1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,160 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time? I 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the 3 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:24,760 Speaker 1: million bucks things and the coves not good at listening 4 00:00:24,840 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 1: to mother Sta don't join jo. You gotta use turn 5 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 1: hur you go, you gotta turn to turn them out. 6 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:47,199 Speaker 1: Turn you haven't got the turnout? Then turn the water 7 00:01:47,480 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 1: the water go. Come come on your tha uh huh. 8 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 1: I shall will a good morning everybody. Y'all listening to 9 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 1: the voice, come on dig me now wanting only Steve 10 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:13,800 Speaker 1: Harvey got a radio show. Um. Five things that I 11 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:18,240 Speaker 1: know successful people have to do to be successful. The 12 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 1: principles are the same. You can apply it to anything, 13 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 1: you know, if you want to be happily married, you know, 14 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 1: whatever it is. The principles of success are the same. 15 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:30,640 Speaker 1: There are a series of things that you have to do. 16 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 1: You cannot skip the steps of success. If you do, 17 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:35,800 Speaker 1: you're going to have to go back and step on 18 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 1: them anyway. So here's here's here's here's a part man 19 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 1: that I want you all to understand about me and 20 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 1: and and about how to look at it. You know, 21 00:02:49,160 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 1: you cannot underestimate faith and prayer. You just can't. You 22 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 1: cannot underestimate the power of faith and the power of prayer. 23 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:10,959 Speaker 1: See for me, this is just for me. Now, this 24 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 1: ain't in the scripture nowhere. This is just something I discovered. 25 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:17,919 Speaker 1: What prayer did for me was was it tied me 26 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 1: to my creator. It gave me a sense and I'm 27 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:28,120 Speaker 1: describing it this way, but I'm telling you it's deeper 28 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 1: than this. But it gave me a sense that I 29 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 1: wasn't alone and an actuality. I wasn't. But prayer helped 30 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 1: connect me to the power source that was available to 31 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 1: me to get through, get around, or get over whatever 32 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: it was that was in a way, whether it was 33 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 1: just a period I stretched, I had to go through 34 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 1: hard work. It had a period I had to go 35 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 1: through to learn some lessons, some periods I had to 36 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 1: go through from having to pay for some of the 37 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 1: mistakes I've made. Whatever the case may be, prayer gave 38 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:18,599 Speaker 1: me a decided advantage, especially oh here we go, Especially 39 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:23,359 Speaker 1: over my enemies. Now, the majority of people in my 40 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:25,599 Speaker 1: life that were my enemies, I didn't want them to 41 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 1: be my enemies, Make no mistake about this. But through 42 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 1: the thing called life, some things went down, Some things 43 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:36,560 Speaker 1: happened from here and then went over here or that way, 44 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 1: and a person became my enemy. The majority of enemies 45 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 1: I had came out of nowhere. I have no reason 46 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:48,720 Speaker 1: to even see why they are my enemies. But you know, 47 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 1: life goes on, man. It happens from time to time. 48 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:56,040 Speaker 1: Some people just won't let it go. See some people, 49 00:04:56,080 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 1: in their quest to do something to you or to 50 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:04,160 Speaker 1: make you pay, they just won't let it go. What 51 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 1: it may cause you some discomfort, and some of them 52 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:09,040 Speaker 1: may be lies about you and all of this and 53 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 1: all of that, but you that that can't prohibit you 54 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 1: from going forward. So what I'm saying his prayer gave 55 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:20,279 Speaker 1: me the strength, wisdom understanding the carriage to either go 56 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:25,919 Speaker 1: through it, go around it, or go over it. But 57 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 1: it happened. I do not know how I could have 58 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 1: made it. Without faith and without prayer. It would have 59 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 1: something would have got me. You two would have got me. 60 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:48,160 Speaker 1: The bloggers would have got me. My partners that I 61 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:50,599 Speaker 1: grew up with, that we used to laugh behind my back. 62 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 1: They would have got me. My friend that would over 63 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:57,920 Speaker 1: my mother's house one time and told her. You know 64 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:01,719 Speaker 1: what Steve's problem is that telling them jokes? He just lazy. 65 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 1: He don't want to work. That would have got me. 66 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:09,919 Speaker 1: They didn't know. I ain't really mad at them because 67 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 1: they were just All they was doing was basing their 68 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 1: conversations and passing judgment based on what they knew, based 69 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:21,239 Speaker 1: on what they believed. They didn't believe I was gonna 70 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 1: make it. But that's them though. If it was not 71 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:28,600 Speaker 1: for the faith, which is the belief in things that 72 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:32,720 Speaker 1: you cannot see, I wouldn't have made it because I 73 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 1: would have listened to everybody else who didn't see me 74 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 1: getting here and went along with it. And then prayer. 75 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:44,920 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, man, how many times has prayer bailed 76 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:49,799 Speaker 1: me out? Prayer has bailed me out, press steel, belling 77 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 1: me out. Tell you the truth, man, quiet as its kelt. Prayer, 78 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 1: that connection to your heavenly Father, that connection to your creator, 79 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:06,400 Speaker 1: that connection to that source of power and inspiration, that 80 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 1: connection of never feeling that you're alone. You know. I 81 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:12,840 Speaker 1: was watching a Bishop Jakes on the TV yesterday and 82 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:16,760 Speaker 1: it was a repeat and one of the things he 83 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 1: was talking about, well, let me just get to the 84 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 1: gist of it. I was going through a portion of 85 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 1: my life and I and I went through it for 86 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 1: some years, y'all. I had gotten myself into a jam 87 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 1: that lasted for years. I'm telling you, for years, with 88 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 1: some serious consequences to follow. For years. And I was 89 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 1: so busy looking at who I was at. I was 90 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:55,120 Speaker 1: sulking sometimes, Man, I'd get on the radio, Man, I'd 91 00:07:55,120 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 1: be just done. I was sulking. My my spirit had 92 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 1: gotten low. I had gotten tired of the fight, and 93 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: I would I would come on some mornings, man, and 94 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 1: I will try try not to let on, but I 95 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 1: was hurting. I was because I had been in it 96 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 1: for years. Man, I had been in this thing for years, 97 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 1: and one thing I was doing. I was so busy 98 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 1: looking at where I was at. And when I was 99 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 1: watching Bishop Jakes, he preached this sermon. He was talking 100 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 1: about so busy looking at where you at that you 101 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 1: don't even realize that God has been with you the 102 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:50,560 Speaker 1: entire time. And you know what, Man, just yesterday, just yesterday, 103 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 1: I heard this, and I text him a text, Bishop Jakes, 104 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 1: and I thanked him because it was an old message 105 00:08:57,120 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 1: I could tell. And I called a text up and 106 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 1: I said, Man, thank you so much. I was just 107 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:06,319 Speaker 1: watching you on TV and you told me, Man, something 108 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:09,720 Speaker 1: that I that I'll always remember that whatever you're going through, 109 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 1: that he's there with you the whole time. But see 110 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 1: when sometimes when you're so busy looking at where you at, 111 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 1: you don't even notice where he is. And see sometimes, man, 112 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:23,560 Speaker 1: that that helped me, and that's going to help me 113 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 1: in the future to realize that what I'm going through, 114 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 1: that he's there. He's there with me, and he gonna 115 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:31,840 Speaker 1: protect me, and he ain't gonna let my enemies overcome me, 116 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 1: and he ain't gonna let nobody overtake me, and he 117 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 1: ain't gonna let me go under because he's there. It's 118 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:40,120 Speaker 1: just you can't be so busy looking at where you 119 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 1: at that you don't take notice or where he at. 120 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:45,960 Speaker 1: God is always there, He's always available, and the best 121 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:48,000 Speaker 1: way to tap into that and know it is you 122 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 1: got to pray. Prayer has changed my life. Prayer can 123 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:56,600 Speaker 1: change your life. You can become something if you just pray. 124 00:09:57,120 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 1: You're listening to show, Ladies and gentlemen, let me have it, 125 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:06,440 Speaker 1: please your undivided attention. This is an official notice that 126 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:09,320 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show is now underway. We'll be 127 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 1: taking applications for people who want to enjoy the ride 128 00:10:12,080 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 1: for the duration the entire four hours for those of 129 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 1: you that have to go to work and have to 130 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:18,720 Speaker 1: get out the car or get on the train or 131 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 1: get out for various reasons. We do understand, but please 132 00:10:21,880 --> 00:10:24,839 Speaker 1: pull the drawstring in time so we can slow down. 133 00:10:25,160 --> 00:10:27,840 Speaker 1: Other than that, I answer is going full blasting. You 134 00:10:27,920 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 1: must dive dropping roll at your own risk because we 135 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:35,679 Speaker 1: ain't stopping this here shoulder but nobody, ladies and gentlemen, 136 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:39,840 Speaker 1: own and cracking. Steve Harvey Morning Show, sheldy strawberries, can't stop, 137 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:46,560 Speaker 1: won't stop. Good morning Stave, okay, callor Pharrell, enjoy the ride. 138 00:10:46,679 --> 00:10:50,880 Speaker 1: Good morning Steve and crew. What's up? Let's get it locked, Junior, 139 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 1: y'all better find something to hold onto morning. Everybody stupid 140 00:10:55,080 --> 00:11:03,559 Speaker 1: to ten all in the building right here here about Dahl, 141 00:11:05,480 --> 00:11:11,080 Speaker 1: what's happening? I ain't nothing, you know, living my bachelve. 142 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: That was a song. I ain't going back and forth 143 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:27,000 Speaker 1: living my bechel release. He skifted, But you know that's that. 144 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 1: Roscoe Wallace, Roscoe Wallas should come on and do the hits, okay, 145 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 1: because you know, I think he would come on and 146 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 1: tell y'all that he had something to do with that. 147 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 1: I'm like, well, what's what's wrong with the present? There's 148 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 1: no time right now? You know he just tell them 149 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:45,160 Speaker 1: about living your best life? You wrote that? Did he 150 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:47,240 Speaker 1: write that? I mean, let me go get him a 151 00:11:47,240 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 1: hold on many getting care of you. That's what I'm 152 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:55,800 Speaker 1: telling I get in there, one not down, get your 153 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:08,600 Speaker 1: did he whist? Whist? What can't read? Already? You got 154 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 1: a minute? Rosco? Ain't at it? Everybody, Steve cool down. 155 00:12:16,160 --> 00:12:21,719 Speaker 1: We're going on baby, but what what the problem is? 156 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:28,000 Speaker 1: Only all of whoever you ain't reading? I rock cool Wallace. 157 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:30,760 Speaker 1: I don't never wrote damn there every hit that either 158 00:12:30,880 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 1: hit Rosco? We was we was asking about little dude 159 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 1: Ball living my best life. Oh my man, little dude 160 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 1: Ball living Remember I wrote, Yeah, I wrote that for 161 00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 1: I knew his father, Ris father a little dude Ball 162 00:12:49,600 --> 00:12:56,319 Speaker 1: and dad and they were big rude Paul she right? 163 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 1: Did anybody know that? We didn't have to come back 164 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:06,360 Speaker 1: on that one? Never all right? Where you want to 165 00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 1: just hang on, hang on a right, hold it all 166 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 1: too well? We want to see how really l did 167 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:26,000 Speaker 1: you are? Uh? Roscoe? Because coming up we also have 168 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 1: sister Odell in the building. So at the after the 169 00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:45,000 Speaker 1: hour be exhausted all right, I'm get out of you're listening. 170 00:13:44,720 --> 00:13:47,680 Speaker 1: Morning show coming up at the top of the hour, 171 00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:51,679 Speaker 1: Miss Anne will be here with today's national news and headlines. 172 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:54,680 Speaker 1: But right now it's time for the nephew to run 173 00:13:54,720 --> 00:14:02,240 Speaker 1: that prank back eight and two AM and two hayting too. Yeah, 174 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:07,600 Speaker 1: I'm hey, I'm trying to get some Antha. Uh yeah. 175 00:14:07,679 --> 00:14:12,440 Speaker 1: When it dis Sam? Did Sam? Sam? Okay? Sam? All right? 176 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:16,360 Speaker 1: Hey yeah, uh okay, I thought it was Samantha. Okay, 177 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 1: it's it's it's Sam. Yeah, Sam, Man, what's up? Okay? 178 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:25,360 Speaker 1: Uh hey, my name Calfit. I wanted to reach out 179 00:14:25,400 --> 00:14:31,160 Speaker 1: to your high at you about uh about uh your girl, right, 180 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:36,480 Speaker 1: your girlfriend? Yeah? Yeah, she is Okay, how long I've 181 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 1: been together? We've been together about about tending up years? 182 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 1: While what's going on? But listen, me and Holiday and 183 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:46,320 Speaker 1: each other for like the last few months or whatever. 184 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:48,320 Speaker 1: I wanted to reach out to you, and you know, 185 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 1: I don't want to call you. She wanted me to 186 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:52,840 Speaker 1: call you. I wanted to tell you that you know, 187 00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 1: she didn't decide that she wanted to start hanging with me. 188 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:57,040 Speaker 1: She wanted me to come over to the house and 189 00:14:57,080 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 1: pick up stuff up. Oh yeah, oh, yeah, really, really, 190 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 1: that's what's going on. You calling me? She then told 191 00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 1: you to call me and tell me basically what I 192 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:11,160 Speaker 1: wanted to feel, saying, I'm and just have a man 193 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 1: and man talk with you and you you that's that's 194 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:17,520 Speaker 1: what That's what's going on right now. Don't do it 195 00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 1: because right now you just talking a bunch of what's up? 196 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 1: No what I'm saying any other day, you know, I'm 197 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 1: already making room for her at my apartment. I'm just 198 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:32,680 Speaker 1: trying to come. Uh listen, that ain't none of it. 199 00:15:32,680 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 1: It's whatever. If you want to come do, come do. 200 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:38,600 Speaker 1: But it ain't going out. We ain't. We ain't going 201 00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 1: out without a fight. I'm not tripping. I'm not tripping 202 00:15:42,200 --> 00:15:44,840 Speaker 1: with you, and I'm not tripping with all. But you 203 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 1: come to my somebody getting from my hall, then it's 204 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:52,200 Speaker 1: going down me and you, Me and you. So what's up? 205 00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 1: You're coming to get up because I'm on the road 206 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:58,520 Speaker 1: right now in these trucks, but dot meet you out. 207 00:15:58,840 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 1: So if you're coming to get us, come on with me. Okay, okay, 208 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:04,360 Speaker 1: hold on though, hold on to let's back up and see. 209 00:16:04,400 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 1: Like I said, he I'm trying to he lets you 210 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:07,880 Speaker 1: know where then when you gotta have no problem, I 211 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 1: want to do is come in the house and get 212 00:16:09,720 --> 00:16:12,000 Speaker 1: her stuff and pack it up so I can get 213 00:16:12,000 --> 00:16:14,200 Speaker 1: it over to me. You think you're just gonna come 214 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:18,760 Speaker 1: in and tell my house and I've been with I 215 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 1: don't need you. You think you just gonna be We're 216 00:16:21,080 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 1: just gonna be teachers in kreen. You got me. I'm 217 00:16:23,560 --> 00:16:26,160 Speaker 1: telling you that you come to my house's going down 218 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 1: and that just then she needs to be a woman. 219 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:30,720 Speaker 1: Why don't she bring it to me? Why she didn't 220 00:16:30,720 --> 00:16:33,720 Speaker 1: bring it to me? You know what I'm saying? What what? What? 221 00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:37,200 Speaker 1: Y'all want to be together? Now? On? She ain't no more? 222 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 1: All I know is she was feeling me. That's all 223 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:45,080 Speaker 1: I'm saying. She was feeling me. You know she's telling me. 224 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 1: I mean, dude, you have a problem with her league, 225 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:50,800 Speaker 1: because that's her choice. You know what I'm saying. If 226 00:16:50,800 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 1: she claims she want to be with me, that's what 227 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:55,360 Speaker 1: she won't. You know, I ain't knocking what nobody do 228 00:16:55,400 --> 00:16:57,840 Speaker 1: you understand? But what I'm trying to tell you, she's 229 00:16:57,840 --> 00:16:59,640 Speaker 1: telling me she want to be with me. So I'm 230 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:01,840 Speaker 1: just trying to get you to lift Is it better 231 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 1: for me or her to go over there while you 232 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 1: ain't there, ain't get our stuff dog all this, then 233 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:10,240 Speaker 1: you saying nah, I don't, I ain't got the rational 234 00:17:10,280 --> 00:17:12,800 Speaker 1: lot some thing with you. She needs to be the 235 00:17:12,840 --> 00:17:15,800 Speaker 1: one telling me all it is and saying she can't 236 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:18,320 Speaker 1: do it. And you man, you man, you know that 237 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:20,800 Speaker 1: what you call from man and man, come get up. 238 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:24,399 Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. Come here, Hey, hey, Samantha, Samantha 239 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:27,560 Speaker 1: for real, Hey say man, hey, hey hey man, my 240 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 1: name is Sam. Man. I ain't gonna tell you that. 241 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:33,840 Speaker 1: Already told you that when you call. When you first called, okay, Sam, 242 00:17:33,960 --> 00:17:36,440 Speaker 1: so listen, okay, wait you know what. I ain't even 243 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:39,320 Speaker 1: gonna go back and forward. You then shows me I'm 244 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:44,000 Speaker 1: gonna come get up. Hey, all this you talking, you're 245 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:47,240 Speaker 1: still on this phone with all that y'all jacking. If 246 00:17:47,240 --> 00:17:50,480 Speaker 1: you're gonna come get up, I hadn't invited you. So 247 00:17:50,600 --> 00:17:53,040 Speaker 1: if you want to bring your so over, you come 248 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:57,640 Speaker 1: get it. Tom Aiden two old, I've go up two 249 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:00,359 Speaker 1: of them. Yeah, but I'll tell you this too. It 250 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:02,920 Speaker 1: them black them two down. They don't want to me 251 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:05,160 Speaker 1: no more. They don't want to walk with me no more. 252 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:08,440 Speaker 1: And like I said, telling something with you. She ought 253 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 1: to be woman enough when she's behind the back in 254 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:14,359 Speaker 1: the background telling you to come tell me from since 255 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:18,160 Speaker 1: that's the man I'm gonna and you came because you're 256 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:21,720 Speaker 1: acting like a too, I'm gonna plap. So what for? Okay, 257 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:23,520 Speaker 1: well look here, let me go say this to you. 258 00:18:23,520 --> 00:18:26,400 Speaker 1: Then can I can I tell you what she called me? Man? 259 00:18:26,440 --> 00:18:28,720 Speaker 1: You tell me you want to tell me? Really don't 260 00:18:28,760 --> 00:18:31,520 Speaker 1: know what she told you? But what what's up? I 261 00:18:31,640 --> 00:18:33,880 Speaker 1: just want to tell you she told me to prank 262 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:37,960 Speaker 1: phone call you. This is Nephew Thomas Steve Harvey Morning Show, 263 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:53,120 Speaker 1: a man saying you all right, I'm stay man, I'm 264 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:58,159 Speaker 1: stay man, man, lick hill man. I ain't me ready. 265 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:02,040 Speaker 1: I gotta hear you say one more say what is 266 00:19:02,080 --> 00:19:05,040 Speaker 1: the baddest that I mean, the baddest radio show in 267 00:19:05,119 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 1: the land and Steve Harvest Show. Don't call me smything. No, 268 00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:21,199 Speaker 1: my name is Sam one. I tell you that when 269 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:25,440 Speaker 1: you first called don't call me that. No, No, you 270 00:19:25,480 --> 00:19:28,440 Speaker 1: don't have me gold off and whoop your ass because 271 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:35,600 Speaker 1: I'll do it. Okay, Sam, Lady listening to the show, 272 00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:42,439 Speaker 1: appreciate love'all. Yes, sir, Yes, sir, catch me Friday Night, Baby, 273 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:45,919 Speaker 1: Friday Night on the Old Network. Ready to Love the 274 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:50,400 Speaker 1: Nephew is back at it again, whole new season, new singles, 275 00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:53,399 Speaker 1: twenty Well, now we're gonna have twenty no more. We 276 00:19:53,440 --> 00:20:01,119 Speaker 1: started with twenty. Yeah, I mean that eight No, no, 277 00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:04,080 Speaker 1: we're not down to eight the first night, Jay, they 278 00:20:04,160 --> 00:20:07,359 Speaker 1: kicked people off the first night. How do you know? 279 00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:09,879 Speaker 1: How do you know that quickly? Yeah? How do you 280 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:11,720 Speaker 1: know that? How do you know? You know? It's the 281 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:14,000 Speaker 1: first impression. You know some people that you have to 282 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:17,240 Speaker 1: have a good first impression on people again, you know, 283 00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:19,159 Speaker 1: if you clammed up and not used to talk, and 284 00:20:19,200 --> 00:20:21,159 Speaker 1: they're gonna be like, I don't know about him, I 285 00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:23,359 Speaker 1: don't know about it up. And guess what when that 286 00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:26,639 Speaker 1: starts adding up, you're gone. But you know what's coming. 287 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:28,960 Speaker 1: It's bad that you don't even get to show your 288 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:33,640 Speaker 1: second outfit. That's that's just really bad. You know what's 289 00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:37,600 Speaker 1: bad to what's bad is when somebody then took off, 290 00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:40,480 Speaker 1: you know, then took a lead from their job for 291 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:44,320 Speaker 1: a few for a month or two. You back already. 292 00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:48,960 Speaker 1: I was ready to learn. All right, we'll be back 293 00:20:49,040 --> 00:20:51,960 Speaker 1: with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after 294 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:58,280 Speaker 1: you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Jay Anthony Brown, 295 00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:01,639 Speaker 1: it's time for something funny. Now you put this together. 296 00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:04,720 Speaker 1: Driving I thought it might be cool that we salute 297 00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:07,880 Speaker 1: different types of workers. I mean a lot of workers 298 00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:12,639 Speaker 1: listen to the show. Cafeteria workers, doctors putetitious. So today 299 00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:15,840 Speaker 1: we're gonna salute the people who work to drive through 300 00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:22,440 Speaker 1: and then stuff they hear okay any day alright, for instance, 301 00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:32,800 Speaker 1: let's go No need to cuss, sir, Breakfast is over, okay? 302 00:21:31,640 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 1: Why because it's two o'clock, Sir, wouldn't sa anymore, Junior. 303 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:45,240 Speaker 1: This is something that live drive through workers go through. 304 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:48,880 Speaker 1: That they have day every day, every day, every day. Sir, 305 00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:51,439 Speaker 1: you're gonna have to get that muffler fixed, so I 306 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:55,199 Speaker 1: can hear you. I can't get this all in if 307 00:21:55,240 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 1: you don't get the muffler fixed. That's every one, sir. 308 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:08,440 Speaker 1: I cannot tell you two nuggets by themselves. We sell 309 00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:11,520 Speaker 1: them in ten twelve. Come on now, I can't just 310 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:19,760 Speaker 1: get you two nuggets. I can't do that, man, Sir, 311 00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:30,080 Speaker 1: did you read your order on the screen. It's we're 312 00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:32,480 Speaker 1: dealing with drive through workers. What they have to hear 313 00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:37,399 Speaker 1: every single day. Miss you bought one large fry. You 314 00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:45,960 Speaker 1: want twenty catchups? Really, that's me you want? You want 315 00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:51,520 Speaker 1: twenty twenty? You want just wasting? Yeah, just wasting catch up. 316 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:54,200 Speaker 1: I tell I'll tell you what this is one that 317 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:57,240 Speaker 1: I know they deal with it. Pull up that the 318 00:22:57,359 --> 00:23:01,359 Speaker 1: latest started talking somebody else talking about ma'am, who's ordering? 319 00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:05,880 Speaker 1: You are the baby? I can't hear both of y'all 320 00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:16,800 Speaker 1: who is ordering? We salute the people? Uh? Man, I 321 00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:19,720 Speaker 1: can't give you thirty extra napkins so you can change 322 00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:22,800 Speaker 1: your baby, Dick. I can't do I can't do that. Man, 323 00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:25,320 Speaker 1: I can't do that. Okay, we can't just give away 324 00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:29,680 Speaker 1: these napkins like that. Wow, you're wrong for that. Figure 325 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:37,560 Speaker 1: up we McDonald's. We don't make whoppers. Now that has 326 00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:44,919 Speaker 1: happened to everyone know that everyone. Yeah, he's one. I 327 00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:48,200 Speaker 1: don't know why they stopped the mac rib They just 328 00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:59,320 Speaker 1: stopped it. Okay, yeah, yeah, we're not that's what it means. 329 00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:05,240 Speaker 1: That's sir, sir. Why you ain't come in if your 330 00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:09,760 Speaker 1: window don't work? Why you ain't just come in here? 331 00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:14,320 Speaker 1: Take it? How come you just didn't come in? You 332 00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:19,000 Speaker 1: can't get if you can't get the window down. You 333 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,240 Speaker 1: have to work as we feel your thing we're dealing 334 00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:26,560 Speaker 1: atle you go through every day, sir, sir ma'am, listen, 335 00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:28,879 Speaker 1: we can't. This is not where you come to book 336 00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:32,120 Speaker 1: Ronald McDonald to come to your favorite birthday part. This 337 00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:35,680 Speaker 1: ain't this ain't the winder for that. He's not here 338 00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:46,400 Speaker 1: right now, see you, ma'am. I know Chick for La sandwiches, 339 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:58,879 Speaker 1: it's better, but this hour every day though they are day. Look, 340 00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:02,280 Speaker 1: I know you to complain, but you can't speak to 341 00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:07,000 Speaker 1: the colonel because the colonel is never here. He's never 342 00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:14,440 Speaker 1: been here. I've asking for Davy him on TV, but 343 00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:19,040 Speaker 1: he not here. This might just be only in my neighborhood, 344 00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:22,920 Speaker 1: but I know it's a drifty work in an old neighborhood. 345 00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:26,600 Speaker 1: Look here, Larry worked from twelve mid ninety six. You 346 00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:38,040 Speaker 1: gotta get your drugs then, for real, junior drive through workers, Hello, 347 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:43,720 Speaker 1: worse than we thought. Drive Hello, Hello, ma'am. Can you 348 00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:48,840 Speaker 1: wake up? Your order is here, ma'am you got we 349 00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:52,200 Speaker 1: got ten people behind you. They've been sleeping the drive. 350 00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:59,240 Speaker 1: You have to order something if you're gonna have all 351 00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:10,000 Speaker 1: these kids play. She just brought the park. You don't 352 00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:16,480 Speaker 1: have pund This is not a nurse for miss time 353 00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:22,200 Speaker 1: on that work with us, go through it. Don't say 354 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:28,720 Speaker 1: out of them like we don't have anymore. That's what 355 00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:32,879 Speaker 1: I mean when I say, well, out of them, Yeah, 356 00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:35,840 Speaker 1: that's what That's what I mean. Is when I say 357 00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:39,919 Speaker 1: we're out of them, that means we don't have any more. 358 00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:43,120 Speaker 1: But when mean you out of them? Out of them 359 00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:48,119 Speaker 1: mean like, yeah, I don't know another way to say it. 360 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:52,440 Speaker 1: I don't know. Oh, I'm gonna really respect him next 361 00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:59,080 Speaker 1: time I go through a drive through. Look, look, I'm 362 00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:02,120 Speaker 1: at work. You can't drop him off at the drive 363 00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,840 Speaker 1: through window. I'm at work. Wait till I get off. 364 00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:15,720 Speaker 1: This is this wrong? Cap the baby at the drive wrong? 365 00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:21,680 Speaker 1: You can't hend the baby through the window. But say, man, 366 00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:24,200 Speaker 1: say man, I don't know who you bought weed from 367 00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:26,680 Speaker 1: last night. But I'm not saying weed here while I'm working. 368 00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:28,560 Speaker 1: I don't know who you bought it from last night, 369 00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:32,760 Speaker 1: but I'm not not me. Come on, step close it out, 370 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:36,520 Speaker 1: drive through workers. What we feel you now, we really do? Yeah, 371 00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:41,440 Speaker 1: come on close it out? Uh just a damn toy. 372 00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:56,080 Speaker 1: I don't pack all right? All right? Yeah, we feel 373 00:27:56,119 --> 00:28:00,640 Speaker 1: your pain drive through workers. You're listening Steve Harp Morning Show, 374 00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:09,600 Speaker 1: it's time. None of your darned business says. If you 375 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:14,040 Speaker 1: see going down, it ain't yours. It's none of your concern, 376 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,560 Speaker 1: none of Like if you in the barber shop, you 377 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:19,080 Speaker 1: even going down for years, Yeah, and you see somebody 378 00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:22,440 Speaker 1: take somebody else's customer and then't your damn be it? 379 00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:26,960 Speaker 1: Why why are you in there? Yeah? Yeah, from the 380 00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:31,240 Speaker 1: other guy. Just move on. What you't like, that's not 381 00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:34,240 Speaker 1: that has nothing to do with it nothing. The fact 382 00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,320 Speaker 1: that the other barber's feeling is gonna be hurt. That 383 00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:39,560 Speaker 1: that has nothing to do with you. No, he ain't 384 00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:44,560 Speaker 1: get in this chick. I'll tell you what. If you 385 00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:47,680 Speaker 1: go in the grocery store, turn your card down, our fold, 386 00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:53,240 Speaker 1: black parents choking the key that ain't none down Yeah, 387 00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:56,240 Speaker 1: back up, yeah, go down to our five, then get 388 00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:59,280 Speaker 1: your because you can get some of that choking. Yeah yeah, 389 00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:05,320 Speaker 1: I ain't, sir. You know, I don't even believe that. Hey, 390 00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:09,720 Speaker 1: what's going on? You gonna be going Yeah, Hey, I 391 00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:11,880 Speaker 1: wouldn't chuck that kid like battles that was you. Well, 392 00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:15,640 Speaker 1: you're not me, all right, the kid can really be hurt. Guys, 393 00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:22,640 Speaker 1: go down and ask what's going on? Damase that little 394 00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:25,320 Speaker 1: boy no good in hair will while he getting told 395 00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:28,360 Speaker 1: you not to touch nothing, and here touching, let's touch 396 00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:33,400 Speaker 1: You don't broke a damn job, pray for it? Yeah, shoking? 397 00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:38,680 Speaker 1: What you gotta tell me? You see somebody put a cold, 398 00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:42,320 Speaker 1: nice real buy in baked potato in the refrigerator at 399 00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:46,680 Speaker 1: work and can't wait for lunch time. You see somebody 400 00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:49,840 Speaker 1: else going there and eat all that steak and baked potato. 401 00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:53,000 Speaker 1: That ain't really You don't know what they're going through. 402 00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:55,920 Speaker 1: You're not gonna have no idea. You don't know what 403 00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:59,520 Speaker 1: that other man going I know the other man's gonna 404 00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:02,840 Speaker 1: be mad. Get your small cooler to keep your meeting 405 00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:11,080 Speaker 1: you and ice it down. You see your girlfriend, You 406 00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:17,760 Speaker 1: see your girlfriend's fiance, Yeah, at dinner with another woman. 407 00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:22,040 Speaker 1: Come on, that's probably more than likely a business denner. 408 00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:26,160 Speaker 1: That is none of your damn How does that concern you? 409 00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:28,520 Speaker 1: Go by your gift and go to the wedding like 410 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:32,680 Speaker 1: you're supposed to. Damn, go get your gift. But when 411 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:36,440 Speaker 1: they register that and it's gone, ain't your business your cameraphone? 412 00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:40,520 Speaker 1: I shouldn't say anything. Oh, that's snapping a photo and 413 00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:46,720 Speaker 1: sending the down like like she wants to hear that 414 00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:50,239 Speaker 1: want it. You're gonna mess up her damn day? Now? 415 00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:53,640 Speaker 1: Why would you do that? Yeah? Why would you mess 416 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:56,440 Speaker 1: up the day that she's been planning for her whole life? 417 00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:59,520 Speaker 1: And that's you coming in here because you ain't got 418 00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:05,160 Speaker 1: nobody you by your day. You're evil and nash evil 419 00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:10,000 Speaker 1: and nashic. You're just evil and nashty. You're standing next 420 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:13,240 Speaker 1: to a guy, right, y'all in the bar, Yeah, y'all 421 00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:15,720 Speaker 1: standing in the bar. And he's on the phone saying, Baby, 422 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:18,760 Speaker 1: I got to work late. I'm working late. I'm gonnaknock 423 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:22,120 Speaker 1: out this last um report and I'm coming on home. 424 00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:24,920 Speaker 1: What does that got to do with you? Right? That's 425 00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:28,120 Speaker 1: how does that happen? How does that affect you? At 426 00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:31,920 Speaker 1: the bar? He's lying, Sha on the other end, has 427 00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:39,280 Speaker 1: nothing to do with you. But his wife needs to 428 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:42,640 Speaker 1: hear about this paper. She need a reason why he 429 00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:45,239 Speaker 1: not gonna be home at six once, you know, if 430 00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:47,880 Speaker 1: he's saved, so he got to give her reasons hear 431 00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:51,480 Speaker 1: and his boys makes her feel calm and reassure that 432 00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,160 Speaker 1: nothing has happened, nothing to happen to coming back down? 433 00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:03,720 Speaker 1: What come on? That down to the audi, right, Steve. 434 00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:07,640 Speaker 1: Let's get to the news, ladies and gentlemen. Miss an trip. Okay, 435 00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:10,960 Speaker 1: thank you everybody, This is a trip with the news. Okay, 436 00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:14,080 Speaker 1: good news at least hopeful. Police in Beverly Hill say 437 00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:16,680 Speaker 1: they've arrested a suspect and the murder of fame music 438 00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:20,360 Speaker 1: producer Clarence Avon's wife, Jacqueline. He's identified as a twenty 439 00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:23,280 Speaker 1: nine year old Paroli from Los Angeles named Ariel Mayner, 440 00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:26,560 Speaker 1: whom they say has an extensive record. Authorities say they 441 00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:30,600 Speaker 1: have numerous videos showing Mayner's car exiting the area near 442 00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:33,040 Speaker 1: the Avon house around the time that the eighty one 443 00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:36,440 Speaker 1: year old Miss Savad was fatally shot. Police also say 444 00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:39,760 Speaker 1: they've recovered a gun, which, according to initial reports, appears 445 00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:42,800 Speaker 1: to be linked to the murderer. Nevertheless, Beverly Hills cops 446 00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,760 Speaker 1: repeat right now, anyway, Ariel Mainer is merely a suspect 447 00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:49,200 Speaker 1: at this point. He is, though under arrest. Health officials 448 00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:51,600 Speaker 1: documented the first case of the omicron variant in the 449 00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:54,480 Speaker 1: US and San Francisco on Wednesday, and then it was 450 00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:57,160 Speaker 1: another one in Michigan and a third one in Colorado. 451 00:32:57,560 --> 00:33:00,200 Speaker 1: There's now one in Hawaii, but there are now I've 452 00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:03,800 Speaker 1: confirmed omicron cases in New York State. But President Biden's 453 00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:06,600 Speaker 1: reminding the American people that the path to protection should 454 00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:09,960 Speaker 1: be well known by Now you're worried about olmacron variant. 455 00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:12,960 Speaker 1: The best thing to do is get fully vaccinated and 456 00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:16,239 Speaker 1: then get your booster shop. Get your child vaccinated at 457 00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:19,720 Speaker 1: one of the thirty five thousand locations in the country, 458 00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:25,440 Speaker 1: including doctor's offices, pharmacies, children's hospitals, and nine thousand pop 459 00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:29,560 Speaker 1: up clinics at schools. Vaccinating our children is also critical 460 00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:32,800 Speaker 1: to keeping our schools open. Additionally, we're increasing the availability 461 00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:37,680 Speaker 1: of new medications recommended by real doctors. Not conspiracy serious, 462 00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:41,080 Speaker 1: but to recap. Mister Biden says, get vaccinated, get the booster, 463 00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:44,400 Speaker 1: and wear your mask. The city of Saint Petersburg, Florida, 464 00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:47,200 Speaker 1: canceling the inaugural ball that was planned for its very 465 00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:50,640 Speaker 1: first black mayor, Ken Welsh, because he says, I'm not going. 466 00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:53,080 Speaker 1: The theme is to be a circus, which many black 467 00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:55,880 Speaker 1: residents of the once segregated city, including the mayor Elecque, 468 00:33:55,920 --> 00:34:00,640 Speaker 1: find offensive. Arizona State University says acquitted Kenosha was Kilica 469 00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:04,240 Speaker 1: Rittenhouse not an enrolled student there. They say Rittenhouse was 470 00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:07,479 Speaker 1: apparently taking some online classes at ASU as a non 471 00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:10,400 Speaker 1: degree seeking student. He recently expressed though a desire to 472 00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:12,880 Speaker 1: study on campus, but when students heard about it, there 473 00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:17,080 Speaker 1: are several online protests against Rittenhouse, launched by ASU students 474 00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:19,759 Speaker 1: and other groups, demanding that the university removed the young 475 00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:28,520 Speaker 1: vigilante from any ASU classes. And finally, looks like black 476 00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:31,960 Speaker 1: women are making history. Five black women crown the winners 477 00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:34,799 Speaker 1: of some of the world's most fastigious beauty padgets now 478 00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:38,919 Speaker 1: including Miss Team USA, Miss America, Miss USA, Miss Earth, 479 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:41,400 Speaker 1: and Miss World. This is the first time in history 480 00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:43,800 Speaker 1: that this has happened. Now back to the Steve Harvey 481 00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:48,920 Speaker 1: Morning Show. You're listening to show, all right, A lot 482 00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:52,719 Speaker 1: of people are losing sleep because of work, guys. A 483 00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:56,280 Speaker 1: new study by account Tips finds that forty four percent 484 00:34:56,320 --> 00:35:00,279 Speaker 1: of professionals are losing sleep over work. As for why, 485 00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:03,880 Speaker 1: fifty percent say they've been overwhelmed with work, the volume 486 00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:05,759 Speaker 1: of work they have, the hours that they have to 487 00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:08,600 Speaker 1: put in. Some of the other reasons for work related 488 00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:14,560 Speaker 1: sleep loss include a strange coworker relationships, wow. Uh worried 489 00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:20,840 Speaker 1: that they may lose their job. That's a lot of stress. Yeast, 490 00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:25,760 Speaker 1: Oh this is a good one. My boss is a nightmare. 491 00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:35,200 Speaker 1: Have you checked all three bucks at Jake? Strange coworking Okay, 492 00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:42,120 Speaker 1: strange coworker relationships. Worried I may lose my job and 493 00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:48,440 Speaker 1: my boss is a nightmare? Okay. So I gotta ask you, Steve. 494 00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:51,000 Speaker 1: You have a lot of jobs. You have more than 495 00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:54,560 Speaker 1: anyone I know. Do your jobs keep you up at night? 496 00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:56,680 Speaker 1: Or you know? Is it if they do? Is it 497 00:35:56,800 --> 00:36:01,400 Speaker 1: constant or just a case jobs? When I run up 498 00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:05,200 Speaker 1: into stupidity, that's the only thing I get exhausted for. 499 00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:08,480 Speaker 1: I don't I you know, I've really found out over 500 00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:11,560 Speaker 1: the years. I don't really care for stupid people. I 501 00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:16,040 Speaker 1: really don't. I can't even I can't even play at all. 502 00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:19,239 Speaker 1: Like if you're stupid, I look at you like you're 503 00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:22,560 Speaker 1: stupid the whole time you talk. I don't know what 504 00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:24,759 Speaker 1: we're supposed to do with that information. No, it's just 505 00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:27,719 Speaker 1: important information that you know about me and my job. 506 00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:30,799 Speaker 1: My job. I love my job. I look, I tell 507 00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:34,080 Speaker 1: jokes for a living and play music. All of my 508 00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:37,879 Speaker 1: jobs to have an element of meat using my god 509 00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:42,160 Speaker 1: given talent. So I love my work. It's the things 510 00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:46,239 Speaker 1: that surround my work, like when you stupid. I just 511 00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:57,760 Speaker 1: can't stand that. Man, No Jay, good, Jay Iger from stupid. 512 00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:00,520 Speaker 1: And when you're doing stuff that ain't attached to nothing 513 00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:04,400 Speaker 1: and just has no rhyme or reason, but you steadied 514 00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:10,839 Speaker 1: doing oh, anyone in particular in minder to anyone at 515 00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:15,640 Speaker 1: the job. I know I didn't think he was gonna 516 00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:20,520 Speaker 1: say you honestly, Um, okay, why would I say? It's 517 00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:25,279 Speaker 1: uncomfortable right now? Yes? Why you uncomfortable? You're not stupid? Oh, 518 00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:28,879 Speaker 1: I know. I know. You just don't like the way 519 00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:32,520 Speaker 1: that Tommy goes into the shell when you call him stupid. 520 00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:34,879 Speaker 1: But let him go in there. When he go into 521 00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:39,720 Speaker 1: the shell, he can't say no stupid. He's here working. 522 00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:42,920 Speaker 1: What are you gonna do? He's work. I'm right here. 523 00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:46,640 Speaker 1: Hello everyone, I'm here. I'm right here. Yeah, yeah, okay, 524 00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:49,439 Speaker 1: I'm right. He don't stop doing it, stop talking over 525 00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:55,960 Speaker 1: and around me. I'm right here. All right. We'll be 526 00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:58,759 Speaker 1: back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right 527 00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:05,960 Speaker 1: after you're listening show. All right, Steve, it is time 528 00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:10,920 Speaker 1: for comedy Roulette and Jay explained it to us the people. 529 00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:12,640 Speaker 1: We have to explain it every week because we get 530 00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:21,120 Speaker 1: new listeners, rand new people who listen. Man, I love radio. Yes, 531 00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:23,880 Speaker 1: you know, Steve has no option. We have time to 532 00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:26,360 Speaker 1: roulette this where we take five subjects. We put the 533 00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:29,040 Speaker 1: subjects on the wheel. We spun the wheel around and 534 00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:32,520 Speaker 1: around and around. Where the wheel stops, we'll do the 535 00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:36,279 Speaker 1: damn thing. What are the subjects? You're ready? Here we go. 536 00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:40,359 Speaker 1: Number one. I apologize baby, this is the first time 537 00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:46,440 Speaker 1: this has ever happened. Number number two, Well, when is 538 00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:51,319 Speaker 1: the baby going to sleep? That is me? Number three? 539 00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:54,680 Speaker 1: How long is he going to stay in the sixth grade? 540 00:38:56,160 --> 00:39:01,359 Speaker 1: Once again? Number four, Well you're big and bad. Come 541 00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:06,080 Speaker 1: on down here. Okay. Number five, I didn't get fired. 542 00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:11,000 Speaker 1: They just tripping at the job. And here's a bonus. 543 00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:14,759 Speaker 1: Number six. If you buy cheap stuff, it doesn't last, 544 00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:17,040 Speaker 1: all right, all right, all right, it's been a day 545 00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:29,920 Speaker 1: when you want you did not want? Number one? What 546 00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:32,480 Speaker 1: is it? I apologize baby, This is the first time 547 00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:39,360 Speaker 1: this has ever happened. That you know. The problem is you. 548 00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:43,080 Speaker 1: You is the problem. I can't concentrate because of you. 549 00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:47,319 Speaker 1: You're doing something to me, make me lose my concentration 550 00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:51,520 Speaker 1: and whatever it is, stop it. You need to focus. 551 00:39:57,400 --> 00:40:03,800 Speaker 1: Was personal. That was I wanted to stop. Man. Okay, 552 00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:07,200 Speaker 1: well look at, look at. I want to apologize. This 553 00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:10,040 Speaker 1: has never happened a folk but me and the microwave 554 00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:13,120 Speaker 1: went off at the same time. I want to say, 555 00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:27,160 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I didn't know I was through any food. Listen, listen, listen, listen. 556 00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:30,600 Speaker 1: I apologize. This is the first time this has ever happened. 557 00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:35,719 Speaker 1: I dreamed I was peeing, all right, that's why we 558 00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:38,040 Speaker 1: both laying here with I'm just saying, this is the 559 00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:47,520 Speaker 1: third time I was being in my dream. Yeah, when 560 00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:59,960 Speaker 1: you're twelve, you can't have come on damn day. I'm sorry, 561 00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:04,320 Speaker 1: but a little uh, this is first time that's ever happened. 562 00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:14,520 Speaker 1: But I ain't ever been in a committed relationship. I 563 00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:20,360 Speaker 1: didn't know the rule. I'm so she's putting her clothes 564 00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:26,799 Speaker 1: on right, Okay, baby. Part is just the first time 565 00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:28,759 Speaker 1: this has ever happened to me. And since we had 566 00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:31,520 Speaker 1: worked out a payment and it was so quick on 567 00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:34,239 Speaker 1: my part, I should get some of that money back. 568 00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:40,640 Speaker 1: I shouldn't have to pay the full the full price, Okay, 569 00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:48,640 Speaker 1: I say that. I'll tell you what listen. I really 570 00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:51,879 Speaker 1: really am sorry. I know I asked for someone doing 571 00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:54,960 Speaker 1: the commercial break. I don't know I'm gonna finish in 572 00:41:55,160 --> 00:42:01,600 Speaker 1: the commercial. I'm so sorry. It's for you. Ain't even back. 573 00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:14,320 Speaker 1: Ain't never happened before ever. Listen. She over here in 574 00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:17,120 Speaker 1: the pool with her Bikinia because I'm trying to teach 575 00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:21,440 Speaker 1: her how to swim. All right, I apologize. It's the 576 00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:35,800 Speaker 1: first hand it's ever happened. Teach the girl how to swim, baby, baby, Baby, 577 00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:41,400 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I didn't know it was your mama, dail. 578 00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:53,319 Speaker 1: I I had no idea. All right, listen. Up next, 579 00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:55,640 Speaker 1: it's the Nephew, the King of Pranks, with a prank 580 00:42:55,680 --> 00:43:02,239 Speaker 1: phone call. Right after this you're listening morning show coming 581 00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:04,600 Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, right about four 582 00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:07,480 Speaker 1: minutes after, it's my Strawberry letter for today, the subject 583 00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:13,960 Speaker 1: if you don't catch your mama, I will see that's 584 00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:21,439 Speaker 1: where you roll your mama. I'm going to over there 585 00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:24,680 Speaker 1: doing yeah right now, though, it is the nephews turn 586 00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:26,640 Speaker 1: to give us the prank phone call for it today. 587 00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:33,920 Speaker 1: What you got in the doctor's visit? The doctor's visit, 588 00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:39,279 Speaker 1: let's go, kay, Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach a 589 00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:43,480 Speaker 1: Roger Belton, Please, he's not here a message. UM, my 590 00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:47,000 Speaker 1: name is Mark ma'n. I'm calling from the clinic, doctor 591 00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:50,600 Speaker 1: Robert good down. Hold on, I'm sorry, say that again. Okay, 592 00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:52,200 Speaker 1: can you hear me? I can hear you now. I'm 593 00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:56,040 Speaker 1: trying to reach Roger. He's not here. Okay. I'm calling 594 00:43:56,160 --> 00:44:00,239 Speaker 1: from from the clinic, from doctor Robert's office and trying 595 00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:02,440 Speaker 1: to get some information to him. Do you know when 596 00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:07,839 Speaker 1: you actually begin No, actually I don't. Um, is everything okay? Uh? 597 00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:10,120 Speaker 1: Well you know everything's fine. I mean nothing that I 598 00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:13,040 Speaker 1: cannot be handled. But um, we we're trying to actually 599 00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:16,080 Speaker 1: get some information to him so that he can actually 600 00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:19,000 Speaker 1: come back him for the results. Okay, Well I don't. 601 00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:21,600 Speaker 1: I don't know when I can He's supposed to be 602 00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:24,839 Speaker 1: here now, I'm not sure when I can tell you're 603 00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:27,960 Speaker 1: gonna be back. Okay. Well, I'm sorry I didn't ask 604 00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:30,120 Speaker 1: you earlier. Man, Who am I actually speaking with? This 605 00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:36,560 Speaker 1: is his girlfriend? Uh and your name is Jan Jan? Okay, so, uh, Jan, 606 00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:38,160 Speaker 1: you don't you say you don't know? Yeah, you don't 607 00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:41,480 Speaker 1: have an idea when he'll be back. No, it's trying 608 00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:45,720 Speaker 1: to make me kind of get a little concerned though, No, no, no, wow, Okay, 609 00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:47,800 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. This is the number that he 610 00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:51,040 Speaker 1: actually loved us to give him a call on his results, 611 00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:53,520 Speaker 1: and we're not getting an answer. I don't have another 612 00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:56,400 Speaker 1: number on hand. Do you have any specific time I 613 00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:59,800 Speaker 1: can actually call back and maybe I'll get him again. 614 00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:03,160 Speaker 1: I'm you're making my stomach is getting nervous right now? 615 00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:05,640 Speaker 1: What is what is the problem? Well, actually you know 616 00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:08,800 Speaker 1: what it is. Man is mister Rogers came in for 617 00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:11,080 Speaker 1: h to take a few tests, and he took some 618 00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:13,120 Speaker 1: tests and we actually have the result in and we'd 619 00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:15,239 Speaker 1: actually really like for him to come back. I don't 620 00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:17,320 Speaker 1: know anything about I'm sorry, I didn't mean to interrupt you, 621 00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:19,840 Speaker 1: but I don't know anything about any tests. He hasn't 622 00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:21,920 Speaker 1: told me anything about going to a clinic or anything 623 00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:24,920 Speaker 1: like that. I see, So what kind of test are 624 00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:27,759 Speaker 1: you talking about? Well, I mean, I'm not I'm really 625 00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:29,440 Speaker 1: not at liberty to give you any kind of information 626 00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:31,920 Speaker 1: unless you're actually on the paperwork. So I'm you know, 627 00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:33,840 Speaker 1: it's not even something that I can discuss unless the 628 00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:36,520 Speaker 1: patient has signed off that you are the next of 629 00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:39,040 Speaker 1: ken or the person that can we can actually give 630 00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:43,280 Speaker 1: information to you do you? I do, and I'm pretty 631 00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:46,320 Speaker 1: certain I mean the way we operate in this household. 632 00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:49,560 Speaker 1: I'm pretty certain that that I'm on the paperwork. So 633 00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:53,520 Speaker 1: would you please we pull up roger stuff on computer 634 00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:55,440 Speaker 1: here and I'll see what I give me one second, 635 00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:59,600 Speaker 1: please sure, Okay, okay, let's see now, let me scroll 636 00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:03,200 Speaker 1: down for next of ken. Okay, I got a Janis. 637 00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:06,400 Speaker 1: That is me. I mean everybody called me jam but 638 00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:10,200 Speaker 1: that's me Janie. Wow. Okay, tell me your name again. 639 00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:12,600 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, what's your name again? Mark? Mark? Like I said, 640 00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:16,040 Speaker 1: I'm the clerk here at doctor Robert's office. I guess 641 00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:17,719 Speaker 1: I am at liberty to tell you what's going on. 642 00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:22,520 Speaker 1: Please do mister Roger came in and took some STD 643 00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:26,160 Speaker 1: test STD yes, and I guess at this point I 644 00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:28,640 Speaker 1: should just maybe both of you guys would come in 645 00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:32,759 Speaker 1: and wait a minute with everybody, and everybody wait a minute. Mind, 646 00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:35,200 Speaker 1: no no, no, no, no no no, I need you 647 00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:36,960 Speaker 1: to finish what you were just saying. Well, that's what 648 00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:39,640 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Man. What has happened is he's been diagnosed 649 00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:44,640 Speaker 1: with UM as well as you gotta be kidding me. 650 00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:48,520 Speaker 1: You have got to be kidding me, okay, I'm not 651 00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:53,600 Speaker 1: hearing this. Do you understand what that means? Do you 652 00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:56,720 Speaker 1: understand that he lives in my household? Do you understand 653 00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:59,359 Speaker 1: that that means that he has been dipping somewhere else? 654 00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:02,960 Speaker 1: Because I have been not doing anything that would even 655 00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:05,560 Speaker 1: come close to bringing something to him like that. So 656 00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:08,719 Speaker 1: it's how apparent that this man has been outside of 657 00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:11,319 Speaker 1: my household and doing when he has no business doing 658 00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:14,400 Speaker 1: and bring it back in. Man, I'm not at liberty 659 00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:16,920 Speaker 1: to make any accusations like that. I cannot say anything 660 00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:19,080 Speaker 1: like that. All I can say is I'd like for 661 00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:20,399 Speaker 1: both of you. You know, it'd be good for both 662 00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:22,279 Speaker 1: of you guys to come in and because one tell 663 00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:26,480 Speaker 1: you about this is something treatable, it is curable. I 664 00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:29,120 Speaker 1: don't care about it being treatable or curable. What I 665 00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:32,200 Speaker 1: care about is the fact that he apparently has been 666 00:47:32,360 --> 00:47:35,719 Speaker 1: somewhere with some trick and brought something back home to 667 00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:39,480 Speaker 1: my household. That's what I care about. I do understand that, 668 00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:42,320 Speaker 1: mister Jannis, I do, but you have to understand my 669 00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:44,120 Speaker 1: position and what I'm trying to do. I'm just trying 670 00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:46,560 Speaker 1: to reaching out and well, listen, you happen to call 671 00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:48,839 Speaker 1: my household. You just have to be on the end, 672 00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:51,000 Speaker 1: on the other side of it. I am sorry you're 673 00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:53,000 Speaker 1: getting most of it, but I tell you what what 674 00:47:53,160 --> 00:47:55,040 Speaker 1: you need to do is you need to make him 675 00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:57,759 Speaker 1: an appointment and I will meet him there. He will 676 00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:00,839 Speaker 1: be wait wait, wait, wait, wait a minute, wait a minute. 677 00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:03,480 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. You need to make him an appointment to 678 00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:05,759 Speaker 1: come out to take a look at these results you're 679 00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:07,800 Speaker 1: talking about and guests who will show up at the 680 00:48:07,880 --> 00:48:12,520 Speaker 1: door before he gets there. Me, that's I think kid. 681 00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:14,919 Speaker 1: Wouldn't better for you just missing to tell him what's 682 00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:17,640 Speaker 1: going on. Since I'm you know, this is the plan 683 00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:20,000 Speaker 1: you need to give him. You need to give him 684 00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:24,480 Speaker 1: a call and give you a cell phone number. Yes, okay, 685 00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:28,719 Speaker 1: I got it. Okay, you call him and set a 686 00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:31,200 Speaker 1: twelve new an appointment to trust me when I tell you, 687 00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:33,279 Speaker 1: when he walked through that door and see my face, 688 00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:36,520 Speaker 1: he will know. Okay, okay, missus mischares. I'm not trying 689 00:48:36,560 --> 00:48:42,680 Speaker 1: to create chaos to let mister Roger know that we 690 00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:45,719 Speaker 1: need him to come actually into the building. Could give 691 00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:49,319 Speaker 1: two about a call. All I know is you make 692 00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:51,719 Speaker 1: that appointment. I will get there before he gets there, 693 00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:55,279 Speaker 1: and his own I'm telling you that's how it's gonna roll. 694 00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:58,960 Speaker 1: Do you understand me, miss missus, misses, I can't allow 695 00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:01,239 Speaker 1: any chaos to be going on in the building. I 696 00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:04,239 Speaker 1: cannot allow that. Let me know you're creative. Let me 697 00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:07,319 Speaker 1: tell you something I don't care. I could care less 698 00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:09,160 Speaker 1: about what you feel about it and what you can 699 00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:14,440 Speaker 1: and can't. All I'm telling you is you call what 700 00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:18,719 Speaker 1: I call looking for mister Rogers, you called his stud 701 00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:24,000 Speaker 1: to be white. Correction correction stud to not be white. Okay, 702 00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:26,880 Speaker 1: I got one more thing I do need to tell you, though, 703 00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:29,279 Speaker 1: mister you know what I can't deal with another thing. 704 00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:31,360 Speaker 1: I swear to God, don't tell me anything out, but 705 00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:35,640 Speaker 1: I do have a wiper. Make your appointment. That's all 706 00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:37,759 Speaker 1: I care about. You. Make your appointment, make your point. 707 00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:39,520 Speaker 1: But I need you to ask for somebody when you 708 00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:41,080 Speaker 1: come to the clinic. I need you to ask for 709 00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:43,200 Speaker 1: one person and then they will take care of you. 710 00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:45,960 Speaker 1: Who who I need to ask for us? Okay, you 711 00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:48,520 Speaker 1: need to ask for nephew. Tell me from the Steve 712 00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:51,239 Speaker 1: Harby Morning Show, because that's who I am. You just 713 00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:58,920 Speaker 1: got branked by your husband, Roger. You know what me? 714 00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:02,960 Speaker 1: Tell me? Let me tell me. I listened to you 715 00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:08,080 Speaker 1: everyone know. Oh my goodness, I am so embarrassed. And 716 00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:13,880 Speaker 1: wait till I see right all right? Oh my gosh, 717 00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:18,520 Speaker 1: I am, I am. Oh, I'm done. I can't believe 718 00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:20,880 Speaker 1: you me. I got. I got one more thing I 719 00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:24,040 Speaker 1: got asked. Okay, what is the baddest that? I mean, 720 00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:27,200 Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the land, the one I 721 00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:30,080 Speaker 1: wake up to every morning, the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 722 00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:38,920 Speaker 1: Come on, uh, come on, come on, get a practice. 723 00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:51,480 Speaker 1: Did you do that? Oh? I felt her pain? What isis? Women? 724 00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:59,879 Speaker 1: Be funny? Disease though wouldn't be really funny. Oh my god, 725 00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:08,239 Speaker 1: good one man, Thank you man, thank you. I wove 726 00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:15,080 Speaker 1: my heart about the prank. I guess that's why they 727 00:51:15,160 --> 00:51:19,720 Speaker 1: call you the King of pranks. No, he's the king, damn, 728 00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:25,080 Speaker 1: And I am rising to be the pranktice. I ain't 729 00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:27,719 Speaker 1: rising to be the king of grits. You hit me, 730 00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:31,920 Speaker 1: just good grits. G R I t Z. I'm getting 731 00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:34,239 Speaker 1: so much, so many people hitting me back. Let me 732 00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:36,239 Speaker 1: know how they like the grits. And I'm just letting 733 00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:39,160 Speaker 1: y'all know, y'all gotta tryump just good grits. I even 734 00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:41,759 Speaker 1: got chefs hitting me up. I'm sending them out. Oh 735 00:51:41,840 --> 00:51:45,000 Speaker 1: my god. I promise you y'all just just go buy. 736 00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:47,280 Speaker 1: Let me know what you think. Shoot your boy email 737 00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:50,000 Speaker 1: and you know we're gonna we're gonna rise these grits 738 00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:51,880 Speaker 1: to the top. I promise you you do not have 739 00:51:52,080 --> 00:51:56,239 Speaker 1: a flavor like I got. Just Good Grits g R 740 00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:58,839 Speaker 1: I T with a Z on the end, Just Good 741 00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:02,239 Speaker 1: Grits dot com. It's I'm gonna go buy song. I 742 00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:07,240 Speaker 1: go buy the first pack though I worked with. Okay, 743 00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:13,040 Speaker 1: thank you, nephew. Up next, about four minutes after, it's 744 00:52:13,080 --> 00:52:16,319 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letters. Subject if if, if you don't get 745 00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:18,759 Speaker 1: your mama, I will. It's coming up right after this. 746 00:52:19,360 --> 00:52:24,600 Speaker 1: You're listening to show all right time now, guys for 747 00:52:24,719 --> 00:52:28,600 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter. If you need advice on relationships, on dating, 748 00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:32,120 Speaker 1: on sex, on work, on parenting, and more, please submit 749 00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:35,760 Speaker 1: your letter to the Steve Harvey FM dot com crew 750 00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:38,759 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter and we'll take care of you. 751 00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:40,759 Speaker 1: Will read your letter live. It could be your letter 752 00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:45,359 Speaker 1: live on the air like we're reading this one right right, answer, 753 00:52:45,520 --> 00:52:48,839 Speaker 1: right right right, So it buggle up and hold on tight. 754 00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:51,360 Speaker 1: We got it for you here. It is the strawberry 755 00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:54,759 Speaker 1: let us subjects. If you don't get yo Mama. That's 756 00:52:54,840 --> 00:52:56,400 Speaker 1: what it says in the title. If you don't get 757 00:52:56,560 --> 00:53:02,080 Speaker 1: yo Mama, I will Dear Steveson, Dear Stephen Shirley. I 758 00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:04,359 Speaker 1: have found the man of my dreams and we've been 759 00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:07,239 Speaker 1: together for five years. We have one child together, and 760 00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:11,720 Speaker 1: I'm pregnant with our second child. Our relationship is great, 761 00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:15,680 Speaker 1: but my boyfriend's mother is a huge problem, and I'm 762 00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:19,200 Speaker 1: fed up with her inserting herself into every aspect of 763 00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:23,839 Speaker 1: our lives. She comments and how we parent, our finances, 764 00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:29,040 Speaker 1: my decorating style, how I cook, and my housekeeping skills. Recently, 765 00:53:29,280 --> 00:53:31,800 Speaker 1: our child was sick and she caused a big scene 766 00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:33,800 Speaker 1: in the hospital, saying that it was my fault for 767 00:53:33,920 --> 00:53:37,480 Speaker 1: not taking better care of her grandchild. My child is young, 768 00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:40,600 Speaker 1: and she constantly critiques him, which makes him not like 769 00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:43,000 Speaker 1: her very much. Last week, she told me that she 770 00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:45,520 Speaker 1: hopes the new baby is not a brat like my toddler. 771 00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:49,560 Speaker 1: My boyfriend seems to overlook her insults when she goes 772 00:53:49,719 --> 00:53:51,960 Speaker 1: in on him, but it's hard for me to hear 773 00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:54,440 Speaker 1: her telling him that he's a sorry excuse for a man. 774 00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:58,480 Speaker 1: I have told her that her behavior is unacceptable, and 775 00:53:58,680 --> 00:54:01,400 Speaker 1: she said that she's just having us much needed advice 776 00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:05,120 Speaker 1: and constructive criticism because we're young and don't know anything. 777 00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:08,400 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. We are in our early thirties and we 778 00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:11,480 Speaker 1: can take care of ourselves. I'm starting to think that 779 00:54:11,600 --> 00:54:14,520 Speaker 1: she might be right about my boyfriend being sorry because 780 00:54:14,600 --> 00:54:17,040 Speaker 1: he won't talk to her about her foul mouth and 781 00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:20,160 Speaker 1: bad attitude. I have told him that she is no 782 00:54:20,280 --> 00:54:22,600 Speaker 1: longer welcome in our home and that I do not 783 00:54:22,760 --> 00:54:25,800 Speaker 1: want her to have a relationship with our new baby. 784 00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:28,400 Speaker 1: I don't need this stress during the last trimester of 785 00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:30,640 Speaker 1: my pregnancy. How can I get this man to step 786 00:54:30,760 --> 00:54:33,359 Speaker 1: up and get his mom in check? Please advise? All right, 787 00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:35,880 Speaker 1: first of all, let me tell you this. Not welcoming 788 00:54:35,960 --> 00:54:38,000 Speaker 1: her in your home and not wanting her to have 789 00:54:38,080 --> 00:54:41,920 Speaker 1: a relationship with the new baby, that's kind of hearts. Okay, Now, 790 00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:44,200 Speaker 1: is your boyfriend and mama's boy. I have to say 791 00:54:44,320 --> 00:54:46,600 Speaker 1: yes to that. I have to say also that you're right. 792 00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:49,439 Speaker 1: Your man should be checking his mom in a respectful way. 793 00:54:49,800 --> 00:54:53,080 Speaker 1: She is too messy, she is too involved in your relationship. 794 00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:55,520 Speaker 1: She's too petty. She does need to get her some business. 795 00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:58,279 Speaker 1: I'm in agreement with all of that, But unless he 796 00:54:58,400 --> 00:55:01,680 Speaker 1: says something to her, she's not gonna She's not gonna 797 00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:06,160 Speaker 1: pull up. You've already said something. But you're right, you 798 00:55:06,239 --> 00:55:08,040 Speaker 1: don't need this kind of stress in your last try 799 00:55:08,160 --> 00:55:11,759 Speaker 1: trimester of your pregnancy. But but how dare she though? 800 00:55:11,880 --> 00:55:15,480 Speaker 1: I mean, what's what's all this disrespect? Has this been 801 00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:18,600 Speaker 1: going on for the entire five years? I can't believe 802 00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:20,600 Speaker 1: you guys have allowed it to go on for so long. 803 00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:23,759 Speaker 1: And I'm gonna ask you this. Do you think it 804 00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:26,160 Speaker 1: has anything to do with the fact that you guys 805 00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:32,080 Speaker 1: aren't married five years, two kids later, that's a lot. Maybe, 806 00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:33,960 Speaker 1: you know, she might be messy and all of that, 807 00:55:34,200 --> 00:55:35,960 Speaker 1: you know, with her ways and everything, but she might 808 00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:38,880 Speaker 1: also be old school and she wants you to to 809 00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:41,600 Speaker 1: stop having children and making you know, making babies and 810 00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:44,239 Speaker 1: all this and go ahead and tie the knot. You know. 811 00:55:44,600 --> 00:55:47,560 Speaker 1: Maybe that's where this is really coming from. Just something 812 00:55:47,640 --> 00:55:51,879 Speaker 1: to think about there, Steve. The mama is out of love, yeah, 813 00:55:52,520 --> 00:55:57,000 Speaker 1: and period. It sain't got nothing to do really with 814 00:55:57,160 --> 00:56:00,799 Speaker 1: the boy or the girl. The mama is way out 815 00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:04,759 Speaker 1: of line. Now. With that being said, whose job is 816 00:56:04,840 --> 00:56:07,960 Speaker 1: it to check her the sun? But surely hid it. 817 00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:11,040 Speaker 1: This a mama's boy now, and we got a little problem, 818 00:56:11,600 --> 00:56:13,440 Speaker 1: but I got news for it. He doesn't even have 819 00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:16,560 Speaker 1: to be a mama's boy, because it's not that he's 820 00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:20,160 Speaker 1: over there all the time. It's that she interjects herself 821 00:56:20,600 --> 00:56:23,600 Speaker 1: into y'all's every aspect of your life. And you just 822 00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:26,359 Speaker 1: won't get him to say nothing. The dude that don't 823 00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:28,759 Speaker 1: say nothing to his mama's really not because he's a 824 00:56:28,840 --> 00:56:31,680 Speaker 1: mama's boy. This ain't nothing new to him. Let me 825 00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:34,080 Speaker 1: get to the letter. She comments on how we're parent 826 00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:38,280 Speaker 1: our finances, my decorating style, how I cook, my house cleaning, 827 00:56:38,520 --> 00:56:40,680 Speaker 1: and then your child got sick and she calls a 828 00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:43,960 Speaker 1: big scene at the hospital saying it was my fault 829 00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:46,719 Speaker 1: for not taking better care of her grandchild. It's just 830 00:56:46,840 --> 00:56:50,640 Speaker 1: half a crazy. That's how you get a person arrested. 831 00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:54,040 Speaker 1: That's how you get child protective services, That's how you 832 00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:57,360 Speaker 1: get children taken from people. She's got to be crazy. 833 00:56:57,440 --> 00:57:00,359 Speaker 1: Once you start making these statements in the hospital, they 834 00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:04,320 Speaker 1: starts checking real closer. Yeah, my child is young, and 835 00:57:04,400 --> 00:57:07,759 Speaker 1: she constantly critiques him, which makes him not like her. 836 00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:11,200 Speaker 1: Very much. See, this is an old battle acts right here, 837 00:57:19,000 --> 00:57:22,440 Speaker 1: this health right here. She ain't happy with herself. So 838 00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:24,880 Speaker 1: she ain't happy with you, the way your parents, the 839 00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:27,400 Speaker 1: way you clean, the way you She ain't happy with 840 00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:30,360 Speaker 1: the grandchild. She ain't happy with her son. This is 841 00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:34,360 Speaker 1: an old, old battle ax. Last week she told me 842 00:57:34,480 --> 00:57:37,320 Speaker 1: she hopes the new baby is not a brat like 843 00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:41,000 Speaker 1: my toddler. Is she serious? What's wrong with her? Man? 844 00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:45,960 Speaker 1: She's just a nasty person. My boyfriend seems to overlook 845 00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:48,720 Speaker 1: her insults when she goes in on him, but it's 846 00:57:48,720 --> 00:57:50,760 Speaker 1: hard for me to hear her telling him that he's 847 00:57:50,800 --> 00:57:55,240 Speaker 1: a side excuse for a man she raised him. It's 848 00:57:55,320 --> 00:57:59,680 Speaker 1: her son, You're side excuse for a man you raised. 849 00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:02,240 Speaker 1: So you know, let's get some of these fingers pointing 850 00:58:02,240 --> 00:58:06,200 Speaker 1: at you. I told her that her behavior is unacceptable, 851 00:58:06,840 --> 00:58:10,000 Speaker 1: and she said that she's just giving us much needed 852 00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:14,200 Speaker 1: advice and constructive criticism. Take the word constructive out. It's 853 00:58:14,240 --> 00:58:17,600 Speaker 1: just criticism and it's not much needed. It's that you 854 00:58:17,800 --> 00:58:20,400 Speaker 1: do it all the time because you funk it, because 855 00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:23,000 Speaker 1: you ain't happy with yourself. She says, she's doing that 856 00:58:23,080 --> 00:58:25,880 Speaker 1: because you're young and you don't know anything. Stephen Sherlett. 857 00:58:25,960 --> 00:58:27,960 Speaker 1: We're in our early thirties and we can take care 858 00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:31,240 Speaker 1: of ourselves. I'm starting. She thinks she might be right 859 00:58:31,280 --> 00:58:35,200 Speaker 1: about my boyfriend being sorry. Okay, she's winning now or 860 00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:38,360 Speaker 1: she gets you over the leaning that right there, she winning. 861 00:58:38,640 --> 00:58:42,680 Speaker 1: Don't let her do it, you'll dode. Ain't sorry. He 862 00:58:42,840 --> 00:58:44,880 Speaker 1: just won't talk to her about her fire mouth and 863 00:58:44,960 --> 00:58:47,920 Speaker 1: bad attitude. You know why this ain't new to him. 864 00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:52,120 Speaker 1: He grew up with her, her bad attitude and fire mouth. 865 00:58:52,480 --> 00:58:55,120 Speaker 1: He grew up with it. He don't even hit no more. 866 00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:58,240 Speaker 1: It's the norm for him. This is new to you. 867 00:58:58,840 --> 00:59:01,560 Speaker 1: So what you're tripping on, he's made the adjustment to 868 00:59:01,680 --> 00:59:05,760 Speaker 1: He don't even hear her. Wow, he been't cut her out? 869 00:59:06,200 --> 00:59:08,280 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, hang on, we'll have part two of 870 00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:11,080 Speaker 1: your response to today's Strubberry letter. If you don't get 871 00:59:11,160 --> 00:59:13,880 Speaker 1: your mama, I will at twenty three after the hour, 872 00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:20,120 Speaker 1: right after you're listening. All right, Come on, Steve, let's 873 00:59:20,120 --> 00:59:22,760 Speaker 1: recap today's Strubberry letter. If you don't get your mama. 874 00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:26,680 Speaker 1: Recap The old mama is an old battle axe. She's 875 00:59:26,720 --> 00:59:32,600 Speaker 1: not happy. She better she evil. She don't like nothing. 876 00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:37,080 Speaker 1: She debased this woman out in the hospital. Damn near 877 00:59:37,120 --> 00:59:39,919 Speaker 1: got in trouble. Talk about you hoping the new baby 878 00:59:39,960 --> 00:59:44,680 Speaker 1: ain't like just brought you to raise Wow? Wow she evil? Yeah, 879 00:59:44,880 --> 00:59:47,400 Speaker 1: she don't like the way the lady cook clean dou 880 00:59:47,520 --> 00:59:55,959 Speaker 1: house parents nothing evil was ugly. She say her son 881 00:59:56,320 --> 00:59:59,600 Speaker 1: is a side excuse for a man, and that's who 882 00:59:59,640 --> 01:00:03,480 Speaker 1: she read. Now I'm starting to think she might be 883 01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:07,040 Speaker 1: right about my boyfriend being sorry. He's not. He's just 884 01:00:07,240 --> 01:00:10,200 Speaker 1: used to her because he won't talk to her about 885 01:00:10,240 --> 01:00:13,919 Speaker 1: her firemouth and bad attitude once again, because he used 886 01:00:13,960 --> 01:00:16,680 Speaker 1: to her. He grew up with the firemouth and an attitude. 887 01:00:16,920 --> 01:00:20,880 Speaker 1: That's just how his mama is. She didn't just get 888 01:00:21,000 --> 01:00:24,680 Speaker 1: this way. I've told him that she is no longer welcome. 889 01:00:25,320 --> 01:00:27,960 Speaker 1: I've told him that she's no longer welcome in our 890 01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:30,600 Speaker 1: home and that I do not want her to have 891 01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:34,760 Speaker 1: relationship with our knew baber. Okay, that's not cool. I 892 01:00:34,920 --> 01:00:37,760 Speaker 1: got she ain't cool at all. But two wrongs ain't 893 01:00:37,760 --> 01:00:40,560 Speaker 1: gonna make it right. You told your husband that his 894 01:00:40,680 --> 01:00:43,440 Speaker 1: mama ain't welcome in our home no more. You got 895 01:00:43,520 --> 01:00:45,960 Speaker 1: him in a bad spot. You got him in the 896 01:00:46,040 --> 01:00:49,360 Speaker 1: horribles because it's crazy as wrong as she is. It's 897 01:00:49,400 --> 01:00:51,960 Speaker 1: still his mama. He loved her. I don't need this 898 01:00:52,080 --> 01:00:55,080 Speaker 1: stress during my last trimester of my pregnancy. How can 899 01:00:55,160 --> 01:00:56,720 Speaker 1: I get my man to step off and get his 900 01:00:56,800 --> 01:00:59,720 Speaker 1: mom in check? His mom has never been in a check. 901 01:01:01,520 --> 01:01:06,439 Speaker 1: This ain't new, so I don't know. You know, he's 902 01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:08,240 Speaker 1: got to sit his mom down and go, mom, this 903 01:01:08,440 --> 01:01:12,920 Speaker 1: my family. I loved them. Yeah, and he's got to 904 01:01:12,960 --> 01:01:14,680 Speaker 1: make the case in point to her so she can 905 01:01:14,800 --> 01:01:20,280 Speaker 1: lighten up, or you're gonna lose, you know us, because 906 01:01:20,320 --> 01:01:22,720 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna keep bringing my girl around for this here, 907 01:01:22,760 --> 01:01:26,840 Speaker 1: for you to do this to her. And maybe she'll 908 01:01:26,880 --> 01:01:30,480 Speaker 1: come around. I don't know, but I don't think she 909 01:01:30,600 --> 01:01:40,080 Speaker 1: will because she old old hell, old battle lass. Oh, 910 01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:45,120 Speaker 1: I'm talking about cranky with her anchor on a big 911 01:01:45,200 --> 01:01:49,680 Speaker 1: old rusty anchors a mean she's a mean woman. Man. 912 01:01:51,880 --> 01:01:55,000 Speaker 1: It's hard to deal with people that stak She did 913 01:01:55,120 --> 01:01:59,440 Speaker 1: everything but call her ugly. She really did. She insult 914 01:01:59,520 --> 01:02:04,120 Speaker 1: her everything, her cooking or cleaning, her decorating style, how 915 01:02:04,200 --> 01:02:09,479 Speaker 1: they parent their finances, the brat right, call the baby 916 01:02:09,520 --> 01:02:13,840 Speaker 1: a brat, her husband a boyfriend is a size useful 917 01:02:13,840 --> 01:02:15,920 Speaker 1: of man. Yeah, and then she said they need it 918 01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:18,280 Speaker 1: they need her advice because they're young and they don't 919 01:02:18,320 --> 01:02:26,400 Speaker 1: know anything. Man. Yeah, and then she's pregnant with their 920 01:02:26,480 --> 01:02:29,880 Speaker 1: second child. Who she's right, she doesn't need that kind 921 01:02:29,920 --> 01:02:33,720 Speaker 1: of stress. No, she don't. Your main concern is the 922 01:02:33,840 --> 01:02:39,720 Speaker 1: healthy your baby. Absolutely. Yeah. Yeah, he definitely needs to 923 01:02:39,800 --> 01:02:43,000 Speaker 1: sit down and and talk to his mom. Maybe they 924 01:02:43,080 --> 01:02:46,840 Speaker 1: can do it together, you know, look, let's try to 925 01:02:46,880 --> 01:02:50,400 Speaker 1: get along as a family. Huh you mean together with 926 01:02:50,480 --> 01:02:52,800 Speaker 1: the baby mom. Yeah, I mean they maybe the two 927 01:02:52,840 --> 01:02:55,120 Speaker 1: of them can set the mom down and say, look, 928 01:02:55,240 --> 01:02:58,440 Speaker 1: we we can't do this. Because if they permit present 929 01:02:58,520 --> 01:03:01,000 Speaker 1: a united front to the mom, maybe she'll get it. 930 01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:04,200 Speaker 1: And where where's the dad? Where's her husband? She doesn't 931 01:03:04,200 --> 01:03:11,920 Speaker 1: have one in all this. He left when he was 932 01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:21,240 Speaker 1: a boy, when the son and he got hit by 933 01:03:21,240 --> 01:03:27,400 Speaker 1: a car. When no, I'm just saying he father might 934 01:03:27,480 --> 01:03:29,280 Speaker 1: not be in his life at all. Nor is he 935 01:03:29,440 --> 01:03:31,360 Speaker 1: trying to get back over there because he got to 936 01:03:31,440 --> 01:03:33,880 Speaker 1: deal with her. Yeah, but they gotta do something because 937 01:03:34,120 --> 01:03:36,640 Speaker 1: I you know, like I said, I think it's harsh 938 01:03:36,840 --> 01:03:40,120 Speaker 1: if she doesn't want her in the new baby's life 939 01:03:40,400 --> 01:03:42,200 Speaker 1: and not to come over there anymore. They have to 940 01:03:42,280 --> 01:03:45,360 Speaker 1: work that she don't like the first baby. Yeah, yeah, 941 01:03:45,400 --> 01:03:50,640 Speaker 1: she called him a brat, right, yeah, she's she's a mean, 942 01:03:51,520 --> 01:03:57,720 Speaker 1: mean one mama right there, man, Oh yeah, but you're right, 943 01:03:57,800 --> 01:04:01,800 Speaker 1: he probably tuned her out. Oh don't even yeah, no, no, 944 01:04:03,080 --> 01:04:04,920 Speaker 1: But does she just walk up in their house and 945 01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:08,040 Speaker 1: start talking or what? How does she get in there? 946 01:04:08,160 --> 01:04:12,959 Speaker 1: They have to let her in, so probably the door. Yeah, 947 01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:16,680 Speaker 1: they're gonna have to sit and sit her down and 948 01:04:16,960 --> 01:04:20,200 Speaker 1: really really talk to her and tell her about herself 949 01:04:20,880 --> 01:04:26,320 Speaker 1: in a respectful way. H good luck with Dada. But 950 01:04:26,480 --> 01:04:29,160 Speaker 1: her question is how can she get her man to 951 01:04:29,240 --> 01:04:32,800 Speaker 1: step up and get his mom in check? Maybe if 952 01:04:32,840 --> 01:04:36,920 Speaker 1: they both do it together, because yeah, his his her 953 01:04:36,960 --> 01:04:39,200 Speaker 1: son has tuned him out, tuned her out, like you say, 954 01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:45,600 Speaker 1: step yeah, yeah, I mean completely tuned. It's such a 955 01:04:45,680 --> 01:04:49,080 Speaker 1: bad case right here, because you know, just put an 956 01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:52,960 Speaker 1: ultimatum down about mama can't come over the house no more, 957 01:04:53,160 --> 01:04:55,600 Speaker 1: and I don't have a relationship with the child because 958 01:04:55,640 --> 01:04:58,959 Speaker 1: her mother is so evil to her first baby. Yeah yeah. 959 01:04:59,160 --> 01:05:01,440 Speaker 1: And then Shirley, there's something to play with them not 960 01:05:01,680 --> 01:05:04,400 Speaker 1: being married, but it wouldn't matter to her. She's an 961 01:05:04,440 --> 01:05:08,240 Speaker 1: evil woman regardless, right right. She might can be using 962 01:05:08,320 --> 01:05:10,720 Speaker 1: the fact that they're not married, as the excuse, but 963 01:05:10,920 --> 01:05:13,560 Speaker 1: she would be nasty to the girl if they were married. Yeah, 964 01:05:14,600 --> 01:05:16,240 Speaker 1: all right, guys, we gotta get out of here. You 965 01:05:16,320 --> 01:05:18,800 Speaker 1: can post your thoughts on Today's Strawberry Letter. It's Steve 966 01:05:18,880 --> 01:05:22,000 Speaker 1: Harvey f M. And check out our Strawberry Letter podcast 967 01:05:22,560 --> 01:05:26,120 Speaker 1: on demand. Okay, our Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. You 968 01:05:26,200 --> 01:05:28,640 Speaker 1: can hear today's letter coming up next more of the 969 01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:33,400 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening Morning 970 01:05:33,440 --> 01:05:37,400 Speaker 1: show all right time now for our Chief Love Officer, 971 01:05:37,520 --> 01:05:40,920 Speaker 1: the CLO, the one and only Steve Harvey. Steve, you 972 01:05:41,000 --> 01:05:45,760 Speaker 1: know you get to answer questions from our listening to Hey, Hey, hey, 973 01:05:46,160 --> 01:05:49,200 Speaker 1: stay in your everybody right, I just stay in your pray, 974 01:05:50,600 --> 01:05:53,440 Speaker 1: you stay in with your past, to stay all that day. 975 01:05:53,720 --> 01:05:57,120 Speaker 1: You ain't in this? Hi? Yeah, Jay, you got to 976 01:05:57,160 --> 01:06:01,080 Speaker 1: stop before you get stupak get out. I didn't say nothing, 977 01:06:01,400 --> 01:06:07,000 Speaker 1: but I'm let me tell you what your team member said. 978 01:06:07,040 --> 01:06:09,040 Speaker 1: If you're the chief, what am I? That's what he 979 01:06:09,120 --> 01:06:12,600 Speaker 1: asked Steve, And he gave a list of title. I 980 01:06:12,720 --> 01:06:14,560 Speaker 1: gave him a whole lot of stuff he was, but 981 01:06:14,720 --> 01:06:22,200 Speaker 1: what he was? But Steve, these are from grown women. Okay, 982 01:06:22,280 --> 01:06:25,120 Speaker 1: these are from good and grown women who need your advice. 983 01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:28,440 Speaker 1: This one's from Sarah out of New Orleans. She says, Steve, 984 01:06:28,560 --> 01:06:32,000 Speaker 1: I'm sixty one, I'm sexy with my Angela Davis Fro. 985 01:06:32,680 --> 01:06:35,440 Speaker 1: I'm in love and I can't get enough of my man. 986 01:06:36,000 --> 01:06:40,080 Speaker 1: I want him for breakfast, lunch, and dinner, morning, noon 987 01:06:40,320 --> 01:06:45,160 Speaker 1: and night. He's sixty five and we have such great chemistry. 988 01:06:45,720 --> 01:06:50,240 Speaker 1: There's one problem. He's been married for the past thirty years, 989 01:06:50,720 --> 01:06:53,200 Speaker 1: but he says he wants to leave her from me. 990 01:06:54,560 --> 01:06:57,000 Speaker 1: I hope he isn't just leading me on. Should I 991 01:06:57,120 --> 01:07:01,360 Speaker 1: trust him? Excuse me, lady, have you not heard this before? 992 01:07:02,440 --> 01:07:06,280 Speaker 1: I mean, you're sixty one. You've never heard of a 993 01:07:06,520 --> 01:07:11,360 Speaker 1: married man saying he wants to leave her. Anybody who 994 01:07:11,440 --> 01:07:15,200 Speaker 1: wants to leave somebody and it's really wanting to go, 995 01:07:15,840 --> 01:07:19,919 Speaker 1: can leave. He's been married for thirty years. He ain't 996 01:07:19,960 --> 01:07:22,440 Speaker 1: going nowhere. He's sixty five. Let me tell you why 997 01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:25,800 Speaker 1: he can't leave. He can't mess up his pension, he 998 01:07:25,960 --> 01:07:29,200 Speaker 1: can't mess up his medicare. Come on, he can't mess 999 01:07:29,280 --> 01:07:33,520 Speaker 1: up his insurance. He took close to the tape to 1000 01:07:33,680 --> 01:07:37,840 Speaker 1: make an idiotic move like this. Now too close to 1001 01:07:37,920 --> 01:07:42,880 Speaker 1: the tape. He damned that out. He didn't live wig motor, 1002 01:07:43,000 --> 01:07:46,720 Speaker 1: he got left. Don't talk to him man this close 1003 01:07:46,800 --> 01:07:50,080 Speaker 1: to the damn tape and ask him to make thirty 1004 01:07:50,160 --> 01:07:55,000 Speaker 1: year old decisions. He's on the back nine of golf. 1005 01:07:55,160 --> 01:08:06,120 Speaker 1: He's on the back back nine. Lady, you got it. 1006 01:08:06,440 --> 01:08:09,760 Speaker 1: He has a wife. It's not you, Nope, you're the 1007 01:08:09,880 --> 01:08:11,600 Speaker 1: chick on the side. You know why it's so good 1008 01:08:11,640 --> 01:08:14,600 Speaker 1: because y'all ain't got no bills together. Y'all ain't got 1009 01:08:14,680 --> 01:08:16,720 Speaker 1: no medicaid together. Y'all ain't trying to make no house 1010 01:08:16,800 --> 01:08:19,280 Speaker 1: no together. Y'all ain't got no grandkids. Y'all ain't trying 1011 01:08:19,320 --> 01:08:22,640 Speaker 1: to prepare for retirement. That's why it's great. Go put 1012 01:08:22,720 --> 01:08:24,559 Speaker 1: that other stuff on it. You ain't gonna like his ass. 1013 01:08:25,080 --> 01:08:27,320 Speaker 1: He's down to the little bit of milk left in 1014 01:08:27,439 --> 01:08:35,320 Speaker 1: the cereal. That's where he is down to, y'all stupid medics. 1015 01:08:35,400 --> 01:08:38,599 Speaker 1: After the hour, we'll have more from the CLO right 1016 01:08:38,640 --> 01:08:45,519 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to show, all right, So Steve, 1017 01:08:45,760 --> 01:08:49,640 Speaker 1: here's a question for you, since you're the CLO, the 1018 01:08:49,760 --> 01:08:52,720 Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer. All right, how long do you think 1019 01:08:52,800 --> 01:08:55,759 Speaker 1: it takes before couples, you know, have the talk about 1020 01:08:56,040 --> 01:08:59,040 Speaker 1: how to label their relationship. And I'm asking you that 1021 01:08:59,240 --> 01:09:01,800 Speaker 1: because a new study. This is according to a new study, 1022 01:09:02,280 --> 01:09:05,360 Speaker 1: uh it says that it takes on average six weeks 1023 01:09:05,800 --> 01:09:08,479 Speaker 1: to have what you know, what we are talk and 1024 01:09:08,640 --> 01:09:11,920 Speaker 1: to label the relationship. Well, you know when you have 1025 01:09:12,040 --> 01:09:14,639 Speaker 1: to talk about your relationship and putting labels on where 1026 01:09:14,640 --> 01:09:16,800 Speaker 1: are we going? Where you know? Isn't it what are 1027 01:09:16,800 --> 01:09:19,680 Speaker 1: we doing? You know? What are we doing? Should have 1028 01:09:19,800 --> 01:09:22,120 Speaker 1: it at is a restaurant? No? No, no, no no, 1029 01:09:22,840 --> 01:09:26,160 Speaker 1: I said, you know, like when when and what time 1030 01:09:26,200 --> 01:09:29,920 Speaker 1: in the relationship should we have it? I think ninety days? Okay, 1031 01:09:30,439 --> 01:09:32,599 Speaker 1: I think for a woman's sake, I think a woman 1032 01:09:32,680 --> 01:09:36,120 Speaker 1: has to get a determination, get some type of idea 1033 01:09:36,120 --> 01:09:39,080 Speaker 1: of where this is going. Okay, when she finds out out, 1034 01:09:39,200 --> 01:09:41,640 Speaker 1: just give it up because that's ninety days. Well, you 1035 01:09:41,720 --> 01:09:44,800 Speaker 1: know what you don't have to do as a guy 1036 01:09:45,160 --> 01:09:47,080 Speaker 1: a minium by don't mean give it up, do it, 1037 01:09:49,120 --> 01:09:53,240 Speaker 1: but go ahead, but you know, um, ninety days. You 1038 01:09:53,280 --> 01:09:56,160 Speaker 1: should have an idea what it's going. You've every right 1039 01:09:56,240 --> 01:09:59,000 Speaker 1: to know. And ask a man what it is his head? Okay. 1040 01:09:59,520 --> 01:10:02,960 Speaker 1: Another question, Steve, how should they bring it up? How 1041 01:10:03,040 --> 01:10:06,439 Speaker 1: should you broach that subject. No, damn text messages. That's 1042 01:10:06,479 --> 01:10:08,519 Speaker 1: for san you know. You know, if a woman is 1043 01:10:08,560 --> 01:10:11,920 Speaker 1: curious about what the relationship is, she got to bring 1044 01:10:12,000 --> 01:10:13,560 Speaker 1: it up. If a man wants it to find it, 1045 01:10:13,680 --> 01:10:15,680 Speaker 1: he needs to break it. But and how should they 1046 01:10:15,760 --> 01:10:17,840 Speaker 1: do that? That was my original? Hey, where we're going? 1047 01:10:19,320 --> 01:10:21,120 Speaker 1: Just right out with it? I said, where we're going? 1048 01:10:21,200 --> 01:10:24,920 Speaker 1: What is all this? What we're doing? In that tone? No, 1049 01:10:25,280 --> 01:10:34,360 Speaker 1: but that's the man, because that can't be the woman. Well, hello, wait, 1050 01:10:34,439 --> 01:10:40,240 Speaker 1: surely don't rush pass that. Wait baby, I'm just asking too, though, Steve, 1051 01:10:40,320 --> 01:10:43,240 Speaker 1: don't you think that. I don't know, for women sometimes 1052 01:10:43,280 --> 01:10:47,719 Speaker 1: they might feel it's kind of awkward or they don't 1053 01:10:47,800 --> 01:10:50,680 Speaker 1: know how to do that to just come right out 1054 01:10:50,720 --> 01:10:52,200 Speaker 1: with it and say, hey, where are we going with 1055 01:10:52,280 --> 01:10:56,000 Speaker 1: this musaship? What are we Yeah? That you just saying, 1056 01:10:56,080 --> 01:10:57,840 Speaker 1: come right on out with it? Well, I mean, you know, 1057 01:10:58,360 --> 01:11:00,680 Speaker 1: you could try to like round about out. So can 1058 01:11:00,720 --> 01:11:03,679 Speaker 1: I ask you a question? Yeah? My girlfriends are starting 1059 01:11:03,720 --> 01:11:06,080 Speaker 1: to ask me what type of relationship is this? What 1060 01:11:07,080 --> 01:11:10,439 Speaker 1: should I say? Okay, you know what should I be 1061 01:11:10,560 --> 01:11:13,479 Speaker 1: saying to people? And let him give you an ode? Yeah, 1062 01:11:13,680 --> 01:11:17,040 Speaker 1: that's what that's now, that's what I wanted to know. Yeah, 1063 01:11:17,200 --> 01:11:20,639 Speaker 1: how that's what I figured. But that's good, CLO, that's good. 1064 01:11:20,920 --> 01:11:23,800 Speaker 1: So wait like ninety days to even bring up the 1065 01:11:23,880 --> 01:11:27,599 Speaker 1: talk and kind of ease into it. You're saying, kind 1066 01:11:27,640 --> 01:11:30,840 Speaker 1: of ease into it, right, ninety days, ladies, you have 1067 01:11:31,000 --> 01:11:33,040 Speaker 1: every right to be able to say, okay, so what 1068 01:11:33,160 --> 01:11:36,000 Speaker 1: do we have? Especially if ninety days you start passing 1069 01:11:36,040 --> 01:11:38,479 Speaker 1: out that cookie. There's no reason for you to pass 1070 01:11:38,520 --> 01:11:41,200 Speaker 1: out the cookie and not understand what it is. Okay, 1071 01:11:41,320 --> 01:11:43,520 Speaker 1: you know, if we're if we're in a committed relationship, 1072 01:11:43,560 --> 01:11:46,320 Speaker 1: you should know that. I want to know that before 1073 01:11:46,360 --> 01:11:49,280 Speaker 1: I passed out to cookie. Yeah, right? Is this a 1074 01:11:49,400 --> 01:11:53,600 Speaker 1: monogamous relationship? Are we committed? Exclusive? Are we exclusive? What 1075 01:11:53,880 --> 01:11:57,120 Speaker 1: is it? I need to know? Okay? You know that 1076 01:11:57,320 --> 01:12:00,320 Speaker 1: makes sense, don't Oh? Yes, yes, yes? And then you 1077 01:12:00,400 --> 01:12:02,280 Speaker 1: say when you want to bring the subject up, you 1078 01:12:02,439 --> 01:12:05,040 Speaker 1: kind of ease into it, you know, just slide it 1079 01:12:05,120 --> 01:12:08,000 Speaker 1: to him, you know what I mean? Hey, look, no, 1080 01:12:08,120 --> 01:12:10,320 Speaker 1: we've been dating for a while and my girlfriends and 1081 01:12:10,800 --> 01:12:12,800 Speaker 1: co workers are starting to ask me what is this 1082 01:12:12,960 --> 01:12:15,280 Speaker 1: we have? So I mean, how would you like for 1083 01:12:15,400 --> 01:12:18,519 Speaker 1: me to address you or describe you what I'm talking 1084 01:12:18,600 --> 01:12:21,000 Speaker 1: to other people? You know, kind of put it on 1085 01:12:21,120 --> 01:12:23,840 Speaker 1: them a little bit. Yeah, and what and what should 1086 01:12:23,880 --> 01:12:26,000 Speaker 1: the woman say if the man asked her? Or will 1087 01:12:26,040 --> 01:12:28,760 Speaker 1: a man ask her that question? Oh? Yeah, yeah, yeah, 1088 01:12:28,760 --> 01:12:31,320 Speaker 1: of course I don't do they want to know? And 1089 01:12:31,400 --> 01:12:34,000 Speaker 1: what should the woman say? You know, the truth? I mean, 1090 01:12:34,040 --> 01:12:36,439 Speaker 1: you know, a guy could say, hey, baby, look we've 1091 01:12:36,439 --> 01:12:38,560 Speaker 1: been at this for a little while. Are we exclusive 1092 01:12:38,640 --> 01:12:41,280 Speaker 1: or no? And then if it's exclusive, you gotta tell 1093 01:12:41,360 --> 01:12:42,960 Speaker 1: him yes. And if it's not thing, you just got 1094 01:12:43,040 --> 01:12:45,000 Speaker 1: to say, hey, no, it's not really, do I'm seeing 1095 01:12:45,120 --> 01:12:52,520 Speaker 1: some other people? Okay, all right, right, just exactly, Thank you, Celo. 1096 01:12:54,479 --> 01:12:56,880 Speaker 1: We'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning 1097 01:12:56,920 --> 01:13:05,120 Speaker 1: Show right after this. You're listening every morning show. Wait 1098 01:13:05,160 --> 01:13:10,639 Speaker 1: a minute, the phone's right now. It's a deal. Hello, Hello, Hello, 1099 01:13:11,680 --> 01:13:14,600 Speaker 1: it's me. I know who it is. I'm aware I 1100 01:13:14,880 --> 01:13:19,640 Speaker 1: was wandering the old these years we would like and 1101 01:13:19,760 --> 01:13:22,760 Speaker 1: then we already went over over. We already went over 1102 01:13:22,920 --> 01:13:28,080 Speaker 1: this everything. We went over everything. They say the Times. Boy, 1103 01:13:29,520 --> 01:13:32,280 Speaker 1: but I ain't done much here. Okay, well, you know 1104 01:13:32,320 --> 01:13:35,519 Speaker 1: it's time to move on. Hello, Hello, I'm here. Can 1105 01:13:35,680 --> 01:13:38,200 Speaker 1: you hear, Yes, I can hear. I'm talking on the phone. 1106 01:13:38,479 --> 01:13:43,599 Speaker 1: I'm in Californe. Your dream about who are you? Okay, Well, 1107 01:13:43,640 --> 01:13:48,160 Speaker 1: that's over. We're moving over, younger, we moved on and free. 1108 01:13:48,560 --> 01:13:50,400 Speaker 1: It's time to move on. Let it go. I mean, 1109 01:13:50,479 --> 01:13:56,160 Speaker 1: I've forgotten how it felt before the world. Fellow, it's 1110 01:13:56,280 --> 01:13:59,040 Speaker 1: such a deal, you know, we move on. It's just 1111 01:13:59,320 --> 01:14:12,240 Speaker 1: I forgot. Can you just let it go? I mean Jesus, okay, hello, Hello, 1112 01:14:12,320 --> 01:14:16,800 Speaker 1: you don't have to scream. I'm right here. Yeah, you 1113 01:14:16,920 --> 01:14:21,360 Speaker 1: called more than a thousands. I should report your mind. Yeah, 1114 01:14:23,040 --> 01:14:29,320 Speaker 1: I'm just okay, it's good. I'm hold with it. Yes, 1115 01:14:31,040 --> 01:14:37,400 Speaker 1: let it go? What now? How I'm fine? I mean 1116 01:14:37,600 --> 01:14:47,599 Speaker 1: what it's solf? Didn't let it go? Adell please you're listening, 1117 01:14:49,479 --> 01:14:52,719 Speaker 1: show all right. A lot of people are losing sleep 1118 01:14:52,840 --> 01:14:56,559 Speaker 1: because of work, Guys and you. Study by account Tips 1119 01:14:56,680 --> 01:15:02,120 Speaker 1: finds that professionals are losing sleep overwork. As for why, 1120 01:15:02,360 --> 01:15:05,719 Speaker 1: fifty percent say they've been overwhelmed with work, the volume 1121 01:15:05,760 --> 01:15:07,600 Speaker 1: of work they have, the hours that they have to 1122 01:15:07,680 --> 01:15:10,400 Speaker 1: put in. Some of the other reasons for work related 1123 01:15:10,439 --> 01:15:16,640 Speaker 1: sleep loss include strange coworker relationships, wow, worried that they 1124 01:15:16,720 --> 01:15:24,559 Speaker 1: may lose their job. That's a lot of stress. Yeah, Oh, 1125 01:15:24,720 --> 01:15:27,360 Speaker 1: this is a good one. My boss is a nightmare. 1126 01:15:30,960 --> 01:15:36,719 Speaker 1: Have you checked all three bucks at Jake strange coworker okay, 1127 01:15:36,920 --> 01:15:43,560 Speaker 1: strange coworker relationships. Worried I may lose my job and 1128 01:15:44,360 --> 01:15:49,799 Speaker 1: my boss is a nightmare. Okay, So I gotta ask you, Steve. 1129 01:15:50,560 --> 01:15:52,320 Speaker 1: You have a lot of jobs. You have more than 1130 01:15:52,400 --> 01:15:55,880 Speaker 1: anyone I know. Do your jobs keep you up at night? 1131 01:15:56,080 --> 01:15:57,960 Speaker 1: Or you know? Is it if they do? Is it 1132 01:15:58,080 --> 01:16:02,040 Speaker 1: constant or just ocase? Exhaustion from my jobs just when 1133 01:16:02,080 --> 01:16:05,360 Speaker 1: I run up into stupidity. That's the only thing I 1134 01:16:05,479 --> 01:16:08,840 Speaker 1: get exhausted for. I don't I you know, I've really 1135 01:16:08,920 --> 01:16:10,920 Speaker 1: found out over the years. I don't really care for 1136 01:16:11,040 --> 01:16:16,160 Speaker 1: stupid people. I really don't. I can't even I can't 1137 01:16:16,200 --> 01:16:19,519 Speaker 1: even play at all. Like if you're stupid, I look 1138 01:16:19,560 --> 01:16:22,599 Speaker 1: at you like you're stupid the whole time you talk. 1139 01:16:23,080 --> 01:16:25,240 Speaker 1: I don't know what we're supposed to do with that information. 1140 01:16:25,520 --> 01:16:28,040 Speaker 1: It's just important information that you know about me and 1141 01:16:28,200 --> 01:16:31,439 Speaker 1: my job. My job. I love my job. Look, I 1142 01:16:31,520 --> 01:16:34,840 Speaker 1: tell jokes for a living and play music. All of 1143 01:16:34,920 --> 01:16:38,360 Speaker 1: my jobs to have an element of meat, using my 1144 01:16:38,520 --> 01:16:42,519 Speaker 1: god giving talent. So I love my work. It's the 1145 01:16:42,680 --> 01:16:46,800 Speaker 1: things that surround my work like when you stupid? I 1146 01:16:46,960 --> 01:16:52,639 Speaker 1: just can't stand that. Man. Is that no Jay? Good? Jay? 1147 01:16:52,720 --> 01:16:59,479 Speaker 1: Ignor different from stupid? And when you're doing stuff that 1148 01:16:59,560 --> 01:17:03,519 Speaker 1: ain't attached to nothing and just has no rhyme or reason? 1149 01:17:03,880 --> 01:17:09,000 Speaker 1: What you steady doing? Oh? Anyone in particular in mind er, 1150 01:17:09,600 --> 01:17:15,559 Speaker 1: just anyone at the job. I know I didn't think 1151 01:17:15,600 --> 01:17:20,320 Speaker 1: he was gonna say you honestly, um, okay, why would 1152 01:17:20,360 --> 01:17:24,240 Speaker 1: I say? It's uncomfortable? Right now? Yes? Why are you uncomfortable? 1153 01:17:24,280 --> 01:17:28,080 Speaker 1: You're not stupid? Oh? I know, I know. You just 1154 01:17:28,280 --> 01:17:31,040 Speaker 1: don't like the way that Tommy goes into the shell 1155 01:17:31,240 --> 01:17:34,479 Speaker 1: when you call him stupid. But let him go in there. 1156 01:17:34,520 --> 01:17:36,759 Speaker 1: When you go into the shell, he can't say no stupid. 1157 01:17:39,000 --> 01:17:41,759 Speaker 1: He's here working. What are you gonna do? He's working. 1158 01:17:42,560 --> 01:17:46,759 Speaker 1: I'm right hello, everyone, I'm here. I'm right here. Yeah, yeah, okay, 1159 01:17:47,080 --> 01:17:49,519 Speaker 1: I'm right here. You stop doing it, stop talking over 1160 01:17:49,640 --> 01:17:54,080 Speaker 1: and around me. I'm right here, all right. Coming up 1161 01:17:54,360 --> 01:17:56,560 Speaker 1: the last break of the day, Steve will have some 1162 01:17:56,680 --> 01:17:59,280 Speaker 1: closing remarks for us. Don't go anywhere. We'll be back 1163 01:17:59,320 --> 01:18:02,240 Speaker 1: at forty nine minutes after the hour right after this. 1164 01:18:02,840 --> 01:18:08,200 Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Steve, We've come to the end 1165 01:18:08,280 --> 01:18:10,479 Speaker 1: of the road for this week. This is our last 1166 01:18:10,520 --> 01:18:13,439 Speaker 1: break of the day on this Friday. Leave us with 1167 01:18:13,640 --> 01:18:17,840 Speaker 1: some closing remarks. Please, you know something, man, I'm not 1168 01:18:17,880 --> 01:18:22,439 Speaker 1: gonna take long to tell you this, but what's the 1169 01:18:22,560 --> 01:18:27,320 Speaker 1: old say that the grass is always greener on the 1170 01:18:27,479 --> 01:18:33,080 Speaker 1: other side. So when you hear that, what they're saying 1171 01:18:33,280 --> 01:18:38,519 Speaker 1: is almost like a warning to people be careful because 1172 01:18:38,840 --> 01:18:44,360 Speaker 1: it always appears that the grass is greener on the 1173 01:18:44,560 --> 01:18:50,160 Speaker 1: other side. And so many people spending their life standing 1174 01:18:50,360 --> 01:18:57,680 Speaker 1: at the fence looking at somebody else's grass and then 1175 01:18:57,800 --> 01:19:04,960 Speaker 1: acknowledging the fact that the grass is greener, it causes 1176 01:19:05,040 --> 01:19:11,320 Speaker 1: you to do nothing about your own yard. And then 1177 01:19:11,640 --> 01:19:15,040 Speaker 1: some people have the audacity, and you see it on 1178 01:19:15,120 --> 01:19:17,800 Speaker 1: the internet all the time that if they look over 1179 01:19:17,840 --> 01:19:20,840 Speaker 1: there and your grass is greener, they try to kill 1180 01:19:20,920 --> 01:19:24,960 Speaker 1: the grass or throw some weeds in it. But you 1181 01:19:25,040 --> 01:19:28,200 Speaker 1: know what I come away with, I don't worry about 1182 01:19:28,240 --> 01:19:34,439 Speaker 1: that because here's what I know. I'm too busy working 1183 01:19:34,560 --> 01:19:38,960 Speaker 1: on my own grass to notice if yours is greener. 1184 01:19:41,040 --> 01:19:45,519 Speaker 1: That's really the truth. I'm really so busy working on 1185 01:19:45,640 --> 01:19:48,559 Speaker 1: my own grass that I don't have time to notice 1186 01:19:48,640 --> 01:19:53,400 Speaker 1: if yours is greener. Because if it is greener. Let's 1187 01:19:53,439 --> 01:19:56,479 Speaker 1: suppose your grass is greener, why can't mind be just 1188 01:19:56,680 --> 01:20:01,439 Speaker 1: as green. I ain't saying we're gonna have the same yard. 1189 01:20:02,000 --> 01:20:04,479 Speaker 1: We're just talking about the color of the grass that's 1190 01:20:04,600 --> 01:20:07,920 Speaker 1: in your yard. You don't have to have the same 1191 01:20:08,080 --> 01:20:10,720 Speaker 1: size house I got. You ain't got to have the 1192 01:20:10,840 --> 01:20:13,560 Speaker 1: same size house it ain't got. You ain't got to 1193 01:20:13,640 --> 01:20:18,080 Speaker 1: have the same size house Oprah got. You ain't gonna 1194 01:20:18,120 --> 01:20:21,760 Speaker 1: have the same size yard they got. But if you 1195 01:20:21,960 --> 01:20:26,000 Speaker 1: take care of your business, you can have grass just 1196 01:20:26,280 --> 01:20:30,040 Speaker 1: as green as everybody else. If you just handle your business. 1197 01:20:32,240 --> 01:20:35,439 Speaker 1: The gold in life is to get your grass to 1198 01:20:35,600 --> 01:20:39,519 Speaker 1: be as green as it can. So when you go 1199 01:20:39,680 --> 01:20:43,639 Speaker 1: outside to pick your crops, it got some fruit to bath. 1200 01:20:44,880 --> 01:20:48,320 Speaker 1: And God will always supply your needs. So even though 1201 01:20:48,360 --> 01:20:50,640 Speaker 1: it may look like somebody got made more fruit and 1202 01:20:50,760 --> 01:20:56,439 Speaker 1: they orchard, let me tell you something if you can't. 1203 01:20:57,000 --> 01:21:00,560 Speaker 1: If you got an orchard full of apple tree, a 1204 01:21:00,760 --> 01:21:08,080 Speaker 1: thousand apple trees, and I got one apple tree in 1205 01:21:08,240 --> 01:21:10,800 Speaker 1: my yard, but you got a thousand apple trees in 1206 01:21:10,960 --> 01:21:14,080 Speaker 1: your yards. When it's time to eat, how many apples 1207 01:21:14,160 --> 01:21:18,479 Speaker 1: can you eat? Let's say you eat apple six apples 1208 01:21:18,520 --> 01:21:22,200 Speaker 1: that make you fool. My one tree got six apples 1209 01:21:22,240 --> 01:21:26,679 Speaker 1: on it, so we both fool. See at one point 1210 01:21:26,680 --> 01:21:29,439 Speaker 1: in time, you're gonna have to get content with where 1211 01:21:29,520 --> 01:21:33,400 Speaker 1: you are in your process of the journey. Stop looking 1212 01:21:33,439 --> 01:21:37,639 Speaker 1: at everybody grass, Stop looking at everybody orchard. They grass 1213 01:21:37,720 --> 01:21:41,120 Speaker 1: greener than mine, They got more apple trees than mine. Hey, man, 1214 01:21:41,200 --> 01:21:43,760 Speaker 1: eat apples off your tree. You might find out that 1215 01:21:43,880 --> 01:21:47,160 Speaker 1: you have enough. But if you could wear and counting mind, 1216 01:21:47,439 --> 01:21:50,439 Speaker 1: you're gonna mess around. Let worms get on yours. I'm 1217 01:21:50,560 --> 01:21:55,120 Speaker 1: too busy working on my own grass to even notice 1218 01:21:55,240 --> 01:22:00,240 Speaker 1: that your grass is greener. Change your commitment to everybody else, 1219 01:22:00,479 --> 01:22:03,839 Speaker 1: from everybody else's business. Change your commitment to your business. 1220 01:22:04,120 --> 01:22:07,479 Speaker 1: If you the time you spend worried about them, looking 1221 01:22:07,520 --> 01:22:10,200 Speaker 1: at them, talking about them, if you took that same 1222 01:22:10,280 --> 01:22:13,200 Speaker 1: amount of time and spending on yourself, you have any 1223 01:22:13,280 --> 01:22:17,519 Speaker 1: idea what you could accomplish. That's why haters man in 1224 01:22:17,640 --> 01:22:21,280 Speaker 1: so much trouble. Man, you don't even understand. Let people 1225 01:22:21,360 --> 01:22:25,400 Speaker 1: hate all they want. They tending to too many other 1226 01:22:25,520 --> 01:22:30,720 Speaker 1: people's business. Don't get into hate business. It serves nobody. 1227 01:22:32,360 --> 01:22:35,160 Speaker 1: And that's another thing. Somebody asked me how to I 1228 01:22:35,280 --> 01:22:37,560 Speaker 1: deal with my haters? I keep all my haters in 1229 01:22:37,680 --> 01:22:41,800 Speaker 1: my classroom. I just got them watching me because that's 1230 01:22:41,920 --> 01:22:45,000 Speaker 1: all they can do. They can't stop nothing God has 1231 01:22:45,160 --> 01:22:49,320 Speaker 1: for me. They can't take away one blessing God gives me. 1232 01:22:49,880 --> 01:22:52,720 Speaker 1: They can't do nothing to me. You can't bring no 1233 01:22:53,000 --> 01:22:55,679 Speaker 1: harm on me that I won't be able to survive. 1234 01:22:56,720 --> 01:23:00,439 Speaker 1: I'm not saying that it don't bother me sometime. I don't. 1235 01:23:00,720 --> 01:23:03,840 Speaker 1: I'm not saying that people don't attack me sometime. But 1236 01:23:04,040 --> 01:23:07,519 Speaker 1: when you get through attacking me, I'm a weather, you're storm. 1237 01:23:07,800 --> 01:23:10,679 Speaker 1: I'm Isaiah forty three one and two. I can walk 1238 01:23:10,760 --> 01:23:14,000 Speaker 1: through the rivers and not be overturned. The waters would 1239 01:23:14,040 --> 01:23:16,640 Speaker 1: not overtake me. I can walk through the fire and 1240 01:23:16,800 --> 01:23:20,400 Speaker 1: not be burned. Nor were kindling set upon my clothing. 1241 01:23:20,720 --> 01:23:23,639 Speaker 1: I wouldn't been through some fire situations and came out 1242 01:23:23,680 --> 01:23:27,160 Speaker 1: on the other side. And if there was no kindling, 1243 01:23:27,400 --> 01:23:30,880 Speaker 1: there was no signs that I was even in a fire. Now, 1244 01:23:31,000 --> 01:23:34,599 Speaker 1: understand something, but that scripture does not say that when 1245 01:23:34,640 --> 01:23:37,960 Speaker 1: you walk through the fire that it ain't gonna be ungodly. Hota. Now, 1246 01:23:38,600 --> 01:23:43,479 Speaker 1: it's been plenty hot for me on plenty days, many occasions. Oh, 1247 01:23:43,520 --> 01:23:45,639 Speaker 1: I'd have made some mistakes in front of the world. 1248 01:23:45,760 --> 01:23:49,200 Speaker 1: Before I didn't had to deal with some stuff. But 1249 01:23:49,360 --> 01:23:52,400 Speaker 1: when I got through, what no signs that I was 1250 01:23:52,479 --> 01:23:57,680 Speaker 1: ever in a fire. That's the God, I said. I 1251 01:23:57,800 --> 01:24:01,840 Speaker 1: have no concern about what people say they're gonna do 1252 01:24:02,040 --> 01:24:06,160 Speaker 1: to me. I have no concern about how green your 1253 01:24:06,240 --> 01:24:09,879 Speaker 1: grass is. On the other side, I have no concern 1254 01:24:10,280 --> 01:24:15,000 Speaker 1: about how many apple trees in your orchard. I'm too 1255 01:24:15,240 --> 01:24:19,360 Speaker 1: busy tending to my own grass to even notice that 1256 01:24:19,520 --> 01:24:22,000 Speaker 1: yours is greener. And if I do look over the 1257 01:24:22,320 --> 01:24:27,000 Speaker 1: congratulations on your beautiful green yard, I'm getting mine there too. 1258 01:24:27,760 --> 01:24:32,600 Speaker 1: That's all it is. Fix your attitude, change your attitude, 1259 01:24:33,520 --> 01:24:38,880 Speaker 1: you'll change your altitude. Those are my closing remarks. Sure 1260 01:24:39,880 --> 01:24:59,160 Speaker 1: drop the mic, I have a great weekend for for 1261 01:24:59,320 --> 01:25:02,640 Speaker 1: all Steve I contest No purchase necessary, void where prohibited. 1262 01:25:02,680 --> 01:25:06,160 Speaker 1: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1263 01:25:06,280 --> 01:25:10,520 Speaker 1: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve HARVEYFM 1264 01:25:10,680 --> 01:25:14,200 Speaker 1: dot com. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.