1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with iHeartRadio. 2 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 2: Well thanks for coming on the almost famous og podcast, 3 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:09,680 Speaker 2: because you know you kind of are an og. 4 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 3: A crazy I know, I know, I know, I know. 5 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:17,759 Speaker 3: I can't believe I'm in the same category. 6 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:21,920 Speaker 4: As you, right too, Pioneers too, like the first I 7 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:22,440 Speaker 4: love it. 8 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll be linked forever. 9 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 5: For good reason. 10 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. So okay, so what Obviously you've done this interview 11 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 2: a billion times, right, So what are they? I would 12 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:40,279 Speaker 2: ask like if you can share anything, but you know, 13 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 2: everyone's probably asked all the questions and the person probably 14 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 2: sitting right past your screen is telling you don't say 15 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 2: anything that you're not supposed to say. 16 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:49,840 Speaker 1: That's right. 17 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 4: So obviously you're meeting a ton of people, You're going 18 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:54,640 Speaker 4: through a ton of things right now. 19 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 1: Honey, how how is this whole experience are you? Are 20 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 1: you feeling fatigue by it? Yeah? Are you still just 21 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:02,760 Speaker 1: crazy having a great time? 22 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 3: I'm crazy having a great time. I was really tired 23 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 3: after taping and you guys know like how that journey is, 24 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 3: and it's like it's emotionally exhausting. You don't sleep a lot, 25 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 3: you have so much going on, and then you come 26 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 3: home and you like get a breather, and then you 27 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 3: start this pressed up and then like you're re energized. 28 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:24,479 Speaker 3: So I'm super energized right now, and I'm just excited 29 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:27,320 Speaker 3: that you finally get to see this journey because like, 30 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 3: the men are so fun, we have to do such 31 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 3: great things. I just think it's going to be. I 32 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 3: really really really hope it's going to be as an 33 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 3: exciting as a season as I think it is. 34 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 4: Well, I'm sure it will be. I mean, look at 35 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 4: look at who's the lead. I say this all the time, 36 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 4: but Trista knows this, as we both feel this way. 37 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:47,680 Speaker 4: You know, you can have the greatest cast of guys 38 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 4: on this show, but if you can't carry a conversation 39 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 4: with them, it doesn't really do much for anybody. Right, 40 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 4: You've got the hardest job on the show. So I 41 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 4: love that you're in this position. And I know we're 42 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 4: all very excited about the cast. I love the cast 43 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 4: thing obviously for the Golden Bachelor, but I feel like 44 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:06,559 Speaker 4: for the Golden Bachelorette, it's they they amped it up again. 45 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 1: It's really good. 46 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:11,799 Speaker 3: I know I was really worried that no one was 47 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 3: going to apply. You know, they like men are ready 48 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:18,839 Speaker 3: to like, you know, put themselves out there that they're 49 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 3: just like, I'm good. You know, I go with my 50 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:23,920 Speaker 3: buddies at night. I'm fine. I'm looking for a woman 51 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 3: or if I do it, I'm certainly not going to 52 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 3: do it on national TV. So I was really worried 53 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 3: that they weren't going to have a lot of applicants. 54 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:32,959 Speaker 3: So I was really so happy when they started stepping 55 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:35,519 Speaker 3: out that limo and I was like, Okay, we're good. 56 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 3: I could see a future with some of these guys, 57 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 3: like this is going to be a yeah, yeah, Okay. 58 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:45,120 Speaker 2: I have a question because obviously you left on Gary 59 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 2: season of Golden Bachelor and you know, to be a family, 60 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 2: which I so respected. 61 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:53,360 Speaker 5: I still do. 62 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 2: And since Gary single, now, is there a chance that 63 00:02:58,080 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 2: he's going to make an appearance on your seat? 64 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:06,119 Speaker 3: What as a matter of fact, she does what intuitive? 65 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 3: You've been around Bachelornation way too long, you know what? 66 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 1: An unexpected twist? 67 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 3: Oh never before seen on Bachelor Nation before. I gotta 68 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 3: have that sound by it sometime. Yeah, that's right, he 69 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:26,079 Speaker 3: absolutely does make an appearance. Yeah, yeah, that's all I'm 70 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 3: telling you. Yeahs intuitive good conversations. 71 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know that's good. 72 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 4: I think, you know, one of the things that I 73 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 4: loved when I was the Bachelor, right after Trista had 74 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 4: kicked me to the curb, was was, you know, was 75 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 4: she was such a really a guiding light for me. 76 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 4: I mean, you know, you think you know the situation 77 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 4: right until you're in the situation where you have to 78 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 4: hand out flowers or not and hurt people who have. 79 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 1: Never done anything wrong. And know, I mean I remember 80 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 1: that was Yeah, it's such a crazy experience. 81 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 4: That is the one thing I remember Trista, you know, 82 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 4: really making sure that I was aware of was that 83 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 4: it was super hard in those moments, and I thought 84 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 4: I knew, but obviously I didn't know until I was 85 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 4: the one in that position. 86 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 1: Did you go through that a little bit yourself? 87 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:18,039 Speaker 3: Oh my god, it was agony. I didn't sleep the 88 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 3: whole night before when there was a rose ceremony. I 89 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 3: agonized every decision, and then I just felt like I 90 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:27,600 Speaker 3: So there's a part of me that thought, you know, 91 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 3: I loved being on the other side of receiving a 92 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 3: rose because I kept thinking, you know, if I don't 93 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:34,720 Speaker 3: receive a rose, my heart will be a little hurt. 94 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 3: I'll be maybe like a little embarrassed or whatever, but 95 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 3: I'll get over it. It was so much harder being 96 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 3: on the other side of the side that you're going 97 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 3: to hurt somebody, and I hated that. And I also 98 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:52,599 Speaker 3: feel like older men that are willing to put themselves 99 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:55,919 Speaker 3: out there and be vulnerable are very fragile, and I 100 00:04:56,120 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 3: felt so responsible for not hurting them, and because they 101 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:03,039 Speaker 3: had done this really hard thing. They'd come on a 102 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:05,839 Speaker 3: show and like been vulnerable in front of a bunch 103 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:08,119 Speaker 3: of other men and in front of a million people 104 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:10,480 Speaker 3: or a million of people, and how hard that is, 105 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:13,159 Speaker 3: and so sending them home made me feel like I 106 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:16,119 Speaker 3: felt like crap. I hated rose ceremonies. I like begged 107 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:20,280 Speaker 3: you more roses. I wanted it to be different, and 108 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:23,600 Speaker 3: I knew that everybody knows what they're getting into and 109 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:25,799 Speaker 3: that only there's only going to be one man standing 110 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:29,160 Speaker 3: at the end, and we all get like the rules 111 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:31,360 Speaker 3: and how this works, but it still does not make 112 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:32,039 Speaker 3: it any easier. 113 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 1: No, I agree, I agree, Yeah. 114 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 5: So hard. Okay. 115 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 2: So another thing that really stood out about you when 116 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 2: I was watching Golden Bachelor is how you talked about 117 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:49,040 Speaker 2: when you get older, you feel invisible, you know, and 118 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 2: that you don't feel seen and people. 119 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 5: Kind of forget about you. 120 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:57,720 Speaker 2: And you know, Bob and I are I'm almost fifty two, 121 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 2: he is fifty three, and we're getting you know, we're 122 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:06,279 Speaker 2: getting older. We're the ogs after all, the old guy 123 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 2: and old gal. So I feel that I when you 124 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:15,920 Speaker 2: said that, I was like, that is really interesting, because 125 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 2: especially in Bachelor Nation, I feel that a lot. Even 126 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 2: though I quote unquote and the most successful whatever, it 127 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:28,720 Speaker 2: doesn't matter. It's like I feel like the younger versions 128 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 2: of you know, our characters on the show, we just 129 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:36,359 Speaker 2: keep getting replaced, and in a way, I feel a 130 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 2: bit invisible. I feel very lucky in the past, Like 131 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:42,479 Speaker 2: a couple of years after being on Golden Bachelor and 132 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:44,359 Speaker 2: then being able to go to the wedding and you know, 133 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:48,720 Speaker 2: doing other things, I feel more connected in and more 134 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:54,600 Speaker 2: seen again. But do you still feel that way? And 135 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 2: have you heard from anyone who has reached out and said, 136 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:02,600 Speaker 2: I'm I'm sure I have to assume that you've heard 137 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:05,280 Speaker 2: from thousands of people saying the same thing, but they 138 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 2: feel that way. 139 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 1: You know. 140 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 3: I said it and thought that I was the only 141 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 3: person that felt that way, and I just kind of 142 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 3: blurted it out. I never planned to talk about it. 143 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 3: It's just a feeling. And I think it was maybe 144 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 3: the first time I ever actually verbalized it, to tell 145 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 3: you the truth, and I I was so surprised to 146 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 3: hear how many people that that statement resonated with, and 147 00:07:27,640 --> 00:07:30,640 Speaker 3: also people saying I never knew how to verbalize it, 148 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 3: but that you just said it perfectly, that I feel invisible. 149 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 3: And I think, you know, I put a lot of 150 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 3: thought into it, like how did I all of a 151 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 3: sudden become invisible? I went from being visible and feeling 152 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:42,280 Speaker 3: like kind of important in the world, or at least 153 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 3: important in my little world, to being like a nobody, 154 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 3: And like, I tried to figure out how this happened, 155 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 3: and I kind of came to the conclusion that, you know, 156 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 3: as you get older, the upcoming generation becomes more important, 157 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 3: and that they are the people that people are focusing on. 158 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:01,280 Speaker 3: They're the ones they are going to be taking the 159 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 3: you know, we're all going to be like getting towards 160 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 3: retirement age, or like our careers are not as important 161 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:08,920 Speaker 3: to us, or that we are slowing down on them. 162 00:08:08,960 --> 00:08:11,400 Speaker 3: We're not wanting to work eighty hour weeks, And so 163 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 3: the next generation that is willing to work the eighty 164 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 3: hour weeks and is going to be maybe the next 165 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 3: you know, big guy at the company or big woman 166 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 3: at the company, Like they become more important and we 167 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:25,280 Speaker 3: become less significant because this next generation is replacing us. 168 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 3: And not only that, I felt like coming on this 169 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 3: journey to find love was really like counteractive to the 170 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 3: way I was maybe feel kind of guilty because I 171 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:40,960 Speaker 3: felt like it's our responsibility as we get older and 172 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:43,960 Speaker 3: we've become less significant to now play a support role 173 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 3: in this next new generation that's coming up, So like 174 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:49,199 Speaker 3: you should be there to babysit the grandchildren, or you 175 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 3: should be able to help, you know, with whatever they 176 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 3: need help with so they can assume this like more 177 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:57,319 Speaker 3: important position. But I figured, like I don't feel like 178 00:08:57,360 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 3: I'm ready to take that backseat yet. And it took 179 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:02,400 Speaker 3: a while for me to get to that that I 180 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 3: still have like a lot of living to do and 181 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 3: it may not be like I don't want another big career. 182 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:10,560 Speaker 3: I've had all that. I don't want to raise a family, 183 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 3: but I don't want to take a back seat yet. 184 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 3: I still have a light, you know, I still have 185 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 3: like a fun life I could have In fact, like 186 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:20,080 Speaker 3: maybe more fun than I had when I was doing 187 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 3: all that, Like I love knowing in life with my husband, 188 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 3: I loved raising my children. But then I look at 189 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:27,080 Speaker 3: like what I had planned for this second half of 190 00:09:27,080 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 3: life with John, and like we finally had the resources 191 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 3: and we were going to have time, and like there 192 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 3: was a lot of fun and a lot of travel 193 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:37,520 Speaker 3: and adventure that was going to be the next part 194 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:39,600 Speaker 3: of our life. And when he passed away, like that 195 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 3: all went away. So although I felt selfish thinking that 196 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 3: I get to have the second chance and I don't 197 00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 3: want to be in the support role, I really do 198 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:49,079 Speaker 3: feel kind of guilty about that. Like I'm not dying 199 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 3: to babysit my grandchildren four nights a week. I'll babysit them, 200 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 3: but you know, I still feel like I want to 201 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 3: have a life, And so that felt really selfish for 202 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:02,239 Speaker 3: a while. But now, like that whole thing about being invisible, 203 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 3: like I don't accept that anymore. You just I'm not 204 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 3: accepting that. You know, you need to live your best life, 205 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:08,559 Speaker 3: damn straight. 206 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:20,679 Speaker 4: One of the things I was thinking about when trist 207 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:24,199 Speaker 4: To asked you that question was, you know, I think 208 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:27,680 Speaker 4: about my mom and I think about people who you 209 00:10:27,720 --> 00:10:29,719 Speaker 4: know are are much older than you, obviously, but I'm 210 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 4: just thinking about like when they move into this phase 211 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:34,200 Speaker 4: of their life and they put everyone before themselves, and 212 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 4: that's what you do, right as a grandparent, and and 213 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 4: it's I see it as a as a father, you know. 214 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:41,680 Speaker 4: I know Trista sees it, you know, I see it 215 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 4: with my little kids. I'm always like, well, it used 216 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 4: to be so important to me to do this, this 217 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 4: and this, and now I'm like, it's my reason not 218 00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:48,319 Speaker 4: to do things. 219 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:50,760 Speaker 1: You know, I got sorry, guys, I got kids. 220 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:50,880 Speaker 3: Now. 221 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 1: Can't be the I can't. 222 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 3: Say out after eight it's not me. I'm fine. 223 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:59,079 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I'm perfectly fine. I can tell yeah. No, 224 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 4: I love that you said that. I think I think 225 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 4: you might be probably one of the least invisible people 226 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 4: in the world right now. 227 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 3: So I think from that perspective for this one little moment. 228 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:10,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, feel comfortable and confident knowing that. But I think 229 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:13,200 Speaker 4: I think you have a way about you that's really lovely, Joan, 230 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:14,960 Speaker 4: I really do. And I think that for you to 231 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 4: be in this position, much like when Trista accepted the reins, 232 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:20,520 Speaker 4: you know, so many years ago, I think it's all 233 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 4: about the right people and I and I definitely am 234 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:25,600 Speaker 4: so thankful that it's you, because I just I love 235 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:27,440 Speaker 4: when we Matt, and I think you're just such a 236 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:31,319 Speaker 4: wonderful example of how to embrace this stage. And and 237 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 4: I just am so excited to watch your season. 238 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:36,920 Speaker 3: Thank you. I think the story is way less about me. 239 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:38,680 Speaker 3: I mean, I do agree with you. You have to 240 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:40,480 Speaker 3: have a person that's in the lead position that can 241 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 3: carry in a conversation. But if you have somebody good 242 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 3: on the other end, the story like shifts from you 243 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:47,720 Speaker 3: and goes to them, because like everybody kind of knows 244 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 3: me now, and we have those them's all those guys 245 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:51,880 Speaker 3: are really good. 246 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:56,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a good looking crew of older gentlemen. I 247 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:57,080 Speaker 4: will tell you that much. 248 00:11:57,240 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, and they are. 249 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 1: It got me back into the gym. 250 00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:06,160 Speaker 4: I actually literally I was like looking at your guys, 251 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 4: I'm like, what the hell am I doing sitting on 252 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:08,000 Speaker 4: the couch. 253 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:10,959 Speaker 1: And I got back after it. 254 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 3: Come Bob, you have all your hand but you're good 255 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:13,679 Speaker 3: luck in. 256 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:16,400 Speaker 1: Oh thanks, I love it. 257 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:20,719 Speaker 5: It's amazing. It inspired Bob Guinea to get back in 258 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:21,080 Speaker 5: the gym. 259 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 3: Maybe. 260 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean that's a headline right there. 261 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:28,800 Speaker 3: That's that's the that's the sound bite from this interview. 262 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 1: There's one. 263 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 3: I had nothing good to say. 264 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:38,160 Speaker 2: Oh gosh, okay, So last question before we go. If 265 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:40,320 Speaker 2: you get married and if you get married on well, 266 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:45,720 Speaker 2: if you get married on television, can I'm hoping I 267 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:48,680 Speaker 2: can be invited, but because Bob holds it against me, 268 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:51,959 Speaker 2: like every single time we talked, can Bob be invited 269 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:54,120 Speaker 2: to JO? 270 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:56,400 Speaker 1: Before you even answer that, I will tell you this. 271 00:12:56,640 --> 00:12:58,080 Speaker 3: You give a good gift. 272 00:12:58,120 --> 00:12:59,079 Speaker 1: I give great gift. 273 00:12:59,160 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 4: But the things I have not been invited to in 274 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 4: Bachelor Nation, I haven't worked out. 275 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 1: I'm just going to say it. 276 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:10,040 Speaker 4: They the ones that I have been at, are all 277 00:13:10,080 --> 00:13:12,800 Speaker 4: still going strong. That's all I'll say. 278 00:13:12,920 --> 00:13:15,719 Speaker 3: If I get married, if I get married on JEP, 279 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:18,880 Speaker 3: if I get married at all, you guys both are invited. 280 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:21,720 Speaker 3: And with the ones because I've never met your wife 281 00:13:21,840 --> 00:13:23,080 Speaker 3: and Bob, I need to meet your wife. 282 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:23,840 Speaker 4: Oh you do. 283 00:13:24,960 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 1: You would love her, You would love her? 284 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 3: Everybody You're both are invited. O my god, I mean 285 00:13:29,080 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 3: I love you guys. You know there's a special bond 286 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:33,320 Speaker 3: that you have with other people from Bachelor Nation. That's 287 00:13:33,360 --> 00:13:36,040 Speaker 3: weird because like most of us are total strangers until 288 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:38,080 Speaker 3: we meet, and then once you meet, we're like the 289 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:40,400 Speaker 3: best of friends because we've shared this weird journey. So 290 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 3: you guys are so and of course awesome. 291 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 4: Thank you Trista, Thank you John. Of course I'm so 292 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 4: much happier now. I feel like the way the world's 293 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:50,200 Speaker 4: off my shoulders because that was on my list. 294 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 3: So that's why you need to go to the gym because 295 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:53,240 Speaker 3: of that way to the world. 296 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:54,880 Speaker 1: Check that one off the. 297 00:13:57,000 --> 00:13:59,559 Speaker 3: Okay, now you know I'm going to be required to 298 00:13:59,559 --> 00:14:00,920 Speaker 3: come to all your children's weddings. 299 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:04,720 Speaker 4: Okay, Oh absolutely, you're in minor ways off. 300 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 1: I think. 301 00:14:07,800 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 3: I follow you on Instagram. I see your little ones. 302 00:14:09,679 --> 00:14:14,240 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, they're exhausting but wonderful, but wonderful. 303 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:15,440 Speaker 3: Yes, I know I had. 304 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:19,040 Speaker 2: Four, So I know you have one more interview and 305 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 2: you've been sitting in that chair all day long. 306 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:23,440 Speaker 1: Yes, so let you go. 307 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 5: But thank you so much for coming on the almost 308 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 5: famous o G. 309 00:14:27,360 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 3: I love you guys. This was when I was working. 310 00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:31,400 Speaker 3: I was looking forward to the most out of all 311 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:33,200 Speaker 3: of them today. So I love seeing you guys, and 312 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 3: thank you for wanting to talk to me. 313 00:14:35,360 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 1: Absolutely, we love you too. 314 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:39,120 Speaker 4: We wish you the best and here's to the best 315 00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:40,120 Speaker 4: season so far. 316 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 1: We're very excited for it. 317 00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 3: Thank you, I'm excited, text me, tell me, but you will. Oh, 318 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 3: I know all right. I love you. 319 00:14:50,520 --> 00:14:50,880 Speaker 2: By bye. 320 00:14:51,880 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 3: Follow the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast on iHeartRadio, 321 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 3: or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.