has something to do

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<v Speaker 1>with it, like her friend is like jealous or just

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't trust me because of the whole online thing, or

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she's found something, like met somebody else. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>My mind is just kind of racing well about the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing, and I was hoping you could help me

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<v Speaker 1>in some somehow. All Right, we'll just calm down about

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<v Speaker 1>it a little bit, maybe pop a valium because you're

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<v Speaker 1>getting a little bit excited talking about her. I am

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<v Speaker 1>amped up because you know, I care a lot about

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<v Speaker 1>this girl, and if there's any chance that you can

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<v Speaker 1>help me out communicate with her, I would just really

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate it, because you know, I just don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>else to do, honestly. All Right, I guess we'll do it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess we're doing it. The whole point of this, Jeffrey,

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<v Speaker 1>why do you hate love so much all of a sudden?

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<v Speaker 1>What is your problem? This is just different. This guy's

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<v Speaker 1>never even been on a date with her. But you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, this isn't the first century, Jeffrey. Okay, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a different way that people fall in love. Just catch up, man,

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<v Speaker 1>And the fact that they call each other every day

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<v Speaker 1>in this day and age, that's crazy. That's more than

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<v Speaker 1>most people than you are just via an internet scream. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, well, we know what. Maybe we're gonna prove

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<v Speaker 1>me wrong. We're gonna play a song. We'll come back

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll give Whitney a call and see if we

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<v Speaker 1>can get you a second date up date. Okay, Nick,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. Guys. Just hold on, we haven't gotten you

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<v Speaker 1>the date yet. We're just making a call. Okay, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the energy I want. We'll be back after this second

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<v Speaker 1>up date. How do you know when you're really in love?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it when you memorize that person's favorite coffee order?

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<v Speaker 1>For sure? That's pretty good sign. Is it when you

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<v Speaker 1>include them in your Facebook profile picture? Yo? That's official?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it when you can confidently leave the door open

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<v Speaker 1>while taking a number two in their apartment? That's just

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<v Speaker 1>a long time in marriage. I don't know if that's

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<v Speaker 1>a long something. I think The real sign of true

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<v Speaker 1>love is when you can spell out that person's name

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<v Speaker 1>and breakfast sausage. Oh man, it's always about the meats,

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<v Speaker 1>and then send a photo of that in a text message.

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<v Speaker 1>Because that's what our listener Nick did for a girl

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<v Speaker 1>named Whitney, even though they've never gone out on a

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<v Speaker 1>real date or seen each other in person. They live

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<v Speaker 1>in different states, but they've been chatting on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and over Skype for hours on end, but lately she's

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<v Speaker 1>become tough to reach. Yeah, and Nicoll admit I was

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<v Speaker 1>skeptical when we were talking before, but during the song break,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought about it, chugged a ton of ni quill,

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<v Speaker 1>and I definitely feel different. That's it. Yeah, I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for the court You're welcome you guys. I

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<v Speaker 1>believe you. Nick. I think that love can totally happen

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<v Speaker 1>that way. Do you. But do you regret sending that

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<v Speaker 1>picture because it does seem like that was the moment

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<v Speaker 1>things shifted. Yeah. I think I would have had to

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<v Speaker 1>do it again. It would have been a little different,

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean, it's just bacon. It's not like you're

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<v Speaker 1>actually dropping the elbomb. Now. I think bacon is the

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<v Speaker 1>highest form of of romance right above diamond rings. So

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<v Speaker 1>you can't go anywhere but down from here. I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, let's get your bacon lover on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and we'll see if you can get you a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Okay, all right, I'm nervous. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going the dollar phone number right now here we go. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Whitney please? This is her. Hi, Whitney.

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<v Speaker 1>My name's young Jeffrey. I work for the radio. What

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<v Speaker 1>is it about? This is about you? Oh my god? Okay, sorry, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't win. Well, maybe you want something in a way. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you've probably never heard our show, Whitney. We're in a

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<v Speaker 1>different city than you, different state. Actually, so why are

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<v Speaker 1>you calling you that? We're calling you because we do

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<v Speaker 1>something on our show called a second date update. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm guessing you don't know what that is. But basically,

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<v Speaker 1>when one of our listeners needs help figuring out why

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<v Speaker 1>they're not getting a call after a date, we're willing

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<v Speaker 1>to do that for them. And we're calling on behalf

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<v Speaker 1>of a guy named Nick. Do you remember going out

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<v Speaker 1>with Nick? But they never really went out? That's right.

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<v Speaker 1>This is so different than what we normally do. I've

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<v Speaker 1>totally screwed this up. So you've been chatting recently with

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<v Speaker 1>someone named Nick and he feels like you guys have

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<v Speaker 1>been on quite a few dates because of how much

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<v Speaker 1>time you've spent online together. All right, what did you

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<v Speaker 1>say about me? He said, he loves you. No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't say it like that. Down he said a

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<v Speaker 1>picture to you and bacon. He thought everything was going well.

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<v Speaker 1>He felt like he's never connected to somebody like he

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<v Speaker 1>connects with you, and he was really excited. I did

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<v Speaker 1>about it, and now you're not calling him back after

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<v Speaker 1>he sent one simple picture of I love you, spelled

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<v Speaker 1>out in bacon, and he's wondering if he freaked you out. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest, the bacon message, who has definitely a

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<v Speaker 1>little overwhelming Okay that you know I was falling for

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<v Speaker 1>him to so you were on board. How come you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't bacon text him back? Then? Well, I talked to

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<v Speaker 1>my friend and UM, my friend's always someone that you

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<v Speaker 1>know gives me really good advice, and so I a

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<v Speaker 1>pull back from that. I'm not Yeah, who is this

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<v Speaker 1>friend's a guy or girlfriend? Um, exactly like my very

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<v Speaker 1>practiced stuffed animal that I've had for a long time,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like my inert self. I tell me, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>being they're okay or not? Wait? What are you joking?

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<v Speaker 1>Right now? You want to talk to her? Wait? Wait Whitney,

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<v Speaker 1>Whitney are you joking? Oh? It's kind of like how

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<v Speaker 1>mister Rogers does it? You know mister Rogers does it? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't remember having the Little Puppets. You have a

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<v Speaker 1>puppet friend that's telling you not to day a guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah it's Sparkle. I've had her room. He put Sparkles

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. We'd love to chat with her. Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>this is Sparkle. Sparkles. Hello, Oh my god, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>But Sparkles, Wait, why don't you like Nick? Because he

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<v Speaker 1>might not like me. He might throw me away and

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<v Speaker 1>I never see Whitney ever again. Okay, this is yeah, Sparkles.

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<v Speaker 1>You do realize that Whitney deserves to be loved and

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<v Speaker 1>that Whitney won't let you be thrown away? Right? I might.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing this. If he likes sweet me, he has

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<v Speaker 1>to keep me too. Hey, Sparkles, have you ever met

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<v Speaker 1>Nick before? It? Does Nick know about you? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think Nick knows about me? If he knows about me,

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<v Speaker 1>he might throw me away. Okay, so weird. I think

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<v Speaker 1>we need Whitney back on the phone. Yeah, let's talk

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<v Speaker 1>to Whitney again. Please sod Whitney. Whitney. This is Witney. Whitney.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you told Nick about Sparkles. No, I haven't told

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<v Speaker 1>him that Sparkle. I can't imagine why. I'm sure Nick

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<v Speaker 1>would like to know about Sparkles. Maybe maybe Sparkles and

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<v Speaker 1>Nick should have a conversation so that you guys can

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<v Speaker 1>actually go out. Don't you think it's definitely a possibility. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we are giving you that chance because we didn't tell

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<v Speaker 1>you this. But Nick has been on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>listening and he heard everything that you and Sparkles said,

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<v Speaker 1>and he wants to talk to you both. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>Nick to her, Yeah, is he's still that He probably

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<v Speaker 1>hung up the Nick. Yeah, yeah, I'm here. Wow, just

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<v Speaker 1>I have a lot of questions. Um. Yeah, Sparkle is

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<v Speaker 1>just basically like my her voice, you know. Yeah, Whitney

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<v Speaker 1>is okay with you guys going out, but Sparkles has

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<v Speaker 1>an issue, right, and maybe Nick you should talk to

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<v Speaker 1>spark Can we get Sparkles back on the phone so

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<v Speaker 1>Nick can have a conversation with Sparkles and then maybe

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<v Speaker 1>they can work something out. I don't want to know

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<v Speaker 1>it's done. I don't know as I'm ready for that. Okay, wait, Nick,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean when she explains it like that, that it's

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<v Speaker 1>just basically she's having an inner dialogue with herself. It

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<v Speaker 1>comes out. Does that sit okay with you? I understand that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we all have that, but most of us

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<v Speaker 1>kind of keep it internal. That's a good way to

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<v Speaker 1>put it. And a lot of people still have stuffed

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<v Speaker 1>animals and blankets from their childhood. I still have a

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<v Speaker 1>broodcast stuff. Yeah, I sleep with stuffed animals every night.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't talk to me very often. But but my

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<v Speaker 1>stuffed animals were okay with me starting a relationship and

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<v Speaker 1>getting married. And yeah, she's married, and trust me, Whitney.

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<v Speaker 1>My husband has tried to throw these things out many times,

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<v Speaker 1>and I have just stopped that you can do that

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<v Speaker 1>in your relationship. Honestly, I wouldn't go out with you,

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<v Speaker 1>Nick if you wouldn't accept Sparkles. Yeah, um, okay. Do

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<v Speaker 1>other people know about Sparkles. I don't show Sparkles to everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>only those that I trust. Oh my god, Wait, Whitney.

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<v Speaker 1>The entire time you were talking about your friend, you

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<v Speaker 1>were referring to Sparkles. Yeah, oh right, okay, wow, So

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<v Speaker 1>Sparkles is the friend that is not okay with Nick

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<v Speaker 1>and we being together. Well maybe, yeah, I'm not sure

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<v Speaker 1>about Nick. I'm just not sure. Is it Sparkles on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone again? Okay? Try this Isles it Sparkles? Do it?

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<v Speaker 1>You have to. I don't know how to do this.

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<v Speaker 1>You got to do it. I mean, Sparkles is on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. I think we start with Sparkles, then we

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<v Speaker 1>go to Whitney. All right, Sparkles. Here's the deal. Nick

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<v Speaker 1>really wants to go out with Whitney, So if you'll

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<v Speaker 1>let her, we would pay for Whitney and Nick to

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a date. If it's okay with you,

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<v Speaker 1>as long as I can be there, it's okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, yes, yes, Now, Whitney, Sparkles has signed off

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<v Speaker 1>on the relationship. Will you go out with Nick one

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<v Speaker 1>more time? We'll pay for it, or for the first

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<v Speaker 1>time we'll pay for it. Okay. Wow. Yeah, I'm surprised

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<v Speaker 1>that Sparkles is okay with it, and why I'm on

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<v Speaker 1>one with it? Okay, all right, well that's a excitement.

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<v Speaker 1>We did it, okay, Nick? Yeah, Nick, congratulation you got

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<v Speaker 1>a second day or a first day. Let's poke the

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<v Speaker 1>brakes a little bit. I think, do you have a

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<v Speaker 1>friend that's a little bit hesitant about this too? Do

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<v Speaker 1>we need to get him on the line. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that maybe we, Um, we had been rushing it a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. Oh um, And I think with this new information,

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<v Speaker 1>I think maybe staying on as like friends on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and chatting. I think that's probably right then. Okay, Sparkles,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, this is just how I'm feeling. Um. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't believe him talking to Sparkles right now, but I am.

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<v Speaker 1>And can I talk to Whitney again? Yeah? This is Whitney.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your problem with Sparkovs? I've got could really get

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<v Speaker 1>into it, but um, I think maybe that's conversation for

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<v Speaker 1>a later date. So are you telling me that you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna tell Sparkov I love you and Bacon two? Because

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, honestly, that will be helpful for you. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think i'll do that, Nick, with you don't face

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<v Speaker 1>the rage of Sparkles. I think, yeah, sorry, we couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>get you a date there, Nick, that is quite all right.

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<v Speaker 1>I learned a lot, and that's the most important thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're never online dating again. I don't think so.