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My mother and my ex are besties. 11 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 3: Dear Stephen Shirley. 12 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 1: I've been divorced for almost three years, and I moved 13 00:00:39,479 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 1: away after the divorce to start anew. My husband was 14 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:47,160 Speaker 1: an avid cheater, and my mother finally told me after 15 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:49,520 Speaker 1: he'd been having an affair with a woman for over 16 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 1: six months. My mother is employed by my ex husband 17 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 1: as his accountant. He has two businesses that do very 18 00:00:57,080 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: well in a small town they're in. My mother was 19 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 1: a retired accountant when he and I met, and he 20 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 1: fell in love with her and he hired her. When 21 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 1: I say they fell in love, I mean it. Whenever 22 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 1: he and I would have a disagreement. She'd always tell 23 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:18,320 Speaker 1: me to consider his point of view when he cheated. 24 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 1: I think she knew it all along and only told 25 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 1: me because my ten year old daughter. 26 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:26,280 Speaker 2: Saw him with this woman. Excuse me. 27 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 1: My daughter kept referencing daddy's friend at work, so I 28 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:31,479 Speaker 1: asked my mother and she. 29 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 2: Spilled the teeth. 30 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 1: Our relationship hasn't been the same since then, and she 31 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 1: said it's because I divorced my husband. Her belief is 32 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:44,319 Speaker 1: that I should have kept my family together no matter what. 33 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 1: The things my husband did for his girlfriend were the 34 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 1: same things he did for me, So it wasn't the 35 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: cheating that got to me. It was the time he 36 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 1: spent with her and the trip he took her on. 37 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 1: I asked my mother to reconsider working for him, and 38 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 1: she said whatever we had going on should not affect 39 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 1: her money. Our own daughter doesn't talk to my ex 40 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 1: right now because she figured out who daddy's friend was. 41 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 1: My mother called recently and said she's trying to get 42 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:17,920 Speaker 1: the family together for Thanksgiving and she wants me there. 43 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 2: She said, my ex will be. 44 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:22,920 Speaker 1: There, will be doing the turkey, and she would cook 45 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 1: everything else. How can my own mother be so ignorant 46 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 1: and invite him to dinner. 47 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:30,840 Speaker 2: Should I show up and curse them both out? 48 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 1: Well, you know that sounds good on paper, it really does, 49 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 1: But this is bad. I mean, this situation is bad, 50 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 1: and yes, your mom is really wrong. I don't advise 51 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:44,799 Speaker 1: you to curse your mom out. I mean, after all, 52 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 1: she's all the way wrong. I agree with you one 53 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 1: hundred percent, but she is your mom. She's not acting 54 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:54,360 Speaker 1: much like a mom though. I will say that, because 55 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 1: her loyalty should be to you at all times and 56 00:02:56,800 --> 00:02:57,560 Speaker 1: not your ex. 57 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:02,359 Speaker 2: She he's your ex husband. She knew about it, didn't 58 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:04,959 Speaker 2: tell you. She was keeping these secrets. 59 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 1: All because of money. Is that why she was doing it? 60 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 1: I think this had to hurt you, and this is 61 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 1: some kind of betrayal on your mom's part. The best 62 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:21,639 Speaker 1: thing you could do is decline her crazy, thoughtless, inconsiderate 63 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 1: dinner invitation. 64 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 2: Just don't go. Please make your own plans for. 65 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 1: You and your baby girl, your daughter, maybe some friends 66 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 1: or whatever. But the main thing is to forget what 67 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 1: they have going on at the mom's house and just 68 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: let that go. 69 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 2: Your mother is just anyway. 70 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 1: After the holidays, I say, continue to distance yourself. This 71 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 1: is a toxic situation. Stay away from it and let 72 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: them do their thing. Let them do her if she 73 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 1: wants to stay over there with him. You know the 74 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 1: lines are crossed, the line in the sand. It's divided now. 75 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 1: Don't let her make you feel guilty for divorcing him. 76 00:03:57,680 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 1: That was a while ago, and you should. You definitely 77 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 1: did the wrong thing if he was doing all this 78 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 1: stuff that your mother said, and he obviously was. This 79 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 1: is just so wrong on so many levels. 80 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 4: Deep my mother and my ex are besties, don't I 81 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:18,159 Speaker 4: don't get this, especially from a male perspective. I just 82 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:22,599 Speaker 4: don't understand how this operates and functions. But when you're 83 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:26,719 Speaker 4: talking about dysfunctional people, then it's a little bit easier. 84 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 4: You've been divorced for three years, you moved away to 85 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:35,280 Speaker 4: start new your husband was a big cheater, and your 86 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:38,159 Speaker 4: mother finally told you after having an affair with a 87 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 4: woman for over six months. Your mother is employed by 88 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 4: your ex husband as his accountant. Here's where the problem 89 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 4: is right here. So he's got two beers that do 90 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 4: very well in a small town that My mother was 91 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 4: a retired accountant when he and I met, and he 92 00:04:57,000 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 4: fell in love with her, and he hired her now 93 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 4: here's the problem with the letter. When I say they 94 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 4: fell in love, I mean it. There's a lot in 95 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 4: that statement, ma'am, and I don't have the time to 96 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 4: unpack it, but I'll just rearrange some stuff in the luggage. 97 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 4: Whatever he told me. Whenever we had a disagreement, the 98 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 4: girl's mother would always tell her to consider his point 99 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 4: of view. Then when the dude cheated, the lady wrote 100 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 4: the letter say, I think she knew it all along 101 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:36,039 Speaker 4: and only told me because my ten year old daughter 102 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:41,039 Speaker 4: saw him with this woman. So I'm assuming that she 103 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 4: had the daughter before she married the man, because she 104 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 4: refers to the daughter as my ten year old daughter. 105 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 4: And then the daughter kept referencing daddy's friend at work. 106 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:59,040 Speaker 4: So you asked your mother and she spilled the tea 107 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 4: relationship hasn't been the same since then, And she said 108 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:06,159 Speaker 4: it was because I divorced my husband and her belief 109 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 4: as I should have kept my family together. 110 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 5: No matter what. 111 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:13,839 Speaker 4: Now, I think, ma'am, this is where you got a 112 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:18,239 Speaker 4: little bit going on. Maybe your mother tried to stay 113 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 4: out of your business, didn't have solid proof like the 114 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 4: daughter didn't. She just saw him somewhere, and your husband 115 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 4: told her, this is daddy's friend from work. That's why 116 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:33,719 Speaker 4: the daughter was refacing her the woman as daddy's friend. 117 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:36,240 Speaker 4: Hang on, I thank your mother's just trying to stay 118 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:37,719 Speaker 4: out of it, but I give you a real scoop. 119 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 5: Boy, we come back all right. 120 00:06:39,120 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 1: We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at 121 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:45,839 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter, subject 122 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:48,720 Speaker 1: my mother and my ex are besties. We'll get back 123 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:53,200 Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. 124 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. 125 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 1: The subject my mother and my ex are besties. 126 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 4: This woman's been divorced for three years from her husband, 127 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:07,599 Speaker 4: who was a big cheater on her. When she met 128 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:11,120 Speaker 4: her husband, they introduced him to her mother. Her mother 129 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 4: fell in love with him, and the girl says, I 130 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 4: mean fell in love with him. 131 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 5: Like I said earlier. I think there's something. 132 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 4: Behind that, but I don't have time to unpack that 133 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:23,320 Speaker 4: because you didn't mention that in the letter. Your daughter, 134 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 4: who obviously you had before you married this man, made 135 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 4: a reference one day to daddy's friend at work. You 136 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 4: inquired to your mother about who daddy's friend was Finally 137 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 4: she spilled the tea. She didn't have to then, but 138 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:39,360 Speaker 4: she said, well, and I think your mother was trying 139 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 4: to stay out of y'all's business because she didn't have 140 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 4: solid proof that the man was cheating, but she had 141 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 4: some inkling. So when you came to her, she told 142 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 4: you she think the man is cheating. And then you 143 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 4: all's relationship ain't been the same since because you thought 144 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 4: your mother should have told you right away. Well, it 145 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 4: ain't your mama's bus since, and I think that may 146 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 4: have something to do with it. But then your mother 147 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 4: says it's because you divorce your husband and her belief 148 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:10,400 Speaker 4: that you should have kept your family together no matter what. 149 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 5: Now here's you say. Here's what you say the problem is, 150 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 5: you say. 151 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 4: The problem is the things your ex husband did for 152 00:08:19,800 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 4: his girlfriend were the same things he did for me. 153 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 4: So it wasn't the cheating that got me. It was 154 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 4: a time he spent with her on the trip he 155 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:27,400 Speaker 4: took her on. 156 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 5: That's the cheating. See, sisters, don't that's the action. 157 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, don't talking about No, he did the same thing 158 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:43,960 Speaker 4: for me. That's what cheating. Is you seeing somebody? Why 159 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 4: are you seeing somebody else. And what do adults do 160 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 4: when they see each other? They spend time together. How 161 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:57,320 Speaker 4: do they spend time together? They go somewhere. So what 162 00:08:57,480 --> 00:08:59,240 Speaker 4: you sitting a bit talking about this? The time he 163 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 4: spent with her, and what was they supposed to do? 164 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:06,119 Speaker 4: Everybody don't have an affair at lunch in the backseat 165 00:09:06,160 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 4: of a car. He got money, he gonna do something 166 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 4: a little bit different, So don't talk about it's the 167 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 4: same things that got you. 168 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:17,800 Speaker 5: That's what cheating is, ma'am. 169 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:21,000 Speaker 4: You just trying to find another reason to say you 170 00:09:21,040 --> 00:09:23,320 Speaker 4: didn't keep the family together. But you don't have to. 171 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 4: You don't want to stay with the dude because he cheated, 172 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 4: that's all. Now it gets a little sticky. You came 173 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 4: to your ask your mother to reconsider working for him, 174 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 4: and she said that whatever we had going on should 175 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:45,640 Speaker 4: not affect her money. That's an interesting state, man, Yes, 176 00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:48,360 Speaker 4: but it gets even more interesting. 177 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 5: Though. Our own daughter doesn't talk to my ex right now. 178 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:53,880 Speaker 3: Now. 179 00:09:53,920 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 4: It's our daughter, so I don't know when y'all had 180 00:09:55,920 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 4: the baby skip that. Don't talk to her my ex 181 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:01,040 Speaker 4: right now because she figured out whose. 182 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 5: Daddy friend was. 183 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:04,959 Speaker 4: My mother called recently and says she's trying to get 184 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 4: the family together for Thanksgiving and she wants me there. 185 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 4: Your mother is trying to repair her relationship, but she's stupid. 186 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 4: So she said, your ex will be doing the turkey 187 00:10:18,080 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 4: and she would cook everything else. 188 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:25,120 Speaker 5: Now the now here is the thing. 189 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 4: The affair that the ex had is probably over. He 190 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 4: probably wants the best thing he ever had back. He 191 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 4: done went to the mother to get you back. So 192 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 4: now the mother says, she's trying to get the family together. 193 00:10:46,040 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 4: Your ex is gonna be doing the turkey and she 194 00:10:49,160 --> 00:10:52,200 Speaker 4: would cook everything else. How can my own mother be 195 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:54,840 Speaker 4: so ignorant and invite him to dinner? 196 00:10:55,440 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 5: Because your mama ignorant? Okay, she's so disloyal. 197 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 4: Some people have mama's that's ignorant. You got one. But 198 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 4: now here's the danger I see in this. Should I 199 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:11,440 Speaker 4: show up and curse them both out? 200 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 5: Of course? 201 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 4: Now why had energy to that? Why are you getting 202 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 4: dressed to go over there to cuss both of them out? 203 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:21,160 Speaker 4: First of all, if I were you, I would try 204 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 4: to fix the relationship with my mother. That's what I 205 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 4: would do. That's an important relationship. She did give you life. 206 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 4: Now do it sound like she wrong in this? 207 00:11:32,280 --> 00:11:37,040 Speaker 5: Case. Absolutely, yeah, yes, But now if. 208 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 4: Your husband is not trying to get back with you, 209 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:45,559 Speaker 4: which I think the case is. Here is the spoiler alert. 210 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 4: You said your husband fell in love with your mother, 211 00:11:48,880 --> 00:11:51,479 Speaker 4: and I mean fell in love. 212 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:53,680 Speaker 5: Them. 213 00:11:53,760 --> 00:11:55,880 Speaker 4: Let me make a statement about me and ladies in 214 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:58,040 Speaker 4: case you want to know where you're staying with the man. 215 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:02,600 Speaker 4: If you want want to know where a man's heart is, 216 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:11,320 Speaker 4: the holidays is where he is. If you want to 217 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:17,720 Speaker 4: know where a man's heart is, the holidays is where 218 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:18,600 Speaker 4: he is. 219 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:23,600 Speaker 1: So he's where he loves the family and he still 220 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:25,839 Speaker 1: loves hers. What you're saying, because he's over, he's going 221 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:27,200 Speaker 1: to be over at the mom's house. 222 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:29,000 Speaker 5: But Thanksgiving. 223 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:34,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, now you can take that one of two ways. 224 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:38,680 Speaker 4: I don't think you think your mama is seeing this man, 225 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 4: but I do think your mother is attracted to his power. 226 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:45,160 Speaker 2: All the money. 227 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:46,199 Speaker 5: She said, Oh. 228 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 4: Wow, the power is money shore. Well, okay, he done 229 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:54,439 Speaker 4: provided her with a job. She's told her. You should 230 00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:56,840 Speaker 4: have stayed with your family to hold your family together. 231 00:12:56,880 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 4: Your mama old school, all right, get together. 232 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:02,880 Speaker 5: To find out who really stuffed in there. 233 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:04,559 Speaker 1: All right, guys, we got to get out of here. 234 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:06,959 Speaker 1: You can post your thoughts on today's Strawberry Letter. It's 235 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM and check out our Strawberry Letter podcast 236 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:14,480 Speaker 1: on demand. Okay, our Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. You 237 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 1: can hear today's letter you're listening to Harvey Morning Show