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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning and you

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Speaker 1: found the Second Day Update podcast. I'm just gonna say,

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Speaker 1: after the Second Date I will never hear one specific

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Speaker 1: Maclamore song the same.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I've tried to avoid listening it, but now

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna try extra hard to avoid.

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Speaker 3: Oh.

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Speaker 1: You were ready for a treat and hopefully a big

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Speaker 1: laugh right now. But first we've got to read some

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Speaker 1: comments from our lovely podcast. I love just K. That's

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Speaker 1: all they wrote is their name Kate met someone from

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Speaker 1: the UK who was listening to this show. That's how

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Speaker 1: they found us. It's not my third week binging.

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Speaker 4: In and it's hilarious.

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Speaker 1: Hey was that my ex boyfriend? Just K?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Is he so like you enough to do that? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: But he never listens, so wait it does say it's

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Speaker 1: his new girlfriend. Oh yeah, there we go. Let's get

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Speaker 1: the second date started right now.

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Speaker 5: The Second Date Update.

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Speaker 2: I feel good that we're like an adoptive home for

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Speaker 2: lonely single men and women until they eventually find their

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Speaker 2: permanent homes and leave the nest. Yeah, and the loveless

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Speaker 2: stray that we're bringing in today. His name is Luke

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Speaker 2: again for a second time, because Luke has actually been

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Speaker 2: on the show before.

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Speaker 1: We've had a lot of return people lately.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. That's why we're the safe

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Speaker 2: place come back and.

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Speaker 4: A pigeon, you just keep coming around.

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Speaker 2: Last time Luke was on, he was irritating a young

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Speaker 2: woman by posting a photo of them together onto his Instagram,

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Speaker 2: but didn't ask her permission to post it first.

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Speaker 1: Why it is what? She didn't like her look because

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Speaker 1: he didn't use a filter exact right.

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Speaker 2: So, like I said, lessons have been learned, Luke, do

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Speaker 2: you know better now? Pictures are in no no, only

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Speaker 2: post videos of them without all of It's.

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Speaker 1: Fine if you use the right filter. Don't you remember

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Speaker 1: that whole segment. He's not with her now, so he's

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Speaker 4: It up to make look you're in a better place though, now,

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Speaker 4: Yeah I am.

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Speaker 3: I am better now. I didn't think it was gonna

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Speaker 6: Mistikeam okay, get in trouble.

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Speaker 1: I love when you say you're better but you're back

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Speaker 1: with us.

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Speaker 2: Well it's good because apparently there's a new woman, a

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Speaker 2: better woman that we're trying to track down for you

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Speaker 2: tell us about her.

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Speaker 3: So her name is Lisa, and that are on tender

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Speaker 3: and lately I've been trying a new strategy. Okay, I

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Speaker 3: try and let the person know who I am. I mean,

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Speaker 3: because if they know who I am, then it'll be

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Speaker 3: a lot harder to ghost me, at least I would

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Speaker 1: Harder to ghost you.

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Speaker 4: Hold on, what do you mean who I am?

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Speaker 1: What it just means as a person?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's also a good point.

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Speaker 3: I mean, because you know how like first dates are.

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Speaker 3: They want to know, like, what's your job? What do

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Speaker 2: You're trying to not keep it so surface, You're diving

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Speaker 1: That's good essence of who you are as a person.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So how did you accomplish that with Lisa?

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Speaker 3: Well? One of the things that I like anybody that

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Speaker 3: I'm dating to know is that, I mean that used

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Speaker 3: to be in a band?

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Speaker 4: Cool?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I try and do like a funny

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Speaker 4: You don't just tell them straight out that I was

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Speaker 5: How did we get a know?

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Speaker 3: For breand.

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Speaker 4: Wow? You're so skilled. Were you in a band?

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Speaker 1: Why would you just not tell her?

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Speaker 3: I mean that's not really fun. I mean there's there's

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Speaker 5: It's dropping hints for you obviously.

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Speaker 4: I don't know how how do you drop a hint?

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Speaker 4: What's your tactic?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So what I did at dinner when I was

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Speaker 4: Okay, you were like, wow, you know she's talking to you.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't like I was completely ignoring her. I mean,

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Speaker 1: Did she know it was a microphone? Did she pick

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Speaker 3: She didn't really say anything. She just kind of gave

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Speaker 1: I mean, the shape of that is not just yeah,

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Okay, she's not getting you never clarified.

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Speaker 3: No, I didn't want to blow the surprise.

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Speaker 4: Honestly, I guess this is a night long game of charades.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't know she's playing dictionary drafty right.

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Speaker 3: So then later on I did. I played something for

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Speaker 3: her on the jukebox, A little Maclamore, I'm gonna pop

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Speaker 4: I don't want to hear.

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Speaker 1: How is that a hint that you're in a band?

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Speaker 3: Well, I thought it would be, but I just kept

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Speaker 3: telling her, you you like this? Do you like that?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Maybe she thinks you're just kind of random because your

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Speaker 2: attempts at giving your hands were bad.

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Speaker 1: You're not even currently in the band right.

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Speaker 4: Well that this is an old story, but it's the

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Speaker 4: who he is from his youth. Don't listen to them, Luke.

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Speaker 4: What happened next?

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Speaker 3: Okay? Well, we finished our drinks and I was like,

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Speaker 3: I have to take you somewhere for dinner. Do you

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Speaker 1: Oh? God?

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Speaker 5: Okay, how did that dry?

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Speaker 4: What did she say?

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Speaker 3: She said no, Yeah, she got in my car anyways.

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Speaker 1: Okay, someone needs to teach her that's it does sound

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Speaker 1: like an Alexis move where you just want to know?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, where'd you go for dinner?

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Speaker 3: I drove it to my place and you know, I

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Speaker 3: had dinner there waiting. I also had my karaoke setup and.

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Speaker 4: Oh, this is where she's gonna find.

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Speaker 1: This is another hint you're gonna karaoke, just the two

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Speaker 5: Broke them alone.

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Speaker 3: So I wound up seeing the Maclamore song to her

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Speaker 5: Why are you.

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Speaker 1: Even calling her? Oh buddy, Okay, maybe she liked it. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: we're teasing you a lot, but maybe she liked it.

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Speaker 3: She did clap after the song.

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Speaker 1: Oh that like it? She find out you're in a

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Speaker 1: band maclamoreus.

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Speaker 4: Does that come up?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah no. When I was driving her home, I did

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Speaker 3: try one more hint, and so I did try and

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Speaker 3: play another surprise song, which was Maclamore again.

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Speaker 1: Was it thrift Shop again or a different song?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I really like drift Shops.

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Speaker 4: It was.

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Speaker 1: If this works out, that's your song. Is a couple,

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Speaker 4: Okay? Did you end with the hug? A kiss? Anything

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Speaker 3: Hug?

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Speaker 1: Did she mention anything about seeing you again or not?

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Speaker 3: Curious?

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Speaker 1: You're curious?

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Speaker 4: Okay? Have you hit her?

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Speaker 2: I think we all are. So yeah, you've been on

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Speaker 2: with us before. You know how this works. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: I mean, we could talk to her, or we could

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Speaker 1: just play Maclamore for.

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Speaker 4: I do have a thought about what music to bump

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Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna come back and do it with your

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Speaker 2: second date update right after we pop.

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Speaker 1: Some tags.

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Speaker 5: Second date Update.

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Speaker 2: I pulled thrift Shop, the knockoff karaoke version off the

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Speaker 2: internet for this because I picture this. This is what

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Speaker 1: I can't believe we haven't asked for a sample from Luke.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, skill, well, I.

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Speaker 2: Think that's that's reserved for his romantic serenades.

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Speaker 6: Got it.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to confuse that that all really happened.

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Speaker 2: But Luke, we never asked you. Did you dance for

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Speaker 2: her while you sang?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I'm sure Luke has choreography, don't you, Luke?

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Speaker 3: I like from left to right side side?

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Speaker 1: I got it?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Now that the whole point of doing all of this,

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Speaker 2: this fun mystery, creative date that you set up was

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Speaker 2: to let Lisa know that you used to be in

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Speaker 2: a band so that she could get to know the

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Speaker 2: real you. You forgot to actually tell her that, so Mike.

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Speaker 1: Forget and never came up.

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Speaker 2: So that my question now is, if we do get

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Speaker 2: Lisa on the line, do you want us to tell

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 3: I think I still want to tell her. I think

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Speaker 3: that was the whole point. I thought we should just

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm still confused how the knowledge of you previously

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Speaker 1: being in a band really opens up who you are.

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Speaker 1: It just sounds like maybe you think that that's what

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Speaker 1: Chick's like.

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Speaker 5: Well, it is true.

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Speaker 4: I mean, alexis a guy who's formerly in a band.

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Speaker 5: Come on, returning performing in his garage for his mom.

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Speaker 3: Wow off.

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Speaker 5: Somewhere right, all right?

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Speaker 1: Ends because he's again Okay, well, if.

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Speaker 2: Lisa says no, then Alexis is on deck. But let's

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Speaker 2: call it Lisa first. Here we go, he will Hey

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Speaker 2: is this Lisa? Yeah, Hey, Lisa, we're a radio show.

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Speaker 4: We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Sorry to

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Speaker 7: Okay, Uh, what's this about?

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Speaker 1: Great question?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we uh, it's about a thing that we do

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Speaker 2: call the second date update.

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Speaker 3: Uh huh.

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Speaker 4: And we also play.

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Speaker 1: Music, no big lovers and music.

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Speaker 6: Ah no, no, oh, okay, we call you for shout out.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's fine.

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Speaker 4: But back to the second date update thing that we do.

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Speaker 2: Not sure if you're familiar, but you went out with

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Speaker 2: one of our listeners recently, a friend of the show,

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Speaker 2: actually one of our more talented friends named Luke.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like it was a pretty memorable night with Luke.

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Speaker 5: Right, Well, what did he tell you about the date?

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Speaker 2: It was I mean full of surprises, lots of surprises,

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Speaker 2: lots of fun. There was drinks, you went back to

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Speaker 2: his place, he had dinner ready for you, and then

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Speaker 2: guys would never go through. With all of that for

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Speaker 7: We're wondering he didn't tell you anything else.

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Speaker 4: I mean, well, it felt like a lot.

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Speaker 1: He did tell us that, like going back to his

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Speaker 1: place was a surprise, and I don't know how that

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Speaker 6: Yeah, normally, normally I was not right, right, But you

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Speaker 6: because I think you probably got the same vibe that

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Speaker 6: we got speaking to him that he's a good dude,

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Speaker 6: and he sounds like he went through a lot of

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Speaker 7: Well, truth be told, I was very hungry.

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Speaker 1: Oh you're hungry. Well, you know, I get it. Sometimes

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Speaker 1: I make core decisions.

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Speaker 4: Like a safety But well, he had food ready for you.

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Speaker 4: That must be nice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Was it a good dinner that he made?

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Speaker 7: His parents were there?

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Speaker 4: Oh, now, well at his place. That's why dinner was ready.

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Speaker 5: He didn't.

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Speaker 1: I guess it's not his place, Jeff. Oh well, okay, wait,

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Speaker 1: he took you back to his parents' house. Is that

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Speaker 7: I'm guessing that was his parents house. Here's the thing

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Speaker 7: I was eating. His parents were not eating.

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Speaker 1: Weird, you're sitting at the table with all of them.

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Speaker 7: No, it was set up like a kid had set

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Speaker 7: it up to perform in front of his parents, like

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Speaker 1: To say, what I was imagining, but it was how

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Speaker 3: Wow?

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Speaker 1: He left that detail out. We did not get any

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Speaker 7: Yeah, big big important, very important.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, personally I would have felt more safe having

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Speaker 2: to make sure everything goes well. The way, if he

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Speaker 4: Drive you back.

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Speaker 1: That's a good point.

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Speaker 7: I did not feel that way. I felt like it

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Speaker 4: Well, I get it.

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Speaker 2: For some people, I under stand parents on a date

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Speaker 2: that's a red flag.

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Speaker 4: For others, it's not. Well some for you, it's not

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Speaker 2: And that that might be where Luke stands, and we

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Speaker 2: the other line right now waiting to talk to you, Lisa.

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Speaker 1: She says, shocking, right, Luky.

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Speaker 3: There, Yeah, Lia, Hi, what a record. It is my place.

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Speaker 3: It's just that, because we were already out, I asked

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Speaker 1: Okay, if you live with your parents, that's okay. You

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Speaker 1: don't have to lie.

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Speaker 3: I didn't lie. They have a key to my place

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Speaker 3: and they come over and meet dinner all the time.

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Speaker 5: Oh that's nice.

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Speaker 1: And they sat and hung out.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, why didn't you kick come out. This isn't a

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Speaker 4: bad thing, Lisa.

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Speaker 2: This is a guy who has a very good relationship

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Speaker 2: did Okay tell me this. Did you or did you

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Speaker 7: His parents clapped louder his parents?

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Speaker 1: Well, okay, tell us all of this part.

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Speaker 4: It would have helped us if we had known. Your

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Speaker 3: Yes, well I kind of hold it up like a

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Speaker 1: Okay, you're at your home with your parents. Played restaurant.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, at least he didn't play doctors.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. He's got a fun, youthful spirit to him and

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Speaker 4: that can't be broken.

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Speaker 1: I think the thing is you are a really nice guy.

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Speaker 1: I think maybe you just need to be more upfront

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Speaker 3: Okay, Lisa, did you not like Maclamore? Ah?

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Speaker 7: Macimore is not the issue. The whole date was the

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Speaker 3: When I was singing that I have the music a

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Speaker 7: Good question, you're not listening to at all.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't.

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Speaker 7: It wasn't that.

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Speaker 4: It might need to be more specific.

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Speaker 3: So my parents dinner was pretty bad. My mom makes.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, maybe it's just an off night for the cooking.

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Speaker 1: Didn't hit like it was.

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Speaker 3: We can.

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Speaker 7: I think that you need to learn what self awareness

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Speaker 4: I don't know that mac onemore songs, so maybe he

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna pop some time.

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Speaker 1: So disgusted?

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Speaker 4: Okay that part?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, bottom line, Lisa, we all agree. Luke's a good guy.

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Speaker 2: His tactics are a little unconventional, but that's just what

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Speaker 4: We all approve of it. It's just up to you.

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Speaker 4: We would pay for another date if you say yes.

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Speaker 7: Listen, you're gonna be a nice guy and still be

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Speaker 7: a weirdo and enough so that no, I do not

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Speaker 4: That was a little too harsh.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, what if I play a different Maclamore song.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure that there's another lady who appreciates macklamore and

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Speaker 1: Okay to fill up brother, Yeah, yeah, already.

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Speaker 4: There's so many.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it keeps.

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Speaker 5: Refreshing looking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I really feel like that lady doesn't deserve him.

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Speaker 1: Really, No, he was.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: Luke was a good guy who puts effort into his dates.

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Speaker 2: Wants ladies to get to know the real him, jeff

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Speaker 2: he doesn't like.

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Speaker 1: All he wants ladies to know is that he was

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Speaker 1: used to be in a band. Like he wasn't honest

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Speaker 4: That's who he is. I don't hate on him for

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Speaker 2: Wait by the text board for a woman to text

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Speaker 2: him that actually is willing to appreciate him. But how

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Speaker 2: hard can this be? He checks all of the boxes,

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Speaker 2: He's close with his parents, he does napkin art, he

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Speaker 2: used to be in a band.

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Speaker 1: Nobody has those boxes.

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Speaker 4: He likes rap music by white guys. Yeah, somebody out there, hass.

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Speaker 1: We call you that rap music?

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Speaker 2: Something rap adjacent, don't you speak of? Come on, ladies,

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Speaker 2: go out with Luke. Give him a chance to show

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Speaker 2: him the real you.

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Speaker 4: Or the real him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll show you something anyway.

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Speaker 5: We do want to help.

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Speaker 4: If you have somebody who's not calling you back, email

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Speaker 4: the show. We can call them for you and get

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Speaker 4: you a second date. Update.

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Speaker 2: Go check out all of ours where we get your

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Speaker 2: podcast at Brooke and Jeffrey

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Speaker 5: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning