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Speaker 1: Today's pisode, if you're watching on the YouTube, is a
Speaker 1: very hungover one.
Speaker 2: I'm over, Oh, Mandy's still drunk. This ship is from
Speaker 2: twenty minutes ago.
Speaker 1: And all of us are wearing sunglasses and the podcast
Speaker 1: is giving I went.
Speaker 3: Out last night and this morning and brunch, and hey, y'all,
Speaker 3: welcome to Horror Black Homes. I'm your girl, Mandy b
Speaker 3: aka for cork Pumps, AKA that bitch ak a get
Speaker 3: a T shirt?
Speaker 2: Excuse me, AKA, I need to have a full T shirt.
Speaker 1: What's the do you want a full T shirt? Mandy
Speaker 1: looked like she's auditioning for Battie's ease. We're not gonna
Speaker 1: do that. We're not gonna do that.
Speaker 4: We're not gonna do that.
Speaker 3: Okay, so you don't no, because I ain't got the
Speaker 3: vesseline in my back pocket to put on my face
Speaker 3: to beat you bitches up.
Speaker 2: You used to do that back in the day because
Speaker 2: I used to. I know I.
Speaker 3: Lay Anyways, what's crazy is uh, full sets do not
Speaker 3: cost the same as they used to. I'm not fighting,
Speaker 3: but this is also wine ball headed because if y'all
Speaker 3: listen to the pod, y'all know I pull that ponytail
Speaker 3: out of Weezy's head when we thought and won't do
Speaker 3: it again.
Speaker 2: And did up. So why you got it from the back,
Speaker 2: We have from the front. Bitch, be real clear, get
Speaker 2: up and fuck you won't. We have guests today y'all
Speaker 2: here in the l A, Los Angeles. We have Hambro,
Speaker 2: we have Jacob and.
Speaker 3: Podcast joining us, and baby, what's up?
Speaker 2: What's up?
Speaker 3: He was drinking, So to be fair, I started with
Speaker 3: the bear because I was just like, I'm watching. First off,
Speaker 3: I'm watching the game and I'm just rooting. I'm like
Speaker 3: wings and beer, let's do it. And then a nigga
Speaker 3: that I know from the pasts come in with his
Speaker 3: little boo thing.
Speaker 2: So we talked, we catch up. Did she see she spoke?
Speaker 2: We had the same name. So did she know y'all? No, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 2: no no no no, no, no, no, no this but y'all
Speaker 2: said a friend. I ain't saying a boo this is
Speaker 2: you said a nigga from the past like that? I did.
Speaker 2: I just know.
Speaker 3: Okay, that wasn't given friendship. Okay, it's pure friendship. Never
Speaker 3: fuck this man. So he walks in. I say, hey,
Speaker 3: they sit at the bar.
Speaker 2: It's given. Do you want a shot? I don't care
Speaker 2: if she want one, but does she want one?
Speaker 3: She ain't want one, So we take a shot, and
Speaker 3: then the Jason Lee comes into and then he's bougie,
Speaker 3: so he gets bottle service.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, I'm not sitting he said, I'm not
Speaker 2: sitting at the bar. So we we was drinking, We
Speaker 2: was catching up and what's the story? Man?
Speaker 4: There was supposed to be a story. It was given Climagne.
Speaker 4: She was like, so I was out and we were like,
Speaker 4: oh yeah, no, no, no, no, a nigga from the past. No.
Speaker 2: So it was basically you went to a bar. I
Speaker 2: went to a bar.
Speaker 3: And I'm in La and I saw niggasn't And I
Speaker 3: was like, Wow, I didn't know people came here like that.
Speaker 2: But can I talk about it? We've gone there before.
Speaker 3: Like every time I come to La, Jacob will pull
Speaker 3: up on me and just do drinks and do a
Speaker 3: shot and take me right around this little l shape
Speaker 3: where I'll be staying in because I don't like to
Speaker 3: go too far, and we just get drunk.
Speaker 4: Yes, you didn't go to Herbibi last time, though we
Speaker 4: went to west Woods. We did after the show.
Speaker 2: We did go after the show wherever? That is that
Speaker 2: what it's called. I was about to the niggas and
Speaker 2: about to get canceled. Who you calling her? Bb? Is
Speaker 2: that where we was at?
Speaker 4: Yeah, there are lots of call places that yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 4: but it's like a name of aboutga hawk shop.
Speaker 2: But is that not like say welcome hevb wow means
Speaker 2: sweetheart something like that.
Speaker 3: I ain't never been to a place called bi racial
Speaker 3: or mulatto or anything like that.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean. I'm just saying, and I
Speaker 2: feel like that, Danny, what her BB means? What this? Wait?
Speaker 2: Are you her bb? Wait? What is a hood bb?
Speaker 4: I think it means sweet or I even went to
Speaker 4: a wolong the other day and the lady just kept saying,
Speaker 4: why about calling her bibe like every five minutes? I
Speaker 4: don't know, Wait, you're abe my love guests. Yeah, she
Speaker 4: kept saying, like hebibie. Okay, why is that considered offensive?
Speaker 2: Nobody said it was. We need no when you call
Speaker 2: certain people herbibe is offensive the bibies.
Speaker 3: Anyway, y'all welcome to the pile. We're gonna talk all
Speaker 3: things thoughts.
Speaker 2: Are you hold on? No, we not No, we're not.
Speaker 2: We're talking about sugaring, todaby, but stop it. That's not ship. No,
Speaker 2: it's not class. I'm a class.
Speaker 3: Just because y'all call it sugaring does not mean it's
Speaker 3: not prostitution.
Speaker 2: But let's get through it.
Speaker 4: I do want to know, though, you guys have a podcast,
Speaker 4: how did y'all link up for the Justice Spot?
Speaker 2: Just being friends? We'll being friends for a long time.
Speaker 4: And then I had my podcast Brian and Jacob Skears,
Speaker 4: and then she came on and was a guest, and
Speaker 4: then we were already talking about having a podcast together,
Speaker 4: but she was like, okay, firm were going to we're
Speaker 4: gonna do and then she came on on She's like,
Speaker 4: I think I'm ready.
Speaker 2: So then we just started it and yeah, there we are.
Speaker 4: Now what is your podcast for so twenty it's an
Speaker 4: unapologetic raw podcast, uncut.
Speaker 2: You come on and say what you want to circumcised podcast? Well,
Speaker 2: you know that's me.
Speaker 4: But you could take off your wig. Just make sure
Speaker 4: you're shampooed and condition No dan drift on the furniture. Okay,
Speaker 4: come as you are as you are, so we open
Speaker 4: it up to absolutely you. You got a man, a
Speaker 4: little situation. You got a situation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, how long this situation will happened? In six months? Okay?
Speaker 2: Yeah it's new. Yeah? You like him? Yeah? Five? How
Speaker 2: are you? I hold you? Bitch? You like me? I'm
Speaker 2: doing the same thing right now. But it's a good time.
Speaker 2: It's cute, giving, so it's not getting toxic. I'm not
Speaker 2: gonna lie five isn't bad. It's your twenty two.
Speaker 3: No. But the gen Zers that's where I said, Like
Speaker 3: he said, he texts better than he talks, so I'm
Speaker 3: like having to work through like the communication.
Speaker 2: Of it all.
Speaker 1: He texts, that's what That's how they learned how to communicate.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I think they like the gen Zers that
Speaker 3: anyone belowed, like twenty seven, I would say, the way
Speaker 3: they communicate, the social media of it.
Speaker 2: All, like how they view relationships.
Speaker 3: A lot of them now we've seen La Chopa talking
Speaker 3: about it, but a lot of them are open to
Speaker 3: different type of relationships that aren't traditional. They're open to
Speaker 3: trying new things. But their communication sucks. They want to
Speaker 3: fucking text and snapchat and WhatsApp.
Speaker 2: I didn't know niggas really still snapchat? Oh it yet?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I've been snapchat. Oh why what's you for?
Speaker 4: Dix Ah that too, but also just for fine. But
Speaker 4: also now I feel like I'm that girl. You can't
Speaker 4: screenshot me or save my pictures? Hello, meet me on Snapchat?
Speaker 3: I don't stem like can't Yeah, but then once you
Speaker 3: see it, like if you a nigga, who's gonna screenshot
Speaker 3: my shit?
Speaker 2: You not the nigga for me.
Speaker 3: We talked about this when we were talking about the
Speaker 3: the Depth. What is it called the depth something? What
Speaker 3: was the shit we were talking about? Deepay, the Deep thinks?
Speaker 4: So what is that, Prescott?
Speaker 2: I don't know the Deep thinks? Okay.
Speaker 3: And so to me now, knowing that we have this
Speaker 3: big platform, I'm not gonna just be talking to just
Speaker 3: anybody and sending nudes and like seeing too that people
Speaker 3: are monetizing off of all these things on their on
Speaker 3: even their OnlyFans and platforms. Now I feel safer talking
Speaker 3: to people where everything's just exchanged. There's got to be
Speaker 3: a better ho app than stapchat signal. But that's what
Speaker 3: the drug dealers.
Speaker 2: It is, not all y'all knowing the same. I don't
Speaker 2: you know what.
Speaker 1: I really hate when you finally get a new drug
Speaker 1: dealers number and they send you like you're like, oh hey,
Speaker 1: I'm hitting up for the mess and then you send
Speaker 1: us copy and places.
Speaker 2: Like here's the listener what I got?
Speaker 1: Like when you're texting me, please do pizza science for this,
Speaker 1: Like nigga what this is too much?
Speaker 2: Do you have it or not?
Speaker 4: I'll be working all the time in third party because
Speaker 4: you know I don't do none of that. But my
Speaker 4: friends do you know, I make my cut, so I
Speaker 4: got it. Let them know, like meet me and the
Speaker 4: signal happened.
Speaker 2: This is what they have. But I didn't even know
Speaker 2: that that's a real thing. Like they really have a list,
Speaker 2: Like you're at a restaurant.
Speaker 3: Ye, delivery, Like if you order a certain amount, it's delivery. No,
Speaker 3: it'd be cool.
Speaker 4: I didn't know you're supposed to tip a drug dealer either. Wait,
Speaker 4: they want to be two. It said tips are welcome
Speaker 4: real quick when you get sugared when you prostitute and
Speaker 4: naked tips too right? I never prostitute, Like I never Okay, okay, okay, okay,
Speaker 4: classic sex work.
Speaker 2: What are we doing here? Like y'all want to add
Speaker 2: that it's a fucking.
Speaker 1: In the I do think there's a level that though sex.
Speaker 4: I've had sex before for money, but that's not how
Speaker 4: That's not what I am doing.
Speaker 2: No sugaring.
Speaker 3: We'll get into it well before we do it. Do
Speaker 3: do you want to do an icebreaker? Can we like
Speaker 3: let the audience know how freaking these two is before
Speaker 3: they like, we just.
Speaker 2: Want to know one question. Okay, eating asks or sucking toes?
Speaker 2: Which way you're doing? Second towels, I like tows really.
Speaker 3: Off the off the GP like even during casual sex
Speaker 3: to you second to it often?
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, I only want to mess with females not
Speaker 4: but guys, I don't really like it.
Speaker 2: You don't.
Speaker 3: You don't suck melts, so they don't like it. We
Speaker 3: see your body, I have fun. Oh we're gonna have.
Speaker 2: What how you.
Speaker 4: I didn't had an experience where one time, you know,
Speaker 4: they start bleeding and so I calmed that day.
Speaker 3: Who yeah, yeah, it was the last time you dealt
Speaker 3: with a girl with these size fingernails about.
Speaker 2: A year and a half ago, with this with this
Speaker 2: going on.
Speaker 3: So wait, you were fingering her and she started bleeding
Speaker 3: you cut her up?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I felt really, this is why we gotta talk.
Speaker 2: You need to be you know what, thoughtful because.
Speaker 4: Even let you do that wouldn't have even let it
Speaker 4: was drunk all to wait, So were you like, is
Speaker 4: this her period? No?
Speaker 2: I knew did because at first it wasn't like that
Speaker 2: and then it happened and I'm like, oh oh, and
Speaker 2: it was all on your nails. It was in my nails.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you don't have to do that anymore about a
Speaker 4: done deal, done deal.
Speaker 2: We'll talk off.
Speaker 3: By the way, every time I go to the nail tech,
Speaker 3: they'd be like you bray hair. I'd be like, they'd
Speaker 3: be like you type of like. I'd be like, I
Speaker 3: just but they have all the excuses except the fun
Speaker 3: that I finger bootle holes and pus the hole?
Speaker 1: Do you not do you not need another dominant finger?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 1: Is it just the index and middle?
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie like not many people want three fingers.
Speaker 3: And by the time I'm sticking to maybe by that point,
Speaker 3: I'm bringing a butt plug, I'm bringing a dial dough.
Speaker 2: Maybe the toys are being introduced.
Speaker 3: Two is normally enough, especially for the bootlehole, but for
Speaker 3: girls to three, I find myself us, well, well, huh, hello,
Speaker 3: why do you give? Because dick is normally bigger than
Speaker 3: this and I hello, hello hello. But even when we
Speaker 3: had what's crazy is even when we had have and
Speaker 3: a ginger on the pod. A lot of women ironically
Speaker 3: don't like being fingered. Maybe a lot of men are
Speaker 3: really aggressive when they do it, or.
Speaker 2: People are aggressive when they finger, but like a.
Speaker 3: Lot, they've been called up scratched up, like motherfucker, says
Speaker 3: the hen. But I find a lot of women actually
Speaker 3: don't really prefer to be fingered. I'm a finger because
Speaker 3: I like penetration, but a lot of women actually don't.
Speaker 1: I mean, we don't really have and we as and
Speaker 1: like women historically scientifically don't have as many orgasms vaginally.
Speaker 1: So I think that's why sometimes the finger is like,
Speaker 1: all right, when are you gonna get with it doing?
Speaker 2: What are you doing? All right?
Speaker 1: So speaking of toes and she like them, bitch, we
Speaker 1: all seen this shit pop up. I feel like a
Speaker 1: few weeks ago with the hotel manager, did y'all see
Speaker 1: this with toes? It's our Vandentella ship, by the way,
Speaker 1: so our vanilla shit this week, which is our sex
Speaker 1: and the news segment is all about a man in Tennessee,
Speaker 1: a hotel manager who facing charges after sneaking into a
Speaker 1: guest room and sucking on their toe.
Speaker 2: I'm just glad this is shit up.
Speaker 1: Fifty two year old David Neil was arrested after he
Speaker 1: snuck into a male guest room while he was sleeping
Speaker 1: and got intimate.
Speaker 2: With his feet.
Speaker 1: The guest told police that he woke up with the
Speaker 1: man's mouth around his toes and immediately confronted him. The
Speaker 1: guest said he recognized the hotel manager because he had
Speaker 1: came in his room the day before to solve an
Speaker 1: issue with the TV. He was a night manager at
Speaker 1: the Hilton in Nashville, and at the time of the incident,
Speaker 1: he made a key card before entering the room at
Speaker 1: five am. He admitted to police that he entered the room,
Speaker 1: but claimed it was only because he smelled smoke and
Speaker 1: wanted to make sure the guest was okay. He was
Speaker 1: arrested on Friday at his home, charged with aggravated burglary
Speaker 1: as well as assault.
Speaker 2: He has a twenty seven thousand dollars blonde bond. Nigga.
Speaker 2: I just want to know. Did he see the feet
Speaker 2: early on and was like these are it? Nigga?
Speaker 4: He said, you got some big ass feet. I'll be
Speaker 4: coming back with them.
Speaker 2: I mean, wait, wait, what is that? Tennessee.
Speaker 3: Maybe he showed up and checked into some flip flops,
Speaker 3: like that's a Southern thing to do, like him be
Speaker 3: wearing a flip flot.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and he was like the arch everything I
Speaker 1: don't know what it would I do if I woke
Speaker 1: up and I felt my.
Speaker 2: Feet were wet? Can you imagine? Oh? Christ? I mean like,
Speaker 2: if I'm laying in bed with somebody like you know,
Speaker 2: down sleep, what do you bitch if another person is
Speaker 2: in my room?
Speaker 1: Man waking up and just like it's the one thing
Speaker 1: if someone's in the room, it's another thing.
Speaker 2: You wake up and your toes are being suck? What's
Speaker 2: the hell going on my feet? That's almost words you're
Speaker 2: getting from.
Speaker 3: No, No, I'm not gonna hold you to me. It's
Speaker 3: just that a whole nother person is in the room
Speaker 3: with me.
Speaker 2: Like what do you grab? Like you grabbed the cloak? Coordless?
Speaker 2: Do you kick him in the mouth? Like? What do
Speaker 2: you dig in? Then you play dead? How do you?
Speaker 4: So?
Speaker 2: What do y'all? Do? You wake up in somebody's sucking
Speaker 2: your toes in a hotel.
Speaker 4: Room that I don't know and he just breaks into
Speaker 4: my hotel room. Oh, I'm boxing. I'm gonna kill you.
Speaker 4: We're gonna box for sure. If you're fine, I'm gonna
Speaker 4: really look at you.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna hold on. Let's do it just a phone scenario.
Speaker 2: Do this. We're not gonna do that. You if you're
Speaker 2: that's okay. If you're not, so we do it.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying you're fine, Okay, you're downstairs during the
Speaker 1: check in a cute niggas like oh yeah you do
Speaker 1: want to upgrade, like yeah, we got a sweet available,
Speaker 1: be like, oh you should come to my steet later.
Speaker 2: Okay, maybe I would invite. No, It's like it's like
Speaker 2: that's what make it make sense? You know what I mean?
Speaker 1: But what if you woke up and that happened? Would
Speaker 1: you then be like, oh my god, this is so
Speaker 1: fucked up. Here's the other one.
Speaker 4: Okay, I would actually check the person for I would
Speaker 4: I'm saying, yeah, I definitely would. Don't care there was
Speaker 4: I was just talking, but I would definitely check them.
Speaker 4: Ill probably just hit them. And then I would definitely hit.
Speaker 2: Them, But how fun hit them?
Speaker 4: I would just mean I would be scared if I
Speaker 4: just walk up out of my bed and somebody's like,
Speaker 4: you know, I already have sleep paralysis, so I already
Speaker 4: think people in my room and ain't not.
Speaker 2: I hate that, So I would really be like crazy,
Speaker 2: this is given I'm in an accident with a Walmart truck.
Speaker 2: What hotel. Are we in.
Speaker 3: I'm suing the corporation because they don't hide hilt it.
Speaker 1: Listen, Paris is gonna be dja every one of our events.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be right in there.
Speaker 3: He happen at a Hilton. Yes, that's what I'm saying. Oh,
Speaker 3: Nicky to Nikki, all the Hilton's about to be working,
Speaker 3: bitch whatever tequila? Oh girl, got uh?
Speaker 2: That be all? No, the the Hilton Hilson. Oh, I
Speaker 2: don't know.
Speaker 4: I don't watch The Housewives Hilton. No not wait, you're
Speaker 4: talking about Marizio's wife. That's related to the Hiltons.
Speaker 2: No, I'm talking about Howives Beverly Hills. Beverly is this white?
Speaker 2: Does not be on word tequila? Does anyone know? And
Speaker 2: I only don't know because I am drunk.
Speaker 3: But normally girls on All the Housewives, Damn, I can't remember.
Speaker 3: But basically she's Paris Hilton's mom. Kassieler Kathy bitch. Yes,
Speaker 3: so he's a cast member. Kathy is a motherfucking cast member.
Speaker 2: Bitch. Oh, I was in the era of Lisa unk Kathy. Yeah,
Speaker 2: that's what I'm talking about.
Speaker 3: It now, Kathy is a cast member and he's trying
Speaker 3: to sell our tequila.
Speaker 2: And that bitch we'd be on here drinking all the Kathy's.
Speaker 4: How are all these white celebrities George Clooney, don't you
Speaker 4: do costing me?
Speaker 2: How did they get up?
Speaker 3: Just so you know, there was whole beef because she
Speaker 3: was jealous that the crew was pushing Kendall Jennings tequila.
Speaker 2: Because Lisa Runna went up. It was like, I don't
Speaker 2: think Kendl's came fried.
Speaker 3: And there was a whole beef because Kathy like had
Speaker 3: a whole month.
Speaker 1: They get Bad Bunny in ne tequila. I don't want
Speaker 1: to see these white women do no mo tequilas by
Speaker 1: Way pulls out here. Really what they gave homeboys and
Speaker 1: everybody think that they dating, because boy, where did they
Speaker 1: come from? I do not believe that her and Bonie
Speaker 1: is Like, what's funny you say that? Because I don't
Speaker 1: even think Bad Bunny's gay. I think he's just like
Speaker 1: freaky and wants to He could be freaky, but I
Speaker 1: think he's like Danny at all. I just think that
Speaker 1: he's a fun, he sexual man.
Speaker 2: Man. We're gonna find out when I meet him for sure.
Speaker 4: Oh you're gonna find my friend met him instead, she
Speaker 4: got no gay vibes at all.
Speaker 2: You can get no gay vibes. She did say it
Speaker 2: was hard to talk to him though, but she's a
Speaker 2: bad team stand off.
Speaker 4: No no, I just mean like she don't know what language,
Speaker 4: nom linguini.
Speaker 1: Whatever the hell I'm trying to say. Basically, she was
Speaker 1: just like there was just hello vibes. It was really sexy,
Speaker 1: and she said he was mad fun. But she said
Speaker 1: that like she didn't see the game.
Speaker 3: If I go out with that boney, I'm gonna be like,
Speaker 3: let me get a hample guest I called castel.
Speaker 2: That's what you had. I can't help her. Guess looking
Speaker 2: what this Puerto Rican did? Let me get not mam,
Speaker 2: what's the thing. They're like, what I am my not Dominican?
Speaker 2: No mama is hang it off?
Speaker 1: Flask Green All right, wait, horror stories next, because I
Speaker 1: need to know let them talk, because we talked to you.
Speaker 4: I'm just watching the shops.
Speaker 2: Everybody gonna be so mad at YouTube water like, how
Speaker 2: a professional are you? Guys? All right, God, you didn't
Speaker 2: even let your guests talk. Shut the fuck up.
Speaker 1: Okay, Amber horror story, sex story, dating story, we need
Speaker 1: it now.
Speaker 2: But but a horror story is like one that went wrong.
Speaker 1: God, it doesn't sound like a wedding day horror.
Speaker 2: You think showing a horror story.
Speaker 3: He could just be a horror story, horror or story,
Speaker 3: but one that went wrong.
Speaker 2: So either the nigga took you on a date he
Speaker 2: was how it broke nigga took God, nigga never took
Speaker 2: me on a day ever, it won't. You've never been
Speaker 2: taken on a date? Y'all? Sliding hurt DMS right now?
Speaker 2: Is j You need to elaborate? What do you think
Speaker 2: a date is?
Speaker 3: A day?
Speaker 2: Like? They take you out and they pay for everything,
Speaker 2: and you've never in your life been on a date? No,
Speaker 2: how is that?
Speaker 4: How is that possible? I guess it's the guys I
Speaker 4: talk to. I don't know what kind of niggas you like. Niggas,
Speaker 4: broke niggas, boxing niggas, hood niggas will take you on
Speaker 4: a date.
Speaker 2: Well, maybe they don't like me. She's been dating broke
Speaker 2: broke hood niggas.
Speaker 3: She broke broke a twenty deal at the Applebee's.
Speaker 2: At Chili too. Hold on, so you went out.
Speaker 1: To eat with niggas and they just don't pay the
Speaker 1: way you're They don't go Dutch.
Speaker 2: No, it's like, wait, you pay so you're a sugar mama.
Speaker 4: I guess you could say that, do you mean to
Speaker 4: leave that way? Or would you like it just happens
Speaker 4: that way? Maybe because you're lit, they feel like they shouldn't.
Speaker 2: Is that it? They're like, oh, this bitch.
Speaker 4: Is you know.
Speaker 2: Me? So and I don't act like I don't. I
Speaker 2: don't have it? Okay?
Speaker 3: So then what about before the social media and all
Speaker 3: those things?
Speaker 2: Like you're the same age as.
Speaker 3: Us, So there was an era from teenager to early
Speaker 3: twenties before all this social media ship right where you
Speaker 3: were still dating men. It was more women or like
Speaker 3: yeah and no one that you never got someone that
Speaker 3: took you on a date.
Speaker 4: I've never been on a date. I'm telling you, bitch,
Speaker 4: I can't wait to come back. I'm gonna take you
Speaker 4: on a date.
Speaker 2: Wait have you ever said this publicly? Are we talking
Speaker 2: about that? Did you know that? Yeah? I know? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Because will he be around me? You see what I mean? Okay, So,
Speaker 2: way do you feel like then? I would take on
Speaker 2: the day before any man.
Speaker 4: So well, there's men that would take on a date,
Speaker 4: but she just haven't met the right guy though, well.
Speaker 2: Know then for the for maybe the people listening.
Speaker 3: Then do you feel like you come across as overly independent?
Speaker 2: Like where does it lean.
Speaker 3: Into a man being comfortable taking you on a date,
Speaker 3: whether it's the first, second, or.
Speaker 2: Third not nineteen keys over here? Look at it? Are
Speaker 2: you an overly shut up bitch? I'm trying to be professional.
Speaker 2: It's called an interview.
Speaker 3: I would like to know then, like what do you
Speaker 3: give off prior to even the day?
Speaker 2: Are you meeting these people online? Are the people that
Speaker 2: you know?
Speaker 3: How are men not paying for a goddamn two for
Speaker 3: twenty at Chilly's which is now like thirty five inflation?
Speaker 4: But I guess you know what, when I meet these guys,
Speaker 4: I already know like their situation. I never really met
Speaker 4: a guy that had like a job for real, Okay,
Speaker 4: Like even if dude, I was just.
Speaker 2: There dicks, that'd be okay. This last one is twenty
Speaker 2: five years that's fire. It's fire.
Speaker 4: But like I meet guys like they don't have a job,
Speaker 4: So it's like I always just hold it up like
Speaker 4: that's just always been me. Why I don't know the
Speaker 4: guys that do have the jobs and that I meet,
Speaker 4: They're not my tipe?
Speaker 2: What is your type? Then broke? At this point? You do?
Speaker 2: Don't you work with Rihanna? How could you not have
Speaker 2: access to this? I don't know. Damn, we gotta gotta
Speaker 2: fix it.
Speaker 3: So then let me let me bring it back because
Speaker 3: it sounds like, Okay, this is just what it is.
Speaker 2: Maybe you don't have much of a problem with it.
Speaker 2: Are you? Are you comfortable with your dating life in
Speaker 2: you leading that way that I don't need you to
Speaker 2: pay for nothing? This like, what then do you want
Speaker 2: from a man? Okay, so I don't mind. I did
Speaker 2: at first.
Speaker 4: It's fine, but sometimes you surprise me. But even if
Speaker 4: I take me on a date, I would like like
Speaker 4: maybe a gift here and there, some random flowers, Like
Speaker 4: even if you just take your paragraphs like hey, thinking
Speaker 4: about you today with not a paragraph.
Speaker 2: Hell, I know she said your parents. She's just saying
Speaker 2: show some effort. Yeah, So then is that not communicated?
Speaker 3: I think a lot of like women want certain things
Speaker 3: from their partners, and I'm like, why am I not
Speaker 3: getting it? Do you communicate that you kind of would
Speaker 3: like to feel special?
Speaker 2: Sometimes I'm not.
Speaker 4: Really because I think, like, Okay, if I'm doing all this,
Speaker 4: you should want to.
Speaker 2: Can I get deep with you? Where is this stemming from?
Speaker 2: I would?
Speaker 3: And I only ask that because I'm in therapy right now,
Speaker 3: so I had to goat your sleeve.
Speaker 2: I was eighty pounds plus than I am at one point,
Speaker 2: and I used to think the bare minimum was having
Speaker 2: sex with men.
Speaker 3: And now I'm at a point where I'm just like, bitch,
Speaker 3: you can't fuck me if like you.
Speaker 2: Don't do.
Speaker 3: And I wonder if like there's something where you just
Speaker 3: are accepting that these men are just approaching you because
Speaker 3: of that, Me and my friends talk about it often.
Speaker 3: I'm still in a place where women, probably more than anything,
Speaker 3: have made.
Speaker 2: Me feel unworthy of love because of my weight, and so.
Speaker 3: Hearing and also meeting you energy is already like ooh, bitch,
Speaker 3: you cool because coming in the door, I'm like, oh,
Speaker 3: and you know this man right here, why do you
Speaker 3: think you haven't maybe even wanted or felt like you
Speaker 3: were deserving of a man taking on a.
Speaker 2: Day and maybe and asking that you know, a getting deep.
Speaker 4: It probably could be that you know, I've been being
Speaker 4: my whole life since I was in like middle school,
Speaker 4: always been big, So it could be that and not
Speaker 4: feeling maybe I almost say not feeling worthy, but I don't.
Speaker 2: Know, maybe like a little bit of low self esteem.
Speaker 2: I don't know. Do you bear sexy day to day sexy?
Speaker 1: I feel like when I see some of your content,
Speaker 1: you give sexy if you were believable, being like when
Speaker 1: you are feeling sexy.
Speaker 2: But do you think day to day you feel that way?
Speaker 2: Not day to day, but every day. I do feel
Speaker 2: like I'm flying every day. That's like I look good,
Speaker 2: I smell good. You do. But as far as sexy, no,
Speaker 2: not every day?
Speaker 4: No.
Speaker 2: Look well, look come on, y'all.
Speaker 3: I'll make it deep here because I mean, I think
Speaker 3: that that was a thing for me. I've said it
Speaker 3: on this podcast, like as as just feeling like I
Speaker 3: as a woman should be happy for any man that
Speaker 3: shows me attention growing up by women and men, right,
Speaker 3: I feel like it's it's one of those things that
Speaker 3: a man just giving me time at one point validated
Speaker 3: me and I felt like there was a lot of
Speaker 3: times where I had a all sense of confidence.
Speaker 2: It's what I'm talking about in therapy.
Speaker 3: Now because now I'm in this space where I'm so
Speaker 3: happy to be where I'm at.
Speaker 2: I know my value and I think that seeing even.
Speaker 3: The conversation surrounding Liz though I have an interview with
Speaker 3: Mahelia in a little bit, and just not being what
Speaker 3: people think should be the desired look that Okay, a
Speaker 3: man just want to be around me. Let me just
Speaker 3: get that, and that being a sense of happiness isn't enough.
Speaker 2: And I mean I don't want to.
Speaker 3: I mean, we can't change your narrative now, but I
Speaker 3: would implore you to whatever you want, vocalizing that with
Speaker 3: any nigga that you meet moving forward, whether it's through
Speaker 3: tender Instagram, like you deserve to be.
Speaker 2: Taken on a fucking date, a nice one. Make that.
Speaker 2: Niggas cut a check. Say, nigga, you.
Speaker 3: See me, I need an entree, appletizer and dessert, So
Speaker 3: use your own credit card, Like deal with the motherfuckers
Speaker 3: that are, you know, still using PvP and other people's.
Speaker 1: We also got to be honest here because not sometimes
Speaker 1: we're saying you got to do X y Z for me.
Speaker 1: Not every date is equal for every man you date, right,
Speaker 1: Like we see people online getting cars and all this
Speaker 1: shit for Valentine's Day, Maybe our niggas ain't getting that
Speaker 1: shit right.
Speaker 2: So like, I think you gotta think.
Speaker 1: If my man is working, maybe not even a fool
Speaker 1: time job, if they're just out here doing anything, taking
Speaker 1: me to a movie is honestly gonna make me feel good,
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna feel like I'm taking out. But I
Speaker 1: think the gesture alone, and that's probably why you're like
Speaker 1: the paragraph or something like, I actually feel that because
Speaker 1: I've gated some broke niggas too that if they could
Speaker 1: do that, I'm with it, like you understand where you
Speaker 1: need to pick up the slack from another areas, But.
Speaker 4: I never really looked at it how you just broke
Speaker 4: it down and explained it, because I just see it
Speaker 4: as you know, I always have it. I've been independent,
Speaker 4: I always have it, So I don't look at it
Speaker 4: as oh, they're not really doing much, like let's just
Speaker 4: go out, let's.
Speaker 2: Just have fun, let's go eat, let's let's just do that.
Speaker 3: But there's a way a man can show up for you,
Speaker 3: like again, a two for twenty mil right, that right
Speaker 3: way to make it feel special, like I got this.
Speaker 2: And I think that I blame Neo.
Speaker 3: I do because in our era he was saying misindependent and.
Speaker 2: I love I guess they got a room. Oh yeah,
Speaker 2: that's a better song to see all of them.
Speaker 3: I blame them for creating this era of who we
Speaker 3: are now, women in our early thirties who have strived
Speaker 3: and felt power and being independent, and now men being
Speaker 3: able to caddle off of that. But you like a
Speaker 3: date from a man, y'all. I need y'all to slide
Speaker 3: in the GMS if he was in La I think.
Speaker 1: It's gonna happen now.
Speaker 2: No, I would love I would love for you to.
Speaker 3: Just be like Andy Weezy, I was taken on a date,
Speaker 3: because you deserve for a man to say, hey, meet
Speaker 3: me here at this time.
Speaker 2: Let's just eat and have a good CONVERSA matter of fact,
Speaker 2: pick me up.
Speaker 4: I ain't gonna part nice the first day.
Speaker 2: Though, No, I agree.
Speaker 3: I still believe like first date, even coming from Florida.
Speaker 3: Like now that we have uber and all these things,
Speaker 3: I like to be able to everyone be on their
Speaker 3: own times.
Speaker 2: I know that it used to be a jester back
Speaker 2: in the day to have somebody pick you up on
Speaker 2: a date. I'll meet you there, let me know the time,
Speaker 2: and don't be late.
Speaker 3: Like now, it's just the courtesy is just showing on time,
Speaker 3: but please ask for that. I definitely do not meet
Speaker 3: nobody else knew that you feel like you have to
Speaker 3: show up as this independent bitch to overcompensate for whatever
Speaker 3: you think like you deserve as a woman. The patriarchy
Speaker 3: is really on our side, says I need you to
Speaker 3: sit here and allow men to show up for you,
Speaker 3: because that was meet me a lot in the beginning,
Speaker 3: and you're just too dope for that.
Speaker 2: Beautiful and honestly, we.
Speaker 1: Need to pour that into ourselves the same speech, bitch,
Speaker 1: cause last night I was taken down. Okay, I'm saying
Speaker 1: that it wasn't consensual because I wanted it, but I
Speaker 1: shouldn't have.
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, so then.
Speaker 3: So real quick, on the flip side, this is your
Speaker 3: motherfucking friend, this is your co host, and he's staying
Speaker 3: outing niggas take him on dates.
Speaker 2: Why are you not.
Speaker 3: Giving her this energy? Like what how do you? How
Speaker 3: do you show up as someone who gets spoiled?
Speaker 2: Then I give her the energy.
Speaker 4: But see, the type of man that I look for
Speaker 4: for Amber is not the type of man that she likes.
Speaker 4: Like I elaborate, Yeah, like guys that are like they're
Speaker 4: like boogie you don't like all that boosie ship, like
Speaker 4: I know, like she doesn't like she likes good niggas
Speaker 4: type of ship, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: Like she likes hood guys.
Speaker 4: I'm not saying that you wouldn't date a guy that's
Speaker 4: not hood, but she likes like men that you know.
Speaker 2: You know why that shit feels like home? It really do.
Speaker 2: Y'all could need some hap. Oh we had to have
Speaker 2: a take her to Lamart Park.
Speaker 4: Oh baby, Lamar Park, I got. We have a little
Speaker 4: glove dated speaking coming up. Really look out for the
Speaker 4: announcement guests. It's blind dates for her.
Speaker 3: Talked about it for the pol about Lambert Park. I'm
Speaker 3: just saying, like I mean, a need the crystals and
Speaker 3: ship over there. Yes, stay away from me.
Speaker 1: She was, now tell us your horror story.
Speaker 4: My horror story, Okay, my horror story would be when
Speaker 4: I was taking anal from African.
Speaker 2: She was funding me and I.
Speaker 4: Didn't do shit. Yes, look he had a big old
Speaker 4: wa kandad he's given a he was giving. I wasn't
Speaker 4: like expecting to have sex that day, Like I was
Speaker 4: literally on my way somewhere else, but he popped up
Speaker 4: on grind.
Speaker 2: I was just on there scroll and he was like,
Speaker 2: come over, you know. So I came over and he
Speaker 2: was like, to the bedroom.
Speaker 4: He was very direct. We went straight to the bedroom
Speaker 4: and he was like, okay, let's let's get into it.
Speaker 4: I'm like, okay, so hopefully you bottom because it's not given.
Speaker 4: I'm about to bottom for you right now. I just
Speaker 4: took a big ship. So I was like, give me
Speaker 4: a second, let me go to the bathroom. So I
Speaker 4: went to the bathroom.
Speaker 2: I tried to out you just took a big ship. Yeah,
Speaker 2: but it wasn't big enough. So he proceeds to bend
Speaker 2: me over, you know, and so you did by him?
Speaker 2: He did. I did. I was not from the bottom,
Speaker 2: but you've been talking. I gave in and I bought
Speaker 2: him and he started to, you know, go.
Speaker 4: I always tell them going slow, put the tip in,
Speaker 4: because if they do it wrong, I'm walking out. The
Speaker 4: moment you do it wrong, I walk out. I get
Speaker 4: pissed off by just shoving it in, like I want
Speaker 4: to fight. So I always held him start off slow.
Speaker 2: Some guys, listen, yeah, be gentle, like you know, this
Speaker 2: is a tight ball. That's a big cock. That's the
Speaker 2: white people say, big cock. Wait, he was a he
Speaker 2: was a cocker, not a dicker. No, he was a dicker.
Speaker 2: But I'm if it's real big, I'll be saying it
Speaker 2: was a big plus. It was like it was like
Speaker 2: ten inches stick, like a weapon. So he put it in.
Speaker 2: He starts to go within like the fourth pump. He like,
Speaker 2: he was like, you're dirty, bitch. Oh yes, oh he
Speaker 2: told you. He said you're dirty in this little Nigerian accent.
Speaker 4: I'm like, so was his household, bitch. I was straight
Speaker 4: to the bathroom. He stopped, he stopped fucking. He said,
Speaker 4: you need to leave. So I went to the bathroom,
Speaker 4: I wiped my ass, put on my clothes, and I left.
Speaker 2: I was so embarrassed. Oh my god, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 4: Girl.
Speaker 2: Well that was my horrible decis That's what I got.
Speaker 2: I should have been on bad not the phone.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you real, honest, Like when niggas be like, well
Speaker 3: I want to get into Boodhall, I'll be like, I
Speaker 3: had coffee this morning, so I, like you didn't let
Speaker 3: him know.
Speaker 2: The hey probably was that I had Chapotle earlier and.
Speaker 4: Probby he said, yeah, but I didn't expect I honestly,
Speaker 4: I didn't even think about Ana. When I went to
Speaker 4: his house, I thought we were just gonna probably make out.
Speaker 4: I was gonna suck his dick or something like that,
Speaker 4: and then I was gonna leave. I didn't know that
Speaker 4: I was gonna like.
Speaker 2: Actually, is that common on Grinder? Yeah? You know, I haven't.
Speaker 4: So this this happened like three years. I haven't used
Speaker 4: I haven't like had sex like through an app in
Speaker 4: a long time.
Speaker 2: So on the movie Bros.
Speaker 1: That I just watched it last night and my mom
Speaker 1: was I watched there after the Dick his Mother's Day weekend,
Speaker 1: so I was like, Oh, let's spend time together before
Speaker 1: I go party. So anyway, we're watching Bros. And on
Speaker 1: the app pops up and they start making out. They
Speaker 1: get in the bed, they jark cough, and my mom
Speaker 1: was like, why did they show sex? You think they
Speaker 1: didn't show sex because you know what I mean, this
Speaker 1: is a movie or something. And I was like, no,
Speaker 1: you didn't realize the beginning conversation. Oh, I'm a top,
Speaker 1: I'm a top, So what are they gonna do?
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I'm like, they literally just
Speaker 2: want to play together.
Speaker 1: And I think that concept hadn't really pop into her
Speaker 1: mind because she's like, oh, I'm expecting gay niggas fucking
Speaker 1: all the time. And most of my gay male friends
Speaker 1: actually don't like their sucking, dig they jerking each other off.
Speaker 1: They're just doing little shit because sometimes it can be difficult.
Speaker 1: I guess when you're meeting someone but you want to
Speaker 1: fuck them and you can't, or what if you eat
Speaker 1: too much?
Speaker 2: I mean, I think that this is maybe because I
Speaker 2: go to sex clubs so much.
Speaker 4: I've I've learned don't chuckling over them.
Speaker 2: Every week week No.
Speaker 3: But but to me, I think that we assume that
Speaker 3: sex is just penetration, right, And there's so many layers
Speaker 3: to just being sexual or intimate or romantic or doing
Speaker 3: sex that doesn't involve penetration that so many people fucking.
Speaker 2: Leave out, Like sometimes we just want to make out
Speaker 2: with somebody sometimes, like a lot of people want to
Speaker 2: watch sometimes. Oh and I love watching too, So.
Speaker 3: Even just watching as a thing, I mean, my friends
Speaker 3: all get on my nerves. They'd be like, bitch, you
Speaker 3: need dick. Because sometimes when I'm with my friends, I'll
Speaker 3: be like can we cuddle? Like if I'm spending the
Speaker 3: night with my friends, Like sometimes I just like to cuddle,
Speaker 3: and even though it's not sexual, there's a real big physical.
Speaker 1: Element of you can cuddle with people you don't want
Speaker 1: to have sex with. Yeah, I cuddle with my friends
Speaker 1: all the time. I can't like I'm a I'm a cuddler.
Speaker 1: Like I mean, my my hetero ass friends be annoying.
Speaker 1: They'd be like, no, bitch, go away.
Speaker 2: But like Chanell, she always want to cuddle with me.
Speaker 4: I'm like no, but like the Yeah, I don't like
Speaker 4: Vinnie's my best friend, we've lived together.
Speaker 1: We can only get close on the couch. I don't
Speaker 1: want to spoon him.
Speaker 4: Oh, I'm always the big spoon brother spoon, you bitch,
Speaker 4: I'm a big I'm a.
Speaker 2: Big spoon even with my big niggas that'll be six
Speaker 2: or nine and I trying to get out. I like
Speaker 2: to pay the stallion, you know what I mean. So
Speaker 2: I like getting behind.
Speaker 3: But I mean to me sex Now, I think through
Speaker 3: this podcast has become so much more like psychological, Like
Speaker 3: there's so many I mean I just brought up that
Speaker 3: i'd be coming off captions now like certain things now
Speaker 3: stimulate my mind and really turn me on in ways
Speaker 3: that I'm like not everybody gotta have sex, and then I'll.
Speaker 2: Be honest too.
Speaker 3: I now see how y'all be thinking certain things is
Speaker 3: cheating because I am like now turned on by certain
Speaker 3: people and certain things that are not sexual at all,
Speaker 3: and like me too.
Speaker 1: I mean, so let me what's what's something Jacob that turned.
Speaker 2: What's something that's not sexual that that turns you on? Hands? Wait,
Speaker 2: you just look at somebody here hands. I will get horny.
Speaker 4: Like if a guy has some big hands, I just
Speaker 4: there's so many thoughts that comes through my mind. I
Speaker 4: literally like, while he has a big cancer picture, I'm
Speaker 4: slapping my ass. Wow, a whole bunch of shit. And
Speaker 4: then if he has a tie too, a tie? Yes,
Speaker 4: I lack a business man, you know, Joe Biden tide,
Speaker 4: not a Joe Biden an eighty year rod?
Speaker 2: Absolutely? Yeah, what is that? You're tight?
Speaker 4: That's one of my types of mini Yeah, I like
Speaker 4: three times he said, I like, I like, Ymber, make
Speaker 4: sure you remember when we were doing the episode of
Speaker 4: her Fact's Sake, And he was like, did I fuck
Speaker 4: you don't remember?
Speaker 2: That's crazy? Okay? So you like really?
Speaker 4: So my top three types, I would say between thirty
Speaker 4: through seventy eight, eighty years old.
Speaker 2: That cannot be a range.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's my range. And then I like older man.
Speaker 4: I like a businessman, and I like a stocky man,
Speaker 4: like I like a toy man.
Speaker 2: That's stocky. Okay, y'all, I don't care who got man.
Speaker 2: I actually want to know.
Speaker 4: I've never topped to eighty year old before I've gotten well,
Speaker 4: he wasn't eighty, he was seventy three. Yes, he fucked me, well, bitch,
Speaker 4: round up, I guess he was. He was the occasion
Speaker 4: they cracked. We don't so what was it was?
Speaker 2: His ass just slow? Like what was it like? It
Speaker 2: was like the soggy kind. But I didn't I didn't
Speaker 2: touch his ass. He fucked me. Had a really big day,
Speaker 2: this old man. He has stamina, Yes, of course it did.
Speaker 2: You see the time.
Speaker 3: Men don't have a biological clock like women. You didn't
Speaker 3: get hard forever.
Speaker 2: I know he was doing poppers back when I was
Speaker 2: out the sex club. Yeah, he describe why you're into
Speaker 2: older men. I don't know.
Speaker 4: It's so hard to explain. Like my first guy I
Speaker 4: was talking to, who was fifty years old, I was eighteen.
Speaker 4: He used to pick me up and like take me
Speaker 4: to go get like food. And then I was like, Okay,
Speaker 4: you gotta drive me off at like two o'clock in
Speaker 4: the morning when everybody in my house sleep, so you
Speaker 4: drive me back off at home.
Speaker 2: And that would just be that.
Speaker 4: But I would go and have sex with this man
Speaker 4: and I wasn't like sex for I mean money for
Speaker 4: play or no sugar daddy vibes, Like I was just
Speaker 4: really into this old man.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know it's no. So you grew up with
Speaker 2: a dad, mom and dad. People ask women that all
Speaker 2: the time. Grandpa a happy home. I got a happy
Speaker 2: It's so crazy.
Speaker 3: But I think that when women choose that a they
Speaker 3: either it's the narrative that they're being preyed on or
Speaker 3: they're I'm looking for a daddy figure. So I ask
Speaker 3: you that as a gay man who is like, no,
Speaker 3: I like older men, but you don't really have a reason.
Speaker 2: You're just that.
Speaker 4: I think when I'm talking to them and I'm looking
Speaker 4: at their arm having a conversation, I can tell them
Speaker 4: they just want love.
Speaker 2: They need love, and I want to give it to them.
Speaker 2: You said you like them the god look, I love
Speaker 2: a good nursing home.
Speaker 3: Honey for a role play, oh, road play hold on,
Speaker 3: give me the details on what a nursing home roleplay
Speaker 3: is like laying in his bed with a little gown on.
Speaker 4: He's sleeping, and then I'm just literally in between his legs.
Speaker 4: I looked up that gown, get those two big juicy balls,
Speaker 4: start to suck them, go to the tip of the dick,
Speaker 4: and yes, I love it.
Speaker 2: He waits up like that, you ain't like you about
Speaker 2: to get called by a nurse. I'm like, oh no,
Speaker 2: go back to sleep, take your medicine and pro sebakh bitch.
Speaker 2: That is my type of role play. This is sick.
Speaker 2: Keep going. That's that's what I like.
Speaker 4: One of the things I like. Yes, and I love
Speaker 4: my nipples lift. I don't even need to masturbate. I
Speaker 4: don't need you to fuck me. If you lick my
Speaker 4: nipples the right way, I'll just come literally.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we didn't even ask. Yeah, I started thinking about it.
Speaker 2: I started thinking about it. Like I said, I like
Speaker 2: olgers and you know what nipples. He had a guy
Speaker 2: on this podcast that she used. And what's crazy is
Speaker 2: there is so many straight men that I realize are
Speaker 2: into guardwires, are not really like they won't ask for it.
Speaker 3: But I've noticed much like my head begetting pushed towards
Speaker 3: the nipple now, bitch, and I'm like, well, I'll lick
Speaker 3: you nipple. But like straight men don't admit to the
Speaker 3: fact that they really like their nipples being played with,
Speaker 3: whether you lick it and rubb it or like you
Speaker 3: literally just suck on their nipples. They have a problem
Speaker 3: with saying that that's what they're into. And amber you
Speaker 3: in these faces, No sucking nipples, No, that's out.
Speaker 2: That's crazy. You'll suck feet but not nipples, right, Why
Speaker 2: that's what's wrong with sucking a man? When you're like
Speaker 2: gayy you whitties. I don't know, it's just weird what
Speaker 2: you buy, so you sucking titties anyway? Why make it bake?
Speaker 2: I just don't like that.
Speaker 4: Now we want to do our sex tip segment. Gotta
Speaker 4: start with you. It got dirm, it got to give us.
Speaker 1: She been over there, just like, actually know what a
Speaker 1: good dick sucking tip or even like sex sip with
Speaker 1: your nails. A lot of girls get long nails. Now
Speaker 1: tell me something you might do sexually with your nails.
Speaker 1: But you ain't listening to her, She said there was
Speaker 1: blood under the oay, you like thinking.
Speaker 4: It's kind of crazy because I don't want to suck
Speaker 4: down nipples. But what I do with my nails, I
Speaker 4: like to put my nails in a nigga mouth.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, like a dick. And that not getting you,
Speaker 2: that's not get that's right, that's what I said. I
Speaker 2: knew it.
Speaker 3: I knew it, But I like, you can you show
Speaker 3: a wait a second, So you're getting while they're fucking you,
Speaker 3: you like to put in his mouth?
Speaker 2: How many nails too? And you just go like this
Speaker 2: and you make him sucking and that's wow. You does
Speaker 2: he go down to the tip of the nail or
Speaker 2: does he just I mean to the brand? Okay? Wait right?
Speaker 4: Hendad ever had Ryan stones or jewels on your not
Speaker 4: that that's that's best kids.
Speaker 2: So Ry stones and jail and gems is where you cross? Yeah,
Speaker 2: that's crazy at this age. Oh I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2: I thought they could. Okay, well, no, I lost, I
Speaker 2: lost gems. I'm in a bootlehole. I'm like where went?
Speaker 2: Hopefully it's on the bed and not aboole because I
Speaker 2: do not want them to shoot. Imagine you take out
Speaker 2: his You're like, why does it? That's nut?
Speaker 3: While so so do you just do it without as
Speaker 3: skiing or the men wanting to suck your acrylic?
Speaker 2: Nowns, I got to do it without asking? Oh so
Speaker 2: no consent? Wow?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Wow?
Speaker 4: Like that?
Speaker 2: But what they do it? Yes? What're you gonna say?
Speaker 2: Get up? I guess yeah, I don't know that's what
Speaker 2: you're about to do with a nipple. Yes, yeah, maybe
Speaker 2: we don't.
Speaker 1: Want Are you a dominant person?
Speaker 2: Yes? Maybe that's why she's paying. Maybe okay, Well then
Speaker 2: well then.
Speaker 1: As someone that wants to trick sometimes I kind of.
Speaker 2: Get it though.
Speaker 3: Well then let me ask you you you knowing that
Speaker 3: you like that power, like that control, you're independent even financially,
Speaker 3: do you have to desire at all of them to
Speaker 3: be sisive?
Speaker 2: Maybe?
Speaker 4: Okay, so but you miss them up to like well,
Speaker 4: I guess like I don't know how to ask honestly.
Speaker 4: Maybe e when like it comes to like sex, sometimes
Speaker 4: I can't, you know, bow down. But besides that, like no, wow, yeah,
Speaker 4: like you gonna go out like I like to get
Speaker 4: my dude out for like, hey, you're gonna I'm hosting
Speaker 4: to now you're gonna put this on, put that on.
Speaker 4: I don't care if you don't like to dress them
Speaker 4: what I'm fresh kicks and I'm damn this a nice.
Speaker 2: You're gonna get your hair done, You're gonna do this.
Speaker 2: You wait for the hair too. Let's not do all
Speaker 2: that right now. But you know I'm gonna tell them
Speaker 2: how to dress. Yeah, do you have kids? I don't
Speaker 2: want kids? These niggas? Is your then?
Speaker 3: I mean, I take I mean I still would love
Speaker 3: for you to experience a man take you on a date,
Speaker 3: but it could really just be like you are getting
Speaker 3: what you want, Like you have this love and desire
Speaker 3: for power and control and it's your comfort place.
Speaker 1: And you know, Jacob might give us a little insploment
Speaker 1: a horrible decision with the sugar and tips, because who
Speaker 1: knows if you even really shared it to this degree
Speaker 1: on just us, because I feel like hearing someone tell
Speaker 1: us how they've kind of almost like enaggled someone and
Speaker 1: been able to get them to do things for them,
Speaker 1: which is really sugaring, like more.
Speaker 2: Than it is any other kind of data.
Speaker 4: Sugaring is like I'm here, I'm the prize, Like you
Speaker 4: need to pay, you need to spend, you need to treat,
Speaker 4: So tell us how maybe even if you had a
Speaker 4: first experience, like did you know you were.
Speaker 2: About to be a sugar baby?
Speaker 4: Like, tell us that how it started. Yeah, well it
Speaker 4: started when I lived in Sacramento. You know, I'm from Sacramento.
Speaker 4: I would go to San Francisco. I used to do
Speaker 4: a lot of acting work there, commercial work in San Francisco.
Speaker 4: And there was an older man there and at the time,
Speaker 4: there was like a subway and I was in between
Speaker 4: breaks from filming and I didn't want another food from
Speaker 4: the set, so them go to subway and get a sandich.
Speaker 4: There's an older man and he was like, oh, you're
Speaker 4: very handsome. I said, oh, thank you so much. You know,
Speaker 4: I didn't even think about money or anything like that.
Speaker 4: And he was like, when you're done, do you want
Speaker 4: to come my lip over here. I'm like, oh, now,
Speaker 4: you know you were young at the time, yeah, I was,
Speaker 4: huh on, never mind, he was really this one. He
Speaker 4: was really, really really old. Okay okay, yeah, and he
Speaker 4: was like, you know, do you want to make some money?
Speaker 4: And bitch, I had like twenty five dollars left. That
Speaker 4: was enough to give me back. When the bus back
Speaker 4: to Sacramento after my shoe, he said, you know how
Speaker 4: it is do you want some money?
Speaker 2: I would have thought it was what was what was
Speaker 2: the money that was offered? Five hundred dollars for what
Speaker 2: He wanted me to go up to his apartment.
Speaker 4: He laid on his back and he wanted me to
Speaker 4: like punch him in his back and call him like
Speaker 4: a faggot and all these different words.
Speaker 2: What brain him as a man. It was humiliation.
Speaker 4: Humiliation. He loved it, and he was so old. I
Speaker 4: felt so bad. I'm like, I'm gonna hurt you. He's
Speaker 4: like I said, okay, boom boom boom, and I just
Speaker 4: started calling him everything you ain't shit, that ain't ship
Speaker 4: my slave. Now, like I start going, I start going in.
Speaker 4: And he took me to the ATM. After he gave
Speaker 4: I was so I was like, oh my god, I
Speaker 4: can get used to this for real. So he became
Speaker 4: my regular in San Francisco. But every time I would
Speaker 4: go out there, I wouldn't do that all the time.
Speaker 4: There would be like different things he wanted me to do,
Speaker 4: maybe like go find him somebody else to do it.
Speaker 4: Like he loved the idea of bringing a whole bunch
Speaker 4: of black men back to his apartment and like humiliating him,
Speaker 4: so I'll get a cut.
Speaker 2: But we're okay, we get a cut. Well, oh yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm all about a cut.
Speaker 3: Even you saying that we thought we we we love
Speaker 3: to have this kind of conversation. So in terms of
Speaker 3: race play, you said he would love for a lot
Speaker 3: of black men to do that. So you're okay with
Speaker 3: race play and being fetishized because of the color of
Speaker 3: your skin with these white men.
Speaker 2: I think a check.
Speaker 1: I'n be honest with you when I think of it's
Speaker 1: a little bit different.
Speaker 2: I didn't even think about it that way black like,
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 1: But race play is different when you're the one who's
Speaker 1: the aggressor.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he wouldn't. He wouldn't talk to us crazy one
Speaker 2: of us, Like like we.
Speaker 1: Were generally thinking about race reverse reverse, same thing.
Speaker 3: It's okay thing the way that he said you my slave,
Speaker 3: Now there was but there I just said that he
Speaker 3: didn't to say, but you said it anyway, I mean
Speaker 3: even even I mean we talked about other women too
Speaker 3: that believe in dealing with white men, they're getting their reparations.
Speaker 3: So to me that there still is an element of
Speaker 3: race playing that Like we talked to Marnie about that.
Speaker 2: We talked to uh uh, Barnie. Yeah, the girl who
Speaker 2: does that is her name, not Marti the fendo.
Speaker 3: I don't know nobody's name right now, Barnie. And what
Speaker 3: about the Lisa splicit, she did the same thing.
Speaker 2: What is Marnie Marley? Mister Marley, I messed up a letter. Okay,
Speaker 2: you knew what I was talking about. That I really
Speaker 2: did it. But at least splicing. Both of them dealt
Speaker 2: with white men and felt like it was a form
Speaker 2: of reparation.
Speaker 1: Right, But they were always jomming them, right, And so
Speaker 1: I feel like he's race play is a very specific thing.
Speaker 1: When you're bringing up someone's colors, someone typical stereotypes, even
Speaker 1: like derogatory language, that's more race play.
Speaker 2: But he said he would go get a whole bunch
Speaker 2: of black boys. I understand. We got to be clear.
Speaker 1: A race play is a very specific exactly what you
Speaker 1: just said, though he wanted black boys.
Speaker 2: I don't even the wanting to suck black people is
Speaker 2: race play. You got me.
Speaker 3: He said, you're wanting to be done by black people,
Speaker 3: and he's like, you my slave, I'm your best.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think this would be good like commentary,
Speaker 1: like for people watching on YouTube or even in the
Speaker 1: comments like race played to me, is not you wanting
Speaker 1: to fund someone black, you wanted to be donned by
Speaker 1: someone black.
Speaker 2: It is not race.
Speaker 3: But to me, the knowing that you come from your
Speaker 3: ancestry of white supremacy, whether you were a slave owner
Speaker 3: or not.
Speaker 2: You said he was old, he could have had a plantation.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know how old, kay Like being submission to
Speaker 1: someone black is not race.
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is if there's a layer of
Speaker 3: I'm turned on by the role playing of you now
Speaker 3: being in a power position because of your race, knowing
Speaker 3: that I'm a white man.
Speaker 2: In in so I know I hear what you're saying.
Speaker 1: I just think it's unfair to all black doms that
Speaker 1: have white clients to say they're engaging in race.
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is, and back to even the
Speaker 3: past guests that we have had, they have literally called
Speaker 3: it a form of preparations.
Speaker 2: For the Yeah, as a joke, But Radley is something
Speaker 2: as a joke. Okay, chez a shirt that says reparations
Speaker 2: with a white hand and money. Yeah. Like to me,
Speaker 2: that's something like like we're getting deep. The question was
Speaker 2: away you might.
Speaker 1: Is getting deep for me because in some of the
Speaker 1: recent interviews I've done, like I was telling Mandy, I
Speaker 1: might have said on another episode, I went to a
Speaker 1: brothel and I'll give you all the tea I miss.
Speaker 1: I went, y'all know I do sex cells, which is
Speaker 1: exploring sex businesses, and part of that business in the
Speaker 1: brothel to me is it's almost like your blackness is
Speaker 1: a business at that point. So I asked the brothel,
Speaker 1: can I talk to these black women separate, because to me,
Speaker 1: their story would be different from everyone else's there because
Speaker 1: people are coming in to fuck your skin color.
Speaker 2: That's just the truth, right. Oh my god, you're my
Speaker 2: first black girl. Blah blah blah blah. Yeah.
Speaker 1: And one of the things I said to all of them,
Speaker 1: I think it was four or five black girls I
Speaker 1: sat down with, I said, do y'all engage in race play?
Speaker 2: And they all said absolutely no.
Speaker 1: However, they embraced the fact that they know they may
Speaker 1: be a fetish for some and talked a lot about
Speaker 1: the differences with race play and basically saying like the
Speaker 1: submission to a white guy would then be race play
Speaker 1: for them.
Speaker 2: The words being used, even the role playing itself.
Speaker 3: So that's probably why I was like, I think that's
Speaker 3: why when he brought up those words, because I'll be honest,
Speaker 3: like even when and and I talked about it, like,
Speaker 3: to me, race plays the same, like just to say
Speaker 3: something is a fetish, like I ain't.
Speaker 2: Like like when I I don't think it's fair to
Speaker 2: say I want to.
Speaker 3: Fuck you before you lose weight, Like people used to
Speaker 3: talk about wanting to fuck me at a certain size,
Speaker 3: and they didn't want to fuck me if I had
Speaker 3: lost a certain amount of weight. And so to me,
Speaker 3: even though that's a fetish, that to me is still
Speaker 3: on some fucked up shit. I was never fucking nobody
Speaker 3: who said they wanted to fuck me because they never
Speaker 3: fucked a big girl, and they wanted to fuck me
Speaker 3: as a big girl. And so the fact that this
Speaker 3: man also had you recruit other black boys and this
Speaker 3: was the conversation, that's where it's like, it's not it
Speaker 3: goes beyond the fact that you're just a.
Speaker 2: Black man and I want you to do this domination.
Speaker 3: To me, you're seeking out other specifically black men to
Speaker 3: humiliate you. And so to me, I think that back
Speaker 3: to psychological there's a psychological element to race play.
Speaker 4: Maybe he used to be a company, feels bad, Maybe
Speaker 4: he needs to go to therapy now cast and call
Speaker 4: for black men that one Caucasian man you pay good.
Speaker 4: So that's what was in my mind at the time.
Speaker 4: I was I don't have to do that in the mind, right, Okay,
Speaker 4: now I won't do that anymore.
Speaker 1: A lot is about like how do I get a
Speaker 1: sugar daddy? So that's really where we were digging to you.
Speaker 1: So you started like that, and then tell us more
Speaker 1: about how it became sugar and how you knew you
Speaker 1: wanted to do that.
Speaker 2: Well, I didn't start sugar until I moved to La really.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I mean I had like, yeah, that guy
Speaker 4: wasn't got to consider considering I'm a sugar daddy.
Speaker 2: Because I had to work, right. But that's that's where it.
Speaker 4: Even though some people that have sugar daddy, they have
Speaker 4: to sleep with their sugar daddy, you know what I mean,
Speaker 4: I don't do that.
Speaker 2: Really, my sugar daddy he can't. He can't get he can,
Speaker 2: but he can't come. Why there's science or something. He
Speaker 2: can't do that science. So there's nothing. My sugar add
Speaker 2: doesn't look for sex with me. He has a partner.
Speaker 2: All he wants to do is go to litter shit.
Speaker 2: But we haven't.
Speaker 4: I haven't seen him in person in two years. He
Speaker 4: still pays you, of course, of course, but what does
Speaker 4: he pay you for?
Speaker 2: Just to pay me?
Speaker 4: Like he just if I ask him whatever I want,
Speaker 4: I get. That's just how it works with him. We
Speaker 4: build a friendship. So when you have a sugar daddy
Speaker 4: and you want to secure the sugardaddy and securit, secure
Speaker 4: the bag, it has to be a genuine friendship as well.
Speaker 4: Yes you can, you can finesse only for so long.
Speaker 4: But if you actually really get in there, when he
Speaker 4: starts to trust you and he's like, you know what,
Speaker 4: you're like my friend, me and my sugar they have
Speaker 4: like a friendship. I actually really like it.
Speaker 1: I think you are preaching so hard right now, mainly
Speaker 1: because sugar babies assume it's all about their looks.
Speaker 2: Sugar babies assume it's oh, like, you know, I'm hot.
Speaker 1: He wants to make me this thing like there will
Speaker 1: always be another you. You know, I'm saying, there's alway
Speaker 1: gonna be another cute beach, a cute nigga whatever. But
Speaker 1: one thing I know that you're saying that. I've never
Speaker 1: really thought of my sugar daddy. And I started out
Speaker 1: in the beginning, uh, just going out to bars and stuff.
Speaker 1: He thought it was fun to have around, like, oh,
Speaker 1: she brings a girls round. He would take me on
Speaker 1: vacation shit like that, and then he was almost invested
Speaker 1: in my life story and always felt like, especially with friendship,
Speaker 1: he needed to take.
Speaker 2: Care of me.
Speaker 1: What would we do if anybody got hurting this roomun Now,
Speaker 1: like we're you know what I mean, there's a friendship,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take care of you. That's a really good
Speaker 1: point because if you don't establish that friendship.
Speaker 2: What the fuck does he need to stick around for?
Speaker 2: Which is why I also agree with you.
Speaker 3: Me and my friends debate this all the time because
Speaker 3: their quote unquote sugar daddies it was transactional. They didn't
Speaker 3: get money unless they saw them in person and had sex.
Speaker 3: And I've been in a whole nother country with another
Speaker 3: nigga and had to call one of my niggas like
Speaker 3: his team ain't pay him, can you send me one
Speaker 3: thousand dollars?
Speaker 2: And this is Western Union Day, Like I had to
Speaker 2: have my roommate go to Western union. I said, bitch,
Speaker 2: I'll pay you one hundred dollars out of this, put.
Speaker 3: It in my account so that I could have money
Speaker 3: while I'm out in this other country with a nigga
Speaker 3: whose team's not paying. And my friends could never understand
Speaker 3: how I could get certain things from people without having sex.
Speaker 3: And I said, well, if this is a sugar daddy
Speaker 3: that really fucks with you, you shouldn't have to have
Speaker 3: sex with him for him to show up for you.
Speaker 3: And that's the only way they show up for you,
Speaker 3: Like you should be able to ask at the drop
Speaker 3: of the dime, whether he sees you or not, whether
Speaker 3: you're giving him a good time or not, whether you
Speaker 3: sucking his dick or not.
Speaker 2: You should be able to depend.
Speaker 3: On this person for stop. I gotta pee that bad,
Speaker 3: so fuck de fat that I'm really the drunk one.
Speaker 3: This been collects on a motherfucking bathroom, right, But we
Speaker 3: gonna continue. So I agree with you, but I want
Speaker 3: to talk. Then, how do you do you ever initiate
Speaker 3: that relationship with someone like a Both of we know
Speaker 3: where you're at with relationships, right, but with you, do
Speaker 3: you ever go into it saying what you're looking for?
Speaker 2: Do you go in wanting an arrangement, or do you
Speaker 2: go in knowing it could be more than you go
Speaker 2: and wanting a relationship.
Speaker 4: I would say, before I had my sugar Daddy, I
Speaker 4: would go into it like I need the lifestyle I
Speaker 4: live and I need to pay for I'm very blind.
Speaker 4: I don't waste no time. I don't want my time wasted.
Speaker 4: Since I've had the Sugar Daddy and I'm able to
Speaker 4: kind of be independent on I still have them, but
Speaker 4: I'm still like independent kind of too, So I don't.
Speaker 2: You can have multiple straight income. That's just what You're right,
Speaker 2: You're right, You're right right.
Speaker 4: So with him, it's not I don't even really talk
Speaker 4: to him about transactions or anything like that anymore, like
Speaker 4: unless I need it, Like when we're having a conversation,
Speaker 4: we don't talk about Like I literally just said on
Speaker 4: my Apple pay request.
Speaker 2: Well that was gonna be my next question. Just setting
Speaker 2: them up.
Speaker 3: Fucking Apple pay request probably doesn't work for everybody. So
Speaker 3: I'm what is the what is then the simplest way
Speaker 3: for anyone listening to this and they're like, damn, I
Speaker 3: don't know how to get nothing out of these thiggas.
Speaker 3: What would be the simplest, most sure way for you
Speaker 3: to respectfully ask a man for money without them feeling
Speaker 3: like they tricking on you. Cause men sometimes don't want
Speaker 3: to feel like a trick right, So how do you
Speaker 3: go about asking somebody for money without making them feel
Speaker 3: a way about you asking?
Speaker 4: Whether it's a job, relationship, ship, family member, or spouse,
Speaker 4: communication is key. I always communicate with my sugar Daddy.
Speaker 4: If I'm about to go out of town, I'm gonna
Speaker 4: let him know, like, Hey, in a couple weeks, I'm
Speaker 4: going to New York. Like when I did mtvvma's, I
Speaker 4: let him know two weeks in advance. I'm like, I'm
Speaker 4: going to mtvvma's. I need three thousand dollars just to go.
Speaker 4: I need an outfit, I need hotel, I need a
Speaker 4: spaces when I get there, I need a flight, And
Speaker 4: I may ask.
Speaker 2: You for more when I go. Just let you know,
Speaker 2: and I let him know. This is really big for me.
Speaker 4: This is something I've always wanted to do, you know
Speaker 4: what I mean? So just communicating that even if I'm
Speaker 4: going to dinner with my friend it's Amber's birthday next week,
Speaker 4: let's just say that. I'm like Okay, my friend has
Speaker 4: a birthday dinner next week. I'm gonna need like seven
Speaker 4: hundred dollars or three hundred dollars. You know, I just
Speaker 4: I communicate with him now if it's an emergency, I
Speaker 4: always put it in cats emergency.
Speaker 2: He knows I usually don't do that, though, but I
Speaker 2: let him Suburthency. Yeah, is there is there?
Speaker 3: Is there a dollar amount? And I'll be honest. I
Speaker 3: used to have a saying, but is there a dollar
Speaker 3: amount that you won't ask for because you feel like
Speaker 3: it makes you look like a cheap bitch? Like I
Speaker 3: used to tell everybody. I used to tell all my homegirls,
Speaker 3: don't as for us than five hundred dollars. If you
Speaker 3: are here asking a nigga for eighty dollars or two
Speaker 3: hundred dollars, you are setting yourself up to look like
Speaker 3: a broke ass bitch. Thing can't like they can't do nothing.
Speaker 3: So what is the lowest amount of money you'll ask
Speaker 3: somebody for? Because you didn't just say three hundred.
Speaker 2: So I said seven, I said seven hundred, three hundred.
Speaker 3: So what's the least amount of money you would ask
Speaker 3: somebody without feeling like why am I asking this? Motherfucker
Speaker 3: fudd this month, right, I will probably say three hundred
Speaker 3: three hundred. Yeah, I don't ask him for like little
Speaker 3: money I have. I have rent and then this podcast.
Speaker 3: You know, we you know, we gotta invest. You're spending
Speaker 3: in my right right, so that's a part of my
Speaker 3: my monthly. You know, I need you to send that,
Speaker 3: and now I gotta budget that, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: But I don't. I don't feel bad.
Speaker 4: You know, when I first had my Sugardaddy, I used
Speaker 4: to feel bad for asking him for like a lot
Speaker 4: of money. I'm like, oh my god, like I think
Speaker 4: I'm doing too much. But four years later he got
Speaker 4: me my own apartment well over six figures. I mean,
Speaker 4: so we have I have this relationship. We have this
Speaker 4: relationship where it's like he believes in me.
Speaker 2: So I let him know. He need watches the podcast.
Speaker 2: He knows about the podcast.
Speaker 4: Now he knew about my YouTube channel when I was
Speaker 4: teaching people around the world how to get a sugar daddy, like,
Speaker 4: he watches that.
Speaker 2: Do you do you want love and do you want
Speaker 2: a relationship? Oh guess I do? And it's not transactional
Speaker 2: when I'm looking for mine.
Speaker 3: So when you're looking for love in a relationship. I
Speaker 3: feel like this was probably one of my hardest things
Speaker 3: in my twenties. I was so financially dependent on multiple
Speaker 3: men that I felt like it hindered me from finding
Speaker 3: love because I felt like, well, these bills still got
Speaker 3: to get paid. Even if someone came around that I
Speaker 3: really liked, would I be able to cut these niggas loose?
Speaker 3: I used to be on the spot and be like,
Speaker 3: you know what, uh if I got a boyfriend, now
Speaker 3: he got to accept all my hosts because these holes
Speaker 3: ain't going nowhere.
Speaker 2: So I want to ask you, then, you wanting to.
Speaker 3: Find love, would you be willing to cut this sugar
Speaker 3: daddy off that just paid for your apartment?
Speaker 2: Depends person, It depends on the person. You know. When
Speaker 2: I go on dates and things like that with guys,
Speaker 2: I'm very blunt.
Speaker 4: I let you do on the first day, when you know,
Speaker 4: when we're asking about each other, I'll be like, I
Speaker 4: have a sugar daddy. You.
Speaker 2: Oh baby, y'all from come on, tell you I was
Speaker 2: sitting there. You didn't.
Speaker 3: Oh, I love mowning while I pissed. That's a good piss.
Speaker 3: So wait, don't don't come in and trupt. I'm gonna
Speaker 3: say that's crazy.
Speaker 2: I just heard. Yeah.
Speaker 3: So you let people know, even if you may be
Speaker 3: interested in them outside of an arrangement, you let them
Speaker 3: know out the gate that you have a sugar daddy.
Speaker 2: See.
Speaker 4: I'm on the point in my life now when I'm
Speaker 4: starting to like, you know, grind, to make a name
Speaker 4: for myself, and I still have my sugar daddy.
Speaker 2: I'm not.
Speaker 4: My sugardaddy gets me everything I need as far as finances,
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. So when I'm looking for
Speaker 4: a relationship with somebody, I'm not looking for another sugar daddy.
Speaker 4: I'm looking for a man that has like his own
Speaker 4: money of course, or seven hundred credit you know, the
Speaker 4: American Express.
Speaker 2: But I'm not looking for how do you feel the need? No,
Speaker 2: I gotta let them know because people know me from that.
Speaker 4: Imagine being Imagine being with somebody. I'm on a date
Speaker 4: with somebody, right, we go on our second date. Somebody
Speaker 4: comes to the table like, oh my god, Jacob. They
Speaker 4: call me grinding Jacob's garre. So they'll be like, oh,
Speaker 4: I love your sugardaddy. Channel people come up to me
Speaker 4: and say that all the time. So I'm gonna let
Speaker 4: them know that in the beginning, because when I'm trying
Speaker 4: to go on a date with somebody I genuinely have
Speaker 4: interest in you, I'm not gonna go on a date
Speaker 4: with somebody i'm not interested in. I'm gonna let you
Speaker 4: know all of me. Not all of me, but I'm
Speaker 4: gonna let you know the main things in the beginning,
Speaker 4: because I'm not gonna waste your time. What if I'm
Speaker 4: vibing with you and I'm starting to like, okay, maybe
Speaker 4: this is potential, nigga, I'm not gonna get my hopes
Speaker 4: up and be like Okay on the second date, I'm
Speaker 4: gonna go let them know I have a sugar daddy,
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. No, I'm gonna let them
Speaker 4: know in the beginning, because if you're not interested, that's fine.
Speaker 2: I move on.
Speaker 4: But nobody has ever complained. The guys that I talked
Speaker 4: to my ex boyfriends, they did not care. They didn't
Speaker 4: get because they know I don't have sex with him.
Speaker 4: I'm very blunt. If I did, i'd be like, yeah,
Speaker 4: I did, but I don't.
Speaker 2: I never had to.
Speaker 4: Because you don't fuck Probably, I don't even have to
Speaker 4: see him. I can literally be with m I used
Speaker 4: to check with my ex boyfriend. I'd be like, hold on,
Speaker 4: I'm like, where are we going for dinner? I'll be
Speaker 4: like where you want to go for dinner? Will literally
Speaker 4: just sit there like and and send him ask for
Speaker 4: Apple Apple pay request. He was seving the money when
Speaker 4: I flew the nigga out from Texas for my birthday
Speaker 4: and I had the big party.
Speaker 2: Ya look aver is it because she was at the party?
Speaker 2: Is like, you flew him out? Yeah, I didn't tell
Speaker 2: you if I did. I did. I fooled him out.
Speaker 4: I foo my mom out, personal driving guests. Of course
Speaker 4: I didn't do it all the time, but I did
Speaker 4: for my birthday. I did fight MoMA, don't cow that's sweet?
Speaker 4: Why didn't you a man as a sugar baby? Like?
Speaker 4: It's so, if you know what, I'm kind of a
Speaker 4: trick in a way. I am kind of hand no,
Speaker 4: like I have a sugar baddy. But if I really
Speaker 4: like you, like my ex boyfriend, I really like I
Speaker 4: loved him. I really liked him. It's not like I
Speaker 4: always paid for everything but your time that it is
Speaker 4: like this, I don't give it qualified. I like this man,
Speaker 4: And I said, you're gonna come to my birthday party.
Speaker 4: I'm flying you out here.
Speaker 2: I flew him out. How are you gonna fight? How
Speaker 2: did you like? Oh, you never flew out? Why do
Speaker 2: you think I don't fly on the mother fucking because
Speaker 2: that's the only time I even.
Speaker 3: Offered the fly motherfucker out is when it was COVID
Speaker 3: because the flight was seventeen dollars.
Speaker 2: I said, I got it. Did you want you got
Speaker 2: a nigga? You said, what a back in the day
Speaker 2: that house, you still got it?
Speaker 4: Transportation, the bottom shot, you bottom dinner, if you boy
Speaker 4: a man, a shot, a drink of food and meal.
Speaker 2: Bitch, you trick to and got me fucked. Yeah, mommy,
Speaker 2: that's all the time I got. Yes. But you know
Speaker 2: about my sugardadd he was cool with telling.
Speaker 1: People where to fuss is they can't figure out where
Speaker 1: to find a sugar daddy from the infront you.
Speaker 3: You did not really give the guidelines. So I'm gonna
Speaker 3: tell you now it's given.
Speaker 4: You guys asked about my sugar baby experience. I told
Speaker 4: you I have a sugardaddy. If you guys want to
Speaker 4: know how to get a sugar daddy, I have a
Speaker 4: YouTube channel called grinding Jacob's gears. I'm the only African
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Speaker 2: Out on YouTube's advice. Thank you going on YouTube?
Speaker 4: Okay, and I got I had about whole episode on
Speaker 4: on TV because of my my channel. Anyways, I teach
Speaker 4: you how to get sugaraddy. So go watch it and
Speaker 4: guess what I preach about. You don't have to see
Speaker 4: what these men from money and you don't ask for crumbs.
Speaker 4: We need the whole mel And then I'm also gonna
Speaker 4: fly you out. And no, I flicked the one man out.
Speaker 4: It was my ex boyfriend. Don't do that, it was
Speaker 4: I was it show us. I did fly him out,
Speaker 4: and I fly out another nigga. Shit if I feel
Speaker 4: like it should. Jason Leeve, he's flying niggas out, and he.
Speaker 2: Did say that part. You right, it ain't trigging if
Speaker 2: you got it, and I had it at that day.
Speaker 2: So we're about to break his next. You're about to
Speaker 2: make me feel bad for flying that nigga out. I
Speaker 2: love that man. I did that. Man, you know you
Speaker 2: love your sugar daddy too. Of course he did. He
Speaker 2: watched my YouTube channel. Look at what's next. It's giving
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