WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Happy Shamaversary (#7)

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<v Speaker 1>We are still counting down our top ten second date updates. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you to everybody who's been subscribing to this, who's

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<v Speaker 1>been liking and sharing and first trapping us on our

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<v Speaker 1>socials at Brooke and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, I just get the complaints, you get thirst traps.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Sidney Sweeney isn't messaging you photos of herself?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm engaged.

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<v Speaker 1>Ye, you naughty girl.

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<v Speaker 2>You should definitely believe that's her. Jeff Yeah, sure it's

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<v Speaker 2>not a catfish at all on.

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<v Speaker 1>A Grande single, right because she's messaging me.

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<v Speaker 2>No, she's also with you. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>All the celebrities and fake celebrities accounts trapping us, Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you and continue to do it. This number seven second

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<v Speaker 1>date update goes out to you. It's titled Happy Shammiversary

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date Update. What happens if you meet someone on

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<v Speaker 1>a dating app and you find out that both of

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<v Speaker 1>you have been in the dating pool for way too long,

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, what's wrong with you? Yeah, that's when you

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<v Speaker 1>need to mix it up. Like one of our listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>Wayne did recently. Did He suggest both of them dress

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<v Speaker 1>up as their favorite power ranger and meet in front

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<v Speaker 1>of the police station.

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<v Speaker 2>That's actually really funer.

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<v Speaker 1>Did he didn't do that? He didn't It would have

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<v Speaker 1>been a fantastic idea. Yeah, yeah, said he went a

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<v Speaker 1>different direction. And now he says he's living with a

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<v Speaker 1>medium amount of regret.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I feel like that most adults live that way.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, sleep at night, Wayne, Only in ninety chance are

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<v Speaker 1>going to regret asking us for help today. So welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to the show. Now, must stay.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I am having some regret. You know, started as

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<v Speaker 3>a good idea.

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<v Speaker 2>They all.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll get to your questionable idea in just a second.

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<v Speaker 1>But first, tell us about the girl that you went

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<v Speaker 1>out with. Who's she?

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<v Speaker 3>And Isabella?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And from Jeffrey's description, it sounds like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe you're a little exhausted from online dating.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh definitely, okay, are we all?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? I mean, do you still have hope going into

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<v Speaker 2>a first date with someone when you're just tired of it? All?

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<v Speaker 3>I have a sliver of hope.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but it's like, all right, give me a reasonably

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<v Speaker 1>So tell us about what you wanted to do with Isabella.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, so Isabella, you know, a couple of weeks

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<v Speaker 3>you were chatting and we just had really awesome conversations

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<v Speaker 3>and like talked about our favorite candy and like our

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<v Speaker 3>top three?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what is your favorite candy?

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<v Speaker 3>Kidding pieces?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, interesting?

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<v Speaker 1>Does your first date have to do with like a

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<v Speaker 1>candy shop or something?

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<v Speaker 3>No, but kind of like a game. Well, basically we

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<v Speaker 3>had so many fun conversations and she was like, it

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<v Speaker 3>never translates into a good first date. And I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 3>let's just skip the first date then, and you can

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<v Speaker 3>pretend like it's our second or third date.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, can you do that?

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<v Speaker 3>I like, yeah, you could do that.

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<v Speaker 2>You can act like remember last time when we talked,

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<v Speaker 2>why are you telling me the story again?

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<v Speaker 1>Already?

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<v Speaker 3>Brook? We're getting along so well. And she was like, well,

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<v Speaker 3>what have we pretended it was our one year anniversary?

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa?

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<v Speaker 2>That escalated quickly, sir, let's.

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<v Speaker 1>Jump right to the divorce and start breaking up. It's

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<v Speaker 1>been one year. You still won't sleep with me? Wait?

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<v Speaker 2>Were you into that idea?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>You know?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I was like why not? What have we got to

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<v Speaker 3>lose it? This street and you may get.

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<v Speaker 2>A free dessert out of it from the restaurant, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>whenever they know it's an anniversary.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, So what'd you end up doing?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, we made a reservation for a one year anniversary

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<v Speaker 3>and I ordered actually a bottle champagne and oh.

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<v Speaker 2>You're a good boyfriend. After a whole year.

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<v Speaker 3>We had to put out flowers with a card. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>one year down ever to go.

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<v Speaker 1>I I legit want to steal this one year down

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<v Speaker 1>Forever to go. That was the card.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, wow romantic. Did she think that's funny or

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<v Speaker 2>did it feel like too much to her? Because you

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<v Speaker 2>really took this too, like a serious level.

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<v Speaker 3>You owned it when we met, Like we had the

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<v Speaker 3>happy one year like anniversary jokes, and you know she

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<v Speaker 3>was into it too. She came with like a president

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<v Speaker 3>for me, which I was like, Yeah, her present was

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<v Speaker 3>a fake coupon book that's.

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<v Speaker 2>Really free hug.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, it was done like that, but to kind

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<v Speaker 3>of like sarcastic, except free hug. It was like hug

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<v Speaker 3>yourself or to the laundry yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh, that's more like the ten year anniversary.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she saunds really funny. Did you guys laugh a

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<v Speaker 2>lot on your date?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the first like fifteen twenty minutes of the dinner

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<v Speaker 3>pretty fun. Okay, then it got a little serious.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, serious.

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<v Speaker 3>It probably with me. I was too into it, took

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<v Speaker 3>it too far because I started kind of telling her

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<v Speaker 3>who she can be friends with, you know, like I

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<v Speaker 3>don't actually know any of her friends, so I was

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<v Speaker 3>kind of making it up.

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<v Speaker 2>You turned into the boyfriend that she wants to dump

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<v Speaker 2>as well. Friends don't like what.

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<v Speaker 1>The hell hopefully you told her don't hang around Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>because she's a wet blanket about your date idea?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh terrible.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, Lane's a bad influence she you know, like,

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<v Speaker 3>what do you mean? I don't know if she meant

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<v Speaker 3>what do you mean? Who's Lane or what?

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<v Speaker 1>Because there is no Lane?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, you you were a fake, toxic boyfriend, like

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<v Speaker 2>what happened to the romantic guy that she was dating,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, fake dating?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean I had to have fixed in a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit of real fake life.

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<v Speaker 2>Dude. That's exactly why she's not calling you.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to create some fake lows to enjoy those

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<v Speaker 1>fake highs in your relationships.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't put up with that type of crap in

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<v Speaker 2>a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>You've been single long enough. He has to do something.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not surprised.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, was that it was there?

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<v Speaker 3>More to the day, it kind of got worse, perhaps

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<v Speaker 3>because then we kind of shifted in the topic of

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<v Speaker 3>how to discipline you know, our kids.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't even have kids.

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<v Speaker 3>No, we don't have kids now, but in the one

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<v Speaker 3>anniversary world, it's normal to talk about, you know, how

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<v Speaker 3>would you discipline kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you didn't see eye to eye on how to

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<v Speaker 1>parent your fake children.

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<v Speaker 3>We were disagreeing a lot about that, and she said

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<v Speaker 3>something about my mom being overbearing.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, how much longer did you guys last after that?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you know, it was hard coming out of like

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<v Speaker 3>the overbearing mom thing. It got a little awkward. It

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<v Speaker 3>just wasn't a good idea.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, man, Well it sounds like you had a

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<v Speaker 1>couple hiccups on the day, very tiny ones.

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<v Speaker 2>But we're.

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<v Speaker 1>Every relationship goes through the these moments before they find they're

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<v Speaker 1>like strat isn't that right, Brooke, sir?

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<v Speaker 2>On the first date?

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<v Speaker 1>But on the one year anniversary it makes sense. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna play a song, We're gonna come back. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna call your girlfriend of one year, Isabella, and we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna see if we can get her to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with you one more time. Okay, the second time?

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<v Speaker 3>Hold on.

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update, Jose keeps telling me off the air

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<v Speaker 1>that he's gonna steal this date idea I am, even

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<v Speaker 1>though the girl clearly isn't calling back after.

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<v Speaker 2>It ended in a total disaster.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's so funny.

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<v Speaker 2>Left at each other.

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<v Speaker 1>If a girl isn't calling you back, Jose, usually that's

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<v Speaker 1>a bad sign, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, but it's just like, how much fun could you

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<v Speaker 3>have imagining your one year university?

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<v Speaker 2>He just wants to be in a relationship so bad.

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<v Speaker 1>But we're talking about one of our listeners, Wayne, who

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<v Speaker 1>just went out on a date with someone name Isabella,

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<v Speaker 1>and on their first day, they pretended that it was

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<v Speaker 1>their one year anniversary, so they set it all up

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<v Speaker 1>with champagne and flowers at a restaurant. But Wayne thinks

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<v Speaker 1>he may have over committed to the character when he

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<v Speaker 1>made some jokey comments about who Isabella can and can't

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<v Speaker 1>hang out with and how they are going to parent

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<v Speaker 1>their future non existent children someday down the road. It's fake, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, Wayne.

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<v Speaker 2>Why did you go with controlling boyfriend as your PERSONA?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't know. I wasn't really thinking I was

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<v Speaker 3>doing controlling Boyfriend. I was just thinking you know, one

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<v Speaker 3>year you have these little like.

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<v Speaker 2>Telling someone who they can and can't hang out with

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<v Speaker 2>is very controlling.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I was just looking out for lanes of bad. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>That was not a good lane in my life yet it.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys, it's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't your husband buy you a dish rack on your

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<v Speaker 1>one year anniversary?

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<v Speaker 2>That's true, Yeah, but he never tried to tell me

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<v Speaker 2>who I couldn't couldn't hang right, get in.

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<v Speaker 1>The kitchen dishes. They'll get the water all over the counter.

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<v Speaker 3>Hanging out, mister clean.

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<v Speaker 1>So it can't turn out any worse than that, right, Wayne,

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just call Isabella and see how this.

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<v Speaker 4>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm gonna Isabella, let's do this. Hello, Hey, is this Isabella? Yes, Hey, Isabella.

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<v Speaker 1>My name is jeff from a radio show called Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, like that, sass.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what it's funny, really funny? Isabelle already?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi?

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<v Speaker 5>Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>This is the whole morning show. That's a brooke. You

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<v Speaker 1>probably know their social media handle Brook Fox Fox Yeah, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>at Hilarious Everything. Yeah, and then Alexis at Alexis Fuller

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<v Speaker 1>sixteen sixteen.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I don't follow you guys think we're not calling

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<v Speaker 2>because of social media.

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<v Speaker 1>Just see, we're doing a dating segment on this show

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<v Speaker 1>asking about somebody that you went out with recently named Wayne.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Was that a good?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>You want to know, Well, we want to know what

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<v Speaker 1>you thought about your date because we've heard a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit about it from Wayne, but we'd like to get

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<v Speaker 1>your perspective on it.

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<v Speaker 6>Was it?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it producers dancing in a corner?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I think it was a really clever idea

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<v Speaker 5>of mine.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, to do the one year anniversary thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you tell Brooke what an amazing idea that date was.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like she doesn't believe that people can have

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<v Speaker 1>fun doing that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not saying it didn't sound fun. It just you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, it depends on what you think, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>did you think it was fun?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean it started out pretty fun because like it

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<v Speaker 5>was Billy and just like, yeah, we already know each other,

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<v Speaker 5>we've known each other for a year or whatever. But

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<v Speaker 5>then like, I don't know, we're talking about our family

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<v Speaker 5>and there was like this weird moment where I made this.

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<v Speaker 2>Joke about his mom being overbearing and stuff like that,

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<v Speaker 2>which is a pretty stereotypical mother in law joke, like.

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely, But his response to that was like, are you

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<v Speaker 4>sure you want to eat that pasta?

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<v Speaker 5>Like I want you to live along and healthy life,

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<v Speaker 5>and I don't know if that could be something that's

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<v Speaker 5>a part of your diet.

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<v Speaker 2>He already told me about the friend thing too, Like

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<v Speaker 2>why is he doing.

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<v Speaker 1>Or does he have kind of a point if he

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<v Speaker 1>wants you to live long? And I mean, if he

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<v Speaker 1>really cared about you.

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<v Speaker 2>Is red.

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<v Speaker 5>But then he like he like brought up this person

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<v Speaker 5>I can't even remember her name, but like he brought

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<v Speaker 5>up this person because it's made up whatever, But he

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<v Speaker 5>was like I don't want you seeing her anymore, bad

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<v Speaker 5>influence for you, and blah blah blah, and like yeah

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<v Speaker 5>it was made up, but like kind of a red

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<v Speaker 5>flag for me.

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<v Speaker 2>I would have a larm bells going off left and

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<v Speaker 2>right like h gas of.

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<v Speaker 1>Like wait, I'm you made a joke about his mom

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<v Speaker 1>being overbearing.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's like a stereotypical joke.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh why is that okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Because it's not talking about who he is as a person.

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<v Speaker 1>She's not talking about who she is as a person.

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<v Speaker 3>Can I just say something It wasn't a real person.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, uh, sorry, that's Wayne, Isabella. He just jumped in

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation.

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<v Speaker 3>Person, Isabella, we were we were in together for one

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<v Speaker 3>year anniversary. I don't know what when you talking about

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<v Speaker 3>my mom and even though she is very overbearing, you

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<v Speaker 3>don't know her. You hit a nail on the head.

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<v Speaker 5>Huh, you're not listening, like you're saying about the mom.

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<v Speaker 5>And then you completely changed around onto me and something

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<v Speaker 5>about me as a person, and it's like that didn't

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<v Speaker 5>really hit well, you know, we weren't We were joking

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<v Speaker 5>about our family, and then suddenly you started telling me

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<v Speaker 5>that I shouldn't et costa Like.

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<v Speaker 1>Ye uh, family joking is okay, but talking about food

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<v Speaker 1>that crosses the line.

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<v Speaker 2>What they can or can't eat. Can can't hang out.

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<v Speaker 1>With your safety and health.

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<v Speaker 2>And she's not child, you're not her dad, Like get

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<v Speaker 2>out of here. And why do you think boyfriends act

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<v Speaker 2>that way? Like if you're just even if you're just pretending.

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<v Speaker 5>And like pasta isn't even bad for you, Like what

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<v Speaker 5>are you what are you doing? You're basically just feeding

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<v Speaker 5>into the stereotype that carbs make you fat, and I'm fat, Like.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't need it like that. I was coming from

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<v Speaker 3>the health perspective and daring about you wanting to have

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<v Speaker 3>a healthy long boxer's life together. No.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it'd be one thing if you said don't smoke.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what's wrong with smoking cigarettes? You're telling me

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<v Speaker 1>what I can and can't do her yet.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, if it wasn't positive, there wouldn't be the freakout.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it seems what it seems like a bit

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<v Speaker 1>freak out over one thing. Is that all that it

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<v Speaker 1>was he made a bad joke about what she can

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<v Speaker 1>and can eat in a fake scenario.

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<v Speaker 4>A lot of the it was a lot of them

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<v Speaker 4>making optic stuff, which you know, like there was one

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<v Speaker 4>where he was talking about like our kids and disciplining

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<v Speaker 4>our kids, and I was like, okay, if we're just

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<v Speaker 4>dating on a one year anniversary, that's not something that

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<v Speaker 4>you usually talk.

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<v Speaker 5>About, is disciplining your children. If you haven't even talked

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<v Speaker 5>about wanting to have kids yet.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, all right, I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 4>What are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 3>We already talked about having kids at our six months march.

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<v Speaker 1>You forgot that conversation, Isabella.

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<v Speaker 4>Conversation maybe happened with another girl.

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<v Speaker 2>Ye, a.

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<v Speaker 1>Lot hotter situation than this.

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<v Speaker 2>He's not very funny, Like wait, come on, man, it's

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<v Speaker 2>like foreshadowing. Just a crappy relationship, is what you were doing?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, Brook, she's just against me the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>You emailed us for help. Remember that, Brook, This date

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<v Speaker 1>idea was all her idea to pretend to be like

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<v Speaker 1>a couple a year into a relation.

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<v Speaker 3>Couple.

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<v Speaker 2>Couple, that's fun. You pretend European vacation you have?

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<v Speaker 1>Now he has to pay for a big euro trip.

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<v Speaker 1>She's a bad boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, she's obviously going to split the cost, Jeffrey, They're

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<v Speaker 2>only been together for one year. Okay, she's an independent

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<v Speaker 2>working woman, give her a break?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that Truebell?

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<v Speaker 5>I would absolutely pay my own way, but like I

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<v Speaker 5>would appreciate if he offered.

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<v Speaker 2>More fun conversation.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, would you like to go to Europe with me?

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<v Speaker 3>I'll pay for it?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Absolutely better?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah for it?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, kids behind, Well come on, guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Literally, I think he tried to take a bad angle

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<v Speaker 2>as a joke and it didn't work. But I think

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<v Speaker 2>she was her gut.

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<v Speaker 3>You guys are still laughing right now.

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<v Speaker 1>You have chemistry? Yeah, like we can all tell when

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<v Speaker 1>a joke is a joke and when it's not a joke.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not joking right now. When I say I

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<v Speaker 1>want to pay for a second date for both of you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I will pay for it, Yes, pre Europe, pre Europe. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>just a regular first date, and we can pretend that

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<v Speaker 1>you guys haven't been dating for a long time anymore,

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<v Speaker 1>a real second date.

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<v Speaker 5>I would be okay with a real second date. See

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<v Speaker 5>what he's really like in the present moment instead of

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<v Speaker 5>thinking what the future should be.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I can't believe.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I can't believe you said, Yeah, Wayne,

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<v Speaker 1>are you still You're still up for this?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Of course she won't regret it at all.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Just no more hypotheticals on your guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Dates should not joke at all. Look what happens. True

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<v Speaker 1>love prevails even when Brooke tries to actively check.

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<v Speaker 2>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wish that some of my co hosts could

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<v Speaker 1>be more laid back and chill, like.

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<v Speaker 5>Mister Smooth. I get to I get.

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<v Speaker 2>Too worked up. I know I shouldn't care as much

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<v Speaker 2>as I do. I don't know why it lets me.

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<v Speaker 5>That's the problem.

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<v Speaker 3>I care.

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<v Speaker 1>You really cared about it when you were laying into

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<v Speaker 1>him for his date, I cared about her.

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<v Speaker 2>I think those are too many red flags.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Jose summed it up pretty well though when

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<v Speaker 1>he said the guy made a couple of mistakes on

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<v Speaker 1>the date, but overall it was a fun idea.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and then he showed his true colors and then

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<v Speaker 2>that's why she should have But whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, you know, I'm happy that they're going out of Jeff. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think we got to give them a break. They

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<v Speaker 1>were fake people, setting up fake scenarios, a fake problem

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<v Speaker 1>making Joe. None of it was real. They don't actually

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<v Speaker 1>have these problems between them, and when they do, they

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<v Speaker 1>can come back and we'll do an awkward Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 3>But in the.

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<v Speaker 1>Meantime, if you ever need help getting a second day,

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<v Speaker 1>you can always email the show. We'll call the person

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<v Speaker 1>who isn't calling you back and then judge you all

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<v Speaker 1>the way till the right