WEBVTT - EP 321: Anal From An African (Ft. The Just Us Pod)

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<v Speaker 1>Today's pisode, if you're watching on the YouTube, is a

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<v Speaker 1>very hungover one.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm over, Oh, Mandy's still drunk. This ship is from

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<v Speaker 2>twenty minutes ago.

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<v Speaker 1>And all of us are wearing sunglasses and the podcast

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<v Speaker 1>is giving I went.

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<v Speaker 3>Out last night and this morning and brunch, and hey, y'all,

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<v Speaker 3>welcome to Horror Black Homes. I'm your girl, Mandy b

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<v Speaker 3>aka for cork Pumps, AKA that bitch ak a get

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<v Speaker 3>a T shirt?

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<v Speaker 2>Excuse me, AKA, I need to have a full T shirt.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the do you want a full T shirt? Mandy

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<v Speaker 1>looked like she's auditioning for Battie's ease. We're not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do that. We're not gonna do that.

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<v Speaker 4>We're not gonna do that.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so you don't no, because I ain't got the

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<v Speaker 3>vesseline in my back pocket to put on my face

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<v Speaker 3>to beat you bitches up.

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<v Speaker 2>You used to do that back in the day because

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<v Speaker 2>I used to. I know I.

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<v Speaker 3>Lay Anyways, what's crazy is uh, full sets do not

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<v Speaker 3>cost the same as they used to. I'm not fighting,

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<v Speaker 3>but this is also wine ball headed because if y'all

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<v Speaker 3>listen to the pod, y'all know I pull that ponytail

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<v Speaker 3>out of Weezy's head when we thought and won't do

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<v Speaker 3>it again.

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<v Speaker 2>And did up. So why you got it from the back,

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<v Speaker 2>We have from the front. Bitch, be real clear, get

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<v Speaker 2>up and fuck you won't. We have guests today y'all

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<v Speaker 2>here in the l A, Los Angeles. We have Hambro,

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<v Speaker 2>we have Jacob and.

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<v Speaker 3>Podcast joining us, and baby, what's up?

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<v Speaker 2>What's up?

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<v Speaker 3>He was drinking, So to be fair, I started with

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<v Speaker 3>the bear because I was just like, I'm watching. First off,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm watching the game and I'm just rooting. I'm like

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<v Speaker 3>wings and beer, let's do it. And then a nigga

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<v Speaker 3>that I know from the pasts come in with his

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<v Speaker 3>little boo thing.

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<v Speaker 2>So we talked, we catch up. Did she see she spoke?

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<v Speaker 2>We had the same name. So did she know y'all? No, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>no no no no, no, no, no, no this but y'all

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<v Speaker 2>said a friend. I ain't saying a boo this is

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<v Speaker 2>you said a nigga from the past like that? I did.

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<v Speaker 2>I just know.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, that wasn't given friendship. Okay, it's pure friendship. Never

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<v Speaker 3>fuck this man. So he walks in. I say, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>they sit at the bar.

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<v Speaker 2>It's given. Do you want a shot? I don't care

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<v Speaker 2>if she want one, but does she want one?

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<v Speaker 3>She ain't want one, So we take a shot, and

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<v Speaker 3>then the Jason Lee comes into and then he's bougie,

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<v Speaker 3>so he gets bottle service.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, I'm not sitting he said, I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>sitting at the bar. So we we was drinking, We

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<v Speaker 2>was catching up and what's the story? Man?

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<v Speaker 4>There was supposed to be a story. It was given Climagne.

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<v Speaker 4>She was like, so I was out and we were like,

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<v Speaker 4>oh yeah, no, no, no, no, a nigga from the past. No.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was basically you went to a bar. I

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<v Speaker 2>went to a bar.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm in La and I saw niggasn't And I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, Wow, I didn't know people came here like that.

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<v Speaker 2>But can I talk about it? We've gone there before.

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<v Speaker 3>Like every time I come to La, Jacob will pull

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<v Speaker 3>up on me and just do drinks and do a

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<v Speaker 3>shot and take me right around this little l shape

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<v Speaker 3>where I'll be staying in because I don't like to

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<v Speaker 3>go too far, and we just get drunk.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, you didn't go to Herbibi last time, though we

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<v Speaker 4>went to west Woods. We did after the show.

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<v Speaker 2>We did go after the show wherever? That is that

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<v Speaker 2>what it's called. I was about to the niggas and

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<v Speaker 2>about to get canceled. Who you calling her? Bb? Is

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<v Speaker 2>that where we was at?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, there are lots of call places that yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>but it's like a name of aboutga hawk shop.

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<v Speaker 2>But is that not like say welcome hevb wow means

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<v Speaker 2>sweetheart something like that.

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<v Speaker 3>I ain't never been to a place called bi racial

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<v Speaker 3>or mulatto or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean. I'm just saying, and I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like that, Danny, what her BB means? What this? Wait?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you her bb? Wait? What is a hood bb?

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<v Speaker 4>I think it means sweet or I even went to

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<v Speaker 4>a wolong the other day and the lady just kept saying,

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<v Speaker 4>why about calling her bibe like every five minutes? I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know, Wait, you're abe my love guests. Yeah, she

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<v Speaker 4>kept saying, like hebibie. Okay, why is that considered offensive?

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody said it was. We need no when you call

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<v Speaker 2>certain people herbibe is offensive the bibies.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyway, y'all welcome to the pile. We're gonna talk all

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<v Speaker 3>things thoughts.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you hold on? No, we not No, we're not.

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<v Speaker 2>We're talking about sugaring, todaby, but stop it. That's not ship. No,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not class. I'm a class.

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<v Speaker 3>Just because y'all call it sugaring does not mean it's

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<v Speaker 3>not prostitution.

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<v Speaker 2>But let's get through it.

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<v Speaker 4>I do want to know, though, you guys have a podcast,

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<v Speaker 4>how did y'all link up for the Justice Spot?

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<v Speaker 2>Just being friends? We'll being friends for a long time.

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<v Speaker 4>And then I had my podcast Brian and Jacob Skears,

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<v Speaker 4>and then she came on and was a guest, and

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<v Speaker 4>then we were already talking about having a podcast together,

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<v Speaker 4>but she was like, okay, firm were going to we're

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<v Speaker 4>gonna do and then she came on on She's like,

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<v Speaker 4>I think I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 2>So then we just started it and yeah, there we are.

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<v Speaker 4>Now what is your podcast for so twenty it's an

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<v Speaker 4>unapologetic raw podcast, uncut.

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<v Speaker 2>You come on and say what you want to circumcised podcast? Well,

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<v Speaker 2>you know that's me.

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<v Speaker 4>But you could take off your wig. Just make sure

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<v Speaker 4>you're shampooed and condition No dan drift on the furniture. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>come as you are as you are, so we open

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<v Speaker 4>it up to absolutely you. You got a man, a

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<v Speaker 4>little situation. You got a situation.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, how long this situation will happened? In six months? Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah it's new. Yeah? You like him? Yeah? Five? How

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<v Speaker 2>are you? I hold you? Bitch? You like me? I'm

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<v Speaker 2>doing the same thing right now. But it's a good time.

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<v Speaker 2>It's cute, giving, so it's not getting toxic. I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>gonna lie five isn't bad. It's your twenty two.

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<v Speaker 3>No. But the gen Zers that's where I said, Like

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<v Speaker 3>he said, he texts better than he talks, so I'm

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<v Speaker 3>like having to work through like the communication.

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<v Speaker 2>Of it all.

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<v Speaker 1>He texts, that's what That's how they learned how to communicate.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like I think they like the gen Zers that

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<v Speaker 3>anyone belowed, like twenty seven, I would say, the way

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<v Speaker 3>they communicate, the social media of it.

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<v Speaker 2>All, like how they view relationships.

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<v Speaker 3>A lot of them now we've seen La Chopa talking

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<v Speaker 3>about it, but a lot of them are open to

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<v Speaker 3>different type of relationships that aren't traditional. They're open to

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<v Speaker 3>trying new things. But their communication sucks. They want to

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<v Speaker 3>fucking text and snapchat and WhatsApp.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know niggas really still snapchat? Oh it yet?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I've been snapchat. Oh why what's you for?

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<v Speaker 4>Dix Ah that too, but also just for fine. But

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<v Speaker 4>also now I feel like I'm that girl. You can't

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<v Speaker 4>screenshot me or save my pictures? Hello, meet me on Snapchat?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't stem like can't Yeah, but then once you

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<v Speaker 3>see it, like if you a nigga, who's gonna screenshot

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<v Speaker 3>my shit?

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<v Speaker 2>You not the nigga for me.

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<v Speaker 3>We talked about this when we were talking about the

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<v Speaker 3>the Depth. What is it called the depth something? What

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<v Speaker 3>was the shit we were talking about? Deepay, the Deep thinks?

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<v Speaker 4>So what is that, Prescott?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know the Deep thinks? Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>And so to me now, knowing that we have this

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<v Speaker 3>big platform, I'm not gonna just be talking to just

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<v Speaker 3>anybody and sending nudes and like seeing too that people

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<v Speaker 3>are monetizing off of all these things on their on

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<v Speaker 3>even their OnlyFans and platforms. Now I feel safer talking

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<v Speaker 3>to people where everything's just exchanged. There's got to be

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<v Speaker 3>a better ho app than stapchat signal. But that's what

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<v Speaker 3>the drug dealers.

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<v Speaker 2>It is, not all y'all knowing the same. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>you know what.

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<v Speaker 1>I really hate when you finally get a new drug

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<v Speaker 1>dealers number and they send you like you're like, oh hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm hitting up for the mess and then you send

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<v Speaker 1>us copy and places.

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<v Speaker 2>Like here's the listener what I got?

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<v Speaker 1>Like when you're texting me, please do pizza science for this,

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<v Speaker 1>Like nigga what this is too much?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you have it or not?

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<v Speaker 4>I'll be working all the time in third party because

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<v Speaker 4>you know I don't do none of that. But my

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<v Speaker 4>friends do you know, I make my cut, so I

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<v Speaker 4>got it. Let them know, like meet me and the

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<v Speaker 4>signal happened.

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<v Speaker 2>This is what they have. But I didn't even know

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<v Speaker 2>that that's a real thing. Like they really have a list,

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<v Speaker 2>Like you're at a restaurant.

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<v Speaker 3>Ye, delivery, Like if you order a certain amount, it's delivery. No,

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<v Speaker 3>it'd be cool.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't know you're supposed to tip a drug dealer either. Wait,

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<v Speaker 4>they want to be two. It said tips are welcome

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<v Speaker 4>real quick when you get sugared when you prostitute and

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<v Speaker 4>naked tips too right? I never prostitute, Like I never Okay, okay, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>classic sex work.

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<v Speaker 2>What are we doing here? Like y'all want to add

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<v Speaker 2>that it's a fucking.

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<v Speaker 1>In the I do think there's a level that though sex.

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<v Speaker 4>I've had sex before for money, but that's not how

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<v Speaker 4>That's not what I am doing.

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<v Speaker 2>No sugaring.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll get into it well before we do it. Do

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<v Speaker 3>do you want to do an icebreaker? Can we like

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<v Speaker 3>let the audience know how freaking these two is before

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<v Speaker 3>they like, we just.

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<v Speaker 2>Want to know one question. Okay, eating asks or sucking toes?

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<v Speaker 2>Which way you're doing? Second towels, I like tows really.

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<v Speaker 3>Off the off the GP like even during casual sex

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<v Speaker 3>to you second to it often?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, yeah, I only want to mess with females not

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<v Speaker 4>but guys, I don't really like it.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't suck melts, so they don't like it. We

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<v Speaker 3>see your body, I have fun. Oh we're gonna have.

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<v Speaker 2>What how you.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't had an experience where one time, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>they start bleeding and so I calmed that day.

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<v Speaker 3>Who yeah, yeah, it was the last time you dealt

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<v Speaker 3>with a girl with these size fingernails about.

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<v Speaker 2>A year and a half ago, with this with this

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<v Speaker 2>going on.

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<v Speaker 3>So wait, you were fingering her and she started bleeding

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<v Speaker 3>you cut her up?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I felt really, this is why we gotta talk.

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<v Speaker 2>You need to be you know what, thoughtful because.

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<v Speaker 4>Even let you do that wouldn't have even let it

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<v Speaker 4>was drunk all to wait, So were you like, is

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<v Speaker 4>this her period? No?

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<v Speaker 2>I knew did because at first it wasn't like that

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<v Speaker 2>and then it happened and I'm like, oh oh, and

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<v Speaker 2>it was all on your nails. It was in my nails.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you don't have to do that anymore about a

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<v Speaker 4>done deal, done deal.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll talk off.

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<v Speaker 3>By the way, every time I go to the nail tech,

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<v Speaker 3>they'd be like you bray hair. I'd be like, they'd

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<v Speaker 3>be like you type of like. I'd be like, I

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<v Speaker 3>just but they have all the excuses except the fun

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<v Speaker 3>that I finger bootle holes and pus the hole?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you not do you not need another dominant finger?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it just the index and middle?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not gonna lie like not many people want three fingers.

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<v Speaker 3>And by the time I'm sticking to maybe by that point,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm bringing a butt plug, I'm bringing a dial dough.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe the toys are being introduced.

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<v Speaker 3>Two is normally enough, especially for the bootlehole, but for

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<v Speaker 3>girls to three, I find myself us, well, well, huh, hello,

0:11:46.720 --> 0:11:50.959
<v Speaker 3>why do you give? Because dick is normally bigger than

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<v Speaker 3>this and I hello, hello hello. But even when we

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<v Speaker 3>had what's crazy is even when we had have and

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<v Speaker 3>a ginger on the pod. A lot of women ironically

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<v Speaker 3>don't like being fingered. Maybe a lot of men are

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<v Speaker 3>really aggressive when they do it, or.

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<v Speaker 2>People are aggressive when they finger, but like a.

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<v Speaker 3>Lot, they've been called up scratched up, like motherfucker, says

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<v Speaker 3>the hen. But I find a lot of women actually

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<v Speaker 3>don't really prefer to be fingered. I'm a finger because

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<v Speaker 3>I like penetration, but a lot of women actually don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we don't really have and we as and

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<v Speaker 1>like women historically scientifically don't have as many orgasms vaginally.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think that's why sometimes the finger is like,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, when are you gonna get with it doing?

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<v Speaker 2>What are you doing? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>So speaking of toes and she like them, bitch, we

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<v Speaker 1>all seen this shit pop up. I feel like a

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<v Speaker 1>few weeks ago with the hotel manager, did y'all see

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<v Speaker 1>this with toes? It's our Vandentella ship, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>so our vanilla shit this week, which is our sex

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<v Speaker 1>and the news segment is all about a man in Tennessee,

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<v Speaker 1>a hotel manager who facing charges after sneaking into a

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<v Speaker 1>guest room and sucking on their toe.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just glad this is shit up.

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<v Speaker 1>Fifty two year old David Neil was arrested after he

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<v Speaker 1>snuck into a male guest room while he was sleeping

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<v Speaker 1>and got intimate.

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<v Speaker 2>With his feet.

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<v Speaker 1>The guest told police that he woke up with the

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<v Speaker 1>man's mouth around his toes and immediately confronted him. The

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<v Speaker 1>guest said he recognized the hotel manager because he had

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<v Speaker 1>came in his room the day before to solve an

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<v Speaker 1>issue with the TV. He was a night manager at

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<v Speaker 1>the Hilton in Nashville, and at the time of the incident,

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<v Speaker 1>he made a key card before entering the room at

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<v Speaker 1>five am. He admitted to police that he entered the room,

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<v Speaker 1>but claimed it was only because he smelled smoke and

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to make sure the guest was okay. He was

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<v Speaker 1>arrested on Friday at his home, charged with aggravated burglary

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<v Speaker 1>as well as assault.

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<v Speaker 2>He has a twenty seven thousand dollars blonde bond. Nigga.

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to know. Did he see the feet

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<v Speaker 2>early on and was like these are it? Nigga?

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<v Speaker 4>He said, you got some big ass feet. I'll be

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<v Speaker 4>coming back with them.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, wait, wait, what is that? Tennessee.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe he showed up and checked into some flip flops,

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<v Speaker 3>like that's a Southern thing to do, like him be

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<v Speaker 3>wearing a flip flot.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, and he was like the arch everything I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what it would I do if I woke

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<v Speaker 1>up and I felt my.

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<v Speaker 2>Feet were wet? Can you imagine? Oh? Christ? I mean like,

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<v Speaker 2>if I'm laying in bed with somebody like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>down sleep, what do you bitch if another person is

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<v Speaker 2>in my room?

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<v Speaker 1>Man waking up and just like it's the one thing

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<v Speaker 1>if someone's in the room, it's another thing.

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<v Speaker 2>You wake up and your toes are being suck? What's

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<v Speaker 2>the hell going on my feet? That's almost words you're

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<v Speaker 2>getting from.

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<v Speaker 3>No, No, I'm not gonna hold you to me. It's

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<v Speaker 3>just that a whole nother person is in the room

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<v Speaker 3>with me.

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<v Speaker 2>Like what do you grab? Like you grabbed the cloak? Coordless?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you kick him in the mouth? Like? What do

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<v Speaker 2>you dig in? Then you play dead? How do you?

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<v Speaker 4>So?

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<v Speaker 2>What do y'all? Do? You wake up in somebody's sucking

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<v Speaker 2>your toes in a hotel.

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<v Speaker 4>Room that I don't know and he just breaks into

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<v Speaker 4>my hotel room. Oh, I'm boxing. I'm gonna kill you.

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<v Speaker 4>We're gonna box for sure. If you're fine, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 4>really look at you.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna hold on. Let's do it just a phone scenario.

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<v Speaker 2>Do this. We're not gonna do that. You if you're

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<v Speaker 2>that's okay. If you're not, so we do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying you're fine, Okay, you're downstairs during the

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<v Speaker 1>check in a cute niggas like oh yeah you do

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<v Speaker 1>want to upgrade, like yeah, we got a sweet available,

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<v Speaker 1>be like, oh you should come to my steet later.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, maybe I would invite. No, It's like it's like

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<v Speaker 2>that's what make it make sense? You know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>But what if you woke up and that happened? Would

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<v Speaker 1>you then be like, oh my god, this is so

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<v Speaker 1>fucked up. Here's the other one.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I would actually check the person for I would

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<v Speaker 4>I'm saying, yeah, I definitely would. Don't care there was

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<v Speaker 4>I was just talking, but I would definitely check them.

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<v Speaker 4>Ill probably just hit them. And then I would definitely hit.

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<v Speaker 2>Them, But how fun hit them?

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<v Speaker 4>I would just mean I would be scared if I

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<v Speaker 4>just walk up out of my bed and somebody's like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I already have sleep paralysis, so I already

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<v Speaker 4>think people in my room and ain't not.

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<v Speaker 2>I hate that, So I would really be like crazy,

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<v Speaker 2>this is given I'm in an accident with a Walmart truck.

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<v Speaker 2>What hotel. Are we in.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm suing the corporation because they don't hide hilt it.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen, Paris is gonna be dja every one of our events.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna be right in there.

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<v Speaker 3>He happen at a Hilton. Yes, that's what I'm saying. Oh,

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<v Speaker 3>Nicky to Nikki, all the Hilton's about to be working,

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<v Speaker 3>bitch whatever tequila? Oh girl, got uh?

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<v Speaker 2>That be all? No, the the Hilton Hilson. Oh, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't watch The Housewives Hilton. No not wait, you're

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<v Speaker 4>talking about Marizio's wife. That's related to the Hiltons.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm talking about Howives Beverly Hills. Beverly is this white?

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<v Speaker 2>Does not be on word tequila? Does anyone know? And

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<v Speaker 2>I only don't know because I am drunk.

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<v Speaker 3>But normally girls on All the Housewives, Damn, I can't remember.

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<v Speaker 3>But basically she's Paris Hilton's mom. Kassieler Kathy bitch. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>so he's a cast member. Kathy is a motherfucking cast member.

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<v Speaker 2>Bitch. Oh, I was in the era of Lisa unk Kathy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's what I'm talking about.

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<v Speaker 3>It now, Kathy is a cast member and he's trying

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<v Speaker 3>to sell our tequila.

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<v Speaker 2>And that bitch we'd be on here drinking all the Kathy's.

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<v Speaker 4>How are all these white celebrities George Clooney, don't you

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<v Speaker 4>do costing me?

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<v Speaker 2>How did they get up?

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<v Speaker 3>Just so you know, there was whole beef because she

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<v Speaker 3>was jealous that the crew was pushing Kendall Jennings tequila.

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<v Speaker 2>Because Lisa Runna went up. It was like, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think Kendl's came fried.

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<v Speaker 3>And there was a whole beef because Kathy like had

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<v Speaker 3>a whole month.

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<v Speaker 1>They get Bad Bunny in ne tequila. I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to see these white women do no mo tequilas by

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<v Speaker 1>Way pulls out here. Really what they gave homeboys and

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<v Speaker 1>everybody think that they dating, because boy, where did they

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<v Speaker 1>come from? I do not believe that her and Bonie

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<v Speaker 1>is Like, what's funny you say that? Because I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even think Bad Bunny's gay. I think he's just like

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<v Speaker 1>freaky and wants to He could be freaky, but I

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<v Speaker 1>think he's like Danny at all. I just think that

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<v Speaker 1>he's a fun, he sexual man.

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<v Speaker 2>Man. We're gonna find out when I meet him for sure.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh you're gonna find my friend met him instead, she

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<v Speaker 4>got no gay vibes at all.

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<v Speaker 2>You can get no gay vibes. She did say it

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<v Speaker 2>was hard to talk to him though, but she's a

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<v Speaker 2>bad team stand off.

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<v Speaker 4>No no, I just mean like she don't know what language,

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<v Speaker 4>nom linguini.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever the hell I'm trying to say. Basically, she was

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<v Speaker 1>just like there was just hello vibes. It was really sexy,

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<v Speaker 1>and she said he was mad fun. But she said

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<v Speaker 1>that like she didn't see the game.

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<v Speaker 3>If I go out with that boney, I'm gonna be like,

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<v Speaker 3>let me get a hample guest I called castel.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what you had. I can't help her. Guess looking

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<v Speaker 2>what this Puerto Rican did? Let me get not mam,

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<v Speaker 2>what's the thing. They're like, what I am my not Dominican?

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<v Speaker 2>No mama is hang it off?

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<v Speaker 1>Flask Green All right, wait, horror stories next, because I

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<v Speaker 1>need to know let them talk, because we talked to you.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just watching the shops.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody gonna be so mad at YouTube water like, how

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<v Speaker 2>a professional are you? Guys? All right, God, you didn't

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<v Speaker 2>even let your guests talk. Shut the fuck up.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Amber horror story, sex story, dating story, we need

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<v Speaker 1>it now.

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<v Speaker 2>But but a horror story is like one that went wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>God, it doesn't sound like a wedding day horror.

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<v Speaker 2>You think showing a horror story.

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<v Speaker 3>He could just be a horror story, horror or story,

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<v Speaker 3>but one that went wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>So either the nigga took you on a date he

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<v Speaker 2>was how it broke nigga took God, nigga never took

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<v Speaker 2>me on a day ever, it won't. You've never been

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<v Speaker 2>taken on a date? Y'all? Sliding hurt DMS right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Is j You need to elaborate? What do you think

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<v Speaker 2>a date is?

0:19:45.000 --> 0:19:45.400
<v Speaker 3>A day?

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<v Speaker 2>Like? They take you out and they pay for everything,

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<v Speaker 2>and you've never in your life been on a date? No,

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<v Speaker 2>how is that?

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<v Speaker 4>How is that possible? I guess it's the guys I

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<v Speaker 4>talk to. I don't know what kind of niggas you like. Niggas,

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<v Speaker 4>broke niggas, boxing niggas, hood niggas will take you on

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<v Speaker 4>a date.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, maybe they don't like me. She's been dating broke

0:20:04.600 --> 0:20:05.479
<v Speaker 2>broke hood niggas.

0:20:05.480 --> 0:20:11.680
<v Speaker 3>She broke broke a twenty deal at the Applebee's.

0:20:11.040 --> 0:20:12.919
<v Speaker 2>At Chili too. Hold on, so you went out.

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<v Speaker 1>To eat with niggas and they just don't pay the

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<v Speaker 1>way you're They don't go Dutch.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's like, wait, you pay so you're a sugar mama.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess you could say that, do you mean to

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<v Speaker 4>leave that way? Or would you like it just happens

0:20:26.440 --> 0:20:29.280
<v Speaker 4>that way? Maybe because you're lit, they feel like they shouldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that it? They're like, oh, this bitch.

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<v Speaker 4>Is you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Me? So and I don't act like I don't. I

0:20:35.320 --> 0:20:36.040
<v Speaker 2>don't have it? Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>So then what about before the social media and all

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<v Speaker 3>those things?

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<v Speaker 2>Like you're the same age as.

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<v Speaker 3>Us, So there was an era from teenager to early

0:20:44.760 --> 0:20:48.000
<v Speaker 3>twenties before all this social media ship right where you

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<v Speaker 3>were still dating men. It was more women or like

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<v Speaker 3>yeah and no one that you never got someone that

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<v Speaker 3>took you on a date.

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<v Speaker 4>I've never been on a date. I'm telling you, bitch,

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<v Speaker 4>I can't wait to come back. I'm gonna take you

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<v Speaker 4>on a date.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait have you ever said this publicly? Are we talking

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<v Speaker 2>about that? Did you know that? Yeah? I know? Yeah?

0:21:08.600 --> 0:21:11.840
<v Speaker 2>Because will he be around me? You see what I mean? Okay, So,

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<v Speaker 2>way do you feel like then? I would take on

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<v Speaker 2>the day before any man.

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<v Speaker 4>So well, there's men that would take on a date,

0:21:16.760 --> 0:21:19.320
<v Speaker 4>but she just haven't met the right guy though, well.

0:21:19.320 --> 0:21:22.080
<v Speaker 2>Know then for the for maybe the people listening.

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<v Speaker 3>Then do you feel like you come across as overly independent?

0:21:25.800 --> 0:21:28.360
<v Speaker 2>Like where does it lean.

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<v Speaker 3>Into a man being comfortable taking you on a date,

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<v Speaker 3>whether it's the first, second, or.

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<v Speaker 2>Third not nineteen keys over here? Look at it? Are

0:21:34.160 --> 0:21:37.920
<v Speaker 2>you an overly shut up bitch? I'm trying to be professional.

0:21:38.000 --> 0:21:38.840
<v Speaker 2>It's called an interview.

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<v Speaker 3>I would like to know then, like what do you

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<v Speaker 3>give off prior to even the day?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you meeting these people online? Are the people that

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<v Speaker 2>you know?

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<v Speaker 3>How are men not paying for a goddamn two for

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<v Speaker 3>twenty at Chilly's which is now like thirty five inflation?

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<v Speaker 4>But I guess you know what, when I meet these guys,

0:22:00.040 --> 0:22:02.760
<v Speaker 4>I already know like their situation. I never really met

0:22:02.760 --> 0:22:06.720
<v Speaker 4>a guy that had like a job for real, Okay,

0:22:06.880 --> 0:22:08.040
<v Speaker 4>Like even if dude, I was just.

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<v Speaker 2>There dicks, that'd be okay. This last one is twenty

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<v Speaker 2>five years that's fire. It's fire.

0:22:15.200 --> 0:22:17.200
<v Speaker 4>But like I meet guys like they don't have a job,

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<v Speaker 4>So it's like I always just hold it up like

0:22:19.600 --> 0:22:23.040
<v Speaker 4>that's just always been me. Why I don't know the

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<v Speaker 4>guys that do have the jobs and that I meet,

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<v Speaker 4>They're not my tipe?

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<v Speaker 2>What is your type? Then broke? At this point? You do?

0:22:33.160 --> 0:22:36.040
<v Speaker 2>Don't you work with Rihanna? How could you not have

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<v Speaker 2>access to this? I don't know. Damn, we gotta gotta

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<v Speaker 2>fix it.

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<v Speaker 3>So then let me let me bring it back because

0:22:43.840 --> 0:22:46.000
<v Speaker 3>it sounds like, Okay, this is just what it is.

0:22:46.040 --> 0:22:48.160
<v Speaker 2>Maybe you don't have much of a problem with it.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you? Are you comfortable with your dating life in

0:22:52.800 --> 0:22:55.520
<v Speaker 2>you leading that way that I don't need you to

0:22:55.560 --> 0:22:58.120
<v Speaker 2>pay for nothing? This like, what then do you want

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<v Speaker 2>from a man? Okay, so I don't mind. I did

0:23:00.280 --> 0:23:00.600
<v Speaker 2>at first.

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<v Speaker 4>It's fine, but sometimes you surprise me. But even if

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<v Speaker 4>I take me on a date, I would like like

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<v Speaker 4>maybe a gift here and there, some random flowers, Like

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<v Speaker 4>even if you just take your paragraphs like hey, thinking

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<v Speaker 4>about you today with not a paragraph.

0:23:12.680 --> 0:23:16.480
<v Speaker 2>Hell, I know she said your parents. She's just saying

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<v Speaker 2>show some effort. Yeah, So then is that not communicated?

0:23:21.920 --> 0:23:25.000
<v Speaker 3>I think a lot of like women want certain things

0:23:25.000 --> 0:23:26.600
<v Speaker 3>from their partners, and I'm like, why am I not

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<v Speaker 3>getting it? Do you communicate that you kind of would

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<v Speaker 3>like to feel special?

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I'm not.

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<v Speaker 4>Really because I think, like, Okay, if I'm doing all this,

0:23:36.840 --> 0:23:37.600
<v Speaker 4>you should want to.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I get deep with you? Where is this stemming from?

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<v Speaker 2>I would?

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<v Speaker 3>And I only ask that because I'm in therapy right now,

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<v Speaker 3>so I had to goat your sleeve.

0:23:48.320 --> 0:23:51.200
<v Speaker 2>I was eighty pounds plus than I am at one point,

0:23:51.320 --> 0:23:53.840
<v Speaker 2>and I used to think the bare minimum was having

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<v Speaker 2>sex with men.

0:23:55.119 --> 0:23:57.760
<v Speaker 3>And now I'm at a point where I'm just like, bitch,

0:23:57.800 --> 0:23:59.440
<v Speaker 3>you can't fuck me if like you.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't do.

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<v Speaker 3>And I wonder if like there's something where you just

0:24:05.480 --> 0:24:08.639
<v Speaker 3>are accepting that these men are just approaching you because

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<v Speaker 3>of that, Me and my friends talk about it often.

0:24:10.840 --> 0:24:14.360
<v Speaker 3>I'm still in a place where women, probably more than anything,

0:24:14.680 --> 0:24:15.280
<v Speaker 3>have made.

0:24:15.080 --> 0:24:18.000
<v Speaker 2>Me feel unworthy of love because of my weight, and so.

0:24:18.040 --> 0:24:21.040
<v Speaker 3>Hearing and also meeting you energy is already like ooh, bitch,

0:24:21.040 --> 0:24:23.600
<v Speaker 3>you cool because coming in the door, I'm like, oh,

0:24:24.200 --> 0:24:26.760
<v Speaker 3>and you know this man right here, why do you

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<v Speaker 3>think you haven't maybe even wanted or felt like you

0:24:31.359 --> 0:24:33.720
<v Speaker 3>were deserving of a man taking on a.

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<v Speaker 2>Day and maybe and asking that you know, a getting deep.

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<v Speaker 4>It probably could be that you know, I've been being

0:24:38.600 --> 0:24:41.080
<v Speaker 4>my whole life since I was in like middle school,

0:24:41.600 --> 0:24:44.879
<v Speaker 4>always been big, So it could be that and not

0:24:44.920 --> 0:24:48.840
<v Speaker 4>feeling maybe I almost say not feeling worthy, but I don't.

0:24:48.680 --> 0:24:50.919
<v Speaker 2>Know, maybe like a little bit of low self esteem.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. Do you bear sexy day to day sexy?

0:24:54.760 --> 0:24:56.840
<v Speaker 1>I feel like when I see some of your content,

0:24:57.320 --> 0:25:02.040
<v Speaker 1>you give sexy if you were believable, being like when

0:25:02.080 --> 0:25:03.080
<v Speaker 1>you are feeling sexy.

0:25:03.119 --> 0:25:05.240
<v Speaker 2>But do you think day to day you feel that way?

0:25:05.440 --> 0:25:07.320
<v Speaker 2>Not day to day, but every day. I do feel

0:25:07.320 --> 0:25:09.800
<v Speaker 2>like I'm flying every day. That's like I look good,

0:25:09.840 --> 0:25:12.080
<v Speaker 2>I smell good. You do. But as far as sexy, no,

0:25:12.240 --> 0:25:12.840
<v Speaker 2>not every day?

0:25:12.880 --> 0:25:12.920
<v Speaker 4>No.

0:25:15.080 --> 0:25:16.840
<v Speaker 2>Look well, look come on, y'all.

0:25:17.160 --> 0:25:19.000
<v Speaker 3>I'll make it deep here because I mean, I think

0:25:19.040 --> 0:25:20.960
<v Speaker 3>that that was a thing for me. I've said it

0:25:21.040 --> 0:25:29.040
<v Speaker 3>on this podcast, like as as just feeling like I

0:25:29.080 --> 0:25:32.800
<v Speaker 3>as a woman should be happy for any man that

0:25:32.840 --> 0:25:36.440
<v Speaker 3>shows me attention growing up by women and men, right,

0:25:36.920 --> 0:25:40.000
<v Speaker 3>I feel like it's it's one of those things that

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<v Speaker 3>a man just giving me time at one point validated

0:25:43.640 --> 0:25:45.840
<v Speaker 3>me and I felt like there was a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>times where I had a all sense of confidence.

0:25:49.560 --> 0:25:51.520
<v Speaker 2>It's what I'm talking about in therapy.

0:25:51.240 --> 0:25:54.439
<v Speaker 3>Now because now I'm in this space where I'm so

0:25:54.640 --> 0:25:56.640
<v Speaker 3>happy to be where I'm at.

0:25:56.800 --> 0:26:00.760
<v Speaker 2>I know my value and I think that seeing even.

0:26:00.680 --> 0:26:04.359
<v Speaker 3>The conversation surrounding Liz though I have an interview with

0:26:04.440 --> 0:26:07.280
<v Speaker 3>Mahelia in a little bit, and just not being what

0:26:07.320 --> 0:26:11.119
<v Speaker 3>people think should be the desired look that Okay, a

0:26:11.119 --> 0:26:13.960
<v Speaker 3>man just want to be around me. Let me just

0:26:14.000 --> 0:26:18.720
<v Speaker 3>get that, and that being a sense of happiness isn't enough.

0:26:19.320 --> 0:26:20.639
<v Speaker 2>And I mean I don't want to.

0:26:21.000 --> 0:26:23.199
<v Speaker 3>I mean, we can't change your narrative now, but I

0:26:23.200 --> 0:26:27.320
<v Speaker 3>would implore you to whatever you want, vocalizing that with

0:26:27.480 --> 0:26:30.400
<v Speaker 3>any nigga that you meet moving forward, whether it's through

0:26:30.440 --> 0:26:34.040
<v Speaker 3>tender Instagram, like you deserve to be.

0:26:34.000 --> 0:26:36.159
<v Speaker 2>Taken on a fucking date, a nice one. Make that.

0:26:36.240 --> 0:26:38.280
<v Speaker 2>Niggas cut a check. Say, nigga, you.

0:26:38.359 --> 0:26:43.919
<v Speaker 3>See me, I need an entree, appletizer and dessert, So

0:26:44.080 --> 0:26:48.080
<v Speaker 3>use your own credit card, Like deal with the motherfuckers

0:26:48.080 --> 0:26:52.160
<v Speaker 3>that are, you know, still using PvP and other people's.

0:26:52.280 --> 0:26:55.159
<v Speaker 1>We also got to be honest here because not sometimes

0:26:55.280 --> 0:26:56.800
<v Speaker 1>we're saying you got to do X y Z for me.

0:26:57.320 --> 0:27:01.320
<v Speaker 1>Not every date is equal for every man you date, right,

0:27:01.480 --> 0:27:04.520
<v Speaker 1>Like we see people online getting cars and all this

0:27:04.560 --> 0:27:06.760
<v Speaker 1>shit for Valentine's Day, Maybe our niggas ain't getting that

0:27:06.760 --> 0:27:07.520
<v Speaker 1>shit right.

0:27:07.520 --> 0:27:09.520
<v Speaker 2>So like, I think you gotta think.

0:27:09.600 --> 0:27:12.480
<v Speaker 1>If my man is working, maybe not even a fool

0:27:12.560 --> 0:27:14.840
<v Speaker 1>time job, if they're just out here doing anything, taking

0:27:14.880 --> 0:27:17.240
<v Speaker 1>me to a movie is honestly gonna make me feel good,

0:27:17.640 --> 0:27:20.679
<v Speaker 1>and I'm gonna feel like I'm taking out. But I

0:27:20.680 --> 0:27:22.960
<v Speaker 1>think the gesture alone, and that's probably why you're like

0:27:22.960 --> 0:27:25.400
<v Speaker 1>the paragraph or something like, I actually feel that because

0:27:25.400 --> 0:27:27.480
<v Speaker 1>I've gated some broke niggas too that if they could

0:27:27.480 --> 0:27:30.560
<v Speaker 1>do that, I'm with it, like you understand where you

0:27:30.560 --> 0:27:32.359
<v Speaker 1>need to pick up the slack from another areas, But.

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<v Speaker 4>I never really looked at it how you just broke

0:27:34.480 --> 0:27:35.960
<v Speaker 4>it down and explained it, because I just see it

0:27:35.960 --> 0:27:38.240
<v Speaker 4>as you know, I always have it. I've been independent,

0:27:38.240 --> 0:27:39.520
<v Speaker 4>I always have it, So I don't look at it

0:27:39.560 --> 0:27:41.639
<v Speaker 4>as oh, they're not really doing much, like let's just

0:27:41.640 --> 0:27:42.360
<v Speaker 4>go out, let's.

0:27:42.200 --> 0:27:44.560
<v Speaker 2>Just have fun, let's go eat, let's let's just do that.

0:27:44.640 --> 0:27:47.359
<v Speaker 3>But there's a way a man can show up for you,

0:27:47.480 --> 0:27:50.000
<v Speaker 3>like again, a two for twenty mil right, that right

0:27:50.040 --> 0:27:52.479
<v Speaker 3>way to make it feel special, like I got this.

0:27:52.920 --> 0:27:54.960
<v Speaker 2>And I think that I blame Neo.

0:27:55.240 --> 0:27:59.080
<v Speaker 3>I do because in our era he was saying misindependent and.

0:27:59.280 --> 0:28:02.600
<v Speaker 2>I love I guess they got a room. Oh yeah,

0:28:02.600 --> 0:28:04.040
<v Speaker 2>that's a better song to see all of them.

0:28:04.359 --> 0:28:08.000
<v Speaker 3>I blame them for creating this era of who we

0:28:08.080 --> 0:28:11.640
<v Speaker 3>are now, women in our early thirties who have strived

0:28:11.760 --> 0:28:16.240
<v Speaker 3>and felt power and being independent, and now men being

0:28:16.240 --> 0:28:20.439
<v Speaker 3>able to caddle off of that. But you like a

0:28:20.640 --> 0:28:23.440
<v Speaker 3>date from a man, y'all. I need y'all to slide

0:28:23.440 --> 0:28:25.879
<v Speaker 3>in the GMS if he was in La I think.

0:28:25.720 --> 0:28:26.479
<v Speaker 1>It's gonna happen now.

0:28:26.560 --> 0:28:29.120
<v Speaker 2>No, I would love I would love for you to.

0:28:29.040 --> 0:28:32.200
<v Speaker 3>Just be like Andy Weezy, I was taken on a date,

0:28:32.240 --> 0:28:35.200
<v Speaker 3>because you deserve for a man to say, hey, meet

0:28:35.240 --> 0:28:36.679
<v Speaker 3>me here at this time.

0:28:37.240 --> 0:28:39.160
<v Speaker 2>Let's just eat and have a good CONVERSA matter of fact,

0:28:39.240 --> 0:28:39.960
<v Speaker 2>pick me up.

0:28:41.080 --> 0:28:44.640
<v Speaker 4>I ain't gonna part nice the first day.

0:28:44.560 --> 0:28:45.840
<v Speaker 2>Though, No, I agree.

0:28:46.080 --> 0:28:49.120
<v Speaker 3>I still believe like first date, even coming from Florida.

0:28:49.720 --> 0:28:51.640
<v Speaker 3>Like now that we have uber and all these things,

0:28:51.800 --> 0:28:53.840
<v Speaker 3>I like to be able to everyone be on their

0:28:53.880 --> 0:28:54.479
<v Speaker 3>own times.

0:28:54.960 --> 0:28:56.480
<v Speaker 2>I know that it used to be a jester back

0:28:56.480 --> 0:28:58.320
<v Speaker 2>in the day to have somebody pick you up on

0:28:58.360 --> 0:29:01.040
<v Speaker 2>a date. I'll meet you there, let me know the time,

0:29:01.200 --> 0:29:01.920
<v Speaker 2>and don't be late.

0:29:02.160 --> 0:29:04.840
<v Speaker 3>Like now, it's just the courtesy is just showing on time,

0:29:05.880 --> 0:29:08.800
<v Speaker 3>but please ask for that. I definitely do not meet

0:29:08.840 --> 0:29:10.920
<v Speaker 3>nobody else knew that you feel like you have to

0:29:10.920 --> 0:29:15.600
<v Speaker 3>show up as this independent bitch to overcompensate for whatever

0:29:15.640 --> 0:29:19.920
<v Speaker 3>you think like you deserve as a woman. The patriarchy

0:29:20.000 --> 0:29:22.640
<v Speaker 3>is really on our side, says I need you to

0:29:22.680 --> 0:29:24.520
<v Speaker 3>sit here and allow men to show up for you,

0:29:24.640 --> 0:29:26.880
<v Speaker 3>because that was meet me a lot in the beginning,

0:29:26.920 --> 0:29:28.160
<v Speaker 3>and you're just too dope for that.

0:29:29.000 --> 0:29:34.320
<v Speaker 2>Beautiful and honestly, we.

0:29:34.480 --> 0:29:39.560
<v Speaker 1>Need to pour that into ourselves the same speech, bitch,

0:29:40.680 --> 0:29:45.080
<v Speaker 1>cause last night I was taken down. Okay, I'm saying

0:29:45.120 --> 0:29:47.400
<v Speaker 1>that it wasn't consensual because I wanted it, but I

0:29:47.440 --> 0:29:47.920
<v Speaker 1>shouldn't have.

0:29:50.400 --> 0:29:52.400
<v Speaker 2>I was like, okay, so then.

0:29:54.120 --> 0:29:56.760
<v Speaker 3>So real quick, on the flip side, this is your

0:29:56.760 --> 0:29:59.680
<v Speaker 3>motherfucking friend, this is your co host, and he's staying

0:29:59.680 --> 0:30:01.120
<v Speaker 3>outing niggas take him on dates.

0:30:02.440 --> 0:30:03.120
<v Speaker 2>Why are you not.

0:30:03.200 --> 0:30:06.760
<v Speaker 3>Giving her this energy? Like what how do you? How

0:30:06.760 --> 0:30:08.640
<v Speaker 3>do you show up as someone who gets spoiled?

0:30:08.680 --> 0:30:10.800
<v Speaker 2>Then I give her the energy.

0:30:10.840 --> 0:30:13.000
<v Speaker 4>But see, the type of man that I look for

0:30:13.000 --> 0:30:14.960
<v Speaker 4>for Amber is not the type of man that she likes.

0:30:15.240 --> 0:30:18.440
<v Speaker 4>Like I elaborate, Yeah, like guys that are like they're

0:30:18.480 --> 0:30:20.400
<v Speaker 4>like boogie you don't like all that boosie ship, like

0:30:20.640 --> 0:30:25.040
<v Speaker 4>I know, like she doesn't like she likes good niggas

0:30:25.080 --> 0:30:26.440
<v Speaker 4>type of ship, you know what I mean.

0:30:26.480 --> 0:30:27.480
<v Speaker 2>Like she likes hood guys.

0:30:27.520 --> 0:30:28.960
<v Speaker 4>I'm not saying that you wouldn't date a guy that's

0:30:29.000 --> 0:30:31.080
<v Speaker 4>not hood, but she likes like men that you know.

0:30:31.360 --> 0:30:33.240
<v Speaker 2>You know why that shit feels like home? It really do.

0:30:33.640 --> 0:30:36.320
<v Speaker 2>Y'all could need some hap. Oh we had to have

0:30:36.440 --> 0:30:37.920
<v Speaker 2>a take her to Lamart Park.

0:30:37.920 --> 0:30:40.880
<v Speaker 4>Oh baby, Lamar Park, I got. We have a little

0:30:40.880 --> 0:30:43.800
<v Speaker 4>glove dated speaking coming up. Really look out for the

0:30:43.880 --> 0:30:45.440
<v Speaker 4>announcement guests. It's blind dates for her.

0:30:46.040 --> 0:30:49.480
<v Speaker 3>Talked about it for the pol about Lambert Park. I'm

0:30:49.520 --> 0:30:55.240
<v Speaker 3>just saying, like I mean, a need the crystals and

0:30:55.280 --> 0:30:57.280
<v Speaker 3>ship over there. Yes, stay away from me.

0:31:00.280 --> 0:31:04.440
<v Speaker 1>She was, now tell us your horror story.

0:31:05.240 --> 0:31:07.680
<v Speaker 4>My horror story, Okay, my horror story would be when

0:31:07.720 --> 0:31:09.480
<v Speaker 4>I was taking anal from African.

0:31:09.720 --> 0:31:11.400
<v Speaker 2>She was funding me and I.

0:31:11.320 --> 0:31:15.959
<v Speaker 4>Didn't do shit. Yes, look he had a big old

0:31:15.960 --> 0:31:19.680
<v Speaker 4>wa kandad he's given a he was giving. I wasn't

0:31:19.800 --> 0:31:21.680
<v Speaker 4>like expecting to have sex that day, Like I was

0:31:21.720 --> 0:31:24.320
<v Speaker 4>literally on my way somewhere else, but he popped up

0:31:24.360 --> 0:31:24.720
<v Speaker 4>on grind.

0:31:24.800 --> 0:31:25.960
<v Speaker 2>I was just on there scroll and he was like,

0:31:26.000 --> 0:31:27.960
<v Speaker 2>come over, you know. So I came over and he

0:31:28.080 --> 0:31:28.800
<v Speaker 2>was like, to the bedroom.

0:31:28.840 --> 0:31:31.080
<v Speaker 4>He was very direct. We went straight to the bedroom

0:31:31.200 --> 0:31:33.000
<v Speaker 4>and he was like, okay, let's let's get into it.

0:31:33.080 --> 0:31:36.160
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, okay, so hopefully you bottom because it's not given.

0:31:36.240 --> 0:31:38.080
<v Speaker 4>I'm about to bottom for you right now. I just

0:31:38.120 --> 0:31:39.920
<v Speaker 4>took a big ship. So I was like, give me

0:31:39.920 --> 0:31:41.400
<v Speaker 4>a second, let me go to the bathroom. So I

0:31:41.440 --> 0:31:42.000
<v Speaker 4>went to the bathroom.

0:31:42.040 --> 0:31:44.880
<v Speaker 2>I tried to out you just took a big ship. Yeah,

0:31:44.920 --> 0:31:49.240
<v Speaker 2>but it wasn't big enough. So he proceeds to bend

0:31:49.320 --> 0:31:51.960
<v Speaker 2>me over, you know, and so you did by him?

0:31:52.160 --> 0:31:55.200
<v Speaker 2>He did. I did. I was not from the bottom,

0:31:55.200 --> 0:31:57.880
<v Speaker 2>but you've been talking. I gave in and I bought

0:31:57.960 --> 0:31:59.520
<v Speaker 2>him and he started to, you know, go.

0:32:00.040 --> 0:32:02.040
<v Speaker 4>I always tell them going slow, put the tip in,

0:32:02.120 --> 0:32:04.080
<v Speaker 4>because if they do it wrong, I'm walking out. The

0:32:04.160 --> 0:32:06.560
<v Speaker 4>moment you do it wrong, I walk out. I get

0:32:06.600 --> 0:32:09.120
<v Speaker 4>pissed off by just shoving it in, like I want

0:32:09.160 --> 0:32:11.480
<v Speaker 4>to fight. So I always held him start off slow.

0:32:11.560 --> 0:32:14.320
<v Speaker 2>Some guys, listen, yeah, be gentle, like you know, this

0:32:14.520 --> 0:32:17.280
<v Speaker 2>is a tight ball. That's a big cock. That's the

0:32:17.280 --> 0:32:19.520
<v Speaker 2>white people say, big cock. Wait, he was a he

0:32:19.640 --> 0:32:21.440
<v Speaker 2>was a cocker, not a dicker. No, he was a dicker.

0:32:21.480 --> 0:32:23.920
<v Speaker 2>But I'm if it's real big, I'll be saying it

0:32:24.120 --> 0:32:27.080
<v Speaker 2>was a big plus. It was like it was like

0:32:27.160 --> 0:32:30.000
<v Speaker 2>ten inches stick, like a weapon. So he put it in.

0:32:31.040 --> 0:32:34.000
<v Speaker 2>He starts to go within like the fourth pump. He like,

0:32:34.360 --> 0:32:38.200
<v Speaker 2>he was like, you're dirty, bitch. Oh yes, oh he

0:32:38.320 --> 0:32:41.000
<v Speaker 2>told you. He said you're dirty in this little Nigerian accent.

0:32:41.680 --> 0:32:44.960
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, so was his household, bitch. I was straight

0:32:45.000 --> 0:32:47.480
<v Speaker 4>to the bathroom. He stopped, he stopped fucking. He said,

0:32:47.480 --> 0:32:49.080
<v Speaker 4>you need to leave. So I went to the bathroom,

0:32:49.560 --> 0:32:52.280
<v Speaker 4>I wiped my ass, put on my clothes, and I left.

0:32:52.320 --> 0:32:54.680
<v Speaker 2>I was so embarrassed. Oh my god, I'm so sorry.

0:32:55.040 --> 0:32:55.240
<v Speaker 4>Girl.

0:32:55.280 --> 0:32:56.880
<v Speaker 2>Well that was my horrible decis That's what I got.

0:32:56.920 --> 0:32:58.760
<v Speaker 2>I should have been on bad not the phone.

0:32:59.520 --> 0:33:02.840
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you real, honest, Like when niggas be like, well

0:33:02.840 --> 0:33:04.440
<v Speaker 3>I want to get into Boodhall, I'll be like, I

0:33:04.480 --> 0:33:09.400
<v Speaker 3>had coffee this morning, so I, like you didn't let

0:33:09.480 --> 0:33:09.720
<v Speaker 3>him know.

0:33:09.920 --> 0:33:15.080
<v Speaker 2>The hey probably was that I had Chapotle earlier and.

0:33:15.920 --> 0:33:21.760
<v Speaker 4>Probby he said, yeah, but I didn't expect I honestly,

0:33:21.800 --> 0:33:23.280
<v Speaker 4>I didn't even think about Ana. When I went to

0:33:23.320 --> 0:33:24.800
<v Speaker 4>his house, I thought we were just gonna probably make out.

0:33:24.800 --> 0:33:26.480
<v Speaker 4>I was gonna suck his dick or something like that,

0:33:26.520 --> 0:33:27.680
<v Speaker 4>and then I was gonna leave. I didn't know that

0:33:27.720 --> 0:33:28.280
<v Speaker 4>I was gonna like.

0:33:28.240 --> 0:33:30.920
<v Speaker 2>Actually, is that common on Grinder? Yeah? You know, I haven't.

0:33:30.960 --> 0:33:32.840
<v Speaker 4>So this this happened like three years. I haven't used

0:33:32.920 --> 0:33:34.720
<v Speaker 4>I haven't like had sex like through an app in

0:33:34.800 --> 0:33:35.320
<v Speaker 4>a long time.

0:33:35.520 --> 0:33:36.680
<v Speaker 2>So on the movie Bros.

0:33:36.760 --> 0:33:38.720
<v Speaker 1>That I just watched it last night and my mom

0:33:38.840 --> 0:33:45.720
<v Speaker 1>was I watched there after the Dick his Mother's Day weekend,

0:33:45.760 --> 0:33:47.280
<v Speaker 1>so I was like, Oh, let's spend time together before

0:33:47.280 --> 0:33:51.160
<v Speaker 1>I go party. So anyway, we're watching Bros. And on

0:33:51.280 --> 0:33:53.920
<v Speaker 1>the app pops up and they start making out. They

0:33:54.000 --> 0:33:56.000
<v Speaker 1>get in the bed, they jark cough, and my mom

0:33:56.120 --> 0:33:57.760
<v Speaker 1>was like, why did they show sex? You think they

0:33:57.760 --> 0:33:59.800
<v Speaker 1>didn't show sex because you know what I mean, this

0:33:59.880 --> 0:34:01.600
<v Speaker 1>is a movie or something. And I was like, no,

0:34:02.280 --> 0:34:05.480
<v Speaker 1>you didn't realize the beginning conversation. Oh, I'm a top,

0:34:05.560 --> 0:34:07.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm a top, So what are they gonna do?

0:34:07.320 --> 0:34:09.759
<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying. I'm like, they literally just

0:34:09.840 --> 0:34:10.640
<v Speaker 2>want to play together.

0:34:11.080 --> 0:34:13.400
<v Speaker 1>And I think that concept hadn't really pop into her

0:34:13.480 --> 0:34:16.600
<v Speaker 1>mind because she's like, oh, I'm expecting gay niggas fucking

0:34:16.680 --> 0:34:19.200
<v Speaker 1>all the time. And most of my gay male friends

0:34:19.239 --> 0:34:23.040
<v Speaker 1>actually don't like their sucking, dig they jerking each other off.

0:34:23.120 --> 0:34:25.680
<v Speaker 1>They're just doing little shit because sometimes it can be difficult.

0:34:25.719 --> 0:34:27.239
<v Speaker 1>I guess when you're meeting someone but you want to

0:34:27.280 --> 0:34:29.120
<v Speaker 1>fuck them and you can't, or what if you eat

0:34:29.160 --> 0:34:29.560
<v Speaker 1>too much?

0:34:29.920 --> 0:34:33.279
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I think that this is maybe because I

0:34:33.320 --> 0:34:34.440
<v Speaker 2>go to sex clubs so much.

0:34:35.280 --> 0:34:39.280
<v Speaker 4>I've I've learned don't chuckling over them.

0:34:42.239 --> 0:34:43.480
<v Speaker 2>Every week week No.

0:34:43.719 --> 0:34:47.160
<v Speaker 3>But but to me, I think that we assume that

0:34:47.560 --> 0:34:52.280
<v Speaker 3>sex is just penetration, right, And there's so many layers

0:34:52.360 --> 0:34:57.319
<v Speaker 3>to just being sexual or intimate or romantic or doing

0:34:57.440 --> 0:35:00.600
<v Speaker 3>sex that doesn't involve penetration that so many people fucking.

0:35:00.440 --> 0:35:03.600
<v Speaker 2>Leave out, Like sometimes we just want to make out

0:35:03.640 --> 0:35:05.640
<v Speaker 2>with somebody sometimes, like a lot of people want to

0:35:05.680 --> 0:35:08.239
<v Speaker 2>watch sometimes. Oh and I love watching too, So.

0:35:08.480 --> 0:35:11.280
<v Speaker 3>Even just watching as a thing, I mean, my friends

0:35:11.360 --> 0:35:12.759
<v Speaker 3>all get on my nerves. They'd be like, bitch, you

0:35:12.840 --> 0:35:15.040
<v Speaker 3>need dick. Because sometimes when I'm with my friends, I'll

0:35:15.040 --> 0:35:16.960
<v Speaker 3>be like can we cuddle? Like if I'm spending the

0:35:17.040 --> 0:35:19.440
<v Speaker 3>night with my friends, Like sometimes I just like to cuddle,

0:35:19.800 --> 0:35:23.800
<v Speaker 3>and even though it's not sexual, there's a real big physical.

0:35:23.440 --> 0:35:26.120
<v Speaker 1>Element of you can cuddle with people you don't want

0:35:26.120 --> 0:35:28.360
<v Speaker 1>to have sex with. Yeah, I cuddle with my friends

0:35:28.640 --> 0:35:31.680
<v Speaker 1>all the time. I can't like I'm a I'm a cuddler.

0:35:31.840 --> 0:35:34.520
<v Speaker 1>Like I mean, my my hetero ass friends be annoying.

0:35:34.560 --> 0:35:35.879
<v Speaker 1>They'd be like, no, bitch, go away.

0:35:36.280 --> 0:35:38.160
<v Speaker 2>But like Chanell, she always want to cuddle with me.

0:35:38.200 --> 0:35:40.480
<v Speaker 4>I'm like no, but like the Yeah, I don't like

0:35:40.719 --> 0:35:42.320
<v Speaker 4>Vinnie's my best friend, we've lived together.

0:35:42.560 --> 0:35:44.319
<v Speaker 1>We can only get close on the couch. I don't

0:35:44.360 --> 0:35:45.759
<v Speaker 1>want to spoon him.

0:35:46.200 --> 0:35:49.239
<v Speaker 4>Oh, I'm always the big spoon brother spoon, you bitch,

0:35:49.719 --> 0:35:51.080
<v Speaker 4>I'm a big I'm a.

0:35:51.080 --> 0:35:52.880
<v Speaker 2>Big spoon even with my big niggas that'll be six

0:35:52.960 --> 0:35:54.400
<v Speaker 2>or nine and I trying to get out. I like

0:35:54.480 --> 0:35:56.520
<v Speaker 2>to pay the stallion, you know what I mean. So

0:35:56.640 --> 0:35:57.399
<v Speaker 2>I like getting behind.

0:35:57.440 --> 0:36:00.440
<v Speaker 3>But I mean to me sex Now, I think through

0:36:00.520 --> 0:36:04.800
<v Speaker 3>this podcast has become so much more like psychological, Like

0:36:05.200 --> 0:36:07.239
<v Speaker 3>there's so many I mean I just brought up that

0:36:07.320 --> 0:36:10.440
<v Speaker 3>i'd be coming off captions now like certain things now

0:36:10.560 --> 0:36:14.400
<v Speaker 3>stimulate my mind and really turn me on in ways

0:36:14.440 --> 0:36:18.760
<v Speaker 3>that I'm like not everybody gotta have sex, and then I'll.

0:36:18.160 --> 0:36:18.680
<v Speaker 2>Be honest too.

0:36:19.360 --> 0:36:21.719
<v Speaker 3>I now see how y'all be thinking certain things is

0:36:21.800 --> 0:36:25.080
<v Speaker 3>cheating because I am like now turned on by certain

0:36:25.239 --> 0:36:28.560
<v Speaker 3>people and certain things that are not sexual at all,

0:36:29.080 --> 0:36:30.040
<v Speaker 3>and like me too.

0:36:30.440 --> 0:36:33.880
<v Speaker 1>I mean, so let me what's what's something Jacob that turned.

0:36:34.000 --> 0:36:37.960
<v Speaker 2>What's something that's not sexual that that turns you on? Hands? Wait,

0:36:38.200 --> 0:36:41.120
<v Speaker 2>you just look at somebody here hands. I will get horny.

0:36:41.239 --> 0:36:43.000
<v Speaker 4>Like if a guy has some big hands, I just

0:36:43.400 --> 0:36:45.520
<v Speaker 4>there's so many thoughts that comes through my mind. I

0:36:45.640 --> 0:36:47.799
<v Speaker 4>literally like, while he has a big cancer picture, I'm

0:36:47.800 --> 0:36:50.640
<v Speaker 4>slapping my ass. Wow, a whole bunch of shit. And

0:36:50.719 --> 0:36:54.160
<v Speaker 4>then if he has a tie too, a tie? Yes,

0:36:54.320 --> 0:36:56.680
<v Speaker 4>I lack a business man, you know, Joe Biden tide,

0:36:56.840 --> 0:36:59.000
<v Speaker 4>not a Joe Biden an eighty year rod?

0:36:59.160 --> 0:37:01.719
<v Speaker 2>Absolutely? Yeah, what is that? You're tight?

0:37:02.000 --> 0:37:04.320
<v Speaker 4>That's one of my types of mini Yeah, I like

0:37:04.920 --> 0:37:11.960
<v Speaker 4>three times he said, I like, I like, Ymber, make

0:37:12.000 --> 0:37:14.759
<v Speaker 4>sure you remember when we were doing the episode of

0:37:14.800 --> 0:37:17.080
<v Speaker 4>her Fact's Sake, And he was like, did I fuck

0:37:17.120 --> 0:37:17.800
<v Speaker 4>you don't remember?

0:37:18.960 --> 0:37:21.560
<v Speaker 2>That's crazy? Okay? So you like really?

0:37:21.760 --> 0:37:25.600
<v Speaker 4>So my top three types, I would say between thirty

0:37:26.000 --> 0:37:28.000
<v Speaker 4>through seventy eight, eighty years old.

0:37:28.040 --> 0:37:29.040
<v Speaker 2>That cannot be a range.

0:37:29.360 --> 0:37:32.719
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's my range. And then I like older man.

0:37:32.920 --> 0:37:35.399
<v Speaker 4>I like a businessman, and I like a stocky man,

0:37:35.520 --> 0:37:36.400
<v Speaker 4>like I like a toy man.

0:37:36.440 --> 0:37:38.600
<v Speaker 2>That's stocky. Okay, y'all, I don't care who got man.

0:37:39.320 --> 0:37:40.000
<v Speaker 2>I actually want to know.

0:37:40.280 --> 0:37:44.279
<v Speaker 4>I've never topped to eighty year old before I've gotten well,

0:37:44.320 --> 0:37:48.239
<v Speaker 4>he wasn't eighty, he was seventy three. Yes, he fucked me, well, bitch,

0:37:48.520 --> 0:37:51.080
<v Speaker 4>round up, I guess he was. He was the occasion

0:37:51.440 --> 0:37:53.360
<v Speaker 4>they cracked. We don't so what was it was?

0:37:53.400 --> 0:37:55.480
<v Speaker 2>His ass just slow? Like what was it like? It

0:37:55.640 --> 0:37:57.560
<v Speaker 2>was like the soggy kind. But I didn't I didn't

0:37:57.600 --> 0:37:59.359
<v Speaker 2>touch his ass. He fucked me. Had a really big day,

0:37:59.800 --> 0:38:02.960
<v Speaker 2>this old man. He has stamina, Yes, of course it did.

0:38:03.040 --> 0:38:03.640
<v Speaker 2>You see the time.

0:38:04.000 --> 0:38:07.960
<v Speaker 3>Men don't have a biological clock like women. You didn't

0:38:08.000 --> 0:38:08.640
<v Speaker 3>get hard forever.

0:38:09.560 --> 0:38:12.279
<v Speaker 2>I know he was doing poppers back when I was

0:38:12.320 --> 0:38:17.000
<v Speaker 2>out the sex club. Yeah, he describe why you're into

0:38:17.080 --> 0:38:18.040
<v Speaker 2>older men. I don't know.

0:38:18.400 --> 0:38:20.560
<v Speaker 4>It's so hard to explain. Like my first guy I

0:38:20.640 --> 0:38:22.520
<v Speaker 4>was talking to, who was fifty years old, I was eighteen.

0:38:22.960 --> 0:38:24.440
<v Speaker 4>He used to pick me up and like take me

0:38:24.520 --> 0:38:26.239
<v Speaker 4>to go get like food. And then I was like, Okay,

0:38:26.239 --> 0:38:27.520
<v Speaker 4>you gotta drive me off at like two o'clock in

0:38:27.520 --> 0:38:29.440
<v Speaker 4>the morning when everybody in my house sleep, so you

0:38:29.560 --> 0:38:30.520
<v Speaker 4>drive me back off at home.

0:38:30.560 --> 0:38:31.279
<v Speaker 2>And that would just be that.

0:38:31.440 --> 0:38:33.000
<v Speaker 4>But I would go and have sex with this man

0:38:33.080 --> 0:38:35.480
<v Speaker 4>and I wasn't like sex for I mean money for

0:38:35.560 --> 0:38:37.440
<v Speaker 4>play or no sugar daddy vibes, Like I was just

0:38:37.520 --> 0:38:38.560
<v Speaker 4>really into this old man.

0:38:39.320 --> 0:38:42.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know it's no. So you grew up with

0:38:42.960 --> 0:38:46.600
<v Speaker 2>a dad, mom and dad. People ask women that all

0:38:46.640 --> 0:38:51.600
<v Speaker 2>the time. Grandpa a happy home. I got a happy

0:38:53.000 --> 0:38:53.640
<v Speaker 2>It's so crazy.

0:38:53.719 --> 0:38:56.560
<v Speaker 3>But I think that when women choose that a they

0:38:56.680 --> 0:38:59.719
<v Speaker 3>either it's the narrative that they're being preyed on or

0:38:59.800 --> 0:39:02.040
<v Speaker 3>they're I'm looking for a daddy figure. So I ask

0:39:02.120 --> 0:39:04.440
<v Speaker 3>you that as a gay man who is like, no,

0:39:04.680 --> 0:39:07.520
<v Speaker 3>I like older men, but you don't really have a reason.

0:39:07.560 --> 0:39:08.160
<v Speaker 2>You're just that.

0:39:08.239 --> 0:39:09.799
<v Speaker 4>I think when I'm talking to them and I'm looking

0:39:09.800 --> 0:39:11.440
<v Speaker 4>at their arm having a conversation, I can tell them

0:39:11.480 --> 0:39:12.160
<v Speaker 4>they just want love.

0:39:12.200 --> 0:39:13.680
<v Speaker 2>They need love, and I want to give it to them.

0:39:13.719 --> 0:39:18.520
<v Speaker 2>You said you like them the god look, I love

0:39:18.560 --> 0:39:19.480
<v Speaker 2>a good nursing home.

0:39:19.520 --> 0:39:24.600
<v Speaker 3>Honey for a role play, oh, road play hold on,

0:39:25.120 --> 0:39:27.880
<v Speaker 3>give me the details on what a nursing home roleplay

0:39:27.960 --> 0:39:30.160
<v Speaker 3>is like laying in his bed with a little gown on.

0:39:31.040 --> 0:39:34.040
<v Speaker 4>He's sleeping, and then I'm just literally in between his legs.

0:39:34.560 --> 0:39:37.480
<v Speaker 4>I looked up that gown, get those two big juicy balls,

0:39:37.520 --> 0:39:39.600
<v Speaker 4>start to suck them, go to the tip of the dick,

0:39:40.200 --> 0:39:42.120
<v Speaker 4>and yes, I love it.

0:39:42.200 --> 0:39:46.160
<v Speaker 2>He waits up like that, you ain't like you about

0:39:46.160 --> 0:39:47.600
<v Speaker 2>to get called by a nurse. I'm like, oh no,

0:39:48.719 --> 0:39:52.680
<v Speaker 2>go back to sleep, take your medicine and pro sebakh bitch.

0:39:53.120 --> 0:39:54.960
<v Speaker 2>That is my type of role play. This is sick.

0:39:55.080 --> 0:39:57.440
<v Speaker 2>Keep going. That's that's what I like.

0:39:58.400 --> 0:40:00.640
<v Speaker 4>One of the things I like. Yes, and I love

0:40:00.719 --> 0:40:03.640
<v Speaker 4>my nipples lift. I don't even need to masturbate. I

0:40:03.640 --> 0:40:05.840
<v Speaker 4>don't need you to fuck me. If you lick my

0:40:05.920 --> 0:40:07.640
<v Speaker 4>nipples the right way, I'll just come literally.

0:40:07.880 --> 0:40:11.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we didn't even ask. Yeah, I started thinking about it.

0:40:11.440 --> 0:40:13.160
<v Speaker 2>I started thinking about it. Like I said, I like

0:40:13.239 --> 0:40:16.960
<v Speaker 2>olgers and you know what nipples. He had a guy

0:40:17.000 --> 0:40:21.759
<v Speaker 2>on this podcast that she used. And what's crazy is

0:40:23.080 --> 0:40:26.120
<v Speaker 2>there is so many straight men that I realize are

0:40:26.320 --> 0:40:30.920
<v Speaker 2>into guardwires, are not really like they won't ask for it.

0:40:31.360 --> 0:40:34.680
<v Speaker 3>But I've noticed much like my head begetting pushed towards

0:40:34.719 --> 0:40:36.440
<v Speaker 3>the nipple now, bitch, and I'm like, well, I'll lick

0:40:36.520 --> 0:40:40.960
<v Speaker 3>you nipple. But like straight men don't admit to the

0:40:41.040 --> 0:40:43.080
<v Speaker 3>fact that they really like their nipples being played with,

0:40:43.360 --> 0:40:45.120
<v Speaker 3>whether you lick it and rubb it or like you

0:40:45.239 --> 0:40:47.760
<v Speaker 3>literally just suck on their nipples. They have a problem

0:40:47.800 --> 0:40:49.600
<v Speaker 3>with saying that that's what they're into. And amber you

0:40:49.719 --> 0:40:53.120
<v Speaker 3>in these faces, No sucking nipples, No, that's out.

0:40:53.239 --> 0:40:59.040
<v Speaker 2>That's crazy. You'll suck feet but not nipples, right, Why

0:40:59.360 --> 0:41:02.960
<v Speaker 2>that's what's wrong with sucking a man? When you're like

0:41:04.760 --> 0:41:10.840
<v Speaker 2>gayy you whitties. I don't know, it's just weird what

0:41:11.000 --> 0:41:20.040
<v Speaker 2>you buy, so you sucking titties anyway? Why make it bake?

0:41:20.560 --> 0:41:21.320
<v Speaker 2>I just don't like that.

0:41:21.480 --> 0:41:29.120
<v Speaker 4>Now we want to do our sex tip segment. Gotta

0:41:29.120 --> 0:41:31.960
<v Speaker 4>start with you. It got dirm, it got to give us.

0:41:32.320 --> 0:41:34.880
<v Speaker 1>She been over there, just like, actually know what a

0:41:34.960 --> 0:41:37.719
<v Speaker 1>good dick sucking tip or even like sex sip with

0:41:37.840 --> 0:41:40.040
<v Speaker 1>your nails. A lot of girls get long nails. Now

0:41:40.320 --> 0:41:42.319
<v Speaker 1>tell me something you might do sexually with your nails.

0:41:42.320 --> 0:41:44.040
<v Speaker 1>But you ain't listening to her, She said there was

0:41:44.120 --> 0:41:51.000
<v Speaker 1>blood under the oay, you like thinking.

0:41:50.760 --> 0:41:52.440
<v Speaker 4>It's kind of crazy because I don't want to suck

0:41:52.480 --> 0:41:54.040
<v Speaker 4>down nipples. But what I do with my nails, I

0:41:54.160 --> 0:41:55.600
<v Speaker 4>like to put my nails in a nigga mouth.

0:41:56.360 --> 0:42:00.520
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, like a dick. And that not getting you,

0:42:00.640 --> 0:42:03.759
<v Speaker 2>that's not get that's right, that's what I said. I

0:42:04.200 --> 0:42:04.440
<v Speaker 2>knew it.

0:42:04.440 --> 0:42:06.480
<v Speaker 3>I knew it, But I like, you can you show

0:42:06.480 --> 0:42:09.600
<v Speaker 3>a wait a second, So you're getting while they're fucking you,

0:42:09.840 --> 0:42:11.919
<v Speaker 3>you like to put in his mouth?

0:42:12.360 --> 0:42:14.960
<v Speaker 2>How many nails too? And you just go like this

0:42:15.719 --> 0:42:19.759
<v Speaker 2>and you make him sucking and that's wow. You does

0:42:19.880 --> 0:42:21.520
<v Speaker 2>he go down to the tip of the nail or

0:42:21.520 --> 0:42:24.640
<v Speaker 2>does he just I mean to the brand? Okay? Wait right?

0:42:24.719 --> 0:42:29.960
<v Speaker 4>Hendad ever had Ryan stones or jewels on your not

0:42:30.280 --> 0:42:32.479
<v Speaker 4>that that's that's best kids.

0:42:33.239 --> 0:42:36.560
<v Speaker 2>So Ry stones and jail and gems is where you cross? Yeah,

0:42:36.600 --> 0:42:39.239
<v Speaker 2>that's crazy at this age. Oh I'm not gonna lie.

0:42:39.320 --> 0:42:42.400
<v Speaker 2>I thought they could. Okay, well, no, I lost, I

0:42:42.520 --> 0:42:46.799
<v Speaker 2>lost gems. I'm in a bootlehole. I'm like where went?

0:42:47.320 --> 0:42:49.440
<v Speaker 2>Hopefully it's on the bed and not aboole because I

0:42:49.480 --> 0:42:51.359
<v Speaker 2>do not want them to shoot. Imagine you take out

0:42:51.400 --> 0:42:55.640
<v Speaker 2>his You're like, why does it? That's nut?

0:42:56.239 --> 0:42:59.920
<v Speaker 3>While so so do you just do it without as

0:43:00.080 --> 0:43:02.240
<v Speaker 3>skiing or the men wanting to suck your acrylic?

0:43:02.320 --> 0:43:05.000
<v Speaker 2>Nowns, I got to do it without asking? Oh so

0:43:05.120 --> 0:43:06.279
<v Speaker 2>no consent? Wow?

0:43:06.640 --> 0:43:06.839
<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

0:43:08.920 --> 0:43:09.200
<v Speaker 2>Wow?

0:43:09.880 --> 0:43:10.080
<v Speaker 4>Like that?

0:43:10.320 --> 0:43:12.920
<v Speaker 2>But what they do it? Yes? What're you gonna say?

0:43:12.960 --> 0:43:16.279
<v Speaker 2>Get up? I guess yeah, I don't know that's what

0:43:16.320 --> 0:43:20.200
<v Speaker 2>you're about to do with a nipple. Yes, yeah, maybe

0:43:20.280 --> 0:43:20.720
<v Speaker 2>we don't.

0:43:20.600 --> 0:43:21.840
<v Speaker 1>Want Are you a dominant person?

0:43:22.120 --> 0:43:29.400
<v Speaker 2>Yes? Maybe that's why she's paying. Maybe okay, Well then

0:43:29.560 --> 0:43:29.919
<v Speaker 2>well then.

0:43:29.880 --> 0:43:32.440
<v Speaker 1>As someone that wants to trick sometimes I kind of.

0:43:32.440 --> 0:43:32.879
<v Speaker 2>Get it though.

0:43:33.160 --> 0:43:35.279
<v Speaker 3>Well then let me ask you you you knowing that

0:43:35.400 --> 0:43:39.280
<v Speaker 3>you like that power, like that control, you're independent even financially,

0:43:40.320 --> 0:43:41.800
<v Speaker 3>do you have to desire at all of them to

0:43:41.880 --> 0:43:42.520
<v Speaker 3>be sisive?

0:43:46.239 --> 0:43:46.520
<v Speaker 2>Maybe?

0:43:47.080 --> 0:43:50.919
<v Speaker 4>Okay, so but you miss them up to like well,

0:43:53.320 --> 0:43:55.880
<v Speaker 4>I guess like I don't know how to ask honestly.

0:43:56.719 --> 0:43:59.640
<v Speaker 4>Maybe e when like it comes to like sex, sometimes

0:43:59.680 --> 0:44:04.919
<v Speaker 4>I can't, you know, bow down. But besides that, like no, wow, yeah,

0:44:04.960 --> 0:44:06.680
<v Speaker 4>like you gonna go out like I like to get

0:44:06.719 --> 0:44:08.360
<v Speaker 4>my dude out for like, hey, you're gonna I'm hosting

0:44:08.440 --> 0:44:10.120
<v Speaker 4>to now you're gonna put this on, put that on.

0:44:10.160 --> 0:44:11.680
<v Speaker 4>I don't care if you don't like to dress them

0:44:11.920 --> 0:44:14.120
<v Speaker 4>what I'm fresh kicks and I'm damn this a nice.

0:44:14.480 --> 0:44:16.400
<v Speaker 2>You're gonna get your hair done, You're gonna do this.

0:44:16.760 --> 0:44:19.279
<v Speaker 2>You wait for the hair too. Let's not do all

0:44:19.320 --> 0:44:21.520
<v Speaker 2>that right now. But you know I'm gonna tell them

0:44:21.520 --> 0:44:25.160
<v Speaker 2>how to dress. Yeah, do you have kids? I don't

0:44:25.160 --> 0:44:37.160
<v Speaker 2>want kids? These niggas? Is your then?

0:44:37.360 --> 0:44:39.160
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I take I mean I still would love

0:44:39.160 --> 0:44:40.920
<v Speaker 3>for you to experience a man take you on a date,

0:44:41.000 --> 0:44:44.880
<v Speaker 3>but it could really just be like you are getting

0:44:44.960 --> 0:44:48.280
<v Speaker 3>what you want, Like you have this love and desire

0:44:48.360 --> 0:44:51.239
<v Speaker 3>for power and control and it's your comfort place.

0:44:51.640 --> 0:44:54.040
<v Speaker 1>And you know, Jacob might give us a little insploment

0:44:54.080 --> 0:44:56.279
<v Speaker 1>a horrible decision with the sugar and tips, because who

0:44:56.360 --> 0:44:59.000
<v Speaker 1>knows if you even really shared it to this degree

0:44:59.080 --> 0:45:02.640
<v Speaker 1>on just us, because I feel like hearing someone tell

0:45:02.760 --> 0:45:05.640
<v Speaker 1>us how they've kind of almost like enaggled someone and

0:45:05.719 --> 0:45:07.160
<v Speaker 1>been able to get them to do things for them,

0:45:07.200 --> 0:45:09.400
<v Speaker 1>which is really sugaring, like more.

0:45:09.320 --> 0:45:10.640
<v Speaker 2>Than it is any other kind of data.

0:45:11.120 --> 0:45:15.000
<v Speaker 4>Sugaring is like I'm here, I'm the prize, Like you

0:45:15.120 --> 0:45:17.000
<v Speaker 4>need to pay, you need to spend, you need to treat,

0:45:17.400 --> 0:45:20.040
<v Speaker 4>So tell us how maybe even if you had a

0:45:20.080 --> 0:45:21.560
<v Speaker 4>first experience, like did you know you were.

0:45:21.480 --> 0:45:22.399
<v Speaker 2>About to be a sugar baby?

0:45:22.520 --> 0:45:25.920
<v Speaker 4>Like, tell us that how it started. Yeah, well it

0:45:25.960 --> 0:45:28.880
<v Speaker 4>started when I lived in Sacramento. You know, I'm from Sacramento.

0:45:29.400 --> 0:45:31.200
<v Speaker 4>I would go to San Francisco. I used to do

0:45:31.280 --> 0:45:33.840
<v Speaker 4>a lot of acting work there, commercial work in San Francisco.

0:45:33.920 --> 0:45:36.879
<v Speaker 4>And there was an older man there and at the time,

0:45:37.160 --> 0:45:39.040
<v Speaker 4>there was like a subway and I was in between

0:45:39.080 --> 0:45:41.480
<v Speaker 4>breaks from filming and I didn't want another food from

0:45:41.480 --> 0:45:43.200
<v Speaker 4>the set, so them go to subway and get a sandich.

0:45:43.480 --> 0:45:44.960
<v Speaker 4>There's an older man and he was like, oh, you're

0:45:45.040 --> 0:45:46.920
<v Speaker 4>very handsome. I said, oh, thank you so much. You know,

0:45:46.920 --> 0:45:50.040
<v Speaker 4>I didn't even think about money or anything like that.

0:45:50.160 --> 0:45:51.920
<v Speaker 4>And he was like, when you're done, do you want

0:45:51.920 --> 0:45:53.279
<v Speaker 4>to come my lip over here. I'm like, oh, now,

0:45:53.480 --> 0:45:55.520
<v Speaker 4>you know you were young at the time, yeah, I was,

0:45:56.480 --> 0:45:59.200
<v Speaker 4>huh on, never mind, he was really this one. He

0:45:59.360 --> 0:46:02.560
<v Speaker 4>was really, really really old. Okay okay, yeah, and he

0:46:02.760 --> 0:46:04.439
<v Speaker 4>was like, you know, do you want to make some money?

0:46:04.520 --> 0:46:06.320
<v Speaker 4>And bitch, I had like twenty five dollars left. That

0:46:06.360 --> 0:46:07.839
<v Speaker 4>was enough to give me back. When the bus back

0:46:07.880 --> 0:46:10.120
<v Speaker 4>to Sacramento after my shoe, he said, you know how

0:46:10.120 --> 0:46:11.719
<v Speaker 4>it is do you want some money?

0:46:11.880 --> 0:46:13.640
<v Speaker 2>I would have thought it was what was what was

0:46:13.760 --> 0:46:15.960
<v Speaker 2>the money that was offered? Five hundred dollars for what

0:46:16.800 --> 0:46:18.360
<v Speaker 2>He wanted me to go up to his apartment.

0:46:18.440 --> 0:46:20.279
<v Speaker 4>He laid on his back and he wanted me to

0:46:20.360 --> 0:46:22.040
<v Speaker 4>like punch him in his back and call him like

0:46:22.080 --> 0:46:24.080
<v Speaker 4>a faggot and all these different words.

0:46:24.360 --> 0:46:27.560
<v Speaker 2>What brain him as a man. It was humiliation.

0:46:27.800 --> 0:46:29.600
<v Speaker 4>Humiliation. He loved it, and he was so old. I

0:46:29.640 --> 0:46:31.440
<v Speaker 4>felt so bad. I'm like, I'm gonna hurt you. He's

0:46:31.440 --> 0:46:34.360
<v Speaker 4>like I said, okay, boom boom boom, and I just

0:46:34.360 --> 0:46:36.640
<v Speaker 4>started calling him everything you ain't shit, that ain't ship

0:46:37.719 --> 0:46:41.920
<v Speaker 4>my slave. Now, like I start going, I start going in.

0:46:42.200 --> 0:46:44.239
<v Speaker 4>And he took me to the ATM. After he gave

0:46:44.400 --> 0:46:45.440
<v Speaker 4>I was so I was like, oh my god, I

0:46:45.440 --> 0:46:47.560
<v Speaker 4>can get used to this for real. So he became

0:46:47.560 --> 0:46:49.479
<v Speaker 4>my regular in San Francisco. But every time I would

0:46:49.480 --> 0:46:50.839
<v Speaker 4>go out there, I wouldn't do that all the time.

0:46:50.880 --> 0:46:52.560
<v Speaker 4>There would be like different things he wanted me to do,

0:46:52.640 --> 0:46:54.279
<v Speaker 4>maybe like go find him somebody else to do it.

0:46:54.360 --> 0:46:56.440
<v Speaker 4>Like he loved the idea of bringing a whole bunch

0:46:56.440 --> 0:46:58.719
<v Speaker 4>of black men back to his apartment and like humiliating him,

0:46:58.760 --> 0:46:59.640
<v Speaker 4>so I'll get a cut.

0:46:59.680 --> 0:47:02.000
<v Speaker 2>But we're okay, we get a cut. Well, oh yeah,

0:47:02.040 --> 0:47:02.879
<v Speaker 2>I'm all about a cut.

0:47:03.080 --> 0:47:05.839
<v Speaker 3>Even you saying that we thought we we we love

0:47:05.880 --> 0:47:08.680
<v Speaker 3>to have this kind of conversation. So in terms of

0:47:08.840 --> 0:47:11.080
<v Speaker 3>race play, you said he would love for a lot

0:47:11.120 --> 0:47:13.400
<v Speaker 3>of black men to do that. So you're okay with

0:47:14.040 --> 0:47:18.239
<v Speaker 3>race play and being fetishized because of the color of

0:47:18.239 --> 0:47:19.319
<v Speaker 3>your skin with these white men.

0:47:19.360 --> 0:47:20.440
<v Speaker 2>I think a check.

0:47:20.520 --> 0:47:22.600
<v Speaker 1>I'n be honest with you when I think of it's

0:47:22.600 --> 0:47:23.200
<v Speaker 1>a little bit different.

0:47:23.239 --> 0:47:25.200
<v Speaker 2>I didn't even think about it that way black like,

0:47:25.320 --> 0:47:25.560
<v Speaker 2>I know.

0:47:25.640 --> 0:47:27.799
<v Speaker 1>But race play is different when you're the one who's

0:47:27.800 --> 0:47:28.400
<v Speaker 1>the aggressor.

0:47:28.680 --> 0:47:30.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he wouldn't. He wouldn't talk to us crazy one

0:47:30.719 --> 0:47:31.759
<v Speaker 2>of us, Like like we.

0:47:32.120 --> 0:47:35.719
<v Speaker 1>Were generally thinking about race reverse reverse, same thing.

0:47:35.880 --> 0:47:39.040
<v Speaker 3>It's okay thing the way that he said you my slave,

0:47:39.120 --> 0:47:41.520
<v Speaker 3>Now there was but there I just said that he

0:47:41.520 --> 0:47:48.080
<v Speaker 3>didn't to say, but you said it anyway, I mean

0:47:48.200 --> 0:47:51.239
<v Speaker 3>even even I mean we talked about other women too

0:47:51.320 --> 0:47:54.680
<v Speaker 3>that believe in dealing with white men, they're getting their reparations.

0:47:54.840 --> 0:47:57.560
<v Speaker 3>So to me that there still is an element of

0:47:57.719 --> 0:47:59.960
<v Speaker 3>race playing that Like we talked to Marnie about that.

0:48:00.160 --> 0:48:04.480
<v Speaker 2>We talked to uh uh, Barnie. Yeah, the girl who

0:48:04.560 --> 0:48:09.480
<v Speaker 2>does that is her name, not Marti the fendo.

0:48:10.719 --> 0:48:13.640
<v Speaker 3>I don't know nobody's name right now, Barnie. And what

0:48:13.719 --> 0:48:16.000
<v Speaker 3>about the Lisa splicit, she did the same thing.

0:48:16.160 --> 0:48:21.040
<v Speaker 2>What is Marnie Marley? Mister Marley, I messed up a letter. Okay,

0:48:21.120 --> 0:48:22.560
<v Speaker 2>you knew what I was talking about. That I really

0:48:22.640 --> 0:48:27.359
<v Speaker 2>did it. But at least splicing. Both of them dealt

0:48:27.400 --> 0:48:29.080
<v Speaker 2>with white men and felt like it was a form

0:48:29.120 --> 0:48:30.080
<v Speaker 2>of reparation.

0:48:29.840 --> 0:48:31.719
<v Speaker 1>Right, But they were always jomming them, right, And so

0:48:31.960 --> 0:48:36.400
<v Speaker 1>I feel like he's race play is a very specific thing.

0:48:36.440 --> 0:48:42.880
<v Speaker 1>When you're bringing up someone's colors, someone typical stereotypes, even

0:48:43.160 --> 0:48:45.879
<v Speaker 1>like derogatory language, that's more race play.

0:48:45.960 --> 0:48:47.520
<v Speaker 2>But he said he would go get a whole bunch

0:48:47.560 --> 0:48:50.600
<v Speaker 2>of black boys. I understand. We got to be clear.

0:48:51.120 --> 0:48:54.320
<v Speaker 1>A race play is a very specific exactly what you

0:48:54.440 --> 0:48:56.240
<v Speaker 1>just said, though he wanted black boys.

0:48:56.320 --> 0:48:58.400
<v Speaker 2>I don't even the wanting to suck black people is

0:48:58.560 --> 0:48:59.759
<v Speaker 2>race play. You got me.

0:49:00.480 --> 0:49:02.440
<v Speaker 3>He said, you're wanting to be done by black people,

0:49:02.800 --> 0:49:06.200
<v Speaker 3>and he's like, you my slave, I'm your best.

0:49:06.640 --> 0:49:09.239
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think this would be good like commentary,

0:49:09.400 --> 0:49:11.200
<v Speaker 1>like for people watching on YouTube or even in the

0:49:11.239 --> 0:49:14.200
<v Speaker 1>comments like race played to me, is not you wanting

0:49:14.239 --> 0:49:16.640
<v Speaker 1>to fund someone black, you wanted to be donned by

0:49:16.680 --> 0:49:17.319
<v Speaker 1>someone black.

0:49:17.400 --> 0:49:17.960
<v Speaker 2>It is not race.

0:49:18.040 --> 0:49:22.040
<v Speaker 3>But to me, the knowing that you come from your

0:49:22.200 --> 0:49:25.879
<v Speaker 3>ancestry of white supremacy, whether you were a slave owner

0:49:26.000 --> 0:49:26.120
<v Speaker 3>or not.

0:49:26.280 --> 0:49:28.280
<v Speaker 2>You said he was old, he could have had a plantation.

0:49:28.440 --> 0:49:28.800
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

0:49:28.880 --> 0:49:31.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't know how old, kay Like being submission to

0:49:31.160 --> 0:49:32.160
<v Speaker 1>someone black is not race.

0:49:32.440 --> 0:49:35.239
<v Speaker 3>But what I'm saying is if there's a layer of

0:49:35.840 --> 0:49:39.359
<v Speaker 3>I'm turned on by the role playing of you now

0:49:39.480 --> 0:49:42.759
<v Speaker 3>being in a power position because of your race, knowing

0:49:42.840 --> 0:49:43.799
<v Speaker 3>that I'm a white man.

0:49:44.200 --> 0:49:47.080
<v Speaker 2>In in so I know I hear what you're saying.

0:49:47.600 --> 0:49:51.000
<v Speaker 1>I just think it's unfair to all black doms that

0:49:51.080 --> 0:49:52.879
<v Speaker 1>have white clients to say they're engaging in race.

0:49:53.120 --> 0:49:56.120
<v Speaker 3>But what I'm saying is, and back to even the

0:49:56.320 --> 0:49:58.680
<v Speaker 3>past guests that we have had, they have literally called

0:49:58.680 --> 0:50:00.319
<v Speaker 3>it a form of preparations.

0:49:59.760 --> 0:50:03.440
<v Speaker 2>For the Yeah, as a joke, But Radley is something

0:50:03.480 --> 0:50:06.200
<v Speaker 2>as a joke. Okay, chez a shirt that says reparations

0:50:06.239 --> 0:50:08.080
<v Speaker 2>with a white hand and money. Yeah. Like to me,

0:50:08.200 --> 0:50:11.840
<v Speaker 2>that's something like like we're getting deep. The question was

0:50:12.640 --> 0:50:14.440
<v Speaker 2>away you might.

0:50:14.520 --> 0:50:17.040
<v Speaker 1>Is getting deep for me because in some of the

0:50:17.160 --> 0:50:19.600
<v Speaker 1>recent interviews I've done, like I was telling Mandy, I

0:50:19.719 --> 0:50:21.239
<v Speaker 1>might have said on another episode, I went to a

0:50:21.280 --> 0:50:23.960
<v Speaker 1>brothel and I'll give you all the tea I miss.

0:50:25.160 --> 0:50:27.080
<v Speaker 1>I went, y'all know I do sex cells, which is

0:50:27.120 --> 0:50:31.840
<v Speaker 1>exploring sex businesses, and part of that business in the

0:50:31.880 --> 0:50:34.600
<v Speaker 1>brothel to me is it's almost like your blackness is

0:50:34.640 --> 0:50:36.560
<v Speaker 1>a business at that point. So I asked the brothel,

0:50:36.760 --> 0:50:38.920
<v Speaker 1>can I talk to these black women separate, because to me,

0:50:39.080 --> 0:50:41.720
<v Speaker 1>their story would be different from everyone else's there because

0:50:41.840 --> 0:50:43.959
<v Speaker 1>people are coming in to fuck your skin color.

0:50:44.080 --> 0:50:45.840
<v Speaker 2>That's just the truth, right. Oh my god, you're my

0:50:45.840 --> 0:50:47.359
<v Speaker 2>first black girl. Blah blah blah blah. Yeah.

0:50:47.480 --> 0:50:49.319
<v Speaker 1>And one of the things I said to all of them,

0:50:49.360 --> 0:50:50.840
<v Speaker 1>I think it was four or five black girls I

0:50:50.840 --> 0:50:53.080
<v Speaker 1>sat down with, I said, do y'all engage in race play?

0:50:53.120 --> 0:50:55.279
<v Speaker 2>And they all said absolutely no.

0:50:55.760 --> 0:50:59.400
<v Speaker 1>However, they embraced the fact that they know they may

0:50:59.480 --> 0:51:02.040
<v Speaker 1>be a fetish for some and talked a lot about

0:51:02.040 --> 0:51:05.160
<v Speaker 1>the differences with race play and basically saying like the

0:51:05.239 --> 0:51:08.200
<v Speaker 1>submission to a white guy would then be race play

0:51:08.239 --> 0:51:08.520
<v Speaker 1>for them.

0:51:08.680 --> 0:51:11.280
<v Speaker 2>The words being used, even the role playing itself.

0:51:11.360 --> 0:51:13.640
<v Speaker 3>So that's probably why I was like, I think that's

0:51:13.640 --> 0:51:16.080
<v Speaker 3>why when he brought up those words, because I'll be honest,

0:51:16.160 --> 0:51:19.120
<v Speaker 3>like even when and and I talked about it, like,

0:51:19.239 --> 0:51:22.520
<v Speaker 3>to me, race plays the same, like just to say

0:51:22.560 --> 0:51:24.560
<v Speaker 3>something is a fetish, like I ain't.

0:51:24.400 --> 0:51:26.360
<v Speaker 2>Like like when I I don't think it's fair to

0:51:26.400 --> 0:51:27.880
<v Speaker 2>say I want to.

0:51:27.880 --> 0:51:30.920
<v Speaker 3>Fuck you before you lose weight, Like people used to

0:51:31.160 --> 0:51:34.360
<v Speaker 3>talk about wanting to fuck me at a certain size,

0:51:34.560 --> 0:51:36.200
<v Speaker 3>and they didn't want to fuck me if I had

0:51:36.239 --> 0:51:38.200
<v Speaker 3>lost a certain amount of weight. And so to me,

0:51:39.160 --> 0:51:41.239
<v Speaker 3>even though that's a fetish, that to me is still

0:51:41.280 --> 0:51:43.600
<v Speaker 3>on some fucked up shit. I was never fucking nobody

0:51:43.800 --> 0:51:45.799
<v Speaker 3>who said they wanted to fuck me because they never

0:51:45.880 --> 0:51:47.800
<v Speaker 3>fucked a big girl, and they wanted to fuck me

0:51:47.840 --> 0:51:50.239
<v Speaker 3>as a big girl. And so the fact that this

0:51:50.440 --> 0:51:54.040
<v Speaker 3>man also had you recruit other black boys and this

0:51:54.280 --> 0:51:57.239
<v Speaker 3>was the conversation, that's where it's like, it's not it

0:51:57.360 --> 0:51:58.920
<v Speaker 3>goes beyond the fact that you're just a.

0:51:58.920 --> 0:52:01.280
<v Speaker 2>Black man and I want you to do this domination.

0:52:01.440 --> 0:52:04.719
<v Speaker 3>To me, you're seeking out other specifically black men to

0:52:04.840 --> 0:52:07.440
<v Speaker 3>humiliate you. And so to me, I think that back

0:52:07.480 --> 0:52:11.839
<v Speaker 3>to psychological there's a psychological element to race play.

0:52:12.040 --> 0:52:14.160
<v Speaker 4>Maybe he used to be a company, feels bad, Maybe

0:52:14.400 --> 0:52:16.600
<v Speaker 4>he needs to go to therapy now cast and call

0:52:16.760 --> 0:52:20.040
<v Speaker 4>for black men that one Caucasian man you pay good.

0:52:20.200 --> 0:52:21.640
<v Speaker 4>So that's what was in my mind at the time.

0:52:21.680 --> 0:52:23.560
<v Speaker 4>I was I don't have to do that in the mind, right, Okay,

0:52:23.719 --> 0:52:25.480
<v Speaker 4>now I won't do that anymore.

0:52:25.480 --> 0:52:27.600
<v Speaker 1>A lot is about like how do I get a

0:52:27.640 --> 0:52:29.759
<v Speaker 1>sugar daddy? So that's really where we were digging to you.

0:52:30.080 --> 0:52:32.239
<v Speaker 1>So you started like that, and then tell us more

0:52:32.280 --> 0:52:34.440
<v Speaker 1>about how it became sugar and how you knew you

0:52:34.520 --> 0:52:35.120
<v Speaker 1>wanted to do that.

0:52:35.360 --> 0:52:37.319
<v Speaker 2>Well, I didn't start sugar until I moved to La really.

0:52:37.480 --> 0:52:40.239
<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, I mean I had like, yeah, that guy

0:52:40.440 --> 0:52:42.640
<v Speaker 4>wasn't got to consider considering I'm a sugar daddy.

0:52:42.400 --> 0:52:44.360
<v Speaker 2>Because I had to work, right. But that's that's where it.

0:52:44.560 --> 0:52:46.480
<v Speaker 4>Even though some people that have sugar daddy, they have

0:52:46.560 --> 0:52:48.080
<v Speaker 4>to sleep with their sugar daddy, you know what I mean,

0:52:49.080 --> 0:52:49.800
<v Speaker 4>I don't do that.

0:52:50.040 --> 0:52:55.120
<v Speaker 2>Really, my sugar daddy he can't. He can't get he can,

0:52:55.320 --> 0:53:01.680
<v Speaker 2>but he can't come. Why there's science or something. He

0:53:01.760 --> 0:53:04.759
<v Speaker 2>can't do that science. So there's nothing. My sugar add

0:53:04.800 --> 0:53:06.480
<v Speaker 2>doesn't look for sex with me. He has a partner.

0:53:06.560 --> 0:53:08.799
<v Speaker 2>All he wants to do is go to litter shit.

0:53:09.000 --> 0:53:09.480
<v Speaker 2>But we haven't.

0:53:09.520 --> 0:53:11.800
<v Speaker 4>I haven't seen him in person in two years. He

0:53:11.880 --> 0:53:14.920
<v Speaker 4>still pays you, of course, of course, but what does

0:53:14.960 --> 0:53:15.520
<v Speaker 4>he pay you for?

0:53:16.320 --> 0:53:16.880
<v Speaker 2>Just to pay me?

0:53:17.080 --> 0:53:18.719
<v Speaker 4>Like he just if I ask him whatever I want,

0:53:18.760 --> 0:53:20.600
<v Speaker 4>I get. That's just how it works with him. We

0:53:20.680 --> 0:53:22.800
<v Speaker 4>build a friendship. So when you have a sugar daddy

0:53:22.840 --> 0:53:25.160
<v Speaker 4>and you want to secure the sugardaddy and securit, secure

0:53:25.200 --> 0:53:28.080
<v Speaker 4>the bag, it has to be a genuine friendship as well.

0:53:28.200 --> 0:53:30.919
<v Speaker 4>Yes you can, you can finesse only for so long.

0:53:31.160 --> 0:53:32.719
<v Speaker 4>But if you actually really get in there, when he

0:53:32.719 --> 0:53:34.200
<v Speaker 4>starts to trust you and he's like, you know what,

0:53:34.280 --> 0:53:36.360
<v Speaker 4>you're like my friend, me and my sugar they have

0:53:36.440 --> 0:53:37.640
<v Speaker 4>like a friendship. I actually really like it.

0:53:37.719 --> 0:53:40.200
<v Speaker 1>I think you are preaching so hard right now, mainly

0:53:40.280 --> 0:53:43.640
<v Speaker 1>because sugar babies assume it's all about their looks.

0:53:44.120 --> 0:53:47.359
<v Speaker 2>Sugar babies assume it's oh, like, you know, I'm hot.

0:53:47.440 --> 0:53:48.839
<v Speaker 1>He wants to make me this thing like there will

0:53:48.840 --> 0:53:50.600
<v Speaker 1>always be another you. You know, I'm saying, there's alway

0:53:50.640 --> 0:53:52.960
<v Speaker 1>gonna be another cute beach, a cute nigga whatever. But

0:53:53.080 --> 0:53:54.640
<v Speaker 1>one thing I know that you're saying that. I've never

0:53:54.719 --> 0:53:57.279
<v Speaker 1>really thought of my sugar daddy. And I started out

0:53:57.680 --> 0:54:00.279
<v Speaker 1>in the beginning, uh, just going out to bars and stuff.

0:54:00.280 --> 0:54:01.839
<v Speaker 1>He thought it was fun to have around, like, oh,

0:54:02.120 --> 0:54:03.440
<v Speaker 1>she brings a girls round. He would take me on

0:54:03.480 --> 0:54:06.040
<v Speaker 1>vacation shit like that, and then he was almost invested

0:54:06.120 --> 0:54:09.480
<v Speaker 1>in my life story and always felt like, especially with friendship,

0:54:09.640 --> 0:54:10.480
<v Speaker 1>he needed to take.

0:54:10.280 --> 0:54:10.600
<v Speaker 2>Care of me.

0:54:10.920 --> 0:54:12.680
<v Speaker 1>What would we do if anybody got hurting this roomun Now,

0:54:12.719 --> 0:54:14.200
<v Speaker 1>like we're you know what I mean, there's a friendship,

0:54:14.200 --> 0:54:16.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna take care of you. That's a really good

0:54:16.120 --> 0:54:19.160
<v Speaker 1>point because if you don't establish that friendship.

0:54:18.880 --> 0:54:20.239
<v Speaker 2>What the fuck does he need to stick around for?

0:54:20.280 --> 0:54:22.800
<v Speaker 2>Which is why I also agree with you.

0:54:23.600 --> 0:54:26.719
<v Speaker 3>Me and my friends debate this all the time because

0:54:27.000 --> 0:54:30.600
<v Speaker 3>their quote unquote sugar daddies it was transactional. They didn't

0:54:30.640 --> 0:54:34.960
<v Speaker 3>get money unless they saw them in person and had sex.

0:54:35.920 --> 0:54:38.399
<v Speaker 3>And I've been in a whole nother country with another

0:54:38.480 --> 0:54:40.719
<v Speaker 3>nigga and had to call one of my niggas like

0:54:41.320 --> 0:54:43.239
<v Speaker 3>his team ain't pay him, can you send me one

0:54:43.239 --> 0:54:43.839
<v Speaker 3>thousand dollars?

0:54:44.040 --> 0:54:47.160
<v Speaker 2>And this is Western Union Day, Like I had to

0:54:47.280 --> 0:54:50.359
<v Speaker 2>have my roommate go to Western union. I said, bitch,

0:54:50.360 --> 0:54:52.040
<v Speaker 2>I'll pay you one hundred dollars out of this, put.

0:54:51.920 --> 0:54:53.799
<v Speaker 3>It in my account so that I could have money

0:54:53.800 --> 0:54:55.800
<v Speaker 3>while I'm out in this other country with a nigga

0:54:55.800 --> 0:54:59.240
<v Speaker 3>whose team's not paying. And my friends could never understand

0:54:59.280 --> 0:55:02.680
<v Speaker 3>how I could get certain things from people without having sex.

0:55:02.800 --> 0:55:05.520
<v Speaker 3>And I said, well, if this is a sugar daddy

0:55:05.600 --> 0:55:09.000
<v Speaker 3>that really fucks with you, you shouldn't have to have

0:55:09.239 --> 0:55:10.880
<v Speaker 3>sex with him for him to show up for you.

0:55:11.239 --> 0:55:12.840
<v Speaker 3>And that's the only way they show up for you,

0:55:13.320 --> 0:55:15.319
<v Speaker 3>Like you should be able to ask at the drop

0:55:15.400 --> 0:55:17.759
<v Speaker 3>of the dime, whether he sees you or not, whether

0:55:17.800 --> 0:55:19.400
<v Speaker 3>you're giving him a good time or not, whether you

0:55:19.480 --> 0:55:20.279
<v Speaker 3>sucking his dick or not.

0:55:20.640 --> 0:55:22.040
<v Speaker 2>You should be able to depend.

0:55:21.800 --> 0:55:24.680
<v Speaker 3>On this person for stop. I gotta pee that bad,

0:55:25.400 --> 0:55:27.160
<v Speaker 3>so fuck de fat that I'm really the drunk one.

0:55:27.560 --> 0:55:29.840
<v Speaker 3>This been collects on a motherfucking bathroom, right, But we

0:55:29.920 --> 0:55:32.560
<v Speaker 3>gonna continue. So I agree with you, but I want

0:55:32.600 --> 0:55:36.480
<v Speaker 3>to talk. Then, how do you do you ever initiate

0:55:36.600 --> 0:55:40.520
<v Speaker 3>that relationship with someone like a Both of we know

0:55:40.719 --> 0:55:43.000
<v Speaker 3>where you're at with relationships, right, but with you, do

0:55:43.080 --> 0:55:46.200
<v Speaker 3>you ever go into it saying what you're looking for?

0:55:46.680 --> 0:55:48.600
<v Speaker 2>Do you go in wanting an arrangement, or do you

0:55:48.680 --> 0:55:50.680
<v Speaker 2>go in knowing it could be more than you go

0:55:50.760 --> 0:55:51.839
<v Speaker 2>and wanting a relationship.

0:55:53.000 --> 0:55:55.800
<v Speaker 4>I would say, before I had my sugar Daddy, I

0:55:55.840 --> 0:55:58.640
<v Speaker 4>would go into it like I need the lifestyle I

0:55:58.680 --> 0:56:00.719
<v Speaker 4>live and I need to pay for I'm very blind.

0:56:00.719 --> 0:56:02.480
<v Speaker 4>I don't waste no time. I don't want my time wasted.

0:56:02.880 --> 0:56:04.560
<v Speaker 4>Since I've had the Sugar Daddy and I'm able to

0:56:04.640 --> 0:56:07.000
<v Speaker 4>kind of be independent on I still have them, but

0:56:07.040 --> 0:56:10.400
<v Speaker 4>I'm still like independent kind of too, So I don't.

0:56:12.920 --> 0:56:15.160
<v Speaker 2>You can have multiple straight income. That's just what You're right,

0:56:15.200 --> 0:56:16.160
<v Speaker 2>You're right, You're right right.

0:56:16.360 --> 0:56:19.239
<v Speaker 4>So with him, it's not I don't even really talk

0:56:19.280 --> 0:56:21.840
<v Speaker 4>to him about transactions or anything like that anymore, like

0:56:21.880 --> 0:56:23.760
<v Speaker 4>unless I need it, Like when we're having a conversation,

0:56:24.080 --> 0:56:25.520
<v Speaker 4>we don't talk about Like I literally just said on

0:56:25.560 --> 0:56:26.680
<v Speaker 4>my Apple pay request.

0:56:26.480 --> 0:56:29.880
<v Speaker 2>Well that was gonna be my next question. Just setting

0:56:29.960 --> 0:56:30.200
<v Speaker 2>them up.

0:56:30.239 --> 0:56:33.200
<v Speaker 3>Fucking Apple pay request probably doesn't work for everybody. So

0:56:33.280 --> 0:56:36.759
<v Speaker 3>I'm what is the what is then the simplest way

0:56:37.120 --> 0:56:39.480
<v Speaker 3>for anyone listening to this and they're like, damn, I

0:56:39.520 --> 0:56:41.080
<v Speaker 3>don't know how to get nothing out of these thiggas.

0:56:41.320 --> 0:56:44.759
<v Speaker 3>What would be the simplest, most sure way for you

0:56:44.840 --> 0:56:48.720
<v Speaker 3>to respectfully ask a man for money without them feeling

0:56:48.880 --> 0:56:51.520
<v Speaker 3>like they tricking on you. Cause men sometimes don't want

0:56:51.560 --> 0:56:53.680
<v Speaker 3>to feel like a trick right, So how do you

0:56:53.760 --> 0:56:57.160
<v Speaker 3>go about asking somebody for money without making them feel

0:56:57.560 --> 0:56:58.480
<v Speaker 3>a way about you asking?

0:56:58.880 --> 0:57:01.200
<v Speaker 4>Whether it's a job, relationship, ship, family member, or spouse,

0:57:01.239 --> 0:57:04.439
<v Speaker 4>communication is key. I always communicate with my sugar Daddy.

0:57:04.440 --> 0:57:06.759
<v Speaker 4>If I'm about to go out of town, I'm gonna

0:57:06.840 --> 0:57:08.239
<v Speaker 4>let him know, like, Hey, in a couple weeks, I'm

0:57:08.239 --> 0:57:10.520
<v Speaker 4>going to New York. Like when I did mtvvma's, I

0:57:10.600 --> 0:57:12.040
<v Speaker 4>let him know two weeks in advance. I'm like, I'm

0:57:12.080 --> 0:57:16.160
<v Speaker 4>going to mtvvma's. I need three thousand dollars just to go.

0:57:16.600 --> 0:57:18.480
<v Speaker 4>I need an outfit, I need hotel, I need a

0:57:18.520 --> 0:57:20.720
<v Speaker 4>spaces when I get there, I need a flight, And

0:57:20.800 --> 0:57:21.400
<v Speaker 4>I may ask.

0:57:21.280 --> 0:57:22.560
<v Speaker 2>You for more when I go. Just let you know,

0:57:22.920 --> 0:57:24.480
<v Speaker 2>and I let him know. This is really big for me.

0:57:24.560 --> 0:57:26.520
<v Speaker 4>This is something I've always wanted to do, you know

0:57:26.560 --> 0:57:28.760
<v Speaker 4>what I mean? So just communicating that even if I'm

0:57:28.840 --> 0:57:30.840
<v Speaker 4>going to dinner with my friend it's Amber's birthday next week,

0:57:30.920 --> 0:57:33.040
<v Speaker 4>let's just say that. I'm like Okay, my friend has

0:57:33.080 --> 0:57:35.600
<v Speaker 4>a birthday dinner next week. I'm gonna need like seven

0:57:35.680 --> 0:57:37.840
<v Speaker 4>hundred dollars or three hundred dollars. You know, I just

0:57:37.920 --> 0:57:40.280
<v Speaker 4>I communicate with him now if it's an emergency, I

0:57:40.400 --> 0:57:41.960
<v Speaker 4>always put it in cats emergency.

0:57:42.000 --> 0:57:43.600
<v Speaker 2>He knows I usually don't do that, though, but I

0:57:43.680 --> 0:57:46.640
<v Speaker 2>let him Suburthency. Yeah, is there is there?

0:57:46.960 --> 0:57:49.400
<v Speaker 3>Is there a dollar amount? And I'll be honest. I

0:57:50.000 --> 0:57:52.120
<v Speaker 3>used to have a saying, but is there a dollar

0:57:52.160 --> 0:57:54.760
<v Speaker 3>amount that you won't ask for because you feel like

0:57:54.840 --> 0:57:57.080
<v Speaker 3>it makes you look like a cheap bitch? Like I

0:57:57.200 --> 0:57:59.960
<v Speaker 3>used to tell everybody. I used to tell all my homegirls,

0:58:00.120 --> 0:58:01.680
<v Speaker 3>don't as for us than five hundred dollars. If you

0:58:01.680 --> 0:58:03.680
<v Speaker 3>are here asking a nigga for eighty dollars or two

0:58:03.760 --> 0:58:06.880
<v Speaker 3>hundred dollars, you are setting yourself up to look like

0:58:07.640 --> 0:58:10.520
<v Speaker 3>a broke ass bitch. Thing can't like they can't do nothing.

0:58:10.840 --> 0:58:12.960
<v Speaker 3>So what is the lowest amount of money you'll ask

0:58:13.040 --> 0:58:14.880
<v Speaker 3>somebody for? Because you didn't just say three hundred.

0:58:14.640 --> 0:58:18.600
<v Speaker 2>So I said seven, I said seven hundred, three hundred.

0:58:20.040 --> 0:58:21.680
<v Speaker 3>So what's the least amount of money you would ask

0:58:21.840 --> 0:58:25.120
<v Speaker 3>somebody without feeling like why am I asking this? Motherfucker

0:58:25.160 --> 0:58:29.200
<v Speaker 3>fudd this month, right, I will probably say three hundred

0:58:29.440 --> 0:58:32.120
<v Speaker 3>three hundred. Yeah, I don't ask him for like little

0:58:32.160 --> 0:58:35.720
<v Speaker 3>money I have. I have rent and then this podcast.

0:58:35.840 --> 0:58:38.520
<v Speaker 3>You know, we you know, we gotta invest. You're spending

0:58:38.880 --> 0:58:42.440
<v Speaker 3>in my right right, so that's a part of my

0:58:42.760 --> 0:58:45.320
<v Speaker 3>my monthly. You know, I need you to send that,

0:58:45.360 --> 0:58:46.880
<v Speaker 3>and now I gotta budget that, you know what I mean.

0:58:47.280 --> 0:58:48.960
<v Speaker 2>But I don't. I don't feel bad.

0:58:49.280 --> 0:58:50.800
<v Speaker 4>You know, when I first had my Sugardaddy, I used

0:58:50.800 --> 0:58:52.000
<v Speaker 4>to feel bad for asking him for like a lot

0:58:52.040 --> 0:58:53.400
<v Speaker 4>of money. I'm like, oh my god, like I think

0:58:53.400 --> 0:58:56.160
<v Speaker 4>I'm doing too much. But four years later he got

0:58:56.200 --> 0:58:58.840
<v Speaker 4>me my own apartment well over six figures. I mean,

0:58:58.960 --> 0:59:02.400
<v Speaker 4>so we have I have this relationship. We have this

0:59:02.480 --> 0:59:04.160
<v Speaker 4>relationship where it's like he believes in me.

0:59:04.240 --> 0:59:05.920
<v Speaker 2>So I let him know. He need watches the podcast.

0:59:06.080 --> 0:59:07.280
<v Speaker 2>He knows about the podcast.

0:59:07.360 --> 0:59:09.080
<v Speaker 4>Now he knew about my YouTube channel when I was

0:59:09.160 --> 0:59:11.880
<v Speaker 4>teaching people around the world how to get a sugar daddy, like,

0:59:12.080 --> 0:59:12.640
<v Speaker 4>he watches that.

0:59:13.080 --> 0:59:15.080
<v Speaker 2>Do you do you want love and do you want

0:59:15.120 --> 0:59:18.120
<v Speaker 2>a relationship? Oh guess I do? And it's not transactional

0:59:18.160 --> 0:59:18.960
<v Speaker 2>when I'm looking for mine.

0:59:19.080 --> 0:59:21.480
<v Speaker 3>So when you're looking for love in a relationship. I

0:59:21.520 --> 0:59:24.680
<v Speaker 3>feel like this was probably one of my hardest things

0:59:24.720 --> 0:59:28.560
<v Speaker 3>in my twenties. I was so financially dependent on multiple

0:59:28.640 --> 0:59:31.479
<v Speaker 3>men that I felt like it hindered me from finding

0:59:31.560 --> 0:59:34.200
<v Speaker 3>love because I felt like, well, these bills still got

0:59:34.280 --> 0:59:36.600
<v Speaker 3>to get paid. Even if someone came around that I

0:59:36.720 --> 0:59:39.520
<v Speaker 3>really liked, would I be able to cut these niggas loose?

0:59:39.680 --> 0:59:41.040
<v Speaker 3>I used to be on the spot and be like,

0:59:41.640 --> 0:59:45.040
<v Speaker 3>you know what, uh if I got a boyfriend, now

0:59:45.080 --> 0:59:47.120
<v Speaker 3>he got to accept all my hosts because these holes

0:59:47.120 --> 0:59:47.880
<v Speaker 3>ain't going nowhere.

0:59:48.400 --> 0:59:51.960
<v Speaker 2>So I want to ask you, then, you wanting to.

0:59:52.000 --> 0:59:54.680
<v Speaker 3>Find love, would you be willing to cut this sugar

0:59:54.760 --> 0:59:56.600
<v Speaker 3>daddy off that just paid for your apartment?

0:59:56.680 --> 1:00:00.320
<v Speaker 2>Depends person, It depends on the person. You know. When

1:00:00.360 --> 1:00:01.960
<v Speaker 2>I go on dates and things like that with guys,

1:00:02.320 --> 1:00:02.959
<v Speaker 2>I'm very blunt.

1:00:02.960 --> 1:00:05.280
<v Speaker 4>I let you do on the first day, when you know,

1:00:05.320 --> 1:00:06.960
<v Speaker 4>when we're asking about each other, I'll be like, I

1:00:07.000 --> 1:00:08.680
<v Speaker 4>have a sugar daddy. You.

1:00:09.080 --> 1:00:20.320
<v Speaker 2>Oh baby, y'all from come on, tell you I was

1:00:20.360 --> 1:00:21.000
<v Speaker 2>sitting there. You didn't.

1:00:21.520 --> 1:00:25.360
<v Speaker 3>Oh, I love mowning while I pissed. That's a good piss.

1:00:26.040 --> 1:00:28.280
<v Speaker 3>So wait, don't don't come in and trupt. I'm gonna

1:00:28.280 --> 1:00:28.840
<v Speaker 3>say that's crazy.

1:00:28.880 --> 1:00:29.840
<v Speaker 2>I just heard. Yeah.

1:00:30.000 --> 1:00:32.440
<v Speaker 3>So you let people know, even if you may be

1:00:32.680 --> 1:00:35.560
<v Speaker 3>interested in them outside of an arrangement, you let them

1:00:35.640 --> 1:00:37.960
<v Speaker 3>know out the gate that you have a sugar daddy.

1:00:38.040 --> 1:00:38.200
<v Speaker 2>See.

1:00:38.240 --> 1:00:39.840
<v Speaker 4>I'm on the point in my life now when I'm

1:00:39.840 --> 1:00:41.800
<v Speaker 4>starting to like, you know, grind, to make a name

1:00:41.840 --> 1:00:43.360
<v Speaker 4>for myself, and I still have my sugar daddy.

1:00:43.360 --> 1:00:43.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm not.

1:00:43.600 --> 1:00:46.520
<v Speaker 4>My sugardaddy gets me everything I need as far as finances,

1:00:46.600 --> 1:00:48.000
<v Speaker 4>you know what I mean. So when I'm looking for

1:00:48.080 --> 1:00:50.560
<v Speaker 4>a relationship with somebody, I'm not looking for another sugar daddy.

1:00:50.840 --> 1:00:52.480
<v Speaker 4>I'm looking for a man that has like his own

1:00:52.520 --> 1:00:55.120
<v Speaker 4>money of course, or seven hundred credit you know, the

1:00:55.120 --> 1:00:55.880
<v Speaker 4>American Express.

1:00:56.280 --> 1:01:01.680
<v Speaker 2>But I'm not looking for how do you feel the need? No,

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<v Speaker 2>I gotta let them know because people know me from that.

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<v Speaker 4>Imagine being Imagine being with somebody. I'm on a date

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<v Speaker 4>with somebody, right, we go on our second date. Somebody

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<v Speaker 4>comes to the table like, oh my god, Jacob. They

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<v Speaker 4>call me grinding Jacob's garre. So they'll be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>I love your sugardaddy. Channel people come up to me

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<v Speaker 4>and say that all the time. So I'm gonna let

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<v Speaker 4>them know that in the beginning, because when I'm trying

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<v Speaker 4>to go on a date with somebody I genuinely have

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<v Speaker 4>interest in you, I'm not gonna go on a date

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<v Speaker 4>with somebody i'm not interested in. I'm gonna let you

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<v Speaker 4>know all of me. Not all of me, but I'm

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<v Speaker 4>gonna let you know the main things in the beginning,

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<v Speaker 4>because I'm not gonna waste your time. What if I'm

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<v Speaker 4>vibing with you and I'm starting to like, okay, maybe

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<v Speaker 4>this is potential, nigga, I'm not gonna get my hopes

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<v Speaker 4>up and be like Okay on the second date, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>gonna go let them know I have a sugar daddy,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what I mean. No, I'm gonna let them

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<v Speaker 4>know in the beginning, because if you're not interested, that's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>I move on.

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<v Speaker 4>But nobody has ever complained. The guys that I talked

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<v Speaker 4>to my ex boyfriends, they did not care. They didn't

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<v Speaker 4>get because they know I don't have sex with him.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm very blunt. If I did, i'd be like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I did, but I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I never had to.

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<v Speaker 4>Because you don't fuck Probably, I don't even have to

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<v Speaker 4>see him. I can literally be with m I used

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<v Speaker 4>to check with my ex boyfriend. I'd be like, hold on,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, where are we going for dinner? I'll be

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<v Speaker 4>like where you want to go for dinner? Will literally

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<v Speaker 4>just sit there like and and send him ask for

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<v Speaker 4>Apple Apple pay request. He was seving the money when

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<v Speaker 4>I flew the nigga out from Texas for my birthday

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<v Speaker 4>and I had the big party.

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<v Speaker 2>Ya look aver is it because she was at the party?

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<v Speaker 2>Is like, you flew him out? Yeah, I didn't tell

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<v Speaker 2>you if I did. I did. I fooled him out.

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<v Speaker 4>I foo my mom out, personal driving guests. Of course

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't do it all the time, but I did

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<v Speaker 4>for my birthday. I did fight MoMA, don't cow that's sweet?

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<v Speaker 4>Why didn't you a man as a sugar baby? Like?

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<v Speaker 4>It's so, if you know what, I'm kind of a

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<v Speaker 4>trick in a way. I am kind of hand no,

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<v Speaker 4>like I have a sugar baddy. But if I really

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<v Speaker 4>like you, like my ex boyfriend, I really like I

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<v Speaker 4>loved him. I really liked him. It's not like I

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<v Speaker 4>always paid for everything but your time that it is

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<v Speaker 4>like this, I don't give it qualified. I like this man,

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<v Speaker 4>And I said, you're gonna come to my birthday party.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm flying you out here.

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<v Speaker 2>I flew him out. How are you gonna fight? How

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<v Speaker 2>did you like? Oh, you never flew out? Why do

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<v Speaker 2>you think I don't fly on the mother fucking because

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<v Speaker 2>that's the only time I even.

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<v Speaker 3>Offered the fly motherfucker out is when it was COVID

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<v Speaker 3>because the flight was seventeen dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, I got it. Did you want you got

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<v Speaker 2>a nigga? You said, what a back in the day

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<v Speaker 2>that house, you still got it?

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<v Speaker 4>Transportation, the bottom shot, you bottom dinner, if you boy

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<v Speaker 4>a man, a shot, a drink of food and meal.

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<v Speaker 2>Bitch, you trick to and got me fucked. Yeah, mommy,

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<v Speaker 2>that's all the time I got. Yes. But you know

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<v Speaker 2>about my sugardadd he was cool with telling.

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<v Speaker 1>People where to fuss is they can't figure out where

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<v Speaker 1>to find a sugar daddy from the infront you.

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<v Speaker 3>You did not really give the guidelines. So I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 3>tell you now it's given.

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<v Speaker 4>You guys asked about my sugar baby experience. I told

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<v Speaker 4>you I have a sugardaddy. If you guys want to

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<v Speaker 4>know how to get a sugar daddy, I have a

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<v Speaker 4>YouTube channel called grinding Jacob's gears. I'm the only African

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<v Speaker 4>American black gay mail on YouTube that gives me.

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<v Speaker 2>Out on YouTube's advice. Thank you going on YouTube?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, and I got I had about whole episode on

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<v Speaker 4>on TV because of my my channel. Anyways, I teach

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<v Speaker 4>you how to get sugaraddy. So go watch it and

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<v Speaker 4>guess what I preach about. You don't have to see

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<v Speaker 4>what these men from money and you don't ask for crumbs.

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<v Speaker 4>We need the whole mel And then I'm also gonna

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<v Speaker 4>fly you out. And no, I flicked the one man out.

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<v Speaker 4>It was my ex boyfriend. Don't do that, it was

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<v Speaker 4>I was it show us. I did fly him out,

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<v Speaker 4>and I fly out another nigga. Shit if I feel

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<v Speaker 4>like it should. Jason Leeve, he's flying niggas out, and he.

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<v Speaker 2>Did say that part. You right, it ain't trigging if

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<v Speaker 2>you got it, and I had it at that day.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're about to break his next. You're about to

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<v Speaker 2>make me feel bad for flying that nigga out. I

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<v Speaker 2>love that man. I did that. Man, you know you

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<v Speaker 2>love your sugar daddy too. Of course he did. He

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<v Speaker 2>watched my YouTube channel. Look at what's next. It's giving

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<v Speaker 2>a y'all can find y'all Instagram at jst L b

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<v Speaker 2>B Y with the Deal. Yeah that's right and good. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>We just episode twenty of our podcast.

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