Speaker 1: Watch up and welcome back to another episode and no
Speaker 1: Sellers podcast with your host, now funk that with your
Speaker 1: low glasses, Malone. Burden is created by the sense of entitlement. Yes,
Speaker 1: and I did say there are certain qualities and people
Speaker 1: I don't like and then title it okay, so again,
Speaker 1: So what if you were in a relationship with the
Speaker 1: woman who has feel entitled? That's a fascinating case. Dog
Speaker 1: my man handing dog. Nothing, just trying to find that
Speaker 1: wealthy big girl pad these pockets wealthy man, They're gonna
Speaker 1: kill you as soon as they can't you. I won't
Speaker 1: even schedule like a live like a live uh podcast,
Speaker 1: because I know they're gonna put a hit out on
Speaker 1: the dog. Like literally, it's like Malcolm Eggs like in
Speaker 1: a movie where they some some girl or how about
Speaker 1: get your hand on my purse, bits, get your hand
Speaker 1: on my purse. They still you know you're gonna be
Speaker 1: like sisters. Sister, They're gonna run up and knock your
Speaker 1: ass there. Yeah, why why are you? Why are you
Speaker 1: so hard on women? Man? What is that really about? Like?
Speaker 1: I straight up like, what's that about them? You don't
Speaker 1: think you hard on them? I just spend a lovely
Speaker 1: day with one's lovely day for her. But you know,
Speaker 1: so women just don't have no value. No, they have
Speaker 1: value to society, to the universe, to the people who
Speaker 1: need them in their lives. Of course, it's not one
Speaker 1: of those people. Have you ever thought that you might
Speaker 1: have been gay? No, I could ask you because we
Speaker 1: ask real questions, like you might nig it. So I
Speaker 1: gotta ask you real questions. So, wow, it's not your
Speaker 1: sexual part. That's the only that's the only work a
Speaker 1: while part. So what makes your relationship with a male
Speaker 1: friend and a female friend different? At that point, I
Speaker 1: used to have a lot of female friends, especially coming
Speaker 1: out of like let's try and feel that things a
Speaker 1: coe sport. So my, you know, mid twenties to late twenties,
Speaker 1: I have a lot of female friends. Okay, So I'm saying,
Speaker 1: so you don't think of a relationship as a thing
Speaker 1: where like females and males like, right, So like a
Speaker 1: relationship where it's a friend that you have certain benefits with.
Speaker 1: I don't know, and I guess that's probably what it is.
Speaker 1: But that dynamics different. That's a that's a lot of um,
Speaker 1: that's a big role, you know, like a girl, Like
Speaker 1: if I had a girlfriend or a wife, they would
Speaker 1: take up more of my time and energy and resources,
Speaker 1: et cetera than like all my guy friends combined ever
Speaker 1: could or would you know? But do you feel so
Speaker 1: at that point it just bothers you that they absorbed
Speaker 1: so much at a time. Well, it's kind of like this.
Speaker 1: People used to ask me, like why don't look, which
Speaker 1: is actually kind of funny the way it would happen.
Speaker 1: But people used to ask, like why I didn't like
Speaker 1: the day white girls, And I'm like, I get people
Speaker 1: who do I totally do, and people who like I'm
Speaker 1: even like black guys like I would never date a
Speaker 1: black woman that I believe me. I get that sympathetic
Speaker 1: to that talking point. It's just to me the cool things,
Speaker 1: like the benefits the pluses of day, like a white
Speaker 1: lady versus black lady. They're not it's not real valuable currency.
Speaker 1: And as I've gotten older now, like I've been by
Speaker 1: myself a long time now, just just in general, but
Speaker 1: all the costs, effort, energy, etcetera. That goes into the
Speaker 1: sustaining a relationship and keeping person happy, all the other
Speaker 1: kind of things versus what I get back from it.
Speaker 1: I'm trading out dollars for pace. So it's just it's
Speaker 1: not a good currency trade for me. So you're saying emotionally,
Speaker 1: they don't provide that value worth everything that's going on. Yes, absolutely,
Speaker 1: it's a it's a cost belt as a cost uh
Speaker 1: benefit catastrophe to me. So what would she need to
Speaker 1: do to provide said value? When you feel like she
Speaker 1: you're getting a deal on the time you're putting into it,
Speaker 1: the resources you're putting into it, everything that she absorbed
Speaker 1: from you, what would she have to do to make
Speaker 1: that of equal or greater value become a strange Yeah, honestly,
Speaker 1: like give me tangible things I did. I mean, it's
Speaker 1: it's impossible. I mean, that's that's the Just give me something,
Speaker 1: just use your use your monetary mind, right and give
Speaker 1: me a fair trade. It wouldn't It wouldn't be what
Speaker 1: could she do to up her value? It would be
Speaker 1: how much mhm less what I have to contribute to
Speaker 1: match her value? Becausely not gonna go up. Okay, So
Speaker 1: let's say this woman specifically, right, is she pays the
Speaker 1: mortgage some time you come home, she pays the mortgage
Speaker 1: m right, and she's not. She's not trying to see.
Speaker 1: She got her own home girl. She got her own
Speaker 1: home girls, right, and they do they thing. So she's
Speaker 1: not in your face all the time. Yeah, right, but
Speaker 1: she makes sure she left me. She leaves your plate
Speaker 1: in the microwave. Right, you come home, the house is clean.
Speaker 1: What if her demands of your time and energy? This
Speaker 1: is all obviously impossible, but let's say, let's say in
Speaker 1: a weird science type of universe, right, weird science type
Speaker 1: of universe, that this was possible. What if I was
Speaker 1: a kept man with the ultimate autonomy? No, not not
Speaker 1: kept man. Right, you're you. You pay the mortgage. Sometimes
Speaker 1: she pays the mortgage. Sometimes. She always makes sure you
Speaker 1: have food to eat. So even if she's going out
Speaker 1: with her friends, she still comes in at a reasonable hour.
Speaker 1: Your plate is in the microwave, right, she's not sweating
Speaker 1: you about time she comes. She comes with the fresh
Speaker 1: Cuban cigars, hand wrapped, hand road. Right, she knows what
Speaker 1: you like. She got your favorite you know, your favorite
Speaker 1: scots poured up, and she's not in your way because
Speaker 1: that type of stuff can't happen, can Yes, that's not impossible.
Speaker 1: So to me, what would be impossible. Is a woman
Speaker 1: paying the mortgage sometimes and still feeling like, I mean,
Speaker 1: it's not impossible. I take that back, especially with the sisters,
Speaker 1: because you know, sisters come from you know, it's a
Speaker 1: different in America. Most of the sisters have to work
Speaker 1: and still be what you call the proverbial you know,
Speaker 1: wife or mother right where they're cooking and working. So
Speaker 1: it's not insane and thinks so, but usually they start
Speaker 1: to demand your time in exchange for so much of
Speaker 1: the stuff that comes with a certain amount of patience
Speaker 1: which is limited in a certain amount of presentment which
Speaker 1: is accruing. Yeah, so at some point, it's like you
Speaker 1: have to be a unique individual to just take take, take, take, take,
Speaker 1: take take, while the other parties becoming more and more
Speaker 1: and more and more and more and more just satisfied
Speaker 1: and for it to not even phasing in the least.
Speaker 1: But is a relationship really like she's are you really
Speaker 1: just taking from her at that point even if like
Speaker 1: let's say six months, I be she paid the mortgage
Speaker 1: and not really like on paying the morrigage, but really
Speaker 1: just paid the morrigors like I'm I got it, and
Speaker 1: then you paid the six months she's still providing a
Speaker 1: level of um, we got the right word for it.
Speaker 1: But where she's around the house doing things that we
Speaker 1: think women should do around the house. Right, she still cooking, cleaning,
Speaker 1: achieving the spot, You still taking the trash are, You're
Speaker 1: still doing the masculine things. She's not demanding all your attention.
Speaker 1: She's not actually making you compromise and do things you
Speaker 1: don't like to do to spend time with you. She's
Speaker 1: doing things that you want to do. See, but that's
Speaker 1: the thing I don't want that I want to do. No, No,
Speaker 1: I'm not saying. I'm not saying she's going to go
Speaker 1: through the cigar loans with you. Right. She still let
Speaker 1: you have your own space. But the things that when
Speaker 1: it is time to spend time with her and it's
Speaker 1: time to spend time, there are things that you like
Speaker 1: to do. She's not trying to break you down and
Speaker 1: make you do this, you know, because that's all really
Speaker 1: compromising is for women. Like I used to tell women,
Speaker 1: is like I don't believe in compromises, Like if if
Speaker 1: I funk with you, I will do what it takes
Speaker 1: to make you happy. Right. So there's very few things
Speaker 1: like time, example, right, Like a compromise would be something
Speaker 1: I hate to do or I'm unwilling to do to
Speaker 1: make you happy. So let's say, like paulse for the
Speaker 1: for for crying out allowed, you meet a girl who
Speaker 1: is super kinky and she's like into deal. Does that's
Speaker 1: her thing? Like, yo, I'm not into you know, like
Speaker 1: having deal? Does you know it's not my things? Like
Speaker 1: like that ain't my thing now, I'm not going to
Speaker 1: compromise on that, and she shouldn't. Like to me, that's
Speaker 1: a compromise where you have to do something that you
Speaker 1: absolutely don't funk with for somebody else to be happy.
Speaker 1: But at that point, if somebody funk with you, you you
Speaker 1: know why what they want you to do, how could
Speaker 1: they be happy what you're doing something you hate to
Speaker 1: do or that you aren't willing to do. Like, it's
Speaker 1: different if like it's certain foods I don't want to
Speaker 1: eat because I haven't ate them, right, that's ignorance. I've
Speaker 1: never tasted them to even dislike them, right, But that's
Speaker 1: not the equivalent Like if she says, hey, let's go
Speaker 1: to a restaurant, I'm going to go to the restaurant
Speaker 1: because it will make her happy, whether not I want
Speaker 1: to go or not. Now something I totally don't want
Speaker 1: to do is different. Okay, when you say go to
Speaker 1: the restaurant, do you mean with her? Yes? With her?
Speaker 1: She will accompany you to say a restaurant. You don't
Speaker 1: want to go to a restaurant with a girl. Not? Okay,
Speaker 1: So you're not gay, but you don't really favor women.
Speaker 1: I know you're not gotta been around you know. If
Speaker 1: you was guy, you hit it the greatest I've ever seen.
Speaker 1: So I definitely don't and I don't get homosexual. Listen,
Speaker 1: I don't get a homosexual vibe from you, even a
Speaker 1: look like you're still a man's man like you're not
Speaker 1: extra to your confident in your masculinity. So how could
Speaker 1: you just hate women? That's I don't hate women? Well,
Speaker 1: why would you not want to go to the restaurant
Speaker 1: with the woman? Why would she annoy you? This just
Speaker 1: what it's, This is what's gonna happen. How what because like,
Speaker 1: for example, that's a couple of hours all told, you know,
Speaker 1: including traveling to and from being there, all that kind
Speaker 1: of ship you know, but you do that all the
Speaker 1: time by yourself. Yeah, but I'm looking at ship, focusing
Speaker 1: on ship that I'm have a active interest and attention span,
Speaker 1: whereas otherwise I'm just like ship. When this again, I
Speaker 1: listen to this ship again, You're gonna go on? Do
Speaker 1: you have to listen to again? Her voice, words, sentences.
Speaker 1: So women just talk annoys you. You don't think at something,
Speaker 1: you don't think at someplace you might have to be
Speaker 1: worried like about actually hating women, Like how does somebody
Speaker 1: voice annoy you just because of her gender? Look a
Speaker 1: lot of those voices and know any regardless, Okay, agreed,
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying you have pretty much well like
Speaker 1: I was. Okay, that's like I was spent all day
Speaker 1: with a girl from Trinidad. Today she's super cool, gorgeous girl,
Speaker 1: but I also know, oh today she kind of she
Speaker 1: did Alright today, I'm not gonna lie. Ten years ago,
Speaker 1: I would have been like I got about this, like yeah,
Speaker 1: but is it the sheer active of her voice? Like
Speaker 1: if it was a girl with a so then what
Speaker 1: exactly would be so annoying about riding with the woman?
Speaker 1: Let's say to apple bees. It's the fact that, like
Speaker 1: the conversational topic catalog is so so far from my
Speaker 1: personal interests they're so far apart. So what if you
Speaker 1: lead the conversations and she talked about the things you
Speaker 1: wanted to talk about, and she's gonna be feeling the
Speaker 1: same way as I am, or she's just playing simply
Speaker 1: not gonna understand what I'm talking about? Can you mask
Speaker 1: the female gender or the female sex in that, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like, no woman is gonna understand
Speaker 1: or no woman is gonna get it? Is that really
Speaker 1: where you want to be when Jesus comes back? But
Speaker 1: that's where you that's the hell right there. You no
Speaker 1: woman be into the same things that Pete could be.
Speaker 1: You don have to be one ugly bitch. Why would
Speaker 1: she be? I would like to believe me. I would
Speaker 1: like to believe Pete likes I like to believe all
Speaker 1: kinds of things. Yeah, I'd like to believe. You're a
Speaker 1: handsome guy, so you're not an ugly white man for me, Like,
Speaker 1: you're not a horrible looking white guy, and you into us.
Speaker 1: So why would a woman You're saying she couldn't be
Speaker 1: cute and into the same things you went too? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm on a weird like intellectual journey, you know,
Speaker 1: in my life, and I enjoy it and it's interesting
Speaker 1: to me. So like I would rather listen to some
Speaker 1: I would have put on an earpiece and listen to
Speaker 1: some expert dissect market trends in Southeast Asia in the
Speaker 1: textile supply chain system, then listen to this lady talk
Speaker 1: about any of the first fifteen things she's gonna want
Speaker 1: to talk about. It's just a more interesting thought exuccessful. Now,
Speaker 1: while I agree with you, nine of women are okay.
Speaker 1: First off, no sailings, gl they don't know at this point. Yeah,
Speaker 1: my nets going crazy? Um okay, Now I get that.
Speaker 1: It's like a funny. It's not likely, it's it's it's
Speaker 1: it's improbable, but it's not impossible. What if she likes
Speaker 1: to listen to the same thing. Can also speculate, No, no,
Speaker 1: don't expect it. I'm saying, for example, let's let's live
Speaker 1: in this universe where she wants to hear the market
Speaker 1: trends of the things going on in some country in
Speaker 1: Asia as well, and she's probably all boring and squared
Speaker 1: and needed being cheated on with a younger side ship.
Speaker 1: I'm saying, what if she's young, What if she's three
Speaker 1: years younger than you. She wants all the same things
Speaker 1: you're listening to. I'm pretty fucking old. I say she's
Speaker 1: three years younger. She's not that far three years younger,
Speaker 1: still pretty, I mean, but she loves what you listened to.
Speaker 1: She could be a hottie for me. And I know
Speaker 1: you funk with the sisters, so she could have went
Speaker 1: to you know, spell minute somewhere. Ever, she really into it.
Speaker 1: Her her mind may be on economics, because she may
Speaker 1: be a wizard or like a savant and math, and
Speaker 1: she loves listening to the numbers and giving you advice.
Speaker 1: And she's gave you great advice about the numbers. Sure, sure,
Speaker 1: that becomes very much you know, a pin in a
Speaker 1: in a haystack, but it's not impossible. Here's here's another
Speaker 1: issue to your brother's gonna create more of a wrinkle
Speaker 1: a person like that, because that's rare. I agree, that's
Speaker 1: that was definitely going to be very few sisters, because
Speaker 1: you see, once you made his sisters, now you didn't
Speaker 1: nail it down to just you know one. Choosing a
Speaker 1: Supreme Court justice is what it is. We found a system,
Speaker 1: found one easier than you find one that likes to
Speaker 1: listen to the market trends in some country now it
Speaker 1: is more willing to compromise on standards and Supreme Court
Speaker 1: justices than I am. And wives, I don't think he
Speaker 1: has a standard on Supreme Court justices. I know that's
Speaker 1: the problem. Well, well that's the tricky part, right, because
Speaker 1: standards is a questionable thing. So I would buy the
Speaker 1: out of anybody have standards. Doesn't just take everything? Why
Speaker 1: didn't she take everything he could get? He had two standards,
Speaker 1: gender ethics, those are the only standards. And working as
Speaker 1: a judge, well it opinions, right, So then it goes
Speaker 1: into the if the ladies qualified for the job, and
Speaker 1: I don't want to get into that because it becomes
Speaker 1: you tearing down sister, and I don't need to be
Speaker 1: kicking nobody as because it's a lot of the subjective.
Speaker 1: But there there are a lot of questions. There's a
Speaker 1: lot of questions in the space he did what made
Speaker 1: people feel good? I would imagine I'm sure hound girls
Speaker 1: qualified for the position, you know, based off whatever the
Speaker 1: qualifications are. Um, I definitely believe there's always an underlying
Speaker 1: motive of how you want to be presented, especially somebody
Speaker 1: like Biden, who has, you know, historically a horrible mark
Speaker 1: when it comes to you know, how he wants to
Speaker 1: do justice, and he wants to literally separate exactly how
Speaker 1: cocaine is prosecuted and and you know, the the ability
Speaker 1: to create three strikes and all of these simple things
Speaker 1: where you get life, which is somebody convicting you on
Speaker 1: your past, you know, offenses, which is probably should have
Speaker 1: not even been legal. It's a another story. But that's
Speaker 1: before we get carried away, because that's some whole other ship. Right,
Speaker 1: Let's say that woman is exactly that, and she's young,
Speaker 1: and she's three years younger than you, but she's pretty hot.
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously she's not going to be hot sister
Speaker 1: hot is Ah, she's not gil and the best. She's
Speaker 1: not going to be Um. You know how hot she
Speaker 1: could be. She could be knee a long hot, prime
Speaker 1: n a long hot and Friday. You know what's funny, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that that that could happen now personally A long hot
Speaker 1: and Friday now prime ne a long hot is not
Speaker 1: prime Magan good hot. About ten years ago, Huh, I
Speaker 1: had a traffic ticket and I got sent to like
Speaker 1: the Newport Beach Superior Court and I was delinquent on
Speaker 1: this ship and whatever else, and the judge in there
Speaker 1: was probably forty. I was about to ask for her
Speaker 1: number on the batter. She knocked that ship from like
Speaker 1: down to like four fifty, and I was like, I
Speaker 1: can spend all this money on you. I just saved
Speaker 1: at least a couple with extra hundred budget. Hold up,
Speaker 1: Hold up, So let's say I sped around that town
Speaker 1: for five years trying to get back in the court.
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, so let's say she's knee a long,
Speaker 1: she's me alone, because you can get a lady that's
Speaker 1: into finances and economics a system that's near alone hot
Speaker 1: for sure. Now Megan Good hot, probably not. Magan Good
Speaker 1: is a different kind of hot. Um. You could probably
Speaker 1: get a knee a Long hot. You can get a
Speaker 1: Primes to not Lathan hot. Mh. I'm sure she's not Latan.
Speaker 1: Probably studied economics at one time. She looked like it.
Speaker 1: So primes are not Latan hot. Can't get a prime
Speaker 1: Janet Jackson hot. She's definitely studying economics. What I'm saying,
Speaker 1: so you're telling me a prime me alone hot, right
Speaker 1: is she's in the economicy that's possible. Here's the challenge
Speaker 1: that person probably also in the event, And this is
Speaker 1: a super far fetched idea. Steven addressed, Let's suppose that
Speaker 1: lady could even so much to stand my company. She's
Speaker 1: gonna be able to stay in my company because I'm
Speaker 1: so different, and she's like, wow, this guy is so
Speaker 1: fucking different. Obviously, that's, you know, pretty cut and dry.
Speaker 1: She's gonna want more of my time than I'm gonna wanna.
Speaker 1: But what if she doesn't. That's a that's almost borderline
Speaker 1: ridiculous than that, then, right, what's the point. So you're
Speaker 1: saving to answer to somebody that I see once every
Speaker 1: two weeks. So so you're saying you don't want to
Speaker 1: spend time with the woman. Not like that? Okay, So
Speaker 1: let's say on a physical level, you're married. How often, right,
Speaker 1: do you want to ask sex with your wife? What's
Speaker 1: your wife? Who you've been sleeping with for years? Sleeping
Speaker 1: in the next room. I don't like sleep next people.
Speaker 1: I need you need a therapist because I don't like
Speaker 1: sleeping next people. I don't like that. I think you
Speaker 1: shorten nothing specifically, all grew up and watches out here
Speaker 1: like a month ago, I don't sleep the next I
Speaker 1: just don't. But nonetheless, yeah, I don't know, three or
Speaker 1: four times a week is cool. But so you're gonna
Speaker 1: walk into her room from you, I'm gonna walk to
Speaker 1: the other room in my house that she's in. I'm saying,
Speaker 1: let's say she's paying the mortgage sometimes, so it's your house,
Speaker 1: but she's paying it. Anyways, I know women like that.
Speaker 1: I addressed last week my little bro. My little bro,
Speaker 1: my bro mo has a woman who used to pay
Speaker 1: the mortgage at his property. No problem. Mhm. So again
Speaker 1: she it was never their property, was never the thought.
Speaker 1: So I'm asking you, so you're gonna walk to the
Speaker 1: room that she's in to have sex with her, and
Speaker 1: then walk back into your room after sex his own? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what you don't wanna. My my my one girlfriend
Speaker 1: I had back in the day, her parents were like that.
Speaker 1: I just think you've never been in love, Pete. I have.
Speaker 1: Maybe you've never been in love like I've been in love,
Speaker 1: but when you've never been to live like I don't. Okay,
Speaker 1: So because the way you talk about women, right, you
Speaker 1: talk about them, You talk about women a way like
Speaker 1: of women have been in my life where you don't
Speaker 1: want to. It's like as soon as you feel like
Speaker 1: what you're about to do, right, sure, but there's always
Speaker 1: that small micro percentage to to one percent of women
Speaker 1: where you like, you've never slept with a woman that
Speaker 1: you didn't want to leave when it was over, that
Speaker 1: you didn't want to be with women that I didn't
Speaker 1: want to leave the address. But I still want to
Speaker 1: go sleep where I have some space. If I had
Speaker 1: a giant, asked master sweep, I don't need you to
Speaker 1: leave the property or I don't need to like leave
Speaker 1: wherever and go getting a card bounce. I need to
Speaker 1: space to sleep. I don't like. Have you ever hugged
Speaker 1: the woman? Yeah all the time? Okay, have you ever
Speaker 1: hugged a woman when you were sleeping? I don't know,
Speaker 1: probably not. Did you get molested as a kid, No,
Speaker 1: So you you never found a woman who you wanted
Speaker 1: to hug when y'all went to sleep together, as you
Speaker 1: wanted to cuddle. They say cuddle. That's the word that's
Speaker 1: women say all time, cuddle. You've never found a woman
Speaker 1: you wanted to cuddle with in life, not into a sleep,
Speaker 1: not like sleep like a No, I mean obviously right,
Speaker 1: you you. Let's say you push off for you know
Speaker 1: eventually once you sleep because you need your space. But
Speaker 1: you never found a woman you wanted to hug while
Speaker 1: dozing off. I mean, I'll hugged her and hold all
Speaker 1: the her she fall asleep. Where do you think Megan
Speaker 1: the Stallion is lying when she says the bullets fired out,
Speaker 1: then by Tory Lanes hit her feet, so that she's lying. Yes,
Speaker 1: I think you're shotting the feet. Yeah, I think that. Sure,
Speaker 1: Okay I've been saying and people get mad at me.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I know what happened because I would have
Speaker 1: did the same ship and I don't drink where like
Speaker 1: a woman is popping it loud, right, she popping and
Speaker 1: she popping and talking crazy whatever she's saying. And I
Speaker 1: got my piece and I'm like, you mean my piece?
Speaker 1: And I get the popping at the ground dance bitch,
Speaker 1: this pop right, and one of the bullet fragments the
Speaker 1: pullet bragman and broke off and hit her in the feet,
Speaker 1: which still means you shot in the foot. And the
Speaker 1: way I feel about it, even with tor Is, I
Speaker 1: would have respected it on some GHI if he came out, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I shot at the ground and she was talking crazy.
Speaker 1: I told the bitch dance and popped at her feet.
Speaker 1: You're still not really going to go to jail. You're
Speaker 1: gonna get in trouble, but you're not gonna go to jail.
Speaker 1: But I think it's weird for him to sit around
Speaker 1: and make this bitch look crazy and and no disrespect
Speaker 1: to Meg, like no, but like and my niggas is like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, you know she lined. And I'm like, why
Speaker 1: would somebody lie about shooting somebody. I've heard people say, oh, well,
Speaker 1: well she did get shot in the foot. She didn't
Speaker 1: lie about that. They think she never got the feld.
Speaker 1: That's but that's what I'm saying. She they never They
Speaker 1: don't think she got shot in the foot of like yo,
Speaker 1: her medical records because it's right there. Just crazy because
Speaker 1: he established But I think what's funny is right, I
Speaker 1: get I've heard this right a sense of like like
Speaker 1: I am a chauvinist or I have a dis thing
Speaker 1: for women personally. I'm like, that's silly, just because I
Speaker 1: accurately describe women that I've came into contact with or
Speaker 1: that frequent mob my room. I mean, whether it's pop
Speaker 1: but that's also in that same space where, oh, if
Speaker 1: you like Kanye, then you can never be critical over
Speaker 1: his decisions. You can never say I don't agree like
Speaker 1: we in this kind of real lay mass puss he
Speaker 1: as soft, fast space where you can't, you know, be
Speaker 1: honest if you funk with somebody. And I don't know
Speaker 1: how to exist in that space. But I have a
Speaker 1: problem with a lot of qualities of people in general.
Speaker 1: Some of those happened to be borderline, like foundational cornerstones
Speaker 1: of life being a woman like. I don't like a
Speaker 1: lot of the entitlement, the anti like, the rejection of like,
Speaker 1: you know, consequences and responsibility, accountability, all that kind of ship.
Speaker 1: I don't like. I don't like people do that ship.
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't like grown as men who like
Speaker 1: happens every seventeen ft driving through Fort Lauderdale, who stopped
Speaker 1: traffic in the left lane to zero in the forty
Speaker 1: five because they want to turn right in thirty five.
Speaker 1: I hate that ship. I wish somebody would just fucking
Speaker 1: straight tebow their asses right out of this world. So
Speaker 1: we agree in a lot of sense, but I'm just
Speaker 1: trying to get down to exactly why don't you think
Speaker 1: there's somebody in this world that's a female that would
Speaker 1: be well, I guess that does sound crazy. Somebody that's
Speaker 1: like a perfect compliment that they have to do something
Speaker 1: you don't like sucking the human beings a human being.
Speaker 1: It's it's pretty challenging, and I think a lot of
Speaker 1: just the fact that, look at this point, I don't
Speaker 1: have a a space void like a lot of people.
Speaker 1: When there's nobody there, they feel the impis. I do not.
Speaker 1: But somebody's there, I feel the presence, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. It's that kind of thing. I don't like
Speaker 1: having to be accountable to somebody on that level. I
Speaker 1: just don't like it. It's a little it's heavy, don't
Speaker 1: you know. If I'm with somebody relationship with that, I
Speaker 1: owe them answers to whatever questions they have about whatever
Speaker 1: what I'm doing my time, where I'm doing with my money.
Speaker 1: I don't want to work here anymore. I want to
Speaker 1: go through this or I want to sell this and
Speaker 1: violence or anything. Yeah, I don't want to. I don't
Speaker 1: know what. Every woman is going to be worried about
Speaker 1: what you do with your money. They're gonna be worried
Speaker 1: that they have the right to be worried mine. But
Speaker 1: I don't think every woman really wants to be worried
Speaker 1: about what you do with your money. Sure, I've met
Speaker 1: women who are not worried about what you do with
Speaker 1: your money. As long as they have their suspect, they're fine. Well,
Speaker 1: it's not even there's to spend. That's true too, But
Speaker 1: it's not just that. It's also as long as you're
Speaker 1: gonna make sure right that that's not always true. That's
Speaker 1: not always true. That's that's that altbundy, and that's not
Speaker 1: always that's pretty close. You're not you're not really taking
Speaker 1: the max value of the word always there. You've got
Speaker 1: that smirk on your face, Noice Jill, you are too.
Speaker 1: I don't you got that troll smirk treating it right now?
Speaker 1: That's just not true, though, p every woman is not
Speaker 1: always trying to take your money. There. Every woman wants
Speaker 1: somebody to pay for them to take care of you. Sure,
Speaker 1: but they also but you also will meet women who
Speaker 1: want to take care of you. Yeah, because that is
Speaker 1: a personality type end of its own that comes with
Speaker 1: it a desire to kind of like be controlling. They
Speaker 1: want to pet man, not a pet Man, bro goddamn Pete.
Speaker 1: I've met women in my life where I'm not there,
Speaker 1: pet Man. Now, do they do some things that's questionable? Sure,
Speaker 1: like every other human being breathing. You might be the
Speaker 1: only person that I don't that you don't do a
Speaker 1: ton of stuff that I don't think it's questionable. I mean,
Speaker 1: whether you know, male or female when it comes to
Speaker 1: gender right or sex whatever they want to call it,
Speaker 1: same ship. But every woman does not want to control
Speaker 1: your economics and have part in it. And they are
Speaker 1: the ones who want to pay your bills. They want
Speaker 1: to control other areas. You're like, that's they are buying equity,
Speaker 1: They're they're like China, just gobbling up pieces of Russian
Speaker 1: assets all over the place for control to be had later.
Speaker 1: Oh man, So if a woman is invested in you
Speaker 1: economically or or being responsible, right, you're saying, it's done
Speaker 1: with a hidden motive of wanting to turn you into
Speaker 1: a woman or control you. They want to have a
Speaker 1: lot of sex. They want to know where you are,
Speaker 1: who you're with, what you're doing. When you're coming back.
Speaker 1: You know, I'll tell you we're going here on frontay,
Speaker 1: And no, I want to go here, Who the funk
Speaker 1: you are? You betta go find someplace to stay. I
Speaker 1: pay the bills around here. We're going to my aunties
Speaker 1: dinner where we're going, right, So with a woman who
Speaker 1: is decently responsible for a nice portion of the economics,
Speaker 1: where she feel like she controls everything, that's not impossible. Obviously,
Speaker 1: that's probably responsible. I've seen that before. But yeah, I
Speaker 1: can't argue with that. That could be true. I mean, there,
Speaker 1: it's always gonna be one person, but that's not the
Speaker 1: majority of it. So yeah, I'm in okay. So but
Speaker 1: I'm saying, let's say you guys are going Dutch most
Speaker 1: of the time, not like purposely, it's just sometimes she
Speaker 1: picks up the tab. Sometimes she pays the mortgage. Let's
Speaker 1: say she's an attorney that has a great job, and
Speaker 1: it looks like prime me alone, not not twenty year
Speaker 1: on the alone, prime thirty nia me alone. Mhm, right,
Speaker 1: And she does want you to spend time with her
Speaker 1: sometimes even at times sometimes you don't want to spend times.
Speaker 1: You're saying that type of economic dedication to y'all situation
Speaker 1: is not worthy of you saying, Hey, you know what,
Speaker 1: that's why I think you've never been in love, bro,
Speaker 1: because when you love somebody, you love to spend time
Speaker 1: with them. Yeah, you know, maybe you haven't been in love.
Speaker 1: I think I'm coming closer to that realization that maybe
Speaker 1: you've never been in love. That's not to say you
Speaker 1: haven't loved a woman, but you've never been in a
Speaker 1: situation where you and that person loved each other enough
Speaker 1: to where it's not a burden to spend time with
Speaker 1: them outside of the time you want to spend with them.
Speaker 1: Here's here's the difference between those two questions. Like, you know,
Speaker 1: people to very degrees, you know, to myself to a
Speaker 1: degree I can define, but of peoples are a constant
Speaker 1: evolution to say, of being you know, year old me,
Speaker 1: three year you're only different people very Yeah, But I'm
Speaker 1: saying even this version of you, right, even this version,
Speaker 1: I think you haven't been in love. Maybe the younger
Speaker 1: version was, but this version isn't. That isn't that old
Speaker 1: this versus maybe four, four or five years old? This
Speaker 1: face right, That's what I'm saying. So maybe you haven't
Speaker 1: been in love to to where spending time with someone
Speaker 1: is not a burden. Yeah, that's fair, But the itself, well,
Speaker 1: eventually it has its moments where it's a burden. Yes,
Speaker 1: why is another question, you know, why is it a
Speaker 1: burden if you love somebody to spend time with them,
Speaker 1: It's a whole another issue. Right, But I'm saying, there's
Speaker 1: people I know like this's this, there's girls I see
Speaker 1: occasion and I'm like, I love that genuinely. I don't
Speaker 1: think you don't think you love sleeping with them or
Speaker 1: you love you like qualities about them. But if it's
Speaker 1: still a burden to be around them, I can't be loved.
Speaker 1: Of course it can. Hell, no, no way. You could
Speaker 1: love someone and it's a bird. Well, yeah, that's not true.
Speaker 1: You could definitely love somebody and it's a burden to
Speaker 1: be around him. Yeah, And here's the issue. I can
Speaker 1: love somebody and it can be a burden to be
Speaker 1: around them some of the time. But the fulfillment and
Speaker 1: gratification I get from the love does not outweigh the
Speaker 1: cause of the burden. And I know that, and I'm
Speaker 1: final Maybe that's because you haven't really been in love.
Speaker 1: You're asking, You're saying, you know how the mass Uh
Speaker 1: and Adam's precisely what prevents it from traveling the speed
Speaker 1: of light. It's that same conundrum. You haven't you haven't
Speaker 1: been in love, so you don't appreciate the burden. It's
Speaker 1: the burden itself. It keeps from being in love. You know,
Speaker 1: that's the you know, of course the atoms. So the
Speaker 1: thought of you having to spend time with someone when
Speaker 1: you don't want to spend time with someone you love
Speaker 1: is what keeps you from being in love. You know,
Speaker 1: the burden as it because yeah, but the burden is
Speaker 1: the thought. The burden really is the time, So the
Speaker 1: thought because because you're not actually spending the time, it's
Speaker 1: the thought of spending time. If you were to propel
Speaker 1: matter it was accelerating up to the speed of light,
Speaker 1: its own mass would slow it down, so we can
Speaker 1: get close and then decelerate. Sure, that's the same thing.
Speaker 1: So if it takes you, so you said, you start
Speaker 1: the journey of falling in us. And then as she's saying, hey,
Speaker 1: let's spend time on those times that you don't want to,
Speaker 1: which creates the burden, right, or they're wanting to talk
Speaker 1: or text or call or whatever the hell the other
Speaker 1: the fact that she's speaking with you is a burden.
Speaker 1: It's not the fact that there's an expectation that I
Speaker 1: have to fucking respond and participate. So the expectation that
Speaker 1: she is she deserves, say a conversation, becomes another type
Speaker 1: of burning. Yeah, it's all burden. It's all burden goes
Speaker 1: so it goes into It's like like that TV show
Speaker 1: with a Ninja Warrior. I can't even get through the
Speaker 1: first half of the obstacle course, stop falling into the
Speaker 1: fucking water. All right, that's what it is. We can
Speaker 1: talk about all the obstacles. It's great, but I thought
Speaker 1: we're gonna get to that third one. I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: on the water because the burden is too great. Sign
Speaker 1: in the water. Huh. So it's a specific word. I'm
Speaker 1: looking for. The entitlement because you have entered into a relationship.
Speaker 1: The entitlement completely is what creates the burden. The sense
Speaker 1: of entitlement women have entering into what we call romantic
Speaker 1: relationships creates the burden. Yes, it was a pairing of
Speaker 1: the entitlement along with the integrity of the responsibility that
Speaker 1: I have to appreciate that it's actually warranted in that
Speaker 1: particular context. So you appreciate the sense of entitlement that
Speaker 1: they have. Yeah, I don't think it's I think in
Speaker 1: that scenario because once you're in a relationship, right, because
Speaker 1: you're saying you would like a relationship where there's no
Speaker 1: sense of entitlement. That's that's not a relationship. That's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. That that point. So then you're saying you
Speaker 1: don't want a relationship. That's what I've said for forty
Speaker 1: one and a half minutes. I'm saying, that's that's the
Speaker 1: point I'm saying. I'm saying, And then you're saying you
Speaker 1: don't want a relationship, and I'm getting down to the
Speaker 1: reason is because of the sense of entitlement that comes
Speaker 1: with it. Yeah, that and the burden. So what if
Speaker 1: you But that's what I'm saying, that the burden is
Speaker 1: created by the sense of entitlement. Yes, and I did
Speaker 1: say there are certain qualities and people I don't like
Speaker 1: and entitle it. Okay, So again, so what if you
Speaker 1: were in a relationship with the woman who hast does
Speaker 1: feel entitled. That's a fascinating case that should genuinely diggle
Speaker 1: me good going up for six months, I don't care. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So a woman who enters into a relationship without a
Speaker 1: sense of entitle me. Oh, that might be impossible. It's
Speaker 1: legally impossible without a specific contract in place. We I
Speaker 1: think we've mentioned this before. One of the most nauseating
Speaker 1: phrases to me in all of like jurisprudence in this
Speaker 1: country is in a divorce settlement when a wife divorce
Speaker 1: is a guy who's got a lot of money, and
Speaker 1: she cites the i'm accustomed to this lifestyle clause to
Speaker 1: prop up her. Alamo, Oh, you can't just tell me
Speaker 1: I can't live in a tendent dollar house anymore. I'm
Speaker 1: accustomed to this lifestyle. I need enough money to live
Speaker 1: in that same kind of goddamn house, even though I
Speaker 1: don't make any money. I never did and never will.
Speaker 1: I'm accustomed to the lifestyle. So you don't agree with that, No,
Speaker 1: not even a little bit. Oh man, yeah, that's probably
Speaker 1: not fair. So what if this person has suffered with
Speaker 1: you while she was building while you were let's say
Speaker 1: y'all had kids, and she was building, right, she was
Speaker 1: maintaining the household, right while you was off to turn
Speaker 1: your fortune from a hundred thousand into a hundred million.
Speaker 1: Knowledge right, so you didn't have to deal with certain
Speaker 1: aspects of the household. This person cooked for you every night.
Speaker 1: I kept your food done. You know the equivalent of
Speaker 1: a maid in a nanny in a prostitute giving you
Speaker 1: pussy when you desire. What would that combines about if
Speaker 1: Peter bo is the judge in court. Yeah, two million
Speaker 1: bucks for ten years, two million bucks for ten years.
Speaker 1: Just think the nanny and maiden, the prostitute, constra crisis.
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