1 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show, Corey, 2 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 1: good morning, welcome, thanks for having me. You know what, 3 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:12,640 Speaker 1: it's our pleasure, always our pleasure, most of the time, 4 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 1: our pleasure waiting by the phone. What's going on with 5 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:18,120 Speaker 1: this woman? Her name is Pam. How did you guys meet? 6 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:20,440 Speaker 1: Tell us about any dates that you guys have gone on, 7 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 1: and what's going on now? I assume you're being ghosted. 8 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 1: So what happened? 9 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:26,240 Speaker 2: Well, you know, I met her on an online app 10 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:29,720 Speaker 2: and I right away I got her number, and upon 11 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:32,479 Speaker 2: talking to her, I decided, you know, she was a 12 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 2: girl that deserves the special treatment, you know, so I 13 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:38,080 Speaker 2: called her a few times rather than text her because 14 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:40,840 Speaker 2: it's a gentlemanly thing to do. And I find out 15 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 2: she had any dietary restrictions, and then I set up 16 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 2: what I think was a very awesome date and we 17 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:50,599 Speaker 2: had a good time. So I'm surprised now that I haven't. 18 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:50,919 Speaker 3: Heard from her. 19 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 1: That's very thoughtful. I've never thought to do that. I 20 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 1: love when guys asked me that. I mean, I usually 21 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 1: ask for suggestions of favorite places, which I know is 22 00:00:57,640 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 1: kind of on original, but I guess I figure if 23 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: you'd tell me a place that you like before. I 24 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 1: know you very well that you've been there and you 25 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 1: know what you can order there. But that also makes 26 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:07,760 Speaker 1: me flazy maybe kind of. So anyway, okay, next time, 27 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:10,280 Speaker 1: I'm going to ask about dietary restrictions. We do it, 28 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 1: add that to the list of things. But what if 29 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 1: you have what if you like, don't eat anything? Then 30 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:16,679 Speaker 1: I don't, Well, then I make cancel the date at 31 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 1: that point. If I'm like, what do you like to 32 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 1: eat there, she's like nothing, Yeah, twigs and berries and sticks, 33 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 1: I'd be like, I got COVID. So let's call this 34 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:30,200 Speaker 1: woman Pam. We'll see if we can get her on 35 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 1: the phone and ask them questions and hopefully whatever's going on, 36 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 1: we can straighten it out and set you guys up 37 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:36,959 Speaker 1: on another date that we pay for. All right, can 38 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 1: you hang on for a second, you play one song 39 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:40,680 Speaker 1: and we'll come back and do it. Sure, let's see 40 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 1: what happens next part two of way. He met a 41 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 1: phone after Rama in two minutes on the commercial free 42 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 1: frend show Good Morning Rama is on the French show 43 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 1: Thanks for Having Us, saw the entertainer of four two 44 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 1: hundred bucks. The show bas Shelley both on the way. Next. Hey, Corey, 45 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:56,559 Speaker 1: let's call Pam. You guys, you had what you thought 46 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 1: was a really successful date. You were thoughtful about sort 47 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 1: of planning it and thinking about where to go and 48 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 1: all this stuff. Except now you can't get a hold 49 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 1: of Pam. She's ghosting you and you want to know why. Yeah, 50 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 1: I don't know what happened. Let's call her right now. 51 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:21,800 Speaker 1: Good luck, dude, Thank you. Hello. Hi, as is Pam, Pam? 52 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 1: Good morning Fred's and the Fred Show. Everybody is here, 53 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 1: and I'm sorry to bother, but I do have to 54 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:27,399 Speaker 1: tell you that we are on the radio right now 55 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 1: and I would need your permission to continue with the calls. 56 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 1: That okay if we chat for a couple of minutes 57 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 1: on the show. Yeah, I love you guys, Thank you 58 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:37,520 Speaker 1: very much. We appreciate that. Well, then you know what 59 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 1: we're doing. It's waiting by the phone. We're calling on 60 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:44,080 Speaker 1: behalf of this guy named Corey. I guess who you 61 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:45,239 Speaker 1: guys went out? 62 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:47,360 Speaker 4: Yes, I know Corey. 63 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, Well he says he knows you too, and talked 64 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 1: about a date that you went on that he thought 65 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:54,079 Speaker 1: was a big success. Except I guess you can't get 66 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 1: a hold of him, So what's the deal, Well, or 67 00:02:57,000 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 1: he can't get ahold of you. 68 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 4: He couldn't get a hold of me because I'm not answering. 69 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 4: Its close because I was completely thrown and insulted and well, 70 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 4: I'll just tell you what. I'll just back it up. Okay. 71 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 4: So it was so nice to meet and he was 72 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 4: so sweet. We had texted, we had messaged. He was 73 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:18,519 Speaker 4: asking me before the date. He was asking me like, 74 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 4: I had any dietary restrictions. 75 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:24,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, so we mentioned that and Caitlyn liked that a lot, 76 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 1: which I'm adding that to the playbook. I'm sure that's 77 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 1: my problem is that I haven't I haven't been asking 78 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 1: enough about dietary restrictions. 79 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 5: That's right, But anyway to ask us before gluten free 80 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:35,119 Speaker 5: that would be Yeah. 81 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 4: I mean it's a big thing right now. So I 82 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 4: was really excited. He told me to put on my 83 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 4: best dress, and you know, I take pride. I went 84 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 4: and got a new dress, I I got some new 85 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 4: shoes I did, I got my hair done, I went, 86 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 4: I went all out before a makeup, you know, just 87 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 4: the whole thing, you guys. And I felt really great 88 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 4: about the way I looked, and I was really excited 89 00:03:57,960 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 4: to see him when he came and came and hot me, 90 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 4: and he was he kept you guys listen, he just 91 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 4: kept playing it up like he was talking it up, 92 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 4: like oh you can't I can't wait to take you, 93 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 4: and it's just going to be so fantastic. 94 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 1: Like this is this is the best restaurant in town, 95 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 1: like this is the best thing, so hard to get into, 96 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 1: and yeah, I mean yeah, and you got ready for this, 97 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:24,200 Speaker 1: you know you you ready? Yeah, you were acting accordingly. 98 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 4: Accordingly and moored, do you know what I'm saying, saving, waxing, 99 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:30,599 Speaker 4: making sure everything is good. 100 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 1: So you were so impressed with what you thought this 101 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,040 Speaker 1: evening was going to be that you were even planning 102 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 1: for what might happen afterwards. 103 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:39,240 Speaker 2: That is correct, all right? 104 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:41,840 Speaker 1: So okay, well then what happened because you're not calling him? 105 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 1: So what happened? 106 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:43,719 Speaker 4: Okay? 107 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 5: So we and and good car, great car, great outfit. 108 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:51,280 Speaker 4: He picks me up. He looks great, he's handsome with 109 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 4: a good clean smelling yep. Okay, so I get in. 110 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:57,919 Speaker 4: He's polity, opens the door the boo, and we drive 111 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 4: over and I'm like, where going? Where are we going? 112 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 4: This is? And he's not telling me and we pull up. 113 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:06,479 Speaker 4: I think it's a joke because we pull up in 114 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:10,120 Speaker 4: front of the cheesecake factory. 115 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:21,159 Speaker 1: What menu is chef's kiss. Menu is every that exists 116 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 1: in the world. How can you go wrong? Hey, that's 117 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 1: fancy for people. Okay, now hold on, I'm not saying 118 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 1: that that's not I enjoy some cheesecake factory. But when 119 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 1: you tell someone you're taking them to the best restaurant 120 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:34,039 Speaker 1: in town and that they should get dressed up and 121 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 1: you're wearing a suit and holding the expectation, is in 122 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 1: fairness that you're going to a linear you know, or 123 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: that you're going to a VEC or I mean, come on, 124 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:44,120 Speaker 1: and not the cheesecake factory. 125 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 4: Red wine. Yes, I don't want to housewine some cheesecake. 126 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 5: I don't want to talk to the factory. 127 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:58,600 Speaker 1: All right, all right, extremely impassive. 128 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 3: The cheesecake factory. They have not yet picked me up. 129 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:04,559 Speaker 3: But let me tell you something. 130 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 1: It is the best place. How could you not? Like? 131 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 1: Have you seen? 132 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:09,839 Speaker 3: Their menu reads like a chapter book. 133 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 1: It's a Steak and Find a Lawyer on the Sea 134 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 1: exactly has it. It's a magazine, it's a periodic date. 135 00:06:23,560 --> 00:06:26,599 Speaker 3: You need to have you had dietary restrictions because they 136 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:27,600 Speaker 3: have something for everybody. 137 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:30,160 Speaker 1: To say, you didn't need to ask because there's something 138 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 1: for everybody. I mean, there's literally everything on the menu. Okay, 139 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:38,279 Speaker 1: but cons and I don't I'm not minimizing the fact 140 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:40,279 Speaker 1: that that is a fancy night for for some people. 141 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:43,480 Speaker 1: I enjoy that place, I really do. But I do 142 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 1: not think that I would build up a date and 143 00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:47,560 Speaker 1: tell them to get dressed up that I'm taking into 144 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 1: the best restaurant in town simply to take them to 145 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 1: the to the cheesecake factory. I do think that you 146 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 1: set the expectation high, and I think you probably just 147 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:57,920 Speaker 1: could have said this is where we're going, and the 148 00:06:57,960 --> 00:07:00,280 Speaker 1: reaction probably would have been the same, probably would have 149 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:02,040 Speaker 1: been as excited for something different. 150 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 3: I get a carrier. I didn't agree that it's so 151 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:06,400 Speaker 3: tough to get into. They give you people. They don't 152 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:07,920 Speaker 3: give you people at McDonald's. 153 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 1: It's so it's so tough to get into that they 154 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 1: give you a big get some time into a lot 155 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:13,200 Speaker 1: of places where you walk up. 156 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 4: And righted with family. 157 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:19,560 Speaker 1: Get into is like tough to get into? Is I 158 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 1: had to give the guy a hundred bucks at that 159 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 1: you know I had to give the host is one 160 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 1: hundred bucks or I had to get in six months ago. 161 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 1: That's tough to get into waiting fifteen minutes and then 162 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 1: getting paid. Yeah, but it's hard to get into a 163 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 1: place that doesn't take reservations. 164 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 3: So you know, yes, there's a lot of families because 165 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 3: if the place is good enough to take your family. 166 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 3: I thought it was good to day. 167 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 1: I just think you, I think. 168 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 4: More money on my outfit, he gets the entire meal. 169 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 1: This is yeah, is that you're in a major metropolitan 170 00:07:50,520 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 1: city known for like extremely well known, renowned restaurants, and 171 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 1: maybe she was being presumptuous. You know she is bringing 172 00:07:57,080 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 1: up the money. That's not really my point. My point 173 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 1: is you oversold the night. In my opinion, I think 174 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 1: I would have been stoked for for someone to be like, 175 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 1: we're going to the cheesecake factory and you can get 176 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:09,960 Speaker 1: whatever you want. We can get the cheesecake and the 177 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 1: whole thing, and maybe get two cheesecake pieces and b 178 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 1: but you. 179 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 5: Need to know so I can wear stretching pants, not 180 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 5: a tight dress and heels. 181 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 1: You know what I mean. Like, if you're going to 182 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 1: the cheesecake factory, if you're going to shown if you're 183 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 1: going to uh chiliese. For example, this is I got 184 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 1: to prepare differently. I got to prepare differently than if 185 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 1: we're going to go eat. You know, leafy little food 186 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 1: looks like a painting. 187 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 5: No one is getting lucky after chilies or the cheesecake factory, 188 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 5: whatever you'd like. 189 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 3: I mean, what does that mean the second order of bread? 190 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:55,800 Speaker 1: Bread? Bread? They don't do that. There are way more expensive. 191 00:08:56,400 --> 00:08:58,559 Speaker 1: But it's not a cheap place. It's not cheap. It's 192 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:00,840 Speaker 1: not inexpensive to go to the cheese take factory, but 193 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 1: it is also more expensive to go to a bunch 194 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:05,440 Speaker 1: of other places. Yeah, I mean, it's not as special 195 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 1: as you built it up to be. And I don't 196 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 1: think she was probably prepared, and I think it makes 197 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 1: you look a little bit like a poser, or or 198 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 1: maybe she doesn't taste there fine enough, or in this case, 199 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:18,679 Speaker 1: she's calling you. I do agree with that, friend, I 200 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:20,920 Speaker 1: think you should have went to the Olive Garden first date. 201 00:09:21,240 --> 00:09:22,960 Speaker 1: That had been more class. Well, then you can build 202 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:24,840 Speaker 1: it up, because if you go to the cheesecake factory 203 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 1: right off the bat, how how on earth are you 204 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 1: going to top that? 205 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 3: I mean, can I tak you something. 206 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:32,040 Speaker 2: Olive Garden was in the cards for the second date, 207 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:33,040 Speaker 2: but that's off the table. 208 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 1: That's off the table. Okay, well so now Corey, what interested. 209 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 4: Parents at the olive Garden? Is that the second date? 210 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:44,680 Speaker 1: I get it's her occasion, but Corey apparently is no 211 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:47,960 Speaker 1: longer interested. So Pam, look, thank you for trying along 212 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 1: with us here. We we love you, we appreciate you. 213 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. Corey, best of luck to you as well.