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Speaker 1: am not for everybody. I know that, but I want

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00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:36,639
Speaker 1: to be And it feeds that fear that you know

428
00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:39,600
Speaker 1: you're going to be you're rejected. And but the truth is,

429
00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:43,480
Speaker 1: like I hold the same power, like I have the

430
00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:47,040
Speaker 1: ability to reject people to um and not that like

431
00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 1: I want to run around me like no, but like

432
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:53,440
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna like everybody either in that way, but

433
00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:56,840
Speaker 1: I do. UM. You know, for me, I think a

434
00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:59,000
Speaker 1: lot of it is for me is I am willing

435
00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:01,639
Speaker 1: to go into this and and come out friends. A

436
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:04,399
Speaker 1: lot of people just want the physical side of things,

437
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:08,040
Speaker 1: and if I feel rejected because of the physical side,

438
00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 1: it stings a little bit more, you know what I mean.

439
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,320
Speaker 1: It's like because when it gets into my body issues

440
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:17,880
Speaker 1: and those sorts of things, um, and that is nobody's

441
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:20,320
Speaker 1: problem with my own. So it's like I have to

442
00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 1: continue to like just forge ahead and continue to date,

443
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:26,679
Speaker 1: and eventually I'm going to meet somebody that I connect

444
00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:30,600
Speaker 1: with on a cerebral way and on on a cerebral level,

445
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 1: and then it'll be great. But in the meantime, like

446
00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 1: I learned, I'm actually sucking. I'm like, I don't, I'm

447
00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:39,639
Speaker 1: a fun date. I know it. Like so that was

448
00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 1: so it was funny because I've been I've been chatting

449
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:44,680
Speaker 1: with other people and it made me be like, hey,

450
00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:47,840
Speaker 1: we should get drinks. Like it. I'm it's making me

451
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:51,199
Speaker 1: speed up the process rather than just like sort of

452
00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:55,080
Speaker 1: hide behind these apps. And Mary Hilliard was like, I

453
00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:57,439
Speaker 1: want you to change tender the your boss. I've been

454
00:24:57,480 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 1: chatting with guys in Boston trip this weekend. I actually

455
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:09,160
Speaker 1: noticed a difference in you, like because we were at Dollywood.

456
00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:11,360
Speaker 1: I mean, we let what I'm talking about our social schedule,

457
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 1: It's like, what are um? But we were at Dollywood

458
00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:18,439
Speaker 1: and you were kind of messaging that guy and then

459
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:19,919
Speaker 1: you were telling us you had the other people in

460
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:22,560
Speaker 1: the works or whatever too, and I was just like

461
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:26,639
Speaker 1: seeing this energy change in you that you didn't like.

462
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:30,400
Speaker 1: It's almost like the way we identify for ourselves sometimes

463
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:33,679
Speaker 1: we do we need that mojo like and it doesn't.

464
00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:35,840
Speaker 1: It's not like an ego thing. I think it's just

465
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:40,439
Speaker 1: remembering like okay, yeah I can be fun or you know,

466
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:43,720
Speaker 1: just like I am attractive even or whatever. It is

467
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 1: like there are people out there for me, And I

468
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:50,399
Speaker 1: think going through that process really does shift like a

469
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 1: whole energy within us. Just think you're like ready, like

470
00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:57,280
Speaker 1: you maybe haven't been in the past, and you have

471
00:25:57,440 --> 00:26:00,840
Speaker 1: had some walls up, and so something whitched and like

472
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:03,400
Speaker 1: I watched it happen so well, it was funny because

473
00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:05,200
Speaker 1: I do remember. I think I know the moment where

474
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:07,200
Speaker 1: you like really because I was like on my phone.

475
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:10,119
Speaker 1: I was like I laughed at something and you're like,

476
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 1: oh look as early. We're sitting there with another friend

477
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 1: of ours and Ship is like looking at his phone texting, giggling,

478
00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:22,880
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh my god, I haven't not seen this.

479
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:27,359
Speaker 1: It's so long. You know when you said, oh my god,

480
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:31,760
Speaker 1: are you texting? People won't see which one was it? No,

481
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:36,119
Speaker 1: which one it was, but yeah, it was just like

482
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,959
Speaker 1: I could see it and it was the way you giggle.

483
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:44,920
Speaker 1: It was like a schoolgirl. See, I'm not even normally

484
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:48,120
Speaker 1: that would have made me shy, but I'm not really Yeah,

485
00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 1: oh you shouldn't be shy. I was cute. Yeah, it's

486
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 1: fun to see your friends, like, especially because you've been

487
00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:57,040
Speaker 1: kind of like about dating for a while. It's like

488
00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:59,439
Speaker 1: fun to see you in this place. Well, and you know,

489
00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:01,879
Speaker 1: it's funny because obviously we've joked about sliter pillows and

490
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:05,119
Speaker 1: all that stuff. Like truthfully, it's like the reason why

491
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:06,919
Speaker 1: I haven't been a slut in my life is because

492
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:10,359
Speaker 1: that's not really me, Like like I'm I'm more of

493
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 1: like a rom com kind of guy, Like that's what

494
00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:14,719
Speaker 1: I want my life to be. Is like I believe it.

495
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:17,199
Speaker 1: You know, it's like we're all raised on it. But

496
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,440
Speaker 1: I do think that there is there's a guy out

497
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:21,720
Speaker 1: there that also believes in the rom colm life, and

498
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 1: I think that's more of what I want. Um, you know,

499
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:28,480
Speaker 1: I could have been a slut if I really wanted

500
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:32,440
Speaker 1: to be, totally could have been. But that's not my job,

501
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:38,159
Speaker 1: not my jam oh sort of new one. See we

502
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:42,119
Speaker 1: can make very good Um. We did get a lot

503
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:44,359
Speaker 1: of feedback from you guys on different things that you

504
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:46,720
Speaker 1: were going to do this month. I love it, y'all.

505
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:50,399
Speaker 1: Set intentions to um this. One girl wrote in she

506
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:53,639
Speaker 1: had a huge fear of flying, but my trip to

507
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 1: Bally like it really because she was going to Peru

508
00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:58,879
Speaker 1: and she was like, you went to Bally. I know

509
00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 1: I can do this, and you guys are talking about fear,

510
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,040
Speaker 1: and so I'm doing it. So she booked a trip

511
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 1: to Peru and she's going to get over the fear

512
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:08,320
Speaker 1: of flying. That was like her big goal. So if

513
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:10,359
Speaker 1: you did, if you're listening and you've got on that plane,

514
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 1: let us know. Well I wait, when did she say

515
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 1: she was going. She didn't say, okay, well I want

516
00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:19,879
Speaker 1: to just if she's listening, this will help, I hope,

517
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:22,440
Speaker 1: because I used to have a major fear of flying too,

518
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,800
Speaker 1: and a boss of mine, her boyfriend, was a pilot.

519
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 1: Planes are designed to take off in land almost without

520
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 1: any human interaction, like the chances of something bad happening

521
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 1: are so it takes like a really bad pilot almost

522
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 1: or like a fluke. And these commercial airline, Tharth Navy

523
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:48,440
Speaker 1: pilots like the best in the world. So it's like,

524
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 1: I know it's scary, but liquor yourself up, take a

525
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:55,680
Speaker 1: zanna to do something like you are going to be Okay.

526
00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 1: I think one of the things that helped me the

527
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 1: most um and this was about a smaller plane situation.

528
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:06,720
Speaker 1: I was flying with Dirks on a tiny, tiny, tiny,

529
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 1: tiny tiny plane like car and the skies like I've

530
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 1: never seen a plane this small, and it was very turbulent.

531
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:17,080
Speaker 1: And I think turbulence is the thing that messes with

532
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 1: people the most with flying um and when you're in

533
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 1: a small plane you feel it even more, you know,

534
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 1: And so like, literally we're hitting these bumps and I

535
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 1: was kind of like, and I'm not even scared of flying,

536
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:30,479
Speaker 1: but I was feeling very stressed in that moment. And

537
00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:33,320
Speaker 1: he was like, hey, turbulence is like when you're in

538
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 1: the ocean and you hit waves. He was like, that's

539
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 1: all it is, you know how like you go over

540
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 1: a wave in a boat and it's like a bump

541
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 1: for a second. He's like, that's turbulent. He's like, that's

542
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:43,880
Speaker 1: why you don't feel it as much in those big

543
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 1: plans because that's more like a cruise ship. But if

544
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 1: you are navigating through that, like you have to think

545
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 1: about like when we're you know, riding in a boat

546
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:55,160
Speaker 1: through the ocean, we don't get scared every time we

547
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 1: hit a wave break, you know, it's just part of

548
00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:01,080
Speaker 1: the ride, and that's all turbulences, and pilots are warned

549
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:02,960
Speaker 1: about it most of the time. They know it's coming,

550
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 1: they know how to navigate it and avoid it. It's

551
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 1: just a little bit stressful because we feel like we're

552
00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 1: not in control. But you just ride the ways and

553
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 1: planes can handle it and planes are made for Yeah,

554
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:15,960
Speaker 1: so that's every time we hit bombs down Like, I

555
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:19,000
Speaker 1: don't even think about it anymore, but when we do

556
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:21,080
Speaker 1: hit big bombs, I'm just like, we're just riding waves.

557
00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:25,520
Speaker 1: We're just riding because it can throw you. And that's

558
00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 1: really the danger of tarking. Oh my god, you're like

559
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 1: the doctor and the police. This episode as right now.

560
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:39,240
Speaker 1: Another one we got was someone said they were afraid

561
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:42,520
Speaker 1: because I post a podcast every month with Marv and

562
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 1: they get afraid of astrology like they are Christian. They've

563
00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:47,360
Speaker 1: never looked into it because you know, we were taught

564
00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:50,400
Speaker 1: when we were younger that it's like witch witchery kind

565
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 1: of things. And um, she was like, then, I listened

566
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 1: to your podcast with Marv and it was so spiritual

567
00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 1: and it helped me so much with some of the

568
00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:02,280
Speaker 1: stuff I've been navigating in especially right now with the astrology,

569
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 1: And I just want to say that too, Like every

570
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 1: time I talked to Marv, it is a very spiritual

571
00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 1: conversation and he actually quotes five of verses all the time.

572
00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 1: This isn't actually directed specifically at Christianity, but I do

573
00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 1: get a lot of messages about this, um. And so anyway,

574
00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:19,800
Speaker 1: I'm just glad. Like to me, spirituality is just a

575
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 1: whole big picture now and it can combine a lot

576
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:26,600
Speaker 1: of different things, and so astrology has been on one

577
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 1: of those things that really helps me to kind of

578
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 1: navigate where I'm going. And um, anyway, I was really

579
00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 1: excited to hear about that. Um, I think what we're

580
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 1: have we didn't talk about yours well, mom was the

581
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 1: money stuff? Yeah, I mean, and I don't. It's sort

582
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:46,959
Speaker 1: of like more so, I think one of my bigger

583
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 1: fears has been sitting down to face it again. Like

584
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:54,200
Speaker 1: I feel like since COVID hit, I've just been doing

585
00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:57,400
Speaker 1: this thing like keep your head above water because I

586
00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 1: had so many different things hit all at once, and

587
00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:01,800
Speaker 1: I think I was like and I and I also

588
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:04,800
Speaker 1: like so many things in my business have shifted and

589
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 1: I've kind of like let go of some stuff that

590
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 1: I was doing, and so maybe some of the income

591
00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:12,240
Speaker 1: that I had wasn't coming, you know, coming in, and

592
00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 1: I got scared. And so my my response to that

593
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:18,000
Speaker 1: was to not look at it. And so it was

594
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 1: like actually just forcing myself to take the time and

595
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 1: sit down and then realize, oh, wait, this is not

596
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:27,040
Speaker 1: as scary as I was thinking. This isn't actually anything

597
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 1: like I was thinking, And it was just a story

598
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:31,640
Speaker 1: I had made up in my head of like it's doomsday,

599
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 1: I don't want to look, you know, and it wasn't

600
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:37,600
Speaker 1: at all. It was just about taking the responsibility again. Um.

601
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 1: And then also like I think I had some I

602
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 1: was holding some shame for letting go of parts of

603
00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:46,280
Speaker 1: my business and I didn't want to face that. And

604
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 1: so that was like the big thing of like looking

605
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:51,080
Speaker 1: at the things I had let go of and how

606
00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 1: much that had cost me, and that was hard. There

607
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,960
Speaker 1: was actually a little grief tied into that because I

608
00:32:57,000 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 1: had worked really hard for some things, and um, to

609
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:03,400
Speaker 1: let go of them and kind of shift directions, and

610
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 1: especially if I don't specifically know that direction yet, it's

611
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 1: just scary. But I think it's a part of life,

612
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 1: and I think it's a part of evolution too, and

613
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 1: so it makes sense for me as a person of

614
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 1: who I am now. Um, And it's just also I'll

615
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 1: tell you I walked away and I was like, damn,

616
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 1: I'm a fucking hustler like I used to like really

617
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 1: work my ass off. No wonder I hit a little burnout,

618
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 1: you know. So it's just about now, like you could say,

619
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:38,560
Speaker 1: working hard or not working smarter, not and just figuring out, Okay,

620
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 1: here's some areas maybe I could be making more money.

621
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 1: Here's some areas where maybe I don't need to spend

622
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 1: certain money on certain things that it is just wasting money. Um.

623
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:50,560
Speaker 1: And then here's maybe some space to carve out some

624
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 1: new direction with stuff. And like I don't know, it's

625
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:57,440
Speaker 1: not done yet. It's a process, but just sitting down

626
00:33:57,440 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 1: and starting the process has really it's been so free.

627
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 1: And I didn't realize the weight I was carrying because

628
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 1: I was avoiding that. Well, there was something you also

629
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:08,759
Speaker 1: were dealing with, the fear of not knowing what to do.

630
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:12,280
Speaker 1: How could you know what to do if you don't

631
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 1: sit and like look at it, no, like even know

632
00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:20,319
Speaker 1: what you lost or didn't lose or still have and

633
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:22,799
Speaker 1: like I could do again or you know whatever. It

634
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:25,359
Speaker 1: is like there was just so much ship that hit

635
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:28,920
Speaker 1: the fan all at once, and like my response was

636
00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 1: complete overwhelmed and just like breakdown. And that's okay, Like

637
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,960
Speaker 1: that it was it makes sense because of all the

638
00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 1: stuff that happened. But now I'm like kind of out

639
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 1: of that, and so it's time to like get re

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Speaker 1: energized and I'm there. It's like exciting. I'm like ready

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Speaker 1: to do it all apparently, and check my counter, you guys,

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Speaker 1: don't worry. She's using all points so she's not spending

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Speaker 1: any money to do this. It's not true. But I

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Speaker 1: have the money to do it. I would never not,

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Speaker 1: that is the thing. It's like I started booking all

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Speaker 1: this stuff too, and I was like I can afford

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Speaker 1: this right, Like it needed to like ask myself these

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Speaker 1: questions and yes, so you want to just be responsible

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Speaker 1: with the things you're doing, you know, yeah? Never anyway, Um,

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Speaker 1: do you have anything else you would like to give

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Speaker 1: the listeners? We're going to Salem as well on I

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Speaker 1: mean we're ending Spooky season at the like, which is

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Speaker 1: assuming we can get there because apparently traffics were real bad.

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00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:40,760
Speaker 1: They said they had a hundred thousand people there this weekend.

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Speaker 1: It was crazy. That's like Broadway every weekend. We could

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Speaker 1: do it. We live in Salem, avoid that part of Um.

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00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 1: There's no parking down there either, So it's the same thing.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's true, it tis true. Anything else you'd

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Speaker 1: like to leave the listeners with, UM, I don't know,

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00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:02,760
Speaker 1: Like I would love to know what people are dressing

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Speaker 1: up for Halloween. I don't have a cost in this

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Speaker 1: year normal. I'm lik an all or nothing, like either

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Speaker 1: like go all out on Halloween or I sit in

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Speaker 1: the hand out it's on a Monday. It's always kind

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Speaker 1: of there is me. Well, we're out of town, like

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Speaker 1: any like Halloween parties in tow would be this weekend

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Speaker 1: and we're not here. So I actually don't like Halloween typically,

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00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:26,160
Speaker 1: which everyone is like, what you work in fashion and

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Speaker 1: makeup and you don't love Halloween. But I think that's

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Speaker 1: why I don't love it. It's like this expectation and

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00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:41,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's gonna do every day, y'all like Halloween Day. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: I got nothing else for you, guys. I'm just so

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Speaker 1: happy with this the way that these topics worked out,

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Speaker 1: because I do feel like from the feedback I got

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Speaker 1: from y'all it was also really helpful. And it's just

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Speaker 1: interesting to look at the different areas that we hold

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Speaker 1: fear and we just hide or run or shut down

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Speaker 1: or whatever, and we all do it. Like no matter

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00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 1: what kind of journey you're on, it can look different

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Speaker 1: for everyone, but I definitely think that it's a coping

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00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 1: mechanism for all of us to kind of maybe run

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Speaker 1: from fear. And so it really is interesting when you

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Speaker 1: actually stop and face it, like it loses its power.

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Speaker 1: Half the things we are scared of don't even actually exist. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: which is an interesting thought. And that I mean, that

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Speaker 1: just blew my mind a little bit, did it? Just like, well,

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00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 1: that's a good sign often blowing chips mind. Um. If

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Speaker 1: you haven't listened to the podcast that we talked about,

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Speaker 1: there's also a really great one with a group called

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Speaker 1: Bow and Young. It's actually a married duo. They were great.

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Speaker 1: They were on for a full week because our conversation

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00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 1: with them was so easy that we broke it down

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Speaker 1: into two episodes. They had a couple of spooky stories,

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Speaker 1: I would say, in ways that they've had to overcome fear.

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Speaker 1: They've actually had a lot. I had no idea that

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Speaker 1: Claire Bowen had cancer as a kid. That like speaking

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Speaker 1: of blowing my mind. That rocked my world. It was

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Speaker 1: like a major part of her child hospitals and all

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00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:04,839
Speaker 1: that stuff. She's um. She was Scarlett on Nashville. If

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00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 1: you guys don't know, she's an actress, and I know

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00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:08,719
Speaker 1: if you saw her you would know her. But her

702
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:10,799
Speaker 1: and her husband are now in a country duo called

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Speaker 1: bow and Young and they were just great. I thought

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Speaker 1: the conversation was so great and they were they seemed

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00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:21,440
Speaker 1: like genuine good people, so we always love that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and they I mean, look, they had a terrifying story

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Speaker 1: to share too, So I'm not gonna give it away.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to give it away. What a tease.

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Speaker 1: Look at you go, expert if you will, if you will, Um,

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Speaker 1: you can always reach out to us at the edge

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Speaker 1: at velvet edge dot com on Instagram. I am at

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Speaker 1: velvet Edge, Chip Chip dorsh it's at p d o

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Speaker 1: R Like I threw you there somehow. Let's spay I'm

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Speaker 1: still doing it. Well, let's get ready for a trip

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Speaker 1: of Boston. One more spooky season event for us. And

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Speaker 1: as you guys go into your weekend, and especially this

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Speaker 1: weekend because it's real scary out there, I hope that

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Speaker 1: you don't let the fear overcome you and try to

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Speaker 1: get I'm like, where, come on, girl, I'll wrap it up.

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Speaker 1: Don't let the fear overcome you. And as you're walking

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Speaker 1: into your weekend living on the edge, I hope you

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Speaker 1: always remember to act casually, get little off scripts. It

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Speaker 1: seemed really good in my head. As you walk into

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Speaker 1: your weekend, you're overcoming fear, just a casual castule y'all,

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Speaker 1: spirits doesn't even exist. Okay, you're a casual bite