Speaker 1: This is Let's Be Clear with Shannon Dorny. Hello, Let's
Speaker 1: be Clear listeners. I'm emmy and I am delighted to
Speaker 1: be able to a guest host Shannon Dougherty's Let's Be
Speaker 1: Clear podcast. I'm very very happy to be here, and
Speaker 1: I'm proud to say that I am one of the
Speaker 1: first women that came out within the fashion industry saying
Speaker 1: what's going on. We need diversity, we need inclusivity here
Speaker 1: and I shed some light on body acceptance, body neutrality,
Speaker 1: and body positivity when no one was really talking about
Speaker 1: these things. So, as you know, Shannon's podcast was all
Speaker 1: about embracing one's truth, and she was so passionate about
Speaker 1: sharing her journey with breast cancer, her ups, her downs,
Speaker 1: real moments, real parts of her life that we all
Speaker 1: got to share in the support and share in lifting
Speaker 1: her message and also encouraging all of us to look
Speaker 1: into our own lives and think, you know, what is
Speaker 1: the truth that I want to share. So I'm just
Speaker 1: delighted to be here connecting with you and carrying on
Speaker 1: what Channon has created and in her honor, and I'm
Speaker 1: just really really excited to be here. So there's quite
Speaker 1: a few things that we could talk about in sharing
Speaker 1: my truth. You know, right now I'm living in la
Speaker 1: and I'm working in another capacity outside of modeling. But
Speaker 1: what actually got me here thirty years ago was stepping
Speaker 1: up in a very thin, as thin as you can
Speaker 1: go as a model industry, in the fashion industry. And
Speaker 1: here I was an athlete, size twelve fourteen, about five
Speaker 1: eleven and in the nineties, and stylists and photographers and
Speaker 1: a lot of people were like, wait a minute, We're
Speaker 1: used to six feet five to eleven women that are
Speaker 1: size zero and two. And I just knew that I
Speaker 1: was not going to lose forty pounds to get into
Speaker 1: this industry. And I walked into a very new, burgeoning
Speaker 1: industry called the full figured industry or the plus size industry. Now,
Speaker 1: because I wasn't very very large, or I wasn't very
Speaker 1: very small, and I actually was fit, a lot of
Speaker 1: people did not know what to do with me. And
Speaker 1: my truth was I had some history with disordered eating.
Speaker 1: I was an athlete, so there were comments when I
Speaker 1: was growing up, I bet I can run faster from you,
Speaker 1: or I bet you can I you know, I don't
Speaker 1: want you to wrestle me down from the boys that
Speaker 1: I really was boy crazy with. So in society I
Speaker 1: was this strong Mamazonian scholarship, a warrity at Syracuse University,
Speaker 1: invited to the Olympic Trials, and still very athletic today.
Speaker 1: But as a growing young woman, my imagery around me
Speaker 1: was all about you can never be so thin, and
Speaker 1: I thought, well, if I can't look like that, does
Speaker 1: that make me not be good or write or be acceptable?
Speaker 1: And I always was working with it against it, And
Speaker 1: then finally when I got how old was I, I
Speaker 1: think I was in my mid to late twenties, where
Speaker 1: when I walked through the door and I got signed
Speaker 1: with Ford Models, something inside it. And I also had
Speaker 1: a background in journalism, so I was an NBC affiliate reporter.
Speaker 1: My first stop out in Arizona, and I learned about,
Speaker 1: you know, how to satiate my curiosity with people. I
Speaker 1: loved people's stories, and the more that I got out
Speaker 1: in the field and did the reporting, I loved the
Speaker 1: people that I was reporting on. But it was hard
Speaker 1: for me to sleep at night, so I took I
Speaker 1: left the job after almost two years, and I went
Speaker 1: back to New York and this is where I fell
Speaker 1: into the modeling industry, and I took with me my
Speaker 1: journalistic curiosity and when I went into the dressing rooms
Speaker 1: and when I went into you know, whatever go sees
Speaker 1: or bookings that I had, I was always wondering why
Speaker 1: the photographers spent more time with the girls that were
Speaker 1: size zero two, where certain photographers wouldn't shoot myself than
Speaker 1: these other beautiful women that were in the full figured
Speaker 1: industry because they were afraid that I, you know, Vogue
Speaker 1: or ell or any of the big magazines fashion magazines
Speaker 1: at the time wouldn't book them. So there was this
Speaker 1: very interesting We were representing one hundred million women size
Speaker 1: fourteen and above in the United States and Canada, but
Speaker 1: there was a problem with reflecting the imagery. So my
Speaker 1: truth was am I going to change the way I look?
Speaker 1: Or am I going to continue to try and just
Speaker 1: be the best that I can be? And the more
Speaker 1: that I was doing that, something started to bubble up
Speaker 1: and I had to talk about inclusivity like it was
Speaker 1: it was almost like I could not sleep unless I
Speaker 1: did that. And so I really did do a lot
Speaker 1: of talking about the why and with research and the
Speaker 1: truth started coming out, my truth, and then it was
Speaker 1: reflective of every group of women that I was speaking
Speaker 1: with that they too felt the same, or they had
Speaker 1: their own different stories, or they were learning about using
Speaker 1: their voice. And it was the most beautiful time in
Speaker 1: the nineties and into two thousand when I started doing
Speaker 1: clothing lines, and you know, the clothes. I don't know
Speaker 1: how to sew, but I used the clothing lines to
Speaker 1: be able to provide the demand that was out there.
Speaker 1: So we were in Bloomingdale's and Lord and Taylor and Dillard's,
Speaker 1: and it was truly so many and all those department
Speaker 1: stores wanted fashion shows. So I got a chance to
Speaker 1: be with the women, be able to speak with them,
Speaker 1: meet them and hear what they were talking about and
Speaker 1: what their own struggles were, whether it was media, whether
Speaker 1: it was their own personal quiet time, what was going
Speaker 1: on between the ears, what were they doing in order
Speaker 1: to feel good? And I then would turn around and
Speaker 1: then speak all that and share all that on national
Speaker 1: media and with a lot of good research and using
Speaker 1: my tools as a journalist, I along with the clients
Speaker 1: that I had and other models at the time, we
Speaker 1: really shifted the concept of what beauty was and is
Speaker 1: the need for clothing above a size twelve it's still
Speaker 1: an issue. Here we are in twenty twenty four and
Speaker 1: it's still an issue, but it has gotten better from
Speaker 1: the early nineties. Who used to just you really couldn't
Speaker 1: find anything. And that's just a little background on where
Speaker 1: I came from and where I'm at right now. I'm
Speaker 1: writing and I'm living in LA I'm also a sound healer,
Speaker 1: talk about the pandemic changing our lives. I got into
Speaker 1: sound in such a big way, and I have my
Speaker 1: own bulls. I do it for friends and family, and
Speaker 1: I actually do it for different clients if they want
Speaker 1: to work with me. But I'm also writing TV series
Speaker 1: and working with a production partner and putting empowering programming
Speaker 1: out there. You know, it all takes a lot of
Speaker 1: It takes a village for one to bring out new messaging,
Speaker 1: and especially if you're asking not only the fashion industry
Speaker 1: but also the beauty industry to change, to open their aperture,
Speaker 1: to understand more about their customer base, the whole bouquet
Speaker 1: of beauty. I look at all of us beautiful women
Speaker 1: as this beautiful bouquet of flowers, and thank goodness that
Speaker 1: we have all the flowers that we have. If we
Speaker 1: had all the flowers, and then all of a sudden
Speaker 1: one day someone said, you're only allowed to have daisies,
Speaker 1: having known that you had all these flowers before, but
Speaker 1: now you only can have daisies, or you can only
Speaker 1: have a rose, or you can only have one flower,
Speaker 1: and you could not have the whole bouquet. So obviously
Speaker 1: that's not going to happen. But opening our own aperture
Speaker 1: as to we are and the beauty that each and
Speaker 1: every individual soul and body brings to the mix of
Speaker 1: life keeps it interesting. It would be very, very boring
Speaker 1: if we all look the same, right. We need contrast,
Speaker 1: we need difference, We need to be different, have different
Speaker 1: lives so that when we all get together and we
Speaker 1: come together in community, there's something to talk about and
Speaker 1: there's also something to work with. When you have resistance,
Speaker 1: it's not always an ebb and flow. So when I
Speaker 1: say the bouquet of beauty, a lot of the industry
Speaker 1: was really working on exclusivity and beauty and working with
Speaker 1: the National Eating Disorders Association for about thirty years. At
Speaker 1: that time, it was at the very very beginning. But
Speaker 1: now today, having had thirty years behind me in the bank,
Speaker 1: I learned early on that this exclusive point of view
Speaker 1: of what beauty is got a lot of people sick,
Speaker 1: and it really wrecked with self esteem and body image.
Speaker 1: And when as a journalist, I was like, my goodness, gracious,
Speaker 1: are we going to keep on going down this road
Speaker 1: with disordered eating and surgeries and quite frankly, lots of
Speaker 1: mental health issues, and with teens and preteens having these issues.
Speaker 1: If mom was having the issues and it's filtering down.
Speaker 1: If grandma was having issues, then the mom, then the grandchildren.
Speaker 1: It was a serious situation that still remains today that
Speaker 1: it's a full core press to say I am what
Speaker 1: I am, and what I am is more than enough,
Speaker 1: and to take care of what our individual bodies need.
Speaker 1: And my goodness, I mean, we need to have good
Speaker 1: food and great and you know, good sleep, wonderful friends,
Speaker 1: and a job that we enjoy going to and at
Speaker 1: least a good job that makes us feel good when
Speaker 1: we're there. These are basic, basic things and when we
Speaker 1: have a few of those items off the list, then
Speaker 1: we're trying to overcompensate in other areas. So and this
Speaker 1: life is so so short, it's so so short. I'm
Speaker 1: a cancer thriver as well, and I learned a lot.
Speaker 1: Back in two thousand and seven when I was diagnosed
Speaker 1: with Hotchkins lymphoma. I had twenty two tumors in my
Speaker 1: chest and the surgeon took them out and I went
Speaker 1: through eleven or twelve rounds of chemo, and a lot
Speaker 1: changed for me. It had to change. I had to
Speaker 1: look at the intent of what I was doing. I
Speaker 1: had to reevaluate different friendships, intimate relationships. And it was
Speaker 1: the best teacher that I could ever ask for. I
Speaker 1: was very, very lucky to be able to survive. So
Speaker 1: with everything that was going on in the nineties and
Speaker 1: what happened to me physically with my health in two
Speaker 1: thousand and seven, it kind of was like this explosion
Speaker 1: of using my voice in a way that reflected what
Speaker 1: I learned and what I was researching and what I
Speaker 1: went through myself. I never was more appreciative of my body.
Speaker 1: It's strange. I got invited to Olympic trials, I got
Speaker 1: a full athletic scholarship to college, but I did not
Speaker 1: appreciate my body in the way that when I went
Speaker 1: through my last chemo and I was so tired, and
Speaker 1: I know many of you have gone through this, and
Speaker 1: I just said, God, bless my body, God bless my body,
Speaker 1: that it hung in there for me. I changed the
Speaker 1: way I ate. I looked at all the refined sugars.
Speaker 1: I wanted to give my body as much of a
Speaker 1: leg up in this life. I started eating in more
Speaker 1: than not, and making my own food with my own oils,
Speaker 1: and you know, using coconut sugar and all that. You know,
Speaker 1: you can go a little nutty. And I had to
Speaker 1: pull myself back. But there's a balance there, and it's
Speaker 1: our life. So the truth that I want to share
Speaker 1: is that if whatever you might be going through, whatever
Speaker 1: you might be challenged, just know that you've got this,
Speaker 1: and the answers are sometimes within the struggle and just
Speaker 1: not trying to rush through it, but just to And
Speaker 1: one thing that I learned when I was going through
Speaker 1: chemo was somebody sent me a sticky and it said
Speaker 1: shut up and meditate. I was like, well, that's not
Speaker 1: very nice. That's very nice, but I've never meditated before.
Speaker 1: And surprisingly enough, I got ten books same, all the same,
Speaker 1: the four Agreements, and I thought, well, there might be
Speaker 1: something going on here. I'm wondering what I need to
Speaker 1: do here, and when I sat down and read the
Speaker 1: Four Agreements the first book, it's now the number one
Speaker 1: book that I send to a lot of friends going
Speaker 1: through any kind of struggle. So let me try and
Speaker 1: name the four Do your best, don't make assumptions, peccable
Speaker 1: with your word, don't take anything personally. So whenever we're
Speaker 1: going through a health struggle or when there's incredible stress,
Speaker 1: we need to really pull ourselves back for wellness and say,
Speaker 1: I need to take things off my plate. I don't
Speaker 1: want to take personally of this, put person pushing me,
Speaker 1: or I want to be impeccable with my word first
Speaker 1: and foremost with myself. We have to be our own
Speaker 1: best friends. It takes some time to get there, but
Speaker 1: the truth that I know is that there is no
Speaker 1: one else that can have your back like yourself, and
Speaker 1: everything else is like beautiful, you know, bonuses, and you also,
Speaker 1: when you treat yourself really really well, you can kind
Speaker 1: of pick out people who are not treating themselves really well.
Speaker 1: And you if I'm a single gal, so i date
Speaker 1: and if I find somebody is not taking really good
Speaker 1: care of themselves, it's not that I'm really looking for it,
Speaker 1: but it's really easy to feel that when you're feeling
Speaker 1: good about yourself and you're treating yourself at this level,
Speaker 1: but you're seeing somebody and they're treating themselves at the
Speaker 1: waste level. You're kind, you're considerate, you're impeccable with your word,
Speaker 1: but you just don't go on that second date. Little things.
Speaker 1: You don't have to push anything into anybody's face. But
Speaker 1: when we start really taking good care, especially when our
Speaker 1: health becomes a challenge, I choose to look at these things,
Speaker 1: whether it's health, whether it's situations, whether it's a family
Speaker 1: member's health. I have learned to say, what is the
Speaker 1: lesson here and get into I do meditation almost every morning.
Speaker 1: If I don't, I do feel like I'm missing a
Speaker 1: body part, truly, So I'll try and do it at
Speaker 1: night if I didn't do it in the morning. But
Speaker 1: usually when I do a meditation, it's like ten to
Speaker 1: twenty minutes, nothing more than that. But it's like this
Speaker 1: anchor that really helps me sit and relax my body,
Speaker 1: get my breathing, to relax my body and relax my mind.
Speaker 1: There's so much going on right now with a lot
Speaker 1: of pressure. I can say quite a lot about social
Speaker 1: media right now, and I'm just going to talk like
Speaker 1: a mom. We got to be very very careful of
Speaker 1: how we consume social media, especially when our children are around.
Speaker 1: We are role models all the time, and when we
Speaker 1: have our kids around us, make sure that we're engaged
Speaker 1: and connected. And there is something going on with eighteen, nineteen,
Speaker 1: twenty twenty one, twenty two, twenty three four year olds,
Speaker 1: and because this is the group that had social media
Speaker 1: introduced to them at the very very beginning, way too
Speaker 1: much exposure. So for our own sake, and if we
Speaker 1: take a look at somebody else's cancer journey and they
Speaker 1: look like they are doing fantastically and they're leaping ahead,
Speaker 1: let that just be an encouragement. Do not compare ourselves.
Speaker 1: It's so so important. Everybody's journey is completely different, and
Speaker 1: your life is your life. You're not supposed to copy
Speaker 1: anybody else's life. This is your journey, this is my journey.
Speaker 1: And it has changed the way that fashion is being sold.
Speaker 1: A lot of influencers that have propelled to the forefront
Speaker 1: have really not had especially in the full figured industry,
Speaker 1: have not had a chance to have their voice be heard.
Speaker 1: They have not seen their bodies reflected and so there
Speaker 1: are some very powerful and very vocal body advocates that
Speaker 1: are now selling clothes, and I don't see a problem
Speaker 1: with that, and I think that retailers are struggling to
Speaker 1: get people back into the stores. There's a few points
Speaker 1: that when I do my consulting in businesses and retail
Speaker 1: fashion sizing and plant having a supply matching the demand
Speaker 1: and not having one or two sixteens or one eighteen.
Speaker 1: In fact, they should have so many more fourteens and
Speaker 1: sixteens and eighteens because that's the sweet spot. But and
Speaker 1: that could actually help their bottom line enormously if they
Speaker 1: would list. But that's okay, Well, that's totally fine. The
Speaker 1: majority of American women are a size fourteen, sixteen, eighteen,
Speaker 1: and twenty almost scooching up to the twenty. But so
Speaker 1: has the clothing progressed from the nineties, Yes, definitely. And
Speaker 1: a lot of companies also have not invested in two
Speaker 1: to three fit models. Now, if you're going to have
Speaker 1: an inclusive line, which I always encourage encourage lines to
Speaker 1: do zero to twenty four, you shouldn't have just one
Speaker 1: fit model. You need to have at least two so
Speaker 1: that the fuller end has the fuller cut and it's
Speaker 1: more proportionate to that full figured cut, and you have
Speaker 1: a straight size fit model that is proportionate to the
Speaker 1: straight fit. Now, if a clothing line uses one fit model,
Speaker 1: the fuller end of the spectrum is going to be
Speaker 1: too short and too small. If you see the return rates,
Speaker 1: you can see that they're using one fit model. If
Speaker 1: the return rate is much lower, you know that they're
Speaker 1: probably using doing a really good job investing. So any
Speaker 1: new company that goes into the fashion industry should definitely
Speaker 1: look into breaking down the proportion and being able to
Speaker 1: have two fit models to be able to have a
Speaker 1: line be successful styling wise. You know, we're women. We
Speaker 1: just haven't be different sizes, but we're women. We go
Speaker 1: on dates, we go to work, we have fun, we
Speaker 1: go on vacation, we have baby suits, we have all
Speaker 1: different personalities. Just because we're different sizes doesn't mean that
Speaker 1: that stuff goes away. So and yeah, so give it.
Speaker 1: Give what women have in the straight end, the smaller
Speaker 1: zero to twelve, reflect that over to twelve to twenty
Speaker 1: four because there is a customer there. I would love
Speaker 1: to talk to you about the true beauty fountaindation I
Speaker 1: feel that everybody has their own true beauty, and this
Speaker 1: is to improve youth mental wellness through events and programs
Speaker 1: designed for the whole family. And right now we have
Speaker 1: three programs that are going One is Play, Sweat, Win,
Speaker 1: and it's all about playing. I don't care if you're
Speaker 1: an adult, you still have to play. And when the
Speaker 1: adults play, the kids see the adults play, and then
Speaker 1: it's all normal. Instead of just kicking the kids and
Speaker 1: saying out and saying go play, when a family can
Speaker 1: play together, there's just more of an opportunity for that
Speaker 1: child to grow up knowing that play is not only fitness,
Speaker 1: but it's also lightening the heart. It makes us happy.
Speaker 1: We get to sweat, we get to play, we get
Speaker 1: to win. So that's something that I'm looking forward to
Speaker 1: getting into more schools and into after school programs. That's
Speaker 1: really great. Now, Fashion with that limits is over at
Speaker 1: Syracuse University for the last ten years. We're going into
Speaker 1: our tenth year and it's inclusive fashion within the fashion
Speaker 1: design programs. So a few years back I found out,
Speaker 1: let's say twenty thirteen, when I learned that there were
Speaker 1: protests in certain fashion design schools top ones that the
Speaker 1: full figured designer wanted to be able to make clothes
Speaker 1: for those client, those people, the clients that she had
Speaker 1: and her family members. But she could not find a
Speaker 1: full figure in a size sixteen or an eighteen or
Speaker 1: a twenty twenty two to twenty four form in her class,
Speaker 1: and the design school said, I'm sorry, where we don't
Speaker 1: have those, and they didn't provide it. She protested. That
Speaker 1: sparked others design schools saying well, you know, we don't
Speaker 1: have this, and other students were like, what's going on?
Speaker 1: Why don't we have this? So once again I do
Speaker 1: not know how to sew, but I knew that there
Speaker 1: was a real important opportunity here to get a true
Speaker 1: A full education in fashion meant that it had to
Speaker 1: go from zero to twelve in the forms that they
Speaker 1: had and also include sixteen, eighteen and twenty and twenty four.
Speaker 1: And at Syracuse, I just kept the first year that
Speaker 1: we introduced this program in twenty fourteen or fifteen. I
Speaker 1: know the parents really wanted to throw rotten tomatoes at me,
Speaker 1: but I said, wait, take a look. We're going to
Speaker 1: have the press show up because this is innovative, this
Speaker 1: is actually needed. We need to have design schools that
Speaker 1: graduate designers that know how to create clothing for women
Speaker 1: who are size zero to twenty four. That doesn't it
Speaker 1: makes such sense. So if they choose to go into
Speaker 1: the full full figure to end, or if they choose
Speaker 1: to go in the straight size end, or they choose
Speaker 1: to be a part of a company that wants to
Speaker 1: take their straight sized clothing options and bring them into
Speaker 1: the full figured, Syracuse was going to be able to
Speaker 1: provide the industry with these wonderful designers that was taught this,
Speaker 1: and very very very few fashion programs embrace this. So
Speaker 1: I'm very very happy that the True Beauty Foundation has
Speaker 1: fashion without limits. It's really really very important. And then
Speaker 1: five Oceanic Breasts to Calm is for the classroom where
Speaker 1: myself and other practitioners, whether it's sound healers or meditation practitioners,
Speaker 1: teach the classroom how to relax, how to get their
Speaker 1: breath normalized, to be able to work with conflict, and
Speaker 1: then show how listening skills can help. So it's five
Speaker 1: oceanic breaths that when you do a certain breath work,
Speaker 1: it can really calm you down from being in a
Speaker 1: heightened state of fear and anger, and if you just
Speaker 1: take yourself into five oceanic breaths, nice deep breaths, it
Speaker 1: will allow your vagus nerve and also your parasympathetic nervous
Speaker 1: system to calm down. That particular program was born out
Speaker 1: of pandemic time because everybody was trying to figure out
Speaker 1: how to feel better. So I love love bringing five
Speaker 1: oceanic breasts to calm to the look good, feel better
Speaker 1: foundation as well. And I've done meditation guided meditations for
Speaker 1: breast cancer thrivers and it's every little bit helps, right,
Speaker 1: especially when we're going through a really challenging time health wise,
Speaker 1: there's no reason for us to be in such a
Speaker 1: high state of stress, and just taking five breaths, just
Speaker 1: giving yourself a moment to either get out in nature
Speaker 1: and take a walk and do your very best with
Speaker 1: breath work. Being in the present moment, being in nature
Speaker 1: is one of the best ways to reset a bad day. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: I walk down. I'm very very lucky that you know now,
Speaker 1: I live very close to the ocean. It's it's frequent
Speaker 1: that I go to the ocean and walk down there. Now.
Speaker 1: I've spent years and years and years when I was
Speaker 1: living in New Jersey, taking groups out to the forest
Speaker 1: and going into the trails and all different levels of fitness.
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter. Get your hiking shoes, get a really
Speaker 1: good water bottle and put a buddy bag on or
Speaker 1: a backpack, give yourself a snack and go out into nature.
Speaker 1: Get on the trails, take a look at the birds,
Speaker 1: Listen to the birds, meditate out there if you want
Speaker 1: to camp. I encourage people to do these things because
Speaker 1: our world right now seems to be more stressful than
Speaker 1: it has been in the last twenty years. And if
Speaker 1: we can find simple tools to be able to help
Speaker 1: ourselves feel better during this time, and you know, that
Speaker 1: could be your truth. Nature is my truth, Breathing is
Speaker 1: my truth. Working with companies that really support their employees
Speaker 1: and to you know, what is your truth? Yeah, So
Speaker 1: through the adversity of my life, I'm also all the wonderful,
Speaker 1: wonderful accolades and beautiful, beautiful things that have happened in
Speaker 1: my life. You mix it together and at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, it's my responsibility to figure out how
Speaker 1: I run a role and how I want to exist
Speaker 1: in this present moment. And Shannon, I hope that you're
Speaker 1: looking down and I'm so honored to guest host today
Speaker 1: and bring my truth to this wonderful podcast that she
Speaker 1: started on her journey. And I'm really really really happy
Speaker 1: to be here truly. If you want to follow more
Speaker 1: of what I'm doing, I'm on Instagram the official Emmy
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Speaker 1: really wonderful to be able to share today with you,
Speaker 1: and I look forward to hearing from you. If you
Speaker 1: have any questions, please let me know. I'd be very
Speaker 1: very happy to get back to you on that. And
Speaker 1: thank you for listening and you know, checking in with
Speaker 1: this episode of Let's Be Clear. Thank you everyone. Take
Speaker 1: good care,