WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Pop Some Tags

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning and you

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<v Speaker 1>found the Second Day Update podcast. I'm just gonna say,

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<v Speaker 1>after the Second Date I will never hear one specific

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<v Speaker 1>Maclamore song the same.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I've tried to avoid listening it, but now

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna try extra hard to avoid.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>You were ready for a treat and hopefully a big

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<v Speaker 1>laugh right now. But first we've got to read some

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<v Speaker 1>comments from our lovely podcast. I love just K. That's

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<v Speaker 1>all they wrote is their name Kate met someone from

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<v Speaker 1>the UK who was listening to this show. That's how

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<v Speaker 1>they found us. It's not my third week binging.

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<v Speaker 4>In and it's hilarious.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey was that my ex boyfriend? Just K?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Is he so like you enough to do that? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>But he never listens, so wait it does say it's

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<v Speaker 1>his new girlfriend. Oh yeah, there we go. Let's get

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<v Speaker 1>the second date started right now.

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<v Speaker 5>The Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel good that we're like an adoptive home for

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<v Speaker 2>lonely single men and women until they eventually find their

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<v Speaker 2>permanent homes and leave the nest. Yeah, and the loveless

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<v Speaker 2>stray that we're bringing in today. His name is Luke

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<v Speaker 2>again for a second time, because Luke has actually been

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<v Speaker 2>on the show before.

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<v Speaker 1>We've had a lot of return people lately.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's what I'm saying. That's why we're the safe

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<v Speaker 2>place come back and.

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<v Speaker 4>A pigeon, you just keep coming around.

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<v Speaker 2>Last time Luke was on, he was irritating a young

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<v Speaker 2>woman by posting a photo of them together onto his Instagram,

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<v Speaker 2>but didn't ask her permission to post it first.

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<v Speaker 1>Why it is what? She didn't like her look because

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't use a filter exact right.

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<v Speaker 2>So, like I said, lessons have been learned, Luke, do

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<v Speaker 2>you know better now? Pictures are in no no, only

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<v Speaker 2>post videos of them without all of It's.

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<v Speaker 1>Fine if you use the right filter. Don't you remember

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<v Speaker 1>that whole segment. He's not with her now, so he's

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<v Speaker 1>got to delete the photo.

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<v Speaker 4>It up to make look you're in a better place though, now,

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah I am.

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<v Speaker 3>I am better now. I didn't think it was gonna

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<v Speaker 3>think of a deal, but I am not going to

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<v Speaker 3>make that.

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<v Speaker 6>Mistikeam okay, get in trouble.

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<v Speaker 1>I love when you say you're better but you're back

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<v Speaker 1>with us.

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<v Speaker 2>Well it's good because apparently there's a new woman, a

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<v Speaker 2>better woman that we're trying to track down for you

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<v Speaker 2>tell us about her.

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<v Speaker 3>So her name is Lisa, and that are on tender

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<v Speaker 3>and lately I've been trying a new strategy. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 3>try and let the person know who I am. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>because if they know who I am, then it'll be

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<v Speaker 3>a lot harder to ghost me, at least I would

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<v Speaker 3>think be.

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<v Speaker 1>Harder to ghost you.

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<v Speaker 4>Hold on, what do you mean who I am?

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<v Speaker 1>What it just means as a person?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's also a good point.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, because you know how like first dates are.

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<v Speaker 3>They want to know, like, what's your job? What do

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<v Speaker 3>you do for a living?

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<v Speaker 2>You're trying to not keep it so surface, You're diving

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit deeper early on into the day.

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<v Speaker 1>That's good essence of who you are as a person.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So how did you accomplish that with Lisa?

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<v Speaker 3>Well? One of the things that I like anybody that

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<v Speaker 3>I'm dating to know is that, I mean that used

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<v Speaker 3>to be in a band?

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<v Speaker 4>Cool?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean I try and do like a funny

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<v Speaker 3>lead up into the date and give them hints about

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<v Speaker 3>my musical talents.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't just tell them straight out that I was

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<v Speaker 4>in a band.

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<v Speaker 5>How did we get a know?

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<v Speaker 3>For breand.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow? You're so skilled. Were you in a band?

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<v Speaker 1>Why would you just not tell her?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean that's not really fun. I mean there's there's

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<v Speaker 3>no mystery behind it.

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<v Speaker 5>It's dropping hints for you obviously.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know how how do you drop a hint?

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<v Speaker 4>What's your tactic?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So what I did at dinner when I was

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<v Speaker 3>with her was that I drew a picture of a

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<v Speaker 3>microphone on a napkin.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, you were like, wow, you know she's talking to you.

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<v Speaker 3>It wasn't like I was completely ignoring her. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>you know I can walk and choose them at the

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<v Speaker 3>same time.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she know it was a microphone? Did she pick

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<v Speaker 1>up on your hint?

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<v Speaker 3>She didn't really say anything. She just kind of gave

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<v Speaker 3>me a look.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, the shape of that is not just yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a shape that can be mistakes.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I tried to put like dots on the top of

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<v Speaker 3>it to show it was a microphone.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, she's not getting you never clarified.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I didn't want to blow the surprise.

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly, I guess this is a night long game of charades.

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<v Speaker 1>She doesn't know she's playing dictionary drafty right.

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<v Speaker 3>So then later on I did. I played something for

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<v Speaker 3>her on the jukebox, A little Maclamore, I'm gonna pop

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<v Speaker 3>some tags.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to hear.

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<v Speaker 1>How is that a hint that you're in a band?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I thought it would be, but I just kept

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<v Speaker 3>telling her, you you like this? Do you like that?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe she thinks you're just kind of random because your

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<v Speaker 2>attempts at giving your hands were bad.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not even currently in the band right.

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<v Speaker 4>Well that this is an old story, but it's the

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<v Speaker 4>who he is from his youth. Don't listen to them, Luke.

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<v Speaker 4>What happened next?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay? Well, we finished our drinks and I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>I have to take you somewhere for dinner. Do you

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<v Speaker 3>trust me?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh? God?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, how did that dry?

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<v Speaker 4>What did she say?

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<v Speaker 3>She said no, Yeah, she got in my car anyways.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, someone needs to teach her that's it does sound

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<v Speaker 1>like an Alexis move where you just want to know?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, where'd you go for dinner?

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<v Speaker 3>I drove it to my place and you know, I

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<v Speaker 3>had dinner there waiting. I also had my karaoke setup and.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, this is where she's gonna find.

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<v Speaker 1>This is another hint you're gonna karaoke, just the two

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<v Speaker 1>of you and your own That sounds fun.

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<v Speaker 5>Broke them alone.

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<v Speaker 3>So I wound up seeing the Maclamore song to her

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<v Speaker 3>while she ate the visual.

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<v Speaker 5>Why are you.

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<v Speaker 1>Even calling her? Oh buddy, Okay, maybe she liked it. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're teasing you a lot, but maybe she liked it.

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<v Speaker 3>She did clap after the song.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that like it? She find out you're in a

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<v Speaker 1>band maclamoreus.

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<v Speaker 4>Does that come up?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah no. When I was driving her home, I did

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<v Speaker 3>try one more hint, and so I did try and

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<v Speaker 3>play another surprise song, which was Maclamore again.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it thrift Shop again or a different song?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I really like drift Shops.

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<v Speaker 4>It was.

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<v Speaker 1>If this works out, that's your song. Is a couple,

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<v Speaker 1>that's everything?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay? Did you end with the hug? A kiss? Anything

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<v Speaker 4>like that?

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<v Speaker 3>Hug?

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<v Speaker 1>Did she mention anything about seeing you again or not?

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<v Speaker 3>Curious?

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<v Speaker 1>You're curious?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay? Have you hit her?

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<v Speaker 2>I think we all are. So yeah, you've been on

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<v Speaker 2>with us before. You know how this works. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>call her and ask why she doesn't appreciate a brave,

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<v Speaker 2>courageous man who's willing to just be himself and give

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<v Speaker 2>her a live musical performance during dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we could talk to her, or we could

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<v Speaker 1>just play Maclamore for.

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<v Speaker 4>I do have a thought about what music to bump

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<v Speaker 4>in come back. I don't want toil which one it's

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<v Speaker 4>gonna be, though, I mean, nobody guess. I'm not guessing.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we're gonna come back and do it with your

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<v Speaker 2>second date update right after we pop.

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<v Speaker 1>Some tags.

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<v Speaker 5>Second date Update.

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<v Speaker 2>I pulled thrift Shop, the knockoff karaoke version off the

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<v Speaker 2>internet for this because I picture this. This is what

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<v Speaker 2>Luke saying to his date Lisa while she ate dinner

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<v Speaker 2>at his place.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe we haven't asked for a sample from Luke.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, skill, well, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Think that's that's reserved for his romantic serenades.

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<v Speaker 6>Got it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to confuse that that all really happened.

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<v Speaker 2>But Luke, we never asked you. Did you dance for

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<v Speaker 2>her while you sang?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure Luke has choreography, don't you, Luke?

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<v Speaker 3>I like from left to right side side?

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<v Speaker 1>I got it?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Now that the whole point of doing all of this,

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<v Speaker 2>this fun mystery, creative date that you set up was

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<v Speaker 2>to let Lisa know that you used to be in

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<v Speaker 2>a band so that she could get to know the

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<v Speaker 2>real you. You forgot to actually tell her that, so Mike.

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<v Speaker 1>Forget and never came up.

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<v Speaker 2>So that my question now is, if we do get

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<v Speaker 2>Lisa on the line, do you want us to tell

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<v Speaker 2>her that information or should we save it for you?

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<v Speaker 7>No?

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<v Speaker 3>I think I still want to tell her. I think

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<v Speaker 3>that was the whole point. I thought we should just

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<v Speaker 3>follow through.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm still confused how the knowledge of you previously

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<v Speaker 1>being in a band really opens up who you are.

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<v Speaker 1>It just sounds like maybe you think that that's what

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<v Speaker 1>Chick's like.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, it is true.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, alexis a guy who's formerly in a band.

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<v Speaker 5>Come on, returning performing in his garage for his mom.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow off.

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<v Speaker 5>Somewhere right, all right?

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<v Speaker 1>Ends because he's again Okay, well, if.

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<v Speaker 2>Lisa says no, then Alexis is on deck. But let's

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<v Speaker 2>call it Lisa first. Here we go, he will Hey

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<v Speaker 2>is this Lisa? Yeah, Hey, Lisa, we're a radio show.

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<v Speaker 4>We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Sorry to

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<v Speaker 4>interrupt your day.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, Uh, what's this about?

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<v Speaker 1>Great question?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we uh, it's about a thing that we do

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<v Speaker 2>call the second date update.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh huh.

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<v Speaker 4>And we also play.

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<v Speaker 1>Music, no big lovers and music.

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<v Speaker 2>We take requests if you have any let's do a

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<v Speaker 2>shout out on the radio right now?

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<v Speaker 6>Ah no, no, oh, okay, we call you for shout out.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's fine.

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<v Speaker 4>But back to the second date update thing that we do.

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<v Speaker 2>Not sure if you're familiar, but you went out with

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<v Speaker 2>one of our listeners recently, a friend of the show,

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<v Speaker 2>actually one of our more talented friends named Luke.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like it was a pretty memorable night with Luke.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, Well, what did he tell you about the date?

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<v Speaker 2>It was I mean full of surprises, lots of surprises,

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<v Speaker 2>lots of fun. There was drinks, you went back to

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<v Speaker 2>his place, he had dinner ready for you, and then

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<v Speaker 2>even performed a song live, which we all thought most

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<v Speaker 2>guys would never go through. With all of that for

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<v Speaker 2>just a first date, we were pretty impressed.

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<v Speaker 7>We're wondering he didn't tell you anything else.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, well, it felt like a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>He did tell us that, like going back to his

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<v Speaker 1>place was a surprise, and I don't know how that

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<v Speaker 1>felt to you.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, normally, normally I was not right, right, But you

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<v Speaker 6>did go back with him and got in his car,

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<v Speaker 6>because I think you probably got the same vibe that

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<v Speaker 6>we got speaking to him that he's a good dude,

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<v Speaker 6>and he sounds like he went through a lot of

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<v Speaker 6>trouble to make this date really fun and different.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, truth be told, I was very hungry.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you're hungry. Well, you know, I get it. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>I make core decisions.

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<v Speaker 4>Like a safety But well, he had food ready for you.

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<v Speaker 4>That must be nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Was it a good dinner that he made?

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<v Speaker 7>His parents were there?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, now, well at his place. That's why dinner was ready.

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<v Speaker 5>He didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it's not his place, Jeff. Oh well, okay, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>he took you back to his parents' house. Is that

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<v Speaker 1>what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm guessing that was his parents house. Here's the thing

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<v Speaker 7>I was eating. His parents were not eating.

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<v Speaker 1>Weird, you're sitting at the table with all of them.

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<v Speaker 7>No, it was set up like a kid had set

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<v Speaker 7>it up to perform in front of his parents, like

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<v Speaker 7>a living room.

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<v Speaker 1>To say, what I was imagining, but it was how

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<v Speaker 1>did you know?

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<v Speaker 3>Wow?

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<v Speaker 1>He left that detail out. We did not get any

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<v Speaker 1>information about his mom and dad.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, big big important, very important.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, personally I would have felt more safe having

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<v Speaker 2>his parents there. They're like the chaperones of your day

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<v Speaker 2>to make sure everything goes well. The way, if he

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<v Speaker 2>wants a drink too, yeah, someone's gotta.

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<v Speaker 4>Drive you back.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good point.

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<v Speaker 7>I did not feel that way. I felt like it

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<v Speaker 7>was super weird.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I get it.

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<v Speaker 2>For some people, I under stand parents on a date

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<v Speaker 2>that's a red flag.

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<v Speaker 4>For others, it's not. Well some for you, it's not

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<v Speaker 4>a big deal.

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<v Speaker 2>And that that might be where Luke stands, and we

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<v Speaker 2>should probably ask him about it, because he is on

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<v Speaker 2>the other line right now waiting to talk to you, Lisa.

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<v Speaker 1>She says, shocking, right, Luky.

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<v Speaker 3>There, Yeah, Lia, Hi, what a record. It is my place.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just that, because we were already out, I asked

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<v Speaker 3>my parents to make dinner and have it ready. How

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<v Speaker 3>else was I going to make sure that everything was

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<v Speaker 3>ready for you?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, if you live with your parents, that's okay. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to lie.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't lie. They have a key to my place

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<v Speaker 3>and they come over and meet dinner all the time.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh that's nice.

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<v Speaker 1>And they sat and hung out.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, why didn't you kick come out. This isn't a

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<v Speaker 4>bad thing, Lisa.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a guy who has a very good relationship

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<v Speaker 2>with his mom and dad. No, well, I'm sorry it

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<v Speaker 2>did Okay tell me this. Did you or did you

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<v Speaker 2>not clap? After his performance?

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<v Speaker 7>His parents clapped louder his parents?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, okay, tell us all of this part.

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<v Speaker 4>It would have helped us if we had known. Your

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<v Speaker 4>parents were there.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, well I kind of hold it up like a

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<v Speaker 3>performance restaurant kind of thing. They were just there to help.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you're at your home with your parents. Played restaurant.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, at least he didn't play doctors.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. He's got a fun, youthful spirit to him and

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<v Speaker 4>that can't be broken.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the thing is you are a really nice guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I think maybe you just need to be more upfront

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<v Speaker 1>with people.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Lisa, did you not like Maclamore? Ah?

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<v Speaker 7>Macimore is not the issue. The whole date was the

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<v Speaker 7>issue that was weird. I think anybody would would think

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<v Speaker 7>that that whole situation was weird.

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<v Speaker 3>When I was singing that I have the music a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit too loud, you know, because I wanted, like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, really high for for energy.

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<v Speaker 7>Good question, you're not listening to at all.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't.

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<v Speaker 7>It wasn't that.

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<v Speaker 4>It might need to be more specific.

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<v Speaker 3>So my parents dinner was pretty bad. My mom makes.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, maybe it's just an off night for the cooking.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't hit like it was.

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<v Speaker 3>We can.

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<v Speaker 7>I think that you need to learn what self awareness

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<v Speaker 7>is a good thing.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know that mac onemore songs, so maybe he

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<v Speaker 4>should look it up.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna pop some time.

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<v Speaker 1>So disgusted?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay that part?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, bottom line, Lisa, we all agree. Luke's a good guy.

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<v Speaker 2>His tactics are a little unconventional, but that's just what

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<v Speaker 2>makes him so unique and special. And clearly his parents

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<v Speaker 2>would approve of going out with you again.

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<v Speaker 4>We all approve of it. It's just up to you.

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<v Speaker 4>We would pay for another date if you say yes.

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<v Speaker 7>Listen, you're gonna be a nice guy and still be

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<v Speaker 7>a weirdo and enough so that no, I do not

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<v Speaker 7>want to go out again.

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<v Speaker 4>That was a little too harsh.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yeah, what if I play a different Maclamore song.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure that there's another lady who appreciates macklamore and

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<v Speaker 2>your musical talents, and you'll meet her soon.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay to fill up brother, Yeah, yeah, already.

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<v Speaker 4>There's so many.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it keeps.

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<v Speaker 5>Refreshing looking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I really feel like that lady doesn't deserve him.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, No, he was.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>Luke was a good guy who puts effort into his dates.

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<v Speaker 2>Wants ladies to get to know the real him, jeff

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<v Speaker 2>he doesn't like.

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<v Speaker 1>All he wants ladies to know is that he was

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<v Speaker 1>used to be in a band. Like he wasn't honest

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<v Speaker 1>about anything about his life.

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<v Speaker 4>That's who he is. I don't hate on him for

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<v Speaker 4>his truth so much. I don't care how long I

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<v Speaker 4>have to.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait by the text board for a woman to text

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<v Speaker 2>him that actually is willing to appreciate him. But how

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<v Speaker 2>hard can this be? He checks all of the boxes,

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<v Speaker 2>He's close with his parents, he does napkin art, he

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<v Speaker 2>used to be in a band.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody has those boxes.

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<v Speaker 4>He likes rap music by white guys. Yeah, somebody out there, hass.

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<v Speaker 1>We call you that rap music?

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<v Speaker 2>Something rap adjacent, don't you speak of? Come on, ladies,

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<v Speaker 2>go out with Luke. Give him a chance to show

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<v Speaker 2>him the real you.

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<v Speaker 4>Or the real him.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'll show you something anyway.

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<v Speaker 5>We do want to help.

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<v Speaker 4>If you have somebody who's not calling you back, email

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<v Speaker 4>the show. We can call them for you and get

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<v Speaker 4>you a second date. Update.

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