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How you gonna introduce 0:02:30.000 --> 0:02:33.240 your mama? See this is why I like to the show, 0:02:33.280 --> 0:02:35.320 because she saved me. And rude, rude, the air back 0:02:37.040 --> 0:02:40.440 towards your mouth. I know you didn't say that. Yes, 0:02:41.639 --> 0:02:45.200 you brought me here. I'm here, Thank you? How I 0:02:45.240 --> 0:02:48.080 have been going through hell already? My mom? I wake up, 0:02:48.080 --> 0:02:50.040 I said, Mom, I just need thirty minutes to finish 0:02:50.040 --> 0:02:52.519 this outline. Okay, no problem, you know what you need 0:02:52.560 --> 0:02:56.040 on that couch, purple pal Oh. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. 0:02:56.080 --> 0:02:58.600 I'm sorry. I'm sorry. And that's what you're gonna wear. 0:02:58.680 --> 0:03:00.200 You're gonna no, no, no, no no, no, do you thing 0:03:00.720 --> 0:03:04.240 last night? You know last night me a sante our 0:03:04.360 --> 0:03:06.399 director like we all want up to get drinks because 0:03:06.440 --> 0:03:08.480 I was like, wheezy got liquor at our house. I 0:03:08.520 --> 0:03:10.840 ain't gonna pay, We're gonna go drink up a lik. 0:03:11.400 --> 0:03:14.000 So we go upstairs and it becomes a road session 0:03:14.040 --> 0:03:16.080 for wheezy, I felt so bad for you last night. 0:03:17.560 --> 0:03:21.440 Literally the whole room. She's she's excited because she got 0:03:21.480 --> 0:03:23.639 her new shoes that she starts to pour shoes out 0:03:23.800 --> 0:03:26.600 and we all just be like, now you're not wearing these. 0:03:28.440 --> 0:03:30.760 Then I take the shoes off. I go, what did 0:03:30.760 --> 0:03:33.560 I put on? Leopard? Oh? These shoes that I'm wearing, 0:03:34.400 --> 0:03:37.640 they're like clawled their mules with a nice little rain 0:03:37.920 --> 0:03:40.960 clawed there. I got them at this joke through shopping Paris, 0:03:41.000 --> 0:03:44.080 and my mom goes, then I put on the jeans 0:03:44.160 --> 0:03:47.120 and she goes, oh, anything but that. Oh God, I 0:03:47.120 --> 0:03:49.440 don't know what it is with the homeless look. I 0:03:49.480 --> 0:03:51.440 don't know. She's like, if you want to look like 0:03:51.480 --> 0:03:53.920 a bum, you don't have to pay for pants like that. 0:03:54.320 --> 0:03:58.960 Just rip them yourself. Anyways, I guess we have to 0:03:58.960 --> 0:04:02.200 introduce ourselves. Hi, guys, welcome to the Horrible Decisions Podcast. 0:04:02.560 --> 0:04:04.320 This is your girl, Mandy b a k A peg 0:04:04.400 --> 0:04:08.440 to Starion and I'm sitting next to and we have 0:04:08.520 --> 0:04:11.960 a second time guest. Yes, miss Jule, let's hop it 0:04:12.040 --> 0:04:17.400 up to she's hot. You can't talk about yourself a 0:04:17.440 --> 0:04:21.280 third person, you know what I wanted to so old 0:04:21.279 --> 0:04:24.760 bass season and came over the night before we started filming. Right, 0:04:24.800 --> 0:04:26.839 So this is when we ran to my mom. So, 0:04:27.440 --> 0:04:29.560 a guy that I went on a date with before 0:04:29.680 --> 0:04:34.400 comes upstairs. My mom, he's going to she was sucking, digging, cooking. 0:04:34.520 --> 0:04:40.680 Thank the other night. Here goes wheezy right in front 0:04:40.720 --> 0:04:42.680 of your fight, in front of the nigga. I was like, Mom, please, 0:04:43.560 --> 0:04:45.960 because if you know your mother is coming, And she 0:04:46.120 --> 0:04:48.440 told me, I said, I'm coming out with my friend 0:04:48.480 --> 0:04:50.560 so and she knew who I was working, so that 0:04:50.640 --> 0:04:53.000 was no. But she said to me the night before came, 0:04:53.320 --> 0:04:55.280 I'm going shopping and I'm thinking we're going to get 0:04:55.320 --> 0:04:59.480 the regular cheese, crackers, steak. I get that, not say 0:05:00.800 --> 0:05:05.800 sports stuff for Dick. That's literally what she said, grocery 0:05:05.800 --> 0:05:08.800 shopping on that. But Ben Weasley and I went on 0:05:08.880 --> 0:05:12.919 a whole like we were on Instagram live together. We 0:05:12.960 --> 0:05:15.599 had a whole actual debate because I was like, I 0:05:15.600 --> 0:05:17.960 don't think you should be buying groceries and cooking for 0:05:18.000 --> 0:05:20.760 a nigga that's not your nigga. No, that's not true. 0:05:21.400 --> 0:05:27.880 Think and maybe I get for my mom now it's 0:05:27.920 --> 0:05:30.960 called could I say just what they just because he's 0:05:31.080 --> 0:05:35.280 not your what you said. Man, Mind you, my mom 0:05:35.440 --> 0:05:38.160 is the black one. And if you couldn't hear it 0:05:38.360 --> 0:05:41.600 on Mandy's Mom's episode, he might be like, oh, she's Caucasian. 0:05:41.680 --> 0:05:44.880 Didn't she didn't get that vibe from Tarmy. But you 0:05:44.920 --> 0:05:47.080 should always get out once in a while. You should 0:05:47.120 --> 0:05:48.800 cook for a man because you want to take it 0:05:48.880 --> 0:05:53.400 to another level when you know he knows you can 0:05:53.480 --> 0:05:56.640 cook all you in. But cooking and fucking a guy 0:05:56.839 --> 0:06:00.120 doesn't necessarily be looking at the male perspective. We have 0:06:00.200 --> 0:06:04.400 two men in the room. How do you feel I'll 0:06:04.400 --> 0:06:06.360 explain why I paid for the groceries. I feel like 0:06:06.480 --> 0:06:08.839 this dude takes me all the time to lavish meals. 0:06:09.400 --> 0:06:11.280 He's very kind to me. Ship we're going away in 0:06:11.360 --> 0:06:13.880 two weeks, Like I wanted to do something to show 0:06:13.960 --> 0:06:16.480 my gratitude, and to me, that's making a meal. That's 0:06:16.520 --> 0:06:20.200 a very personal thing. I also don't ask friends to, 0:06:20.680 --> 0:06:22.800 you know, get the groceries. So if I'm hosting you 0:06:22.920 --> 0:06:24.880 in my home, I'm going to take care of the 0:06:24.920 --> 0:06:28.040 things in my home. That's just how I rolle. Now. 0:06:28.279 --> 0:06:31.080 I get it, maybe like someone brings a liqu or 0:06:31.120 --> 0:06:34.599 something like that a gesture, but He's done enough already 0:06:34.640 --> 0:06:36.800 to where this was my thing to do for him, 0:06:37.600 --> 0:06:40.280 and men appreciate that rather than you pick it up 0:06:40.320 --> 0:06:44.240 the check, you know in a restaurant like it's let 0:06:44.320 --> 0:06:47.160 me do this, put them close to your mouth, in 0:06:47.320 --> 0:06:53.560 my mouth loude, I don't know, like to to me. 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:55.680 I don't know, and I don't I think we've kind 0:06:55.680 --> 0:06:58.200 of had this. But even when Felling Bay would want 0:06:58.240 --> 0:07:01.279 breakfast that Nigga would bring over, is the pancake mix 0:07:01.720 --> 0:07:05.760 turkey bacon, Oh? Yes, he sure would say. Maybe, okay, 0:07:05.800 --> 0:07:07.640 hold on another, I'm thinking about it. He didn't ask 0:07:07.720 --> 0:07:10.440 for this. I offered this. Yeah, I a offering stake 0:07:10.480 --> 0:07:19.400 to when they got told you offering, she offered the 0:07:19.480 --> 0:07:23.320 best thing she cooks. That's what they offer is good too. GOA. 0:07:23.400 --> 0:07:25.480 What's your gonna say, Christy? I wasn't gonna say anything, 0:07:25.600 --> 0:07:29.240 especially just the US man. We appreciate both the check 0:07:29.280 --> 0:07:37.200 being picked up and hopefully look, so what I'm saying, 0:07:37.360 --> 0:07:39.920 is you, like she brought up to if you want 0:07:39.960 --> 0:07:42.160 to take it to the next level. My thing is 0:07:42.600 --> 0:07:45.600 you fucking a guy and paying for the groceries and 0:07:45.680 --> 0:07:48.800 cooking for him or picking up the tab doesn't necessarily 0:07:48.880 --> 0:07:50.680 mean that it's going to bring it to the next level. 0:07:51.280 --> 0:07:52.640 To me, if a man wants to bring it to 0:07:52.720 --> 0:07:55.000 the next level, that's gonna be something he does, whether 0:07:55.080 --> 0:07:57.320 you do anything for him. And I'll tell you what cooking. 0:07:57.880 --> 0:08:00.840 When she said to the next level, like I said, 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:03.600 sex is something that ever anyone can offer, and I 0:08:03.680 --> 0:08:05.880 think that you should shoot my head is not offered 0:08:05.920 --> 0:08:10.120 by just anybody. But I mean, like, are they like 0:08:10.240 --> 0:08:12.080 maybe I can't leave you because you suck my dick? 0:08:12.200 --> 0:08:14.680 So good are they? But they're not. They're not gonna 0:08:14.880 --> 0:08:19.160 be with you because what you can do as a 0:08:19.240 --> 0:08:23.760 partner and just appreciate somebody doing something else he doesn't 0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:26.560 have to. I'm a very big acts of service person. 0:08:27.040 --> 0:08:29.280 So when I see men doing things around my house 0:08:29.360 --> 0:08:32.079 for me, like putting something up or taking care of 0:08:32.200 --> 0:08:34.280 something that they have to do with their hands, that 0:08:34.520 --> 0:08:36.400 to me. And when she said the next level, I 0:08:36.480 --> 0:08:39.719 know where you're going. He's gonna be my man. That 0:08:39.880 --> 0:08:42.319 did show me another side of him. Much like the 0:08:42.400 --> 0:08:44.719 other day I watched a dude work and I told Mandy, like, 0:08:44.840 --> 0:08:47.520 whoa I he watching him do this job was like, 0:08:47.640 --> 0:08:49.600 oh ship, Like I was into it. Those are ships 0:08:49.840 --> 0:08:52.400 that are. That's ship important to me. So in return, 0:08:52.880 --> 0:08:54.439 the way that I can show that I'm a good 0:08:54.480 --> 0:08:57.559 partner is taking care of you in some way or me. 0:08:57.920 --> 0:09:00.800 That's why cooking for you and doing something nice around 0:09:00.840 --> 0:09:03.120 the home. I didn't mean the next level in that way. 0:09:03.360 --> 0:09:06.679 It's just showing I appreciate what you do, that's all. 0:09:06.760 --> 0:09:10.120 It was. Not the next level we're gonna beating. I 0:09:10.280 --> 0:09:12.800 meant it because he always takes her out here with that, 0:09:13.120 --> 0:09:16.920 she wanted to do something personal. I bought this nig 0:09:17.080 --> 0:09:19.960 Nike shorts because I appreciated his dick. You just wanted 0:09:19.960 --> 0:09:28.000 to see his dick in the short maybe another question, 0:09:28.120 --> 0:09:31.000 And I think this is important for listeners to um. So, 0:09:31.160 --> 0:09:33.559 my cooking, like I said, was to just as a 0:09:33.640 --> 0:09:36.760 gesture of gratitude. Has a meal I ever made you 0:09:36.880 --> 0:09:41.400 feel like, oh my god like wifey status. Yes. I 0:09:41.520 --> 0:09:43.880 felt like that once for food with Dennis. And he 0:09:43.960 --> 0:09:47.040 could cook my ex the Russian dude. We weren't friends 0:09:47.080 --> 0:09:48.800 back then. He could cook his ass. That's why I 0:09:48.960 --> 0:09:52.480 want to break up with him. Yo. Honestly, that's another 0:09:52.520 --> 0:09:54.440 way to a man to or at least mine. Yeah, 0:09:56.000 --> 0:09:57.920 do a stomach see and I think that that's what 0:09:58.040 --> 0:10:01.120 sucks for me now, like like and men eat men 0:10:01.280 --> 0:10:05.240 portions like I eat fucking chips and sauca for dinner now, 0:10:05.360 --> 0:10:08.840 like I don't really eat a lot more people. Yeah, 0:10:09.000 --> 0:10:11.080 so I just don't eat a lot. So if someone 0:10:11.160 --> 0:10:13.120 comes to my house like like for me to go 0:10:13.200 --> 0:10:16.480 out and buy groceries, like that's a lot and no, 0:10:16.880 --> 0:10:20.040 like like it's more of it's a to me like 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:23.880 that cooking was not for me whatever, Right, That's what 0:10:23.960 --> 0:10:27.600 I'm saying, Mandy, And just stand your point, and your 0:10:27.679 --> 0:10:29.959 point is no, you gotta bring the food. Now, what 0:10:30.160 --> 0:10:33.040 happens is when you start dating a lot this and that. 0:10:33.400 --> 0:10:35.319 Then he said, well I don't really want to go out. 0:10:36.280 --> 0:10:39.160 You're gonna make something? Then he could bring. That's what 0:10:39.200 --> 0:10:42.439 he's gonna say that. That's when that was the dynamic 0:10:42.520 --> 0:10:46.240 that I had with Fellam Bay. But also I think 0:10:46.280 --> 0:10:48.000 I told you, I think I'm probably scarred for life 0:10:48.280 --> 0:10:50.400 anyways now when it comes to buying food and cooking 0:10:50.440 --> 0:10:53.319 it because the one time that I bought the groceries 0:10:53.440 --> 0:10:56.360 and cook the groceries, that Nickel violated parole. So that 0:10:56.480 --> 0:11:00.120 food last to me because he never showed up. He 0:11:00.840 --> 0:11:02.960 didn't show up like this, his bubbles started going green 0:11:03.040 --> 0:11:05.520 and d Yeah, so I'm scaring for like the first time, 0:11:05.600 --> 0:11:07.400 I was like, I'm gonna cook for you. I got you, 0:11:07.800 --> 0:11:12.240 bought the groceries and all that ship. It's probably really 0:11:12.320 --> 0:11:15.360 never gonna happen. I'm not even as she said like 0:11:15.440 --> 0:11:16.679 that now that I'm thinking about it. When I was 0:11:16.760 --> 0:11:20.120 dating Jeeves who is the white I don't want his name, 0:11:20.120 --> 0:11:22.719 but anyway, we were seeing each other way more like 0:11:22.800 --> 0:11:24.640 three or four times a week, he was picking up 0:11:24.640 --> 0:11:28.199 the groceries and bringing ever. But this to me felt different. 0:11:28.480 --> 0:11:30.040 I did it for a purpose. But like I said, 0:11:30.080 --> 0:11:31.760 I got the truffle butter, and I don't even keep 0:11:31.800 --> 0:11:34.120 that in my house. Once I bought that motherfucking butter, 0:11:34.160 --> 0:11:38.680 I knew when I tell you the wealth from Wheezy recently, 0:11:39.679 --> 0:11:41.920 I'm just like I told y'all. She talked about the 0:11:42.000 --> 0:11:46.480 heavy on Miss Spray in Jamaica, Like was she's like 0:11:46.760 --> 0:11:48.760 the trouble butter. Then we know she bring up so 0:11:48.840 --> 0:11:51.959 whole house every guy. Damn. Then she's like, and I 0:11:52.000 --> 0:11:55.640 paid seven hundred dollars for boxing classes. Oh my god, 0:11:55.720 --> 0:11:59.320 that was the bush. First of all, I've just been 0:11:59.400 --> 0:12:01.720 hanging there a lot lately because I don't have a workspace. 0:12:01.840 --> 0:12:06.080 Like I said, she's petty to the Edvy on Misspray 0:12:06.400 --> 0:12:08.360 some of our listeners. And by the way, I don't 0:12:08.360 --> 0:12:10.640 know if the cameras can see me, you bitches. I'm 0:12:10.679 --> 0:12:12.679 tired of you coming in my d m is like, oh, 0:12:13.040 --> 0:12:14.800 trying to say this secret ship because you don't want 0:12:14.840 --> 0:12:18.760 Mandy to drag you. First of all, the soul Spaciphora 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:21.600 it is. I told you, okay, it's a very easy 0:12:21.679 --> 0:12:23.679 to use thing, and it's really good for your skin, 0:12:23.840 --> 0:12:25.960 especially when you're hot and you're getting red and water 0:12:26.080 --> 0:12:31.600 in a bottle and heavy. I'm not curling my way, bud, 0:12:32.160 --> 0:12:37.880 get some motherfucking talking about to be fair, do you 0:12:37.960 --> 0:12:41.319 see my head from Okay, this is not like, this 0:12:41.520 --> 0:12:53.400 is my point, this is what it's always here. I'm 0:12:53.480 --> 0:12:56.880 just saying, listen, any let's go ahead. We're gonna get 0:12:56.880 --> 0:13:00.520 into these ice breakers for your mama. I don't ask him, 0:13:01.840 --> 0:13:04.319 just so you know she came up with these. Oh 0:13:04.440 --> 0:13:06.319 yes she did. So we're gonna get right into it 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:07.960 because this first one, I can't believe you asking your 0:13:07.960 --> 0:13:09.199 mama because you know, I want to see if you 0:13:09.200 --> 0:13:13.439 guys have something in common. Flow job. Have you ever 0:13:13.720 --> 0:13:16.920 slept with a married guy that wasn't married to you? Oh? Yeah, 0:13:18.840 --> 0:13:23.439 comment it's I'm sorry, it's her fault, not mine fault. 0:13:23.760 --> 0:13:30.480 If he's married, it's the wise fault, not ship. I'm sorry. 0:13:30.520 --> 0:13:32.360 Were doing with something? Not no, we're not gonna we're 0:13:32.360 --> 0:13:35.199 not gonna go there. But the second But why was 0:13:35.240 --> 0:13:37.200 it more exciting to you? Was it like they were 0:13:37.520 --> 0:13:41.719 actually nothing to do? It's a chemistry you have. And 0:13:41.800 --> 0:13:44.800 then just because the marriage and every man will tell you, 0:13:44.800 --> 0:13:48.439 you know it's not good, we don't. I don't care, 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:50.199 that's not my problem. Just like say that ship, I 0:13:50.200 --> 0:13:52.400 don't want to hear that. Don't tell me just sucked me? 0:13:52.600 --> 0:13:55.360 And let you know what, can I be honest? I 0:13:55.440 --> 0:13:57.559 think I think men. I I think they just want 0:13:57.559 --> 0:14:00.400 to I don't believe that she just doesn't want to fun. 0:14:01.240 --> 0:14:05.880 This is groundbreaking. It was like, well, I really think 0:14:05.960 --> 0:14:09.280 men live. We know because man, he even said the 0:14:09.320 --> 0:14:10.920 other and she's like, oh, their wives don't do this 0:14:11.040 --> 0:14:13.360 and that I don't really believe that that is so true. 0:14:13.400 --> 0:14:16.160 Oh no, no, I believe that their wives are open 0:14:16.200 --> 0:14:18.160 to do things and they just want to No, no, no, no, 0:14:18.520 --> 0:14:21.680 some women. We know so many women that are open 0:14:21.800 --> 0:14:25.360 to doing a lot of things, specifically maybe the threesome route, 0:14:25.480 --> 0:14:27.640 clearly the annal play route. We're not even gonna go 0:14:27.680 --> 0:14:29.800 there with everyone tagging us in this fucking video on 0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:32.120 social media right now. So then tell me, are you 0:14:32.200 --> 0:14:35.520 ever doing anything so wild with these mary dudes? Well? No, no, no, no, 0:14:35.960 --> 0:14:39.720 my point no, But well yes, it's just like and 0:14:39.800 --> 0:14:44.080 they're using that whole excuse thing lincol did you maybe 0:14:44.160 --> 0:14:46.720 the wife doesn't do it to him because she don't 0:14:46.760 --> 0:14:50.160 want to, and so she goes somewhere else and he goes. 0:14:50.400 --> 0:14:55.080 Everybody cheat, But it's not only about wild things. You 0:14:55.120 --> 0:14:58.520 have to realize, like in a situation where even if 0:14:58.560 --> 0:15:02.080 it's not a marriage, it's just a relationship where they 0:15:02.120 --> 0:15:05.720 live together, where you have built together, children together, there's 0:15:05.760 --> 0:15:09.120 also just a loaded stress of even how the conversations go. 0:15:09.440 --> 0:15:13.040 So sometimes I'm just an outlet to getting away that, right, 0:15:13.120 --> 0:15:17.320 But that's not a healthy outlet to cheat therapy, go 0:15:17.400 --> 0:15:19.360 out with your friends, do some other ship. Just because 0:15:19.400 --> 0:15:21.520 you're an outlet doesn't mean that you're the right outlet. 0:15:21.640 --> 0:15:25.920 My point is, but I really, truly believe that men 0:15:26.040 --> 0:15:27.640 that are saying that whole thing about all the things 0:15:27.720 --> 0:15:29.920 their wives don't do ours to stroke the ego of 0:15:30.000 --> 0:15:34.280 the quote unquote mistress or side girl and to what 0:15:34.360 --> 0:15:37.840 did you make any do that? And it's good, but 0:15:37.880 --> 0:15:39.520 that's what I'm saying. Like, I just I saw a 0:15:39.560 --> 0:15:41.000 tweet the other day that really made me think. It 0:15:41.120 --> 0:15:43.800 was like, oh, can you stop? Can I'm so glad 0:15:43.800 --> 0:15:45.960 that you don't blah blah blah your van And then 0:15:46.280 --> 0:15:47.840 someone retweeted it was like, oh, is that what he's 0:15:47.880 --> 0:15:49.920 telling you that his wife doesn't blah blah blah And 0:15:50.040 --> 0:15:52.880 it's true. It's like maybe lying. It is true, but 0:15:53.000 --> 0:15:56.520 they want lying. We don't know that you have to 0:15:56.760 --> 0:15:59.040 accept it this way. You're gonna be stupid about it 0:15:59.160 --> 0:16:03.680 or realistic about it. And I'm a realized it's real. 0:16:04.040 --> 0:16:07.160 But do you know what I have really really baking 0:16:07.240 --> 0:16:10.040 cakes the other day talking about you can't say that 0:16:10.840 --> 0:16:13.080 that was someone who we have that I have history with, 0:16:13.200 --> 0:16:16.440 not with someone who's you've been lately. It's cool, girl. 0:16:16.520 --> 0:16:18.600 We was just we would just cuddle up, shut up. 0:16:18.640 --> 0:16:22.120 He gone in Toronto. And next question is have you 0:16:22.200 --> 0:16:28.040 ever gone down on a girl? Not quite was not quite. 0:16:29.120 --> 0:16:32.240 I mean because my husband, my first husband, was down 0:16:32.320 --> 0:16:34.120 there and I was I know what I was doing, 0:16:35.160 --> 0:16:37.840 so I guess that was he just looked at him 0:16:37.840 --> 0:16:40.280 while he was down there. My mouth was there, but 0:16:40.320 --> 0:16:42.200 I don't know where it was. It was his mouth, 0:16:42.360 --> 0:16:47.000 my mouth, I don't know. It was going valid, valid, valid, valid, 0:16:47.080 --> 0:16:49.880 So I get because like a valid, I feel like 0:16:50.040 --> 0:16:53.560 a lot of people give then there, but especially if 0:16:53.600 --> 0:16:57.400 there's two people down there, it's a lot of wet 0:16:57.720 --> 0:17:01.000 witness going on down now. Next question is what is 0:17:01.240 --> 0:17:06.480 your best sexual experience? Oh gosh, oh the baby cry. 0:17:06.720 --> 0:17:09.840 Oh when you cry, when you cry, it's real good. 0:17:10.600 --> 0:17:12.760 Was this someone the person that you cried with, someone 0:17:12.840 --> 0:17:16.960 you were with or no, like it was just a ship, 0:17:17.119 --> 0:17:18.560 you know, because I mean, I don't think because I 0:17:18.640 --> 0:17:20.160 want to say that, I don't think they're crying during 0:17:20.200 --> 0:17:23.520 sex has anything to do with feelings. Oh yeah, no, No, 0:17:23.760 --> 0:17:28.960 it's an emotion. They hit that button and B and 0:17:29.040 --> 0:17:32.320 the D and the B they hit that. When the 0:17:32.359 --> 0:17:34.480 tears come out, I don't even know they hit the B. 0:17:35.200 --> 0:17:38.119 But when those tears come down, oh lord, it's like, 0:17:38.640 --> 0:17:41.639 oh gonna fall in love now? Oh lord? Even the 0:17:41.800 --> 0:17:45.600 smell is different what smell because when you if you 0:17:45.720 --> 0:17:48.199 haven't had sex in a long time and then somebody 0:17:48.640 --> 0:17:52.040 gives you great sex, the smell is totally different because 0:17:52.080 --> 0:17:56.720 you've emptied out all them. Yeah, so I was reading 0:17:56.760 --> 0:18:00.879 this thing about like certain vaginal fluids and scent and 0:18:01.000 --> 0:18:04.240 like where they come from, much like squirting fluid is different, 0:18:04.680 --> 0:18:06.960 different kind of orgasms, and it's like all depending on 0:18:07.040 --> 0:18:10.119 your menstrual cycle. So depending on where you are in 0:18:10.200 --> 0:18:14.200 the cycle. Yeah, that's true. I don't know about Okay, 0:18:14.240 --> 0:18:18.520 but okay, mom, maybe maybe that And then we did 0:18:18.640 --> 0:18:20.800 retire this question, but we're going to give it to you. 0:18:21.240 --> 0:18:26.520 Would you rather lick toes or eat ass? Don't make 0:18:26.600 --> 0:18:30.040 that face like they're disgusting, No king shaming around here, 0:18:31.240 --> 0:18:34.919 something about toes that don't work for me. I mean, 0:18:35.000 --> 0:18:37.639 I'm feeding now, I really I'll be into feeding now, 0:18:37.920 --> 0:18:39.480 but I don't know about putting it in my mouth, 0:18:40.040 --> 0:18:45.120 but I do guess, Yeah, I guess it's asked. That's 0:18:45.160 --> 0:18:48.600 like weekly, I'm at. They've been too many faces. I'm 0:18:48.600 --> 0:18:50.600 looking as weakly you know what it is though? To me, 0:18:50.880 --> 0:18:52.960 like I feel like toe nails are dirtier than like 0:18:53.040 --> 0:18:54.920 you don't clean those as much as you would ask. 0:18:55.359 --> 0:18:57.680 I feel like everybody goes in the shower and you 0:18:57.800 --> 0:19:05.480 know they getting you down. I'm talking about people in general. 0:19:05.560 --> 0:19:07.960 I think people clean their assholes better than their toes. Yeah, 0:19:08.000 --> 0:19:11.119 but people admitted to not cleaning their feet. Well, I 0:19:11.240 --> 0:19:14.040 get not only pedicures twice, we all get pedicures. A 0:19:15.160 --> 0:19:18.840 do you think feet better than your asshole? I think 0:19:18.920 --> 0:19:21.240 I clean them? Do you clean them better than you? 0:19:21.560 --> 0:19:24.120 I think I clean them comfortable because your ship, out 0:19:24.160 --> 0:19:28.840 of your ask really clean. When I'm at home after 0:19:29.200 --> 0:19:31.119 well after I even take a ship, I'll hop in 0:19:31.160 --> 0:19:32.760 the shower just when you lift up your foot and 0:19:32.800 --> 0:19:34.080 be scrubbing it in the sun, I do. And I 0:19:34.160 --> 0:19:37.119 have a pummice stone and everything I do I use 0:19:37.200 --> 0:19:40.200 pummice and I used just like me a little brush. 0:19:40.440 --> 0:19:43.400 I told you. But to be fair, do you think 0:19:43.440 --> 0:19:45.760 that men clean them as good as their assholes? The 0:19:45.840 --> 0:19:48.920 men that I have very like especially. I'm not saying 0:19:48.960 --> 0:19:51.119 that fuse a dirty feet. It's just the point. May 0:19:51.160 --> 0:19:53.760 you're really trying to tell every in their feet as 0:19:53.760 --> 0:19:56.040 good as their ass They don't just saying I don't 0:19:56.240 --> 0:20:00.360 like like they're dirty. I do think that's to there's 0:20:00.400 --> 0:20:02.680 no way having to pedicure every time before you fuck. 0:20:03.760 --> 0:20:05.880 Do you think ass is cleaner than feet? I think 0:20:05.920 --> 0:20:07.880 when you're like showering, yeah, you get your ass better 0:20:07.880 --> 0:20:10.320 than you But when you get your feet, then why 0:20:10.359 --> 0:20:13.119 do you plus the feet You've had to walk to 0:20:13.240 --> 0:20:17.040 the bedroom. You didn't ship before you got to the bedroom. No, 0:20:17.520 --> 0:20:21.480 that's so there's something about the feet, Like I don't know, 0:20:21.720 --> 0:20:24.360 rubbing feet I'm totally cool with. But like, once I'm out, 0:20:26.000 --> 0:20:32.000 I mean, I put my toes in the pool. Suck. 0:20:32.359 --> 0:20:36.040 I mean a sucker, of course. I mean, of course. 0:20:37.600 --> 0:20:39.240 You look at you and my daughter on that s 0:20:39.800 --> 0:20:42.680 Look at that. You got five toes. One's like a dick, 0:20:43.520 --> 0:20:45.840 one's like a wee wee ones, Like, look at them, 0:20:45.920 --> 0:20:48.800 they were one of the like dick is a wee wee. No, no, 0:20:48.960 --> 0:20:52.560 I mean your thumb is the biggest. So dick, that's 0:20:52.600 --> 0:20:57.040 the good. That's the one. The little they started getting smaller. 0:20:57.240 --> 0:21:04.080 It's just like, now put it closer to your mouth, mom, please, 0:21:04.320 --> 0:21:08.399 I don't want them to complain what missing? What missing? 0:21:08.440 --> 0:21:10.160 What you're saying you want to get into the kink 0:21:10.200 --> 0:21:12.520 of the week. Yeah, yeah, yeah, of course so the 0:21:12.600 --> 0:21:16.280 kink of the week is a psych play. While physical 0:21:16.359 --> 0:21:19.440 actions such as spanking are often the most discussed kinks 0:21:19.480 --> 0:21:22.280 and fetishes, some of the most intense is when it's 0:21:22.320 --> 0:21:26.320 your mind. They refer to the psychological power plays mind control, 0:21:27.119 --> 0:21:28.720 and it's a type of b D s M. It 0:21:28.840 --> 0:21:33.760 involves implementing a sexual power exchange. We've discussed humiliation, um 0:21:33.880 --> 0:21:37.639 and submissiveness, but this is more about consensual threats that 0:21:37.680 --> 0:21:40.359 are an example of psychological play. One example is a 0:21:40.480 --> 0:21:43.879 dom warning a male submissive with a foot fetish that 0:21:43.920 --> 0:21:45.880 he'll have to lick her feet if he doesn't fall 0:21:45.960 --> 0:21:47.760