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Speaker 1: Today's pisode, if you're watching on the YouTube, is a

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Speaker 1: very hungover one.

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Speaker 2: I'm over, Oh, Mandy's still drunk. This ship is from

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Speaker 2: twenty minutes ago.

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Speaker 1: And all of us are wearing sunglasses and the podcast

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Speaker 1: is giving I went.

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Speaker 3: Out last night and this morning and brunch, and hey, y'all,

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Speaker 3: welcome to Horror Black Homes. I'm your girl, Mandy b

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Speaker 3: aka for cork Pumps, AKA that bitch ak a get

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Speaker 3: a T shirt?

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Speaker 2: Excuse me, AKA, I need to have a full T shirt.

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Speaker 1: What's the do you want a full T shirt? Mandy

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Speaker 1: looked like she's auditioning for Battie's ease. We're not gonna

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Speaker 4: We're not gonna do that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you don't no, because I ain't got the

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Speaker 3: to beat you bitches up.

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Speaker 2: You used to do that back in the day because

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Speaker 3: Lay Anyways, what's crazy is uh, full sets do not

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Speaker 3: but this is also wine ball headed because if y'all

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Speaker 3: listen to the pod, y'all know I pull that ponytail

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Speaker 3: out of Weezy's head when we thought and won't do

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Speaker 2: And did up. So why you got it from the back,

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Speaker 3: Podcast joining us, and baby, what's up?

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Speaker 2: What's up?

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Speaker 3: He was drinking, So to be fair, I started with

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Speaker 2: So we talked, we catch up. Did she see she spoke?

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Speaker 2: We had the same name. So did she know y'all? No, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 3: Okay, that wasn't given friendship. Okay, it's pure friendship. Never

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, I'm not sitting he said, I'm not

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Speaker 4: There was supposed to be a story. It was given Climagne.

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Speaker 4: She was like, so I was out and we were like,

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Speaker 2: But can I talk about it? We've gone there before.

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Speaker 3: Like every time I come to La, Jacob will pull

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Speaker 2: We did go after the show wherever? That is that

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Speaker 4: Yeah, there are lots of call places that yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: But is that not like say welcome hevb wow means

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Speaker 3: Anyway, y'all welcome to the pile. We're gonna talk all

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Speaker 2: Are you hold on? No, we not No, we're not.

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Speaker 2: We're talking about sugaring, todaby, but stop it. That's not ship. No,

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Speaker 2: it's not class. I'm a class.

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Speaker 3: Just because y'all call it sugaring does not mean it's

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Speaker 2: But let's get through it.

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Speaker 4: how did y'all link up for the Justice Spot?

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Speaker 2: Just being friends? We'll being friends for a long time.

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Speaker 4: And then I had my podcast Brian and Jacob Skears,

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Speaker 2: So then we just started it and yeah, there we are.

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Speaker 4: Now what is your podcast for so twenty it's an

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Speaker 2: You come on and say what you want to circumcised podcast? Well,

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Speaker 4: But you could take off your wig. Just make sure

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Speaker 4: you're shampooed and condition No dan drift on the furniture. Okay,

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Speaker 4: it up to absolutely you. You got a man, a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, how long this situation will happened? In six months? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Yeah it's new. Yeah? You like him? Yeah? Five? How

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Speaker 2: doing the same thing right now. But it's a good time.

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Speaker 2: gonna lie five isn't bad. It's your twenty two.

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Speaker 3: No. But the gen Zers that's where I said, Like

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Speaker 2: Of it all.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I think they like the gen Zers that

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Speaker 2: All, like how they view relationships.

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Speaker 3: A lot of them now we've seen La Chopa talking

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Speaker 3: trying new things. But their communication sucks. They want to

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Speaker 2: I didn't know niggas really still snapchat? Oh it yet?

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Speaker 4: screenshot me or save my pictures? Hello, meet me on Snapchat?

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Speaker 3: I don't stem like can't Yeah, but then once you

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Speaker 2: You not the nigga for me.

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Speaker 3: We talked about this when we were talking about the

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Speaker 2: I don't know the Deep thinks? Okay.

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Speaker 3: And so to me now, knowing that we have this

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Speaker 1: I really hate when you finally get a new drug

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Speaker 2: Like here's the listener what I got?

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Speaker 1: Like when you're texting me, please do pizza science for this,

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Speaker 1: Like nigga what this is too much?

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Speaker 2: Do you have it or not?

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Speaker 4: I'll be working all the time in third party because

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Speaker 4: you know I don't do none of that. But my

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Speaker 4: got it. Let them know, like meet me and the

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Speaker 4: signal happened.

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Speaker 2: This is what they have. But I didn't even know

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Speaker 2: Like you're at a restaurant.

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Speaker 3: Ye, delivery, Like if you order a certain amount, it's delivery. No,

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Speaker 4: I didn't know you're supposed to tip a drug dealer either. Wait,

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Speaker 4: they want to be two. It said tips are welcome

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Speaker 4: real quick when you get sugared when you prostitute and

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Speaker 4: naked tips too right? I never prostitute, Like I never Okay, okay, okay, okay,

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Speaker 4: classic sex work.

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Speaker 2: What are we doing here? Like y'all want to add

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Speaker 2: that it's a fucking.

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Speaker 1: In the I do think there's a level that though sex.

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Speaker 4: I've had sex before for money, but that's not how

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Speaker 4: That's not what I am doing.

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Speaker 2: No sugaring.

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Speaker 3: We'll get into it well before we do it. Do

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Speaker 3: they like, we just.

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Speaker 2: Want to know one question. Okay, eating asks or sucking toes?

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Speaker 2: Which way you're doing? Second towels, I like tows really.

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Speaker 3: Off the off the GP like even during casual sex

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Speaker 3: to you second to it often?

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Speaker 3: You don't suck melts, so they don't like it. We

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Speaker 4: I didn't had an experience where one time, you know,

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Speaker 3: Who yeah, yeah, it was the last time you dealt

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I felt really, this is why we gotta talk.

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Speaker 3: By the way, every time I go to the nail tech,

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Speaker 1: Do you not do you not need another dominant finger?

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Speaker 1: So speaking of toes and she like them, bitch, we

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Speaker 2: I'm just glad this is shit up.

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Speaker 1: Fifty two year old David Neil was arrested after he

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Speaker 1: The guest told police that he woke up with the

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Speaker 2: He has a twenty seven thousand dollars blonde bond. Nigga.

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Speaker 2: I just want to know. Did he see the feet

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Speaker 2: early on and was like these are it? Nigga?

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Speaker 4: He said, you got some big ass feet. I'll be

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Speaker 4: coming back with them.

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Speaker 2: I mean, wait, wait, what is that? Tennessee.

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Speaker 3: Maybe he showed up and checked into some flip flops,

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Speaker 3: like that's a Southern thing to do, like him be

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and he was like the arch everything I

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Speaker 1: don't know what it would I do if I woke

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Speaker 2: Feet were wet? Can you imagine? Oh? Christ? I mean like,

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Speaker 2: if I'm laying in bed with somebody like you know,

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Speaker 2: You wake up and your toes are being suck? What's

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Speaker 2: the hell going on my feet? That's almost words you're

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Speaker 2: getting from.

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Speaker 3: No, No, I'm not gonna hold you to me. It's

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Speaker 2: Like what do you grab? Like you grabbed the cloak? Coordless?

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Speaker 2: Do you kick him in the mouth? Like? What do

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Speaker 2: you dig in? Then you play dead? How do you?

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Speaker 4: So?

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Speaker 2: What do y'all? Do? You wake up in somebody's sucking

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Speaker 4: Room that I don't know and he just breaks into

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Speaker 4: my hotel room. Oh, I'm boxing. I'm gonna kill you.

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Speaker 4: We're gonna box for sure. If you're fine, I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna hold on. Let's do it just a phone scenario.

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Speaker 2: Do this. We're not gonna do that. You if you're

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Speaker 2: that's okay. If you're not, so we do it.

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying you're fine, Okay, you're downstairs during the

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Speaker 1: check in a cute niggas like oh yeah you do

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Speaker 1: want to upgrade, like yeah, we got a sweet available,

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Speaker 1: be like, oh you should come to my steet later.

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Speaker 2: Okay, maybe I would invite. No, It's like it's like

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Speaker 2: that's what make it make sense? You know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: But what if you woke up and that happened? Would

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Speaker 4: Okay, I would actually check the person for I would

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Speaker 4: I'm saying, yeah, I definitely would. Don't care there was

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Speaker 4: I was just talking, but I would definitely check them.

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Speaker 4: Ill probably just hit them. And then I would definitely hit.

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Speaker 2: Them, But how fun hit them?

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Speaker 4: I would just mean I would be scared if I

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Speaker 4: you know, I already have sleep paralysis, so I already

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Speaker 2: I hate that, So I would really be like crazy,

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Speaker 2: this is given I'm in an accident with a Walmart truck.

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Speaker 2: What hotel. Are we in.

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Speaker 3: I'm suing the corporation because they don't hide hilt it.

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Speaker 1: Listen, Paris is gonna be dja every one of our events.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna be right in there.

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Speaker 3: He happen at a Hilton. Yes, that's what I'm saying. Oh,

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Speaker 3: Nicky to Nikki, all the Hilton's about to be working,

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Speaker 3: bitch whatever tequila? Oh girl, got uh?

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Speaker 2: That be all? No, the the Hilton Hilson. Oh, I

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Speaker 4: I don't watch The Housewives Hilton. No not wait, you're

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Speaker 4: talking about Marizio's wife. That's related to the Hiltons.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm talking about Howives Beverly Hills. Beverly is this white?

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Speaker 2: Does not be on word tequila? Does anyone know? And

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Speaker 3: But normally girls on All the Housewives, Damn, I can't remember.

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Speaker 3: But basically she's Paris Hilton's mom. Kassieler Kathy bitch. Yes,

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Speaker 3: so he's a cast member. Kathy is a motherfucking cast member.

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Speaker 2: Bitch. Oh, I was in the era of Lisa unk Kathy. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 3: It now, Kathy is a cast member and he's trying

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Speaker 2: And that bitch we'd be on here drinking all the Kathy's.

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Speaker 4: How are all these white celebrities George Clooney, don't you

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Speaker 2: How did they get up?

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Speaker 3: Just so you know, there was whole beef because she

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Speaker 3: And there was a whole beef because Kathy like had

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Speaker 1: They get Bad Bunny in ne tequila. I don't want

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Speaker 1: Way pulls out here. Really what they gave homeboys and

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Speaker 1: even think Bad Bunny's gay. I think he's just like

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Speaker 1: think he's like Danny at all. I just think that

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Speaker 2: Man. We're gonna find out when I meet him for sure.

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Speaker 4: Oh you're gonna find my friend met him instead, she

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Speaker 2: You can get no gay vibes. She did say it

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Speaker 4: No no, I just mean like she don't know what language,

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Speaker 1: Whatever the hell I'm trying to say. Basically, she was

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Speaker 3: If I go out with that boney, I'm gonna be like,

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Speaker 3: let me get a hample guest I called castel.

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Speaker 2: That's what you had. I can't help her. Guess looking

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Speaker 2: what this Puerto Rican did? Let me get not mam,

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Speaker 2: what's the thing. They're like, what I am my not Dominican?

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Speaker 2: No mama is hang it off?

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Speaker 1: Flask Green All right, wait, horror stories next, because I

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Speaker 1: need to know let them talk, because we talked to you.

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Speaker 4: I'm just watching the shops.

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Speaker 2: Everybody gonna be so mad at YouTube water like, how

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Speaker 2: a professional are you? Guys? All right, God, you didn't

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Speaker 2: even let your guests talk. Shut the fuck up.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Amber horror story, sex story, dating story, we need

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Speaker 1: it now.

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Speaker 2: But but a horror story is like one that went wrong.

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Speaker 1: God, it doesn't sound like a wedding day horror.

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Speaker 2: You think showing a horror story.

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Speaker 3: He could just be a horror story, horror or story,

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Speaker 3: but one that went wrong.

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Speaker 2: So either the nigga took you on a date he

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Speaker 2: was how it broke nigga took God, nigga never took

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Speaker 2: me on a day ever, it won't. You've never been

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Speaker 2: taken on a date? Y'all? Sliding hurt DMS right now?

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Speaker 2: Is j You need to elaborate? What do you think

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Speaker 2: a date is?

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Speaker 3: A day?

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Speaker 2: Like? They take you out and they pay for everything,

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Speaker 2: and you've never in your life been on a date? No,

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Speaker 2: how is that?

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Speaker 4: How is that possible? I guess it's the guys I

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00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:59,159
Speaker 4: talk to. I don't know what kind of niggas you like. Niggas,

439
00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:02,199
Speaker 4: broke niggas, boxing niggas, hood niggas will take you on

440
00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:02,640
Speaker 4: a date.

441
00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:04,560
Speaker 2: Well, maybe they don't like me. She's been dating broke

442
00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:05,479
Speaker 2: broke hood niggas.

443
00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:11,680
Speaker 3: She broke broke a twenty deal at the Applebee's.

444
00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:12,919
Speaker 2: At Chili too. Hold on, so you went out.

445
00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:14,920
Speaker 1: To eat with niggas and they just don't pay the

446
00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:17,600
Speaker 1: way you're They don't go Dutch.

447
00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:21,600
Speaker 2: No, it's like, wait, you pay so you're a sugar mama.

448
00:20:21,920 --> 00:20:24,159
Speaker 4: I guess you could say that, do you mean to

449
00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:26,400
Speaker 4: leave that way? Or would you like it just happens

450
00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:29,280
Speaker 4: that way? Maybe because you're lit, they feel like they shouldn't.

451
00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:31,760
Speaker 2: Is that it? They're like, oh, this bitch.

452
00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:32,000
Speaker 4: Is you know.

453
00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:35,159
Speaker 2: Me? So and I don't act like I don't. I

454
00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:36,040
Speaker 2: don't have it? Okay?

455
00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:39,119
Speaker 3: So then what about before the social media and all

456
00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:39,680
Speaker 3: those things?

457
00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:41,000
Speaker 2: Like you're the same age as.

458
00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:44,720
Speaker 3: Us, So there was an era from teenager to early

459
00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:48,000
Speaker 3: twenties before all this social media ship right where you

460
00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:51,320
Speaker 3: were still dating men. It was more women or like

461
00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:55,200
Speaker 3: yeah and no one that you never got someone that

462
00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:56,080
Speaker 3: took you on a date.

463
00:20:56,200 --> 00:20:58,160
Speaker 4: I've never been on a date. I'm telling you, bitch,

464
00:20:58,200 --> 00:20:59,440
Speaker 4: I can't wait to come back. I'm gonna take you

465
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Speaker 4: on a date.

466
00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:02,600
Speaker 2: Wait have you ever said this publicly? Are we talking

467
00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:06,560
Speaker 2: about that? Did you know that? Yeah? I know? Yeah?

468
00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:11,840
Speaker 2: Because will he be around me? You see what I mean? Okay, So,

469
00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:13,560
Speaker 2: way do you feel like then? I would take on

470
00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:14,400
Speaker 2: the day before any man.

471
00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:16,679
Speaker 4: So well, there's men that would take on a date,

472
00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:19,320
Speaker 4: but she just haven't met the right guy though, well.

473
00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:22,080
Speaker 2: Know then for the for maybe the people listening.

474
00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:25,640
Speaker 3: Then do you feel like you come across as overly independent?

475
00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:28,360
Speaker 2: Like where does it lean.

476
00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:30,679
Speaker 3: Into a man being comfortable taking you on a date,

477
00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:31,880
Speaker 3: whether it's the first, second, or.

478
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:34,160
Speaker 2: Third not nineteen keys over here? Look at it? Are

479
00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:37,920
Speaker 2: you an overly shut up bitch? I'm trying to be professional.

480
00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:38,840
Speaker 2: It's called an interview.

481
00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:45,040
Speaker 3: I would like to know then, like what do you

482
00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:46,840
Speaker 3: give off prior to even the day?

483
00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:48,919
Speaker 2: Are you meeting these people online? Are the people that

484
00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:49,280
Speaker 2: you know?

485
00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:52,520
Speaker 3: How are men not paying for a goddamn two for

486
00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:55,520
Speaker 3: twenty at Chilly's which is now like thirty five inflation?

487
00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:59,919
Speaker 4: But I guess you know what, when I meet these guys,

488
00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:02,760
Speaker 4: I already know like their situation. I never really met

489
00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:06,720
Speaker 4: a guy that had like a job for real, Okay,

490
00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:08,040
Speaker 4: Like even if dude, I was just.

491
00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:12,160
Speaker 2: There dicks, that'd be okay. This last one is twenty

492
00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:15,120
Speaker 2: five years that's fire. It's fire.

493
00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:17,200
Speaker 4: But like I meet guys like they don't have a job,

494
00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:19,560
Speaker 4: So it's like I always just hold it up like

495
00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:23,040
Speaker 4: that's just always been me. Why I don't know the

496
00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:25,200
Speaker 4: guys that do have the jobs and that I meet,

497
00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:26,360
Speaker 4: They're not my tipe?

498
00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:33,159
Speaker 2: What is your type? Then broke? At this point? You do?

499
00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:36,040
Speaker 2: Don't you work with Rihanna? How could you not have

500
00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:40,640
Speaker 2: access to this? I don't know. Damn, we gotta gotta

501
00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:40,960
Speaker 2: fix it.

502
00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:43,360
Speaker 3: So then let me let me bring it back because

503
00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:46,000
Speaker 3: it sounds like, Okay, this is just what it is.

504
00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:48,160
Speaker 2: Maybe you don't have much of a problem with it.

505
00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:52,760
Speaker 2: Are you? Are you comfortable with your dating life in

506
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:55,520
Speaker 2: you leading that way that I don't need you to

507
00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:58,120
Speaker 2: pay for nothing? This like, what then do you want

508
00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:00,199
Speaker 2: from a man? Okay, so I don't mind. I did

509
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:00,600
Speaker 2: at first.

510
00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:03,400
Speaker 4: It's fine, but sometimes you surprise me. But even if

511
00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:04,679
Speaker 4: I take me on a date, I would like like

512
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:07,800
Speaker 4: maybe a gift here and there, some random flowers, Like

513
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:10,240
Speaker 4: even if you just take your paragraphs like hey, thinking

514
00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 4: about you today with not a paragraph.

515
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:16,480
Speaker 2: Hell, I know she said your parents. She's just saying

516
00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:21,879
Speaker 2: show some effort. Yeah, So then is that not communicated?

517
00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:25,000
Speaker 3: I think a lot of like women want certain things

518
00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:26,600
Speaker 3: from their partners, and I'm like, why am I not

519
00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:29,800
Speaker 3: getting it? Do you communicate that you kind of would

520
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:31,360
Speaker 3: like to feel special?

521
00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:34,000
Speaker 2: Sometimes I'm not.

522
00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:36,760
Speaker 4: Really because I think, like, Okay, if I'm doing all this,

523
00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:37,600
Speaker 4: you should want to.

524
00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:43,240
Speaker 2: Can I get deep with you? Where is this stemming from?

525
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:43,639
Speaker 2: I would?

526
00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:47,040
Speaker 3: And I only ask that because I'm in therapy right now,

527
00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:48,240
Speaker 3: so I had to goat your sleeve.

528
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:51,200
Speaker 2: I was eighty pounds plus than I am at one point,

529
00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 2: and I used to think the bare minimum was having

530
00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:54,440
Speaker 2: sex with men.

531
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:57,760
Speaker 3: And now I'm at a point where I'm just like, bitch,

532
00:23:57,800 --> 00:23:59,440
Speaker 3: you can't fuck me if like you.

533
00:23:59,359 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 2: Don't do.

534
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:05,159
Speaker 3: And I wonder if like there's something where you just

535
00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:08,639
Speaker 3: are accepting that these men are just approaching you because

536
00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 3: of that, Me and my friends talk about it often.

537
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:14,360
Speaker 3: I'm still in a place where women, probably more than anything,

538
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 3: have made.

539
00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:18,000
Speaker 2: Me feel unworthy of love because of my weight, and so.

540
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:21,040
Speaker 3: Hearing and also meeting you energy is already like ooh, bitch,

541
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:23,600
Speaker 3: you cool because coming in the door, I'm like, oh,

542
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 3: and you know this man right here, why do you

543
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 3: think you haven't maybe even wanted or felt like you

544
00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:33,720
Speaker 3: were deserving of a man taking on a.

545
00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:36,600
Speaker 2: Day and maybe and asking that you know, a getting deep.

546
00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 4: It probably could be that you know, I've been being

547
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 4: my whole life since I was in like middle school,

548
00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:44,879
Speaker 4: always been big, So it could be that and not

549
00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 4: feeling maybe I almost say not feeling worthy, but I don't.

550
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:50,919
Speaker 2: Know, maybe like a little bit of low self esteem.

551
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 2: I don't know. Do you bear sexy day to day sexy?

552
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 1: I feel like when I see some of your content,

553
00:24:57,320 --> 00:25:02,040
Speaker 1: you give sexy if you were believable, being like when

554
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 1: you are feeling sexy.

555
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 2: But do you think day to day you feel that way?

556
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:07,320
Speaker 2: Not day to day, but every day. I do feel

557
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 2: like I'm flying every day. That's like I look good,

558
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 2: I smell good. You do. But as far as sexy, no,

559
00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:12,840
Speaker 2: not every day?

560
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:12,920
Speaker 4: No.

561
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:16,840
Speaker 2: Look well, look come on, y'all.

562
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 3: I'll make it deep here because I mean, I think

563
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:20,960
Speaker 3: that that was a thing for me. I've said it

564
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:29,040
Speaker 3: on this podcast, like as as just feeling like I

565
00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 3: as a woman should be happy for any man that

566
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:36,440
Speaker 3: shows me attention growing up by women and men, right,

567
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 3: I feel like it's it's one of those things that

568
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 3: a man just giving me time at one point validated

569
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 3: me and I felt like there was a lot of

570
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 3: times where I had a all sense of confidence.

571
00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:51,520
Speaker 2: It's what I'm talking about in therapy.

572
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:54,439
Speaker 3: Now because now I'm in this space where I'm so

573
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:56,640
Speaker 3: happy to be where I'm at.

574
00:25:56,800 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 2: I know my value and I think that seeing even.

575
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:04,359
Speaker 3: The conversation surrounding Liz though I have an interview with

576
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 3: Mahelia in a little bit, and just not being what

577
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:11,119
Speaker 3: people think should be the desired look that Okay, a

578
00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:13,960
Speaker 3: man just want to be around me. Let me just

579
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:18,720
Speaker 3: get that, and that being a sense of happiness isn't enough.

580
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:20,639
Speaker 2: And I mean I don't want to.

581
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:23,199
Speaker 3: I mean, we can't change your narrative now, but I

582
00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 3: would implore you to whatever you want, vocalizing that with

583
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:30,400
Speaker 3: any nigga that you meet moving forward, whether it's through

584
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:34,040
Speaker 3: tender Instagram, like you deserve to be.

585
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:36,159
Speaker 2: Taken on a fucking date, a nice one. Make that.

586
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:38,280
Speaker 2: Niggas cut a check. Say, nigga, you.

587
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:43,919
Speaker 3: See me, I need an entree, appletizer and dessert, So

588
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:48,080
Speaker 3: use your own credit card, Like deal with the motherfuckers

589
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:52,160
Speaker 3: that are, you know, still using PvP and other people's.

590
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:55,159
Speaker 1: We also got to be honest here because not sometimes

591
00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 1: we're saying you got to do X y Z for me.

592
00:26:57,320 --> 00:27:01,320
Speaker 1: Not every date is equal for every man you date, right,

593
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 1: Like we see people online getting cars and all this

594
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:06,760
Speaker 1: shit for Valentine's Day, Maybe our niggas ain't getting that

595
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 1: shit right.

596
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 2: So like, I think you gotta think.

597
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 1: If my man is working, maybe not even a fool

598
00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 1: time job, if they're just out here doing anything, taking

599
00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:17,240
Speaker 1: me to a movie is honestly gonna make me feel good,

600
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:20,679
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna feel like I'm taking out. But I

601
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 1: think the gesture alone, and that's probably why you're like

602
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:25,400
Speaker 1: the paragraph or something like, I actually feel that because

603
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:27,480
Speaker 1: I've gated some broke niggas too that if they could

604
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:30,560
Speaker 1: do that, I'm with it, like you understand where you

605
00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:32,359
Speaker 1: need to pick up the slack from another areas, But.

606
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:34,440
Speaker 4: I never really looked at it how you just broke

607
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:35,960
Speaker 4: it down and explained it, because I just see it

608
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,240
Speaker 4: as you know, I always have it. I've been independent,

609
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:39,520
Speaker 4: I always have it, So I don't look at it

610
00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:41,639
Speaker 4: as oh, they're not really doing much, like let's just

611
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:42,360
Speaker 4: go out, let's.

612
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:44,560
Speaker 2: Just have fun, let's go eat, let's let's just do that.

613
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:47,359
Speaker 3: But there's a way a man can show up for you,

614
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:50,000
Speaker 3: like again, a two for twenty mil right, that right

615
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:52,479
Speaker 3: way to make it feel special, like I got this.

616
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 2: And I think that I blame Neo.

617
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 3: I do because in our era he was saying misindependent and.

618
00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 2: I love I guess they got a room. Oh yeah,

619
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 2: that's a better song to see all of them.

620
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 3: I blame them for creating this era of who we

621
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:11,640
Speaker 3: are now, women in our early thirties who have strived

622
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:16,240
Speaker 3: and felt power and being independent, and now men being

623
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:20,439
Speaker 3: able to caddle off of that. But you like a

624
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:23,440
Speaker 3: date from a man, y'all. I need y'all to slide

625
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:25,879
Speaker 3: in the GMS if he was in La I think.

626
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:26,479
Speaker 1: It's gonna happen now.

627
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:29,120
Speaker 2: No, I would love I would love for you to.

628
00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:32,200
Speaker 3: Just be like Andy Weezy, I was taken on a date,

629
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:35,200
Speaker 3: because you deserve for a man to say, hey, meet

630
00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:36,679
Speaker 3: me here at this time.

631
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:39,160
Speaker 2: Let's just eat and have a good CONVERSA matter of fact,

632
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:39,960
Speaker 2: pick me up.

633
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 4: I ain't gonna part nice the first day.

634
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 2: Though, No, I agree.

635
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 3: I still believe like first date, even coming from Florida.

636
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 3: Like now that we have uber and all these things,

637
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 3: I like to be able to everyone be on their

638
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:54,479
Speaker 3: own times.

639
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 2: I know that it used to be a jester back

640
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:58,320
Speaker 2: in the day to have somebody pick you up on

641
00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 2: a date. I'll meet you there, let me know the time,

642
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:01,920
Speaker 2: and don't be late.

643
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 3: Like now, it's just the courtesy is just showing on time,

644
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 3: but please ask for that. I definitely do not meet

645
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 3: nobody else knew that you feel like you have to

646
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 3: show up as this independent bitch to overcompensate for whatever

647
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 3: you think like you deserve as a woman. The patriarchy

648
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 3: is really on our side, says I need you to

649
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:24,520
Speaker 3: sit here and allow men to show up for you,

650
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 3: because that was meet me a lot in the beginning,

651
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:28,160
Speaker 3: and you're just too dope for that.

652
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 2: Beautiful and honestly, we.

653
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 1: Need to pour that into ourselves the same speech, bitch,

654
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 1: cause last night I was taken down. Okay, I'm saying

655
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 1: that it wasn't consensual because I wanted it, but I

656
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 1: shouldn't have.

657
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, so then.

658
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 3: So real quick, on the flip side, this is your

659
00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 3: motherfucking friend, this is your co host, and he's staying

660
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 3: outing niggas take him on dates.

661
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:03,120
Speaker 2: Why are you not.

662
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 3: Giving her this energy? Like what how do you? How

663
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 3: do you show up as someone who gets spoiled?

664
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 2: Then I give her the energy.

665
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 4: But see, the type of man that I look for

666
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:14,960
Speaker 4: for Amber is not the type of man that she likes.

667
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:18,440
Speaker 4: Like I elaborate, Yeah, like guys that are like they're

668
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:20,400
Speaker 4: like boogie you don't like all that boosie ship, like

669
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:25,040
Speaker 4: I know, like she doesn't like she likes good niggas

670
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 4: type of ship, you know what I mean.

671
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 2: Like she likes hood guys.

672
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:28,960
Speaker 4: I'm not saying that you wouldn't date a guy that's

673
00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 4: not hood, but she likes like men that you know.

674
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 2: You know why that shit feels like home? It really do.

675
00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 2: Y'all could need some hap. Oh we had to have

676
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 2: a take her to Lamart Park.

677
00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 4: Oh baby, Lamar Park, I got. We have a little

678
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 4: glove dated speaking coming up. Really look out for the

679
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 4: announcement guests. It's blind dates for her.

680
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:49,480
Speaker 3: Talked about it for the pol about Lambert Park. I'm

681
00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 3: just saying, like I mean, a need the crystals and

682
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:57,280
Speaker 3: ship over there. Yes, stay away from me.

683
00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 1: She was, now tell us your horror story.

684
00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 4: My horror story, Okay, my horror story would be when

685
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 4: I was taking anal from African.

686
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 2: She was funding me and I.

687
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:15,959
Speaker 4: Didn't do shit. Yes, look he had a big old

688
00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 4: wa kandad he's given a he was giving. I wasn't

689
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:21,680
Speaker 4: like expecting to have sex that day, Like I was

690
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 4: literally on my way somewhere else, but he popped up

691
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:24,720
Speaker 4: on grind.

692
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:25,960
Speaker 2: I was just on there scroll and he was like,

693
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 2: come over, you know. So I came over and he

694
00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 2: was like, to the bedroom.

695
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 4: He was very direct. We went straight to the bedroom

696
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 4: and he was like, okay, let's let's get into it.

697
00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 4: I'm like, okay, so hopefully you bottom because it's not given.

698
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 4: I'm about to bottom for you right now. I just

699
00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 4: took a big ship. So I was like, give me

700
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:41,400
Speaker 4: a second, let me go to the bathroom. So I

701
00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 4: went to the bathroom.

702
00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 2: I tried to out you just took a big ship. Yeah,

703
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:49,240
Speaker 2: but it wasn't big enough. So he proceeds to bend

704
00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 2: me over, you know, and so you did by him?

705
00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 2: He did. I did. I was not from the bottom,

706
00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:57,880
Speaker 2: but you've been talking. I gave in and I bought

707
00:31:57,960 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 2: him and he started to, you know, go.

708
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 4: I always tell them going slow, put the tip in,

709
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 4: because if they do it wrong, I'm walking out. The

710
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:06,560
Speaker 4: moment you do it wrong, I walk out. I get

711
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:09,120
Speaker 4: pissed off by just shoving it in, like I want

712
00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 4: to fight. So I always held him start off slow.

713
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 2: Some guys, listen, yeah, be gentle, like you know, this

714
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 2: is a tight ball. That's a big cock. That's the

715
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:19,520
Speaker 2: white people say, big cock. Wait, he was a he

716
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:21,440
Speaker 2: was a cocker, not a dicker. No, he was a dicker.

717
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 2: But I'm if it's real big, I'll be saying it

718
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 2: was a big plus. It was like it was like

719
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 2: ten inches stick, like a weapon. So he put it in.

720
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 2: He starts to go within like the fourth pump. He like,

721
00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 2: he was like, you're dirty, bitch. Oh yes, oh he

722
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 2: told you. He said you're dirty in this little Nigerian accent.

723
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 4: I'm like, so was his household, bitch. I was straight

724
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,480
Speaker 4: to the bathroom. He stopped, he stopped fucking. He said,

725
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:49,080
Speaker 4: you need to leave. So I went to the bathroom,

726
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:52,280
Speaker 4: I wiped my ass, put on my clothes, and I left.

727
00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 2: I was so embarrassed. Oh my god, I'm so sorry.

728
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:55,240
Speaker 4: Girl.

729
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 2: Well that was my horrible decis That's what I got.

730
00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:58,760
Speaker 2: I should have been on bad not the phone.

731
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, you real, honest, Like when niggas be like, well

732
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:04,440
Speaker 3: I want to get into Boodhall, I'll be like, I

733
00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 3: had coffee this morning, so I, like you didn't let

734
00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 3: him know.

735
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 2: The hey probably was that I had Chapotle earlier and.

736
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 4: Probby he said, yeah, but I didn't expect I honestly,

737
00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 4: I didn't even think about Ana. When I went to

738
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:24,800
Speaker 4: his house, I thought we were just gonna probably make out.

739
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:26,480
Speaker 4: I was gonna suck his dick or something like that,

740
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 4: and then I was gonna leave. I didn't know that

741
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:28,280
Speaker 4: I was gonna like.

742
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 2: Actually, is that common on Grinder? Yeah? You know, I haven't.

743
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 4: So this this happened like three years. I haven't used

744
00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 4: I haven't like had sex like through an app in

745
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 4: a long time.

746
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 2: So on the movie Bros.

747
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:38,720
Speaker 1: That I just watched it last night and my mom

748
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 1: was I watched there after the Dick his Mother's Day weekend,

749
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:47,280
Speaker 1: so I was like, Oh, let's spend time together before

750
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 1: I go party. So anyway, we're watching Bros. And on

751
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 1: the app pops up and they start making out. They

752
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 1: get in the bed, they jark cough, and my mom

753
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:57,760
Speaker 1: was like, why did they show sex? You think they

754
00:33:57,760 --> 00:33:59,800
Speaker 1: didn't show sex because you know what I mean, this

755
00:33:59,880 --> 00:34:01,600
Speaker 1: is a movie or something. And I was like, no,

756
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:05,480
Speaker 1: you didn't realize the beginning conversation. Oh, I'm a top,

757
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:07,040
Speaker 1: I'm a top, So what are they gonna do?

758
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:09,759
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I'm like, they literally just

759
00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 2: want to play together.

760
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:13,400
Speaker 1: And I think that concept hadn't really pop into her

761
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:16,600
Speaker 1: mind because she's like, oh, I'm expecting gay niggas fucking

762
00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 1: all the time. And most of my gay male friends

763
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 1: actually don't like their sucking, dig they jerking each other off.

764
00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 1: They're just doing little shit because sometimes it can be difficult.

765
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:27,239
Speaker 1: I guess when you're meeting someone but you want to

766
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:29,120
Speaker 1: fuck them and you can't, or what if you eat

767
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 1: too much?

768
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:33,279
Speaker 2: I mean, I think that this is maybe because I

769
00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 2: go to sex clubs so much.

770
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:39,280
Speaker 4: I've I've learned don't chuckling over them.

771
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:43,480
Speaker 2: Every week week No.

772
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:47,160
Speaker 3: But but to me, I think that we assume that

773
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:52,280
Speaker 3: sex is just penetration, right, And there's so many layers

774
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:57,319
Speaker 3: to just being sexual or intimate or romantic or doing

775
00:34:57,440 --> 00:35:00,600
Speaker 3: sex that doesn't involve penetration that so many people fucking.

776
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 2: Leave out, Like sometimes we just want to make out

777
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 2: with somebody sometimes, like a lot of people want to

778
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:08,239
Speaker 2: watch sometimes. Oh and I love watching too, So.

779
00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:11,280
Speaker 3: Even just watching as a thing, I mean, my friends

780
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:12,759
Speaker 3: all get on my nerves. They'd be like, bitch, you

781
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:15,040
Speaker 3: need dick. Because sometimes when I'm with my friends, I'll

782
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:16,960
Speaker 3: be like can we cuddle? Like if I'm spending the

783
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 3: night with my friends, Like sometimes I just like to cuddle,

784
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:23,800
Speaker 3: and even though it's not sexual, there's a real big physical.

785
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 1: Element of you can cuddle with people you don't want

786
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:28,360
Speaker 1: to have sex with. Yeah, I cuddle with my friends

787
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 1: all the time. I can't like I'm a I'm a cuddler.

788
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 1: Like I mean, my my hetero ass friends be annoying.

789
00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:35,879
Speaker 1: They'd be like, no, bitch, go away.

790
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 2: But like Chanell, she always want to cuddle with me.

791
00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 4: I'm like no, but like the Yeah, I don't like

792
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:42,320
Speaker 4: Vinnie's my best friend, we've lived together.

793
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:44,319
Speaker 1: We can only get close on the couch. I don't

794
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:45,759
Speaker 1: want to spoon him.

795
00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:49,239
Speaker 4: Oh, I'm always the big spoon brother spoon, you bitch,

796
00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:51,080
Speaker 4: I'm a big I'm a.

797
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:52,880
Speaker 2: Big spoon even with my big niggas that'll be six

798
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:54,400
Speaker 2: or nine and I trying to get out. I like

799
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 2: to pay the stallion, you know what I mean. So

800
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:57,399
Speaker 2: I like getting behind.

801
00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:00,440
Speaker 3: But I mean to me sex Now, I think through

802
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:04,800
Speaker 3: this podcast has become so much more like psychological, Like

803
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 3: there's so many I mean I just brought up that

804
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 3: i'd be coming off captions now like certain things now

805
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:14,400
Speaker 3: stimulate my mind and really turn me on in ways

806
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:18,760
Speaker 3: that I'm like not everybody gotta have sex, and then I'll.

807
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 2: Be honest too.

808
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 3: I now see how y'all be thinking certain things is

809
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:25,080
Speaker 3: cheating because I am like now turned on by certain

810
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:28,560
Speaker 3: people and certain things that are not sexual at all,

811
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 3: and like me too.

812
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:33,880
Speaker 1: I mean, so let me what's what's something Jacob that turned.

813
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 2: What's something that's not sexual that that turns you on? Hands? Wait,

814
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 2: you just look at somebody here hands. I will get horny.

815
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:43,000
Speaker 4: Like if a guy has some big hands, I just

816
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:45,520
Speaker 4: there's so many thoughts that comes through my mind. I

817
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:47,799
Speaker 4: literally like, while he has a big cancer picture, I'm

818
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 4: slapping my ass. Wow, a whole bunch of shit. And

819
00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 4: then if he has a tie too, a tie? Yes,

820
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 4: I lack a business man, you know, Joe Biden tide,

821
00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 4: not a Joe Biden an eighty year rod?

822
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 2: Absolutely? Yeah, what is that? You're tight?

823
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:04,320
Speaker 4: That's one of my types of mini Yeah, I like

824
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:11,960
Speaker 4: three times he said, I like, I like, Ymber, make

825
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:14,759
Speaker 4: sure you remember when we were doing the episode of

826
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 4: her Fact's Sake, And he was like, did I fuck

827
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:17,800
Speaker 4: you don't remember?

828
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 2: That's crazy? Okay? So you like really?

829
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 4: So my top three types, I would say between thirty

830
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:28,000
Speaker 4: through seventy eight, eighty years old.

831
00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 2: That cannot be a range.

832
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:32,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's my range. And then I like older man.

833
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:35,399
Speaker 4: I like a businessman, and I like a stocky man,

834
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:36,400
Speaker 4: like I like a toy man.

835
00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:38,600
Speaker 2: That's stocky. Okay, y'all, I don't care who got man.

836
00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 2: I actually want to know.

837
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:44,279
Speaker 4: I've never topped to eighty year old before I've gotten well,

838
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:48,239
Speaker 4: he wasn't eighty, he was seventy three. Yes, he fucked me, well, bitch,

839
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 4: round up, I guess he was. He was the occasion

840
00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:53,360
Speaker 4: they cracked. We don't so what was it was?

841
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 2: His ass just slow? Like what was it like? It

842
00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 2: was like the soggy kind. But I didn't I didn't

843
00:37:57,600 --> 00:37:59,359
Speaker 2: touch his ass. He fucked me. Had a really big day,

844
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:02,960
Speaker 2: this old man. He has stamina, Yes, of course it did.

845
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 2: You see the time.

846
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:07,960
Speaker 3: Men don't have a biological clock like women. You didn't

847
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 3: get hard forever.

848
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 2: I know he was doing poppers back when I was

849
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 2: out the sex club. Yeah, he describe why you're into

850
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 2: older men. I don't know.

851
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 4: It's so hard to explain. Like my first guy I

852
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:22,520
Speaker 4: was talking to, who was fifty years old, I was eighteen.

853
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 4: He used to pick me up and like take me

854
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:26,239
Speaker 4: to go get like food. And then I was like, Okay,

855
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 4: you gotta drive me off at like two o'clock in

856
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:29,440
Speaker 4: the morning when everybody in my house sleep, so you

857
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 4: drive me back off at home.

858
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:31,279
Speaker 2: And that would just be that.

859
00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:33,000
Speaker 4: But I would go and have sex with this man

860
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:35,480
Speaker 4: and I wasn't like sex for I mean money for

861
00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:37,440
Speaker 4: play or no sugar daddy vibes, Like I was just

862
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 4: really into this old man.

863
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:42,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know it's no. So you grew up with

864
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:46,600
Speaker 2: a dad, mom and dad. People ask women that all

865
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:51,600
Speaker 2: the time. Grandpa a happy home. I got a happy

866
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:53,640
Speaker 2: It's so crazy.

867
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:56,560
Speaker 3: But I think that when women choose that a they

868
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:59,719
Speaker 3: either it's the narrative that they're being preyed on or

869
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 3: they're I'm looking for a daddy figure. So I ask

870
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:04,440
Speaker 3: you that as a gay man who is like, no,

871
00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 3: I like older men, but you don't really have a reason.

872
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 2: You're just that.

873
00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:09,799
Speaker 4: I think when I'm talking to them and I'm looking

874
00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:11,440
Speaker 4: at their arm having a conversation, I can tell them

875
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 4: they just want love.

876
00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 2: They need love, and I want to give it to them.

877
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 2: You said you like them the god look, I love

878
00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:19,480
Speaker 2: a good nursing home.

879
00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 3: Honey for a role play, oh, road play hold on,

880
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:27,880
Speaker 3: give me the details on what a nursing home roleplay

881
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 3: is like laying in his bed with a little gown on.

882
00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:34,040
Speaker 4: He's sleeping, and then I'm just literally in between his legs.

883
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 4: I looked up that gown, get those two big juicy balls,

884
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 4: start to suck them, go to the tip of the dick,

885
00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 4: and yes, I love it.

886
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 2: He waits up like that, you ain't like you about

887
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:47,600
Speaker 2: to get called by a nurse. I'm like, oh no,

888
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:52,680
Speaker 2: go back to sleep, take your medicine and pro sebakh bitch.

889
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:54,960
Speaker 2: That is my type of role play. This is sick.

890
00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:57,440
Speaker 2: Keep going. That's that's what I like.

891
00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 4: One of the things I like. Yes, and I love

892
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:03,640
Speaker 4: my nipples lift. I don't even need to masturbate. I

893
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:05,840
Speaker 4: don't need you to fuck me. If you lick my

894
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 4: nipples the right way, I'll just come literally.

895
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:11,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, we didn't even ask. Yeah, I started thinking about it.

896
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:13,160
Speaker 2: I started thinking about it. Like I said, I like

897
00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:16,960
Speaker 2: olgers and you know what nipples. He had a guy

898
00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:21,759
Speaker 2: on this podcast that she used. And what's crazy is

899
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:26,120
Speaker 2: there is so many straight men that I realize are

900
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:30,920
Speaker 2: into guardwires, are not really like they won't ask for it.

901
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 3: But I've noticed much like my head begetting pushed towards

902
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 3: the nipple now, bitch, and I'm like, well, I'll lick

903
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:40,960
Speaker 3: you nipple. But like straight men don't admit to the

904
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 3: fact that they really like their nipples being played with,

905
00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 3: whether you lick it and rubb it or like you

906
00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:47,760
Speaker 3: literally just suck on their nipples. They have a problem

907
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:49,600
Speaker 3: with saying that that's what they're into. And amber you

908
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:53,120
Speaker 3: in these faces, No sucking nipples, No, that's out.

909
00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 2: That's crazy. You'll suck feet but not nipples, right, Why

910
00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:02,960
Speaker 2: that's what's wrong with sucking a man? When you're like

911
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:10,840
Speaker 2: gayy you whitties. I don't know, it's just weird what

912
00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 2: you buy, so you sucking titties anyway? Why make it bake?

913
00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:21,320
Speaker 2: I just don't like that.

914
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:29,120
Speaker 4: Now we want to do our sex tip segment. Gotta

915
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:31,960
Speaker 4: start with you. It got dirm, it got to give us.

916
00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:34,880
Speaker 1: She been over there, just like, actually know what a

917
00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:37,719
Speaker 1: good dick sucking tip or even like sex sip with

918
00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:40,040
Speaker 1: your nails. A lot of girls get long nails. Now

919
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:42,319
Speaker 1: tell me something you might do sexually with your nails.

920
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:44,040
Speaker 1: But you ain't listening to her, She said there was

921
00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 1: blood under the oay, you like thinking.

922
00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:52,440
Speaker 4: It's kind of crazy because I don't want to suck

923
00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:54,040
Speaker 4: down nipples. But what I do with my nails, I

924
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 4: like to put my nails in a nigga mouth.

925
00:41:56,360 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, like a dick. And that not getting you,

926
00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 2: that's not get that's right, that's what I said. I

927
00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:04,440
Speaker 2: knew it.

928
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:06,480
Speaker 3: I knew it, But I like, you can you show

929
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 3: a wait a second, So you're getting while they're fucking you,

930
00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:11,919
Speaker 3: you like to put in his mouth?

931
00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 2: How many nails too? And you just go like this

932
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:19,759
Speaker 2: and you make him sucking and that's wow. You does

933
00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 2: he go down to the tip of the nail or

934
00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:24,640
Speaker 2: does he just I mean to the brand? Okay? Wait right?

935
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 4: Hendad ever had Ryan stones or jewels on your not

936
00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:32,479
Speaker 4: that that's that's best kids.

937
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 2: So Ry stones and jail and gems is where you cross? Yeah,

938
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:39,239
Speaker 2: that's crazy at this age. Oh I'm not gonna lie.

939
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:42,400
Speaker 2: I thought they could. Okay, well, no, I lost, I

940
00:42:42,520 --> 00:42:46,799
Speaker 2: lost gems. I'm in a bootlehole. I'm like where went?

941
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:49,440
Speaker 2: Hopefully it's on the bed and not aboole because I

942
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:51,359
Speaker 2: do not want them to shoot. Imagine you take out

943
00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 2: his You're like, why does it? That's nut?

944
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:59,920
Speaker 3: While so so do you just do it without as

945
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:02,240
Speaker 3: skiing or the men wanting to suck your acrylic?

946
00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 2: Nowns, I got to do it without asking? Oh so

947
00:43:05,120 --> 00:43:06,279
Speaker 2: no consent? Wow?

948
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:06,839
Speaker 4: Yeah?

949
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:09,200
Speaker 2: Wow?

950
00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:10,080
Speaker 4: Like that?

951
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:12,920
Speaker 2: But what they do it? Yes? What're you gonna say?

952
00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 2: Get up? I guess yeah, I don't know that's what

953
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 2: you're about to do with a nipple. Yes, yeah, maybe

954
00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:20,720
Speaker 2: we don't.

955
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:21,840
Speaker 1: Want Are you a dominant person?

956
00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:29,400
Speaker 2: Yes? Maybe that's why she's paying. Maybe okay, Well then

957
00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:29,919
Speaker 2: well then.

958
00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:32,440
Speaker 1: As someone that wants to trick sometimes I kind of.

959
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:32,879
Speaker 2: Get it though.

960
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:35,279
Speaker 3: Well then let me ask you you you knowing that

961
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:39,280
Speaker 3: you like that power, like that control, you're independent even financially,

962
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:41,800
Speaker 3: do you have to desire at all of them to

963
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 3: be sisive?

964
00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:46,520
Speaker 2: Maybe?

965
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:50,919
Speaker 4: Okay, so but you miss them up to like well,

966
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:55,880
Speaker 4: I guess like I don't know how to ask honestly.

967
00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 4: Maybe e when like it comes to like sex, sometimes

968
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:04,919
Speaker 4: I can't, you know, bow down. But besides that, like no, wow, yeah,

969
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:06,680
Speaker 4: like you gonna go out like I like to get

970
00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:08,360
Speaker 4: my dude out for like, hey, you're gonna I'm hosting

971
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 4: to now you're gonna put this on, put that on.

972
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 4: I don't care if you don't like to dress them

973
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:14,120
Speaker 4: what I'm fresh kicks and I'm damn this a nice.

974
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:16,400
Speaker 2: You're gonna get your hair done, You're gonna do this.

975
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:19,279
Speaker 2: You wait for the hair too. Let's not do all

976
00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:21,520
Speaker 2: that right now. But you know I'm gonna tell them

977
00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:25,160
Speaker 2: how to dress. Yeah, do you have kids? I don't

978
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 2: want kids? These niggas? Is your then?

979
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:39,160
Speaker 3: I mean, I take I mean I still would love

980
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:40,920
Speaker 3: for you to experience a man take you on a date,

981
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:44,880
Speaker 3: but it could really just be like you are getting

982
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:48,280
Speaker 3: what you want, Like you have this love and desire

983
00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:51,239
Speaker 3: for power and control and it's your comfort place.

984
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 1: And you know, Jacob might give us a little insploment

985
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:56,279
Speaker 1: a horrible decision with the sugar and tips, because who

986
00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:59,000
Speaker 1: knows if you even really shared it to this degree

987
00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 1: on just us, because I feel like hearing someone tell

988
00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:05,640
Speaker 1: us how they've kind of almost like enaggled someone and

989
00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 1: been able to get them to do things for them,

990
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:09,400
Speaker 1: which is really sugaring, like more.

991
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 2: Than it is any other kind of data.

992
00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:15,000
Speaker 4: Sugaring is like I'm here, I'm the prize, Like you

993
00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 4: need to pay, you need to spend, you need to treat,

994
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:20,040
Speaker 4: So tell us how maybe even if you had a

995
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:21,560
Speaker 4: first experience, like did you know you were.

996
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:22,399
Speaker 2: About to be a sugar baby?

997
00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:25,920
Speaker 4: Like, tell us that how it started. Yeah, well it

998
00:45:25,960 --> 00:45:28,880
Speaker 4: started when I lived in Sacramento. You know, I'm from Sacramento.

999
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:31,200
Speaker 4: I would go to San Francisco. I used to do

1000
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:33,840
Speaker 4: a lot of acting work there, commercial work in San Francisco.

1001
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:36,879
Speaker 4: And there was an older man there and at the time,

1002
00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:39,040
Speaker 4: there was like a subway and I was in between

1003
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:41,480
Speaker 4: breaks from filming and I didn't want another food from

1004
00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:43,200
Speaker 4: the set, so them go to subway and get a sandich.

1005
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:44,960
Speaker 4: There's an older man and he was like, oh, you're

1006
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:46,920
Speaker 4: very handsome. I said, oh, thank you so much. You know,

1007
00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:50,040
Speaker 4: I didn't even think about money or anything like that.

1008
00:45:50,160 --> 00:45:51,920
Speaker 4: And he was like, when you're done, do you want

1009
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:53,279
Speaker 4: to come my lip over here. I'm like, oh, now,

1010
00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:55,520
Speaker 4: you know you were young at the time, yeah, I was,

1011
00:45:56,480 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 4: huh on, never mind, he was really this one. He

1012
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 4: was really, really really old. Okay okay, yeah, and he

1013
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:04,439
Speaker 4: was like, you know, do you want to make some money?

1014
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:06,320
Speaker 4: And bitch, I had like twenty five dollars left. That

1015
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:07,839
Speaker 4: was enough to give me back. When the bus back

1016
00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 4: to Sacramento after my shoe, he said, you know how

1017
00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:11,719
Speaker 4: it is do you want some money?

1018
00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 2: I would have thought it was what was what was

1019
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:15,960
Speaker 2: the money that was offered? Five hundred dollars for what

1020
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:18,360
Speaker 2: He wanted me to go up to his apartment.

1021
00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:20,279
Speaker 4: He laid on his back and he wanted me to

1022
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:22,040
Speaker 4: like punch him in his back and call him like

1023
00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:24,080
Speaker 4: a faggot and all these different words.

1024
00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 2: What brain him as a man. It was humiliation.

1025
00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 4: Humiliation. He loved it, and he was so old. I

1026
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:31,440
Speaker 4: felt so bad. I'm like, I'm gonna hurt you. He's

1027
00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:34,360
Speaker 4: like I said, okay, boom boom boom, and I just

1028
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:36,640
Speaker 4: started calling him everything you ain't shit, that ain't ship

1029
00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:41,920
Speaker 4: my slave. Now, like I start going, I start going in.

1030
00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 4: And he took me to the ATM. After he gave

1031
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:45,440
Speaker 4: I was so I was like, oh my god, I

1032
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:47,560
Speaker 4: can get used to this for real. So he became

1033
00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:49,479
Speaker 4: my regular in San Francisco. But every time I would

1034
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:50,839
Speaker 4: go out there, I wouldn't do that all the time.

1035
00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 4: There would be like different things he wanted me to do,

1036
00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:54,279
Speaker 4: maybe like go find him somebody else to do it.

1037
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:56,440
Speaker 4: Like he loved the idea of bringing a whole bunch

1038
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:58,719
Speaker 4: of black men back to his apartment and like humiliating him,

1039
00:46:58,760 --> 00:46:59,640
Speaker 4: so I'll get a cut.

1040
00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:02,000
Speaker 2: But we're okay, we get a cut. Well, oh yeah,

1041
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:02,879
Speaker 2: I'm all about a cut.

1042
00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:05,839
Speaker 3: Even you saying that we thought we we we love

1043
00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 3: to have this kind of conversation. So in terms of

1044
00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:11,080
Speaker 3: race play, you said he would love for a lot

1045
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:13,400
Speaker 3: of black men to do that. So you're okay with

1046
00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:18,239
Speaker 3: race play and being fetishized because of the color of

1047
00:47:18,239 --> 00:47:19,319
Speaker 3: your skin with these white men.

1048
00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:20,440
Speaker 2: I think a check.

1049
00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 1: I'n be honest with you when I think of it's

1050
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 1: a little bit different.

1051
00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 2: I didn't even think about it that way black like,

1052
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:25,560
Speaker 2: I know.

1053
00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:27,799
Speaker 1: But race play is different when you're the one who's

1054
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:28,400
Speaker 1: the aggressor.

1055
00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:30,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, he wouldn't. He wouldn't talk to us crazy one

1056
00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:31,759
Speaker 2: of us, Like like we.

1057
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:35,719
Speaker 1: Were generally thinking about race reverse reverse, same thing.

1058
00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:39,040
Speaker 3: It's okay thing the way that he said you my slave,

1059
00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:41,520
Speaker 3: Now there was but there I just said that he

1060
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 3: didn't to say, but you said it anyway, I mean

1061
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:51,239
Speaker 3: even even I mean we talked about other women too

1062
00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 3: that believe in dealing with white men, they're getting their reparations.

1063
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 3: So to me that there still is an element of

1064
00:47:57,719 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 3: race playing that Like we talked to Marnie about that.

1065
00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 2: We talked to uh uh, Barnie. Yeah, the girl who

1066
00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:09,480
Speaker 2: does that is her name, not Marti the fendo.

1067
00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:13,640
Speaker 3: I don't know nobody's name right now, Barnie. And what

1068
00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 3: about the Lisa splicit, she did the same thing.

1069
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:21,040
Speaker 2: What is Marnie Marley? Mister Marley, I messed up a letter. Okay,

1070
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 2: you knew what I was talking about. That I really

1071
00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:27,359
Speaker 2: did it. But at least splicing. Both of them dealt

1072
00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:29,080
Speaker 2: with white men and felt like it was a form

1073
00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:30,080
Speaker 2: of reparation.

1074
00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:31,719
Speaker 1: Right, But they were always jomming them, right, And so

1075
00:48:31,960 --> 00:48:36,400
Speaker 1: I feel like he's race play is a very specific thing.

1076
00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:42,880
Speaker 1: When you're bringing up someone's colors, someone typical stereotypes, even

1077
00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:45,879
Speaker 1: like derogatory language, that's more race play.

1078
00:48:45,960 --> 00:48:47,520
Speaker 2: But he said he would go get a whole bunch

1079
00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:50,600
Speaker 2: of black boys. I understand. We got to be clear.

1080
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:54,320
Speaker 1: A race play is a very specific exactly what you

1081
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:56,240
Speaker 1: just said, though he wanted black boys.

1082
00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:58,400
Speaker 2: I don't even the wanting to suck black people is

1083
00:48:58,560 --> 00:48:59,759
Speaker 2: race play. You got me.

1084
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:02,440
Speaker 3: He said, you're wanting to be done by black people,

1085
00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 3: and he's like, you my slave, I'm your best.

1086
00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:09,239
Speaker 1: I mean, I think this would be good like commentary,

1087
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:11,200
Speaker 1: like for people watching on YouTube or even in the

1088
00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:14,200
Speaker 1: comments like race played to me, is not you wanting

1089
00:49:14,239 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 1: to fund someone black, you wanted to be donned by

1090
00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:17,319
Speaker 1: someone black.

1091
00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:17,960
Speaker 2: It is not race.

1092
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:22,040
Speaker 3: But to me, the knowing that you come from your

1093
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:25,879
Speaker 3: ancestry of white supremacy, whether you were a slave owner

1094
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 3: or not.

1095
00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:28,280
Speaker 2: You said he was old, he could have had a plantation.

1096
00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:28,800
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1097
00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:31,080
Speaker 1: I don't know how old, kay Like being submission to

1098
00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:32,160
Speaker 1: someone black is not race.

1099
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:35,239
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is if there's a layer of

1100
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:39,359
Speaker 3: I'm turned on by the role playing of you now

1101
00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:42,759
Speaker 3: being in a power position because of your race, knowing

1102
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:43,799
Speaker 3: that I'm a white man.

1103
00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:47,080
Speaker 2: In in so I know I hear what you're saying.

1104
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 1: I just think it's unfair to all black doms that

1105
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:52,879
Speaker 1: have white clients to say they're engaging in race.

1106
00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:56,120
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is, and back to even the

1107
00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 3: past guests that we have had, they have literally called

1108
00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:00,319
Speaker 3: it a form of preparations.

1109
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:03,440
Speaker 2: For the Yeah, as a joke, But Radley is something

1110
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:06,200
Speaker 2: as a joke. Okay, chez a shirt that says reparations

1111
00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:08,080
Speaker 2: with a white hand and money. Yeah. Like to me,

1112
00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:11,840
Speaker 2: that's something like like we're getting deep. The question was

1113
00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:14,440
Speaker 2: away you might.

1114
00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:17,040
Speaker 1: Is getting deep for me because in some of the

1115
00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:19,600
Speaker 1: recent interviews I've done, like I was telling Mandy, I

1116
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:21,239
Speaker 1: might have said on another episode, I went to a

1117
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:23,960
Speaker 1: brothel and I'll give you all the tea I miss.

1118
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:27,080
Speaker 1: I went, y'all know I do sex cells, which is

1119
00:50:27,120 --> 00:50:31,840
Speaker 1: exploring sex businesses, and part of that business in the

1120
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 1: brothel to me is it's almost like your blackness is

1121
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:36,560
Speaker 1: a business at that point. So I asked the brothel,

1122
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:38,920
Speaker 1: can I talk to these black women separate, because to me,

1123
00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:41,720
Speaker 1: their story would be different from everyone else's there because

1124
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:43,959
Speaker 1: people are coming in to fuck your skin color.

1125
00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:45,840
Speaker 2: That's just the truth, right. Oh my god, you're my

1126
00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:47,359
Speaker 2: first black girl. Blah blah blah blah. Yeah.

1127
00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:49,319
Speaker 1: And one of the things I said to all of them,

1128
00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:50,840
Speaker 1: I think it was four or five black girls I

1129
00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:53,080
Speaker 1: sat down with, I said, do y'all engage in race play?

1130
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:55,279
Speaker 2: And they all said absolutely no.

1131
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:59,400
Speaker 1: However, they embraced the fact that they know they may

1132
00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:02,040
Speaker 1: be a fetish for some and talked a lot about

1133
00:51:02,040 --> 00:51:05,160
Speaker 1: the differences with race play and basically saying like the

1134
00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 1: submission to a white guy would then be race play

1135
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:08,520
Speaker 1: for them.

1136
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:11,280
Speaker 2: The words being used, even the role playing itself.

1137
00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 3: So that's probably why I was like, I think that's

1138
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 3: why when he brought up those words, because I'll be honest,

1139
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 3: like even when and and I talked about it, like,

1140
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:22,520
Speaker 3: to me, race plays the same, like just to say

1141
00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:24,560
Speaker 3: something is a fetish, like I ain't.

1142
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:26,360
Speaker 2: Like like when I I don't think it's fair to

1143
00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:27,880
Speaker 2: say I want to.

1144
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:30,920
Speaker 3: Fuck you before you lose weight, Like people used to

1145
00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:34,360
Speaker 3: talk about wanting to fuck me at a certain size,

1146
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 3: and they didn't want to fuck me if I had

1147
00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:38,200
Speaker 3: lost a certain amount of weight. And so to me,

1148
00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:41,239
Speaker 3: even though that's a fetish, that to me is still

1149
00:51:41,280 --> 00:51:43,600
Speaker 3: on some fucked up shit. I was never fucking nobody

1150
00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:45,799
Speaker 3: who said they wanted to fuck me because they never

1151
00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:47,800
Speaker 3: fucked a big girl, and they wanted to fuck me

1152
00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:50,239
Speaker 3: as a big girl. And so the fact that this

1153
00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:54,040
Speaker 3: man also had you recruit other black boys and this

1154
00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:57,239
Speaker 3: was the conversation, that's where it's like, it's not it

1155
00:51:57,360 --> 00:51:58,920
Speaker 3: goes beyond the fact that you're just a.

1156
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:01,280
Speaker 2: Black man and I want you to do this domination.

1157
00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:04,719
Speaker 3: To me, you're seeking out other specifically black men to

1158
00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:07,440
Speaker 3: humiliate you. And so to me, I think that back

1159
00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:11,839
Speaker 3: to psychological there's a psychological element to race play.

1160
00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 4: Maybe he used to be a company, feels bad, Maybe

1161
00:52:14,400 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 4: he needs to go to therapy now cast and call

1162
00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 4: for black men that one Caucasian man you pay good.

1163
00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 4: So that's what was in my mind at the time.

1164
00:52:21,680 --> 00:52:23,560
Speaker 4: I was I don't have to do that in the mind, right, Okay,

1165
00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 4: now I won't do that anymore.

1166
00:52:25,480 --> 00:52:27,600
Speaker 1: A lot is about like how do I get a

1167
00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:29,759
Speaker 1: sugar daddy? So that's really where we were digging to you.

1168
00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:32,239
Speaker 1: So you started like that, and then tell us more

1169
00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:34,440
Speaker 1: about how it became sugar and how you knew you

1170
00:52:34,520 --> 00:52:35,120
Speaker 1: wanted to do that.

1171
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:37,319
Speaker 2: Well, I didn't start sugar until I moved to La really.

1172
00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:40,239
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I mean I had like, yeah, that guy

1173
00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:42,640
Speaker 4: wasn't got to consider considering I'm a sugar daddy.

1174
00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:44,360
Speaker 2: Because I had to work, right. But that's that's where it.

1175
00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:46,480
Speaker 4: Even though some people that have sugar daddy, they have

1176
00:52:46,560 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 4: to sleep with their sugar daddy, you know what I mean,

1177
00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:49,800
Speaker 4: I don't do that.

1178
00:52:50,040 --> 00:52:55,120
Speaker 2: Really, my sugar daddy he can't. He can't get he can,

1179
00:52:55,320 --> 00:53:01,680
Speaker 2: but he can't come. Why there's science or something. He

1180
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:04,759
Speaker 2: can't do that science. So there's nothing. My sugar add

1181
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:06,480
Speaker 2: doesn't look for sex with me. He has a partner.

1182
00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:08,799
Speaker 2: All he wants to do is go to litter shit.

1183
00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:09,480
Speaker 2: But we haven't.

1184
00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:11,800
Speaker 4: I haven't seen him in person in two years. He

1185
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:14,920
Speaker 4: still pays you, of course, of course, but what does

1186
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:15,520
Speaker 4: he pay you for?

1187
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:16,880
Speaker 2: Just to pay me?

1188
00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:18,719
Speaker 4: Like he just if I ask him whatever I want,

1189
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:20,600
Speaker 4: I get. That's just how it works with him. We

1190
00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:22,800
Speaker 4: build a friendship. So when you have a sugar daddy

1191
00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 4: and you want to secure the sugardaddy and securit, secure

1192
00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:28,080
Speaker 4: the bag, it has to be a genuine friendship as well.

1193
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:30,919
Speaker 4: Yes you can, you can finesse only for so long.

1194
00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:32,719
Speaker 4: But if you actually really get in there, when he

1195
00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:34,200
Speaker 4: starts to trust you and he's like, you know what,

1196
00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:36,360
Speaker 4: you're like my friend, me and my sugar they have

1197
00:53:36,440 --> 00:53:37,640
Speaker 4: like a friendship. I actually really like it.

1198
00:53:37,719 --> 00:53:40,200
Speaker 1: I think you are preaching so hard right now, mainly

1199
00:53:40,280 --> 00:53:43,640
Speaker 1: because sugar babies assume it's all about their looks.

1200
00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:47,359
Speaker 2: Sugar babies assume it's oh, like, you know, I'm hot.

1201
00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:48,839
Speaker 1: He wants to make me this thing like there will

1202
00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:50,600
Speaker 1: always be another you. You know, I'm saying, there's alway

1203
00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:52,960
Speaker 1: gonna be another cute beach, a cute nigga whatever. But

1204
00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:54,640
Speaker 1: one thing I know that you're saying that. I've never

1205
00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:57,279
Speaker 1: really thought of my sugar daddy. And I started out

1206
00:53:57,680 --> 00:54:00,279
Speaker 1: in the beginning, uh, just going out to bars and stuff.

1207
00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:01,839
Speaker 1: He thought it was fun to have around, like, oh,

1208
00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:03,440
Speaker 1: she brings a girls round. He would take me on

1209
00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:06,040
Speaker 1: vacation shit like that, and then he was almost invested

1210
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:09,480
Speaker 1: in my life story and always felt like, especially with friendship,

1211
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:10,480
Speaker 1: he needed to take.

1212
00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:10,600
Speaker 2: Care of me.

1213
00:54:10,920 --> 00:54:12,680
Speaker 1: What would we do if anybody got hurting this roomun Now,

1214
00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:14,200
Speaker 1: like we're you know what I mean, there's a friendship,

1215
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:16,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take care of you. That's a really good

1216
00:54:16,120 --> 00:54:19,160
Speaker 1: point because if you don't establish that friendship.

1217
00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:20,239
Speaker 2: What the fuck does he need to stick around for?

1218
00:54:20,280 --> 00:54:22,800
Speaker 2: Which is why I also agree with you.

1219
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:26,719
Speaker 3: Me and my friends debate this all the time because

1220
00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:30,600
Speaker 3: their quote unquote sugar daddies it was transactional. They didn't

1221
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:34,960
Speaker 3: get money unless they saw them in person and had sex.

1222
00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:38,399
Speaker 3: And I've been in a whole nother country with another

1223
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:40,719
Speaker 3: nigga and had to call one of my niggas like

1224
00:54:41,320 --> 00:54:43,239
Speaker 3: his team ain't pay him, can you send me one

1225
00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:43,839
Speaker 3: thousand dollars?

1226
00:54:44,040 --> 00:54:47,160
Speaker 2: And this is Western Union Day, Like I had to

1227
00:54:47,280 --> 00:54:50,359
Speaker 2: have my roommate go to Western union. I said, bitch,

1228
00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:52,040
Speaker 2: I'll pay you one hundred dollars out of this, put.

1229
00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:53,799
Speaker 3: It in my account so that I could have money

1230
00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:55,800
Speaker 3: while I'm out in this other country with a nigga

1231
00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:59,240
Speaker 3: whose team's not paying. And my friends could never understand

1232
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:02,680
Speaker 3: how I could get certain things from people without having sex.

1233
00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:05,520
Speaker 3: And I said, well, if this is a sugar daddy

1234
00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 3: that really fucks with you, you shouldn't have to have

1235
00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:10,880
Speaker 3: sex with him for him to show up for you.

1236
00:55:11,239 --> 00:55:12,840
Speaker 3: And that's the only way they show up for you,

1237
00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:15,319
Speaker 3: Like you should be able to ask at the drop

1238
00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:17,759
Speaker 3: of the dime, whether he sees you or not, whether

1239
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:19,400
Speaker 3: you're giving him a good time or not, whether you

1240
00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:20,279
Speaker 3: sucking his dick or not.

1241
00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:22,040
Speaker 2: You should be able to depend.

1242
00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:24,680
Speaker 3: On this person for stop. I gotta pee that bad,

1243
00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:27,160
Speaker 3: so fuck de fat that I'm really the drunk one.

1244
00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:29,840
Speaker 3: This been collects on a motherfucking bathroom, right, But we

1245
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 3: gonna continue. So I agree with you, but I want

1246
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:36,480
Speaker 3: to talk. Then, how do you do you ever initiate

1247
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:40,520
Speaker 3: that relationship with someone like a Both of we know

1248
00:55:40,719 --> 00:55:43,000
Speaker 3: where you're at with relationships, right, but with you, do

1249
00:55:43,080 --> 00:55:46,200
Speaker 3: you ever go into it saying what you're looking for?

1250
00:55:46,680 --> 00:55:48,600
Speaker 2: Do you go in wanting an arrangement, or do you

1251
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:50,680
Speaker 2: go in knowing it could be more than you go

1252
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:51,839
Speaker 2: and wanting a relationship.

1253
00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:55,800
Speaker 4: I would say, before I had my sugar Daddy, I

1254
00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:58,640
Speaker 4: would go into it like I need the lifestyle I

1255
00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:00,719
Speaker 4: live and I need to pay for I'm very blind.

1256
00:56:00,719 --> 00:56:02,480
Speaker 4: I don't waste no time. I don't want my time wasted.

1257
00:56:02,880 --> 00:56:04,560
Speaker 4: Since I've had the Sugar Daddy and I'm able to

1258
00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:07,000
Speaker 4: kind of be independent on I still have them, but

1259
00:56:07,040 --> 00:56:10,400
Speaker 4: I'm still like independent kind of too, So I don't.

1260
00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:15,160
Speaker 2: You can have multiple straight income. That's just what You're right,

1261
00:56:15,200 --> 00:56:16,160
Speaker 2: You're right, You're right right.

1262
00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:19,239
Speaker 4: So with him, it's not I don't even really talk

1263
00:56:19,280 --> 00:56:21,840
Speaker 4: to him about transactions or anything like that anymore, like

1264
00:56:21,880 --> 00:56:23,760
Speaker 4: unless I need it, Like when we're having a conversation,

1265
00:56:24,080 --> 00:56:25,520
Speaker 4: we don't talk about Like I literally just said on

1266
00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 4: my Apple pay request.

1267
00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:29,880
Speaker 2: Well that was gonna be my next question. Just setting

1268
00:56:29,960 --> 00:56:30,200
Speaker 2: them up.

1269
00:56:30,239 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 3: Fucking Apple pay request probably doesn't work for everybody. So

1270
00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:36,759
Speaker 3: I'm what is the what is then the simplest way

1271
00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:39,480
Speaker 3: for anyone listening to this and they're like, damn, I

1272
00:56:39,520 --> 00:56:41,080
Speaker 3: don't know how to get nothing out of these thiggas.

1273
00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:44,759
Speaker 3: What would be the simplest, most sure way for you

1274
00:56:44,840 --> 00:56:48,720
Speaker 3: to respectfully ask a man for money without them feeling

1275
00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:51,520
Speaker 3: like they tricking on you. Cause men sometimes don't want

1276
00:56:51,560 --> 00:56:53,680
Speaker 3: to feel like a trick right, So how do you

1277
00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:57,160
Speaker 3: go about asking somebody for money without making them feel

1278
00:56:57,560 --> 00:56:58,480
Speaker 3: a way about you asking?

1279
00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:01,200
Speaker 4: Whether it's a job, relationship, ship, family member, or spouse,

1280
00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:04,439
Speaker 4: communication is key. I always communicate with my sugar Daddy.

1281
00:57:04,440 --> 00:57:06,759
Speaker 4: If I'm about to go out of town, I'm gonna

1282
00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:08,239
Speaker 4: let him know, like, Hey, in a couple weeks, I'm

1283
00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:10,520
Speaker 4: going to New York. Like when I did mtvvma's, I

1284
00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:12,040
Speaker 4: let him know two weeks in advance. I'm like, I'm

1285
00:57:12,080 --> 00:57:16,160
Speaker 4: going to mtvvma's. I need three thousand dollars just to go.

1286
00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:18,480
Speaker 4: I need an outfit, I need hotel, I need a

1287
00:57:18,520 --> 00:57:20,720
Speaker 4: spaces when I get there, I need a flight, And

1288
00:57:20,800 --> 00:57:21,400
Speaker 4: I may ask.

1289
00:57:21,280 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 2: You for more when I go. Just let you know,

1290
00:57:22,920 --> 00:57:24,480
Speaker 2: and I let him know. This is really big for me.

1291
00:57:24,560 --> 00:57:26,520
Speaker 4: This is something I've always wanted to do, you know

1292
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:28,760
Speaker 4: what I mean? So just communicating that even if I'm

1293
00:57:28,840 --> 00:57:30,840
Speaker 4: going to dinner with my friend it's Amber's birthday next week,

1294
00:57:30,920 --> 00:57:33,040
Speaker 4: let's just say that. I'm like Okay, my friend has

1295
00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:35,600
Speaker 4: a birthday dinner next week. I'm gonna need like seven

1296
00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:37,840
Speaker 4: hundred dollars or three hundred dollars. You know, I just

1297
00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:40,280
Speaker 4: I communicate with him now if it's an emergency, I

1298
00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:41,960
Speaker 4: always put it in cats emergency.

1299
00:57:42,000 --> 00:57:43,600
Speaker 2: He knows I usually don't do that, though, but I

1300
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Speaker 2: let him Suburthency. Yeah, is there is there?

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Speaker 3: Is there a dollar amount? And I'll be honest. I

1302
00:57:50,000 --> 00:57:52,120
Speaker 3: used to have a saying, but is there a dollar

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00:57:52,160 --> 00:57:54,760
Speaker 3: amount that you won't ask for because you feel like

1304
00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:57,080
Speaker 3: it makes you look like a cheap bitch? Like I

1305
00:57:57,200 --> 00:57:59,960
Speaker 3: used to tell everybody. I used to tell all my homegirls,

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Speaker 3: don't as for us than five hundred dollars. If you

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00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:03,680
Speaker 3: are here asking a nigga for eighty dollars or two

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00:58:03,760 --> 00:58:06,880
Speaker 3: hundred dollars, you are setting yourself up to look like

1309
00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:10,520
Speaker 3: a broke ass bitch. Thing can't like they can't do nothing.

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Speaker 3: So what is the lowest amount of money you'll ask

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Speaker 3: somebody for? Because you didn't just say three hundred.

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Speaker 2: So I said seven, I said seven hundred, three hundred.

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00:58:20,040 --> 00:58:21,680
Speaker 3: So what's the least amount of money you would ask

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Speaker 3: somebody without feeling like why am I asking this? Motherfucker

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00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:29,200
Speaker 3: fudd this month, right, I will probably say three hundred

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00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:32,120
Speaker 3: three hundred. Yeah, I don't ask him for like little

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00:58:32,160 --> 00:58:35,720
Speaker 3: money I have. I have rent and then this podcast.

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00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:38,520
Speaker 3: You know, we you know, we gotta invest. You're spending

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00:58:38,880 --> 00:58:42,440
Speaker 3: in my right right, so that's a part of my

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00:58:42,760 --> 00:58:45,320
Speaker 3: my monthly. You know, I need you to send that,

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00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:46,880
Speaker 3: and now I gotta budget that, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: But I don't. I don't feel bad.

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Speaker 4: You know, when I first had my Sugardaddy, I used

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00:58:50,800 --> 00:58:52,000
Speaker 4: to feel bad for asking him for like a lot

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Speaker 4: of money. I'm like, oh my god, like I think

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00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:56,160
Speaker 4: I'm doing too much. But four years later he got

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00:58:56,200 --> 00:58:58,840
Speaker 4: me my own apartment well over six figures. I mean,

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00:58:58,960 --> 00:59:02,400
Speaker 4: so we have I have this relationship. We have this

1329
00:59:02,480 --> 00:59:04,160
Speaker 4: relationship where it's like he believes in me.

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00:59:04,240 --> 00:59:05,920
Speaker 2: So I let him know. He need watches the podcast.

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00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:07,280
Speaker 2: He knows about the podcast.

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00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:09,080
Speaker 4: Now he knew about my YouTube channel when I was

1333
00:59:09,160 --> 00:59:11,880
Speaker 4: teaching people around the world how to get a sugar daddy, like,

1334
00:59:12,080 --> 00:59:12,640
Speaker 4: he watches that.

1335
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Speaker 2: Do you do you want love and do you want

1336
00:59:15,120 --> 00:59:18,120
Speaker 2: a relationship? Oh guess I do? And it's not transactional

1337
00:59:18,160 --> 00:59:18,960
Speaker 2: when I'm looking for mine.

1338
00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:21,480
Speaker 3: So when you're looking for love in a relationship. I

1339
00:59:21,520 --> 00:59:24,680
Speaker 3: feel like this was probably one of my hardest things

1340
00:59:24,720 --> 00:59:28,560
Speaker 3: in my twenties. I was so financially dependent on multiple

1341
00:59:28,640 --> 00:59:31,479
Speaker 3: men that I felt like it hindered me from finding

1342
00:59:31,560 --> 00:59:34,200
Speaker 3: love because I felt like, well, these bills still got

1343
00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:36,600
Speaker 3: to get paid. Even if someone came around that I

1344
00:59:36,720 --> 00:59:39,520
Speaker 3: really liked, would I be able to cut these niggas loose?

1345
00:59:39,680 --> 00:59:41,040
Speaker 3: I used to be on the spot and be like,

1346
00:59:41,640 --> 00:59:45,040
Speaker 3: you know what, uh if I got a boyfriend, now

1347
00:59:45,080 --> 00:59:47,120
Speaker 3: he got to accept all my hosts because these holes

1348
00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:47,880
Speaker 3: ain't going nowhere.

1349
00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:51,960
Speaker 2: So I want to ask you, then, you wanting to.

1350
00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:54,680
Speaker 3: Find love, would you be willing to cut this sugar

1351
00:59:54,760 --> 00:59:56,600
Speaker 3: daddy off that just paid for your apartment?

1352
00:59:56,680 --> 01:00:00,320
Speaker 2: Depends person, It depends on the person. You know. When

1353
01:00:00,360 --> 01:00:01,960
Speaker 2: I go on dates and things like that with guys,

1354
01:00:02,320 --> 01:00:02,959
Speaker 2: I'm very blunt.

1355
01:00:02,960 --> 01:00:05,280
Speaker 4: I let you do on the first day, when you know,

1356
01:00:05,320 --> 01:00:06,960
Speaker 4: when we're asking about each other, I'll be like, I

1357
01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:08,680
Speaker 4: have a sugar daddy. You.

1358
01:00:09,080 --> 01:00:20,320
Speaker 2: Oh baby, y'all from come on, tell you I was

1359
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:21,000
Speaker 2: sitting there. You didn't.

1360
01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:25,360
Speaker 3: Oh, I love mowning while I pissed. That's a good piss.

1361
01:00:26,040 --> 01:00:28,280
Speaker 3: So wait, don't don't come in and trupt. I'm gonna

1362
01:00:28,280 --> 01:00:28,840
Speaker 3: say that's crazy.

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01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:29,840
Speaker 2: I just heard. Yeah.

1364
01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:32,440
Speaker 3: So you let people know, even if you may be

1365
01:00:32,680 --> 01:00:35,560
Speaker 3: interested in them outside of an arrangement, you let them

1366
01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:37,960
Speaker 3: know out the gate that you have a sugar daddy.

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Speaker 2: See.

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01:00:38,240 --> 01:00:39,840
Speaker 4: I'm on the point in my life now when I'm

1369
01:00:39,840 --> 01:00:41,800
Speaker 4: starting to like, you know, grind, to make a name

1370
01:00:41,840 --> 01:00:43,360
Speaker 4: for myself, and I still have my sugar daddy.

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Speaker 2: I'm not.

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Speaker 4: My sugardaddy gets me everything I need as far as finances,

1373
01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:48,000
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. So when I'm looking for

1374
01:00:48,080 --> 01:00:50,560
Speaker 4: a relationship with somebody, I'm not looking for another sugar daddy.

1375
01:00:50,840 --> 01:00:52,480
Speaker 4: I'm looking for a man that has like his own

1376
01:00:52,520 --> 01:00:55,120
Speaker 4: money of course, or seven hundred credit you know, the

1377
01:00:55,120 --> 01:00:55,880
Speaker 4: American Express.

1378
01:00:56,280 --> 01:01:01,680
Speaker 2: But I'm not looking for how do you feel the need? No,

1379
01:01:01,880 --> 01:01:04,680
Speaker 2: I gotta let them know because people know me from that.

1380
01:01:05,080 --> 01:01:07,920
Speaker 4: Imagine being Imagine being with somebody. I'm on a date

1381
01:01:07,960 --> 01:01:10,160
Speaker 4: with somebody, right, we go on our second date. Somebody

1382
01:01:10,200 --> 01:01:12,040
Speaker 4: comes to the table like, oh my god, Jacob. They

1383
01:01:12,160 --> 01:01:13,960
Speaker 4: call me grinding Jacob's garre. So they'll be like, oh,

1384
01:01:14,040 --> 01:01:16,120
Speaker 4: I love your sugardaddy. Channel people come up to me

1385
01:01:16,160 --> 01:01:18,360
Speaker 4: and say that all the time. So I'm gonna let

1386
01:01:18,440 --> 01:01:20,280
Speaker 4: them know that in the beginning, because when I'm trying

1387
01:01:20,320 --> 01:01:22,320
Speaker 4: to go on a date with somebody I genuinely have

1388
01:01:22,520 --> 01:01:24,040
Speaker 4: interest in you, I'm not gonna go on a date

1389
01:01:24,080 --> 01:01:25,960
Speaker 4: with somebody i'm not interested in. I'm gonna let you

1390
01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:27,200
Speaker 4: know all of me. Not all of me, but I'm

1391
01:01:27,200 --> 01:01:28,800
Speaker 4: gonna let you know the main things in the beginning,

1392
01:01:28,840 --> 01:01:30,760
Speaker 4: because I'm not gonna waste your time. What if I'm

1393
01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:32,680
Speaker 4: vibing with you and I'm starting to like, okay, maybe

1394
01:01:32,720 --> 01:01:34,840
Speaker 4: this is potential, nigga, I'm not gonna get my hopes

1395
01:01:34,920 --> 01:01:36,160
Speaker 4: up and be like Okay on the second date, I'm

1396
01:01:36,160 --> 01:01:37,560
Speaker 4: gonna go let them know I have a sugar daddy,

1397
01:01:37,640 --> 01:01:38,720
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. No, I'm gonna let them

1398
01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:40,240
Speaker 4: know in the beginning, because if you're not interested, that's fine.

1399
01:01:40,240 --> 01:01:40,600
Speaker 2: I move on.

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01:01:41,160 --> 01:01:43,560
Speaker 4: But nobody has ever complained. The guys that I talked

1401
01:01:43,560 --> 01:01:45,800
Speaker 4: to my ex boyfriends, they did not care. They didn't

1402
01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:47,320
Speaker 4: get because they know I don't have sex with him.

1403
01:01:47,360 --> 01:01:48,720
Speaker 4: I'm very blunt. If I did, i'd be like, yeah,

1404
01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:49,800
Speaker 4: I did, but I don't.

1405
01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:50,440
Speaker 2: I never had to.

1406
01:01:50,600 --> 01:01:55,040
Speaker 4: Because you don't fuck Probably, I don't even have to

1407
01:01:55,080 --> 01:01:57,640
Speaker 4: see him. I can literally be with m I used

1408
01:01:57,680 --> 01:01:59,400
Speaker 4: to check with my ex boyfriend. I'd be like, hold on,

1409
01:01:59,640 --> 01:02:01,800
Speaker 4: I'm like, where are we going for dinner? I'll be

1410
01:02:01,880 --> 01:02:03,240
Speaker 4: like where you want to go for dinner? Will literally

1411
01:02:03,400 --> 01:02:05,680
Speaker 4: just sit there like and and send him ask for

1412
01:02:05,720 --> 01:02:08,040
Speaker 4: Apple Apple pay request. He was seving the money when

1413
01:02:08,080 --> 01:02:10,320
Speaker 4: I flew the nigga out from Texas for my birthday

1414
01:02:10,840 --> 01:02:11,800
Speaker 4: and I had the big party.

1415
01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:18,600
Speaker 2: Ya look aver is it because she was at the party?

1416
01:02:18,680 --> 01:02:22,000
Speaker 2: Is like, you flew him out? Yeah, I didn't tell

1417
01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:24,680
Speaker 2: you if I did. I did. I fooled him out.

1418
01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:27,520
Speaker 4: I foo my mom out, personal driving guests. Of course

1419
01:02:27,680 --> 01:02:28,920
Speaker 4: I didn't do it all the time, but I did

1420
01:02:29,000 --> 01:02:31,360
Speaker 4: for my birthday. I did fight MoMA, don't cow that's sweet?

1421
01:02:31,360 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 4: Why didn't you a man as a sugar baby? Like?

1422
01:02:34,640 --> 01:02:36,120
Speaker 4: It's so, if you know what, I'm kind of a

1423
01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:39,360
Speaker 4: trick in a way. I am kind of hand no,

1424
01:02:39,560 --> 01:02:41,120
Speaker 4: like I have a sugar baddy. But if I really

1425
01:02:41,240 --> 01:02:43,120
Speaker 4: like you, like my ex boyfriend, I really like I

1426
01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:44,920
Speaker 4: loved him. I really liked him. It's not like I

1427
01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:47,760
Speaker 4: always paid for everything but your time that it is

1428
01:02:47,880 --> 01:02:52,440
Speaker 4: like this, I don't give it qualified. I like this man,

1429
01:02:52,560 --> 01:02:54,520
Speaker 4: And I said, you're gonna come to my birthday party.

1430
01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:55,440
Speaker 4: I'm flying you out here.

1431
01:02:55,680 --> 01:02:57,920
Speaker 2: I flew him out. How are you gonna fight? How

1432
01:02:57,960 --> 01:03:00,880
Speaker 2: did you like? Oh, you never flew out? Why do

1433
01:03:00,920 --> 01:03:03,320
Speaker 2: you think I don't fly on the mother fucking because

1434
01:03:03,320 --> 01:03:04,360
Speaker 2: that's the only time I even.

1435
01:03:04,240 --> 01:03:06,680
Speaker 3: Offered the fly motherfucker out is when it was COVID

1436
01:03:06,680 --> 01:03:08,040
Speaker 3: because the flight was seventeen dollars.

1437
01:03:08,320 --> 01:03:10,480
Speaker 2: I said, I got it. Did you want you got

1438
01:03:10,480 --> 01:03:14,400
Speaker 2: a nigga? You said, what a back in the day

1439
01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:17,520
Speaker 2: that house, you still got it?

1440
01:03:17,640 --> 01:03:20,320
Speaker 4: Transportation, the bottom shot, you bottom dinner, if you boy

1441
01:03:20,360 --> 01:03:22,080
Speaker 4: a man, a shot, a drink of food and meal.

1442
01:03:22,120 --> 01:03:29,040
Speaker 2: Bitch, you trick to and got me fucked. Yeah, mommy,

1443
01:03:29,760 --> 01:03:32,520
Speaker 2: that's all the time I got. Yes. But you know

1444
01:03:32,560 --> 01:03:34,440
Speaker 2: about my sugardadd he was cool with telling.

1445
01:03:34,240 --> 01:03:36,480
Speaker 1: People where to fuss is they can't figure out where

1446
01:03:36,480 --> 01:03:38,520
Speaker 1: to find a sugar daddy from the infront you.

1447
01:03:39,640 --> 01:03:42,360
Speaker 3: You did not really give the guidelines. So I'm gonna

1448
01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:43,720
Speaker 3: tell you now it's given.

1449
01:03:43,840 --> 01:03:45,960
Speaker 4: You guys asked about my sugar baby experience. I told

1450
01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:47,520
Speaker 4: you I have a sugardaddy. If you guys want to

1451
01:03:47,560 --> 01:03:48,760
Speaker 4: know how to get a sugar daddy, I have a

1452
01:03:48,760 --> 01:03:51,480
Speaker 4: YouTube channel called grinding Jacob's gears. I'm the only African

1453
01:03:51,520 --> 01:03:54,400
Speaker 4: American black gay mail on YouTube that gives me.

1454
01:03:54,480 --> 01:03:56,960
Speaker 2: Out on YouTube's advice. Thank you going on YouTube?

1455
01:03:57,160 --> 01:03:59,800
Speaker 4: Okay, and I got I had about whole episode on

1456
01:04:00,200 --> 01:04:02,560
Speaker 4: on TV because of my my channel. Anyways, I teach

1457
01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:04,200
Speaker 4: you how to get sugaraddy. So go watch it and

1458
01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:06,040
Speaker 4: guess what I preach about. You don't have to see

1459
01:04:06,040 --> 01:04:08,280
Speaker 4: what these men from money and you don't ask for crumbs.

1460
01:04:08,800 --> 01:04:11,360
Speaker 4: We need the whole mel And then I'm also gonna

1461
01:04:11,520 --> 01:04:14,439
Speaker 4: fly you out. And no, I flicked the one man out.

1462
01:04:14,520 --> 01:04:16,280
Speaker 4: It was my ex boyfriend. Don't do that, it was

1463
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:19,440
Speaker 4: I was it show us. I did fly him out,

1464
01:04:19,480 --> 01:04:21,080
Speaker 4: and I fly out another nigga. Shit if I feel

1465
01:04:21,120 --> 01:04:23,800
Speaker 4: like it should. Jason Leeve, he's flying niggas out, and he.

1466
01:04:23,920 --> 01:04:26,560
Speaker 2: Did say that part. You right, it ain't trigging if

1467
01:04:26,600 --> 01:04:28,040
Speaker 2: you got it, and I had it at that day.

1468
01:04:28,200 --> 01:04:32,360
Speaker 2: So we're about to break his next. You're about to

1469
01:04:32,400 --> 01:04:34,520
Speaker 2: make me feel bad for flying that nigga out. I

1470
01:04:34,600 --> 01:04:37,720
Speaker 2: love that man. I did that. Man, you know you

1471
01:04:37,760 --> 01:04:39,440
Speaker 2: love your sugar daddy too. Of course he did. He

1472
01:04:39,480 --> 01:04:42,480
Speaker 2: watched my YouTube channel. Look at what's next. It's giving

1473
01:04:42,640 --> 01:04:49,760
Speaker 2: a y'all can find y'all Instagram at jst L b

1474
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1475
01:04:57,120 --> 01:04:59,480
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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and y'all been having some really good clips

1477
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1478
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1479
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1480
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Speaker 2: episode twenty. Bitch, she was audio only.

1481
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1482
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