Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife.
Speaker 1: She couldn't. She cleaned and cared for her children and
Speaker 1: the man of the house, and of course she didn't
Speaker 1: talk back. She was both obedient and soft by nature.
Speaker 1: She was a good woman who always made good choices.
Speaker 2: We're good mom's bad choices.
Speaker 3: Who's single mom who said fuck the patriarchy? Shared all
Speaker 3: their bad choices.
Speaker 2: And sound out they were so bad.
Speaker 4: After all, we're experts, overshares and your new besties.
Speaker 5: Sit back and enjoy the ride.
Speaker 1: I can do it.
Speaker 4: Welcome back to good Mom's bad Choices. I'm Erica and
Speaker 4: I'm Mela.
Speaker 5: Happy humpday, hose.
Speaker 3: It's Wednesday, bitches, it's a Wednesday, bitch. It's a Wednesday, bitch.
Speaker 4: The week amen, I mean, but not amen, because I
Speaker 4: wish it would just slow down a little bit.
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 3: I were leaving on Monday, but I got you know,
Speaker 3: your shit together?
Speaker 2: Yeah, wait till the weekend. I'm sorry now, bitch, start.
Speaker 3: Today, start packing?
Speaker 5: Yeah okay, so like make it easier.
Speaker 4: I mean when I go over retreat, I have one
Speaker 4: drawers bathing suits.
Speaker 5: I literally just no, no, no, this is a lie. Because
Speaker 5: because the last time we went on a fucking retreat
Speaker 5: to Bally, this bitch came with like thirty thousand suitcases
Speaker 5: and was acting like I was crazy because she had
Speaker 5: two full, large suitcases. And she was like, it's fine,
Speaker 5: it's fine, it's fine.
Speaker 2: And then what happened. Y'all know about.
Speaker 5: The suitcase gate?
Speaker 3: Bitch, you always have two suitcases.
Speaker 2: One know, our friend Aaron.
Speaker 5: Stripped body searched because of all of our suitcases.
Speaker 3: I was really it was a month. We were gone
Speaker 3: for three.
Speaker 5: We actually wanted to talk to you about this, don't
Speaker 5: you dare? I really want to encourage you to bring
Speaker 5: one suitcase, just one.
Speaker 4: I can't be going to you guys. We're only gonna
Speaker 4: go for two weeks. It's gonna be hot. I barely
Speaker 4: were barely were any closed. That is under the weight.
Speaker 3: I know you're not talking to me. You always have suitcases.
Speaker 5: I have because I packed the retreat back.
Speaker 3: No you're personals, No, yes you do.
Speaker 2: You always pack heavy.
Speaker 4: One time we go to Thailand once, I have one
Speaker 4: bag more than hers twenty of retreats one time.
Speaker 3: Anyway, Now she's giving me a fucking demo.
Speaker 2: Packer suitcase this weekend, this week.
Speaker 3: Fine ship.
Speaker 5: Anyway, we have a special guest today.
Speaker 3: Guys.
Speaker 5: I'm really excited because this has been one in the
Speaker 5: We've been waiting for him to come on, and we've
Speaker 5: been trying, and we've been canceled, and he canceled us,
Speaker 5: and then we canceled him.
Speaker 4: And you can't say canceled. I can saye reschedule, you know,
Speaker 4: cancel me something different.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's true.
Speaker 5: We're talking about that later. And I'm really excited to
Speaker 5: have him on the show. Podcast host, YouTube legend daddy,
Speaker 5: Tim Chountaronga suit Wow.
Speaker 3: Chantagau.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes it was. That's so good. That's so good.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's from No Chaser Pod and just wiling out
Speaker 5: all the things.
Speaker 1: All the things. Hey man, thanks for having me. It's
Speaker 1: been a struggle to finally link up and get together.
Speaker 1: It was such a struggle. I was like, they're not
Speaker 1: They're probably not in La They probably like are in
Speaker 1: another city somewhere. Yeah. Well, hey, I'm glad we could
Speaker 1: finally make it happen. It almost didn't happen. Like I
Speaker 1: told you this morning, I had a whole schedule mishap,
Speaker 1: I had to cancel another podcast session, but I was
Speaker 1: not gonna miss this.
Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you. You know you're coming on good moms.
Speaker 4: We needed a good dad to come brace us with
Speaker 4: his presence, So we're very appreciative. If you guys don't
Speaker 4: know anything about LA, you could literally live in the
Speaker 4: city over and it could basically be like you're living
Speaker 4: in San Diego because traffic and schedules. It just basically
Speaker 4: that like, if you don't live in the nearby city
Speaker 4: a little bit over, then it's just New York.
Speaker 1: And that's the thing too. I just I know that
Speaker 1: LA people kind of have a like people think we're flaky.
Speaker 1: So I was like, if y'all aren't from LA, I
Speaker 1: was like, let me make sure I will. Yeah. But
Speaker 1: if you were from LA, I was like, I'm not
Speaker 1: trying to be that LA flake. So I try to commit.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. If I lock something in,
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm pulled up, you know.
Speaker 5: You know, you know, I appreciate you. You're doing your
Speaker 5: big one for us, for us other fellow flaky a layers. Wait,
Speaker 5: so Tim you are you grew up out here right
Speaker 5: or did you grow up in Montana?
Speaker 2: You were born in I.
Speaker 1: Was born in Montana, and I was like, I.
Speaker 5: Gotta ask him if he knows anything about Montana. I
Speaker 5: can't imagine. Is there like a large Asian community in Montana?
Speaker 1: Of course of my parents, it was just us and
Speaker 1: then we left and now, but we left when I
Speaker 1: was a baby.
Speaker 2: Okay, so you're not a Montanan.
Speaker 1: No, I'm not a Montana And I've been in Long
Speaker 1: Beach since I was a baby. Well, Long Beach and
Speaker 1: then Paramount is where I spent like my young adult life.
Speaker 1: Went to high school in Paramount, but Long Beach before that,
Speaker 1: my family had a type food restaurant in Paramount for
Speaker 1: like twenty years. Oh wow restaurant. Yeah, yeah, they retired
Speaker 1: a few years ago.
Speaker 2: Did you ever work at the restaurant?
Speaker 1: Yeah? You know, I was. I was that like, I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't know if you're familiar with like the stereotypical
Speaker 1: Asian uh like lore of when a family has a restaurant,
Speaker 1: tell us it's a whole thing. Where was like if
Speaker 1: you go into a mom and pop Asian restaurant and
Speaker 1: you see a little kid doing homework at the table, Oh,
Speaker 1: I've seen and you know the food is fire. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's just and that was me. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: after school, i'd be at a table, had I would
Speaker 1: I controlled what the restaurant watched because I had the remote.
Speaker 1: I was just there doing homework. And when I got
Speaker 1: old enough, I was like, you know, busting tables and
Speaker 1: eventually serving and sweeping and mopping siblings. Just me, You're
Speaker 1: the child, just me, the only boy, the only child.
Speaker 5: What was that like being the only child of very
Speaker 5: highly attentive parents are now?
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I always tell people like I
Speaker 1: was never that kid that was lonely being an only child,
Speaker 1: or I never felt like, oh you know I was
Speaker 1: so you know, I just I didn't have any friends.
Speaker 1: I had a great childhood. I had a good time.
Speaker 1: I high key feel like I am successful at what
Speaker 1: I'm doing because of my only child, niss, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like I was always just imagining things
Speaker 1: and being creative. And also like I watched a lot
Speaker 1: of TV. I was a TV baby, watched so much.
Speaker 1: I feel like that's really helped mold my sense of humor.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 1: So I don't think i'd be who I was if
Speaker 1: I wasn't an only child, to be honest. So, yeah, man,
Speaker 1: I had a great time. So when when Wifey was like,
Speaker 1: you know, she was trying to have like four kids.
Speaker 1: You know, things have changed now that we've been in
Speaker 1: the thick of it with the two, but initially she
Speaker 1: wanted four, and I'm like, look, man, I turned out amazing.
Speaker 1: If you want to stop after baby girl, I am
Speaker 1: good with that. But she comes from she has a
Speaker 1: couple siblings and a lot of little cousins running around
Speaker 1: that that wasn't really my life, but she she always
Speaker 1: kind of envisioned like four babies running around and then once.
Speaker 1: But when we were in the thick of it with
Speaker 1: my son when he was born, they're two years apart.
Speaker 1: So when he was born and we were like in
Speaker 1: it and my daughter was two. When he was a baby,
Speaker 1: I was like, hey, hey, done, We're done. I was ready.
Speaker 1: I was ready to like get my tubes tied and
Speaker 1: be done, you know what I'm saying. But she was like, hey,
Speaker 1: now I just wait too, throwing a routine and sleep
Speaker 1: train and ones in school and daycare and it calms down,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, and she's right, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Like if if we had the conversation right now.
Speaker 1: Sometimes when I'm on my phone, I'm looking at baby
Speaker 1: pictures of them. I'm like, I may maybe.
Speaker 5: But you know, as someone who was an only child
Speaker 5: for a considerable amount of time, I became an un
Speaker 5: became un only child when I was around and only. Yeah,
Speaker 5: they un only childed me around the age of thirteen,
Speaker 5: and to my uh sadness, I will say, I think
Speaker 5: that's probably why, like a, I never really wanted kids,
Speaker 5: because I nb, like I'm I could have another child,
Speaker 5: but like I'm good with one, and like I think
Speaker 5: about my childhood like I had a great time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, yeah you feel Wait.
Speaker 3: Now you're good with one. Two weeks ago you said
Speaker 3: you wanted for sure to have another, BASI I could
Speaker 3: have another.
Speaker 5: That's why I'm open to having other one, but like
Speaker 5: I'm also good for one. I've always said that too,
Speaker 5: though too like I'm not forcing it, but like I
Speaker 5: have a really good kid, like I'm I don't. You
Speaker 5: can play the lotto and see what happens. But I'm
Speaker 5: open to it. If I have this, you know, if
Speaker 5: me and my man have this, like you know, we're
Speaker 5: on the same page about parenting. But I think that
Speaker 5: a lot of times people look at only children, and
Speaker 5: they're like, are you okay? Have anybody are you? I'm
Speaker 5: like not, Actually it was great.
Speaker 1: I had a ball.
Speaker 3: About me.
Speaker 1: Yeah. But I also feel like that's why I'm so
Speaker 1: close to like my bestI homies now or like my
Speaker 1: boys from high school. That's like twenty plus years of
Speaker 1: friendship what I'm saying, And I feel like like those
Speaker 1: are my like my brothers, you know, like I don't
Speaker 1: necessarily feel like I needed a sibling around me. But
Speaker 1: you know, she wanted she but that, but I was down. Also, yeah, sure,
Speaker 1: like let's let's make babies. You know.
Speaker 5: So I know that you and your partner your wife
Speaker 5: were long distance for like seven years, right, How the
Speaker 5: fuck did.
Speaker 3: You do that?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: That's crazy, man, Look it was difficult at first.
Speaker 2: I mean it helps me.
Speaker 5: You have a coin, because what the fuck?
Speaker 1: That's the thing. Okay, So I always tell people when
Speaker 1: people ask me for advice. When the young ends asked
Speaker 1: me for advice, like, hey, you know, how do you
Speaker 1: make long distance thing work? It's a couple like key elements,
Speaker 1: all right, one being like, okay, yes, communication all that
Speaker 1: bullshit blah blah blah. But also, you gotta have money.
Speaker 1: You can't be broke. You gotta have money because if we, yes,
Speaker 1: if we were going for like years what I was
Speaker 1: seeing each other not, that wouldn't have worked. But we
Speaker 1: were able to, like financially on both ends be like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'll see you. We saw you basically every month, right,
Speaker 1: And then the fact that I think you also need
Speaker 1: to have lives that don't revolve around the other person.
Speaker 1: So she had a nail shop in Canada that we
Speaker 1: were Yeah, she was long distance Canada. She had her
Speaker 1: own nail shop, so she was busy running her ship
Speaker 1: and I I was busy doing what I was doing
Speaker 1: over here. And we also since she was her own boss,
Speaker 1: she could leave whenever she wanted to, and I made
Speaker 1: my own schedule, so we had time and funds to
Speaker 1: make it work right. And also, you know, I think
Speaker 1: it got to a point where we got into a rhythm.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Yeah, Like first year, we
Speaker 1: were maybe crying at the airport, but then after like said,
Speaker 1: you were like a man, I should see you the month.
Speaker 1: We're good because then I would map out my week.
Speaker 1: I would you know, I wasn't talking to nobody. Everybody
Speaker 1: knew if wifey was in or not wifey at the time.
Speaker 1: But when Chia was in town, I wasn't doing any work,
Speaker 1: I wasn't taking any meetings. I wasn't even outside, you know.
Speaker 1: I was just like, I'm locked in. We're here. And
Speaker 1: also she's she's just a very confident person. Like people
Speaker 1: would always be like, aren't you afraid of like, you know,
Speaker 1: them cheating on you or this and that. I'm like, well,
Speaker 1: look man like, like girls are smart, right, It's like
Speaker 1: if she could be living ten minutes from me and
Speaker 1: could be cheating on me and I would never know,
Speaker 1: So why stress myself about something I will never even know,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So it's like you really
Speaker 1: just have to trust and believe in and be okay
Speaker 1: with what's going on.
Speaker 5: You know, were you guys like monogamous for that for
Speaker 5: those seven years or were you kind of like, you know,
Speaker 5: we're far away for it thing might happen for the seven.
Speaker 1: Years of long distance when I was officially like, hey
Speaker 1: be my girlfriend, Yeah, it was a monogamous thing. There
Speaker 1: was a year where we were feeling each other out
Speaker 1: and the kind of understanding was Okay, look, hey, this
Speaker 1: is this is brand new. I was fresh out of
Speaker 1: a relationship. So I was like, I'm still kind of
Speaker 1: enjoying what I got going on my singleness, and the
Speaker 1: singleness also kind of lined up with when the YouTube
Speaker 1: ship was was popping and I was happening to be
Speaker 1: on tour, so I was like just hoeing out this
Speaker 1: and I was going in for a little bit. And
Speaker 1: it did kind of get to a point where she
Speaker 1: was like, all right, look man, look, uh, you gotta
Speaker 1: you gotta figure it out. You you trying, I'm not.
Speaker 1: You gotta choose these these these canodleans you're doing on
Speaker 1: the side or or me, because I I don't know
Speaker 1: what's going on right And I really did.
Speaker 3: Uh.
Speaker 1: It was a struggle for a second because I was like, Ship,
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not ready. I don't know if I'm
Speaker 1: actually ready for the commitment yet. And then and this
Speaker 1: is what kind of showed me how different she was,
Speaker 1: just like how she thinks. Right. The next day, she
Speaker 1: was like, you know what, I apologize, I'll take it back.
Speaker 1: She was like, it's not fair that we're long distance.
Speaker 1: That's not your fault. It's not your fault that you're
Speaker 1: fresh out of a relationship. If I it's not fair
Speaker 1: for me to pressure you right now if if if
Speaker 1: I pressure you, it's just it's not going to work
Speaker 1: out for either of us. So she's like, all right,
Speaker 1: do your thing and then you just let me know
Speaker 1: when you're ready, okay, And I was like, oh ship, she.
Speaker 5: She got game, yes, and thinking.
Speaker 1: Like what it wasn't It wasn't even the whole side
Speaker 1: of it that that that that tricked me. It was
Speaker 1: me being like, whoa, she's.
Speaker 3: Different, let me do it. She gets it, she gets me.
Speaker 1: She's like, I've never met a woman who thinks of
Speaker 1: things so objectively.
Speaker 3: She's aware.
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, I need to lock this down
Speaker 1: before she gets sick of my ship.
Speaker 3: For somebody else. Realize she's aware and rational.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I need that a rational girl. This is crazy.
Speaker 4: I mean I feel like for a lot of women,
Speaker 4: if you're listening, like pair pursuring motherfucker to get in
Speaker 4: a relationship is not the way now. I was waiting
Speaker 4: around for one hundred years for someone to take you seriously,
Speaker 4: it's also not the way right right, But also like
Speaker 4: a bit you like, anytime someone presses someone else to
Speaker 4: do it, it's not gonna don't rush anyone into some marriage.
Speaker 4: I've been watching ninety Day Fiance, which is my like addiction,
Speaker 4: and it's it's also a little insane because these people
Speaker 4: are actually insane.
Speaker 5: I started watching it in your honor, but I don't know,
Speaker 5: I don't know what seas.
Speaker 3: There's one hundred.
Speaker 5: I started like closer to where we're at now presently,
Speaker 5: but it's actually I realized it's the pandemic.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like fresh out.
Speaker 4: The past, season eight, I think, because I'm in the
Speaker 4: pandemic with the.
Speaker 5: Bitch who's boyfriend was underwear model.
Speaker 1: No, you just gotta fast forward to Big Ed season,
Speaker 1: which one is that it's a dude. It's ad with
Speaker 1: no neck. I've seen that clips and his shit is
Speaker 1: so funny because his his chick, his fiance, they're like
Speaker 1: in the they are in the the the not not
Speaker 1: rich part of the Philippines, right, so he's trying to
Speaker 1: like he's trying to be nice and meet her dad
Speaker 1: and ship, and but then like he's in this this
Speaker 1: bathroom and like and I'm familiar because like my family
Speaker 1: in Thailand it was it was living like that at
Speaker 1: a point too, right, And it's just like the plumbing
Speaker 1: is not really all the way plumbing and he's trying
Speaker 1: to shower and he's like, he said, what the fuck
Speaker 1: is that? It's a big ass rat. He's like, what
Speaker 1: the fuck is that? And she's just like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, it's a rat. And he's so big and
Speaker 1: so sweaty. It's hilarious. White man, he is a white man.
Speaker 3: You've seen him, You've seen him on this clips.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I only own that because before we started recording, we
Speaker 5: were telling Tim that we went to Thailand and the
Speaker 5: food was amazing and all the things were amazing, but
Speaker 5: one of the things that was absolutely astonishing were the
Speaker 5: older white men that frequent Thailand for a very specific reason.
Speaker 2: Hose ye all types of hosts.
Speaker 5: Yea lady hose, lady boy, hose, regular hose, underage hoes,
Speaker 5: like all types of shit.
Speaker 2: I was like, what the fuck.
Speaker 5: So it just makes I'm wondering if Ed is one
Speaker 5: of those kind of guys. He's just fell in love
Speaker 5: with them, the young TI girl. Probably, yeah, is that
Speaker 5: giving that?
Speaker 2: I mean he probably, you.
Speaker 1: Know, I feel like a lot of the ninety day
Speaker 1: fiance you know, you'll see them with just a you know,
Speaker 1: a little tiny tiger, a little tiny Philippine out there.
Speaker 1: But hey, you know, maybe that's just you know, hey,
Speaker 1: he his chick wasn't underage. So I mean, I'm not
Speaker 1: saying every you know, a course, not all guys that
Speaker 1: are out there in Thailand looking for a wife or
Speaker 1: looking for underage girls. I mean, hey, I don't know
Speaker 1: it like.
Speaker 3: That, but there is some propaganda.
Speaker 4: There's there's a there's a whole campaign I feel like
Speaker 4: for like the Thai women, the culture like gets you
Speaker 4: an Asian woman.
Speaker 3: The Americans are gone.
Speaker 4: To shit like I've seen it, like like submissive, like
Speaker 4: they know how to wife and stuff like that. But
Speaker 4: the crazy part about that is, girl, the women are,
Speaker 4: which I'm shocked by, are equally as stupid. Literally I'm
Speaker 4: watching one right now. It's this one chick, Yes, from Georgia.
Speaker 4: She is she's her second marriage from a guy from
Speaker 4: the Middle East. Second which the second one she bought him,
Speaker 4: like she bought him like a PlayStation before he came,
Speaker 4: because he can't work. So it's just ridiculous. Another woman,
Speaker 4: she bought him a hobby. She bought him a hobby
Speaker 4: because it can't work. And he's also pressuring her to
Speaker 4: get married before Ramadan there's also another woman.
Speaker 3: She's like, very rich and successful, ridiculously.
Speaker 4: Dumb white lady who has been dating a belligian man
Speaker 4: for years, and he's playing with her.
Speaker 3: He's like, yeah, can you send me can you send
Speaker 3: me some more of those watches for my boy? Oh,
Speaker 3: my god, my boys with ans.
Speaker 4: So then she gets to belize and actually it leaves
Speaker 4: him and gets with his cousin and then has her psychic,
Speaker 4: has him to call her psychic to see the psychic
Speaker 4: look him in the eyes to tell her if he's genuine.
Speaker 1: That's crazy.
Speaker 3: Okay, she's a fifty year old.
Speaker 2: Just with seasons. I'm early in, so maybe I don't.
Speaker 4: Just you know what, it makes me realize the desperation
Speaker 4: for companionship is so high you will skip right over
Speaker 4: the love part, like some people don't speak the same
Speaker 4: language really good.
Speaker 3: It is so delusional.
Speaker 4: I'm like, you use no way you could be mail
Speaker 4: and ordering a bride or a groom so bad that
Speaker 4: you just say fuck me, I'm going to just get anybody.
Speaker 1: People are lonely, man, and people make bad choices.
Speaker 2: Speaking of bad choices.
Speaker 5: I have a question, Yeah, if you made me bad
Speaker 5: choices this week?
Speaker 1: This week, you know what I did, but I'm not
Speaker 1: mad at it.
Speaker 4: Okay, good, tell us bad mom, not a bad mom,
Speaker 4: but a bad mom.
Speaker 1: So good.
Speaker 3: I'm losing.
Speaker 1: And it's nothing too crazy.
Speaker 5: I was.
Speaker 1: I was in Brooklyn doing a live for one of
Speaker 1: my podcasts, and me and my boy David, who do
Speaker 1: our food podcasts, which dudes behind the foods where we
Speaker 1: well because we used to have a food travel show
Speaker 1: and so now the podcast is will bring each other
Speaker 1: different foods and like, hey have you had this before?
Speaker 1: Or like, oh shit, Wendy's got a new chicken sandwich.
Speaker 1: Let's try this out right, And then it always kind
Speaker 1: of just spirals into I don't know, aliens and circumcisions
Speaker 1: and religion and shit, right, yeah, circumcisions, circumcised aliens, they might.
Speaker 1: So we uh, we were in Brooklyn doing a show
Speaker 1: and whenever we're in New York, like, you know, we
Speaker 1: gotta eat, you know, so, and we got offered brunch
Speaker 1: at a really fire spot on the water called the Fulton.
Speaker 1: But I say all that to say, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: not eat cheese because it breaks me out, Okay, and
Speaker 1: it's a struggle for me, like it was, and it
Speaker 1: wasn't until one of my skin ladies I was going
Speaker 1: to was like, hey, you ever tried to getting off cheese?
Speaker 1: I was like, fuck, that was the one thing. I
Speaker 1: was like, I'm eating so healthy, I'm drinking so much water.
Speaker 1: Why am I still breaking out? She's you ever tried cheese?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 1: That was the one thing, right because I just used
Speaker 1: to be in the house just eating cheese for no reason.
Speaker 1: I wasn't hungry. I just like cheese, right, So I've
Speaker 1: been off cheese for years, and now we're trying you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like I got used to the
Speaker 1: vegan cheeses to spy. Here's what I do. I'll call
Speaker 1: a pizza place and I'll be like, can I get
Speaker 1: the meat lover pizza with the vegan cheese? And like
Speaker 1: do you are you? They're like, sir, do you are
Speaker 1: you sure? And I'm like, hey, man, fuck the animals.
Speaker 1: I just don't want the cheese, right, So I've learned
Speaker 1: to tolerate it, but it's just not the same hot
Speaker 1: yeah or else. It just turns into just gooey, just yucky.
Speaker 1: So anyways, I say all that to say I went
Speaker 1: in in New York. I had a bunch of whatever
Speaker 1: they were bringing out because it was free too, So
Speaker 1: it was like I had the Oh the burger was amazing,
Speaker 1: just oohye gooey cheese was It was great And I
Speaker 1: got very drunk. Someone they one of the homie sent
Speaker 1: me a picture of me at a pizza place after
Speaker 1: the bar. I didn't I don't even remember, that's what
Speaker 1: you're like. I had, I had the cheese. I didn't
Speaker 1: even I don't even remember enjoying it. So I'm like this,
Speaker 1: you know, So I had a couple of little you know,
Speaker 1: I'm waiting for it to really hit me.
Speaker 2: But uh, like a pending breakout.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so that is that is the bad choice. Because
Speaker 1: I've been good for the most part. It's beginning, it's
Speaker 1: creeping in. I feel it. But I'll be right. I
Speaker 1: mean life, you know what I'm.
Speaker 4: Saying, you know, live, I got a little little It's
Speaker 4: terrible to realize all the foods that we love are
Speaker 4: actually bad for us. And it's everything, it's every everything,
Speaker 4: like they're trying to kill us. It's so stupid, it's
Speaker 4: so dumb. It's really disappointing. I'm like, so basically eat nothing.
Speaker 5: I went to Bristol Farms yesterday and they had twenty dollars.
Speaker 5: It was twenty dollars strawberries.
Speaker 3: Or eight dollars strawberry. I told you they had the
Speaker 3: same thing, Gelson. I was like, ninety nine.
Speaker 2: Why is the difference between what is? What is the
Speaker 2: eight dollar doing that the twenty dollars?
Speaker 1: Did you do it?
Speaker 2: No? I bought the eight dollar.
Speaker 1: Apparently arewon had this like fifty dollars stress like one strawberry?
Speaker 5: Yeah, one, one bitch one strawberry.
Speaker 1: I wanted to test it out to see if it
Speaker 1: was If it was work.
Speaker 3: I had to write off the shop.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, eah, fact I couldn't do I haven't done
Speaker 1: it yet.
Speaker 2: Oh my god. And then I was so mad.
Speaker 5: I bought the fucking strawberries, and I got home last
Speaker 5: night and I went to open it and there was
Speaker 5: mold on like three of them.
Speaker 3: I was like, are you fucking kidding? But that's when
Speaker 3: you got to go back and return.
Speaker 1: I took a.
Speaker 2: Picture I'm going today.
Speaker 5: I took your PA was like, I need you to
Speaker 5: know timestamped this was the same day I'm returning to.
Speaker 3: The I've actually exchanged.
Speaker 5: For the twenty dollars period it's that organic shit, man,
Speaker 5: low key.
Speaker 1: I'm like, just give me the chemicals so my strawberries
Speaker 1: last a little longer, I know.
Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, to eat that shit immediately. And
Speaker 4: the farmer's market is not open every day. You can't
Speaker 4: go to the market every day.
Speaker 1: I know. The bananas go bad after like an hour.
Speaker 1: They're already brown once you get home.
Speaker 4: Apparently they're like gassing all of them organic and regularly.
Speaker 3: I saw a video.
Speaker 5: I saw the bananas, the banana banana gassing video.
Speaker 1: I think, I don't know, what do you mean they
Speaker 1: all got chemicals on.
Speaker 3: Yes, this guy, he's like, come with me today.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna show you how I prepare the I ripe
Speaker 5: into the bananas and he puts them in like a
Speaker 5: gas chamber. And at first you're like, oh, yeah, those
Speaker 5: are the ones that we shouldn't buy that everyone still buys.
Speaker 5: And then he was like, Oh, don't.
Speaker 3: Worry, I do it to the organic ones too.
Speaker 4: What the fuck I mean if they let us about
Speaker 4: everything else, you think they're gonna tell the truth about
Speaker 4: the organic sticker?
Speaker 1: I yeah, wow, So I'm buying dusty grapes for no
Speaker 1: reason because the organic ones are always dusty.
Speaker 5: They spray a little dust, organic dust.
Speaker 1: Farmers markets. Grapes man always dusty.
Speaker 4: It's because they're from the real fart.
Speaker 1: I buy them at.
Speaker 3: A farmer's market. I believe it. I'd make eye contact
Speaker 3: with the farmer.
Speaker 5: You would have got some of them.
Speaker 4: Wait, tell us about your journey into your all your shows,
Speaker 4: your your YouTube success.
Speaker 3: You got it right after high school. Please tell them
Speaker 3: you let's talk about it.
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I started. You know, this year would
Speaker 1: be the twentieth anniversary of my YouTube channel.
Speaker 3: Wow, congratulations, thanks man.
Speaker 1: You know it's it's a.
Speaker 5: Have you ever taken a break? Or is it like
Speaker 5: the secret to never stop?
Speaker 1: You know what? I have never stopped high key. If
Speaker 1: you like, look at the average of my uploads over
Speaker 1: twenty years, it's probably like been at least one video
Speaker 1: every week for the past twenty years. Yeah. Maybe there's
Speaker 1: a little bit a span of a couple of weeks,
Speaker 1: maybe like three weeks, as long as something didn't go up.
Speaker 1: But for the most part, I've never stopped. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: you know, it's looked different over the years. I've kind
Speaker 1: of had to ride the different waves of what's popping
Speaker 1: and what the algorithm likes and all that. You know. Initially,
Speaker 1: I was just you know, I was trying to be
Speaker 1: like just Asian will Smith, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like that's why I got on YouTube. I was trying
Speaker 1: to be a traditional actor, like I had an agent,
Speaker 1: but nothing was really it wasn't you know, when you
Speaker 1: don't really know what's going on, you kind of sign
Speaker 1: up for whatever, you know. And the most I had
Speaker 1: gotten at that point was like I was an extra
Speaker 1: in Fast and Furious three Tokyo Drift. You know, don't
Speaker 1: let them fool you. It's not really in Japan, La
Speaker 1: Bridge over there. So and I just kind of and
Speaker 1: I had been making short films with the homies in
Speaker 1: high school and just submitting them to different film festivals,
Speaker 1: online contest shit like that. We'd have little screenings in
Speaker 1: the theaters at school, you know, and I was just
Speaker 1: kind of getting frustrated, you know. I was like, let me,
Speaker 1: just let me. And I was like, you know, raping
Speaker 1: on MySpace and uploading songs, just every every trying to
Speaker 1: get in there, you know. Will So I developed a
Speaker 1: plan for my life. It was called the Fresh Prince Format.
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm going to do everything Will Smith
Speaker 1: does wrap TV movies. Okay, So I was yeah, rapping
Speaker 1: on MySpace trying to audition for things, and somebody had
Speaker 1: posted a bulletin on MySpace. It was like, Lol, look
Speaker 1: at these white girls dancing and laffy Taffy's right. So
Speaker 1: I clicked on the link and it was a video
Speaker 1: some white girls danced, laughy taffy. I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: this is funny. But then I was like, whoa, what
Speaker 1: is this is? This is a website? It was a
Speaker 1: YouTube link. I said, this is a website where you
Speaker 1: can put any video from your phone and they'll give
Speaker 1: you a link to put on your MySpace. This is crazy, right.
Speaker 1: So I told the homies that I was making videos
Speaker 1: with because we had our own website, but the website
Speaker 1: would run out of bandwidth and it was a struggle
Speaker 1: to pay for it this and that. I was like,
Speaker 1: all right, brother, let's just put our movies on here
Speaker 1: and maybe someone will see it. Right. So I started
Speaker 1: just putting little stupid webcam videos of myself being goofy,
Speaker 1: doing impressions, like freestyling and like doing dumb shit. And
Speaker 1: I started to hit these most viewed lists on YouTube
Speaker 1: and I would get like a little influx of comments,
Speaker 1: and I thought this, this might be something, you know, just.
Speaker 2: Before they were like YouTube was paying creators.
Speaker 1: Oh there was no money, no, no, no, no, there was
Speaker 1: no that. I was probably youtubing for a couple of
Speaker 1: years before there was even an option of of monetization, right,
Speaker 1: So I was just I was just trying to I
Speaker 1: was thinking maybe I would get some views and someone
Speaker 1: would see me and want to put me in something,
Speaker 1: and who knows, right, So we're just kind of uploading
Speaker 1: for funsies, just to see what would happen. And it
Speaker 1: and it, I thought it was working, and I kept
Speaker 1: doing it, and then and then there was a way
Speaker 1: to get a little money, so I did it some
Speaker 1: more and then makes money off it, and and that
Speaker 1: opened the doors for like wild' outs and just you know,
Speaker 1: just you know, I just kept working, you know. Yeah.
Speaker 5: I mean it's these spaces give you the visibility and
Speaker 5: to like get into other other spaces.
Speaker 2: What was it? Like? I guess, like I know that
Speaker 2: you were like.
Speaker 3: The first Asian line out.
Speaker 5: And and like I think about like just being Asian
Speaker 5: being black, how like there's always like the token black person.
Speaker 5: There's like the token Asian person, Like, how have you
Speaker 5: navigated that in these various spaces that you are in?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean well, first of all, I loved being
Speaker 1: the token Asian. You know, I'm I'm you, I'm oh,
Speaker 1: you know, I mean truthfully, I'm I was used to
Speaker 1: being the token Asian just at school and stuff, you know,
Speaker 1: and you know, you know, it's fun, right, and you know,
Speaker 1: the only issue that was difficult with being the token
Speaker 1: Asian on wild'n Out because I was on while'n Out
Speaker 1: with the reboot, Uh, there was an Asian while Now
Speaker 1: Randall Park was actually like the first Asian on While Now,
Speaker 1: so I'm the second, I'm the second, I'm second, but
Speaker 1: I'm the So it was fun for me because you know,
Speaker 1: of course I stuck out right. But the issue was that,
Speaker 1: like when we're wild styling and we're like trying to
Speaker 1: roast each other, you know, they are just coming at
Speaker 1: me with Asian jos, right, and I can't just just
Speaker 1: go with black jokes. I have to be I have
Speaker 1: to like talk about your hair, talking about your fit,
Speaker 1: talk about your nose, you know what I'm saying. Whatever, whatever,
Speaker 1: And so I'm like they're like they're I'm attacking Carlos
Speaker 1: or Chico. I'm but I'm defending my entire race. You
Speaker 1: feel me, I'm like, yo, your head is big, and
Speaker 1: they're like, you can't drive and got a little dick, right,
Speaker 1: So my people are like looking at me, so what
Speaker 1: are you gonna do? But at the same time, that
Speaker 1: made it easier for me because I've been rebuttaling the
Speaker 1: same jokes for the past, like, you know, since high school,
Speaker 1: So it's like, you got a little dig joke for me,
Speaker 1: I can I've been flipping ash since high school when
Speaker 1: I was rapping in high school, you know, like, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: you say I can't drive. I got jokes that I've
Speaker 1: been had jokes for that. So that was kind of
Speaker 1: what made it easy for me, to the point where
Speaker 1: I felt like it was easy for me because people
Speaker 1: would come at me with the basic ass Asian joke,
Speaker 1: and then immediately if someone's coming after me, the audience
Speaker 1: is on my side, right, so I really wouldn't have
Speaker 1: to say nothing crazy to get the oh shit right.
Speaker 1: But it got to a point where people knew I
Speaker 1: had comeback, so people weren't coming after me as much anymore. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So I then I had to be the attacker. And
Speaker 1: you know this is less on my side a little bit,
Speaker 1: but at the end of the day, you know, it was,
Speaker 1: it was. It was a great time. I loved my
Speaker 1: time on there. I do feel like once we broke
Speaker 1: up it was I had I felt like I had
Speaker 1: done as much as I could do. Right, I'm like,
Speaker 1: all right, man, I can only we're throwing the same
Speaker 1: jokes around at this point, you know, but shout out
Speaker 1: to nick name, because a nigga is a good dude.
Speaker 1: Thank you for putting me on, you know, on TV.
Speaker 1: I appreciate that, especially coming from somebody online wild'n Out
Speaker 1: with such a like a validation for me, because everybody
Speaker 1: that followed me knew I wanted to be on TV.
Speaker 1: I wanted to do this and that. So and I
Speaker 1: dealt with so many comments You'll never be on TV,
Speaker 1: fucking tiny ching chung or it's not. Finally I was like,
Speaker 1: I told you.
Speaker 3: Now you see me.
Speaker 5: I have a question when you do, like when you're
Speaker 5: doing those battles on wild'n Out, are you like preparing
Speaker 5: before or like is it really like are you really
Speaker 5: off the cut?
Speaker 1: So let me tell you. People always ask this, right,
Speaker 1: which is and it's a good question.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I under this too.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So so Nick puts it like this, Right, when
Speaker 1: you play a basketball game, you're only you have a
Speaker 1: certain amount of plays that you know you're gonna run,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, But you never know how
Speaker 1: it necessarily might go. When we shoot wild'n out, we
Speaker 1: play like the same three to five games on rotation,
Speaker 1: and then when we do the wild style, you know,
Speaker 1: just even if you show up that day, who's on
Speaker 1: the opposite team? So I can show up today, I'm like, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: you're on that team. Okay, hey, well colors are hair today?
Speaker 1: What kill the shirts? She got out?
Speaker 6: This?
Speaker 1: In that? So I'm preparing myself just in case. Right.
Speaker 1: I kind of pride myself on being somebody who, like
Speaker 1: eighty percent of what I said on there was off
Speaker 1: the top, right, But there would be days where people
Speaker 1: would come up to me and they be like, aotim,
Speaker 1: I got bars for you today, And I'd be like, okay, cool, cool, cool,
Speaker 1: But then I'm immediately I'm like I'm zoning in on them, right,
Speaker 1: Or they would be like, hey, well what would you
Speaker 1: think if I said this? And they would tell me
Speaker 1: what they had for me, and I'd be like, Okay,
Speaker 1: that's one that's funny. And I turned on like you
Speaker 1: just fucked up, You just fucked up, I'll kill you right.
Speaker 1: So yeah, there's a little bit of both where people
Speaker 1: be like, hey, this is too much like what would
Speaker 1: you think of I said this? But there's also sometimes
Speaker 1: people just snipe you out of know what comes to
Speaker 1: the fun I'm like, oh fuck, was he about to say?
Speaker 1: What's about to say? You know?
Speaker 3: So nice?
Speaker 4: Was that a big transition going from YouTube to TV?
Speaker 4: It was like is that was there a lot of
Speaker 4: pressure or where you're like, I'm fucking ready.
Speaker 1: I will say this. It is different And I learned
Speaker 1: a lot because there were influencers and online people who
Speaker 1: they brought on thinking they would kill it right, and
Speaker 1: then they kind of learned quick that is different.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: Luckily for me, like I did theater in high school
Speaker 1: and I was always kind of comfortable on stage right,
Speaker 1: so that part wasn't an issue for me. I just
Speaker 1: learned a lot as far as like you know, if
Speaker 1: you watch, don't watch the first season I was on
Speaker 1: because it's trash, right, and I just I feel like
Speaker 1: my joke writing and learning like the structure of a
Speaker 1: joke and like building something like what I would say
Speaker 1: for like for camera on TV. My shit evolved just
Speaker 1: from my experience of like, Okay, this joke doesn't work,
Speaker 1: and this joke does work, but and and just like
Speaker 1: as far as like editing goes, cause I used to
Speaker 1: if something didn't work, I'm like, god, fuck, I'm look
Speaker 1: so stupid on TV right And then I learned, oh shit,
Speaker 1: we were filming for an hour. They cut it down
Speaker 1: to twenty minutes. They probably cut my wack joke because
Speaker 1: it didn't get last. So I would leave after a
Speaker 1: couple of seas like whoa whatever, you don't carrying it
Speaker 1: all day? Like yeah, that's on the cutting room floor.
Speaker 1: I'm good, you know. So I.
Speaker 2: M hm.
Speaker 5: So if you were to roast us, if I were
Speaker 5: to happen to have a wrap beat, I mean I.
Speaker 2: Could could you do it? Could you go?
Speaker 1: Could you?
Speaker 3: Could you roast us?
Speaker 1: Live?
Speaker 2: Right now?
Speaker 1: Tim?
Speaker 5: How do you feel about us? Have you have you
Speaker 5: analyzed our every I.
Speaker 1: Mean as soon as you said it, I was like,
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean right off the jump, it would
Speaker 1: be your first I'm not gonna go crazy because I
Speaker 1: don't honest, I don't even like roasting you, feel me.
Speaker 1: That's the thing about while'n out two people come up mean,
Speaker 1: I hate it. It was easy. It was fun. People
Speaker 1: come up to me, go to your face, is bit.
Speaker 2: It's kind of like when you like meet a singer
Speaker 2: like thing for me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, make me laugh, dance clown okay yo yo. When
Speaker 1: I come around, they say yay, like I'm from San Francisco.
Speaker 1: Didn't know I was gonna be on the couch talking
Speaker 1: to Cisco. Okay, you got a short skirt, furry shoes.
Speaker 1: I don't understand the tone. You probably sweaty toes and
Speaker 1: cold knees, skinny bone jones.
Speaker 3: A little bit.
Speaker 1: I said, Man, I'm keeping a light.
Speaker 4: That's the first of good Mom's history. I've ever been
Speaker 4: roasted alive when I didn't see that coming. This is
Speaker 4: called the Valley style. Tim oh, I mean Tim's thugs
Speaker 4: three six five.
Speaker 1: Oh.
Speaker 4: I know't matter if it's June or fucking decide.
Speaker 1: I know I'd be at school. You know, I was
Speaker 1: going to college. Girls in tiny shorts and boots, I know,
Speaker 1: and beanies. Yes, yes, I know.
Speaker 3: Okay, So I don't want to hear that ship your
Speaker 3: head is sweaty.
Speaker 1: Look. I was struggling to find something because y'all are
Speaker 1: so pretty and put together.
Speaker 3: Take you very kind.
Speaker 4: You know today I almost wore my cat eiers because
Speaker 4: I heard you had to sing for Judy and also
Speaker 4: for Nana, and he's he's a debating if he's a
Speaker 4: furry because he has a thing for Judy from Zutopia
Speaker 4: and also Nana from the like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, here's the thing.
Speaker 4: Almost my ears. But I said, you know, I don't
Speaker 4: want to make his wife mad. I don't want to
Speaker 4: get you know.
Speaker 1: Look, I have said from the beginning that Nala gives
Speaker 1: very horny eyes in that scene from Can You Feel
Speaker 1: the Love Tonight? The original original line animation. Yes, yes, okay,
Speaker 1: we watch it. Look actually just gool Nala horny eyes?
Speaker 3: There no horny eyes, I swear.
Speaker 1: During Can You for the Love Tonight, they are wrestling
Speaker 1: around and he pins her and she looks up at
Speaker 1: him with these come get this line pussy? Look?
Speaker 2: Is there readit?
Speaker 5: Is there any reason they gave Nala those bedroomies?
Speaker 3: Look?
Speaker 1: Okay, bedroom ESEs a classier way to put it.
Speaker 3: It's Disney. They're trying to corrupt your kids.
Speaker 1: I mean, look, I remember just even being young and
Speaker 1: being like, what does that look?
Speaker 3: I don't know. I like it, something about than light.
Speaker 5: Are you seeing the horny eyes' I'm not looking it
Speaker 5: up if you don't grown.
Speaker 1: She was, no, this was not young lions. These were
Speaker 1: grown lions.
Speaker 2: Grown lines.
Speaker 5: I mean, of course you's horny. Her nigga is died
Speaker 5: and her in the jungle.
Speaker 1: Hello, and he's like he's big.
Speaker 2: Now let me see these eyes.
Speaker 3: But Judy had no bedroomise. Judy was about business. This
Speaker 3: is this is a youthing.
Speaker 1: Okay, look, this was not you know yet, for you.
Speaker 1: It's not he has I have it on my phone,
Speaker 1: Chives the water. It's in my spank bank category.
Speaker 4: Now now we're gonna have to look at porn hub
Speaker 4: and see if they're sitting Nolla benjaminds.
Speaker 5: I want to see Disney porn the moment.
Speaker 2: Oh look look at those eyes.
Speaker 1: Look no, no, no, this is the look.
Speaker 2: Down he does.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I remember, yeah, and she's like simba, yeah, she's
Speaker 4: not like Nana.
Speaker 3: Is that shoo?
Speaker 1: This is after you. That's when they first pin each
Speaker 1: other and they're like, oh ship, oh it's you. But
Speaker 1: then later on during ken you feel the love tonight
Speaker 1: they're just gallivanting in the jungle and then they were
Speaker 1: wrestling again and then that happens. Yeah, so Jaudy Hobs.
Speaker 1: Though this was not as utopia. One thing's utopia too.
Speaker 1: They did something to her, okay. They got her in
Speaker 1: this little like you know, like yoga outfit and like
Speaker 1: the hurt the way she's proportioned.
Speaker 3: You know, are always out shaped, and there's a there's bunny.
Speaker 1: There's a part of z Zobia to where they go to.
Speaker 1: They crash a formal event and Judy comes out the
Speaker 1: dress in a little it comes out the car, a
Speaker 1: little yellow dress and she tas her ears tied up
Speaker 1: in a bun and she looks so cute. Okay, And
Speaker 1: I watched that shit. I was like, hey man, hey,
Speaker 1: Judy Hops, is uh doing something to me right now?
Speaker 1: And I thought it was crazy, But there's a whole
Speaker 1: it's like a movement right now.
Speaker 4: You got your your You're not the only one, Yes,
Speaker 4: I mean I could see it.
Speaker 3: Look there she got a little curt No you didn't
Speaker 3: see her at her when she's dressed up.
Speaker 4: Oh no, you go have you have you you role
Speaker 4: role played to any of these scenes yet Okay.
Speaker 3: So not not yet big of the role play, so
Speaker 3: I really need to know.
Speaker 1: Okay, me too, And I warned her, I'm like, hey, no,
Speaker 1: that one is the Yes, that's the opening scene with
Speaker 1: the yoga outfit. But this but yeah, I'll show you
Speaker 1: the bun. But like I told her, I was like, look, man.
Speaker 2: The movie with us. That's usually when I watched children's movies.
Speaker 5: Time to this, I was like, fall asleep, or.
Speaker 1: Don't be surprised to associate if a bunny costume from
Speaker 1: Amazon pops up on our doorsteps.
Speaker 3: I really encourage you guys to do that.
Speaker 4: I really want to. I want to hear about it.
Speaker 4: I'm big on role playing. So if you guys ever
Speaker 4: get to the Judy Hubs or the Nalla.
Speaker 3: Scene, just text us and let us know.
Speaker 5: So here she was, I was gonna say, how the
Speaker 5: chief an Oh, gorgeous Tim.
Speaker 1: I will say this as far as this is.
Speaker 5: A very safe space for your wife to be in.
Speaker 5: Tim's only Tim's celebrity crashes, don't worry.
Speaker 1: I always tell this story where when we were trying
Speaker 1: for the our second maybe the first one, maybe the second, Like,
Speaker 1: because you know, when you're actively trying to make a baby,
Speaker 1: make a make a baby. It's exhausting, right because like
Speaker 1: my wife was tracking everything like her her temperature, her fertility,
Speaker 1: like everything. Right. So it was one morning, you know,
Speaker 1: I mean it was I think it was a weak.
Speaker 1: We've just been going in and I was like, I'm so,
Speaker 1: I'm so tired, but I'm like, let me but uh so,
Speaker 1: just to keep it spicy, right, I ordered some different outfits.
Speaker 1: So I always joke like after she got pregnant, like,
Speaker 1: I wonder what did it? Was it? The cheerleader?
Speaker 2: Was it?
Speaker 1: The was it the police outfit?
Speaker 6: What?
Speaker 1: What was it?
Speaker 5: Which one was?
Speaker 4: Ithould have kept that chart too, because I was.
Speaker 1: Like, what day was it? Who knows? What was it?
Speaker 1: The you know, was it just the leather outfit with
Speaker 1: just a who knows.
Speaker 3: Role played for fertility?
Speaker 5: So wait, having two kids, how do you guys have
Speaker 5: time to fuck?
Speaker 1: We don't.
Speaker 5: Oh damn are there babies sleeping in your bed?
Speaker 3: Still?
Speaker 1: No? No, no, we we we sleep trained early on wifey.
Speaker 1: Wifey needs her sleep or else she's just a you know,
Speaker 1: just a miserable person. You know. No, we and I joke,
Speaker 1: but I think more so now than ever, we recognize
Speaker 1: that and not only about the sex, but just for us.
Speaker 1: It's like, we need to be really intentional about it,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And I had when I
Speaker 1: had Shannon Boud. Of course, when I had Shannon on
Speaker 1: the podcast, I asked her the same question, right, and
Speaker 1: she was like, She's like, you know, it sounds people
Speaker 1: think it sounds unromantic, but really, planning sex, uh is
Speaker 1: the way to go when you're exhausted and you know
Speaker 1: your schedules are crazy.
Speaker 2: There else you won't have it at all.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, and it's really I mean, at this point,
Speaker 1: we're planning everything. And she put it in the perspective
Speaker 1: of like, I mean, think about when you were single
Speaker 1: and you had like an appointment for some sex. You
Speaker 1: know that is really sexy, right because now you're you're
Speaker 1: ready for it all day, You're preparing yourself, you know,
Speaker 1: you're getting your body ready whatever whatever. So I'm like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: you're right, you know. So that was always kind of
Speaker 1: the go to before, but I think now more so,
Speaker 1: especially with how tired we are and how young they are,
Speaker 1: because you know, she'd be ready to sleep by like eight,
Speaker 1: you know, and that is really you know, I'm I'm
Speaker 1: I'm wide awake, so we need to figure it out,
Speaker 1: like are we catching up on our show tonight or
Speaker 1: are we getting put it on the calendar. I'm saying,
Speaker 1: are we going to finish Paradise or are just finished it?
Speaker 1: Don't tell me shit, we got two episodes like.
Speaker 2: Oh, ok.
Speaker 1: So it's really just about intention and planning and being like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I am like we are setting the plan. I am
Speaker 1: prioritizing us tonight. And even if it's like something like hey,
Speaker 1: I miss you, know cause I got to a point
Speaker 1: where were so busy, I'm like, I miss you as
Speaker 1: my wife, you know, like, hey, you're an amazing mom,
Speaker 1: but I miss just I miss this and just you
Speaker 1: and me right so, And I think for her, she
Speaker 1: wasn't thinking about that as much because she's she loves
Speaker 1: being a mom so much, think of it, I know,
Speaker 1: and I love being a dad, and she doesn't think
Speaker 1: of it. She's she's all about her kids, and I
Speaker 1: am too. But at the same time, I'm like, hey, man,
Speaker 1: I miss you, you know, so we're really trying to
Speaker 1: be good at Like she knows I love going to movies,
Speaker 1: so even if it's a movie, she's not really like
Speaker 1: caring to see if she knows I want to watch it.
Speaker 1: She's like, Okay, well let's go this day so we
Speaker 1: can do this together, or like go get a dinner
Speaker 1: because I miss just going to random restaurants and trying
Speaker 1: new food like that was my shit, you know, and
Speaker 1: that's kind of few and far between nowadays. But now
Speaker 1: we try to lock it in the calendar, prioritize it,
Speaker 1: prioritize us, you know.
Speaker 2: So I think it's so important.
Speaker 5: I think it's like the conversation around I think we
Speaker 5: have to have this conversation, just as moms ourselves and
Speaker 5: navigating giving birth and then partners wanting shit from us
Speaker 5: and we're like, what the fuck it away from me?
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like.
Speaker 5: The other side of that for the guy who is like, wait,
Speaker 5: I still matter too, you know, And like how married
Speaker 5: couples kind of navigate that space. And I think a
Speaker 5: lot of times men don't even say anything because they
Speaker 5: feel like they can't say anything, so they just shut
Speaker 5: the fuck up and then they go cheat. So I
Speaker 5: think it's really cool that you guys like at least
Speaker 5: have that you have that communication and you're trying to
Speaker 5: make it work.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I think it's important. Did you just
Speaker 1: see that reel I put up recently, because I literally
Speaker 1: just put up a real about this where I was
Speaker 1: saying that, and it wasn't necessarily about me and my wife,
Speaker 1: but it was about how like dudes feel like, you know,
Speaker 1: we're not allowed to be sad?
Speaker 5: Oh I did see that, Yeah, And I was gonna
Speaker 5: ask you about that, like how like dads are not
Speaker 5: allowed to be sad because you guys have to carry all,
Speaker 5: you know, carry the way the women are sad.
Speaker 1: I didn't kill me. Both can't be sad, I mean
Speaker 1: because it's also like, you know, I mean, we even
Speaker 1: told our whole lives and like women, you y'all are
Speaker 1: y'all got that one week of definite sad and mad
Speaker 1: into your biology. So it's like, even if y'all are
Speaker 1: being terrible, we're supposed to be like, oh, I'm sellay right,
Speaker 1: But it's like we don't really have that luxury, so
Speaker 1: you almost kind of, you know, you tell yourself, that's
Speaker 1: what the.
Speaker 2: Patriarchy fucked up. Y'all should have put a period.
Speaker 5: On you guys could have should have got to put
Speaker 5: a period on the agenda front.
Speaker 3: My husband, I'm like, are you in your myriad? You're
Speaker 3: actually really sensitive, You're in your marriad, and.
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, but you still make them feel stupid.
Speaker 3: Mariad sounds funny. That's because I was making fun of.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm sad. It's like, I mean, even if
Speaker 1: it is, I mean, yeah, my wife would tell me, like,
Speaker 1: you know, and I brought it up, She's like, well, no,
Speaker 1: I don't agree with that. That's like that's you know,
Speaker 1: you should feel valid in however you're feeling. But at
Speaker 1: the same time, I mean, even dudes but tell stuff like, oh,
Speaker 1: come on, man, I don't be a little bitch. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, you got to you gotta
Speaker 1: be the man in your family. So sometimes what happens
Speaker 1: is a lot of guys will bury their feelings and
Speaker 1: be like, hey, no, no, I'm not supposed to be
Speaker 1: you know, I'm good. I'm good, I'm good. And then
Speaker 1: you end up with a dude that like blows up
Speaker 1: for no reason or you see him, you know, in
Speaker 1: a mood and you don't know why and it's because
Speaker 1: he's been told that he's not supposed to talk about it,
Speaker 1: you know, or else people are going to look at
Speaker 1: him crazy, like he's.
Speaker 4: Weak, you know, and we're all kind of like guilty
Speaker 4: of even if you don't feel that way, like I
Speaker 4: think because the society has built like masculinity that way,
Speaker 4: that we all take in that a little bit because
Speaker 4: sometimes like what you know, we've experienced and a man
Speaker 4: is crying and I'm like, be sensitive, be sensitive, put
Speaker 4: your face.
Speaker 3: I'm like.
Speaker 5: I was just I was watching I saw the reel
Speaker 5: that you posted, and then I happened to see Then
Speaker 5: of course.
Speaker 3: The algorithms start feeding me shit.
Speaker 5: Men's vulnerabilities today and doctor J. Barnett, I don't if
Speaker 5: you know his podcast, Man.
Speaker 3: Heal Thyself, No, that's yeah.
Speaker 5: Anyways, he's a black therapist and he talks to a
Speaker 5: lot of men about just like therapy and healing. And
Speaker 5: he had someone on that was saying that like he
Speaker 5: had had a vulnerable he had tried to be vulnerable
Speaker 5: with his partner realized like every time that he was vulnerable,
Speaker 5: she made it about herself like well I feel and
Speaker 5: you feel, and this is how I feel. And so
Speaker 5: he's like, I don't feel safe ever at all being
Speaker 5: vulnerable with the woman that I love or any woman
Speaker 5: because historically women specifically in his life. And I would
Speaker 5: say that we do this a lot, that we center
Speaker 5: ourselves in the in whatever the men are feeling oftentimes
Speaker 5: because we often feel undervalued and.
Speaker 2: All these other things.
Speaker 5: So it's like, well, actually, funny you should say that,
Speaker 5: because I have feelings about that. So I'm just curious, like,
Speaker 5: how where do you how you posted that and you've
Speaker 5: shared that, how.
Speaker 2: Do you navigate that?
Speaker 5: Like do you or is this something that you're still
Speaker 5: trying to like uncover and figure out?
Speaker 1: You know? I mean I think for me, I mean
Speaker 1: I do realize that my wife because you know, we're
Speaker 1: both tired, right, Like, I think I really try to
Speaker 1: acknowledge all the work she puts into because I do
Speaker 1: feel like, even with everything we've already accomplished as a
Speaker 1: family and as parents, I think sometimes she still does
Speaker 1: feel like underappreciated, right, So I feel I try to
Speaker 1: really make sure she knows she's appreciated. And then I mean, shit,
Speaker 1: but maybe this is me being an only child too.
Speaker 1: I feel like I'll put some dishes away and be like, hey,
Speaker 1: look what I did. I did stuff too, and you know,
Speaker 1: and I try to be vocal if I'm in a
Speaker 1: mood or feel in some type of way, because I
Speaker 1: also know that for me, I don't want to be
Speaker 1: a dad. That comes off as like, you know, hey,
Speaker 1: I don't know what my I don't like. I don't
Speaker 1: want to be a dad with my kids like that,
Speaker 1: that's in a bad mood. I don't know why they
Speaker 1: want to play or something like that. And I feel
Speaker 1: like I told myself at a young age, like just
Speaker 1: because of you know, girls I dated, where I was like,
Speaker 1: all right, man, man up, stop being a bitch. You
Speaker 1: stop being a bitch. Like you kind of you learn
Speaker 1: to check yourself. But I do feel like, you know,
Speaker 1: finding the balance is like a learning process that you
Speaker 1: really don't start to do until you like get older
Speaker 1: and start having those conversations and asking yourself those questions,
Speaker 1: because it's easy when you're younger. You know, I was
Speaker 1: a sensitive boy, you know, but then they did a
Speaker 1: couple of girls when I was younger and be like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, what are.
Speaker 3: You cars one that's your birthday?
Speaker 5: You just said a birthday, yeah, March six.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Hey, it's all a social construct, and everything is a
Speaker 1: social construct. Yeah, you know something especially out here, but.
Speaker 5: Do you have like do you have places like I
Speaker 5: always always curious like how men where men go to
Speaker 5: be vulnerable if they can't be that with their partner.
Speaker 5: Is there a space that Tim goes or he feels
Speaker 5: like he can do that. Is it with your boys
Speaker 5: or is it just kind of alone?
Speaker 1: I mean not gonna lie. You know, we talked about
Speaker 1: me being an only child, and I do feel like
Speaker 1: because I was an only child, I got used to
Speaker 1: internalizing my own feelings and handling it myself, even though
Speaker 1: I do you know, yeah, I'm talking about how I
Speaker 1: should express those feelings more. But I did grow up
Speaker 1: feeling like I'm good, right, And and you know I
Speaker 1: always joke about like you know they say every every
Speaker 1: like funny person is really like the saddest one because
Speaker 1: they're busy making everyone else laugh, right, But I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm good, y'all, Like I'm hilarious and I'm happy and
Speaker 1: I mean that right. But and I've never been to
Speaker 1: like therapy, I am. I was gonna ask you, no,
Speaker 1: I've never been to therapy because I maybe this is
Speaker 1: just old school mentality, but I feel like I don't
Speaker 1: need no therapy, right, But I would be curious to
Speaker 1: see what it would be like, you know, to not
Speaker 1: feel like I had to internalize all that shit, right.
Speaker 1: And there was a moment when my wife was either
Speaker 1: pregnant with our first or second, it might have been
Speaker 1: the first one where you know, she was super pregnant,
Speaker 1: and our doula just recommended us just having a little
Speaker 1: sit down, like a little zoom call with a family
Speaker 1: therapist or a couple of therapists, whoever it was. And
Speaker 1: I'm just like, hey, man, you know, I get it.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm tired, and i might be in a mood,
Speaker 1: but I know she's she's going through it, she's having moves,
Speaker 1: and she's pregnant, so I'm just you know, I'm I'm
Speaker 1: not worried about that. And the therapist was like, no,
Speaker 1: you're valid, you should You're it's okay for you to
Speaker 1: feel a way, And I was like, really, well, fakes.
Speaker 1: So even that little short exchange was was nice to hear.
Speaker 1: So you know, I'm open to some type of therapy,
Speaker 1: but I still feel like, I'm like, I don't need
Speaker 1: that shit.
Speaker 5: Maybe fee it was called something else coaching.
Speaker 1: I mean, who has the an internalization I'm trying to
Speaker 1: make money? Who at that time.
Speaker 3: Lord, the money, the money in the time.
Speaker 5: You know, I was thinking I saw another clip that
Speaker 5: you had posted because it was about like I think
Speaker 5: that you had said you were talking about your wife
Speaker 5: and you're like, you know, if we had a hard
Speaker 5: year or a few years where you know, you were
Speaker 5: sleeping in a separate room, Da da dah, like like,
Speaker 5: I'm not leaving, and she was like, I'm leaving you
Speaker 5: if I'm not happy. Yeah, And I think a lot
Speaker 5: of men I hear this a lot that I think
Speaker 5: there's a difference between how women and men exist in
Speaker 5: relationships in that way, whereas men rarely are the like
Speaker 5: the initiators of like divorce or the breakup. A lot
Speaker 5: of times it's the woman who was like, this is
Speaker 5: not it for me, or like because not because there
Speaker 5: hasn't been a lot of attempts at trying. But for
Speaker 5: the man, it doesn't really seem like leaving is like
Speaker 5: that even the first or second option, whereas women it's
Speaker 5: like there's that's definitely on the table.
Speaker 2: Would you agree with that or.
Speaker 5: How I'm just curious because that's like that conversation I've
Speaker 5: seen come up a few different times, and I'm like, huh.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I was actually kind of surprised that
Speaker 1: she didn't agree with me, because in my head, I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: let's say for whatever reason, not because anybody did anything dirty,
Speaker 1: but you know, times change, people change. What if we
Speaker 1: just fell out of love, right and we're not having
Speaker 1: sex so we're not intimate anymore, Why get a divorce
Speaker 1: and go through all that when we have the house,
Speaker 1: we have our kids, We got a big enough house
Speaker 1: where I could chill over here, you can kill over there.
Speaker 1: Why go through a messy divorce and worry about the
Speaker 1: financials and splitting this up when we could just chill
Speaker 1: those roommates.
Speaker 2: Are your parents still married?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Or is that kind of how they've navigated their relationship.
Speaker 1: I mean, wouldn't my dad be happier if they got
Speaker 1: a divorced? Talk to him.
Speaker 5: I'm just curious because I'm always wondering, like, well, you know,
Speaker 5: what kind of dynamic marriage dynamic did you grow up
Speaker 5: in that certain things are are normal? Is it that
Speaker 5: thing or is it a guy thing?
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, it might be a little bit
Speaker 1: of both. And now that I think about it, I mean,
Speaker 1: my parents, you know, they're still together, but is my
Speaker 1: dad stressed.
Speaker 5: Probably are they roommates or are they like canoodling and
Speaker 5: cuddling in the beds at night.
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, the last time my dad sent
Speaker 1: me a video of them and I'm just like, shut up, No,
Speaker 1: I don't know what they got going on. But I
Speaker 1: don't I remember the last time I saw my parents
Speaker 1: kiss on my mouth.
Speaker 3: But you know, but I feel the same way as you.
Speaker 3: I'm like, you're not gonna leave me?
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I'll go out of the country for a
Speaker 4: year and we'll see each other on Christmas.
Speaker 3: You're not leaving me.
Speaker 1: Doesn't it feel logical? Financial?
Speaker 3: I don't give a fuck what you do. You're not
Speaker 3: divorcing me.
Speaker 1: And I told her, I was like, look, man, if
Speaker 1: you happen to start dating another guy and that this
Speaker 1: is where we're at mentally, I think I'd be okay.
Speaker 3: I think we'll still be married.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 1: She was like really, yeah, I don't know who's to say, right,
Speaker 1: But she was like, no, if I don't love you anymore,
Speaker 1: I'm leaving. But why.
Speaker 3: The babies?
Speaker 1: But think about it too. But I know that there's
Speaker 1: also a way of thought process of women who may
Speaker 1: not be happy with their husbands, but are like sticking
Speaker 1: it out for the kids until they turn eighteen and
Speaker 1: then they're like, I'm out. Like I saw a little
Speaker 1: it was either a tweet or something on something where
Speaker 1: someone had posted about that, and there was a lot
Speaker 1: of moms in the comments like, yes.
Speaker 4: But I think it's a terrible idea. Yeah, that's a
Speaker 4: terrible idea. If you're gonna do it, just pull the
Speaker 4: fucking trigger, bitch.
Speaker 1: But aren't we kind of saying the same thing though,
Speaker 1: Like but I mean, I guess I guess that mom
Speaker 1: is saying she she hates this dude, but she's still
Speaker 1: stick away. For me, I feel like we're keeping it.
Speaker 1: We're keeping it were falling to me.
Speaker 4: I feel like falling out of love is one thing,
Speaker 4: but not loving someone is something different. And I think
Speaker 4: that people underestimate that, like relationships transition and it could
Speaker 4: be like we're deeply I don't know if everyone's to
Speaker 4: be deeply in love forever, but like if you're my
Speaker 4: friend and I fuck with you, you're my friend and
Speaker 4: I fuck with you.
Speaker 5: I think that that that that line gets blurred though,
Speaker 5: like the falling out of love and like do I
Speaker 5: love you? Like sometimes when you fall out of love
Speaker 5: you feel like, do I even love you? Do I
Speaker 5: even like you? Like, so it's hard to stick around
Speaker 5: for that piece. I was having this conversation yes day
Speaker 5: with my brother because we were talking about our parents
Speaker 5: and then I was talking about my dad and just
Speaker 5: like kind of like this dynamic and like where I'm
Speaker 5: at in my life.
Speaker 2: And I was telling him like.
Speaker 5: I don't know if like your little brother, and he
Speaker 5: was he's I can tell he's a pisces. He is,
Speaker 5: And I don't know if it's just him. I think
Speaker 5: it's men. Like he's like so like if if it's not,
Speaker 5: if it doesn't feel good for like five years or
Speaker 5: to five to ten years, like you would leave a
Speaker 5: relationship because you're talking about our parents.
Speaker 4: And I was like, absolutely, well, Michelle Obama said her,
Speaker 4: and I know, and Michelle Obama is fucking people.
Speaker 1: Wait what did she say?
Speaker 3: Michelle Obama said the hated.
Speaker 5: She didn't like for ten years years.
Speaker 3: Live t She's like there was a time like for
Speaker 3: like ten years.
Speaker 2: I think that's a long time. I'm not like a motherfucker.
Speaker 5: I mean, she loved him, but probably that whole concept
Speaker 5: about still love life and blah blah, blah blahking. I
Speaker 5: don't but I just know what not liking someone can
Speaker 5: do for like to me, over ten years living in
Speaker 5: someone's house, living together, Like, I don't know how that
Speaker 5: works for someone like me, And I just I don't know.
Speaker 5: I feel like a lot of women that I speak to,
Speaker 5: of course, like we want to stick it out, we
Speaker 5: want to try and figure it out. But I mean,
Speaker 5: and I don't know. I just I feel like a
Speaker 5: lot of women would leave, whereas a lot of men
Speaker 5: would stick around. Even in my own relationship, I've had
Speaker 5: conversations at length with my partner around like me wanting
Speaker 5: to flee all the time and him being like I
Speaker 5: grew up thinking like like, once you commit to someone,
Speaker 5: that's it.
Speaker 2: Like you commit, and that's that.
Speaker 5: Like really sounds I think it sounds mystical and magical.
Speaker 2: I don't know if that's reality.
Speaker 3: Would you commit with marriage?
Speaker 4: And we went through all this trouble to get the
Speaker 4: fucking government involved, We signed some motherfucking papers you gave me,
Speaker 4: or ring all this other shit, bitch, we are figuring
Speaker 4: it the fuck out.
Speaker 1: And that's the thing too, right, I feel like it
Speaker 1: really would come down to the conversation too, Like, like
Speaker 1: you said, if I don't like you, yeah, living with
Speaker 1: you would be difficulty. Everything you do would be annoying
Speaker 1: because I'm already like, oh man, you're not loaded a dishwasher,
Speaker 1: right right? But like if if we kind of had
Speaker 1: this conversation where it's like, look, man, we're not a
Speaker 1: couple anymore, but I still fuck with you. You're an
Speaker 1: amazing mother. Why can't we just see if we could
Speaker 1: be roommates and figure it out? You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But I mean, but yeah, I mean I would hate
Speaker 1: that of course, Like and we and when I spoke
Speaker 1: initially about us really taking the time to have intention
Speaker 1: on like, hey, let's still be romantic with each other,
Speaker 1: it's because we don't want to end up as.
Speaker 4: Roommates, right, because I care enough about the romantic relationship.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, So I mean, yeah, that's like worst case scenario.
Speaker 1: But I mean, but worse than that is going through
Speaker 1: a divorce and the house. The buying a house is
Speaker 1: so hard in La.
Speaker 3: At that in La we made it that far through anything.
Speaker 1: Ship and I finally did it, and you're gonna probably.
Speaker 5: Take you from me, Like it's cheaper to keepers if
Speaker 5: you could be a woman for a day. What would
Speaker 5: you would be the first.
Speaker 2: Thing you could do?
Speaker 1: Man? Masturbate?
Speaker 3: Really?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I gotta see how that feels. What's next? Get
Speaker 1: some free drinks and some free food. Stand at the bar.
Speaker 2: Now, are you gonna be a pretty woman in our way? Yeah?
Speaker 3: That is actually one of the biggest perks.
Speaker 1: I would, uh play with my titties in the mirror
Speaker 1: for like an hour. Oh, let's see, m m.
Speaker 2: That's probably titties masturbate free drink.
Speaker 1: Free drinks, you know, I mean I don't know. Uh
Speaker 1: see how much money I could get selling my feet
Speaker 1: for like a day.
Speaker 3: You know, you just made me wonder.
Speaker 4: How are the men's feet going on terrible?
Speaker 3: Are men selling their feet?
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I mean, I don't know. Maybe.
Speaker 3: I'm sure there's a category feet.
Speaker 2: Everyone's feet are included.
Speaker 3: There's gay men who love men feet.
Speaker 1: Probably, I don't know. Men are never are never good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, if they're gay, maybe keep their feet.
Speaker 5: Gay feet better because they pedicure, they care. I thought
Speaker 5: it was like the shapes are better. Long know it's
Speaker 5: not existing.
Speaker 1: My wife is always she jokes, but I'm like she's always, babe.
Speaker 1: Are we good. Are we good? Like cause you know
Speaker 1: we the private school? Expensive and more?
Speaker 5: Just like, do I need to sell feet?
Speaker 1: That's offering And I'm always like, man, if you don't,
Speaker 1: you just want to sell feet.
Speaker 5: She just wants to try to try let some guys
Speaker 5: jack off your wife's feet.
Speaker 1: I mean, look, I'm not mad, but I feel like
Speaker 1: she'd be trying to play it off, like she's joking
Speaker 1: like eggs are expensive, should wet to.
Speaker 5: Try and see if people? You know, it's a thrill,
Speaker 5: like it's Mama still.
Speaker 3: Got you guys has the audience.
Speaker 1: I'm not even mad, but that's the thing. She's like,
Speaker 1: let's just try anonymously first. I'm like, if he's really
Speaker 1: trying to make money.
Speaker 3: To your up there? Are you guys the same age?
Speaker 1: I'm a little older, like a few years older? Okay?
Speaker 3: What sign is she?
Speaker 1: She is a capricorn?
Speaker 4: Oh okay, little water, a little earth.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it balances me out, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I'm all over the place. Keeps me grounded, uh, you know,
Speaker 1: more more so than I feel like I need sometimes.
Speaker 5: But you know, but she's right, what is like the
Speaker 5: biggest lesson so far you've learned in fatherhood.
Speaker 1: That I've learned fatherhood. I think for me, fatherhood has
Speaker 1: just really helped me realize where my priorities are and
Speaker 1: it's helped me reprioritize, you know. I think especially for
Speaker 1: my career too. It's helped me find a reason to
Speaker 1: do what I do again, because initially it's like, oh, man,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm so hungry. I was, you know, I
Speaker 1: feel like I was getting you done because I was
Speaker 1: broke and I was hungry and I was trying to
Speaker 1: get on. And then you get a little comfy and
Speaker 1: you can make a little bit of money and you
Speaker 1: get lazy, and then I you know, and then as
Speaker 1: soon as wife got pregnant, I was like, oh, I
Speaker 1: gotta get back to work, you know, because I'm not
Speaker 1: I'm not working for me anymore. But at the same time,
Speaker 1: it was like, you know it, but I'm not mad,
Speaker 1: you know, because it's just like, you know, because I
Speaker 1: love being a dad. I love my babies so much,
Speaker 1: and it's really kind of taught me how to like
Speaker 1: focus more, because you know, before the babies, I could
Speaker 1: just kind of like, let's see what happens, you know,
Speaker 1: But now it's like, I really need to do everything
Speaker 1: for where He's like, I'm not. I'm not about to
Speaker 1: be outside for no reason, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Like before it was like someone hit me for an event. Yeah,
Speaker 1: pull up, get some free drinks, get some geatedy images, whatever.
Speaker 1: But now I'm like, if I'm not getting paid, do
Speaker 1: I need to be out, like for what? I would
Speaker 1: rather be helping with bedtime and bad time, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Like, So I'm just really trying to
Speaker 1: Now it's like if there was if I was ever
Speaker 1: lost in any type of sauce, this has helped me
Speaker 1: get grounded and get back to what is really important.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no, I feel that.
Speaker 5: I feel that so much.
Speaker 2: Do you want more kids?
Speaker 3: Potential?
Speaker 1: Potentially? So I spent the last like three years trying
Speaker 1: to write a movie script and I finally got it done.
Speaker 1: So now I'm like, comedy, Yeah, it's just a stupid comedy.
Speaker 3: No, it's a drama.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well you never know. I switched it. Well, here's
Speaker 1: the thing, right, there's been like you know, a lot
Speaker 1: of Asian stories have been getting told more of the
Speaker 1: past few years, and it's great, but they're all so serious.
Speaker 1: You feel me and I'm like we need to be dumb,
Speaker 1: Like we need to be allowed to be dumb. Right,
Speaker 1: So I'm like, I just wrote a very stupid comedy
Speaker 1: for me and my boy, and now that I've written it,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to navigate how to get it done. I
Speaker 1: get it filmed and made. So like, now that both
Speaker 1: children are finally about to be in school and we
Speaker 1: have our weekdays again, not only can we go on
Speaker 1: some lunch dates, but now I can like actually focus
Speaker 1: on trying to film this movie get it done. So
Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, now we have some time. She's like, God,
Speaker 1: I can finally go back to pilates and like, you know,
Speaker 1: so we're like, we're gonna take at least a year
Speaker 1: to just get about get our rhythm back, and then
Speaker 1: who knows, who knows how we feel after that, you know,
Speaker 1: maybe another baby.
Speaker 4: I don't know, how do you feel about like the
Speaker 4: current like not cancel culture? But so recently I saw
Speaker 4: that they're they're gonna do a White Chicks too, and
Speaker 4: I'm like, but how is that real? I hope it's through.
Speaker 4: I don't know, I saw him Internet, don't know what
Speaker 4: the fuck is real? But I'm like, can you even
Speaker 4: do a White Chicks too. This world is so sensitive
Speaker 4: you can't even make any jokes because everyone's gonna fucking
Speaker 4: cancel you.
Speaker 3: You can't talk shit about anyone.
Speaker 4: And if you look at White Chicks, it's all look
Speaker 4: at he he just you know, he got sued.
Speaker 2: He's doing just fine.
Speaker 3: He's doing fine.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 4: But did you see fucking Jake Paul said he's gonna
Speaker 4: do a black face.
Speaker 2: He's gonna get beat the fuck up.
Speaker 3: I hope he does get beat the fuck up.
Speaker 1: I think someone beat his ass again again. First, for one,
Speaker 1: I don't believe anything. I think everything is a I
Speaker 1: so anytime I see a post for a new movie,
Speaker 1: I'm like, this is not real, man, I don't believe shit,
Speaker 1: you know, let me look it at But I also
Speaker 1: feel like everything's been so sensitive for so long now,
Speaker 1: and I knew this would happen. I think the pendulum
Speaker 1: is swinging back and people are ready to watch some
Speaker 1: offensive ship.
Speaker 2: Yeah it happened to me. White Chicks two is in
Speaker 2: the works, legit.
Speaker 3: I told you. I thought. I think Marlon Wayne said it.
Speaker 2: Yeah he did.
Speaker 3: But what are the jokes gonna be?
Speaker 5: Because literally, if you want to white people can still
Speaker 5: get made fun of only white people.
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm fine with that, yeah.
Speaker 1: But I think I think I think and white.
Speaker 3: People you should be too, because honestly, come on.
Speaker 1: But you know what, though, I think the waynes is
Speaker 1: they're they're they're smart about it. I think they're recognized
Speaker 1: that the pendulum is swinging back, and I think they're
Speaker 1: gonna take the opportunity to not only make fun of
Speaker 1: white people. I think they're gonna go in in and
Speaker 1: make cic everybody.
Speaker 5: I think there's gonna be politicalness about it, which I
Speaker 5: think like at this point in our in our entertainment,
Speaker 5: news and platformness, I feel like there's some lot of like, yes,
Speaker 5: we want to be funny, and we should always do
Speaker 5: that because we need laughs. But I think there's like
Speaker 5: a little bit of a responsibility to like insert some
Speaker 5: shit in there.
Speaker 3: And I mean, the reality is that the reality is hilarious.
Speaker 4: Yeah, the reality is that what the fuck We're getting
Speaker 4: Lego movies as like fucking war messages.
Speaker 3: I'm like, wait, so I ran made this. It's hius,
Speaker 3: but I just want to be clear. This is how
Speaker 3: we're communicating. I know, and Lego AI got it.
Speaker 4: I'm like the president made a whole ai with gorillas animate, okay, whatever,
Speaker 4: I know. So, I mean, I mean, I think it's
Speaker 4: it's almost crazy. It's the jokes right themselves. So at
Speaker 4: this point, what the fuck. But I'm also kind of
Speaker 4: sick of the sensitivity, Like everybody shut the fuck up.
Speaker 1: I think everybody is. I think that's why it's gonna
Speaker 1: be okay to you know, be a little offensive again,
Speaker 1: you know, so.
Speaker 2: The whites can be make black jokes.
Speaker 3: Still they've been doing it, I know, But what do
Speaker 3: you mean still?
Speaker 5: I'm just saying, is it like a free for all
Speaker 5: for everybody? I mean, luckily, Like I feel like that's
Speaker 5: what's coming next. No, I think with what's his name?
Speaker 5: What I got him talking about that?
Speaker 3: Like, well, the problem with them is they're not funny.
Speaker 3: Jake Paul's not funny. I've never made any joke.
Speaker 4: The thing about other people making jokes about white people
Speaker 4: is that it's actually a joke, it's funny, but the
Speaker 4: fact that their reality is.
Speaker 3: Them making fun of us. So it's like, you don't
Speaker 3: have any room to make jokes, and it better be
Speaker 3: funny if you're gonna fucking do it.
Speaker 1: I agree, it better.
Speaker 3: Be fucking funny.
Speaker 4: Better be better than us stealing and not having dads
Speaker 4: in the household.
Speaker 3: Like, come on, get creative, right, that's history because you
Speaker 3: fucked us.
Speaker 4: But like, come on, let's just you know, I'm not
Speaker 4: really into the sensitivity so much or the cancel culture.
Speaker 3: I think.
Speaker 4: I mean, like obviously hitting women and like there's certain
Speaker 4: things that should be canceled, but the things that should
Speaker 4: be canceled aren't like that fucking brown boy talking about
Speaker 4: the what's the what have you guys watched the Man
Speaker 4: Splint Man Sphere or whatever?
Speaker 5: I saw it on Netflix.
Speaker 4: I haven't seen it yet, masphere, Yeah, me either, But
Speaker 4: what's the what's the brown boy over there with the
Speaker 4: podcast The Fast and the Furious or whatever.
Speaker 3: It's called Fit and Fit and Focused Focused. You know
Speaker 3: the stupid guys. Oh yeah you're still around? Oh okay.
Speaker 4: But I'm just like that's shit, like they need someone
Speaker 4: need to make fun of them.
Speaker 3: They're dumb.
Speaker 1: I haven't even seen it.
Speaker 4: I haven't seen it yet, but I'm just there's so
Speaker 4: many are they on that on that Yeah he's of
Speaker 4: course he's yeah, he's the king.
Speaker 3: Hmm.
Speaker 5: Anyway, anyways, Yeah, before we get out of here, give
Speaker 5: an affirmation for us. Anything that you like to tell
Speaker 5: yourself pick yourself up.
Speaker 2: Okay, So okay, I do well for one.
Speaker 1: And this is going to contradict what I was saying earlier,
Speaker 1: But I always tell myself when I get a little
Speaker 1: second guessing or look insecure about something, star being a
Speaker 1: little bitch.
Speaker 3: A little bit.
Speaker 1: You got this a little bit, you got this like
Speaker 1: a little bit you got Whenever I get a little
Speaker 1: bit just nervous and secure, I'm like, hey man, it's
Speaker 1: not being a little bitch. You got this ship right
Speaker 1: like that. And also, I mean this is some people
Speaker 1: think it's a little dark, But whenever people ask me
Speaker 1: how I stay so positive, it's because I'm constantly thinking
Speaker 1: about death. I'm always reminded myself that we could die
Speaker 1: at any time, and as a result, I'm like, I
Speaker 1: want to live the just the most that I can
Speaker 1: at all times because and whenever I get a little
Speaker 1: sad or up said, I'm like, man, what the fuck for?
Speaker 1: I could die? I could die tomorrow, So why am
Speaker 1: I stressing myself with this right now? And that's what
Speaker 1: keeps me happy.
Speaker 5: I murder.
Speaker 4: I know, maybe we could just be taken out at
Speaker 4: any moment, especially in today's climate.
Speaker 3: So fuck it, Like, yeah, look at it, that's true.
Speaker 3: I agree. Oh do you have any do you have
Speaker 3: any horror stories?
Speaker 1: Any horries, horror hor hory?
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you're being like a whore and it went wild.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I got a funny hory story.
Speaker 5: Whose stories?
Speaker 1: I mean the people that watched my podcast, they've heard
Speaker 1: this an a million times, but this is one of
Speaker 1: my favorite just hostage stories. So I was messing with
Speaker 1: this girl that was shep six feet tall, oh shit,
Speaker 1: and I'm well, she's like, you know, stallion five eleven
Speaker 1: and a half and I and I'm like five four
Speaker 1: and a half right, and and just from the jump,
Speaker 1: I remember being like, oh my gosh, she takes up
Speaker 1: my whole bed. This is crazy, and even like and
Speaker 1: like even like holding her legs up, being like, god,
Speaker 1: these are so heavy because they're so long, I'm tired.
Speaker 1: But the funny story, yeah, yeah, the visuals, I'm sure
Speaker 1: it was hilarious if anybody caught me with the honey camera.
Speaker 1: But I remember we were like outside one time, trying
Speaker 1: to canodle on some like you know outdoor shit, right,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, here's the thing. Laying down, it's fine,
Speaker 1: but standing up, the genitalia doesn't match up like that. Right,
Speaker 1: I'm little and her her coaches probably add my nipples, right,
Speaker 1: So I'm like, how are we going to do this?
Speaker 1: So it was kind of like a garden ish area.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, oh cool, I found a bucket. I
Speaker 1: flipped the bucket over so I was standing on the bucket.
Speaker 1: She was like leaned over a wall or some shit
Speaker 1: like that. We made it happen.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. Your feet had to be so close together.
Speaker 1: I mean I was. I was. I'm flat footed, so
Speaker 1: I'm a good bucket. Yeah.
Speaker 5: That's balance, you know. Man, to be a man and
Speaker 5: to have to fuck is a lot.
Speaker 1: I mean to you, I was gonna make.
Speaker 4: It so much, so much, DaMina that Yeah, I don't
Speaker 4: have it at me.
Speaker 1: And in this case, it was thrusting balance.
Speaker 2: It's a lot.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Heavy.
Speaker 5: When you're focused on what you want, you get anything possible.
Speaker 1: And there's that too. That's and that's what I apply
Speaker 1: to life. I'm gonna get that nut.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh my god, that's a good one.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I like that.
Speaker 2: I have one more quession before really.
Speaker 3: Do you may date black women?
Speaker 1: I have tasted the rainbow really.
Speaker 3: Like that, like that brown sugar.
Speaker 1: But I've I've dated and canoodled with all colors and
Speaker 1: sizes and sizes, heights, and you know, just all kinds.
Speaker 1: I just love I you know, I just love women.
Speaker 1: And yeah, I don't discriminate.
Speaker 3: However, how do your parents feel about that?
Speaker 1: You know what I feel like. I've been blessed to
Speaker 1: have very open minded parents, especially Asian parents, about about
Speaker 1: everything from from girls I dated to the career I chose.
Speaker 1: And they knew from the jump that I was just
Speaker 1: gonna be just talking to I wanted to talk to,
Speaker 1: you know, first girl I ever had a crush on
Speaker 1: in preschool, Danielle, a little Latina. So it's like they
Speaker 1: knew I wasn't gonna you know, uh either there was
Speaker 1: a chance I wasn't gonna end up with an Asian girl.
Speaker 1: You know, my mom always said, look as long as
Speaker 1: as long as she treats you right and takes care
Speaker 1: of you, and we're.
Speaker 4: Good, good parents, loving parents that accept what is to
Speaker 4: be because you can't stop it anyway.
Speaker 2: Shout out to you for being a good dad and
Speaker 2: a good husband.
Speaker 4: You're doing a great job, especially I heard this on
Speaker 4: the radio this morning on Big Boy, because that's all
Speaker 4: I listened to the morning.
Speaker 3: Is that Big Boy.
Speaker 4: That they were They were having people call in saying
Speaker 4: that people in this generation don't believe in marriage anymore.
Speaker 3: It's a thing of the past, and I was like,
Speaker 3: is that true? I feel like that.
Speaker 4: I feel like more people are getting married now than before,
Speaker 4: like maybe previously, but maybe like from a man's perspective,
Speaker 4: obviously you're married. But I was thinking, that's interesting that
Speaker 4: if you're They were saying, if you're religious, you might
Speaker 4: get married, but if not, are you religious?
Speaker 1: I am religious? You know, I'm spiritual. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Well, I went to you know, Christian school
Speaker 1: from like preschool to eighth grade, and without going too
Speaker 1: much into it, I feel like everybody kind of gets
Speaker 1: to that stage where you start to ask questions and be.
Speaker 3: Like, so, what explain that story one more time? So
Speaker 3: God gave his son to do what isn't he got though?
Speaker 3: So why would he do that?
Speaker 1: He really he sat all those people with two fish,
Speaker 1: and I think you start to ask questions. But also
Speaker 1: like I do feel like I do have a personal
Speaker 1: relationship with God, and I feel like I was put
Speaker 1: here for a reason, but a divine reason to just
Speaker 1: make the world a better place. And I feel like
Speaker 1: I've been blessed, you know, in a lot of ways.
Speaker 1: And you know, I'm me and God talk on the regular.
Speaker 1: I don't I do always fall asleep, though I feel
Speaker 1: bad about it.
Speaker 2: You pray, yeah, how longer prayers?
Speaker 1: No, that's the thing. Here's the thing. Here's the fun up.
Speaker 1: Because when I can't sleep, I know the prayer is
Speaker 1: going to put me right to sleep. So I always
Speaker 1: thought my prayers. I was like, hey, dear God, how
Speaker 1: are you You know how this is going to go.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry about that. I'm gonna fall asleep, but you
Speaker 1: made me this way. Anyways, thank you for this and
Speaker 1: this and that, and then I'm out rest.
Speaker 5: Everything has taken care of.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was good to see you for a couple
Speaker 1: of seconds. But why why did you ask my fast?
Speaker 2: Religious?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 1: Marriage?
Speaker 2: Marriage?
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I think there's always gonna be a
Speaker 1: wave of people, especially with like TikTok or people like
Speaker 1: you know, you kind of fall into an algorithm of
Speaker 1: what is the point? You know, it's all for financial
Speaker 1: and taxes and this and this and that, but it's
Speaker 1: never gonna go away. You're gonna you're gonna want to
Speaker 1: get married for the sanctity of marriage, even if it's.
Speaker 5: Not marriage by government. Like love is love and that's
Speaker 5: what we're here for.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think social media, if anything, it's I mean,
Speaker 1: who doesn't want that viral proposal video or that beautiful wedding?
Speaker 1: You know what?
Speaker 2: I think.
Speaker 5: I don't know if marriage is dying. I think that
Speaker 5: the timeline is shifting. I think like it's not happening
Speaker 5: at the same time that it has happened historically, which
Speaker 5: was like twenty you know, it's like it's happening. People
Speaker 5: are taking their time.
Speaker 1: For sure because they don't know.
Speaker 3: You know, you're not even a real adult.
Speaker 5: So I didn't realize it was an option. Be women
Speaker 5: have careers now and have ship to do.
Speaker 4: And I think women are marrying for love, not because I, well,
Speaker 4: maybe die and not survive without you, which is changing.
Speaker 3: The whole, the whole, like how it looks.
Speaker 4: Completely because if I have to do it for survival,
Speaker 4: is it really really what it is?
Speaker 2: Right?
Speaker 5: Well, cheers to happy marriages.
Speaker 1: I appreciate you, thanks for having you two married friends.
Speaker 3: I just got married I've been married almost four months.
Speaker 5: Oh congrats, and you got married in twenty twenty three.
Speaker 2: Oh shit, you were season and stuff.
Speaker 3: Wait when she moved here from Canada? Like when when
Speaker 3: you guys did finally live together? It was marriage? Yes, okay,
Speaker 3: because she is what was the after?
Speaker 5: I know we're gonna get out of here, And I
Speaker 5: meant to ask you that why seven years didn't wait
Speaker 5: for you to finally Okay?
Speaker 1: Well, look, first of all, we were long distance.
Speaker 5: I know, so I see thirty or four, I would
Speaker 5: be like, what the fuck are we doing?
Speaker 1: I feel like out, I think fly four years. If
Speaker 1: we were together seeing each other all the time, I
Speaker 1: think long distance, you got to stretch out a little bit.
Speaker 1: I'm only seeing you one week out of every month,
Speaker 1: so I feel like we gotta take the time. And plus,
Speaker 1: she was doing her thing, was with my thing, you know,
Speaker 1: business wise, money wise, she was getting a little itchy.
Speaker 1: She was getting that seven year inch.
Speaker 2: I'm sure she was.
Speaker 1: She was like, so she does nails, so people can
Speaker 1: have another girl came in and she can get just engaged.
Speaker 1: You got to ring all. But here was the thing.
Speaker 1: When she started getting itchy, I already had the I
Speaker 1: was ready. I was locked and loaded, and I was like,
Speaker 1: can you there was one day I was like, can
Speaker 1: you shut up about it so I can feel like
Speaker 1: I'm surprising and yeah, so like, so I don't. I
Speaker 1: don't feel like I'm being pressured because I was ready.
Speaker 1: But here's the thing, too quick story. Maybe I want
Speaker 1: to say a year or two, probably before I actually proposed.
Speaker 1: She was in LA, brought her home girl and she
Speaker 1: was like, hey, can I can I take your car
Speaker 1: today to go to get my nails done with my friend?
Speaker 1: But I'm like, sure, whatever, that's cool. She came back
Speaker 1: the day she was hey, So I had a little confession.
Speaker 1: I didn't we did get lunch or we did get
Speaker 1: our nails done. But also there's a jeweler that I
Speaker 1: really like, and no pressure. But whenever you're ready, he
Speaker 1: knows what kind of ring I like and what kind
Speaker 1: of diamond, and he knows all the logistics. He has
Speaker 1: your name ready. Whenever you're ready, you can go in
Speaker 1: there and uh, you know, and pick the ring. I
Speaker 1: thought it was great. The guests and there's yeah, and
Speaker 1: there's so much that you don't know about rings and
Speaker 1: ship until you get until you get there, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I didn't know what the clarity man and the cut
Speaker 1: and this and this and that. I didn't want to
Speaker 1: have to decide, so and she provided me with a
Speaker 1: couple of little things to customize, but she pretty much
Speaker 1: had picked her ring already, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: And I did like that. But I went and and
Speaker 1: and she told me, look, she's not moving until I propose.
Speaker 1: She's like, I'm not about to leave my family and
Speaker 1: my business and all that until this is a concrete thing,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So you know, I wasn't
Speaker 1: taking my time necessarily, but I wanted to make sure
Speaker 1: it was right. When I felt it was right, I
Speaker 1: knew it was right.
Speaker 5: Beautiful, Well, Tim, thank you for coming on the show.
Speaker 2: I appreciate you.
Speaker 1: Glad we could finally make it happen.
Speaker 3: Can you let our peoples know when Oh wait, we
Speaker 3: didn't pick a pap tarot.
Speaker 2: Oh shit, pick a.
Speaker 5: Card, Oh cool, pick a car, let's do it. What
Speaker 5: card is that? It's terrort time?
Speaker 1: The tower? What's I mean? It's on fire and people
Speaker 1: are jumping out of it.
Speaker 3: Okay, well, America, it's accurate. The tower.
Speaker 5: The tower card symbolizes sudden change, chaos. Okay, I like that,
Speaker 5: revelation and awakening. I'm still waiting for this to load.
Speaker 5: One moment, my tarot, my tarot reading is loading.
Speaker 1: People get scared of chaos. I think chaos is important,
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 5: Usually chaos before the like the breakthrough you got.
Speaker 3: I think I got it, I got it.
Speaker 5: Finally loaded when the tarot card, I feel like we
Speaker 5: pulled this last week.
Speaker 3: I feel like we didn't too.
Speaker 5: When the tarot card appears in the taro reading, expect
Speaker 5: the unexpected, massive change, destruction, and chaos. It may be divorce, death,
Speaker 5: death of a loved one, financial failure, health problems, natural disaster,
Speaker 5: job loss, or even or an event that shakes.
Speaker 1: You to your core, affecting you spiritually.
Speaker 5: Mentally, and physically. There's no escaping at him. Oh Lord,
Speaker 5: change is here to tear things up, put it back.
Speaker 5: Just when you think you're safe and comfortable, a tower
Speaker 5: moment hits and throws you into a loop.
Speaker 1: Oh God, your world may.
Speaker 5: Come crashing down before you in ways you could have
Speaker 5: never imagined. As you realize that you've been building your
Speaker 5: life on unstable foundations, everything you thought to be true
Speaker 5: has turned on its head. But over time you will
Speaker 5: come to see that your original beliefs were built on
Speaker 5: false understandings and your new belief systems are more representative
Speaker 5: of reality. The best way forward is to let this
Speaker 5: structure self destruct so you can rebuild and refocus and
Speaker 5: let's be real. With a card like the Tower, you
Speaker 5: have no choice but to surrender. After a Tower experience,
Speaker 5: you will grow stronger, wiser, and more resilient as you
Speaker 5: develop a new perspective on life you did not know existed. Thankfully,
Speaker 5: the Tower doesn't always associate with pain and turmoil. If
Speaker 5: you are highly aware and in tune with your inner
Speaker 5: guidance system, then this tarot card can end dedicate a
Speaker 5: spiritual awakening or revelation. You may be able to see
Speaker 5: the cracks forming and take action before the whole structure
Speaker 5: comes tumbling down. You may create a massive transformation before
Speaker 5: you reach the point where change is your only option.
Speaker 5: It's in its most positive form, the Tower card is
Speaker 5: your opportunity to break free from the old ways of
Speaker 5: thinking that have been holding you back.
Speaker 1: Well, thanks a lot, go to therapy. Thanks for leaving
Speaker 1: me with that, guys.
Speaker 3: Maybe it's for the audience. It's not for you, It's
Speaker 3: just for the collective.
Speaker 1: Well like this, he's looking around.
Speaker 2: No, maybe you're just on the on the brink of
Speaker 2: own awakening.
Speaker 1: Hey, I told you guys, I live my life thinking
Speaker 1: that death is death. Death is always a possibility, So
Speaker 1: I mean it is, it's.
Speaker 3: Always promised forgiven.
Speaker 2: You're right.
Speaker 5: Well, I'm putting a lot of energy of life all long, vitality, health.
Speaker 1: No, I agree this, Thank you.
Speaker 4: I'll take you, tim Can you tell our people where
Speaker 4: they can find you?
Speaker 1: Sure? Uh? You can find my podcasts as well as
Speaker 1: a bunch of online content YouTube dot com slash Timothy
Speaker 1: if you like. If you want to see my wife
Speaker 1: and children. I have vlogged as well, YouTube dot com
Speaker 1: slash timan Chia and Instagram my whole government named tim Chounthroxy.
Speaker 5: You know you're doing it big on YouTube when you
Speaker 5: can just be Timothy man tim you know.
Speaker 4: The first Timothy Timothy.
Speaker 1: I had to write a personal email for this.
Speaker 3: I'm damn just Timothy. You gotta fuck that up.
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Speaker 1: I'm living so good. Can't you tell? I went through
Speaker 1: a drought.
Speaker 6: That's until I found out, Well, maym have been known Earth?
Speaker 6: I used to be broken hell now got the blues
Speaker 6: dancer like Beyonce jaw throat shot or Pop in his
Speaker 6: cow wearing her voices. Patriarchy kept it in the box
Speaker 6: to it's flotas. Women put the pee in powers, so
Speaker 6: it's pointingless. They want me to be good, so I
Speaker 6: make bad choices. Bad mom, not a bad mom, but
Speaker 6: a bad mom. It he's in on put cannabis in
Speaker 6: their bathbon walked in Bosts cap and I blew his
Speaker 6: cat ball hot dog.
Speaker 1: Now I'm immune to.
Speaker 6: The cat called Herbie and no waisted straight to it
Speaker 6: like a dollar sign. Mother, rent the lover when too,
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