1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:05,320 Speaker 1: Dumb bashed stories because we've all been a dumb bitch 2 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:10,040 Speaker 1: at least once or twice. All right, listen, So today's 3 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:13,240 Speaker 1: um dumb Bach story. I wouldn't I wouldn't really say 4 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:16,640 Speaker 1: it's the dumb Bach story. But she's looking for some advice. Um. 5 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:21,159 Speaker 1: It comes from one of our listeners, the email I 6 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:23,640 Speaker 1: have an interesting story to tell. Hold on, the title 7 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 1: of the email is Triangle of Men. First of all, 8 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 1: so exactly, she says, I have an interesting story to tell. 9 00:00:32,479 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 1: I'm currently in relations with three different men. Let me 10 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:37,320 Speaker 1: tell you how it started. The first man, my love 11 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:40,199 Speaker 1: is someone whom I've known for a long time and 12 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:42,480 Speaker 1: he used to be my man, but he is now 13 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:45,920 Speaker 1: my ex slash male best friend, funk buddy or a 14 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:49,520 Speaker 1: friend with benefits. I literally talked to him about any 15 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 1: and everything. We both love each other and want to 16 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 1: grow and get married and all that. This guy is 17 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 1: a total package, including the best sex ever. I mean, 18 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: every time we link it's a movie. My only thing 19 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 1: with him. He's single and says he's not completely ready 20 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 1: to be tied down again. Let's be honest. He's a womanizer, 21 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:13,480 Speaker 1: and he's and he's Scott Scott damn and he lives 22 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 1: out of state. For me, he got made trust issues 23 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:19,320 Speaker 1: since we broke up. He says he's been in three 24 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: terrible relationships and hasn't had a loving relationship since me. 25 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:26,319 Speaker 1: I want to be with him and there's something telling 26 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 1: me to wait on him, but also still live my 27 00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 1: life until he's ready. Who this is what she said. 28 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 1: The second one is also someone I've known for a while, 29 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:39,040 Speaker 1: but not as long as the first guy. The second 30 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 1: one is someone who was a friend first and f 31 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 1: w B second friends with benefit like I literally depend 32 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 1: on him to be my listening ear and also give 33 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 1: me great sex whenever. He's my own call guy, and 34 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 1: he's completely okay with that. He's made. He's made it 35 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: clear he don't want nothing else as far as a 36 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 1: relationship since he was since he has had a failed marriage. 37 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: This guy second lives in my city and doesn't mind 38 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 1: being my side nigger. And lastly, the third guy, my 39 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 1: ex who thinks he's still my boyfriend since we're living together. 40 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 1: He's a nightmare. He's a nightmare. He's handsome, but his 41 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 1: personality just makes him ugly, just terrible. She says. He's 42 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 1: always complaining and nagging, I honestly think he should have 43 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 1: been born a female because just by the way he's acting. 44 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:33,360 Speaker 1: I met the third guy at work, and me, being 45 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 1: the freak that I am, I let him give me 46 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:38,799 Speaker 1: head at work. Next thing I knew this nigga moved 47 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 1: in and never left. The only good thing about him 48 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 1: is that the head gives, but even that is not 49 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 1: always great. The sex is horrible. I literally, I literally 50 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 1: feel like I'm going through the motions. He always claims 51 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 1: he's gonna leave and doesn't want to be in a 52 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:57,640 Speaker 1: relationship with me no more. But no matter what, he 53 00:02:57,760 --> 00:03:00,800 Speaker 1: doesn't leave. I never wanted to be the relationship in 54 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 1: a relationship with this guy, but the but from the jump, 55 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:06,919 Speaker 1: he made it his business to be with me. Nobody 56 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 1: in my clothes circle likes him, not my family nor 57 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 1: my friends. The funny part is the first guy and 58 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:16,239 Speaker 1: the second guy know about him, and they don't like him. 59 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 1: They always say, funk that nigger. I say the same 60 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:24,120 Speaker 1: thing all the time. I really feel like the only 61 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:28,240 Speaker 1: way he'll um get the picture is if I leave 62 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 1: and pack up my house. I'm not at peace in 63 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: my own home, and I know the only way to 64 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 1: get him, and I know that's the only way to 65 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 1: get him to leave. I'm just tired of a bullshit 66 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 1: with the third guy. What y'all think about my triangle ament? 67 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 1: And lastly, what y'all think I should do with the 68 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 1: third guy? It was good Listen. I don't suggest you 69 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 1: spend money to move. I suggest you go to the 70 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 1: magistrate's office and follow eviction. If he's not on the 71 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 1: least following eviction to get him the funk about your house? 72 00:03:57,160 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 1: If you really want him gone? Or did he staff 73 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 1: of the rent? What's happening? Yeah, and the head So 74 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: it can't be that. No, hell no, no, it can't 75 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 1: be the head because she got just answer benefit, but 76 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 1: the half of the rent. That probably is what it is. 77 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:19,159 Speaker 1: I didn't even think about that. She was already exact, 78 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: get him out of there. There's gotta be a way, 79 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 1: like you said, exactly, do something. So her first guy, 80 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 1: the guy that's her best friend, but he lives out 81 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:31,120 Speaker 1: of town and he's not ready for a relationship right now. 82 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 1: So basically the guy that that she has lived in 83 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:38,080 Speaker 1: the house is a stand in anyway. You don't even 84 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 1: like him, you never liked him. Yeah, yeah, he needs 85 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 1: She clearly knows her opinions. I just need to get 86 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 1: that one, and she can keep the triangle the person 87 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:52,119 Speaker 1: that will come in replace of this obviously like person 88 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 1: that she hates, like, let somebody else fill that role 89 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:56,760 Speaker 1: that doesn't live in your house, and then keep the 90 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:59,479 Speaker 1: out of state you got the in state friend that 91 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 1: is a friend with benefits. Kick the one leg of 92 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:07,600 Speaker 1: your triangle out and bring in another a little bit. 93 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:12,280 Speaker 1: You could just have the two one way. You'll need three, 94 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:17,640 Speaker 1: but she probably again out of town one all the time, 95 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:20,480 Speaker 1: the local one, and the other one's just a friend first, 96 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 1: so she's gonna need that. She gets head from the 97 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:26,600 Speaker 1: guy in the house, she gives dick from the guy 98 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 1: out the house, and then she gets the love of 99 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:31,839 Speaker 1: her life out of town. She gets the magic out 100 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 1: of town like once a month, and it's probably the 101 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 1: It's movie magic Baby. Damn get that dude. First, she 102 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: found three somehow, But you know, if you get three, 103 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:45,920 Speaker 1: like one of them but one constant, this is how 104 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 1: I do it. Obviously, keep one constant, the loved one 105 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 1: that's out of town, and then have an agreement to 106 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 1: funk around and then have fun. I don't know, I 107 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:56,599 Speaker 1: feel like that's the way to knock, get yourself all 108 00:05:56,680 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 1: wrapped up, and I think he'll leave, and you know 109 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:00,640 Speaker 1: the other one, you know the other I just wants 110 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 1: to be a friend too. And then like every now 111 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 1: and then you have the great sex and he's in town. 112 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 1: It's like that's literally bonus points. That's just like you 113 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:10,440 Speaker 1: got to bonus points because they're both not ready. Now 114 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 1: go look, get this fucking dude out of your house though, 115 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 1: and then go look get out there and trying to 116 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 1: find something that you want or maybe but like I 117 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:24,800 Speaker 1: don't know what that's like, but I'm trying to calm 118 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:31,040 Speaker 1: down myself. Let it show for a second having problems 119 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:33,599 Speaker 1: with the guy in the house because you're not fully 120 00:06:33,720 --> 00:06:36,120 Speaker 1: with him. Like maybe if I wonder what would happen 121 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:38,160 Speaker 1: if she eliminated the other two guys, Like if she 122 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 1: eliminated one and her relationship with three be better because 123 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 1: he ended up in your house. This is just like 124 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 1: the other thing. Everyone I know right exactly, I'm not 125 00:06:53,440 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 1: she got he might be a whole will say how 126 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:03,039 Speaker 1: you just pick up and move into somebody else's ship. 127 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 1: You staying over there one night too many because the 128 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 1: other two availability dicks weren't available this guy was always available, 129 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 1: and you end up with a d She ended up 130 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 1: with some side dick. Basically that even on side dick like, 131 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 1: that's what you probably get when nobody else available they were. 132 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 1: He was actually probably the unavailable dick.