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Speaker 1: I with Alexi Napola and Marisa Patton an iHeartRadio podcast. Okay, Alexia,

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Speaker 1: I missed your face this weekend. We were supposed to

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Speaker 1: get together. I didn't get to see you. You did it.

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Speaker 2: I felt like I saw you maybe Friday.

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Speaker 1: Friday.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's great Friday. Yeah, that's right.

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Speaker 1: But I wanted a little more than that.

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Speaker 2: You.

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Speaker 1: No, that was a quick lunch. It wasn't one of

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Speaker 1: our usual like six hour things. It was like a

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Speaker 1: two hour quickie.

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Speaker 2: It was It was good, it was fun. It was

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Speaker 2: nice to start off the weekend.

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Speaker 1: I know. Are you ready for Halloween?

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Speaker 2: I'm actually not because I'm not dressing up this year?

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Speaker 2: What about you? Are you gonna make it spooky? Are

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Speaker 2: you gonna make it sexy and slutty? What are you

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Speaker 2: doing for Halloween?

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna make it biamas and in by ten, in

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Speaker 1: the bed by ten, Piama and Lagama.

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Speaker 2: No, I plan to go out. I just don't want

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Speaker 2: to dress up.

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Speaker 1: Yeap, What are you gonna do?

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Speaker 2: No, We're just gonna do the usual. We're gonna have

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Speaker 2: dinner to one of like, Yes, we're gonna have dinner,

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Speaker 2: probably a casadonna that I'm so excited to try god

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Speaker 2: mm hmmm, and some friends and you know, we'll just

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Speaker 2: sit down and look at everybody else with their costumes.

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Speaker 2: I don't think Miami is a city where they get

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Speaker 2: so much into Halloween. I feel like New York and

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Speaker 2: maybe La.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. No, everybody here dresses so slutty like they do

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Speaker 1: all year round, right, they just make.

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Speaker 2: Nothing changes exactly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's the same thing all year round.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. It didn't surprise me. So it was really awkward

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Speaker 2: to literally be in a restaurant with your husband and

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Speaker 2: another couple and just sitting there watching all the girls

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Speaker 2: go by in their slutty outfits with all their asses out.

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Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, but you know, welcome to Miami.

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Speaker 1: You're like, is it Saturday night or is it Halloween?

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Speaker 1: Because it seems like the same thing to.

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Speaker 2: Me, right, Like I said, it's just an excuse to

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Speaker 2: like dress slutty and show your ass.

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Speaker 1: To be even sluttier. Mm hmmm, yeah, every day of

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Speaker 1: the week. Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I mean I think that if you're going to dress up,

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Speaker 2: like go to a house party or go to like

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Speaker 2: a Halloween party, I just think it's a little weird

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Speaker 2: to show up at a restaurant. You know that's like that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and not have a party in mind, just go

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Speaker 1: dress yeah, in a theme, you know.

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Speaker 2: I mean there weren't like trick or tuning. They weren't

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Speaker 2: looking for candy, you know what they were looking for

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Speaker 2: actually eye candy. But no, it was fun. You know,

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Speaker 2: it's fun. We're already used to it.

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Speaker 1: He speaking of sluttie and looking for trouble. Did you

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Speaker 1: read about that guy that he's from Iran and he

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Speaker 1: is an exact doppelganger of Lanel Messi. I saw that.

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Speaker 2: Did you see it? But I see you though, It's like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: they look exactly like Wait, I have a question, maybe

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Speaker 2: is that AI or is that real life?

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Speaker 1: Because I know now that that's real life. I guess

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Speaker 1: I hope.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: We will have to ask the twenty three women. Apparently

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Speaker 1: lord into bed pretending he was Lanel Messi.

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Speaker 2: That's what the women get because he's a married man,

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Speaker 2: so exactly. Yeah, so you know what, I don't feel

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Speaker 2: sorry for these women. I'm actually glad that happened to them.

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Speaker 2: From messing around with a mayor messy. Yeah yeah, messing

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Speaker 2: around with messy exactly.

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Speaker 1: That super messy. I just want to know, like, where

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Speaker 1: did he take them? Did he have a sprawling pad somewhere?

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Speaker 1: Was he in an efficiency? Because how do you fool

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Speaker 1: people like that? He must have had some kind of

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Speaker 1: a plan.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I mean women are so just mesmerized by

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Speaker 2: just like you know, a feeing a celebrity. Yeah, where

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Speaker 2: he had a good excuse for he couldn't take them

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Speaker 2: a good place if that was the case. No, that

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Speaker 2: sounds like a messy situation. But I'm just wondering. Didn't

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Speaker 2: the girls wonder why he didn't have like an Argentinian

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Speaker 2: accent versus an Iranian accent, or maybe they didn't even talk,

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Speaker 2: they just got right to it.

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Speaker 1: I'm imagining they were so lit in some dark club

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Speaker 1: and probably were just like, yeah, let's go. You know,

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Speaker 1: I would have asked for an idea, But.

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Speaker 2: Twenty three of them, that's like a lot. He just

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Speaker 2: really look like him and he must be really good

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Speaker 1: We probably spoken English, and he had an accent in

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Speaker 1: English because he's from Iran, and they couldn't tell it

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Speaker 1: wasn't an Argentina accent in English.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you're not from my family list here, so

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Speaker 2: they can't tell. I can pick up accents. What about you,

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Speaker 2: I'm pretty good at differentiating the accent.

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Speaker 1: Pretty good, pretty good.

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Speaker 2: That wouldn't happened to us.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no question, bro. If you knew that a

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Speaker 1: house that you were interested in buying had a murder

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Speaker 1: in it or was built on a graveyard, would you

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Speaker 1: still want to live there or buy it?

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Speaker 2: Never? If I knew about it, I would never want

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Speaker 2: that house. I don't want that energy that was left behind.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to know the details of it. I

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Speaker 2: don't want anything to do with it. It would really

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Speaker 2: spook me, and I would be scared. I would be

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Speaker 2: scared to live in a house that was haunted or

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Speaker 2: I knew there were ghosts inside of it, or there

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Speaker 2: had been a murder.

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Speaker 1: Hell no, oh my god. Yeah, like like where someone

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Speaker 1: like shot up a whole family and then you decide

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Speaker 1: to buy it anyway and live there.

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Speaker 2: Happens aime, happens all the time.

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Speaker 1: It happens all the time, of course.

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Speaker 2: I mean it's different if the person is deceased in right,

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Speaker 2: if the person actually passes away into the house but

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Speaker 2: hows like a peaceful death. You know that obviously for

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Speaker 2: me would be different, even though I still don't want

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Speaker 2: to know about it. That's why I prefer a new house,

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Speaker 2: but definitely not like a murder or something spooky like that.

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Speaker 1: You're supposed to disclose that that there was a murder there,

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Speaker 1: but I don't think you have to disclose if someone

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Speaker 1: just passed away on a home.

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Speaker 2: Right, Well, that's different, That's what I'm saying. That happens

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Speaker 2: all the time. Obviously, Yeah, that's very different. But you know,

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Speaker 2: the way you described it about buying a house where

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Speaker 2: you know somebody had been murdered, I was like, no, right.

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Speaker 1: Or that the property was on top of an old

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Speaker 1: grape site, you know.

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Speaker 2: Like a cemetery. I have such a hard time even

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Speaker 2: going to a cemetery. I feel like, you know, and

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Speaker 2: I want to say they're all good spirits, but you know,

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Speaker 2: you don't know she said that, and like it attaches

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Speaker 2: to you.

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Speaker 1: I'm such a sponge for that stuff. Everything sticks to me. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: I can't be around any of that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't. I don't want that, but I

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Speaker 2: remember my dad would always tell me milos, So you know,

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Speaker 2: I do want to believe that, which is kind of

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Speaker 2: true if you think about it, you know, because I

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Speaker 2: don't feel like, you know, the dead spirits are coming back,

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Speaker 2: you know, to haunt us, which you heard us, you know.

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Speaker 2: I think it's easier to say than than to believe it.

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Speaker 2: So I've always been really scared of of all that stuff.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, me too. And actually I'm living with

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Speaker 1: a ghost here. We have one here at the house.

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Speaker 2: And so how come you're still living there?

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Speaker 1: Steve doesn't want to leave, he doesn't want to go anywhere.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, the guys. He hangs out with

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Speaker 1: me every day we're together. And I said to him,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to hire I want.

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Speaker 2: To say it's a good at least it's a good ghost.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he likes to party anyway, he.

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Speaker 2: Likes it right, so we like him. If he's right.

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Speaker 2: If he likes to party, he likes to drink, and

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Speaker 2: he is good and peaceful, and he's just there to

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Speaker 2: hang out because he likes you guys. Then you know what,

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Speaker 2: it's cool.

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Speaker 1: I told Steve, I'm gonna I'm gonna hire someone to

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Speaker 1: get rid of him because I don't know, I'm not

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Speaker 1: feeling great here, and you know, maybe he should go.

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Speaker 1: And then Steve does this, How do you hire?

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Speaker 2: How do you wait, I want to know how this works.

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Speaker 2: How do you hire someone I would praise their people.

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Speaker 2: There are there people that actually do this, you know,

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Speaker 2: pretty s get rid of, you know, bad spirits. I mean,

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Speaker 2: he prest are holy people. So yes, you want to

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Speaker 2: think so, But how do they know? How do you

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Speaker 2: know that it's a bad spirit. You just said he

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Speaker 2: just likes to party and he's like a good spirit.

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Speaker 2: It was an older man that just passed away.

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Speaker 1: I didn't say it was a good spirit. He's just

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Speaker 1: around and sometimes I feel something behind me when I'm

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Speaker 1: walking through the house. I get you. I know. That's

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Speaker 1: why I don't like it. It's creepy. You know, You're

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Speaker 1: walk down these dark hallways and I'm like, who's momy,

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Speaker 1: Nobody he's here. Or if I'm upstairs right here banging

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Speaker 1: around downstairs and vice versa and nobody's here.

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Speaker 2: Oh you sually got you? My friend? That sounds like

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Speaker 2: a little like I don't know, I mean, even like

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Speaker 2: Goldie Han. I don't know. If you just read about

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Speaker 2: Goldie Han saying that like an alien had touched her face.

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Speaker 2: I touched her face?

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Speaker 1: Her face? Oh thank god, it wasn't something else.

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Speaker 2: I've heard these crazy stories, right, you hear all these

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Speaker 2: crazy stories, like do you believe in aliens? Do you

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Speaker 2: believe in ghosts? I don't know. Like life is a

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Speaker 2: really pretty scary without aliens and ghosts and all these things.

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Speaker 2: You know, you don't make it a complete gud like so.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be complicated either. But he's here.

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Speaker 1: He lives here too, anywhere.

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Speaker 2: You don't have a name for him? Do you have

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Speaker 2: a name? No?

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Speaker 1: I call him DRUNKI Drunkerson. Steve's like, please don't get

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Speaker 1: rid of him. Who am I going to drink with

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Speaker 1: when you're out of town? I'm like, oh, okay, your

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Speaker 1: he's your bar buddy. Now, yeah, the three of us

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Speaker 1: live together.

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Speaker 2: You guys are crazy. I think it's all in your head.

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Speaker 1: It's not in my head. Trust me. I know I

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Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, and then we have to call somebody. Toy

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Speaker 2: am I the rereest, I mean, whoever can help you

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Speaker 2: with this situation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm going to I'm gonna go. I have to

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Speaker 1: go visit the church. You know, you have to sip

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Speaker 1: him a little cash, you know, a little donation, right, gotchaly, gotchaly.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure that I can live there. I'm sure.

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Speaker 2: I'm not even sure that I'm gonna go visit you

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Speaker 2: again in that house.

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Speaker 1: You've been here a few times.

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Speaker 2: I know. I haven't seen him.

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Speaker 1: You can't see him. He's just there. He's there, he's here,

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Speaker 1: exactly his name is.

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Speaker 2: You can't see him because it's in your head, bro,

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Speaker 2: No, but that was fun. I mean I used to

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't think that after all these years,

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Speaker 2: Hip to the just be like me, I can have

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00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:44,159
Speaker 2: a thousand comments. I don't even read them, so you know,

437
00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:47,040
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but well, yeah, that's the best thing to

438
00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:50,320
Speaker 2: But you know, I have I have that capacity that

439
00:19:50,400 --> 00:19:52,719
Speaker 2: I don't care like I mean, you know, and all

440
00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:54,720
Speaker 2: the ones that are kind and good and loving. Thank

441
00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:57,480
Speaker 2: you for that, and I love you for that. But

442
00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:01,560
Speaker 2: you know, I don't want just see one that maybe

443
00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:04,080
Speaker 2: you know, I don't allow it to determine the rest

444
00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:06,000
Speaker 2: of my day or how my life is going to

445
00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:08,800
Speaker 2: play out. But you know, sometimes reading a lot of

446
00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:11,159
Speaker 2: those negative comments actually does get to you, and you

447
00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:14,280
Speaker 2: have to protect yourself. And I wish that Instagram had

448
00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:16,160
Speaker 2: not us, not that we had to turn it off.

449
00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:19,080
Speaker 2: I wish Instagram had like some special filter or something.

450
00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:22,200
Speaker 2: Instead of having all those filters that change the way

451
00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:25,240
Speaker 2: you look, they should have a special filter that detects

452
00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:27,199
Speaker 2: hate and nasty comments.

453
00:20:27,359 --> 00:20:29,560
Speaker 1: They do, they don't do They don't because a lot

454
00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:32,679
Speaker 1: of comments, Yeah, yeah they do, Yeah they do. You

455
00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:35,240
Speaker 1: have to edit the way you deliver the sentence because

456
00:20:35,240 --> 00:20:37,520
Speaker 1: they won't let you post certain things if their hate space.

457
00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:40,480
Speaker 2: Well, let me tell you something, I've seen a lot

458
00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:43,160
Speaker 2: of hate. Well it's not working, my love. Yeah, everybody

459
00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:45,959
Speaker 2: looks like a different person in their Instagram, so they

460
00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:46,600
Speaker 2: should focus.

461
00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:48,920
Speaker 1: I'm talking about the speech part, not the photos.

462
00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:51,040
Speaker 2: Well, obviously I know you're talking about that, but I

463
00:20:51,040 --> 00:20:53,720
Speaker 2: don't agree with you. I think, like everything, things fall

464
00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:56,119
Speaker 2: through the crack. I mean, it's hard to detect, you

465
00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:58,960
Speaker 2: know how much hate there is in the comment.

466
00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:01,800
Speaker 1: You have to write it cleverly for Instagram not to

467
00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:04,399
Speaker 1: detect it. Because I've had some nasty suff written on

468
00:21:04,400 --> 00:21:07,800
Speaker 1: my Instagram and all, yes, of course, don't you get it?

469
00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:08,760
Speaker 1: I get it.

470
00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:09,639
Speaker 2: I don't know.

471
00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:12,720
Speaker 1: I don't read that. I tried it, and I like

472
00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:14,000
Speaker 1: you try to reply.

473
00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:16,800
Speaker 2: Sometimes don't even particip Sometimes you can.

474
00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:19,520
Speaker 1: Sometimes I do not because I'm like, look at you,

475
00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:21,240
Speaker 1: what are you talking about me? And then it won't

476
00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:24,280
Speaker 1: let me because it says you can't have like, and

477
00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:27,120
Speaker 1: then you have to rea say it in a different way,

478
00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:29,320
Speaker 1: using different words, and then it lets you post it.

479
00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:32,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so you're not going to do that because

480
00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:36,359
Speaker 2: you're wasting your good energy and that bloom. Like you know,

481
00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:38,600
Speaker 2: there's people that don't have a life, and I just

482
00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:40,640
Speaker 2: feel sorry for them. And that's it. So I'm glad

483
00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:42,520
Speaker 2: that Justin turned off his comments because it wasn't going

484
00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:43,919
Speaker 2: to make it any better or worse. It's not going

485
00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:46,679
Speaker 2: to fix anything now. The damage has already been done.

486
00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:49,720
Speaker 2: It's out there, and it's out there. Can't people keep

487
00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:52,399
Speaker 2: on adding to the damage. Yeah, people keep on adding

488
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:56,720
Speaker 2: to the damage because that's what people like. Yeah. Unfortunately,

489
00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:11,040
Speaker 2: Bad Bunny apparently likes Sophia ever Gotta right. Yeah, yeah,

490
00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:15,040
Speaker 2: So Sophia ever Gota flirts with Bad Bunny even though

491
00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:18,800
Speaker 2: he's in a relationship with Kendel Jenner. Do you think

492
00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:21,320
Speaker 2: that's shady, my friend, because we learned what shady was

493
00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:23,800
Speaker 2: in Thailand in our Automic Girls strip. At least I did.

494
00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:26,679
Speaker 1: I mean in all and all like sincerity in the

495
00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:29,879
Speaker 1: context of it. He's saying nice things about her in

496
00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:34,360
Speaker 1: his song, and she's repeating, Oh, you're fabulous and beautiful

497
00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:35,160
Speaker 1: or whatever it is.

498
00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:40,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, right, because she said, you know, I love what

499
00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:42,320
Speaker 2: he told her, because I get the sala too. The

500
00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:47,040
Speaker 2: lyrics say, Sophia Ever got a Linda Linda persona the

501
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:50,560
Speaker 2: rapper builds out, which translates to Sophia ever God is beautiful,

502
00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:52,920
Speaker 2: but she's a more beautiful person. So I don't know

503
00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:54,720
Speaker 2: about you, my friend, but I get that all the time.

504
00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:57,679
Speaker 2: That and I prefer that because what counts is in

505
00:22:57,720 --> 00:23:00,240
Speaker 2: real life. So I prefer to look much better in

506
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:02,520
Speaker 2: real life than in a picture or on the show

507
00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:04,239
Speaker 2: or whatever. So I'm happy with that. And I can

508
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:08,880
Speaker 2: totally relate to that, but the fact that she flirted

509
00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:11,800
Speaker 2: back with him and she literally wrote to him and

510
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:13,480
Speaker 2: said make Linore too.

511
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:16,680
Speaker 1: I like it, would you have done that? You?

512
00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:19,840
Speaker 2: She?

513
00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:23,760
Speaker 1: I think this this is hot and I'm all about it.

514
00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:26,720
Speaker 2: Do you think she wants him? I want I don't

515
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:28,200
Speaker 2: know if she's ready to date a young.

516
00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:30,800
Speaker 1: Guy she wants him, but I'm telling you, I think

517
00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:38,040
Speaker 1: he would want her and she'll steal my two seconds.

518
00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:40,199
Speaker 2: One hundred percent. I mean not long term, because but

519
00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:42,720
Speaker 2: you know for sure, I mean I think that maybe

520
00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 2: she wants to get back at Joe and she's like, look,

521
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:47,119
Speaker 2: would you look? You know what you're missing? Like you

522
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:51,159
Speaker 2: know benitoo, like this is you know what's happening. I

523
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:54,920
Speaker 2: think she's a little like she likes the attention and

524
00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:57,639
Speaker 2: and it's coming from Bad Bunny, which is everything right now.

525
00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:04,000
Speaker 2: And you know, he just hosted the SNL Show and

526
00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:07,119
Speaker 2: he has a new album which is What's Making People

527
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:09,639
Speaker 2: Talk and what We're talking About, where he makes references

528
00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:13,040
Speaker 2: to his girlfriend Kendall in certain lyrics, but in the

529
00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:17,800
Speaker 2: song Monaco, he also talks about Sophia Bergata, like do

530
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:21,479
Speaker 2: you think that Sophia was being shady by making that

531
00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:23,720
Speaker 2: comment knowing that he has a girlfriend.

532
00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:26,840
Speaker 1: No, he gave her a compliment and she complimented him

533
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:27,399
Speaker 1: right back.

534
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:29,800
Speaker 2: Okay, so you think that's perfectly normal if you know

535
00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:32,720
Speaker 2: a guy is in a relationship, you're gonna flirt back

536
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:34,720
Speaker 2: with him, knowing that the guy has a girlfriend.

537
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:38,119
Speaker 1: I think it was like a Latin kind of you

538
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:40,520
Speaker 1: complimented me, and I complimented you.

539
00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:43,600
Speaker 2: But I feel like he's complimented other women.

540
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:46,320
Speaker 1: He's like, you're beautiful, and she's like you're beautiful too.

541
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:47,119
Speaker 1: It was sweet.

542
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Speaker 2: First of all, I think that he's an artist. I

543
00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:51,119
Speaker 2: mean that I think I know that he's an artist,

544
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:54,120
Speaker 2: and he's this is what he does, so he sings right,

545
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:56,640
Speaker 2: and his music, his lyrics is always like he's singing

546
00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:59,480
Speaker 2: about somebody. Like remember when he dissed Kendles when he

547
00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:02,560
Speaker 2: started to the Dating Candle and she had just broken

548
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 2: up with her boyfriend that played for the Phoenix Suns.

549
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:07,399
Speaker 2: He just dumbined his song. So you know, he's like

550
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 2: a rapper that they do that kind of stuff. They

551
00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:12,160
Speaker 2: talk about women, they talk about guys, they talk about

552
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 2: what's going on, and like a podcast sounds like yeah.

553
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:21,160
Speaker 2: So anyways, it's a lot of ship. But anyways, with

554
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:25,239
Speaker 2: that being said, I feel like that's his job. But

555
00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:27,679
Speaker 2: like if you were Kendle, would you get mad? So like,

556
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:31,240
Speaker 2: let's say, of course I'd be pissed and I'd be afraid.

557
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:33,800
Speaker 2: I'd be super a freaking she'd steal him from me

558
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 2: because she's like, oh she can't. Yeah, she's a fan, you.

559
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:39,720
Speaker 1: Can take she steal him in two seconds from.

560
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,959
Speaker 2: I think so too, because to me, Candle is super like,

561
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:46,000
Speaker 2: how do you say this actually has no like she's

562
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:51,880
Speaker 2: like flat yeah right, but listen, I mean he.

563
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:54,440
Speaker 1: Must be like Callian thing.

564
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:57,439
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, honestly, that's what we know about her.

565
00:25:57,440 --> 00:25:59,919
Speaker 2: I don't know how gallienish she is because you know,

566
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:01,639
Speaker 2: it wasn't working out with her and Joe, so like,

567
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 2: I don't know, you know, client enough to get him

568
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,480
Speaker 2: well I mean anybody, yeah, but not to keep him,

569
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:10,840
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? It's together decent seven years?

570
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 1: How long were they to get?

571
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:13,280
Speaker 2: Seven years?

572
00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:15,359
Speaker 1: Seven years? So then she got they got to pick up.

573
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:29,400
Speaker 2: Pick up bigp going with Bunny on Yeah, yeah, that's

574
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:30,720
Speaker 2: what you want to scratch.

575
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:34,399
Speaker 1: His scratches cony toast.

576
00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:38,920
Speaker 2: Oh my god. So I don't know. I think that's

577
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:41,600
Speaker 2: a conversation that Kendl would have to have with with

578
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:43,439
Speaker 2: that bunny. But I feel like he's gonna tell her.

579
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:45,480
Speaker 2: You know, I'm an artist. This is what I do.

580
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 2: I make money off my lyry craft.

581
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 1: This is my lyrics, and you know I might have

582
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 1: to sleep with her just to make the song better.

583
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:53,880
Speaker 2: Because you know it's my.

584
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:57,840
Speaker 1: Craft, right, I just have to understand my subject.

585
00:26:57,520 --> 00:26:59,600
Speaker 2: Right, That he would because he guess what, you know,

586
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:02,639
Speaker 2: he hed? So I went to his instagram because you're

587
00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:06,639
Speaker 2: saying that Mosa, I'm becoming here on the podcast, so

588
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:09,000
Speaker 2: I need to do my nemework. So I looked at

589
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 2: his Instagram and he hardly follows anybody. He hardly follows anybody.

590
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,399
Speaker 1: Really, so that he doesn't follow hers.

591
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,239
Speaker 2: What I'm trying to say, because that I would there,

592
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:18,879
Speaker 2: I want to take it to the bottom of it.

593
00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 2: I'm like, if he follows I'm breaking up with him.

594
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:27,119
Speaker 2: I don't know, actually he does. I haven't said that

595
00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 2: right now, Okay, you're better at that. But anyways, so

596
00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 2: he doesn't follow Sophia, but Sofia did you know? But

597
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:39,240
Speaker 2: bad Bunny respond to him and it's so funny because

598
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:41,560
Speaker 2: maybe he didn't see it. But you know, there's always

599
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:44,160
Speaker 2: like Jim Mooso's out there looking at the comments, see

600
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:45,959
Speaker 2: who you like, see who you follow.

601
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:48,880
Speaker 1: He follows nobody and has no.

602
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:50,919
Speaker 2: Post exactly, and he has no post. That's what I

603
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:52,680
Speaker 2: thought I was. I was gonna say three or four people,

604
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:55,440
Speaker 2: but I forgot when I did it. But yeah, so

605
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:57,320
Speaker 2: he follows nobody, he has no posts. I think he

606
00:27:57,359 --> 00:28:00,199
Speaker 2: has like just his album covers. So you know what

607
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:02,239
Speaker 2: been either, you're super smart. I'm going to give him

608
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 2: an applause for not having social media because you know

609
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 2: that I really like that. But with that being said,

610
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:10,119
Speaker 2: how does he even know? The only reason why he

611
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:13,400
Speaker 2: knows that Sophia you know, commented on that was because

612
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:16,240
Speaker 2: somebody else most in the world looked it up.

613
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:20,040
Speaker 1: He thought that his people found out from her people,

614
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:21,439
Speaker 1: and then they told his people.

615
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:23,440
Speaker 2: I don't know. There's so many people that have nothing

616
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 2: to do. They're looking at whose pictures, you're podcasts, who's

617
00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:29,119
Speaker 2: liking yours? Who are you following?

618
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:32,879
Speaker 1: It's maybe maybe it was she did an interview in.

619
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:35,439
Speaker 2: The press, Benny don't know. She didn't. It was somebody

620
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:37,239
Speaker 2: got it and it went to like, you know, all

621
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 2: the media.

622
00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 1: Outlets they get it.

623
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know, and I don't care

624
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 2: that much. But what I do care about is.

625
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 1: Just talking about.

626
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 2: I don't like, I really don't care. How you know,

627
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 2: you don't have to get down to the bottom of it. Really,

628
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 2: the topic here is if you were Kendled, you would

629
00:28:59,920 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 2: be annoyed, and of course it would be okay. But

630
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:05,760
Speaker 2: I know his answer is going to be like, I'm

631
00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 2: an artist and those are my lyrics and I made

632
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 2: money off my lyrics, and like it's expected and blah

633
00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:13,719
Speaker 2: blah blah, but you know, I love you, you know

634
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 2: tu la Masba, I'm sure is what he's telling her.

635
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:18,600
Speaker 2: You're like, you're the most beautiful, Like she can be

636
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,760
Speaker 2: my mother because you know, I'm sure that you know

637
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 2: that that's what he's going to say.

638
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:22,480
Speaker 1: What's true.

639
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 2: Bunnie is younger than her son Manolo. Yeah, so it's like,

640
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 2: definitely by age, you could be her son. You know,

641
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 2: you're I'm sure he's going to get out of it.

642
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 2: You know, we're going to see that. You know, it's

643
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 2: just like we're going to see that. She's going to

644
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 2: continue with them and she doesn't care. It's a song.

645
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 2: It's his job. To sing about other women and and

646
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 2: that's it. But I think she was being a little

647
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 2: shady and a little bit disrespectful by doing that, because

648
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 2: I mean, everyone knows that he is in a relationship

649
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:54,760
Speaker 2: with Kendall. But then he can say, well, then don't

650
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 2: think about me. Well, then don't sing about me, right,

651
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Speaker 2: that's she can say that too. Well, then you know what,

652
00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 2: don't think about me if you're so happy you relationship,

653
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Speaker 2: WHI are you saying about me?

654
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Speaker 1: I like it.

655
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 2: I like the whole thing, so I want to see

656
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 2: because she's Latina, right, that's what I.

657
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Speaker 1: Just I like Sophia, and I just get like a

658
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Speaker 1: like a I think you should do it too, But

659
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Speaker 1: to talk about on the next podcast, because this is hot.

660
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Speaker 2: Right, I think it's super hot to I mean, I

661
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 2: don't know that I'll have longevity, but I think they

662
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Speaker 2: should go for it.

663
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Speaker 1: And yeah, right, they should go for it.

664
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Speaker 2: I think they should too. Let's see, let's see how

665
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Speaker 2: how how it ends up? Right, because you know that's

666
00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:40,080
Speaker 2: how it starts. My friend with a little tweet, with

667
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Speaker 2: a little yeah, say you know what how I feel

668
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 2: about Instagram? It's like the biggest dating app. I don't

669
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Speaker 2: even know why there's women and men in dating apps

670
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:54,240
Speaker 2: because like all the happens on Instagram. It's like, yeah, I.

671
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Speaker 1: Wonder if dating apps are doing like not so well

672
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Speaker 1: anymore because of this.

673
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Speaker 2: I I I don't have any research to back that up,

674
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 2: because you know, I just say things, but then they're

675
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:05,959
Speaker 2: usually right. Of course not because it's free and all

676
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 2: the other dating apps you have to pay a membership

677
00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 2: fee and they make it so complicated, all these steps

678
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:12,760
Speaker 2: and you have to do you know, the people get

679
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 2: turned up like this is so easy. This is like

680
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 2: instant gratification. Yeah, I mean like literally that access. I

681
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:21,080
Speaker 2: mean saying the guy and this is somebody like bad Bunny,

682
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 2: he sings a song, and this girl, Sophia Virgatta is like,

683
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 2: you know, answering him back on social media, like if so,

684
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 2: if you want it right there, even if they don't

685
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:32,719
Speaker 2: know each other, they meet right there. And this is

686
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:35,560
Speaker 2: happening every single day in everybody's lives, not only in

687
00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 2: the celebrity world, in everyday's lives.

688
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Speaker 1: Do you think this is what he wanted? This is

689
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:42,760
Speaker 1: kind of like what that guy Kelsey did to get

690
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 1: to Taylor Swift. You know, he put a little a

691
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:48,240
Speaker 1: little PRP a little message out there. He had a

692
00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:50,240
Speaker 1: crush on her and all of a sudden they're together.

693
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Speaker 1: Maybe this is his mansa to her, Like.

694
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's kind of desperate, my friend, I don't know.

695
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696
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700
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706
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Speaker 2: Anything else you want to talk about. I know you

707
00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 2: were talking to me about that, Dad.

708
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I wanted to talk to you about that

709
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Speaker 1: because I know that you told me that you kind

710
00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:55,240
Speaker 1: of well, you didn't really have a wedding the first time,

711
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 1: but you did the second time, right, Yes, you got

712
00:32:57,760 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 1: a wedding this yes, side of my husband paid for

713
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Speaker 1: because because your father was no longer alive.

714
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Speaker 2: Correct right? Yeah he yeah, yeah, my father was in here,

715
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Speaker 2: So it depends. So what did you wanted to read

716
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 2: the whole thing? Right?

717
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 1: So I'm asking these questions because there is a father

718
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Speaker 1: that is refusing to pay for his daughter's destination wedding

719
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Speaker 1: that she wants and it costs two hundred thousand dollars,

720
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 1: And now she and her mother are giving him the

721
00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:28,280
Speaker 1: silent treatment because they want him to pay the two

722
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:33,560
Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollars for this wedding. And he's been dragged

723
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Speaker 1: through the internet saying that he should spend two hundred thousand.

724
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Speaker 2: Innt know that he did this? How does the internet

725
00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 2: even know this?

726
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:45,479
Speaker 1: Well, he reached out. Sorry, the father has been dragged

727
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:47,680
Speaker 1: for reaching out to the internet to ask if he

728
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Speaker 1: should spend two hundred thousand dollars on his daughter's destination forward,

729
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 1: he posted an anonymous form that's that his wife and

730
00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 1: daughter are both giving him the silent treatment because well,

731
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Speaker 1: just cost.

732
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Speaker 2: Of wedding, okay, just for that. The man needs to

733
00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 2: pay for the wedding. Okay, the wedding. The way to

734
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Speaker 2: the Internet.

735
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Speaker 1: I mean in New Zealand. The weddings in New Zealand

736
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Speaker 1: and they live in New York.

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Speaker 2: Okay, destination wedding. Okay.

738
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Speaker 1: He says he can easily afford the wedding, but thinks

739
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Speaker 1: it's throwing money away. People on set Line says it's

740
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Speaker 1: his fault for raising a spoiled brat.

741
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Speaker 2: Uh huh Okay, Well why is she a spoiled rap

742
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:30,880
Speaker 2: because she wants a destination wedding and it costs two

743
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Speaker 2: hundred K. I mean, I don't think why she's a

744
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 2: spoiled brat like that? That's what I'm saying that. First

745
00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 2: of all, his biggest mistake was it he went to

746
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Speaker 2: the internet to ask random people that don't even know

747
00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 2: him to care about him or his daughter or his

748
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:45,479
Speaker 2: wife or his family. That was just a silly question,

749
00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:48,400
Speaker 2: like how are you even a millionaire? Or how do

750
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 2: you even have money? Because you're so stupid? I mean, honestly,

751
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:53,440
Speaker 2: like this is like a man, like how old is he?

752
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 1: I didn't get his bio. I don't know how old

753
00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 1: he is, but he definitely yeah. I mean, you know,

754
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 1: ask a stupid question and you may not even here,

755
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 1: you may not hear what you want to hear, and you're.

756
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 2: Going to get a stupid answer. You ask a stupid question,

757
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:10,440
Speaker 2: you're going to get a stupid answer.

758
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Speaker 1: So you don't think he should pay for it?

759
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:15,280
Speaker 2: No, I think he should.

760
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 1: You think he should? Yeah, you think he should.

761
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:20,919
Speaker 2: Well, first of all, the dads, if you're lucky enough

762
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 2: to have your father around the day that you get married,

763
00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 2: I think it's been a custom and a tradition that

764
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:29,440
Speaker 2: the father gives you away, and also the father of

765
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:32,279
Speaker 2: the bride pays for the wedding. He should have a

766
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:34,759
Speaker 2: say in it, just like his wife. Right, So I mean,

767
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 2: I feel like the husband has the money, but remember

768
00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:42,279
Speaker 2: the husband is married. The dad is married to the

769
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:44,880
Speaker 2: girl's mom, which is the wife, so therefore it becomes

770
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:47,719
Speaker 2: her money as well. So it's not his two hundred k,

771
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:50,279
Speaker 2: it's her two hundred k too, and she wants to

772
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:52,040
Speaker 2: do this for her daughter. So I think they should

773
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:54,640
Speaker 2: sit down like a normal family and have this discussion.

774
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Speaker 1: I'm guessing she doesn't have access to the cash.

775
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 2: Well she should, Well, then maybe something even better will

776
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 2: come out about and say, and by the.

777
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:06,359
Speaker 1: Way, she'll have access to So I had.

778
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:09,279
Speaker 2: A two hundred a hundred is mine, and you're going

779
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:10,799
Speaker 2: to put in your hundred and I'm going to put

780
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:12,160
Speaker 2: in my hundred, and we're going to pay for a

781
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 2: daughter's wedding because that's what she wants. I mean, especially

782
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 2: that he keeps on reiterating that he does have the money.

783
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 2: Oh no, because I have the money, and I have

784
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:22,319
Speaker 2: the money, and I have the money. So if you

785
00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 2: have the money, then pay up.

786
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:28,319
Speaker 1: Maybe he sees maybe, maybe he sees something. Maybe he's like,

787
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:30,640
Speaker 1: this guy's a loser. This isn't gonna last. I don't

788
00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:31,640
Speaker 1: want to blow out my money.

789
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:35,239
Speaker 2: Maybe you see something that can happen to any but

790
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:37,600
Speaker 2: that's different. He didn't give all that information.

791
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:41,160
Speaker 1: Hey didn't. You're not guessing this is Marisol's thoughts, perhaps,

792
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:41,920
Speaker 1: but it's not that.

793
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 2: But if you want if that's the reason, then I

794
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:47,160
Speaker 2: back that up, Like, you don't have to participate in

795
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:49,719
Speaker 2: your daughter's wedding at all just because you have money.

796
00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:52,640
Speaker 2: If you don't agree with the person she chose, or

797
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 2: you don't agree with the marriage or whatever, that's different.

798
00:36:56,480 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 2: But if it's just because what the article says, which

799
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 2: is that they live in New York City and there's

800
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 2: plenty of beautiful venues, and why do they have to

801
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:09,279
Speaker 2: go to New Zealand and spend that amount of money

802
00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:11,319
Speaker 2: when they can probably spend less and just stay in

803
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 2: New York. That's what he wants, but that's not what

804
00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:17,000
Speaker 2: his daughter wants. Or maybe he should do something else

805
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 2: and say, you know what, I think it's a waste

806
00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 2: of money giving you two hundred thousand and just blowing

807
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:23,640
Speaker 2: them in New Zealand on a wedding. What if I

808
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:25,760
Speaker 2: give you the two hundred thousand and you do whatever

809
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 2: you want with it, because you know sometimes when they

810
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:29,480
Speaker 2: give you the money, you're like, ah, now it's my money.

811
00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:31,920
Speaker 2: Like right, I want to spend two hundred thousand.

812
00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 1: On a wedding. That's a good idea. Or here, I'll

813
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:35,799
Speaker 1: give you one hundred and if you want to pay

814
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:37,360
Speaker 1: for two hundred thousand dollars and you could pay for

815
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 1: the rest of it or your fancy husband or whatever.

816
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 1: I know that, you know, my dad was comfortable, and

817
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 1: if he had said to me, now I'm not giving

818
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:49,719
Speaker 1: you two hundred thousand dollars for a wedding, I would

819
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:51,360
Speaker 1: not push it. And I certainly want to have my

820
00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 1: mother and me giving him the silence treatment, because if

821
00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:55,839
Speaker 1: he didn't want it. I was not going to push it.

822
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 1: It was his money, he earned it, and I wanted

823
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Speaker 1: to I would respect him.

824
00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:01,840
Speaker 2: You know your parents there for your first wedding.

825
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:05,280
Speaker 1: Uh, yeah, but it was a justice of the peace

826
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:07,760
Speaker 1: in the living room. It's five pie went to dinner

827
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:11,800
Speaker 1: for your first wedding. I was going to the courthouse. Actually,

828
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 1: I've never had a big wedding. They've always been like,

829
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:17,520
Speaker 1: you know, me and the groom and that's about it.

830
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 1: So that's I have five people at my first wedding,

831
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:24,560
Speaker 1: no people at the second.

832
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Speaker 2: I know when to be consulted by that. Yeah, thank you,

833
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 2: thank you very much for not inviting me.

834
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Speaker 1: Us to Aspen, or to none of them, or to

835
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Speaker 1: or Scotland or Scotland.

836
00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:36,440
Speaker 2: The thing with you is that you never know when

837
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:39,239
Speaker 2: you're getting married. You never know when you're getting married.

838
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 2: So that's why I never get the invite.

839
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:43,840
Speaker 1: Well, I told you about Aspen. I told you about Scotland,

840
00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:45,920
Speaker 1: not just not Mexico, because I didn't even know that

841
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:46,920
Speaker 1: was going to happen.

842
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:49,360
Speaker 2: Scott anywhere. And you renewed your bowls. But yeah, I

843
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:53,440
Speaker 2: expect to get invited next time when we go to

844
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:55,400
Speaker 2: with the same man, though, I want you to marry

845
00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:57,680
Speaker 2: the same man. So I just want to go to

846
00:38:57,800 --> 00:38:59,600
Speaker 2: your wedding with Steep, not with anybody else.

847
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:04,839
Speaker 1: Of course, it's not that's not even an option, not

848
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:07,879
Speaker 1: even an option. I mean, I don't. I feel really

849
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:10,919
Speaker 1: bad for the guy. I don't think that good for him.

850
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 1: I don't think that love should be a negotiation. And

851
00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:17,759
Speaker 1: you know it from your father, from your father, like

852
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 1: you know, maybe you want to torture your husband and

853
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 1: give him the silent treatment because you want to buy

854
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:23,480
Speaker 1: you something or give you money, but your daddy who

855
00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:25,360
Speaker 1: raised you, like I want you on a k for

856
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:27,719
Speaker 1: a wedding. I don't know. If my dad said no,

857
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:29,440
Speaker 1: one'd be like, okay, dad, sorry, Like what are you

858
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 1: comfortable with? That's how I would be about it.

859
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:34,200
Speaker 2: But you think that there should be a limit on

860
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:35,840
Speaker 2: how much you should spend on a wedding.

861
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 1: I think that it's even if you can afford him.

862
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:41,399
Speaker 1: I think it's his money. And if he thinks that's

863
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:43,520
Speaker 1: ridiculous and he earned it and he doesn't want to

864
00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:45,400
Speaker 1: spend it on that, then you know, and he's the one.

865
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:48,239
Speaker 2: I mean, he doesn't have to. He doesn't have to. Absolutely,

866
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Speaker 2: I mean, this is a gift you know that you're doing.

867
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:52,399
Speaker 2: It's a daughter, Yes, it's a gift.

868
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 1: Raised.

869
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:56,120
Speaker 2: I was always raised that you need to earn those gifts.

870
00:39:56,520 --> 00:39:58,920
Speaker 2: So I mean, I'm not sure you know what relationship

871
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:00,759
Speaker 2: she has with her father. A kind of seemed that

872
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:03,840
Speaker 2: she expects it just because he has the money. And

873
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:05,759
Speaker 2: that's not always the case, right, I mean, your parents

874
00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:08,839
Speaker 2: can be very wealthy and they don't have to It's

875
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:11,879
Speaker 2: not there. How do you say this like that they

876
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:13,480
Speaker 2: have to give it to you? You know, it's not

877
00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 2: like they're they have to do that for you.

878
00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:18,359
Speaker 1: And listen on the and on the other hand, I mean,

879
00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:22,359
Speaker 1: how I've known a lot of Cuban friends that their

880
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 1: parents had no money and they second mortgage their house

881
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 1: to have a big wedding for their kid. Huge. You know,

882
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:32,399
Speaker 1: it's just the way your thought process, how you're brought up.

883
00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 2: And yeah, I think it could be a little cultural too. Yeah,

884
00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:38,120
Speaker 2: you're right, Yeah, but I think all that has changed

885
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:41,319
Speaker 2: because unfortunately, you know, there's so much divorce in the

886
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 2: world now that I think even the own couples are like,

887
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 2: you know, should we really invest and spend all this

888
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 2: money on our wedding? That maybe you know, four or

889
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:52,879
Speaker 2: five years down the line, you know, we're not even

890
00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:55,840
Speaker 2: together anymore, and we spend you know, two hundred thousand

891
00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:57,479
Speaker 2: and half a million. I mean there's people that spend

892
00:40:57,520 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 2: a million and two million on their weddings.

893
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 1: Yeah.

894
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:02,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't even have to be a celebrity, just

895
00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:03,399
Speaker 2: like anybody, of.

896
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:07,000
Speaker 1: Course, and then everybody walks away and criticizes it.

897
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:10,520
Speaker 2: Yes, you get saying everybody has fun except the groom

898
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:12,480
Speaker 2: and the.

899
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 1: Bride and the groom. I know, it's the parties for

900
00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:16,839
Speaker 1: everybody else because you're running around the whole night, you know.

901
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 2: Taking I personally think, I personally think it's a waste

902
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 2: of money. Now you know that I'm older, and I'm

903
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:27,360
Speaker 2: on my third marriage, you know, the first time around

904
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:29,960
Speaker 2: when you are in your twenties, you know, and especially

905
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 2: like when we grew up, like I always dreamed of

906
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:36,279
Speaker 2: getting married and having a beautiful Catholic you know, celebration

907
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:38,360
Speaker 2: you know in the church, and getting married in the

908
00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 2: Catholic church, which never happened, and having for reception you know,

909
00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 2: with Willie Chitto and miamis Machine and you know, yes, right,

910
00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:54,440
Speaker 2: so that's what I wanted, you know. Unfortunately, it didn't happen.

911
00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:56,360
Speaker 2: So I feel like sometimes when it doesn't happen the

912
00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:58,160
Speaker 2: first time, you kind of want it the second time.

913
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:01,560
Speaker 2: And so I I did it the second time. But

914
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:03,480
Speaker 2: my father was in here, so he didn't always tell

915
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:07,080
Speaker 2: my parents that, like they save so much money, you know,

916
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:08,719
Speaker 2: with me, you know, they never had to pay for

917
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 2: those things. But the man had to do. The mans

918
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:15,400
Speaker 2: had to pay, not my parents. But so then the

919
00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:18,720
Speaker 2: second time around, you know, Hermit paid for it because

920
00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:21,480
Speaker 2: you know, he was a guy. And then now it

921
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:23,799
Speaker 2: was kind of like you know, Todd and I paid

922
00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:25,440
Speaker 2: like for some things that were important to me, and

923
00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:27,319
Speaker 2: he paid for you know, most of the things. But

924
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:32,239
Speaker 2: I love flowers, so like I was like, I don't

925
00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:34,040
Speaker 2: care what they cost. I'm paying for them.

926
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:35,840
Speaker 1: They were spectacular, your flowers.

927
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 2: I think we're a little bit different, like the woman

928
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:40,360
Speaker 2: and the man. So flowers were important to me. The

929
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:42,800
Speaker 2: guy doesn't care whether it's like you know, la Rosa

930
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 2: is from Columbia or for it's from like Switzerland, whatever,

931
00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:47,880
Speaker 2: you know, or like the decor. They care more like

932
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:50,839
Speaker 2: about the booze and the music and whatever. So like

933
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 2: you said, it's like a conversation we have to sit

934
00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 2: down and talk. You know, yes, it is my wedding,

935
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:57,520
Speaker 2: but if your dad's paying for it, I think you

936
00:42:57,560 --> 00:42:59,719
Speaker 2: should have a little bit of a say. And I

937
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 2: think she's just such a little bit sweeter she'll she'll

938
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:05,920
Speaker 2: get them to pay, you know, for the wedding.

939
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:09,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, the silent treatments, that's cruel.

940
00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:11,840
Speaker 2: Especially during this time that you're actually it's a beautiful

941
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:13,799
Speaker 2: time in your life and you're preferring your wedding and

942
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:16,880
Speaker 2: you want, you know, your family to be good and

943
00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:18,720
Speaker 2: and and it's it's.

944
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:21,480
Speaker 1: I'll tell you one thing, if he ends up having

945
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:23,879
Speaker 1: to do that wedding, when he's gonna drag her down

946
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:26,360
Speaker 1: the aisle by her hair, he's gonna be so pissy

947
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 1: they made him do it? Agree with?

948
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 2: Like with He'll be like, no, I don't, but yeah,

949
00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:36,839
Speaker 2: but I just think his biggest mistake was just going

950
00:43:36,840 --> 00:43:41,879
Speaker 2: on the internet. That was really that really I think

951
00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:43,840
Speaker 2: it's so funny how like again, I always say that

952
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 2: how we get criticized for doing like reality TV. But

953
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:48,640
Speaker 2: there's like people that don't even know and like they're

954
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 2: like looking for this, you know what I mean that

955
00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 2: one of the people's like validations and like other people.

956
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:55,680
Speaker 2: It's like, why would you do that? I think he

957
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:59,080
Speaker 2: made things worse with his wife and with his daughter

958
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 2: intead of just like sitting down, you know, like a

959
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:04,399
Speaker 2: mature aunt and like a father and like the head

960
00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:07,120
Speaker 2: of your family and just having that conversation. Oh yeah,

961
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:09,400
Speaker 2: but see, do you think we'll get invited to the wedding?

962
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:11,240
Speaker 2: I want to go. If the wedding's in New Zealand,

963
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 2: you'll get a.

964
00:44:13,040 --> 00:44:14,879
Speaker 1: Who do you think he's not going to fly you there?

965
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:15,840
Speaker 1: He's a miser.

966
00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, But anyways, I really do hope he pays for

967
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 2: it because it's a special time in her life. Yeah,

968
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:25,160
Speaker 2: and I believe in love and marriage, and.

969
00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:27,360
Speaker 1: I know we both believe in love and marriage.

970
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 2: So yeah, and if he has the money, you know what,

971
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 2: you only live once. Make your daughter happy.

972
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 1: Well maybe you know another thing I thought of was,

973
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:36,920
Speaker 1: you know, perhaps she's a little she is spoiled, and

974
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:41,120
Speaker 1: maybe he's trying to pump the brakes. Yeah it's a

975
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:41,759
Speaker 1: little too late.

976
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:43,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, it's a little bit too late.

977
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 1: Who knows. Who knows what it's like at their house

978
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:47,839
Speaker 1: and what she's like, and what he's like, or who

979
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 1: these people really are. I just know how I would

980
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:55,640
Speaker 1: have handled it. Oh, I love you. I'll be by

981
00:44:55,680 --> 00:45:01,080
Speaker 1: the way wednesdaybo con for me. Oh the premiere premiere

982
00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:04,840
Speaker 1: of our show. Yes, yeah, like my tagline, yes, I

983
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 1: love it. Oh my god, all the taglines were amazing.

984
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:11,120
Speaker 1: Yours is awesome. Please say it right now because everybody's

985
00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:12,840
Speaker 1: gonna see it on Wednesday.

986
00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:16,840
Speaker 2: So my tagline is I'm the Cuban Doll and Miami

987
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 2: is my dream house.

988
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:20,880
Speaker 1: I love it. It's really good.

989
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:23,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like, how did you feel about everybody

990
00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:24,440
Speaker 2: else's They're clever.

991
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:26,279
Speaker 1: They're very clever, all of them.

992
00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:29,320
Speaker 2: So we hope you love our new season. Season six

993
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Speaker 2: premierees on Wednesdays on Bravo at nine pm November one,

994
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Speaker 2: us the next day at Peacock Peacock. Well, thanks for

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00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:42,640
Speaker 2: listening everyone, and I'll be on Watch What Happens Live.

997
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Wednesday premiere.

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Speaker 2: Wednesday, right after our premiere, I'll be on Watch What

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