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Speaker 1: A guy named Nick reached out to us for a

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Speaker 1: second date update. The strange part is he says he's

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Speaker 1: I hear heavy breathing? I am here, I'm here. I

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Speaker 1: her name is Whitney, and she exists, and she's in

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Speaker 1: like we have facetimes. We've had extensive communication online where

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Speaker 1: him that Sparkle. I can't imagine why. I'm sure Nick

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Speaker 1: Nick should have a conversation so that you guys can

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Speaker 1: actually go out. Don't you think it's definitely a possibility. Well,

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Speaker 1: we are giving you that chance because we didn't tell

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Speaker 1: you this. But Nick has been on the other line

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Speaker 1: listening and he heard everything that you and Sparkles said,

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Speaker 1: and he wants to talk to you both. I guess

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Speaker 1: I have a lot of questions. Um. Yeah, Sparkle is

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Speaker 1: just basically like my her voice, you know. Yeah, Whitney

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Speaker 1: is okay with you guys going out, but Sparkles has

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Speaker 1: an issue, right, and maybe Nick you should talk to

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Speaker 1: spark Can we get Sparkles back on the phone so

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Speaker 1: Nick can have a conversation with Sparkles and then maybe

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Speaker 1: they can work something out. I don't want to know

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Speaker 1: it's done. I don't know as I'm ready for that. Okay, wait, Nick,

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Speaker 1: I mean when she explains it like that, that it's

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Speaker 1: just basically she's having an inner dialogue with herself. It

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Speaker 1: comes out. Does that sit okay with you? I understand that.

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Speaker 1: I think we all have that, but most of us

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Speaker 1: kind of keep it internal. That's a good way to

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Speaker 1: put it. And a lot of people still have stuffed

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Speaker 1: broodcast stuff. Yeah, I sleep with stuffed animals every night.

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Speaker 1: They don't talk to me very often. But but my

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Speaker 1: My husband has tried to throw these things out many times,

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Speaker 1: and I have just stopped that you can do that

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Speaker 1: in your relationship. Honestly, I wouldn't go out with you,

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Speaker 1: Nick if you wouldn't accept Sparkles. Yeah, um, okay. Do

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Speaker 1: other people know about Sparkles. I don't show Sparkles to everybody,

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Speaker 1: only those that I trust. Oh my god, Wait, Whitney.

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Speaker 1: The entire time you were talking about your friend, you

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Speaker 1: were referring to Sparkles. Yeah, oh right, okay, wow, So

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Speaker 1: Sparkles is the friend that is not okay with Nick

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Speaker 1: and we being together. Well maybe, yeah, I'm not sure

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Speaker 1: about Nick. I'm just not sure. Is it Sparkles on

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Speaker 1: the phone again? Okay? Try this Isles it Sparkles? Do it?

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Speaker 1: You have to. I don't know how to do this.

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Speaker 1: You got to do it. I mean, Sparkles is on

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Speaker 1: go to Whitney. All right, Sparkles. Here's the deal. Nick

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Speaker 1: really wants to go out with Whitney, So if you'll

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Speaker 1: let her, we would pay for Whitney and Nick to

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Speaker 1: go out on a date. If it's okay with you,

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Speaker 1: as long as I can be there, it's okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, yes, yes, Now, Whitney, Sparkles has signed off

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Speaker 1: more time? We'll pay for it, or for the first

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Speaker 1: time we'll pay for it. Okay. Wow. Yeah, I'm surprised

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Speaker 1: We did it, okay, Nick? Yeah, Nick, congratulation you got

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Speaker 1: a second day or a first day. Let's poke the

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Speaker 1: brakes a little bit. I think, do you have a

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Speaker 1: we need to get him on the line. I think

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Speaker 1: that maybe we, Um, we had been rushing it a

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Speaker 1: I think maybe staying on as like friends on the

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, this is just how I'm feeling. Um. I

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Speaker 1: can't believe him talking to Sparkles right now, but I am.

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Speaker 1: And can I talk to Whitney again? Yeah? This is Whitney.

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Speaker 1: What's your problem with Sparkovs? I've got could really get

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Speaker 1: into it, but um, I think maybe that's conversation for

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Speaker 1: a later date. So are you telling me that you're

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Speaker 1: gonna tell Sparkov I love you and Bacon two? Because

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Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, that will be helpful for you. I

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Speaker 1: don't think i'll do that, Nick, with you don't face

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Speaker 1: the rage of Sparkles. I think, yeah, sorry, we couldn't

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Speaker 1: get you a date there, Nick, that is quite all right.

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Speaker 1: I learned a lot, and that's the most important thing.

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Speaker 1: I think you're never online dating again. I don't think so.