1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,800 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. Y'all don't know y'all. 3 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 3: At all at all, So. 4 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 2: Don't given them all. 5 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:24,959 Speaker 3: Back A million bus buss boozy Ya listening to. 6 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 4: Don't Joy Yah? Yeah Joy? 7 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:32,679 Speaker 5: You know you gotta turn. 8 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:42,960 Speaker 1: I can't. I got to turn the mouth turn. 9 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:47,319 Speaker 4: You probably got to turn the mouth turn the water 10 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 4: of the moat up. Look, come. 11 00:01:58,400 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 2: Come on, you'll think that. 12 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 6: I sure will. Good morning everybody. You are listening to 13 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 6: the voice, Come on dig me now, one and only. 14 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 6: Steve Harvey, Oh yeah, man, got a radio show. Do 15 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 6: you understand that? I'm telling you God been big in 16 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:20,120 Speaker 6: my life. God, God is a gentleman. 17 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 7: You know. 18 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 6: I want to I want to point that out to you. 19 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 6: God is an absolute gentleman. He will not come in 20 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 6: unless he's invited. He don't just barge into your life. 21 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 6: He gives us the power of choice. 22 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 8: You know. 23 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 6: If you say you got it, I don't need you, 24 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:43,639 Speaker 6: he lets you have it. If you say I need you, 25 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 6: come see about me. He right there. It's just a 26 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 6: real simple thing, man. So always say to people this. 27 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 6: If you've gotten yourself into something, and please know I 28 00:02:57,200 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 6: have I man see that. That's why I'm so adamant 29 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 6: about it because I've gotten myself in some circumstances and positions. 30 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 2: In my life. 31 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 6: Well I've been, I've been. I've had some low moments. Man, 32 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 6: I've had some moments where I did not know what 33 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 6: to do. I didn't know what was next, I didn't 34 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:22,959 Speaker 6: know how to go about it. I didn't have no 35 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 6: more ideas. I was stuck. I thought a couple of times, well, 36 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 6: might not make it past this one. But then if 37 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 6: I don't make it past it, what's gonna happen? And 38 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 6: then I held on to this little thing that my 39 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 6: mother kept talking to me about. She said, sometimes some 40 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 6: when you ain't got nothing else in you, just hope, 41 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 6: she said, just hope it'll be all right, you know. 42 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 6: And what I've learned in my life is that hope 43 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 6: is the beginning of faith. Hope is just is their 44 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 6: possibility out there for me. I show hope, something happened. 45 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 6: See hope is okay, man, Because like I say, for me, 46 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 6: the way I've lived my life, hope was the beginning 47 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 6: of faith. 48 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 2: It was just the idea. 49 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 6: It's just the thought that something could change for me, 50 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:22,160 Speaker 6: that something could be a little bit different from me. 51 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 6: That maybe man, just maybe for some reason, I could 52 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:33,720 Speaker 6: be saved. I could be rescued. Things could turn around, 53 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:38,280 Speaker 6: it could hitit any other direction. Maybe I could quit 54 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 6: messing up. Maybe somebody will forgive me. Maybe somebody will 55 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 6: just say all right. I don't know, but I can't 56 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:51,480 Speaker 6: count the times I've been in that position. But then 57 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 6: once I hope a little bit, and then I remember. 58 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 6: Also my mother, because she was a Sunday school teacher, 59 00:04:57,760 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 6: she taught me the most valuable lesson I've learned in 60 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 6: my life. Nothing has been greater in my life than 61 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:08,680 Speaker 6: my faith. She taught me to pray. Mama used to say, 62 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:12,119 Speaker 6: when it get real, dog, for your son, prayer change 63 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 6: is things, she said. When you seem like you lost 64 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:20,920 Speaker 6: and you can't find your way, stop and pray, she said, 65 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 6: because prayer change is things. You know, when you get 66 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 6: a point in your life when you've done all you 67 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 6: can do and you can't do no more and you 68 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:31,600 Speaker 6: just don't know what to do next, she said, stop, son, 69 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 6: pray and combine that prayer with that hope that you got, 70 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 6: she said, because that hope is the beginning of faith, 71 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 6: she said. If you pray just hoping, she said to 72 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:50,840 Speaker 6: God come through for you. That'll give you confidence that 73 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:53,839 Speaker 6: he can do it again. And then after a while, 74 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:58,920 Speaker 6: you quit hoping, she saying, you start believing, she said, 75 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 6: And that's when you're on to something. If you can 76 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:11,120 Speaker 6: turn that hope into belief, that hope into faith, that's 77 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:15,600 Speaker 6: that that's the ability to believe in something that you 78 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 6: can't see. But the key though, the faith is you're 79 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 6: believing in something that you can't see. 80 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 9: See. 81 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 2: Hoping a little bit different from me now, I'm pretty sure. 82 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 6: Like I say, oftentimes to tell a lot of people 83 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 6: who can explain this thing a lot better than I 84 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:33,719 Speaker 6: can to you, hope is just kind of I don't 85 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 6: know how to I don't know how to say it, 86 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:37,720 Speaker 6: but I'm just telling you, hope is you're just hoping 87 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 6: it work right. You just have a thought in your 88 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 6: mind that you know, man, whoever you are, or whoever 89 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 6: you are, whatever you are, to me, God, I show 90 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:49,040 Speaker 6: hope something change. 91 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:50,560 Speaker 2: Hope helps. 92 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:50,839 Speaker 8: Man. 93 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 6: If you ain't strong enough to have faith, have hope, hope, 94 00:06:58,240 --> 00:07:01,839 Speaker 6: and then if you pray with some hope and God 95 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:06,680 Speaker 6: answers your prayer, then that hope gains a little confidence. 96 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 6: And after a while, that confidence becomes faith. Now theyin't 97 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 6: just hoping, but I'm believing. I'm believing in something that 98 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 6: I cannot see. Faith has been the key to my 99 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 6: entire existence, even when I didn't have any. 100 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 2: It was faith, as I look back on it, that 101 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 2: has gotten me here, and not just faith, but my faith. See, 102 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 2: you will only get to where you're going in your 103 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 2: life based on your faith. 104 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 6: See. A lot of people get the word faith confused, 105 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 6: like what's your faith? And then they started going down 106 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 6: this whole list of all these different religon out here. 107 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 6: But really an essence, man, when I talk to people 108 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 6: about faith, I'm talking to you about your your belief. 109 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 2: How much do you believe in the unseen? See? 110 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 1: Faith is the core of all that is happening to 111 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 1: me today. 112 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 6: It is the faith that I have in my relationship 113 00:08:25,280 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 6: with God that enables me to just oftentimes if I 114 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 6: stay on the right course and believe a certain way 115 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 6: and act a certain way, his blessings just poor. They 116 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 6: just come. And it comes in a lot of little 117 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 6: ways too. I've started to notice. See, it ain't just 118 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 6: a lot of people think blessings is money, na, man, 119 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:50,439 Speaker 6: that ain't it. 120 00:08:51,120 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 2: It's coverage. It's every time my plane lands safe. 121 00:08:56,240 --> 00:08:59,319 Speaker 6: It's every time they predict bad weather and I get 122 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 6: up in this sky and it don't be no bad weather. 123 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:06,559 Speaker 6: You know, this is this is favor. These are blessings 124 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:09,439 Speaker 6: that get poured out to me. Somebody call me and 125 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:16,080 Speaker 6: offer me something, not money, but an opportunity. See, blessings 126 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 6: come a lot of ways. But once you tie in 127 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 6: to God, once you tie in and you start doing 128 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:27,199 Speaker 6: the best you can do, and you start asking for 129 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 6: him to make you a better person, to help shape 130 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 6: and mold you into the kind of man or person 131 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:36,839 Speaker 6: that he wants you to be. You be amazed what 132 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:39,559 Speaker 6: God can do with you. Man, if you just invite 133 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:41,880 Speaker 6: me in and allow him to be a part of 134 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 6: your life. I mean, what you got to lose out there? 135 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:48,839 Speaker 6: Come on, why would you not change? Why would you 136 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:50,840 Speaker 6: not allow God to be a part of your life? 137 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:54,199 Speaker 6: God got some big plans for you. If he didn't, 138 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:55,560 Speaker 6: you wouldn't keep waking up. 139 00:09:57,440 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 140 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 2: All right, ladies, gentlemen, you know what it is. It's 141 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:09,320 Speaker 2: that time again. God. 142 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:11,679 Speaker 6: You just keep showing up. Man, I'm sure glad you do. 143 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:16,040 Speaker 6: What would you do if God didn't show up, be rough, 144 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:20,720 Speaker 6: wouldn't it? My goodness, that's unthinkable, man, I had most 145 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:23,080 Speaker 6: everybody I know has not shown up at one point 146 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:23,480 Speaker 6: in time. 147 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:27,840 Speaker 2: But go if God don't show up, Lord, have mercy. 148 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:31,079 Speaker 6: Thank you God for showing up, for being faithful, for 149 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:36,079 Speaker 6: being true to your word, all your promises, everything. Steve 150 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 6: Harvey Morning Show, Shirley Strawberry calling for real Mississippi, Monica 151 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 6: Junior and the legend of Nephew Tommy Junior? What could 152 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:52,280 Speaker 6: be underneath that cap of hope? 153 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:53,760 Speaker 2: What's going on? 154 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:56,600 Speaker 9: Yeah? 155 00:10:56,800 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 2: Man, you said pressure is a privilege. 156 00:10:59,480 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 7: And what. 157 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:07,560 Speaker 6: Well it's It can be interpreted several ways. But pressure 158 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:13,599 Speaker 6: is a privilege because only people who are trying to 159 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 6: accomplish something, who have goals and aspirations, who are have 160 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 6: expectations levied against them, are the ones who are under pressure. Well, 161 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 6: ain't that a blessing? 162 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:30,040 Speaker 2: Though? 163 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:35,839 Speaker 6: That's a real blessing, man, to have goals and aspirations, 164 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 6: to be under timelines, to have achievements and hopes and dreams. 165 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 2: That's why I say pressure is a privilege. 166 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:49,040 Speaker 6: Now, if you don't want the pressure, just go home, 167 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 6: push your chips up to the window and make the 168 00:11:51,600 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 6: decision to not be nothing, and you can get all 169 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:57,280 Speaker 6: this pressure off you. You ain't got to keep showing up. 170 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:01,000 Speaker 6: You ain't got to keep proving yourself. You ain't got 171 00:12:01,080 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 6: to keep trying to improve yourself. You ain't got to 172 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 6: You ain't got to try to be better. You just gone, 173 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 6: just gone. But there's no reward in that, man, because 174 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:17,240 Speaker 6: it's all hard, all of it's hard. If you decide 175 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:20,719 Speaker 6: to be successful, it's hard. If you make up in 176 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:23,960 Speaker 6: your mind, I'm not gonna be successful. I got news 177 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 6: for you. It's finna be hard. If you decide to 178 00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:31,160 Speaker 6: get in shape, it's gonna be hard. If you decide 179 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 6: to just sit there and don't worry about your weight 180 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 6: and eat what you want to eat, it's finna be 181 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 6: hard for you too. It's hard to open up a 182 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:44,560 Speaker 6: business and become an entrepreneur and start something on your own. 183 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:47,960 Speaker 2: That's hard. But it's hard going down to a job 184 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 2: you can't stand every day too. Though. 185 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:54,839 Speaker 6: It's hard to get rich, it really is. But it's 186 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:58,840 Speaker 6: real hard to be poke too, you see. So at 187 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:01,760 Speaker 6: the end of the day, I enjoyed the pressure. I 188 00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 6: considered the privilege. 189 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:03,720 Speaker 8: Man. 190 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 6: All you got to do is pick your heart, Which 191 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:08,360 Speaker 6: one on you want? Because you do have a choice. 192 00:13:08,960 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 6: That's one thing. God gave all of us the power 193 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 6: of choice. So it is you get the choice. You 194 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:16,719 Speaker 6: get to pick your heart. You want to own to 195 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:20,079 Speaker 6: come ney, you wanna work a job, pick it. You 196 00:13:20,160 --> 00:13:22,400 Speaker 6: want to get in shape, or you don't want to 197 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 6: be nothing. You're gonna take the stands or or kn't 198 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:28,200 Speaker 6: walk the stairs? 199 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:29,080 Speaker 2: Which one? 200 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:31,439 Speaker 1: All right? 201 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 2: It's all hard. 202 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 1: Hey guys, thank you coming after the hour he runs 203 00:13:39,520 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 1: that bring back right after this. It's already ignorant. 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To visit your local Hondai dealer today. 213 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:24,640 Speaker 9: It's a great day for a new Honday. 214 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 1: All right, and it's time now for the nephew and 215 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 1: run that prank back. 216 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 9: What you got for is now, this is the nephew 217 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 9: getting us rep the one and only Jasmine Krocket. 218 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 2: You haven't heard it here? 219 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:41,400 Speaker 9: It is hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Jasmine Jasmin Crockett. 220 00:14:41,600 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 10: Yeah, who is this? 221 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:45,320 Speaker 9: This is Tais, This is Taars. I'm president over here 222 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:48,280 Speaker 9: at OBB, out of the Dallas Chapter. 223 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 10: What is OBB? How did you get my number? 224 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 9: Okay, I got your number from Benjamin Krump. He gave 225 00:14:54,760 --> 00:14:55,360 Speaker 9: me your number. 226 00:14:55,520 --> 00:14:56,400 Speaker 8: And OBB is. 227 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 9: Our Black Businesses. I've met you before. Then you work 228 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:01,440 Speaker 9: that leave Merrit's office for a while. 229 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 10: That Yeah, we worked together for a second. 230 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 8: Yeah, okay, I. 231 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 9: Was actually working at least, but I think you had 232 00:15:08,280 --> 00:15:10,360 Speaker 9: just gotten there when I was leaving. But I wanted 233 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 9: to give you a call because here at OBB, we 234 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 9: got a bit of a problem. 235 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 7: Now. 236 00:15:14,960 --> 00:15:17,280 Speaker 9: We were about to get an award from the Dallas 237 00:15:17,440 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 9: Morning News. 238 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 8: We was about to get up Well, no, we didn't 239 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:23,000 Speaker 8: get it. 240 00:15:23,240 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 9: So we was about to get a Benchmark Business Award, 241 00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 9: which which claim with a two million dollar grant. 242 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:30,680 Speaker 8: But we could help a whole lot of black businesses. 243 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 9: Now, the problem is we was denied that and they're 244 00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 9: saying they've denied us from some. 245 00:15:36,280 --> 00:15:38,200 Speaker 8: Some stupid that you said on TV. 246 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:42,480 Speaker 9: So they saying that we got denied of a benchmark 247 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 9: business award. 248 00:15:43,520 --> 00:15:44,960 Speaker 8: They supposed to give us two million dollars. 249 00:15:45,040 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 9: Was gonna help a lot of business with this, but 250 00:15:47,680 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 9: that you said on TV, and now they hesitant on 251 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:52,320 Speaker 9: giving black organizations any. 252 00:15:52,200 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 8: Kind of front. 253 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:55,760 Speaker 10: What ain't nothing that I said. It's probably something that 254 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 10: Trump then said, it ain't got nothing to do with me. 255 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:00,320 Speaker 9: At the end of the day, we need you not 256 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:02,120 Speaker 9: to say nothing for the next four years because this 257 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:03,480 Speaker 9: gets created a big problem. 258 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:04,080 Speaker 8: Yeah. 259 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 10: I don't even know. Okay, I'm gonna have to direct 260 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:11,960 Speaker 10: you to my staff. I only continued this conversation because 261 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 10: you said that you knew Benjamin Crump, and Crump is 262 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 10: like a big brother of mine. So if he gave 263 00:16:18,680 --> 00:16:21,400 Speaker 10: you my number, he does not do that lightly. So 264 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 10: I'm not really sure what's going on a. 265 00:16:24,280 --> 00:16:28,520 Speaker 9: Friend of mine. The problem is that that you're saying 266 00:16:28,640 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 9: there is the problem that I got, and I'm trying 267 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 9: to get you to be quiet. For you, some of 268 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:34,960 Speaker 9: these Republicans is good white folks. 269 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 8: You know what I'm saying. 270 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 10: Oh, oh, well, name them for me. 271 00:16:39,560 --> 00:16:40,360 Speaker 8: I mean, I don't help it. 272 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:43,880 Speaker 10: But nevertheless, but nevertheless, I don't know how you got 273 00:16:43,960 --> 00:16:46,960 Speaker 10: my number. And I'm gonna have to have a conversation 274 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:50,880 Speaker 10: with Ben because we have never had this type of situation. 275 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:53,760 Speaker 10: And I am sorry that you felt like I had 276 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:56,960 Speaker 10: something to do with you losing your award. Listen, I 277 00:16:57,080 --> 00:17:00,400 Speaker 10: want all my black businesses to survive and thrive, and 278 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:02,240 Speaker 10: so if there's anything that we can what. 279 00:17:02,280 --> 00:17:04,439 Speaker 2: Are you doing and what are you doing? What are 280 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:05,679 Speaker 2: you doing for black business? 281 00:17:05,760 --> 00:17:06,440 Speaker 8: What are you doing? 282 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:09,520 Speaker 10: I am Listen, I do a ton. If you are 283 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:13,399 Speaker 10: familiar with the leadership under Pete Budages with the Department 284 00:17:13,440 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 10: of Transportation, the things that we did was we tried 285 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 10: to insulate black businesses from an incoming an incoming crazy 286 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:23,680 Speaker 10: regime like the one that we've had to make sure 287 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:26,040 Speaker 10: that they could still get those contracts to be able 288 00:17:26,119 --> 00:17:28,880 Speaker 10: to go out and work on these big infrastructure projects 289 00:17:29,119 --> 00:17:31,120 Speaker 10: and things like that. And I honestly have a great 290 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:34,399 Speaker 10: relationship with the black businesses in my community. I'm surprised 291 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 10: that I've never met you. I worked with the Black 292 00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:40,600 Speaker 10: Chamber of Business and we always do events together and 293 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:43,160 Speaker 10: I would love to bring you in your organization after 294 00:17:43,280 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 10: the fall. 295 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:45,920 Speaker 7: But this I gotta go. 296 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 10: But you can call my office and my staff can 297 00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:49,159 Speaker 10: help you. 298 00:17:49,400 --> 00:17:51,560 Speaker 8: So you got now you ain't got time for black people. 299 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:52,800 Speaker 8: You ain't got time to talk to me. 300 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:54,640 Speaker 1: Now now you got to you got to run. 301 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:57,359 Speaker 10: I always ask something, but this is getting a little 302 00:17:57,400 --> 00:18:01,000 Speaker 10: bit more hostile then I typically like to deal with. 303 00:18:01,160 --> 00:18:03,280 Speaker 10: Because if you've seen me, I know how to pop off, 304 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:05,720 Speaker 10: and I don't want to pop off because I understand 305 00:18:05,760 --> 00:18:09,840 Speaker 10: your frustration. You're talking about losing two million dollars, so 306 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:13,080 Speaker 10: I get it. I would rather be productive and figure 307 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:15,080 Speaker 10: out how we can get that money back for you. 308 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:19,320 Speaker 10: I know people at Dallas Morning News, and so hopefully 309 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 10: I can assist you with that. But I can assure 310 00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 10: you that that money doesn't have anything to do with 311 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:26,920 Speaker 10: me and anything that I've said. 312 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 11: They saying this, they saying this is perhaps you definitely 313 00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:35,560 Speaker 11: said you're saying on TV, and this is the reason why, 314 00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:37,560 Speaker 11: this is the reason why they're holding back and giving 315 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:42,120 Speaker 11: us the grant for my organization. Okay, And I'm sure 316 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:43,920 Speaker 11: this problem started when you got on there with that 317 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:47,919 Speaker 11: white lady with that bleach blonde, bad beach body. When 318 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:50,760 Speaker 11: you did that that's probably what created the problem enough, 319 00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:52,359 Speaker 11: I don't think so. 320 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:56,760 Speaker 10: You know, honestly, that was a white woman at work 321 00:18:56,840 --> 00:19:00,200 Speaker 10: that disrespected me, and I got nothing beloved when I 322 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:03,879 Speaker 10: call Martin a bleach blind, bad built bush body. So 323 00:19:04,440 --> 00:19:07,000 Speaker 10: if it offended you, I don't know if you blond 324 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:09,520 Speaker 10: or bleach or a bad built I don't know, But 325 00:19:10,160 --> 00:19:13,240 Speaker 10: I will say that a lot of people were happy 326 00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:15,520 Speaker 10: that I stood up to a bully, and the same 327 00:19:15,600 --> 00:19:18,080 Speaker 10: way you and your organization are being bullied out of 328 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:21,840 Speaker 10: y'all money. I am going to absolutely make sure that 329 00:19:22,040 --> 00:19:25,200 Speaker 10: I fight those bullies back on your behalf. So you 330 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:28,600 Speaker 10: should just take from that moment and recognize that I 331 00:19:28,840 --> 00:19:30,640 Speaker 10: cannot be pushed around by anybody. 332 00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:33,600 Speaker 6: You messed up all our money and your Now you're 333 00:19:33,600 --> 00:19:35,320 Speaker 6: trying to figure out why I'm upset about it. 334 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:37,080 Speaker 9: Yeah, I'm upset about it. I'm trying to get you 335 00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:40,400 Speaker 9: to understand. But really, honestly, for the next four year, 336 00:19:40,560 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 9: we need you to sit down and be quiet. That's 337 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:44,120 Speaker 9: what we really need you to do, sir. 338 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 12: Sir, like I mean, I don't want to fight. 339 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:49,159 Speaker 10: It sounds like you want to fight, but listen, as 340 00:19:49,200 --> 00:19:51,440 Speaker 10: a public servant, I am really trying to serve the people. 341 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:53,919 Speaker 7: So just tell me how it is that I can 342 00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:54,359 Speaker 7: help you. 343 00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:56,760 Speaker 10: Instead of fighting with me, what we need to do 344 00:19:56,960 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 10: is focus on how we're gonna get you your money. 345 00:19:58,960 --> 00:19:59,960 Speaker 7: And I am committed today. 346 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:02,280 Speaker 2: Well, can I tell you one more thing before you go? 347 00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:05,200 Speaker 7: Absolutely, sir, I'm listening, Jasmine. 348 00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:08,160 Speaker 2: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 349 00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:14,000 Speaker 12: Do you know how crazy my life is? 350 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 6: And you are just playing on my phone? 351 00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 2: Serious? 352 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:18,240 Speaker 12: Please? 353 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:21,359 Speaker 10: Like I got people coming left and right complaining about 354 00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:25,159 Speaker 10: everything under the sun. Hey, you won't hear playing. 355 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:25,639 Speaker 3: On my phone? 356 00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:29,160 Speaker 12: Like I don't even want to know how and why? 357 00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:32,160 Speaker 10: But I legitimately don't even know. I don't even want 358 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:33,159 Speaker 10: to know, right, but. 359 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:34,040 Speaker 13: Just takes the time. 360 00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:38,280 Speaker 2: Oh no, I know, but listen, let me just say this. 361 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:39,240 Speaker 2: We are behind you. 362 00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:41,920 Speaker 9: We love you one hundred percent, especially here the Steve 363 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 9: Harvey Morning Show. 364 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:44,639 Speaker 2: But I come on, Jed, I had to get you, 365 00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:47,399 Speaker 2: I had to call, I had to try that. 366 00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:49,840 Speaker 12: This is not what I needed. But uh, but I 367 00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:51,640 Speaker 12: guess I love y'all. 368 00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 8: One day. 369 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:54,080 Speaker 7: Yes, just tell me this. 370 00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:56,879 Speaker 2: What is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio 371 00:20:57,119 --> 00:20:58,520 Speaker 2: show in the land. 372 00:20:58,560 --> 00:20:59,879 Speaker 10: The Steve Harvey Morning. 373 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 6: I got you. 374 00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:08,000 Speaker 2: What y'all think? 375 00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:08,680 Speaker 9: Huh? 376 00:21:09,119 --> 00:21:15,120 Speaker 1: Come on, man, I gotta vote for you. I vote 377 00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:15,280 Speaker 1: for you. 378 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:18,080 Speaker 2: It's right on time. 379 00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:21,639 Speaker 1: Too much, she's booked and busy. Stop playing with her 380 00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:23,280 Speaker 1: hold out boy. 381 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:25,320 Speaker 2: To get her on the phone. Y'all don't understand that 382 00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:25,720 Speaker 2: took a. 383 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:30,160 Speaker 1: Minute, all right? 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Right now it is time 401 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 14: to ask the CLO our chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. 402 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:31,280 Speaker 1: This is from Cheyenne and Plano. 403 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:34,840 Speaker 14: Cheyenne writes, I have two younger sisters and they've dated 404 00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:38,119 Speaker 14: the same guys twice. I'm concerned that this is a 405 00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:40,560 Speaker 14: thing for them. I talked to them and they said 406 00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:43,280 Speaker 14: it's no big deal. They're nineteen and twenty one and 407 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:47,160 Speaker 14: moving too fast. Should I let them make their own mistakes? 408 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:51,200 Speaker 6: Well, they make it. I'm trying to figure out where 409 00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 6: you at in this. Should I let them? They doing it? 410 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:54,800 Speaker 1: Yeah? 411 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,120 Speaker 2: They twenty twenty one. You can't tell them nothing. 412 00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:58,600 Speaker 1: Nineteen and twenty one. 413 00:22:58,680 --> 00:23:02,160 Speaker 2: Why would two sisters want be passed between the same man? 414 00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:03,440 Speaker 1: Why? 415 00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:05,000 Speaker 7: What? What? 416 00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:07,160 Speaker 2: What makes that okay? In your head? 417 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:08,840 Speaker 8: What? Man? 418 00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:11,600 Speaker 2: We just live in a different world today. Man, It's just. 419 00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:15,520 Speaker 14: Yeah, it seems like in their minds though they're passing 420 00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:17,040 Speaker 14: the guys between them. 421 00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:21,520 Speaker 6: The difference is. The difference is the act of sex 422 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:27,080 Speaker 6: between the two is quite different. It's very very different. 423 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:31,240 Speaker 6: And if you don't treat your body with more respect, 424 00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:34,680 Speaker 6: stop expecting other people to do it. 425 00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:36,560 Speaker 1: That's right, that's right. 426 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:41,439 Speaker 6: That part if you will allow anybody to come along 427 00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 6: with a conversation and have it, then that's what's going 428 00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:48,040 Speaker 6: to continue to happen to you. Well, you have to 429 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:51,360 Speaker 6: set some standards for yourself, young ladies, and you can. 430 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:54,240 Speaker 6: That's not being old fashioned, that's just being smart to 431 00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 6: who you are. This is just you putting the value 432 00:23:58,640 --> 00:23:59,960 Speaker 6: on yourself that you should. 433 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:01,400 Speaker 2: That's right. 434 00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:04,160 Speaker 6: And if a boy comes over and dates your sister 435 00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:07,240 Speaker 6: and gets rid of your sister, why would you allow 436 00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:09,040 Speaker 6: him to come and do the same thing to you? 437 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:15,000 Speaker 14: Yeah, right, is right because this time they don't know 438 00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:17,760 Speaker 14: that unless someone tells them that. So I'm glad you 439 00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:20,199 Speaker 14: said what you just said, man, And. 440 00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:22,760 Speaker 6: I'm you know, I don't. Yeah, you know there's some 441 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:25,600 Speaker 6: stuff out there that's still good. It's called morals. 442 00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:32,080 Speaker 1: Those are still good values. They still self respect, you know, 443 00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:34,560 Speaker 1: self esteem, Yeah. 444 00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:39,200 Speaker 6: I'll see the pride, dignity just yeah them words is old, 445 00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:41,359 Speaker 6: but they still but. 446 00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:45,159 Speaker 14: The time meaning yeah, they still have mean today. All right, 447 00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:48,880 Speaker 14: Thank you, Celo, great advice. Diane and Richmond writes, I'm 448 00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 14: a fifty nine year old divorced mother of three sons, 449 00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:54,760 Speaker 14: and I allowed my oldest son's girlfriend to stay with 450 00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:57,320 Speaker 14: us for a while. She and my son are twenty 451 00:24:57,400 --> 00:25:01,000 Speaker 14: two years old and expecting their first child. How do 452 00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:03,840 Speaker 14: I get them out of my house before the baby comes? 453 00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:06,959 Speaker 6: What why you let them in your house? Want them 454 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:08,440 Speaker 6: all of a sudden to be me? And that's why 455 00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 6: I tell you. Look, ladies, you gotta set some rules. 456 00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:19,080 Speaker 6: Twenty two he's still at the house now. He brings 457 00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:21,199 Speaker 6: somebody else to the house that his don't even need 458 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:24,719 Speaker 6: to be here. Twenty two years old, So far from 459 00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:25,760 Speaker 6: my mom and daddy house. 460 00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:28,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're out at eighteen. 461 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:30,800 Speaker 2: Most of us go over there and tell my daddy 462 00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:32,760 Speaker 2: what do I finn to live here? 463 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:33,040 Speaker 4: Again? 464 00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:35,479 Speaker 2: He's boy, what did I tell you when you went 465 00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:41,359 Speaker 2: to college? This is just some standards. 466 00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:45,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, so now she wants them out of the house. 467 00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:46,400 Speaker 1: When it was okay when they. 468 00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:48,800 Speaker 6: Were you can't baby them, And then when they start 469 00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:51,040 Speaker 6: acting like a baby, we want some different results. 470 00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 9: I bet you he ain't working, he ain't got no job, 471 00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 9: he ain't doing nothing. 472 00:25:57,080 --> 00:26:02,399 Speaker 3: Yeah right, yeah, and making baby baby mama's same situation. 473 00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 1: Probably they all just in the house. Yeah, all right, 474 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:10,439 Speaker 1: grind right now, yeah, all right. 475 00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:13,760 Speaker 14: Moving on to Teddy and Mobile, Teddy writes, I learned 476 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:16,520 Speaker 14: my wife's dad some money to pay off a gambling 477 00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:19,840 Speaker 14: debt from the super Bowl. He just paid me back, 478 00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:22,560 Speaker 14: and I put the money in the wrong account. My 479 00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:26,200 Speaker 14: wife keeps asking where the money came from. I don't 480 00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:29,199 Speaker 14: lie to my wife, So what do I tell her? 481 00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:33,000 Speaker 14: Let me repeat that, Steve, I don't lie to my wife. 482 00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:34,879 Speaker 8: So what do I tell you? 483 00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:41,800 Speaker 2: Right here? Yeah, y'all not gonna be married. This marriage 484 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:42,359 Speaker 2: is on the. 485 00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:48,240 Speaker 1: Clock, because what do you always say? You got to lie. 486 00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:51,360 Speaker 8: So now. 487 00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:56,680 Speaker 6: What you're finn to do is you're gonna tell your 488 00:26:56,760 --> 00:27:02,960 Speaker 6: wife that her daddy got in the gambling problem. You 489 00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:06,840 Speaker 6: loaned in the money, he paid you back, and that's 490 00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:10,520 Speaker 6: where the money came from. Then he she gonna go 491 00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:15,000 Speaker 6: to her daddy, and then her daddy gonna be looking 492 00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:19,040 Speaker 6: up you sideways because her young man, this was between us, 493 00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:23,840 Speaker 6: and I paid you your money. I came to you 494 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:26,800 Speaker 6: as a man. I paid you your money. Now my 495 00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:31,000 Speaker 6: daughter in my behind because your punk don't want to 496 00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:35,280 Speaker 6: lie to her. You see how I see how stupid 497 00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:41,879 Speaker 6: that is. So I don't know how you can't avoid lying? 498 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:42,240 Speaker 9: Man? 499 00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:48,200 Speaker 6: What is what is all this truth? And your dumb 500 00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:50,760 Speaker 6: how you put the money in the wrong account? How stupid, 501 00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:51,000 Speaker 6: are you? 502 00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 2: I ain't never done that. 503 00:27:52,600 --> 00:28:01,359 Speaker 6: I have all that first accident mistake. Yeah, stupid, first 504 00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:02,800 Speaker 6: of all stupid. 505 00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:06,040 Speaker 2: He's a good person. Oh he dumb his head. 506 00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:10,040 Speaker 1: Father and lost some money. 507 00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:10,960 Speaker 2: But he's stupid. 508 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:11,479 Speaker 6: Bro. 509 00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:13,240 Speaker 2: Listen to me. Listen to me. 510 00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:17,600 Speaker 6: When you loaned your father the money, I'm assuming you 511 00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:19,640 Speaker 6: took it out your account father. 512 00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:22,480 Speaker 2: That loan is a tax write off. 513 00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:23,920 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. 514 00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:27,680 Speaker 2: Now your then got the money back from your father 515 00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:31,080 Speaker 2: and put it into bank, and now you gotta pay 516 00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:32,120 Speaker 2: taxes on that money. 517 00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:38,280 Speaker 6: You can't be nolmost stupid than this. Stupid and man, 518 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:42,560 Speaker 6: don't write this show no money, No, you stupid. Somebody 519 00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:46,440 Speaker 6: pay you some money back. That's called the loss you 520 00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:48,600 Speaker 6: loaned him to He loaned the money. 521 00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:49,320 Speaker 2: This is honest. 522 00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:52,360 Speaker 6: I loaned him the money, so that income is not 523 00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 6: taxable because you send it out as a loan, and 524 00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:58,160 Speaker 6: his money is not taxable because he took it as 525 00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:00,880 Speaker 6: a loan. So now you got to our standing loan 526 00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:04,280 Speaker 6: on your books that you get to claim. Okay, now 527 00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 6: he pays you the cash back, y'all do all took 528 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:08,520 Speaker 6: the money to the bank. 529 00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:10,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's just an honor. 530 00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 2: That's just playing on stupid Donald Trump. 531 00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:19,520 Speaker 1: He's an honest Trump. Don't understand where this is going. 532 00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:21,600 Speaker 1: He's just an honest man. 533 00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:25,160 Speaker 6: Do you think Donald Trump would get a cash payment 534 00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:27,680 Speaker 6: from somebody and go put it in his bank? 535 00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:32,480 Speaker 2: No, and pay taxes on it? No, why would you 536 00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:37,480 Speaker 2: do that? This got cash transaction. That money is in 537 00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:45,000 Speaker 2: their closet down in milagrog. You treat your father in 538 00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:46,400 Speaker 2: law like the cartail? 539 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:48,720 Speaker 9: What what? 540 00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:51,880 Speaker 6: What do you mean you have to treat your father 541 00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:54,480 Speaker 6: in law like the cartail? This is a drug transaction. 542 00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:58,360 Speaker 6: They don't put that money all in the bank. Oh God, 543 00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:01,960 Speaker 6: on laundred. They launder it. 544 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:06,840 Speaker 1: Yes, So now he's a feeling. Yes, he's just an honest, 545 00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:09,080 Speaker 1: good guy. And now he's going to jail. 546 00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:15,000 Speaker 2: Where does that get you? Taxes? 547 00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:19,600 Speaker 6: Didn't defend the tail on his daddy in law, and 548 00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:22,920 Speaker 6: then he gonna lose his respect for him coming on. 549 00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:25,400 Speaker 14: Like half of the are I had to tell her, 550 00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:36,480 Speaker 14: ask me, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show on Friday, Guys, 551 00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:39,440 Speaker 14: A seven point seven I said a seven point seven 552 00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:44,840 Speaker 14: magnitude earthquake devastated the Thailand and metropolitan region with most 553 00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:50,080 Speaker 14: damage and uh Miramar and Bangkok, where a high rise 554 00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:54,480 Speaker 14: building that was under construction collapsed yesterday. The death toll 555 00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:56,920 Speaker 14: was reported at over sixteen hundred people and close to 556 00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:59,960 Speaker 14: one hundred and forty people are still missing as rescuer 557 00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:03,200 Speaker 14: is continued to dig through the debris of the collapse building. 558 00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:07,160 Speaker 14: A series of aftershocks on yesterday continue to shake the region, 559 00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:11,760 Speaker 14: and officials reportedly expect the death toll to rise in 560 00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 14: the coming days. So did you guys see the video 561 00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:19,160 Speaker 14: of the building collapsing. Yes, yes, oh, I have mercy. Yes, 562 00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:22,400 Speaker 14: that's sixteen hundred people. Man, that's that's major. 563 00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:25,400 Speaker 6: That's you know, I know it's not here, but you 564 00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:27,080 Speaker 6: know it's still You know, you got to have a 565 00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:31,440 Speaker 6: heartful what goes on with people many human You won't, 566 00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:35,320 Speaker 6: you know, because you know you you want everybody to 567 00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:39,080 Speaker 6: react to yours too. You know the fires in LA 568 00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:43,520 Speaker 6: you know, disasters Patrina. It's been some major stuff man. 569 00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:47,840 Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, yeah, our prayers are going out to those 570 00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:49,000 Speaker 1: people as well. 571 00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:51,440 Speaker 2: You wake up, think you're going to work in the morning, 572 00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:53,960 Speaker 2: and you just never know, man, You just never know 573 00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:55,000 Speaker 2: that this could be. 574 00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:59,360 Speaker 1: It, especially when natural disasters. Tommy, you are career, no control. 575 00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:01,120 Speaker 1: I think it can no alert. 576 00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:04,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly all right. 577 00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:09,160 Speaker 14: Moving on now to Bishop Marvin's SAP, bishops has been 578 00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:11,600 Speaker 14: trending a viral video of. 579 00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 2: Him, let's close the doors. Let's close the doors before 580 00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:14,760 Speaker 2: you say this shirt. 581 00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:18,840 Speaker 1: Just actually, we opened the doors of the church, but. 582 00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:23,040 Speaker 11: Clark. 583 00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:27,720 Speaker 14: A viral video of bishops App commanding the ushers of 584 00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:31,680 Speaker 14: his church to close the doors until his congregation donated 585 00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:35,440 Speaker 14: forty thousand dollars has rubbled a lot of feathers. Social 586 00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:38,240 Speaker 14: media comments range from those that were in support of 587 00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:41,400 Speaker 14: Bishop Sap to those that were totally against it and 588 00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:44,880 Speaker 14: said he went overboard and was holding his congregation captive. 589 00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:48,240 Speaker 14: In a recent Facebook post, Bishop Sapp explained that he 590 00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:52,840 Speaker 14: challenged his congregation to plan a seed of only twenty dollars. 591 00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:56,440 Speaker 14: This is one a night where he had four thousand 592 00:32:56,520 --> 00:33:00,680 Speaker 14: people in attendance and watching online. Bishops App said that 593 00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:03,520 Speaker 14: when finances are being handled, it is one of the 594 00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:07,000 Speaker 14: most vulnerable times in the church, so movement during this 595 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:11,360 Speaker 14: time is distracting and risky. He said his directive was 596 00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:15,400 Speaker 14: not about control, but more about creating a safe environment 597 00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:17,200 Speaker 14: for those who were choosing to give. 598 00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:19,840 Speaker 2: So that's man, come on, come on, doe. 599 00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:24,280 Speaker 6: Creating a safe environment for though, How when the last 600 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:25,120 Speaker 6: time you see this? 601 00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:28,240 Speaker 2: You've seen a stampede to the front at offering. 602 00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:34,400 Speaker 6: When the last time you see a whole bunch of 603 00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:36,840 Speaker 6: people just knocking each other? I gotta give, I'm gonna 604 00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:39,240 Speaker 6: give you get, I give more, you can give more. No, 605 00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:43,160 Speaker 6: you ain't got to protect themselves. It's all good. A 606 00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:47,160 Speaker 6: matter of fact, you shouldn't release a statement. A Listen 607 00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:53,200 Speaker 6: to me, I'm gonna start a website. Well, don't say 608 00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:54,120 Speaker 6: that dot com. 609 00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:56,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, and just. 610 00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:04,640 Speaker 6: Say type it in to don't say that dot com 611 00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:07,760 Speaker 6: and let me read it and tell me what this 612 00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:08,320 Speaker 6: is about. 613 00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:11,440 Speaker 2: And I'll let you know if you should say that 614 00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:18,320 Speaker 2: or not, because you know, Lord, I have opened my damn. 615 00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:23,839 Speaker 3: Mouth and I know speaking from experience. 616 00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:25,640 Speaker 2: Lord him. 617 00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:30,800 Speaker 1: But he did say the director was not about control 618 00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:32,600 Speaker 1: but more about safety. 619 00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:35,360 Speaker 6: Yeah, well that ain't a good one. Dog hanging there 620 00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:38,360 Speaker 6: is something new will come out though, Kanye he treading 621 00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:40,000 Speaker 6: so he right right right? 622 00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:43,719 Speaker 2: Whoa yeah, yeah, to make the same audience you got there. 623 00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:51,360 Speaker 14: And finally, guys, here's a question. Has anyone seen remember 624 00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:54,120 Speaker 14: Aaron Guy? Aaron Hall from the group Guy. 625 00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:54,920 Speaker 2: Remember him? 626 00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:58,080 Speaker 1: We don't know him? Yeah? Yeah, of course right. Well, 627 00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:00,799 Speaker 1: people are asking have you seen him? 628 00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:04,239 Speaker 14: Because reportedly Aaron Hall has been missing since he was 629 00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:07,719 Speaker 14: named in the November twenty twenty three sexual assault lawsuit 630 00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:11,880 Speaker 14: with Diddy. According to the female accusers attorney, their office 631 00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:14,880 Speaker 14: has been trying to serve Aaron Hall since June of 632 00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:17,360 Speaker 14: last year, and he has not been at any of 633 00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:21,400 Speaker 14: his past known addresses. The accusers attorney is now requesting 634 00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:24,840 Speaker 14: to serve mister Hall through newspaper notices in both Georgia 635 00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:28,440 Speaker 14: and California that as a last resort. 636 00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:31,520 Speaker 1: So no one's seen him. He hasn't been served. They're 637 00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:32,359 Speaker 1: trying to serve him. 638 00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:35,960 Speaker 6: I ain't seen and I ain't looking for Yes, I 639 00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:38,520 Speaker 6: was just gonna say, just for the record, I haven't seen. 640 00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:42,759 Speaker 2: I haven't seen. Going to be clear, don't ask me, 641 00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:48,239 Speaker 2: that's what it's saying. 642 00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:51,799 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think anyone has you say of late 643 00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:52,680 Speaker 1: be on. 644 00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:58,680 Speaker 2: The run, A few loves on the run, don't be afraid. 645 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:02,439 Speaker 1: Okay, even be working on new music. Maybe they're working 646 00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:04,480 Speaker 1: on new music studio. 647 00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:14,319 Speaker 2: Okay, you can't do music on the run. 648 00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:17,400 Speaker 1: Should Okay, we don't know that. 649 00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:21,839 Speaker 2: I just I don't. I don't know he's on the run. 650 00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:27,200 Speaker 1: But you know it was a joke. Yeah, we got it. 651 00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:31,080 Speaker 2: At none of them houses. What I'll call what I 652 00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:31,719 Speaker 2: think that's here? 653 00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:37,360 Speaker 14: Yeah, no, no, yeah, but being connected with Diddy in 654 00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:41,279 Speaker 14: this lawsuit, you know, yeah, you don't want to be found, 655 00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:41,719 Speaker 14: you don't. 656 00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:44,759 Speaker 1: You don't want to be caught. This is serious right here. 657 00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:48,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, So glad I ain't go down there, go. 658 00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:50,040 Speaker 8: Down with. 659 00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:56,879 Speaker 6: Amen, come through we having the party. Nope, you thought 660 00:36:56,960 --> 00:37:00,000 Speaker 6: better man just ain't never been my type of dude. 661 00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:02,120 Speaker 6: So I ain't got to worry about That's a one 662 00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:04,759 Speaker 6: thing I don't have to wear about nine and none of. 663 00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:08,960 Speaker 1: That clear, all right, guys. 664 00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:11,799 Speaker 14: Coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, Donald Trump 665 00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:15,279 Speaker 14: says he's not joking about possibly seeking a third term 666 00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:16,560 Speaker 14: as president. 667 00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:19,680 Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to. 668 00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:27,080 Speaker 14: The Stave Harvey Morning Show. Hey everyone at Chegirl Shirley's 669 00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:30,560 Speaker 14: Strawberry Here. April six is National ASA E Bowl Day 670 00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:34,279 Speaker 14: and Tropical Smoothie Cafe is offering Tropic Rewards members five 671 00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:37,560 Speaker 14: dollars off and ASA E Bowl or asa E Bowl 672 00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:40,280 Speaker 14: with Nutella. It is a perfect way to treat yourself 673 00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:43,799 Speaker 14: to a refreshing tropical getaway. Not a member yet, join 674 00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:47,160 Speaker 14: the party by downloading the Tropical Smoothie Cafe app and 675 00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:50,520 Speaker 14: signing up today. 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He said, 683 00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:17,840 Speaker 14: I have had more people ask me to have a 684 00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:21,640 Speaker 14: third term, which is in a way a fourth term 685 00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:25,760 Speaker 14: because the other election, the twenty twenty election, was totally rigged. 686 00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:29,080 Speaker 1: But we're still on that. We're still on that. 687 00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:32,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, man, I believe him too. 688 00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:37,919 Speaker 6: Yeah, And I believe he will find a way to run, 689 00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:41,479 Speaker 6: and I believe he'll be elected because we are. 690 00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:43,000 Speaker 2: In that type of country. 691 00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:50,920 Speaker 6: I've never seen people more afraid of one person than 692 00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:52,880 Speaker 6: they are of Donald Trump. 693 00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:54,359 Speaker 2: I've never seen it, man. 694 00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:59,600 Speaker 6: I mean, the Republican Party lives in fear of this man, 695 00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:08,440 Speaker 6: and the Democrats have no response. The Democrats around I'm 696 00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:11,480 Speaker 6: just looking at them. Look when you're playing at the 697 00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:15,640 Speaker 6: address was to hold up them little auction paddles. And 698 00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:18,120 Speaker 6: then some of y'all wore black T shirts, some of 699 00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:21,360 Speaker 6: y'all WoT pink, some of y'all walked out, some of 700 00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:23,120 Speaker 6: y'all didn't say that. 701 00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:26,719 Speaker 2: Org. Can you all get together? I really know how 702 00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:28,439 Speaker 2: to protest. Yeah. 703 00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:31,960 Speaker 14: Well, the twenty second Amendment of the Constitution states, and 704 00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:34,440 Speaker 14: no person shall be elected to the office of President 705 00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:37,200 Speaker 14: more than twice. This amendment was signed back in nineteen 706 00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:40,879 Speaker 14: fifty one after Franklin D. Roosevelt was elected president four 707 00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:44,879 Speaker 14: times in a row. And Donald Trump said, quote, there 708 00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:47,480 Speaker 14: are methods which in which you could do it. 709 00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:50,759 Speaker 2: So and he can't find him, and he gonna tell 710 00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:52,319 Speaker 2: him that's what he's gonna do. And that's what they're 711 00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:52,640 Speaker 2: gonna do. 712 00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:58,320 Speaker 14: They destroyed the Altitution, that's one way. See, he's what eighties, 713 00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:02,080 Speaker 14: maybe seventy eight, seventy nine. 714 00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:03,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, seventy eight. 715 00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:03,719 Speaker 9: Yeah. 716 00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:05,880 Speaker 3: I thought he was set so he can run for 717 00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:09,040 Speaker 3: our third term and do that. But Biden was too. 718 00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:14,520 Speaker 6: Oldell, let's be honest, now, well, Kenel Biden was doing 719 00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:15,759 Speaker 6: old stuff though. 720 00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:18,920 Speaker 2: Let's let's just let's just be. 721 00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:22,719 Speaker 1: Don't get up, Biden. Don't say that while you're going here, 722 00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:23,120 Speaker 1: you know. 723 00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:30,040 Speaker 6: Biden was, Yeah, well he was drifting off doing interviews, 724 00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:30,799 Speaker 6: and then when he. 725 00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:32,920 Speaker 2: Stopped that bike off of it. 726 00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:39,399 Speaker 6: Riding the bike, it was the stop on the bike 727 00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:42,840 Speaker 6: and just fall haul year seventy eight years. 728 00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:49,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, seventy eight yeah, yeah, okay, all right, well, uh he. 729 00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:51,840 Speaker 14: Says there there's ways in what you could do it, so, 730 00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:54,400 Speaker 14: like you say, he could find a way, and he 731 00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:57,880 Speaker 14: was talking about doing everybody constitutions. 732 00:40:58,000 --> 00:40:59,880 Speaker 2: He's gonna do it. I agree with. 733 00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:03,560 Speaker 6: He's done away with the constitution since he since he 734 00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:06,799 Speaker 6: got in all right, all right, he got in. 735 00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:08,719 Speaker 2: With thirty four fella, any convictions. 736 00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:09,200 Speaker 6: Yeah. 737 00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:12,719 Speaker 14: Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, Steve 738 00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:14,880 Speaker 14: tell me he has some questions for you about his 739 00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:15,920 Speaker 14: upcoming vacation. 740 00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:24,279 Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, 741 00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:26,040 Speaker 1: Junior has a question for you. 742 00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:32,560 Speaker 15: Question to see how goss I got a question for 743 00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:37,920 Speaker 15: the fellow. Yeah, okay, Let's say if you Wednesdanight Bible 744 00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:40,920 Speaker 15: study and you got to teach the lesson, and the 745 00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:44,160 Speaker 15: lesson is on cheating. But the girl you cheated on 746 00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:47,360 Speaker 15: is sitting right there in front of you. Can you 747 00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:49,359 Speaker 15: teach this lesson why she's sitting there? 748 00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:56,680 Speaker 2: No, I'm nothing, dude. You're gonna be sick. I'm gonna 749 00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:59,880 Speaker 2: I'm gonna stick my finger down my throat and just vomiting. 750 00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:07,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't start the listen. It's all cheating. 751 00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:09,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's cheap. 752 00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:13,279 Speaker 1: And who who in the who there the girl you 753 00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:14,839 Speaker 1: cheating on sitting right there. 754 00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:24,640 Speaker 6: I've never never in my life done all ten of 755 00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:30,919 Speaker 6: the commandments. Okay, let's go down the line. 756 00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:36,719 Speaker 1: But you love the Lord my heart and soul in 757 00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:37,479 Speaker 1: all your mind. 758 00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:39,719 Speaker 2: Okay, I might not do that that day. 759 00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:43,160 Speaker 1: Were stolen a long time. 760 00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:46,760 Speaker 6: Well, yeah, I ain't stolen a long time. I cannot steal. 761 00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:51,720 Speaker 6: Go ahead, what's the next one? Crosses my mind? 762 00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:54,840 Speaker 8: Here we go. 763 00:42:57,280 --> 00:43:02,279 Speaker 2: I'm on my third marriage. So to get that, some 764 00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:10,759 Speaker 2: had to get that some kind of way. Here he. 765 00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:17,680 Speaker 6: Witness just in your marriage. Now, yeah, all these some 766 00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:19,960 Speaker 6: of these you just can't go down there. Everybody can't 767 00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:23,200 Speaker 6: go down there for irreconcilable difference. And somebody got to 768 00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:29,600 Speaker 6: go down and there for some information. I was down there, 769 00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:31,160 Speaker 6: I was in court where I was in court with 770 00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:31,880 Speaker 6: some information. 771 00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:40,440 Speaker 2: Okay, get there. 772 00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:47,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, it ain't just you know, you can't just divorce nobody. 773 00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:51,239 Speaker 6: Sometimes you got to help things along. You got to 774 00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:53,720 Speaker 6: go down there. Like you know, I'm I've never given 775 00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:55,759 Speaker 6: you a divorce. Well, let me push it. 776 00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:09,560 Speaker 9: Let me thou should not bear false witness against our neighbor. 777 00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:20,400 Speaker 6: Oh that's lying. Yes, you're out the last day. I 778 00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:22,440 Speaker 6: can't think of the last day. I ain't lied. 779 00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:27,239 Speaker 1: I don't just lie every day. Make lying sounds so good, 780 00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:28,200 Speaker 1: it's not good. 781 00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:32,960 Speaker 6: I lied to the anesthesiologist when I had surgery, said 782 00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:33,960 Speaker 6: you're on any medication. 783 00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:35,200 Speaker 2: I said, absolutely not. 784 00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:41,640 Speaker 1: You die dangerous. Yes, you can't do that, crazy man. 785 00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:44,120 Speaker 2: I don't. I don't. I don't set up here and 786 00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:46,360 Speaker 2: flew up here to New York. We didn't have some surgery. 787 00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:47,160 Speaker 1: You can believe. 788 00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:52,960 Speaker 2: Thou shalt not cove it. 789 00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:53,680 Speaker 7: Cove it? 790 00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:58,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, covet what what that? What did that mean? Break 791 00:44:58,680 --> 00:44:59,600 Speaker 2: that down? For sure? 792 00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:03,840 Speaker 14: You know, just something that belongs to another person, like 793 00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:06,320 Speaker 14: their wife, like their property, like whatever. 794 00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:08,960 Speaker 1: That's stealing again, you want you want what they have? 795 00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:14,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't covered a bunch of stuff. Yeah, no, 796 00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:15,920 Speaker 2: I don't. I don't really do that. 797 00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:18,040 Speaker 1: We give big on that one. 798 00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:23,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that one. He's a big one. 799 00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:26,359 Speaker 1: I gave him the big, the big one. 800 00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:28,520 Speaker 9: I came the big well one. The one on here 801 00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:31,560 Speaker 9: that he has done is honored our mother and fault. 802 00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:34,160 Speaker 9: He has done that one that your days will be like. 803 00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:44,600 Speaker 6: You did that one in nineteen eighty five. I am 804 00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:51,320 Speaker 6: the reason at that time is at the gas pump today. 805 00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:59,200 Speaker 6: But hey, before you pump, I take full responsibility. Still, 806 00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:01,520 Speaker 6: I was on I was on a run. I was 807 00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:04,799 Speaker 6: on an epic run. I hadn't bought gas for three 808 00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:05,680 Speaker 6: months one time. 809 00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:09,560 Speaker 1: Okay, thank you Junior for bringing all this up. 810 00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:13,200 Speaker 14: Coming up next to the nephew and today's frank phone call. 811 00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:17,600 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning 812 00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:24,279 Speaker 1: Show coming up at about four minutes after the hour. 813 00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:27,239 Speaker 14: It's my Strawberry letter for today, and the subject is 814 00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:30,160 Speaker 14: he has to step away to take calls. 815 00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:35,400 Speaker 1: What, oh really? Yeah, who are you calling? Who are 816 00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:36,040 Speaker 1: you talking to? 817 00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:36,480 Speaker 2: Yeah? 818 00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:41,320 Speaker 9: You're not gonna follow me while I oh, yes, diam, 819 00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:43,799 Speaker 9: I won't, diam, what. 820 00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:44,840 Speaker 1: Do you won't? 821 00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:47,719 Speaker 2: And it's good. 822 00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:51,160 Speaker 1: That's not good to do that, that's not good to 823 00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:51,880 Speaker 1: step away. 824 00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:55,120 Speaker 14: You're right, he has to step away to take calls. 825 00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:58,920 Speaker 14: Is the uh strawberry letters subject? And the nephew is 826 00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:01,680 Speaker 14: right here right now today's phone call. What you got 827 00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:02,319 Speaker 14: for is nash? 828 00:47:02,800 --> 00:47:03,560 Speaker 2: This right here, sir? 829 00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:04,520 Speaker 6: Is the ring? 830 00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:05,680 Speaker 8: The ring? 831 00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:08,240 Speaker 2: Yes, the ring. 832 00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:10,040 Speaker 7: Ring. 833 00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:11,200 Speaker 12: Hello. 834 00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:14,320 Speaker 7: Hello, I'm trying to reach a Denise. 835 00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:15,880 Speaker 13: Yes, this is she. 836 00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:18,759 Speaker 7: Hi Denise. My name is Gavin. I'm actually the head 837 00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:19,800 Speaker 7: jeweler here, diamond. 838 00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:21,239 Speaker 12: No, how you doing? 839 00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:23,880 Speaker 7: I'm good. You brought your ring in? What was it 840 00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:26,480 Speaker 7: last week? I actually wasn't here, but you gave it 841 00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:29,560 Speaker 7: to one of my sales persons. And yes you wanted 842 00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:32,160 Speaker 7: to get it resized as well as as get it 843 00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:33,319 Speaker 7: a praise correct. 844 00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:34,920 Speaker 12: Yes, yes, yes, and you don't have to tell him 845 00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:37,359 Speaker 12: I did. That's praise them on my own. 846 00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:42,399 Speaker 7: Okay, Wow, okay, listen, I actually do the resize the ring. 847 00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:44,040 Speaker 7: And first of all, let me be the person to 848 00:47:44,080 --> 00:47:47,640 Speaker 7: say congratulations. When when is your wedding? 849 00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:48,080 Speaker 14: Thank you? 850 00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:49,719 Speaker 12: I'm getting married in September. 851 00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:51,880 Speaker 7: Well, congratulations to thank you. 852 00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:52,520 Speaker 11: Listen. 853 00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:54,520 Speaker 7: I don't know how to tell you this now. As 854 00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:57,359 Speaker 7: far as the appraisers concern, I've looked at your ring 855 00:47:57,520 --> 00:48:02,479 Speaker 7: over and over and this ring is probably worth maybe 856 00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:07,279 Speaker 7: fifty dollars. Excuse me, I've been I've been in this 857 00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:08,520 Speaker 7: business for over twenty years. 858 00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:10,640 Speaker 12: But you know what, I'm confused on what you just said. 859 00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:12,759 Speaker 7: And I understand that what I'm trying to explain to 860 00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:14,719 Speaker 7: you is that I've been in this business for over 861 00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:17,320 Speaker 7: twenty years. I've seen so many different pieces of jewelry. 862 00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:21,040 Speaker 7: And this is something that you that you buy late 863 00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:24,320 Speaker 7: night on an infomercial for nineteen ninety nine. It's this 864 00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:28,800 Speaker 7: is a Cubic Ziconian stone and the gold is not 865 00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:29,520 Speaker 7: real at all. 866 00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:33,040 Speaker 12: It's like, wait, wait, you lost me. You lost me 867 00:48:33,080 --> 00:48:35,480 Speaker 12: as much money as my fandmake, and as much money 868 00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:38,160 Speaker 12: as my father is putting down on his wedding or 869 00:48:38,239 --> 00:48:40,239 Speaker 12: has put down, and you're going I. 870 00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:43,239 Speaker 7: Understand everything you're saying, but Denise, honestly, what. 871 00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:44,600 Speaker 12: I need you to do is hold on. 872 00:48:44,920 --> 00:48:45,239 Speaker 7: Wait wait. 873 00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:48,480 Speaker 12: I need you to hold on because we need to 874 00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:49,240 Speaker 12: call victims. 875 00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:52,960 Speaker 7: Wait. Wait man. First of all, I can't wait wait, wait, wait, 876 00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:53,799 Speaker 7: wait wait. 877 00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:56,759 Speaker 13: Hold. 878 00:48:57,360 --> 00:49:00,520 Speaker 7: Hold on to say okay, will you wait wait wait? 879 00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:02,080 Speaker 7: What are you trying to what are you trying to do? 880 00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:05,320 Speaker 12: Sir? I need I need you to repeat because what 881 00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:07,400 Speaker 12: you just said to me, Okay. 882 00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:09,560 Speaker 7: That's all I need of personal stuff. Man. 883 00:49:10,160 --> 00:49:11,040 Speaker 3: You oh you're in it. 884 00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:13,239 Speaker 12: It's personal now, so I need you to hold on. 885 00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:20,439 Speaker 7: Okay, oh she calling her man. Okay, thank thank thank Hello. 886 00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:21,480 Speaker 6: Victim. 887 00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:24,080 Speaker 12: You listen to this zilla that's on the front. 888 00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:25,920 Speaker 13: I want you to hit it that. He just told me, 889 00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:27,400 Speaker 13: what's what's the problem? 890 00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:28,880 Speaker 12: What you mean, what's the problem. He's gonna tell you 891 00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:31,200 Speaker 12: what the problem is. Gonna hit on, sir, gon't hit on? 892 00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:31,400 Speaker 8: Who? 893 00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:36,320 Speaker 7: Hello, Yeah, who's this? My name is Gavin. I'm from Diamonds. 894 00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:39,719 Speaker 7: And actually your wife, I mean where your fiance rather, 895 00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:43,160 Speaker 7: she brought her ring in to actually be resized, and 896 00:49:43,480 --> 00:49:46,359 Speaker 7: we we also did an appraisal on the ring for her, 897 00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:50,680 Speaker 7: and actually the ring is estimated to be only in 898 00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:52,200 Speaker 7: the work of around fifty dollars. 899 00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:58,680 Speaker 12: Fifty dollars dollars fifty that's what the man said, sir. 900 00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:01,120 Speaker 16: Obviously this some sort of mistake. 901 00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:01,319 Speaker 8: Sir. 902 00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:04,040 Speaker 12: Now what you got to say about that dollars? 903 00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:06,520 Speaker 16: That's that's got to be some kind of mistake. 904 00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:07,440 Speaker 7: So what'd you say Your name was? 905 00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:07,719 Speaker 6: Was, sir? 906 00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:10,359 Speaker 7: My name is Gavin. I work here at Diamonds. I'm 907 00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:12,520 Speaker 7: the here jeweler here. I've been here for twenty years. 908 00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:16,120 Speaker 16: And there's there's no way that that ring is worth 909 00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:18,000 Speaker 16: fifty dollars. I know what I paid for it, So 910 00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:19,680 Speaker 16: obviously there's some sort of mistake. 911 00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:23,040 Speaker 7: There's not a mistake. I've been dealing with jewelry. I've 912 00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:25,680 Speaker 7: seen it. I can pretty much look at a ring. 913 00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:28,040 Speaker 7: But I actually went into detail on this one, as 914 00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:30,279 Speaker 7: I do all of them. And so I promise you 915 00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:34,000 Speaker 7: this is probably maybe between forty and fifty dollars before 916 00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:35,080 Speaker 7: its workers got. 917 00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:37,480 Speaker 16: No, absolutely not. That's that's impossible. 918 00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:38,880 Speaker 12: How is that impossible? 919 00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:39,560 Speaker 13: He's a jeweler. 920 00:50:39,560 --> 00:50:41,720 Speaker 12: You heard it say, you've been doing it for twenty years. 921 00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:44,960 Speaker 12: Is that impossible? I don't understand all the money that 922 00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:47,239 Speaker 12: my daddy putting down on this wedding, and you don't 923 00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:48,400 Speaker 12: pay fifty dollars. 924 00:50:48,719 --> 00:50:50,319 Speaker 7: So you bought a cheap ring? 925 00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:52,520 Speaker 16: Oh no, no, no, I did not buy a teaving. 926 00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:55,680 Speaker 16: This is this is this is obviously some kind of mistake. 927 00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:56,160 Speaker 13: You didn't got it? 928 00:50:56,280 --> 00:50:57,200 Speaker 4: You show got that. 929 00:50:57,320 --> 00:50:59,600 Speaker 12: Right, You show got that right. So what you got 930 00:50:59,640 --> 00:51:02,120 Speaker 12: to say for yourself this, donard? 931 00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:05,000 Speaker 13: Did you cannot believe that that's right? That this is 932 00:51:05,120 --> 00:51:07,760 Speaker 13: obviously some kind of Oh it is a mistake. 933 00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:09,960 Speaker 12: A mistake of thinking I'm gonna get married to the 934 00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:10,880 Speaker 12: man of my dream. 935 00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:13,640 Speaker 7: I do have the engagement ring that was purchased and 936 00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:15,040 Speaker 7: bought for your wife. 937 00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:16,440 Speaker 13: No, I don't think you I don't think you do. 938 00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:18,120 Speaker 16: I don't think you have my ring, because if you 939 00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:19,839 Speaker 16: have my ring, you wouldn't be telling me this worth 940 00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:20,480 Speaker 16: fifty dollars. 941 00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:23,840 Speaker 7: I have the ring that your wife, that your fan 942 00:51:24,080 --> 00:51:25,719 Speaker 7: brought his wife. 943 00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:27,920 Speaker 16: Yet hold on, hold on, the man trying to explain, 944 00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:31,000 Speaker 16: I'm trying to get it about it. Thank you, So 945 00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:33,080 Speaker 16: you have I don't think you have the right ring. 946 00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:35,960 Speaker 7: I have the right ring. And what I'm letting you know, sir, 947 00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:38,520 Speaker 7: is that this is something you buy on an infomercial 948 00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:39,760 Speaker 7: and publishment. 949 00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:42,319 Speaker 16: I have the receipt, I have the certificate. 950 00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:44,879 Speaker 13: So obviously the mistake is on your. 951 00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:46,440 Speaker 7: And where the mistakes out here? 952 00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:46,719 Speaker 9: Sir? 953 00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:49,960 Speaker 7: You bought a piece of jump doing. 954 00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:51,600 Speaker 12: It all these years, How hell he gonna make a 955 00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:52,719 Speaker 12: mistake you. 956 00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:55,000 Speaker 13: Come off telling me I bought a piece of jump. 957 00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:57,120 Speaker 13: I know what I bought. If there's any mistake that's 958 00:51:57,160 --> 00:51:59,840 Speaker 13: been made, it's on your end, where it's not on 959 00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:03,000 Speaker 13: my hand. Here, hold on, don't we don't worry about. 960 00:52:03,080 --> 00:52:03,560 Speaker 9: Don't race. 961 00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:07,279 Speaker 12: You want things that my dad has paid too much 962 00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:09,560 Speaker 12: money for this wedding, So your don't. I'll take fifty 963 00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:12,520 Speaker 12: dollar one dollars. But wait till I tell him this. 964 00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:13,480 Speaker 9: Chill. 965 00:52:13,600 --> 00:52:13,960 Speaker 13: Hold on. 966 00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:16,480 Speaker 7: First of all, I don't appreciate you. I want to 967 00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:18,480 Speaker 7: tell you this. This is a typical case of you're 968 00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:20,879 Speaker 7: trying to pawn it off on us because you bought 969 00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:22,600 Speaker 7: for fifty bucks. 970 00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:25,880 Speaker 12: Two dollars and I get fifty dollars worth of a. 971 00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:27,960 Speaker 13: Ring, Denise, hold on, let me talk to this. Where 972 00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:32,439 Speaker 13: are you gonna get these? I never heard of it. Wait, 973 00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:35,719 Speaker 13: so your wife knows exactly way, and she's the one 974 00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:37,839 Speaker 13: that brought the ring at I tell you what, I'm 975 00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:40,319 Speaker 13: gonna come down there to see the ring that you're 976 00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:42,319 Speaker 13: talking about. If it's not the ring that I gave 977 00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:44,880 Speaker 13: my girl, I'm gonna take seventy six hundred dollars out 978 00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:46,800 Speaker 13: of your because that's what I pay for this. 979 00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:50,000 Speaker 7: So now you want to jump on me because you 980 00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:51,400 Speaker 7: bought your wife a piece of. 981 00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:53,320 Speaker 13: Come on, man, you want to put it on me. 982 00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:56,080 Speaker 13: You you don't tell me what the I'm known what 983 00:52:56,160 --> 00:52:58,160 Speaker 13: the I spent on the ring, and you I don't 984 00:52:58,320 --> 00:53:00,960 Speaker 13: kind of you trying to pull that's I appreciate you 985 00:53:01,080 --> 00:53:03,440 Speaker 13: coming to my household trying to mess my You want. 986 00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:03,960 Speaker 8: To come at me with this? 987 00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:05,879 Speaker 12: I know the ring's gotta be real. 988 00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:08,959 Speaker 7: Know that if I were you, mister Denise, I would 989 00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:11,839 Speaker 7: not marry somebody that I'm coming. 990 00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:13,200 Speaker 16: I'm looking for your punk. 991 00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:13,920 Speaker 7: And you know what. 992 00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:16,440 Speaker 12: You don't get the ring? It ain't right men, you 993 00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:17,200 Speaker 12: won't go at it? 994 00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:18,960 Speaker 7: Can I say one more thing to both of you? 995 00:53:19,120 --> 00:53:21,200 Speaker 16: Are but I'll tell you what if they did, I 996 00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:22,520 Speaker 16: don't want to hear me, and you're gonna have some 997 00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:23,320 Speaker 16: more problem. 998 00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:26,359 Speaker 7: Map you tell me. From the Steve Harby Morning Show, 999 00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:29,879 Speaker 7: y'all just got pranked by Denise's sister. 1000 00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:37,799 Speaker 12: That that's why she ain't got no man to beath. 1001 00:53:39,719 --> 00:53:39,959 Speaker 7: Wow. 1002 00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:46,640 Speaker 13: Wow, that's how times you about to start? Oh wow, I. 1003 00:53:46,800 --> 00:53:49,600 Speaker 12: Think I'm sorry baby, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. 1004 00:53:49,600 --> 00:53:52,319 Speaker 13: I will make with a hard woman's ring. 1005 00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:57,400 Speaker 7: I gotta ask y'all something, what is the baddest radio 1006 00:53:57,640 --> 00:53:58,879 Speaker 7: show in the Wow? 1007 00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:04,400 Speaker 12: Wow? 1008 00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:09,000 Speaker 2: And there you have it. 1009 00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:14,719 Speaker 9: Stupidity rides again, All right, stupidity rides again. Look, I'm 1010 00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:18,840 Speaker 9: stupid this past weekend in Oklahoma, I'm finna be more ignorant. 1011 00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:21,879 Speaker 2: In Charlotte, North Carolina. Comedy is on. Here I Come. 1012 00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:25,919 Speaker 9: That's Friday, Saturday Sunday, the Nephew Coming five show. 1013 00:54:26,160 --> 00:54:31,040 Speaker 2: They bought soulol out Stupidness own the way. You know 1014 00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:34,359 Speaker 2: what I missed. I miss c I Double A Man, 1015 00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:34,880 Speaker 2: That's what. 1016 00:54:34,960 --> 00:54:37,600 Speaker 1: I go to all the time. 1017 00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:44,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, Queen City, Yes, Queen City Man. Double A was 1018 00:54:44,040 --> 00:54:44,640 Speaker 2: off the chain. 1019 00:54:44,760 --> 00:54:46,239 Speaker 1: And they moved a beautiful city. 1020 00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:50,759 Speaker 9: Yes, yes, they moved to Baltimore. The last last time 1021 00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:51,840 Speaker 9: I think it was in Baltimore. 1022 00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:54,960 Speaker 2: They need to bring it back to Charlotte, Tommy, can 1023 00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:55,320 Speaker 2: I take me? 1024 00:54:55,480 --> 00:54:57,200 Speaker 1: Do you know I have not seen a game? 1025 00:55:00,719 --> 00:55:01,720 Speaker 2: Hang it at the Whiskey? 1026 00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:08,839 Speaker 9: All right, Charlotte, Here I come. Laying in the cut 1027 00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:12,560 Speaker 9: is Braill Comedy Club. That's on the thirteenth Sunday night, 1028 00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:14,799 Speaker 9: one night only. And then Florida, I mean, of course 1029 00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:18,560 Speaker 9: Flaida Jacksonville, Florida. That's Duvall Baby, that's Jacksonville, Florida. That 1030 00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:22,560 Speaker 9: is Easter weekend, Saturday, the nineteenth. Tickets on seal. 1031 00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:26,919 Speaker 14: Right now, thank you coming up next, since my strawberry letter, 1032 00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:30,239 Speaker 14: and the subject is he has to step away to 1033 00:55:30,440 --> 00:55:34,200 Speaker 14: take calls. We'll get into that, find out what that's 1034 00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:37,279 Speaker 14: all about. Right after this, I'm gonna make this call. 1035 00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:39,480 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just checking and I'm gonna follow you. 1036 00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:41,560 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, if you want to hear it, that's on 1037 00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:42,279 Speaker 2: you days on the. 1038 00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:47,800 Speaker 3: Hey, it's Carla Ferroll. Kick that old mopping bucket aside. 1039 00:55:47,920 --> 00:55:50,160 Speaker 3: Are you ready for a mop and bucket clean? 1040 00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:51,080 Speaker 1: And half the time? 1041 00:55:51,480 --> 00:55:54,560 Speaker 3: Make the swap to Swifper Power Mop the only one. 1042 00:55:54,600 --> 00:55:57,160 Speaker 3: Cleaning Hero has a built in solution that breaks down 1043 00:55:57,320 --> 00:56:01,080 Speaker 3: dirt and grime like magic. With hundreds of scrubbing strips 1044 00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:04,879 Speaker 3: on the pad, it absorbs sticky messes with ease. Plus, 1045 00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:07,880 Speaker 3: it'll leave your home smelling great for hours after cleaning. 1046 00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:11,520 Speaker 3: Get yours today and mop smarter with the Swiffer Power Mop. 1047 00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:20,200 Speaker 14: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now 1048 00:56:20,360 --> 00:56:23,360 Speaker 14: for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. If you need advice 1049 00:56:23,480 --> 00:56:28,600 Speaker 14: on relationships, on dating, works, sex, parenting, and more, Please 1050 00:56:28,600 --> 00:56:31,600 Speaker 14: submit your Strawberry letter to Steve BARBFM dot com and 1051 00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:34,960 Speaker 14: click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter 1052 00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:38,480 Speaker 14: live on the air, just like we're gonna read this 1053 00:56:38,600 --> 00:56:40,920 Speaker 14: one right here, right now, and you never know. 1054 00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:41,760 Speaker 1: It could be yours. 1055 00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:44,719 Speaker 2: You never know. Buckle up and hold on tight. We 1056 00:56:44,760 --> 00:56:47,920 Speaker 2: got it for you here. It is strawberry letter. 1057 00:56:48,400 --> 00:56:49,040 Speaker 1: Thank you, not for you. 1058 00:56:49,200 --> 00:56:53,520 Speaker 14: Subject he has to step away to take calls. Dear 1059 00:56:53,600 --> 00:56:56,520 Speaker 14: Stephen Shirley. I'm a thirty six year old married woman 1060 00:56:56,680 --> 00:56:59,560 Speaker 14: and my husband is thirty three. We've been married for 1061 00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:02,400 Speaker 14: almost eight years, and he has told me that he 1062 00:57:02,520 --> 00:57:05,680 Speaker 14: regrets getting married so young. I asked him if he 1063 00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:08,080 Speaker 14: needed a break from the marriage, and he said no. 1064 00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:11,279 Speaker 14: He told me we could find ways to make our 1065 00:57:11,360 --> 00:57:14,120 Speaker 14: marriage work. So we planned a trip back to our 1066 00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:18,080 Speaker 14: hometown and it didn't work out as planned. We went 1067 00:57:18,160 --> 00:57:20,959 Speaker 14: for Thanksgiving and there was a big game in town, 1068 00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:24,080 Speaker 14: so we barely saw each other. I was busy with 1069 00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:27,120 Speaker 14: my parents and he was out late every night. He 1070 00:57:27,240 --> 00:57:29,720 Speaker 14: came into my parents' home late, and I noticed on 1071 00:57:29,800 --> 00:57:32,760 Speaker 14: the third night that his cell phone was off while 1072 00:57:32,840 --> 00:57:35,720 Speaker 14: he slept. I asked him about it the next morning 1073 00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:39,120 Speaker 14: and he said it must have died, but it wasn't 1074 00:57:39,200 --> 00:57:41,720 Speaker 14: dead because I turned it on and back off that 1075 00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:45,000 Speaker 14: same night. After we spent the time in our hometown, 1076 00:57:45,520 --> 00:57:50,000 Speaker 14: his attitude changed. He started posting more pictures on Instagram 1077 00:57:50,520 --> 00:57:54,560 Speaker 14: and he was constantly on his phone, scrolling through social 1078 00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:58,000 Speaker 14: media posts. He also started to get phone calls late 1079 00:57:58,120 --> 00:58:01,480 Speaker 14: in the evening, and he would them. I would check 1080 00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:03,880 Speaker 14: the phone when he wasn't around, and I could see 1081 00:58:03,880 --> 00:58:07,720 Speaker 14: that he'd always delete the incoming call log. Then, over 1082 00:58:07,760 --> 00:58:10,600 Speaker 14: the holidays, a few calls came in and he had 1083 00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:13,520 Speaker 14: to step away to take them. It happened when we 1084 00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:16,800 Speaker 14: had company or we were out, so I couldn't question 1085 00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:19,480 Speaker 14: him or cause a scene. On New Year's Eve, we 1086 00:58:19,640 --> 00:58:23,160 Speaker 14: decided to stay in and have champagne at home. He 1087 00:58:23,360 --> 00:58:26,439 Speaker 14: was distant and he played with his phone all night. 1088 00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:31,480 Speaker 14: At the stroke of midnight, his phone rang and he 1089 00:58:31,640 --> 00:58:35,000 Speaker 14: stepped outside to take the call. He told me he 1090 00:58:35,160 --> 00:58:38,560 Speaker 14: was going to see the firewalk. Should I have confronted 1091 00:58:38,640 --> 00:58:41,240 Speaker 14: him at that moment and ruined the beginning of a 1092 00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:43,440 Speaker 14: new year? What's my husband up to? 1093 00:58:44,760 --> 00:58:45,120 Speaker 1: All right? 1094 00:58:45,240 --> 00:58:45,439 Speaker 8: Sis? 1095 00:58:46,120 --> 00:58:47,160 Speaker 5: This is bad? 1096 00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:50,080 Speaker 14: This is really bad. He's really doing too much with 1097 00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:52,240 Speaker 14: all of this. And yes, you should have confronted him 1098 00:58:52,280 --> 00:58:54,840 Speaker 14: at that moment. Who says it would have ruined the 1099 00:58:54,920 --> 00:58:58,680 Speaker 14: beginning of a new year. He's getting phone calls all night, 1100 00:58:58,800 --> 00:59:01,480 Speaker 14: walking away from you to to talk. It's like he 1101 00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:05,320 Speaker 14: hasn't even told whoever it is that he's got a wife. 1102 00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:08,600 Speaker 14: You asked Steve and I what is your husband up to? Well, 1103 00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:10,600 Speaker 14: what do you think he's up to? I mean, what 1104 00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:13,520 Speaker 14: do you think he's doing. I think he's disrespecting you 1105 00:59:13,680 --> 00:59:15,760 Speaker 14: right in your face. I mean, you have to say 1106 00:59:15,800 --> 00:59:19,200 Speaker 14: something right then and there when it's happening. He gets 1107 00:59:19,280 --> 00:59:22,480 Speaker 14: called out where the stuff happens, you know, that's when 1108 00:59:22,560 --> 00:59:25,800 Speaker 14: he gets called out where he's doing it. That's it, period. 1109 00:59:26,360 --> 00:59:28,120 Speaker 14: I get that you don't want to cause a scene, 1110 00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:30,120 Speaker 14: you don't want to let people in your business and 1111 00:59:30,240 --> 00:59:34,560 Speaker 14: all that, But when he's already doing that, he is, 1112 00:59:34,720 --> 00:59:36,800 Speaker 14: he's already doing that when he steps away to take 1113 00:59:36,840 --> 00:59:38,880 Speaker 14: a call. What do you think they're thinking when he 1114 00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:41,880 Speaker 14: does that? The only thing he's trying to hide is 1115 00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:44,560 Speaker 14: who it is. He's definitely not trying to hide the 1116 00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:45,840 Speaker 14: fact that there's someone else. 1117 00:59:45,760 --> 00:59:48,800 Speaker 1: He's talking to. Doesn't he get that this is wrong? 1118 00:59:49,040 --> 00:59:50,400 Speaker 1: Doesn't he understand that? 1119 00:59:51,960 --> 00:59:54,600 Speaker 14: Is that what he meant when he said he could 1120 00:59:54,640 --> 00:59:56,880 Speaker 14: find ways to make the marriage work, or you guys 1121 00:59:56,920 --> 00:59:59,480 Speaker 14: can find ways to make the marriage work. It sounds 1122 00:59:59,520 --> 01:00:02,200 Speaker 14: like he thinks you're stupid because you even asked him 1123 01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:05,320 Speaker 14: before all of this. Did he need a break from 1124 01:00:05,400 --> 01:00:07,200 Speaker 14: the marriage whatever that means? 1125 01:00:07,440 --> 01:00:07,560 Speaker 10: Uh? 1126 01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:08,600 Speaker 2: And he said no. 1127 01:00:09,640 --> 01:00:11,600 Speaker 14: I just think you know, as you can see these 1128 01:00:11,720 --> 01:00:14,440 Speaker 14: calls and your your man or just out of control. 1129 01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:17,520 Speaker 14: You're letting him do whatever he wants to do and 1130 01:00:17,640 --> 01:00:20,360 Speaker 14: you're not saying anything. I mean, I think it's way 1131 01:00:20,440 --> 01:00:22,600 Speaker 14: past time for you to let him have it. You 1132 01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:23,720 Speaker 14: need to shut it down. 1133 01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:26,040 Speaker 1: Start with this. You got a car. 1134 01:00:26,120 --> 01:00:27,120 Speaker 2: I'm sure you have a car. 1135 01:00:27,640 --> 01:00:30,920 Speaker 14: Well, accidentally on purpose run over his phone with your 1136 01:00:31,000 --> 01:00:33,320 Speaker 14: car today, okay. And then when he asked you about it, 1137 01:00:33,640 --> 01:00:36,400 Speaker 14: what he does, Just get a phone call, Just get them. 1138 01:00:36,480 --> 01:00:38,840 Speaker 14: You heard me, You heard me run over his phone 1139 01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:42,000 Speaker 14: with the car, all right, walk away? And what he 1140 01:00:42,080 --> 01:00:43,760 Speaker 14: does when he gets a phone call when he asks you, 1141 01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:45,120 Speaker 14: just walk away, Steve. 1142 01:00:45,560 --> 01:00:48,560 Speaker 6: Let me just address this last comment that crazy made 1143 01:00:48,640 --> 01:00:51,320 Speaker 6: in the New Years his phone. 1144 01:00:53,800 --> 01:00:54,280 Speaker 3: You call him. 1145 01:00:54,640 --> 01:00:58,160 Speaker 1: You're calling me crazy? Kill me mad because that tore 1146 01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:01,600 Speaker 1: run over a pone with your car. 1147 01:01:02,240 --> 01:01:06,680 Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, if you got to run over your man's 1148 01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:13,040 Speaker 6: phone with a car, the problem ain't the phone. Now, 1149 01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:15,800 Speaker 6: let's go to the letter. He has to step away 1150 01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:18,320 Speaker 6: to take calls. Now, this thirty six year old woman 1151 01:01:18,480 --> 01:01:20,400 Speaker 6: is married to a thirty three year old man and 1152 01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:24,640 Speaker 6: they've been married about eight years. He made the announcement 1153 01:01:24,760 --> 01:01:26,919 Speaker 6: that he regrets getting married so young. 1154 01:01:27,360 --> 01:01:28,000 Speaker 2: Did the math. 1155 01:01:28,360 --> 01:01:32,080 Speaker 6: He's gotten married at twenty five, that is young. He 1156 01:01:32,280 --> 01:01:35,440 Speaker 6: has regretted it. He didn't get the full OAHs so 1157 01:01:35,720 --> 01:01:38,920 Speaker 6: in season in he didn't get a lot of stuff 1158 01:01:39,040 --> 01:01:42,760 Speaker 6: out of his system. He didn't get rid of the 1159 01:01:42,920 --> 01:01:46,000 Speaker 6: things he needed to get rid of before he got married. 1160 01:01:46,360 --> 01:01:48,560 Speaker 6: So when he got married, he did like a minister 1161 01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:51,800 Speaker 6: taught me. He found out that the only thing changes 1162 01:01:51,880 --> 01:01:54,160 Speaker 6: the day after you get married is the appearance of 1163 01:01:54,280 --> 01:01:55,920 Speaker 6: your left hand third finger. 1164 01:01:57,600 --> 01:02:00,720 Speaker 2: I asked him if he needed a break from the marriage. 1165 01:02:01,000 --> 01:02:05,760 Speaker 6: He said no, that's because most men don't want to 1166 01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:08,840 Speaker 6: say let's take a break from the marriage, or don't 1167 01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:12,040 Speaker 6: want to get a divorce or admit to defeat. We 1168 01:02:12,280 --> 01:02:15,440 Speaker 6: just find ways around it, he said. He told me 1169 01:02:15,520 --> 01:02:20,480 Speaker 6: he could find ways to make our marriage work. That 1170 01:02:20,720 --> 01:02:24,080 Speaker 6: is the key to this whole letter, because you should 1171 01:02:24,160 --> 01:02:28,040 Speaker 6: have asked what all did he mean? You should have 1172 01:02:28,080 --> 01:02:31,800 Speaker 6: had a thorough discussion about you gonna find ways to 1173 01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:34,840 Speaker 6: make our marriage work. What you thought he said was 1174 01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:38,920 Speaker 6: he was gonna work on the marriage. You interpret it 1175 01:02:39,040 --> 01:02:43,120 Speaker 6: as he said he's gonna work on the marriage. You 1176 01:02:43,320 --> 01:02:50,040 Speaker 6: didn't explore find ways to make our marriage work, even 1177 01:02:50,120 --> 01:02:52,360 Speaker 6: though I regret doing it. 1178 01:02:52,520 --> 01:02:55,560 Speaker 2: So long I come back, I'll explain the rest of it. 1179 01:02:55,880 --> 01:02:58,920 Speaker 14: Hold, I thought, Steve coming up, we'll have part two. 1180 01:02:59,000 --> 01:03:02,840 Speaker 14: If Steve's respond two. He has to step away to 1181 01:03:02,960 --> 01:03:05,800 Speaker 14: take phone calls. That is a subject of today's Strawberry Letter. 1182 01:03:06,040 --> 01:03:08,120 Speaker 14: We'll get back into it at twenty three minutes after 1183 01:03:08,200 --> 01:03:18,120 Speaker 14: the hour right after this you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey, 1184 01:03:18,160 --> 01:03:21,320 Speaker 14: everyone at your girl Shirley's Strawberry Here. April six is 1185 01:03:21,480 --> 01:03:24,800 Speaker 14: National ASA E Bowl Day and Tropical Smoothie Cafe is 1186 01:03:24,920 --> 01:03:28,200 Speaker 14: offering tropic rewards members five dollars off and ASA E 1187 01:03:28,360 --> 01:03:31,240 Speaker 14: Bowl or ASA E Bowl with Nutella. It is a 1188 01:03:31,320 --> 01:03:34,640 Speaker 14: perfect way to treat yourself to a refreshing tropical getaway. 1189 01:03:34,840 --> 01:03:37,440 Speaker 14: Not a member yet, Join the party by downloading the 1190 01:03:37,480 --> 01:03:41,320 Speaker 14: Tropical Smoothie Cafe app and signing up today. Log into 1191 01:03:41,360 --> 01:03:43,800 Speaker 14: your account at April sixth to redeem your offer of 1192 01:03:43,880 --> 01:03:46,800 Speaker 14: five dollars off and ASA E Bowl or ASA E 1193 01:03:46,920 --> 01:03:50,240 Speaker 14: Bowl with Nutella. All right, Steve, come on, let's recap 1194 01:03:50,320 --> 01:03:53,120 Speaker 14: today's Strawberry Letter. The subject is he has to step 1195 01:03:53,280 --> 01:03:55,240 Speaker 14: away to take calls. 1196 01:03:55,680 --> 01:03:59,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, he do. The reason he has to step 1197 01:03:59,120 --> 01:04:03,480 Speaker 6: away is because is no way you need to hear 1198 01:04:03,920 --> 01:04:06,840 Speaker 6: these phone calls. Let's just get with the obvious. Now, 1199 01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:12,120 Speaker 6: you can't get a man at least some credit. At 1200 01:04:12,240 --> 01:04:16,880 Speaker 6: least he's stepping away because let me tell you something. 1201 01:04:16,920 --> 01:04:20,440 Speaker 6: If he don't step away, he just told you in 1202 01:04:20,520 --> 01:04:23,480 Speaker 6: the letter he was gonna find ways to make the 1203 01:04:23,600 --> 01:04:28,560 Speaker 6: marriage work. Well, the way he found you don't need 1204 01:04:28,560 --> 01:04:31,720 Speaker 6: to hear this. Now he got him married at twenty five. 1205 01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:36,040 Speaker 6: My answer, well, see, but but see you don't like 1206 01:04:36,120 --> 01:04:39,720 Speaker 6: mine because my answer to truth. Your answer was filled 1207 01:04:39,800 --> 01:04:41,600 Speaker 6: with speculation. 1208 01:04:41,360 --> 01:04:43,200 Speaker 2: And phones and stuff. 1209 01:04:44,440 --> 01:04:46,800 Speaker 6: Pull the bad phone out and try to run over 1210 01:04:46,800 --> 01:04:50,200 Speaker 6: it with the car. That's them late response. 1211 01:04:50,680 --> 01:04:52,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you guys know how you are about your phone. 1212 01:04:53,200 --> 01:04:55,480 Speaker 6: But let's get to the call of what's wrong. The 1213 01:04:55,600 --> 01:04:58,520 Speaker 6: problem ain't the phone. He get new phone. See him 1214 01:04:58,600 --> 01:05:01,920 Speaker 6: called all his stuff in he can do all. Yeah, 1215 01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:05,080 Speaker 6: he get a new phone by this evening. See now 1216 01:05:05,160 --> 01:05:08,200 Speaker 6: because you acted funky running over cars, he gonna fix 1217 01:05:08,280 --> 01:05:11,600 Speaker 6: y'r because he gonna now he gonna get track phone. See, 1218 01:05:11,800 --> 01:05:14,320 Speaker 6: he gonna buy a phone at Walmart and put some 1219 01:05:14,400 --> 01:05:16,440 Speaker 6: minutes on it and you run over all these you 1220 01:05:16,560 --> 01:05:16,840 Speaker 6: want to. 1221 01:05:18,600 --> 01:05:19,640 Speaker 1: That's for starters. 1222 01:05:20,640 --> 01:05:24,200 Speaker 6: See that's so let's just understand that y'all ain't doing 1223 01:05:24,280 --> 01:05:26,680 Speaker 6: nothing with this phone, and you're gonna mess around and 1224 01:05:26,840 --> 01:05:31,800 Speaker 6: gonna see what track phone do. Ain't no clouds for that, 1225 01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:35,760 Speaker 6: ain't no tracking now. So thirty six year old woman 1226 01:05:35,840 --> 01:05:38,320 Speaker 6: married this boy that was twenty five. He told her 1227 01:05:38,360 --> 01:05:40,560 Speaker 6: one day he regrets getting married so young. I asked 1228 01:05:40,640 --> 01:05:42,120 Speaker 6: him if he needed a break from the marriage. He 1229 01:05:42,200 --> 01:05:44,560 Speaker 6: said no, he told me find ways to make our 1230 01:05:44,640 --> 01:05:47,120 Speaker 6: marriage work. What you should have did, like I told you, 1231 01:05:47,320 --> 01:05:49,800 Speaker 6: was talk to him about what all he meant by that, 1232 01:05:50,280 --> 01:05:52,720 Speaker 6: because what he meant by that, you thought he meant 1233 01:05:52,760 --> 01:05:55,959 Speaker 6: he was gonna work on the marriage. No, he gonna 1234 01:05:56,000 --> 01:05:59,680 Speaker 6: find some ways to make the marriage work for him. 1235 01:06:00,240 --> 01:06:03,240 Speaker 6: So we planned the trip back to our hometown. Oh, 1236 01:06:03,320 --> 01:06:04,120 Speaker 6: you thought that was it. 1237 01:06:04,760 --> 01:06:06,920 Speaker 2: You thought of y'all went back to the hometown. That 1238 01:06:07,080 --> 01:06:11,320 Speaker 2: was gonna fix it. And then she said right away 1239 01:06:11,440 --> 01:06:15,439 Speaker 2: it didn't work out his plan because that wasn't his plan. See, 1240 01:06:15,520 --> 01:06:19,400 Speaker 2: that was y'all's plan. You said, let's go back to 1241 01:06:19,800 --> 01:06:24,640 Speaker 2: where it all started. Well, where had all started. He 1242 01:06:24,800 --> 01:06:28,720 Speaker 2: was twenty four. Where had all started? He was so 1243 01:06:28,880 --> 01:06:29,320 Speaker 2: and oats. 1244 01:06:31,080 --> 01:06:33,080 Speaker 6: So you went to Thanksgiving and that was a big 1245 01:06:33,200 --> 01:06:35,480 Speaker 6: game in town. We badly saw each other. I was 1246 01:06:35,560 --> 01:06:38,240 Speaker 6: busy with my parents. He was laid out every night. 1247 01:06:38,280 --> 01:06:41,160 Speaker 6: He came into my parents home late, and I noticed 1248 01:06:41,200 --> 01:06:45,200 Speaker 6: the third night that his cell phone was off while 1249 01:06:45,400 --> 01:06:48,480 Speaker 6: he slept. I asked him about it the next morning. 1250 01:06:48,760 --> 01:06:52,080 Speaker 6: He said it must have died, or he could have 1251 01:06:52,200 --> 01:06:55,919 Speaker 6: used another excuse and says, I turned my phone off 1252 01:06:56,120 --> 01:07:02,640 Speaker 6: to give it some rest. Because you turn this phone 1253 01:07:02,720 --> 01:07:06,560 Speaker 6: off at night so it can recharge itself at a break. 1254 01:07:06,960 --> 01:07:08,520 Speaker 2: Every now and then you have you know, you. 1255 01:07:08,560 --> 01:07:10,320 Speaker 6: Have to cut your phone off and cut it back 1256 01:07:10,360 --> 01:07:14,840 Speaker 6: off again, cut it and just let it needed a 1257 01:07:14,920 --> 01:07:20,080 Speaker 6: break because I needed to reset it. So anyway, but 1258 01:07:20,240 --> 01:07:22,560 Speaker 6: it wasn't dead because I turned it back on and 1259 01:07:22,680 --> 01:07:25,040 Speaker 6: off the same night. That's why you use the other 1260 01:07:25,200 --> 01:07:27,760 Speaker 6: live fellas go with the I turned it off to 1261 01:07:27,920 --> 01:07:32,160 Speaker 6: reset it. After we spent time in our hometown, his 1262 01:07:32,320 --> 01:07:36,160 Speaker 6: attitude change. He started posting more pictures on Instagram. He 1263 01:07:36,360 --> 01:07:39,680 Speaker 6: was constantly on his phone scrolling through social media posts. 1264 01:07:41,080 --> 01:07:43,120 Speaker 6: Then he started to get phone calls late in the 1265 01:07:43,200 --> 01:07:46,080 Speaker 6: evening he would ignore them, but I would check the 1266 01:07:46,160 --> 01:07:48,080 Speaker 6: phone when he was around. I could see that he'd 1267 01:07:48,120 --> 01:07:50,880 Speaker 6: always delete the incoming. 1268 01:07:50,480 --> 01:07:54,680 Speaker 2: Call log my dog, your dog. 1269 01:07:55,720 --> 01:07:58,760 Speaker 6: Well he do it all the right things to work 1270 01:07:58,840 --> 01:08:02,360 Speaker 6: on his marriage, to save his marriage. 1271 01:08:04,240 --> 01:08:05,000 Speaker 2: No, listen to me. 1272 01:08:05,760 --> 01:08:08,040 Speaker 6: I want you all to hear me, so you learn 1273 01:08:08,120 --> 01:08:10,600 Speaker 6: how to question your man. When he said he was 1274 01:08:10,680 --> 01:08:13,360 Speaker 6: gonna find ways to make our marriage work, you should 1275 01:08:13,400 --> 01:08:16,280 Speaker 6: have asked him exactly what he meant by that, because 1276 01:08:16,320 --> 01:08:18,920 Speaker 6: it showed wasn't a trip back to the hometown that 1277 01:08:19,160 --> 01:08:21,840 Speaker 6: was part of it. But who was at the hometown 1278 01:08:22,000 --> 01:08:26,400 Speaker 6: at the game. It's what you didn't know, that's what. 1279 01:08:26,600 --> 01:08:32,719 Speaker 6: So now he racing call loss. You can't track no calls. 1280 01:08:33,320 --> 01:08:34,559 Speaker 6: He ain't got no names. 1281 01:08:34,680 --> 01:08:35,000 Speaker 2: Listened. 1282 01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:38,920 Speaker 6: Then over the holidays, a few calls came in and 1283 01:08:39,000 --> 01:08:40,640 Speaker 6: he had to step away to take them. And it 1284 01:08:40,800 --> 01:08:43,400 Speaker 6: happened we had company or when we were out, so 1285 01:08:43,479 --> 01:08:48,200 Speaker 6: I couldn't question him a cause of sin. Well that's 1286 01:08:48,560 --> 01:08:54,400 Speaker 6: where being a little bit to light because most women 1287 01:08:54,560 --> 01:09:00,479 Speaker 6: I know whould have opened up with where you're going? Yeah, yeah, 1288 01:09:00,920 --> 01:09:03,439 Speaker 6: I get well, I will all be outside taking calls. 1289 01:09:04,760 --> 01:09:06,880 Speaker 6: She'll walk out there with you and listen. So I 1290 01:09:06,960 --> 01:09:10,640 Speaker 6: don't know how. On New Year's Eve we decided to 1291 01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:12,360 Speaker 6: stay and have shamp champagne. 1292 01:09:12,479 --> 01:09:14,680 Speaker 2: He was distant. He played with his phone all night. 1293 01:09:14,760 --> 01:09:17,000 Speaker 2: That stroke of midnight, his phone ring and he stepped 1294 01:09:17,040 --> 01:09:18,120 Speaker 2: outside to take the call. 1295 01:09:18,600 --> 01:09:21,120 Speaker 6: He you don't need to hear him wishing her happy news, 1296 01:09:26,840 --> 01:09:29,599 Speaker 6: I love you, I miss you, Happy New Year, wish 1297 01:09:29,680 --> 01:09:30,200 Speaker 6: you was here. 1298 01:09:30,320 --> 01:09:30,640 Speaker 9: All that. 1299 01:09:30,880 --> 01:09:33,160 Speaker 2: He working on staying with you, and this is the 1300 01:09:33,280 --> 01:09:35,840 Speaker 2: only way he can do it. Don't you understand? 1301 01:09:36,320 --> 01:09:39,679 Speaker 6: You should have asked him what I meant when he said, 1302 01:09:39,800 --> 01:09:43,240 Speaker 6: I'm gonna work on making this work, because he's doing 1303 01:09:43,320 --> 01:09:46,120 Speaker 6: some shit. I have confronted him at that moment of 1304 01:09:46,280 --> 01:09:49,719 Speaker 6: the New Year. Yes, you should have what's my husband 1305 01:09:49,840 --> 01:09:53,519 Speaker 6: up to? You're stupid for asking the question. 1306 01:09:54,080 --> 01:09:57,559 Speaker 14: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM, 1307 01:09:57,680 --> 01:09:59,920 Speaker 14: on Instagram and on Facebook, and. 1308 01:10:00,040 --> 01:10:01,840 Speaker 1: Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on. 1309 01:10:01,960 --> 01:10:06,000 Speaker 14: Demand coming up in forty six minutes after the hour, 1310 01:10:06,240 --> 01:10:07,720 Speaker 14: it's Junior and Sports Talk. 1311 01:10:08,080 --> 01:10:11,679 Speaker 1: Right, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1312 01:10:15,960 --> 01:10:20,160 Speaker 6: At the Hyundai Getaway Sales event, get deals so right 1313 01:10:20,720 --> 01:10:23,880 Speaker 6: it almost feels wrong. Now it's the best time to 1314 01:10:23,920 --> 01:10:28,639 Speaker 6: get the Hyundai car or suv you've always wonted. Plus, 1315 01:10:29,080 --> 01:10:33,400 Speaker 6: every new Hyundai comes with America's best warranty and three 1316 01:10:33,560 --> 01:10:38,959 Speaker 6: years or thirty six thousand miles of limited complimentary maintenance. 1317 01:10:39,160 --> 01:10:40,920 Speaker 2: Don't think you can get away with all of that? 1318 01:10:41,240 --> 01:10:42,920 Speaker 2: Think again, But don't wait. 1319 01:10:43,080 --> 01:10:45,760 Speaker 9: The Hondai Getaway Sales event is going on now, so 1320 01:10:45,920 --> 01:10:47,559 Speaker 9: visit your local Hondai dealer today. 1321 01:10:47,840 --> 01:10:49,879 Speaker 2: It's a great day for a new Honday. 1322 01:10:51,280 --> 01:10:54,120 Speaker 1: It is time now for junior and sports talk. But 1323 01:10:54,240 --> 01:10:55,200 Speaker 1: you got junior, all. 1324 01:10:55,200 --> 01:10:55,679 Speaker 2: Right, Shirley. 1325 01:10:55,880 --> 01:10:57,720 Speaker 15: I got to say May eleventh, on Mother's Day, I'm 1326 01:10:57,720 --> 01:11:00,120 Speaker 15: gonna be in Jacksonville, Florida. I have to say that 1327 01:11:00,439 --> 01:11:02,479 Speaker 15: because we're gonna be down there, me and Sheryl Underwood 1328 01:11:02,760 --> 01:11:05,479 Speaker 15: during the show over at the Terry Theater. So I'll 1329 01:11:05,520 --> 01:11:07,880 Speaker 15: be down there with in jackson Bill see all down 1330 01:11:08,000 --> 01:11:10,439 Speaker 15: there on mayn eleven on Mother's Day. 1331 01:11:10,560 --> 01:11:12,880 Speaker 1: I'm not saying Mother's Day because it's Mother's Day. I'm 1332 01:11:12,880 --> 01:11:14,040 Speaker 1: just saying because that's the day it's on. 1333 01:11:14,280 --> 01:11:15,200 Speaker 2: It's your mayor lefts. 1334 01:11:15,240 --> 01:11:16,080 Speaker 1: That's only all right. 1335 01:11:16,080 --> 01:11:17,880 Speaker 15: Here we go March mad and this head this six 1336 01:11:17,960 --> 01:11:19,960 Speaker 15: sixteen all the way down to the final four. 1337 01:11:20,360 --> 01:11:22,000 Speaker 2: Did y'all see these games over the weekend. 1338 01:11:22,320 --> 01:11:26,439 Speaker 15: Yeah, yeah, yeah, come on, man, this is the first time, 1339 01:11:26,760 --> 01:11:29,280 Speaker 15: the second time in history that all number ones is 1340 01:11:29,320 --> 01:11:30,040 Speaker 15: in the final four. 1341 01:11:30,160 --> 01:11:32,799 Speaker 2: That would be Florida, that would be Auburn, that would. 1342 01:11:32,600 --> 01:11:34,080 Speaker 1: Be Houston, and that would be Duke. 1343 01:11:34,520 --> 01:11:37,719 Speaker 2: So we have Houston and Duke and boy Florida. 1344 01:11:38,160 --> 01:11:38,400 Speaker 9: Yeah. 1345 01:11:38,600 --> 01:11:41,639 Speaker 6: Man, it was not looking good for Florida. I said, Man, 1346 01:11:41,760 --> 01:11:43,800 Speaker 6: they can't beat boys from Texas too. 1347 01:11:44,120 --> 01:11:47,519 Speaker 15: Yeah, but winning eighty four to seventy nine. Also, man, 1348 01:11:47,600 --> 01:11:49,439 Speaker 15: did you see the Purdue in Houston game? Man, that 1349 01:11:49,560 --> 01:11:51,759 Speaker 15: game we almost went the other way. Man, this sixty 1350 01:11:51,800 --> 01:11:52,360 Speaker 15: two to sixty. 1351 01:11:52,400 --> 01:11:54,519 Speaker 2: They pulled it off, but it was it was I 1352 01:11:54,600 --> 01:11:57,720 Speaker 2: feel like Houston can win this. I can't stand Purdue. 1353 01:11:58,520 --> 01:12:01,760 Speaker 2: What what's wrong with Purdue play? I just don't like 1354 01:12:01,840 --> 01:12:03,440 Speaker 2: the ball. The Bakers. 1355 01:12:05,439 --> 01:12:09,840 Speaker 6: Some big giant white boy am every year, big giants, 1356 01:12:09,880 --> 01:12:11,840 Speaker 6: white boy just killing in the league. 1357 01:12:12,000 --> 01:12:17,120 Speaker 2: Asked them to get draft to run. It just happened. Okay, 1358 01:12:17,400 --> 01:12:20,559 Speaker 2: so player of the year all this, don't even get drafted. 1359 01:12:20,960 --> 01:12:21,680 Speaker 2: They got Zach E. 1360 01:12:21,920 --> 01:12:23,360 Speaker 15: That's the boy you talk about this playing for the 1361 01:12:23,400 --> 01:12:25,400 Speaker 15: grizz the tall white dude. 1362 01:12:25,280 --> 01:12:28,920 Speaker 6: Big z No playing for who I'm not talking about 1363 01:12:28,960 --> 01:12:32,679 Speaker 6: nobody playing for the Grizzlies. I'm talking about Perduse College. 1364 01:12:34,720 --> 01:12:36,439 Speaker 2: All right, So who you got made in the final? 1365 01:12:36,520 --> 01:12:40,439 Speaker 2: Fourth time? Who you got? It's gonna be du Is 1366 01:12:40,479 --> 01:12:40,960 Speaker 2: this Florida? 1367 01:12:41,280 --> 01:12:41,640 Speaker 6: Who were going? 1368 01:12:41,760 --> 01:12:42,320 Speaker 1: Who were going with? 1369 01:12:42,920 --> 01:12:47,840 Speaker 2: So Houston's playing who Auburn? No, dude, was Houston playing? 1370 01:12:48,120 --> 01:12:48,760 Speaker 1: Play Duke? 1371 01:12:49,720 --> 01:12:49,840 Speaker 7: Right? 1372 01:12:50,040 --> 01:12:54,000 Speaker 6: Okay, yeah's gonna be tighter than tight fellowship, I know, 1373 01:12:54,400 --> 01:12:56,120 Speaker 6: I know, Okay, they got. 1374 01:12:58,000 --> 01:13:03,400 Speaker 2: They got a big white boy. Yeah, nice run. You 1375 01:13:03,520 --> 01:13:04,799 Speaker 2: shutting us down already? 1376 01:13:05,200 --> 01:13:05,400 Speaker 8: Yeah? 1377 01:13:06,600 --> 01:13:10,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, Duke man, dog Man, Duke got too much length man. 1378 01:13:10,520 --> 01:13:13,120 Speaker 6: And it ain't Cooper flag Man. It's that brother with 1379 01:13:13,240 --> 01:13:17,840 Speaker 6: that afro. I'm telling you this boy dangerous man. This 1380 01:13:18,080 --> 01:13:19,759 Speaker 6: dude is not getting enough credit. 1381 01:13:20,680 --> 01:13:21,200 Speaker 1: I don't know. 1382 01:13:21,840 --> 01:13:24,000 Speaker 2: I'm scared of the description. 1383 01:13:24,320 --> 01:13:25,639 Speaker 1: It's the afro calling. 1384 01:13:25,760 --> 01:13:28,760 Speaker 2: That's how you describle his as. I don't know their name, 1385 01:13:28,880 --> 01:13:30,439 Speaker 2: you know, until you get in the league. I ain't 1386 01:13:30,439 --> 01:13:35,559 Speaker 2: got to know your name. And the boy afro, he's strong. 1387 01:13:36,439 --> 01:13:38,720 Speaker 2: I can't get past his braids, right, he cut all 1388 01:13:38,760 --> 01:13:42,719 Speaker 2: the hair for the braids. I was going to your helling. 1389 01:13:44,240 --> 01:13:48,800 Speaker 2: We got the shirt talking about it, like if you 1390 01:13:48,920 --> 01:13:50,639 Speaker 2: start corn rowing your hair. 1391 01:13:51,720 --> 01:13:54,599 Speaker 14: On top of the hour a woman needs some advice 1392 01:13:54,680 --> 01:13:58,400 Speaker 14: on dating while her parents, niece, and nephew live with her. 1393 01:13:58,560 --> 01:14:01,160 Speaker 14: We'll get into that right after you're listening to the 1394 01:14:01,280 --> 01:14:08,600 Speaker 14: Steve Harvey Morning Show. This one is from Shay and 1395 01:14:08,760 --> 01:14:11,960 Speaker 14: Sandy Springs. Steve Shay says, I'm forty seven and having 1396 01:14:12,000 --> 01:14:15,479 Speaker 14: a hard time dating. I live with my parents, and 1397 01:14:15,680 --> 01:14:18,960 Speaker 14: my niece and nephew live with me. The last man 1398 01:14:19,080 --> 01:14:21,280 Speaker 14: I met came over for dinner and he said it 1399 01:14:21,360 --> 01:14:23,520 Speaker 14: was a turn off to meet all of my relatives 1400 01:14:23,680 --> 01:14:27,120 Speaker 14: on our second date. A lot comes with me. Am 1401 01:14:27,160 --> 01:14:29,400 Speaker 14: I supposed to hide that part of my life when 1402 01:14:29,439 --> 01:14:32,000 Speaker 14: I meet men? What am I doing wrong? 1403 01:14:33,280 --> 01:14:38,400 Speaker 6: You too much? You are too much? Second date, we 1404 01:14:38,520 --> 01:14:41,680 Speaker 6: got met all these people? Who is these people? You 1405 01:14:41,720 --> 01:14:46,000 Speaker 6: don't even know you, but see the man trying to 1406 01:14:46,080 --> 01:14:50,000 Speaker 6: meet you, get to know you. We can start dealing 1407 01:14:50,080 --> 01:14:52,200 Speaker 6: with what come with you after we like you, but 1408 01:14:52,320 --> 01:14:56,080 Speaker 6: you can have to struggle because you introducing him too much. 1409 01:14:56,160 --> 01:14:57,120 Speaker 2: He looking at too much. 1410 01:14:57,240 --> 01:14:58,040 Speaker 1: He don't want all that. 1411 01:14:58,760 --> 01:15:02,360 Speaker 6: So until you learn some some type of discernment and 1412 01:15:02,560 --> 01:15:04,920 Speaker 6: some you gotta ease a man into this. How many 1413 01:15:04,960 --> 01:15:06,000 Speaker 6: people live in her house? 1414 01:15:06,360 --> 01:15:08,360 Speaker 14: That's what I was, Well, she lives with her parents, 1415 01:15:08,600 --> 01:15:12,080 Speaker 14: and her niece and nephew lived with her too as well. 1416 01:15:12,840 --> 01:15:14,200 Speaker 2: How is she forty seven? 1417 01:15:14,360 --> 01:15:15,360 Speaker 1: She's forty seven? 1418 01:15:16,720 --> 01:15:18,800 Speaker 2: Over and meet your mama and them right now? 1419 01:15:20,600 --> 01:15:23,160 Speaker 1: Well one should when's a good time you forty seven? 1420 01:15:23,439 --> 01:15:25,920 Speaker 2: He walking house? Who is these old people in there? 1421 01:15:27,200 --> 01:15:31,240 Speaker 6: Come on in here, come on in, man, boy, My 1422 01:15:31,400 --> 01:15:38,040 Speaker 6: house smell different, you know, old people house different, whole 1423 01:15:38,200 --> 01:15:39,960 Speaker 6: house smell like this prescription. 1424 01:15:42,760 --> 01:15:44,880 Speaker 1: So when's a good time? When should she bring him 1425 01:15:45,040 --> 01:15:46,160 Speaker 1: to her house? After? 1426 01:15:46,280 --> 01:15:46,320 Speaker 7: What? 1427 01:15:46,640 --> 01:15:49,680 Speaker 6: Dog she need to move? Why she's still staying at 1428 01:15:49,720 --> 01:15:52,000 Speaker 6: this house with all the people in it. 1429 01:15:52,439 --> 01:15:55,320 Speaker 2: We don't know that we got room in him? 1430 01:15:56,680 --> 01:15:57,799 Speaker 1: Should have dad. 1431 01:16:00,000 --> 01:16:02,519 Speaker 6: Abody coming over your house, sitting up watching westerns and 1432 01:16:02,560 --> 01:16:03,559 Speaker 6: stuff with your daddy. 1433 01:16:04,560 --> 01:16:07,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, that bonanza, that bananza, come on late on is e. 1434 01:16:09,840 --> 01:16:10,000 Speaker 6: Boy? 1435 01:16:10,080 --> 01:16:10,840 Speaker 2: That rightful man? 1436 01:16:11,000 --> 01:16:14,960 Speaker 6: Who boy, he's shooting hell out? That good to watch 1437 01:16:15,000 --> 01:16:17,120 Speaker 6: his Here did my favorite episode? I've seen you about 1438 01:16:17,120 --> 01:16:18,960 Speaker 6: six times, Luca McCain. 1439 01:16:20,160 --> 01:16:26,280 Speaker 14: Yeah, wow, all right, we do have time for another one. 1440 01:16:27,439 --> 01:16:30,360 Speaker 14: This one's from Wan in Gulf Shores. Wan says, I'm 1441 01:16:30,360 --> 01:16:32,519 Speaker 14: a sixty one year old bachelor and I have three 1442 01:16:32,800 --> 01:16:37,360 Speaker 14: girlfriends that know about each other. It's society's influence and 1443 01:16:37,600 --> 01:16:41,120 Speaker 14: people like you, guys that think polyamory is a bad 1444 01:16:41,240 --> 01:16:44,760 Speaker 14: thing that caused many women to want more from me? 1445 01:16:45,280 --> 01:16:47,600 Speaker 1: Why can't you just say it's not for you and 1446 01:16:47,800 --> 01:16:49,920 Speaker 1: drop it? So he's mad at he? 1447 01:16:50,640 --> 01:16:51,880 Speaker 2: Hey dog, why are you right us? 1448 01:16:52,160 --> 01:16:52,400 Speaker 9: Yeah? 1449 01:16:52,720 --> 01:16:53,599 Speaker 1: He's mad at us? 1450 01:16:54,120 --> 01:16:55,080 Speaker 7: What you what you up? 1451 01:16:55,160 --> 01:16:55,320 Speaker 8: If? 1452 01:16:55,600 --> 01:16:55,800 Speaker 2: If? 1453 01:16:56,040 --> 01:16:56,080 Speaker 8: What? 1454 01:16:56,640 --> 01:17:01,960 Speaker 2: Brah bro? If that's your life, only live it? Sit 1455 01:17:02,080 --> 01:17:03,200 Speaker 2: up here with all this mess. 1456 01:17:03,400 --> 01:17:06,759 Speaker 6: Sixty some years old, three of y'all, all y'all nobody 1457 01:17:06,800 --> 01:17:10,880 Speaker 6: each other? A sixty year old bachelor, six year old 1458 01:17:11,040 --> 01:17:13,800 Speaker 6: food broud You don't bruh, you old. 1459 01:17:13,840 --> 01:17:16,880 Speaker 2: I'm telling you, I'm telling you better get somebody you 1460 01:17:16,920 --> 01:17:19,120 Speaker 2: can count on. See listen to me. Bro. 1461 01:17:20,520 --> 01:17:23,400 Speaker 6: If you have the ability to write in and tell 1462 01:17:23,640 --> 01:17:27,720 Speaker 6: us this is for you and you describe your lifestyle, 1463 01:17:28,600 --> 01:17:28,920 Speaker 6: do not. 1464 01:17:29,200 --> 01:17:32,439 Speaker 2: We have the same right to say this ain't us 1465 01:17:32,840 --> 01:17:36,160 Speaker 2: and this ain't our lifestyle. Now. If you don't want 1466 01:17:36,280 --> 01:17:38,840 Speaker 2: to hear what we think, quit telling us what the 1467 01:17:38,920 --> 01:17:39,720 Speaker 2: hell you think? 1468 01:17:40,120 --> 01:17:41,360 Speaker 1: He doesn't want us to do it. 1469 01:17:42,520 --> 01:17:43,840 Speaker 2: We'll talk about it at all. 1470 01:17:44,680 --> 01:17:49,920 Speaker 3: I don't Junior and Tommy, Shirley, Steve, does everybody do 1471 01:17:50,040 --> 01:17:50,799 Speaker 3: we all agree? 1472 01:17:52,200 --> 01:17:57,880 Speaker 1: I mean I think we've talked about yeah, the fact that, yeah, that's. 1473 01:17:57,720 --> 01:17:58,240 Speaker 2: What I'm saying. 1474 01:17:58,400 --> 01:18:03,160 Speaker 9: See, Tommy, I got three women and it's y'all, and 1475 01:18:03,320 --> 01:18:05,840 Speaker 9: I can't go a day. Y'all get on my nerves. 1476 01:18:05,880 --> 01:18:09,760 Speaker 2: So no, no, I can't. I can't do it. 1477 01:18:10,400 --> 01:18:11,200 Speaker 1: I can't do it. 1478 01:18:11,680 --> 01:18:14,960 Speaker 3: Okay, So we're all on board. We don't care about 1479 01:18:15,000 --> 01:18:16,120 Speaker 3: your nerves anyway. 1480 01:18:17,080 --> 01:18:17,479 Speaker 1: Whatever. 1481 01:18:18,560 --> 01:18:20,479 Speaker 14: So he's saying, why can't we just say it's not 1482 01:18:20,640 --> 01:18:22,360 Speaker 14: for us to just drop it. Why do we have 1483 01:18:22,439 --> 01:18:23,400 Speaker 14: to talk about. 1484 01:18:23,560 --> 01:18:25,559 Speaker 15: A lot of medicine beings involved in this thing. 1485 01:18:25,880 --> 01:18:29,320 Speaker 2: Everybody take medication, that's for sure, y'all. 1486 01:18:29,600 --> 01:18:32,080 Speaker 6: The alchemist, I get sick because I'm telling you in 1487 01:18:32,160 --> 01:18:34,519 Speaker 6: the in the heat of passion, and you get through 1488 01:18:34,720 --> 01:18:36,360 Speaker 6: your eyes be blurred stuff. 1489 01:18:36,360 --> 01:18:38,439 Speaker 2: You can't read them. Prescription people, you will take wrong 1490 01:18:38,600 --> 01:18:43,880 Speaker 2: mess the medicine. The side effect was paralization. 1491 01:18:44,200 --> 01:18:49,599 Speaker 1: And after this you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1492 01:18:54,000 --> 01:18:56,639 Speaker 14: After a thirty year study involving more than one hundred 1493 01:18:56,760 --> 01:19:01,280 Speaker 14: thousand men and women and eight different diets, researchers have 1494 01:19:01,560 --> 01:19:06,800 Speaker 14: named the Harvard diet the healthiest. This diet, known as 1495 01:19:06,920 --> 01:19:12,360 Speaker 14: the Alternative Healthy Eating Index or AHEI, was created by 1496 01:19:12,439 --> 01:19:17,720 Speaker 14: Harvard researchers, and is rich in fruits, veggies, whole grains, nuts, lagomes, 1497 01:19:17,840 --> 01:19:21,599 Speaker 14: and healthy fat, while low and red and processed meats, 1498 01:19:21,920 --> 01:19:26,360 Speaker 14: sugary drinks, sodium, and refined grains. People who follow the 1499 01:19:26,520 --> 01:19:30,599 Speaker 14: ah Ei diet in middle age had an eighty six 1500 01:19:30,720 --> 01:19:35,360 Speaker 14: percent better chance of aging healthier and by seventy and 1501 01:19:35,479 --> 01:19:38,200 Speaker 14: were two point two times more likely to be healthy 1502 01:19:38,280 --> 01:19:42,000 Speaker 14: at seventy five. Researchers say, what's wrong. Researchers say this 1503 01:19:42,200 --> 01:19:45,960 Speaker 14: diet is the ultimate recipe for living independently and enjoying 1504 01:19:46,040 --> 01:19:53,240 Speaker 14: a high quality of life as you age. The boy heard, yeah, exactly. 1505 01:19:53,520 --> 01:19:56,920 Speaker 14: Lots of fruits and veggies, no process meats, all of them. 1506 01:19:57,040 --> 01:19:57,639 Speaker 9: We heard. 1507 01:20:00,160 --> 01:20:01,680 Speaker 2: Name and call it the Harvard dot. 1508 01:20:02,080 --> 01:20:02,200 Speaker 9: Uh. 1509 01:20:02,640 --> 01:20:05,639 Speaker 1: The alternative healthy eating is eat lots of nuts. 1510 01:20:05,720 --> 01:20:10,880 Speaker 6: Now you allergic to peanuts? Go ahead, face swoll up, 1511 01:20:10,920 --> 01:20:12,360 Speaker 6: looking like a big chipmunk. 1512 01:20:13,040 --> 01:20:17,800 Speaker 15: I can't figure out what, but I'm seventy five, and 1513 01:20:17,880 --> 01:20:19,160 Speaker 15: now you need an empty pen. 1514 01:20:20,960 --> 01:20:25,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, leave the red meats alone, and saying no sugary drinks. Yeah, 1515 01:20:25,840 --> 01:20:26,679 Speaker 1: can we eat some chicken? 1516 01:20:27,040 --> 01:20:30,679 Speaker 14: Well, it just says don't do the red and processing meat. 1517 01:20:30,920 --> 01:20:34,280 Speaker 14: All right, Thank you guys. Coming up next, we'll play 1518 01:20:34,320 --> 01:20:37,320 Speaker 14: around it. 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Rocket dot com the new home for 1527 01:21:08,840 --> 01:21:10,080 Speaker 15: all things home ownership. 1528 01:21:10,240 --> 01:21:11,880 Speaker 2: Check it out today Rocket. 1529 01:21:11,840 --> 01:21:15,519 Speaker 1: Rocket on the dream. It's time now, guys for a rounded. 1530 01:21:15,560 --> 01:21:17,840 Speaker 1: Would you rather? Would you rather go water skiing on 1531 01:21:17,960 --> 01:21:21,240 Speaker 1: a lake or go snowboarding on a mountain? Which one? 1532 01:21:21,680 --> 01:21:24,840 Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm not doing no mountains. Yeah, I'm gonna 1533 01:21:24,840 --> 01:21:27,080 Speaker 2: have to go on and go soon with that mountain. 1534 01:21:27,680 --> 01:21:29,320 Speaker 1: Ye snowboarding on the mountain for you? 1535 01:21:30,080 --> 01:21:33,880 Speaker 2: The mountain, Yeah, I have to. I can't fall in 1536 01:21:33,960 --> 01:21:38,960 Speaker 2: that damn water and fall in the water junior. Definitely. 1537 01:21:39,360 --> 01:21:40,920 Speaker 1: The last time I was in the mountain. 1538 01:21:40,640 --> 01:21:41,160 Speaker 2: What happened to me? 1539 01:21:42,000 --> 01:21:42,200 Speaker 1: Oh? 1540 01:21:42,439 --> 01:21:46,640 Speaker 15: Yeah, you have to go to Yeah, I'm gonna fit 1541 01:21:46,680 --> 01:21:48,360 Speaker 15: of y'all keep asking me about these mountains. 1542 01:21:50,320 --> 01:21:51,720 Speaker 1: Because the answer is no. 1543 01:21:52,680 --> 01:21:54,720 Speaker 2: Well have you ever since? We being honest, Junior, I 1544 01:21:54,800 --> 01:22:00,320 Speaker 2: think you stupid for going all right too far? Made 1545 01:22:00,360 --> 01:22:02,080 Speaker 2: you go up there and you knew it gonna be cold. 1546 01:22:02,240 --> 01:22:10,280 Speaker 6: I know you ain't no winter. It's January and you 1547 01:22:10,400 --> 01:22:14,840 Speaker 6: went over in the mountain. What you have that got 1548 01:22:14,880 --> 01:22:16,760 Speaker 6: your little T shirt on? What you thought you was 1549 01:22:16,800 --> 01:22:17,479 Speaker 6: fitting to go do? 1550 01:22:18,840 --> 01:22:23,320 Speaker 2: And it's January. But it was January, Shirley, I know. 1551 01:22:23,479 --> 01:22:24,559 Speaker 1: But he's over it now. 1552 01:22:24,840 --> 01:22:27,920 Speaker 3: He made a mistake, he made a bad decision. He 1553 01:22:28,080 --> 01:22:28,720 Speaker 3: learned from it. 1554 01:22:28,840 --> 01:22:29,320 Speaker 1: He's good. 1555 01:22:29,760 --> 01:22:30,160 Speaker 2: He's good. 1556 01:22:30,640 --> 01:22:35,639 Speaker 9: Place you're not gonna see in life, alast. It's something 1557 01:22:35,720 --> 01:22:40,360 Speaker 9: you're not gonna see this time. Love and South Pole. 1558 01:22:40,320 --> 01:22:43,719 Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, and you ain't fit to see Tennessee again 1559 01:22:43,880 --> 01:22:45,440 Speaker 6: either in Minnesota. 1560 01:22:45,880 --> 01:22:47,240 Speaker 2: Put that on the list quick. 1561 01:22:47,400 --> 01:22:49,080 Speaker 1: Or brush your teeth with your finger. 1562 01:22:50,160 --> 01:22:55,400 Speaker 6: I don't a washcloth. Hell yeah, okay, but I'm right 1563 01:22:55,439 --> 01:22:57,240 Speaker 6: now they're brushing your mouth with your finger. 1564 01:22:57,280 --> 01:22:58,240 Speaker 2: You must not do that. 1565 01:23:00,040 --> 01:23:01,240 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna help your breath. 1566 01:23:01,400 --> 01:23:02,920 Speaker 6: I'm gonna tell you right now you can take that 1567 01:23:03,120 --> 01:23:06,240 Speaker 6: same funky washcloth and wash out your mouth with it. 1568 01:23:07,320 --> 01:23:10,960 Speaker 6: That fangle, that fangle that ain't getting. 1569 01:23:10,680 --> 01:23:14,280 Speaker 1: The breels on it, all right? 1570 01:23:16,200 --> 01:23:16,519 Speaker 8: All right? 1571 01:23:16,520 --> 01:23:21,200 Speaker 14: Would you rather spaghetti and meatballs or meat loaf? Spaghetti 1572 01:23:21,240 --> 01:23:25,840 Speaker 14: and meatballs or meat loaf? Spaghetti and meatballs or meat loaf. 1573 01:23:26,240 --> 01:23:29,040 Speaker 6: It's gotta be a man, I don't know. It's a 1574 01:23:29,120 --> 01:23:34,280 Speaker 6: meat loaf made out of harbor, made from harbor, all right. 1575 01:23:34,320 --> 01:23:37,040 Speaker 6: I tell you what I've learned. Turkey meats turkey meat 1576 01:23:37,040 --> 01:23:42,760 Speaker 6: loaf is a waste your time. Really, it takes a 1577 01:23:42,800 --> 01:23:45,040 Speaker 6: lot of seat. Well, surely you like a lot of 1578 01:23:45,080 --> 01:23:46,320 Speaker 6: stuff because you can't cook. 1579 01:23:48,040 --> 01:23:50,280 Speaker 1: If I like good food, though, it's gotta be good, 1580 01:23:52,080 --> 01:23:54,240 Speaker 1: all right, Would you rather carry him? 1581 01:23:55,880 --> 01:23:58,080 Speaker 2: You got your face on door? Dare sure? They say 1582 01:23:58,160 --> 01:24:02,200 Speaker 2: you learn folks? Person are doing that? You get all your. 1583 01:24:05,760 --> 01:24:09,719 Speaker 14: And proud of And that's my side. Hustle, that's my side, hustle, nephew. 1584 01:24:11,160 --> 01:24:13,639 Speaker 14: All right, all right, that's today's roundup, would you rather? 1585 01:24:13,720 --> 01:24:14,920 Speaker 1: Guys? Thank you so much? 1586 01:24:15,040 --> 01:24:16,840 Speaker 14: Coming up next to it is our last break of 1587 01:24:16,920 --> 01:24:19,280 Speaker 14: the day, and we will close out the show with 1588 01:24:19,400 --> 01:24:21,240 Speaker 14: the one and only Steve. 1589 01:24:21,080 --> 01:24:22,400 Speaker 1: Harvey right after this. 1590 01:24:23,720 --> 01:24:25,880 Speaker 2: Yo, this is Jamie Foxx, this is Kim Whitley. 1591 01:24:25,920 --> 01:24:27,479 Speaker 6: You already know what it is, man, your man chie, 1592 01:24:27,520 --> 01:24:29,599 Speaker 6: go bean, and you are now listening to the Steve 1593 01:24:29,800 --> 01:24:30,920 Speaker 6: Horvey Morning Show. 1594 01:24:31,160 --> 01:24:33,599 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1595 01:24:38,760 --> 01:24:41,880 Speaker 6: This is Steve Harvey Martin show Man. Men that wear 1596 01:24:42,080 --> 01:24:47,760 Speaker 6: throngs don't pay money back. Wearing men do not pay 1597 01:24:48,000 --> 01:24:48,719 Speaker 6: money back. 1598 01:24:49,200 --> 01:24:50,280 Speaker 2: I don't know. It's just. 1599 01:24:51,840 --> 01:24:54,960 Speaker 6: I don't know where the rule came from anybody I 1600 01:24:55,120 --> 01:24:58,200 Speaker 6: know where. Throne don't pay money back. And men who 1601 01:24:58,320 --> 01:25:02,439 Speaker 6: wear thrones that think they sexies, it's usually not thong 1602 01:25:02,880 --> 01:25:05,919 Speaker 6: and some don't even go in the same. 1603 01:25:07,960 --> 01:25:11,800 Speaker 2: Can have a thong on and all they see is 1604 01:25:11,840 --> 01:25:13,760 Speaker 2: the love v in the front. 1605 01:25:15,600 --> 01:25:21,280 Speaker 6: Coming up right up. At the Hyundai Getaway Sales event, 1606 01:25:21,840 --> 01:25:26,120 Speaker 6: get deals so right it almost feels wrong. Now it's 1607 01:25:26,200 --> 01:25:29,439 Speaker 6: the best time to get the Hyundai car or suv 1608 01:25:29,800 --> 01:25:34,880 Speaker 6: you've always wonted. Plus, every new Hondai comes with America's 1609 01:25:34,960 --> 01:25:39,479 Speaker 6: best warranty and three years or thirty six thousand miles 1610 01:25:39,560 --> 01:25:42,080 Speaker 6: of limited complimentary maintenance. 1611 01:25:42,280 --> 01:25:44,000 Speaker 2: Don't think you can get away with all of that? 1612 01:25:44,320 --> 01:25:46,000 Speaker 2: Think again, But don't wait. 1613 01:25:46,160 --> 01:25:48,840 Speaker 9: The Hondai Getaway Sales Event is going on now, so 1614 01:25:49,040 --> 01:25:50,639 Speaker 9: visit your local Hondai dealer today. 1615 01:25:50,920 --> 01:25:52,960 Speaker 2: It's a great day for a new Honday. 1616 01:25:53,880 --> 01:25:55,880 Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we are on this Monday, our 1617 01:25:56,000 --> 01:25:57,679 Speaker 1: last break of the day. 1618 01:26:00,280 --> 01:26:01,640 Speaker 2: You know what I want to do. I wanted to 1619 01:26:01,760 --> 01:26:05,760 Speaker 2: talk to you all about about you know. 1620 01:26:06,280 --> 01:26:09,280 Speaker 6: You know, I try to share principles of success whenever 1621 01:26:09,320 --> 01:26:12,880 Speaker 6: I can with people. Oh, I'm having a discussion. I'm 1622 01:26:12,920 --> 01:26:15,240 Speaker 6: gonna have to pull one of my young employees to 1623 01:26:15,360 --> 01:26:17,519 Speaker 6: the side. I kind of had this conversation with him 1624 01:26:17,560 --> 01:26:20,320 Speaker 6: in New York the other day because I see an 1625 01:26:20,360 --> 01:26:27,880 Speaker 6: adjustment that needs to be made. And sometimes, man, when 1626 01:26:27,880 --> 01:26:31,320 Speaker 6: I'm sharing this information, it's not because I know everything. 1627 01:26:32,160 --> 01:26:34,360 Speaker 6: It's simply because I've just been through a lot. 1628 01:26:34,640 --> 01:26:34,800 Speaker 8: You know. 1629 01:26:34,880 --> 01:26:38,760 Speaker 6: I've seen a lot of endings to a lot of 1630 01:26:38,880 --> 01:26:42,799 Speaker 6: different movies I've seen. I've seen a lot of shows. 1631 01:26:42,880 --> 01:26:46,280 Speaker 6: I've met a lot of people. Very rarely do I 1632 01:26:46,439 --> 01:26:48,920 Speaker 6: meet a person that I've never met before. You know 1633 01:26:48,960 --> 01:26:50,920 Speaker 6: what I mean in terms of the type of person. 1634 01:26:51,880 --> 01:26:54,760 Speaker 6: You know, I've met all types of people, and when 1635 01:26:54,800 --> 01:26:58,559 Speaker 6: I meet somebody that I've never met before, it's really 1636 01:26:58,680 --> 01:27:02,240 Speaker 6: kind of shocking to me, you know, because I've met 1637 01:27:02,439 --> 01:27:05,080 Speaker 6: all types. Now I'm not saying we friends anything, but 1638 01:27:05,200 --> 01:27:08,680 Speaker 6: because I am famous, I meet more people than the 1639 01:27:08,680 --> 01:27:14,080 Speaker 6: average person does, right, And so when I'm talking to people, 1640 01:27:14,160 --> 01:27:16,680 Speaker 6: and I'm trying to share information. I also have to 1641 01:27:16,760 --> 01:27:19,479 Speaker 6: understand that I'm being listened to by all types of people. 1642 01:27:19,800 --> 01:27:22,920 Speaker 6: Everybody listened to me is not receptive. Everybody that listens 1643 01:27:22,960 --> 01:27:25,560 Speaker 6: to me is not positive. Everybody that listens to me 1644 01:27:25,720 --> 01:27:28,639 Speaker 6: is not open. Everybody that listened to me don't want 1645 01:27:28,640 --> 01:27:30,479 Speaker 6: to hear what I got to say. I understand that. 1646 01:27:31,320 --> 01:27:34,599 Speaker 6: So with that in mind, I always understand that I'm 1647 01:27:34,640 --> 01:27:36,000 Speaker 6: not talking to everybody. 1648 01:27:37,680 --> 01:27:38,080 Speaker 8: You know, I was. 1649 01:27:38,320 --> 01:27:40,880 Speaker 6: I was talking on off off off camera. Well, I'm 1650 01:27:40,920 --> 01:27:43,360 Speaker 6: never off camera, I found out because they tape everything 1651 01:27:43,439 --> 01:27:45,760 Speaker 6: I do. But I was on a commercial break and 1652 01:27:45,840 --> 01:27:48,040 Speaker 6: I was talking about God and a woman stood up 1653 01:27:48,040 --> 01:27:51,519 Speaker 6: and saying, well, I'm an atheist. I said, okay, Well 1654 01:27:51,600 --> 01:27:53,439 Speaker 6: that ain't got nothing to do with what I'm saying, though. 1655 01:27:54,080 --> 01:27:56,360 Speaker 6: She says, yeah, but I'm an atheist and I'm in 1656 01:27:56,520 --> 01:27:59,000 Speaker 6: here and I don't believe in God. Okay, then I 1657 01:27:59,040 --> 01:28:02,599 Speaker 6: ain't talking to you, but I'm not gonna stop saying 1658 01:28:02,720 --> 01:28:05,280 Speaker 6: what I have to say because there are a lot 1659 01:28:05,320 --> 01:28:07,240 Speaker 6: of people in here who believe in God, and I'm 1660 01:28:07,320 --> 01:28:09,880 Speaker 6: just giving you a thought that I have. And she 1661 01:28:10,080 --> 01:28:14,760 Speaker 6: was insistent I'm an atheist. Be an atheist, do you, 1662 01:28:15,160 --> 01:28:17,800 Speaker 6: but don't. I ain't got to accept your belief that 1663 01:28:17,880 --> 01:28:19,760 Speaker 6: there is no God, no more than you have to 1664 01:28:19,800 --> 01:28:23,559 Speaker 6: accept mine that there is, you know, And her argument 1665 01:28:23,600 --> 01:28:25,080 Speaker 6: got crazy? But what if you get there and you 1666 01:28:25,200 --> 01:28:28,200 Speaker 6: find out it ain't no god? Man, the bigger problem 1667 01:28:28,240 --> 01:28:29,760 Speaker 6: is gonna be is if you get there you find 1668 01:28:29,800 --> 01:28:32,280 Speaker 6: out it is one. That's gonna be the bigger problem. 1669 01:28:32,680 --> 01:28:35,040 Speaker 6: If you know, if I get to the end, I 1670 01:28:35,120 --> 01:28:36,800 Speaker 6: find out it ain't no God, and I live the 1671 01:28:36,880 --> 01:28:39,320 Speaker 6: best I could and had a conscience and tried to 1672 01:28:39,360 --> 01:28:42,000 Speaker 6: treat people writing, try to go buy some rules and 1673 01:28:42,040 --> 01:28:44,120 Speaker 6: stuff and if it ain't no God, which it is, but. 1674 01:28:44,400 --> 01:28:48,400 Speaker 2: Okay, they're cool. I okay, whoo ooh, joke on me. 1675 01:28:48,880 --> 01:28:52,320 Speaker 6: But now your problem is if you get there and 1676 01:28:52,439 --> 01:28:54,720 Speaker 6: it is a god and you've been talking to this 1677 01:28:54,800 --> 01:28:56,920 Speaker 6: whole life like it ain't one, been doing like you 1678 01:28:57,000 --> 01:28:59,080 Speaker 6: want to. So I don't really have time for that. 1679 01:28:59,439 --> 01:29:03,720 Speaker 6: But I was talking talking about this subject of just 1680 01:29:03,920 --> 01:29:06,600 Speaker 6: talking to people who I know. Everybody's not listening to me, 1681 01:29:06,720 --> 01:29:08,960 Speaker 6: So what I'm about to tell you is not going 1682 01:29:09,000 --> 01:29:10,479 Speaker 6: to affect everybody the same way. 1683 01:29:12,240 --> 01:29:12,720 Speaker 2: Listen to this. 1684 01:29:14,960 --> 01:29:18,200 Speaker 6: I'm trying to talk to this young guy, and and 1685 01:29:18,320 --> 01:29:20,200 Speaker 6: people that work for me to get them to understand 1686 01:29:20,240 --> 01:29:22,280 Speaker 6: because they always ask me, Steve, why do you do 1687 01:29:22,439 --> 01:29:22,880 Speaker 6: so much? 1688 01:29:22,960 --> 01:29:25,720 Speaker 2: And I do a lot of stuff you don't. I 1689 01:29:25,760 --> 01:29:27,960 Speaker 2: don't get paid for it. But see, if you're not. 1690 01:29:28,120 --> 01:29:31,200 Speaker 6: Willing to do more than what you're being paid for, 1691 01:29:31,960 --> 01:29:34,800 Speaker 6: then you'll never be paid more for what you're doing. 1692 01:29:36,760 --> 01:29:39,840 Speaker 6: If you're not willing to do more than what you're 1693 01:29:39,960 --> 01:29:43,519 Speaker 6: paid for, then you will never be paid more for 1694 01:29:43,680 --> 01:29:49,240 Speaker 6: what you're doing. It's the act of giving, and I 1695 01:29:49,360 --> 01:29:51,360 Speaker 6: don't I don't want you to live your life and 1696 01:29:51,479 --> 01:29:52,640 Speaker 6: not understand that. 1697 01:29:54,000 --> 01:29:55,799 Speaker 2: You know, because if you give. 1698 01:29:57,960 --> 01:30:01,559 Speaker 6: Expecting for even exchange, if you're not trading, if you're 1699 01:30:01,680 --> 01:30:04,120 Speaker 6: just trying to trade, I'm gonna do this for exactly that, 1700 01:30:04,479 --> 01:30:06,280 Speaker 6: or I'm doing this if you give me that, or 1701 01:30:06,320 --> 01:30:08,280 Speaker 6: I'll do this only if I get this in return. 1702 01:30:08,800 --> 01:30:10,840 Speaker 2: Then that's not giving. You trading. 1703 01:30:12,120 --> 01:30:14,320 Speaker 6: And to order to give, to get the blessings you 1704 01:30:14,439 --> 01:30:18,400 Speaker 6: got to give graciously. That's not always knowing what the 1705 01:30:18,520 --> 01:30:22,400 Speaker 6: comeback is gonna be. That's when you open up your 1706 01:30:22,600 --> 01:30:28,200 Speaker 6: life to God's grace, mercy and favor. That's how you 1707 01:30:28,360 --> 01:30:31,600 Speaker 6: do it. It's by giving. It's just one of the 1708 01:30:31,720 --> 01:30:34,559 Speaker 6: laws of you know, it's just the law of the universe, 1709 01:30:35,160 --> 01:30:36,320 Speaker 6: and you have to think about that. 1710 01:30:37,280 --> 01:30:39,360 Speaker 2: So listen to me. If you're not willing to do 1711 01:30:39,560 --> 01:30:41,800 Speaker 2: more than what you're being paid to do, then you'll 1712 01:30:41,840 --> 01:30:45,040 Speaker 2: never be paid more for what you're doing. Understand that 1713 01:30:45,439 --> 01:30:47,840 Speaker 2: you're gonna have to plant some seeds in the ground 1714 01:30:48,160 --> 01:30:50,800 Speaker 2: and not know when they gonna grow up. You got 1715 01:30:50,880 --> 01:30:54,160 Speaker 2: to put some seeds in the ground without understanding that 1716 01:30:54,560 --> 01:30:57,760 Speaker 2: this fruit may not develop within the next year. You 1717 01:30:57,920 --> 01:31:00,200 Speaker 2: gotta put some seeds in the ground realizing that you 1718 01:31:00,320 --> 01:31:03,320 Speaker 2: may not bear fruit from this seed for fifteen years. 1719 01:31:04,120 --> 01:31:07,080 Speaker 2: But if you're in the trading business, you'll never put 1720 01:31:07,120 --> 01:31:09,519 Speaker 2: your seed in the ground because you want something for 1721 01:31:09,600 --> 01:31:13,840 Speaker 2: your efforts right now. And I can't tell you how 1722 01:31:14,080 --> 01:31:17,320 Speaker 2: many seeds I planted over the years that are just 1723 01:31:17,520 --> 01:31:20,880 Speaker 2: starting to come to fruition. But you got to be 1724 01:31:21,040 --> 01:31:23,760 Speaker 2: willing to do more than what you're being paid to do. 1725 01:31:24,120 --> 01:31:26,360 Speaker 2: If you ever expect to be paid. 1726 01:31:26,320 --> 01:31:29,640 Speaker 6: For more than what you do, remember that it is 1727 01:31:29,760 --> 01:31:32,320 Speaker 6: a simple law of giving, and until you learn how 1728 01:31:32,360 --> 01:31:35,640 Speaker 6: to give that way, you won't receive the full benefits. 1729 01:31:35,720 --> 01:31:37,760 Speaker 6: I'm just telling you what I've learned over the years. 1730 01:31:37,840 --> 01:31:40,200 Speaker 6: Those are my clothes remarks. Hey, listen, I hope you 1731 01:31:40,360 --> 01:31:41,880 Speaker 6: like that. When if you didn't like that, when tuning 1732 01:31:41,880 --> 01:31:43,639 Speaker 6: in the mall, God will not have another. 1733 01:31:43,960 --> 01:31:44,400 Speaker 8: But listen. 1734 01:31:44,479 --> 01:31:47,519 Speaker 2: Here's the most important talk to God. 1735 01:31:54,640 --> 01:31:58,080 Speaker 14: For all Steve Harvey contacts. No purchase necessary, void were prohibited. 1736 01:31:58,160 --> 01:32:01,639 Speaker 14: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1737 01:32:01,760 --> 01:32:06,639 Speaker 14: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit STEVEHARVEYFM dot com. 1738 01:32:07,000 --> 01:32:09,719 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.