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Speaker 2: Is everybody ready ready scrubbing in with Becca Tilly an

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Speaker 2: iHeartRadio podcast. Hello everybody, it's a Monday. It feels like

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Speaker 2: a Monday. I'm not gonna lie. Does it feel like

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Speaker 2: a Monday to everybody else?

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Speaker 1: Very Monday?

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 2: I cannot just skip over the fact that Mark is back.

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Speaker 1: I'm so glad to be back. I apologize for the

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Speaker 1: two weeks I was roaming.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you were just m I a two.

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Speaker 1: Weeks ago, Brooklyn had a performance at her school. She

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Speaker 1: did a women in history performance and it was great.

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Speaker 1: They saluted someone who named Baka, Judith Baka, who does

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Speaker 1: murals in Los Angeles and around the world. And then

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Speaker 1: last week I was in Seattle visiting my sister and

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Speaker 1: meeting my new nephew who's seven weeks old. His name

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Speaker 1: is Noah. So that was fun. So I'm break, little

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Speaker 1: spring break. Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 2: Easton took over read the emails I heard.

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Speaker 1: Job. Yeah, did I make you proud of you? I'm

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Speaker 1: very proud, thank god. Now I have to announce I'm

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Speaker 1: leaving the show.

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Speaker 2: No, it's a team effort. We need everyone here. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I feel like a lot. Yesterday was Easter. Yesterday was Easter.

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Speaker 2: What did you do?

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Speaker 4: I went to church and had lunch. I had like

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Speaker 4: a long brunch lunch, and then that's about it. What

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Speaker 4: did you do?

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Speaker 2: I was, I feel like I've been battling this cough,

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Speaker 2: but it's not become more than a cough. So it's

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Speaker 2: just like this annoying thing. But I feel like when

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Speaker 2: I start coughing, people around me are like, like my uber.

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Speaker 4: I was waiting, do you know what's so sad?

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Speaker 5: As I invited back at a church to come with me,

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Speaker 5: but I was in the back of my head, I

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Speaker 5: was like, she coughs on me, I'm gonna be Soper.

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Speaker 2: That's sick. Yeah, And I don't like being the person

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Speaker 2: that makes people feel that way. So I just woke

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Speaker 2: up and Hannah and I watched a movie. It was

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Speaker 2: called Son of God and it's like basically a telling

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Speaker 2: the story of Jesus and like the like him dying

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Speaker 2: on the cross and rising again. But and then we

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Speaker 2: just hung out. It was pretty low key. What did

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Speaker 2: y'all do?

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Speaker 1: Markh family stuff. We went to church and our neighbors

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Speaker 1: always have a big Easter party every year and they

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Speaker 1: have maybe the Easter Bunny's fun. They own an Easter

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Speaker 1: Bunny costume, like I'm not sure who has one of those,

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Speaker 1: but they do, and a big bin. And so I

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Speaker 1: sneak off and I put on the costume. Then I

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Speaker 1: run around and I throw eggs at all the kids

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Speaker 1: and then I so cute.

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Speaker 5: They actually had like a full on, like Easter like

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Speaker 5: photo set up at my church.

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Speaker 2: It was so cutey.

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Speaker 4: It's like, yeah, like a chair and like happy Easter.

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Speaker 1: That's the thing that you have to have a photo

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Speaker 1: opportunity everywhere you.

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Speaker 2: Go, everywhere, especially now. I mean it's like if there's

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Speaker 2: a party and there's not somewhere that could go on Instagram.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, my father going, yeah, but this is church. I'm

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Speaker 4: like this, I love I love my church.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you do love your church.

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Speaker 4: Shout out to Away brought he Brought Fire message yesterday.

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Speaker 4: I got heated from it.

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Speaker 1: I was like, yes, and Becca had a rough weekend.

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Speaker 1: I know she got broken into and yeah.

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Speaker 2: You know, I actually am never I've never done anything

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Speaker 2: like super crazy for April Fool's Day because I don't

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Speaker 2: like for anyone to be I never take it too far.

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Speaker 2: I mean maybe it lasts for like three minutes and

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Speaker 2: then I'll, you know, come clean. But last night, the

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Speaker 2: day was coming to an end, and I was like,

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Speaker 2: I have I have to do something, And so I

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Speaker 2: was on my Instagram and I saw this this girl

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Speaker 2: I was like, I'm just gonna do that, So I

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Speaker 2: text Tanya. I don't know why. Tanya is just way

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Speaker 2: more fun than anyone to do this stuff too. But

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh my gosh, my house got broken into.

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Speaker 2: They took my laptop, my purse, you passed poor passport.

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Speaker 2: And she's like, oh my gosh, no, what do you

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Speaker 4: I was like, do you have cameras in your part?

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Speaker 2: Because I'm like, yeah, FaceTime day, like if that were

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Speaker 5: Because I wanted to make sure you're okay, because my

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Speaker 5: mind went to the dark place because you have had

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Speaker 5: like packages stolen from your house, so like it didn't

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Speaker 5: seem that far off as she got burglarized, so I

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Speaker 5: like was panicked. And then I thought if my house

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't want to sleep at my house. I'd be

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Speaker 5: So then I started mentally being like, Okay, well, Becca,

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Speaker 5: you can say here, and then probably one of your

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Speaker 5: can go stairs. Like I literally like was going through

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Speaker 5: all of these things, and in a matter of minutes

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Speaker 5: and she texted me April Fools I was like, yeah, I.

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Speaker 2: Mean it didn't It lasted maybe two minutes. It was

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Speaker 2: a very short lived, but.

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Speaker 5: You know that I also don't have like I have

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Speaker 5: zero to one hundred with my stress, and so my

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Speaker 5: stress went really high up.

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Speaker 4: But I did not need, did not need that stress.

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Speaker 1: On a Sunday night, and Tanya posted on Twitter, anyone

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Speaker 1: else think we should discontinue April Fools Day? There is

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Speaker 1: ten hours left in the poll, but sixty four percent

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Speaker 1: say yes, bye bye April Fool's Day.

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Speaker 4: Thank you for that?

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Speaker 2: Sixty four pounce Yeah, you're sixty four people that follow

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Speaker 2: you and voted for that. Though, are the people who

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Speaker 2: on Facebook like complain and want to just make everything

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Speaker 4: I hate the new algorithm.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just hate everything. I gotta complain about something.

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Speaker 2: There's something that I have to complain about, and I'm

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Speaker 4: It's not complaining. I hate it, it's just what about

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Speaker 4: April Fools is cool?

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Speaker 2: Nothing funny if you do it to other people, like,

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Speaker 2: maybe you should just do it to someone you can experience,

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Speaker 2: not the rush?

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Speaker 4: Yeah what rush? Did you get a rush?

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Speaker 2: When I was like kind of, I was laughing. I

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Speaker 2: so you weren't alone. She fas same thing, but then

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Speaker 2: she just responded, was like, you're a troll. So yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean be April Fools everybody. Yeah. So I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: continue doing April Fools even if everyone else discontinues it,

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Speaker 2: because I personally feel like we take everything so serious.

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Speaker 2: No one can play even April Fools jokes. People take

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Speaker 2: take advantage of it while it's here.

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Speaker 4: Well it's gone now, maybe I'll do another.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I'll do every day, fools start pranking you every April.

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Speaker 1: Fools work any day in April.

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Speaker 2: Really true? That better watch your back so much, you

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Speaker 2: know that fuels my fire And no, I.

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Speaker 1: Know, Becca. The Facebook group was a buzz buzz buzz. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and regarding you and Robert going to a concert, they

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So what happened? Tany and I had made

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Speaker 2: plans to go to the James Bay concert. This is

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Speaker 2: what day was that Wednesday?

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Speaker 4: Wednesday?

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Speaker 2: And as I'm getting ready, as I'm walking out the door,

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Speaker 2: I saw that he was heading to the James Bay

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Speaker 2: no time for romance, oh relief. Yeah, but under it

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Speaker 2: says like self love society. It was like, okay, like

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Speaker 2: Tanya and I'm like Roberts on his like Roberts on

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Speaker 5: She was like, I didn't even think anything of it

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Speaker 5: because I'm like, there's a lot of people that go

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Speaker 2: Not a big venue, that's the thing. It was like

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Speaker 4: Hundreds of people.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so like the chances all someone is like one

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Speaker 2: Okay, So we walk in, we walk in, we go

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Speaker 5: So and right off the bat, like we literally just

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Speaker 2: So and it was like okay, well, okay, just go

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Speaker 5: Right, and then the show started, so it was like

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Speaker 2: Like it wasn't like it's just hard because it's so comfortable,

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Speaker 2: throughout the show. And not to mention James Bay sings

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Speaker 2: like these really like sweet romantic songs. Like it's not

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Speaker 2: but it was good to see him. I haven't we

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Speaker 2: everyone's like, oh my gosh, are they together? Did they

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Speaker 2: go together? No?

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Speaker 5: I guess I didn't realize that. I didn't realize people

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Speaker 5: thought that we had all on together. Oh yeah, I.

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Speaker 2: Guess so if you see everyone on the Instagram story together,

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Speaker 2: that totally natural to think that. So yeah, it was

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Speaker 2: I was living.

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Speaker 4: I loved not living.

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Speaker 2: My best kept looking back at us with this like

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Speaker 2: and I were like what do we do with that? Yah?

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Speaker 4: Because I was literally just turned my head like this.

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Speaker 2: You can't see her, but she would like give us

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Speaker 2: but like we didn't need a line. No, his friend

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Speaker 1: Tyana, shut the door. Shut it because no more discounts.

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Speaker 5: And I was like, you know what I'm saying, preaching

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Speaker 5: And it's nothing against him, like he could have been

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Speaker 4: For what I want from a guy is just not that, not.

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Speaker 4: It's so great? It was so liberating sending that too.

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Speaker 5: It was so well thought out, so concise, It was

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Speaker 4: So it was just so concise and so to the

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Speaker 2: That door is I think closed shut and boarded up.

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Speaker 4: Yep, it's just ready for mister Wright to walk on in.

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Speaker 1: Before we get to Hello Fresh, because I'm very excited

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Speaker 1: I want to talk about last week's Grace Anadomy.

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Speaker 3: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I thought it was the best episode of the season.

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Speaker 1: I thought it was fantastic.

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Speaker 2: I definitely think it's up there in the best.

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Speaker 1: Three storylines, with the Owen going to Teddy, which look,

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Speaker 1: I thought it was all right.

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Speaker 1: We had Meredith getting to know Scott Speedman from Felicity,

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Speaker 2: I didn't watch Felicity, but I know who he is.

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Speaker 1: He's great, he's been from Felicity, so that was wonderful.

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Speaker 1: I could have watched those two chit chat the.

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Speaker 2: Entire entire connection.

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Speaker 4: Scared. I'm scared they're gonna kill her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I for sure think they're going to kill her.

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Speaker 2: You know what, it's Arizona or April's gonna die. They

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Speaker 1: I guess I'm optimistic that they won't and they can

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Speaker 2: And at the end when they flashed back to her

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Speaker 2: when she first met Derek at the bar, it was

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Speaker 2: like a split sag.

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Speaker 4: I didn't get it.

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Speaker 2: It was like, goes, my connection just went out. What happened? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I was like I just saw an old boat of mill.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: It was almost like she was having that moment again

450
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Speaker 2: meeting him for the first time. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: It took me a minute.

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Speaker 2: Wait. I so you went to Disneyland? I wait? No, sorry?

454
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Speaker 2: Should we do HelloFresh? Yea even as exciting as Disneyland

455
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Speaker 2: as HelloFresh. HelloFresh, as we have talked about, it is

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Speaker 2: a meal kit delivery service. They shot for you, they

457
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Speaker 2: plant it out for you, and they deliver it to

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Speaker 2: you step with step by step recipes and it's all

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Speaker 2: pre measured ingredients, so you just have.

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Speaker 4: To cook a neat yeah yeah, and eat yeah and

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Speaker 4: enjoy it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they have three plans to choose from, so they

463
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Speaker 2: have the classic, they have the veggie, and then they

464
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Speaker 2: have the family.

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Speaker 5: So each box is made up of fresh, responsibly obtained

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Speaker 5: ingredients from carefully selected farms, which I'm a big fan

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Speaker 5: of because I shot you uld shop up with the

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Speaker 5: farmer's market. So I love that they get these from

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Speaker 5: their local farmers and high rated and trusted sources.

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Speaker 2: So the part about it I think that makes it

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Speaker 2: so enjoyable is that it makes dinners fuss free. There's

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Speaker 2: options for picky eaters, it's kid tested, and they have

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Speaker 2: a family approved recipes.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. And the best part is it takes twenty minutes

475
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Speaker 4: to make it.

476
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Speaker 1: It's so many best parts.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, the thing is twenty minutes. That's give or

478
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Speaker 2: take a few. Someone like me might take around thirty.

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Speaker 4: Someone like me, you probably could do it in fifteen.

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Speaker 1: Wow, beauty, Yes, it's so easy even like, yeah, I

481
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Speaker 1: think you could do it in twenty.

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Speaker 4: I think I do, maybe because they prey measure are

483
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Speaker 4: the ingredients. Yes, literally, just have to put it.

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Speaker 2: Together, I know, but I'm like a shaky cook, you know.

485
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Speaker 1: And what's the best part the eating it The cooking

486
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Speaker 1: it is fun. The worst part cleaning it up. But

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Speaker 1: with Hello Fresh, the cleanup is simple. Why is that

488
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Speaker 1: there's no extra waste? They know exactly what it's supposed

489
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Speaker 1: to be and then it's.

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Speaker 4: Just boop, like put stuff in the ziploc bag left.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and that my sisters anytime we get food and

492
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Speaker 2: there's leftovers, it sits in the They're like, we're gonna

493
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Speaker 2: eat it, and it sits in the fridge for like

494
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Speaker 2: two weeks before I finally have to take it out.

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Speaker 2: Shout out to my girls.

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Speaker 1: One pot recipes, one pot clean it done.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So get out of the recipe, right, we all

498
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Speaker 2: get stuck in it, start cooking outside of your comfort zone.

499
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Speaker 2: and now they use hellow Fresh every week and she's like,

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Speaker 2: there's things that I cook that I would have never

504
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Speaker 2: even guessed and we love it. So it's really actually

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Speaker 2: funny seeing firsthand from like knowing the meals that I

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Speaker 2: grew up with and then it's all changing. And for

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Speaker 4: I feel like we nailed that one.

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Speaker 2: I was feeling so anxious reading and I was like,

516
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Speaker 2: how are you going to do this?

517
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Speaker 4: I had a plan.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Uh.

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Speaker 1: The Facebook group continues to bring joy to all of

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Speaker 1: our lives.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, speaking of the promo code, did you see

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Speaker 2: that little girl say?

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Speaker 1: It's yeah?

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Speaker 3: So cute.

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Speaker 1: And one of the cool things that was on there

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Speaker 1: this week was Emily who ran into Ellen Pompeo Meredith

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Speaker 1: Gray at a.

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Speaker 2: Coffee shop, Yes, a Starbucks?

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Speaker 1: So that and like, what do you do in that situation?

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Speaker 1: Like you had a run?

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Speaker 2: You can say, we know how I handle it.

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Speaker 1: Let's get around here. Here's Emily. Sorry, that's the wrong button. Emily.

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Speaker 2: Are you there?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Hi? Hi, It's Baca, Tanya, Mark and Easton.

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Speaker 3: Hello everyone.

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Speaker 2: Hi. We you know I feel like your post on

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Speaker 2: the Facebook group was the hit of the well the

539
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Speaker 2: whole time. Really, people were so excited.

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Speaker 3: I was so shocked how many people were were responding

541
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Speaker 3: to it. But I was so exciting.

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Speaker 4: I mean, you met the queen.

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Speaker 3: I met the one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So can you explain, like you can you explain

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Speaker 2: just the whole everything that happened from you walking in

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Speaker 2: the door?

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Speaker 3: Yes, okay, okay. So my mom and I were one

548
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Speaker 3: on a walk in the morning to Starbucks and we

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Speaker 3: went into like really early, like six am on a

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Speaker 3: Sunday morning. So we were in Starbucks by ourselves, like

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Speaker 3: no one else was in the store. It's just me

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Speaker 3: and my mom and uh my dad had gotten there

553
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Speaker 3: and was outside. So I grabbed the drinks and went

554
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Speaker 3: to walk out of the store. And as I'm walking

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Speaker 3: out of the store, Ellen POMPEII, I was walking in

556
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Speaker 3: and I like, stop in my truck, turn around, look

557
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Speaker 3: at my mom, and my Mom's just standing there and

558
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Speaker 3: she's like yep, sticking her head like seeing you exactly

559
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Speaker 3: in my mind that's it. I'm like shaky, and I

560
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Speaker 3: walk outside. I'm like freaking out to my dad. I'm

561
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Speaker 3: like to tell Pompeia, what do I do. She's like,

562
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Speaker 3: go in there. There's no one else in the store,

563
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Speaker 3: like be calm. So I'm like okay. So I go

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Speaker 3: in and my mom's standing there and I'm like, Mom,

565
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Speaker 3: you have to do it. We have to do it.

566
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Speaker 3: We're the only ones here, like this is our time,

567
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Speaker 3: like we have to we can't let this moment past.

568
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Speaker 3: So she's like, okay, I'll do it. Like what do

569
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Speaker 3: I say? And I'm like, you're much better at this

570
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Speaker 3: than I am, so she's like, okay, I'll play. It's

571
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Speaker 3: super cool. So she's like, Hi, we just wanted to

572
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Speaker 3: let you know. We're like huge fans. We've been walking

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Speaker 3: since the beginning, Like we just wanted to let you

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Speaker 3: know how great we think you are. And we just

575
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Speaker 3: and she was like she like stopped and she was like,

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Speaker 3: oh my gosh, thank you. And she's like, tell me

577
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Speaker 3: just order really fat. So we're like okay, we're standing

578
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Speaker 3: there like okay, at least we said hi to her,

579
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Speaker 3: like what will we do next? And then she like

580
00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 3: came over to our table and was like HI. Like

581
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Speaker 3: that was such a nice thing to hear from you, guys.

582
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Speaker 3: We love hearing that people have been walking since the

583
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Speaker 3: beginning and she like started talking to my mom. She

584
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Speaker 3: was like, yeah, we got new writers for this season,

585
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Speaker 3: so we're helping to lighten things up and all this stuff.

586
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Speaker 3: And she's like very friendly, like shockingly friendly, and then

587
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Speaker 3: she like her drink is called so she like she's like,

588
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Speaker 3: thanks so much for saying high, and she gives us

589
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Speaker 3: a hug, and I'm like shaking, like actually shaking and

590
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Speaker 3: freaking out. My mom's like I think I've walked out

591
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Speaker 3: to get a picture. Like no one's gonna believe this

592
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Speaker 3: actually happened. She's like, okay, let's do it. So my

593
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Speaker 3: mom was like, I know, like you this early in

594
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Speaker 3: the morning and you probably don't want a picture, but

595
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Speaker 3: like we promised we won't post it, and she's like,

596
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Speaker 3: we could just get a picture for us to have

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Speaker 3: and she was like, oh no, like totally fine, Like okay,

598
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Speaker 3: She's like, we'll get a picture. She's like, normally it's

599
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Speaker 3: like streaming thirteen year old fants like running after me,

600
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Speaker 3: so this is a lot more like personal. And I

601
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Speaker 3: was like okay, like so we took this healthie and

602
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Speaker 3: she's like so like it was so great meeting you,

603
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Speaker 3: and like walked outside and first time freaking out and

604
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Speaker 3: I'm like, Mom, it's like she's wearing crubs, like your

605
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 3: outfit even looks like it was like sopathetic. And then

606
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:25,960
Speaker 3: she just walked outside and we followed her cause my

607
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Speaker 3: dad was sitting outside and she's like talking to my

608
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Speaker 3: dad about because her husband was there and he drove off,

609
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Speaker 3: like because he was curtually in the parking lot. She

610
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Speaker 3: couldn't find them. And then she's talking to my Dad's like,

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Speaker 3: oh my gosh, what do I do? And my mom's like,

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Speaker 3: she want us to give you a ride? We'll give

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Speaker 3: you a ride for me he was and then she

614
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Speaker 3: like her husband came up. And that was the moment

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Speaker 3: that I for the next like two hours of my life,

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Speaker 3: I was like, I cannot believe that happened.

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Speaker 2: So so when was this? How long ago?

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Speaker 3: About a month or so ago? My well, my grandma

619
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Speaker 3: had surgery. It was reason the rap Starbucks with my

620
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Speaker 3: grandpa was some surgery and then waiting for him. But

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Speaker 3: it was like about three or four weeks ago. Wow.

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Speaker 5: Wow, Maybe maybe this new like contract, this new deal

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Speaker 5: like has there in like a different like mindset.

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Speaker 3: You know.

625
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Speaker 4: She's like I need to like you know, like.

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Speaker 1: She's public relations for the entire like it's her show,

627
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:22,120
Speaker 1: owns the show.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I also feel like the way that y'all approached

629
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Speaker 2: her because there was no one else to like kind

630
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Speaker 2: of cause maybe a rough out or a ruckus there was.

631
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:33,920
Speaker 2: She was like calm and close and the mom helps.

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Speaker 1: I think too.

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Speaker 3: I think for sure my mom helped because she's like

634
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Speaker 3: the same age, so they can like relate and talk.

635
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Speaker 3: Like me, I probably would have fangled so hard. I

636
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Speaker 3: would have been like, oh my gosh, I love yeah cool,

637
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Speaker 3: but it was. It was seriously so cool. I definitely

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Speaker 3: think that it being so early in the morning that

639
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Speaker 3: no one's being around definitely played in our vantage because

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Speaker 3: it wasn't like one person started and then she felt

641
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Speaker 3: like to take picture with everyone right right, so like

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Speaker 3: I mean on the airplane for you, once you started,

643
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Speaker 3: maybe everyone would have started.

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Speaker 1: So knowing that story make you hesitant to approach. Knowing

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Speaker 1: Beca tried to approach and her husband kind of said,

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Speaker 1: don't go and do it right now.

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Speaker 3: I told my mom this story because my mom like

648
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Speaker 3: I tell him, like, oh yeah, I didn't my friends,

649
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:20,359
Speaker 3: I haven't met them before. My friend she was on

650
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Speaker 3: the airplane with them, and my mom was like, well,

651
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Speaker 3: maybe it's just a different scenario. She's like, I still

652
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:28,720
Speaker 3: think we should try. So I'm like, I'm glad my

653
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 3: mom was there. Probably I don't know what I would

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Speaker 3: have done. I would have at least tried.

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Speaker 4: But I mean, you know, you know what this story

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Speaker 4: teaches us.

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Speaker 2: Moms make everything better, Yes, we really do.

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Speaker 5: And that one man's pie might be another man's pleasure.

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Speaker 2: What is that mean?

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Speaker 3: Like another quote from.

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Speaker 5: A reason pleasures like like, like your experience with Ellen

662
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Speaker 5: was so different from Emily's experien.

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Speaker 2: Pie was my pleasure?

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00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 4: Yes, this was pie, and Emily had the leisure. Nobody

665
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 4: likes pie.

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00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:11,960
Speaker 2: This is the this is her weirdest one. Yet everyone

667
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:14,520
Speaker 2: likes pie.

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Speaker 1: I like you, I like pie. Everyone likes pie. Like

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Speaker 1: there's a hundred different types of pie, there's one you

670
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 1: would like.

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00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 4: Move on from that.

672
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:25,640
Speaker 1: Move on.

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Speaker 2: What you're saying is in different scenario. People can have

674
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:31,720
Speaker 2: different experiences situations.

675
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 5: We deal with different different situations all the time, like, oh,

676
00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:35,960
Speaker 5: this happened to my girlfriend, this is going to happen

677
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:38,640
Speaker 5: to you. But it's like, look like everything happens differently

678
00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 5: for different people.

679
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:43,360
Speaker 1: And peoples situations.

680
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Speaker 2: And there's some days people are like wanting to talk

681
00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 2: and be friendly in their days where they're like want

682
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 2: to keep their head down.

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Speaker 3: I think, yeah, especially for like her when I'm sure

684
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 3: everywhere she goes she gets asked for a picture, So

685
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Speaker 3: it's probably easy when there was no one else around

686
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 3: to ask her for a picture, it was easier for

687
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Speaker 3: her to say yes, knowing it's not going to like

688
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:06,280
Speaker 3: ripple effects for everyone around.

689
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Speaker 5: I kind of feel like we've met Ellen Pompeo because

690
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Speaker 5: you're talking to us about it.

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00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, me too, Like I feel like here's the thing though. Also,

692
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Speaker 2: I think with your mom too. I think that that

693
00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:20,120
Speaker 2: y'all had a conversation with her first and gave her

694
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Speaker 2: like a nice compliment and didn't just say like can

695
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:25,240
Speaker 2: I get a photo was probably really nice too.

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Speaker 3: Yes, that's very true. I mean my mom also told

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Speaker 3: her we wouldn't post it, and then I posted in

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Speaker 3: the Facebook group.

699
00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:35,800
Speaker 2: Now we're talking about it. Yeah, it's a safe place

700
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 2: in there. Okay, thank you so much for telling that

701
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:41,160
Speaker 2: we are. It was even better than I expected.

702
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 3: Thank you for calling. I love you guys in the podcast.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we love you. Have a good day. Bye.

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Speaker 3: Bye bye.

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Speaker 1: That would be a good We should post that on

706
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Speaker 1: the Facebook group. What celebrities have you met and how

707
00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 1: did it go? Like that? THO would be good story.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I love stories like that.

709
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Speaker 2: Actually, that whole thing reminds me of one time my

710
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 2: friend had an experience with Jennifer Gardner and was like,

711
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 2: she was so rude to me, and everyone else I've

712
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:08,959
Speaker 2: talked to is like, she's the nicest person ever. So

713
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 2: it's like, I think at that point I realized, you know,

714
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:14,720
Speaker 2: people just have on and off day and I don't

715
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 2: even know if Ellen was having an off day on

716
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:19,240
Speaker 2: the plane. I just never even talked to her, never

717
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 2: got that far.

718
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Speaker 4: But we'll got the vibe from the husband.

719
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Speaker 2: Got the vibe.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like even a pot pie, you might like like a.

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00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 2: Meat pie or I'm sorry, I don't want to harp

722
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:32,880
Speaker 2: on it too much, but that made no sense.

723
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Speaker 4: What is the saying?

724
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Speaker 2: I don't know because I've never heard anything. One man's

725
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 2: pie and another man's pleasure a phrase, and she thought

726
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:48,000
Speaker 2: it was pie. She's like, yeah, no, one likes man's pleasure.

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00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:53,440
Speaker 5: Oh shoot, like chocolate cream pie and you're gonna have

728
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 5: like ice cream or cake or candy okay.

729
00:31:55,960 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 1: But those are all good, and so is pie like like.

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00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 2: You know, apple pie, cherry pie, do it, whatever you're

731
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:08,080
Speaker 2: gonna say. Pie is like the one the Owen of desserts, like.

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Speaker 4: The Owen of desserts. Yeah, you hit the name on

733
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Speaker 4: the head with that.

734
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Speaker 1: One kind of gets mad because we have the same

735
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Speaker 1: week of birthday and so when that week rolls around,

736
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Speaker 1: they'll get a cake and I don't. I don't want cake.

737
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Speaker 1: I want pie. The office, I prefer it over cake.

738
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Speaker 2: Mark deserves to pie, thank you as much as you

739
00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:28,760
Speaker 2: deserve to have cake.

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Speaker 4: But the majority of people want the cake not so.

741
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Speaker 2: Maybe you should bring him a pie for his birthday.

742
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 4: I have done that.

743
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Speaker 1: She has brought me a cherry tart like a MENI pie.

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00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 1: I mean it's close enough, I thought.

745
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Speaker 2: I.

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Speaker 1: Possibly possibly.

747
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Speaker 2: We have talked about bioclarity a lot on the podcast,

748
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 2: but I have noticed more people that I like follow

749
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:55,520
Speaker 2: on Instagram or people that just I see in general

750
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Speaker 2: and social media are using it more and more. I

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Speaker 2: think because it is an all natural, vegan, gluten free,

752
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Speaker 2: basically clean product.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's easy in your skin. I think a lot

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Speaker 5: of products can be really like I have really sensitive skin.

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Speaker 4: So a lot. I can't use a lot of products

756
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Speaker 4: because my skin will just go berserk.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean I'm the same way. If I use

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Speaker 2: anything with too many chemicals, it freaks out.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Oh what is it.

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764
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Speaker 2: it's gluten free, it's cruelty free. They have the cleanser,

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Bioclarity is also packed with clarifying botanicals and new flora

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Speaker 2: it calms it down.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: They also offer a skin smoothie with hydrate, which is

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Speaker 2: the moisturizer I was talking about. It's a lightweight, breathable

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Speaker 4: Right, like at the end, Yeah, after the three step process.

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Speaker 1: Right. I've seen a lot of people on the Facebook

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Speaker 1: group saying they've used bioplarity and how much they love it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: code beacaup. Okay. We're just gonna go through some of

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Speaker 2: the like quick quick topics on Facebook that we have seen.

797
00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 2: First of all, Tanya and I haven't quite figured out

798
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:13,719
Speaker 2: how to master the Facebook situation because like if I

799
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:17,319
Speaker 2: look at one like post and then I try to

800
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Speaker 2: go back and find it, I can't find it.

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Speaker 1: I can't.

802
00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:20,920
Speaker 2: Oh that makes me feel better.

803
00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:23,360
Speaker 1: You know. It's that algorithm. But yeah, I have a

804
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 1: terrible time with it.

805
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:24,840
Speaker 2: But where does it go?

806
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:27,239
Speaker 1: When I will look in my feed, they pop up

807
00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:28,719
Speaker 1: in a certain order, and when I look at the

808
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:31,520
Speaker 1: straight Facebook group feed, it's a totally different.

809
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:33,600
Speaker 5: Meaning to Yeah, like, you were talking about this girl

810
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:35,360
Speaker 5: that I met, a Disiland. She's like and I was like,

811
00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:36,920
Speaker 5: how did you know that? And You're like, she posted

812
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:38,359
Speaker 5: the photo in the Facebook group and I'm like, how

813
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:39,960
Speaker 5: do I find that? I can't, I haven't seen it.

814
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 1: It was so sweet. She was so excited that she

815
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:43,319
Speaker 1: ran into you and could care less that you had

816
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Speaker 1: Sophia Carson.

817
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:46,719
Speaker 5: I was telling Mark, it was like just flocks of

818
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 5: people all day for Sophia, and this moment all came

819
00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:50,239
Speaker 5: came up to.

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Speaker 4: Me and it was like, TI podcast, Like, what the heck?

821
00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 4: She was so cute. I had to give a shout

822
00:35:57,480 --> 00:35:58,280
Speaker 4: out to Constance.

823
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, wait James Bay concert. Constance comes up to

824
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 2: us and she taps us on the shoulder and she's

825
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:10,800
Speaker 2: crying and she's like, I really drunk, That's why I'm crying.

826
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:13,480
Speaker 2: And she was like, I love y'all so much. It

827
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 2: was the sweetest, sweetest She was like, I love Mark.

828
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 2: I love eastonsh she the podcast.

829
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:21,840
Speaker 4: She's like, I'm the Becca. My best friend's the Tanya.

830
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 4: She makes up at five am and does yoga.

831
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:26,160
Speaker 2: She I love my bed in McDonald's.

832
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 4: It was so sweet.

833
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:31,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, so shout out to Constance. Yeah, it was really

834
00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:32,359
Speaker 2: good meeting you.

835
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:33,480
Speaker 4: So nice to meet you.

836
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:37,759
Speaker 2: Okay, So Kayla from our Facebook group wants to know

837
00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:40,720
Speaker 2: if guys like being asked out. She has a crush

838
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:41,799
Speaker 2: on a guy at the gym.

839
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:43,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, and she was like, should I go up and

840
00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 1: ask him out? And the answer is yes, right, Oh

841
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 1: not so much. Tanya's groaning.

842
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:49,880
Speaker 2: I don't know.

843
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:52,480
Speaker 5: I say, drop the handkerchief, let him know that you're

844
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:54,800
Speaker 5: interested somehow, and let him.

845
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:55,279
Speaker 4: Ask you out.

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00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 2: Yeah. I say, go up and introduce yourself, have a conversation,

847
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:02,319
Speaker 2: seek see if you can fail out the vibes, and

848
00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:04,800
Speaker 2: then make the move after that.

849
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:05,319
Speaker 4: Yeah.

850
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Speaker 1: So you're both against asking a guy out because this

851
00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:12,360
Speaker 1: is interesting. Yeah, because we got some a lot of

852
00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:14,719
Speaker 1: conversation on Facebook. Quich I know we addressed about the

853
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 1: last name thing because you guys both also took a

854
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 1: more traditional view of taking a guy's last name, and

855
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:21,480
Speaker 1: I'm taking a more traditional view of being asked out.

856
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 1: You don't think it's appropriate to ask a guy out.

857
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:26,200
Speaker 5: I'm not saying don't make the first move. I'm all

858
00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:27,239
Speaker 5: about making the first move.

859
00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 4: Hello.

860
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 2: But I think about her going up to him and

861
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 2: approaching him is making the first move, and I think

862
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 2: he should be the one that makes takes aim move.

863
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 1: Why why can't you say I would love to get

864
00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:41,399
Speaker 1: coffee sometime? Would you? Would you be interested in that?

865
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:44,319
Speaker 2: It's just kind of like I have always had this

866
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 2: mentality or this what I what I what I want

867
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 2: is to be pursued. So this is maybe just a

868
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:54,120
Speaker 2: personal thing totally. If a girl doesn't have that desire

869
00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 2: of like wanting to be pursued and she likes being

870
00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 2: in control, then I say go ask him out. Personally,

871
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Speaker 2: I wouldn't because I like to be pursued.

872
00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, And then like so then do they get coffee?

873
00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:05,920
Speaker 4: Like does she pay for the coffee?

874
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:07,480
Speaker 5: Like she's just gonna you know what I mean, it's

875
00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 5: going to be so awkward the whole time, Like she's like,

876
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:10,319
Speaker 5: is he taking me out?

877
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 4: Does he really want to be here?

878
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:13,360
Speaker 2: Does he want to be here? Yeah?

879
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 1: Well this is what guys have to do with every time.

880
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 2: But that's why. I think. I almost think if she

881
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:23,920
Speaker 2: shows the interest first, then it should make it easier

882
00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:26,320
Speaker 2: if he's interested to ask her out, because she already

883
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:27,320
Speaker 2: made the move to approach.

884
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:31,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, fair enough. What about Katie? She kissed a guy.

885
00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:36,000
Speaker 1: It was terrible. She's one, oh, father continuing with us

886
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 1: at all? What he just kind of inhaled her bottom

887
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 1: lip or something.

888
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 2: I don't know.

889
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 4: Maybe he didn't inhale it. Maybe he just like suckling it. Okay,

890
00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:50,440
Speaker 4: that could be nice. It could be nice.

891
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:56,440
Speaker 6: And marks literally in the same ah, suckling did.

892
00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:58,480
Speaker 4: Not bottom lip, but could be nice.

893
00:38:58,920 --> 00:38:59,240
Speaker 3: Weird.

894
00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:00,840
Speaker 2: I could see this poor guy.

895
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:01,640
Speaker 4: Was probably try.

896
00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:09,439
Speaker 2: I don't want to ever talk about lipsuckling. Ever.

897
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:12,080
Speaker 1: She said that at first he's barely moving his mouth

898
00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:19,600
Speaker 1: at all, and then he inhaled her bottom with Yeah.

899
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:26,360
Speaker 5: I like this guy, I say, keeping Katie, I do,

900
00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:28,080
Speaker 5: but you don't think so.

901
00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 2: I think if you like everything else and enjoying his

902
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:37,719
Speaker 2: company and everything, the kissing can get. Yeah, she could

903
00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:38,239
Speaker 2: teach him.

904
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:40,400
Speaker 1: I think that's what people are in the comments were

905
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:43,280
Speaker 1: basically saying, was my husband and I were a terrible

906
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:46,360
Speaker 1: first kid. Yeah it worked out great, And yes, guys,

907
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:48,360
Speaker 1: I think it's sweet because he clearly doesn't have a

908
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:50,720
Speaker 1: lot of experience kissing, right. Is that kind of sweet?

909
00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:53,799
Speaker 1: Is that kind of endearing that it's new to him?

910
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:56,480
Speaker 5: Or does he maybe he dated the one that enjoyed

911
00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 5: the suckling and she's like, I'm gonna do this next time?

912
00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:06,960
Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean I don't. I say, if you like

913
00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 2: everything else, don't let that be a deal breaker, especially

914
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 2: on the first date. If after like what three or

915
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:16,720
Speaker 2: four times? Like how long do you give that? Though?

916
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:18,759
Speaker 1: I think you could have a conversation about it at

917
00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:19,240
Speaker 1: some point.

918
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:21,919
Speaker 4: No, you teach him with your mouth. You don't teach

919
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:24,279
Speaker 4: him with your words. You can't be like you're a

920
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 4: terrible kidser. Let me teach you show him with your.

921
00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 1: Tongue, Let me show you something. You could just say that. Yeah,

922
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:32,360
Speaker 1: here's the actual call from Katie Morgan. Thank you Katie.

923
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:34,319
Speaker 1: We were watching Netflix and all of a sudden he

924
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:36,320
Speaker 1: just kissed me. But he didn't really move his lips.

925
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:37,880
Speaker 1: It was like he was trying to make out with me,

926
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:40,160
Speaker 1: but with no movement, if that makes sense. Until he

927
00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:42,400
Speaker 1: put his until he put my whole bottom lip in

928
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:45,280
Speaker 1: his mouth, and his hands were all over the place,

929
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:47,880
Speaker 1: not great.

930
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:50,640
Speaker 2: It sounds like he just was out of control a

931
00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:51,120
Speaker 2: little bit.

932
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:52,839
Speaker 4: I don't hate it.

933
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:54,400
Speaker 2: You don't hate what.

934
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 4: I don't hate this guy. I think she can keep

935
00:40:57,160 --> 00:40:58,239
Speaker 4: I think you can work with it.

936
00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:00,640
Speaker 2: Well, me too, but like I don't I don't think

937
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:02,880
Speaker 2: that kiss sounds like a good kiss.

938
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:09,280
Speaker 4: Doesn't sound bad to me. I like mysterious hands going places.

939
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:15,040
Speaker 2: All over the place, like I'm picturing.

940
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 6: The I'm picturing him like grabbing her hair and like

941
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:20,000
Speaker 6: moving him somewhere else, like but not like soft and

942
00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 6: like sexy, but more just like spastic.

943
00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:28,240
Speaker 2: You would like someone who is as spastic, because yeah,

944
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 2: she also dated a guy with platosis. Let's not forget true.

945
00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 5: Dark times bars dark times.

946
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:38,040
Speaker 1: I also really like Laurence. She wasn't an advice, but

947
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:40,799
Speaker 1: she posted that she mashed the guy in bumble. And

948
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:42,279
Speaker 1: then they finally got to the point where they show

949
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 1: his phone numbersilious, and then she said that they'd already

950
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 1: had a text conversation because they had already gone out.

951
00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 2: I'm so good, very memorable, clearly, but a really good story.

952
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 2: I know, really good story if they end up like

953
00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:57,359
Speaker 2: being together, I think they.

954
00:41:57,360 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 1: Both said, though, let's not bother kind of, but I

955
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:01,399
Speaker 1: don't know, maybe they didn't.

956
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:03,520
Speaker 2: I'm match. I matched with a guy on Bumble and

957
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 2: he looked so familiar and then I realized we had

958
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 2: gone out. But I literally had to ask him. I

959
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 2: was like, I feel so dumb, but I can't remember

960
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 2: how we met or like when we went out.

961
00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 5: I've done the same thing. But I've seen people like

962
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 5: in real life and I'm like, I know I've met you,

963
00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:22,880
Speaker 5: and like it'll hit me afterwards. I've seen them on

964
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 5: like a dating app. I've never met them. But I

965
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 5: went out on a date with this guy I didn't remember.

966
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 4: That's bad.

967
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:31,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know it so unlike me. I'm like, wow,

968
00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:33,839
Speaker 2: that made me feel like such a player. I went

969
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:36,240
Speaker 2: on like four tender days before I went on The Bachelor,

970
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:37,359
Speaker 2: and I think he was one of them.

971
00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 4: Wow.

972
00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:41,000
Speaker 1: That's the problem. So many of these dates are one

973
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:43,759
Speaker 1: and done. Yeah, and there's such a small pool of

974
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 1: guys that you're interested back at the beginning.

975
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:48,719
Speaker 2: Again, that's so depressing.

976
00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 1: You know what's great, though, is thread up and then

977
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:55,520
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978
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Speaker 1: and Ashley kicking us out of the studio pretty soon,

979
00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:58,279
Speaker 1: so let's do thread Up.

980
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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're on their time frame. Yeah, but I will say,

981
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Speaker 2: if you have a chance, head over to the Almost

982
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Speaker 2: Famous podcast and give it a listen after you listen

983
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984
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Speaker 1: It is a good show.

985
00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 2: It's a good show.

986
00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:14,600
Speaker 1: If you love The Bachelor, you love that podcast.

987
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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: So it's like free people dresses for ten dollars, Jay

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Speaker 5: cru Jean's for twelve dollars, and a Kate Spade handbag

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Speaker 4: You know what those like you can buy those for

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Speaker 4: like three hundred dollars.

996
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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. I have a really hard

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Speaker 2: time going to discount stores and sifting through the racks

998
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999
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Speaker 1: Sophia sends us an email. She says, first, let me

1022
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 1: tell y'all how much I love the podcast. You guys

1023
00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:08,440
Speaker 1: are amazing. I love all the advice you guys have

1024
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:10,879
Speaker 1: to offer. Becca and Tanya. I wish I had your

1025
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:13,520
Speaker 1: confidence about going out into the dating world and on

1026
00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:16,359
Speaker 1: first dates. I'm twenty years old in college. I've never

1027
00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:18,680
Speaker 1: had a boyfriend at this point. I'm scared to even

1028
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:20,920
Speaker 1: go on dates because of how inexperienced I am in

1029
00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:24,360
Speaker 1: the dating world. Seriously, I've never even gone on a

1030
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:27,719
Speaker 1: date before. I need advice how do I date? I'm

1031
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:30,239
Speaker 1: so scared of awkward date talking and totally freaked that

1032
00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:32,200
Speaker 1: any guy is going to think I'm weird and awkward.

1033
00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 1: Thanks for reading, guys, I really do love the podcast, Sofia.

1034
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:40,359
Speaker 2: Well, Sophia, I did not have I would say I

1035
00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 2: had relationships where I was super into a guy and

1036
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:47,520
Speaker 2: we had something similar to a relationship, but it wasn't

1037
00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:51,839
Speaker 2: an official title of being in a relationship until Robert. Yeah,

1038
00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:55,600
Speaker 2: and how old were you at, Robert, twenty seven?

1039
00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:58,479
Speaker 1: But you've been on dates before, right, Yeah.

1040
00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 2: But I'm just saying, like, don't let that had never

1041
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 2: having had a boyfriend at this point, don't let that

1042
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:06,759
Speaker 2: like be a reason why you are scared to try

1043
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:07,799
Speaker 2: or go out on a date.

1044
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:09,400
Speaker 5: And I also think that people put a lot of

1045
00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:12,720
Speaker 5: pressure on like the word date. Like, I'm sure, Sophia,

1046
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:15,719
Speaker 5: that you interact with humans on a regular basis that's

1047
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:17,440
Speaker 5: essentially what a date is, you know, I mean, like

1048
00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:20,400
Speaker 5: you're interacting with another human over a meal, you know.

1049
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:21,960
Speaker 5: So it's like kind of like take the label off

1050
00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:23,960
Speaker 5: of it. You do it every day, so it kind

1051
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:24,960
Speaker 5: of takes the pressure off.

1052
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:27,800
Speaker 2: And yeah, that's a great pa And she don't.

1053
00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:29,879
Speaker 5: Put any expectation into it, Like I go into every

1054
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:31,920
Speaker 5: single date with this saying.

1055
00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:32,640
Speaker 4: My sister told me.

1056
00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:35,279
Speaker 5: She said, and I think I've said it before, but it's, uh,

1057
00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:37,880
Speaker 5: be open to the possibility, but not attached to the outcome.

1058
00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:40,919
Speaker 5: So you're open to the possibility of liking this this

1059
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:43,080
Speaker 5: person you're going out with, but you're not attached to

1060
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 5: them like becoming your boyfriend or becoming your husband or

1061
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:47,279
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. So it's like just being

1062
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 5: open but not being not having expectations.

1063
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 4: I think you'll do great, Yeah.

1064
00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 2: But I think I mean, and I will say going

1065
00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 2: on dates, sir, like how learning how to date as

1066
00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 2: far as how to meet someone, you have to be

1067
00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:05,560
Speaker 2: in situations where there's people of the opposite sex or

1068
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:07,920
Speaker 2: people that you would be interested in, maybe that have

1069
00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:12,800
Speaker 2: the same interest as you. If you're you know, religious,

1070
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:15,200
Speaker 2: in a Bible study group or in a church setting,

1071
00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:17,759
Speaker 2: or if you like going out, oh you can't go

1072
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 2: to bars because you're twenty one, I mean.

1073
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:23,080
Speaker 5: Twenty Another A good way is maybe to tell your friends,

1074
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:24,840
Speaker 5: like I'd really love to be set up, Like people

1075
00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:25,840
Speaker 5: really like to set.

1076
00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:26,320
Speaker 4: Up their friends.

1077
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:27,840
Speaker 5: So I'd say, like, do you have anybody that I

1078
00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:29,799
Speaker 5: could you could set me up on a date with?

1079
00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:31,719
Speaker 5: I think people will really like jump on that.

1080
00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:33,640
Speaker 2: And even I mean, I know that we talk a

1081
00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:35,560
Speaker 2: lot about dating apps, but that is kind of the

1082
00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:38,480
Speaker 2: way people are doing it now, and maybe doing it

1083
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 2: on a dating app where you're not super familiar with

1084
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:45,720
Speaker 2: who's on there and they're ultimately strangers. Just let someone

1085
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:48,640
Speaker 2: know where you are at all times. Yeah, but I

1086
00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:51,719
Speaker 2: think that's just you go on dates, and even if

1087
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 2: it's like Tanya said, even if you're not like I'm

1088
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:57,399
Speaker 2: going to marry this person, it's an experience and meeting

1089
00:47:57,480 --> 00:47:59,479
Speaker 2: someone new and.

1090
00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:01,120
Speaker 1: We're all weird and awkward.

1091
00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:05,959
Speaker 2: Everybody is totally especially on dates. I actually I get

1092
00:48:06,000 --> 00:48:10,319
Speaker 2: like I struggle with just not putting expectations on it,

1093
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 2: and I struggle with trying to just act like it's

1094
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:13,839
Speaker 2: a normal conversation.

1095
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:17,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, I struggle with like reeling it in because you

1096
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:20,000
Speaker 5: know me, I'm just like a level one hundred and

1097
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:22,000
Speaker 5: I was trying like reel it back a little bit.

1098
00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 2: I'm like just picturing you on a date being like,

1099
00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:27,640
Speaker 2: you know, like one man's pie is another man's pleasure,

1100
00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:31,239
Speaker 2: and he's just like staring at me. Yeah, Okay, I

1101
00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:32,239
Speaker 2: don't know what she's talking about.

1102
00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:34,920
Speaker 1: Caitlin is twenty three. The last guy they had cheated

1103
00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:37,080
Speaker 1: on me and had a baby with another girl ended

1104
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:39,400
Speaker 1: up marrying her, So my heart's been guarded ever since.

1105
00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:43,320
Speaker 1: So now she's digging a new guy's He's an hour away,

1106
00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:45,040
Speaker 1: but she's done a lot of long distance that's not

1107
00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 1: a big deal. Lately, she feels like he's backing off

1108
00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:49,319
Speaker 1: a little and not as engaged as he once was.

1109
00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:52,880
Speaker 1: He I'm not quoting her. He also calls me his girlfriend,

1110
00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:55,080
Speaker 1: but we haven't talked about defining our relationship yet. So

1111
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:57,200
Speaker 1: do I just go with it or do you think

1112
00:48:57,200 --> 00:48:59,520
Speaker 1: we should have a conversation. I'm fine with and want

1113
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:02,479
Speaker 1: to be, but I don't know where his head is. Also,

1114
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:04,200
Speaker 1: I'm totally out of the dating game, so I'm unsure

1115
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 1: how to approach this. I can feel myself getting sad

1116
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:09,400
Speaker 1: that he seems more distant lately, so I think there

1117
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:12,200
Speaker 1: could be potential here, but I'm terrible while putting myself

1118
00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:14,200
Speaker 1: out there. I'm scared to bring it up because I

1119
00:49:14,200 --> 00:49:16,040
Speaker 1: don't want him to see me as pushy or anything.

1120
00:49:16,520 --> 00:49:19,280
Speaker 1: I'm noticing a lack of effort I was giving compared

1121
00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 1: to him, but I don't want it to be too late.

1122
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:23,680
Speaker 1: I love y'all and your podcast. Ps. I made a

1123
00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 1: vision board this year because of you two and this podcast,

1124
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:27,880
Speaker 1: and y'all are right up near the center of it.

1125
00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:31,200
Speaker 1: Thanks for inspiring me in so many ways. So anyway,

1126
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:33,120
Speaker 1: she met this new guy and now he's starting to

1127
00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:34,759
Speaker 1: get more distance, and she feel like it's her doing

1128
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:36,640
Speaker 1: because she's not giving as much as she should be.

1129
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:38,560
Speaker 2: But he calls her his girlfriend.

1130
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 1: By the way, that's where his head is at.

1131
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:42,680
Speaker 2: That's what I was gonna say. If there was any doubt,

1132
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:44,680
Speaker 2: he would not be calling you his girl friend.

1133
00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 1: No conversation necessary. Guys don't throw that out willy nilly.

1134
00:49:47,760 --> 00:49:50,040
Speaker 1: Guys throw that out because they mean it and they're

1135
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:51,560
Speaker 1: interested and they want you to be that.

1136
00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:52,120
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1137
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:55,800
Speaker 2: I mean that says a lot right there, But I

1138
00:49:56,520 --> 00:49:58,800
Speaker 2: think I see that she said, I relate to you

1139
00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:01,600
Speaker 2: a lot back up because I'm emotionally unavailable. And if

1140
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:04,239
Speaker 2: you're into someone and you really want this to work,

1141
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:07,000
Speaker 2: you kind of have to. I mean, I'm learning, but

1142
00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 2: you have to let those walls down. Like no one,

1143
00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:14,160
Speaker 2: someone's only going to try so hard before they realize

1144
00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:16,080
Speaker 2: they're not getting anywhere, and then they're going to become

1145
00:50:16,080 --> 00:50:20,920
Speaker 2: more distant. I think that's what I learned, m for sure. Yeah,

1146
00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:24,239
Speaker 2: I mean, no one wants someone who doesn't show them

1147
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:25,319
Speaker 2: that they're wanted to.

1148
00:50:27,120 --> 00:50:29,120
Speaker 1: I think it might be time for a grand gesture.

1149
00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 2: Like she does a grand gesture.

1150
00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:33,000
Speaker 1: He's an hour away, but I think maybe she shows up,

1151
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:34,320
Speaker 1: surprises him or something.

1152
00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:37,080
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, I think just something that shows that

1153
00:50:37,239 --> 00:50:39,480
Speaker 2: you're putting an effort. I think that's going to say

1154
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:42,040
Speaker 2: or mean a lot to him totally. But I think

1155
00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:44,400
Speaker 2: if yeah, I agree with Mark, if he's calling you

1156
00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:46,479
Speaker 2: this girlfriend, no conversation needed on that part.

1157
00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:48,440
Speaker 1: I don't bother with that, and don't worry about that

1158
00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 1: he's in. So let him know that you're in. Yeah,

1159
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:53,040
Speaker 1: all right, Like we have time for one more here, Kristin.

1160
00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:57,479
Speaker 1: So there's a guy she's into. They randomly bump into

1161
00:50:57,520 --> 00:50:59,400
Speaker 1: each other walking their dogs. We have to do with

1162
00:50:59,440 --> 00:51:01,320
Speaker 1: each other while back. But then of course she forgot

1163
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:03,680
Speaker 1: his name and just remembered his dog's name. Well, finally

1164
00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 1: she got around to saying Hai. She actually used our

1165
00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:07,879
Speaker 1: Facebook group to figure out how to get his name.

1166
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:10,040
Speaker 1: But finally she goes, hey, roof fifth to the dog,

1167
00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:13,240
Speaker 1: and you are and so now she knows his name again. Anyway,

1168
00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:15,839
Speaker 1: they bump into each other all the time, even at

1169
00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:18,240
Speaker 1: tenant night when she's in pj's and a side pony, which,

1170
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:20,520
Speaker 1: by the way, that's underrated. You girls think you look

1171
00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:24,839
Speaker 1: like like crap. We don't. I think that's adorable. This

1172
00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:26,919
Speaker 1: morning we had another casual bump in and he asked

1173
00:51:26,920 --> 00:51:28,800
Speaker 1: me to meet him later at the dog park together.

1174
00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:30,840
Speaker 1: At the end, he asked for my phone number, but

1175
00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:32,919
Speaker 1: we didn't plan another time to hang I'm writing because

1176
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:34,839
Speaker 1: I was looking for suggestions to ask him to hang

1177
00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:37,320
Speaker 1: out again. My friend said I should buy tickets to

1178
00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:38,960
Speaker 1: a local soccer game and tell him I have an

1179
00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:40,600
Speaker 1: extra ticket. What do you guys think? By the way,

1180
00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 1: he works at a hospital as an.

1181
00:51:42,040 --> 00:51:46,440
Speaker 2: R and best part, I think your friend has great advice.

1182
00:51:47,200 --> 00:51:49,320
Speaker 2: I think that's so fun and heats like casual.

1183
00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:51,480
Speaker 1: I think it's great if he's given you indication that

1184
00:51:51,480 --> 00:51:53,400
Speaker 1: that's something he would enjoy.

1185
00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:55,600
Speaker 2: But I feel like, well, I mean, I don't like baseball,

1186
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:56,960
Speaker 2: but I love to go to a baseball game and

1187
00:51:57,000 --> 00:51:57,800
Speaker 2: eat like I like that.

1188
00:51:58,080 --> 00:51:59,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, the vibe.

1189
00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:01,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's almost like a concert or something.

1190
00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:01,640
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1191
00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:04,320
Speaker 1: And I do like sporting events. I know Tanya disagree

1192
00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:06,440
Speaker 1: with me, but I like sporting events as first dates

1193
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:09,879
Speaker 1: because you don't have to talk, but you can talk. Yeah,

1194
00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:12,799
Speaker 1: movies you can't talk. Dinner, you have to talk. Sporting event.

1195
00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:14,879
Speaker 1: It's up to you. There's no awkwardness. You can watch

1196
00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:16,759
Speaker 1: the game, you can talk back and forth, whatever time

1197
00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:17,600
Speaker 1: he's making faces.

1198
00:52:18,880 --> 00:52:20,839
Speaker 2: No, you liked the football game. You said, this is

1199
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:21,560
Speaker 2: so cute.

1200
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:23,719
Speaker 4: It's so cute to go with your friends on a

1201
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:25,960
Speaker 4: first date. Are you kidding? If I went to a first.

1202
00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 2: Day, Tim Tebow is like, hey, I want to go

1203
00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:28,800
Speaker 2: the Lakers game.

1204
00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:31,840
Speaker 4: In a month. Let's maybe get dinner and get to

1205
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:32,759
Speaker 4: know each other a little bit.

1206
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:36,600
Speaker 2: You're turning, Oh you don't. If you're turning Tim Tebow

1207
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:38,840
Speaker 2: down on that, then you don't love I'm.

1208
00:52:38,680 --> 00:52:41,239
Speaker 5: Also not I'm also not saying like if I get

1209
00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 5: asked out on a first day to do something like that.

1210
00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:44,400
Speaker 5: Would ever, I probably wouldn't poo poo it. I just

1211
00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:45,680
Speaker 5: wouldn't be my first choice.

1212
00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:47,799
Speaker 1: So you would go out. If you like the guy,

1213
00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:50,520
Speaker 1: you go out, even if it was miniature golf, which

1214
00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:51,560
Speaker 1: I know you're not a fan of.

1215
00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:54,279
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah I would if I was into the guys

1216
00:52:54,440 --> 00:52:56,480
Speaker 5: many golf on a first date.

1217
00:52:56,840 --> 00:52:59,919
Speaker 1: I want to like, I love me. That's my good

1218
00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:00,680
Speaker 1: first date.

1219
00:53:00,760 --> 00:53:00,920
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1220
00:53:01,239 --> 00:53:04,720
Speaker 2: Really, it's like fun, it's cute, you can talk, it's quiet.

1221
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:06,880
Speaker 1: I think that was my second day with Amy was minigolf.

1222
00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:09,759
Speaker 5: Mini golf is better than like going to a sporting event. Though,

1223
00:53:09,760 --> 00:53:11,440
Speaker 5: if someone asked me to go to a baseball game

1224
00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:18,919
Speaker 5: on a first day and be like, okay.

1225
00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:17,640
Speaker 1: Don't not un till you try it. The only negative

1226
00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:19,879
Speaker 1: to a ball game is it's three hours and if

1227
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:23,799
Speaker 1: you're not I don't like an out like but I

1228
00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:25,719
Speaker 1: like the soccer game. I like whatever you can come

1229
00:53:25,760 --> 00:53:28,400
Speaker 1: up with. I think he'll be into it, Kristen, we say.

1230
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:31,120
Speaker 2: Go for it, right, Yeah, Because he asked her to

1231
00:53:31,120 --> 00:53:34,320
Speaker 2: meet him later at the dog park, he's interested. Yeah,

1232
00:53:35,239 --> 00:53:37,080
Speaker 2: I was good. I was trying to think of something

1233
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:39,120
Speaker 2: that they could bring their dogs together since they have

1234
00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:39,720
Speaker 2: that in common.

1235
00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:43,480
Speaker 5: But he cute, yeah or like, and she's like, oh

1236
00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:45,200
Speaker 5: my dog, we just gave her. I just got out

1237
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:47,719
Speaker 5: of this new treat and I got one for Rufus too.

1238
00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:54,120
Speaker 2: That's no, doesn't lead, doesn't do anything for it all.

1239
00:53:54,160 --> 00:53:56,160
Speaker 1: Right, Before we wrap, Ali just wanted to point out

1240
00:53:56,239 --> 00:54:00,399
Speaker 1: Chase mcnary's snapchat the power that you guys have. Chase

1241
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:02,040
Speaker 1: mc nary, who is on the Bachelor, he said in

1242
00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:05,400
Speaker 1: a snapchat public service announcement, I don't have any dating apps.

1243
00:54:05,400 --> 00:54:07,359
Speaker 1: If you're talking to someone pretending to be me, tell

1244
00:54:07,440 --> 00:54:12,120
Speaker 1: them to piss off. Clearly, our listeners on moss are

1245
00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:15,839
Speaker 1: going after these people and saying I'm talking to you

1246
00:54:15,880 --> 00:54:17,520
Speaker 1: on a dating app being.

1247
00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:21,120
Speaker 2: Funny to me, it's so funny, and I you know,

1248
00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 2: I notice a lot of people got a little more

1249
00:54:23,040 --> 00:54:25,319
Speaker 2: serious about it on the Facebook group, like, you know,

1250
00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:28,160
Speaker 2: this is not right. You're starting it off on a lie.

1251
00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:30,319
Speaker 2: It's it's supposed to be lighthearted.

1252
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:33,359
Speaker 1: Totally, all these Bachelor people and all these professional ass

1253
00:54:33,560 --> 00:54:34,400
Speaker 1: are like, what's happening?

1254
00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 2: I just love them?

1255
00:54:35,480 --> 00:54:39,439
Speaker 6: Chase, Like, our listeners are like Chase McNairy to.

1256
00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:40,719
Speaker 1: Totally, and he got so many that he felt in

1257
00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:41,000
Speaker 1: the need.

1258
00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:45,279
Speaker 2: It's so good. It's so good, Ash, I hope he's

1259
00:54:45,320 --> 00:54:51,759
Speaker 2: not listening. Yeah, that is so funny. I feel like

1260
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:53,880
Speaker 2: I've seen so oh someone did it to my brother

1261
00:54:54,280 --> 00:55:00,200
Speaker 2: and he goes good, try Becka Tanya out.

1262
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:02,400
Speaker 1: We need to come up with more of these, I know.

1263
00:55:03,160 --> 00:55:06,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, we got to try some more. Okay, Unfortunately we

1264
00:55:06,560 --> 00:55:07,760
Speaker 2: have to wrap.

1265
00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:11,360
Speaker 4: No, no, but we still have so much to talk about.

1266
00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:15,279
Speaker 2: It felt like time really flew by today. What do

1267
00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:16,920
Speaker 2: you have to talk about so much?

1268
00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:20,160
Speaker 4: So many things?

1269
00:55:20,239 --> 00:55:24,880
Speaker 2: Well, we have next week. We maybe, I know a

1270
00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:27,320
Speaker 2: lot of people want to podcast a week.

1271
00:55:28,239 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 1: It's something to consider.

1272
00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:31,880
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm in do we shorten them or do

1273
00:55:31,920 --> 00:55:33,000
Speaker 2: we keep them the same length?

1274
00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:35,520
Speaker 1: I don't know. That's something we'll have to discuss. The

1275
00:55:35,600 --> 00:55:36,560
Speaker 1: legit two.

1276
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:39,480
Speaker 4: Forty minute episodes instead of one one thirty.

1277
00:55:39,280 --> 00:55:40,680
Speaker 1: Well, this one's an hour on the nose.

1278
00:55:41,000 --> 00:55:43,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, and people were upset last week because it was

1279
00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:46,200
Speaker 2: fifty nine minutes. They were like, we waited an extra

1280
00:55:46,280 --> 00:55:48,000
Speaker 2: day and we got chipped on time.

1281
00:55:48,560 --> 00:55:50,719
Speaker 1: So well, we'll talk about it, maybe even if we

1282
00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:51,560
Speaker 1: just called back ad.

1283
00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:52,760
Speaker 4: We have a post show meeting.

1284
00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:55,680
Speaker 1: Yes, let's have a post show meeting and discuss the

1285
00:55:55,719 --> 00:55:58,279
Speaker 1: post ability of a second podcast a week. Can you

1286
00:55:58,320 --> 00:56:01,759
Speaker 1: just to check in, clear the inbox something like that.

1287
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 4: Clear the inbox. That's kind of I like that.

1288
00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:09,560
Speaker 5: I actually just did that. I did the c Parvey

1289
00:56:09,600 --> 00:56:12,600
Speaker 5: Show and I got to do this go through his

1290
00:56:12,680 --> 00:56:15,799
Speaker 5: d M. I felt really proud about that. He was like,

1291
00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:16,719
Speaker 5: you're a star.

1292
00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:17,359
Speaker 2: Thank you.

1293
00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:19,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, he was like, we have a new segment. I'm

1294
00:56:19,080 --> 00:56:19,960
Speaker 4: gonna go through my d M.

1295
00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:23,920
Speaker 2: He said, your feet is gonna your feet must be so.

1296
00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 5: It's so sad that it like, actually, like I got

1297
00:56:27,200 --> 00:56:29,719
Speaker 5: excited about the possibility of reading his d ms.

1298
00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:31,719
Speaker 1: Why don't we go through m.

1299
00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:35,040
Speaker 2: One of you? Both of you?

1300
00:56:35,239 --> 00:56:36,800
Speaker 4: Mine are not interesting.

1301
00:56:36,719 --> 00:56:40,480
Speaker 2: Mine really, I mean mine aren't that interesting either, but

1302
00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:41,000
Speaker 2: we could.

1303
00:56:40,800 --> 00:56:42,920
Speaker 4: Probably find some some gems. I did get.

1304
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:48,640
Speaker 5: A guy sent me a cucumber, some very prerogative looking thing.

1305
00:56:48,719 --> 00:56:52,239
Speaker 5: I was like, okay, even though it was it was

1306
00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:55,360
Speaker 5: like an actual cucumber, and I was like, it's like

1307
00:56:55,400 --> 00:56:56,280
Speaker 5: a dirty one.

1308
00:56:57,040 --> 00:56:58,120
Speaker 2: Sounds pretty dirty.

1309
00:56:58,160 --> 00:56:58,879
Speaker 4: I didn't love it.

1310
00:56:59,440 --> 00:57:03,239
Speaker 2: All Right, we gotta go. Thank y'all for listening, thank

1311
00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:06,480
Speaker 2: you for the emails, thank you for the Facebook.

1312
00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:08,719
Speaker 4: Love, thank you, Hello Fresh Bioclarity and thread up.

1313
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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in at iHeartMedia dot com. Keep in coming, don't

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Speaker 2: Death twelve sixteen PM. Oh I don't just say PM.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no,