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Speaker 1: Wait here, and Kiki, you have a demographic of fans

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Speaker 1: that I never knew about. Really, it is fifty plus

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Speaker 2: Come give me.

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Speaker 3: Here?

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Speaker 1: Every day Fred's show is on, I'm going to figure

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Speaker 2: You know they're there?

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Speaker 4: You know?

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Speaker 1: Are they going through the hat? No, it's on this Okay,

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Speaker 1: the other side, you got the I was just trying

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Speaker 1: we wear the handsets too.

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Speaker 4: Yes, it's a it's a process, no sudden movement, but

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Speaker 1: Well fashion over function, yes, most important with the pose.

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Speaker 1: Hi Kaitlin, good morning, Hi Jason Brown, Hi, Kiky's here,

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Speaker 1: good morning show me Shelley. Five hundred bucks is the

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Speaker 1: prize hour just a couple of days till she goes

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Speaker 1: on maternity leave. I thought the baby might come early.

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Speaker 1: I thought Kiki might have to start early.

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Speaker 2: Stop saying that we need to take her time.

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Speaker 1: The people want you. They yeah, they do, especially fifty

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Speaker 1: plus year old men in the suburbs. They love you.

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Speaker 1: Man had no idea, I love them. Yeah. Well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: next year I'm going to take you to where they live,

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Speaker 1: and I'm going to take you to where they all

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Speaker 5: Well, I lay with a fifty plus white man suburbs

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Speaker 4: Yeah, see it's your fifty plus white man pays all

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Speaker 2: Fifty plus white man.

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Speaker 1: I think I think some of the guys coming up

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Speaker 1: I think so. Yeah, I was just I was. I

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Speaker 1: don't know why. I mean, I think you're for all people,

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Speaker 1: but I also know I think you're for all people.

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Speaker 1: But I think the people that keept kept coming up

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Speaker 1: to me. I just I guess I didn't think they'd be,

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Speaker 1: seventy nine ten, the Kiki Fanclub, But they were.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I love that for them. Yeah, and yeah, no,

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Speaker 2: I did too.

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Speaker 1: I did. Two morning, everybody, let's see, we'll just starrego

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Speaker 1: this morning, debate some relationship drama waiting by the phone,

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Speaker 1: of course, Why did somebody get ghosted? Five hundred bucks

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Speaker 1: with show bis Shelley in the Showdown The entertainment Repard,

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Speaker 1: fun fact trending stories all coming up? What are you

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Speaker 1: working on?

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Speaker 2: K the actor that got lots of beef today.

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Speaker 6: The actor that got into a fight with a Trump impersonator,

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Speaker 6: also a boy meets World feud.

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Speaker 2: What year is it?

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Speaker 1: We were talking about Stave by the Bell yesterday and

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Speaker 1: doing the Friends Together song. I told you about this yesterday.

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Speaker 1: So some musicians. I don't know why I can't talk already,

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Speaker 1: We've only been here for five minutes. Some musicians decided

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Speaker 1: to take the Save by the Bell Friends Forever, where

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Speaker 1: So they actually like studied the video and had real

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Speaker 1: to post it, and then I got like ten dms

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Speaker 1: yesterday you said you're gonna post it? What are you

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Speaker 1: doing at your Job's your job to entertain us all

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Speaker 1: day twenty four to seven, And I didn't, So anyway,

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Speaker 1: I made up for it. You also all thought I

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Speaker 1: I posted something very nice on my Instagram story was gratitude.

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Speaker 1: We got some good news around here. It's been a

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Speaker 1: by oh, you got fired. This is your goodbye? Where

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Speaker 8: Like?

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Speaker 1: Well, first of all, mine had gratitude, so no, I

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Speaker 1: then follow it up with no, I'm not getting fired.

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Speaker 1: I was saying, thank you for listening. That's all. See

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Speaker 4: We've told you about how you write stuff though you

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Speaker 4: some emojis to let people know this is not serious,

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Speaker 4: this is light. Well how about I said thank you,

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Speaker 4: but you didn't you use the period you use, You

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Speaker 2: I was alarmed, and I'll look here, nobody saw me nothing.

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Speaker 2: You know. I said thank.

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Speaker 1: You for listen. I said thank you for your support.

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Speaker 1: That's all I said. You know, I think if I

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Speaker 1: and goodbye, right, right, thank you, right, thank you and goodbye?

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Speaker 1: And why didn't all of you vote yes for my raise?

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Speaker 1: I don't know vote because we all know it's it's

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Speaker 1: the tribunal around Trio Survivor. When it comes to raises.

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Speaker 1: We all sit around in a big pow wow, big circle.

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Speaker 1: We light a fire, and we decide, once and for all.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna need some more from you.

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Speaker 1: What's going to happen? Right right exactly, That's what happens

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Speaker 1: around here. It's just a complete free for all. We

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Speaker 1: sit around and we vote, are we talk about you

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Speaker 1: behind your back, and then and then we announced to

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Speaker 1: you what we've decided. Right, Trust me, because I'd vote

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Speaker 1: a million dollars for Jason every time I could use it. Sadly,

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Speaker 1: they don't care everyone, they don't care what I think

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Speaker 1: a message of gratitude, and so I didn't get fired. Clearly,

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Speaker 1: I'm still here and you know it's fine, everything's good.

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Speaker 1: I first saw the headline of this of this viral video,

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Speaker 1: make a viral video. Fred. You know, we had a

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Speaker 1: suit that used to say that to us. We had

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Speaker 1: a more on a moron suit that literally used to

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Speaker 1: No, We'll get right on that, because that's how that works.

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Speaker 1: We hope that all videos that we make go viral,

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Speaker 1: be great. So I saw this and the headline says

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Speaker 1: reception toast. Now this seemed bad to me. I'm thinking

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Speaker 1: Listen to this. I don't have a big issue with it.

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Speaker 10: They show together the way they looked at each other,

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Speaker 10: and you think it sound really romantic, But the only

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Speaker 10: problem was I was dating Rachel at the time.

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Speaker 1: That's what he said. He said he saw the way

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Speaker 6: He was for real.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh then that's fine to say, right.

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Speaker 1: No, But the way that it came off, the way

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Speaker 1: If you ever have toasts at your wedding, you know,

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Speaker 1: some people think it's like a roast, which it's not.

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Speaker 1: they try and be funny but they're not necessarily you know,

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Speaker 1: I've seen it time and time again. People go up,

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Speaker 1: I thought he went up there and was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm so happy for them, but you know, you know

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Speaker 1: chosen to speak at the wedding. You don't like it.

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Speaker 1: But if he were doing something to make himself look

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't have much experience with this dating.

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Speaker 4: Uh, friends that dated you know, Kaylen, you've talked we've

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Speaker 2: It's just one instance, Okay, yeah, all right. They don't

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Speaker 2: like that. I heard swapping each other around.

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Speaker 1: I heard once you're in, you're in it's.

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Speaker 2: Right right around there.

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Speaker 1: All get down, all access for everybody.

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Speaker 2: Tineapples everywhere.

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Speaker 1: Once you're accepted into the circle, you just it's free

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Speaker 1: for all.

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Speaker 11: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Do you think he's going back to Michigan right?

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Speaker 6: Not for a baby shower?

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Speaker 1: That's how.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, one last dig, like he took one last little

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Speaker 6: I agree, we know. We have to listen to it again.

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Speaker 2: He was saying. He was making himself sound like the loser.

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Speaker 6: He was like, I was dating this girl and they

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Speaker 2: What's going on here? That's the truly how they met.

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Speaker 2: Like basically, look at these two snakes. Yeah, y'all belong together.

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Speaker 1: They tend to speak, right. They chose this man to

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Speaker 1: speak at their wedding. And what he's saying is like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we were dating, but you know clearly when she met him,

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Speaker 2: You deserve each other.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna transplate again, but I have to like be sorry, No.

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Speaker 10: It's I just noticed the connection they have, the last

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Speaker 12: And that's fine.

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Speaker 10: You think it sound really romantic, But the only problem

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Speaker 6: Why why I got to say that part?

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Speaker 1: It does kind of seem like he wants everyone to know, like, yeah, scandal,

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Speaker 5: How do you not mention that literally about me too?

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Speaker 13: hard because like I think about this all the time.

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Speaker 13: For my kid, I'm like, I don't know at what

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Speaker 13: age am I going to get her a phone? You know,

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Speaker 13: I know most of her little friends are going to

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Speaker 13: have them at a young age. It's just the world

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Speaker 13: we live in.

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Speaker 2: But I don't like that.

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Speaker 6: I don't agree with it.

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Speaker 13: But I know that I don't want her to be

447
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Speaker 13: like cast it out because you don't got a phone,

448
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Speaker 13: because I was that kid in eighth grade.

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Speaker 2: But I also don't I don't know, want her to

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Speaker 2: be having access to so much.

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Speaker 6: A lot of kids now have Apple watches and not phones,

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Speaker 6: so I can like communicate with them, but you don't

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Speaker 6: have access to the Internet and all that craziness.

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Speaker 2: I like that, so that might be an option.

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Speaker 1: Well, how do you communicate with no access to the internet.

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Speaker 6: Was it WiFi?

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Speaker 9: Maybe?

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Speaker 1: Well yeah, I think you can't browse yeah, oh yeah,

459
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Speaker 1: but it's connected to something so people could hit.

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Speaker 14: I just meant like they can't go on YouTube and

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Speaker 14: see like a beheading. Oh well that's nice. I mean

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Speaker 14: whenever I look at me, I like, I like the

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Speaker 14: bigger screens typically for my beheading. It's like I prefer

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Speaker 14: when I'm gonna watch the beheading.

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Speaker 2: I use we had no like like boundaries on the

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Speaker 2: internet when you're a little.

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure there aren't any now either. But yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: when I'm looking at typically, I like to use my

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Speaker 1: eight inch for that. I mean, I want to really,

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Speaker 1: I want to capture the moment so scary. I mean, yes,

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Speaker 1: I would imagine it was. Yeah, yeah, putty in an

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Speaker 1: apple wash just wouldn't do it for me with that,

473
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Speaker 1: you know, come on, unlocked, come on?

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Speaker 2: Like you know, god, I mean, like, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, I can look at adult stuff on my phone,

476
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Speaker 1: but I'm not watching a movie on it. You know,

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Speaker 1: I need if I'm watching a motion picture, we need

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Speaker 1: something bigger. But you know, in a pinch, you know

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Speaker 1: it's fine. Oh my god, Kaylen. Nothing good can come

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Speaker 1: from the TikTok trend, And this is another reason why

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Speaker 1: I guess we don't need phones in the classroom. The

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Speaker 1: hashtag for this new trend is dropping things on my foot?

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Speaker 1: What how about we don't? How about we don't make

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Speaker 1: videos of you dropping things on your foot? A doctor

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Speaker 1: is having to warn people that a TikTok trend that's

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Speaker 1: gone viral under that hashtag is leading people disabled for life.

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Speaker 1: The trend involves people making videos of themselves dropping things

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Speaker 1: on their actual feet. They then give a rating of

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Speaker 1: how much pain the object that was dropped on their

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Speaker 1: foot caused. One doctor says this trend, which is encouraging

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Speaker 1: people to drop sharp and increasingly heavy household objects on

492
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Speaker 1: their feet, is highly likely to result in foot injuries.

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Speaker 1: So maybe not. And Ihop hopes to set a new

494
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Speaker 1: Guinness World Record for the most pancake served in eight

495
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Speaker 1: hours to celebrate National Pancake Days twentieth anniversary. They're having

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Speaker 1: this in Santa Monica, California, or at the Pier specifically

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Speaker 1: on Saturday from nine to five. They hope to serve

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Speaker 1: twenty thousand pancakes and they're inviting fans across La to

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Speaker 1: take part in the festivities. There is a teritable angle

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Speaker 1: for every pancake served during the record attempt, I hop

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Speaker 1: will donate one dollar Defeating America, benefiting the La Regional

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Speaker 1: Food Bank and its efforts to fight hunger in LA County.

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Speaker 1: If you're unable to go to California, National Pancake Days

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Speaker 1: on March fourth and locations throughout the nation will offer

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Speaker 1: a free short stack of pancakes from seven am to

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Speaker 1: eight pm. Don't order an egg mill that'll cost you more.

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Speaker 1: It's National Chocolate Covered Nut Day and National clam chowder Day,

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Speaker 1: Michael Hi, Michael Hight. We know how Camon feels about it,

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Speaker 1: But how about cell phones in school?

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Speaker 8: So I used to be a teacher. Grant that I

511
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Speaker 8: taught five year olds, so they don't really have the phones.

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Speaker 8: But I'm against the ban. I think, you know, teachers

513
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Speaker 8: have been having to you know, stop students from passing

514
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Speaker 8: notes all the time. And back when I was in school,

515
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Speaker 8: I had a razor, so I didn't have like internet

516
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Speaker 8: access and all that stuff. But to me, it just

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Speaker 8: kind of feels like we're faulting the kids just for

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Speaker 8: the how phones have changed, you know, just because now

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Speaker 8: we have iPhones, it doesn't I don't think that it's

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Speaker 8: appropriate for teachers to now have the band phones from schools.

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Speaker 8: I think it just falls on teachers to have to

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Speaker 8: be able to you know, monitor that as well as

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Speaker 8: you would like notes in a classroom or things like that.

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Speaker 8: I'm I'm on the side of like if I if

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Speaker 8: my son was in school and I couldn't reach him,

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Speaker 8: I'd be pretty pod. I would rather on my son

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Speaker 8: be able to have a phone and just let him know, like,

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Speaker 8: don't use it in school inappropriately.

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Speaker 1: That's a valid argument, and thank you, Michael, have a

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Speaker 1: great day, Thanks for listening. That's a valid argument about,

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Speaker 1: you know, wanting to get a hold of your kid

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Speaker 1: based on all the different things. But you know, kids

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Speaker 1: will never know. They'll never know what it's like to

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Speaker 1: rip a little piece of paper off the side and

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Speaker 1: write and write a note, or have to write in

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Speaker 1: some form of code or hieroglyphics, and then have to

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Speaker 1: somehow pass that to someone across the room not get caught,

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Speaker 1: and then receive a message back. I mean, these are

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Speaker 1: the kind of things that kids will never know. Kids

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Speaker 1: will never know what it's like to have to call

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Speaker 1: a girl as a boy. Kids will never know what

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Speaker 1: it's like to have to call a girl's house and

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Speaker 1: their dad answers the phone, and you're gonna navigate through

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Speaker 1: pops to get to the girl, you know, and dads

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Speaker 1: would be intentionally intimidating. Now they got the direct line,

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Speaker 1: they just call the cell phone. Dad's does an answer anymore.

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Speaker 1: Kids will never understand what that's like. No, the pressure,

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Speaker 1: Hey Gina, hey can you hear me? I can? I

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Speaker 1: can hear you? So you're a teacher and your antiphone?

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Speaker 15: Why even I mean, first of all, they cheat all

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Speaker 15: the time, so like the smallest worksheet and they're just

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Speaker 15: gonna look up the answers and like not use their brains.

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Speaker 15: But what's really sad is if there's any downtime, instead

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Speaker 15: of talking to each other and interacting in like a

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Speaker 15: natural way, they're just all on their phone. And I

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Speaker 15: want them to like speak to each other and get

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Speaker 15: to know each other and like play a game, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Kids will also never know, Gina, how you got to

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Speaker 1: be more creative and have some ingenuity win cheating. Kids

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Speaker 1: will never understand this exactly.

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Speaker 15: But you know what, I just force them. I offer

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Speaker 15: them extra credit at the beginning of the year, and

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Speaker 15: if you're on your phone, I take the extra credit away.

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Speaker 15: So that seems to work. We're in no phone zone.

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Speaker 8: There you go.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Gina. Have a good day. I love that.

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Speaker 15: Thanks you, guys.

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Speaker 1: I'm fine with this. I'm fine with this. Yeah, because again,

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Speaker 1: I think most schools have now they have phones in

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Speaker 1: the classroom, and there are other things that we also

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Speaker 1: didn't have back in the day. I don't think when

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Speaker 1: my elementary school didn't have a landline phone in the classroom,

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Speaker 1: none of them did. So I mean the phone a

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Speaker 1: cell phone would have been helpful back then, but now

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Speaker 1: I think there are other ways. Hey, Julie, Yes, hi Julie,

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Speaker 1: good morning. So phones in the classroom, a lot of

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Speaker 1: people are in favor of well, I guess some people

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Speaker 1: are in favor of a band. Most people are not, though,

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Speaker 1: because they want to get ahold of their kid all

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Speaker 1: the time.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 16: I am a middle school teacher, and I am completely

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Speaker 16: against it. I agree with the other listeners of inter

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Speaker 16: acts and all that stuff. Just the other week, I

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Speaker 16: was my students were working on a project, and I

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Speaker 16: found that one of my students was live streaming in

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Speaker 16: my class. So I took your cell phone and was

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Speaker 16: going to turn it into the office. And the next

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Speaker 16: I talked to the mom. The mom was like, oh,

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Speaker 16: thank you so much for taking the phone. And then

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Speaker 16: the next day that mother stopped traffic morning car traffic

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Speaker 16: to demand a meeting about me, the teacher taking the phone,

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Speaker 16: not her son live streaming in class.

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Speaker 17: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Okay, wow, Yeah, that's how you're right. I mean, whether

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Speaker 1: it's the live stream, or whether it's watching YouTube videos,

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Speaker 1: or cheating or or accessing stuff that you wouldn't you

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Speaker 1: know that no one's watching at home to see if

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Speaker 1: you're looking at or whatever. I can see why, you know,

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Speaker 1: having that little device. The other thing is I used

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Speaker 1: to lose stuff and break stuff at school all the time.

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Speaker 1: And like I didn't even get to wear my night

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Speaker 1: stuff to school either until I was older because I

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Speaker 1: messed it up. And so giving my kid a thousand

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Speaker 1: dollars phone to put in their pocket to carry around,

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Speaker 1: I don't know about that. Let's get him a jitter bub.

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Speaker 16: Even they can't even bring a pencil to my class.

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Speaker 2: So bring a phone out of the right.

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Speaker 1: There you go, Thank you, Julie, have a good day.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: They beginning like one of those old people phones where

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Speaker 1: you know, you can call like two numbers. I can

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Speaker 1: call home and I can call the hospital and that's it.

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Speaker 2: And I don't know.

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Speaker 4: When I was in school, my parents never wanted to

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Speaker 4: talk to me like it was you know, you're I'm

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Speaker 4: at school there at work. Oh yeah, So what do

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Speaker 4: we need to be in constant communication about? Like if

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Speaker 4: you need the kids, These kids need to feel the

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Speaker 4: thrill of somebody coming over the intercom and saying, you know, Kiki,

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Speaker 4: I need you to come down to the office.

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Speaker 2: And you don't know why the whole class is like.

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Speaker 1: Well, that was because you were the ringleader of a

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Speaker 1: girl gang, that's part of it.

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Speaker 2: But I didn't have a phone, so I was able.

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Speaker 2: I was the leader of a movement with no phone.

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Speaker 1: Just because you were the Griselda Blanco of your middle school.

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Speaker 2: That's moment with no phone. These kids need to know

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Speaker 2: what it's like to write a girl, would you meet

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Speaker 2: my girlfriend?

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Speaker 17: Yes? Or no?

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Speaker 1: You know the three old I agree. I agree. There's

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Speaker 1: there's personal contact that the kids don't have to have anymore,

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Speaker 1: and I think that that they're they're not as well

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Speaker 1: off for it. You need to know what it's like

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Speaker 1: to have to have the courage to speak to someone.

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Speaker 13: Justice for the teachers, like, honestly, I do feel really

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Speaker 13: bad for teachers.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you call in the meeting because your child was

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Speaker 4: live screaming or streaming in my class.

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Speaker 1: Oh you're right, though, you're right in that. When I

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Speaker 1: would use the phone to call home, it was either

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Speaker 1: because I forgot something and you're going to have to

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Speaker 1: drive up and give it to me, like a book,

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Speaker 1: And it was thirty minutes away from my house. So

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Speaker 1: if the phone rang at home, my mom was going

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Speaker 1: to have to do something, come get me, because I

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Speaker 1: was trying to say I was sick, because I usually wasn't,

651
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Speaker 1: but I was trying to go home, or I needed

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Speaker 1: money for something. So you're right, those are the three

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Speaker 1: reasons that I would have been calling home, and I

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Speaker 1: don't think anybody want to hear them anyway. Yes, so yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, how about like an i CB radio if

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Speaker 1: anyone knows what that is? Break or breaker one niner,

657
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Speaker 1: you know what I mean? There's a smoky on my

658
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Speaker 1: tail and if you don't know that joke, and I'm

659
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Speaker 1: sorry for you. The Entertainer Report. Next fresshow Cawin's Entertainer Report.

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Speaker 1: He's on The Fresh Show.

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Speaker 6: Actor Alec Baldwin lost to school in New York after

662
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Speaker 6: a comedian heckled him over the fatal twenty twenty one brushshooting.

663
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Speaker 2: He missed it, and there's lots of video. Jason Scoop, impersonating.

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Speaker 6: Donald Trump, taunted Baldwin outside his home, mocking his legal

665
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Speaker 6: troubles and demanded he kiss the ring for a fake parton.

666
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Speaker 6: Alec mostly stayed silent, but eventually snapped, getting in Jason's

667
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Speaker 6: face and threaten well.

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Speaker 1: We called him a murder or two right directly. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he didn't just wrap except you're a murderer.

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Speaker 18: That was wow.

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Speaker 1: So that I mean, that was I mean, I'm all

672
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Speaker 1: for celebrities having composure, but you call me a murder

673
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Speaker 1: or twice in front of my house where my kids.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I wouldn't love that either. And now I

675
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Speaker 1: don't think I would then threaten to murder him, which

676
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Speaker 1: is what he then did. But I just looked at

677
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Speaker 1: the camera like I'm addressing it like that, you know,

678
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Speaker 1: But no, it was a little beyond I think it

679
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Speaker 1: was a little beyond the scope of just like some

680
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Speaker 1: funny impersonation.

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Speaker 6: Of course, of course, Alec mostly stayed silent, but eventually snapped,

682
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Speaker 6: getting in Jason's face and threatening to break his neck

683
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Speaker 6: and shove a camera up his ass, even though even

684
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Speaker 6: then the comedian kept going so he hit stamina. But yeah, no,

685
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Speaker 6: not not ideal outside of your house. And of course,

686
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Speaker 6: I mean he may not be found guilty. I don't know,

687
00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:27,720
Speaker 6: it's still they're going back and forth. But like, that

688
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:30,720
Speaker 6: is an insanely hard situation to go through, and you

689
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Speaker 6: don't want someone joking about it and playing in your face.

690
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Speaker 6: Speaking of fighting, the girlies are fighting. Boy Meets World

691
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Speaker 6: co stars Danielle Fischl and Maitland Ward aka Panga and

692
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Speaker 6: Rachel McGuire rehashed their ongoing feud, which I didn't know

693
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Speaker 6: they had. During a recent podcast, Maitland accused Danielle of

694
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Speaker 6: ignoring her on the set of Girl Meets World and

695
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Speaker 6: even unfollowing her on Facebook.

696
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 2: Danielle claims that's not true.

697
00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 6: The two went back and forth over mixed signals, pass messages,

698
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 6: and whether there ever was real beef between them. Sanielle apologized,

699
00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 6: but tensions lingered. By the way, if you didn't know

700
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 6: what Maitland is up to now, she is an adult

701
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:12,040
Speaker 6: film actress, so she's still acting in a different, a

702
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Speaker 6: very different kind of show than she was in before.

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Speaker 2: And you've never seen Boy Meets World, Jason, No, I

704
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Speaker 2: have not.

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Speaker 17: I know.

706
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Speaker 6: I know that was my reaction, but you're around for that.

707
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Speaker 2: I feel like I was, but I didn't sell me

708
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Speaker 2: up to it.

709
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Speaker 1: I was watching the one.

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Speaker 6: Okay, I'm choking over you're not watching Boy Meets World.

711
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:36,720
Speaker 6: Speaking up things to watch if you are watching the

712
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Speaker 6: new season of The White Lotus. Sam Novola, who plays

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Speaker 6: Lachlan Ratliff, said before heading to Thailand to film the show, which,

714
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Speaker 6: by the way, I want to go to Thailand now

715
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Speaker 6: I didn't before.

716
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Speaker 2: But it looks beautiful, he said.

717
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Speaker 6: Show creator Mike White told him to watch one of

718
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Speaker 6: Ravo's most popular reality shows as inspiration for the role.

719
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Speaker 6: He said, Mike told us to go watch Southern Charm,

720
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Speaker 6: which takes place in Charlton Charleston, South Carolina. In fact,

721
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 6: Jason Isaacs, who plays our dad, kind of modeled his

722
00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 6: entire accent and character off of that cast. But Jesus,

723
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:10,719
Speaker 6: I cannot catch my brother, Arnold Schwarzenegger. By the way,

724
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 6: his son Patrick plays his brother. By the way, also

725
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Speaker 6: in this like Southern rich family, and we get some

726
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Speaker 6: nude scenes. So now maybe Jason will finally watch the show.

727
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Speaker 2: No, I'm here for it. There's lots of naughty Patrick scenes.

728
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Speaker 19: So there you go.

729
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Speaker 6: By the way, if you missed any part of our show,

730
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Speaker 6: The Fred Show, you can catch up on every single

731
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 6: thing that we do by getting the free iHeartRadio app

732
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Speaker 6: and searching The Fred Show on demand.

733
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Speaker 1: Well, I want to hear, Pauline. I want to hear

734
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Speaker 1: your thoughts on deleting deleting people from social media.

735
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Speaker 11: Let's do it.

736
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Speaker 1: I can't wait.

737
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Speaker 11: Yeah, they talk better than dog nut. These are the

738
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Speaker 11: radio blogs on the Fred Show.

739
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:50,080
Speaker 1: Okay, someone suggesting that we didn't offer enough different perspectives

740
00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:53,520
Speaker 1: on that last topic about phones, Well, we had our opinions,

741
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:56,280
Speaker 1: and then we open the phones and people shared their opinions.

742
00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 6: Yeah, they sure did that.

743
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Speaker 1: We don't dictate, so we try and be balanced. But

744
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Speaker 1: I also don't plant phone calls. So anyway, let's do

745
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:06,760
Speaker 1: a blog show. I mean, guys, we don't have to

746
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 1: complain about everything. We can complain about most things we

747
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:14,320
Speaker 1: don't have to complain about. We don't. We don't have

748
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Speaker 1: to look for reasons to complain about every segment. Correct,

749
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:24,680
Speaker 1: maybe maybe not every segment. You know, may your blog

750
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Speaker 1: take it away. I mean, guys, come on, silly radio show.

751
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Speaker 6: It is.

752
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Speaker 1: We're having a nice time over here. Aren't we.

753
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 2: So much fun?

754
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Speaker 1: We are still guys, none of this is that serious.

755
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 1: I mean, that is a relatively serious topic. I mean,

756
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:41,920
Speaker 1: and people are welcome to have varying opinions. I think

757
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 1: the teachers were saying they're in distraction. I don't think

758
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 1: anybody was saying that. You know, that wouldn't be useful

759
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Speaker 1: for safety. But I don't think anyone can argue that.

760
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Speaker 1: They clearly that it's not a distraction to kids. Take

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Speaker 1: it away, Paulina, thank you so much.

762
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Speaker 13: Let's debate some more so, dear blog, I had a

763
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Speaker 13: question because somebody brought this up yesterday.

764
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Speaker 6: My friend's hoty actually shot to her.

765
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Speaker 13: Her and I were talking about this, and it was

766
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Speaker 13: really interesting because I never thought of it from a

767
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Speaker 13: different perspective or like, you know what about this situation,

768
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Speaker 13: but we've all seen or heard or maybe done the

769
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Speaker 13: whole Like when you break up with somebody, do you

770
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Speaker 13: delete the photos off your Instagram right or off your

771
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Speaker 13: social media?

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Speaker 2: I think that is a question that people agree or

773
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Speaker 2: disagree with. Right.

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Speaker 13: Some people are like, no, what happened, I lived it,

775
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:26,759
Speaker 13: photos are saying. Some people are like no, like we're

776
00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:30,279
Speaker 13: not together, so I'm wiping clean, right? And I thought

777
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:32,360
Speaker 13: that was very interesting because her and I had different opinions,

778
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:34,200
Speaker 13: and I believe it was just like I would take

779
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 13: it off not to be petty, I just would wipe

780
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Speaker 13: it because it's not relevant to my life, Like it's

781
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Speaker 13: not like if I'm not with you, why would you

782
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Speaker 13: be on my on my Instagram?

783
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Speaker 2: Personally, I'm like and I'm not trying to be dramatic

784
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 2: like oh I'm to.

785
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Speaker 13: This whole like wipe it clean, and like you gotta

786
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 13: figure out what happened, and like everyone's talking about it

787
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:50,319
Speaker 13: at Talk of the Town.

788
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Speaker 2: Like to me, it's not that, it's more of just

789
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Speaker 2: I would like a clean slate, like I know what happened.

790
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Speaker 6: I lived it. It was beautiful or maybe it wasn't.

791
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Speaker 18: I don't know.

792
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Speaker 2: But point is, in this fake scenario, it's it's gone.

793
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Speaker 6: It happened, right.

794
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Speaker 1: It was a little weird when you started dating someone

795
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:05,759
Speaker 1: new and you know, you go back and look in

796
00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:08,160
Speaker 1: their social media or like scroll through the grid and

797
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:11,239
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, there's the last guy kind and they

798
00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 1: looked real happy there, you know. But then again, it

799
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Speaker 1: doesn't mean just because it did happen, right, whether there's

800
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Speaker 1: a picture of it or not, it happened. Maybe we

801
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 1: don't need the reminder. I also think it can be

802
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:23,359
Speaker 1: indicative of how the relationship ended, because sometimes you'll see

803
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:25,879
Speaker 1: people who people used to date and it's like they're

804
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:29,359
Speaker 1: still there, which suggests to me that maybe it wasn't

805
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:32,440
Speaker 1: a horrible ending. If someone goes and wipes their social

806
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:35,520
Speaker 1: media of a human being typically that means I want

807
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Speaker 1: no remembrance of that human, which you know, it could

808
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Speaker 1: mean that they're scorned by that person or that it

809
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 1: was a bad breakup or whatever. So I think that

810
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Speaker 1: can be the deciding factor.

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Speaker 13: That's true too, even if we had the most beautiful,

812
00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:51,800
Speaker 13: cleanest breakup ever, I would still do it.

813
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Speaker 6: I just want that clean slay. I just feel like, listen,

814
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Speaker 6: I know what happened.

815
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Speaker 13: Maybe I wouldn't delete it, I'd archive it so you

816
00:35:57,760 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 13: know it can always put it back, and I want

817
00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:00,480
Speaker 13: to but I forget back together.

818
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Speaker 2: I don't know, you know, just thinking out loud, but

819
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Speaker 2: I feel like to me that that's my choice.

820
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 13: But then she asked me, would you lead a photo

821
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Speaker 13: of a friend that you broke up with or like you're.

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00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 6: Not friends with no more? And I never thought of

823
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:13,400
Speaker 6: that because I don't know.

824
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:15,920
Speaker 2: I think no, like, why would I lead a friend like?

825
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 2: That doesn't to me? But what's the difference?

826
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Speaker 13: Right at the same time, Zoo, you're asking you know,

827
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Speaker 13: you de leade your ex, but you won't lead a

828
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Speaker 13: friend that maybe you fell off with or that like

829
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 13: kind of did you dirty or whatever?

830
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Speaker 6: But you're just not friends with no more? And I

831
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Speaker 6: guess she has.

832
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Speaker 13: My friend has done that, and I'm like, I've never

833
00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 13: leaded a photo of anybody that's just a friend, like

834
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Speaker 13: even if we're not cool, No more like that. Now

835
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:37,520
Speaker 13: we're just really reaching, Like whereas it wipe clean the

836
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Speaker 13: whole grid, Like I don't know, I didn't really think that.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever wiped a friend. I don't.

838
00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:44,920
Speaker 1: I don't know that I've ever been serious enough with

839
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Speaker 1: anybody in the social media age to be posting their pictures,

840
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:50,279
Speaker 1: which is a different conversation for me. It's a higher bar,

841
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:55,320
Speaker 1: not not because I'm special, but because I think exposing

842
00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:58,359
Speaker 1: a relationship that I'm in on my social media that's

843
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:01,120
Speaker 1: intended for public consumption and for the show and whatever

844
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:03,800
Speaker 1: else that I don't know that everyone's ready for that.

845
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:06,839
Speaker 1: Come in here and read our text messages for one morning,

846
00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:09,359
Speaker 1: and you'll realize people just tend to, for whatever reason,

847
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:11,800
Speaker 1: they think they can be unkind because they don't have

848
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 1: to look us in the eye. And so I've told

849
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 1: this to people I have dated before, Like you want

850
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 1: me to put you up there, but I'm telling you

851
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:19,840
Speaker 1: someone's gonna say something really mean and you may not

852
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 1: like it. And you don't deserve it. But but you

853
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:24,239
Speaker 1: didn't sign up for that, so I don't know. So

854
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 1: I guess I've never had to take anybody down. But

855
00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:28,800
Speaker 1: I am, I am the king of I am Captain Petty.

856
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:32,360
Speaker 1: If i'm if I'm done with you, I will unfollow you.

857
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 1: The unfollow, I will unfollow you.

858
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's like, why why I follow you?

859
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 1: Why am I following you? If we were not friends anymore,

860
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 1: if we don't talk, there's no reason for me to

861
00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:41,959
Speaker 1: be seeing your stuff. I could mute you, I guess,

862
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:44,320
Speaker 1: and I realized for some people that's very triggering. But no,

863
00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:47,759
Speaker 1: I won't necessarily erase you. I will unfollow you, which

864
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:48,200
Speaker 1: is petty.

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Speaker 2: I know, no, no, because I do to. Yeah, I

866
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:52,680
Speaker 2: think if anything, I would do the unfollow.

867
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Speaker 13: I wouldn't go to lead our photo spread, but I

868
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:56,360
Speaker 13: would unfollow you if you and I had a crazy

869
00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 13: falling out or whatever, or me and Jason.

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Speaker 2: I know I'm doing this, it's a fake scenario. I

871
00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:07,360
Speaker 2: was just saying. I'm saying no, it's not no, guys, I'm.

872
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:08,920
Speaker 13: Just saying, but no to me, like I'm not going

873
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:11,560
Speaker 13: to lead our photos we're friends, like it happened right.

874
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 6: I'd soon rather delete a friend than I would delete

875
00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:17,640
Speaker 6: it X. I just think like, oh interesting, Yeah, like

876
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:18,799
Speaker 6: an X is like a whole.

877
00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:19,520
Speaker 2: It's a whole.

878
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:21,880
Speaker 6: I mean years and years you've spend with someone. I

879
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:23,840
Speaker 6: think it looks so goofy to like act like it

880
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 6: never happened.

881
00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:25,440
Speaker 2: If you do me.

882
00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:28,160
Speaker 1: Dirty, I'm unfollowing you. If you do me dirty, I'm

883
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:30,600
Speaker 1: I'm fine to show the world I don't support what you're.

884
00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:32,480
Speaker 6: That's when I was gonna make it shows me that

885
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 6: you're more pressed.

886
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 2: About me than if you don't.

887
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:36,239
Speaker 6: If you just leave me up there, I'd be like,

888
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:38,440
Speaker 6: oh why, I'd ask my current boyfriend, like, why are

889
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:40,360
Speaker 6: you so pressed that you need to delete everything?

890
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 2: Like you're so mad? I don't know, and I agree

891
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:43,239
Speaker 2: with you.

892
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:46,759
Speaker 1: That's the reason I'm self critical of the unfollowed because

893
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:49,120
Speaker 1: it does sort of give someone else power. It does

894
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 1: suggest to them, oh this, Oh I got him, you

895
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:54,000
Speaker 1: know with that one. But at the same time, what

896
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 1: I'm saying to you is I really don't care about

897
00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:58,920
Speaker 1: your bs, Like I'm not interested in looking at your

898
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:01,359
Speaker 1: stuff because you did me wrong, you know what I mean?

899
00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:04,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, have you ever had to refollow somebody after youd

900
00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:05,759
Speaker 4: you big one them.

901
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:07,240
Speaker 6: Yes, I feel like a clown.

902
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 1: But we don't have we don't have to talk about that.

903
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:15,080
Speaker 1: I mean, it's Fred Show next, it's the Frend Show.

904
00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:17,439
Speaker 1: Good Morning one on three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number

905
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:19,080
Speaker 1: one hit music station. You had to re follow your

906
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:19,680
Speaker 1: own husband.

907
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:23,359
Speaker 2: I'm telling you, I'm a clown. I'm married to him.

908
00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:24,960
Speaker 2: You unfollowed your husband?

909
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 1: Yes, I said, you will have no access to me

910
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:30,480
Speaker 1: except for when I'm in the house we share.

911
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:33,279
Speaker 2: And the home we share, in the marriage we share,

912
00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:37,320
Speaker 2: and the child. Yeah, all that, you unfollowed your own husband.

913
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 6: What.

914
00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:40,799
Speaker 4: I'm mad, you guys, I'm mad though I loved him,

915
00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:44,080
Speaker 4: You're crazy, Yes, sir, I am.

916
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:47,239
Speaker 2: I want him, Yeah, a lot.

917
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 8: You mean.

918
00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:51,920
Speaker 1: I could see if you divorced him.

919
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:53,920
Speaker 2: Maybe, Oh, come on, now, we're going too far.

920
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 6: It's just a little unfollowed, a little scared.

921
00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 1: No, but I'm saying I couldn't see if if you

922
00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:00,319
Speaker 1: guys broke up permanently. I can see why you would

923
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 1: unfollow him. But like, of course, he's if you're not

924
00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 1: breaking up, then that means there's going to come a

925
00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:06,600
Speaker 1: time where you're going to have to refollow him to

926
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:08,680
Speaker 1: Kiki's point, and that's like having to crawl back.

927
00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 13: Yes, you have to keep them on their toes though,

928
00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 13: Like if I can unfollow you, then you know you

929
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:14,759
Speaker 13: don't want to mess with me because tomorrow I might

930
00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:15,479
Speaker 13: block your number.

931
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 6: I've told to lose my number.

932
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:20,040
Speaker 2: Mind you, like we literally are married, all right, But

933
00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 2: when I'm mad you guys have.

934
00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:23,840
Speaker 1: I will tell you the following. The unfollow can be

935
00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:26,279
Speaker 1: very interesting as far as like you can tell people

936
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:28,040
Speaker 1: who you're not talking to, you can tell where they're

937
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:31,040
Speaker 1: at in life. Like for example, I don't mean to

938
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:32,240
Speaker 1: brag I have a lot of followers.

939
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:33,840
Speaker 17: I do.

940
00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:34,800
Speaker 20: I do.

941
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 1: I do fread on air actually compared to most people,

942
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:38,960
Speaker 1: I don't, but fred on air. Go ahead and give

943
00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 1: me a follow, but like I won't necessarily notice if

944
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:44,200
Speaker 1: someone unfollows me, like someone I may be hooked up

945
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:46,440
Speaker 1: with or dated, and then they'll date someone else and

946
00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:49,000
Speaker 1: then maybe six months later, I get a refollow, and

947
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 1: that says to me, oh, didn't work out, cause like

948
00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:55,000
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like like that, that signals

949
00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 1: to me, all for some reason, now you're interested in

950
00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:59,359
Speaker 1: what I have, what I'm up to. Now, why would

951
00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:01,719
Speaker 1: that be or like if I'm in an argument with

952
00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:03,920
Speaker 1: someone or I've had like you know, some sort of

953
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:08,320
Speaker 1: you know, distance created between you know whatever, I'm a

954
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 1: strained from someone, and then all of a sudden they

955
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:11,360
Speaker 1: pop up as a follow.

956
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:15,880
Speaker 2: Oh oh really, welcome back. Somebody would like back in?

957
00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:17,560
Speaker 2: How about that?

958
00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:18,279
Speaker 6: They always do?

959
00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:21,920
Speaker 2: You know what, don't they? They always come back.

960
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 6: I've come back.

961
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:26,319
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, Hauling, you're a crazy person. Let's see

962
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:29,640
Speaker 1: Halsey tickets seven fifty five Nickelback tickets the summer of

963
00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:32,319
Speaker 1: ninety nine and Beyond Festival at eight forty and we'll

964
00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 1: get you in to see the Fray in the nine

965
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:36,320
Speaker 1: o'clock hour on the Fread Show. It's Kiss by the

966
00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:39,120
Speaker 1: way on the iHeart app. If you're listening, you can

967
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 1: make us a preset one O three five Kiss FM.

968
00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:43,440
Speaker 1: Make that the number two preset, the number one preset

969
00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:46,480
Speaker 1: actually number three preset. The number one should be Fred's

970
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:48,600
Speaker 1: show on demand if you wouldn't mind number two, the

971
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:52,360
Speaker 1: tangent number three Kiss FM. Go ahead and do that.

972
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:57,759
Speaker 1: It's the Fread Show. Honestly, this is what the Catholic church.

973
00:41:57,800 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 1: As a Catholic I can say, what we need is

974
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:01,840
Speaker 1: a re brand, and you would be the guy to

975
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:03,920
Speaker 1: do it. Imagine the pink smoke that would come out

976
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Speaker 1: when I get Fred's show is on here for morning everybody, Tuesday,

977
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Speaker 1: February twenty fifth, It's the Fred Show.

978
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Speaker 2: Hi, Kaitlin, Good morning, Jason Robs here, I believe Hikky.

979
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 1: Good morning show. Been Shelley five hundred bucks in the

980
00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:21,759
Speaker 1: showdown five questions against our pop culture expert if you

981
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 1: can beat her? And she's done very well in this

982
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Speaker 1: game all time one thousand and six wins, only sixty

983
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Speaker 1: eight losses.

984
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Speaker 3: And what are we?

985
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Speaker 20: What is this?

986
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 1: How many game win streaks?

987
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Speaker 11: You know what?

988
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:33,839
Speaker 2: I could tell you? It'd be nice, right, I tell

989
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:35,839
Speaker 2: you it would be nice.

990
00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 1: It really would be nice to know each day where

991
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Speaker 1: they would be helpful.

992
00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 6: One, but I might have to recheck on that.

993
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 1: Pretty sure, it's not one.

994
00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 17: One.

995
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 1: It's fine up dating that all right, team a consultant team?

996
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:48,320
Speaker 1: If you which is which is full?

997
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:48,880
Speaker 17: You?

998
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:51,839
Speaker 1: And Bella right? Bella Hamene is here as well. Let

999
00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 1: me see. Mister Nasty texted us. Oh, mister nasty, my

1000
00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:58,560
Speaker 1: wife will stop sharing her location with me. Oh and

1001
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:03,520
Speaker 1: she's mad, but still keep mine. Oh yeah, my mom

1002
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:06,439
Speaker 1: does the same thing to my dad. She'll she'll turn

1003
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:08,799
Speaker 1: off his access to see where she is. Oh, that's

1004
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:13,840
Speaker 1: my everyday life. Why is that necessary in a relationship.

1005
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:16,399
Speaker 1: Why is it necessary for everyone to know where everyone

1006
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 1: is all the time? Oh?

1007
00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:19,920
Speaker 5: I mean, I don't mind if someone knows where I am.

1008
00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 5: I wish it was reciprocated, but it's not. So you

1009
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:25,319
Speaker 5: don't get to know where he is, but he gets

1010
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 5: to know where you are. I was like, you need

1011
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:28,239
Speaker 5: to share it, and he shared it for like five

1012
00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 5: minutes and then like you figured out how to turn

1013
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:31,200
Speaker 5: it off you the same way.

1014
00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:32,719
Speaker 1: What do you do this too?

1015
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 6: No?

1016
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:35,360
Speaker 4: No, but I was agreeing with mama friend, like I

1017
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:37,920
Speaker 4: can turn off my location, you cannot turn off yours.

1018
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:42,399
Speaker 1: My God, I am dating you and you're my mom.

1019
00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:50,480
Speaker 1: So somehow you're straight with Kiki and somehow I'm working

1020
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:51,000
Speaker 1: with my mom.

1021
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:52,359
Speaker 8: Yes.

1022
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:54,520
Speaker 1: And the other thing that's crazy about Kiki is it

1023
00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:57,880
Speaker 1: like my mom now will just slide into conversation on

1024
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:01,040
Speaker 1: a weekly basis, private conversation that she and Kiki are having.

1025
00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 1: On the side, they texted a regular basis. I was

1026
00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:08,000
Speaker 1: talking to Keiky earlier and I'm like, what, I haven't

1027
00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:10,880
Speaker 1: talked to you in two days, you won't answer the phone.

1028
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:12,640
Speaker 11: Right.

1029
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 6: How's she doing?

1030
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:16,120
Speaker 1: By the way, she'd shoulder surgery, which is hard to

1031
00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:18,359
Speaker 1: say quickly. She's doing she's doing well. But my mom

1032
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:22,200
Speaker 1: will not stop. My mom is non stop, and so

1033
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:25,200
Speaker 1: they she got a new shoulder because she hurt her shoulder.

1034
00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:27,560
Speaker 1: And then she's like this is hard and it won't

1035
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 1: it hurts and it won't move. But then she tried

1036
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:33,880
Speaker 1: to like, you know, work at a moving company or

1037
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:36,359
Speaker 1: something like. She's like she's like carrying someone's couch for them.

1038
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, Mom, I mean, you just got a

1039
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 1: brand new shoulder. Was stop right, Like what do you do?

1040
00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 1: She Last night she's holding Mayve because Amanda went. My

1041
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 1: sister went to like her aunt went, my aunt. Her

1042
00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:50,719
Speaker 1: sister went after the surgery. My sister's there now and

1043
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:52,719
Speaker 1: brought the baby and then my mom's sitting there and

1044
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:55,640
Speaker 1: the baby's like, you know, playing with her, and I'm like, mom,

1045
00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:58,960
Speaker 1: like leave the thing heal, you know, I don't know

1046
00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:00,799
Speaker 1: it hurts. I'm like, get hurt because it's a baby

1047
00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:04,360
Speaker 1: banging on it. That's why crazy Starego will debate some

1048
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:07,040
Speaker 1: relationship drama in just a second showbiz with five hundred

1049
00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:09,880
Speaker 1: bucks good news stories this hour, Stay or Go? That

1050
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:11,400
Speaker 1: I mentioned that I think I may. I don't know

1051
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:13,640
Speaker 1: what I mentioned her. Now we lost our person though,

1052
00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:15,480
Speaker 1: That's why I got distracted. We need our person. We

1053
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:18,640
Speaker 1: need our person back for stairgo. Where's Melanie? Get Melanie?

1054
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 2: We're having some issues with Melanie, so oh are we?

1055
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:21,359
Speaker 12: Well?

1056
00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:23,359
Speaker 1: May I may have to tell Melanie's story for her

1057
00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:25,280
Speaker 1: in my bath to female boys.

1058
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:26,360
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, we love it.

1059
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:27,440
Speaker 1: This is Melanie.

1060
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:37,040
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's also Melanie, the same person.

1061
00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:39,440
Speaker 1: The smoke if I.

1062
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 2: Become the Poe.

1063
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know anyway, I may have to tell

1064
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:45,799
Speaker 1: you Melanie's story in just a second if we can't

1065
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:47,520
Speaker 1: get her and the Entertainment report this hour too. What

1066
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:47,960
Speaker 1: are you working on?

1067
00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 6: K Michael Jordan's very Naughty Son? We got to talk about. Also,

1068
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:54,920
Speaker 6: a book that we had to read in school is

1069
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:55,960
Speaker 6: being turned into a movie.

1070
00:45:56,400 --> 00:45:59,400
Speaker 1: Okay, and forty minutes of commercial free Fred show starts

1071
00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:01,560
Speaker 1: right now back in two minutes after Go Got Bruno,

1072
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:05,360
Speaker 1: the frend show is on. It's Stay or Go. So

1073
00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:09,040
Speaker 1: we called Melanie because she wrote us. We booked her.

1074
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 1: We booked the lady who emailed us. We called her

1075
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:15,920
Speaker 1: a dude answered, yes, pretty sure. It's the dude we're

1076
00:46:15,920 --> 00:46:18,600
Speaker 1: talking about right now. So let's just we're just gonna

1077
00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:20,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you the story getting weird, right, Like,

1078
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:22,040
Speaker 1: I didn't want to tell him, Hey, we're about to

1079
00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 1: talk about your you know, bedroom prowess or lack thereof,

1080
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:28,920
Speaker 1: but now we are. So we didn't tell him that.

1081
00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:31,200
Speaker 1: We should have been like, hey, she wrote us this

1082
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:32,959
Speaker 1: note about you, and she wanted us to talk about

1083
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:34,759
Speaker 1: you on the radio for millions of people. But how

1084
00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:36,360
Speaker 1: about we just talk to you about it instead?

1085
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:36,680
Speaker 21: Right?

1086
00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:37,279
Speaker 1: What do you think?

1087
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:37,640
Speaker 17: Right?

1088
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:40,840
Speaker 1: So this is this scenario that she laid out for us.

1089
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:43,239
Speaker 1: A woman named Melanie who we now can't get a

1090
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:50,600
Speaker 1: hold of. She is married, and apparently this dude went

1091
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:54,080
Speaker 1: on medication to help with anxiety and depression. The meads

1092
00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:56,759
Speaker 1: are working for him, which is wonderful, but they have

1093
00:46:56,960 --> 00:47:02,759
Speaker 1: lowered his intimacy drive drastically, and so we'll leave it there.

1094
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:04,960
Speaker 1: Anyone who's ever been on an antidepressant knows this is

1095
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:07,440
Speaker 1: a possible side effect. There are a number of them.

1096
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:10,279
Speaker 1: There's there can be issues with drive, there can be

1097
00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:16,160
Speaker 1: issues with arousal. Is that a nice, a medical way

1098
00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:18,840
Speaker 1: of saying, because you know, I'm not currently licensed, but

1099
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 1: we're working to get it back. But anyway, that's the issue,

1100
00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:28,640
Speaker 1: I guess. She said she's happy that he feels better psychologically,

1101
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:31,880
Speaker 1: but physical intimacy is extremely important to her and she

1102
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:34,120
Speaker 1: doesn't want to be in a relationship without it. When

1103
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 1: she brings it up, her husband gets defensive and asks

1104
00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:40,719
Speaker 1: why she would want him off medication that is helping him.

1105
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:44,919
Speaker 1: Even though he says hits the medication. She can't help

1106
00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:48,040
Speaker 1: but feel like he is not attracted to her anymore.

1107
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:50,360
Speaker 1: What should she do back? I can tell you this

1108
00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:54,600
Speaker 1: scenario back in the day before I realized I maybe

1109
00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:57,080
Speaker 1: wasn't supposed to be taking certain medicines, and I stopped

1110
00:47:57,880 --> 00:48:01,080
Speaker 1: for different reasons. I can relate to that because it

1111
00:48:01,200 --> 00:48:05,319
Speaker 1: does do a little number on the drive. And as

1112
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:08,480
Speaker 1: much as you show somebody like, look, here are the

1113
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:10,840
Speaker 1: actual side effects. Let's look at their website, like, this

1114
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:13,680
Speaker 1: is real stuff here that happens when you take certain

1115
00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:15,759
Speaker 1: It doesn't even have to be psychological medication. It could

1116
00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:17,640
Speaker 1: be in a number of different medications. But you know,

1117
00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:27,080
Speaker 1: medication can change people's what we'll call them sexual What's

1118
00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 1: the word. I'm trying to come up with a nice

1119
00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:30,279
Speaker 1: way of saying it. It can change the way that

1120
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:34,319
Speaker 1: people perform in the bedroom and so, but it's easy

1121
00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 1: to get inside your head about that, right and be like, well,

1122
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:40,080
Speaker 1: of course this has to be about me. You know,

1123
00:48:40,120 --> 00:48:42,160
Speaker 1: everybody else I've been with, this is how they act,

1124
00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:47,320
Speaker 1: and this is what happens. But again, the physiological results

1125
00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:49,080
Speaker 1: or repercussions or whatever you want to call them of

1126
00:48:49,160 --> 00:48:52,880
Speaker 1: taking medicine, the side effects are real, and so you know,

1127
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 1: you have to weigh in this case, this is helping

1128
00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:57,840
Speaker 1: him feel better as a human being day in and

1129
00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:01,080
Speaker 1: day out, but it is affecting the bedroom stuff, and

1130
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:04,360
Speaker 1: it's making her feel self conscious. I might argue that

1131
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:09,160
Speaker 1: while that sucks or doesn't, that's not really fair for

1132
00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:12,040
Speaker 1: her to necessarily put that on him, because he's saying,

1133
00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:14,680
Speaker 1: I'm taking this medicine, this is what's doing it, This

1134
00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:17,400
Speaker 1: makes me feel better. Why are we making this about you?

1135
00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:19,520
Speaker 1: You know, why are we making why do I have

1136
00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:22,840
Speaker 1: Why do I now have to defend my attraction to

1137
00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:24,960
Speaker 1: you because I need to do something that I think

1138
00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 1: is better for my life. And you know, he could

1139
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:29,000
Speaker 1: probably go to the doctor and see if the dosing

1140
00:49:29,120 --> 00:49:32,239
Speaker 1: is right, or see if there's an alternative. Oftentimes you

1141
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 1: can offset one with another. I mean, there are different

1142
00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:36,239
Speaker 1: things you can do, and maybe he's done that, But

1143
00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:40,160
Speaker 1: I don't necessarily think it's fair that when he can.

1144
00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:44,000
Speaker 1: I mean, it's scientifically proven that these are the effects

1145
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:46,239
Speaker 1: that whatever kind of medicine. I think there are other

1146
00:49:46,280 --> 00:49:47,960
Speaker 1: medicines that do this too. I don't think it's just

1147
00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:51,719
Speaker 1: stuff for anxiety and depression. I think other medicines can

1148
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:55,160
Speaker 1: cause different kinds of side effects. It could be detrimental

1149
00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:56,880
Speaker 1: to that part of your life. I don't think it's

1150
00:49:56,920 --> 00:49:58,560
Speaker 1: fair for her to be like, well, he doesn't he

1151
00:49:58,600 --> 00:50:01,800
Speaker 1: doesn't think I'm attractive anymore, when when that may have

1152
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:03,400
Speaker 1: absolutely nothing there's no proof of that.

1153
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:04,600
Speaker 17: Yeah.

1154
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:07,320
Speaker 4: I can only speak for what I would do, and

1155
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:09,399
Speaker 4: I would not leave my husband over this at all.

1156
00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 4: Like I would be so proud of my husband for

1157
00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 4: figuring out what's going on with him or trying to

1158
00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:17,320
Speaker 4: work through his issues getting medicated, like get it. I

1159
00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:20,080
Speaker 4: would work with him through this entire process, let him

1160
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:22,400
Speaker 4: get comfortable with the meds and figure it out, and

1161
00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:25,200
Speaker 4: then we can focus on getting our sex life back popping.

1162
00:50:25,880 --> 00:50:28,360
Speaker 4: Like most importantly for me in that relationship is my

1163
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:32,239
Speaker 4: partner's mental health. Like, so I would sacrifice anything to

1164
00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:35,439
Speaker 4: know that my partner is mentally feeling much better before

1165
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:37,399
Speaker 4: I'm worried about, like why you're not trying to take

1166
00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:39,800
Speaker 4: me down, you know, Like it's so much bigger than that.

1167
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:42,239
Speaker 2: So I can only say what I would do. I

1168
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:43,640
Speaker 2: would not leave my husband over this.

1169
00:50:43,840 --> 00:50:46,080
Speaker 1: I feel like that's what she's saying to him basically, though,

1170
00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:49,319
Speaker 1: is this makes me feel insecure, which I'm sorry about, right.

1171
00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:52,839
Speaker 1: I'm sure he doesn't intend for that. No, but you're

1172
00:50:52,880 --> 00:50:55,319
Speaker 1: trying to get health here. Essentially, I would rather. I'd

1173
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:59,239
Speaker 1: almost rather that I feel attractive and you not be

1174
00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:03,440
Speaker 1: comfortable in everyday life. That's whether she means to say

1175
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 1: that or not. That's what she's saying essentially, is I

1176
00:51:06,200 --> 00:51:08,840
Speaker 1: feel insecure. You may have a good reason for it.

1177
00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:11,880
Speaker 1: I don't really care. I don't want to feel insecure,

1178
00:51:11,960 --> 00:51:14,360
Speaker 1: so I need you back the way you were. And

1179
00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:16,880
Speaker 1: if that's not, if that doesn't, if your quality of

1180
00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:20,400
Speaker 1: life suffers from that, then sorry, at least I feel wanted.

1181
00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:22,239
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sorry, but that's the way that comes

1182
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:25,319
Speaker 1: off to me, and it is unfortunate that he has

1183
00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:27,640
Speaker 1: these issues and that the medicine is causing these issues

1184
00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:29,400
Speaker 1: to his libido. Thank you for the people who texted

1185
00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:31,480
Speaker 1: that was the word I was looking for. But yet

1186
00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:35,080
Speaker 1: I and that is a problem. I realize that's a

1187
00:51:35,160 --> 00:51:37,560
Speaker 1: huge problem. But I think you have to ask yourself,

1188
00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 1: what's a bigger problem my partner living every day with

1189
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 1: crippling anxiety or ruminating or overthinking, or you know, I

1190
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:52,440
Speaker 1: don't know whatever it is, or me being reinforced that

1191
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:55,360
Speaker 1: I'm actually attractive. I don't mean to minimize it, but

1192
00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:57,319
Speaker 1: let's be honest to you. That's what we're saying.

1193
00:51:57,760 --> 00:51:59,400
Speaker 6: So is it like, I mean, I'm saying this as

1194
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:02,160
Speaker 6: someone who's on antidepressant, so obviously I am on his side.

1195
00:52:02,320 --> 00:52:04,080
Speaker 6: But is it like a wait and see, like do

1196
00:52:04,239 --> 00:52:05,960
Speaker 6: we just wait for a while while you get stable

1197
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 6: and then we try a different medication or is it

1198
00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:11,480
Speaker 6: are we agreeing we're not really going to have that intimacy.

1199
00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:15,080
Speaker 4: Ever, I say, wait and see, wait and see, and

1200
00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:17,520
Speaker 4: then there's other options. Somebody on the text mentioned like,

1201
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:19,960
Speaker 4: there's a lot of other things you can do that

1202
00:52:20,239 --> 00:52:22,600
Speaker 4: may not you know, you can you can get freaky

1203
00:52:22,680 --> 00:52:23,160
Speaker 4: other ways.

1204
00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:25,680
Speaker 2: Basically, like, you know, I don't want to name all

1205
00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:31,560
Speaker 2: the way, but they freaky.

1206
00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 1: Freak like to hear it.

1207
00:52:35,560 --> 00:52:36,920
Speaker 2: That's for the tangent, but.

1208
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:40,960
Speaker 1: Boiled trim.

1209
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:44,480
Speaker 4: With me because that's more importable, you know, Like we

1210
00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:46,839
Speaker 4: can talk about other ways to please me later once

1211
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 4: you get healthy, Okay, yeah, and just quickly.

1212
00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:51,000
Speaker 1: Eight five five five one three five if you want

1213
00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:55,200
Speaker 1: to cheme in on this, on this situation, yes, Paulina, I'm.

1214
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:57,360
Speaker 13: Curious, like not even talking about the sex life, but

1215
00:52:57,880 --> 00:53:00,400
Speaker 13: does the medication affect you in other ways? Either are

1216
00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:02,560
Speaker 13: our caller's boyfriend or like people who are on it,

1217
00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:04,640
Speaker 13: like Kaylin, Like does it affect you know the other ways?

1218
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:06,640
Speaker 13: Like when I was taking stuff for because I'm add

1219
00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:09,759
Speaker 13: they were giving me something to take right and I

1220
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:11,319
Speaker 13: was just a full on zombie all day.

1221
00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:12,759
Speaker 2: Nothing to do with my sex life, but I just

1222
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:13,919
Speaker 2: like how I felt sleep.

1223
00:53:13,960 --> 00:53:17,920
Speaker 1: I mean there's a ton of side effects sleeping, sweating, okay, uh,

1224
00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:22,799
Speaker 1: poor sleeping appetite. I mean, there's a million different things,

1225
00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:26,680
Speaker 1: and unfortunately they don't all show up in everybody consistently,

1226
00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:30,480
Speaker 1: and there's not there's not a clear path to you know,

1227
00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:32,880
Speaker 1: knowing what's gonna happen. Knowing what medicine is going to

1228
00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:34,880
Speaker 1: do what, and then knowing how to offset it. It

1229
00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:36,840
Speaker 1: can be tricky. Yeah, it can be tricky.

1230
00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 6: Of course, then it probably is.

1231
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:41,520
Speaker 13: And I only suggest this if it's affecting his day

1232
00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:42,720
Speaker 13: to day, right, maybe he's.

1233
00:53:42,760 --> 00:53:44,279
Speaker 2: Losing his personality or whatever it might be.

1234
00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:44,600
Speaker 17: Right.

1235
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:47,319
Speaker 6: I think that's a misconception that a lot of people think.

1236
00:53:47,360 --> 00:53:49,640
Speaker 6: If you take antidepressants, a lot of people think, oh,

1237
00:53:49,640 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 6: it's gonna numb you out. It's gonna numb you out.

1238
00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:53,959
Speaker 6: And and yes some of them can. Obviously that would

1239
00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:56,080
Speaker 6: be the wrong medication. They're wrong dosage. You know me,

1240
00:53:56,239 --> 00:53:59,160
Speaker 6: I am not numb, I cry, I'm happy, I can

1241
00:53:59,200 --> 00:54:01,640
Speaker 6: get angry, like I have, all the range of emotions. Absolutely,

1242
00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 6: So if it's numbing you out or making you a

1243
00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:06,879
Speaker 6: zombie like adderall for example, or whatever which is mine,

1244
00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:08,360
Speaker 6: you should switch medication.

1245
00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 2: It shouldn't make you like that.

1246
00:54:09,920 --> 00:54:13,680
Speaker 1: He probably needs to at least examine tweaking into the

1247
00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:15,920
Speaker 1: dosage you're trying. I mean, is he That would be

1248
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:18,680
Speaker 1: my question? Is he trying different things? Because I'm sure

1249
00:54:18,800 --> 00:54:20,400
Speaker 1: and that's another thing that that people don't seem to

1250
00:54:20,440 --> 00:54:23,319
Speaker 1: take into consideration. I bet he don't like it either.

1251
00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:24,480
Speaker 17: You know.

1252
00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:30,759
Speaker 1: Another issue that people have hypothetically is that they are

1253
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:35,080
Speaker 1: excited to be there there's just no finish, and that

1254
00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:38,080
Speaker 1: throws people off too, because it's like, oh, you know,

1255
00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:40,719
Speaker 1: I can't we can't get to the end. And it's like,

1256
00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:43,360
Speaker 1: trust me, I would love it.

1257
00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:44,319
Speaker 17: You know what I mean.

1258
00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:46,400
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get there now.

1259
00:54:46,400 --> 00:54:48,520
Speaker 2: I'm a people. Please. They don't even play with me

1260
00:54:48,680 --> 00:54:48,840
Speaker 2: like that.

1261
00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 1: You know, I'm not saying that, like, I'm not saying

1262
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:53,680
Speaker 1: this is easy, and it would mess with me too.

1263
00:54:54,120 --> 00:54:57,400
Speaker 1: But if I love someone and I've seen the effects

1264
00:54:57,600 --> 00:55:00,920
Speaker 1: of whatever they're dealing with, whatever they're medical condition is,

1265
00:55:01,680 --> 00:55:03,680
Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be psychological. And you're telling me

1266
00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:07,080
Speaker 1: this medicine makes your life better, which I think will

1267
00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:10,400
Speaker 1: ultimately make my life better, then I got to be

1268
00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:12,480
Speaker 1: more understanding than I want to be because it's not

1269
00:55:12,560 --> 00:55:15,160
Speaker 1: about me. And I think once you start projecting, oh

1270
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:17,480
Speaker 1: I'm unattractive or I'm not good in bad or I'm

1271
00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:20,320
Speaker 1: not doing this stuff, it's just so unfair because this

1272
00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:23,920
Speaker 1: is this isn't up for interpretation. It's scientific, like, this

1273
00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:26,040
Speaker 1: is what the medicine does. It's been proven.

1274
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:27,799
Speaker 6: Yeah, I would like to tell her if I could

1275
00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:28,759
Speaker 6: talk to her again. I don't know.

1276
00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:31,040
Speaker 1: She call this guy and tell him. I would like

1277
00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:32,439
Speaker 1: to tell him without a boner.

1278
00:55:33,320 --> 00:55:35,480
Speaker 6: Oh, there is a mouth swab that they offer now

1279
00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:38,120
Speaker 6: that shows you how you metabolize each medication. So it

1280
00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:40,040
Speaker 6: gives you a green zone, a yellow zone, and a

1281
00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:42,680
Speaker 6: red zone. Do not take a might work for you?

1282
00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:44,920
Speaker 6: And will you can metabolize this?

1283
00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:45,600
Speaker 17: I did that.

1284
00:55:45,760 --> 00:55:48,040
Speaker 6: It helped me on my journey of knowing what worked

1285
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:51,040
Speaker 6: best for me, So that's helpful. That's also an option I.

1286
00:55:51,040 --> 00:55:53,359
Speaker 1: Feel for both of them. I just think it's like, please,

1287
00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:55,760
Speaker 1: don't make this something that it probably isn't.

1288
00:55:55,920 --> 00:55:56,800
Speaker 6: Making it about you.

1289
00:55:57,200 --> 00:55:59,640
Speaker 1: It's sort of yeah, it's like, so now I have

1290
00:55:59,719 --> 00:56:01,880
Speaker 1: to I have to deal with this and prove to

1291
00:56:01,920 --> 00:56:03,480
Speaker 1: you that I'm still attracted to you even though I

1292
00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:05,960
Speaker 1: am and always have been. Or I have to just

1293
00:56:06,239 --> 00:56:10,000
Speaker 1: deal with my condition, whatever it is, and then I

1294
00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:15,920
Speaker 1: guess you'll feel better. I don't know about that. Hey Elizabeth, Hi,

1295
00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:18,960
Speaker 1: Hi Elizabeth, Hey, good morning. What do you want to say.

1296
00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:24,239
Speaker 21: Mine? I'm totally anti farm so I don't like any

1297
00:56:24,239 --> 00:56:27,239
Speaker 21: of the pharmacuticals for a myriad of reasons. And also

1298
00:56:27,520 --> 00:56:30,000
Speaker 21: I'm like the grandma of GOT thirteen.

1299
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Speaker 7: So I'm at that age and my body is physically changing.

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Speaker 7: And I also had a relap sublime.

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Speaker 21: To see Brenda beat of COVID and MI my guy.

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Speaker 21: He kind of stopped wanting to.

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00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:42,360
Speaker 19: Touch me stuff.

1304
00:56:42,400 --> 00:56:44,839
Speaker 21: I thought it would be as well, but he said,

1305
00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:49,080
Speaker 21: I didn't know how you were at pained for having.

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Speaker 19: Emultions and all that.

1307
00:56:50,160 --> 00:56:52,319
Speaker 7: But he didn't want to lead you, but I didn't

1308
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Speaker 7: want to crush it you.

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Speaker 21: And that was like a year ago, and it's like

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Speaker 21: in the last couple of months that it's been fact

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Speaker 21: a great.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you're saying, let's see how this. Let's just

1313
00:57:03,440 --> 00:57:07,239
Speaker 1: be patient and see over time if things change or

1314
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Speaker 1: you know, make adjustments.

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Speaker 21: If you love him and understand that he's going to

1316
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Speaker 21: do something and not me.

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Speaker 1: So okay, thank you, Elizabeth, have a good day, and

1318
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Speaker 1: we don't care. You can be one hundred as long

1319
00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:24,400
Speaker 1: as you're part of the thirteen. It doesn't but it all,

1320
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Speaker 1: it all counts, and it all matters. Hi, Michael, Hey, Michael,

1321
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Speaker 1: So you can relate to this.

1322
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Speaker 4: I can.

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Speaker 19: I'm in a similar situation with my partner. He's been

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Speaker 19: on anxiety depression meds for quite a while, and you know,

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00:57:43,600 --> 00:57:48,280
Speaker 19: it's it's hard because it's it's a no win situation.

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Speaker 19: You know, I think instinctially or everybody longs to want

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00:57:53,120 --> 00:57:56,000
Speaker 19: to have that feelings. I can sympathize with her because

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Speaker 19: this is for me, has been going on for quite

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Speaker 19: some time, and I choose to stay. But it's not

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Speaker 19: an easy it's not an easy task to stay because

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Speaker 19: I say, because I love him and I understand.

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Speaker 2: That it's not his fault.

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Speaker 19: But if she chooses to stay, it's going to take

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Speaker 19: a lot of work.

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Speaker 11: To continue to say.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sure it's not easy, but I would encourage

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Speaker 1: her not to make this about her because it isn't

1338
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Speaker 1: It probably isn't.

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Speaker 19: I agree, it's not about her, but you can't fight

1340
00:58:33,400 --> 00:58:36,880
Speaker 19: that that feeling of even if you take at a

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00:58:36,920 --> 00:58:40,240
Speaker 19: step further, just wanting to have you know, more sex

1342
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Speaker 19: or your sex drive is obviously still normal and healthy.

1343
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Speaker 19: So that that makes it very hard to kind of

1344
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Speaker 19: process everything.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, thank you, have a good day. Glad you called.

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Speaker 9: Thank you.

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00:58:55,280 --> 00:58:56,840
Speaker 1: Well, I'm not trying to be vague, but you know,

1348
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Speaker 1: I'm a pilot and there's a whole list of things

1349
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Speaker 1: we're not allowed to take as pilots. And I didn't

1350
00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:04,040
Speaker 1: know that much younger in my life, and so I

1351
00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:07,400
Speaker 1: don't anymore. But I may have and I have been

1352
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:09,720
Speaker 1: in relationship for people basically have said to me, stop

1353
00:59:09,800 --> 00:59:12,800
Speaker 1: taking it because I need that WHOA. And I'll be

1354
00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:14,760
Speaker 1: honest with you, it was the end of the relationship

1355
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Speaker 1: when that happened, because what you're saying to me is

1356
00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:19,720
Speaker 1: I don't care about your quality of life. I need

1357
00:59:19,840 --> 00:59:23,040
Speaker 1: to feel wanted more and you're not. And you're so

1358
00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:26,560
Speaker 1: not only are you not fulfilling me, but I'm not

1359
00:59:26,760 --> 00:59:29,760
Speaker 1: concerned with your well being. Is what the person saying

1360
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Speaker 1: to you, whether they mean it or not. And I

1361
00:59:31,800 --> 00:59:35,720
Speaker 1: get I'm sorry that people feel that way when someone's

1362
00:59:35,760 --> 00:59:38,520
Speaker 1: not feeling well or going through a bodily transition or

1363
00:59:38,960 --> 00:59:41,720
Speaker 1: a life transition, or the taking medicine and has side effects.

1364
00:59:42,120 --> 00:59:44,120
Speaker 1: That sucks. I'm sorry, But isn't that sort of the

1365
00:59:44,200 --> 00:59:47,080
Speaker 1: nature of a relationship. Is that if I'm working to

1366
00:59:47,160 --> 00:59:49,479
Speaker 1: try and fix it and I am trying my best

1367
00:59:49,520 --> 00:59:51,960
Speaker 1: to make you feel wanted, don't you want what's best

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00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:52,240
Speaker 1: for me?

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Speaker 17: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, But I do think as partners we do have

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Speaker 4: to have a plan in place because my feelings matter too,

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Speaker 4: And I just I'm getting this from the take. Somebody

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01:00:00,440 --> 01:00:02,320
Speaker 4: said that they were in this situation and it's been

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Speaker 4: five years that they haven't really been intimate because of

1375
01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:07,480
Speaker 4: the same reason, and she's like, well, how much longer

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01:00:07,520 --> 01:00:08,080
Speaker 4: should I wait?

1377
01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:09,440
Speaker 1: That's the real thing.

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01:00:09,640 --> 01:00:12,560
Speaker 4: And as a partner, you have to work together, so

1379
01:00:12,760 --> 01:00:15,360
Speaker 4: you know, put his mental health first right now, but

1380
01:00:15,800 --> 01:00:17,800
Speaker 4: you know, come together for a game plan in the

1381
01:00:17,840 --> 01:00:19,360
Speaker 4: future to kind of figure out how you can please

1382
01:00:19,400 --> 01:00:20,560
Speaker 4: your partner because five years.

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01:00:20,440 --> 01:00:22,040
Speaker 1: Five years no intimacy. And by the way, I don't

1384
01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:24,880
Speaker 1: know that we're talking about no intimacy. I hope. I

1385
01:00:24,960 --> 01:00:27,560
Speaker 1: mean I think we're talking about different intimacy or more

1386
01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:30,680
Speaker 1: limited or some of the things we've talked about. No intimacy,

1387
01:00:30,800 --> 01:00:33,040
Speaker 1: intimacy in five years. That's tough. Yeah, that is that's

1388
01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:35,240
Speaker 1: really difficult. You're gonna have to I would agree. You

1389
01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:39,840
Speaker 1: got to figure out some kind of work around. Hey Jamie, Hi, Hi,

1390
01:00:40,040 --> 01:00:41,200
Speaker 1: good morning. What do you want to say? This is

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01:00:41,240 --> 01:00:44,000
Speaker 1: to a woman who we basically we wind up calling

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01:00:44,040 --> 01:00:46,400
Speaker 1: the guy that we're talking about right now, and then

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01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:49,000
Speaker 1: we pretended that we were a telemarketer and we start

1394
01:00:49,040 --> 01:00:52,560
Speaker 1: speaking of touent blowing lass right, And so basically, though,

1395
01:00:52,600 --> 01:00:54,960
Speaker 1: this guy is on some medication that's affecting his libido,

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01:00:55,240 --> 01:00:57,040
Speaker 1: and this woman's upset about it, and she said, I

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01:00:57,080 --> 01:00:59,560
Speaker 1: don't feel as attractive anymore, even though I know he's

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01:00:59,600 --> 01:01:00,960
Speaker 1: on the map, and like, I don't know what to do.

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Speaker 1: What do you think?

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Speaker 12: Well, I've been on anxiety medicine for a long time,

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01:01:06,520 --> 01:01:11,040
Speaker 12: and this was an issue for me to lower text drive,

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01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:14,320
Speaker 12: and of course it was brought up and I was

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01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:18,720
Speaker 12: really offended and hurt, and it was an issue for

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01:01:18,800 --> 01:01:22,920
Speaker 12: a while, and then thankfully I switched medicine so I

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01:01:22,960 --> 01:01:26,560
Speaker 12: could get pregnant. And now this medicine is the right

1406
01:01:26,640 --> 01:01:31,160
Speaker 12: one for me because everything has returned to normal. But

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01:01:31,400 --> 01:01:34,080
Speaker 12: she definitely needs to give him time to figure that

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01:01:34,160 --> 01:01:37,360
Speaker 12: out and space to breathe and just feel good for

1409
01:01:37,440 --> 01:01:41,800
Speaker 12: a while before this becomes an issue that she would

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01:01:41,880 --> 01:01:42,520
Speaker 12: leave him over.

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01:01:43,000 --> 01:01:45,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, I agree. Thank you, Jamie, have a

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01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:48,400
Speaker 1: great day. Thanks for listening. You're terrible appreciate you sharing.

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01:01:48,440 --> 01:01:50,360
Speaker 1: People have texted birth control can do this too. I've

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01:01:50,360 --> 01:01:56,200
Speaker 1: actually read about women changing birth control and becoming essentially

1415
01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:58,920
Speaker 1: resistant to their partner, like all of a sudden they

1416
01:01:58,960 --> 01:02:01,120
Speaker 1: don't smell good, or they don't like.

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01:02:01,160 --> 01:02:02,760
Speaker 2: Ohing goth that can do that too. Some of my

1418
01:02:02,840 --> 01:02:04,000
Speaker 2: friends have experienced that, like.

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01:02:04,000 --> 01:02:06,160
Speaker 1: We're all of a sudden there, it's like they're somehow

1420
01:02:06,400 --> 01:02:08,680
Speaker 1: revolted by the very same thing they were attracted to

1421
01:02:08,840 --> 01:02:12,280
Speaker 1: prior and because of pheromones or hormones or something, and

1422
01:02:12,360 --> 01:02:14,760
Speaker 1: it's like that's a problem, right, we got to work

1423
01:02:14,840 --> 01:02:17,920
Speaker 1: through that somehow. But I mean to say, like, well,

1424
01:02:17,960 --> 01:02:20,320
Speaker 1: you better take those hormones to make me feel I

1425
01:02:20,400 --> 01:02:22,880
Speaker 1: mean again, five years, that's a long time. But from

1426
01:02:22,920 --> 01:02:25,640
Speaker 1: my reaction to be initially, I don't care what's best

1427
01:02:25,680 --> 01:02:28,040
Speaker 1: for you or your body because I don't feel wanted.

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01:02:28,720 --> 01:02:34,000
Speaker 1: That's not the way to approach it. I don't think, Hey, Cassandra, Hi, Hi,

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01:02:34,200 --> 01:02:36,160
Speaker 1: So you're coming at this from the perspective of a

1430
01:02:36,200 --> 01:02:37,640
Speaker 1: mental health therapist, what do you think?

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01:02:39,040 --> 01:02:41,920
Speaker 7: Yeah, so, I've actually worked with clients and I have

1432
01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:45,880
Speaker 7: perinal experience. I used to be on anti anxiety medication

1433
01:02:46,040 --> 01:02:52,000
Speaker 7: and depression medication before. I think she's being incredibly selfish

1434
01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:55,600
Speaker 7: in this situation, and I know that sounds very harsh. However,

1435
01:02:56,320 --> 01:02:59,240
Speaker 7: I believe she needs to do some self exploration as

1436
01:02:59,320 --> 01:03:02,200
Speaker 7: to like why this is making her feel so insecure.

1437
01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:06,240
Speaker 7: And the beautiful thing about like medication and therapy is

1438
01:03:06,320 --> 01:03:09,280
Speaker 7: that it could be done like in tandem, so he

1439
01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:11,360
Speaker 7: could potentially get to the point like if he goes

1440
01:03:11,400 --> 01:03:14,400
Speaker 7: to therapy, he gets the coping skills for his anxiety

1441
01:03:14,440 --> 01:03:16,520
Speaker 7: and depression, and he gets to the point where I'm like,

1442
01:03:17,040 --> 01:03:18,960
Speaker 7: he's like, hey, like I feel like I don't need

1443
01:03:19,040 --> 01:03:22,000
Speaker 7: to be on medication anymore. That's very much a possibility,

1444
01:03:22,400 --> 01:03:26,840
Speaker 7: but that work needs to be done prior to that happening,

1445
01:03:27,000 --> 01:03:29,960
Speaker 7: so that way he has that foundation in place, he

1446
01:03:30,120 --> 01:03:32,800
Speaker 7: has all those tools in place to help him with

1447
01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:34,040
Speaker 7: his day to day life.

1448
01:03:34,240 --> 01:03:37,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, Cassandra, thank you, have a good day, you too,

1449
01:03:38,040 --> 01:03:40,200
Speaker 1: Thank you. Love you guys, Yeah, I love you too. Again,

1450
01:03:40,240 --> 01:03:41,919
Speaker 1: I don't mean to make it seem like her needs

1451
01:03:41,960 --> 01:03:46,280
Speaker 1: don't matter, but again I think when you from personal experience,

1452
01:03:46,320 --> 01:03:48,680
Speaker 1: when you approach somebody with Okay, well this isn't working

1453
01:03:48,800 --> 01:03:51,720
Speaker 1: for me, even though it's best for you. And we're

1454
01:03:51,720 --> 01:03:54,320
Speaker 1: talking about your health and your and your quality of life.

1455
01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:58,320
Speaker 1: We're not talking about, uh, you know, whether you cut

1456
01:03:58,520 --> 01:04:00,640
Speaker 1: your all your hair off or shave your beard off,

1457
01:04:00,800 --> 01:04:03,160
Speaker 1: or change your job or you know, we're not talking

1458
01:04:03,200 --> 01:04:05,840
Speaker 1: about things that are I'm not going to call them trivial,

1459
01:04:05,960 --> 01:04:09,360
Speaker 1: but things that can be adjusted or there's compromise. I mean, again,

1460
01:04:09,680 --> 01:04:12,280
Speaker 1: do you want me to live this way forever? If

1461
01:04:12,320 --> 01:04:15,360
Speaker 1: I need this, or do you want to or do

1462
01:04:15,480 --> 01:04:18,960
Speaker 1: you need me to reinforce that. I like you, I'm

1463
01:04:19,000 --> 01:04:20,720
Speaker 1: with you. I want to be here, I want to

1464
01:04:20,760 --> 01:04:23,400
Speaker 1: do those And I think by taking that perspective, you're

1465
01:04:23,400 --> 01:04:26,280
Speaker 1: also not giving any consideration to this person and how

1466
01:04:26,400 --> 01:04:29,640
Speaker 1: they probably feel about that, because trust me, it's not fun.

1467
01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:32,560
Speaker 1: It's not fun to do the deal and not get

1468
01:04:32,600 --> 01:04:35,120
Speaker 1: the deal at the end the deal and then not.

1469
01:04:35,160 --> 01:04:37,880
Speaker 2: The Deal's familiar with both deals. I want the deal,

1470
01:04:38,280 --> 01:04:39,680
Speaker 2: you need the deal, the deal?

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01:04:40,760 --> 01:04:42,760
Speaker 1: How do you think I feel? Are you getting the deal?

1472
01:04:44,120 --> 01:04:45,520
Speaker 2: That would be that's torture.

1473
01:04:46,000 --> 01:04:48,520
Speaker 1: Like yeah, when I was like, you know, twenty and

1474
01:04:48,600 --> 01:04:50,640
Speaker 1: a strong wind would come by and it, you know,

1475
01:04:50,880 --> 01:04:53,680
Speaker 1: was over, I really would have I would have dreamed

1476
01:04:53,680 --> 01:04:54,320
Speaker 1: for that scenario.

1477
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Speaker 2: You're right over there, she's crying and deal man.

1478
01:04:59,040 --> 01:05:00,800
Speaker 1: Well, no, I get the deal, because this is this

1479
01:05:00,960 --> 01:05:03,240
Speaker 1: is old news. The deal has been I got the dough.

1480
01:05:03,320 --> 01:05:06,800
Speaker 1: I found the DT No, I don't say I found

1481
01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:08,160
Speaker 1: out I wasn't supposed to be doing that. I'm not

1482
01:05:08,240 --> 01:05:10,200
Speaker 1: doing that, and I figured out other ways. I did

1483
01:05:10,320 --> 01:05:13,320
Speaker 1: therapy and whatever else. Excuse me, professional coaching. I mean,

1484
01:05:13,360 --> 01:05:14,480
Speaker 1: I go to professional coaching.

1485
01:05:15,400 --> 01:05:16,960
Speaker 6: You've got a lot of rules and regulations.

1486
01:05:17,240 --> 01:05:20,520
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm gonna I'm just here so I don't

1487
01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:24,680
Speaker 1: get fined. Let's see the entertainer report next in two minutes, Shelley,

1488
01:05:24,840 --> 01:05:26,840
Speaker 1: if you want to take her on, five hundred bucks,

1489
01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:30,800
Speaker 1: is the price eight five five five three five call now,

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01:05:30,840 --> 01:05:34,600
Speaker 1: we'll play next. Calin's entertainer report is on The Fresh Show.

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01:05:35,160 --> 01:05:38,640
Speaker 6: It turns out that white substance cops found in Marcus

1492
01:05:38,760 --> 01:05:42,200
Speaker 6: Jordan's pocket, son of Michael Jordan, during his DUI arrest,

1493
01:05:42,360 --> 01:05:44,520
Speaker 6: was determined to be ketamine, not cocaine.

1494
01:05:44,600 --> 01:05:45,400
Speaker 2: Oh no, okay.

1495
01:05:45,960 --> 01:05:49,120
Speaker 6: Cops conducted a field test on powdered during his February

1496
01:05:49,200 --> 01:05:51,320
Speaker 6: fourth traffic stop, you know the one where he told

1497
01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:53,360
Speaker 6: him they wouldn't find anything in his pants other than

1498
01:05:53,400 --> 01:05:55,600
Speaker 6: a big you know what. And then he also tried

1499
01:05:55,640 --> 01:05:58,280
Speaker 6: to request Mariah Carey when they were taking him into

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01:05:58,320 --> 01:05:58,680
Speaker 6: the station.

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01:06:00,000 --> 01:06:01,400
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna leave that right there.

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01:06:02,400 --> 01:06:04,960
Speaker 6: But while in his initial testing showed that he was

1503
01:06:05,000 --> 01:06:08,880
Speaker 6: positive for cocaine. After further testing, they realized it was

1504
01:06:08,920 --> 01:06:12,000
Speaker 6: still drugs, just ketamine. I guess the two substances feature,

1505
01:06:12,080 --> 01:06:14,640
Speaker 6: of course, the same color and texture, and ketamine can

1506
01:06:14,720 --> 01:06:17,760
Speaker 6: often yield a positive cocaine reading, so it's not out

1507
01:06:17,800 --> 01:06:20,960
Speaker 6: of the ordinary. I guess I'm hearing. So they updated

1508
01:06:21,040 --> 01:06:24,240
Speaker 6: his charges to reflect that. But this actually could benefit him,

1509
01:06:24,520 --> 01:06:27,720
Speaker 6: as cocaine is a Schedule two drug and ketamine is

1510
01:06:27,800 --> 01:06:31,000
Speaker 6: a Schedule three drug in Florida where he got the DUI. Now,

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Speaker 6: Marcus has been pretty quiet since the arrests he should be.

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01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:36,479
Speaker 6: He did make sure to wish his dad a happy

1513
01:06:36,720 --> 01:06:40,360
Speaker 6: sixty second birthday. His dad has also not commented on

1514
01:06:40,480 --> 01:06:43,280
Speaker 6: the dui. I can't imagine why. In music news, Selena

1515
01:06:43,320 --> 01:06:45,560
Speaker 6: Gomez in Benny Blanco's new album I Said I Love

1516
01:06:45,600 --> 01:06:48,320
Speaker 6: You first dropped March twenty first. I'm very excited for it,

1517
01:06:48,640 --> 01:06:51,600
Speaker 6: and while we now have a first look at one

1518
01:06:51,640 --> 01:06:53,640
Speaker 6: of the music videos that they're shooting for the album

1519
01:06:54,200 --> 01:06:56,680
Speaker 6: with the recently engaged couple as the stars of it. Now,

1520
01:06:56,800 --> 01:06:58,200
Speaker 6: I don't know if you guys saw these photos, but

1521
01:06:58,280 --> 01:07:01,000
Speaker 6: Selena is in a few different hout fits for the shoot,

1522
01:07:01,080 --> 01:07:03,840
Speaker 6: but most noticeable. Is this like black slip lingerie and

1523
01:07:03,880 --> 01:07:06,640
Speaker 6: a red lip, so it's probably a nazy music video. Benny,

1524
01:07:06,720 --> 01:07:09,200
Speaker 6: on the other hand, was in a seventies inspired burnt

1525
01:07:09,640 --> 01:07:12,680
Speaker 6: orange suit a la Travis Kelce walking into that Game

1526
01:07:13,480 --> 01:07:17,000
Speaker 6: Beg's Want to Be costume and he was being wired

1527
01:07:17,040 --> 01:07:18,680
Speaker 6: and lifted into the air or for a stunt.

1528
01:07:18,720 --> 01:07:20,720
Speaker 2: I don't know what they're up to, and I'm not

1529
01:07:20,720 --> 01:07:22,200
Speaker 2: also not sure what song that's for.

1530
01:07:22,400 --> 01:07:26,800
Speaker 6: But Selena, Benny, and Gracie Abrams recently released the official

1531
01:07:26,880 --> 01:07:28,480
Speaker 6: video for their song call Me When You Break Up,

1532
01:07:28,520 --> 01:07:30,120
Speaker 6: which is a really good song and it was all

1533
01:07:30,240 --> 01:07:34,080
Speaker 6: recorded completely on an iPhone by the trio in a bedroom.

1534
01:07:34,680 --> 01:07:36,000
Speaker 2: By the way, if you miss any.

1535
01:07:35,840 --> 01:07:37,720
Speaker 6: Part of our show, The Fred Show, you can catch

1536
01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:40,200
Speaker 6: up on every single thing. It's all up on the free,

1537
01:07:40,240 --> 01:07:42,840
Speaker 6: new and improved iHeartRadio app. Just search The Fred Show

1538
01:07:42,880 --> 01:07:43,360
Speaker 6: on demand.

1539
01:07:43,480 --> 01:07:46,480
Speaker 1: I just tried to spell the words physiology. I don't

1540
01:07:46,480 --> 01:07:48,760
Speaker 1: know how to do that, because somebody texted, well, lack

1541
01:07:48,800 --> 01:07:51,160
Speaker 1: of intimacy will then affect the other person's mental health.

1542
01:07:51,400 --> 01:07:54,200
Speaker 1: That is true, but I think we're talking about two

1543
01:07:54,240 --> 01:07:58,040
Speaker 1: different things. I think maybe we're talking about it again.

1544
01:07:58,080 --> 01:07:59,840
Speaker 1: I'm not a professional, But I think we're talking about

1545
01:08:00,040 --> 01:08:05,200
Speaker 1: semi controllable versus uncontrollable. Right, if it's physiological, if it's chemical,

1546
01:08:06,120 --> 01:08:08,880
Speaker 1: that's different than you feeling I'm not saying it's less

1547
01:08:08,960 --> 01:08:11,440
Speaker 1: than But isn't that different than you being depressed that

1548
01:08:11,600 --> 01:08:12,840
Speaker 1: you don't feel wanted by me?

1549
01:08:13,480 --> 01:08:15,600
Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean one could you could lose your life.

1550
01:08:16,120 --> 01:08:18,400
Speaker 1: The other one, I'm not sure, And I'm not saying again,

1551
01:08:18,400 --> 01:08:20,760
Speaker 1: I'm not saying one is more important than the other necessarily,

1552
01:08:20,880 --> 01:08:25,000
Speaker 1: But like, if you're feeling depressed because you're not wanted

1553
01:08:25,080 --> 01:08:28,400
Speaker 1: and yet you know the reason why, then I guess

1554
01:08:28,439 --> 01:08:31,519
Speaker 1: I would encourage you maybe to take ownership of those feelings.

1555
01:08:31,960 --> 01:08:36,160
Speaker 1: Because if I have a psychological issue anxiety depression, it's chemical,

1556
01:08:36,280 --> 01:08:40,360
Speaker 1: I don't necessarily get to just take a mental control.

1557
01:08:41,040 --> 01:08:45,240
Speaker 1: It's not necessarily controllable by the person who's suffering from that.

1558
01:08:46,000 --> 01:08:47,800
Speaker 11: So I think it's two different things. But Fred show,

1559
01:08:49,200 --> 01:08:51,639
Speaker 11: do you have what it takes to battle show biz?

1560
01:08:51,760 --> 01:08:54,960
Speaker 11: Shelley In the show Biz Showdown, Shoby is welcome to

1561
01:08:55,000 --> 01:08:55,639
Speaker 11: the Medical Hour.

1562
01:08:56,040 --> 01:08:59,960
Speaker 2: I know, I know, good morning, Hi, Let's play the game.

1563
01:09:00,240 --> 01:09:00,799
Speaker 8: It's excited.

1564
01:09:00,880 --> 01:09:03,519
Speaker 1: Let's just shift gears, you know, boom, boom, back we go,

1565
01:09:03,640 --> 01:09:06,920
Speaker 1: we go, medicine, we go, depress shann exactly, we go,

1566
01:09:07,120 --> 01:09:12,160
Speaker 1: Libido boom right to fun games. Hi, Lonnie, how you doing, Lonnie?

1567
01:09:13,479 --> 01:09:14,920
Speaker 17: I'm good, Lonnie.

1568
01:09:14,960 --> 01:09:16,439
Speaker 1: Welcome to the program. Tell us about you.

1569
01:09:18,680 --> 01:09:19,679
Speaker 19: I'm on my way to work.

1570
01:09:21,400 --> 01:09:24,240
Speaker 16: I have a dog, Hi having more?

1571
01:09:25,760 --> 01:09:27,880
Speaker 1: Well, congratulations. What's your son's name?

1572
01:09:29,360 --> 01:09:29,639
Speaker 2: Connor?

1573
01:09:30,040 --> 01:09:33,200
Speaker 1: Well, Connor, Welcome to the world. Welcome to the thirteen.

1574
01:09:33,280 --> 01:09:35,200
Speaker 1: We need all that we can get. We'll take all

1575
01:09:35,240 --> 01:09:37,800
Speaker 1: the newborns, all the pets, all the dogs and cats

1576
01:09:37,840 --> 01:09:39,080
Speaker 1: and iguanas and whatever else.

1577
01:09:39,640 --> 01:09:40,200
Speaker 6: I'm coming for you.

1578
01:09:40,400 --> 01:09:43,599
Speaker 1: Yep, well right, thank god. You know required listening when

1579
01:09:43,600 --> 01:09:45,080
Speaker 1: you come out of when you come out of show

1580
01:09:45,080 --> 01:09:47,479
Speaker 1: a bit, Shelley, then you have to listen to the show. Sorry,

1581
01:09:47,520 --> 01:09:50,280
Speaker 1: it's required. Let's play the game five bucks to surprise

1582
01:09:50,360 --> 01:09:54,240
Speaker 1: Shelley's record one thousand and six wins and only sixty

1583
01:09:54,360 --> 01:09:55,040
Speaker 1: eight losses.

1584
01:09:55,080 --> 01:09:58,680
Speaker 2: Ready, all right, good luck, all right, Lonnie, Here we go.

1585
01:09:58,800 --> 01:10:01,320
Speaker 1: Shelly's off to the sam boof poof. Here we go.

1586
01:10:01,479 --> 01:10:09,519
Speaker 1: Question number one, which awards show happened on Sunday? Which?

1587
01:10:09,920 --> 01:10:12,880
Speaker 1: Excuse me? Actor Martin Short said he caught COVID at

1588
01:10:12,920 --> 01:10:17,920
Speaker 1: the SNL anniversary celebration? Which number season is the show celebrating?

1589
01:10:22,640 --> 01:10:22,800
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1590
01:10:22,800 --> 01:10:24,240
Speaker 1: What season that is celebrating? Right now?

1591
01:10:25,160 --> 01:10:25,320
Speaker 3: Oh?

1592
01:10:25,439 --> 01:10:29,120
Speaker 1: Poor? Okay, by the way, she said sad right for

1593
01:10:29,240 --> 01:10:29,599
Speaker 1: number one?

1594
01:10:29,760 --> 01:10:33,040
Speaker 2: I don't think so. I heard. I heard the saga.

1595
01:10:33,240 --> 01:10:36,320
Speaker 1: Okay, what is the name of What is the name

1596
01:10:36,360 --> 01:10:40,360
Speaker 1: of the popular YouTube show where celebrities eat increasingly spicy

1597
01:10:40,439 --> 01:10:44,080
Speaker 1: or chicken wings while being interviewed by Sean Evans? Or

1598
01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:47,120
Speaker 1: is Sean? Yeah? I would get is this Seann? Or

1599
01:10:47,200 --> 01:10:50,080
Speaker 1: is a scene? Some people say scene for Sean? They's

1600
01:10:50,080 --> 01:10:51,000
Speaker 1: fell the same way, don't they?

1601
01:10:51,160 --> 01:10:52,000
Speaker 6: What Sean is?

1602
01:10:52,240 --> 01:10:53,840
Speaker 2: Se An is still show you?

1603
01:10:54,040 --> 01:10:54,439
Speaker 4: No, I know that.

1604
01:10:54,520 --> 01:10:56,680
Speaker 1: But some people say scene for the same don't they

1605
01:10:56,680 --> 01:10:57,759
Speaker 1: say scene for the same spelling?

1606
01:10:57,840 --> 01:10:59,920
Speaker 2: Now, where do you hang out right with scene?

1607
01:11:00,520 --> 01:11:00,760
Speaker 1: Seeing?

1608
01:11:01,880 --> 01:11:03,640
Speaker 2: You know it's Sean Emmons? But I see that.

1609
01:11:03,720 --> 01:11:04,920
Speaker 1: I can said that, you know, I like to make

1610
01:11:05,000 --> 01:11:06,360
Speaker 1: names fancier than they are. I don't know.

1611
01:11:06,520 --> 01:11:06,840
Speaker 9: There's no.

1612
01:11:08,880 --> 01:11:10,599
Speaker 2: No, there is but to meet them.

1613
01:11:11,960 --> 01:11:14,800
Speaker 1: A maerologist in Arizona called see McLaughlins. So you know what,

1614
01:11:16,439 --> 01:11:22,599
Speaker 1: you know what? You knock it off? That's the reason

1615
01:11:22,640 --> 01:11:25,880
Speaker 1: I'm confused, because he spells it the same way. Yeah,

1616
01:11:25,960 --> 01:11:28,280
Speaker 1: there's no one there's no one on earth name scene.

1617
01:11:29,520 --> 01:11:30,560
Speaker 1: Thank you Paulina for that.

1618
01:11:30,840 --> 01:11:31,519
Speaker 2: Say it again.

1619
01:11:31,920 --> 01:11:38,240
Speaker 1: Nobody somebody called that, says me. Now, if you're as

1620
01:11:38,320 --> 01:11:44,560
Speaker 1: now and if they don't, they don't exist. Which I

1621
01:11:44,720 --> 01:11:46,880
Speaker 1: just love it. You're over here going that doesn't exist

1622
01:11:46,920 --> 01:11:47,400
Speaker 1: in the world.

1623
01:11:50,479 --> 01:11:51,200
Speaker 7: You know, I love you.

1624
01:11:51,560 --> 01:11:54,160
Speaker 1: But I'm just like, I don't think I can say that.

1625
01:11:54,520 --> 01:11:56,439
Speaker 1: I don't think I can say about anything that it

1626
01:11:56,520 --> 01:12:01,080
Speaker 1: doesn't exist in the world. But which golden girl is

1627
01:12:01,160 --> 01:12:07,040
Speaker 1: the face of a new Forever stamp? I know we

1628
01:12:07,120 --> 01:12:09,360
Speaker 1: were playing a game. I'm sorry for one. Yeah, and

1629
01:12:09,960 --> 01:12:13,080
Speaker 1: did she get number three? We get number three. Some

1630
01:12:13,280 --> 01:12:15,840
Speaker 1: of the characters in the new season of The White

1631
01:12:15,920 --> 01:12:19,320
Speaker 1: Lotus were inspired by the show Southern Charm on which

1632
01:12:19,400 --> 01:12:26,760
Speaker 1: network would you find Southern Charm? So one, I'll give

1633
01:12:26,800 --> 01:12:29,680
Speaker 1: you two, I'll give you saga, I'll give it to you.

1634
01:12:29,760 --> 01:12:30,200
Speaker 2: I don't care.

1635
01:12:30,240 --> 01:12:31,640
Speaker 1: It's fine, it's it's all right.

1636
01:12:31,680 --> 01:12:32,880
Speaker 2: I'm getting forgot about me.

1637
01:12:33,040 --> 01:12:35,519
Speaker 1: No, we didn't. Was just telling us what does and

1638
01:12:35,600 --> 01:12:40,800
Speaker 1: doesn't exist in the world based on her worldview. I'd

1639
01:12:40,840 --> 01:12:45,960
Speaker 1: love it, Okay, somebody, somebody, somebody said, is there a

1640
01:12:46,080 --> 01:12:48,280
Speaker 1: scene out there or not? I'm going to call it.

1641
01:12:48,360 --> 01:12:49,840
Speaker 1: See McLaughlin in Arizona.

1642
01:12:49,960 --> 01:12:52,040
Speaker 2: Right now is an s C A N.

1643
01:12:53,800 --> 01:12:54,920
Speaker 1: John Vaughn is an s C A N.

1644
01:12:55,040 --> 01:12:57,519
Speaker 6: Yeah, Well that's see, that's right.

1645
01:12:59,280 --> 01:13:02,960
Speaker 1: The man is scene here. They Okay, which awards show

1646
01:13:02,960 --> 01:13:07,600
Speaker 1: happened on Sunday? She got a five? She got a

1647
01:13:08,520 --> 01:13:13,120
Speaker 1: kind of a one? Okay, Okay, which awards show happened

1648
01:13:13,160 --> 01:13:17,160
Speaker 1: on Sunday? I'm gonna dm C McLaughlin right now, I

1649
01:13:17,280 --> 01:13:21,320
Speaker 1: really do. Actor Martin Short said that he cut COVID

1650
01:13:21,360 --> 01:13:24,600
Speaker 1: at the SNL anniversary celebration. Which number season is the

1651
01:13:24,640 --> 01:13:28,280
Speaker 1: show celebrating? Yeah? What is the name of a popular

1652
01:13:28,320 --> 01:13:31,280
Speaker 1: YouTube show where celebrities eat increasingly spicy your chicken wings

1653
01:13:31,320 --> 01:13:34,840
Speaker 1: while being interviewed by Sean Evans.

1654
01:13:36,640 --> 01:13:37,080
Speaker 2: Hot one?

1655
01:13:39,640 --> 01:13:42,559
Speaker 1: Which Golden Girl is the face of a new Forever stamp?

1656
01:13:43,680 --> 01:13:45,600
Speaker 1: That's right, And some of the characters in the new

1657
01:13:45,680 --> 01:13:48,400
Speaker 1: season of White Lotus were inspired by the show Southern

1658
01:13:48,520 --> 01:13:52,160
Speaker 1: Charm on which network? Would you find Southern Charm? Bramo,

1659
01:13:52,320 --> 01:13:54,559
Speaker 1: All right, that's a five? Hey, Lonnie, not even close.

1660
01:13:54,640 --> 01:13:56,840
Speaker 1: I love you. I love you did a great job

1661
01:13:56,920 --> 01:13:58,639
Speaker 1: and you had to put up with all that. Jason,

1662
01:13:58,680 --> 01:14:00,200
Speaker 1: Can we give her something? Because yeah, I had to

1663
01:14:00,200 --> 01:14:02,559
Speaker 1: put up with all that. You don't get the money,

1664
01:14:02,640 --> 01:14:06,599
Speaker 1: but you do get something. Hold on. Okay, all right,

1665
01:14:09,080 --> 01:14:12,320
Speaker 1: some people call her Steve, but some people call Annie Steve.

1666
01:14:12,400 --> 01:14:19,880
Speaker 1: They do what in this world? It doesn't exist. That's

1667
01:14:19,920 --> 01:14:25,599
Speaker 1: your number one thousand and seven and five and fifty

1668
01:14:25,640 --> 01:14:27,280
Speaker 1: bucks tomorrow. I want to go home. Okay, I'm gonna

1669
01:14:27,360 --> 01:14:29,479
Speaker 1: leave now, I'm gonna go. I'm going to get out

1670
01:14:29,479 --> 01:14:33,240
Speaker 1: of here, Shelley. Yeah, once you have a great day.

1671
01:14:33,520 --> 01:14:33,800
Speaker 2: Thank you.

1672
01:14:34,840 --> 01:14:36,880
Speaker 1: Three more days left with you? I need all three?

1673
01:14:36,960 --> 01:14:38,599
Speaker 1: Okay it is three?

1674
01:14:38,760 --> 01:14:40,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, okay, I'm gonna do my best.

1675
01:14:41,040 --> 01:14:43,160
Speaker 1: And then when is the baby actually supposed to come?

1676
01:14:43,240 --> 01:14:45,240
Speaker 6: I know that the six is a due date?

1677
01:14:45,880 --> 01:14:48,200
Speaker 1: Okay, so you're giving yourself a little bit of you know,

1678
01:14:48,280 --> 01:14:49,000
Speaker 1: a window there.

1679
01:14:49,200 --> 01:14:51,960
Speaker 6: Yes, because my daughter came a little bit early. So yeah,

1680
01:14:51,960 --> 01:14:52,960
Speaker 6: it makes a feel litt more caught.

1681
01:14:53,000 --> 01:14:55,160
Speaker 1: I think early. I bet early. And now Calen's the

1682
01:14:55,160 --> 01:14:55,960
Speaker 1: gambler in the room.

1683
01:14:56,040 --> 01:14:56,240
Speaker 18: Are you?

1684
01:14:56,400 --> 01:14:57,320
Speaker 1: What is Vegas saying?

1685
01:14:57,880 --> 01:15:00,680
Speaker 2: What's the over under second kid? I had one the

1686
01:15:00,720 --> 01:15:01,160
Speaker 2: first game?

1687
01:15:01,600 --> 01:15:02,360
Speaker 1: Just fall out right?

1688
01:15:02,520 --> 01:15:05,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, that kid is gonna crip walk right on out ye.

1689
01:15:05,280 --> 01:15:08,840
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, I'm thinking I'm thinking early, Williams. I'm

1690
01:15:08,840 --> 01:15:12,960
Speaker 1: thinking thirty second labor. Just walk out. Just hello, I'm here.

1691
01:15:13,240 --> 01:15:16,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, well I hope I hope that. Are you going

1692
01:15:16,840 --> 01:15:18,280
Speaker 2: natural again? Shall Yeah?

1693
01:15:18,680 --> 01:15:23,200
Speaker 1: Yeah you are by so yeah, it's no no epidural.

1694
01:15:23,680 --> 01:15:24,639
Speaker 6: I'm gonna give it a shot.

1695
01:15:25,120 --> 01:15:28,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, good for you, Thank you, good lord, thank you.

1696
01:15:28,800 --> 01:15:30,120
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, have a good day.

1697
01:15:30,160 --> 01:15:31,240
Speaker 6: Thanks, all right, you too.

1698
01:15:31,479 --> 01:15:34,559
Speaker 2: Bye. Look at this we got scene.

1699
01:15:34,840 --> 01:15:38,600
Speaker 1: I'm irish. I have four cousins name sc a n

1700
01:15:38,760 --> 01:15:42,280
Speaker 1: pronounced sane. Stop it right now, y'all just trying to

1701
01:15:42,320 --> 01:15:42,759
Speaker 1: be fancy.

1702
01:15:42,960 --> 01:15:48,120
Speaker 11: Yeah, that's it. I texted that. But more thread show. Next,

1703
01:15:52,320 --> 01:15:56,160
Speaker 11: you've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the

1704
01:15:56,320 --> 01:15:58,959
Speaker 11: Fred Show. Brad, Good morning, welcome to the program.

1705
01:15:59,240 --> 01:16:02,880
Speaker 1: How are you I'm doing I'm a little bit confused. Okay,

1706
01:16:03,200 --> 01:16:04,920
Speaker 1: Brad is confused. Let's see if we can help with

1707
01:16:05,000 --> 01:16:06,880
Speaker 1: the confusion. So we're trying to figure out if this

1708
01:16:06,960 --> 01:16:10,400
Speaker 1: woman Cassie maybe ghosting you. So tell us about Cassie

1709
01:16:10,520 --> 01:16:12,600
Speaker 1: and then about any dates that you've been on and

1710
01:16:12,960 --> 01:16:15,000
Speaker 1: did all the backstory here, and then how we can help.

1711
01:16:15,160 --> 01:16:19,280
Speaker 3: So I'm at Cassie at this networking event for other

1712
01:16:19,400 --> 01:16:20,479
Speaker 3: people in real estate.

1713
01:16:21,360 --> 01:16:22,639
Speaker 20: I'm a real estate agent.

1714
01:16:22,920 --> 01:16:23,639
Speaker 2: She's a lawyer.

1715
01:16:24,600 --> 01:16:25,320
Speaker 6: She's like cute.

1716
01:16:25,920 --> 01:16:27,160
Speaker 1: We got her number, and.

1717
01:16:27,680 --> 01:16:29,400
Speaker 20: After the event that I asked her out on a

1718
01:16:29,560 --> 01:16:33,960
Speaker 20: date and she said yes. We met up at this

1719
01:16:34,080 --> 01:16:40,320
Speaker 20: cool bar, and I know she left kind of quickly,

1720
01:16:40,600 --> 01:16:43,960
Speaker 20: like after two drinks, but I thought we had a

1721
01:16:44,000 --> 01:16:46,559
Speaker 20: pretty good time. I just figured she had an early meeting.

1722
01:16:46,560 --> 01:16:49,240
Speaker 1: Okay, so she kind of took off after the date,

1723
01:16:49,320 --> 01:16:52,840
Speaker 1: like kind of quickly and two days excuse me, two drinks.

1724
01:16:52,840 --> 01:16:55,080
Speaker 1: I feel like is the standard, whether you like it

1725
01:16:55,200 --> 01:16:56,760
Speaker 1: or not, for a first date. I feel like that's

1726
01:16:56,840 --> 01:16:59,360
Speaker 1: kind of like people's comfort level, Like, hey, I'll go

1727
01:16:59,479 --> 01:17:02,080
Speaker 1: off for with you that way. If I have one

1728
01:17:02,360 --> 01:17:04,800
Speaker 1: maybe two, and then I want to get out, I

1729
01:17:04,920 --> 01:17:07,160
Speaker 1: have an out. But at least is how I look

1730
01:17:07,200 --> 01:17:08,880
Speaker 1: at it, because then if like, let's say you go

1731
01:17:09,000 --> 01:17:10,880
Speaker 1: for two drinks it goes really well, then you can

1732
01:17:10,960 --> 01:17:13,000
Speaker 1: extend the date. Hey, you want to get something to eat,

1733
01:17:13,080 --> 01:17:15,200
Speaker 1: or like we can go do something else. But then

1734
01:17:15,240 --> 01:17:17,280
Speaker 1: if it doesn't go well, which I don't know what

1735
01:17:17,400 --> 01:17:19,800
Speaker 1: happened here exactly, then you've got your out, like I

1736
01:17:19,840 --> 01:17:21,600
Speaker 1: did my drinks thing, and then we're gonna move on.

1737
01:17:21,840 --> 01:17:23,639
Speaker 1: Did you feel like that? Did you feel like, hey,

1738
01:17:26,160 --> 01:17:27,840
Speaker 1: we had two drinks and it kind of fizzled and

1739
01:17:27,920 --> 01:17:29,400
Speaker 1: she walked away. I mean, you must not feel that

1740
01:17:29,439 --> 01:17:31,640
Speaker 1: way if you were expecting her to call. No, I

1741
01:17:31,640 --> 01:17:32,639
Speaker 1: don't think it's fizzled.

1742
01:17:33,200 --> 01:17:36,400
Speaker 20: I honestly don't know to be because this doesn't happen often.

1743
01:17:36,680 --> 01:17:38,680
Speaker 1: Okay, So my man here, Brad, like he's got a

1744
01:17:38,800 --> 01:17:41,200
Speaker 1: you got a great batting record with these women. Like

1745
01:17:41,320 --> 01:17:43,080
Speaker 1: you're out here just you're getting all the dates you want,

1746
01:17:43,160 --> 01:17:45,400
Speaker 1: is what you're saying, Brad. Yeah, I mean I'm a

1747
01:17:45,439 --> 01:17:46,360
Speaker 1: good looking guy.

1748
01:17:47,920 --> 01:17:48,320
Speaker 2: Myself.

1749
01:17:48,560 --> 01:17:51,040
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I see right. So you're puzzled here because

1750
01:17:51,080 --> 01:17:53,280
Speaker 1: it's like, hey, we we talked to the event and

1751
01:17:53,360 --> 01:17:55,120
Speaker 1: then we went and had drinks, so that's not really

1752
01:17:55,160 --> 01:17:58,280
Speaker 1: two dates. But like it wasn't a total flyer. I mean,

1753
01:17:58,320 --> 01:17:59,760
Speaker 1: she knew what she was getting into, knew what you

1754
01:17:59,800 --> 01:18:02,519
Speaker 1: look like, and kind of knew the vibe, and so

1755
01:18:02,840 --> 01:18:04,280
Speaker 1: you know, you have these drinks and then she doesn't

1756
01:18:04,280 --> 01:18:05,439
Speaker 1: call you back. You're like, what the heck?

1757
01:18:05,720 --> 01:18:08,240
Speaker 20: Yeah, my normal first date is like most people's third

1758
01:18:08,320 --> 01:18:08,840
Speaker 20: or fourth day.

1759
01:18:09,080 --> 01:18:11,160
Speaker 1: Oh oh okay, I see, well what does that mean?

1760
01:18:11,520 --> 01:18:13,519
Speaker 1: Hold on, I'm trying to be what does that mean exactly?

1761
01:18:14,200 --> 01:18:18,800
Speaker 1: You know, about the So he's closing on Oh I

1762
01:18:18,960 --> 01:18:22,479
Speaker 1: got eye, My goodness. Okay, So for Brad, the Brad

1763
01:18:22,520 --> 01:18:25,040
Speaker 1: effect is we don't go to normally it would be

1764
01:18:25,160 --> 01:18:30,519
Speaker 1: three dates. Not for Brad, Brad date number one Kiki

1765
01:18:30,560 --> 01:18:33,280
Speaker 1: you know what, you know what he's talking about. Yeah, yeah,

1766
01:18:33,479 --> 01:18:37,040
Speaker 1: because Kiki for Big Tim several dates made him wait,

1767
01:18:37,479 --> 01:18:39,479
Speaker 1: you know, many many dates. But if she going out

1768
01:18:39,520 --> 01:18:41,640
Speaker 1: with Brad, yeah, lots of years. Yeah, well that might

1769
01:18:41,680 --> 01:18:44,200
Speaker 1: be part of the problem. Then maybe that's where the

1770
01:18:44,280 --> 01:18:46,160
Speaker 1: ring is then, but I don't know. All right, Well,

1771
01:18:46,240 --> 01:18:48,720
Speaker 1: let's let's call this woman, Cassie. We're gonna have you

1772
01:18:48,800 --> 01:18:50,120
Speaker 1: on the phone at the same time. Of course, we're

1773
01:18:50,160 --> 01:18:52,000
Speaker 1: going to ask questions on your behalf, and at some

1774
01:18:52,040 --> 01:18:53,760
Speaker 1: point you're welcome to jump in. And the hope is

1775
01:18:53,840 --> 01:18:56,439
Speaker 1: that whatever's going on we can straighten out. Maybe she's

1776
01:18:56,479 --> 01:18:59,720
Speaker 1: been busy or distracted somehow, and if that's the case,

1777
01:18:59,760 --> 01:19:02,360
Speaker 1: we'll you up on another date and pay for it. Okay,

1778
01:19:03,320 --> 01:19:05,680
Speaker 1: We're gonna find out what's up. Parks to waiting by

1779
01:19:05,720 --> 01:19:08,640
Speaker 1: the phone. After Rose and Bruno in two minutes went

1780
01:19:08,680 --> 01:19:11,040
Speaker 1: back on The Fred Show. Don't move Rose, It's the

1781
01:19:11,080 --> 01:19:13,360
Speaker 1: Fred Show on the radio and on the iHeart app

1782
01:19:13,439 --> 01:19:15,320
Speaker 1: live and anytime starts put a Fred show on demand

1783
01:19:15,400 --> 01:19:19,280
Speaker 1: and make us a preset. Please, Hey Brad, ye, hey man,

1784
01:19:19,400 --> 01:19:21,760
Speaker 1: Let's call Cassie. You guys, you met in person in

1785
01:19:21,800 --> 01:19:23,360
Speaker 1: a networking event, you went on a date and had

1786
01:19:23,360 --> 01:19:25,200
Speaker 1: a couple drinks. You thought it went well, but you

1787
01:19:25,320 --> 01:19:27,760
Speaker 1: have not heard from her since then, and you want

1788
01:19:27,800 --> 01:19:30,479
Speaker 1: to know why. Yeah, please, all right, let's call her now.

1789
01:19:30,520 --> 01:19:43,160
Speaker 1: Good luck, Brad, hullo. Hi is this Cassie? Yeah, Hi Cassie,

1790
01:19:43,280 --> 01:19:44,880
Speaker 1: good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling for the

1791
01:19:44,920 --> 01:19:47,559
Speaker 1: Fred Show, the morning radio show. The whole crew is here,

1792
01:19:47,600 --> 01:19:48,760
Speaker 1: and I do have to tell you that you are

1793
01:19:48,840 --> 01:19:50,880
Speaker 1: on the radio right now, and I would need your

1794
01:19:50,920 --> 01:19:52,760
Speaker 1: permission to continue with the call. Can which hat for

1795
01:19:52,840 --> 01:19:54,920
Speaker 1: just a second on the on the show? Would you mind?

1796
01:19:56,600 --> 01:19:58,040
Speaker 20: I guess I don't mind.

1797
01:19:58,080 --> 01:19:59,679
Speaker 17: I don't know how you guys got my number.

1798
01:20:00,600 --> 01:20:03,160
Speaker 1: Okay, Well I'm gonna get to that, so thank you.

1799
01:20:03,479 --> 01:20:05,400
Speaker 1: I think that was a guest. So we're calling on

1800
01:20:05,479 --> 01:20:07,559
Speaker 1: behalf of a guy named Brad. I guess you went

1801
01:20:07,600 --> 01:20:10,519
Speaker 1: out with Brad. You met him at a networking event

1802
01:20:10,680 --> 01:20:12,639
Speaker 1: and you went out and had a couple of drinks.

1803
01:20:12,680 --> 01:20:13,360
Speaker 1: Do you remember Brad?

1804
01:20:14,280 --> 01:20:15,519
Speaker 20: Yeah I do.

1805
01:20:16,439 --> 01:20:20,040
Speaker 1: Okay, Well you remember Brad? So what happened? Because he

1806
01:20:20,600 --> 01:20:23,080
Speaker 1: reached out to us and he told us that he

1807
01:20:23,120 --> 01:20:24,800
Speaker 1: had a great time with you and felt like things

1808
01:20:24,920 --> 01:20:27,120
Speaker 1: went well on the date. But he's reached out since

1809
01:20:27,120 --> 01:20:28,760
Speaker 1: then and you haven't responded, so what's going on?

1810
01:20:30,600 --> 01:20:32,599
Speaker 20: Honestly, I thought that date was a prank?

1811
01:20:32,840 --> 01:20:35,559
Speaker 8: Like are you are you guys?

1812
01:20:35,640 --> 01:20:35,920
Speaker 10: Vandam?

1813
01:20:36,760 --> 01:20:37,679
Speaker 20: Did he give you my number?

1814
01:20:37,760 --> 01:20:38,719
Speaker 16: Because that was a brank.

1815
01:20:39,080 --> 01:20:41,840
Speaker 1: No, I can honestly tell you that the date was

1816
01:20:41,920 --> 01:20:43,479
Speaker 1: not a Why do you think the date was a prank?

1817
01:20:43,520 --> 01:20:44,960
Speaker 1: We actually had nothing to do with the date. We

1818
01:20:45,040 --> 01:20:47,559
Speaker 1: only got involved when you'd stop calling him.

1819
01:20:48,080 --> 01:20:52,599
Speaker 17: Oh well, I felt like it was a prank because

1820
01:20:53,160 --> 01:20:57,600
Speaker 17: like Brad was just very like he's so handsome and.

1821
01:20:57,760 --> 01:20:59,880
Speaker 12: Just like charismatic and stuff, and I was.

1822
01:20:59,880 --> 01:21:01,640
Speaker 17: Just looking forward to the date, like me and my

1823
01:21:01,760 --> 01:21:04,040
Speaker 17: friends got me all dressed up and I had a

1824
01:21:04,120 --> 01:21:07,200
Speaker 17: friend curl my hair and everything was great. And so

1825
01:21:07,320 --> 01:21:09,000
Speaker 17: then I got there. We sat down and we made

1826
01:21:09,040 --> 01:21:12,920
Speaker 17: a drink and instantly Bred started talking about how hot

1827
01:21:13,240 --> 01:21:16,719
Speaker 17: the server was and he was like Jesu at least

1828
01:21:16,920 --> 01:21:20,200
Speaker 17: eight And I'm like okay, and then he's like can

1829
01:21:20,280 --> 01:21:21,080
Speaker 17: you rate her too?

1830
01:21:21,200 --> 01:21:23,760
Speaker 19: And I'm like, I guess, And.

1831
01:21:23,840 --> 01:21:28,200
Speaker 17: Then for like forty five minutes over only like there's

1832
01:21:28,240 --> 01:21:31,479
Speaker 17: like two drinks. We he went person to person in

1833
01:21:31,680 --> 01:21:34,360
Speaker 17: that bar, and we were supposed to rate how hot

1834
01:21:34,560 --> 01:21:37,679
Speaker 17: or not everyone only the only woman, know only the woman,

1835
01:21:38,200 --> 01:21:40,680
Speaker 17: and I just I couldn't believe that, Like, at no

1836
01:21:40,840 --> 01:21:44,160
Speaker 17: point then he asked about me, comment on me being

1837
01:21:44,200 --> 01:21:45,920
Speaker 17: pretty or anything like.

1838
01:21:46,479 --> 01:21:47,800
Speaker 12: At that point, I was like, this is a prank

1839
01:21:47,840 --> 01:21:48,240
Speaker 12: and I need.

1840
01:21:48,160 --> 01:21:49,479
Speaker 1: To get out of here. So we were talking about

1841
01:21:49,479 --> 01:21:53,080
Speaker 1: everybody but every woman but those bad I forgot you

1842
01:21:53,160 --> 01:21:58,200
Speaker 1: mentioned that Brad is here the chat room exactly. I'm

1843
01:21:58,240 --> 01:22:00,559
Speaker 1: sorry I didn't forget to mention guess Brad was here.

1844
01:22:00,680 --> 01:22:03,759
Speaker 1: I'm very forgetful. So, Brad, you're on a date with Cassie,

1845
01:22:03,880 --> 01:22:05,439
Speaker 1: who made an effort to go out with you and

1846
01:22:05,520 --> 01:22:08,680
Speaker 1: look really pretty, and you don't even bother to compliment her,

1847
01:22:09,080 --> 01:22:11,400
Speaker 1: but rather go around the room and talk about every

1848
01:22:11,439 --> 01:22:13,880
Speaker 1: other woman and then objectify them and rate them. I

1849
01:22:14,000 --> 01:22:15,439
Speaker 1: just want to because that was the date.

1850
01:22:15,520 --> 01:22:20,160
Speaker 20: Activity Obviously she's hot because I asked her that, And.

1851
01:22:21,720 --> 01:22:24,080
Speaker 1: I guess you would never go out with anybody who

1852
01:22:24,160 --> 01:22:26,120
Speaker 1: wasn't what an eight pick eight plus.

1853
01:22:26,880 --> 01:22:29,719
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, I mean go on a date probably

1854
01:22:29,800 --> 01:22:32,840
Speaker 3: in eight plus. If you know, I'm in a pint,

1855
01:22:33,080 --> 01:22:33,800
Speaker 3: maybe a seven.

1856
01:22:34,120 --> 01:22:36,360
Speaker 1: I saw it in a pant. Yeah. So so she

1857
01:22:36,400 --> 01:22:38,839
Speaker 1: should have just assumed that she was among the elites

1858
01:22:38,960 --> 01:22:41,160
Speaker 1: because you chose her, is what I just want to

1859
01:22:41,160 --> 01:22:44,639
Speaker 1: be clear, that's what you're saying. Yeah, like bro okay,

1860
01:22:44,640 --> 01:22:46,280
Speaker 1: and she should have just assumed that. So like, it's

1861
01:22:46,320 --> 01:22:49,080
Speaker 1: not your job on a date to compliment the person

1862
01:22:49,120 --> 01:22:50,880
Speaker 1: who you're on the date with. Instead, we should just

1863
01:22:50,960 --> 01:22:52,400
Speaker 1: focus on everybody else.

1864
01:22:52,880 --> 01:22:55,479
Speaker 2: I mean, I think that would have been rud rate it.

1865
01:22:56,040 --> 01:22:58,240
Speaker 1: Got it well, Cassie. I have a question, how would

1866
01:22:58,240 --> 01:23:01,040
Speaker 1: you rate Brad? Because apparently no one's ask that question.

1867
01:23:01,280 --> 01:23:02,120
Speaker 1: What would you give him?

1868
01:23:02,760 --> 01:23:05,880
Speaker 17: I mean, in terms of the look bad, I'd say

1869
01:23:06,160 --> 01:23:11,200
Speaker 17: the Sally seven point five, and then if there's a

1870
01:23:11,240 --> 01:23:12,400
Speaker 17: personality down I'm.

1871
01:23:12,280 --> 01:23:13,479
Speaker 6: Hearing about it, I give him a three.

1872
01:23:13,720 --> 01:23:17,479
Speaker 1: Wow. Okay, yeah you're seven point five. Brad. Thoughts on that,

1873
01:23:17,960 --> 01:23:18,439
Speaker 1: I think.

1874
01:23:18,360 --> 01:23:19,800
Speaker 2: She's just salty at this point.

1875
01:23:20,240 --> 01:23:24,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've already moved on.

1876
01:23:24,720 --> 01:23:26,960
Speaker 3: I'm already thinking about going to that same Barie one

1877
01:23:27,040 --> 01:23:29,960
Speaker 3: out to on the date because there's definitely a lot

1878
01:23:30,000 --> 01:23:31,960
Speaker 3: of eyes in there again.

1879
01:23:32,400 --> 01:23:35,600
Speaker 20: Yeah, that's not work at all. You know, there's a

1880
01:23:35,640 --> 01:23:36,439
Speaker 20: good amount of seven.

1881
01:23:36,640 --> 01:23:38,000
Speaker 1: I just I don't know why you're on a date

1882
01:23:38,040 --> 01:23:40,680
Speaker 1: with someone who you were saying was in your mind attractive,

1883
01:23:41,080 --> 01:23:43,680
Speaker 1: but yet we spent time talking about how attractive or

1884
01:23:43,760 --> 01:23:46,200
Speaker 1: unattractive everybody else was. Like, there's kind of a lot

1885
01:23:46,200 --> 01:23:46,880
Speaker 1: of problems with that.

1886
01:23:47,400 --> 01:23:48,639
Speaker 20: I thought it was a fun.

1887
01:23:50,240 --> 01:23:52,920
Speaker 3: You know, I like to find if the girl i'm

1888
01:23:52,920 --> 01:23:58,280
Speaker 3: seeing is also interested in another girl, you know, doing

1889
01:23:58,320 --> 01:23:58,599
Speaker 3: the fun.

1890
01:23:58,920 --> 01:24:02,639
Speaker 1: Oh and she would rate other women highly, and oh,

1891
01:24:02,800 --> 01:24:05,240
Speaker 1: I wow, this is a complicated game.

1892
01:24:05,360 --> 01:24:06,960
Speaker 2: The first date we're going to do that.

1893
01:24:07,120 --> 01:24:12,280
Speaker 1: We call that the Brad effect, you know. Yeah, yeah,

1894
01:24:12,800 --> 01:24:14,400
Speaker 1: well so Cassie, you were supposed to be rating women

1895
01:24:14,479 --> 01:24:16,280
Speaker 1: so that you could maybe include them in the evening.

1896
01:24:16,760 --> 01:24:17,639
Speaker 1: Kick right over there.

1897
01:24:18,320 --> 01:24:21,519
Speaker 4: No, I can't get over to sound his voice. I

1898
01:24:21,560 --> 01:24:23,040
Speaker 4: don't know how she ended up on a date with

1899
01:24:23,120 --> 01:24:25,760
Speaker 4: this man like that alone is just not doing it

1900
01:24:25,840 --> 01:24:26,040
Speaker 4: for me.

1901
01:24:26,160 --> 01:24:30,280
Speaker 1: But he's Brad. Yeah, yeah, I mean Brad, be Brad.

1902
01:24:30,520 --> 01:24:35,519
Speaker 1: Yeah you're talking to Yeah, that's the one. Okay, That's why.

1903
01:24:35,400 --> 01:24:36,719
Speaker 17: I gave him a seven point five.

1904
01:24:36,800 --> 01:24:37,519
Speaker 12: It's the voice.

1905
01:24:37,760 --> 01:24:39,000
Speaker 17: The voice is so annoying.

1906
01:24:39,720 --> 01:24:41,200
Speaker 1: Wow, so he would have been maybe like in the

1907
01:24:41,320 --> 01:24:43,200
Speaker 1: ages or something. He must be a good looking guy then,

1908
01:24:43,240 --> 01:24:43,920
Speaker 1: because if you're.

1909
01:24:43,760 --> 01:24:46,680
Speaker 2: Giving me pigs, Brad sent some pigs over.

1910
01:24:46,840 --> 01:24:48,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, why don't you send over a little portfolio? And

1911
01:24:48,560 --> 01:24:49,800
Speaker 1: it will be the judge about that.

1912
01:24:51,160 --> 01:24:52,400
Speaker 20: Normally I don't even have to talk.

1913
01:24:53,160 --> 01:24:55,160
Speaker 1: Oh, I see he's so good looking. Maybe would have

1914
01:24:55,200 --> 01:24:58,759
Speaker 1: been better if you hadn't exactly, Maybe maybe you shouldn't

1915
01:24:58,760 --> 01:25:00,479
Speaker 1: have talked, and then things would have goneway better for you.

1916
01:25:00,640 --> 01:25:04,840
Speaker 1: But okay, I Brad, Cassie, I'll ask the question, but

1917
01:25:04,920 --> 01:25:06,599
Speaker 1: I know the answer. Would you like to go out

1918
01:25:06,600 --> 01:25:07,719
Speaker 1: with Brad again?

1919
01:25:08,479 --> 01:25:08,679
Speaker 6: Hell?

1920
01:25:08,920 --> 01:25:11,000
Speaker 12: No, absolutely not.

1921
01:25:12,000 --> 01:25:14,120
Speaker 2: What I don't blame you, Brad.

1922
01:25:14,160 --> 01:25:16,080
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it's not going to work out. I guess

1923
01:25:16,160 --> 01:25:17,840
Speaker 1: go back to the bar because you see a lot

1924
01:25:17,920 --> 01:25:21,519
Speaker 1: of a lot of talent in there. Apparently, yes, you

1925
01:25:21,840 --> 01:25:22,360
Speaker 1: got to shoot.

1926
01:25:22,920 --> 01:25:23,639
Speaker 2: I'll do okay.

1927
01:25:24,080 --> 01:25:26,120
Speaker 1: I do love though, when these guys call up here

1928
01:25:26,120 --> 01:25:27,400
Speaker 1: and they're like, I want to know why she didn't

1929
01:25:27,400 --> 01:25:28,800
Speaker 1: call me because they liked her and stuff, And then

1930
01:25:28,800 --> 01:25:30,600
Speaker 1: as soon as they realize that they screwed it up. Now,

1931
01:25:30,600 --> 01:25:31,720
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, it's like, oh, I don't care

1932
01:25:31,760 --> 01:25:33,479
Speaker 1: if they go out with me. I don't want her, right,

1933
01:25:33,960 --> 01:25:35,840
Speaker 1: but you wanted her ten minutes ago when you asked

1934
01:25:35,920 --> 01:25:37,880
Speaker 1: us a caller and do this. So what okay? The

1935
01:25:37,960 --> 01:25:41,160
Speaker 1: classic Yeah, it really is all right, Cassie. Thank you

1936
01:25:41,200 --> 01:25:42,680
Speaker 1: for your time. Best of luck to you, Brad, good

1937
01:25:42,720 --> 01:25:46,200
Speaker 1: luck to you as well. Thank you. The Entertainer Report,

1938
01:25:46,240 --> 01:25:47,960
Speaker 1: the biggest stories of the day and the fun in

1939
01:25:48,080 --> 01:25:51,920
Speaker 1: fact all next Fread show back in two minutes. Report

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Speaker 1: is on the Fread Show.

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Speaker 6: Megan the Stallion file documents asking a judge to approve

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Speaker 6: her lawyer is taking a deposition from Tory Lanez right

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Speaker 6: from his jail cell as they investigate her cyber stocking case. Now,

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Speaker 6: if you didn't know, she's suing this blogger, Mulagro Cooper

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Speaker 6: for an alleged online campaign to spread misinformation about her

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Speaker 6: in the wake of Tory's conviction for shooting her. Megan's

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Speaker 6: team wants to explore the nature of Tory's relationship with

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Speaker 6: the blogger that they've already alleged he's funding and possibly

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Speaker 6: directing her campaign to discredit Megan. So, in Layman's terms,

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Speaker 6: she thinks that Tory is having someone on the outside

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Speaker 6: have this smear campaign against her, so that she doesn't,

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Speaker 6: so that he doesn't look like the bad guy, and

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Speaker 6: that it looks like she's lying basically. Last month, the

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Speaker 6: judge also approved a restraining order against Tory after they

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Speaker 6: alleged that he was engaging in psychological warfare to continue

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Speaker 6: harassing her from behind bars.

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Speaker 2: So they think he's in cahoots with this blogger.

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Speaker 6: Tory is serving a ten year sentence in a California

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Speaker 6: state prison for the twenty twenty shooting, and I should

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Speaker 6: mention that his lawyers say he will not sit down

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Speaker 6: for the deposition, So I don't know how that works.

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Speaker 6: I don't know if you're allowed to just say no,

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Speaker 6: I'm good, but I'll obviously i'll hit you.

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Speaker 1: I got this pen. It's like with the fines.

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Speaker 2: Yeah a suggestion, Yeah, yeah, you don't how to do

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Speaker 2: it right.

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Speaker 6: They were like, his lawyer was like, I don't know

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Speaker 6: if you know toy, but he doesn't sit for depositions.

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Speaker 6: I'm like, well, I think people have to get their ass,

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Speaker 6: so I guess we'll.

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Speaker 2: See if he has to.

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Speaker 6: In a sense delated tweet, Kevin Durant, who plays for

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Speaker 6: the Phoenix Suns, took to x to defend j Cole

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Speaker 6: and his latest song clouds Now. There's a lot of

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Speaker 6: moving parts to this, but the NBA start quote tweeted

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Speaker 6: over a post sharing the songwriting, I don't care about none.

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Speaker 2: Of that fake tough guy spit. This is mastery, so

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Speaker 2: he likes the song.

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Speaker 6: When one one fan tried to say that he needed

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Speaker 6: permission from Drake to support J Cole while throwing shade

1981
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Speaker 6: at Kendrick Lamar, the future Hall of Famer replied, I'm

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Speaker 6: throwing shade at fans like you who have been hating

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Speaker 6: on Cole the whole time. Just listen to the music

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Speaker 6: and st FU. When another guy right he was like

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Speaker 6: feeling we're all angry. When another guy suggested that Drake

1986
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Speaker 6: and J Cole make fake tough guy music, Kdie disagreed

1987
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Speaker 6: and answered, rapping about protecting everything you've earned is not fake.

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Speaker 2: Tough guy spit.

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Speaker 6: Lots of people took his og tweet mentioning that fake

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Speaker 6: tough guy spit as a shot at Kendrick's disses towards Drake,

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Speaker 6: but he cleared that up right away, said he was

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Speaker 6: actually shading the fans. I'm just saying all y'all fans

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Speaker 6: who can't listen to J Cole without saying he's soft.

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Speaker 6: I do feel like we all forget though that Ja

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Speaker 6: Cole was actually in that Drake Kendrick beef and.

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Speaker 2: Apologize the next day. But Drake is the one who

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Speaker 2: like at least Drake tried. Yeah, I mean fought a

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Speaker 2: good fight, right, Yeah, he tried his best.

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Speaker 6: He tried, he tried.

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Speaker 2: He did not win, but he tried his best.

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Speaker 6: But no one's going at j Cole for saying, oh

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Speaker 6: my god, I'm so sorry, I don't want to be

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Speaker 6: in this rap.

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Speaker 2: Beef and Jason, this one's for you and I.

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Speaker 6: Sunday Night, Kelsey Ballerini played a show at Florida's Hard

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Speaker 6: Rock Live in Hollywood and called out fans in the

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Speaker 6: crowd for screaming a certain line in her smash hit Penhouse,

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Speaker 6: which you and I played that song to Helen.

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Speaker 2: Back if you didn't know.

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Speaker 6: Kelsey went through a very very public divorce from fellow

2011
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Speaker 6: country singer Morgan Evans in twenty twenty two, and subsequently

2012
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Speaker 6: released her Rolling Up the Welcome Matt EP, which is

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Speaker 6: an amazing EP if you have not listened to it.

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Speaker 2: The song Penthouse details.

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Speaker 6: A lot of their issues and her feelings on moving on,

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Speaker 6: and it quickly became a fan favorite. Fans especially love

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Speaker 6: screaming you got half and that whole line at her shows,

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Speaker 6: which like he took half of her money. But after

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Speaker 6: fans screamed that line that they've always been screaming on Sunday,

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Speaker 6: Kelsey got pissed. She stopped the song to tell fans

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Speaker 6: that they needed to move on. She told the crowd, guys,

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Speaker 6: we have to stop saying that. Seriously, we're three years

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Speaker 6: past it. Everything's fine now. I sing the song for

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Speaker 6: you now and it's not about me anymore. Please, all right,

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Speaker 6: for everyone that's moving forward with their life, will you

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Speaker 6: sing with me?

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Speaker 2: Girl?

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Speaker 6: Come on, you can't release that and then we're all

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Speaker 6: screaming it with you and now you're mad. It's giving

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Speaker 6: lyric right, like it's giving that. Maybe her boyfriend Chase

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Speaker 6: Stokes is like, I don't love this anymore, but.

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Speaker 1: Well, how do you think anyone who dates Taylor Swift

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Speaker 1: feels when the song she's like about other men?

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Speaker 6: So many artists is.

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Speaker 2: Like, yeah, I can't you know what. Travis calc is.

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Speaker 6: A real one for that because obviously, like there's some

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Speaker 6: naughty songs, but I guess it was a time and

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Speaker 6: close your ears, maybe chase.

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Speaker 1: But hop in my BJA and fly around the world

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Speaker 1: with you. I think I'll deal with it. Yeah, it'll

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Speaker 1: be okay.

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Speaker 2: He shut in the hell up? He doesn't mind.

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Speaker 6: By the way, have you missed any part of our show,

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Speaker 6: The Fred Show. You can catch up on every single

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Speaker 6: thing on the free, new and Approved iHeartRadio app. All

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Speaker 6: you have to do is search The Fred Show on demand.

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Speaker 11: The fread Show is on Fred's Fun Fact Fred Fun.

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Speaker 1: Learn so much guys. So if you go in the

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Speaker 1: darkest room you can find well, there's no light at all,

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Speaker 1: and you spend a few minutes with your eyes closed,

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Speaker 1: and then you open them and you look around. You

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Speaker 1: would expect to see nothing, but actually you'll notice that

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01:30:48,960 --> 01:30:53,240
Speaker 1: you're seeing a sort of gray shade. You ever done

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Speaker 1: this before? You actually kind of see like it's weird.

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Speaker 1: It's not actually pitch black. There's a word that color.

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Speaker 1: You want to know what it is?

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Speaker 2: Yes, well, I happen to be able to tell you

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Speaker 2: grow eigen graw.

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Speaker 9: But in English it's usually pronounced eigen growl the same way.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, what's the difference.

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Speaker 9: It's usually pronounced eigen growl Okay, iigen growl right here?

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Speaker 17: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Movie d was on how wait what?

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Speaker 11: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I want to hear the part where he says it

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Speaker 1: the same way and both.

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Speaker 9: Plays eigen growl, but in English it's usually pronounced eigen growl.

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Speaker 2: Good to know, but that's what it is.

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Speaker 11: In case you're wondering more Fresh Show next. Yeah, they

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Speaker 11: talk better than they These are the radio blogs on

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Speaker 11: The Fresh Show, like.

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Speaker 1: Running in our tirees, except we say them loud. We

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Speaker 1: call them blogs.

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Speaker 2: Kaylin, take it away, Thank you, dear blog.

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Speaker 6: I just want to start out by giving a shout

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Speaker 6: out to anyone who has ever been a maid of

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Speaker 6: honor in their entire life, because whoa did I not

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Speaker 6: know what this job entailed and what it does entail.

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Speaker 6: I am in my maid of honor era for the

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Speaker 6: first time ever. I have been many a bridesmaid, but

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Speaker 6: never a maid of honor, and I am now right

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Speaker 6: now for my best friend Laurie, and it is like

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Speaker 6: it's another full time job. And right now we're just

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01:32:29,479 --> 01:32:31,800
Speaker 6: working on the bachelorette, but like we need to figure

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Speaker 6: out stuff for the wedding as well, and I just

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Speaker 6: why is it your job? It's the maid of honor's job.

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, yeah, you're a wedding planer.

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Speaker 6: Now, girl a girl, and my best friend is a

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Speaker 6: doesn't really love a phone like she doesn't love being

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Speaker 6: responsive on a phone.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's nice.

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01:32:48,400 --> 01:32:51,880
Speaker 6: She doesn't love a deadline. She doesn't love getting things done.

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01:32:52,320 --> 01:32:55,400
Speaker 6: So we are you know, I'm I'm fighting for my

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Speaker 6: life a little bit. On top of that, the bride

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Speaker 6: didn't know where she wanted to go for her bachelorette weekend,

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Speaker 6: so that that took us a very long time to

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Speaker 6: land that plane. We have settled on a little.

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Speaker 2: Town in Maine coastal Maine.

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Speaker 1: Easy to get to, I'm sure easy to get to.

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01:33:12,439 --> 01:33:14,719
Speaker 1: Let's go to a really far out place that requires

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Speaker 1: you know, many planes, trains and automobiles, horse and carriage

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Speaker 1: and bucky.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's a time and those.

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Speaker 1: Dogs in the winter that you have to use, you

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Speaker 1: got to do that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, getting there?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that is ever getting there. I have never been

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Speaker 6: to Maine. I don't know anything about the East coast anything.

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01:33:32,880 --> 01:33:35,200
Speaker 6: So now I could tell you like literally every city

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Speaker 6: on the ocean. I can tell you I know way

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Speaker 6: too much about Maine. But this whole weekend entails I mean,

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Speaker 6: there's like themed nights, there's reservations, there's a chef coming to.

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Speaker 2: The house that I have to pick the menu for.

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01:33:48,880 --> 01:33:53,639
Speaker 2: There are even the itinerary needs to have like a theme.

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01:33:53,760 --> 01:33:59,839
Speaker 1: Sounds affordable. Yeah, that's the difference between bachelorette and bachelor parties.

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01:34:00,120 --> 01:34:03,560
Speaker 1: Like bachelor parties are like, Yo, We're gonna meet in

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Speaker 1: Vegas on Friday, I don't know, somewhere between noon and

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Speaker 1: ten pm, and I don't know. Maybe we'll get some

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Speaker 1: dinner and then see what happens, and the next day

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Speaker 1: we'll go to the pool. I guess maybe if you

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Speaker 1: wake up in time, and then we'll go to dinner

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Speaker 1: and then we'll leave. That's it. You guys, outfits we got,

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01:34:20,120 --> 01:34:22,040
Speaker 1: you know, matching shirts and hats.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, we're not, Yeah, we're not.

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01:34:23,520 --> 01:34:27,320
Speaker 1: We gotta you know, we gotta drag along the sister

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Speaker 1: that you know that no one knows, that doesn't fit

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01:34:30,160 --> 01:34:32,040
Speaker 1: in with anybody else, you know what I mean. It's

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01:34:32,080 --> 01:34:34,160
Speaker 1: in like green Peace and has to come home from

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01:34:34,479 --> 01:34:37,240
Speaker 1: Africa to go right, you know what I mean? It

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Speaker 1: is all you can if you look at a bachelorette

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01:34:39,400 --> 01:34:42,320
Speaker 1: party as I mean an outsider, you can see the

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Speaker 1: people who like knew each other, the core group, and

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Speaker 1: then the people who were required to be invited.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and being an empathetic person, I'm I'm having a

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Speaker 6: hard time.

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Speaker 2: Like, I know everyone has different money situations.

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Speaker 6: I know that everyone. You know, some people don't like

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01:34:57,920 --> 01:35:00,200
Speaker 6: to share a room, some people can sleep to other

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01:35:00,320 --> 01:35:02,759
Speaker 6: some people like So it's a lot for my little

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Speaker 6: emotional brain. But I'm proud of myself because I think

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01:35:06,640 --> 01:35:08,720
Speaker 6: I'm accomplishing a lot. Like I don't I don't know

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Speaker 6: anything about Maine, but TikTok is the unsung hero, Like

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01:35:12,280 --> 01:35:14,320
Speaker 6: I have found a really cool biker bar that has

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Speaker 6: like bras hanging from the ceiling. Like, but I'm a

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Speaker 6: I'm an event planner. I think, Yeah, it sounds and

2146
01:35:20,439 --> 01:35:23,240
Speaker 6: it's hard because my my best friend I love her

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01:35:23,320 --> 01:35:25,640
Speaker 6: so much, but she won't answer for like weeks at

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Speaker 6: a time on things that I need answers on. And

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Speaker 6: then I'll get like thirty tacks in a row and

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Speaker 6: I'll go, Okay, I have her attention. I need to

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Speaker 6: answer all these really quick.

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you what though, if that's the way she is,

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01:35:35,960 --> 01:35:38,160
Speaker 1: that she can't complain about anything that you choose to do,

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01:35:38,439 --> 01:35:39,599
Speaker 1: and she won't. She won't.

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Speaker 6: She's she's great about that, but I want to make

2156
01:35:41,439 --> 01:35:44,000
Speaker 6: it special for her because she chose me over one

2157
01:35:44,040 --> 01:35:46,120
Speaker 6: of her sisters. They're over her sister to be her

2158
01:35:46,120 --> 01:35:48,240
Speaker 6: made of honest, So like, I'm taking it very seriously.

2159
01:35:49,560 --> 01:35:52,360
Speaker 6: But yeah, no, if when I had colored hair, I

2160
01:35:52,400 --> 01:35:54,280
Speaker 6: would pass another you know, pink hair, I would pass

2161
01:35:54,320 --> 01:35:55,640
Speaker 6: someone else on the street and like we would do

2162
01:35:55,680 --> 01:35:57,880
Speaker 6: ahead nod like yo, you know, or like the jeep wave.

2163
01:35:58,240 --> 01:35:59,639
Speaker 6: I wish there was a way to know if someone

2164
01:35:59,640 --> 01:36:00,920
Speaker 6: else has been a maid of honor.

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01:36:01,160 --> 01:36:03,080
Speaker 1: There was a handshake up from what I understand, Yeah,

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01:36:03,080 --> 01:36:03,519
Speaker 1: I've been one.

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01:36:03,840 --> 01:36:05,479
Speaker 2: You have, Oh, yes, very rough.

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01:36:05,800 --> 01:36:05,920
Speaker 9: Oh.

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01:36:06,840 --> 01:36:08,360
Speaker 4: I would love to see if you're friends with the

2170
01:36:08,439 --> 01:36:10,240
Speaker 4: rest of the bridal party by the time the wedding

2171
01:36:10,280 --> 01:36:12,840
Speaker 4: gets here, because it's never the I mean, the bride

2172
01:36:13,000 --> 01:36:15,160
Speaker 4: is her own thing. Yeah, you can take the bride

2173
01:36:15,160 --> 01:36:17,479
Speaker 4: because that's your girl. But it's the other members of

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01:36:17,560 --> 01:36:20,080
Speaker 4: the bridal party that are gonna make you upset. They're

2175
01:36:20,080 --> 01:36:21,200
Speaker 4: going to test your limits.

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01:36:21,280 --> 01:36:23,479
Speaker 1: And there was drama. There was drama within my sister's

2177
01:36:23,520 --> 01:36:26,880
Speaker 1: wedding party because several girls believed that they were they

2178
01:36:26,960 --> 01:36:29,479
Speaker 1: should have been the maid of honor, and my sister

2179
01:36:29,800 --> 01:36:32,240
Speaker 1: made the obvious choice. I mean, does she live with

2180
01:36:32,320 --> 01:36:35,280
Speaker 1: this girl? They were in the same sorority, like they

2181
01:36:35,520 --> 01:36:37,559
Speaker 1: I mean they were inseparable for years. But then there

2182
01:36:37,560 --> 01:36:39,200
Speaker 1: were other girls that thought they should have been that

2183
01:36:39,560 --> 01:36:42,280
Speaker 1: and they were. They were they they played nice, but

2184
01:36:42,400 --> 01:36:44,360
Speaker 1: you could from what I understand, you could tell there

2185
01:36:44,479 --> 01:36:47,080
Speaker 1: was a little division. Why does she get to be

2186
01:36:47,240 --> 01:36:47,559
Speaker 1: the one?

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01:36:47,800 --> 01:36:50,040
Speaker 6: That's so funny when I don't get picked for these roles,

2188
01:36:50,040 --> 01:36:50,839
Speaker 6: I'm like, thank.

2189
01:36:50,680 --> 01:36:52,920
Speaker 1: You, well you have the same now you know why,

2190
01:36:53,080 --> 01:36:55,280
Speaker 1: Like I don't want this. I'll show up and I

2191
01:36:55,479 --> 01:36:57,680
Speaker 1: I'll attend. I'll be supportive and I don't make me

2192
01:36:57,760 --> 01:36:58,160
Speaker 1: play it.

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01:36:58,400 --> 01:37:00,679
Speaker 6: But it's an honor. Yeah, it's trussful making it seriously.

2194
01:37:00,760 --> 01:37:02,880
Speaker 6: But for me, if I ever get married, you know,

2195
01:37:02,920 --> 01:37:05,280
Speaker 6: I have mixed feelings. I am having a bachelor party.

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01:37:06,080 --> 01:37:07,320
Speaker 1: That's okay, that's what.

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01:37:07,360 --> 01:37:08,519
Speaker 6: I want more fit for that.

2198
01:37:09,160 --> 01:37:10,960
Speaker 13: Wait, that's what you want for your next wedding, the

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01:37:11,080 --> 01:37:12,680
Speaker 13: next one? Yes, But for mine, I wanted it. I

2200
01:37:12,720 --> 01:37:14,400
Speaker 13: mean I got knocked up, so I couldn't really do much.

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01:37:14,479 --> 01:37:17,439
Speaker 13: But if I wanted just like a chill like nighty

2202
01:37:17,520 --> 01:37:18,840
Speaker 13: on the town, We'll go to a couple of bars

2203
01:37:18,880 --> 01:37:20,800
Speaker 13: on the ones that I frequent and call it a

2204
01:37:20,920 --> 01:37:22,600
Speaker 13: night and get some good Chinese food after. Like I

2205
01:37:22,880 --> 01:37:24,519
Speaker 13: was just so chill about it. I'm like, I don't

2206
01:37:24,520 --> 01:37:26,320
Speaker 13: want to do the whole show and pony. I just

2207
01:37:26,360 --> 01:37:29,559
Speaker 13: didn't the whole show and a pony show whatever scene

2208
01:37:30,800 --> 01:37:32,400
Speaker 13: shout out to the max of honor.

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01:37:32,520 --> 01:37:34,080
Speaker 1: I don't know that. I guess I'm getting to a

2210
01:37:34,160 --> 01:37:37,439
Speaker 1: stage in my life where my friends. I had this

2211
01:37:37,520 --> 01:37:39,560
Speaker 1: conversation with someone not that long ago where it's like,

2212
01:37:40,240 --> 01:37:42,320
Speaker 1: what are we gonna do if you get married? What

2213
01:37:42,479 --> 01:37:45,679
Speaker 1: could we possibly do in a weekend that we haven't

2214
01:37:45,760 --> 01:37:49,280
Speaker 1: already done? Like, what are we gonna do? Like we've

2215
01:37:49,600 --> 01:37:52,360
Speaker 1: I've known you for twenty years, but it's like all

2216
01:37:52,400 --> 01:37:55,160
Speaker 1: the Shenanigans we've done it Like that wouldn't there would

2217
01:37:55,160 --> 01:37:57,720
Speaker 1: be nothing like surprising about any of that.

2218
01:37:58,200 --> 01:37:59,800
Speaker 2: I know, But it's just about spending time.

2219
01:38:00,520 --> 01:38:02,960
Speaker 1: But it's just so much easier for the guys. Yeah,

2220
01:38:03,120 --> 01:38:05,040
Speaker 1: there's just no I mean, everything's easier for guys, but

2221
01:38:05,080 --> 01:38:07,439
Speaker 1: there's just there's just none of this. There's none of this.

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01:38:07,960 --> 01:38:09,280
Speaker 1: It's hey, are you coming cool? All?

2223
01:38:09,880 --> 01:38:09,920
Speaker 10: Know?

2224
01:38:10,160 --> 01:38:11,040
Speaker 1: This day? Show up?

2225
01:38:11,080 --> 01:38:13,120
Speaker 6: You mean there's not a chef and eight different people

2226
01:38:13,240 --> 01:38:16,439
Speaker 6: have eight different diets. We got a dairy free, we

2227
01:38:16,520 --> 01:38:19,240
Speaker 6: got a gluten free. I'm like, no, but she wants Italian.

2228
01:38:19,439 --> 01:38:20,720
Speaker 20: I'm like, I do that.

2229
01:38:21,840 --> 01:38:21,880
Speaker 17: No.

2230
01:38:22,240 --> 01:38:23,439
Speaker 1: The last what I went to, I'm like, what are

2231
01:38:23,479 --> 01:38:24,720
Speaker 1: we doing? I guess we'll figure it out.

2232
01:38:24,720 --> 01:38:24,960
Speaker 11: I don't know.

2233
01:38:25,240 --> 01:38:26,640
Speaker 1: We could do this, we could do that, and then

2234
01:38:26,760 --> 01:38:29,000
Speaker 1: we'll just we'll just wake up and decide. That's exactly

2235
01:38:29,080 --> 01:38:31,240
Speaker 1: what we did. We had one thing. We had a

2236
01:38:31,320 --> 01:38:34,160
Speaker 1: boat for the day, and we went on a boat.

2237
01:38:34,240 --> 01:38:35,600
Speaker 1: We had to do that. It was like, you know,

2238
01:38:35,680 --> 01:38:37,280
Speaker 1: we had it booked eleven to six, and.

2239
01:38:37,320 --> 01:38:37,640
Speaker 12: It was that.

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Speaker 1: That was it. Otherwise, I love men. I didn't even

2241
01:38:41,080 --> 01:38:43,000
Speaker 1: go to half the stuff because I met a girl

2242
01:38:43,640 --> 01:38:45,479
Speaker 1: on the bachelor party and I was busy.

2243
01:38:45,600 --> 01:38:48,320
Speaker 6: So is that the lady of the interesting lady?

2244
01:38:49,360 --> 01:38:52,320
Speaker 1: I don't remember. I don't know.

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01:38:52,720 --> 01:38:53,080
Speaker 11: We got it.

2246
01:38:54,960 --> 01:38:57,800
Speaker 18: A dancer at one point where was okay, there was

2247
01:38:57,880 --> 01:39:00,800
Speaker 18: that too, okay, then a girl and ditch the crew.

2248
01:39:01,560 --> 01:39:04,640
Speaker 18: See that would be like you would be kicked out

2249
01:39:04,680 --> 01:39:05,479
Speaker 18: the wedding for doing something.

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01:39:05,560 --> 01:39:07,360
Speaker 1: They didn't care. They're all married. They wanted me to

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01:39:07,400 --> 01:39:09,439
Speaker 1: do it. They're like, come back and tell us about it.

2252
01:39:11,120 --> 01:39:12,479
Speaker 1: Oh my god. All these guys have been with the

2253
01:39:12,520 --> 01:39:15,839
Speaker 1: same woman for ten years. They're like, oh, take pictures,

2254
01:39:15,880 --> 01:39:19,680
Speaker 1: not of you, getting you out of them, but I

2255
01:39:19,760 --> 01:39:22,120
Speaker 1: want to see her. They probably looking at ones with

2256
01:39:22,200 --> 01:39:24,559
Speaker 1: me and they know this boy. They don't care. They're deprived.

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