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Speaker 1: We are still counting down our top ten second date updates. Okay,

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Speaker 1: thank you to everybody who's been subscribing to this, who's

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Speaker 1: been liking and sharing and first trapping us on our

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Speaker 1: socials at Brooke and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 2: Wait, I just get the complaints, you get thirst traps.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Sidney Sweeney isn't messaging you photos of herself?

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Speaker 2: No, I'm engaged.

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Speaker 1: Ye, you naughty girl.

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Speaker 2: You should definitely believe that's her. Jeff Yeah, sure it's

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Speaker 2: not a catfish at all on.

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Speaker 1: A Grande single, right because she's messaging me.

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Speaker 2: No, she's also with you. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: All the celebrities and fake celebrities accounts trapping us, Thank

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Speaker 1: you and continue to do it. This number seven second

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Speaker 1: date update goes out to you. It's titled Happy Shammiversary

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Speaker 1: Second Date Update. What happens if you meet someone on

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Speaker 1: a dating app and you find out that both of

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Speaker 1: you have been in the dating pool for way too long,

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Speaker 1: It's like, what's wrong with you? Yeah, that's when you

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Speaker 1: need to mix it up. Like one of our listeners,

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Speaker 1: Wayne did recently. Did He suggest both of them dress

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Speaker 1: up as their favorite power ranger and meet in front

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Speaker 1: of the police station.

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Speaker 2: That's actually really funer.

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Speaker 1: Did he didn't do that? He didn't It would have

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Speaker 1: been a fantastic idea. Yeah, yeah, said he went a

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Speaker 1: different direction. And now he says he's living with a

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Speaker 1: medium amount of regret.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I feel like that most adults live that way.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sleep at night, Wayne, Only in ninety chance are

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Speaker 1: going to regret asking us for help today. So welcome

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Speaker 1: to the show. Now, must stay.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I am having some regret. You know, started as

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Speaker 3: a good idea.

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Speaker 2: They all.

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Speaker 1: We'll get to your questionable idea in just a second.

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Speaker 1: But first, tell us about the girl that you went

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Speaker 1: out with. Who's she?

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Speaker 3: And Isabella?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And from Jeffrey's description, it sounds like, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: maybe you're a little exhausted from online dating.

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Speaker 3: Oh definitely, okay, are we all?

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Speaker 2: Okay? I mean, do you still have hope going into

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Speaker 2: a first date with someone when you're just tired of it? All?

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Speaker 3: I have a sliver of hope.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's like, all right, give me a reasonably

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Speaker 1: So tell us about what you wanted to do with Isabella.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, so Isabella, you know, a couple of weeks

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Speaker 3: you were chatting and we just had really awesome conversations

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Speaker 3: and like talked about our favorite candy and like our

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what is your favorite candy?

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Speaker 3: Kidding pieces?

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Speaker 2: Okay, interesting?

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Speaker 1: Does your first date have to do with like a

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Speaker 3: No, but kind of like a game. Well, basically we

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Speaker 3: had so many fun conversations and she was like, it

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Speaker 3: never translates into a good first date. And I was like, well,

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Speaker 3: let's just skip the first date then, and you can

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Speaker 3: pretend like it's our second or third date.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, can you do that?

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Speaker 3: I like, yeah, you could do that.

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Speaker 2: You can act like remember last time when we talked,

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Speaker 2: why are you telling me the story again?

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Speaker 1: Already?

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Speaker 3: Brook? We're getting along so well. And she was like, well,

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Speaker 3: what have we pretended it was our one year anniversary?

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Speaker 1: Whoa?

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Speaker 2: That escalated quickly, sir, let's.

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Speaker 1: Jump right to the divorce and start breaking up. It's

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Speaker 1: been one year. You still won't sleep with me? Wait?

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Speaker 2: Were you into that idea?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I was like why not? What have we got to

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Speaker 3: lose it? This street and you may get.

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Speaker 2: A free dessert out of it from the restaurant, you know,

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Speaker 2: whenever they know it's an anniversary.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So what'd you end up doing?

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Speaker 3: Oh, we made a reservation for a one year anniversary

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Speaker 3: and I ordered actually a bottle champagne and oh.

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Speaker 2: You're a good boyfriend. After a whole year.

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Speaker 3: We had to put out flowers with a card. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 3: one year down ever to go.

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Speaker 1: I I legit want to steal this one year down

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Speaker 1: Forever to go. That was the card.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, wow romantic. Did she think that's funny or

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Speaker 2: did it feel like too much to her? Because you

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Speaker 3: You owned it when we met, Like we had the

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Speaker 3: happy one year like anniversary jokes, and you know she

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Speaker 3: was into it too. She came with like a president

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Speaker 3: for me, which I was like, Yeah, her present was

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Speaker 3: a fake coupon book that's.

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Speaker 2: Really free hug.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, it was done like that, but to kind

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Speaker 3: of like sarcastic, except free hug. It was like hug

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Speaker 1: Oh oh, that's more like the ten year anniversary.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she saunds really funny. Did you guys laugh a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the first like fifteen twenty minutes of the dinner

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Speaker 3: pretty fun. Okay, then it got a little serious.

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Speaker 1: Oh, serious.

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Speaker 3: It probably with me. I was too into it, took

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Speaker 3: it too far because I started kind of telling her

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Speaker 3: kind of making it up.

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Speaker 2: You turned into the boyfriend that she wants to dump

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Speaker 2: as well. Friends don't like what.

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Speaker 1: The hell hopefully you told her don't hang around Brooke

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Speaker 1: because she's a wet blanket about your date idea?

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Speaker 2: Oh terrible.

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Speaker 3: You know, Lane's a bad influence she you know, like,

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Speaker 3: what do you mean? I don't know if she meant

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Speaker 3: what do you mean? Who's Lane or what?

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Speaker 1: Because there is no Lane?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, you you were a fake, toxic boyfriend, like

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Speaker 2: what happened to the romantic guy that she was dating,

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Speaker 2: you know, fake dating?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I had to have fixed in a

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Speaker 3: little bit of real fake life.

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Speaker 2: Dude. That's exactly why she's not calling you.

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Speaker 1: You have to create some fake lows to enjoy those

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Speaker 2: You don't put up with that type of crap in

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Speaker 1: You've been single long enough. He has to do something.

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Speaker 5: I'm not surprised.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, was that it was there?

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Speaker 3: More to the day, it kind of got worse, perhaps

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Speaker 1: You don't even have kids.

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Speaker 3: No, we don't have kids now, but in the one

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Speaker 3: anniversary world, it's normal to talk about, you know, how

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you didn't see eye to eye on how to

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Speaker 3: We were disagreeing a lot about that, and she said

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Speaker 2: I mean, how much longer did you guys last after that?

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Speaker 3: Well, you know, it was hard coming out of like

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Speaker 1: All right, man, Well it sounds like you had a

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Speaker 1: couple hiccups on the day, very tiny ones.

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Speaker 2: But we're.

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Speaker 1: Every relationship goes through the these moments before they find they're

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Speaker 1: like strat isn't that right, Brooke, sir?

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Speaker 2: On the first date?

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Speaker 1: But on the one year anniversary it makes sense. So

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Speaker 1: we're gonna play a song, We're gonna come back. We're

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Speaker 1: gonna call your girlfriend of one year, Isabella, and we're

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Speaker 1: gonna see if we can get her to go out

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Speaker 1: with you one more time. Okay, the second time?

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Speaker 3: Hold on.

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Speaker 1: Second date update, Jose keeps telling me off the air

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Speaker 1: that he's gonna steal this date idea I am, even

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Speaker 1: though the girl clearly isn't calling back after.

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Speaker 2: It ended in a total disaster.

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Speaker 1: But it's so funny.

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Speaker 2: Left at each other.

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Speaker 1: If a girl isn't calling you back, Jose, usually that's

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Speaker 1: a bad sign, I.

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Speaker 3: Know, but it's just like, how much fun could you

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Speaker 3: have imagining your one year university?

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Speaker 2: He just wants to be in a relationship so bad.

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Speaker 1: But we're talking about one of our listeners, Wayne, who

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Speaker 1: just went out on a date with someone name Isabella,

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Speaker 1: and on their first day, they pretended that it was

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Speaker 1: their one year anniversary, so they set it all up

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Speaker 1: with champagne and flowers at a restaurant. But Wayne thinks

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Speaker 1: made some jokey comments about who Isabella can and can't

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Speaker 1: their future non existent children someday down the road. It's fake, guys,

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Speaker 1: I know, Wayne.

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Speaker 2: Why did you go with controlling boyfriend as your PERSONA?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I wasn't really thinking I was

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Speaker 3: doing controlling Boyfriend. I was just thinking you know, one

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Speaker 2: Telling someone who they can and can't hang out with

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Speaker 3: I mean I was just looking out for lanes of bad. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: That was not a good lane in my life yet it.

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Speaker 2: Guys, it's funny.

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Speaker 1: Didn't your husband buy you a dish rack on your

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Speaker 1: one year anniversary?

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Speaker 2: That's true, Yeah, but he never tried to tell me

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Speaker 2: who I couldn't couldn't hang right, get in.

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Speaker 1: The kitchen dishes. They'll get the water all over the counter.

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Speaker 3: Hanging out, mister clean.

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Speaker 1: So it can't turn out any worse than that, right, Wayne,

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Speaker 1: Let's just call Isabella and see how this.

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Speaker 4: Here we go.

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna Isabella, let's do this. Hello, Hey, is this Isabella? Yes, Hey, Isabella.

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Speaker 1: My name is jeff from a radio show called Brook

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Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 6: Okay, like that, sass.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what it's funny, really funny? Isabelle already?

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Speaker 3: Hi?

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Speaker 5: Hi?

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Speaker 1: This is the whole morning show. That's a brooke. You

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Speaker 1: probably know their social media handle Brook Fox Fox Yeah, sure,

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Speaker 1: at Hilarious Everything. Yeah, and then Alexis at Alexis Fuller

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Speaker 1: sixteen sixteen.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I don't follow you guys think we're not calling

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Speaker 2: because of social media.

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Speaker 1: Just see, we're doing a dating segment on this show

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Speaker 1: asking about somebody that you went out with recently named Wayne.

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Speaker 4: Oh oh.

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Speaker 1: Was that a good?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: You want to know, Well, we want to know what

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Speaker 1: you thought about your date because we've heard a little

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Speaker 1: bit about it from Wayne, but we'd like to get

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Speaker 1: your perspective on it.

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Speaker 6: Was it?

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Speaker 1: Was it producers dancing in a corner?

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Speaker 5: I mean, I think it was a really clever idea

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Speaker 5: of mine.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, to do the one year anniversary thing.

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Speaker 1: Can you tell Brooke what an amazing idea that date was.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like she doesn't believe that people can have

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying it didn't sound fun. It just you know,

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Speaker 5: I mean it started out pretty fun because like it

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Speaker 2: Joke about his mom being overbearing and stuff like that,

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Speaker 4: Absolutely, But his response to that was like, are you

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Speaker 5: Like I want you to live along and healthy life,

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Speaker 5: and I don't know if that could be something that's

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Speaker 2: He already told me about the friend thing too, Like

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Speaker 1: Or does he have kind of a point if he

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Speaker 2: Is red.

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Speaker 5: But then he like he like brought up this person

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Speaker 5: it was made up, but like kind of a red

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Speaker 2: I would have a larm bells going off left and

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Speaker 1: Like wait, I'm you made a joke about his mom

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Speaker 2: But it's like a stereotypical joke.

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Speaker 1: Oh why is that okay?

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Speaker 2: Because it's not talking about who he is as a person.

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Speaker 1: She's not talking about who she is as a person.

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Speaker 3: Can I just say something It wasn't a real person.

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Speaker 1: Okay, uh, sorry, that's Wayne, Isabella. He just jumped in

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Speaker 3: Person, Isabella, we were we were in together for one

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Speaker 3: year anniversary. I don't know what when you talking about

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Speaker 3: my mom and even though she is very overbearing, you

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Speaker 5: Huh, you're not listening, like you're saying about the mom.

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Speaker 5: And then you completely changed around onto me and something

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Speaker 1: Ye uh, family joking is okay, but talking about food

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Speaker 2: What they can or can't eat. Can can't hang out.

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Speaker 1: With your safety and health.

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Speaker 2: And she's not child, you're not her dad, Like get

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Speaker 2: out of here. And why do you think boyfriends act

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Speaker 5: And like pasta isn't even bad for you, Like what

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Speaker 5: are you what are you doing? You're basically just feeding

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Speaker 3: I didn't need it like that. I was coming from

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Speaker 2: I mean, it'd be one thing if you said don't smoke.

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Speaker 1: You know what's wrong with smoking cigarettes? You're telling me

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Speaker 1: what I can and can't do her yet.

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Speaker 3: I mean, if it wasn't positive, there wouldn't be the freakout.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it seems what it seems like a bit

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Speaker 1: was he made a bad joke about what she can

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Speaker 4: A lot of the it was a lot of them

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Speaker 4: making optic stuff, which you know, like there was one

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Speaker 4: dating on a one year anniversary, that's not something that

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Speaker 5: About, is disciplining your children. If you haven't even talked

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Speaker 3: And I was like, all right, I don't get it.

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Speaker 4: What are you talking about?

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Speaker 3: We already talked about having kids at our six months march.

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Speaker 1: You forgot that conversation, Isabella.

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Speaker 4: Conversation maybe happened with another girl.

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Speaker 2: Ye, a.

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Speaker 1: Lot hotter situation than this.

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Speaker 2: He's not very funny, Like wait, come on, man, it's

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Speaker 2: like foreshadowing. Just a crappy relationship, is what you were doing?

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Speaker 3: Like, Brook, she's just against me the whole time.

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Speaker 1: You emailed us for help. Remember that, Brook, This date

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Speaker 1: idea was all her idea to pretend to be like

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Speaker 3: Couple.

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Speaker 2: Couple, that's fun. You pretend European vacation you have?

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Speaker 1: Now he has to pay for a big euro trip.

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Speaker 1: She's a bad boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: Oh, she's obviously going to split the cost, Jeffrey, They're

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Speaker 2: only been together for one year. Okay, she's an independent

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Speaker 1: Is that Truebell?

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Speaker 5: I would absolutely pay my own way, but like I

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Speaker 2: More fun conversation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, would you like to go to Europe with me?

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Speaker 3: I'll pay for it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Absolutely better?

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Speaker 3: Yeah for it?

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, kids behind, Well come on, guys.

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Speaker 2: Literally, I think he tried to take a bad angle

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Speaker 3: You guys are still laughing right now.

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Speaker 1: You have chemistry? Yeah, like we can all tell when

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Speaker 1: a joke is a joke and when it's not a joke.

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Speaker 1: And I'm not joking right now. When I say I

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Speaker 1: want to pay for a second date for both of you,

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Speaker 1: and I will pay for it, Yes, pre Europe, pre Europe. Yes,

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Speaker 5: I would be okay with a real second date. See

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I can't believe.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I can't believe you said, Yeah, Wayne,

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Speaker 1: are you still You're still up for this?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Of course she won't regret it at all.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Just no more hypotheticals on your guys.

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Speaker 1: Dates should not joke at all. Look what happens. True

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Speaker 1: love prevails even when Brooke tries to actively check.

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: I just wish that some of my co hosts could

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Speaker 5: Mister Smooth. I get to I get.

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Speaker 2: Too worked up. I know I shouldn't care as much

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Speaker 5: That's the problem.

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Speaker 3: I care.

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Speaker 1: You really cared about it when you were laying into

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Speaker 2: I think those are too many red flags.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then he showed his true colors and then

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Speaker 1: Really, you know, I'm happy that they're going out of Jeff. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: But in the.

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Speaker 1: Meantime, if you ever need help getting a second day,

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Speaker 1: you can always email the show. We'll call the person

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