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Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater only on the Double Show.

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Speaker 2: Maddie is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: She's been dating her boyfriend Connor for three years, but

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Speaker 2: now she thinks that something might be going on, so

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Speaker 2: we'll see if we can help her out. Maddie, sorry,

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Speaker 2: you have to come on the show this way, but

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Speaker 2: what's up. Why do you think Connor's cheating?

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Speaker 3: Well, Connor and I have been together for three years,

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Speaker 3: and we moved in together after a year, and it's

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Speaker 3: kind of been a little bit of a struggle financially

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Speaker 3: because we were both fresh out of college, you know,

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Speaker 3: trying to make ends meet. But I feel like we

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Speaker 3: really have a very close relationship, even in the hard times,

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Speaker 3: and you know, even when we find ourselves in a fight,

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Speaker 3: Connor will just say something dumb or silly and it

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Speaker 3: just kind of goes away, which I feel like is

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Speaker 3: our white flag moment. I think, honestly, everything's been pretty

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Speaker 3: easy with us. And before Connor, I had a string

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Speaker 3: of horrible relationships. The last three guys they beat it

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Speaker 3: actually cheated on me. So yeah, I'm sorry, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I walked in on one with another girl, like it

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Speaker 3: just it's a lot, and I hope that that's not

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Speaker 3: like making me nervous because I'm still guarded, you know,

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Speaker 3: with all of that, and Connor knows my past, like

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Speaker 3: he knows. He's really been cool with making me feel

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Speaker 3: at ease whenever I feel like something might be happening,

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Speaker 3: you know. But lately, like the last three weeks specifically,

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Speaker 3: it feels like he's been hiding something for me and

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Speaker 3: he won't talk about it.

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Speaker 1: What kind of things is he hiding from me or

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Speaker 1: what kind of thing is he hiding from you?

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't know. He's just been getting home late,

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Speaker 3: like he has this weird schedule. He's been like having

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Speaker 3: these weird hours at work and it's either way early

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Speaker 3: it's just a weird schedule. But never been like that.

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Speaker 3: But then one day I was like, oh, yeah, I'm

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Speaker 3: and he said that he's not there, and I was like,

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Speaker 3: where are you? And he said he had some meeting

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Speaker 3: in town. I don't know. I don't want to think

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Speaker 3: he was saying because maybe it was just a meeting,

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Speaker 3: you know, and that was it, and maybe he does

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Speaker 3: have a real, really weird schedule lately. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: But then I saw some text messages from a girl

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Speaker 3: named Isabelle. I have no idea who that is. Anyway,

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Speaker 3: I saw one of these texts from Isabelle and it

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Speaker 3: said meet me there at three looking forward to see

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Speaker 3: and no one named Isabelle works at his office, and

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Speaker 3: my mind has just kind of going crazy, like I

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Speaker 3: can't let it go. And so then I saw the text,

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Speaker 3: obviously from isabel and I asked, okay, who is that?

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Speaker 3: And he got really short about it, which he never

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Speaker 3: she's just a rep from another district. And that sounds

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Speaker 3: making crap up, like right on the spot. And he's

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Speaker 3: always been a horrible liar. So I'm just hoping that

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Speaker 3: you guys can help to ease my mind, because I

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Speaker 3: don't know if it's just me because I've been hurt

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Speaker 3: too many times. I just I don't want to go

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I.

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Speaker 3: Don't know if I'm just making things up, but I

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Speaker 3: just want to know. I need to know.

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Speaker 1: I just feel like he should know that your brain

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Speaker 1: is wired to go there at this point. I mean,

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Speaker 1: at some point you're going to have to just trust

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Speaker 1: and all of that. But good for you to ask

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Speaker 1: him about the text message. I don't like how he

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Thanks, I don't like it either.

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Speaker 4: Well, let's see if we can figure it out.

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Speaker 2: You already told us at grocery store he's a rewards

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Speaker 2: card member at so we'll play a song come back,

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Speaker 2: and then call him and pretend to be from the

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Speaker 2: grocery store and say that every single month, we choose

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Speaker 2: one lucky customer who gets free flowers delivered from our

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Speaker 2: oral department, and we'll see if he sends them to

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, thank you so much.

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Speaker 4: Place on, come.

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Speaker 2: Back and get your to catch teeter next. If you're

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Speaker 2: just joining us for today, is to catch a teeter.

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Speaker 2: Maddie is on the phone and she thinks that her

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Speaker 2: boyfriend three years, Connor, might be messing around. So we're

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Speaker 2: about to call him and pretend to be from the

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Speaker 2: grocery store that he's a rewards card remember, and say

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Speaker 2: that every single month, we choose one random person who

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Speaker 2: gets flowers delivered from our Florida department absolutely free, and

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Speaker 2: see if he sends them to his girlfriend, Maddie or

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Speaker 2: to somebody else. But first, Mattie, why don't you catch

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Speaker 2: us up on why you are suspicious that he might

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Speaker 3: Sure? You know he's been working really weird hours or

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Speaker 3: before it was normal hours, Like he has a really

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Speaker 3: routine schedule. And I caught him texting this girl Isabelle,

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Speaker 3: who I don't know, and he says that she's from work,

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Speaker 3: but I've never heard of her before, and I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Just thinks I'm adding up.

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Speaker 4: You ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm ready.

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Speaker 4: Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 2: Well, this is Gorbel calling from I was looking for

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Speaker 2: our rewards card member named Connor.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, let's see.

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Speaker 2: Hey Connor, please don't hang up. This is not a

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Speaker 2: marketing phone call. I'm actually calling to tell you congratulations.

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Speaker 2: You're this month's big winner.

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Speaker 5: Okay, what do I win?

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Speaker 2: Every single month, we choose one Rewards Card member, totally

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Speaker 2: random who gets free flowers delivered from our flooral department.

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Speaker 2: You've just won thirty six long stem red roses, a

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Speaker 2: box of chocolates or candy, and a card to be

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Speaker 2: delivered to anybody that you want within the fifty United

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Speaker 4: Absolutely free.

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Speaker 2: It's a three hundred and sixteen dollars value. So thank

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Speaker 2: you very much and congratulations.

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Speaker 5: Thank you. I actually I don't know how well time

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Speaker 5: that is?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Really great, sounds great, that's wonderful.

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Speaker 2: The first thing I will need will be a first

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Speaker 2: and last name of the lucky recipient.

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Speaker 5: That's for Maddie nadd.

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Speaker 4: And would you like a card included with it?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 4: Yes, What would you like to say on the card?

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Speaker 5: How about I love you? Things are going to get better, promise?

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Speaker 4: Okay, it never gets easier. Tell you that much you

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Speaker 4: get in trouble, being wandering eye or something.

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Speaker 5: I think that's a little personal. Get the flowers.

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Speaker 2: Sorry about that, Well, you can't get the flowers actually,

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Speaker 2: because this is actually Jubil from the Jewbill Show.

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Speaker 4: It's a radio show. Yeah, we're all here, I'm Nina, Hi,

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Speaker 4: and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 2: And we do a segment call to Catch a Cheater,

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Speaker 2: where if you think your significant other might be sleeping

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Speaker 2: around you try to see who they send flowers too.

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Speaker 2: And your girlfriend Maddie is actually on the phone.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Hi, what's this about? Uh? Stay cheating on me?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 5: No, no, god no.

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Speaker 3: Nothing really weird And and why haven't you been at work?

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Speaker 3: Like what what with your weird schedule? And you're just

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Speaker 3: I'm kind of freaking out.

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Speaker 7: Oh god, God God, no, no, no, no, no, no, I'm

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Speaker 7: I'm so sorry. I know you have kind of a

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Speaker 7: history here, and I'm the last thing I would ever

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Speaker 3: What No, Connor, I saw the text messages from somebody

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Speaker 5: I'm I'm not I'm not seeing her, but I I

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Speaker 5: I have been.

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Speaker 7: I've been kind of hiding things. The truth is, I

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Speaker 7: got laid off about a month ago, and I really, yeah,

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Speaker 7: I really didn't want to, like, I don't stress you

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Speaker 7: keep up with as is, and I really just wanted

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Speaker 3: That you thought that everything was gonna be fined.

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Speaker 7: So I've been out the last couple of weeks, just

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Speaker 7: trying to hit the ground running looking for a new job.

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Speaker 5: I've been on more interviews.

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Speaker 7: Than I think I've ever been before. I mean, this

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Speaker 7: last week alone, I ended up having two callbacks for

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Speaker 5: It's just been it's just been so pactic.

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Speaker 3: So you're not cheating, No, no, no, no, not at all. Gosh, Okay,

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Speaker 3: we've been to them.

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Speaker 5: Well.

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Speaker 7: Actually, that's the big part of the reason why things

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Speaker 7: are going to get better. She was gonna I was

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Speaker 7: open to tell you soon starting. Well, I mean technically

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Speaker 7: I did yesterday.

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Speaker 5: Isabelle's my new boss. Not only that, I mean the

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Speaker 5: position that I've got now, it pays a lot more.

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Speaker 7: The texts were for a final interview for that position.

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Speaker 5: And I.

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Speaker 3: I've got it. Connor, Why wouldn't you feel comfortable talking

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Speaker 5: Honestly, I don't know, because I thought you'd be mad

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry, Connor, I'm not your ex me and I

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Speaker 6: That's a big deal for you to hire that from me,

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Speaker 6: that's a really big deal. And I'm not even upset

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Speaker 6: that you lost your job. I'm just I'm kind of

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Speaker 6: pissed that you hide it from me because now we're

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Speaker 6: in this big mess and I've been stressing out.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I didn't want you to worry. I'm not your

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Speaker 7: ex I really didn't want you to think I.

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Speaker 5: Was cheating on you.

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Speaker 2: Hey, that's cool. You're both not each other's excess. And

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Speaker 2: it sounds like you don't treat each other nicely.

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Speaker 4: Well, sometimes you need to have a reminder, you know.

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Speaker 3: I just want you to know that you can come

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Speaker 3: to me these things. You know. I know you want

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Speaker 3: to protect me, but you don't need to go through

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Speaker 3: this stuff alone. The word team. I know.

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Speaker 5: I'll do my best. Oh, I think at this point

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Speaker 5: I know you more than just flowers. Oh it's okay,

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Speaker 5: Well you are.

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Speaker 2: Getting a new job that pays a lot, so maybe

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Speaker 2: some jewelry. Okay, Well, congratulations, Mattie. At least you know

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Speaker 2: he's not cheating.

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Speaker 3: God, I'm relieved. And I knew he's just such a fire.

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Speaker 3: I knew something was going on.

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Speaker 4: You got to trust yourself.

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Speaker 5: I am a really fire.

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Speaker 4: The jewel shows to catch a cheater