WEBVTT - Only Child Energy Feat. Tim Chantarangsu 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.520 Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife. 0:00:03.680 --> 0:00:06.440 She couldn't. She cleaned and cared for her children and 0:00:06.480 --> 0:00:08.840 the man of the house, and of course she didn't 0:00:08.960 --> 0:00:12.240 talk back. She was both obedient and soft by nature. 0:00:12.360 --> 0:00:15.680 She was a good woman who always made good choices. 0:00:17.440 --> 0:00:18.759 We're good mom's bad choices. 0:00:18.800 --> 0:00:21.520 Who's single mom who said fuck the patriarchy? Shared all 0:00:21.520 --> 0:00:22.640 their bad choices. 0:00:22.320 --> 0:00:23.600 And sound out they were so bad. 0:00:23.640 --> 0:00:26.600 After all, we're experts, overshares and your new besties. 0:00:26.720 --> 0:00:28.240 Sit back and enjoy the ride. 0:00:28.800 --> 0:00:29.320 I can do it. 0:00:32.320 --> 0:00:34.680 Welcome back to good Mom's bad Choices. I'm Erica and 0:00:34.720 --> 0:00:35.200 I'm Mela. 0:00:35.560 --> 0:00:36.680 Happy humpday, hose. 0:00:36.840 --> 0:00:40.560 It's Wednesday, bitches, it's a Wednesday, bitch. It's a Wednesday, bitch. 0:00:41.880 --> 0:00:44.960 The week amen, I mean, but not amen, because I 0:00:44.960 --> 0:00:46.319 wish it would just slow down a little bit. 0:00:46.400 --> 0:00:46.760 I don't. 0:00:46.880 --> 0:00:48.320 I were leaving on Monday, but I got you know, 0:00:48.360 --> 0:00:49.160 your shit together? 0:00:49.240 --> 0:00:52.360 Yeah, wait till the weekend. I'm sorry now, bitch, start. 0:00:52.080 --> 0:00:53.159 Today, start packing? 0:00:53.240 --> 0:00:55.120 Yeah okay, so like make it easier. 0:00:55.200 --> 0:00:56.880 I mean when I go over retreat, I have one 0:00:56.920 --> 0:00:57.800 drawers bathing suits. 0:00:57.800 --> 0:01:00.000 I literally just no, no, no, this is a lie. Because 0:01:00.000 --> 0:01:02.840 because the last time we went on a fucking retreat 0:01:02.840 --> 0:01:06.520 to Bally, this bitch came with like thirty thousand suitcases 0:01:06.640 --> 0:01:09.200 and was acting like I was crazy because she had 0:01:09.400 --> 0:01:13.400 two full, large suitcases. And she was like, it's fine, 0:01:13.400 --> 0:01:14.160 it's fine, it's fine. 0:01:14.200 --> 0:01:16.280 And then what happened. Y'all know about. 0:01:16.040 --> 0:01:17.120 The suitcase gate? 0:01:17.440 --> 0:01:19.080 Bitch, you always have two suitcases. 0:01:19.120 --> 0:01:23.240 One know, our friend Aaron. 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:28.320 Stripped body searched because of all of our suitcases. 0:01:28.959 --> 0:01:30.880 I was really it was a month. We were gone 0:01:30.880 --> 0:01:31.200 for three. 0:01:31.280 --> 0:01:33.880 We actually wanted to talk to you about this, don't 0:01:33.920 --> 0:01:36.119 you dare? I really want to encourage you to bring 0:01:36.200 --> 0:01:37.560 one suitcase, just one. 0:01:37.640 --> 0:01:38.920 I can't be going to you guys. We're only gonna 0:01:38.920 --> 0:01:41.080 go for two weeks. It's gonna be hot. I barely 0:01:41.160 --> 0:01:43.839 were barely were any closed. That is under the weight. 0:01:45.040 --> 0:01:48.520 I know you're not talking to me. You always have suitcases. 0:01:48.000 --> 0:01:49.560 I have because I packed the retreat back. 0:01:50.000 --> 0:01:52.960 No you're personals, No, yes you do. 0:01:53.160 --> 0:01:54.120 You always pack heavy. 0:01:55.240 --> 0:01:57.360 One time we go to Thailand once, I have one 0:01:57.400 --> 0:02:00.400 bag more than hers twenty of retreats one time. 0:02:00.960 --> 0:02:03.280 Anyway, Now she's giving me a fucking demo. 0:02:03.920 --> 0:02:05.680 Packer suitcase this weekend, this week. 0:02:06.440 --> 0:02:07.360 Fine ship. 0:02:08.560 --> 0:02:11.920 Anyway, we have a special guest today. 0:02:11.919 --> 0:02:12.119 Guys. 0:02:12.160 --> 0:02:14.520 I'm really excited because this has been one in the 0:02:15.000 --> 0:02:17.560 We've been waiting for him to come on, and we've 0:02:17.600 --> 0:02:20.600 been trying, and we've been canceled, and he canceled us, 0:02:20.680 --> 0:02:21.639 and then we canceled him. 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:24.639 And you can't say canceled. I can saye reschedule, you know, 0:02:24.680 --> 0:02:25.720 cancel me something different. 0:02:25.919 --> 0:02:26.400 Okay, that's true. 0:02:26.360 --> 0:02:31.480 We're talking about that later. And I'm really excited to 0:02:31.520 --> 0:02:38.040 have him on the show. Podcast host, YouTube legend daddy, 0:02:38.080 --> 0:02:41.160 Tim Chountaronga suit Wow. 0:02:44.880 --> 0:02:45.680 Chantagau. 0:02:47.400 --> 0:02:51.280 Yes, yes it was. That's so good. That's so good. 0:02:51.360 --> 0:02:54.919 Yeah, it's from No Chaser Pod and just wiling out 0:02:54.960 --> 0:02:55.679 all the things. 0:02:55.560 --> 0:02:57.320 All the things. Hey man, thanks for having me. It's 0:02:57.320 --> 0:02:59.840 been a struggle to finally link up and get together. 0:03:00.200 --> 0:03:02.320 It was such a struggle. I was like, they're not 0:03:02.480 --> 0:03:04.600 They're probably not in La They probably like are in 0:03:04.600 --> 0:03:08.040 another city somewhere. Yeah. Well, hey, I'm glad we could 0:03:08.040 --> 0:03:10.080 finally make it happen. It almost didn't happen. Like I 0:03:10.120 --> 0:03:12.960 told you this morning, I had a whole schedule mishap, 0:03:13.040 --> 0:03:15.760 I had to cancel another podcast session, but I was 0:03:15.800 --> 0:03:16.880 not gonna miss this. 0:03:17.120 --> 0:03:19.480 Thank you, thank you. You know you're coming on good moms. 0:03:19.560 --> 0:03:22.040 We needed a good dad to come brace us with 0:03:22.080 --> 0:03:25.160 his presence, So we're very appreciative. If you guys don't 0:03:25.160 --> 0:03:27.280 know anything about LA, you could literally live in the 0:03:27.320 --> 0:03:29.440 city over and it could basically be like you're living 0:03:29.480 --> 0:03:33.600 in San Diego because traffic and schedules. It just basically 0:03:33.880 --> 0:03:36.480 that like, if you don't live in the nearby city 0:03:37.120 --> 0:03:40.000 a little bit over, then it's just New York. 0:03:40.000 --> 0:03:42.880 And that's the thing too. I just I know that 0:03:43.040 --> 0:03:46.920 LA people kind of have a like people think we're flaky. 0:03:47.360 --> 0:03:49.960 So I was like, if y'all aren't from LA, I 0:03:50.120 --> 0:03:53.160 was like, let me make sure I will. Yeah. But 0:03:53.480 --> 0:03:55.280 if you were from LA, I was like, I'm not 0:03:55.320 --> 0:03:57.760 trying to be that LA flake. So I try to commit. 0:03:57.840 --> 0:03:59.200 You know what I'm saying. If I lock something in, 0:03:59.240 --> 0:04:00.800 I'm like, I'm pulled up, you know. 0:04:01.040 --> 0:04:02.960 You know, you know, I appreciate you. You're doing your 0:04:02.960 --> 0:04:08.200 big one for us, for us other fellow flaky a layers. Wait, 0:04:08.280 --> 0:04:10.720 so Tim you are you grew up out here right 0:04:10.880 --> 0:04:11.920 or did you grow up in Montana? 0:04:12.080 --> 0:04:13.000 You were born in I. 0:04:13.040 --> 0:04:15.040 Was born in Montana, and I was like, I. 0:04:15.000 --> 0:04:17.600 Gotta ask him if he knows anything about Montana. I 0:04:17.640 --> 0:04:20.640 can't imagine. Is there like a large Asian community in Montana? 0:04:20.760 --> 0:04:22.640 Of course of my parents, it was just us and 0:04:22.680 --> 0:04:27.159 then we left and now, but we left when I 0:04:27.200 --> 0:04:27.640 was a baby. 0:04:27.720 --> 0:04:29.200 Okay, so you're not a Montanan. 0:04:29.360 --> 0:04:31.240 No, I'm not a Montana And I've been in Long 0:04:31.240 --> 0:04:33.560 Beach since I was a baby. Well, Long Beach and 0:04:33.600 --> 0:04:37.080 then Paramount is where I spent like my young adult life. 0:04:37.080 --> 0:04:39.840 Went to high school in Paramount, but Long Beach before that, 0:04:40.120 --> 0:04:41.680 my family had a type food restaurant in Paramount for 0:04:41.720 --> 0:04:45.239 like twenty years. Oh wow restaurant. Yeah, yeah, they retired 0:04:45.240 --> 0:04:45.840 a few years ago. 0:04:46.760 --> 0:04:47.919 Did you ever work at the restaurant? 0:04:48.160 --> 0:04:50.160 Yeah? You know, I was. I was that like, I mean, 0:04:50.160 --> 0:04:52.440 I don't know if you're familiar with like the stereotypical 0:04:52.520 --> 0:04:57.440 Asian uh like lore of when a family has a restaurant, 0:04:57.760 --> 0:04:59.240 tell us it's a whole thing. Where was like if 0:04:59.279 --> 0:05:02.240 you go into a mom and pop Asian restaurant and 0:05:02.279 --> 0:05:04.200 you see a little kid doing homework at the table, Oh, 0:05:04.279 --> 0:05:08.359 I've seen and you know the food is fire. Yeah, 0:05:08.640 --> 0:05:10.440 it's just and that was me. You know what I'm saying, 0:05:10.440 --> 0:05:13.880 after school, i'd be at a table, had I would 0:05:14.040 --> 0:05:16.720 I controlled what the restaurant watched because I had the remote. 0:05:18.160 --> 0:05:19.680 I was just there doing homework. And when I got 0:05:19.720 --> 0:05:22.839 old enough, I was like, you know, busting tables and 0:05:22.880 --> 0:05:28.479 eventually serving and sweeping and mopping siblings. Just me, You're 0:05:28.520 --> 0:05:32.960 the child, just me, the only boy, the only child. 0:05:33.000 --> 0:05:35.920 What was that like being the only child of very 0:05:36.000 --> 0:05:37.280 highly attentive parents are now? 0:05:37.600 --> 0:05:40.480 Yeah, you know what I always tell people like I 0:05:40.560 --> 0:05:43.719 was never that kid that was lonely being an only child, 0:05:44.040 --> 0:05:46.839 or I never felt like, oh you know I was 0:05:46.880 --> 0:05:49.400 so you know, I just I didn't have any friends. 0:05:49.440 --> 0:05:52.039 I had a great childhood. I had a good time. 0:05:52.160 --> 0:05:57.200 I high key feel like I am successful at what 0:05:57.279 --> 0:06:00.120 I'm doing because of my only child, niss, you know 0:06:00.160 --> 0:06:04.880 what I'm saying, Like I was always just imagining things 0:06:04.920 --> 0:06:08.240 and being creative. And also like I watched a lot 0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:10.839 of TV. I was a TV baby, watched so much. 0:06:11.480 --> 0:06:14.279 I feel like that's really helped mold my sense of humor. 0:06:14.480 --> 0:06:14.720 You know. 0:06:14.839 --> 0:06:17.520 So I don't think i'd be who I was if 0:06:17.520 --> 0:06:22.640 I wasn't an only child, to be honest. So, yeah, man, 0:06:22.720 --> 0:06:24.479 I had a great time. So when when Wifey was like, 0:06:24.480 --> 0:06:26.120 you know, she was trying to have like four kids. 0:06:28.120 --> 0:06:29.840 You know, things have changed now that we've been in 0:06:29.880 --> 0:06:32.599 the thick of it with the two, but initially she 0:06:32.640 --> 0:06:35.720 wanted four, and I'm like, look, man, I turned out amazing. 0:06:36.880 --> 0:06:39.360 If you want to stop after baby girl, I am 0:06:39.680 --> 0:06:44.160 good with that. But she comes from she has a 0:06:44.160 --> 0:06:46.000 couple siblings and a lot of little cousins running around 0:06:46.040 --> 0:06:51.080 that that wasn't really my life, but she she always 0:06:51.160 --> 0:06:54.120 kind of envisioned like four babies running around and then once. 0:06:54.320 --> 0:06:56.039 But when we were in the thick of it with 0:06:56.200 --> 0:06:58.919 my son when he was born, they're two years apart. 0:06:58.960 --> 0:07:00.599 So when he was born and we were like in 0:07:00.720 --> 0:07:03.240 it and my daughter was two. When he was a baby, 0:07:03.279 --> 0:07:06.680 I was like, hey, hey, done, We're done. I was ready. 0:07:06.720 --> 0:07:08.880 I was ready to like get my tubes tied and 0:07:09.160 --> 0:07:10.800 be done, you know what I'm saying. But she was like, hey, 0:07:10.800 --> 0:07:13.480 now I just wait too, throwing a routine and sleep 0:07:13.520 --> 0:07:16.760 train and ones in school and daycare and it calms down, 0:07:16.800 --> 0:07:18.560 and I'm like, okay, and she's right, you know what 0:07:18.560 --> 0:07:23.880 I'm saying. Like if if we had the conversation right now. 0:07:24.280 --> 0:07:26.760 Sometimes when I'm on my phone, I'm looking at baby 0:07:26.760 --> 0:07:30.400 pictures of them. I'm like, I may maybe. 0:07:30.080 --> 0:07:32.280 But you know, as someone who was an only child 0:07:32.280 --> 0:07:35.240 for a considerable amount of time, I became an un 0:07:35.920 --> 0:07:39.200 became un only child when I was around and only. Yeah, 0:07:39.240 --> 0:07:41.840 they un only childed me around the age of thirteen, 0:07:43.400 --> 0:07:48.840 and to my uh sadness, I will say, I think 0:07:48.880 --> 0:07:51.280 that's probably why, like a, I never really wanted kids, 0:07:51.320 --> 0:07:54.440 because I nb, like I'm I could have another child, 0:07:54.480 --> 0:07:56.800 but like I'm good with one, and like I think 0:07:56.800 --> 0:07:59.120 about my childhood like I had a great time. 0:07:59.320 --> 0:08:01.440 Yeah, man, yeah you feel Wait. 0:08:01.320 --> 0:08:03.240 Now you're good with one. Two weeks ago you said 0:08:03.240 --> 0:08:04.840 you wanted for sure to have another, BASI I could 0:08:04.840 --> 0:08:05.200 have another. 0:08:05.880 --> 0:08:07.840 That's why I'm open to having other one, but like 0:08:07.920 --> 0:08:09.920 I'm also good for one. I've always said that too, 0:08:10.000 --> 0:08:12.200 though too like I'm not forcing it, but like I 0:08:12.240 --> 0:08:14.720 have a really good kid, like I'm I don't. You 0:08:14.760 --> 0:08:17.760 can play the lotto and see what happens. But I'm 0:08:17.800 --> 0:08:19.560 open to it. If I have this, you know, if 0:08:19.600 --> 0:08:20.880 me and my man have this, like you know, we're 0:08:20.920 --> 0:08:23.520 on the same page about parenting. But I think that 0:08:23.960 --> 0:08:25.760 a lot of times people look at only children, and 0:08:25.760 --> 0:08:28.920 they're like, are you okay? Have anybody are you? I'm 0:08:28.920 --> 0:08:30.000 like not, Actually it was great. 0:08:30.320 --> 0:08:31.520 I had a ball. 0:08:32.920 --> 0:08:33.280 About me. 0:08:33.760 --> 0:08:36.600 Yeah. But I also feel like that's why I'm so 0:08:36.679 --> 0:08:40.280 close to like my bestI homies now or like my 0:08:40.600 --> 0:08:43.640 boys from high school. That's like twenty plus years of 0:08:43.679 --> 0:08:46.120 friendship what I'm saying, And I feel like like those 0:08:46.160 --> 0:08:48.080 are my like my brothers, you know, like I don't 0:08:48.120 --> 0:08:53.880 necessarily feel like I needed a sibling around me. But 0:08:54.600 --> 0:08:58.160 you know, she wanted she but that, but I was down. Also, yeah, sure, 0:08:58.200 --> 0:08:59.680 like let's let's make babies. You know. 0:08:59.800 --> 0:09:02.840 So I know that you and your partner your wife 0:09:03.960 --> 0:09:06.480 were long distance for like seven years, right, How the 0:09:06.480 --> 0:09:07.040 fuck did. 0:09:06.920 --> 0:09:07.280 You do that? 0:09:07.360 --> 0:09:07.560 Yeah? 0:09:07.559 --> 0:09:12.680 That's crazy, man, Look it was difficult at first. 0:09:12.760 --> 0:09:13.440 I mean it helps me. 0:09:13.480 --> 0:09:14.959 You have a coin, because what the fuck? 0:09:15.120 --> 0:09:16.960 That's the thing. Okay, So I always tell people when 0:09:16.960 --> 0:09:18.920 people ask me for advice. When the young ends asked 0:09:18.920 --> 0:09:20.679 me for advice, like, hey, you know, how do you 0:09:20.720 --> 0:09:25.880 make long distance thing work? It's a couple like key elements, 0:09:25.880 --> 0:09:28.840 all right, one being like, okay, yes, communication all that 0:09:28.880 --> 0:09:33.120 bullshit blah blah blah. But also, you gotta have money. 0:09:33.559 --> 0:09:37.520 You can't be broke. You gotta have money because if we, yes, 0:09:37.600 --> 0:09:39.400 if we were going for like years what I was 0:09:39.400 --> 0:09:41.480 seeing each other not, that wouldn't have worked. But we 0:09:41.480 --> 0:09:43.840 were able to, like financially on both ends be like, Okay, 0:09:43.960 --> 0:09:46.040 I'll see you. We saw you basically every month, right, 0:09:46.400 --> 0:09:48.760 And then the fact that I think you also need 0:09:48.800 --> 0:09:51.840 to have lives that don't revolve around the other person. 0:09:52.240 --> 0:09:55.280 So she had a nail shop in Canada that we 0:09:55.280 --> 0:09:57.240 were Yeah, she was long distance Canada. She had her 0:09:57.280 --> 0:09:59.640 own nail shop, so she was busy running her ship 0:09:59.720 --> 0:10:01.319 and I I was busy doing what I was doing 0:10:01.360 --> 0:10:04.160 over here. And we also since she was her own boss, 0:10:04.240 --> 0:10:06.200 she could leave whenever she wanted to, and I made 0:10:06.200 --> 0:10:09.040 my own schedule, so we had time and funds to 0:10:09.120 --> 0:10:11.880 make it work right. And also, you know, I think 0:10:11.920 --> 0:10:14.680 it got to a point where we got into a rhythm. 0:10:14.720 --> 0:10:16.040 You know what I'm saying. Yeah, Like first year, we 0:10:16.040 --> 0:10:18.200 were maybe crying at the airport, but then after like said, 0:10:18.240 --> 0:10:19.760 you were like a man, I should see you the month. 0:10:19.800 --> 0:10:22.960 We're good because then I would map out my week. 0:10:23.000 --> 0:10:25.120 I would you know, I wasn't talking to nobody. Everybody 0:10:25.160 --> 0:10:27.400 knew if wifey was in or not wifey at the time. 0:10:27.400 --> 0:10:30.640 But when Chia was in town, I wasn't doing any work, 0:10:30.679 --> 0:10:33.560 I wasn't taking any meetings. I wasn't even outside, you know. 0:10:33.640 --> 0:10:36.760 I was just like, I'm locked in. We're here. And 0:10:36.920 --> 0:10:40.080 also she's she's just a very confident person. Like people 0:10:40.080 --> 0:10:42.320 would always be like, aren't you afraid of like, you know, 0:10:42.640 --> 0:10:44.960 them cheating on you or this and that. I'm like, well, 0:10:44.960 --> 0:10:49.120 look man like, like girls are smart, right, It's like 0:10:49.240 --> 0:10:51.920 if she could be living ten minutes from me and 0:10:51.960 --> 0:10:53.520 could be cheating on me and I would never know, 0:10:53.840 --> 0:10:57.319 So why stress myself about something I will never even know, 0:10:57.440 --> 0:10:58.520 you know what I mean. So it's like you really 0:10:58.559 --> 0:11:01.640 just have to trust and believe in and be okay 0:11:01.920 --> 0:11:02.880 with what's going on. 0:11:03.080 --> 0:11:06.400 You know, were you guys like monogamous for that for 0:11:06.440 --> 0:11:08.920 those seven years or were you kind of like, you know, 0:11:09.080 --> 0:11:12.800 we're far away for it thing might happen for the seven. 0:11:12.559 --> 0:11:14.559 Years of long distance when I was officially like, hey 0:11:14.559 --> 0:11:17.240 be my girlfriend, Yeah, it was a monogamous thing. There 0:11:17.360 --> 0:11:19.960 was a year where we were feeling each other out 0:11:20.080 --> 0:11:22.800 and the kind of understanding was Okay, look, hey, this 0:11:22.840 --> 0:11:26.559 is this is brand new. I was fresh out of 0:11:26.600 --> 0:11:29.560 a relationship. So I was like, I'm still kind of 0:11:29.679 --> 0:11:33.839 enjoying what I got going on my singleness, and the 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:37.240 singleness also kind of lined up with when the YouTube 0:11:37.240 --> 0:11:40.040 ship was was popping and I was happening to be 0:11:40.120 --> 0:11:43.120 on tour, so I was like just hoeing out this 0:11:43.400 --> 0:11:46.120 and I was going in for a little bit. And 0:11:46.160 --> 0:11:47.520 it did kind of get to a point where she 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:51.520 was like, all right, look man, look, uh, you gotta 0:11:51.559 --> 0:11:53.720 you gotta figure it out. You you trying, I'm not. 0:11:54.200 --> 0:11:58.320 You gotta choose these these these canodleans you're doing on 0:11:58.360 --> 0:12:00.439 the side or or me, because I I don't know 0:12:00.480 --> 0:12:03.120 what's going on right And I really did. 0:12:03.440 --> 0:12:03.840 Uh. 0:12:04.440 --> 0:12:06.400 It was a struggle for a second because I was like, Ship, 0:12:06.440 --> 0:12:08.200 I'm not I'm not ready. I don't know if I'm 0:12:08.320 --> 0:12:12.240 actually ready for the commitment yet. And then and this 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:14.520 is what kind of showed me how different she was, 0:12:14.640 --> 0:12:18.520 just like how she thinks. Right. The next day, she 0:12:18.600 --> 0:12:20.240 was like, you know what, I apologize, I'll take it back. 0:12:20.960 --> 0:12:22.920 She was like, it's not fair that we're long distance. 0:12:22.920 --> 0:12:24.880 That's not your fault. It's not your fault that you're 0:12:24.920 --> 0:12:28.480 fresh out of a relationship. If I it's not fair 0:12:28.520 --> 0:12:31.800 for me to pressure you right now if if if 0:12:31.840 --> 0:12:34.120 I pressure you, it's just it's not going to work 0:12:34.120 --> 0:12:36.320 out for either of us. So she's like, all right, 0:12:36.400 --> 0:12:38.439 do your thing and then you just let me know 0:12:38.520 --> 0:12:41.479 when you're ready, okay, And I was like, oh ship, she. 0:12:41.200 --> 0:12:46.439 She got game, yes, and thinking. 0:12:46.200 --> 0:12:52.480 Like what it wasn't It wasn't even the whole side 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:55.480 of it that that that that tricked me. It was 0:12:55.520 --> 0:12:56.880 me being like, whoa, she's. 0:12:56.720 --> 0:12:59.640 Different, let me do it. She gets it, she gets me. 0:13:00.160 --> 0:13:04.120 She's like, I've never met a woman who thinks of 0:13:04.200 --> 0:13:05.359 things so objectively. 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:06.960 She's aware. 0:13:07.640 --> 0:13:09.559 I was like, okay, I need to lock this down 0:13:09.600 --> 0:13:10.880 before she gets sick of my ship. 0:13:12.600 --> 0:13:14.920 For somebody else. Realize she's aware and rational. 0:13:15.160 --> 0:13:19.560 Yeah, I need that a rational girl. This is crazy. 0:13:20.360 --> 0:13:21.880 I mean I feel like for a lot of women, 0:13:21.880 --> 0:13:24.439 if you're listening, like pair pursuring motherfucker to get in 0:13:24.440 --> 0:13:26.680 a relationship is not the way now. I was waiting 0:13:26.720 --> 0:13:29.199 around for one hundred years for someone to take you seriously, 0:13:29.200 --> 0:13:31.520 it's also not the way right right, But also like 0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:34.719 a bit you like, anytime someone presses someone else to 0:13:34.760 --> 0:13:37.880 do it, it's not gonna don't rush anyone into some marriage. 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:40.560 I've been watching ninety Day Fiance, which is my like addiction, 0:13:41.480 --> 0:13:44.920 and it's it's also a little insane because these people 0:13:45.000 --> 0:13:46.040 are actually insane. 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:48.400 I started watching it in your honor, but I don't know, 0:13:48.960 --> 0:13:49.880 I don't know what seas. 0:13:49.640 --> 0:13:50.240 There's one hundred. 0:13:50.640 --> 0:13:53.160 I started like closer to where we're at now presently, 0:13:53.200 --> 0:13:55.160 but it's actually I realized it's the pandemic. 0:13:55.240 --> 0:13:56.600 Yeah, it's like fresh out. 0:13:56.520 --> 0:13:58.720 The past, season eight, I think, because I'm in the 0:13:58.720 --> 0:13:59.480 pandemic with the. 0:13:59.440 --> 0:14:01.559 Bitch who's boyfriend was underwear model. 0:14:01.760 --> 0:14:04.280 No, you just gotta fast forward to Big Ed season, 0:14:04.640 --> 0:14:07.240 which one is that it's a dude. It's ad with 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:10.840 no neck. I've seen that clips and his shit is 0:14:10.920 --> 0:14:16.040 so funny because his his chick, his fiance, they're like 0:14:16.240 --> 0:14:20.440 in the they are in the the the not not 0:14:20.920 --> 0:14:23.720 rich part of the Philippines, right, so he's trying to 0:14:23.800 --> 0:14:26.120 like he's trying to be nice and meet her dad 0:14:26.120 --> 0:14:29.480 and ship, and but then like he's in this this 0:14:29.640 --> 0:14:32.360 bathroom and like and I'm familiar because like my family 0:14:32.360 --> 0:14:34.120 in Thailand it was it was living like that at 0:14:34.120 --> 0:14:36.480 a point too, right, And it's just like the plumbing 0:14:36.560 --> 0:14:38.640 is not really all the way plumbing and he's trying 0:14:38.640 --> 0:14:40.800 to shower and he's like, he said, what the fuck 0:14:40.880 --> 0:14:43.480 is that? It's a big ass rat. He's like, what 0:14:43.480 --> 0:14:45.560 the fuck is that? And she's just like, oh, yeah, 0:14:46.160 --> 0:14:50.560 you know, it's a rat. And he's so big and 0:14:50.640 --> 0:14:55.520 so sweaty. It's hilarious. White man, he is a white man. 0:14:55.560 --> 0:14:57.280 You've seen him, You've seen him on this clips. 0:14:57.360 --> 0:14:57.520 Yeah. 0:14:57.800 --> 0:15:00.080 I only own that because before we started recording, we 0:15:00.080 --> 0:15:03.560 were telling Tim that we went to Thailand and the 0:15:03.560 --> 0:15:05.400 food was amazing and all the things were amazing, but 0:15:05.440 --> 0:15:09.400 one of the things that was absolutely astonishing were the 0:15:09.520 --> 0:15:14.600 older white men that frequent Thailand for a very specific reason. 0:15:15.400 --> 0:15:17.560 Hose ye all types of hosts. 0:15:17.360 --> 0:15:21.120 Yea lady hose, lady boy, hose, regular hose, underage hoes, 0:15:21.160 --> 0:15:21.840 like all types of shit. 0:15:21.920 --> 0:15:23.160 I was like, what the fuck. 0:15:23.600 --> 0:15:26.240 So it just makes I'm wondering if Ed is one 0:15:26.240 --> 0:15:27.960 of those kind of guys. He's just fell in love 0:15:27.960 --> 0:15:31.440 with them, the young TI girl. Probably, yeah, is that 0:15:31.480 --> 0:15:31.880 giving that? 0:15:32.000 --> 0:15:33.080 I mean he probably, you. 0:15:33.040 --> 0:15:35.120 Know, I feel like a lot of the ninety day 0:15:35.160 --> 0:15:38.440 fiance you know, you'll see them with just a you know, 0:15:39.800 --> 0:15:43.040 a little tiny tiger, a little tiny Philippine out there. 0:15:43.080 --> 0:15:46.240 But hey, you know, maybe that's just you know, hey, 0:15:46.280 --> 0:15:48.400 he his chick wasn't underage. So I mean, I'm not 0:15:48.400 --> 0:15:50.880 saying every you know, a course, not all guys that 0:15:50.920 --> 0:15:52.680 are out there in Thailand looking for a wife or 0:15:52.720 --> 0:15:54.560 looking for underage girls. I mean, hey, I don't know 0:15:54.600 --> 0:15:54.920 it like. 0:15:54.880 --> 0:15:56.960 That, but there is some propaganda. 0:15:57.240 --> 0:15:59.600 There's there's a there's a whole campaign I feel like 0:16:00.120 --> 0:16:02.440 for like the Thai women, the culture like gets you 0:16:02.480 --> 0:16:03.160 an Asian woman. 0:16:03.360 --> 0:16:04.720 The Americans are gone. 0:16:04.560 --> 0:16:07.720 To shit like I've seen it, like like submissive, like 0:16:07.920 --> 0:16:09.840 they know how to wife and stuff like that. But 0:16:09.880 --> 0:16:12.560 the crazy part about that is, girl, the women are, 0:16:12.880 --> 0:16:17.360 which I'm shocked by, are equally as stupid. Literally I'm 0:16:17.360 --> 0:16:21.080 watching one right now. It's this one chick, Yes, from Georgia. 0:16:21.280 --> 0:16:24.440 She is she's her second marriage from a guy from 0:16:24.440 --> 0:16:29.560 the Middle East. Second which the second one she bought him, 0:16:29.720 --> 0:16:32.280 like she bought him like a PlayStation before he came, 0:16:32.320 --> 0:16:35.640 because he can't work. So it's just ridiculous. Another woman, 0:16:35.640 --> 0:16:37.560 she bought him a hobby. She bought him a hobby 0:16:37.600 --> 0:16:39.520 because it can't work. And he's also pressuring her to 0:16:39.520 --> 0:16:42.280 get married before Ramadan there's also another woman. 0:16:42.400 --> 0:16:45.480 She's like, very rich and successful, ridiculously. 0:16:44.920 --> 0:16:47.680 Dumb white lady who has been dating a belligian man 0:16:48.000 --> 0:16:49.440 for years, and he's playing with her. 0:16:49.640 --> 0:16:51.040 He's like, yeah, can you send me can you send 0:16:51.040 --> 0:16:52.680 me some more of those watches for my boy? Oh, 0:16:52.760 --> 0:16:54.600 my god, my boys with ans. 0:16:54.920 --> 0:16:57.360 So then she gets to belize and actually it leaves 0:16:57.400 --> 0:16:59.800 him and gets with his cousin and then has her psychic, 0:17:00.040 --> 0:17:02.080 has him to call her psychic to see the psychic 0:17:02.120 --> 0:17:04.320 look him in the eyes to tell her if he's genuine. 0:17:04.359 --> 0:17:04.959 That's crazy. 0:17:05.640 --> 0:17:07.919 Okay, she's a fifty year old. 0:17:07.600 --> 0:17:10.120 Just with seasons. I'm early in, so maybe I don't. 0:17:10.800 --> 0:17:13.280 Just you know what, it makes me realize the desperation 0:17:13.480 --> 0:17:16.240 for companionship is so high you will skip right over 0:17:16.320 --> 0:17:18.520 the love part, like some people don't speak the same 0:17:18.560 --> 0:17:19.400 language really good. 0:17:19.920 --> 0:17:21.360 It is so delusional. 0:17:21.880 --> 0:17:24.280 I'm like, you use no way you could be mail 0:17:24.359 --> 0:17:26.760 and ordering a bride or a groom so bad that 0:17:27.280 --> 0:17:29.760 you just say fuck me, I'm going to just get anybody. 0:17:29.960 --> 0:17:32.240 People are lonely, man, and people make bad choices. 0:17:32.480 --> 0:17:34.560 Speaking of bad choices. 0:17:34.080 --> 0:17:35.800 I have a question, Yeah, if you made me bad 0:17:35.840 --> 0:17:36.720