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Speaker 1: A friend show is on, it's stay or go.

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Speaker 2: All right, let's fix someone's life right now.

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Speaker 1: Hi, Bianca? How you doing?

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Speaker 2: Hi?

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Speaker 1: Good?

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Speaker 3: How are you?

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Speaker 1: Bianca? Good morning? Welcome.

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Speaker 2: So we got your email, friendshow radio dot com, friends

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Speaker 2: your radio on Instagram. You can DM this there.

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Speaker 1: Why not?

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Speaker 2: Why not open up your life situation to five, six,

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Speaker 2: seven of us and the thirteen people who listen, and

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Speaker 2: then we'll talk about you behind your back. So go

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Speaker 2: ahead and Bianca. So, I'm sure it sounds really inviting now,

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Speaker 2: but what's going on?

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Speaker 4: So? I know, usually this was about relationship, but I

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Speaker 4: really wanted to talk about a friendship. I'm trying to

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Speaker 4: decide if I should leave or not. Okay, So my

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Speaker 4: boyfriend and I went on this trip with a bunch

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Speaker 4: of our friends. We got this airbnb at a present

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Speaker 4: beach and the first day we were there, we all

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Speaker 4: went to the beach. Of course, I looked over and

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Speaker 4: saw that my friend NICKI had taken her top off.

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Speaker 5: Was just yeah, she's I mean, she's guys in a

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Speaker 5: little wild so but I was really surprised she did

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Speaker 5: that in front of my boyfriend and the other one in.

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Speaker 4: Our friend group were in relationships.

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Speaker 2: Is single, by the way, not that it matters, but

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Speaker 2: is she is she in a relationship or she.

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Speaker 4: Is she's single and she's totally hot.

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Speaker 2: I just.

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Speaker 4: And so like, I I trust my boyfriend, but the

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Speaker 4: entire day, like I just couldn't help but check to

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Speaker 4: see if he was looking at Nicky Nicky's boom. And

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Speaker 4: I love Niki, but and I wanted to have fun,

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Speaker 4: but I just felt like it.

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Speaker 6: Was disrespectful to take your top off in front of

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Speaker 6: someone else's man.

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Speaker 4: So, I mean, I did talk to her about it.

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Speaker 4: I said, like, you know, hey, that's up.

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Speaker 2: How you doing. Nice to see your girls, Harry Kate

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Speaker 2: Nashley showed up. That's wonderful.

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Speaker 7: What say?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What did she say?

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Speaker 6: Well, she's first of all, she came on kind of

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Speaker 6: strong with like, what does it matter if you trust

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Speaker 6: your boyfriend? And I was like, okay, good point. But

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Speaker 6: she also was saying, you know, like those can go topless.

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Speaker 6: And also it's not.

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Speaker 4: Like I'm showing, It's not like I'm completely naked. And

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Speaker 4: then she, you know, she was like, listen, it's super

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Speaker 4: common other countries, you know, you know, she's.

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Speaker 1: Nicky Nikky.

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Speaker 2: We're in Florida, we're in Jacksonville.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: So so she basically defended her right to do it

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Speaker 2: and said, hey, look, nobody should have an issue with

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Speaker 2: this because we're all adult here and and I mean

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Speaker 2: your boyfriend was looking at her boobs, and so was

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Speaker 2: everybody else, and so were all the women too. For

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Speaker 2: the record, I don't I don't know that that necessarily

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Speaker 2: means anything. I mean, you know, I'm sure you and

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Speaker 2: and he and everybody looks all the time. It doesn't

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Speaker 2: mean they're gonna cheat. I guess the question is like,

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Speaker 2: what do we think of her character? Was she doing

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Speaker 2: it because it's truly what she wanted to do and

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Speaker 2: she was comfortable with it and she was having fun,

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Speaker 2: or do you think there was a part of her

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Speaker 2: that was like one, two three look at me. Do

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Speaker 2: you think there's anybody there that she's interested in? I mean, you, like,

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Speaker 2: you invited her on this trip. You must think she's

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Speaker 2: a nice person. I mean, is it is it simply

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Speaker 2: just I'm I'm that's my personality, that's what I do.

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Speaker 2: Or is it no, I wanted everyone to look at me?

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Speaker 2: Or is it maybe there was somebody there she was

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Speaker 4: I mean, listen, she's always been a little wild and

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Speaker 4: she's really fun. Yeah, she's definitely the one in the

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Speaker 4: group that are like, you know, like bar Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: most likely too. But this was kind of a surprise,

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Speaker 4: like she hasn't hasn't done this before, and I I

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Speaker 4: don't know, to be honest, I don't think that she's

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Speaker 4: I mean, most of us aside from her are have

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Speaker 4: partners or like in relationships, so I don't know that

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Speaker 4: she'd be going after some of the group. But I

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Speaker 4: just mostly was surprised, and I just don't know, like,

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Speaker 4: am I overreacting or like if Nikky kind of like

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Speaker 4: like I just can't imagine if a friend asked, like

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Speaker 6: Oh, are you comfortable?

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Speaker 4: It's not like I can cover up, But she was

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I'd in the friendship per se,

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Speaker 2: but I might think about the boundaries and you know what,

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Speaker 2: I'm what I want to include her in or not? Yes, Kiki,

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Speaker 2: you would in the friendship absolutely, see.

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Speaker 9: This is that weirdo energy that that girls seem to

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Speaker 9: sometimes have. This is why you can't travel with everybody,

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Speaker 9: because why we're on a beach and everybody in their

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Speaker 9: bathing suits, and I'm with my man. What would make

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Speaker 9: you think that it's okay to get naked in front of.

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Speaker 10: My man and me?

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Speaker 9: You didn't even like I'm offended because we didn't ask

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Speaker 9: for all that. If you want to get topless, do

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Speaker 9: that on your vacation with the freaks.

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Speaker 5: Don't bring that over here. In fairness, though you're.

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Speaker 2: With your man, that's your deal, Your trust level and

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Speaker 2: your commitment is among the two of you. It really

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Speaker 2: has nothing to do with this other person. Now, I

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Speaker 2: can say someone just texted I felt very disrespected. A

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Speaker 2: similar thing happened to the person who texted, and that

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Speaker 2: person felt very disrespected.

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Speaker 1: Now that's that's possible.

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Speaker 2: But I guess what I'm saying is if you're worried

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Speaker 2: about what she's doing as it affects your relationship, that

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Speaker 2: kind of is a you thing.

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Speaker 9: No, I'm not worried about because let me take something,

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Speaker 9: big tim ain't going nowhere.

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Speaker 10: Okay, I'm not worried about that.

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Speaker 1: But we've seen miss Nikki baby with the top the top.

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Speaker 9: She could take her top end bottom off. I'm okay

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Speaker 9: over there. However, it's just the fact that you didn't

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Speaker 9: consider like you're just that that's weird, old energy, that's

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Speaker 9: that's somebody that's very weird to teach, you're looking for attention,

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Speaker 9: like it's just doing too much. And I feel like

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Speaker 9: when you have friends like that girl, you don't need them.

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Speaker 9: When she showed you how she's acting on vacation, you

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Speaker 9: don't need her in the rest of your life. This

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Speaker 9: type of person that show up to your wedding in

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Speaker 9: a white dress, Get rid of her.

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Speaker 2: But I also feel like Beyonca, in fairness, you knew

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Speaker 2: You knew she was single, you knew she was a

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Speaker 2: little wild. I mean, I guess I don't. It's like

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Speaker 2: if the crazy, if the if the I don't know,

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Speaker 2: expressive outlandish person does expressive, outlandish things that I don't know.

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Speaker 2: What are you surprised by if you never traveled with

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Speaker 2: her before, Yeah, this is kind of.

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Speaker 4: A new thing for our friend group to like do

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Speaker 4: this big of a trip. And I mean, I've been

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Speaker 4: on the beach there before, but she's never dig her

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Speaker 10: Like that on purpose.

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Speaker 2: Well, let me take some phone calls on this, Bianca,

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Speaker 2: have your radio on her or ihearted and thank you

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Speaker 2: so much for Collin, and I hope, I hope you

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Speaker 2: figure it out. Oh man, thank you, thank you, gotta

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Speaker 2: thank you. Eight five five five nine one o three five. Yes,

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Speaker 2: a lot of people are going I would love to

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Speaker 2: have her numbers so we can chat.

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Speaker 1: Yes, me too.

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Speaker 2: Actually, OMG, I'm so kirk quirky, says Nikki. Probably leave

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Speaker 2: that friend alone. Your gut isn't wrong. It sounds to

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Speaker 2: me a whole lot more like a one two three

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Speaker 2: look at me deal than it does than it does

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Speaker 2: any kind of uh threat, because it's not You're not

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Speaker 2: gonna it wouldn't be that obvious, like you're not gonna

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Speaker 2: of couples and expect someone just you know, go cheap

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Speaker 2: right now in front of you know what I mean.

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Speaker 11: So like if the dudes weren't there and it was

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Speaker 11: just girls and she was topless, it's different.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, Okay, we're just being you know, we're being

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Speaker 9: silly girls with their boosies out, you.

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Speaker 10: Know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: Calen knows my anxiety about this, But I don't know

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Speaker 2: what's any different really that taking your top off than

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Speaker 2: some of the swimsuits that people wear by the pool anyway.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just saying.

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Speaker 2: I'm not suggesting you shouldn't or whatever, but like some

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Speaker 2: of these swimsuits, man, you you don't walk right, something's

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Speaker 2: flopping out, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 10: Bottom it's a girl's trip.

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Speaker 11: I've been known to get naked and run around and

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Speaker 11: jump in the pool Like that's just like who I am?

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Speaker 10: I don't you.

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Speaker 1: Wouldn't do that in front of man?

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Speaker 9: Never are you conscious even about some of the swimsuits

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Speaker 9: you may pick if you know you're going on a

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Speaker 9: couple's trip where you're going with couples, Like would you

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Speaker 9: put on your thong bikini and like prance around in

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Speaker 9: front of everybody's husband?

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Speaker 10: I mean, I don't. I think that's like a fine line, Like.

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Speaker 11: I still want to wear what I want to wear,

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Speaker 11: but I am extremely a respect like no, those are

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Speaker 10: Like yeah, but the topless.

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Speaker 2: Thing, I get all that and I see the disrespect

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Speaker 2: and I can. But then again, you invited the wild

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Speaker 2: single girl on your trip, Like what did you think

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Speaker 9: But you're my friend, you should have some some kof

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Speaker 9: about yourself some decency about yourself.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, what are your manners like? Right? Your time and

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Speaker 10: place for everything?

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Speaker 12: Right.

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Speaker 11: I just wouldn't want my friend's husband to know what

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Speaker 11: my yabos look like. That it's more of a meat

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Speaker 11: like I don't want you guys to look at me

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Speaker 11: like that.

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Speaker 2: Like, I just think it's more about it's more about

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Speaker 2: what it does to the vibe. I think that it

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Speaker 2: should be about what it does for temptation or something,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Like, I don't I don't

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Speaker 2: know that that anybody should have any problem with. You know,

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Speaker 2: if you're on a vacation with your boyfriend or husband

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Speaker 2: and he's gonna leave with miss Nikki baby, then it's

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Speaker 2: you've got a bigger problem. I just think, if anything,

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Speaker 2: I would sit back and be like, why is all

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Speaker 2: that necessary? And I might kind of laugh, but I'm

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Speaker 2: not gonna like shun a person for it. I might

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Speaker 2: just think it's kind of funny.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, I mean, I guess I wouldn't wear like a

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Speaker 11: I don't really wear song bathed bathing suits anyways, but

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Speaker 11: I probably wouldn't.

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Speaker 2: And see, yeah, some holy somebody else wo said that

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Speaker 2: the hot single guy would if he went bottomless in

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Speaker 2: front of everybody, Like would we like that?

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Speaker 10: Probably not hurt you know, private sound.

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Speaker 2: But I do think we accept breasts and coochy and

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think that we're all walking around

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, hold on, hold on, it's Kyle,

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Speaker 2: Kyle High what uh Kyle hey man?

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Speaker 1: What what does you say? Stay? And why wait for this?

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Speaker 13: Yeah?

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Speaker 12: Okay, Well, so I'm a married man with a two

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Speaker 12: just got a party because you haven't touched.

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Speaker 3: Nanny.

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Speaker 2: So you have a nanny for your two year old.

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Speaker 2: You're a married man, but your nanny flashes.

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Speaker 12: Here have in the past in the path. Yeah, they're

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Speaker 10: You know, has the nanny of us spent the night

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Speaker 10: and you'll be with your wife?

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Speaker 7: Freak?

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Speaker 1: But I'm working.

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Speaker 10: I'm working.

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Speaker 2: That's pretty clear. It's more than a nanny is your wife.

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Speaker 2: Is your wife going for it? Do you think you

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, you guys need me a babysit. The two year old, Well.

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Speaker 12: Keep your I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Your life sounds pretty great and so I have a

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Speaker 2: good day. Okay, I appreciate it. Oh my god, Kyle,

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Speaker 2: and I'll tell you about it and you can save

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Speaker 2: your marriage. Hey, Lindsay, Hi, Hi, Lindsay. So, just to

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Speaker 2: recap here, this woman is upset because her single, sort

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Speaker 1: What do you think, Lindsay, run.

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Speaker 7: This isn't real housewives here. Come on, put your tapas away,

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Speaker 7: do that on your own time, like Kiki said, like,

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Speaker 1: With the friends. Point, what's the point, Like if you

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Speaker 2: be honest, left the imagination you cover? Okay, but what

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Speaker 2: to take your top up? Is is that somehow different?

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Speaker 10: No, that's even more clownish.

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Speaker 7: No, no, because you know what, if you're on a

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Speaker 7: girl's trip, do what you want, let everything hang out,

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Speaker 7: so you're with other men. And again, this isn't real housewives,

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Speaker 7: like this is real life fairness.

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Speaker 1: Right, thank you, Lindsey, have a good day.

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Speaker 10: Do you get mad at big kids for looking No?

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Speaker 9: Because I would probably look to But you know, we've

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Speaker 9: you know he's gonna look he's a man, but I'm

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Speaker 9: looking at my friend because why are you on display

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Speaker 10: Like are you okay? Because that now so you.

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Speaker 1: Are no longer friends with this person after that?

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Speaker 9: Absolutely, Now you show me you're a weirdo one time

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Speaker 9: in front of my man and it's a rap.

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Speaker 10: I don't play that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, no, then it don't the other sides of this

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Speaker 2: because I don't I don't know if I care one

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Speaker 2: way or the other. But I see what you're saying. Hey, Beatrice, Hi, Hi,

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Speaker 2: good morning, guys, how are you?

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Speaker 1: Good morning? So stayre go.

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Speaker 7: She should go, for sure, And it's not about the

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Speaker 4: Of insecurity between her and her partner.

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Speaker 5: I think it's more of a respect thing.

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Speaker 3: I think women should respect other women when it's a

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Speaker 5: Especially when they're friends.

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Speaker 3: I really think it's just a respect thing, like there's

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Speaker 3: a time and a place for everything.

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Speaker 4: And yeah, she should have have did that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, fair enough, thank you, have a good day. Thank

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Speaker 2: I guess I still don't know why anyone's surprised by

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Speaker 1: But Amir, hi, Hey, how are you? Hey man? Good morning, welcome,

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Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. What do you want to say?

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Speaker 13: I think every day's car has to have a joker

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Speaker 13: with what she's doing. It's just our perception of what

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Speaker 13: she said. There's a margin of human error. Everybody's gonna look,

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Speaker 13: everybody's gonna glance. But does the boyfriend her husband? Is

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Speaker 13: his behavior changing in front of the friends? That's his

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Speaker 13: behavior change towards you? Does a change towards her? Maybe

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Speaker 13: this is a very good mitis test for the girls

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Speaker 1: Okay, but I.

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Speaker 13: Think I think every every deck of card tests to

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Speaker 2: Joker top of joker. Thank you, miir, have a good day. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: sounds like a man ill. Can we get that guy

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Speaker 2: I need to witness it myself. Hello, Hey, Rachel, how

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Speaker 2: you doing.

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I was getting to you. I promised stay or go.

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Speaker 3: Good morning, I'll say, So, are we talking about the

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Speaker 3: scene twipek.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, we're still talking about We are absolutely yeah.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you can make fun of me all you want.

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Speaker 3: My boyfriend and he's one of the eleven, so he's.

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Speaker 2: Like, all Rachel, hold on, I don't mean to get

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Speaker 2: off twelve pick but we it's thirteen. Okay, so it's thirteen.

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Speaker 3: That's not that's last time I said five. Last time

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Speaker 1: That's even more insulting. Okay, so what are you working? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Thirteen yeah, and Rachel might be one today. So anyway,

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Speaker 1: so what do you think?

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Speaker 3: So I I truly believe Okay, so I mean you

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Speaker 12: If it's just as sure.

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Speaker 3: So why would we make other people uncomfortable by being

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Speaker 3: like here, I'm naked now, but like this is my

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Speaker 3: well it's cool, it's cool.

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Speaker 13: Like so you're not downs cool?

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Speaker 1: So you're not yea, we're not. We're not. We're not

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Speaker 10: You cheating them?

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Speaker 3: There are no no places?

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Speaker 2: Yeah right, thank you so much, Rachel. I really appreciate

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Speaker 1: Right, thanks. You're trading to the tour thing? Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 2: I don't Hey, Rachel, you're invited miss Nikky baby and Rachel,

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Speaker 2: can I tell you what, we won't bring any other

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Speaker 2: it'll be great, find a nice private beach and see

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Speaker 2: what happens. Hey, Koya, hi, I want whatever she was having,

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Speaker 2: but I need all of it. Actually, what do you

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Speaker 8: I think it's incredibly inappropriate. This has nothing to do

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Speaker 8: This is a one hundred percent lack of boundaries because

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Speaker 8: else her, doing that would have been a credibly disrespectful

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Speaker 8: love your books, fantastic, cover them because I don't want

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Speaker 8: And it's just it's inappropriate. I mean, I.

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Speaker 1: Co No, I hear what you're saying.

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Speaker 2: I understand, thank you, have a good day. No, we

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Speaker 1: Maybe that wasn't the vibe.

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Speaker 10: So pasties.

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Speaker 2: Like that.

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Speaker 2: Much of a prude and I'd probably laugh, But like,

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Speaker 2: I also can see why other people would be like, yo,

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Speaker 1: You know? Or just everybody take their top off, how

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Speaker 1: about that?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, not just entertainment reports.

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