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Speaker 1: Hold up, hold up, hold up, give me you got

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Speaker 1: a call? Hello? Hello, Hey, what's going on?

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Speaker 2: What's your name?

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Speaker 1: Uh, we'll call, We'll call.

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Speaker 2: We'll go with Isaac, Isaac. How can I get you today?

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Speaker 2: What's going on?

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Speaker 1: Not much, Grek. You know, I'm just chilling right here.

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Speaker 1: I'm in California, so you know where I'm at. Time wise,

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Speaker 1: he's drinking a beer after work.

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Speaker 2: I'm in California, so you know where I'm at. Well,

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Speaker 2: it says here that you wanted to talk about uh

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Speaker 2: being legally blind and helping out other legally blind people. Now,

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Speaker 2: how blind are you? Are? You? Like, hello, blind? They're

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Speaker 2: not that blind.

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Speaker 1: So I am totally blind from one eye and then

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Speaker 1: from my other eye. From my left eye, I only

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Speaker 1: have about tunnel vision, and everybody kind of looks. Have

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Speaker 1: you ever played that game Minecraft? Uh? Yeah, you know

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Speaker 1: how I kind of looks by blocking? Yeah, like low

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Speaker 1: graphers and stuff like that. Yeah, yeah, that's that's how

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Speaker 1: it would have that my visions.

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Speaker 2: So in one eye you see nothing, and then the

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Speaker 2: other eye you see Minecraft.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but on the right eye that I don't see

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Speaker 1: nothing out of It's like it's not darkness, it's just light.

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Speaker 1: I could still see light, so I know when it's dark.

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Speaker 1: I know when it's night. You know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: So you can so you see light out of your

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Speaker 2: like when you're in when you're in a dark room,

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Speaker 2: you don't see light, right, you just see. I mean

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Speaker 2: like if I close my eyes and I stare at

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Speaker 1: Speak of it like seem into like a because I

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Speaker 1: had vision in the past. I lost my vision, so

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Speaker 1: I just gut it as like a you know how

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Speaker 1: when you look into like a car with headlights, it's

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Speaker 1: like a hypem mhm. It's just bright, right, That's how

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Speaker 2: How'd you lose your vision?

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Speaker 1: Man, that's a long story. I had what's known as

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Speaker 1: toxic epidermal narcolosis.

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Speaker 2: Toxic epidermal epidermal something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you could call it. You can look you can

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Speaker 1: google it by looking at Stephen Johnson's syndrome.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I had that.

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Speaker 1: But it's like a spectrum type of stuff.

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Speaker 2: How old were you when you lost your vision? There'steen fifteen. Ah,

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Speaker 2: that sucks. It's like long enough to really get acquainted

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's been about twelve years, man.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe one thing. If you lost your vision when

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Speaker 2: you were like four, it's like I didn't really get

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Speaker 2: what's seeing is Like, what did that suck? Was that

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Speaker 2: a bummer?

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Speaker 1: Honest? You guys, do you know what I really missed?

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Speaker 1: I lost my virginity when I was like fourteen, I

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Speaker 1: missing tits.

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Speaker 2: I knew when you said I knew when you said,

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Speaker 2: do you know what I miss right now? I knew

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Speaker 2: you were gonna say tits.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. It's like if A feel them, I know where

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Speaker 1: I can't can't you can't see them? Painful? Dog?

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Speaker 2: When was the last time you saw tits?

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Speaker 1: Oh? You want me to get like technical up in here?

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Speaker 2: Sure? Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 1: So I got sick, so my condition. I got sick

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Speaker 1: like like oh, March March, like mid March, and I

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Speaker 3: That was the last time.

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Speaker 2: Man, So you had sex h a week before you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well before I started losing my vision.

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Speaker 2: Man, do you think it's like a god opens a window,

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Describe that? What do you mean.

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Speaker 2: Like like something good happened to you. You had sex

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Speaker 1: Well, that wasn't the first time I had sex.

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Speaker 2: I thought you said you lost your virginity. Oh okay,

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well you had sex. That's a good thing, and

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Speaker 2: so it was balanced out that. Yeah. Whether or not

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Speaker 2: it was the time you lost your virginity, it doesn't matter. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: all right, this this is sorry. This was a stupid

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Speaker 2: what tits look like? So can you still imagine tits?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I mean I can still kind of technically see them

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, a tunnel tunnel vision, because I only have

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So, and it sucks that it's only gonna get

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Speaker 2: Yeah, eventually you'll go from Minecraft tits to South Park tits? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: So you know what do you miss? Do you miss

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Speaker 2: Do you miss seeing butts?

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I'm more of a tick guy than an ass

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Speaker 1: I got. I hate to be on that side, but

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Speaker 2: What about? What else do you miss seeing?

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Speaker 1: Do you know what? I really missed another thing? I

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Speaker 1: really missed? You ever like played baseball and like you

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Speaker 1: I really miss that.

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Speaker 2: Do you miss it more than you miss tits?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: I miss tis more than I missed that. H I

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Speaker 1: still wrestle and I can still box After I boxing

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Speaker 1: and blind, that was not cool. I gota functioned my

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Speaker 2: Get Is it harder to have sex in general when

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Speaker 2: Is it crazy? Is it crazy that you don't know,

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Speaker 1: You see, I do, and I don't know what she

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Speaker 1: I have tonal vision, no picks, but like I can

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Speaker 2: Is she pretty?

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah she is. I like her. Oh that was

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Speaker 2: No, But you know what's funny is it It wasn't

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Speaker 2: a good response, And you totally could have like, it's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you worred about that. You heard about that. I

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Speaker 2: How did you guys meet?

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Speaker 1: How did we meet at college?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Really, yeah, we met when I was doing my bachelor's program. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: What was the first thing she said to you?

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Speaker 1: Well, she was more interested in the fact because I

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Speaker 1: Well, I had listened to it. Gags.

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Speaker 2: And how did you said that? She was interested in that?

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Speaker 2: So people would just naturally gravitate towards you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, Yeah, I guess.

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Speaker 1: Well? It was what it was, man. I mean I

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Speaker 1: you're making me think. I wouldn't abuse me.

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Speaker 2: What you said people abuse you.

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Speaker 1: You're making me think that, like you're make me think

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Speaker 2: Now I got a question for you. Uh it says

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Speaker 1: That's another story, Dick.

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Speaker 1: Well, we kind of into all this is like I

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Speaker 2: Do you still work at this job?

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Speaker 1: But like at the incident, I didn't have my white

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Speaker 1: Well, he wouldn't he probably he probably wouldn't have attacked me.

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Speaker 2: Interesting, No, it's true, he probably wouldn't. He probably wouldn't

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Speaker 1: But isn't that what you would have jumped in?

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Speaker 2: You want a guy, you know, if you're going to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's like honestly, when it happened, It's

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Speaker 1: Apparently the guy hit me in the face, and then

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Speaker 2: You did that while blind? That's insane and drunk? What

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Speaker 1: I bumped into him, apparently, and I stepped on him.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's the funniest thing I've ever heard, is

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Speaker 1: Honestly, do you know one of the do you know

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Speaker 1: one of the cops, said one of the cobs, one

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Speaker 2: That's crazy. No, No, see that guy should be embarrassed.

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Speaker 2: That guy, you shouldn't be embarrassed. You should feel sick.

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Speaker 2: You should be stoked about this. This is uh, this

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, it's it just you know, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: Do you think if you had the cane you would

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I probably would have been. Yeah, I probably would have

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, like fucking turn it into nunchucks.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like brass knuckles or something and use like the

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Speaker 2: That's cool.

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Speaker 1: I would hope that somebody would jump in.

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Speaker 2: So you for your job, you do you do special education?

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Speaker 2: You teach other blind people ship.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, here's the irony of everything. Yet I see I

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Speaker 2: Interesting. Do you teach them how to kick people's asses?

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Speaker 1: No? No, Uh, you got to sign up for my

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Speaker 2: It's your only fans. Uh what, So you teach them

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Speaker 2: how to live in that? Do you? I mean you

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Speaker 2: Now, that's pretty cool, man, that's pretty that's a that's

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Speaker 2: pretty good. Do you like life? You sound like you're

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Speaker 1: I mean, I want to say, I am. You know,

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Speaker 1: I think there's places. I think there's better things I

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Speaker 1: just personal things like that. But outside of that, it's

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Speaker 2: Someone said, I want to hear that story from the

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Speaker 2: other guy's point of view. Yeah, I would. I would

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Speaker 2: Someone asked, oh, it's quarterbackle. Oh okay, so you can

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Speaker 2: just walk there, it's easy, Yeah, to.

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Speaker 1: The bus hub and then I could just get to

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Speaker 2: Someone here says, what's your favorite advantage of being blind?

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Speaker 2: What what's like anything good that you can take advantage of.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I'll give you one experience, one experience, okay, okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: I set this up. Okay. So I was kicking it

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Speaker 2: So in this one instance, being blind caused you to

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Speaker 2: see more tits. Yes, that's pretty awesome.

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Speaker 1: Because they, I guess they were playing on the idea that, oh,

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Speaker 2: So yes, somebody asked, uh, final question, have your other

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Speaker 1: Yes, I can. I can feel Tip's just great. And

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Speaker 1: That's a misconception. It's not that my senses got better,

444
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:17,920
Speaker 1: it's just I learned how to use them better. Does

445
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 1: that make sense?

446
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 2: Explain?

447
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:27,440
Speaker 1: So, Like I can't I obviously see my peripheral visions

448
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:31,959
Speaker 1: and ahead of me and behind me, right, but I

449
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:38,639
Speaker 1: can hear people walking from a distance to me, like

450
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:41,679
Speaker 1: I can hear the footsteps, and that's how I know

451
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:44,479
Speaker 1: that there's people there. I can't see you, but I

452
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:52,919
Speaker 1: can hear your footsteps, and yeah, that's how I know

453
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:55,199
Speaker 1: there's people coming up in front of me when I'm walking.

454
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 2: Isaac, sir, thank you very much for sharing your story

455
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Speaker 2: with us. This was fun, This was a good conversation.

456
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 2: Is there anything else that you wanted to talk about

457
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 2: or that you wanted to say to the people of

458
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:09,320
Speaker 2: the computer before we go?

459
00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:14,360
Speaker 1: Honestly, no, guest, It's like I don't want to pontificate

460
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 1: or do anything like that. I'll just say, you know,

461
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:18,960
Speaker 1: hope everybody has a great rest of your day.

462
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Speaker 2: That's it. Greg Hei, Thank you very much. Isaac, take

463
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Speaker 2: care all right, bye, greck. I bet he is very

464
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Speaker 2: I hope you guys come back out. That's therapy geckotour

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Speaker 2: dot com for tickets. Hope to see if folks there. Hello,

478
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:48,600
Speaker 2: what is your name?

479
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:51,800
Speaker 7: My name is is Eva?

480
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 2: Eva? What's going on? Eva?

481
00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 1: Oh?

482
00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 4: Man?

483
00:29:58,200 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 7: Okay, you want me to be real with you?

484
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, you texted me and you said my name is Eve,

485
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:08,840
Speaker 2: I'm twenty five, and I quote need you to talk

486
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:13,320
Speaker 2: some sense into me with two exclamation points. What does

487
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 2: that mean?

488
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:22,880
Speaker 7: That means that I miss someone that logically I really shouldn't.

489
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 7: I really shouldn't and and I guess I'm really just

490
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 7: sitting with that, you know, like it's to us, I

491
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:35,880
Speaker 7: was in love with this person, and well things were

492
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:40,400
Speaker 7: really really toxic between us. He just upped and was

493
00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 7: like I'm gonna join the Marine peace out and so

494
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 7: we try to make it work. It's obviously not gonna work,

495
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:51,719
Speaker 7: And honestly, like, I'm really glad that he left because

496
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 7: I kind of left me alone and forced me to

497
00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 7: like sit with myself and like look at our relationship,

498
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 7: which was not the greatest, but it's just lonely. Like

499
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 7: he felt like one of the only people that understood

500
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:10,960
Speaker 7: me at that time. Even though that might just be

501
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:14,720
Speaker 7: a lie, I'm telling myself completely real.

502
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 2: No, this is a very interesting topic. I like thinking

503
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 2: about this, do what oh what was I going to say?

504
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 2: Why was it toxic?

505
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:32,400
Speaker 7: I think drugs was a big part of that. Keep

506
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 7: it was only weed.

507
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 2: Okay, what kind of what kind of drugs?

508
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 7: It was just weed, Like that's We would just smoke

509
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:49,479
Speaker 7: a lot together and it was really interesting time in

510
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 7: my life. I was also in on that like spirituality wave,

511
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:58,120
Speaker 7: so just got into some like really crazy mindsets. So

512
00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 7: like when ever he would say something that was like

513
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 7: kind of mean, I would be like, oh, no, no,

514
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 7: it's just my ego. Like that's the only reason it

515
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 7: bothers me is because it's my ego. And so I

516
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:13,560
Speaker 7: would like put a lot of things to the side

517
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 7: that looking back, I'm like, oh, maybe maybe that should

518
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 7: have been a red flag. Actually, it would.

519
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:26,120
Speaker 2: Kind of mean what kind of mean things would he say?

520
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:30,120
Speaker 7: He would talk a lot about his eggs, and he

521
00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 7: would compare me to her, and I even just saying that,

522
00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 7: I'm so embarrassed because like why why would I say?

523
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 6: Why?

524
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 7: Why would I put myself through that?

525
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:40,320
Speaker 3: Right?

526
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 7: But just just like stuff that you I don't think

527
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:49,480
Speaker 7: you should be like telling someone who you claim to

528
00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:54,880
Speaker 7: love someone, right, he'd do that. He would talk a

529
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:57,880
Speaker 7: lot about like other women. He would talk about me

530
00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 7: like I I have like I used to have really

531
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 7: bad acme uh and there's still some scarring on my

532
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 7: cheeks and so like he would point it out and

533
00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 7: be like, why do you why do you have like

534
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 7: marks on your face? I'm like, bro, you know why?

535
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean, so this is a thing of just

536
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:24,480
Speaker 2: like you, how long it has been broken up for.

537
00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 7: I haven't talked. I haven't spoke to him in three weeks.

538
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:36,160
Speaker 7: But we were really.

539
00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 2: On and off, so that so you are not I mean,

540
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:44,960
Speaker 2: so it's not even a thing of broken up or

541
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 2: not broken up. YouTube were so on and off that

542
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 2: it wasn't even like a light switch that turns on

543
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:55,520
Speaker 2: and off. It was just a flow of of up and.

544
00:33:55,440 --> 00:34:02,080
Speaker 7: Down definitely, I mean gets a little deeper. Like I

545
00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:06,360
Speaker 7: mentioned the drugs. I at one point was doing acid

546
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:10,280
Speaker 7: and I thought the universe was like easier soul may

547
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 7: And now I know that's silly, but I think that's

548
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 7: also where it kept me there so long.

549
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:22,160
Speaker 2: But you miss him after these three weeks, you miss him, yeah,

550
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:27,240
Speaker 2: are Yeah, I mean that happens, right, like you get

551
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 2: fucking lonely and so and like the lonelier you get,

552
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:35,880
Speaker 2: the more, the more, the more you're willing to uh

553
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:38,320
Speaker 2: just fucking accept whatever.

554
00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 7: Mm hmm. Yeah. And I think it's also like rebuilding.

555
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:48,920
Speaker 2: Like I know, you know, it's a whole thing, you know.

556
00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 2: I know, it's like like for if you you spent

557
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:57,360
Speaker 2: you invested all of this time and energy, the fucking

558
00:34:57,440 --> 00:35:03,080
Speaker 2: the energy that it takes to like get to know somebody,

559
00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:05,760
Speaker 2: and the time it takes to get to know somebody

560
00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:09,719
Speaker 2: is a lot. And so for you to be like

561
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:14,160
Speaker 2: sitting there thinking like, well, you know, there's this guy

562
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:17,920
Speaker 2: who already likes me and he's kind of shitty, but

563
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:20,200
Speaker 2: I'm willing to put up with it so that I

564
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:25,440
Speaker 2: don't have to put all the fucking time and energy

565
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:31,000
Speaker 2: into finding somebody who's less shitty.

566
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:38,400
Speaker 7: Yeah, no, exactly, that's exactly right. And then also, like

567
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:40,960
Speaker 7: like I said, kind of stuck in the kind of

568
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 7: weird spiritual space. So I thought like we were manifesting

569
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 7: all these things. I thought we were going to be

570
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:51,840
Speaker 7: like the new Beyonce and Jaesus, I know, freaking high assholes,

571
00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 7: like we were both kind of ambitious people. And I'm

572
00:35:57,560 --> 00:35:59,880
Speaker 7: sure you know it could be hard to find others

573
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:02,840
Speaker 7: who like want to do something cool.

574
00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:11,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no, I I I this is a tough thing.

575
00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:17,480
Speaker 2: I mean, look obviously like the obviously the option, uh

576
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:21,359
Speaker 2: is it sounds pretty clear that yes, even though it's

577
00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:24,600
Speaker 2: a lot of time and energy to invest in another relationship,

578
00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 2: it's like, I guess that's what you gotta do. I mean,

579
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:31,799
Speaker 2: that's what you gotta do. I mean you, I mean

580
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 2: you don't even have to do that. It's like, I mean,

581
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:36,759
Speaker 2: even just being single is better than like being with

582
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:39,239
Speaker 2: someone who's like shitty to you because you don't want

583
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:40,920
Speaker 2: to be alone.

584
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:47,440
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, no, you're right, And.

585
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:48,000
Speaker 2: That's a tough that's a tough that's a that's a

586
00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:52,360
Speaker 2: that's really like a like an easy uh logical, like

587
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:55,840
Speaker 2: there's an easy conclusion to logically come to is that

588
00:36:55,920 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 2: you're you're better off alone or doing the work with

589
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:04,920
Speaker 2: someone else than with somebody who's shitty. But we I

590
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 2: don't think that we make these kinds of decisions logically.

591
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 2: We make them very emotionally, and so the loneliness is

592
00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:17,880
Speaker 2: gonna like throw logic to the fucking corner of the

593
00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:21,160
Speaker 2: room and it'll make the decision of like, no, no,

594
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:25,320
Speaker 2: we need to ease our loneliness immediately, right fucking now,

595
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 2: and text this a crazy marine guy, this is what happens.

596
00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:34,759
Speaker 2: And I don't know, I don't know if I don't

597
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:38,360
Speaker 2: know what the Yeah, that's the thing. It's like, you

598
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:40,840
Speaker 2: can come you can come to all the enlightened conclusions

599
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:43,319
Speaker 2: that you want at the end of the day, Like

600
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:45,800
Speaker 2: that you've got to learn how to overcome that strong

601
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 2: emotional fucking thing and your brain that's gonna make you wanna,

602
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 2: you know, text this dude who is like being shitty

603
00:37:56,120 --> 00:38:02,240
Speaker 2: to you. How does one overcome that that strong emotional

604
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 2: part of the brain that's guiding them into illogical decisions? Uh?

605
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:11,359
Speaker 2: If you find that out, I want you to call

606
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:17,600
Speaker 2: me back and tell me because I don't really know. Uh,

607
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:22,400
Speaker 2: it's probably it probably has something to do with like

608
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:26,600
Speaker 2: mindfulness or I mean this is a specific like like

609
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 2: that that journey right of overcoming that emotional force that's

610
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 2: guiding you to make illogical, stupid decisions. There is something

611
00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 2: spirit There is something spiritual about that, you know, something

612
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:45,560
Speaker 2: about you got to tap into a higher human side

613
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 2: of your brain and and kind of ignore the monkey

614
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:48,960
Speaker 2: part of you.

615
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 7: The monkey, Yeah, the monkey.

616
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:54,799
Speaker 2: I don't And I don't know. I don't. I mean,

617
00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:56,000
Speaker 2: what do you think about all that?

618
00:38:57,360 --> 00:38:58,840
Speaker 1: No? I I agree.

619
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Speaker 7: I lately have just been listening to like David Gobbins

620
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:05,800
Speaker 7: yelling at me, like, do you want to do something

621
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:07,879
Speaker 7: better with your life? You gotta get up and get

622
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:11,080
Speaker 7: after me. And that gould of helped, but that could

623
00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:17,160
Speaker 7: only get me so far. But I think it just

624
00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:20,280
Speaker 7: like comes down to kind of, like you said, learning

625
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:26,439
Speaker 7: to be present and like actually making the changes. That's

626
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 7: something you want, And that's like tough because not a

627
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 7: lot of people like want change. And I'm speaking for myself,

628
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:36,399
Speaker 7: like I was in that relationship for three years and

629
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:38,879
Speaker 7: I mean I didn't even really get into like how

630
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:42,960
Speaker 7: it was at times abusive and stuff. But that's something

631
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:45,440
Speaker 7: that I sit back and look at and like, why

632
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 7: why would I stay through that? Like why it doesn't

633
00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:53,560
Speaker 7: make any sense? And I think it's just because I

634
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:56,799
Speaker 7: didn't want change, even though at that time, you know,

635
00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 7: I felt like I was on my spiritual journey. I

636
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:02,319
Speaker 7: felt like I was manifesting things. I felt like I

637
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:05,280
Speaker 7: was trying to find alignment with the universe or whatever

638
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:10,200
Speaker 7: whatever the people want to call it. It was really

639
00:40:10,239 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 7: that I was addicted to the toxicity and up and

640
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:16,200
Speaker 7: down to my relationship.

641
00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:19,399
Speaker 2: And yeah, yeah, And by the way, you know, look,

642
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:21,800
Speaker 2: don't beat yourself up about it, because you were following

643
00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 2: a very It's it's human to like follow the lead

644
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:32,440
Speaker 2: of our emotions, causing us to make stupid fucking decisions,

645
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:36,839
Speaker 2: you know. So I don't think it's something to beat

646
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:40,480
Speaker 2: yourself up about. I don't know anyone who's mastered it.

647
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:42,400
Speaker 2: I get. I think to master it, you got to

648
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 2: be like a literally a monk or something. I really

649
00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:53,920
Speaker 2: don't know, like I, and I mean I I was

650
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:56,800
Speaker 2: feeling a type of way a couple of days ago,

651
00:40:57,320 --> 00:41:00,799
Speaker 2: and I just I bought a PlayStation five. But I

652
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:04,440
Speaker 2: can only do that a couple times before it stops working.

653
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:07,440
Speaker 2: And then I got to find some other band aid.

654
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:10,920
Speaker 2: So it's really just I think maybe it's maybe it's

655
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:15,399
Speaker 2: a matter of just picking the least destructive band aid.

656
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:18,400
Speaker 2: That's where I'm at right now, Like if I'm feeling

657
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:23,319
Speaker 2: very like, uh, like I need to calm my fucking emotions.

658
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:28,760
Speaker 2: It's like you can get high, you can uh eat

659
00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 2: a box of cocoa puffs, you can buy a PlayStation five,

660
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 2: you can go on a walk. And I'm like, all right,

661
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:38,399
Speaker 2: I'll go on a walk, Like what's the which band

662
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:41,759
Speaker 2: aid will fuck up my life the.

663
00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:45,799
Speaker 7: Least the least and also like trying to keep this fresh, right,

664
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 7: like how many walks can you go on before you're like, oh,

665
00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:50,799
Speaker 7: I've seen this tree tho.

666
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I guess what I've been thinking. I'm I've

667
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 2: been really theory crafting this stuff. I think it probably

668
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:01,920
Speaker 2: has something to do with like, like in the short term,

669
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 2: when you're just like when you're like lonely and you're like,

670
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 2: I'm so lonely. Fuck this, I don't want to do that.

671
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:15,239
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna text uh my asshole marine boyfriend guy.

672
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 2: You're like, Okay, that's something I could do to short term,

673
00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:23,000
Speaker 2: you just gotta find a better a short term band

674
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:28,719
Speaker 2: aid for yourself and keep running them through into you

675
00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:30,480
Speaker 2: because you're gonna hit You're right, You're gonna see the

676
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:33,360
Speaker 2: same tree over and over again, or eat the same

677
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:37,239
Speaker 2: brand of fucking cookie dough over and over again, and

678
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 2: the returns they're gonna diminish. So like, do that in

679
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:44,080
Speaker 2: the short term, but then I guess in the long term,

680
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:47,200
Speaker 2: I don't, I don't know. This is like how to

681
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 2: like fix your life, which I'm trying to figure out,

682
00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:54,319
Speaker 2: is like, in the long term, you probably should be

683
00:42:54,320 --> 00:43:00,640
Speaker 2: doing some thing to change the actual day to day

684
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:04,239
Speaker 2: of your life that's more of like a year or

685
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:07,239
Speaker 2: two or three or five or ten fucking whatever. And

686
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:10,480
Speaker 2: then in the short term, you know, you eat uh

687
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:15,800
Speaker 2: uh what I eat? I eat Mike and Ikes until

688
00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:19,440
Speaker 2: but again, but find something better than eating mic and ikes.

689
00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:21,600
Speaker 2: Fucking go on a to go on a walk, so

690
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:24,240
Speaker 2: just the least destructive band aid you can.

691
00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:27,400
Speaker 1: Find, yeah, yeah, and then.

692
00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:29,680
Speaker 2: Keep going and then eventually you'll die and it won't

693
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 2: matter and you'll realize that it was all it was

694
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 2: all you worried about everything for no reason, and now

695
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:39,280
Speaker 2: you're dust in a in a cave.

696
00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:44,560
Speaker 7: I mean, I would hope to be like dust at

697
00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:47,239
Speaker 7: the bottom of the ocean or something. I mean, okay, wait,

698
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:49,600
Speaker 7: ten does exist in the ocean.

699
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 2: I don't know anything. I don't know stuff.

700
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:57,759
Speaker 7: You always say that, but I think you do.

701
00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:01,120
Speaker 1: Like these are just but these are.

702
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:05,719
Speaker 2: Just like theories that I'm playing around with. I don't know.

703
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:07,680
Speaker 2: I don't know anything for sure.

704
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:11,920
Speaker 7: Yeah, I guess that's the thing, right, none of us

705
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:13,920
Speaker 7: will ever know for sure until we know.

706
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:24,280
Speaker 2: I forgot what I was gonna say. Whatever, it doesn't matter. Well,

707
00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 2: what are you gonna what are you gonna do?

708
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:35,480
Speaker 7: I think I'm going to. Well, first, I've got some

709
00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:37,759
Speaker 7: work to do, but I think I'm going to put

710
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:40,719
Speaker 7: myself out there and try and make new friends and

711
00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:46,240
Speaker 7: just move on with That's a good idea. Yeah, I'm

712
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:48,560
Speaker 7: being out with some new people. The city I live

713
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:51,960
Speaker 7: in has lots of cool like art spaces and like,

714
00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:54,880
Speaker 7: there's definitely a lot of things I can I could go.

715
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 2: What city are you in?

716
00:44:58,239 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 7: I'm in San Antonio?

717
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 2: San Antonio? Okay, I have heard that's a real good

718
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:04,320
Speaker 2: for you.

719
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:09,880
Speaker 7: I have wager And how can I go along?

720
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:13,399
Speaker 2: Yeah? There we go. And next time you want to

721
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:17,279
Speaker 2: text your ex boyfriend, just go, just go to Waterburger

722
00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:18,880
Speaker 2: instead and get everything.

723
00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:23,240
Speaker 7: Actually, that sounds like a terrible idea.

724
00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 2: That's what I told you. I said, I don't know

725
00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:29,040
Speaker 2: any of this stuff. This is my thing you're taking.

726
00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:31,319
Speaker 2: I mean that's I can only tell you what I

727
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:33,680
Speaker 2: would do, and what I would do is not always

728
00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 2: the best thing to do.

729
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 7: Uh Well, San Antonio is known for being like one

730
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 7: of the most obese cities. I forgot who was There's

731
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:44,479
Speaker 7: some comedian that I was like, Damn, I've never seen

732
00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:46,800
Speaker 7: more of fatmage in a city before.

733
00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 2: I was like, dang, that's the kind of fat that

734
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:52,960
Speaker 2: I'm getting to. Is that's the kind of fat that

735
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:53,560
Speaker 2: I'm getting to.

736
00:45:53,719 --> 00:45:53,759
Speaker 1: Is.

737
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:57,839
Speaker 2: I'm considering moving cities so that just optically I'm one

738
00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 2: of the skinnier people that would be. That's my backup plan.

739
00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:04,440
Speaker 7: It's a plan.

740
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 2: What's your name again?

741
00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:08,480
Speaker 7: Eva?

742
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:10,799
Speaker 2: Eva? Is there anything else you want to say to

743
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:12,239
Speaker 2: the people of the computer before we go?

744
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:17,680
Speaker 7: Drugs don't give you wisdom, They give you cool things

745
00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:19,680
Speaker 7: to think about.

746
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:23,239
Speaker 2: I like that. I like that, Uh, take care of it.

747
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:23,920
Speaker 2: Thank you for calling.

748
00:46:24,520 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 7: Yeah you two level bus one by.

749
00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:36,399
Speaker 2: Yeah. Drugs also just get your really fucked up. They

750
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:40,120
Speaker 2: get your high. So that you kind of just zone

751
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:44,840
Speaker 2: out or I don't know. They affect everyone differently, I don't.

752
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:49,400
Speaker 3: Know from Christina.

753
00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:56,800
Speaker 2: Hello, Hi there, What is your name? My name is Christina, Christina.

754
00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:58,040
Speaker 2: What's up? What's going on?

755
00:46:59,239 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 3: Well?

756
00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 7: I feel like.

757
00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:07,800
Speaker 3: I think I'm having like a predicament about being ginger,

758
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:09,480
Speaker 3: and I think I'm just tired of it.

759
00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:16,239
Speaker 2: Christina, do me a favor? Could you actually put me

760
00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 2: on speakerphone?

761
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:20,240
Speaker 3: Yeah? Okay, is this better?

762
00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:28,640
Speaker 2: Yes? Yeah, you're having a predicament about being ginger? Yeah,

763
00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:30,960
Speaker 2: what's the predicament is?

764
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:37,279
Speaker 3: Like? Should I continue being ginger? If it is like

765
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:41,239
Speaker 3: a really big part of my life and it like

766
00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:45,319
Speaker 3: it affects my every day, like like I get a

767
00:47:45,320 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 3: lot of attention from it, and like a lot of

768
00:47:49,680 --> 00:47:53,440
Speaker 3: men like are really weird about it. But I'd like

769
00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:55,920
Speaker 3: i'd have to tell you, like why I'm ginger in

770
00:47:55,960 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 3: the first place.

771
00:47:57,719 --> 00:47:59,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was gonna say, you're talking about it like

772
00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:02,320
Speaker 2: it's isn't ginger? Like you are born with.

773
00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:05,960
Speaker 3: Red hair, I was born ginger, but like it was

774
00:48:06,000 --> 00:48:07,040
Speaker 3: on purpose.

775
00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:12,600
Speaker 2: You were born, you were created ginger? How does that work?

776
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:17,680
Speaker 3: My mom, she she had like she had a really

777
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:21,680
Speaker 3: traumatic marriage and she left the marriage, and she she

778
00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:25,040
Speaker 3: was like forty two at this point, and she bought

779
00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:30,480
Speaker 3: a sperm donor who was ginger and so she could

780
00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:33,600
Speaker 3: have ginger kids.

781
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:36,920
Speaker 2: Why did she specifically want to have ginger kids?

782
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:37,799
Speaker 7: I don't know.

783
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:41,400
Speaker 3: She she was, she's like she passed away, but she's

784
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:47,040
Speaker 3: she was kind of racist and like weird and a

785
00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:51,239
Speaker 3: little crazy, and she just had like a really you know,

786
00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:53,839
Speaker 3: traumatic life. So I think that could have done it.

787
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 3: But she got.

788
00:48:57,960 --> 00:48:59,840
Speaker 2: Are the whitest white people?

789
00:49:00,719 --> 00:49:07,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like, no, yeah.

790
00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:07,120
Speaker 2: What is sher? Is your mom ginger?

791
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:09,640
Speaker 3: No? No, she's not ginger.

792
00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:15,480
Speaker 2: Did you have much of a relationship with her?

793
00:49:16,719 --> 00:49:22,120
Speaker 3: I did, Yeah, she she passed away like four years ago,

794
00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 3: but we didn't have like a very good relationship. I

795
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:30,799
Speaker 3: definitely like had a problem with how crazy she was

796
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:39,920
Speaker 3: and she ended up marrying a ginger when I was eleven,

797
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:44,040
Speaker 3: and so that was like just my stepdad was this

798
00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 3: ginger guy.

799
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:50,040
Speaker 2: So you're debating whether or not you would like to

800
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:52,319
Speaker 2: continue being ginger? What would you do if like you

801
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:54,759
Speaker 2: didn't want to, would you just like dye your hair

802
00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 2: and shit?

803
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:58,400
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, I'd probably just like dye my hair black.

804
00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:06,800
Speaker 2: What kinds of cons are you experiencing from being ginger.

805
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 3: So I I think like a lot of like I

806
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:14,080
Speaker 3: see a lot of memes on the Internet where people

807
00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:16,920
Speaker 3: were like they're the ugly gingers and the attractive gingers,

808
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:21,680
Speaker 3: and I feel like I accidentally fell into that attractive

809
00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:28,960
Speaker 3: category where men have like a fetish about gingers. So I, like,

810
00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:32,759
Speaker 3: I go to work, I've had like multiple stalkers at

811
00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:35,759
Speaker 3: my job. I was like a barista, so I had

812
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:39,960
Speaker 3: like multiple Like I had a man memorize my schedule

813
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:43,680
Speaker 3: and like he sent me flowers and like he ended

814
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 3: up like getting pictures of me and like knowing my name.

815
00:50:47,239 --> 00:50:49,239
Speaker 3: And I had no idea who this man was, but

816
00:50:49,320 --> 00:50:52,319
Speaker 3: he would like send me letters at my work and

817
00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:54,880
Speaker 3: like he I had to get like walked to my

818
00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:57,880
Speaker 3: car for a month. And I've just had like a

819
00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:00,439
Speaker 3: lot of situations like that, and I've dated a lot

820
00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:04,239
Speaker 3: of people who are just like ginger fetish. It's it's

821
00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:04,800
Speaker 3: really weird.

822
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:11,400
Speaker 2: So you well, let me ask you do you like

823
00:51:11,520 --> 00:51:12,240
Speaker 2: being ginger?

824
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:17,120
Speaker 3: I think it's cool, Like I don't like the attention,

825
00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:18,640
Speaker 3: but like my hairs cool.

826
00:51:19,120 --> 00:51:21,600
Speaker 2: And I mean like I mean, listen, dog, here here's

827
00:51:21,719 --> 00:51:26,239
Speaker 2: here's the thing is like in my opinion at the

828
00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 2: end of the day. It's like, regardless of of you know,

829
00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:32,880
Speaker 2: what other people think. It's like, what I mean, what

830
00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:39,840
Speaker 2: do you want to do? Like, if you like the

831
00:51:39,880 --> 00:51:43,200
Speaker 2: way you look, I wouldn't change it just because of

832
00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:47,840
Speaker 2: you know, other people. And if you don't like the

833
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:51,839
Speaker 2: way you look, then you should feel free to change

834
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:54,200
Speaker 2: it if you if you want to. So, I mean,

835
00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:56,720
Speaker 2: regardless of whatever's going on outside of it, I would

836
00:51:57,040 --> 00:51:59,920
Speaker 2: like tap into what what you want to do.

837
00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:05,279
Speaker 3: That's true. I feel like i'd probably I want to

838
00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:09,319
Speaker 3: stay ginger and just I don't know, by again or

839
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:12,080
Speaker 3: something to protect myself from him.

840
00:52:14,360 --> 00:52:19,239
Speaker 2: Yeah. By the way, here's the thing. You know, Uh,

841
00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:24,400
Speaker 2: if you're attractive, you're going to get attention regardless of

842
00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:26,240
Speaker 2: whether or not you're a ginger.

843
00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:28,120
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's true.

844
00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:31,560
Speaker 3: I just think like maybe if I look a little

845
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:37,279
Speaker 3: bit edgier or like a little scarier, then maybe people

846
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:41,560
Speaker 3: would avoid me. I also have like the worst social

847
00:52:41,600 --> 00:52:42,520
Speaker 3: anxiety ever.

848
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:46,840
Speaker 2: So you just okay, So you just are trying to

849
00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:49,880
Speaker 2: find out how to what way can I look that

850
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:53,400
Speaker 2: will attract the least amount of attention to me as possible.

851
00:52:56,200 --> 00:53:00,920
Speaker 2: I mean, look, math, that's how you want to do it.

852
00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:01,960
Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know.

853
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:06,000
Speaker 2: I don't know. If again, if I were you, I

854
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:09,040
Speaker 2: would just it's how you want to look and be.

855
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:12,440
Speaker 3: That's true.

856
00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:17,960
Speaker 2: What the fuck was I gonna say? Oh yeah, you

857
00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:20,719
Speaker 2: said a bunch of crazy stuff. You were like your

858
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:25,640
Speaker 2: your parents, your mom made you ginger on. But can

859
00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:27,680
Speaker 2: you even do that's like a thing you can do,

860
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 2: Like can you go into a sperm donor and like

861
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:34,960
Speaker 2: could you you just buy? Like what you can just

862
00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:38,560
Speaker 2: be like, hey, I want you can like custom create

863
00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:41,840
Speaker 2: a character your baby, and like you can like race

864
00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:42,320
Speaker 2: and ship.

865
00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:48,120
Speaker 3: Allegedly, there's like a rule against gingers donating sperm because

866
00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 3: we have such high levels of skin cancer and like

867
00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:55,400
Speaker 3: they think it's genetic, but obviously it's just because we're pale.

868
00:53:56,080 --> 00:53:59,640
Speaker 3: But somehow my mom found one and I'm ginger now

869
00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 3: and I have like a bunch of documents from the

870
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:07,879
Speaker 3: guy who donated and it describes his appearance. It doesn't

871
00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:13,360
Speaker 3: give his name, but he's like ginger, blue eyes, six foot,

872
00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:16,279
Speaker 3: he was like an engineer, So yeah, you can you

873
00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:22,239
Speaker 3: can pick all that stuff out.

874
00:54:22,840 --> 00:54:25,239
Speaker 2: What do you think of that South Park episode?

875
00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:30,279
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, it's pretty funny. I've definitely set my

876
00:54:30,320 --> 00:54:32,160
Speaker 3: boyfriend it and he liked a lot.

877
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:37,080
Speaker 2: Well, it's funny because you would think like I because

878
00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:40,719
Speaker 2: I maybe it's just like ginger guys or whatever. But

879
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:43,200
Speaker 2: I always thought that there was a general uh uh

880
00:54:43,480 --> 00:54:44,880
Speaker 2: anti ginger sentiment.

881
00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:48,600
Speaker 3: Well, ginger guys get the worst of it. Ginger women

882
00:54:48,680 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 3: are just like they're They're usually thought of as like attractive,

883
00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:56,360
Speaker 3: but like ginger guys get the worst, Like they're automatically

884
00:54:56,400 --> 00:55:00,160
Speaker 3: going to be kind of weird and like pale.

885
00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:04,120
Speaker 2: You know, do you are you? Are you actively unattracted

886
00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:05,240
Speaker 2: to ginger guys?

887
00:55:05,800 --> 00:55:05,960
Speaker 1: Oh?

888
00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:08,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would never date a ginger. Imagine how weird

889
00:55:08,520 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 3: that would be.

890
00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:12,680
Speaker 2: That's pretty funny.

891
00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:16,200
Speaker 3: I got like shipped with gingers when I was in

892
00:55:16,239 --> 00:55:18,840
Speaker 3: middle school though, like everyone thought I was going to

893
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:25,040
Speaker 3: date the other ginger, which is weird.

894
00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:29,439
Speaker 2: So you're anti ginger guys? Is there a dating the ship?

895
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:32,000
Speaker 2: Is there a like a ginger meat?

896
00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:36,160
Speaker 3: Really incestuous? You know?

897
00:55:37,560 --> 00:55:44,600
Speaker 2: Incestuous? Yeah, here's the let me tell you something. You

898
00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:50,200
Speaker 2: could take any relationship and if you go back far enough,

899
00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:52,200
Speaker 2: it's incestuous.

900
00:55:52,680 --> 00:55:56,880
Speaker 3: But like gingers, especially because they're just from one island,

901
00:55:58,400 --> 00:56:01,680
Speaker 3: Is that true? Well, I guess you could be Scottish,

902
00:56:01,719 --> 00:56:05,280
Speaker 3: but like the land of Ireland is such a small island,

903
00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:05,920
Speaker 3: and like.

904
00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:07,840
Speaker 7: I just wouldn't.

905
00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:12,520
Speaker 3: I probably wouldn't date someone that was a redhead because

906
00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:15,040
Speaker 3: like whenever I see like a flash of orange or

907
00:56:15,080 --> 00:56:18,200
Speaker 3: like red, it's like my reflection. So I'd probably get

908
00:56:18,200 --> 00:56:21,040
Speaker 3: like jump scared. I just think that there's like a

909
00:56:21,080 --> 00:56:22,080
Speaker 3: mini me with me.

910
00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:25,920
Speaker 2: Do you would you date any Irish person?

911
00:56:27,040 --> 00:56:32,759
Speaker 3: Maybe? I I kind of know probably not.

912
00:56:35,320 --> 00:56:38,520
Speaker 2: Someone should make that. Is that a thing? Gingermait hold on,

913
00:56:39,680 --> 00:56:41,560
Speaker 2: hold on just real quick. I'm gonna google this. I'm

914
00:56:41,560 --> 00:56:48,000
Speaker 2: gonna google this real quick. Okay, hold on, uh, let's see.

915
00:56:48,640 --> 00:56:53,800
Speaker 3: Gin someone in the chat that I have a PhD.

916
00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:54,719
Speaker 1: And Gingery.

917
00:56:55,800 --> 00:56:59,400
Speaker 2: Ginger dating. I'm not like those other podcasts where like

918
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:03,160
Speaker 2: they can pull shit up. I just have like, okay, Ginger, Oh,

919
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:05,800
Speaker 2: there it is redhead Dates.

920
00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:07,280
Speaker 3: That's weird.

921
00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:14,040
Speaker 2: Dot com choose your country, United States, join for free today. Okay, yeah,

922
00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:17,760
Speaker 2: there it is find your red Okay, so oh you

923
00:57:17,760 --> 00:57:20,480
Speaker 2: know what, all right? I think I don't know if

924
00:57:20,520 --> 00:57:26,520
Speaker 2: this is for I think this is for just anyone

925
00:57:26,640 --> 00:57:29,920
Speaker 2: looking for a redheaded wife. I don't know if you

926
00:57:30,000 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 2: have to necessarily be a redhead.

927
00:57:34,760 --> 00:57:38,800
Speaker 3: I've I like, did this is like a secret, but

928
00:57:38,920 --> 00:57:42,200
Speaker 3: like I may have done a little bit of sex

929
00:57:42,280 --> 00:57:47,560
Speaker 3: work before, and I think I definitely benefited or like

930
00:57:47,800 --> 00:57:52,080
Speaker 3: crofited off of it, like men go crazy. It's crazy.

931
00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:55,200
Speaker 2: By the way, I just if I could take this

932
00:57:55,320 --> 00:58:01,560
Speaker 2: time to just on in my personal life, if anyone

933
00:58:01,600 --> 00:58:04,440
Speaker 2: out there just like has a fetish they specifically like

934
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:09,360
Speaker 2: Jewish men, I don't care at all. I don't mind.

935
00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:12,920
Speaker 2: Just I'm just throwing that out there.

936
00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:17,480
Speaker 3: I'm pro ginger fetishists because that's where I make the money.

937
00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:21,240
Speaker 2: You So, there we go. Everything works out, I think,

938
00:58:22,040 --> 00:58:26,880
Speaker 2: and I'm still a breetist. So they tip, Well, so

939
00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:28,520
Speaker 2: what do you are before we go? Do you think

940
00:58:28,520 --> 00:58:29,640
Speaker 2: you're gonna do it? Are you gonna stay?

941
00:58:29,720 --> 00:58:35,000
Speaker 3: Or you know, honestly, at the end of the day,

942
00:58:35,200 --> 00:58:39,400
Speaker 3: it's really just how lazy I am. And I'm too

943
00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:42,160
Speaker 3: lazy to die my hair black and like manage to

944
00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:43,040
Speaker 3: upkeep with it.

945
00:58:44,720 --> 00:58:44,959
Speaker 5: Maybe.

946
00:58:45,120 --> 00:58:46,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's another thing. It's a whole fucking it's a

947
00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:56,880
Speaker 2: bunch of work. Yeah, well, what's your name again, Christina?

948
00:58:57,720 --> 00:58:58,960
Speaker 2: Are you gonna have it? Would you want to have

949
00:58:59,000 --> 00:58:59,680
Speaker 2: ginger kids?

950
00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:05,840
Speaker 3: Absolutely not. My boyfriend's Mexican no way.

951
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:09,400
Speaker 2: But if you have kids with your boyfriend, they're gonna

952
00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:10,560
Speaker 2: be half Ginger, half Mexican.

953
00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:15,640
Speaker 3: No, they're gonna be Mexican. There's no way.

954
00:59:15,680 --> 00:59:17,360
Speaker 2: The way you hold on, hold on, hold by the way,

955
00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:19,440
Speaker 2: the way you said that, the way you said that

956
00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:21,680
Speaker 2: just now, the way you said that just now made

957
00:59:21,720 --> 00:59:23,880
Speaker 2: it sound like if you had a ginger kid you

958
00:59:23,920 --> 00:59:24,640
Speaker 2: would kill them.

959
00:59:26,160 --> 00:59:26,600
Speaker 3: I don't know.

960
00:59:26,680 --> 00:59:34,840
Speaker 2: Maybe, well, don't throw a child in the dumpster. I'm

961
00:59:34,840 --> 00:59:38,280
Speaker 2: gonna make that my official and I'm gonna make that

962
00:59:38,320 --> 00:59:42,320
Speaker 2: an official Therapy Gecko opinion. Uh, Christina, is there anything

963
00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:43,480
Speaker 2: else you want to say to the people of the computer

964
00:59:43,520 --> 00:59:50,000
Speaker 2: before we go? Hip or Buris says, take care?

965
00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:51,640
Speaker 3: Okay, you too?

966
00:59:53,000 --> 00:59:58,680
Speaker 2: By Christina Bye, Dan, that's pretty crazy. She said she

967
00:59:58,720 --> 01:00:00,360
Speaker 2: might kill one of her kids, but I don't She

968
01:00:00,440 --> 01:00:04,080
Speaker 2: was probably joking. Hello, folks, it's Lyle here. That's the

969
01:00:04,200 --> 01:00:07,919
Speaker 2: end of this episode. But get this, I'm releasing a

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Speaker 2: members only bonus episode, who is this? What's your name?

979
01:00:43,960 --> 01:00:44,120
Speaker 1: Sir?

980
01:00:45,440 --> 01:00:46,240
Speaker 5: You can say my name?

981
01:00:48,760 --> 01:00:48,840
Speaker 2: Uh?

982
01:00:50,680 --> 01:00:50,960
Speaker 5: That was?

983
01:00:51,080 --> 01:00:54,400
Speaker 2: That was That's a That's a crazy way to answer

984
01:00:54,440 --> 01:00:59,520
Speaker 2: that question. That's the craziest way I've ever heard someone

985
01:00:59,600 --> 01:01:04,120
Speaker 2: atswer that question. What's your name? You can say my name.

986
01:01:05,480 --> 01:01:09,080
Speaker 2: It's like if you were a demon that escapes from

987
01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:12,560
Speaker 2: my head and I met you on the street in

988
01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:17,240
Speaker 2: the form of a human and I was like, what's

989
01:01:17,240 --> 01:01:20,400
Speaker 2: your name? And you were like, you can say my name?

990
01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:22,240
Speaker 2: You know me, I'm the demon in your head.

991
01:01:23,240 --> 01:01:25,960
Speaker 5: I have a book called The Testament of Solomon that

992
01:01:26,000 --> 01:01:29,160
Speaker 5: I read and it describes all the demons in hell,

993
01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:31,480
Speaker 5: so I know quite a few demons.

994
01:01:31,640 --> 01:01:32,960
Speaker 2: Well, what's going on with you, Daniel?

995
01:01:34,880 --> 01:01:38,560
Speaker 5: I currently have a warrant for my arrest right now.

996
01:01:38,960 --> 01:01:41,840
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Speaker 2: the episode description. That's therapy Gecko dot supercast dot com.

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Speaker 2: All right, I have nothing else to say, Goes on

1001
01:01:59,040 --> 01:02:02,440
Speaker 2: the line. If your phone calls every night, never be

1002
01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:04,680
Speaker 2: get goes don his ride who was teaching you

1003
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Speaker 3: To house over your life, but he's not ready an

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Speaker 3: expert