Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning and you
Speaker 1: found the Second Day Update podcast. I'm just gonna say,
Speaker 1: after the Second Date I will never hear one specific
Speaker 1: Maclamore song the same.
Speaker 2: I mean, I've tried to avoid listening it, but now
Speaker 2: I'm gonna try extra hard to avoid.
Speaker 3: Oh.
Speaker 1: You were ready for a treat and hopefully a big
Speaker 1: laugh right now. But first we've got to read some
Speaker 1: comments from our lovely podcast. I love just K. That's
Speaker 1: all they wrote is their name Kate met someone from
Speaker 1: the UK who was listening to this show. That's how
Speaker 1: they found us. It's not my third week binging.
Speaker 4: In and it's hilarious.
Speaker 1: Hey was that my ex boyfriend? Just K?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Is he so like you enough to do that? Yeah?
Speaker 1: But he never listens, so wait it does say it's
Speaker 1: his new girlfriend. Oh yeah, there we go. Let's get
Speaker 1: the second date started right now.
Speaker 5: The Second Date Update.
Speaker 2: I feel good that we're like an adoptive home for
Speaker 2: lonely single men and women until they eventually find their
Speaker 2: permanent homes and leave the nest. Yeah, and the loveless
Speaker 2: stray that we're bringing in today. His name is Luke
Speaker 2: again for a second time, because Luke has actually been
Speaker 2: on the show before.
Speaker 1: We've had a lot of return people lately.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. That's why we're the safe
Speaker 2: place come back and.
Speaker 4: A pigeon, you just keep coming around.
Speaker 2: Last time Luke was on, he was irritating a young
Speaker 2: woman by posting a photo of them together onto his Instagram,
Speaker 2: but didn't ask her permission to post it first.
Speaker 1: Why it is what? She didn't like her look because
Speaker 1: he didn't use a filter exact right.
Speaker 2: So, like I said, lessons have been learned, Luke, do
Speaker 2: you know better now? Pictures are in no no, only
Speaker 2: post videos of them without all of It's.
Speaker 1: Fine if you use the right filter. Don't you remember
Speaker 1: that whole segment. He's not with her now, so he's
Speaker 1: got to delete the photo.
Speaker 4: It up to make look you're in a better place though, now,
Speaker 4: Yeah I am.
Speaker 3: I am better now. I didn't think it was gonna
Speaker 3: think of a deal, but I am not going to
Speaker 3: make that.
Speaker 6: Mistikeam okay, get in trouble.
Speaker 1: I love when you say you're better but you're back
Speaker 1: with us.
Speaker 2: Well it's good because apparently there's a new woman, a
Speaker 2: better woman that we're trying to track down for you
Speaker 2: tell us about her.
Speaker 3: So her name is Lisa, and that are on tender
Speaker 3: and lately I've been trying a new strategy. Okay, I
Speaker 3: try and let the person know who I am. I mean,
Speaker 3: because if they know who I am, then it'll be
Speaker 3: a lot harder to ghost me, at least I would
Speaker 3: think be.
Speaker 1: Harder to ghost you.
Speaker 4: Hold on, what do you mean who I am?
Speaker 1: What it just means as a person?
Speaker 7: Oh?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's also a good point.
Speaker 3: I mean, because you know how like first dates are.
Speaker 3: They want to know, like, what's your job? What do
Speaker 3: you do for a living?
Speaker 2: You're trying to not keep it so surface, You're diving
Speaker 2: a little bit deeper early on into the day.
Speaker 1: That's good essence of who you are as a person.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So how did you accomplish that with Lisa?
Speaker 3: Well? One of the things that I like anybody that
Speaker 3: I'm dating to know is that, I mean that used
Speaker 3: to be in a band?
Speaker 4: Cool?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I try and do like a funny
Speaker 3: lead up into the date and give them hints about
Speaker 3: my musical talents.
Speaker 4: You don't just tell them straight out that I was
Speaker 4: in a band.
Speaker 5: How did we get a know?
Speaker 3: For breand.
Speaker 4: Wow? You're so skilled. Were you in a band?
Speaker 1: Why would you just not tell her?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I mean that's not really fun. I mean there's there's
Speaker 3: no mystery behind it.
Speaker 5: It's dropping hints for you obviously.
Speaker 4: I don't know how how do you drop a hint?
Speaker 4: What's your tactic?
Speaker 3: Okay, So what I did at dinner when I was
Speaker 3: with her was that I drew a picture of a
Speaker 3: microphone on a napkin.
Speaker 4: Okay, you were like, wow, you know she's talking to you.
Speaker 3: It wasn't like I was completely ignoring her. I mean,
Speaker 3: you know I can walk and choose them at the
Speaker 3: same time.
Speaker 1: Did she know it was a microphone? Did she pick
Speaker 1: up on your hint?
Speaker 3: She didn't really say anything. She just kind of gave
Speaker 3: me a look.
Speaker 1: I mean, the shape of that is not just yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a shape that can be mistakes.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I tried to put like dots on the top of
Speaker 3: it to show it was a microphone.
Speaker 4: Okay, she's not getting you never clarified.
Speaker 3: No, I didn't want to blow the surprise.
Speaker 4: Honestly, I guess this is a night long game of charades.
Speaker 1: She doesn't know she's playing dictionary drafty right.
Speaker 3: So then later on I did. I played something for
Speaker 3: her on the jukebox, A little Maclamore, I'm gonna pop
Speaker 3: some tags.
Speaker 4: I don't want to hear.
Speaker 1: How is that a hint that you're in a band?
Speaker 3: Well, I thought it would be, but I just kept
Speaker 3: telling her, you you like this? Do you like that?
Speaker 4: Okay?
Speaker 2: Maybe she thinks you're just kind of random because your
Speaker 2: attempts at giving your hands were bad.
Speaker 1: You're not even currently in the band right.
Speaker 4: Well that this is an old story, but it's the
Speaker 4: who he is from his youth. Don't listen to them, Luke.
Speaker 4: What happened next?
Speaker 3: Okay? Well, we finished our drinks and I was like,
Speaker 3: I have to take you somewhere for dinner. Do you
Speaker 3: trust me?
Speaker 1: Oh? God?
Speaker 5: Okay, how did that dry?
Speaker 4: What did she say?
Speaker 3: She said no, Yeah, she got in my car anyways.
Speaker 1: Okay, someone needs to teach her that's it does sound
Speaker 1: like an Alexis move where you just want to know?
Speaker 4: Yeah, where'd you go for dinner?
Speaker 3: I drove it to my place and you know, I
Speaker 3: had dinner there waiting. I also had my karaoke setup and.
Speaker 4: Oh, this is where she's gonna find.
Speaker 1: This is another hint you're gonna karaoke, just the two
Speaker 1: of you and your own That sounds fun.
Speaker 5: Broke them alone.
Speaker 3: So I wound up seeing the Maclamore song to her
Speaker 3: while she ate the visual.
Speaker 5: Why are you.
Speaker 1: Even calling her? Oh buddy, Okay, maybe she liked it. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: we're teasing you a lot, but maybe she liked it.
Speaker 3: She did clap after the song.
Speaker 1: Oh that like it? She find out you're in a
Speaker 1: band maclamoreus.
Speaker 4: Does that come up?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 3: Yeah no. When I was driving her home, I did
Speaker 3: try one more hint, and so I did try and
Speaker 3: play another surprise song, which was Maclamore again.
Speaker 1: Was it thrift Shop again or a different song?
Speaker 3: I mean, I really like drift Shops.
Speaker 4: It was.
Speaker 1: If this works out, that's your song. Is a couple,
Speaker 1: that's everything?
Speaker 4: Okay? Did you end with the hug? A kiss? Anything
Speaker 4: like that?
Speaker 3: Hug?
Speaker 1: Did she mention anything about seeing you again or not?
Speaker 3: Curious?
Speaker 1: You're curious?
Speaker 4: Okay? Have you hit her?
Speaker 2: I think we all are. So yeah, you've been on
Speaker 2: with us before. You know how this works. We're gonna
Speaker 2: call her and ask why she doesn't appreciate a brave,
Speaker 2: courageous man who's willing to just be himself and give
Speaker 2: her a live musical performance during dinner.
Speaker 1: I mean, we could talk to her, or we could
Speaker 1: just play Maclamore for.
Speaker 4: I do have a thought about what music to bump
Speaker 4: in come back. I don't want toil which one it's
Speaker 4: gonna be, though, I mean, nobody guess. I'm not guessing.
Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna come back and do it with your
Speaker 2: second date update right after we pop.
Speaker 1: Some tags.
Speaker 5: Second date Update.
Speaker 2: I pulled thrift Shop, the knockoff karaoke version off the
Speaker 2: internet for this because I picture this. This is what
Speaker 2: Luke saying to his date Lisa while she ate dinner
Speaker 2: at his place.
Speaker 1: I can't believe we haven't asked for a sample from Luke.
Speaker 4: Yeah, skill, well, I.
Speaker 2: Think that's that's reserved for his romantic serenades.
Speaker 6: Got it.
Speaker 2: I don't want to confuse that that all really happened.
Speaker 2: But Luke, we never asked you. Did you dance for
Speaker 2: her while you sang?
Speaker 7: Oh?
Speaker 1: I'm sure Luke has choreography, don't you, Luke?
Speaker 3: I like from left to right side side?
Speaker 1: I got it?
Speaker 2: Okay, Now that the whole point of doing all of this,
Speaker 2: this fun mystery, creative date that you set up was
Speaker 2: to let Lisa know that you used to be in
Speaker 2: a band so that she could get to know the
Speaker 2: real you. You forgot to actually tell her that, so Mike.
Speaker 1: Forget and never came up.
Speaker 2: So that my question now is, if we do get
Speaker 2: Lisa on the line, do you want us to tell
Speaker 2: her that information or should we save it for you?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 3: I think I still want to tell her. I think
Speaker 3: that was the whole point. I thought we should just
Speaker 3: follow through.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm still confused how the knowledge of you previously
Speaker 1: being in a band really opens up who you are.
Speaker 1: It just sounds like maybe you think that that's what
Speaker 1: Chick's like.
Speaker 5: Well, it is true.
Speaker 4: I mean, alexis a guy who's formerly in a band.
Speaker 5: Come on, returning performing in his garage for his mom.
Speaker 3: Wow off.
Speaker 5: Somewhere right, all right?
Speaker 1: Ends because he's again Okay, well, if.
Speaker 2: Lisa says no, then Alexis is on deck. But let's
Speaker 2: call it Lisa first. Here we go, he will Hey
Speaker 2: is this Lisa? Yeah, Hey, Lisa, we're a radio show.
Speaker 4: We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Sorry to
Speaker 4: interrupt your day.
Speaker 7: Okay, Uh, what's this about?
Speaker 1: Great question?
Speaker 2: Yeah, we uh, it's about a thing that we do
Speaker 2: call the second date update.
Speaker 3: Uh huh.
Speaker 4: And we also play.
Speaker 1: Music, no big lovers and music.
Speaker 2: We take requests if you have any let's do a
Speaker 2: shout out on the radio right now?
Speaker 6: Ah no, no, oh, okay, we call you for shout out.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's fine.
Speaker 4: But back to the second date update thing that we do.
Speaker 2: Not sure if you're familiar, but you went out with
Speaker 2: one of our listeners recently, a friend of the show,
Speaker 2: actually one of our more talented friends named Luke.
Speaker 3: Okay, all right.
Speaker 1: It sounds like it was a pretty memorable night with Luke.
Speaker 5: Right, Well, what did he tell you about the date?
Speaker 2: It was I mean full of surprises, lots of surprises,
Speaker 2: lots of fun. There was drinks, you went back to
Speaker 2: his place, he had dinner ready for you, and then
Speaker 2: even performed a song live, which we all thought most
Speaker 2: guys would never go through. With all of that for
Speaker 2: just a first date, we were pretty impressed.
Speaker 7: We're wondering he didn't tell you anything else.
Speaker 4: I mean, well, it felt like a lot.
Speaker 1: He did tell us that, like going back to his
Speaker 1: place was a surprise, and I don't know how that
Speaker 1: felt to you.
Speaker 6: Yeah, normally, normally I was not right, right, But you
Speaker 6: did go back with him and got in his car,
Speaker 6: because I think you probably got the same vibe that
Speaker 6: we got speaking to him that he's a good dude,
Speaker 6: and he sounds like he went through a lot of
Speaker 6: trouble to make this date really fun and different.
Speaker 7: Well, truth be told, I was very hungry.
Speaker 1: Oh you're hungry. Well, you know, I get it. Sometimes
Speaker 1: I make core decisions.
Speaker 4: Like a safety But well, he had food ready for you.
Speaker 4: That must be nice.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Was it a good dinner that he made?
Speaker 7: His parents were there?
Speaker 4: Oh, now, well at his place. That's why dinner was ready.
Speaker 5: He didn't.
Speaker 1: I guess it's not his place, Jeff. Oh well, okay, wait,
Speaker 1: he took you back to his parents' house. Is that
Speaker 1: what you're saying.
Speaker 7: I'm guessing that was his parents house. Here's the thing
Speaker 7: I was eating. His parents were not eating.
Speaker 1: Weird, you're sitting at the table with all of them.
Speaker 7: No, it was set up like a kid had set
Speaker 7: it up to perform in front of his parents, like
Speaker 7: a living room.
Speaker 1: To say, what I was imagining, but it was how
Speaker 1: did you know?
Speaker 3: Wow?
Speaker 1: He left that detail out. We did not get any
Speaker 1: information about his mom and dad.
Speaker 7: Yeah, big big important, very important.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, personally I would have felt more safe having
Speaker 2: his parents there. They're like the chaperones of your day
Speaker 2: to make sure everything goes well. The way, if he
Speaker 2: wants a drink too, yeah, someone's gotta.
Speaker 4: Drive you back.
Speaker 1: That's a good point.
Speaker 7: I did not feel that way. I felt like it
Speaker 7: was super weird.
Speaker 4: Well, I get it.
Speaker 2: For some people, I under stand parents on a date
Speaker 2: that's a red flag.
Speaker 4: For others, it's not. Well some for you, it's not
Speaker 4: a big deal.
Speaker 2: And that that might be where Luke stands, and we
Speaker 2: should probably ask him about it, because he is on
Speaker 2: the other line right now waiting to talk to you, Lisa.
Speaker 1: She says, shocking, right, Luky.
Speaker 3: There, Yeah, Lia, Hi, what a record. It is my place.
Speaker 3: It's just that, because we were already out, I asked
Speaker 3: my parents to make dinner and have it ready. How
Speaker 3: else was I going to make sure that everything was
Speaker 3: ready for you?
Speaker 1: Okay, if you live with your parents, that's okay. You
Speaker 1: don't have to lie.
Speaker 3: I didn't lie. They have a key to my place
Speaker 3: and they come over and meet dinner all the time.
Speaker 5: Oh that's nice.
Speaker 1: And they sat and hung out.
Speaker 4: Yeah, why didn't you kick come out. This isn't a
Speaker 4: bad thing, Lisa.
Speaker 2: This is a guy who has a very good relationship
Speaker 2: with his mom and dad. No, well, I'm sorry it
Speaker 2: did Okay tell me this. Did you or did you
Speaker 2: not clap? After his performance?
Speaker 7: His parents clapped louder his parents?
Speaker 1: Well, okay, tell us all of this part.
Speaker 4: It would have helped us if we had known. Your
Speaker 4: parents were there.
Speaker 3: Yes, well I kind of hold it up like a
Speaker 3: performance restaurant kind of thing. They were just there to help.
Speaker 1: Okay, you're at your home with your parents. Played restaurant.
Speaker 6: Yeah, at least he didn't play doctors.
Speaker 4: Yeah. He's got a fun, youthful spirit to him and
Speaker 4: that can't be broken.
Speaker 1: I think the thing is you are a really nice guy.
Speaker 1: I think maybe you just need to be more upfront
Speaker 1: with people.
Speaker 3: Okay, Lisa, did you not like Maclamore? Ah?
Speaker 7: Macimore is not the issue. The whole date was the
Speaker 7: issue that was weird. I think anybody would would think
Speaker 7: that that whole situation was weird.
Speaker 3: When I was singing that I have the music a
Speaker 3: little bit too loud, you know, because I wanted, like,
Speaker 3: you know, really high for for energy.
Speaker 7: Good question, you're not listening to at all.
Speaker 1: It wasn't.
Speaker 7: It wasn't that.
Speaker 4: It might need to be more specific.
Speaker 3: So my parents dinner was pretty bad. My mom makes.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, maybe it's just an off night for the cooking.
Speaker 1: Didn't hit like it was.
Speaker 3: We can.
Speaker 7: I think that you need to learn what self awareness
Speaker 7: is a good thing.
Speaker 4: I don't know that mac onemore songs, so maybe he
Speaker 4: should look it up.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna pop some time.
Speaker 1: So disgusted?
Speaker 4: Okay that part?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Yeah, bottom line, Lisa, we all agree. Luke's a good guy.
Speaker 2: His tactics are a little unconventional, but that's just what
Speaker 2: makes him so unique and special. And clearly his parents
Speaker 2: would approve of going out with you again.
Speaker 4: We all approve of it. It's just up to you.
Speaker 4: We would pay for another date if you say yes.
Speaker 7: Listen, you're gonna be a nice guy and still be
Speaker 7: a weirdo and enough so that no, I do not
Speaker 7: want to go out again.
Speaker 4: That was a little too harsh.
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, what if I play a different Maclamore song.
Speaker 2: I'm sure that there's another lady who appreciates macklamore and
Speaker 2: your musical talents, and you'll meet her soon.
Speaker 1: Okay to fill up brother, Yeah, yeah, already.
Speaker 4: There's so many.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it keeps.
Speaker 5: Refreshing looking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Oh, I really feel like that lady doesn't deserve him.
Speaker 1: Really, No, he was.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: Luke was a good guy who puts effort into his dates.
Speaker 2: Wants ladies to get to know the real him, jeff
Speaker 2: he doesn't like.
Speaker 1: All he wants ladies to know is that he was
Speaker 1: used to be in a band. Like he wasn't honest
Speaker 1: about anything about his life.
Speaker 4: That's who he is. I don't hate on him for
Speaker 4: his truth so much. I don't care how long I
Speaker 4: have to.
Speaker 2: Wait by the text board for a woman to text
Speaker 2: him that actually is willing to appreciate him. But how
Speaker 2: hard can this be? He checks all of the boxes,
Speaker 2: He's close with his parents, he does napkin art, he
Speaker 2: used to be in a band.
Speaker 1: Nobody has those boxes.
Speaker 4: He likes rap music by white guys. Yeah, somebody out there, hass.
Speaker 1: We call you that rap music?
Speaker 2: Something rap adjacent, don't you speak of? Come on, ladies,
Speaker 2: go out with Luke. Give him a chance to show
Speaker 2: him the real you.
Speaker 4: Or the real him.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll show you something anyway.
Speaker 5: We do want to help.
Speaker 4: If you have somebody who's not calling you back, email
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