WEBVTT - Conversations About Relationships

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<v Speaker 1>Watch up and welcome back to another episode and no

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<v Speaker 1>Sellers podcast with your host, now funk that with your

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<v Speaker 1>low glasses, Malone. Burden is created by the sense of entitlement. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and I did say there are certain qualities and people

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like and then title it okay, so again,

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<v Speaker 1>So what if you were in a relationship with the

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<v Speaker 1>woman who has feel entitled? That's a fascinating case. Dog

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<v Speaker 1>my man handing dog. Nothing, just trying to find that

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<v Speaker 1>wealthy big girl pad these pockets wealthy man, They're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>kill you as soon as they can't you. I won't

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<v Speaker 1>even schedule like a live like a live uh podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>because I know they're gonna put a hit out on

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<v Speaker 1>the dog. Like literally, it's like Malcolm Eggs like in

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<v Speaker 1>a movie where they some some girl or how about

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<v Speaker 1>get your hand on my purse, bits, get your hand

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<v Speaker 1>on my purse. They still you know you're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>like sisters. Sister, They're gonna run up and knock your

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<v Speaker 1>ass there. Yeah, why why are you? Why are you

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<v Speaker 1>so hard on women? Man? What is that really about? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>I straight up like, what's that about them? You don't

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<v Speaker 1>think you hard on them? I just spend a lovely

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<v Speaker 1>day with one's lovely day for her. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>so women just don't have no value. No, they have

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<v Speaker 1>value to society, to the universe, to the people who

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<v Speaker 1>need them in their lives. Of course, it's not one

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<v Speaker 1>of those people. Have you ever thought that you might

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<v Speaker 1>have been gay? No, I could ask you because we

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<v Speaker 1>ask real questions, like you might nig it. So I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta ask you real questions. So, wow, it's not your

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<v Speaker 1>sexual part. That's the only that's the only work a

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<v Speaker 1>while part. So what makes your relationship with a male

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<v Speaker 1>friend and a female friend different? At that point, I

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<v Speaker 1>used to have a lot of female friends, especially coming

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<v Speaker 1>out of like let's try and feel that things a

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<v Speaker 1>coe sport. So my, you know, mid twenties to late twenties,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a lot of female friends. Okay, So I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>so you don't think of a relationship as a thing

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<v Speaker 1>where like females and males like, right, So like a

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<v Speaker 1>relationship where it's a friend that you have certain benefits with.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, and I guess that's probably what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>But that dynamics different. That's a that's a lot of um,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a big role, you know, like a girl, Like

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<v Speaker 1>if I had a girlfriend or a wife, they would

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<v Speaker 1>take up more of my time and energy and resources,

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<v Speaker 1>et cetera than like all my guy friends combined ever

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<v Speaker 1>could or would you know? But do you feel so

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<v Speaker 1>at that point it just bothers you that they absorbed

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<v Speaker 1>so much at a time. Well, it's kind of like this.

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<v Speaker 1>People used to ask me, like why don't look, which

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<v Speaker 1>is actually kind of funny the way it would happen.

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<v Speaker 1>But people used to ask, like why I didn't like

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<v Speaker 1>the day white girls, And I'm like, I get people

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<v Speaker 1>who do I totally do, and people who like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>even like black guys like I would never date a

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<v Speaker 1>black woman that I believe me. I get that sympathetic

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<v Speaker 1>to that talking point. It's just to me the cool things,

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<v Speaker 1>like the benefits the pluses of day, like a white

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<v Speaker 1>lady versus black lady. They're not it's not real valuable currency.

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<v Speaker 1>And as I've gotten older now, like I've been by

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<v Speaker 1>myself a long time now, just just in general, but

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<v Speaker 1>all the costs, effort, energy, etcetera. That goes into the

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<v Speaker 1>sustaining a relationship and keeping person happy, all the other

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<v Speaker 1>kind of things versus what I get back from it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trading out dollars for pace. So it's just it's

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<v Speaker 1>not a good currency trade for me. So you're saying emotionally,

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<v Speaker 1>they don't provide that value worth everything that's going on. Yes, absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a it's a cost belt as a cost uh

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<v Speaker 1>benefit catastrophe to me. So what would she need to

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<v Speaker 1>do to provide said value? When you feel like she

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<v Speaker 1>you're getting a deal on the time you're putting into it,

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<v Speaker 1>the resources you're putting into it, everything that she absorbed

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<v Speaker 1>from you, what would she have to do to make

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<v Speaker 1>that of equal or greater value become a strange Yeah, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>like give me tangible things I did. I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's impossible. I mean, that's that's the Just give me something,

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<v Speaker 1>just use your use your monetary mind, right and give

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<v Speaker 1>me a fair trade. It wouldn't It wouldn't be what

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<v Speaker 1>could she do to up her value? It would be

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<v Speaker 1>how much mhm less what I have to contribute to

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<v Speaker 1>match her value? Becausely not gonna go up. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>let's say this woman specifically, right, is she pays the

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<v Speaker 1>mortgage some time you come home, she pays the mortgage

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<v Speaker 1>m right, and she's not. She's not trying to see.

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<v Speaker 1>She got her own home girl. She got her own

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<v Speaker 1>home girls, right, and they do they thing. So she's

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<v Speaker 1>not in your face all the time. Yeah, right, but

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<v Speaker 1>she makes sure she left me. She leaves your plate

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<v Speaker 1>in the microwave. Right, you come home, the house is clean.

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<v Speaker 1>What if her demands of your time and energy? This

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<v Speaker 1>is all obviously impossible, but let's say, let's say in

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<v Speaker 1>a weird science type of universe, right, weird science type

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<v Speaker 1>of universe, that this was possible. What if I was

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<v Speaker 1>a kept man with the ultimate autonomy? No, not not

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<v Speaker 1>kept man. Right, you're you. You pay the mortgage. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>she pays the mortgage. Sometimes. She always makes sure you

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<v Speaker 1>have food to eat. So even if she's going out

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<v Speaker 1>with her friends, she still comes in at a reasonable hour.

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<v Speaker 1>Your plate is in the microwave, right, she's not sweating

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<v Speaker 1>you about time she comes. She comes with the fresh

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<v Speaker 1>Cuban cigars, hand wrapped, hand road. Right, she knows what

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<v Speaker 1>you like. She got your favorite you know, your favorite

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<v Speaker 1>scots poured up, and she's not in your way because

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<v Speaker 1>that type of stuff can't happen, can Yes, that's not impossible.

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<v Speaker 1>So to me, what would be impossible. Is a woman

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<v Speaker 1>paying the mortgage sometimes and still feeling like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not impossible. I take that back, especially with the sisters,

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, sisters come from you know, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>different in America. Most of the sisters have to work

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<v Speaker 1>and still be what you call the proverbial you know,

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<v Speaker 1>wife or mother right where they're cooking and working. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's not insane and thinks so, but usually they start

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<v Speaker 1>to demand your time in exchange for so much of

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<v Speaker 1>the stuff that comes with a certain amount of patience

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<v Speaker 1>which is limited in a certain amount of presentment which

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<v Speaker 1>is accruing. Yeah, so at some point, it's like you

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<v Speaker 1>have to be a unique individual to just take take, take, take, take,

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<v Speaker 1>take take, while the other parties becoming more and more

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<v Speaker 1>and more and more and more and more just satisfied

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<v Speaker 1>and for it to not even phasing in the least.

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<v Speaker 1>But is a relationship really like she's are you really

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<v Speaker 1>just taking from her at that point even if like

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<v Speaker 1>let's say six months, I be she paid the mortgage

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<v Speaker 1>and not really like on paying the morrigage, but really

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<v Speaker 1>just paid the morrigors like I'm I got it, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you paid the six months she's still providing a

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<v Speaker 1>level of um, we got the right word for it.

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<v Speaker 1>But where she's around the house doing things that we

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<v Speaker 1>think women should do around the house. Right, she still cooking, cleaning,

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<v Speaker 1>achieving the spot, You still taking the trash are, You're

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<v Speaker 1>still doing the masculine things. She's not demanding all your attention.

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<v Speaker 1>She's not actually making you compromise and do things you

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<v Speaker 1>don't like to do to spend time with you. She's

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<v Speaker 1>doing things that you want to do. See, but that's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing I don't want that I want to do. No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying. I'm not saying she's going to go

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<v Speaker 1>through the cigar loans with you. Right. She still let

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<v Speaker 1>you have your own space. But the things that when

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<v Speaker 1>it is time to spend time with her and it's

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<v Speaker 1>time to spend time, there are things that you like

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<v Speaker 1>to do. She's not trying to break you down and

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<v Speaker 1>make you do this, you know, because that's all really

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<v Speaker 1>compromising is for women. Like I used to tell women,

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<v Speaker 1>is like I don't believe in compromises, Like if if

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<v Speaker 1>I funk with you, I will do what it takes

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<v Speaker 1>to make you happy. Right. So there's very few things

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<v Speaker 1>like time, example, right, Like a compromise would be something

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<v Speaker 1>I hate to do or I'm unwilling to do to

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<v Speaker 1>make you happy. So let's say, like paulse for the

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<v Speaker 1>for for crying out allowed, you meet a girl who

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<v Speaker 1>is super kinky and she's like into deal. Does that's

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<v Speaker 1>her thing? Like, yo, I'm not into you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>having deal? Does you know it's not my things? Like

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<v Speaker 1>like that ain't my thing now, I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 1>compromise on that, and she shouldn't. Like to me, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a compromise where you have to do something that you

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely don't funk with for somebody else to be happy.

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<v Speaker 1>But at that point, if somebody funk with you, you you

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<v Speaker 1>know why what they want you to do, how could

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<v Speaker 1>they be happy what you're doing something you hate to

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<v Speaker 1>do or that you aren't willing to do. Like, it's

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<v Speaker 1>different if like it's certain foods I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>eat because I haven't ate them, right, that's ignorance. I've

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<v Speaker 1>never tasted them to even dislike them, right, But that's

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<v Speaker 1>not the equivalent Like if she says, hey, let's go

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<v Speaker 1>to a restaurant, I'm going to go to the restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>because it will make her happy, whether not I want

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<v Speaker 1>to go or not. Now something I totally don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to do is different. Okay, when you say go to

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<v Speaker 1>the restaurant, do you mean with her? Yes? With her?

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<v Speaker 1>She will accompany you to say a restaurant. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to go to a restaurant with a girl. Not? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So you're not gay, but you don't really favor women.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you're not gotta been around you know. If

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<v Speaker 1>you was guy, you hit it the greatest I've ever seen.

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<v Speaker 1>So I definitely don't and I don't get homosexual. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't get a homosexual vibe from you, even a

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<v Speaker 1>look like you're still a man's man like you're not

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<v Speaker 1>extra to your confident in your masculinity. So how could

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<v Speaker 1>you just hate women? That's I don't hate women? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>why would you not want to go to the restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>with the woman? Why would she annoy you? This just

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<v Speaker 1>what it's, This is what's gonna happen. How what because like,

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<v Speaker 1>for example, that's a couple of hours all told, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>including traveling to and from being there, all that kind

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<v Speaker 1>of ship you know, but you do that all the

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<v Speaker 1>time by yourself. Yeah, but I'm looking at ship, focusing

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<v Speaker 1>on ship that I'm have a active interest and attention span,

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<v Speaker 1>whereas otherwise I'm just like ship. When this again, I

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<v Speaker 1>listen to this ship again, You're gonna go on? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you have to listen to again? Her voice, words, sentences.

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<v Speaker 1>So women just talk annoys you. You don't think at something,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't think at someplace you might have to be

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<v Speaker 1>worried like about actually hating women, Like how does somebody

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<v Speaker 1>voice annoy you just because of her gender? Look a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of those voices and know any regardless, Okay, agreed,

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<v Speaker 1>But what I'm saying you have pretty much well like

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<v Speaker 1>I was. Okay, that's like I was spent all day

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<v Speaker 1>with a girl from Trinidad. Today she's super cool, gorgeous girl,

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<v Speaker 1>but I also know, oh today she kind of she

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<v Speaker 1>did Alright today, I'm not gonna lie. Ten years ago,

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<v Speaker 1>I would have been like I got about this, like yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but is it the sheer active of her voice? Like

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<v Speaker 1>if it was a girl with a so then what

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<v Speaker 1>exactly would be so annoying about riding with the woman?

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<v Speaker 1>Let's say to apple bees. It's the fact that, like

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<v Speaker 1>the conversational topic catalog is so so far from my

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<v Speaker 1>personal interests they're so far apart. So what if you

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<v Speaker 1>lead the conversations and she talked about the things you

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to talk about, and she's gonna be feeling the

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<v Speaker 1>same way as I am, or she's just playing simply

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna understand what I'm talking about? Can you mask

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<v Speaker 1>the female gender or the female sex in that, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? Like, no woman is gonna understand

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<v Speaker 1>or no woman is gonna get it? Is that really

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<v Speaker 1>where you want to be when Jesus comes back? But

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<v Speaker 1>that's where you that's the hell right there. You no

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<v Speaker 1>woman be into the same things that Pete could be.

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<v Speaker 1>You don have to be one ugly bitch. Why would

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<v Speaker 1>she be? I would like to believe me. I would

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<v Speaker 1>like to believe Pete likes I like to believe all

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<v Speaker 1>kinds of things. Yeah, I'd like to believe. You're a

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<v Speaker 1>handsome guy, so you're not an ugly white man for me, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not a horrible looking white guy, and you into us.

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<v Speaker 1>So why would a woman You're saying she couldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>cute and into the same things you went too? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm I'm on a weird like intellectual journey, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>in my life, and I enjoy it and it's interesting

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<v Speaker 1>to me. So like I would rather listen to some

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<v Speaker 1>I would have put on an earpiece and listen to

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<v Speaker 1>some expert dissect market trends in Southeast Asia in the

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<v Speaker 1>textile supply chain system, then listen to this lady talk

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<v Speaker 1>about any of the first fifteen things she's gonna want

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about. It's just a more interesting thought exuccessful. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>while I agree with you, nine of women are okay.

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<v Speaker 1>First off, no sailings, gl they don't know at this point. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my nets going crazy? Um okay, Now I get that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a funny. It's not likely, it's it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's improbable, but it's not impossible. What if she likes

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<v Speaker 1>to listen to the same thing. Can also speculate, No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>don't expect it. I'm saying, for example, let's let's live

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<v Speaker 1>in this universe where she wants to hear the market

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<v Speaker 1>trends of the things going on in some country in

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<v Speaker 1>Asia as well, and she's probably all boring and squared

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<v Speaker 1>and needed being cheated on with a younger side ship.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, what if she's young, What if she's three

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<v Speaker 1>years younger than you. She wants all the same things

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<v Speaker 1>you're listening to. I'm pretty fucking old. I say she's

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<v Speaker 1>three years younger. She's not that far three years younger,

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<v Speaker 1>still pretty, I mean, but she loves what you listened to.

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<v Speaker 1>She could be a hottie for me. And I know

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<v Speaker 1>you funk with the sisters, so she could have went

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<v Speaker 1>to you know, spell minute somewhere. Ever, she really into it.

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<v Speaker 1>Her her mind may be on economics, because she may

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<v Speaker 1>be a wizard or like a savant and math, and

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<v Speaker 1>she loves listening to the numbers and giving you advice.

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<v Speaker 1>And she's gave you great advice about the numbers. Sure, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>that becomes very much you know, a pin in a

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<v Speaker 1>in a haystack, but it's not impossible. Here's here's another

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<v Speaker 1>issue to your brother's gonna create more of a wrinkle

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<v Speaker 1>a person like that, because that's rare. I agree, that's

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<v Speaker 1>that was definitely going to be very few sisters, because

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<v Speaker 1>you see, once you made his sisters, now you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>nail it down to just you know one. Choosing a

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<v Speaker 1>Supreme Court justice is what it is. We found a system,

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<v Speaker 1>found one easier than you find one that likes to

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<v Speaker 1>listen to the market trends in some country now it

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<v Speaker 1>is more willing to compromise on standards and Supreme Court

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<v Speaker 1>justices than I am. And wives, I don't think he

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<v Speaker 1>has a standard on Supreme Court justices. I know that's

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<v Speaker 1>the problem. Well, well that's the tricky part, right, because

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<v Speaker 1>standards is a questionable thing. So I would buy the

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<v Speaker 1>out of anybody have standards. Doesn't just take everything? Why

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<v Speaker 1>didn't she take everything he could get? He had two standards,

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<v Speaker 1>gender ethics, those are the only standards. And working as

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<v Speaker 1>a judge, well it opinions, right, So then it goes

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<v Speaker 1>into the if the ladies qualified for the job, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to get into that because it becomes

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<v Speaker 1>you tearing down sister, and I don't need to be

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<v Speaker 1>kicking nobody as because it's a lot of the subjective.

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<v Speaker 1>But there there are a lot of questions. There's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of questions in the space he did what made

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<v Speaker 1>people feel good? I would imagine I'm sure hound girls

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<v Speaker 1>qualified for the position, you know, based off whatever the

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<v Speaker 1>qualifications are. Um, I definitely believe there's always an underlying

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<v Speaker 1>motive of how you want to be presented, especially somebody

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<v Speaker 1>like Biden, who has, you know, historically a horrible mark

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<v Speaker 1>when it comes to you know, how he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>do justice, and he wants to literally separate exactly how

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<v Speaker 1>cocaine is prosecuted and and you know, the the ability

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<v Speaker 1>to create three strikes and all of these simple things

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<v Speaker 1>where you get life, which is somebody convicting you on

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<v Speaker 1>your past, you know, offenses, which is probably should have

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<v Speaker 1>not even been legal. It's a another story. But that's

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<v Speaker 1>before we get carried away, because that's some whole other ship. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>Let's say that woman is exactly that, and she's young,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's three years younger than you, but she's pretty hot.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, obviously she's not going to be hot sister

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<v Speaker 1>hot is Ah, she's not gil and the best. She's

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<v Speaker 1>not going to be Um. You know how hot she

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<v Speaker 1>could be. She could be knee a long hot, prime

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<v Speaker 1>n a long hot and Friday. You know what's funny, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that that that could happen now personally A long hot

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<v Speaker 1>and Friday now prime ne a long hot is not

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<v Speaker 1>prime Magan good hot. About ten years ago, Huh, I

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<v Speaker 1>had a traffic ticket and I got sent to like

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<v Speaker 1>the Newport Beach Superior Court and I was delinquent on

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<v Speaker 1>this ship and whatever else, and the judge in there

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<v Speaker 1>was probably forty. I was about to ask for her

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<v Speaker 1>number on the batter. She knocked that ship from like

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<v Speaker 1>down to like four fifty, and I was like, I

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<v Speaker 1>can spend all this money on you. I just saved

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<v Speaker 1>at least a couple with extra hundred budget. Hold up,

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<v Speaker 1>Hold up, So let's say I sped around that town

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<v Speaker 1>for five years trying to get back in the court.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm saying, so let's say she's knee a long,

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<v Speaker 1>she's me alone, because you can get a lady that's

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<v Speaker 1>into finances and economics a system that's near alone hot

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<v Speaker 1>for sure. Now Megan Good hot, probably not. Magan Good

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<v Speaker 1>is a different kind of hot. Um. You could probably

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<v Speaker 1>get a knee a Long hot. You can get a

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<v Speaker 1>Primes to not Lathan hot. Mh. I'm sure she's not Latan.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably studied economics at one time. She looked like it.

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<v Speaker 1>So primes are not Latan hot. Can't get a prime

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<v Speaker 1>Janet Jackson hot. She's definitely studying economics. What I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're telling me a prime me alone hot, right

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<v Speaker 1>is she's in the economicy that's possible. Here's the challenge

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<v Speaker 1>that person probably also in the event, And this is

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<v Speaker 1>a super far fetched idea. Steven addressed, Let's suppose that

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<v Speaker 1>lady could even so much to stand my company. She's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be able to stay in my company because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so different, and she's like, wow, this guy is so

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<v Speaker 1>fucking different. Obviously, that's, you know, pretty cut and dry.

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<v Speaker 1>She's gonna want more of my time than I'm gonna wanna.

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<v Speaker 1>But what if she doesn't. That's a that's almost borderline

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<v Speaker 1>ridiculous than that, then, right, what's the point. So you're

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<v Speaker 1>saving to answer to somebody that I see once every

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<v Speaker 1>two weeks. So so you're saying you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>spend time with the woman. Not like that? Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>let's say on a physical level, you're married. How often, right,

0:23:25.160 --> 0:23:29.920
<v Speaker 1>do you want to ask sex with your wife? What's

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<v Speaker 1>your wife? Who you've been sleeping with for years? Sleeping

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<v Speaker 1>in the next room. I don't like sleep next people.

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<v Speaker 1>I need you need a therapist because I don't like

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<v Speaker 1>sleeping next people. I don't like that. I think you

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<v Speaker 1>shorten nothing specifically, all grew up and watches out here

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<v Speaker 1>like a month ago, I don't sleep the next I

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<v Speaker 1>just don't. But nonetheless, yeah, I don't know, three or

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<v Speaker 1>four times a week is cool. But so you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>walk into her room from you, I'm gonna walk to

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<v Speaker 1>the other room in my house that she's in. I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>let's say she's paying the mortgage sometimes, so it's your house,

0:24:10.920 --> 0:24:14.800
<v Speaker 1>but she's paying it. Anyways, I know women like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I addressed last week my little bro. My little bro,

0:24:19.960 --> 0:24:23.840
<v Speaker 1>my bro mo has a woman who used to pay

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<v Speaker 1>the mortgage at his property. No problem. Mhm. So again

0:24:29.200 --> 0:24:31.440
<v Speaker 1>she it was never their property, was never the thought.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm asking you, so you're gonna walk to the

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<v Speaker 1>room that she's in to have sex with her, and

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<v Speaker 1>then walk back into your room after sex his own? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what you don't wanna. My my my one girlfriend

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<v Speaker 1>I had back in the day, her parents were like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think you've never been in love, Pete. I have.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you've never been in love like I've been in love,

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<v Speaker 1>but when you've never been to live like I don't. Okay,

0:25:04.920 --> 0:25:09.040
<v Speaker 1>So because the way you talk about women, right, you

0:25:09.119 --> 0:25:12.879
<v Speaker 1>talk about them, You talk about women a way like

0:25:14.760 --> 0:25:16.480
<v Speaker 1>of women have been in my life where you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to. It's like as soon as you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>what you're about to do, right, sure, but there's always

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<v Speaker 1>that small micro percentage to to one percent of women

0:25:24.960 --> 0:25:27.680
<v Speaker 1>where you like, you've never slept with a woman that

0:25:27.760 --> 0:25:31.200
<v Speaker 1>you didn't want to leave when it was over, that

0:25:31.320 --> 0:25:34.080
<v Speaker 1>you didn't want to be with women that I didn't

0:25:34.200 --> 0:25:38.000
<v Speaker 1>want to leave the address. But I still want to

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<v Speaker 1>go sleep where I have some space. If I had

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<v Speaker 1>a giant, asked master sweep, I don't need you to

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<v Speaker 1>leave the property or I don't need to like leave

0:25:52.680 --> 0:25:58.080
<v Speaker 1>wherever and go getting a card bounce. I need to

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<v Speaker 1>space to sleep. I don't like. Have you ever hugged

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<v Speaker 1>the woman? Yeah all the time? Okay, have you ever

0:26:06.560 --> 0:26:09.440
<v Speaker 1>hugged a woman when you were sleeping? I don't know,

0:26:09.640 --> 0:26:14.639
<v Speaker 1>probably not. Did you get molested as a kid, No,

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<v Speaker 1>So you you never found a woman who you wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to hug when y'all went to sleep together, as you

0:26:24.920 --> 0:26:27.000
<v Speaker 1>wanted to cuddle. They say cuddle. That's the word that's

0:26:27.280 --> 0:26:29.800
<v Speaker 1>women say all time, cuddle. You've never found a woman

0:26:29.840 --> 0:26:35.119
<v Speaker 1>you wanted to cuddle with in life, not into a sleep,

0:26:35.320 --> 0:26:39.520
<v Speaker 1>not like sleep like a No, I mean obviously right,

0:26:39.600 --> 0:26:41.560
<v Speaker 1>you you. Let's say you push off for you know

0:26:41.640 --> 0:26:44.040
<v Speaker 1>eventually once you sleep because you need your space. But

0:26:44.200 --> 0:26:46.360
<v Speaker 1>you never found a woman you wanted to hug while

0:26:46.560 --> 0:26:49.280
<v Speaker 1>dozing off. I mean, I'll hugged her and hold all

0:26:49.320 --> 0:26:55.480
<v Speaker 1>the her she fall asleep. Where do you think Megan

0:26:55.560 --> 0:26:59.719
<v Speaker 1>the Stallion is lying when she says the bullets fired out,

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<v Speaker 1>then by Tory Lanes hit her feet, so that she's lying. Yes,

0:27:04.920 --> 0:27:07.800
<v Speaker 1>I think you're shotting the feet. Yeah, I think that. Sure,

0:27:07.840 --> 0:27:10.000
<v Speaker 1>Okay I've been saying and people get mad at me.

0:27:10.080 --> 0:27:13.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I know what happened because I would have

0:27:13.119 --> 0:27:15.399
<v Speaker 1>did the same ship and I don't drink where like

0:27:16.119 --> 0:27:19.119
<v Speaker 1>a woman is popping it loud, right, she popping and

0:27:19.160 --> 0:27:22.040
<v Speaker 1>she popping and talking crazy whatever she's saying. And I

0:27:22.119 --> 0:27:23.800
<v Speaker 1>got my piece and I'm like, you mean my piece?

0:27:24.000 --> 0:27:26.480
<v Speaker 1>And I get the popping at the ground dance bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>this pop right, and one of the bullet fragments the

0:27:32.640 --> 0:27:34.639
<v Speaker 1>pullet bragman and broke off and hit her in the feet,

0:27:34.840 --> 0:27:37.399
<v Speaker 1>which still means you shot in the foot. And the

0:27:37.440 --> 0:27:39.800
<v Speaker 1>way I feel about it, even with tor Is, I

0:27:39.800 --> 0:27:42.360
<v Speaker 1>would have respected it on some GHI if he came out, Yeah,

0:27:42.359 --> 0:27:44.399
<v Speaker 1>I shot at the ground and she was talking crazy.

0:27:44.440 --> 0:27:46.520
<v Speaker 1>I told the bitch dance and popped at her feet.

0:27:47.080 --> 0:27:50.600
<v Speaker 1>You're still not really going to go to jail. You're

0:27:50.640 --> 0:27:52.639
<v Speaker 1>gonna get in trouble, but you're not gonna go to jail.

0:27:52.880 --> 0:27:54.920
<v Speaker 1>But I think it's weird for him to sit around

0:27:54.960 --> 0:27:58.440
<v Speaker 1>and make this bitch look crazy and and no disrespect

0:27:58.480 --> 0:28:02.720
<v Speaker 1>to Meg, like no, but like and my niggas is like, yeah,

0:28:02.760 --> 0:28:06.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, you know she lined. And I'm like, why

0:28:06.040 --> 0:28:10.000
<v Speaker 1>would somebody lie about shooting somebody. I've heard people say, oh, well,

0:28:10.480 --> 0:28:13.040
<v Speaker 1>well she did get shot in the foot. She didn't

0:28:13.080 --> 0:28:16.720
<v Speaker 1>lie about that. They think she never got the feld.

0:28:17.200 --> 0:28:18.919
<v Speaker 1>That's but that's what I'm saying. She they never They

0:28:18.960 --> 0:28:20.639
<v Speaker 1>don't think she got shot in the foot of like yo,

0:28:20.720 --> 0:28:25.040
<v Speaker 1>her medical records because it's right there. Just crazy because

0:28:25.080 --> 0:28:28.680
<v Speaker 1>he established But I think what's funny is right, I

0:28:28.840 --> 0:28:32.440
<v Speaker 1>get I've heard this right a sense of like like

0:28:32.640 --> 0:28:36.040
<v Speaker 1>I am a chauvinist or I have a dis thing

0:28:36.160 --> 0:28:39.240
<v Speaker 1>for women personally. I'm like, that's silly, just because I

0:28:39.320 --> 0:28:42.720
<v Speaker 1>accurately describe women that I've came into contact with or

0:28:42.800 --> 0:28:47.760
<v Speaker 1>that frequent mob my room. I mean, whether it's pop

0:28:47.920 --> 0:28:51.000
<v Speaker 1>but that's also in that same space where, oh, if

0:28:51.080 --> 0:28:54.080
<v Speaker 1>you like Kanye, then you can never be critical over

0:28:54.160 --> 0:28:56.640
<v Speaker 1>his decisions. You can never say I don't agree like

0:28:56.760 --> 0:29:00.040
<v Speaker 1>we in this kind of real lay mass puss he

0:29:00.240 --> 0:29:05.080
<v Speaker 1>as soft, fast space where you can't, you know, be

0:29:05.320 --> 0:29:07.400
<v Speaker 1>honest if you funk with somebody. And I don't know

0:29:07.480 --> 0:29:10.680
<v Speaker 1>how to exist in that space. But I have a

0:29:10.760 --> 0:29:13.960
<v Speaker 1>problem with a lot of qualities of people in general.

0:29:14.840 --> 0:29:22.320
<v Speaker 1>Some of those happened to be borderline, like foundational cornerstones

0:29:23.320 --> 0:29:29.280
<v Speaker 1>of life being a woman like. I don't like a

0:29:29.400 --> 0:29:35.360
<v Speaker 1>lot of the entitlement, the anti like, the rejection of like,

0:29:37.520 --> 0:29:41.360
<v Speaker 1>you know, consequences and responsibility, accountability, all that kind of ship.

0:29:42.760 --> 0:29:44.280
<v Speaker 1>I don't like. I don't like people do that ship.

0:29:44.320 --> 0:29:46.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't like grown as men who like

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<v Speaker 1>happens every seventeen ft driving through Fort Lauderdale, who stopped

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<v Speaker 1>traffic in the left lane to zero in the forty

0:29:54.160 --> 0:29:56.440
<v Speaker 1>five because they want to turn right in thirty five.

0:29:57.400 --> 0:30:00.360
<v Speaker 1>I hate that ship. I wish somebody would just fucking

0:30:00.400 --> 0:30:03.040
<v Speaker 1>straight tebow their asses right out of this world. So

0:30:03.320 --> 0:30:07.720
<v Speaker 1>we agree in a lot of sense, but I'm just

0:30:07.840 --> 0:30:11.800
<v Speaker 1>trying to get down to exactly why don't you think

0:30:11.880 --> 0:30:17.360
<v Speaker 1>there's somebody in this world that's a female that would

0:30:17.480 --> 0:30:22.880
<v Speaker 1>be well, I guess that does sound crazy. Somebody that's

0:30:22.920 --> 0:30:26.320
<v Speaker 1>like a perfect compliment that they have to do something

0:30:26.440 --> 0:30:30.120
<v Speaker 1>you don't like sucking the human beings a human being.

0:30:30.800 --> 0:30:33.440
<v Speaker 1>It's it's pretty challenging, and I think a lot of

0:30:33.600 --> 0:30:36.520
<v Speaker 1>just the fact that, look at this point, I don't

0:30:36.560 --> 0:30:40.840
<v Speaker 1>have a a space void like a lot of people.

0:30:42.960 --> 0:30:47.680
<v Speaker 1>When there's nobody there, they feel the impis. I do not.

0:30:48.320 --> 0:30:51.400
<v Speaker 1>But somebody's there, I feel the presence, you know what

0:30:51.440 --> 0:30:54.720
<v Speaker 1>I mean. It's that kind of thing. I don't like

0:30:56.320 --> 0:31:01.720
<v Speaker 1>having to be accountable to somebody on that level. I

0:31:01.800 --> 0:31:07.520
<v Speaker 1>just don't like it. It's a little it's heavy, don't

0:31:07.560 --> 0:31:09.640
<v Speaker 1>you know. If I'm with somebody relationship with that, I

0:31:09.800 --> 0:31:13.200
<v Speaker 1>owe them answers to whatever questions they have about whatever

0:31:14.360 --> 0:31:16.560
<v Speaker 1>what I'm doing my time, where I'm doing with my money.

0:31:16.720 --> 0:31:18.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to work here anymore. I want to

0:31:18.400 --> 0:31:20.440
<v Speaker 1>go through this or I want to sell this and

0:31:20.560 --> 0:31:24.080
<v Speaker 1>violence or anything. Yeah, I don't want to. I don't

0:31:24.120 --> 0:31:26.720
<v Speaker 1>know what. Every woman is going to be worried about

0:31:26.760 --> 0:31:28.960
<v Speaker 1>what you do with your money. They're gonna be worried

0:31:29.000 --> 0:31:32.640
<v Speaker 1>that they have the right to be worried mine. But

0:31:32.720 --> 0:31:36.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't think every woman really wants to be worried

0:31:36.000 --> 0:31:38.680
<v Speaker 1>about what you do with your money. Sure, I've met

0:31:38.760 --> 0:31:40.560
<v Speaker 1>women who are not worried about what you do with

0:31:40.640 --> 0:31:46.360
<v Speaker 1>your money. As long as they have their suspect, they're fine. Well,

0:31:46.440 --> 0:31:48.960
<v Speaker 1>it's not even there's to spend. That's true too, But

0:31:49.280 --> 0:31:51.400
<v Speaker 1>it's not just that. It's also as long as you're

0:31:51.400 --> 0:31:58.560
<v Speaker 1>gonna make sure right that that's not always true. That's

0:31:58.600 --> 0:32:01.400
<v Speaker 1>not always true. That's that's that altbundy, and that's not

0:32:01.520 --> 0:32:05.800
<v Speaker 1>always that's pretty close. You're not you're not really taking

0:32:05.880 --> 0:32:08.160
<v Speaker 1>the max value of the word always there. You've got

0:32:08.240 --> 0:32:10.880
<v Speaker 1>that smirk on your face, Noice Jill, you are too.

0:32:11.640 --> 0:32:15.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't you got that troll smirk treating it right now?

0:32:15.520 --> 0:32:18.000
<v Speaker 1>That's just not true, though, p every woman is not

0:32:18.200 --> 0:32:23.240
<v Speaker 1>always trying to take your money. There. Every woman wants

0:32:23.960 --> 0:32:28.040
<v Speaker 1>somebody to pay for them to take care of you. Sure,

0:32:28.880 --> 0:32:31.520
<v Speaker 1>but they also but you also will meet women who

0:32:31.600 --> 0:32:36.360
<v Speaker 1>want to take care of you. Yeah, because that is

0:32:36.400 --> 0:32:38.840
<v Speaker 1>a personality type end of its own that comes with

0:32:39.040 --> 0:32:44.600
<v Speaker 1>it a desire to kind of like be controlling. They

0:32:44.680 --> 0:32:49.400
<v Speaker 1>want to pet man, not a pet Man, bro goddamn Pete.

0:32:49.880 --> 0:32:52.760
<v Speaker 1>I've met women in my life where I'm not there,

0:32:52.800 --> 0:32:58.080
<v Speaker 1>pet Man. Now, do they do some things that's questionable? Sure,

0:32:58.200 --> 0:33:00.960
<v Speaker 1>like every other human being breathing. You might be the

0:33:01.080 --> 0:33:02.960
<v Speaker 1>only person that I don't that you don't do a

0:33:03.040 --> 0:33:05.719
<v Speaker 1>ton of stuff that I don't think it's questionable. I mean,

0:33:05.800 --> 0:33:08.400
<v Speaker 1>whether you know, male or female when it comes to

0:33:08.680 --> 0:33:10.640
<v Speaker 1>gender right or sex whatever they want to call it,

0:33:11.040 --> 0:33:15.000
<v Speaker 1>same ship. But every woman does not want to control

0:33:15.120 --> 0:33:18.000
<v Speaker 1>your economics and have part in it. And they are

0:33:18.760 --> 0:33:21.160
<v Speaker 1>the ones who want to pay your bills. They want

0:33:21.200 --> 0:33:24.280
<v Speaker 1>to control other areas. You're like, that's they are buying equity,

0:33:24.440 --> 0:33:28.440
<v Speaker 1>They're they're like China, just gobbling up pieces of Russian

0:33:28.480 --> 0:33:31.560
<v Speaker 1>assets all over the place for control to be had later.

0:33:35.240 --> 0:33:38.520
<v Speaker 1>Oh man, So if a woman is invested in you

0:33:38.680 --> 0:33:44.640
<v Speaker 1>economically or or being responsible, right, you're saying, it's done

0:33:44.720 --> 0:33:49.800
<v Speaker 1>with a hidden motive of wanting to turn you into

0:33:49.840 --> 0:33:54.240
<v Speaker 1>a woman or control you. They want to have a

0:33:54.360 --> 0:33:59.280
<v Speaker 1>lot of sex. They want to know where you are,

0:33:59.360 --> 0:34:01.360
<v Speaker 1>who you're with, what you're doing. When you're coming back.

0:34:02.040 --> 0:34:03.680
<v Speaker 1>You know, I'll tell you we're going here on frontay,

0:34:03.680 --> 0:34:05.040
<v Speaker 1>And no, I want to go here, Who the funk

0:34:05.160 --> 0:34:07.480
<v Speaker 1>you are? You betta go find someplace to stay. I

0:34:07.520 --> 0:34:10.200
<v Speaker 1>pay the bills around here. We're going to my aunties

0:34:10.480 --> 0:34:14.239
<v Speaker 1>dinner where we're going, right, So with a woman who

0:34:14.600 --> 0:34:19.839
<v Speaker 1>is decently responsible for a nice portion of the economics,

0:34:19.920 --> 0:34:25.960
<v Speaker 1>where she feel like she controls everything, that's not impossible. Obviously,

0:34:26.040 --> 0:34:33.120
<v Speaker 1>that's probably responsible. I've seen that before. But yeah, I

0:34:33.160 --> 0:34:36.080
<v Speaker 1>can't argue with that. That could be true. I mean, there,

0:34:36.160 --> 0:34:38.480
<v Speaker 1>it's always gonna be one person, but that's not the

0:34:38.600 --> 0:34:42.440
<v Speaker 1>majority of it. So yeah, I'm in okay. So but

0:34:42.560 --> 0:34:45.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, let's say you guys are going Dutch most

0:34:45.040 --> 0:34:48.719
<v Speaker 1>of the time, not like purposely, it's just sometimes she

0:34:48.800 --> 0:34:51.560
<v Speaker 1>picks up the tab. Sometimes she pays the mortgage. Let's

0:34:51.600 --> 0:34:54.120
<v Speaker 1>say she's an attorney that has a great job, and

0:34:54.160 --> 0:34:56.680
<v Speaker 1>it looks like prime me alone, not not twenty year

0:34:56.680 --> 0:35:03.000
<v Speaker 1>on the alone, prime thirty nia me alone. Mhm, right,

0:35:04.080 --> 0:35:06.520
<v Speaker 1>And she does want you to spend time with her

0:35:06.719 --> 0:35:09.680
<v Speaker 1>sometimes even at times sometimes you don't want to spend times.

0:35:09.920 --> 0:35:15.600
<v Speaker 1>You're saying that type of economic dedication to y'all situation

0:35:15.800 --> 0:35:18.160
<v Speaker 1>is not worthy of you saying, Hey, you know what,

0:35:19.239 --> 0:35:21.040
<v Speaker 1>that's why I think you've never been in love, bro,

0:35:21.200 --> 0:35:24.640
<v Speaker 1>because when you love somebody, you love to spend time

0:35:24.680 --> 0:35:29.120
<v Speaker 1>with them. Yeah, you know, maybe you haven't been in love.

0:35:29.200 --> 0:35:34.120
<v Speaker 1>I think I'm coming closer to that realization that maybe

0:35:34.200 --> 0:35:36.000
<v Speaker 1>you've never been in love. That's not to say you

0:35:36.120 --> 0:35:39.239
<v Speaker 1>haven't loved a woman, but you've never been in a

0:35:39.320 --> 0:35:43.759
<v Speaker 1>situation where you and that person loved each other enough

0:35:43.800 --> 0:35:46.200
<v Speaker 1>to where it's not a burden to spend time with

0:35:46.280 --> 0:35:48.279
<v Speaker 1>them outside of the time you want to spend with them.

0:35:48.640 --> 0:35:53.520
<v Speaker 1>Here's here's the difference between those two questions. Like, you know,

0:35:55.280 --> 0:35:58.440
<v Speaker 1>people to very degrees, you know, to myself to a

0:35:58.520 --> 0:36:02.320
<v Speaker 1>degree I can define, but of peoples are a constant

0:36:02.840 --> 0:36:05.960
<v Speaker 1>evolution to say, of being you know, year old me,

0:36:06.040 --> 0:36:09.600
<v Speaker 1>three year you're only different people very Yeah, But I'm

0:36:09.640 --> 0:36:13.200
<v Speaker 1>saying even this version of you, right, even this version,

0:36:13.880 --> 0:36:16.040
<v Speaker 1>I think you haven't been in love. Maybe the younger

0:36:16.200 --> 0:36:20.839
<v Speaker 1>version was, but this version isn't. That isn't that old

0:36:21.040 --> 0:36:23.680
<v Speaker 1>this versus maybe four, four or five years old? This

0:36:23.840 --> 0:36:26.240
<v Speaker 1>face right, That's what I'm saying. So maybe you haven't

0:36:26.320 --> 0:36:30.200
<v Speaker 1>been in love to to where spending time with someone

0:36:30.760 --> 0:36:40.920
<v Speaker 1>is not a burden. Yeah, that's fair, But the itself, well,

0:36:40.960 --> 0:36:45.080
<v Speaker 1>eventually it has its moments where it's a burden. Yes,

0:36:45.760 --> 0:36:48.759
<v Speaker 1>why is another question, you know, why is it a

0:36:48.840 --> 0:36:51.560
<v Speaker 1>burden if you love somebody to spend time with them,

0:36:51.680 --> 0:36:54.919
<v Speaker 1>It's a whole another issue. Right, But I'm saying, there's

0:36:55.000 --> 0:36:58.000
<v Speaker 1>people I know like this's this, there's girls I see

0:36:58.120 --> 0:37:03.600
<v Speaker 1>occasion and I'm like, I love that genuinely. I don't

0:37:03.680 --> 0:37:08.279
<v Speaker 1>think you don't think you love sleeping with them or

0:37:08.360 --> 0:37:11.080
<v Speaker 1>you love you like qualities about them. But if it's

0:37:11.120 --> 0:37:14.880
<v Speaker 1>still a burden to be around them, I can't be loved.

0:37:15.800 --> 0:37:19.080
<v Speaker 1>Of course it can. Hell, no, no way. You could

0:37:19.440 --> 0:37:23.520
<v Speaker 1>love someone and it's a bird. Well, yeah, that's not true.

0:37:23.600 --> 0:37:26.160
<v Speaker 1>You could definitely love somebody and it's a burden to

0:37:26.239 --> 0:37:32.640
<v Speaker 1>be around him. Yeah, And here's the issue. I can

0:37:32.760 --> 0:37:35.279
<v Speaker 1>love somebody and it can be a burden to be

0:37:35.360 --> 0:37:38.239
<v Speaker 1>around them some of the time. But the fulfillment and

0:37:38.360 --> 0:37:43.120
<v Speaker 1>gratification I get from the love does not outweigh the

0:37:43.280 --> 0:37:46.839
<v Speaker 1>cause of the burden. And I know that, and I'm

0:37:46.880 --> 0:37:51.080
<v Speaker 1>final Maybe that's because you haven't really been in love.

0:37:52.840 --> 0:37:58.080
<v Speaker 1>You're asking, You're saying, you know how the mass Uh

0:37:59.160 --> 0:38:03.120
<v Speaker 1>and Adam's precisely what prevents it from traveling the speed

0:38:03.160 --> 0:38:10.200
<v Speaker 1>of light. It's that same conundrum. You haven't you haven't

0:38:10.239 --> 0:38:12.439
<v Speaker 1>been in love, so you don't appreciate the burden. It's

0:38:12.480 --> 0:38:17.640
<v Speaker 1>the burden itself. It keeps from being in love. You know,

0:38:17.760 --> 0:38:20.000
<v Speaker 1>that's the you know, of course the atoms. So the

0:38:20.200 --> 0:38:23.960
<v Speaker 1>thought of you having to spend time with someone when

0:38:24.040 --> 0:38:26.600
<v Speaker 1>you don't want to spend time with someone you love

0:38:27.320 --> 0:38:29.239
<v Speaker 1>is what keeps you from being in love. You know,

0:38:29.440 --> 0:38:34.680
<v Speaker 1>the burden as it because yeah, but the burden is

0:38:34.800 --> 0:38:38.120
<v Speaker 1>the thought. The burden really is the time, So the

0:38:38.280 --> 0:38:40.920
<v Speaker 1>thought because because you're not actually spending the time, it's

0:38:41.000 --> 0:38:44.920
<v Speaker 1>the thought of spending time. If you were to propel

0:38:45.040 --> 0:38:47.960
<v Speaker 1>matter it was accelerating up to the speed of light,

0:38:48.160 --> 0:38:50.359
<v Speaker 1>its own mass would slow it down, so we can

0:38:50.440 --> 0:38:55.120
<v Speaker 1>get close and then decelerate. Sure, that's the same thing.

0:38:55.239 --> 0:38:58.480
<v Speaker 1>So if it takes you, so you said, you start

0:38:58.560 --> 0:39:03.359
<v Speaker 1>the journey of falling in us. And then as she's saying, hey,

0:39:04.040 --> 0:39:06.560
<v Speaker 1>let's spend time on those times that you don't want to,

0:39:06.680 --> 0:39:09.759
<v Speaker 1>which creates the burden, right, or they're wanting to talk

0:39:09.920 --> 0:39:11.920
<v Speaker 1>or text or call or whatever the hell the other

0:39:13.440 --> 0:39:15.920
<v Speaker 1>the fact that she's speaking with you is a burden.

0:39:17.239 --> 0:39:19.600
<v Speaker 1>It's not the fact that there's an expectation that I

0:39:19.719 --> 0:39:26.800
<v Speaker 1>have to fucking respond and participate. So the expectation that

0:39:27.040 --> 0:39:33.640
<v Speaker 1>she is she deserves, say a conversation, becomes another type

0:39:33.680 --> 0:39:38.839
<v Speaker 1>of burning. Yeah, it's all burden. It's all burden goes

0:39:39.320 --> 0:39:43.000
<v Speaker 1>so it goes into It's like like that TV show

0:39:43.160 --> 0:39:46.800
<v Speaker 1>with a Ninja Warrior. I can't even get through the

0:39:46.880 --> 0:39:49.200
<v Speaker 1>first half of the obstacle course, stop falling into the

0:39:49.280 --> 0:39:52.520
<v Speaker 1>fucking water. All right, that's what it is. We can

0:39:52.560 --> 0:39:55.279
<v Speaker 1>talk about all the obstacles. It's great, but I thought

0:39:55.360 --> 0:39:57.279
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna get to that third one. I'm gonna be

0:39:57.320 --> 0:40:01.279
<v Speaker 1>on the water because the burden is too great. Sign

0:40:01.440 --> 0:40:05.799
<v Speaker 1>in the water. Huh. So it's a specific word. I'm

0:40:05.840 --> 0:40:11.720
<v Speaker 1>looking for. The entitlement because you have entered into a relationship.

0:40:12.880 --> 0:40:17.000
<v Speaker 1>The entitlement completely is what creates the burden. The sense

0:40:17.080 --> 0:40:22.360
<v Speaker 1>of entitlement women have entering into what we call romantic

0:40:22.480 --> 0:40:27.000
<v Speaker 1>relationships creates the burden. Yes, it was a pairing of

0:40:27.200 --> 0:40:34.880
<v Speaker 1>the entitlement along with the integrity of the responsibility that

0:40:35.040 --> 0:40:39.080
<v Speaker 1>I have to appreciate that it's actually warranted in that

0:40:39.239 --> 0:40:44.640
<v Speaker 1>particular context. So you appreciate the sense of entitlement that

0:40:44.760 --> 0:40:47.600
<v Speaker 1>they have. Yeah, I don't think it's I think in

0:40:47.760 --> 0:40:51.520
<v Speaker 1>that scenario because once you're in a relationship, right, because

0:40:51.560 --> 0:40:55.400
<v Speaker 1>you're saying you would like a relationship where there's no

0:40:55.600 --> 0:40:59.480
<v Speaker 1>sense of entitlement. That's that's not a relationship. That's what

0:40:59.520 --> 0:41:01.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. That that point. So then you're saying you

0:41:01.960 --> 0:41:04.640
<v Speaker 1>don't want a relationship. That's what I've said for forty

0:41:04.680 --> 0:41:07.680
<v Speaker 1>one and a half minutes. I'm saying, that's that's the

0:41:07.760 --> 0:41:10.719
<v Speaker 1>point I'm saying. I'm saying, And then you're saying you

0:41:10.800 --> 0:41:12.840
<v Speaker 1>don't want a relationship, and I'm getting down to the

0:41:12.920 --> 0:41:15.480
<v Speaker 1>reason is because of the sense of entitlement that comes

0:41:15.560 --> 0:41:18.680
<v Speaker 1>with it. Yeah, that and the burden. So what if

0:41:18.680 --> 0:41:21.000
<v Speaker 1>you But that's what I'm saying, that the burden is

0:41:21.160 --> 0:41:24.719
<v Speaker 1>created by the sense of entitlement. Yes, and I did

0:41:24.760 --> 0:41:26.759
<v Speaker 1>say there are certain qualities and people I don't like

0:41:27.280 --> 0:41:32.000
<v Speaker 1>and entitle it. Okay, So again, so what if you

0:41:32.040 --> 0:41:37.440
<v Speaker 1>were in a relationship with the woman who hast does

0:41:37.600 --> 0:41:45.320
<v Speaker 1>feel entitled. That's a fascinating case that should genuinely diggle

0:41:45.400 --> 0:41:53.719
<v Speaker 1>me good going up for six months, I don't care. Yeah,

0:41:53.840 --> 0:41:58.880
<v Speaker 1>So a woman who enters into a relationship without a

0:41:59.040 --> 0:42:06.680
<v Speaker 1>sense of entitle me. Oh, that might be impossible. It's

0:42:06.880 --> 0:42:11.600
<v Speaker 1>legally impossible without a specific contract in place. We I

0:42:11.640 --> 0:42:14.480
<v Speaker 1>think we've mentioned this before. One of the most nauseating

0:42:14.560 --> 0:42:17.440
<v Speaker 1>phrases to me in all of like jurisprudence in this

0:42:17.640 --> 0:42:22.160
<v Speaker 1>country is in a divorce settlement when a wife divorce

0:42:22.320 --> 0:42:24.560
<v Speaker 1>is a guy who's got a lot of money, and

0:42:24.760 --> 0:42:34.200
<v Speaker 1>she cites the i'm accustomed to this lifestyle clause to

0:42:34.440 --> 0:42:37.759
<v Speaker 1>prop up her. Alamo, Oh, you can't just tell me

0:42:37.880 --> 0:42:40.120
<v Speaker 1>I can't live in a tendent dollar house anymore. I'm

0:42:40.160 --> 0:42:43.440
<v Speaker 1>accustomed to this lifestyle. I need enough money to live

0:42:43.480 --> 0:42:46.040
<v Speaker 1>in that same kind of goddamn house, even though I

0:42:46.120 --> 0:42:48.560
<v Speaker 1>don't make any money. I never did and never will.

0:42:49.080 --> 0:42:54.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm accustomed to the lifestyle. So you don't agree with that, No,

0:42:57.280 --> 0:43:06.040
<v Speaker 1>not even a little bit. Oh man, yeah, that's probably

0:43:06.080 --> 0:43:10.520
<v Speaker 1>not fair. So what if this person has suffered with

0:43:10.719 --> 0:43:13.640
<v Speaker 1>you while she was building while you were let's say

0:43:14.040 --> 0:43:17.719
<v Speaker 1>y'all had kids, and she was building, right, she was

0:43:17.800 --> 0:43:21.239
<v Speaker 1>maintaining the household, right while you was off to turn

0:43:21.360 --> 0:43:24.760
<v Speaker 1>your fortune from a hundred thousand into a hundred million.

0:43:24.840 --> 0:43:27.240
<v Speaker 1>Knowledge right, so you didn't have to deal with certain

0:43:27.480 --> 0:43:31.160
<v Speaker 1>aspects of the household. This person cooked for you every night.

0:43:31.200 --> 0:43:34.080
<v Speaker 1>I kept your food done. You know the equivalent of

0:43:34.160 --> 0:43:36.480
<v Speaker 1>a maid in a nanny in a prostitute giving you

0:43:36.560 --> 0:43:40.680
<v Speaker 1>pussy when you desire. What would that combines about if

0:43:40.800 --> 0:43:46.680
<v Speaker 1>Peter bo is the judge in court. Yeah, two million

0:43:46.719 --> 0:43:49.600
<v Speaker 1>bucks for ten years, two million bucks for ten years.

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<v Speaker 1>Just think the nanny and maiden, the prostitute, constra crisis.

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