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Speaker 1: I stole, never got caught. It took me to the

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Speaker 2: This fucking job can't help them, so I quit.

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Speaker 1: Y'all. Welcome, Hey, welcome to the Blackout Tips podcast, your

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Speaker 1: host Rod and Karen. You know, of all the years

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Speaker 4: Hello Kakis, you said we're gonna shrut the rest of up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I kind of should have known that he was

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, yeah, the struggle is real, but

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Speaker 5: Dog Yeah, and that ain't nothing to do with color.

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Speaker 5: You just happened to be black. And it was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: He was like this racism hold me back, Like, I

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Speaker 4: Maybe that five finger discoun might be.

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Speaker 1: Problem smuggling khakis. Anyway, Hey, welcome to the Blackout Tests.

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Speaker 1: but maybe you don't. I don't know. You know, we'll

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Speaker 1: find out, but you guys know how I have impossible

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Speaker 1: white Man movies possible white man movies one of my

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Speaker 1: But it doesn't have to just be a white man.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm talking Passing to fifty seven. I'm talking

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Speaker 1: there's impossible white woman movies. These are movies where, because

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Speaker 1: So you so you got those two genres of movies,

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Speaker 1: to name them. But I love black executive fan fiction movies.

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Speaker 1: Right now, a lot of y'all like, what the fuck

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Speaker 1: perfect Guy, there's a Sonnihila thum Morre's Chestnut and Michael

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Speaker 4: Oh, you will find them. He I think he applies

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Speaker 1: He's in several of them. Yeah, When the Bow Breaks.

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Speaker 1: That was twenty sixteen. That was another great one. That

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Speaker 5: Top flight okay, senior execs. Sex that's another language they

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Speaker 1: Yep. They're both making doing great things, you know, dealing

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Speaker 1: That's it, slice of the American pie, the American dream

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Speaker 1: course a black woman can't have dreams. What the hell

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Speaker 1: perfect guy in the Bow breaks I told you that

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Speaker 4: I think got seen breaking In. Ain't that the one

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Speaker 1: Another Black executive fan fiction movie, Breaking In was a

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Speaker 1: And of course criminals decide that's the night they want

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Speaker 1: just black executive fan fiction, not not a horror movie.

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Speaker 2: There's no supernatural elements.

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Speaker 4: Not like us.

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Speaker 1: Some of y'all are gonna try to throw other movies

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Speaker 1: You can't fit in another genre. You can't be like, oh,

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Speaker 1: this is a horror movie starring you know, supernatural being.

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Speaker 5: Regular ass people. It works in the accounts paylo downtown.

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Speaker 1: It's black people. They don't work in accounts payable. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: they work. They work in advertisements, right, they work in

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Speaker 1: senior executive accounts of of of like, uh, big accounts,

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Speaker 1: whatever the big account is, that's what they're taking care of.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like you will nominated.

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Speaker 2: Gods, they are so short.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like what they lack and plot they make up

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Speaker 1: because I'm like, yes, that's true. When you black in America,

436
00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:08,439
Speaker 1: it's all terror. And these movies to me, are much

437
00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:11,800
Speaker 1: scarier than more than horror movies in a way, because

438
00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:14,840
Speaker 1: all this shit could happen. You could date a crazy

439
00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:17,720
Speaker 1: man that want to kill you and you and your man.

440
00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:19,920
Speaker 2: That happens in the paper all the time.

441
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Speaker 1: Oh you know, Like I'm not saying the way they

442
00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:26,000
Speaker 1: happen in these movies, they would have it. But these

443
00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:29,680
Speaker 1: stories ain't that far fetched. Like in America, white people

444
00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:31,879
Speaker 1: selling you a house and then scheming to get the

445
00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:33,719
Speaker 1: house back and trying to kill you and take your

446
00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:36,080
Speaker 1: wife and shit like, and I mean.

447
00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:38,600
Speaker 2: It's kind of the story of America. It's kind of

448
00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:40,000
Speaker 2: it's called sharecropping.

449
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Speaker 1: I don't know, like it's kinda we have the historical

450
00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:47,600
Speaker 1: relevance for that shit. So I don't know, man, I

451
00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:51,119
Speaker 1: just think I think these movies are interested from that perspective.

452
00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:53,120
Speaker 1: But while you're in the theater, of course, it's never

453
00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:55,840
Speaker 1: that deep. It's just, oh my god. More, Chef's not

454
00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:57,639
Speaker 1: really gonna let this nigga come in the house, like

455
00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:01,080
Speaker 1: he can't tell that they babysit is trying to fuck him,

456
00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:03,800
Speaker 1: like maybe, And then she just looked at his wife

457
00:22:03,840 --> 00:22:06,200
Speaker 1: and crossed her throat with a knife, like y'all, don't

458
00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:08,639
Speaker 1: think you don't think that that's that's that. Don't make

459
00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:13,159
Speaker 1: you uncomfortable more, you know? Uh, Anyway, I love these movies.

460
00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:21,600
Speaker 1: All right, let's get into the news. All right, Let's

461
00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 1: see a bunch of stuff has happened. I guess the

462
00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:26,560
Speaker 1: biggest news of social media today. I kept seeing I

463
00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:30,440
Speaker 1: couldn't really avoid, and so I actually wanted to watch

464
00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:33,359
Speaker 1: it all to get the full context, as I U

465
00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:38,320
Speaker 1: should carry went on the Red Talk The Facebook Show, Yeah,

466
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Speaker 1: the Facebook Show with the Jada Pinker Smith, her daughter Willow,

467
00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:44,840
Speaker 1: and then her mom who I don't know how I

468
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Speaker 1: don't know. Her mom's name.

469
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Speaker 5: Is extreme depopular. I haven't seen that Nay race second

470
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Speaker 5: of it.

471
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Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Yeah, it's kind of interesting because I think

472
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Speaker 1: it's a great show. I don't know the rules on

473
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Speaker 1: social media? Can they be nominated for an Emmy, like

474
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Speaker 1: a DA Term Emmy or whatever.

475
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, people say it's good.

476
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:06,760
Speaker 1: I don't know how the ratings go and stuff. But

477
00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:07,920
Speaker 1: I really like the show.

478
00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:10,960
Speaker 2: But I think all.

479
00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:13,720
Speaker 1: Things like this it's kind of a lit mistast for

480
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Speaker 1: how people already feel about the people going on the show,

481
00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:19,120
Speaker 1: you know, all that type of stuff. I mean, I

482
00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:22,879
Speaker 1: have a very insular circles, mostly black people, and of

483
00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:27,280
Speaker 1: those people, it's probably mostly like, probably mostly women that

484
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Speaker 1: that I follow and talk to on social media. So

485
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Speaker 1: you know, I get a very like, kind of certain

486
00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 1: type of view of all this stuff via my social media,

487
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Speaker 1: but I don't know that that's the way it's being

488
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Speaker 1: viewed everywhere.

489
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Speaker 5: Oh, they said it was the first Facebook show nominated

490
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Speaker 5: for an Emmy.

491
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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah it should be. I think it's really good.

492
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:48,520
Speaker 1: And every time I see a clip of it or

493
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,480
Speaker 1: I see a episode, I'm always like, oh, yeah, that's

494
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:52,680
Speaker 1: I like those interviews.

495
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:57,840
Speaker 2: It's very good production styles, and and they get really

496
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Speaker 2: good guests.

497
00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:01,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, and they talk about kind of emotional things and

498
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Speaker 1: it get you know, Jada Pinkinsmith is good at getting

499
00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:07,439
Speaker 1: like ten bits out of people and I think the

500
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Speaker 1: way is edited is a little bit like kind of

501
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 1: harsh because it's definitely edited for time in a way

502
00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:16,679
Speaker 1: that you know, I kind of and I get it.

503
00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I know, I'm a weirdo with the kind

504
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:20,480
Speaker 1: of like, hey man, if it takes an hour to

505
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 1: displain it, then take an hour.

506
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Speaker 2: But a lot of people are like, wrap this shit up.

507
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:26,879
Speaker 1: So you know, Facebook is definitely one of those places

508
00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:29,639
Speaker 1: where twenty seven minute video people are like, oh no,

509
00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:31,879
Speaker 1: you know, but I'm like, yes, only like about a

510
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Speaker 1: half hour normally and.

511
00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:38,639
Speaker 2: I and I enjoy them. No commercials or anything like

512
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:40,320
Speaker 2: that anyway.

513
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Speaker 1: So I know, we talked a little bit like when

514
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Speaker 1: that girl that was fighting with the Kardashians Jordan and something,

515
00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:50,960
Speaker 1: Yes she was on that. Yeah, But on this one

516
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:55,640
Speaker 1: it was the Curry family and apparently they have like.

517
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Speaker 2: You should carry.

518
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Speaker 1: It was like the biggest episode they had as far

519
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 1: as cat members that were being interviewed, like Aisha Curry.

520
00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:08,919
Speaker 1: There was like Steph STEP's mom, Dale Curry's wife Sedale Curry,

521
00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:11,160
Speaker 1: which I think is like the little sister or.

522
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:14,520
Speaker 2: Something like that or what something something like that.

523
00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 1: There's a Doc Rivers daughter who was married who getting

524
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Speaker 1: got engaged to Seth Curry and then there was all women, Yes,

525
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:27,720
Speaker 1: all women, it was all women this episode. They don't

526
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 1: it's not always all women, but it was all women

527
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Speaker 1: this episode.

528
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Speaker 2: And then people kind of.

529
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Speaker 1: Only took Aisha Curry's comments from the show and kind

530
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Speaker 1: of they were going viral through clips online, and so

531
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Speaker 1: I wanted to like see it for myself because I

532
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 1: think that, uh, it's just difficult when you see clips

533
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 1: online because people kind of go off on a tangent.

534
00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 1: It's kind of what happens now and long you know,

535
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Speaker 1: like long form Twitter threads and people bringing up old

536
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Speaker 1: tweets from two thousand eleven twenty thirteen to be like,

537
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:04,320
Speaker 1: but what about when she said this and all that

538
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:06,639
Speaker 1: type of stuff, and you know, it's kind of that

539
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 1: thing I talk about, and I think we also come

540
00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 1: to it. But it's difficult to resist the urge to

541
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:16,920
Speaker 1: be judgmental when you're online because we have like all

542
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 1: the receipts all the time, and we don't see people

543
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Speaker 1: the way that you see them in real life. Like

544
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Speaker 1: in real life, she said something in twenty thirteen about

545
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 1: women needing to like wear clothes, and shit, I remember that, right,

546
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:34,720
Speaker 1: and then and then we saw and then she said

547
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Speaker 1: something in twenty eleven. I saw someone found a tweet

548
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Speaker 1: from twenty eleven, y'all that showed her being like, I'm

549
00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:43,120
Speaker 1: at Auto bell. I'm just trying to get my car washed.

550
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:44,679
Speaker 1: I don't need nobody trying to holler at me or

551
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 1: something like that. Okay, that'll be, it'll come back, come

552
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 1: back up in a second.

553
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Speaker 4: Okay.

554
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:54,600
Speaker 1: So yeah, the people up there with Sonya Curry, Sedel Curry, Lee,

555
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 1: Calie Rivers who's engaged to Seth and then I should

556
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:03,480
Speaker 1: herr and they're up there with Willow, Jada, and Adrian,

557
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 1: who is Jada's mom. So the thing that when the

558
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:14,440
Speaker 1: couple of things that went viral were she talked about

559
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 1: how she talked about how you know, she gets annoyed

560
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:25,200
Speaker 1: by women who basically try to get with her husband,

561
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:30,880
Speaker 1: which I think would be annoying, not right. I don't

562
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Speaker 1: think that's necessarily a controversial thing to say. Let me see,

563
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:38,920
Speaker 1: how do you deal with that? Okay, so this is Jada.

564
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 1: Of course she's married to will Smith.

565
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Speaker 5: She know, how do y'all deal with all the ladies

566
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 5: around y'all?

567
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 4: Men, how do you deal with that?

568
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:52,640
Speaker 3: Stephan is like very nice by nature, and he's very talkative.

569
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Speaker 1: He's just like you.

570
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:57,320
Speaker 3: He gets it from his mama, and so like everything's

571
00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:01,640
Speaker 3: always like very very friendly, and sometimes to the point

572
00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:03,760
Speaker 3: where I'm like, okay, I'm a grown woman, so I'll

573
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:06,880
Speaker 3: just insert myself and be like, hello, how are you doing,

574
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:11,360
Speaker 3: Like I'm okay with it now. And I've obviously you know,

575
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:13,439
Speaker 3: like the devil is a liar, and there's always like

576
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:15,560
Speaker 3: the ladies will always.

577
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:18,639
Speaker 5: Be lurking, hoping for their moment and waiting.

578
00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:20,600
Speaker 3: You need to be aware of that. But for me,

579
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:25,439
Speaker 3: I honestly hate it.

580
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Speaker 4: You know.

581
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:30,040
Speaker 1: And I thought that was interesting because one person was like,

582
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,680
Speaker 1: when I shared this link that said that she kind

583
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 1: of hates it or whatever, and they were like, this

584
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 1: is a complete mischaracteration. She didn't mischaracterization. She didn't say that,

585
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Speaker 1: she didn't say that she does hate that that happens.

586
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 1: I think she just kind of hates the idea of

587
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 1: always having a offend for a man's attention from you know,

588
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 1: groupies and shit. And I think people don't see that

589
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 1: couple as a couple that's been together since they were fifteen,

590
00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 1: like got together in high school, have three kids now,

591
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 1: and his profile has risen so much bigger than anyone

592
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 1: would have thought.

593
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:08,640
Speaker 4: Agreed.

594
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:12,880
Speaker 1: Like, like Steph Curry went from I remember when he

595
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:15,040
Speaker 1: was in the Deal Curry Tournament here. I remember playing

596
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 1: basketball with this kid at the Why Like it wasn't

597
00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:20,760
Speaker 1: no entourage around, nobody was, no scouts were coming in

598
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 1: to watch him play ball with us or nothing. It

599
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:25,720
Speaker 1: was just Steph just the regular kid, you know. And

600
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 1: then you know he went to Davidson and his star

601
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 1: kind of rose a bit at Davidson and it was like, wow, Steph,

602
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:34,160
Speaker 1: Steph's like blowing up.

603
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 2: Good for him, you know, kid, He's a good kid.

604
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 2: He's humble, he's nice.

605
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 1: Never had a bad word to say about him, just

606
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 1: like honestly, or even on the basketball court, like not,

607
00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:47,800
Speaker 1: he doesn't cheat, he doesn't yell or argue with people,

608
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:48,959
Speaker 1: never gets in fights.

609
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 2: Him and his brother were pretty cool.

610
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:56,440
Speaker 1: And so to think of his star rising to mega

611
00:29:56,520 --> 00:30:00,560
Speaker 1: superstar in the NBA NBA MVP, which nobody is, I.

612
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Speaker 4: Don't know why people think people are just prepared for that.

613
00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, times changed on her and him in a way

614
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:08,520
Speaker 1: that neither one of them can perceive. I don't think.

615
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 2: I mean, like he's more famous than his father.

616
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Speaker 1: There's no way he saw that coming, right, you know,

617
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 1: he's going in the and even when he's going into

618
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:20,520
Speaker 1: high school and and uh the in college, he was

619
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 1: only like six foot teen, like he grew to six

620
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 1: feet like it was like, oh, it's like, oh Steph

621
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Speaker 1: six one, now he's six two, you know, like like,

622
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Speaker 1: but it wasn't like, oh, he's definitely going to the NBA.

623
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 1: It was like, oh, he got a little taller, and

624
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 1: then that motherfucker just starts showing out and it was like, oh,

625
00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 1: he's going to the NBA. And he got hurt right

626
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:41,200
Speaker 1: away in the NBA, so then you don't get you know,

627
00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 1: he doesn't his star doesn't take off right away. And

628
00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 1: then a couple of years later, when he's just like

629
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 1: killing people like you've just never seen before, that's when

630
00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 1: all of a sudden you gotta think, Okay, it wasn't

631
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Speaker 1: just like people vying for self's attention with marketing and stuff,

632
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:00,480
Speaker 1: but now you gotta deal with these women that didn't

633
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 1: necessarily have them him on their radar, who are now like, yo,

634
00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 1: I like, what do I do to get me some

635
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:10,920
Speaker 1: self carry in my life? You know? And you know

636
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 1: that it's probably manufactured from the fact that he makes

637
00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 1: a lot of money he's on TV. It's not it's

638
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 1: not like some genuine love.

639
00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:17,960
Speaker 2: But like I can.

640
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 1: Understand how that would be like fucking annoying and also

641
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:25,479
Speaker 1: to his spouse. Yes, it would trigger some insecurities you have.

642
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:29,400
Speaker 1: You know, I remember when we covered her comments on

643
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:36,560
Speaker 1: the show when she said that stuff and how it was.

644
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 1: I remember how when that happened, it was kind of

645
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 1: like to me anyway, I read it immediately as Oh,

646
00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 1: she's probably insecure about the women coming for stuff.

647
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 4: Because they probably just came out to blue.

648
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 1: Yeah. Like I just remember like when she said that

649
00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:01,280
Speaker 1: stuff and like looking at him magazine Da da da,

650
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 1: and girls have to dress like this, And I was like,

651
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: that's not really about That's not really about what she

652
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:16,120
Speaker 1: just said, you know, like that that's more. That's more

653
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 1: about what like something particular to to Steph. That's not

654
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:26,440
Speaker 1: about fashion. I'm sorry I said twenty thirteen early. I

655
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 1: meant twenty fifteen, so four years ago, not not not five,

656
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 1: but still she said that shit in twenty fifteen, and

657
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 1: like I said, we talked about it in depth on

658
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 1: the show. Was like, yeah, I don't think that she's

659
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:44,040
Speaker 1: really talking about anyone in particular as far as like women.

660
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 1: I think she's saying this because she is now quote

661
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 1: unquote competing with another level of woman that is trying

662
00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 1: to get in her man's ear, and she's like, what

663
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 1: the fuck is this shit? You know, and especially with

664
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:01,960
Speaker 1: her having to quote unquote good girl church type of

665
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 1: image that she's cultivated and she markets that like that

666
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:10,320
Speaker 1: is her brand. I cook, I'm a businesswoman, but I'm

667
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:13,560
Speaker 1: also like, you know, a cover She's also a cover girl,

668
00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:17,920
Speaker 1: but she's not, like you know, she hasn't established her

669
00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:21,000
Speaker 1: brand so separate from from the idea of wife, mother

670
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 1: and you know, a person that cares for the house

671
00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:30,680
Speaker 1: and shit at if she chooses to do that, right, Yeah,

672
00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 1: she said everyone's into barely wearing clothes these days.

673
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 2: Huh, not my style.

674
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:35,480
Speaker 1: I like to keep the good stuff covered up for

675
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 1: the one who matters. And so, of course people took

676
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 1: a lot of offense, like you she's slept shaming and uh,

677
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:49,240
Speaker 1: all this type of stuff, you know, and this is

678
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 1: what you really think about other women's bodies and all

679
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:56,040
Speaker 1: that type of I'm not saying there, they're they're wrong. Necessarily,

680
00:33:56,040 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 1: people will say people were saying and that she was

681
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 1: calling them hoes and shit like that, although I don't

682
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 1: she never said that, but people felt that way, yes,

683
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 1: And what I find interesting is the response to her,

684
00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:17,279
Speaker 1: to her voicing her kind of insecurities, I think was

685
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 1: kind of a lot of people projecting their.

686
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:19,879
Speaker 2: Insecurities onto her.

687
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:24,960
Speaker 1: Correct. You know, she got back on Twitter later and

688
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:28,080
Speaker 1: said she was merely reading a fashion magazine of stating

689
00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:30,520
Speaker 1: in the pen. She eventually wrote regardless if you like

690
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:32,279
Speaker 1: my style of clothes or not, which I don't care,

691
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:34,200
Speaker 1: please do not tell women down to grade them not

692
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:38,319
Speaker 1: cool peeps. Because people used her comments and I think,

693
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:41,279
Speaker 1: as with everything on the internet, right, people use her

694
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:44,960
Speaker 1: comments to bash other women. A lot of men like

695
00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 1: get you with Steph Curry, not these hoes to be

696
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:49,359
Speaker 1: out and so you had a lot of that shit,

697
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:51,760
Speaker 1: and then it becomes she used to pick me queen.

698
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:54,439
Speaker 1: Even though she didn't necessarily advocate for all that shit.

699
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:56,880
Speaker 1: It just didn't matter. And people to this day are

700
00:34:56,880 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 1: still mad at those comments, you know, despite her you know,

701
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 1: going back and kind of cleaning up or whatever. Cool.

702
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 1: So that was one of the things she said about

703
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 1: these women, right, I think that's gonna bother her forever,

704
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:13,160
Speaker 1: probably long as you with Steph and you got these

705
00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 1: three kids. Right. The other comment she made was about attention, right.

706
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:26,959
Speaker 1: She was talking about like how she doesn't get male

707
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 1: attention outside of her marriage, and it was in this

708
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 1: it was it was it was the answer to a

709
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:41,279
Speaker 1: question that was actually about the fact that there are

710
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 1: so many women like lusting after their men that it's like, well,

711
00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 1: I don't have that, like you know, and I think,

712
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 1: to me, the way I read into it, I'm projecting

713
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:56,400
Speaker 1: on it. I felt like she was saying, because she

714
00:35:56,400 --> 00:36:00,439
Speaker 1: hasn't established her brand separate enough from Seth, from Steph,

715
00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:02,960
Speaker 1: she doesn't really have a lane for people to just

716
00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 1: be like, oh I love me, somebody should Curry, that's

717
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:07,800
Speaker 1: a fine woman, blah blah blah, because you know, unlike

718
00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:11,480
Speaker 1: say Ciarra and Russell Wilson, Sierra was was Sierra before

719
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:12,480
Speaker 1: she was met Russell.

720
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:16,480
Speaker 2: You know, Jada is Jada with or without, will.

721
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 1: You know? And then Dale Curry's wife's like the face

722
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 1: like she like even when she was Dale Curry's wife.

723
00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 1: The whole thing was, look how fine this woman is,

724
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:30,959
Speaker 1: you know, and you know, I should never really seem

725
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:33,920
Speaker 1: to get that or to even really covet that, you know,

726
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:38,759
Speaker 1: And like I said, I'm projecting, but I feel like

727
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 1: her what she was really saying was not I want

728
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:47,400
Speaker 1: men to lust after me. It felt more like she's

729
00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:51,719
Speaker 1: she would like to be known as Ayisha Aisha, just

730
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:57,360
Speaker 1: like Ayisha Curry, not Ayisha Steph's wife. That's how it

731
00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 1: felt to me. You know, I can't speak for other people,

732
00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:04,279
Speaker 1: but you know, same thing. Like I said, I I

733
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:06,239
Speaker 1: could kind of I can kind of understand what she

734
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 1: was coming from on that, especially when you think about

735
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 1: the fact that she's married to this man who's getting

736
00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 1: all this fucking attention, right, and so maybe she gets

737
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:18,160
Speaker 1: kind of bothered by it, or it secure by it,

738
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:21,480
Speaker 1: or it feels almost competitive or thrown to the side

739
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:24,120
Speaker 1: by it. So you know, I can get how you

740
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:29,840
Speaker 1: will be like, yeah, you know, this is like you

741
00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:32,320
Speaker 1: saying that you know you need this type of attention.

742
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 1: Might you know, I mean, you saying you need this

743
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:39,239
Speaker 1: type of attention might be about the fact that he's

744
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:41,840
Speaker 1: getting that type of attention, And to you, it's like

745
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 1: this is new to my relationship. It's bothering me.

746
00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:49,239
Speaker 5: That's human and people for on social media do not

747
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:53,400
Speaker 5: allow for just human being real, like she's just saying it,

748
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:54,840
Speaker 5: and for the fact that she's saying it people that

749
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:57,759
Speaker 5: like its problem, Like they're not like you and your

750
00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:00,520
Speaker 5: regular normal last relationship. In insecure about something.

751
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:03,759
Speaker 1: Yeah. She also talked about having dealing with anxiety issues

752
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:06,359
Speaker 1: when Riley was born. She said a woman like came

753
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 1: up to them to try to get their picture and

754
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:10,239
Speaker 1: they were getting in the car and the woman was like,

755
00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:13,399
Speaker 1: you knew you signed up for this, Like right, So,

756
00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:16,759
Speaker 1: I mean, it's just crazy interactions with people. And her

757
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:19,120
Speaker 1: complete quote is something that really bothers me and honestly

758
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:21,239
Speaker 1: has given me a sense of a little bit of

759
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 1: an insecurity is the fact that, yeah, there are all

760
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 1: these women like throwing themselves at him, but me, like

761
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:29,080
Speaker 1: the past ten years, I don't have any of that

762
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 1: as zero. This sounds weird but like male attention. So

763
00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 1: then I begin to internalize it. I'm like, it's something

764
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:36,879
Speaker 1: wrong with me, And you know, they quickly were like, girl,

765
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:39,320
Speaker 1: nothing wrong with you. You fine, you know you beautiful,

766
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:41,960
Speaker 1: don't don't do this. And Jada talked about how she

767
00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 1: went through that too when she was younger and blah blah, blah.

768
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 2: But yeah, it's just I don't know.

769
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 1: It feels like she expressed some insecurity and some honesty,

770
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:56,720
Speaker 1: and maybe because of her past comments, people just don't

771
00:38:56,760 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 1: want to be here for it, like you could, like

772
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 1: she could to change that all in the last four years,

773
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:07,239
Speaker 1: like having three kids and you know, being seen as

774
00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:09,960
Speaker 1: the mom slash. You know. She even had a comment

775
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:13,760
Speaker 1: earlier this year where she talked about in their marriage

776
00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 1: that she puts her in and STEP's relationship first because

777
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:22,239
Speaker 1: if they're not happy, you know, with each other, then

778
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 1: how could she be a good mom? How can she?

779
00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:26,880
Speaker 1: You know, like she's like, we're I put us first

780
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 1: over the kids because it's about you know, like our

781
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:32,759
Speaker 1: happiness matters, and then it projects out into the rest

782
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:34,160
Speaker 1: of the family that we had to take care of.

783
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:36,440
Speaker 4: I understand that that's reasonable.

784
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just think I guess the horses out the

785
00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:44,000
Speaker 1: barn with the people that don't like her, it's just

786
00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:46,319
Speaker 1: not gonna She's never gonna they're never gonna give her

787
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:49,680
Speaker 1: any benefit of a doubt. So I don't know, it

788
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 1: felt it felt kind of like people took a lot

789
00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:54,360
Speaker 1: of stuff out of context to kind of come in

790
00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:57,840
Speaker 1: her throat. But I thought it was a pretty honest

791
00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:02,680
Speaker 1: moment and a pretty dope interview because Jada and them

792
00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:06,120
Speaker 1: are always getting these like these big moments out of people,

793
00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 1: and I, you know, I mean, I it's your courage

794
00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:10,400
Speaker 1: being interviewed a thousand times, and that's the first time

795
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:13,279
Speaker 1: I've been like, that's a good ass fucking interview. So

796
00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 1: you know, we'll see. Man, I don't know, I saw that.

797
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:19,880
Speaker 1: Fame shit is just weird. Man, fucks people up. I

798
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:21,719
Speaker 1: don't think people really understand.

799
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:26,520
Speaker 5: No, they don't, especially people that think that in certain situations,

800
00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:30,280
Speaker 5: like it's particularly what like your photos or your kids

801
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:32,719
Speaker 5: and your child like some people just think you are

802
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:35,279
Speaker 5: just not supposed to have any privacy because a lot

803
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:37,839
Speaker 5: of people think that everybody famous quote unquote asks for it.

804
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:39,279
Speaker 4: Not so yeah, not so.

805
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:41,839
Speaker 5: Sometimes you're just doing your talent or whatever it is.

806
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:44,400
Speaker 5: Or sometimes you just, like say, be married or attached

807
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 5: to the person and as they rise, you rise too.

808
00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 5: You just was not planned for.

809
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, So not always.

810
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, Like I said, y'all can check out. I

811
00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:58,680
Speaker 1: suggest everybody go check out the video for themselves. It's

812
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:01,920
Speaker 1: twenty seven minutes. The parties I'm talking about are very short.

813
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 1: You know there, you know, so I forget when they start.

814
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 1: But they're just a couple of comments. I think y'all

815
00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:10,239
Speaker 1: should check it out for y'allselves, be cause I mean,

816
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:13,359
Speaker 1: I just like I said, you see a conversation on.

817
00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 2: Social media, and then you see the thing in context.

818
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:18,320
Speaker 1: It's just to me, I was like, this ain't really

819
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 1: this was not what y'all were saying. It was y'all

820
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 1: were making it seem like she said somebody of like

821
00:41:24,840 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 1: super hypocritical thing to me.

822
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 2: All three of the.

823
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:31,040
Speaker 1: Comments combined have one theme in common, which is kind

824
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 1: of like, I wish these bitches to leave my man alone.

825
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:36,880
Speaker 1: No matter how you try to spend it. It's attention

826
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:42,080
Speaker 1: from other women, the invasiveness of you know, these women,

827
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:45,839
Speaker 1: all the comments about clothes and shit like that. All

828
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:47,440
Speaker 1: of it seems to kind of be like, I'm just

829
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:51,280
Speaker 1: kind of fucking tired of I thought I was getting

830
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:53,719
Speaker 1: with this man, and this man was getting with me,

831
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:56,000
Speaker 1: and we were gonna have a certain projection on our

832
00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:57,800
Speaker 1: lives and we'd be taking care of and everything.

833
00:41:57,800 --> 00:42:00,920
Speaker 2: But it wouldn't be this right. This is a little crazy.

834
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:04,719
Speaker 4: The average person is never ever prepared for it.

835
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:06,960
Speaker 5: I don't know why people think that they're just prepared

836
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:08,440
Speaker 5: to be thrust into the spotlight.

837
00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:10,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, she even talked about like women coming up to

838
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 1: stuff and because stuff so friendly and he is friendly,

839
00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:16,799
Speaker 1: she can and women do this all the time, and

840
00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:19,040
Speaker 1: that's why it was so funny to see people act

841
00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:21,800
Speaker 1: like they couldn't relate. But I know almost every woman

842
00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 1: can relate that at least that dates, you know, dating

843
00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:27,439
Speaker 1: somebody where you can tell this person's energy is off

844
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 1: and they really trying to like holler at your man.

845
00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:33,040
Speaker 1: But but but your man may not even pick up

846
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:33,399
Speaker 1: on it.

847
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:34,879
Speaker 4: No, they don't always.

848
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:37,319
Speaker 5: It's that might sound weird, but men don't always pick

849
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 5: up on women's energy. And women know women, so you

850
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:42,680
Speaker 5: could be like, hey, I'm here, yes, can I help you?

851
00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:43,440
Speaker 4: You need to back.

852
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:47,359
Speaker 1: Off, right, And so she like says, you know, I'm

853
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:49,440
Speaker 1: a grown woman. I will insert myself and be like, hey,

854
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 1: how you doing? What's going on over here? You know,

855
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:54,920
Speaker 1: basically to say like I'm his wife, bitch back to

856
00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:57,799
Speaker 1: fuck up off? And she's like she hates that he's

857
00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:00,040
Speaker 1: kind of oblivious to it because he's so outgoing and

858
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:03,239
Speaker 1: friendly that she's like not necessarily worried about this woman

859
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:05,440
Speaker 1: stilling her man, but she's more worried about the idea

860
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 1: of like the disrespect, like I'm standing right here, And

861
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:11,799
Speaker 1: even Mama Curry talked about it, like, yes, I had

862
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:14,239
Speaker 1: to do that shit too, like people roll up on

863
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 1: dal and I have to be like, Dell, what's what

864
00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 1: you doing? Like uh nah, her, you know. And I

865
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 1: think that people tried to act like it was so

866
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 1: fucking like, oh, this insecure, crazy bitch. I'm like, this

867
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:29,279
Speaker 1: is a this isn't even a rich and famous thing.

868
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:33,000
Speaker 1: Regular people have this happen. But you can be a

869
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 1: regular person in me, like, yeah, I just saw clearly

870
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 1: some overbounds like stuff happening right here, and you weren't

871
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:46,440
Speaker 1: picking up on it, you know. So yeah, I don't know.

872
00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:49,000
Speaker 1: Maybe it's just like once she it's certain certain names.

873
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,520
Speaker 1: I just think it's just it's just hard to kind

874
00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:53,920
Speaker 1: of see them as human. And she's one of those people, I.

875
00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:56,640
Speaker 5: Think, so right, So no matter what she says, it's

876
00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:58,920
Speaker 5: gonna be a problem.

877
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:01,680
Speaker 1: I also don't think she's really wants men trying to

878
00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:04,400
Speaker 1: come at her and holler at her. So and I

879
00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:06,520
Speaker 1: and I mean, there's a patriarchal thing most of the

880
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:09,480
Speaker 1: time men aren't doing that because she's with her husband

881
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:12,040
Speaker 1: and they see her. They know that in our society

882
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:15,120
Speaker 1: that would be view to disrespect the Steph. So that's

883
00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 1: the main reason they don't do that, right, But nobody

884
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 1: cares about being disrespectful to her though, particularly the women.

885
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:22,800
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I mean, like people don't.

886
00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:24,319
Speaker 5: Want to talk about that, but just know when they

887
00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 5: be disrespectful and they act like something wrong with you

888
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:28,360
Speaker 5: when you be like, hey, bitch, get away.

889
00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:31,759
Speaker 1: Bitches do no, Karen, this is true, bitch, just do no.

890
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:36,880
Speaker 1: But yeah, I was gonna say, uh, cause if you

891
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:39,720
Speaker 1: like the way people are now, there's not a subtle

892
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:43,320
Speaker 1: like niceness to the like, oh you're looking good today,

893
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:45,040
Speaker 1: all you should and just that and just so like

894
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:49,399
Speaker 1: a complimentary like kind of platonic like a girl get

895
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:51,719
Speaker 1: get them bade, you know, like there's not like that's

896
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 1: not really out there anymore because these aren't your friends.

897
00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:56,439
Speaker 1: These people don't know you. The people coming after Steph

898
00:44:56,480 --> 00:44:58,919
Speaker 1: don't know him, and the ship I bet they say

899
00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 1: about him probably super wild and she probably sees that

900
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:03,360
Speaker 1: shit right.

901
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:07,960
Speaker 5: Particular social media and online and then the comments sections

902
00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:10,480
Speaker 5: like that shit is real, like when you read that

903
00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:12,520
Speaker 5: stuff it is real.

904
00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:18,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, and so even if even if you want to, like, like,

905
00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:20,759
Speaker 1: even if people were trying to give her attention, it

906
00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:22,759
Speaker 1: ain't gonna go like she thinks it's they gonna be

907
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:25,480
Speaker 1: leaving comments on her Instagram or what she baking cakes,

908
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 1: hanging like I love to eat that ass and ship

909
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:31,560
Speaker 1: like that, because people don't. There's no like niceness to it.

910
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 1: There's no just like, girl, you're looking good, are you fine?

911
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:36,399
Speaker 1: I don't get with no, you know, there's not that.

912
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 1: There's just like this fucking like sit on my face,

913
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:42,880
Speaker 1: I fucking oh, I destroy you like you don't, Like

914
00:45:42,960 --> 00:45:45,440
Speaker 1: nobody really wants that kind of fucking attention, you know.

915
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:49,319
Speaker 1: The things that people fucking say is so out of bounds. Now,

916
00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:51,680
Speaker 1: Like that's why I don't believe that that's what she

917
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:53,719
Speaker 1: really wants. I think she was kind of being like

918
00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:56,960
Speaker 1: I think and told her what she really wants. These

919
00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 1: women to leave her man alone and so they could

920
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:02,920
Speaker 1: just go back to just killing with themselves, chilling with themselves,

921
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:09,600
Speaker 1: and that's it. So yeah, that's crazy. And yeah, I

922
00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:13,520
Speaker 1: see Brianna says sentation is real, So it's trasing free will. Absolutely.

923
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:15,279
Speaker 2: I don't even know that she sounded like she thought

924
00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 2: he was she.

925
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:19,800
Speaker 1: I think she just feels disrespected by the whole process

926
00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:23,160
Speaker 1: of these motherfuckers being like I'm gonna just keep hollering

927
00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:25,759
Speaker 1: at you like you like your wife don't exist, and

928
00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:28,440
Speaker 1: men don't do that to her, So she's like, what

929
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:29,879
Speaker 1: the fuck is this shit right?

930
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 5: Because when it comes to the marriage, women are always

931
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:36,840
Speaker 5: to the property.

932
00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:42,560
Speaker 4: So a man won't come to a woman if they feel.

933
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:46,240
Speaker 5: Like she's cleaned, like the property has the name tag

934
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:50,560
Speaker 5: attached to it and somebody that is accountable and will

935
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 5: fuck you up for messing with their property.

936
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:56,920
Speaker 4: Okay, Now when it's with burds, it's a different story.

937
00:46:57,080 --> 00:47:00,879
Speaker 5: It's like, hey, this man is my property too, because

938
00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:02,480
Speaker 5: people only think property.

939
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:04,440
Speaker 4: Is a man of a woman. But now it's a

940
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 4: woman over man that think is mine. I see it,

941
00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 4: you see it, we all see it.

942
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,840
Speaker 5: Get away, and I have the right to defend my property.

943
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:13,800
Speaker 5: So I do have the right to insert myself. I

944
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:15,520
Speaker 5: do have the right to take you to back up, bitch.

945
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:18,880
Speaker 5: I have the right to do that because women have

946
00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:21,839
Speaker 5: a way that's very different, and some men do know

947
00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:25,560
Speaker 5: what women are doing and choose to engage. But sometimes

948
00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:28,280
Speaker 5: some men are a believers, particularly if you're like a friendly,

949
00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:31,640
Speaker 5: outgoing person, you might ignore the cues or you might

950
00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:32,480
Speaker 5: not know what it is.

951
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:34,280
Speaker 4: And women know women.

952
00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:37,440
Speaker 5: So yes, I have the right to protect my property

953
00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:40,600
Speaker 5: and I feel like a lot of women don't respect it.

954
00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:43,840
Speaker 5: But men have a tendency to respect a man because,

955
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:47,880
Speaker 5: like I say, men's property is more valuable the women's property.

956
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:51,960
Speaker 5: So it's like one of those things where as a woman,

957
00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:53,799
Speaker 5: I know it has got to be hard from it

958
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:55,800
Speaker 5: just being in your spouse to all of a sudden,

959
00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:58,200
Speaker 5: hundreds and thousands of women.

960
00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 4: Just pop up out of nowhere. Because you know women,

961
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:02,760
Speaker 4: that's a little different.

962
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:06,200
Speaker 5: You know, most women are constantly offered in some shape

963
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:08,160
Speaker 5: way of fashion dick, whether they want it or not,

964
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:11,640
Speaker 5: you know, but you know when it's reverse, people have

965
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:13,839
Speaker 5: a tendency to not respect that woman.

966
00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:15,520
Speaker 4: Case, like I say, they don't respect a property.

967
00:48:15,840 --> 00:48:20,759
Speaker 5: So when women insert themselves, they're considered disrespectful to the

968
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:26,400
Speaker 5: other women. They're considered being harsh, they're considered not ladylike.

969
00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:29,319
Speaker 5: But you know what, I don't have to be lady

970
00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:31,239
Speaker 5: like when they come to my property. Just like when

971
00:48:31,280 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 5: a man is protecting his property, he don't have to

972
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:35,239
Speaker 5: be man like. He canna be like, hey, dog, you

973
00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:37,799
Speaker 5: know what it is, and women can be like that too.

974
00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 5: I think women have the right to be like that

975
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:40,919
Speaker 5: if they choose to be like that.

976
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:45,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think, you know, there's just different things that

977
00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:47,279
Speaker 1: work for different relationships.

978
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:47,560
Speaker 4: Correct, you know.

979
00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:51,239
Speaker 1: But I can see it's I don't know if it's

980
00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:53,880
Speaker 1: that thing where I don't know how to explain it,

981
00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 1: cause it's kind of it's conflicted. It's conflicting thoughts that

982
00:48:58,040 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 1: I have at the same time. But it's this thing

983
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:02,320
Speaker 1: where like, I don't want to be seen as somebody

984
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:05,400
Speaker 1: it's just always like advocating for celebrities and rich people

985
00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:07,719
Speaker 1: and stuff, and I get that because I don't. I'm

986
00:49:07,719 --> 00:49:09,799
Speaker 1: definitely not one of them, so I definitely am not.

987
00:49:10,360 --> 00:49:13,759
Speaker 1: But there's some weird type of thing that happens where

988
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:18,120
Speaker 1: people go, this person has money or fame, and therefore

989
00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:21,919
Speaker 1: they are no longer like supposed to have human emotions

990
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:24,680
Speaker 1: or whatever emotions they do have. I'm gonna take the

991
00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 1: opposite side and explain why that's fucked up, and that

992
00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:30,839
Speaker 1: weirds me out. And maybe I err on the side

993
00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:34,360
Speaker 1: of caution too much. It's possible whatever, there's plenty of

994
00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:37,520
Speaker 1: other shows where people are just shipping on celebrities and

995
00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:39,920
Speaker 1: shitting on rich people, and I'm sure people feel much

996
00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:43,359
Speaker 1: more comfortable with that, But to me, it's just kind

997
00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:46,200
Speaker 1: of this, like I don't know, I don't want to

998
00:49:46,280 --> 00:49:49,200
Speaker 1: lose the sight of like these folks got humanity in them,

999
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:52,080
Speaker 1: because this good or bad, this could be you too,

1000
00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:56,359
Speaker 1: Like you hit the lucky lotto tomorrow and you now

1001
00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 1: you're thrust into a situation where you, like, I didn't

1002
00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:02,600
Speaker 1: realize these motherfuckers had different problems That to me sounded

1003
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:05,759
Speaker 1: crazy when I was just a regular person, right, But

1004
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:09,600
Speaker 1: now I understand how you get anxiety about people coming

1005
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:11,320
Speaker 1: up to you and want to take your picture everywhere

1006
00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:14,080
Speaker 1: you go, or somebody won't even let you breastfeed your

1007
00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:18,440
Speaker 1: child in private, or you know, you with your husband

1008
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:21,560
Speaker 1: and somebody just walks blatantly past you and it starts

1009
00:50:21,560 --> 00:50:23,439
Speaker 1: flirting with him and trying to take selfies and shit,

1010
00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:26,040
Speaker 1: and you gotta like, like, I can see how that

1011
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:27,560
Speaker 1: shit would fuck with you dog.

1012
00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:29,920
Speaker 5: Right, you know, like you said, y'all, you have a

1013
00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:32,799
Speaker 5: particularly once you get to a certain status where you're

1014
00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:36,319
Speaker 5: kind of anywhere you go, people will recognize you. People

1015
00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:38,319
Speaker 5: that realize you can't go out to dinner, you can't

1016
00:50:38,320 --> 00:50:40,239
Speaker 5: go out to eat, you can't go grocery shop, and

1017
00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:44,040
Speaker 5: you can't just do some of the regular, everyday, mundane

1018
00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 5: things in the world without drawing attention.

1019
00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:49,240
Speaker 4: And most people don't.

1020
00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:51,640
Speaker 5: Really think about I can walk out my house and

1021
00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:53,360
Speaker 5: do dysfunction and be fine.

1022
00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:54,480
Speaker 4: They can't do that.

1023
00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:57,840
Speaker 5: And then a lot of times, particularly some of them,

1024
00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 5: they were like, look, no, I have a bodyguard every

1025
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:03,480
Speaker 5: everywhere I go. Why because I want to I want

1026
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:06,120
Speaker 5: a peace, I want protection. I don't want rendos walking

1027
00:51:06,239 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 5: up to me all the time. Because a lot of

1028
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:11,320
Speaker 5: people have to realize, no, you're the thousandth person today,

1029
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:13,719
Speaker 5: you know, you think you the only one. No, you're

1030
00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:18,279
Speaker 5: the fiftieth person in an hour, you know, And I know,

1031
00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:21,200
Speaker 5: being human beings, you do.

1032
00:51:21,160 --> 00:51:23,279
Speaker 4: Get tied, you do get exhausted.

1033
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:25,879
Speaker 5: And everybody considers everybody else a human being, but rich people,

1034
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:27,359
Speaker 5: and I think that's ridiculous.

1035
00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:30,920
Speaker 1: Like like I said, it's not that I mean, obviously

1036
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:34,080
Speaker 1: I vote Democrat, but one of the things that does

1037
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:36,960
Speaker 1: not really resonate with me in a Democratic party is

1038
00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:39,719
Speaker 1: when they start going in on just like rich people

1039
00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:41,000
Speaker 1: are the problem is rich people.

1040
00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:42,520
Speaker 2: That's always this is rich people.

1041
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:47,560
Speaker 1: That because I'm always like some of them, sure, you know, absolutely,

1042
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:51,680
Speaker 1: but some of this shit is everybody being part of

1043
00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:54,600
Speaker 1: the problem. Not not like if you got rich, you

1044
00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:57,319
Speaker 1: just be like it wouldn't make like you'd be you,

1045
00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:00,120
Speaker 1: but then people would be like, yeah, no matter matter

1046
00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:02,040
Speaker 1: who you are, you're still part of the problem as

1047
00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 1: far as I'm concerned. You know the thing where like

1048
00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:07,440
Speaker 1: a motherfucker like jay Z comes out of the projects

1049
00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:09,719
Speaker 1: and people treat him like he's been rich his whole

1050
00:52:09,719 --> 00:52:12,839
Speaker 1: fucking life, and it's just just like you know, n'ar

1051
00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:16,719
Speaker 1: do well ass like rich mile content that hates black

1052
00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:20,520
Speaker 1: people all of a sudden, Like there's something about that

1053
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 1: that just feels off to me, like our analysis of it.

1054
00:52:23,280 --> 00:52:25,040
Speaker 1: So when you see like a politician being like, yeah,

1055
00:52:25,080 --> 00:52:27,840
Speaker 1: the problem is people making too much money or the

1056
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:31,600
Speaker 1: whole problem, I'm like some of them, I understand all

1057
00:52:31,640 --> 00:52:31,960
Speaker 1: of them.

1058
00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:34,399
Speaker 2: No, not all of them, and all of them.

1059
00:52:34,680 --> 00:52:37,000
Speaker 1: And so I think you gotta be clear when you're

1060
00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:40,120
Speaker 1: talking about that shit. If somebody like is an entertainer

1061
00:52:40,600 --> 00:52:42,920
Speaker 1: and that's what got them rich, if you're talking about

1062
00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:45,160
Speaker 1: when people do I'll give you a perfect example when

1063
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:47,759
Speaker 1: I don't fuck with it. Every time you see a

1064
00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:50,120
Speaker 1: white guy talk about NBA players making too much money

1065
00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:52,680
Speaker 1: to play a game, every fucking.

1066
00:52:52,440 --> 00:52:55,840
Speaker 2: Time, I have the same goddamn.

1067
00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:59,880
Speaker 1: Response, which is, who the fuck are you? Because it's

1068
00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:03,080
Speaker 1: like like that same impost is inside of everybody, but

1069
00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:06,880
Speaker 1: that that is something about you being like I'm mad

1070
00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:10,600
Speaker 1: that these niggers got this money, right like that, Like

1071
00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:13,160
Speaker 1: that's a different type of so when I like, I

1072
00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:14,879
Speaker 1: used to know white dudes that would try to couch

1073
00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:17,240
Speaker 1: that shit and like, yeah, I don't like Lebron James's

1074
00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:19,200
Speaker 1: rich for playing a game, like Lebron came from the

1075
00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:25,359
Speaker 1: acron projects the fuck, Like who, you don't have these

1076
00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:29,279
Speaker 1: problems with hockey players. You ain't ever argue like you, yeah,

1077
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:31,879
Speaker 1: you don't argue about that shit, Like there's elements, there's

1078
00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:34,080
Speaker 1: levels to the game, is what I'm saying. So I

1079
00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:36,920
Speaker 1: may feel a little more empathetic towards certain type of

1080
00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:40,120
Speaker 1: rich people because I'm like, yeah, they got money, but

1081
00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:43,000
Speaker 1: that don't mean that they don't have same insecurities and shit,

1082
00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:44,839
Speaker 1: if you got paid tomorrow, you still have the same

1083
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:47,759
Speaker 1: insecurities about certain shit, and she would you know, like

1084
00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:49,600
Speaker 1: some of this shit is deeper than just your fucking

1085
00:53:49,640 --> 00:53:52,960
Speaker 1: bank account number. All right, well, this is a nevolous,

1086
00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 1: messy episode. Let's keep it going, dah. Let's keep talking

1087
00:53:56,200 --> 00:53:58,560
Speaker 1: about big concepts. Grinding the shelf to a halt, that's

1088
00:53:58,600 --> 00:53:59,239
Speaker 1: what I like to do.

1089
00:54:00,719 --> 00:54:02,640
Speaker 2: Hold it up, that's hawp this bitch.

1090
00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:07,160
Speaker 1: Men have no friends and women bear the burden. So

1091
00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:13,000
Speaker 1: Harper's Bizarre by Melanie Hamlet Kelly and Kelly. Kylie and

1092
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:16,160
Speaker 1: Kelly must be a white woman. I mean, come on

1093
00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:18,880
Speaker 1: that name. I can't remember the exact moment she became

1094
00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:22,200
Speaker 1: a boyfriend's one and only his What would I do

1095
00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:25,279
Speaker 1: without you? But she does remember neglecting her own needs

1096
00:54:25,280 --> 00:54:28,279
Speaker 1: to the point of hospitalization. I talked to him through

1097
00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:31,960
Speaker 1: his aspirations, validated his opinion, supported his career. I had

1098
00:54:31,960 --> 00:54:34,320
Speaker 1: to be his emotional girl because he was too afraid

1099
00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:37,400
Speaker 1: that me he had any emotions at all, recalls a

1100
00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:39,440
Speaker 1: twenty four year old English teacher who was studying for

1101
00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:42,480
Speaker 1: a PhD at the time. Kelly's boyfriend refused to talk

1102
00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:45,440
Speaker 1: to other men or therapists about his feelings, so he'd

1103
00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:49,439
Speaker 1: often get into funks, picking pointless fights when someone something

1104
00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:53,760
Speaker 1: was bothering him. Eventually, Kelly became his default therapist, soothing

1105
00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:57,160
Speaker 1: his anxiety as he fretted over work or family problems.

1106
00:54:57,840 --> 00:55:01,040
Speaker 1: After three years together, when exhaustion anxiety had landed her

1107
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:03,399
Speaker 1: in the hospital and her boyfriend claim he was too

1108
00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:07,640
Speaker 1: busy to visit, they broke up. Now, that's an extreme

1109
00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:11,080
Speaker 1: example Kelly's story, though extreme, is common except a common

1110
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:14,520
Speaker 1: example of modern American relationships. Women continue to better burden

1111
00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:17,480
Speaker 1: of men's emotional lives, and why wouldn't they. For generations,

1112
00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:20,319
Speaker 1: men have been taught to reject traits like gentleness and sensitivity,

1113
00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:23,120
Speaker 1: leaving them without the tools to deal with internalized anger

1114
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:26,920
Speaker 1: and frustration. Meanwhile, the female savior trope continues to be

1115
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:30,240
Speaker 1: romanticized on the silver screen, thanks Disney, making it seem

1116
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:33,800
Speaker 1: totally normal, even ideal, to find a man within the beast.

1117
00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:38,000
Speaker 1: Unlike women who are encouraged to foster deep platonic intimacy

1118
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:41,080
Speaker 1: from a young age, American men with their puffed up chest,

1119
00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:44,319
Speaker 1: fist bumps, and awkward side hugs, grow up believing they

1120
00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:46,800
Speaker 1: should not only behave like storic robots in front of

1121
00:55:46,880 --> 00:55:48,799
Speaker 1: other men, but that women are the only people that

1122
00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:52,000
Speaker 1: they are allowed to turn to for emotional support, if

1123
00:55:52,040 --> 00:55:54,920
Speaker 1: anyone at all, and as modern relationships continue to put

1124
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:57,320
Speaker 1: pressure on the one to be the only one, where

1125
00:55:57,320 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 1: men cast their wives and girlfriends to play best friend, love,

1126
00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:04,960
Speaker 1: a care advisor, stylist, social secretary, emotional cheerleader, mom to him,

1127
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:08,919
Speaker 1: the future kids, or and eventually on call therapists minus

1128
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:11,560
Speaker 1: two hundred dollars an hour fee. This form of emotional

1129
00:56:11,560 --> 00:56:14,400
Speaker 1: gold digging is not only detrimental to men, is exhausting

1130
00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:18,560
Speaker 1: an entire generation of women. What do you think so far?

1131
00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:21,440
Speaker 1: Care gods? How you put your note pad out? You

1132
00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:21,839
Speaker 1: just don't?

1133
00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:23,680
Speaker 4: Oh, I didn't know how long?

1134
00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:26,040
Speaker 1: You agree as long so you can chime in whenever

1135
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:26,560
Speaker 1: you feel like it.

1136
00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:29,200
Speaker 4: Oh, yes, to an extent, I agree.

1137
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:31,960
Speaker 5: No, not all men men, but there are a large

1138
00:56:32,600 --> 00:56:35,319
Speaker 5: percentage of men. And you know what does this patriarchy

1139
00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:38,880
Speaker 5: everybody that's the root of all of this.

1140
00:56:39,080 --> 00:56:42,160
Speaker 4: Then nobody ever, ever, ever, ever wants.

1141
00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:46,680
Speaker 5: To talk about how, particularly straight men, how they are talked.

1142
00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:49,479
Speaker 4: Don't cry, boy, which cry for a boy? You're south?

1143
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:52,279
Speaker 5: You know, I'm just you know from my experience, you know,

1144
00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:57,880
Speaker 5: you know when little boys show emotions when they you know,

1145
00:56:58,120 --> 00:57:00,560
Speaker 5: want to explain themselves when they get frustrated.

1146
00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:02,640
Speaker 4: What to do? You know, because children are human.

1147
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:05,200
Speaker 5: You know it's okay for little boys to fight and

1148
00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:07,480
Speaker 5: punch stuff when they get mad and angry.

1149
00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:08,160
Speaker 4: Instead of looking at.

1150
00:57:08,120 --> 00:57:11,399
Speaker 5: That little boy and say, look, use your words, what's

1151
00:57:11,440 --> 00:57:12,160
Speaker 5: wrong with you?

1152
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:13,839
Speaker 4: Explain yourself?

1153
00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:16,440
Speaker 5: You know that they're not forced to do that at

1154
00:57:16,480 --> 00:57:17,960
Speaker 5: a very very young age.

1155
00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 1: And I think.

1156
00:57:20,400 --> 00:57:25,760
Speaker 5: That society has showed men a very toxic and a

1157
00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:29,400
Speaker 5: very deadly and a very dangerous definition of what men are,

1158
00:57:30,240 --> 00:57:35,720
Speaker 5: and men have bought into it. And because society tells

1159
00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:39,360
Speaker 5: them that, and so it's hard to break these bad

1160
00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:43,840
Speaker 5: habits of lack of communications, lack of emotions, lack of feelings.

1161
00:57:44,000 --> 00:57:46,320
Speaker 5: You don't want to talk. Men have a tendency to

1162
00:57:46,400 --> 00:57:49,320
Speaker 5: shut down when they're dealing with things. You don't want

1163
00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:52,720
Speaker 5: to express yourself. You know, you're balled up with this anger,

1164
00:57:52,880 --> 00:57:55,200
Speaker 5: You're balled up with this sadness, You're balled up with

1165
00:57:55,240 --> 00:57:58,880
Speaker 5: this fear. It's particularly when it's something that because society

1166
00:57:58,920 --> 00:58:02,200
Speaker 5: teaches men, if something happens, I'm the quote unquote man,

1167
00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:05,840
Speaker 5: so I'm supposed to always have the answers. So when

1168
00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:08,720
Speaker 5: I don't have the answers, it becomes a problem because

1169
00:58:08,800 --> 00:58:10,760
Speaker 5: I don't know how to handle not having an answers

1170
00:58:10,800 --> 00:58:13,040
Speaker 5: to it. And Lord knows, the last thing I want

1171
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:14,919
Speaker 5: to do is go to my woman and be like, look,

1172
00:58:14,920 --> 00:58:15,640
Speaker 5: I don't have the answer.

1173
00:58:15,640 --> 00:58:17,439
Speaker 4: The baby can work this out, you know.

1174
00:58:17,360 --> 00:58:20,320
Speaker 5: Because society has taught particularly it's a religious thing too.

1175
00:58:20,720 --> 00:58:23,800
Speaker 5: Men are the head of the household. That's a lot

1176
00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:26,080
Speaker 5: of weight for one person to bear. It is a

1177
00:58:26,080 --> 00:58:29,000
Speaker 5: lot of weight for human being the bear. And nobody

1178
00:58:29,040 --> 00:58:31,880
Speaker 5: really wants to talk about the things.

1179
00:58:31,560 --> 00:58:32,960
Speaker 4: That men go through.

1180
00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:35,840
Speaker 5: You know, men aren't taught to have boys, not out

1181
00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:38,920
Speaker 5: unless we're getting fucking smashed drunk. You're not taught just

1182
00:58:38,960 --> 00:58:41,120
Speaker 5: to hey, dog, I ain't seen you in the world.

1183
00:58:41,280 --> 00:58:42,440
Speaker 5: Men do get like that.

1184
00:58:42,400 --> 00:58:44,160
Speaker 4: Some do, but it's when they're older.

1185
00:58:44,240 --> 00:58:47,439
Speaker 5: It's when they're much much older and they've experienced life.

1186
00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:50,000
Speaker 5: When I'm talking about like younger men, you're not taught

1187
00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:53,320
Speaker 5: to go out with your boys and talk about the

1188
00:58:53,440 --> 00:58:58,480
Speaker 5: relationships and dealing with women and whatever you're going through

1189
00:58:58,520 --> 00:59:01,920
Speaker 5: in sadness and depression. That shit affects men too, just

1190
00:59:01,960 --> 00:59:05,560
Speaker 5: like it affects women. But you're taught to shut it down.

1191
00:59:05,880 --> 00:59:08,000
Speaker 5: You know, you're taught to not have emotions. You'll be

1192
00:59:08,040 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 5: all right, you'll get over it. You know what men

1193
00:59:10,120 --> 00:59:12,160
Speaker 5: do when men break up with men instead of talking

1194
00:59:12,200 --> 00:59:14,640
Speaker 5: about his emotional pain of his relationship that he just

1195
00:59:14,680 --> 00:59:16,720
Speaker 5: broke over, what do you do? Have a beer, go

1196
00:59:16,760 --> 00:59:18,920
Speaker 5: get smashed. Come on, doll, let's go get high. You

1197
00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:21,800
Speaker 5: get over that bitch. You don't really talk about the shit.

1198
00:59:22,160 --> 00:59:26,120
Speaker 5: Those things don't make those emotions go away. These things

1199
00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:27,200
Speaker 5: they have to be talked about.

1200
00:59:27,480 --> 00:59:27,680
Speaker 2: You know.

1201
00:59:27,800 --> 00:59:30,320
Speaker 5: Men get their heartbroken at a very young age, and

1202
00:59:31,760 --> 00:59:33,160
Speaker 5: they don't a lot of.

1203
00:59:33,040 --> 00:59:35,320
Speaker 4: Them don't know how to and aren't taught how to

1204
00:59:35,360 --> 00:59:38,120
Speaker 4: deal with the emotions of their first love.

1205
00:59:38,320 --> 00:59:40,240
Speaker 5: A lot of times people put that on women, but

1206
00:59:40,320 --> 00:59:43,360
Speaker 5: men have first loves too, and a lot of times

1207
00:59:44,160 --> 00:59:46,720
Speaker 5: when they have these first love if they are not

1208
00:59:46,880 --> 00:59:49,760
Speaker 5: taught how to deal with love and what love is

1209
00:59:49,840 --> 00:59:52,160
Speaker 5: and the definition of love at a very early age,

1210
00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:57,400
Speaker 5: their definition of love is stagnated, you know. And I

1211
00:59:57,480 --> 01:00:00,960
Speaker 5: think also their definition of love should reflect on how

1212
01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:03,680
Speaker 5: they treat women. That's how you have grown as women.

1213
01:00:04,040 --> 01:00:06,120
Speaker 5: All women are bitches, All women are holes.

1214
01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:07,400
Speaker 4: No woman is faithful.

1215
01:00:07,560 --> 01:00:10,720
Speaker 5: You're knowing all this shit because they haven't went through

1216
01:00:10,760 --> 01:00:13,280
Speaker 5: the emotional thing that a lot of times women are

1217
01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:14,120
Speaker 5: required to do.

1218
01:00:14,360 --> 01:00:17,360
Speaker 4: Women are required to talk, required.

1219
01:00:16,880 --> 01:00:21,160
Speaker 5: To express ourselves where, you know, required to use our words.

1220
01:00:21,200 --> 01:00:23,320
Speaker 4: You know, I'm having a tough time. What do I do?

1221
01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:24,600
Speaker 4: Come on, girl, let's get someone.

1222
01:00:24,760 --> 01:00:27,520
Speaker 5: Let's talk it out, you know, let let's get through

1223
01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:32,000
Speaker 5: this thing together. Girl, I'm here, I'm emotion your emotional support. Yeah,

1224
01:00:32,160 --> 01:00:34,120
Speaker 5: I've seen men do that, But I've seen men do

1225
01:00:34,200 --> 01:00:35,640
Speaker 5: that as they've gotten older.

1226
01:00:35,920 --> 01:00:37,320
Speaker 4: Call and check on your boys.

1227
01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:38,960
Speaker 5: But a lot of times I see that as you,

1228
01:00:39,120 --> 01:00:42,120
Speaker 5: as men get older, and I think it's a disservice

1229
01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:42,880
Speaker 5: to men.

1230
01:00:43,400 --> 01:00:44,080
Speaker 4: As a whole.

1231
01:00:44,440 --> 01:00:47,160
Speaker 5: And a lot of times these men affect everybody else

1232
01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:49,840
Speaker 5: around them. They affect their women, they affect their children,

1233
01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:52,840
Speaker 5: they affect their partners, they affect their mates and everybody

1234
01:00:52,880 --> 01:00:56,520
Speaker 5: attached to them due to this toxic masculinity that is

1235
01:00:56,560 --> 01:00:59,200
Speaker 5: placed in them at a very early age. And then

1236
01:00:59,560 --> 01:01:02,880
Speaker 5: you know, men do Actually, I've seen men go to

1237
01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:05,440
Speaker 5: therapists and psychologists, and psychologists. A lot of them were

1238
01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:08,680
Speaker 5: rejected because going to that is soft, weak. Why I'm

1239
01:01:08,680 --> 01:01:11,959
Speaker 5: a pay to go talk to somebody. But my thing

1240
01:01:12,160 --> 01:01:15,800
Speaker 5: is it's okay to not be perfect, and it's okay

1241
01:01:15,800 --> 01:01:18,120
Speaker 5: to show weakness, you know, because that's the thing. Men

1242
01:01:18,120 --> 01:01:22,120
Speaker 5: aren't taught to show weakness. You know, If I show weakness,

1243
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:22,800
Speaker 5: that means I'm.

1244
01:01:22,640 --> 01:01:23,320
Speaker 4: Blessed than the man.

1245
01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:26,600
Speaker 5: Not true, but men have bought into that because that's

1246
01:01:26,640 --> 01:01:29,040
Speaker 5: what society have taught them, and women have bought into that,

1247
01:01:29,280 --> 01:01:31,720
Speaker 5: so they actually push these things upon their men.

1248
01:01:31,840 --> 01:01:33,560
Speaker 4: I don't want no soft men. I don't want no

1249
01:01:33,640 --> 01:01:35,439
Speaker 4: weak men. I don't want a man crying. I don't

1250
01:01:35,440 --> 01:01:35,720
Speaker 4: want a.

1251
01:01:35,720 --> 01:01:39,800
Speaker 5: Man because they have actually bought into that, which actually

1252
01:01:40,320 --> 01:01:44,760
Speaker 5: emphasizes more on the fact that some men don't even

1253
01:01:44,800 --> 01:01:47,360
Speaker 5: go to their women because their women have bought into

1254
01:01:47,400 --> 01:01:51,440
Speaker 5: this too. And going back to the situation where you're

1255
01:01:51,440 --> 01:01:53,320
Speaker 5: talking about the woman, I mean the man and the woman.

1256
01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:55,680
Speaker 4: A lot of men do treat their women like.

1257
01:01:55,640 --> 01:01:59,280
Speaker 5: That because for the first time, this person is the

1258
01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:02,640
Speaker 5: closest thing to them, and they're having these feelings and

1259
01:02:02,680 --> 01:02:06,880
Speaker 5: emotions that they've never dealt with and they've never rectified,

1260
01:02:06,920 --> 01:02:10,600
Speaker 5: and they've never got over. Be it the issues with

1261
01:02:10,640 --> 01:02:13,480
Speaker 5: their mother, be the issues with their father, be it

1262
01:02:13,520 --> 01:02:16,160
Speaker 5: they've been abused, be it, whatever it is. These issues

1263
01:02:16,160 --> 01:02:19,600
Speaker 5: are unresolved and a lot of times you put a

1264
01:02:19,640 --> 01:02:22,360
Speaker 5: lot of the responsibility on your mate, particularly in a

1265
01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:24,920
Speaker 5: straight relationship, on your woman to fix shit. That's not

1266
01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:28,280
Speaker 5: her responsibility, nor is her obligation to fix it unless

1267
01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:30,480
Speaker 5: she chooses to. And then a lot of times men

1268
01:02:30,520 --> 01:02:33,840
Speaker 5: get mad, particularly when women get older, and but like nigga,

1269
01:02:33,840 --> 01:02:37,760
Speaker 5: I've done been through this, I am not your emotional mule.

1270
01:02:38,200 --> 01:02:41,320
Speaker 5: No fix yourself and then come back to me. It

1271
01:02:41,400 --> 01:02:44,720
Speaker 5: is not my responsibility to fix your childhood drama. They

1272
01:02:44,760 --> 01:02:48,080
Speaker 5: act like we're obligated to help you get through this

1273
01:02:48,120 --> 01:02:51,560
Speaker 5: emotional shit in your life when we're not. If I

1274
01:02:51,640 --> 01:02:54,600
Speaker 5: choose to allow me to choose to, don't dump it

1275
01:02:54,680 --> 01:02:57,480
Speaker 5: on me and require me to deal.

1276
01:02:57,320 --> 01:02:59,240
Speaker 4: With these things with you.

1277
01:02:59,600 --> 01:03:02,040
Speaker 5: When you need to go to a psychologist, you need

1278
01:03:02,080 --> 01:03:05,360
Speaker 5: to go to a psychologist. You might you know, have depression.

1279
01:03:05,440 --> 01:03:08,200
Speaker 5: You might ask it sophrenia or whatever it is. I

1280
01:03:08,240 --> 01:03:11,000
Speaker 5: can't diagnose you. That's not my job, nor is it

1281
01:03:11,080 --> 01:03:13,800
Speaker 5: my responsibility. I can be there with you. I can

1282
01:03:13,840 --> 01:03:16,480
Speaker 5: help you get through this, but we can get through

1283
01:03:16,480 --> 01:03:19,240
Speaker 5: it together. But the thing is, if the man is

1284
01:03:19,280 --> 01:03:22,760
Speaker 5: not going to take the steps to even acknowledge that.

1285
01:03:22,720 --> 01:03:24,520
Speaker 4: There's a problem, that's the thing you have to acknowledge.

1286
01:03:24,640 --> 01:03:25,840
Speaker 4: The problem in order to fix it.

1287
01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:29,120
Speaker 5: Too many men will not acknowledge that, yes, Doll, I

1288
01:03:29,160 --> 01:03:33,120
Speaker 5: am depressed, Yes, Doll, I do have anger issues. Yes

1289
01:03:33,240 --> 01:03:35,640
Speaker 5: I've been off.

1290
01:03:35,840 --> 01:03:37,200
Speaker 4: Something's wrong with me.

1291
01:03:37,960 --> 01:03:41,080
Speaker 5: And get through those emotional barriers with your mate, because

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01:03:41,120 --> 01:03:43,000
Speaker 5: your make will help you get through that. But she

1293
01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:46,000
Speaker 5: can't be the brunt of everything. It has to be

1294
01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:48,080
Speaker 5: a network of people to help you get hold.

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01:03:48,720 --> 01:03:52,920
Speaker 1: And I mean putting that all on one person is

1296
01:03:53,040 --> 01:03:55,680
Speaker 1: so much of an emotional burden for that one person.

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01:03:55,960 --> 01:04:01,560
Speaker 1: And you know it's that thing where because we we

1298
01:04:02,000 --> 01:04:06,000
Speaker 1: advertise relationships and love as just fix all this care all,

1299
01:04:06,680 --> 01:04:10,120
Speaker 1: and especially romantic love, it's like, oh, this person knows

1300
01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:12,480
Speaker 1: everything about you, they know the perfect thing to say,

1301
01:04:12,600 --> 01:04:14,960
Speaker 1: they know what to do, they know how to fix

1302
01:04:15,160 --> 01:04:18,400
Speaker 1: what's wrong with you. And that's such a bad model

1303
01:04:18,680 --> 01:04:21,919
Speaker 1: to like sell people because none of us are that.

1304
01:04:22,160 --> 01:04:24,600
Speaker 2: None of us know how the people do not.

1305
01:04:24,560 --> 01:04:27,000
Speaker 1: Come with instruction books, none of us know how to

1306
01:04:27,040 --> 01:04:30,680
Speaker 1: fix each other all the time, and to put that

1307
01:04:30,760 --> 01:04:34,200
Speaker 1: kind of pressure on somebody is ridiculous. The other thing too,

1308
01:04:35,840 --> 01:04:40,440
Speaker 1: I think men make some pretty men can make bad friends.

1309
01:04:41,680 --> 01:04:44,040
Speaker 1: And I don't mean that to demean all men. Blah,

1310
01:04:44,080 --> 01:04:46,320
Speaker 1: blah blah. But I mean some of the traits that

1311
01:04:46,360 --> 01:04:50,600
Speaker 1: we possess and some of the things we're encouraged with

1312
01:04:50,920 --> 01:04:54,640
Speaker 1: and told to do from the time we're born. They're

1313
01:04:54,680 --> 01:04:57,920
Speaker 1: not really good, Like they're not real loyalty, you know.

1314
01:04:58,040 --> 01:05:00,800
Speaker 1: Like I knew I had friends that I would be like, Okay,

1315
01:05:00,840 --> 01:05:04,160
Speaker 1: this dude seem pretty cool, and they would be like

1316
01:05:04,280 --> 01:05:07,600
Speaker 1: cheating on their wife or or just that's just the

1317
01:05:07,640 --> 01:05:09,680
Speaker 1: way they got down. Like they considered being a good

1318
01:05:09,680 --> 01:05:12,800
Speaker 1: friend me if I woulded to give them an alibi

1319
01:05:12,840 --> 01:05:15,400
Speaker 1: for them cheating on their wife, if I were to,

1320
01:05:15,840 --> 01:05:21,440
Speaker 1: uh to lie about where they were or something like that.

1321
01:05:21,480 --> 01:05:23,560
Speaker 1: And I was like, I mean every time I tap out,

1322
01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:27,880
Speaker 1: like I'm not that kind of friend, you know. So yeah,

1323
01:05:27,880 --> 01:05:33,000
Speaker 1: that's that kind of stuff. When you talk about loaners, right,

1324
01:05:33,160 --> 01:05:38,120
Speaker 1: you know who else are considered loaners? These motherfuckers that

1325
01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:43,040
Speaker 1: shoot up places right right? We talk about emotional repression.

1326
01:05:43,920 --> 01:05:46,680
Speaker 1: The a lot of men hold their anger in until

1327
01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:49,600
Speaker 1: it but lashes out at someone or something.

1328
01:05:49,680 --> 01:05:52,640
Speaker 5: Come on, you know, like whooping up on everybody to

1329
01:05:52,680 --> 01:05:53,480
Speaker 5: shooting everybody.

1330
01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:53,880
Speaker 2: Right.

1331
01:05:53,920 --> 01:05:57,160
Speaker 1: A lot of men have a consistent like smoldering fire

1332
01:05:57,200 --> 01:05:59,840
Speaker 1: inside of them because they're not. This is the thing.

1333
01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:04,800
Speaker 1: Everyone has emotions, right, you're just choosing not to express

1334
01:06:04,840 --> 01:06:08,120
Speaker 1: them until they become so toxic and fucked up that

1335
01:06:08,160 --> 01:06:10,200
Speaker 1: there's no healthy way to express them.

1336
01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:12,840
Speaker 2: And that's what's happening with a lot of these dudes.

1337
01:06:12,920 --> 01:06:15,880
Speaker 1: And so you get a woman and then you go finally,

1338
01:06:16,880 --> 01:06:20,080
Speaker 1: my oasis, the one place I can express. I can cry,

1339
01:06:20,480 --> 01:06:23,080
Speaker 1: I can be sad, I can be upset, I can

1340
01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:25,800
Speaker 1: tell you how frustrated I am with things. But then

1341
01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:28,400
Speaker 1: you putting the all in the one person, a lifetime

1342
01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:32,360
Speaker 1: worth of shit in the one person all the time.

1343
01:06:32,520 --> 01:06:34,440
Speaker 1: You don't have an outlet, you don't have other friends.

1344
01:06:35,240 --> 01:06:38,920
Speaker 1: Like it's a lot, you know. The idea of an

1345
01:06:38,920 --> 01:06:41,440
Speaker 1: emotional gold digger was first touched on in twenty sixteen

1346
01:06:41,480 --> 01:06:44,920
Speaker 1: by writer Aaron Rodgers with a tweet that and it's

1347
01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:48,000
Speaker 1: Aaron E. R I in, with a tweet that continues

1348
01:06:48,040 --> 01:06:50,439
Speaker 1: to be reposted on social media, both by women who

1349
01:06:50,480 --> 01:06:53,120
Speaker 1: marry self described feminist men and by those with more

1350
01:06:53,120 --> 01:06:56,360
Speaker 1: conservative husbands. It is gain more traction recently as women

1351
01:06:56,520 --> 01:07:00,200
Speaker 1: feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor, have wise up

1352
01:07:00,200 --> 01:07:02,880
Speaker 1: to the toe of toxic masculinity, which keeps men isolated

1353
01:07:02,920 --> 01:07:05,800
Speaker 1: and capable of leaning on each other. Across the spectrum,

1354
01:07:05,840 --> 01:07:08,040
Speaker 1: women seem to be complaining about the same thing while

1355
01:07:08,040 --> 01:07:11,000
Speaker 1: they read countless self help books, listen to podcasts, seek

1356
01:07:11,000 --> 01:07:15,080
Speaker 1: our career advisors, turn to female friends for advice and support,

1357
01:07:15,360 --> 01:07:18,200
Speaker 1: or spend a small sports of fortune on therapists to

1358
01:07:18,360 --> 01:07:20,560
Speaker 1: deal with old wounds and current problems. The men in

1359
01:07:20,600 --> 01:07:23,960
Speaker 1: their lives simply rely on them. Yeah, that's the other

1360
01:07:24,000 --> 01:07:25,840
Speaker 1: thing too. When you're a man, you're just not taught

1361
01:07:25,840 --> 01:07:28,480
Speaker 1: that you're fucked up. It's why men get sold like

1362
01:07:28,800 --> 01:07:31,919
Speaker 1: out of fucking control. When you say like toxic masculinity,

1363
01:07:32,200 --> 01:07:37,080
Speaker 1: fragile masculinity. Men have never really been critiqued in this

1364
01:07:37,160 --> 01:07:40,720
Speaker 1: way until now that people have a voice to be like,

1365
01:07:41,240 --> 01:07:43,160
Speaker 1: you can't avoid the fact that I feel like you're

1366
01:07:43,160 --> 01:07:45,560
Speaker 1: fucked up, and it's because you were made to be

1367
01:07:45,560 --> 01:07:47,920
Speaker 1: fucked up and you need to work on it, you know.

1368
01:07:48,280 --> 01:07:50,760
Speaker 1: So now you have these men like very upset by

1369
01:07:50,920 --> 01:07:53,880
Speaker 1: but women get that from the time their little girls, right,

1370
01:07:54,080 --> 01:07:58,320
Speaker 1: every fucking thing they do is wrong. You're too sexual,

1371
01:07:58,560 --> 01:08:01,200
Speaker 1: you're not sexual enough, You're never get a man. You're

1372
01:08:01,240 --> 01:08:04,680
Speaker 1: too fat, you're too skinny, you too, Your tomboy is

1373
01:08:04,840 --> 01:08:08,040
Speaker 1: your you know, your close your legs.

1374
01:08:08,320 --> 01:08:10,160
Speaker 2: You're being fast like women.

1375
01:08:10,280 --> 01:08:13,880
Speaker 1: You know, women are already kind of molded into looking

1376
01:08:13,880 --> 01:08:16,320
Speaker 1: for advice. Even when there's nothing wrong with the women, right,

1377
01:08:16,680 --> 01:08:19,080
Speaker 1: they still they're like you.

1378
01:08:19,200 --> 01:08:20,080
Speaker 2: That's why you know.

1379
01:08:20,120 --> 01:08:22,280
Speaker 1: You meet a woman and you're like, man, it's in

1380
01:08:22,320 --> 01:08:24,240
Speaker 1: your mind, like this woman got it all going on

1381
01:08:24,960 --> 01:08:26,360
Speaker 1: and you just talk to her for a little bit

1382
01:08:26,360 --> 01:08:30,080
Speaker 1: and you're like, oh, man, like life has fucked her over,

1383
01:08:30,680 --> 01:08:32,639
Speaker 1: Like like life has fucked her up. She don't even

1384
01:08:32,680 --> 01:08:36,120
Speaker 1: see herself as the way I see her, as this

1385
01:08:36,320 --> 01:08:39,759
Speaker 1: like complete figure, like this person that hasn't put together.

1386
01:08:40,320 --> 01:08:42,160
Speaker 1: She can't even see that when she looks in the

1387
01:08:42,160 --> 01:08:46,800
Speaker 1: mirror because everything is being like, you're too this, your

1388
01:08:46,800 --> 01:08:48,960
Speaker 1: hair is that, your face is that? Your makeup is this?

1389
01:08:49,120 --> 01:08:51,880
Speaker 1: You're not wearing makeup, and that's a problem. You got

1390
01:08:51,880 --> 01:08:53,799
Speaker 1: a man, you don't got a man with your kids?

1391
01:08:53,880 --> 01:08:55,920
Speaker 1: Like everything is a challenge.

1392
01:08:56,200 --> 01:08:58,800
Speaker 4: Everything go put in front of women.

1393
01:08:58,880 --> 01:09:00,760
Speaker 1: And then for men, we're just kind are told like

1394
01:09:01,080 --> 01:09:02,840
Speaker 1: you'll find the way you are and if don'e nobody

1395
01:09:02,840 --> 01:09:05,679
Speaker 1: wants you that stay problem. Right. You're good, you're handsome,

1396
01:09:05,680 --> 01:09:08,479
Speaker 1: you're this, you're that like, it's no real thing that

1397
01:09:08,520 --> 01:09:10,800
Speaker 1: you have to work on until you know, women really

1398
01:09:10,800 --> 01:09:12,639
Speaker 1: got more of a voice on social media, So now

1399
01:09:12,680 --> 01:09:15,840
Speaker 1: we're starting to really hear how a lot of women

1400
01:09:16,000 --> 01:09:19,360
Speaker 1: have been feeling forever. But men aren't really privy to

1401
01:09:19,400 --> 01:09:21,679
Speaker 1: those conversations all the time, or they just don't care.

1402
01:09:22,000 --> 01:09:23,960
Speaker 1: And now you're seeing women be Like I was listening

1403
01:09:23,960 --> 01:09:26,080
Speaker 1: to a conversation on Tea with Queen and Jay that

1404
01:09:26,160 --> 01:09:28,679
Speaker 1: day on that podcast, and they had this segment where

1405
01:09:28,680 --> 01:09:31,360
Speaker 1: they talked about dating apps, and it was so funny

1406
01:09:31,360 --> 01:09:34,360
Speaker 1: because they were talking about men taking pictures on dating

1407
01:09:34,400 --> 01:09:36,800
Speaker 1: apps and how terrible the pictures normally are. You know,

1408
01:09:36,880 --> 01:09:39,680
Speaker 1: as much as men complain about women's pictures, right, you know,

1409
01:09:40,200 --> 01:09:42,800
Speaker 1: she cropped this, she did that, but women like we'll

1410
01:09:42,840 --> 01:09:48,360
Speaker 1: do makeup, lighting, hair poles, know the right angles, take

1411
01:09:48,520 --> 01:09:53,200
Speaker 1: multiple pictures. Like when I get a friend request from

1412
01:09:53,200 --> 01:09:55,960
Speaker 1: a dude on Facebook, so often that picture is like

1413
01:09:56,080 --> 01:09:59,160
Speaker 1: just a fucked up, ashy close up that where you're like,

1414
01:09:59,360 --> 01:10:01,439
Speaker 1: is this a SI kill? What is wrong with your picture?

1415
01:10:01,479 --> 01:10:01,639
Speaker 4: Sir?

1416
01:10:02,280 --> 01:10:05,360
Speaker 2: Like you look on no effort, like is this something

1417
01:10:05,439 --> 01:10:05,840
Speaker 2: going on?

1418
01:10:05,960 --> 01:10:08,200
Speaker 1: Like why are you staring down at the camera like

1419
01:10:08,240 --> 01:10:11,559
Speaker 1: you're gonna murder it. Come on, kill everybody, Like if

1420
01:10:11,560 --> 01:10:15,280
Speaker 1: I supposed to feel like a steak, what is your shirt? Sir? Right? Like,

1421
01:10:15,400 --> 01:10:17,479
Speaker 1: but that's but men, it's just different for men, Like

1422
01:10:17,560 --> 01:10:20,679
Speaker 1: men are just not judged as harshly for the same shit.

1423
01:10:20,760 --> 01:10:22,679
Speaker 2: How many it's a running joke, but how many.

1424
01:10:22,520 --> 01:10:24,439
Speaker 1: Times have we seen on social media, like some dude

1425
01:10:24,439 --> 01:10:28,519
Speaker 1: being like, man, uh, how you should carry it? Be fine?

1426
01:10:28,560 --> 01:10:30,800
Speaker 1: And she lose about twenty five pounds. And then you

1427
01:10:30,840 --> 01:10:32,639
Speaker 1: cut to a picture of this dude and he looked

1428
01:10:32,680 --> 01:10:35,600
Speaker 1: like Carl Wislow without a beard or whatever, you know,

1429
01:10:35,680 --> 01:10:38,080
Speaker 1: like he just like he's just like dog, what are

1430
01:10:38,120 --> 01:10:41,080
Speaker 1: you doing? Like one of your eyes is swronging in

1431
01:10:41,080 --> 01:10:43,920
Speaker 1: the other. You don't get to tell, you don't get

1432
01:10:44,000 --> 01:10:46,200
Speaker 1: to you don't get to be like Rihanna need to

1433
01:10:46,200 --> 01:10:48,600
Speaker 1: put on ten pounds. Rihanna would not step over you

1434
01:10:48,640 --> 01:10:50,960
Speaker 1: if you fell down. She would be like, h I'm

1435
01:10:50,960 --> 01:10:53,640
Speaker 1: her pose. And yet here you are feeling like you

1436
01:10:53,680 --> 01:10:57,400
Speaker 1: can just judge away, right, we are just entitled that way.

1437
01:10:58,040 --> 01:11:00,519
Speaker 1: And then when you throw that into a relationship, now,

1438
01:11:00,600 --> 01:11:03,679
Speaker 1: another person in the exists at relationships at least has

1439
01:11:03,680 --> 01:11:06,479
Speaker 1: to deal with all that fucking entitlement we got, you know,

1440
01:11:06,520 --> 01:11:08,120
Speaker 1: and I see why women would be like, yeah.

1441
01:11:08,000 --> 01:11:08,840
Speaker 2: I'm fed up.

1442
01:11:10,680 --> 01:11:13,880
Speaker 1: For this reason that artist Lindsay Johnson jokingly calls herself

1443
01:11:13,920 --> 01:11:16,599
Speaker 1: Everyone's beck and call girl. Not only does she take

1444
01:11:16,640 --> 01:11:18,559
Speaker 1: care of her husband and children, she just moved in

1445
01:11:18,600 --> 01:11:20,080
Speaker 1: with her mom to take care of her as well,

1446
01:11:20,120 --> 01:11:23,439
Speaker 1: because she knows her brothers won't. But both recently divorced,

1447
01:11:23,439 --> 01:11:26,360
Speaker 1: her brothers are already turning to her, but never to

1448
01:11:26,400 --> 01:11:30,519
Speaker 1: each other to provide support their wives used to men

1449
01:11:30,640 --> 01:11:33,240
Speaker 1: drain the emotional life out of women, says a forty

1450
01:11:33,280 --> 01:11:36,000
Speaker 1: one year old who lives in Nashville, Tennessee. I love them,

1451
01:11:36,000 --> 01:11:39,240
Speaker 1: but good lord, they've become the bane of my existence.

1452
01:11:39,600 --> 01:11:42,400
Speaker 1: Johnson admits she enables her brothers by saying yes all

1453
01:11:42,439 --> 01:11:44,840
Speaker 1: the time, partly out of guilt, but also partly because

1454
01:11:44,880 --> 01:11:47,920
Speaker 1: she loves being needed to feel important. It's a cash

1455
01:11:47,960 --> 01:11:49,840
Speaker 1: twenty two. Eventually it becomes too much and I end

1456
01:11:49,920 --> 01:11:51,240
Speaker 1: up exhausted and resentful.

1457
01:11:51,600 --> 01:11:54,759
Speaker 5: Yeah, sometimes women can be part of the problem. Sometimes

1458
01:11:54,800 --> 01:11:56,880
Speaker 5: you'd be like, no, I'm not doing that, not today.

1459
01:11:57,520 --> 01:12:04,799
Speaker 5: And I think that because women are taught to sacrifice, sacrifice, secrifice, sacrifice,

1460
01:12:04,840 --> 01:12:07,479
Speaker 5: put everything before you, and women and men are taught

1461
01:12:07,520 --> 01:12:11,160
Speaker 5: putting nothing before you are the head. Nothing else goes

1462
01:12:11,200 --> 01:12:14,760
Speaker 5: before you. Like family, fuck it, work eighty hours a week.

1463
01:12:14,800 --> 01:12:18,240
Speaker 5: Fuck that wife at home with your kids, sacrificing and

1464
01:12:18,320 --> 01:12:21,679
Speaker 5: being at home. You know who cares about missing birthdays

1465
01:12:21,680 --> 01:12:23,800
Speaker 5: and holidays? You know, And you get men to get

1466
01:12:23,920 --> 01:12:27,040
Speaker 5: cheered for that. Funk around have a heart attack because

1467
01:12:27,040 --> 01:12:28,800
Speaker 5: they're working in theirself to death. You got a woman

1468
01:12:28,880 --> 01:12:30,400
Speaker 5: do that? You're ungrateful?

1469
01:12:30,439 --> 01:12:33,680
Speaker 4: Horror, how dare you working? What about your kids?

1470
01:12:34,120 --> 01:12:34,320
Speaker 2: You know?

1471
01:12:34,479 --> 01:12:36,920
Speaker 4: Shit like d well, you like that doesn't make sense.

1472
01:12:37,080 --> 01:12:41,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, like nobody like at the same time that people

1473
01:12:41,600 --> 01:12:46,479
Speaker 1: were in Sierra's mentions about her dating Russell Wilson, I

1474
01:12:46,680 --> 01:12:49,760
Speaker 1: never saw anyone ask future about his kids when he

1475
01:12:49,880 --> 01:12:54,679
Speaker 1: was out here fucking groupies, getting other women pregnant, dating

1476
01:12:54,920 --> 01:12:58,200
Speaker 1: a Larca Pippet, a married woman, Like, nobody was like, well,

1477
01:12:58,240 --> 01:13:01,920
Speaker 1: what is he gonna raise his Like we never people

1478
01:13:01,920 --> 01:13:03,640
Speaker 1: do that with Amber Rose, they don't do that with

1479
01:13:03,680 --> 01:13:06,519
Speaker 1: Whiz Khalifa, And they're just happy with that double standard.

1480
01:13:06,760 --> 01:13:07,759
Speaker 2: But then they wonder.

1481
01:13:08,040 --> 01:13:10,200
Speaker 1: They get mad when someone says, well, this is what's

1482
01:13:10,240 --> 01:13:12,680
Speaker 1: wrong with masculinity, this is why it's toxic. This is

1483
01:13:12,680 --> 01:13:15,400
Speaker 1: why y'all aren't complete human beings. And the problem is

1484
01:13:16,000 --> 01:13:17,960
Speaker 1: you need if you're a man listening to us, you've

1485
01:13:17,960 --> 01:13:21,080
Speaker 1: got to stop taking offense to this shit, because to me,

1486
01:13:21,920 --> 01:13:26,080
Speaker 1: the problem the thing is people are trying to help you.

1487
01:13:27,400 --> 01:13:29,439
Speaker 1: Everybody who's talking about this shit is trying to help

1488
01:13:29,479 --> 01:13:31,880
Speaker 1: you become a complete three hundred and sixty degree human being,

1489
01:13:32,760 --> 01:13:34,680
Speaker 1: like a person that's not going to the movies and

1490
01:13:34,720 --> 01:13:37,840
Speaker 1: scared they're gonna cry because you know, that'll mean they're

1491
01:13:37,920 --> 01:13:40,439
Speaker 1: less of a man like. And that's hard for niggas

1492
01:13:40,479 --> 01:13:42,439
Speaker 1: to get through because our whole life have been told

1493
01:13:42,439 --> 01:13:46,080
Speaker 1: the opposite, you know. And so it's like you're trying

1494
01:13:46,080 --> 01:13:48,280
Speaker 1: to learn to swim almost in this and in the

1495
01:13:48,320 --> 01:13:49,240
Speaker 1: second your feet.

1496
01:13:49,000 --> 01:13:51,599
Speaker 2: Don't touch the ground, we fucking tap out like no uh.

1497
01:13:52,040 --> 01:13:54,599
Speaker 1: And especially as a black man, I know that feeling

1498
01:13:54,720 --> 01:13:57,559
Speaker 1: of I'm not supposed to be allowed to be here

1499
01:13:57,800 --> 01:14:01,720
Speaker 1: and be a full person. If I'm not too hot,

1500
01:14:01,760 --> 01:14:04,280
Speaker 1: if I'm too soft, the world's gonna just fucking destroy me.

1501
01:14:05,080 --> 01:14:08,439
Speaker 1: If I'm too uh, you know, if I'm too open,

1502
01:14:08,600 --> 01:14:12,799
Speaker 1: too honest, too emotional, too fragile to whatever, the world's

1503
01:14:12,800 --> 01:14:15,160
Speaker 1: gonna come get me. And then I'm like, racism is

1504
01:14:15,200 --> 01:14:17,000
Speaker 1: gonna just pop out of nowhere and throw my ass

1505
01:14:17,000 --> 01:14:19,920
Speaker 1: in prison. So I have to be on point at

1506
01:14:19,920 --> 01:14:23,160
Speaker 1: all times, right, you know, And so I feel that pressure,

1507
01:14:23,720 --> 01:14:26,320
Speaker 1: but it's just something I'm trying to learn to let go.

1508
01:14:27,000 --> 01:14:28,559
Speaker 1: You know. I'm not saying I don't have any of it.

1509
01:14:28,600 --> 01:14:30,200
Speaker 1: I still have some of it left in me. Like

1510
01:14:30,240 --> 01:14:32,960
Speaker 1: I said, I when I went to the dinnist, I

1511
01:14:33,040 --> 01:14:34,240
Speaker 1: was in there like I ain't gonna be no bit

1512
01:14:34,280 --> 01:14:36,559
Speaker 1: training to let it. See on this shit hurts, but

1513
01:14:36,640 --> 01:14:38,639
Speaker 1: I could have just it's easily been like ma'am, what

1514
01:14:38,680 --> 01:14:40,559
Speaker 1: the fuck are you doing to my tooth? It's not

1515
01:14:40,600 --> 01:14:43,519
Speaker 1: supposed to feel like this, right, So that's still in me.

1516
01:14:43,720 --> 01:14:45,479
Speaker 1: I still got it, but I'm trying to let it

1517
01:14:45,560 --> 01:14:49,320
Speaker 1: go cause I don't know. Like like I said, I

1518
01:14:49,320 --> 01:14:51,360
Speaker 1: still remember the day that I decided that shit was

1519
01:14:52,040 --> 01:14:55,840
Speaker 1: watching the closer arguments to Trayvon Martin's trial and listening

1520
01:14:55,880 --> 01:14:59,880
Speaker 1: to his lawyer, or not his lawyer, the prosecutor make

1521
01:14:59,880 --> 01:15:04,280
Speaker 1: the defense of like, yo, this kid's life mattered. There

1522
01:15:04,400 --> 01:15:06,920
Speaker 1: was lost, and he's never gonna get to grow up

1523
01:15:06,920 --> 01:15:11,080
Speaker 1: and be a full person. And I remember listening to

1524
01:15:11,080 --> 01:15:13,920
Speaker 1: that white man and I cried, and I was like, oh, man,

1525
01:15:14,040 --> 01:15:17,559
Speaker 1: like I've had that feeling inside me the whole time.

1526
01:15:17,760 --> 01:15:21,080
Speaker 1: I never cried about Trayvon Martin's case until that moment, Like,

1527
01:15:21,560 --> 01:15:25,120
Speaker 1: not through the entire ordeal, not through any news coverage,

1528
01:15:25,600 --> 01:15:28,080
Speaker 1: not through any articles, not through any videos, none of

1529
01:15:28,080 --> 01:15:31,719
Speaker 1: that shit, because I just was like, yeah, shit happens.

1530
01:15:31,760 --> 01:15:35,080
Speaker 1: It's fucked up. You're not supposed to let this get

1531
01:15:35,120 --> 01:15:38,640
Speaker 1: to you, like, you know, like they win almost if

1532
01:15:38,680 --> 01:15:41,599
Speaker 1: you get to you. But I was like, this kid

1533
01:15:41,680 --> 01:15:44,880
Speaker 1: is dead. He'll never make it to my age. And

1534
01:15:45,320 --> 01:15:49,040
Speaker 1: I don't want to die feeling like I don't experience

1535
01:15:49,560 --> 01:15:53,160
Speaker 1: express a full range of emotions because I always experienced it, right,

1536
01:15:53,520 --> 01:15:55,760
Speaker 1: But I don't want to die not having worked on that.

1537
01:15:55,800 --> 01:15:59,760
Speaker 1: I don't want to die being like I never really lived,

1538
01:16:00,080 --> 01:16:01,679
Speaker 1: you know, because a lot of times you're not letting

1539
01:16:01,680 --> 01:16:04,160
Speaker 1: yourself live. And then to turn around to get in

1540
01:16:04,160 --> 01:16:07,400
Speaker 1: a relationship and put all of this on a footstep

1541
01:16:07,439 --> 01:16:13,280
Speaker 1: of one person, it's extremely unfair. It's like, I like,

1542
01:16:13,320 --> 01:16:16,280
Speaker 1: you didn't you're not marrying to a maid or a therapist,

1543
01:16:16,360 --> 01:16:19,679
Speaker 1: like you have to put something up in your house,

1544
01:16:20,560 --> 01:16:24,559
Speaker 1: you know, if it's reciprocal. I can understand even you know,

1545
01:16:24,720 --> 01:16:26,960
Speaker 1: like me and you spend a ton of time together.

1546
01:16:27,720 --> 01:16:30,440
Speaker 1: But you know, I like to think that it's reciprocated.

1547
01:16:30,439 --> 01:16:33,120
Speaker 1: It's not one way of just me coming in, Oh

1548
01:16:33,240 --> 01:16:36,080
Speaker 1: my god, life is so hard and then you're like, oh,

1549
01:16:36,120 --> 01:16:38,559
Speaker 1: this thing happened to me, Well fuck you, damn. I

1550
01:16:38,560 --> 01:16:41,320
Speaker 1: mean I was talking, you know what I mean, Like

1551
01:16:41,360 --> 01:16:43,720
Speaker 1: I would like to think that, like why would you

1552
01:16:43,760 --> 01:16:46,439
Speaker 1: put that on a person? You know? But I don't

1553
01:16:46,439 --> 01:16:49,120
Speaker 1: think anybody as a man. I mean, I don't think

1554
01:16:49,120 --> 01:16:51,519
Speaker 1: I'm beyond it or anything. I think it happened easily

1555
01:16:52,000 --> 01:16:54,280
Speaker 1: because you just don't you're used to the world centering you.

1556
01:16:55,080 --> 01:16:59,320
Speaker 1: Yeah so, but yeah, I mean I also have a

1557
01:16:59,320 --> 01:17:03,600
Speaker 1: lot of outlets of other people, you know. So, but

1558
01:17:03,680 --> 01:17:05,719
Speaker 1: I've always kind of been that way where I always

1559
01:17:05,720 --> 01:17:07,320
Speaker 1: had like cause I only have like.

1560
01:17:07,360 --> 01:17:09,920
Speaker 2: Kind of medium to close relationships.

1561
01:17:09,960 --> 01:17:13,320
Speaker 1: I don't do a lot of like how's the weather relationships,

1562
01:17:14,280 --> 01:17:14,960
Speaker 1: so so.

1563
01:17:14,880 --> 01:17:16,040
Speaker 4: Like I doesn't have you function.

1564
01:17:16,120 --> 01:17:18,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, So, like I've always kind of had people

1565
01:17:18,439 --> 01:17:20,200
Speaker 1: that could be like, Yo, this thing is happening in

1566
01:17:20,240 --> 01:17:22,519
Speaker 1: my life and it's fucking with me, and we will

1567
01:17:22,560 --> 01:17:24,880
Speaker 1: talk about it, and I don't seek them out to

1568
01:17:24,880 --> 01:17:27,000
Speaker 1: specifically talk about it. Like I'm not that kind of person.

1569
01:17:27,120 --> 01:17:29,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, I need to talk to someone, but like

1570
01:17:29,320 --> 01:17:31,519
Speaker 1: we'll just be talking about regular shit and I'm like, yeah,

1571
01:17:31,680 --> 01:17:33,960
Speaker 1: I'm actually trying to talk about something a little more serious.

1572
01:17:34,120 --> 01:17:35,200
Speaker 2: What you think about Blank?

1573
01:17:36,120 --> 01:17:40,120
Speaker 1: You know, I prefer those relationships, but it also, you know,

1574
01:17:41,000 --> 01:17:43,960
Speaker 1: while not trying to keep any secrets obviously, but it

1575
01:17:44,080 --> 01:17:46,680
Speaker 1: also means that there's sometimes I forget to tell care

1576
01:17:46,760 --> 01:17:49,200
Speaker 1: and shit because I'm like, oh, I already told somebody

1577
01:17:49,240 --> 01:17:51,439
Speaker 1: and I'm good, And I had to be like, oh.

1578
01:17:51,360 --> 01:17:53,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, I ain't tell you so and so did Blank?

1579
01:17:54,400 --> 01:17:57,280
Speaker 2: Like what like, yes, you know it was three days ago.

1580
01:17:57,360 --> 01:17:59,000
Speaker 2: Forgot to tell you, but this.

1581
01:17:58,880 --> 01:18:01,559
Speaker 1: Thing happened, you know. But that's kind of good though,

1582
01:18:01,600 --> 01:18:03,840
Speaker 1: because this is not like become an immediate thing for

1583
01:18:03,880 --> 01:18:10,519
Speaker 1: you to fix or to contribute to. Let's see, like

1584
01:18:10,600 --> 01:18:12,320
Speaker 1: John said, most of the women I spoke to for

1585
01:18:12,360 --> 01:18:14,840
Speaker 1: this peace believe that EO self worth is often wrapped

1586
01:18:14,880 --> 01:18:18,080
Speaker 1: up in being a man's crutch. But the older women

1587
01:18:18,080 --> 01:18:19,800
Speaker 1: get the last willing. They seem to be a man's

1588
01:18:19,880 --> 01:18:20,759
Speaker 1: want to be a man's.

1589
01:18:20,600 --> 01:18:23,360
Speaker 5: Everything, right, And I'll ook side That's why a lot

1590
01:18:23,360 --> 01:18:26,040
Speaker 5: of men they like, I'm not trying to be funny.

1591
01:18:27,000 --> 01:18:28,479
Speaker 4: Have you ever seen like a lot of men as

1592
01:18:28,520 --> 01:18:31,519
Speaker 4: they get older, they like, I want the younger women

1593
01:18:31,880 --> 01:18:33,040
Speaker 4: because not your funny.

1594
01:18:33,160 --> 01:18:35,960
Speaker 5: They're young and not even they don't know better. A

1595
01:18:36,040 --> 01:18:38,840
Speaker 5: lot of times they don't know they're worth They are

1596
01:18:39,080 --> 01:18:42,479
Speaker 5: taught to My job is to entertain you. My job

1597
01:18:42,600 --> 01:18:45,080
Speaker 5: is to worship you. My job is to put you first.

1598
01:18:45,160 --> 01:18:47,040
Speaker 5: They don't want a woman's just been through some shit,

1599
01:18:47,120 --> 01:18:49,599
Speaker 5: they've done, dealt with various types of men, and they

1600
01:18:49,680 --> 01:18:51,799
Speaker 5: be like, my expectations are high.

1601
01:18:52,400 --> 01:18:55,880
Speaker 4: I refuse to lower my expectations for you.

1602
01:18:56,360 --> 01:19:00,160
Speaker 5: And men get mad at women for having high expectation.

1603
01:19:00,920 --> 01:19:04,200
Speaker 5: But those high expectations aren't high for no reason, you know,

1604
01:19:04,439 --> 01:19:08,480
Speaker 5: or just like men have expectations or ridiculous.

1605
01:19:08,080 --> 01:19:08,840
Speaker 4: You know, most people do.

1606
01:19:08,920 --> 01:19:11,880
Speaker 5: But men say stupid stuff like I want my woman

1607
01:19:11,920 --> 01:19:14,960
Speaker 5: to be under two hundred pounds, right five foot four.

1608
01:19:15,280 --> 01:19:18,200
Speaker 1: You know she better weigh the same weight when we

1609
01:19:18,240 --> 01:19:20,760
Speaker 1: got married. You better weigh that same weight your whole life,

1610
01:19:20,800 --> 01:19:23,120
Speaker 1: even after kids. Dah da dah and may be saying

1611
01:19:23,120 --> 01:19:25,720
Speaker 1: this shit real like cocky and happy to say it,

1612
01:19:26,160 --> 01:19:29,120
Speaker 1: and nigga you work at Whole Foods, Like, you're not rich,

1613
01:19:30,080 --> 01:19:32,240
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like you like what you're doing, bro,

1614
01:19:32,360 --> 01:19:34,840
Speaker 1: you not like not that being rich would justify this,

1615
01:19:34,920 --> 01:19:37,120
Speaker 1: but like, nigga, ain't nobody doing this to put up

1616
01:19:37,120 --> 01:19:38,559
Speaker 1: with thirty five thousand dollars a year?

1617
01:19:38,680 --> 01:19:41,000
Speaker 2: Like, come on, you like and your ass.

1618
01:19:40,800 --> 01:19:43,559
Speaker 1: Ain't about to stick to that regiment either, So what

1619
01:19:43,560 --> 01:19:46,760
Speaker 1: what is up with this type of ridiculousness? But it's

1620
01:19:46,760 --> 01:19:48,960
Speaker 1: a but it's a common thing, especially down here in

1621
01:19:49,000 --> 01:19:50,400
Speaker 1: the South. It's a common thing to hear.

1622
01:19:50,320 --> 01:19:53,240
Speaker 4: Men say that, right, and it's fucking ridiculous, you know.

1623
01:19:53,640 --> 01:19:57,840
Speaker 5: And a lot of times when people say that, a

1624
01:19:57,880 --> 01:20:00,360
Speaker 5: lot of them never been married, knowlessly, like like you'd

1625
01:20:00,360 --> 01:20:02,000
Speaker 5: be like, oh, nigga, you never been married, get the

1626
01:20:02,040 --> 01:20:03,680
Speaker 5: fuck out of here, right, And I'd hate to be

1627
01:20:03,800 --> 01:20:04,080
Speaker 5: like that.

1628
01:20:04,120 --> 01:20:07,280
Speaker 4: But if you've never been married, you have these ridiculous expectations.

1629
01:20:07,280 --> 01:20:09,599
Speaker 5: You do not know what it's like unless you actually

1630
01:20:09,640 --> 01:20:11,360
Speaker 5: experience being with a person like that.

1631
01:20:11,479 --> 01:20:13,320
Speaker 1: The worst is when they are married and you gotta

1632
01:20:13,360 --> 01:20:15,160
Speaker 1: look at their wife and her face is looking like

1633
01:20:16,960 --> 01:20:21,240
Speaker 1: I mean, I love and it's like, damn sins, you

1634
01:20:21,720 --> 01:20:22,760
Speaker 1: gotta put up with this for.

1635
01:20:22,760 --> 01:20:25,760
Speaker 5: Y'all life right, right, You expect her to look like

1636
01:20:25,800 --> 01:20:28,240
Speaker 5: a Rihanna You over here looking like stay Puffed the

1637
01:20:28,280 --> 01:20:29,200
Speaker 5: marshmallow man.

1638
01:20:29,400 --> 01:20:31,160
Speaker 4: But you got these fucking expectations.

1639
01:20:31,560 --> 01:20:33,920
Speaker 5: Don't you think she want to look at something attractive too,

1640
01:20:34,280 --> 01:20:37,439
Speaker 5: Like you can't have these high expectations for her, but yet.

1641
01:20:37,400 --> 01:20:39,360
Speaker 4: Don't want her to have no expectations for you.

1642
01:20:39,479 --> 01:20:42,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just crazy man. Like. Well, people, like I said,

1643
01:20:42,720 --> 01:20:46,880
Speaker 1: I've met people that feel that way. But uh yeah,

1644
01:20:46,920 --> 01:20:48,280
Speaker 1: as far as a friend, I know, we're all over

1645
01:20:48,280 --> 01:20:50,080
Speaker 1: the place. But as far as the friendship thing though,

1646
01:20:50,560 --> 01:20:52,800
Speaker 1: I think that is interesting. You know, I think when

1647
01:20:52,840 --> 01:20:54,920
Speaker 1: people get married, a lot of times they drop off

1648
01:20:54,960 --> 01:20:58,360
Speaker 1: with friends anyway, right, because you know, single people do

1649
01:20:58,479 --> 01:21:01,920
Speaker 1: single shit, and a lot of times people ain't got

1650
01:21:01,960 --> 01:21:04,640
Speaker 1: no business doing that shit. Still, like, some of that

1651
01:21:04,680 --> 01:21:07,680
Speaker 1: shit ain't exactly you know, the same moral code as

1652
01:21:07,720 --> 01:21:12,120
Speaker 1: what you have agreed to with your marriage. Men don't

1653
01:21:12,160 --> 01:21:14,439
Speaker 1: usually put the effort in the maintaining friendships once they're married.

1654
01:21:14,520 --> 01:21:16,479
Speaker 1: The guys at work are the only people other than

1655
01:21:16,479 --> 01:21:18,840
Speaker 1: me that my husband even talks to. So when some

1656
01:21:18,880 --> 01:21:20,720
Speaker 1: of these men retire, they expect their wives to be

1657
01:21:20,760 --> 01:21:23,120
Speaker 1: the source of entertainment and even get jealous when they

1658
01:21:23,160 --> 01:21:26,320
Speaker 1: have a life. Johnson jokes that women her mom's age

1659
01:21:26,320 --> 01:21:28,240
Speaker 1: seem to be waiting for their husbands to die so

1660
01:21:28,280 --> 01:21:30,960
Speaker 1: they can finally start their life. I'll get a call

1661
01:21:31,080 --> 01:21:33,040
Speaker 1: saying so and so kick the bucket, and sure enough

1662
01:21:33,040 --> 01:21:34,760
Speaker 1: it's widow's on a cruise around the world a week

1663
01:21:34,840 --> 01:21:36,080
Speaker 1: later with her girlfriends.

1664
01:21:36,960 --> 01:21:41,160
Speaker 5: That's sad, But a lot of women are like because

1665
01:21:41,400 --> 01:21:44,639
Speaker 5: women outlive men, so they be like, well, statistically, you'll

1666
01:21:44,680 --> 01:21:46,639
Speaker 5: die before I will, and when you do, I'm gonna

1667
01:21:46,640 --> 01:21:47,599
Speaker 5: go live my best life.

1668
01:21:47,920 --> 01:21:54,160
Speaker 1: Right. So I think it just depends on on that stuff.

1669
01:21:54,560 --> 01:21:58,640
Speaker 1: So this TVs said, who are the single people that

1670
01:21:58,720 --> 01:22:00,320
Speaker 1: y'all know? This comes up out of time. All the

1671
01:22:00,360 --> 01:22:02,200
Speaker 1: single adults do is go to brunch in movies. At

1672
01:22:02,280 --> 01:22:04,920
Speaker 1: least women y'all gonna say, I'm thinking about men, and

1673
01:22:04,960 --> 01:22:08,880
Speaker 1: they don't just do just that. Like niggas get up

1674
01:22:08,880 --> 01:22:10,840
Speaker 1: to some you got like there's a time, there's a

1675
01:22:10,880 --> 01:22:13,439
Speaker 1: curfew for you you married. It's like y'all niggas ought

1676
01:22:13,439 --> 01:22:16,200
Speaker 1: to get us to know good all right, twelve it's

1677
01:22:16,280 --> 01:22:18,560
Speaker 1: ten going ahead.

1678
01:22:18,240 --> 01:22:21,559
Speaker 4: And then broke me and I'm old. I will holler

1679
01:22:21,560 --> 01:22:22,519
Speaker 4: at y'all later like.

1680
01:22:22,479 --> 01:22:23,639
Speaker 2: It even before I was old.

1681
01:22:23,720 --> 01:22:25,559
Speaker 1: I've been married. We've been married since I was twenty one,

1682
01:22:26,200 --> 01:22:28,559
Speaker 1: and I've been coming home early since I was twenty one.

1683
01:22:29,240 --> 01:22:29,920
Speaker 2: Like fuck that.

1684
01:22:30,320 --> 01:22:32,599
Speaker 4: Like, niggas get into some shit that's just like y'all

1685
01:22:32,600 --> 01:22:33,519
Speaker 4: getting too crunk for me.

1686
01:22:33,840 --> 01:22:36,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, like I and I. And that's the thing. Sometimes

1687
01:22:36,240 --> 01:22:37,840
Speaker 1: you look at that married dude just like I'm gonna

1688
01:22:37,880 --> 01:22:39,280
Speaker 1: go ahead. Hang, You're like, all right.

1689
01:22:39,240 --> 01:22:42,000
Speaker 4: Dad, player, have a good time. I'm out.

1690
01:22:42,280 --> 01:22:45,240
Speaker 1: Good luck with that. You know, it depends on and

1691
01:22:45,280 --> 01:22:47,040
Speaker 1: it also depends on when you get married what you

1692
01:22:47,040 --> 01:22:49,559
Speaker 1: were into before. I'm not saying people need to completely change.

1693
01:22:49,560 --> 01:22:52,080
Speaker 1: I'm sure if you were staying out, you met her

1694
01:22:52,080 --> 01:22:53,640
Speaker 1: in the club, because y'all stay out till three in

1695
01:22:53,640 --> 01:22:55,800
Speaker 1: the morning every night or whatever the fuck, and that's

1696
01:22:55,800 --> 01:22:57,880
Speaker 1: what y'all gonna do when y'all married. That's cool. But

1697
01:22:57,920 --> 01:23:00,720
Speaker 1: I'm just saying there's just certain shit that y'all you

1698
01:23:00,760 --> 01:23:02,479
Speaker 1: don't need to be taking your ass over there to

1699
01:23:02,520 --> 01:23:04,640
Speaker 1: deal that. You know that your wife would not be

1700
01:23:04,680 --> 01:23:07,400
Speaker 1: approven of. But men, a lot of dudes will be

1701
01:23:07,520 --> 01:23:10,320
Speaker 1: like fuck that shit. You know. I'm sure there's some

1702
01:23:10,439 --> 01:23:12,280
Speaker 1: women like that as well, but I just know I

1703
01:23:12,280 --> 01:23:14,639
Speaker 1: can only speak on the man half of it because

1704
01:23:14,640 --> 01:23:17,080
Speaker 1: I don't really like I've never really been in a

1705
01:23:17,080 --> 01:23:19,120
Speaker 1: situation where I kicked it as with a group of

1706
01:23:19,160 --> 01:23:20,960
Speaker 1: women like on a regular but I have been in

1707
01:23:20,960 --> 01:23:22,879
Speaker 1: a situation where I kicked it with groups of men.

1708
01:23:23,080 --> 01:23:24,960
Speaker 1: And yeah, you could just be like, yeah, you're married,

1709
01:23:25,040 --> 01:23:27,360
Speaker 1: asking to go home with me. But if you're gonna

1710
01:23:27,360 --> 01:23:30,000
Speaker 1: stay out, go ahead, player. You know do you think

1711
01:23:30,640 --> 01:23:32,120
Speaker 1: I have a have a ball?

1712
01:23:32,479 --> 01:23:34,639
Speaker 5: And the thing is, you know, every now and then

1713
01:23:34,680 --> 01:23:36,439
Speaker 5: I hang out late, but a lot times if I

1714
01:23:36,479 --> 01:23:39,120
Speaker 5: hang out late, I'm in a safe environment, like you know,

1715
01:23:39,680 --> 01:23:42,439
Speaker 5: where I know everything's gonna be all right, you know.

1716
01:23:42,680 --> 01:23:44,920
Speaker 4: Versus if you're out and cert there was you be like, nah,

1717
01:23:45,000 --> 01:23:45,800
Speaker 4: I don't, I don't want to.

1718
01:23:45,920 --> 01:23:48,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you got real friends and they care about

1719
01:23:48,880 --> 01:23:51,360
Speaker 1: you and your happiness and your emotional well being, they

1720
01:23:51,360 --> 01:23:53,599
Speaker 1: should look out for you and be like don they'll tell.

1721
01:23:53,479 --> 01:23:54,040
Speaker 4: You to go home.

1722
01:23:54,040 --> 01:23:55,519
Speaker 5: They be like any time for you to get to

1723
01:23:55,560 --> 01:23:57,840
Speaker 5: your mate, you'd be like, you know what a how

1724
01:23:57,920 --> 01:23:58,400
Speaker 5: let you later?

1725
01:23:58,560 --> 01:24:01,719
Speaker 1: Looking at my clockt's whole thirty and that's pastor curfew.

1726
01:24:01,840 --> 01:24:05,040
Speaker 5: Bye, Yeah, right, it's time to hold all right, well,

1727
01:24:05,120 --> 01:24:06,960
Speaker 5: y'all go, y'all ho hold on on my.

1728
01:24:07,000 --> 01:24:10,599
Speaker 1: Mouth, right, Men are taught that feelings are a female

1729
01:24:10,640 --> 01:24:14,840
Speaker 1: thing music Johnson, whose husband often complains about her wanting

1730
01:24:14,880 --> 01:24:19,720
Speaker 1: to talk deep. Yeah, man, it's this archetype of masculinity

1731
01:24:19,720 --> 01:24:22,480
Speaker 1: that a lot of men are trying like this, John Wayne, masculinity.

1732
01:24:23,360 --> 01:24:26,080
Speaker 1: Y'all always trying to talk about emotions. Nigga were supposed

1733
01:24:26,080 --> 01:24:29,080
Speaker 1: to be together and have kids houses to get all

1734
01:24:29,080 --> 01:24:31,240
Speaker 1: this shit for the rest of our fucking life. You

1735
01:24:31,280 --> 01:24:32,680
Speaker 1: think you're gonna go through the rest of your life

1736
01:24:32,760 --> 01:24:35,840
Speaker 1: never talking about no emotional shit, you.

1737
01:24:35,840 --> 01:24:36,439
Speaker 4: Know what I mean?

1738
01:24:36,600 --> 01:24:38,760
Speaker 1: Like, I think a lot of times why when a

1739
01:24:38,800 --> 01:24:41,600
Speaker 1: tragedy happens to a couple, that's why they like split up.

1740
01:24:41,600 --> 01:24:44,080
Speaker 1: It's because if half of y'all is, like, I'm not

1741
01:24:44,120 --> 01:24:45,400
Speaker 1: even fucking talking about this.

1742
01:24:45,360 --> 01:24:48,120
Speaker 4: Shit, im discussing it, you can't get past it.

1743
01:24:48,920 --> 01:24:50,599
Speaker 1: You know, people talk about all the time you lose

1744
01:24:50,600 --> 01:24:52,800
Speaker 1: a child or something and the fucking couple breaks up.

1745
01:24:53,400 --> 01:24:54,960
Speaker 2: You know, this tragedy happens.

1746
01:24:55,000 --> 01:24:57,639
Speaker 1: It's like I know, And at the same time, there's

1747
01:24:57,680 --> 01:24:59,559
Speaker 1: a lot of couples I think make it because they

1748
01:24:59,560 --> 01:25:01,719
Speaker 1: have a tra and that's the first time a dude

1749
01:25:02,360 --> 01:25:04,080
Speaker 1: is like, I'm fucked up and I need to talk

1750
01:25:04,120 --> 01:25:04,479
Speaker 1: about it.

1751
01:25:04,600 --> 01:25:07,080
Speaker 4: I can't handle this, right, you know, I remember why.

1752
01:25:07,080 --> 01:25:10,400
Speaker 1: I interviewed the sex therapist on my medium talk and

1753
01:25:10,479 --> 01:25:13,120
Speaker 1: she talked about how infidelity in a lot of cases

1754
01:25:13,320 --> 01:25:17,080
Speaker 1: was the thing that saved people's marriages, not saying it's good,

1755
01:25:18,080 --> 01:25:21,800
Speaker 1: but like she's not recommending anybody be unfaithful, but she

1756
01:25:21,960 --> 01:25:24,719
Speaker 1: was like, a lot of times, that's when people actually

1757
01:25:24,760 --> 01:25:27,439
Speaker 1: have to admit they have problems. So then you have

1758
01:25:27,560 --> 01:25:29,200
Speaker 1: to go to therapy and y'all have to talk to

1759
01:25:29,240 --> 01:25:32,280
Speaker 1: each other. So now you're finally having talks about feelings

1760
01:25:32,280 --> 01:25:35,120
Speaker 1: and shit. Maybe a dude before that was like, I

1761
01:25:35,120 --> 01:25:38,479
Speaker 1: don't do feelings right, So now that I'm about to

1762
01:25:38,520 --> 01:25:42,599
Speaker 1: lose everything in my house, my wife, my marriage, my children, Okay, well,

1763
01:25:42,640 --> 01:25:45,759
Speaker 1: now I do want to tell you this is what happened,

1764
01:25:45,800 --> 01:25:49,680
Speaker 1: and this is why I messed up. So yeah, I

1765
01:25:49,800 --> 01:25:51,439
Speaker 1: just thought that. I just thought it was an interesting

1766
01:25:51,479 --> 01:25:53,439
Speaker 1: read this much longer than this. I won't get into

1767
01:25:53,439 --> 01:25:55,960
Speaker 1: the rest of it. We talked already a long time

1768
01:25:56,000 --> 01:26:01,400
Speaker 1: about it. But yeah, man, Harper's Bazaars, that article is

1769
01:26:02,439 --> 01:26:05,320
Speaker 1: so you guys might want to check it out if

1770
01:26:05,360 --> 01:26:08,960
Speaker 1: you get a chance. It's pretty cool. Oh man, we

1771
01:26:09,080 --> 01:26:11,800
Speaker 1: talked a while. Let's see when we got time to

1772
01:26:11,800 --> 01:26:16,400
Speaker 1: play some games. Any fucking with black people I wanted

1773
01:26:16,400 --> 01:26:20,960
Speaker 1: to do. Let's see, Uh you know what, yeah, fuck it,

1774
01:26:21,120 --> 01:26:25,880
Speaker 1: do some fucking with black people might as well. I

1775
01:26:25,960 --> 01:26:31,840
Speaker 1: know you blacks love this segment where's were music there

1776
01:26:31,880 --> 01:26:45,080
Speaker 1: we go, just fucking with those black people. Just fucking

1777
01:26:45,160 --> 01:26:49,639
Speaker 1: with those blacks. We're just fucking with fucking with black people.

1778
01:26:50,080 --> 01:26:51,920
Speaker 1: That's right, guys, trying to play the game we all

1779
01:26:51,960 --> 01:26:53,800
Speaker 1: hate to play. It's fucking with black people. The game.

1780
01:26:53,840 --> 01:26:55,920
Speaker 1: It goes all around the globe at the science point

1781
01:26:55,960 --> 01:26:58,000
Speaker 1: scores with zill ten one hundred intervals of twenty five

1782
01:26:58,120 --> 01:27:00,400
Speaker 1: how much we feel fucked with this black people for

1783
01:27:00,520 --> 01:27:08,559
Speaker 1: each article? Uh, today's contestants, everybody all right? W jay

1784
01:27:08,640 --> 01:27:13,240
Speaker 1: Z says anchor woman Mary Bubala is out in wake

1785
01:27:13,280 --> 01:27:16,759
Speaker 1: of her question about race, gender, and of recent Baltimore mayors.

1786
01:27:18,520 --> 01:27:22,000
Speaker 1: W jay Z anchorwoman Mary Bubalo came under five Thursday

1787
01:27:22,000 --> 01:27:24,439
Speaker 1: for a question she asked about the race, gender, and

1788
01:27:24,520 --> 01:27:27,559
Speaker 1: leadership of Baltimore's past three mayors. Is no longer with

1789
01:27:27,640 --> 01:27:30,400
Speaker 1: the station, according to an email sent to the Baltimore Son.

1790
01:27:32,160 --> 01:27:32,360
Speaker 3: UH.

1791
01:27:32,479 --> 01:27:35,040
Speaker 1: Mary Bubla is no longer with w j Z TV

1792
01:27:35,160 --> 01:27:38,000
Speaker 1: employee the station apologized to his viewers for her remarks.

1793
01:27:38,160 --> 01:27:41,880
Speaker 1: The criticism of Bubbalah started last week, UH in the

1794
01:27:41,880 --> 01:27:49,720
Speaker 1: wake of her anchor asking Loyola Loyola University Maryland all right, uh,

1795
01:27:49,760 --> 01:27:54,960
Speaker 1: and wake of her asking Loyola University Maryland professor Carsanya

1796
01:27:56,040 --> 01:28:00,160
Speaker 1: kay Wise Whitehead and on a question about the it's

1797
01:28:00,160 --> 01:28:03,160
Speaker 1: a gender of the past three Baltimore mayors. We've had

1798
01:28:03,200 --> 01:28:06,519
Speaker 1: three female African American mayors in a row. They were

1799
01:28:06,560 --> 01:28:09,760
Speaker 1: all passionate public servants. To resign though, Is this a

1800
01:28:09,800 --> 01:28:12,120
Speaker 1: signal that a different kind of leadership is needed to

1801
01:28:12,160 --> 01:28:13,400
Speaker 1: move Baltimore City forward?

1802
01:28:30,080 --> 01:28:30,320
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1803
01:28:30,400 --> 01:28:35,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, hun, she needs to lose that job. Yeah. I

1804
01:28:35,800 --> 01:28:37,360
Speaker 4: bet your day. I bet your day.

1805
01:28:37,400 --> 01:28:39,800
Speaker 5: Facebook and Twitter, I bet you they got lit up

1806
01:28:39,840 --> 01:28:44,600
Speaker 5: with complaints. The favorite thought was the reason why you

1807
01:28:44,640 --> 01:28:46,920
Speaker 5: got black women to get order, then maybe because that's

1808
01:28:46,920 --> 01:28:47,719
Speaker 5: what the city wants.

1809
01:28:47,760 --> 01:28:57,320
Speaker 1: Some crackers. How the fuck? How the fuck you're gonna

1810
01:28:57,320 --> 01:29:00,400
Speaker 1: wait till the black women to be like, isn't it

1811
01:29:00,439 --> 01:29:02,880
Speaker 1: time to go back to white men? I mean, is

1812
01:29:02,920 --> 01:29:06,800
Speaker 1: it this little experiment, this silly game that we're playing

1813
01:29:06,840 --> 01:29:11,639
Speaker 1: with black women pretending to be coat like mayor ventterial.

1814
01:29:11,760 --> 01:29:15,080
Speaker 1: Can we stop now, guys, I think we've had enough.

1815
01:29:16,560 --> 01:29:20,280
Speaker 1: Booble apologized on Twitter on Thursday because Nikki Mayo, who

1816
01:29:20,280 --> 01:29:23,120
Speaker 1: works at in TV news and as immediate past president

1817
01:29:23,160 --> 01:29:26,320
Speaker 1: of Baltimore Association of Black Journalists, posted a video on

1818
01:29:26,360 --> 01:29:31,360
Speaker 1: Twitter and it blew up the statement from Swain. Oh yeah. Meanwhile,

1819
01:29:31,760 --> 01:29:38,679
Speaker 1: silent WJZ remained silent as the BABJ on Monday posted

1820
01:29:38,680 --> 01:29:42,040
Speaker 1: a statement on this website labeling her question racist and sexist.

1821
01:29:42,800 --> 01:29:42,960
Speaker 5: Right.

1822
01:29:43,640 --> 01:29:46,200
Speaker 1: Booble a email the following statements, saying, in my twenty

1823
01:29:46,200 --> 01:29:48,920
Speaker 1: two years of working in TV news in Baltimore, fifteen

1824
01:29:48,920 --> 01:29:51,200
Speaker 1: of those years with W jay Z, I've always treated

1825
01:29:51,200 --> 01:29:53,719
Speaker 1: people with the utmost respecting dignity. I loved my job

1826
01:29:53,760 --> 01:29:56,320
Speaker 1: because I loved the people of Baltimore. Last week, I

1827
01:29:56,360 --> 01:29:58,240
Speaker 1: realized I made a mistake in the language I used

1828
01:29:58,280 --> 01:30:01,559
Speaker 1: on air. I immediately apologized for her I unintentionally caused.

1829
01:30:01,560 --> 01:30:04,839
Speaker 1: I received the media support from W jay Z because

1830
01:30:05,520 --> 01:30:08,559
Speaker 1: they knew it was not in my heart to intentionally

1831
01:30:08,560 --> 01:30:10,320
Speaker 1: cause the kind of harm. I wanted to do it

1832
01:30:10,400 --> 01:30:12,439
Speaker 1: on their apology, but was not allowed to help the

1833
01:30:12,479 --> 01:30:14,320
Speaker 1: people of Baltimore know that I would never do anything

1834
01:30:14,360 --> 01:30:17,599
Speaker 1: to hurt anyone. Unfortunately, I now stand in the past

1835
01:30:17,640 --> 01:30:21,360
Speaker 1: of the tornado w JYZ has forced to let was

1836
01:30:21,360 --> 01:30:23,439
Speaker 1: forced to let me go. They always do this, right,

1837
01:30:24,160 --> 01:30:27,800
Speaker 1: oh the blacks, and they're undir vitually all forced the

1838
01:30:27,840 --> 01:30:30,519
Speaker 1: station's hand. And I guess I have to pay for

1839
01:30:30,600 --> 01:30:33,920
Speaker 1: my mistake. Baltimore City has been my faith, my home

1840
01:30:34,840 --> 01:30:38,880
Speaker 1: for twenty five years, and I treasured it, uh And

1841
01:30:38,960 --> 01:30:41,200
Speaker 1: I treasured and am so grateful for the relationships I

1842
01:30:41,240 --> 01:30:43,679
Speaker 1: have made with the people of Baltimore during this time.

1843
01:30:45,200 --> 01:30:47,679
Speaker 1: I to fully intend to fight to restore my reputation

1844
01:30:47,720 --> 01:30:50,000
Speaker 1: because I've invested my art and soul in my work

1845
01:30:50,000 --> 01:30:52,479
Speaker 1: in my city. Thank you, Baltimore for all You know what, Dog,

1846
01:30:54,000 --> 01:30:55,800
Speaker 1: this is worse than Martin Luther Kuhn, Jr.

1847
01:30:56,120 --> 01:30:59,519
Speaker 2: Because that's not even a Fordian slip.

1848
01:31:00,439 --> 01:31:03,080
Speaker 1: You really asked that question because you thought it was relevant,

1849
01:31:03,120 --> 01:31:06,840
Speaker 1: Like being a black woman is obviously a problem with

1850
01:31:06,960 --> 01:31:10,400
Speaker 1: this mayoral position. Should we just stop having black women

1851
01:31:10,439 --> 01:31:11,120
Speaker 1: as mayors?

1852
01:31:11,840 --> 01:31:13,360
Speaker 2: The fuck kind of question is.

1853
01:31:13,320 --> 01:31:17,320
Speaker 4: That the women that the city elected.

1854
01:31:17,720 --> 01:31:20,519
Speaker 1: Like, why can we never ask that question about white people? Shit?

1855
01:31:21,320 --> 01:31:23,599
Speaker 1: Isn't it time that we just stopped having white men

1856
01:31:23,640 --> 01:31:25,360
Speaker 1: as president of the United States? After Trump?

1857
01:31:25,760 --> 01:31:27,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, they keep sucking it up.

1858
01:31:27,680 --> 01:31:30,160
Speaker 2: The last few white men that were president were pretty bad.

1859
01:31:32,120 --> 01:31:33,320
Speaker 2: Get the fuck out of here.

1860
01:31:33,680 --> 01:31:37,719
Speaker 1: One hundred and I know they fired us, so okay,

1861
01:31:37,760 --> 01:31:40,720
Speaker 1: you know, seventy five because they did fire her, But

1862
01:31:40,920 --> 01:31:43,920
Speaker 1: damn still good one.

1863
01:31:43,920 --> 01:31:44,519
Speaker 4: Hundred for me.

1864
01:31:44,800 --> 01:31:47,160
Speaker 5: You shouldn't have asked that question. You've been doing this

1865
01:31:47,160 --> 01:31:50,040
Speaker 5: for fifteen years. Your whole thing is words and integrity.

1866
01:31:50,120 --> 01:31:51,240
Speaker 5: You knew one hundred.

1867
01:31:52,240 --> 01:31:55,479
Speaker 1: Houston High School bands, hair rollers, sat in caps and

1868
01:31:55,479 --> 01:32:00,840
Speaker 1: pajamas for parents. Nationally acclaimed high school press standing by

1869
01:32:00,840 --> 01:32:03,519
Speaker 1: a new dress code she created, not for students before

1870
01:32:03,560 --> 01:32:09,719
Speaker 1: their parents. The code says a tie that is totally

1871
01:32:09,760 --> 01:32:13,360
Speaker 1: acceptable for totally unacceptable for the school setting will get

1872
01:32:13,360 --> 01:32:19,080
Speaker 1: parents kicked off campus. Parlota Outlet Brown of Black Women,

1873
01:32:19,840 --> 01:32:22,759
Speaker 1: is the principal of James Madison High School in Houston, Texas.

1874
01:32:22,960 --> 01:32:25,720
Speaker 1: She issued new rules earlier this month after one mother

1875
01:32:25,760 --> 01:32:28,479
Speaker 1: allegedly showed up at the school wearing a head wrap

1876
01:32:28,520 --> 01:32:31,240
Speaker 1: and a T shirt dress. The parental dress code applies

1877
01:32:31,320 --> 01:32:33,559
Speaker 1: only to the high school, not the rest of the district.

1878
01:32:33,840 --> 01:32:39,160
Speaker 1: While some supported others are in an uproar. Yeah, see,

1879
01:32:39,160 --> 01:32:41,880
Speaker 1: this is that thing that I don't like. What schools do.

1880
01:32:45,320 --> 01:32:48,360
Speaker 1: These zero tolerance type of policy things are just always

1881
01:32:48,360 --> 01:32:52,920
Speaker 1: a bad idea. You have one person that y'all don't like.

1882
01:32:53,240 --> 01:32:57,840
Speaker 1: Did this thing? You talk to her, she refused to comply.

1883
01:32:59,040 --> 01:33:03,400
Speaker 1: You gotta let it go. You did your best. But

1884
01:33:03,520 --> 01:33:06,200
Speaker 1: I guarantee you it wasn't some every parent that's showing

1885
01:33:06,280 --> 01:33:09,280
Speaker 1: up like this, so you didn't need to pass these rules.

1886
01:33:10,160 --> 01:33:11,840
Speaker 2: Two, what the fuck you gonna do.

1887
01:33:11,800 --> 01:33:13,479
Speaker 1: If somebody show up to see their kid but they

1888
01:33:13,479 --> 01:33:15,840
Speaker 1: got a head wrap on, they can't see their kid?

1889
01:33:15,960 --> 01:33:18,360
Speaker 1: Is that what about to happen? Cause? Uh, if you

1890
01:33:18,439 --> 01:33:21,840
Speaker 1: think you had problems before because you thought they were

1891
01:33:21,920 --> 01:33:25,360
Speaker 1: quote unquote acting ghetto, guess the fuck they about to

1892
01:33:25,400 --> 01:33:27,000
Speaker 1: act if you show up, if they show up to

1893
01:33:27,000 --> 01:33:29,280
Speaker 1: school and you'd be like, sorry, but your pants are

1894
01:33:29,240 --> 01:33:31,400
Speaker 1: sagging a little too much. Don't think you're gonna be

1895
01:33:31,400 --> 01:33:35,680
Speaker 1: able to see your daughter today? Okay, Okay, I'll be

1896
01:33:35,840 --> 01:33:37,799
Speaker 1: right back. The fuck.

1897
01:33:39,040 --> 01:33:41,519
Speaker 2: Oh my god, why put this in writing?

1898
01:33:41,800 --> 01:33:44,680
Speaker 4: Why that's the thing. You put it in writing, and

1899
01:33:44,760 --> 01:33:49,000
Speaker 4: that becomes the problem in my thing? I put like this,

1900
01:33:50,720 --> 01:33:52,320
Speaker 4: I don't attend your school.

1901
01:33:52,400 --> 01:33:55,200
Speaker 5: I'm not a child. I do not attend your school.

1902
01:33:57,120 --> 01:34:01,280
Speaker 5: Fuck your dress code. I'm sorry because dress goes me

1903
01:34:01,320 --> 01:34:04,880
Speaker 5: as a parent. I'm a parent, I've been to school.

1904
01:34:05,840 --> 01:34:10,479
Speaker 5: I shouldn't have a dress code. But at the same time, I.

1905
01:34:12,600 --> 01:34:13,679
Speaker 4: It's very frustrating.

1906
01:34:13,680 --> 01:34:18,439
Speaker 5: It's a catch twenty two because, like you said, instead

1907
01:34:18,479 --> 01:34:22,200
Speaker 5: of that one person just complying and being reasonable, they

1908
01:34:22,200 --> 01:34:26,360
Speaker 5: were unreasonable. So instead of the school being reasonable, the

1909
01:34:26,360 --> 01:34:27,800
Speaker 5: school became unreasonable.

1910
01:34:27,880 --> 01:34:28,439
Speaker 4: And that's how you go.

1911
01:34:29,280 --> 01:34:32,320
Speaker 1: I'm willing to bet money there is there aren't other

1912
01:34:32,360 --> 01:34:35,519
Speaker 1: parents just even would fucking apply until you start adding

1913
01:34:35,560 --> 01:34:37,519
Speaker 1: other shit on your dress code, because that's the other thing.

1914
01:34:37,960 --> 01:34:41,240
Speaker 1: Once you start putting shit in writing, people start going overboard.

1915
01:34:41,520 --> 01:34:44,720
Speaker 1: You can't just put okay, no T shirt dresses and

1916
01:34:44,760 --> 01:34:48,120
Speaker 1: no like having your hair and with rollers in it.

1917
01:34:48,400 --> 01:34:50,600
Speaker 1: You can't do that. Now you're like, you know what

1918
01:34:50,640 --> 01:34:52,840
Speaker 1: that's I don't like bonnets. Take that, put that on

1919
01:34:52,920 --> 01:34:57,040
Speaker 1: the uh scull caps. Get that out of there, doras

1920
01:34:57,080 --> 01:34:57,800
Speaker 1: put that on there.

1921
01:34:57,760 --> 01:34:59,320
Speaker 4: And see and see that becomes a problem.

1922
01:34:59,360 --> 01:35:02,080
Speaker 5: I'm rushing, so I got my hair wrapped up and

1923
01:35:02,080 --> 01:35:06,800
Speaker 5: and and then that's the thing you're you're causing unnecessary conflict.

1924
01:35:07,600 --> 01:35:09,880
Speaker 5: Otherwise the parent will be able to go to and

1925
01:35:09,880 --> 01:35:12,400
Speaker 5: fro like normal. But all of a sudden, this the

1926
01:35:12,439 --> 01:35:15,040
Speaker 5: morning time I'm rushing, I might tie my head up

1927
01:35:15,040 --> 01:35:17,080
Speaker 5: and I might comb it right before I go in. Now,

1928
01:35:17,120 --> 01:35:19,920
Speaker 5: all of a sudden, I'm or either I get a

1929
01:35:20,000 --> 01:35:22,559
Speaker 5: random call by something happened to my baby at school.

1930
01:35:22,840 --> 01:35:24,800
Speaker 5: I come in there, and I got to deal with

1931
01:35:24,880 --> 01:35:27,080
Speaker 5: the people telling me that I can't get to my child.

1932
01:35:27,120 --> 01:35:28,880
Speaker 4: Then I'm gonna cut a fucking food.

1933
01:35:28,760 --> 01:35:32,000
Speaker 1: Right, and this ain't lean on me man like this

1934
01:35:32,160 --> 01:35:38,040
Speaker 1: type of like you know TV show movie vice, like

1935
01:35:38,120 --> 01:35:41,320
Speaker 1: principal leaning and shit like this ship might be something

1936
01:35:41,360 --> 01:35:43,519
Speaker 1: that you know, people want to watch more than Freeman. Dude,

1937
01:35:43,520 --> 01:35:45,920
Speaker 1: they don't really want to watch. They don't want to

1938
01:35:45,960 --> 01:35:47,439
Speaker 1: have to be subjected to this ship today.

1939
01:35:47,439 --> 01:35:50,000
Speaker 5: School, No, And the thing is the way from what

1940
01:35:50,080 --> 01:35:52,240
Speaker 5: I hear, And this isn't a system live policy.

1941
01:35:52,439 --> 01:35:53,320
Speaker 1: Now it's her school.

1942
01:35:53,360 --> 01:35:57,280
Speaker 4: I just read, right, So this isn't the system wid policy.

1943
01:35:57,400 --> 01:35:58,519
Speaker 2: So what is no?

1944
01:35:58,920 --> 01:35:59,080
Speaker 3: Right?

1945
01:35:59,120 --> 01:36:03,680
Speaker 1: It's this one school and it's obviously mostly black. And

1946
01:36:04,040 --> 01:36:09,080
Speaker 1: I've read conflicting reports that like the mother's kid broke

1947
01:36:09,120 --> 01:36:11,000
Speaker 1: their arm. I don't know how true that is or not.

1948
01:36:11,280 --> 01:36:14,719
Speaker 1: I didn't, you know, I didn't see it in the articles.

1949
01:36:14,720 --> 01:36:18,320
Speaker 1: I saw it on social media, so I'm not sure if.

1950
01:36:18,240 --> 01:36:19,320
Speaker 4: That's true correct.

1951
01:36:19,479 --> 01:36:22,240
Speaker 1: But even if your kid don't got a broke arm,

1952
01:36:22,240 --> 01:36:24,479
Speaker 1: if you just like fucking have an emergency, you need

1953
01:36:24,520 --> 01:36:26,679
Speaker 1: to see your kid real quick, and you got time

1954
01:36:26,720 --> 01:36:29,280
Speaker 1: to change clothes, say hey, look, here's your school, here's

1955
01:36:29,280 --> 01:36:31,960
Speaker 1: your lunch money, or some shit like what the fuck

1956
01:36:32,040 --> 01:36:34,920
Speaker 1: I can't give my kid they lunch money now? So

1957
01:36:35,240 --> 01:36:38,439
Speaker 1: it's just kind of kind of ridiculous, And it definitely

1958
01:36:38,479 --> 01:36:42,559
Speaker 1: does feel racial, right because it is one school with

1959
01:36:42,680 --> 01:36:46,000
Speaker 1: black people, and it's one parent that was a black

1960
01:36:46,040 --> 01:36:49,080
Speaker 1: woman that you became that then became indicative of all

1961
01:36:49,120 --> 01:36:52,120
Speaker 1: the parents. And now none of the parents can violate

1962
01:36:52,160 --> 01:36:53,479
Speaker 1: this stupid ass dress code.

1963
01:36:53,840 --> 01:36:56,200
Speaker 2: And you already have a dress code for the kids.

1964
01:36:55,920 --> 01:36:57,880
Speaker 1: Which I'm fine with. I don't I'm not bothered by.

1965
01:36:58,640 --> 01:37:00,920
Speaker 1: When I was younger, I thought that was bad, But

1966
01:37:01,000 --> 01:37:03,200
Speaker 1: as I got older, I realized, like, that's not a

1967
01:37:03,200 --> 01:37:05,080
Speaker 1: bad thing to have a dress code for these kids,

1968
01:37:05,320 --> 01:37:07,280
Speaker 1: especially considering some of the trauma I went through as

1969
01:37:07,280 --> 01:37:11,360
Speaker 1: a black head with like our culture of joning motherfuckers

1970
01:37:11,400 --> 01:37:15,519
Speaker 1: that got the wrong shoes and the wrong jeans and

1971
01:37:15,520 --> 01:37:18,720
Speaker 1: the wrong like that's not good. And I'm sure they

1972
01:37:18,720 --> 01:37:20,920
Speaker 1: still find a way to make the joke on people,

1973
01:37:20,960 --> 01:37:22,960
Speaker 1: But the shit was just kind of out of hand

1974
01:37:23,080 --> 01:37:25,479
Speaker 1: when I was a kid. So if that's one burden

1975
01:37:25,520 --> 01:37:27,560
Speaker 1: we could take off these new kids good. I just

1976
01:37:27,600 --> 01:37:29,520
Speaker 1: don't understand what they got to do with the parents.

1977
01:37:29,520 --> 01:37:33,400
Speaker 5: Right, And then you're you're causing unnecessary confrontation and conflict

1978
01:37:33,439 --> 01:37:36,040
Speaker 5: that actually don't have to be there, right, you know,

1979
01:37:36,400 --> 01:37:41,000
Speaker 5: So now a parent comes in and now and you're

1980
01:37:41,040 --> 01:37:43,519
Speaker 5: actually causing the front desk in the front office a

1981
01:37:43,640 --> 01:37:46,280
Speaker 5: fucking extra work to do. So now instead of somebody

1982
01:37:46,320 --> 01:37:47,920
Speaker 5: just coming in signing and keep it a push, And

1983
01:37:47,960 --> 01:37:49,439
Speaker 5: now I got to look at you.

1984
01:37:49,479 --> 01:37:50,640
Speaker 4: Who gets the fuck what you got on?

1985
01:37:51,280 --> 01:37:53,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just and that's the other thing, Like I

1986
01:37:53,880 --> 01:37:56,240
Speaker 1: still don't lose sight of this, and I think everybody

1987
01:37:56,280 --> 01:37:59,320
Speaker 1: needs to put it in perspective. The vast majority of

1988
01:37:59,360 --> 01:38:02,880
Speaker 1: these parents aren't violating this shit anyway, right, So you

1989
01:38:03,000 --> 01:38:06,320
Speaker 1: made an issue out of nothing. Most like even the

1990
01:38:06,320 --> 01:38:07,800
Speaker 1: people that are like if I won't see my kids,

1991
01:38:07,800 --> 01:38:09,960
Speaker 1: you're gonna let me see my kids, Even you in

1992
01:38:10,000 --> 01:38:12,280
Speaker 1: the chat room saying that right now are probably not

1993
01:38:12,479 --> 01:38:15,519
Speaker 1: rolling up the school in a house cold slippers and

1994
01:38:15,560 --> 01:38:18,360
Speaker 1: your bondet. Most of us are still like, let me

1995
01:38:18,640 --> 01:38:21,040
Speaker 1: get a little bit presentable before I go to this school.

1996
01:38:21,680 --> 01:38:24,479
Speaker 1: Ninety percent of us. So why the fuck did you

1997
01:38:24,479 --> 01:38:28,160
Speaker 1: write this down? Cause you think there's something pathological about

1998
01:38:28,240 --> 01:38:31,479
Speaker 1: blackness and black people and this one black woman now

1999
01:38:31,560 --> 01:38:34,920
Speaker 1: has to represent all the quote unquote bad blacks and

2000
01:38:35,000 --> 01:38:37,360
Speaker 1: you want to show that you're tough and you're cracking

2001
01:38:37,400 --> 01:38:40,240
Speaker 1: down on the ghetto blacks and the bad blacks. I

2002
01:38:40,320 --> 01:38:43,080
Speaker 1: think that's how it feels to me. Maybe it's not that.

2003
01:38:43,160 --> 01:38:45,519
Speaker 1: Maybe some people feel totally different, but.

2004
01:38:45,520 --> 01:38:47,160
Speaker 2: I guarantee this doesn't even apply.

2005
01:38:47,240 --> 01:38:49,559
Speaker 1: It's like I want to look like I'm doing something

2006
01:38:50,280 --> 01:38:52,799
Speaker 1: more so than it's actually having an effect on people.

2007
01:38:53,080 --> 01:38:55,839
Speaker 1: Right Just tell that one tough Keisha to stop dressing

2008
01:38:55,920 --> 01:38:58,400
Speaker 1: like that and just leave it at that. Pull Keisha

2009
01:38:58,479 --> 01:39:00,960
Speaker 1: into the fucking office and be like, dn O, stop

2010
01:39:01,040 --> 01:39:02,920
Speaker 1: coming up here in your mother fuck your T shirt

2011
01:39:02,960 --> 01:39:07,360
Speaker 1: and panties, and we're good. That's what us. It's just

2012
01:39:07,520 --> 01:39:12,599
Speaker 1: what a black in America, guys, zero te hundred.

2013
01:39:12,400 --> 01:39:16,040
Speaker 5: Can oh, this is a one hundred for me for

2014
01:39:16,080 --> 01:39:18,280
Speaker 5: the fact that you put it in writing is a problem.

2015
01:39:18,840 --> 01:39:22,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, And she's a good principal, but that's the thing.

2016
01:39:22,479 --> 01:39:26,120
Speaker 1: She's been reportedly repeatedly honored for her work as an educator.

2017
01:39:26,240 --> 01:39:28,840
Speaker 1: In twenty fifteen, Ellen DeGeneres gave a one hundred thousand

2018
01:39:28,840 --> 01:39:31,960
Speaker 1: dollars check part of a homeless outreach program she established

2019
01:39:32,160 --> 01:39:34,680
Speaker 1: at a previous school. I just think some of this

2020
01:39:34,920 --> 01:39:39,280
Speaker 1: more like, you know, like we need to have a

2021
01:39:39,280 --> 01:39:41,559
Speaker 1: certain image. Type of shit goes along with a lot

2022
01:39:41,560 --> 01:39:46,120
Speaker 1: of these people in these platforms, and the power goes

2023
01:39:46,120 --> 01:39:48,160
Speaker 1: to people's head and it's like I can never be wrong,

2024
01:39:49,160 --> 01:39:51,160
Speaker 1: you know. And there's a lot of stuff like this,

2025
01:39:51,320 --> 01:39:54,599
Speaker 1: you know, like even Jeffrey Canada, who's done a lot

2026
01:39:54,640 --> 01:39:57,880
Speaker 1: for the kids, you know in New York with his

2027
01:39:58,240 --> 01:40:01,840
Speaker 1: like charter school program. There's a lot of respectability to

2028
01:40:01,920 --> 01:40:04,240
Speaker 1: it too, you know, like that stuff has been in

2029
01:40:04,360 --> 01:40:10,160
Speaker 1: black black revolutionary talk and black uplimed talk forever, you know,

2030
01:40:10,240 --> 01:40:16,360
Speaker 1: and it's not really going anywhere. Yeah, all right, let's

2031
01:40:16,360 --> 01:40:20,640
Speaker 1: get into let's get into some guests the rights, so

2032
01:40:20,680 --> 01:40:22,360
Speaker 1: you can get up out of here. I'm not gonna

2033
01:40:23,080 --> 01:40:25,880
Speaker 1: do anymore these fucking with black people. It's all down

2034
01:40:25,880 --> 01:40:30,040
Speaker 1: here from yeah, and I haven't watched the Sondra blind

2035
01:40:30,320 --> 01:40:31,160
Speaker 1: tape of her.

2036
01:40:32,040 --> 01:40:34,360
Speaker 2: Uh she recorded when she got arrested or whatever.

2037
01:40:35,040 --> 01:40:38,760
Speaker 1: But uh, just the fact that we're just now seeing it,

2038
01:40:39,160 --> 01:40:42,400
Speaker 1: I mean that's one hundred right, I mean they had

2039
01:40:42,400 --> 01:40:45,800
Speaker 1: that ship for what three four years? Down? Four years? Yeah,

2040
01:40:45,840 --> 01:40:50,479
Speaker 1: we never saw it till to day. Interesting. All right,

2041
01:40:50,520 --> 01:40:52,000
Speaker 1: let's say some guests the race.

2042
01:40:53,600 --> 01:40:58,040
Speaker 4: Now it's time for some guests the race. That's right,

2043
01:40:59,000 --> 01:41:02,759
Speaker 4: race time. Now that it is time.

2044
01:41:02,600 --> 01:41:04,280
Speaker 1: For some guests the race.

2045
01:41:05,120 --> 01:41:07,360
Speaker 4: That's right, his guest the race time.

2046
01:41:09,360 --> 01:41:13,360
Speaker 1: That's right, it's time for guest the race. The number

2047
01:41:13,360 --> 01:41:15,320
Speaker 1: one game show go across all the podcasts, and we

2048
01:41:15,360 --> 01:41:18,799
Speaker 1: read to play news articles from all over the world,

2049
01:41:19,000 --> 01:41:22,720
Speaker 1: and we asked our contestants to guess the race. And

2050
01:41:22,840 --> 01:41:26,040
Speaker 1: of course, uh, Karen in the chat room play and

2051
01:41:26,120 --> 01:41:29,719
Speaker 1: everyone playing his racist All right, here's the first one.

2052
01:41:30,400 --> 01:41:33,040
Speaker 1: A man who robbed a main bank Tuesday used his

2053
01:41:33,160 --> 01:41:35,559
Speaker 1: unsuspecting father as his getaway driver.

2054
01:41:36,080 --> 01:41:38,280
Speaker 4: Oh suspect. Also he wasn't in.

2055
01:41:38,360 --> 01:41:42,120
Speaker 1: On it, Nope. Joseph Donald Tilton was dropped off at

2056
01:41:42,240 --> 01:41:45,679
Speaker 1: Lewiston Bank by his father Keith in the afternoon. According

2057
01:41:45,680 --> 01:41:48,599
Speaker 1: to the NAFI, David Keith Tilton believed his son needed

2058
01:41:48,600 --> 01:41:52,559
Speaker 1: to cash a check, but what's the ski mask for? However,

2059
01:41:53,120 --> 01:41:56,040
Speaker 1: police said Joseph Tilton actually robbed the bank. The bank

2060
01:41:56,120 --> 01:41:58,760
Speaker 1: tell the teller Telle authorities that she thought the man

2061
01:41:58,800 --> 01:42:00,400
Speaker 1: was joking about the money because he's spoke in a

2062
01:42:00,439 --> 01:42:03,439
Speaker 1: low turn on to her. According to Son Journal, moments later,

2063
01:42:03,479 --> 01:42:07,760
Speaker 1: he allegedly demanded she give him the fucking money. He

2064
01:42:07,880 --> 01:42:10,120
Speaker 1: then jumped over the counter took the money from the

2065
01:42:10,160 --> 01:42:14,160
Speaker 1: tailor and the drawer. Keith dropped Joseph off at a

2066
01:42:14,160 --> 01:42:16,800
Speaker 1: different part of Lewiston before driving past the bank again.

2067
01:42:17,240 --> 01:42:19,439
Speaker 1: He was stopped by the police after his car master

2068
01:42:19,560 --> 01:42:21,960
Speaker 1: description of the vehicle used to leave the scene. After

2069
01:42:22,000 --> 01:42:25,400
Speaker 1: the alleged robbery, he wasn't charged in the crime. Joseph

2070
01:42:25,439 --> 01:42:27,400
Speaker 1: was charged with felony robbery. His accused of still at

2071
01:42:27,400 --> 01:42:29,920
Speaker 1: six hundred and twenty dollars. According to the Son Journal,

2072
01:42:30,320 --> 01:42:36,120
Speaker 1: Karen guessed the race of what's his name, Joseph Donald Tilton.

2073
01:42:36,760 --> 01:42:39,560
Speaker 5: White because they didn't charge the other person as sucessory.

2074
01:42:39,640 --> 01:42:41,000
Speaker 5: You know, they don't give a fuck if you knew

2075
01:42:41,080 --> 01:42:42,760
Speaker 5: or not. You're going to jail too if you're black.

2076
01:42:43,080 --> 01:42:46,160
Speaker 5: HA all right, let's check the chat room. I'm sorry, officer,

2077
01:42:46,280 --> 01:42:49,640
Speaker 5: I didn't know. I couldn't do that. White white took.

2078
01:42:49,400 --> 01:42:50,360
Speaker 2: His word for it.

2079
01:42:50,439 --> 01:42:54,679
Speaker 1: White Maine, white Maine, unassuming father, white as a snow

2080
01:42:54,760 --> 01:42:59,080
Speaker 1: up north, white, white, white, white, white, of course white.

2081
01:42:59,200 --> 01:43:14,960
Speaker 1: Everybody's going white on this and everyone's right like, I

2082
01:43:14,960 --> 01:43:17,240
Speaker 1: gotta be right back. I gotta make a quick withdrawal.

2083
01:43:18,880 --> 01:43:21,040
Speaker 1: And uh, when you when you come to pick me

2084
01:43:21,120 --> 01:43:23,400
Speaker 1: up dad, don't slow down, just unlock the doors and

2085
01:43:23,479 --> 01:43:27,960
Speaker 1: kind of slowly rolled like, don't don't stop right and.

2086
01:43:28,200 --> 01:43:30,680
Speaker 5: To an extent you knew his dad didn't know for

2087
01:43:30,760 --> 01:43:33,680
Speaker 5: the fact that they was like you drove back past it.

2088
01:43:33,880 --> 01:43:35,160
Speaker 4: That doesn't make any sense.

2089
01:43:35,600 --> 01:43:37,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's also like a like a movie or some

2090
01:43:37,880 --> 01:43:40,840
Speaker 1: ship cause like like how like if the cause are

2091
01:43:40,880 --> 01:43:43,760
Speaker 1: after you, like dad, make it right? Here? Where are

2092
01:43:43,760 --> 01:43:48,360
Speaker 1: we going? Son? To A right? Like, how's that? Oh

2093
01:43:48,439 --> 01:43:51,240
Speaker 1: my god, what a ridiculous thing. A right, Let's do

2094
01:43:51,360 --> 01:43:58,800
Speaker 1: another one. Uh, here's one and Ormond house h o

2095
01:43:58,920 --> 01:44:04,200
Speaker 1: A h A mean housing authority. I'll forget with us

2096
01:44:04,360 --> 01:44:05,360
Speaker 1: Homeowners Association.

2097
01:44:05,439 --> 01:44:06,360
Speaker 4: There we go.

2098
01:44:06,400 --> 01:44:07,960
Speaker 1: We don't own a house Ormond.

2099
01:44:09,200 --> 01:44:11,800
Speaker 4: I'm like, what is that? H O A PS.

2100
01:44:13,720 --> 01:44:21,320
Speaker 1: That farmers of America. Like Ormond HOA director is accused

2101
01:44:21,360 --> 01:44:23,440
Speaker 1: of firing a gun in a pool dispute.

2102
01:44:23,720 --> 01:44:25,479
Speaker 4: Oh shit shooting up at the pool.

2103
01:44:25,680 --> 01:44:29,920
Speaker 1: An Ormond Beach Homeowners Association director got a gun and

2104
01:44:29,960 --> 01:44:33,320
Speaker 1: fired a shot when two teenagers refused to leave a

2105
01:44:33,479 --> 01:44:38,160
Speaker 1: community swimming pool. No one was hit, but Richard S. Marcell,

2106
01:44:38,320 --> 01:44:41,200
Speaker 1: sixty six, is now charged with three counts evaggravated a

2107
01:44:41,280 --> 01:44:43,320
Speaker 1: saw with a daily weapon without intent to kill, and

2108
01:44:43,320 --> 01:44:45,840
Speaker 1: discharging the gun in public. If convicted, he could face

2109
01:44:45,920 --> 01:44:48,320
Speaker 1: up the five years imprisoned, possibly more since the gun

2110
01:44:48,360 --> 01:44:52,560
Speaker 1: was involved. Marcel, who lists Willow Run address in the

2111
01:44:52,640 --> 01:44:58,000
Speaker 1: Village subsection subdivision, was released posting thirty five thousand dollars ball.

2112
01:44:58,800 --> 01:45:01,200
Speaker 1: Julian Johnson, eighteen, who lives in the community, got a

2113
01:45:01,240 --> 01:45:04,679
Speaker 1: friend went to the pool around nine to fifteen pm

2114
01:45:05,160 --> 01:45:07,679
Speaker 1: to hang out. Johnson is allowed by the association rules

2115
01:45:07,680 --> 01:45:10,200
Speaker 1: to bring guests to the pool. Marcel drove up in

2116
01:45:10,240 --> 01:45:12,679
Speaker 1: his truck, walked out and told him the pool was closed,

2117
01:45:12,840 --> 01:45:15,400
Speaker 1: but Johnson and his guest noticed that a sign listed

2118
01:45:15,400 --> 01:45:18,400
Speaker 1: the pool rules and staid it was opening until ten pm. Marcell,

2119
01:45:18,439 --> 01:45:20,679
Speaker 1: who State record show, is a director of the village

2120
01:45:20,680 --> 01:45:23,760
Speaker 1: home own association told them that the board had voted

2121
01:45:23,800 --> 01:45:25,640
Speaker 1: to change the rules at a recent meeting, but the

2122
01:45:25,680 --> 01:45:28,439
Speaker 1: new rules were not posted yet. Johnson and his friend

2123
01:45:28,479 --> 01:45:31,639
Speaker 1: decided to rely on the sign and ignore Marcell. Marcel

2124
01:45:31,840 --> 01:45:34,320
Speaker 1: intercepted them as they tried to re enter the pool

2125
01:45:34,360 --> 01:45:37,920
Speaker 1: and displayed the small black revolver. Marcel then fired the

2126
01:45:37,920 --> 01:45:40,680
Speaker 1: gun into the dirt. Johnson and his friend left the

2127
01:45:40,720 --> 01:45:44,439
Speaker 1: area as Marcell followed them to their car. Johnson's friend asked, Marcel,

2128
01:45:44,600 --> 01:45:46,960
Speaker 1: did you really just shoot a gun? Marcelle said, yes,

2129
01:45:47,360 --> 01:45:52,400
Speaker 1: I'm putting my own life at risk for the pool. Also,

2130
01:45:52,479 --> 01:45:54,880
Speaker 1: how is that really putting your own life at risk?

2131
01:45:56,080 --> 01:46:02,080
Speaker 1: Maybe I don't understand how how that works. Anyway, care

2132
01:46:02,280 --> 01:46:06,599
Speaker 1: guess the race white and one hundred. Do you think

2133
01:46:06,640 --> 01:46:08,040
Speaker 1: it was some black kids at the fool and a

2134
01:46:08,080 --> 01:46:10,559
Speaker 1: white man? Yes? All right, let's take the chat room.

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01:46:10,880 --> 01:46:13,240
Speaker 2: One hundred, I mean white police in the pool. White.

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01:46:13,479 --> 01:46:16,479
Speaker 1: This man is so white, he probably says Nigro white.

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01:46:16,720 --> 01:46:19,000
Speaker 1: The teams were black, The shooter was white one hundred

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01:46:19,040 --> 01:46:21,759
Speaker 1: white black, definitely some white people.

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01:46:21,800 --> 01:46:23,280
Speaker 2: Shit white.

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01:46:23,360 --> 01:46:27,559
Speaker 1: He sounds alive and it's a hoa white He shot

2141
01:46:27,600 --> 01:46:29,479
Speaker 1: as some kids but didn't mean to kill the fuck

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01:46:29,520 --> 01:46:31,519
Speaker 1: out of here. He just got a he got a

2143
01:46:31,560 --> 01:46:35,360
Speaker 1: hood somewhere white red line that wouldn't say them white black?

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01:46:35,880 --> 01:46:38,920
Speaker 1: Uh what Karen said white? So two people went black,

2145
01:46:38,920 --> 01:46:41,880
Speaker 1: everybody else went white. Everyone who went white. You got

2146
01:46:41,920 --> 01:46:56,479
Speaker 1: it right if you said black.

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01:47:06,720 --> 01:47:09,559
Speaker 5: M m hmmm, yeah, because you were going pretty hard

2148
01:47:09,600 --> 01:47:10,559
Speaker 5: for a fucking pool.

2149
01:47:11,160 --> 01:47:11,360
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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01:47:11,439 --> 01:47:14,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, there was black children or young adults.

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01:47:14,720 --> 01:47:19,800
Speaker 1: Yep. Oh, I guess they didn't really make a splash

2152
01:47:20,360 --> 01:47:28,679
Speaker 1: with the Homeown Association there. I didn't want to cause

2153
01:47:28,680 --> 01:47:40,240
Speaker 1: any ways. Mm hmmm, that's terrible. And yeah, it feels

2154
01:47:40,280 --> 01:47:41,880
Speaker 1: like they were black. I didn't have a picture of

2155
01:47:41,920 --> 01:47:42,599
Speaker 1: the kids, but.

2156
01:47:42,640 --> 01:47:44,680
Speaker 5: My assumption that they was black because he went and

2157
01:47:44,760 --> 01:47:46,880
Speaker 5: really followed them to the car and chicked.

2158
01:47:46,600 --> 01:47:51,280
Speaker 1: Black right, shooting at them. Shot white kids.

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01:47:51,760 --> 01:47:54,080
Speaker 4: Never all right, bonus round.

2160
01:48:03,040 --> 01:48:10,240
Speaker 1: And the race, double upoll And that's right, double the points,

2161
01:48:10,240 --> 01:48:11,920
Speaker 1: double the race and the bonus round of guests. The

2162
01:48:11,960 --> 01:48:13,760
Speaker 1: race so far, Karen.

2163
01:48:13,520 --> 01:48:15,919
Speaker 4: Is two for two, very believe.

2164
01:48:18,080 --> 01:48:20,320
Speaker 1: But you did not make it three for three yesterday.

2165
01:48:20,600 --> 01:48:21,200
Speaker 4: No, I did not.

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01:48:21,920 --> 01:48:24,639
Speaker 1: So good luck today, Karen.

2167
01:48:25,160 --> 01:48:25,679
Speaker 4: Oh hope.

2168
01:48:25,760 --> 01:48:28,639
Speaker 1: So I think that the entire chat room is probably

2169
01:48:28,680 --> 01:48:36,200
Speaker 1: rooting for you right now. Of Florida man. Oh oh, Flora,

2170
01:48:37,360 --> 01:48:41,439
Speaker 1: let me love you to the morning. Come, Florida. Man

2171
01:48:41,680 --> 01:48:45,400
Speaker 1: was charged with attempted murder after shooting at deputies on

2172
01:48:45,439 --> 01:48:49,400
Speaker 1: an Instagram live stream. Oh shit, and he claims that

2173
01:48:49,479 --> 01:48:53,519
Speaker 1: it was all part of a sex game between him

2174
01:48:53,640 --> 01:48:57,559
Speaker 1: and his wife. What what they play like that?

2175
01:48:58,320 --> 01:48:59,320
Speaker 4: What they play like that?

2176
01:48:59,439 --> 01:48:59,639
Speaker 1: At?

2177
01:48:59,680 --> 01:48:59,840
Speaker 4: Now?

2178
01:49:00,880 --> 01:49:03,519
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what it'll make me come? Shooting at

2179
01:49:03,520 --> 01:49:09,320
Speaker 1: some cops. Laforcee Gray twenty three, has been behind bars

2180
01:49:09,360 --> 01:49:12,519
Speaker 1: since February after allegedly opened fire four deputies while felming

2181
01:49:12,560 --> 01:49:16,760
Speaker 1: himself for his Instagram fans. The officers had arrived at

2182
01:49:16,760 --> 01:49:20,040
Speaker 1: Grey's Orlando apartment over reports that he was beating his wife.

2183
01:49:20,439 --> 01:49:23,360
Speaker 1: Oh but now, Gray claims it was all part of

2184
01:49:23,360 --> 01:49:26,920
Speaker 1: their role playing adventures. In the four page letter to

2185
01:49:26,960 --> 01:49:30,719
Speaker 1: the judge of his case, Great claims that the very faking,

2186
01:49:30,800 --> 01:49:34,080
Speaker 1: outrageous accusations have been made against him, as he request

2187
01:49:35,439 --> 01:49:37,800
Speaker 1: the reason for this petition you are reading is in

2188
01:49:37,880 --> 01:49:40,719
Speaker 1: my hopes that you dismissed all charges against me at once.

2189
01:49:41,200 --> 01:49:46,080
Speaker 1: He writes. I feel like this's mofucker line. I think

2190
01:49:46,120 --> 01:49:49,240
Speaker 1: he was beating his wife. He did shoot at them cops,

2191
01:49:49,920 --> 01:49:53,000
Speaker 1: and this is now his newest iteration of like, nah,

2192
01:49:53,080 --> 01:49:55,280
Speaker 1: it was just a game, because even if it was

2193
01:49:55,280 --> 01:49:58,320
Speaker 1: a game, it's not like they would if you like, listen,

2194
01:49:58,400 --> 01:50:01,360
Speaker 1: I beat my wife. Okay, that was fake. That's part

2195
01:50:01,400 --> 01:50:04,400
Speaker 1: of the game we play. But the shooting the cops part,

2196
01:50:05,320 --> 01:50:08,680
Speaker 1: How's that part of the game? How like with the

2197
01:50:08,680 --> 01:50:10,320
Speaker 1: cops you know on the game too? Is that why

2198
01:50:10,320 --> 01:50:13,320
Speaker 1: you want to charge the drum? In the handwritten letter,

2199
01:50:13,360 --> 01:50:15,040
Speaker 1: Great claims that he and his wife Rachel have a

2200
01:50:15,080 --> 01:50:18,320
Speaker 1: low popular celebrity status in image, Rachel and I have

2201
01:50:18,400 --> 01:50:21,320
Speaker 1: a social media presence that where we off the role play.

2202
01:50:21,560 --> 01:50:24,320
Speaker 1: This type of roleplay even goes to the extent of

2203
01:50:24,439 --> 01:50:27,280
Speaker 1: Rachel using the stage name that I thought, which is

2204
01:50:28,080 --> 01:50:32,559
Speaker 1: Christina Rebecca Rossi. In our role play adventures, we have

2205
01:50:32,680 --> 01:50:36,679
Speaker 1: purchased specific items, added other members, and have acted out

2206
01:50:36,800 --> 01:50:39,480
Speaker 1: the acted the part in our video and online personalities.

2207
01:50:39,720 --> 01:50:41,519
Speaker 1: A lot of our role play adventures are for adult

2208
01:50:41,560 --> 01:50:44,960
Speaker 1: audiences because of the sexual nature we share. Grave reveals

2209
01:50:44,960 --> 01:50:48,000
Speaker 1: in the letter, which is obtained by WKMG, that some

2210
01:50:48,040 --> 01:50:50,479
Speaker 1: of his and Rachel's roleplay adventures can be found on

2211
01:50:50,760 --> 01:50:51,320
Speaker 1: porn Hub.

2212
01:50:52,360 --> 01:50:55,080
Speaker 2: He also claimed that he and.

2213
01:50:55,160 --> 01:51:00,799
Speaker 1: Rachel are recognized and approached almost everywhere we go. People

2214
01:51:00,880 --> 01:51:03,840
Speaker 1: have gone so far as to as far as autographs

2215
01:51:04,160 --> 01:51:07,799
Speaker 1: at pictures at places like Mars movie theaters, park restaurant,

2216
01:51:07,840 --> 01:51:11,120
Speaker 1: grocery stores, and many more places, including the courthouse and

2217
01:51:11,160 --> 01:51:14,960
Speaker 1: the neighborhood. He continues he has nearly sixty million followers

2218
01:51:15,000 --> 01:51:18,400
Speaker 1: between his two Instagram accounts, which features some pictures of

2219
01:51:18,400 --> 01:51:21,439
Speaker 1: his wife Rachel. She has more than thirty two thousand

2220
01:51:21,439 --> 01:51:24,960
Speaker 1: followers on her adult Twitter account. So how oh okay?

2221
01:51:25,040 --> 01:51:28,400
Speaker 1: So is he on Twitter? On the night of February thirteenth,

2222
01:51:28,400 --> 01:51:31,160
Speaker 1: twenty nineteen, Great claims he and Rachel were role playing

2223
01:51:31,640 --> 01:51:34,479
Speaker 1: in one of our many adventures. Absolutely no crimes are committed.

2224
01:51:34,520 --> 01:51:36,600
Speaker 1: I certainly didn't do anything to hurt Rachel, nor did

2225
01:51:36,680 --> 01:51:39,360
Speaker 1: I take her against her will for any reason whatsoever.

2226
01:51:39,479 --> 01:51:42,120
Speaker 1: Rachel is a princess in my world. Grey claims there

2227
01:51:42,200 --> 01:51:44,599
Speaker 1: was the four officers who attempted to murder him, claiming

2228
01:51:44,640 --> 01:51:48,599
Speaker 1: he assaulted Rachel. He also alleges that he was tackled

2229
01:51:48,640 --> 01:51:51,920
Speaker 1: and eaten alive by that dog. How you still alive it,

2230
01:51:52,080 --> 01:51:54,880
Speaker 1: though he doesn't know what that means. Police were call

2231
01:51:55,040 --> 01:51:59,360
Speaker 1: to Citra at Windermere Apartments after a man who was

2232
01:51:59,439 --> 01:52:01,960
Speaker 1: driving through the complex saw Rachel walking by and looked

2233
01:52:02,000 --> 01:52:04,479
Speaker 1: like she was in distress. She refused a man's help,

2234
01:52:04,520 --> 01:52:07,320
Speaker 1: but soon after ran back to ran back to his

2235
01:52:07,400 --> 01:52:10,160
Speaker 1: car after Gray left the couple's apartment and headed toward her.

2236
01:52:10,479 --> 01:52:12,680
Speaker 1: The man told police that Rachel got into his car

2237
01:52:12,720 --> 01:52:15,000
Speaker 1: said please help. Gray then open the door, dragged his

2238
01:52:15,040 --> 01:52:18,040
Speaker 1: wife out by the hair began punching her. Oh, that's

2239
01:52:18,040 --> 01:52:20,040
Speaker 1: just part of the Gamecaren, I guess the witness was

2240
01:52:20,080 --> 01:52:23,920
Speaker 1: in on it. Another witness saw Gray dragging Rachel down

2241
01:52:23,960 --> 01:52:26,000
Speaker 1: the street by her hair to their apartment and called

2242
01:52:26,080 --> 01:52:28,800
Speaker 1: nine one one the deputy. Well deputy arrived at the

2243
01:52:28,800 --> 01:52:31,799
Speaker 1: couple's apartment found them arguing in the garage. Gray ignored

2244
01:52:31,840 --> 01:52:33,960
Speaker 1: his commands and showed his head to show his hands,

2245
01:52:33,960 --> 01:52:37,320
Speaker 1: and three more debuties arrived. Gray began live streaming the incident,

2246
01:52:37,400 --> 01:52:39,880
Speaker 1: yelling at Rachel to tell the officers and that the

2247
01:52:39,880 --> 01:52:46,479
Speaker 1: witnesses were lying. Wow, I tried, she tells him. Okay,

2248
01:52:46,520 --> 01:52:49,200
Speaker 1: tell them, He shoots back, I need you to calm down.

2249
01:52:49,240 --> 01:52:51,000
Speaker 1: She pleased to help. I need you to tell them,

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01:52:51,000 --> 01:52:53,760
Speaker 1: he says again. The deputy's in pulled Rachel out of

2251
01:52:53,800 --> 01:52:56,479
Speaker 1: the garage, as Grey tells his followers y'all fit to

2252
01:52:56,560 --> 01:53:01,280
Speaker 1: see this shit live. Bro, I take one. I'll take

2253
01:53:01,320 --> 01:53:02,040
Speaker 1: one for the team.

2254
01:53:02,120 --> 01:53:02,280
Speaker 2: Yo.

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01:53:02,360 --> 01:53:04,520
Speaker 1: I swear to God, I swear the guy. He continues,

2256
01:53:04,880 --> 01:53:08,840
Speaker 1: Come here, Rachel, Come here. As an officer pulls Rachel away,

2257
01:53:08,920 --> 01:53:11,280
Speaker 1: Gray screens get your hands off of her, before multiple

2258
01:53:11,280 --> 01:53:14,439
Speaker 1: gun shots ring out. Bodycam footage revealed Gray had been

2259
01:53:14,439 --> 01:53:16,880
Speaker 1: holding onto a silver pistol with his right hand and

2260
01:53:16,920 --> 01:53:19,920
Speaker 1: pointed at deputies, firing off the first round. Deputy's fire

2261
01:53:20,000 --> 01:53:22,479
Speaker 1: back at Gray, but no one's injured. Destruct authority said

2262
01:53:22,520 --> 01:53:24,840
Speaker 1: they had to use a K nine to get Gray

2263
01:53:24,880 --> 01:53:28,040
Speaker 1: in The custody. Investigator said Rachel was uncooperative and deny

2264
01:53:28,240 --> 01:53:31,320
Speaker 1: anything happened after her husband was arrested. She also claimed

2265
01:53:31,360 --> 01:53:34,439
Speaker 1: Gray didn't have a gun. Oh God. Gray was charged

2266
01:53:34,479 --> 01:53:36,880
Speaker 1: with four council attempted murder on a law enforcement officer,

2267
01:53:36,960 --> 01:53:39,640
Speaker 1: domestic violence, and burglary. He's been held without bond. The

2268
01:53:39,720 --> 01:53:42,200
Speaker 1: judge denied his motioned this week, stating that Gray cannot

2269
01:53:42,240 --> 01:53:45,080
Speaker 1: foule motions on his own because he needs an He

2270
01:53:45,120 --> 01:53:52,120
Speaker 1: has an attorney, all right. Can't guess the race. What

2271
01:53:52,240 --> 01:53:53,120
Speaker 1: was his first name?

2272
01:53:54,160 --> 01:53:55,320
Speaker 2: It was Lafar's Gray.

2273
01:53:57,479 --> 01:54:00,200
Speaker 4: I think lafest is black and that woman's.

2274
01:54:00,560 --> 01:54:03,200
Speaker 1: Okay, let's see the chat room. See what they believe.

2275
01:54:05,400 --> 01:54:06,719
Speaker 4: By that name, the Forest.

2276
01:54:07,240 --> 01:54:10,360
Speaker 1: Fifty shades of what white nonsense is this? I mean

2277
01:54:11,240 --> 01:54:13,479
Speaker 1: you said he's black and the woman's white. That's what

2278
01:54:13,520 --> 01:54:18,320
Speaker 1: you said, gray worn. Oh they were white, white, black black.

2279
01:54:18,400 --> 01:54:19,679
Speaker 1: That name he lucky.

2280
01:54:20,120 --> 01:54:21,120
Speaker 4: He ain't dead with.

2281
01:54:21,120 --> 01:54:24,439
Speaker 1: His dumb shit on ig black. Oh, that's a black

2282
01:54:24,479 --> 01:54:27,160
Speaker 1: ass name. He's black and the black black black folks

2283
01:54:27,160 --> 01:54:30,559
Speaker 1: don't need to create danger. So he's white love Forest Whittaker.

2284
01:54:30,680 --> 01:54:34,680
Speaker 1: I shot her with my bad eye. Black black. That's

2285
01:54:34,680 --> 01:54:39,400
Speaker 1: a nigga name, Karen, I stay with you. Can I

2286
01:54:39,520 --> 01:54:44,200
Speaker 1: change ron Corbcia's white, Kobaccio's white. I don't know what

2287
01:54:44,200 --> 01:54:47,040
Speaker 1: that means. Cop went out of their way to make

2288
01:54:47,080 --> 01:54:49,280
Speaker 1: sure he survived. But that's a black ass name. So

2289
01:54:49,480 --> 01:54:52,960
Speaker 1: black the correct answer is and for the first time

2290
01:54:53,000 --> 01:54:55,640
Speaker 1: alone time, Karen, you're going three for three. He was

2291
01:54:55,720 --> 01:55:09,920
Speaker 1: black and as a bonus, she was white.

2292
01:55:09,960 --> 01:55:14,440
Speaker 4: Care I got the bonus.

2293
01:55:15,280 --> 01:55:19,480
Speaker 1: They were definitely doing some black dot com type of porn, right.

2294
01:55:19,360 --> 01:55:20,600
Speaker 4: That's what it sounded like.

2295
01:55:20,840 --> 01:55:23,520
Speaker 5: Because I was like, if there's a white man named

2296
01:55:23,520 --> 01:55:25,560
Speaker 5: the Forest, I'm wanting to go down with the ship

2297
01:55:25,560 --> 01:55:26,080
Speaker 5: on that one.

2298
01:55:26,200 --> 01:55:28,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, she was one of them POGs too. You could

2299
01:55:28,400 --> 01:55:30,480
Speaker 1: tell what kind of foreign they was into. I've never

2300
01:55:30,520 --> 01:55:32,800
Speaker 1: seen it, I don't think uh. And of course many

2301
01:55:32,840 --> 01:55:46,400
Speaker 1: of you missed it and said white. If y'all want

2302
01:55:46,400 --> 01:55:49,760
Speaker 1: to see some of this is uh, this is him

2303
01:55:49,760 --> 01:55:51,600
Speaker 1: and his girl dimes big l a.

2304
01:55:52,440 --> 01:55:55,520
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's that. She definitely that

2305
01:55:55,640 --> 01:55:56,400
Speaker 4: pog genre.

2306
01:55:56,600 --> 01:56:00,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're definitely doing some some type of some type

2307
01:56:00,280 --> 01:56:07,600
Speaker 1: of interracial stuff. She might be Latina no, but either way.

2308
01:56:10,640 --> 01:56:13,240
Speaker 1: And that's the pictures of his instagram. This is the

2309
01:56:13,360 --> 01:56:16,560
Speaker 1: instagram when they were when the cops were there, before

2310
01:56:16,560 --> 01:56:19,600
Speaker 1: they started shooting at the cops. Wow, damn, you can

2311
01:56:19,680 --> 01:56:22,040
Speaker 1: tell people we care about you, fam bro, calm down,

2312
01:56:22,080 --> 01:56:25,920
Speaker 1: he really needs a chill. Of course, somebody cartel dot

2313
01:56:25,960 --> 01:56:30,200
Speaker 1: funds bus back. Of course, of course.

2314
01:56:30,240 --> 01:56:32,520
Speaker 4: Bad influence. Don't don't don't listen to that follow us.

2315
01:56:32,640 --> 01:56:34,120
Speaker 1: This is all I'll be trying to tell y'all. These

2316
01:56:34,120 --> 01:56:36,720
Speaker 1: mother fucking followers there.

2317
01:56:36,680 --> 01:56:39,879
Speaker 4: They don't care if you die, live on your stream, ruin.

2318
01:56:39,720 --> 01:56:42,200
Speaker 1: Your life real quick, nigga. It's funny. It'll be a

2319
01:56:42,280 --> 01:56:45,040
Speaker 1: thing I can tweet about for two seconds, y'all, won't

2320
01:56:45,040 --> 01:56:47,000
Speaker 1: believe what I just saw, So then I can I

2321
01:56:47,120 --> 01:56:51,720
Speaker 1: repeat right? Oh man, the cops were tripping. Bruh, you

2322
01:56:51,880 --> 01:56:54,120
Speaker 1: dead man. I'm gonna miss you like fuck out of

2323
01:56:54,160 --> 01:56:58,480
Speaker 1: here playing with my life and ship. Anyway, let's do

2324
01:56:58,680 --> 01:57:24,480
Speaker 1: SOI ratchetness and wrap this up. Santa Barbara County authorities

2325
01:57:24,520 --> 01:57:27,400
Speaker 1: arrested the man after reports he brandished the samurai sword

2326
01:57:27,520 --> 01:57:29,880
Speaker 1: during an argument outside of McDonald's in the city of

2327
01:57:29,920 --> 01:57:30,440
Speaker 1: go Letter.

2328
01:57:30,800 --> 01:57:33,920
Speaker 2: Oh go Letter, Well, go Letter, the home.

2329
01:57:33,800 --> 01:57:36,400
Speaker 1: Out of here. I don't know, okay, forgot know that.

2330
01:57:36,200 --> 01:57:38,800
Speaker 4: That's not like, that's the middle of nowhel go.

2331
01:57:38,920 --> 01:57:48,160
Speaker 1: Let a nigga get a gun. The Sheriff's office says,

2332
01:57:48,280 --> 01:57:52,600
Speaker 1: deaths find it. Around eight twenty pm Tuesday, the reports

2333
01:57:52,640 --> 01:57:54,720
Speaker 1: of a man armor a samurai said who was involved

2334
01:57:54,720 --> 01:57:58,800
Speaker 1: in a verbal dispute with another man. The suspects fled

2335
01:57:59,120 --> 01:58:01,440
Speaker 1: at an extensive search for Gang eight to by police

2336
01:58:01,480 --> 01:58:04,120
Speaker 1: dogs a helicopter in the California Highway Patrol officer, so,

2337
01:58:04,160 --> 01:58:08,480
Speaker 1: I guess it's California, okay. Residents of old Town go

2338
01:58:08,640 --> 01:58:11,680
Speaker 1: Letter was sent an emergency notification to shelter in place

2339
01:58:12,200 --> 01:58:14,680
Speaker 1: at air Trak train service was temporarily halted because The

2340
01:58:14,680 --> 01:58:17,600
Speaker 1: search was near the railroad tracks. A suspect was arrested

2341
01:58:17,640 --> 01:58:20,360
Speaker 1: at gunpoint around ten fifteen pm and jail. The sword

2342
01:58:20,520 --> 01:58:21,880
Speaker 1: was determined to be a wooden rappor.

2343
01:58:21,960 --> 01:58:23,560
Speaker 4: Gu Oh yeah, you know, gold Letter was one of

2344
01:58:23,600 --> 01:58:24,680
Speaker 4: them sundown town.

2345
01:58:24,760 --> 01:58:27,200
Speaker 5: That's that sounded like well known places where they be

2346
01:58:27,240 --> 01:58:28,879
Speaker 5: having them gun offs and shit.

2347
01:58:29,320 --> 01:58:33,240
Speaker 1: Go Letter, it's your birthday. I don't know what a

2348
01:58:33,280 --> 01:58:34,200
Speaker 1: gun off is.

2349
01:58:34,400 --> 01:58:38,480
Speaker 5: But I mean, you know the old Westerns, were they

2350
01:58:38,520 --> 01:58:40,800
Speaker 5: staring at each other a showdown?

2351
01:58:41,520 --> 01:58:44,800
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, my gun off for a gun off?

2352
01:58:44,920 --> 01:58:45,320
Speaker 4: You know what.

2353
01:58:45,480 --> 01:58:50,320
Speaker 1: That's it, guys, carryings reached maximum capacity day. We'll be

2354
01:58:50,400 --> 01:58:53,400
Speaker 1: back tomorrow recapping Gamer Thrones.

2355
01:58:53,440 --> 01:58:56,040
Speaker 4: The ship I really want to hear right, not being

2356
01:58:56,200 --> 01:58:57,400
Speaker 4: my bad jokes over here.

2357
01:58:58,000 --> 01:59:00,360
Speaker 1: Uh, that's not even a joke. You just messed up off.

2358
01:59:00,440 --> 01:59:03,560
Speaker 1: It's not a thing gun off.

2359
01:59:04,680 --> 01:59:07,120
Speaker 4: The y'all can't guns at each other's ship. Somebody shoot.

2360
01:59:07,160 --> 01:59:09,920
Speaker 1: That's what Detroit has when the mayor or election is tied.

2361
01:59:09,960 --> 01:59:11,600
Speaker 1: They don't have a runoff, they have a gun off

2362
01:59:13,200 --> 01:59:14,480
Speaker 1: like first best man win.

2363
01:59:15,400 --> 01:59:16,960
Speaker 4: You know who sponsors this, the NRA.

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01:59:17,000 --> 01:59:21,000
Speaker 1: All right, y'all, we'll be back tomorrow. Nick Jo's gonna

2365
01:59:21,000 --> 01:59:23,360
Speaker 1: be our guest when we recap Game of Thrones, so

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01:59:23,440 --> 01:59:26,560
Speaker 1: we'll talk to y'all then until next time.

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Speaker 4: I love you, I love you, nah