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Speaker 1: All right, Steve.

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Speaker 2: This is from Cainetra in mid Lothian. Canetra says, I'm

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Speaker 2: old school when it comes to dating, and my boyfriend

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Speaker 2: is older, so I would expect him to get certain

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Speaker 2: things right. For example, he will text me when he

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Speaker 2: pulls up to let me know he's downstairs instead of

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Speaker 2: coming up to get me. So what. I live on

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Speaker 2: the second floor and he texts me all day long

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Speaker 2: instead of calling me. If I call him, he always

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Speaker 2: asks what's wrong. He also won't hold my hand in public,

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Speaker 2: and he won't sit beside me in restaurants. What's weird

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Speaker 2: is that he told me.

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Speaker 1: That he loves me.

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Speaker 2: How do I get this forty five year old man's

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Speaker 2: actions to match up with his words?

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Speaker 3: Wait a minute, First of all, your actions are not.

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Speaker 3: You don't require anything. He texts you downstairs, You go

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Speaker 3: down there and get in a car.

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Speaker 2: Okay, m hm, instead of yeah, you can train a

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Speaker 2: man how to treat you okay.

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Speaker 1: He texts you, you go down and get in a car.

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Speaker 2: But you're mad about it now.

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Speaker 3: He don't sit next to you in the restaurant because

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Speaker 3: he got it. He should be sitting there watching that door.

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Speaker 3: I don't sit next to my wife in the restaurant.

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Speaker 3: We sit across from each other, and I sit with

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Speaker 3: my I face the door. I got to see this door.

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Speaker 3: I gotta see what's happening. So there's nothing wrong with that.

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Speaker 3: He texts you and you respond. That's why he keep texting.

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Speaker 3: You've never said, hey, look, I don't care for text

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Speaker 3: I want to hear your voice. Call me if you

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Speaker 3: want this to continue. So it ain't what he doing wrong,

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Speaker 3: it's what you're allowing him to do. So once again,

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Speaker 3: and if a man loves you, he gonna accommodate.

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Speaker 1: You sitting next to each other texting so stupid.

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Speaker 2: All right, we have time for another one, Steve.

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Speaker 1: So you're telling I just told it, Shirley.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and to get her standards together. That's all all right,

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Speaker 2: We have to have time for another one. This is

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Speaker 2: from Levi and Saint Louis. Levi said, I had company

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Speaker 2: over watching TV and enjoying a bottle of bourbon, and

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Speaker 2: my date's phone kept ringing. She put it on vibrate

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Speaker 2: and it kept on vibrating. Finally I asked her if

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Speaker 2: she needed to check her phone. She said it was

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Speaker 2: her roommate and she'd call her. When she got in

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Speaker 2: the car, she asked if we could go on back

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Speaker 2: to my bed because she was ready to have sex.

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Speaker 2: I told her to go ahead and leave so she

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Speaker 2: could call her roommate. She seemed like she had a

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Speaker 2: few screws loose and she was hiding something. Did I

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Speaker 2: do the right thing? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: You did, dog, Yeah you did. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Very rarely do me and make the smart decision in it.

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Speaker 3: That's going in the back to the bedroom because I'm

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Speaker 3: ready to have sex, the dog going it, lets go

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Speaker 3: is usually the response. Right, But you knew something was wrong.

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Speaker 3: You knew something was wrong.

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Speaker 2: What was wrong?

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Speaker 3: You know, some screws is loose, phone just vibrating. That

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Speaker 3: ain't your girlfriend? H So you know that's a problem.

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Speaker 3: And so that was a problem. And then uh, the

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Speaker 3: other one about you know, let's go on in the back,

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Speaker 3: bro and I'm gonna tell you something else to fine?

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Speaker 1: And she really wasn't that fine?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Why do you say that? Why let the people

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Speaker 2: know why you said that?

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Speaker 1: Turn it on some questions. Why do I say she

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Speaker 1: wasn't fine?

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Speaker 3: If a woman said let's go on in the back

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Speaker 3: of the barroo, how you ain't going over there?

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Speaker 1: I don't care what screw you got loose in your head?

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Speaker 1: Who was about that? Later on?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're like crazy anyway.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know how many fine crazy people out of

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Speaker 3: been with.

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Speaker 1: Can noting about you having no loose screw? Was she

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Speaker 1: too aggressive in her approach?

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Speaker 2: Which she to aggressive?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? That phone, you know she might. You know that

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Speaker 3: you you don't know her dog. That phone just vibrating.

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Speaker 3: That sound like that sounded like call girl to me.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, there with it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just ranging and ranging and ranging and ranging

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Speaker 3: in your roommate ain't calling you that much.

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Speaker 2: But something, maybe something happened at the house.

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Speaker 1: Surely his name is Levi. That's all.

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Speaker 2: What you're listening to.

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Speaker 1: The Steve Harvey Morning Show