1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: Hey, Astley, let's do this. This is the Ben and 2 00:00:04,760 --> 00:00:10,360 Speaker 1: Ashley I Almost Famous podcast with our radio. Hey, everybody, 3 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: that is that Ben and Actually I Almost Famous podcast. 4 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:18,280 Speaker 1: We're so excited to have you listening to us, because 5 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 1: I am very excited to Actually we're trying something different today. 6 00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:25,119 Speaker 1: I can actually see Ashley as I sit Indianapolis, Indiana 7 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 1: and participate in the podcast. It's so helpful. Hey guys, 8 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 1: You guys don't understand how frustrated I get when Ben 9 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:35,239 Speaker 1: and I talk over each other during an interview. So 10 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 1: this is going to help prevent that. Yeah, speaking of interviews, 11 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:41,559 Speaker 1: we're just gonna start right into it here. We have 12 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 1: one of the weirdest stories I've ever heard, Ashley. We've 13 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 1: talked extensively about how much we like shorthaired Becca during 14 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 1: the season of The Bachelor. Um, but something really weird 15 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 1: happened this week that I don't quite understand. Do you 16 00:00:56,880 --> 00:00:59,639 Speaker 1: understand it? Um? I do think I understand a bit. 17 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 1: So back when she was filming The Bachelor in October 18 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 1: and November, she you know, it was obviously away from 19 00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 1: her phone for a while. I think she got back 20 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:10,920 Speaker 1: from filming. This is just my understanding, and then we'll 21 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 1: get the real interpretation. Afterwards she gets back from filming, 22 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 1: she says, she goes, hey mom, I'm gonna go work 23 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:20,040 Speaker 1: on a pot farm, and then didn't have service for 24 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: a couple of days, and then her mom reported her missing, 25 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 1: like as recently as November. It's it's all very odd, 26 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 1: and I don't I mean, I think you're you're right, 27 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 1: and you're onto something. Honestly, we don't really fully know 28 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 1: that the the whole extent of the story. So we've 29 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 1: actually reached out to somebody who do does know the story. 30 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 1: We're reaching out to Melody from People magazine, uh, to 31 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 1: get the inside scoop on this and and try to 32 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 1: explain this to this a little better, because if you 33 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 1: and I just talked about it, I think we're just 34 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 1: gonna make it sound even weirder. Yeah, it's it's just 35 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 1: like one of those things where you and I shouldn't 36 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 1: even give our opinions because we're just gonna start rumors. Yeah, 37 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 1: that's He's like, you're making a really smart decision actually 38 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 1: by calling an expert in today. Thanks, Ben, it was 39 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 1: definitely your decision. All right, let's get Melody on the phone. Hey, Melody, Hi, Alright, Melody, 40 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 1: tell us what's going on with Becca. It's kind of 41 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:21,520 Speaker 1: a hilarious story. Um So, basically, her mom reported her 42 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:26,239 Speaker 1: missing in November because she wanted to apparently go spend 43 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 1: a few days or maybe a week working at a 44 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:32,800 Speaker 1: marijuana farm. And I think, like any other mother, she 45 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:35,360 Speaker 1: was like, please don't do that, and execuly ignored her. 46 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 1: And then just also the police piled us reception is 47 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:45,119 Speaker 1: really terrible. They're understandably, so maybe her mom couldn't reach 48 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 1: her and so reported her missing just to do, you know, 49 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 1: due diligence. And and then the sand saw her picture 50 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: on that cover and was like, um, I think that's 51 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 1: that girl in the casuler and so suddenly it turned 52 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:05,239 Speaker 1: into this path thing and um, as noll, no, Becca 53 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:08,360 Speaker 1: is not missing on the Bachelor her so this was 54 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:11,240 Speaker 1: not the mom did not file this missing person's report 55 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:13,360 Speaker 1: when she was filming them. Yeah, I mean it would 56 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 1: make sense if she didn't tell her mom that she 57 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 1: was going to be gone as long as she was. 58 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: And then the mom freaked out and thought, oh my gosh, 59 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 1: I haven't heard from my daughter in seven or something weeks. 60 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna file he or missing. That seemed to be 61 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:28,080 Speaker 1: like a really funny that wasn't even funnier story, but 62 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:31,960 Speaker 1: this just the timing was very similar. And she gets 63 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 1: back from filming The Bachelor and then they file a 64 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 1: report because she went to work in a marijuana farm. 65 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 1: It's like, what it's yeah, I mean it's pretty funny, 66 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 1: and it's to Becca right like it's so bad. Yeah, 67 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: And then she got all this cap saying like, well, 68 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: you look totally different. Well, you know, she was fifteen 69 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 1: in that picture. We all look crazy in our like 70 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:55,119 Speaker 1: DMC photos. I remember having earrings like that the year 71 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 1: that Becca was fifteen, I was twenty one and I 72 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 1: definitely wore this puney on. This makes me realize that 73 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 1: she is too young for ARI because her mommy didn't 74 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:11,119 Speaker 1: know where she was. No, my mom and dad would 75 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 1: done the same thing. My mom and dad tracked me. 76 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 1: I have the what's you know, my Find my Friends app? 77 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 1: And my dad knows where I am. He checks at 78 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 1: every other hour. I'm not even joking you. Yeah, so 79 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 1: that's like very my parents to do. And I'm twenty nine, 80 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:26,839 Speaker 1: and it's fine. Actually you have to find my Friends 81 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 1: app and your parents track that. Yeah, But even if 82 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:32,159 Speaker 1: the find my Friends app doesn't work, then we used 83 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:36,599 Speaker 1: find my iPhone. So sometimes it'll be like location unknown 84 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 1: and then I'll like go into my sister's Find my 85 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 1: Friends and I'll buzz her. I'd be like, Melody, you're 86 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 1: you seem to be up on what's normal and not 87 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:50,479 Speaker 1: in the world? Is that normal? Like it was that? 88 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 1: What actually is doing? Is that? Is that? Okay? I 89 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 1: mean the amount of times my mom has almost called 90 00:04:55,800 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 1: the police because I have no reception. We're I'm like 91 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 1: the same ways actually, but I feel like I'll forever 92 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 1: be like twelve years old to our parents. Yeah, and 93 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:08,719 Speaker 1: I'm totally fine with that. What if I was to 94 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 1: be kidnapped, then they know where I was, I'm fine 95 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:14,600 Speaker 1: with that. Please track me. And there's this new I 96 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:16,599 Speaker 1: don't know, I'm totally off I'm off topic of it 97 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 1: right now, but there is a Black Mirror episode that 98 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 1: just came out like two weeks ago about this mom 99 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:25,279 Speaker 1: who she like puts a chip in her kid for 100 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:28,599 Speaker 1: tracking reasons, which I'm a total proponent of. Don't judge me. 101 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:30,680 Speaker 1: I would love to put a chip in my child 102 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:33,360 Speaker 1: until they're eighteen that they can take it out. Um, 103 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 1: and then I have to worry about where they are. 104 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:37,600 Speaker 1: I mean, they can go wherever they want. That's the thing. 105 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 1: They can go wherever they want as long as I 106 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:42,840 Speaker 1: know they're safe. Actually, this is the weird Okay. So 107 00:05:42,960 --> 00:05:45,279 Speaker 1: we're gonna get into a couple of topic here. Um, 108 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 1: just to remind everybody out there, we have Melody from 109 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 1: People Magazine on the line with us right now discussing 110 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 1: the Becca issue. Becca from r e season of The 111 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 1: Bachelor suddenly disappeared and showed up on the missing person's 112 00:05:56,640 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 1: report for California. Thanks for forting back to the topic. Yeah, 113 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 1: but later to be found out that she's never been 114 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 1: missing and her mom just couldn't get ahold of requests. 115 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:09,680 Speaker 1: That's what we're talking about. And Ashley has just said 116 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:11,279 Speaker 1: that she would love to stick a chip and her 117 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 1: kid actually coming from Indiana and growing up in a 118 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 1: Methodist church, you know that was the one thing that 119 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:20,479 Speaker 1: everybody was most scared of, was putting chips and people 120 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 1: really yeah, yeah, why we can get into it at 121 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 1: some point off off offline, but you know, one of 122 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 1: the signs of the mark of the Beast is that 123 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:35,359 Speaker 1: somebody would have a chip in them. That's what we 124 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:40,600 Speaker 1: grew up leaving. You've never heard that, huh yeah, So 125 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:42,840 Speaker 1: for you to say that out lad kind of steers 126 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 1: me a little bit, like it's because nervous. Isn't it 127 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 1: crazy that we put chips in our dogs, but we 128 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 1: wouldn't put chips in our kids, and if we lost 129 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 1: our kids, we're going to be far more freaked out. 130 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 1: What's funny is that Black Mirror episode. It's worse you 131 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 1: learned thing from you know, I'm telling you, Okay, this 132 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:04,360 Speaker 1: is what the Black Mirror episode um taught me and 133 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 1: you guys, if you haven't listened to watch it, you 134 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 1: should probably go watch. It's pretty fascinating. So anyway, it's 135 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 1: not just for tracking. This is where the whole episode 136 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 1: goes wrong. They can also blur out like traumatizing images. 137 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 1: So therefore the kids like don't know what to be 138 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 1: scared of in life, or like how to recognize an emergency, 139 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 1: So that's where it all goes wrong. There should never 140 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 1: be a blur option. But just like where's your location option, 141 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 1: I'm totally down. Actually, you know there's things in your family, 142 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 1: Ben I could talk about that are also highly disturbing, 143 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:45,000 Speaker 1: like oh, I'm not gonna go there your childhood. Now 144 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 1: you're making me work. Now, let's just go there. What 145 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 1: is it? You know, how you how your grandfather like 146 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:57,840 Speaker 1: made you do certain activities and yet melody, so sorry, 147 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 1: Yeah we're coming back he here in one second. But 148 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:05,679 Speaker 1: but so growing up, my grandpa would force me to hunt, 149 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 1: and so as a child, as a young stound, I 150 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:11,480 Speaker 1: would have to go hunting with him and do some 151 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:14,000 Speaker 1: things that have guarded me for life and I think 152 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 1: have had added to either the darkness in my heart 153 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 1: or allowed me to see that I don't actually love 154 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:24,320 Speaker 1: hunting and must other people do so? Um? Anyways, okay, 155 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 1: let's go back to this. If this is weird a 156 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 1: situation is what it seems like like this situation seems 157 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 1: very odd and either ironic or just kind of humorous 158 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 1: that it comes up as she's on the Bachelor. I mean, 159 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:41,720 Speaker 1: I've never heard of this happening, and I think somewhere 160 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:44,320 Speaker 1: along the way someone just forgot to let everyone know 161 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:49,160 Speaker 1: that she wasn't missing. Um, it's pretty funny, low and 162 00:08:49,160 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 1: and I think she's also I mean, the most horrified 163 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 1: part perspectoo is that her fifteen year old picture is everywhere, 164 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:56,679 Speaker 1: and I think I would be just as traumatized by 165 00:08:56,720 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 1: that too. I definitely agree. One thing we're gonna do 166 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 1: just to kind of make this story even funnier is 167 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:05,960 Speaker 1: on my Instagram after the episode, I'm going to get 168 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 1: a picture of Ashley from her when she was fixteen 169 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:10,320 Speaker 1: and posted on my Instagram, just to kind of show 170 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:12,440 Speaker 1: that the relation between the two, you know, what's going 171 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:14,680 Speaker 1: to happen. Then people are even like Ashley has so 172 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 1: much blastic surgery, like this is gon my nose like 173 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 1: totally sinned out, and then my my cheeks used to 174 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 1: just be gigantic, and it's just like you know, getting 175 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 1: older and your face lives out. But bring all the 176 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:33,200 Speaker 1: plastic and honor of Becca Ashley. Your picture is going 177 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:36,720 Speaker 1: to get posted. Um, I think that's too bad. But 178 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:38,600 Speaker 1: this is you said it best melody. The thing I'm 179 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 1: here and here is this is so Becca, Like like 180 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 1: if if if we thought about Becca and I know 181 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 1: Aston they are both fans. This is something that doesn't 182 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:51,680 Speaker 1: surprise me. No, not at all. And I love her too. 183 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 1: I think she is the youngest one on that show, 184 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:57,680 Speaker 1: but the most level headed and but also like she's 185 00:09:57,760 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 1: kind of weird in a really good way and for 186 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,280 Speaker 1: and he's like, for this to happen to anyone, I 187 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 1: feel like it would only happen to her on the show. Yeah, 188 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:09,720 Speaker 1: I agree. I agree. Um Well, we thank you so 189 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:12,040 Speaker 1: much for coming on the podcast and explain it to this. 190 00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 1: If Ashley and I talked about it, I promise you 191 00:10:14,559 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 1: we both just make Becca seem even weirder than what 192 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:19,640 Speaker 1: this situation already is. But thank you for coming and 193 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:23,840 Speaker 1: clarifying exactly what happened and allowing us both uh to 194 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 1: not make this situation even ODR. Thank you guys, appreciate me. 195 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:32,040 Speaker 1: You know, I wonder where um Becca's mom thought she 196 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 1: was sleeping during those days. I'm sure she wasn't sleeping 197 00:10:35,400 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 1: on a sleep Number mattress while she was farming at 198 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:43,480 Speaker 1: the marijuana farm. I don't think that's good. Actually, just 199 00:10:43,559 --> 00:10:47,599 Speaker 1: keep going now. Most Americans get less than the recommended 200 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:50,319 Speaker 1: seven to eight hours of sleep a night. 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What is your sleep number? 210 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:22,480 Speaker 1: Setting you guys? Yeah? What is yours? Ben? Mine? Right 211 00:11:22,480 --> 00:11:25,440 Speaker 1: now I'm looking at a seventies seven. I'm feeling odd, 212 00:11:25,600 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 1: like an odd number, and I'm feeling like I like 213 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:30,480 Speaker 1: it a little firmer than usual. So see is what 214 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:32,640 Speaker 1: I'm sleeping on this week. I like it soft, so 215 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:34,560 Speaker 1: I like it in the sixties. But it is kind 216 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:37,960 Speaker 1: of cool Ben, if you did, if you ever get 217 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:41,120 Speaker 1: a girlfriend again, that she could have one number and 218 00:11:41,200 --> 00:11:44,760 Speaker 1: you can have another because it does right side left side. 219 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:46,959 Speaker 1: I mean, I think that's yeah, a spot on. 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They're like, really, it's fine if you 237 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 1: kind of let me when you're awake, but like if 238 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 1: we're sleeping, I'm snuggler. That's no. Well know, like you 239 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:56,600 Speaker 1: and I would not get along. Well, because here's my 240 00:12:56,600 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 1: biggest thing is I'm hearing you read about sleep Number 241 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:01,439 Speaker 1: and it is really one of the best pets out there, 242 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:03,200 Speaker 1: if not the best in the world. I love it. 243 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:06,040 Speaker 1: I slept on it for years, like I can't. Like, 244 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:08,240 Speaker 1: one of my biggest pet pieces is being cuddled in 245 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 1: the middle of the night. It makes me really coustrophobic 246 00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:12,880 Speaker 1: and read I can just kind of tell that you're 247 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:16,880 Speaker 1: you're a midnight cuddler. I totally am, and everybody tells me, 248 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:18,960 Speaker 1: they're like, actually, you can't do that with guys. It 249 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:22,960 Speaker 1: gets too hot. I'm always cold, So like, I don't know, 250 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 1: I just love it nuzzle my days and like their 251 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:30,800 Speaker 1: skin because I love this man the man smell. What 252 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:34,920 Speaker 1: is that? What a man smell? Yeah, explain this to me, 253 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:39,120 Speaker 1: like you guys, it's just like a pheromone thing. Oh yeah, 254 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:41,280 Speaker 1: so it's not like the like body odor. It's just 255 00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 1: like it's like the distinctive smell of a guy skin, 256 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 1: not necessarily fine or anything. Next time we're together, I 257 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:50,679 Speaker 1: need you to smell me and let me know if 258 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 1: I have that going for me. You definitely do you 259 00:13:53,080 --> 00:13:54,920 Speaker 1: have a Ben smell. I don't know where I was, 260 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 1: but I wasn't with you amy that Like, you threw 261 00:13:57,720 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 1: me a sweatshirt of Ben's and you're like, this is 262 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:02,920 Speaker 1: Ben and it smells like Ben. It does you your 263 00:14:02,960 --> 00:14:04,960 Speaker 1: sin carries. I don't know if that was me. I 264 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 1: think it was Dean or it was like Jared. I'm like, hey, 265 00:14:11,200 --> 00:14:16,440 Speaker 1: smell this sweatshirt. It smells just like Ben. Um. Yeah exactly. Yeah, 266 00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:18,360 Speaker 1: give me some credit. It smells good or oh no, 267 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:21,320 Speaker 1: it definitely smells good. You definitely have a homie warm smell. 268 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:27,280 Speaker 1: That's exactly. Oh, I know what it was. I know 269 00:14:27,320 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 1: what it was. We were fielding the show and you 270 00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:34,080 Speaker 1: and Todd are producer Todd Um. You guys shared the 271 00:14:34,120 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 1: same shirt and you had already left, and he was like, 272 00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:39,960 Speaker 1: this is Todd smell. This is Ben smell it. And 273 00:14:40,000 --> 00:14:42,880 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, it feels like he's 274 00:14:42,920 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 1: still here. Actually sweet he Speaking of men, I have 275 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:52,520 Speaker 1: a special guest coming up for you next who is 276 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 1: not a man yet, but he is as wise as 277 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 1: any man I've ever met. You were going to absolutely 278 00:14:57,760 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 1: love him. He might become your new favorite person in 279 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:07,640 Speaker 1: the in the entire world online, we have Jack, a 280 00:15:07,680 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 1: Bachelor expert, and he's ten years old. Oh my gosh, 281 00:15:10,520 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 1: I'm so excited for this. Somebody else can take over 282 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:17,200 Speaker 1: my Bachelor recaps, like every week, let's do it. Let's 283 00:15:17,200 --> 00:15:21,240 Speaker 1: do Jack Welcome to the Almost in his podcast Jack, 284 00:15:22,400 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 1: Oh really they Yeah? How long have you been a 285 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:30,760 Speaker 1: Bachelor fan? Mm hmmm, I don't know. I just like 286 00:15:30,880 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 1: the show a lot. I don't know. Really, is your 287 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:36,720 Speaker 1: mom a fan? And she got you into it. Um, yeah, 288 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 1: I guess. Yeah. What's your favorite thing about this show? 289 00:15:41,520 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 1: My favorite thing about the show is um, like, well, 290 00:15:45,040 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 1: I really want to be a Bachelor when I'm older, 291 00:15:47,120 --> 00:15:50,080 Speaker 1: so I just like watching it. It's a great goal 292 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 1: in life. I'm proud all the boys want to be 293 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:55,440 Speaker 1: the Bachlor. I like this guy Hey worked out for 294 00:15:55,480 --> 00:15:58,360 Speaker 1: Peter Krause. That was his goal and well, you know 295 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:03,680 Speaker 1: that was all his issue. In fact, did your parents 296 00:16:03,680 --> 00:16:05,600 Speaker 1: have any rules about you watching because it can be 297 00:16:05,640 --> 00:16:09,720 Speaker 1: a little racy. No, they don't really have any rules. 298 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:13,760 Speaker 1: Ten year old can do it. So tell us, tell 299 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 1: us about this season. What do you think of Ari? 300 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:19,840 Speaker 1: I really like him, like I um, I like UM 301 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:23,120 Speaker 1: like race car driving, and he's a race car driver, 302 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:26,480 Speaker 1: so I like that and I think he's nice and 303 00:16:26,520 --> 00:16:29,240 Speaker 1: he's fair and I don't care if Crystal says he's 304 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 1: a liar because he's not. Yeah, let's let's talk about 305 00:16:32,480 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 1: that group date. So so Crystal thought he was a 306 00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 1: liar because he went back on his word and it 307 00:16:37,440 --> 00:16:40,520 Speaker 1: ended up inviting all the other girls to that that date. 308 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:42,360 Speaker 1: Did you is that a decision you would have made? 309 00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:44,800 Speaker 1: Would you have ever had everybody come as well? The 310 00:16:44,800 --> 00:16:47,720 Speaker 1: winners and the losers. Yeah, because like it wouldn't have 311 00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:49,680 Speaker 1: been fair. And if it was Chris, like if it 312 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 1: was Crystal's team that lost, she would have she wouldn't 313 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:56,680 Speaker 1: have been saying like, um, it's like not fair, like 314 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:58,560 Speaker 1: I think I would have if I'm if I was 315 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:02,680 Speaker 1: or only would have um, let everyone come, because it 316 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:05,920 Speaker 1: would have been fair. Who's your favorite girl so far? Jack? 317 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:10,760 Speaker 1: What girl do you like? M I like Tia. Ben 318 00:17:10,760 --> 00:17:14,080 Speaker 1: likes Tia too. Are you happy to see Crystal go home? Yes? 319 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:17,560 Speaker 1: I was so happy when Kendall's out the road. So 320 00:17:17,600 --> 00:17:19,120 Speaker 1: who do you think has had the best to on 321 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:22,600 Speaker 1: one in Bachelor history? I think that was really good 322 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 1: because this one because Crystal she was she said she 323 00:17:26,440 --> 00:17:28,720 Speaker 1: was ready, she was definitely getting the rose, and then 324 00:17:28,720 --> 00:17:32,640 Speaker 1: she didn't, and I liked seeing her go home. Yeah, 325 00:17:32,680 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 1: So you don't like overconfidence. When overconfidence enters into the Bachelor, 326 00:17:36,760 --> 00:17:39,520 Speaker 1: you say you need it's time for you to go. Yeah, 327 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 1: and like also going back to that group when she 328 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:46,440 Speaker 1: she also um, she said she wasn't going to the 329 00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:49,240 Speaker 1: um after party and then she showed up and then 330 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:54,240 Speaker 1: basically like I just don't think she's like very like 331 00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:57,720 Speaker 1: I don't like she was calling Ari a liar, but 332 00:17:57,800 --> 00:17:59,760 Speaker 1: then she showed up, so she was kind of being 333 00:17:59,800 --> 00:18:02,800 Speaker 1: are So yeah, I like, I like that she went 334 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:06,080 Speaker 1: home because I definitely did not think kendall Um was 335 00:18:06,119 --> 00:18:08,840 Speaker 1: going to get the rose. How do you feel about 336 00:18:08,880 --> 00:18:13,120 Speaker 1: short hair and being that young? Um, I don't think 337 00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:17,720 Speaker 1: she's like like like Ari said once, Um, like he 338 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 1: likes her, but she's really young and he wants a wife, 339 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:26,679 Speaker 1: not a girlfriend. Jack, She's only twelve years older than you. Like, 340 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:29,280 Speaker 1: you know that the different the age difference between you 341 00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:33,200 Speaker 1: and Becca is is shorter, is less than the difference 342 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:36,480 Speaker 1: in the age between Ari and Becca. Yeah, that's kind 343 00:18:36,480 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 1: of crazy, so weird. Yeah, that's kind of weird, very weird, 344 00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:43,919 Speaker 1: actually very very odd. But it is true, so we 345 00:18:44,040 --> 00:18:46,159 Speaker 1: have to think of it that way. She makes a 346 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 1: good point, Jack, You're not that far away from potentially 347 00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:53,359 Speaker 1: becoming our bachelor that we're gonna be watching. If you 348 00:18:53,400 --> 00:18:57,479 Speaker 1: were the Bachelor this year, would you would you how 349 00:18:57,520 --> 00:18:59,879 Speaker 1: would you rate Ari? Okay, let's let's ask that for 350 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:02,359 Speaker 1: first off, how is are you doing his bachelor on 351 00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:05,480 Speaker 1: a scale one to ten? Um? I think he's a ten. 352 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:10,160 Speaker 1: He's I think he's amazing, like he, Um, he's he's 353 00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 1: super nice and he's doing like a great job, and 354 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:15,960 Speaker 1: I think he's picking the right people. I think he's 355 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:17,679 Speaker 1: picking the right people. Then then how do you, um, 356 00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:20,560 Speaker 1: how do you explain why he's kept Crystal around up 357 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:25,879 Speaker 1: until now? Um, because Crystal knew him the most, like 358 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:33,800 Speaker 1: he took her to his hometown and um, and like, yeah, 359 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:37,960 Speaker 1: she knew him the most, and he very key liked 360 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:40,879 Speaker 1: her and he wanted her to have a second chance. 361 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:43,760 Speaker 1: But I did not think that was right. Like, um, 362 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 1: the last road he said, he said Crystal, and I 363 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:51,320 Speaker 1: did not think that was good. But but she's gone 364 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:54,720 Speaker 1: now though, Like I guess it's fine Jack when you 365 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:57,399 Speaker 1: become the bachelor, because after hearing you talk your your 366 00:19:57,440 --> 00:19:59,880 Speaker 1: way too sophisticated from your own good, you're gonna get 367 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:02,400 Speaker 1: get a lot of trouble now And like, well, how 368 00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:05,639 Speaker 1: would you handle being a bachelor? Like what would be 369 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:12,200 Speaker 1: your thought practice going into it? Um, my thought would be, um, 370 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:15,440 Speaker 1: it's not really like what they look like on the outside, 371 00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 1: but in the inside, so like um, like Crystal, she's 372 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:23,400 Speaker 1: like she's pretty, but she's not a good person and 373 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:26,479 Speaker 1: so um, like I would not want someone like that, 374 00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:29,639 Speaker 1: like I would want someone who's like kind and helpful 375 00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 1: and like yeah yeah. So hey, all of your Twitter 376 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:36,160 Speaker 1: people out there, if you if you want to get 377 00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:38,359 Speaker 1: on almost famous podcast like you Do is called a 378 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:40,959 Speaker 1: ten year old because he's saying what all of us 379 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:45,639 Speaker 1: are thinking. Okay, Jack speaks truth. Well, Jack, you're you're 380 00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:47,919 Speaker 1: a fantastic guest. We hope to have you on again, 381 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 1: maybe when Ari picks his final girl, to see what 382 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:54,000 Speaker 1: your opinions are about that, and um, yes, we'll talk 383 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:56,560 Speaker 1: to you in a bit um Jack. Season of The 384 00:20:56,600 --> 00:21:05,399 Speaker 1: Bachelor will most likely premier January five two. Yeah, that's right, Yeah, Jack, buddy, 385 00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 1: thank you, bye, thank you. I like Jack. I like 386 00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:12,760 Speaker 1: Jack a lot. I wish he could take over for 387 00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 1: me on this podcast. He's he's got the insight into 388 00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:17,440 Speaker 1: the show that I don't have. 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I just did it a couple of days ago. 423 00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:08,360 Speaker 1: Came like three days later. Choose between one or unlimited 424 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:11,159 Speaker 1: totes for the month, just where you want, and return 425 00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:12,919 Speaker 1: everything in the mail when you're done. And it's that 426 00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:16,159 Speaker 1: easy again that it's l E T O t E 427 00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:19,920 Speaker 1: dot com. Enter our code almost famous, and you'll have 428 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:24,000 Speaker 1: something new to wear with fashion delivered right to your door. Wait, 429 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 1: so this is my big question for you. Actually, I'm 430 00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:30,920 Speaker 1: trying to learn more about women in general. Okay, that's 431 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:32,639 Speaker 1: one of my goals for this year is just to 432 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:35,959 Speaker 1: become more familiar with women and how I can relate 433 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:39,840 Speaker 1: better with them. Is it a true thing that being 434 00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:43,280 Speaker 1: a fashion or an outfit repeater is looked down upon? 435 00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 1: Because I know I know people who literally will not 436 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:50,280 Speaker 1: wear a dressed. The two events like the only where 437 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:52,520 Speaker 1: it was, And to me, that's crazy. I wear the 438 00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:55,919 Speaker 1: same pair of jeans every day of my life. I 439 00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:57,840 Speaker 1: have a couple of pairs of jeans that I wear 440 00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:00,119 Speaker 1: over and over again. Pants do not get include it 441 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,320 Speaker 1: in this outfit repeating thing. We can't all have a 442 00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:05,320 Speaker 1: pair of new jeans every day. It's tops. When I 443 00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:08,680 Speaker 1: was in high school, I was insane. I would usually 444 00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 1: not rewear the same exact outfit, but I would probably 445 00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:14,840 Speaker 1: never wear the same shirt twice. As I get older, 446 00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:16,720 Speaker 1: I'm less and less crazy about that. Like, I think 447 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:21,359 Speaker 1: you've seen me in the sweatshirt like five times already. Um, 448 00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:23,480 Speaker 1: But when it comes to events and stuff like that, 449 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:26,520 Speaker 1: if it's posted on Instagram or for US bachelor girls, 450 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:28,760 Speaker 1: if it's like somewhere floating in the picture of it 451 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,399 Speaker 1: is somewhere floating online, then we're never going to wear 452 00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:33,280 Speaker 1: it again. And I think the Instagram rule kind of 453 00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:35,080 Speaker 1: applies to a lot of girls out there. I think 454 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,040 Speaker 1: if it's been posted, they're not going to wear it again. 455 00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:41,000 Speaker 1: But like, just like as an adult female, even growing up, 456 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:43,600 Speaker 1: my mom would always go buy a new dress for 457 00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:47,439 Speaker 1: like she and my dad's fancy the gallas and stuff 458 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:50,439 Speaker 1: you know she was never gonna wear the same fancy 459 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:53,120 Speaker 1: dress as she wore the year before, the same the best, 460 00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:54,920 Speaker 1: same rule. Stick with me because I think if you 461 00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:57,560 Speaker 1: got on my Instagram, every picture on my Instagram, I 462 00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:02,040 Speaker 1: have taken it about the three different shirts. Like for 463 00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:05,520 Speaker 1: the last four months, every every picture up there is 464 00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:07,439 Speaker 1: about three different shirts that I've worned. Okay, well you 465 00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:09,479 Speaker 1: know what. I love what you're wearing right now. This 466 00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:11,760 Speaker 1: is like a female favorite, just letting you know, well, 467 00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:15,320 Speaker 1: at least it is within my sister, me and a 468 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:17,600 Speaker 1: couple of my friends. We love a guy who rolls 469 00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:21,920 Speaker 1: their sleeves midway through their forearm, midway to the forearm. 470 00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:25,520 Speaker 1: That sleeve roll is so sexy. There's something very subtly 471 00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:28,520 Speaker 1: sexy about a guy's forearm. And then I like it 472 00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:31,320 Speaker 1: when you have the three button shirts. I love a 473 00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:35,920 Speaker 1: three shirt. It's cozy, Yes it's cozy, but it shows 474 00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:41,560 Speaker 1: off your body, but not in like a flamboyant way. 475 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:44,320 Speaker 1: Yeah I get that, Yeah, I understand it. I'm just okay, 476 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,760 Speaker 1: So if you don't wear a dress twice, what happens 477 00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:48,560 Speaker 1: to the dress what you wear it one? Okay, So 478 00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:51,240 Speaker 1: I can't believe you just said this because I'm on 479 00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:54,359 Speaker 1: my way to putting together an event that I'm going 480 00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:57,600 Speaker 1: to call the Bachelor Girls Yard Sale. I found a 481 00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:00,840 Speaker 1: venue so that all the l A based girls are 482 00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:03,400 Speaker 1: going to get their their clothes together. They've already worn 483 00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:05,680 Speaker 1: once or twice, but they're too nice to like put 484 00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:08,000 Speaker 1: in the donation box. Like I I donate clothes all 485 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:09,800 Speaker 1: the time, Like I literally go through my closet and 486 00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:11,400 Speaker 1: donate close all the time. But then there's a couple 487 00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:13,840 Speaker 1: of outfits that are like two dollars each and they've 488 00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:16,120 Speaker 1: only been worn twice, so I don't want to just 489 00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:18,679 Speaker 1: you know, put them in the donation box. So what 490 00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:20,800 Speaker 1: I want to do is have all the girls in 491 00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 1: l A who are on the Bachelor and who happened 492 00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:26,400 Speaker 1: to be some of the most fashion forward girls, um 493 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:29,920 Speaker 1: bring all their stuff to this place on one Saturday afternoon, 494 00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:32,800 Speaker 1: and then all the proceeds will glosiarity. But I'm like 495 00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:34,560 Speaker 1: still in the planning process. But how great of an 496 00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:37,080 Speaker 1: idea is that? That's a great idea? Mean, because this 497 00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:38,760 Speaker 1: is the thing, and actually I think you're on the 498 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:40,320 Speaker 1: something and this is a good thing to talk about 499 00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:43,240 Speaker 1: about the show. If people expect everybody does the back 500 00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:45,400 Speaker 1: their bachelort to have a ton of money to their name, 501 00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:48,919 Speaker 1: and that could not be farther from the truth. Like, 502 00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:53,040 Speaker 1: you don't make any money by doing the show. You 503 00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:55,720 Speaker 1: only make money on sponsorships or endorsements afterwards, and that 504 00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:58,800 Speaker 1: doesn't happen to everybody. So clothes is a good way 505 00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:01,480 Speaker 1: for some of these people to kind recoup all the 506 00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:04,880 Speaker 1: money that they've you know, lost by taking a break 507 00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:07,199 Speaker 1: from their lives for three months. That is also a 508 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:10,320 Speaker 1: good point. Yeah, so no, that's a good thing. Is 509 00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:12,440 Speaker 1: that people ask me all the time, how much money 510 00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:14,920 Speaker 1: do you make from doing The Bachelor at? I made 511 00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:17,920 Speaker 1: zero dollars from doing The Bachelor The Bachelor. I was 512 00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:20,600 Speaker 1: gonna say, The Bachelor, The Bachelor, we make zero dollars. 513 00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:23,480 Speaker 1: Doing The Bachelor, the Bachelorette, we make a you know, 514 00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:26,720 Speaker 1: we make a couple of hundred a day doing the 515 00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:30,320 Speaker 1: spin off shows. Nothing crazy. Yeah, I mean, I think 516 00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:33,360 Speaker 1: that's a great idea. I think it's gonna be crazy popular. 517 00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:36,000 Speaker 1: And one of the things I've always been impressed with 518 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:38,919 Speaker 1: The Bachelor At and The Bachelor are the men and 519 00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:43,199 Speaker 1: women always seem to be so fashionable. For me, I 520 00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:46,600 Speaker 1: went to Cold before the Bachelor atte and I bought 521 00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:49,359 Speaker 1: two suits, one blue, one black because I could figure 522 00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:51,280 Speaker 1: I could miss mix and match those up a little 523 00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:54,240 Speaker 1: bit um and I got the show, and I thought 524 00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:56,560 Speaker 1: I had some of the coolest clothes I've ever owned 525 00:27:56,600 --> 00:28:00,240 Speaker 1: in my life. And I was so far behind the time, 526 00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:03,600 Speaker 1: like I did not look cool. Ever, I still, I 527 00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:06,719 Speaker 1: still cannot consider myself fashionable. So if anybody else there 528 00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:08,440 Speaker 1: wants to help me out, please shoot us an email 529 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:10,440 Speaker 1: at ben in Ashley at I heart meaty dot com. 530 00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:13,080 Speaker 1: Helped me out with some fashion advice. I need it 531 00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:16,919 Speaker 1: so much. You know that you had like a really 532 00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,639 Speaker 1: fashionable top three though, with Sean Booth looking like he 533 00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,800 Speaker 1: could be like a Hugo Moss Boss model. And then 534 00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:25,800 Speaker 1: there's Nick, who you know is he wears things so 535 00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:29,480 Speaker 1: well mm hmm yeah, Nick does wear things, so it's 536 00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:33,000 Speaker 1: just he pot Tika forearms. Nick's got some forearms on him. 537 00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:35,439 Speaker 1: I'm actually looking at ask right now, and and somebody 538 00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:37,960 Speaker 1: working with sho Erica sitting behind her, and she was 539 00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:40,200 Speaker 1: I'm sure she was just looking at my Instagram because 540 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:41,640 Speaker 1: she got on her phone as soon as I said, 541 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:43,480 Speaker 1: go look at my Instagram. How many different pairs of 542 00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:47,720 Speaker 1: clothes anywhere. She's sitting back there just shamefully shaking your head, like, Ben, 543 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:53,360 Speaker 1: you are so such a loser. He actually, uh, we 544 00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:56,520 Speaker 1: gotta do a quick recap here. Uh this week's episode 545 00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:59,200 Speaker 1: of The Bachelor. I think it's getting crazier and crazier 546 00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:02,280 Speaker 1: every week. One way I would explain this week, in 547 00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:04,880 Speaker 1: my opinion, is awkward. One of the moment to stand 548 00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:06,680 Speaker 1: out to me was the first part of the Lauren 549 00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:09,560 Speaker 1: B Date. Now, obviously that it kind of turns around 550 00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:12,040 Speaker 1: at the end, but that first part of the Lauren 551 00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:16,080 Speaker 1: B date between Ari Uh and Laura B was so 552 00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:17,800 Speaker 1: so odd. Or maybe it's just the fact that her 553 00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:20,880 Speaker 1: name is Lauren B. And if I okay, I was 554 00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:22,880 Speaker 1: just gonna ask you that, and like, is this weird? 555 00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:25,000 Speaker 1: Especially as we go further and further in the season, 556 00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:27,040 Speaker 1: Like what if this girl makes it to the top 557 00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:31,320 Speaker 1: four and there's another Lauren B who's that prominent in 558 00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:35,280 Speaker 1: the Bachelor world. Yeah, again, that just seems like a 559 00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:36,960 Speaker 1: lot of fun for me. It seems like something that 560 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:38,920 Speaker 1: I can't wait to see it. You know how many 561 00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:43,320 Speaker 1: comparisons come out there, and how many things alike, I 562 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:47,600 Speaker 1: know they trust me. I've already seen that that this 563 00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:51,160 Speaker 1: this Literally, if I could have picked a really bad situation, 564 00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:52,960 Speaker 1: this wouldn't be the worst situation I could think of 565 00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:55,320 Speaker 1: for this season. But this is a situation to be like, Yeah, 566 00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:57,320 Speaker 1: I'd prefer to not have a Lauren B on the 567 00:29:57,360 --> 00:30:01,200 Speaker 1: show that also looks a lot like you know, Lauren B. Yeah. 568 00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:06,880 Speaker 1: Do you think they just made it awkward? Yeah? I 569 00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:10,560 Speaker 1: think it was. I all like, you know, Ben, You've 570 00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:12,520 Speaker 1: been on so many one on ones in your life, 571 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:19,960 Speaker 1: and I've been on four four five, And when you're 572 00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:23,200 Speaker 1: like strolling around like that, it doesn't you don't have 573 00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:25,640 Speaker 1: to talk the entire time. Like it's kind of hard 574 00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:29,160 Speaker 1: to have like a full on serious conversation or even 575 00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:32,440 Speaker 1: just like a flowy conversation on camera surrounded by all 576 00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:35,440 Speaker 1: these people while you're standing around and moving and walking. 577 00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:38,080 Speaker 1: I like to have real conversations. This is with like 578 00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:41,440 Speaker 1: a romantic interest or even with a friend while I'm 579 00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:43,600 Speaker 1: sitting down with some food in front of us, and 580 00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:46,280 Speaker 1: it's like time to talk. But if I'm just strolling around, 581 00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:48,400 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't really feel the pressure to fill 582 00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:53,000 Speaker 1: every moment with words. But he was asking her questions 583 00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:55,520 Speaker 1: and she just wasn't responding, like there's a moment. I 584 00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:57,680 Speaker 1: think he asked her about the cheese or I was 585 00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,440 Speaker 1: trying to talk about some cheese, and she be given 586 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:03,760 Speaker 1: him anything back. I mean she was just shaking her head. Okay, 587 00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:06,200 Speaker 1: you know I thought it was a coward. I think 588 00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:09,480 Speaker 1: if you were there, is awkward. He kept saying, I 589 00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,080 Speaker 1: like you, I'm interested in you, and I really want 590 00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:16,600 Speaker 1: to know if you're interested in me, and she kept going, mmm, 591 00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:18,440 Speaker 1: I don't know you guys. I was so weird. I 592 00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:20,560 Speaker 1: was like, what's happening? And then we get to the 593 00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:23,560 Speaker 1: dinner and he drops like the bomb of the century 594 00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:26,360 Speaker 1: on her. What did he say? Remember remember he said 595 00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:29,040 Speaker 1: he had a girlfriend that he got pregnant. That's right. 596 00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:32,000 Speaker 1: And I was like, this just took a crazy turn. 597 00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:36,400 Speaker 1: That's crazy. That was crazy. And that he reveals so 598 00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:40,160 Speaker 1: obviously he likes Lauren enough that he really wanted to 599 00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:44,120 Speaker 1: reveal something vulnerable, said she would feel more comfortable vulnerable 600 00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:46,560 Speaker 1: with him. Yeah, I mean, do you think that did 601 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:50,000 Speaker 1: because leading up to that, this seemed odd. It seemed 602 00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:54,240 Speaker 1: like almost why would he tell Lauren this scenario? Because 603 00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:58,920 Speaker 1: he I feel like he has deeper relationships with other women. Um, 604 00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:00,800 Speaker 1: you know the one thing I did notice with Ari 605 00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:02,440 Speaker 1: and Lauren, And I don't know if I'm touching on 606 00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:04,760 Speaker 1: anything here or not, and please tell me if I'm crazy. 607 00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,760 Speaker 1: Is it seems like leading up to this, one of 608 00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:14,040 Speaker 1: Ari defense mechanisms is when things get awkward, he starts kissing. Okay, 609 00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:17,800 Speaker 1: so there's a moment silence, he grabs the head, he 610 00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:21,440 Speaker 1: grabs the faith in his lips, just absolutely consumed the 611 00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:26,960 Speaker 1: other person body. Okay, So this is my This is 612 00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:31,200 Speaker 1: my theory. He likes Lauren enough that he doesn't feel 613 00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:33,680 Speaker 1: like he wants to do that every week because he 614 00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:35,800 Speaker 1: just wants to get to know her. So that was actually, 615 00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:38,600 Speaker 1: in my opinion, a compliment by not making out with 616 00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:41,720 Speaker 1: her every time the conversation stopped. I think so too. 617 00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,400 Speaker 1: I felt like we were getting like a lot of 618 00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:50,480 Speaker 1: their relationship was growing through almost all the awkwardness because 619 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:53,280 Speaker 1: they at the end of the day, they trumped all 620 00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:57,000 Speaker 1: the awkwardness. Yeah, yeah, I mean, okay, so here it. 621 00:32:57,320 --> 00:33:01,960 Speaker 1: What do you think of Laura? Thanks sense here? Yeah 622 00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:04,600 Speaker 1: you are making sense. What do you think of Lauren's 623 00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:07,600 Speaker 1: response when as Amy just mentioned when Ari dropped the 624 00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:10,160 Speaker 1: bomb on Lauren that he at one point in his life, 625 00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:13,400 Speaker 1: has gotten one of his girlfriend's pregnant. Do you think 626 00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:16,280 Speaker 1: she responded in a way that showed that she really cared. 627 00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:19,560 Speaker 1: I think that must have been like the hardest thing 628 00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:23,400 Speaker 1: to respond to on camera, like what do you say? 629 00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:26,000 Speaker 1: But I think that she just seemed like sweet and 630 00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:30,280 Speaker 1: understanding and she didn't seem there's not a lot of 631 00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:33,120 Speaker 1: meat there is what I think. Okay, so that's good, 632 00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:35,600 Speaker 1: that's nice. That's a nice way of putting it. There's 633 00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:38,240 Speaker 1: not like a I don't know, I don't like want. 634 00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:41,239 Speaker 1: She's a nice sweet she's nicely cute, but she's not 635 00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:44,240 Speaker 1: giving me anything, right, But like I don't know, there's 636 00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:46,280 Speaker 1: just different kinds of girls out there, Like she may 637 00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:48,720 Speaker 1: not be dynamic on TV and you know, but maybe 638 00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:52,480 Speaker 1: she's perfect Ferrari Right. Yeah, Well this is something that 639 00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:55,400 Speaker 1: you know that uh, you know different. Amy. If you 640 00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:57,000 Speaker 1: have any opinion here, I'd love you to chime in 641 00:33:57,040 --> 00:34:00,000 Speaker 1: because I think you and actually have both been around 642 00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:03,600 Speaker 1: the franchise long enough to hear if this situation UH 643 00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:07,000 Speaker 1: plays out often. But already made a comment uh during 644 00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:09,920 Speaker 1: his date with Lauren that I found very relatable to 645 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:12,560 Speaker 1: me personally. He said, I don't know if Lauren is 646 00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:16,200 Speaker 1: that into me, because I've been so nervous the whole 647 00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:18,960 Speaker 1: time that she wasn't into me because I haven't been 648 00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,080 Speaker 1: able to give for the attention maybe that I've wanted 649 00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:23,640 Speaker 1: to that I feel like I'm chasing a bit. He 650 00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:25,879 Speaker 1: said that in different words, but he pretty much said, Hey, 651 00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:28,239 Speaker 1: I feel like I've been chasing after Lauren since the 652 00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:32,880 Speaker 1: moment this show had started. And as a result, Yeah, exactly. 653 00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:35,319 Speaker 1: Don't you think that's why it works? Because he's used 654 00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:37,520 Speaker 1: to all of these girls chasing him. So the girl 655 00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:40,239 Speaker 1: who's playing hard to get on the Bachelor, where like 656 00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:43,279 Speaker 1: it basically is impossible to play hard to get, that's 657 00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:46,399 Speaker 1: really gonna work for him, wouldn't it work for you? Well? 658 00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:48,880 Speaker 1: That's my point is I remember, over and over and 659 00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:53,040 Speaker 1: over again being totally like sick to my stomach at night, 660 00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:57,200 Speaker 1: especially early on going this Lauren girl, Lauren b Is 661 00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:59,200 Speaker 1: it doesn't like me. She's not gonna like me. I'm 662 00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:01,000 Speaker 1: not getting here the action that it needs. Like, I 663 00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:02,480 Speaker 1: need to get out of this room right now and 664 00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:05,680 Speaker 1: just go tell Lauren, hey, please stick around long enough 665 00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:07,560 Speaker 1: that I can give you the attention that I want 666 00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:10,360 Speaker 1: to give you. I remember thinking that thought, probably nightly 667 00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:15,040 Speaker 1: during the Bachelor, because I didn't know what was going on. 668 00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:16,800 Speaker 1: I didn't know if she wanted to leave. I remember 669 00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:19,400 Speaker 1: the first night Lauren looked at me and said, I 670 00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:22,000 Speaker 1: missed my dog. I want to go home, and I thought, 671 00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:24,839 Speaker 1: I like this girl. I can't let her go home. 672 00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:28,000 Speaker 1: And that was in my head the rest of the season. Wow. 673 00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:32,280 Speaker 1: So I know you're like not supposed to play games 674 00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:35,400 Speaker 1: when like the love is real. But playing hard to 675 00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:39,080 Speaker 1: get always works. This is the thing I am, and 676 00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:43,640 Speaker 1: I know this. Playing hard to get never works. Being 677 00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:49,680 Speaker 1: hard to get will work every time, will never work. 678 00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:53,480 Speaker 1: Then you become crazy, Crystal. It's like you're so crazy 679 00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:55,160 Speaker 1: and you don't even know who you are. You have 680 00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:57,440 Speaker 1: to be who you are, but you actually have to 681 00:35:57,600 --> 00:36:00,600 Speaker 1: be hard to get. Now what level or to what 682 00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:03,960 Speaker 1: extreme that is is up to you, you know, or 683 00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:07,120 Speaker 1: any any time out here. Okay, we're going to get 684 00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:10,399 Speaker 1: some here in a second. We're obviously going to talk 685 00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:12,880 Speaker 1: about about her and her scenaria. But this is this 686 00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:15,560 Speaker 1: is a nugget of information and wisdom and truth coming 687 00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:17,840 Speaker 1: from you that we need to elaborate on. What for 688 00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:20,799 Speaker 1: all of our listeners out there and honestly myself because 689 00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:22,680 Speaker 1: I have no clue what you're talking about. What is 690 00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:26,360 Speaker 1: the difference playing hard and being hard to get? Playing 691 00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:29,920 Speaker 1: hard to get is getting a text and then intentionally 692 00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:34,759 Speaker 1: waiting an hour or three days to text back. That's 693 00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:37,680 Speaker 1: playing hard to get. That's playing a game like if 694 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:40,840 Speaker 1: you want to text back, text back. Being hard to 695 00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:44,399 Speaker 1: get is being like confident in who you are, being 696 00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:47,600 Speaker 1: fulfilled in who you are, being happy in who you are, 697 00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:51,279 Speaker 1: and like as cheesy as it is, loving yourself enough 698 00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:55,160 Speaker 1: to be worthy of what the other person wants to 699 00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:58,560 Speaker 1: give you, and the opposite, like you need to be 700 00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:00,920 Speaker 1: able to be like I want to give love and 701 00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:10,080 Speaker 1: receive love authentically. I would add to that, but there's 702 00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:12,960 Speaker 1: no need. That was perfect and that is really the 703 00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:17,200 Speaker 1: way to be. Thank you. Yeah. Okay, actually, Astley, before 704 00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:19,960 Speaker 1: we move on here, are you? Do you play hard 705 00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:21,960 Speaker 1: to get? Or are you hard to get? Okay? So 706 00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:24,040 Speaker 1: I've never been very good at playing hard to get, 707 00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:26,560 Speaker 1: however I have in the past, but I actually feel 708 00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:29,279 Speaker 1: like this past year, like for about a year now, 709 00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:32,440 Speaker 1: I've been hard to get. I agree, Thanks Amy, I 710 00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:35,359 Speaker 1: know you and I agree. Yeah, yeah, you've got some flag. 711 00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:38,680 Speaker 1: I mean, I can tell, actually, you you've got something 712 00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:41,880 Speaker 1: that you you haven't ever had before, and we're all noticing. 713 00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:45,440 Speaker 1: We're all noticing. Thank you, Ben and the other person, Like, 714 00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,959 Speaker 1: I can know you love them, you care about them, 715 00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:52,560 Speaker 1: You're a hundred percent in with them. That doesn't make 716 00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:57,600 Speaker 1: you not hard to get. Like, it's so much bigger 717 00:37:57,640 --> 00:38:01,400 Speaker 1: than that about being who you are are playing games 718 00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:04,640 Speaker 1: is just a giant fail. Yeah, I think. Um. Something 719 00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:06,880 Speaker 1: I said over and over again in my pre interviews 720 00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:09,240 Speaker 1: with Winter Games was I was like, if I find 721 00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:12,080 Speaker 1: someone that will be really nice, but I'm at this 722 00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:15,279 Speaker 1: point in my life like and just being comfortable and 723 00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:18,319 Speaker 1: like loving myself and just being where I want to 724 00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:23,120 Speaker 1: be with my career and in my friendships that it's 725 00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:25,560 Speaker 1: just like a nice bonus now. It's not something I 726 00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:28,080 Speaker 1: feel I need to like complete me. I'm not like 727 00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:31,040 Speaker 1: gonna just like Chase after it. And this is why 728 00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:36,520 Speaker 1: Crystal imploded, because she was playing a character that she isn't. 729 00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:40,280 Speaker 1: She was being so cocky and being so self righteous 730 00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:43,439 Speaker 1: and being so like Glitter, I'm better than everyone here 731 00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:46,880 Speaker 1: there beneath me, when you know, deep down she doesn't 732 00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:49,879 Speaker 1: feel that way at all yeah, I mean, so here, 733 00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:52,239 Speaker 1: here's the thing. Actually just mentioned something here. I need 734 00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:54,840 Speaker 1: to I need to pause this conversation for a second. 735 00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:58,640 Speaker 1: Actually not going to do a Winter Game special podcast 736 00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:01,640 Speaker 1: for our listeners because we both participated in Winter Games. 737 00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:03,600 Speaker 1: We're gonna give you some behind the scenes information. We're 738 00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:06,360 Speaker 1: gonna talk to some cast members outside of ourselves about 739 00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:09,640 Speaker 1: what went on exactly, uh in Vermont during these few 740 00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:12,479 Speaker 1: beautiful weeks that we spent there. Make sure you tune 741 00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:16,960 Speaker 1: into the the Ashley I and Ben Higgins almost famous 742 00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:19,919 Speaker 1: special podcast on the Winter Games that you will see 743 00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:22,879 Speaker 1: come up on iHeart Radio app here in the next 744 00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:26,400 Speaker 1: week or so. Okay, moving on, then, I want to 745 00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:31,239 Speaker 1: ask you both, does Crystal play hard to get or 746 00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:35,200 Speaker 1: is she hard to get? And here's my opinion. Okay, 747 00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:38,200 Speaker 1: whatever she's doing, we have to have a little sensitivity 748 00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:43,319 Speaker 1: towards her because it's it's hard and it's difficult, and 749 00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:46,680 Speaker 1: you can tell that she's trying, but she's missing the 750 00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:49,400 Speaker 1: mark somehow. And I'll just say that out loud. Crystal 751 00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:52,520 Speaker 1: missed the mark when it came to pursuing Ari, and 752 00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:55,760 Speaker 1: she had didn't allow Are to pursue her well because 753 00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:58,960 Speaker 1: something was missing and I want to hear your opinion, actually, 754 00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:03,640 Speaker 1: what was that? What is missing from herself that's making 755 00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:06,040 Speaker 1: her play this game. I don't know if we can 756 00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:09,439 Speaker 1: say that what was missing during this experience for her 757 00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:13,160 Speaker 1: that this always seems like there's a disconnect between her 758 00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:15,600 Speaker 1: and the women, her and herself and her and Ari. 759 00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:20,520 Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of it's just her competitive nature. 760 00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:23,000 Speaker 1: I feel I feel like, you know, she's athletic, and 761 00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:27,440 Speaker 1: she must have a passion sports. Oh, she's um, she's 762 00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:33,480 Speaker 1: a bodybuilder. Have you ever seen those pictures out there ripped? Yeah, insane. 763 00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,279 Speaker 1: So she's just like a really competitive person and I 764 00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:39,400 Speaker 1: feel like this whole thing for her is probably about 765 00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:44,239 Speaker 1: winning and beating the other girls than being with Ari. 766 00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:47,080 Speaker 1: Is that so? Do you think that's the common in 767 00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:50,799 Speaker 1: every season of this fear of losing pushes these men 768 00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:54,600 Speaker 1: and women forward to pursue love. Not maybe that they 769 00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:57,360 Speaker 1: love the Bachelor bachelortte, but they're just so scared of 770 00:40:58,040 --> 00:41:03,160 Speaker 1: in quotation marks losing that they pushed themselves through. I 771 00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:05,759 Speaker 1: think it depends on the personality. I ask you guys 772 00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:08,200 Speaker 1: a lot of that too. It's like, if you if 773 00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:11,680 Speaker 1: this wasn't a competition with you guys, would you liked 774 00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:14,719 Speaker 1: her as much. I don't think about that with you 775 00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:18,200 Speaker 1: in Caitlin, because i'd be I'll obsessed Caitlin. But there's 776 00:41:18,200 --> 00:41:20,000 Speaker 1: a lot of guys who I'm like, I feel like 777 00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:22,480 Speaker 1: you just wanted to win, because guys always just want 778 00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:27,239 Speaker 1: to win. I would agree with you. See that's the 779 00:41:27,239 --> 00:41:30,839 Speaker 1: thing here is watching Crystal for a while, I got judgmental. 780 00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:33,560 Speaker 1: I got very critical. I couldn't quite figure out why 781 00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:36,160 Speaker 1: she just was always like every scene she was in, 782 00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:37,959 Speaker 1: I was like pulling my hair out, like why would 783 00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:40,359 Speaker 1: you say that? Why do you do that voice? Why 784 00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:43,520 Speaker 1: did you know? Why are you taking him away first? 785 00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:46,000 Speaker 1: And what I started to make sense to me is 786 00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:49,759 Speaker 1: she was just so scared of losing that she got 787 00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:52,480 Speaker 1: very competitive, and her competitive nature maybe took over. And 788 00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:54,520 Speaker 1: I don't know this. I haven't talked to her. I 789 00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:56,120 Speaker 1: would love to get on the podcast to ask her 790 00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:59,200 Speaker 1: personally about this, but it seems like the competitive nature 791 00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:03,600 Speaker 1: of some of these can testines take over completely and 792 00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:07,719 Speaker 1: and it and it completely changes the dynamic of the 793 00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:11,200 Speaker 1: Bachelor Bachelorette because some people there are really just excited 794 00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:12,920 Speaker 1: about the idea of funny love. They really liked the 795 00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:15,719 Speaker 1: Bachelor bachelort. They really think that they're sweet and that 796 00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:18,560 Speaker 1: there's a future there. Some of them come into it saying, 797 00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:20,200 Speaker 1: I don't want to go home early, I don't want 798 00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:22,840 Speaker 1: to embarrass myself, and I just at the end of this, 799 00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:25,520 Speaker 1: I see, I see the trophy, and I'm going to 800 00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:28,440 Speaker 1: take the trophy. I can only speak on behalf of myself. 801 00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:30,920 Speaker 1: I really really liked Chris at the time, and I 802 00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:33,680 Speaker 1: never thought like, oh, this is about winning. I even 803 00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:36,560 Speaker 1: thought if I get to fourth, I'm really going to 804 00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:39,480 Speaker 1: have to get I really have to reconsider things like 805 00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:42,200 Speaker 1: I'm not about winning. I just I want to know. 806 00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:45,359 Speaker 1: I don't want to I wouldn't want to be that 807 00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:48,840 Speaker 1: far and know that he probably wasn't my person. I 808 00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:50,800 Speaker 1: liked him a lot. I liked him a lot perfectly 809 00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:53,640 Speaker 1: to where I stood, which was seventh place. I liked 810 00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:58,719 Speaker 1: him seventh place. What about you, It's funny, I'm just 811 00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:03,480 Speaker 1: laughing at you because I liked Tim seventh place. Actually 812 00:43:03,760 --> 00:43:07,080 Speaker 1: that's such an actually kind of okay. So for me, Um, 813 00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:09,719 Speaker 1: I was trying to prove my friends wrong the first 814 00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:11,200 Speaker 1: couple of weeks, and so I'll be honest, the first 815 00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:13,040 Speaker 1: couple of weeks was me trying to prove my friends wrong, 816 00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:16,720 Speaker 1: because as I left for the Bachelor Bachelorrette, I guess 817 00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:19,680 Speaker 1: my friends are like, Hey, this is great, this is awesome, 818 00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:22,200 Speaker 1: but you understand there's some like really cool guys to 819 00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:25,799 Speaker 1: go on this show, and like, you know, I think 820 00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:27,640 Speaker 1: you could be there like two or three weeks, Like 821 00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:29,440 Speaker 1: I actually think you're cool enough to like make it 822 00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:32,120 Speaker 1: past night one. And I'm like, I don't know how 823 00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:34,600 Speaker 1: to take that, Like that hurts a lot to hear 824 00:43:34,640 --> 00:43:36,560 Speaker 1: that your friends don't even have the confidence and you 825 00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:38,680 Speaker 1: can make it past, you know, the first three weeks 826 00:43:38,680 --> 00:43:40,719 Speaker 1: of the show. So that was the first three weeks, 827 00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:42,359 Speaker 1: was trying to prove something wrong with them, And then 828 00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:44,400 Speaker 1: I started to realize the time out. I actually like 829 00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:47,040 Speaker 1: Caitlin a lot. I don't want to leave because I 830 00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:50,759 Speaker 1: want to see if something else is here. And here's 831 00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:53,600 Speaker 1: another point. I had a lot of good friendships on 832 00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:56,399 Speaker 1: this show. Like I really enjoyed the guys that were 833 00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:57,920 Speaker 1: on the show, and so I didn't want to leave 834 00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:01,439 Speaker 1: them either until it became that I wasn't. The competitiveness 835 00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:04,720 Speaker 1: was no no longer existed, but the relationships, the relationship 836 00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:07,759 Speaker 1: with Caitlin and the relationship with my buddies. We're having 837 00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:10,839 Speaker 1: a good time. This was not something you want to leave. 838 00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:13,040 Speaker 1: I didn't want to leave the environment. I didn't want 839 00:44:13,040 --> 00:44:17,480 Speaker 1: to leave the sorority house. Yeah, I would agree with that. So, uh, 840 00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:19,320 Speaker 1: for me, I can't relate with the competitive nature. But 841 00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:21,799 Speaker 1: I do know that that people out there feel that way, 842 00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:23,839 Speaker 1: and I think that's what took over Crystal. I think 843 00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:25,920 Speaker 1: it was time for her to go. Already made the 844 00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:28,440 Speaker 1: right decision there. It is time for all of us, 845 00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:31,000 Speaker 1: as fans of The Bachelor and fans of Ari and 846 00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:33,319 Speaker 1: fans of this season, to no longer have to do 847 00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:35,920 Speaker 1: it through the lens of Crystal. Let's move on to 848 00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:37,920 Speaker 1: find this true love story. So I actually I want 849 00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:40,960 Speaker 1: to ask you before we close out here, in your opinion, 850 00:44:41,080 --> 00:44:43,280 Speaker 1: who's your top three girls for Ari at this point? 851 00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:46,960 Speaker 1: My top three girls for Ari Lauren, b Becca k 852 00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:52,600 Speaker 1: and you know what Crystal. I mean Crystal, not Crystal. 853 00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:56,720 Speaker 1: Kendall is moving up in the game. He really likes her, 854 00:44:57,640 --> 00:44:59,520 Speaker 1: but I think he likes Becca m moore. So I 855 00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:02,920 Speaker 1: think those my top three. Am I missing somebody? Oh 856 00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:05,960 Speaker 1: ta ta, that's my four? I don't know. I wouldn't know, 857 00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:07,759 Speaker 1: but I would count that as the four and then 858 00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:10,360 Speaker 1: I don't know how they're going to place after that. Okay, 859 00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:12,880 Speaker 1: what about Okay, Amy and Astletly, I want you to 860 00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:15,920 Speaker 1: both answer this question. Your opinion. Who's the next bachelor? 861 00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:23,120 Speaker 1: Long haired Becca? Yeah, I don't know. If we talked 862 00:45:23,120 --> 00:45:25,720 Speaker 1: about this um a couple of weeks ago, I said 863 00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:29,080 Speaker 1: that Becca m was too young to be the bachelorette. 864 00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:31,319 Speaker 1: I was like, no, that is so annoying for us, 865 00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:34,759 Speaker 1: like upper twenties, early thirties girls out there, who like 866 00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:38,279 Speaker 1: need a parade of men. But she has her whole 867 00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,239 Speaker 1: twenties to get a parade of men, and her like 868 00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:42,920 Speaker 1: you know, biological clock is not taking at all. But 869 00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:45,160 Speaker 1: now I love her so much and I have such 870 00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:46,759 Speaker 1: a girl crush on her, and I think she's so 871 00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:49,200 Speaker 1: fascinating to watch that I just kind of wanted from 872 00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:51,359 Speaker 1: my own entertainment for her to mot bachelorrette. They're never 873 00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:53,880 Speaker 1: quite as dynamic as that, though. The bachelorette is always 874 00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:56,440 Speaker 1: a tiny bit more subdued so the the guys. Except 875 00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:59,640 Speaker 1: for except for Caitlin thought, I think the opposite. I 876 00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:02,680 Speaker 1: think the bachelorettes are normally full of personality because I 877 00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:06,160 Speaker 1: think about like Desiree. I don't think I think Caitlin, 878 00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:09,799 Speaker 1: Rachel and Jojo. Alright, alright, fine, fine, I'll give it 879 00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:13,400 Speaker 1: to you, Okay, I personally And here's the crazy thought. 880 00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:16,400 Speaker 1: And you both have told me if I'm wrong, I 881 00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:20,960 Speaker 1: don't think Becca Shorthaired backgam can be the Bachelorette anymore, 882 00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:25,120 Speaker 1: even even if it wasn't her fault, because of what 883 00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:28,000 Speaker 1: just happened with the missing person report, I don't think 884 00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:31,000 Speaker 1: the Bachelor would have this storyline leading up to announcing 885 00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:33,000 Speaker 1: her as the Bachelorrette. I don't. I don't. I just 886 00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:35,920 Speaker 1: it doesn't feel right to me. Now, Okay, that actually 887 00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:38,439 Speaker 1: makes sense, Like her missing on a marijuana farm, yeah, 888 00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:45,600 Speaker 1: not just just not really classic. Yeah, like if we 889 00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:48,040 Speaker 1: were going to have like a hipster version of the Bachelorette, 890 00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:53,200 Speaker 1: like she'd be perfect for that Bachelor Alive from Humboldt. Yeah, 891 00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:55,320 Speaker 1: I mean I get it though. So that's my thought 892 00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:57,319 Speaker 1: is as much as we love to speed back and 893 00:46:57,360 --> 00:46:59,120 Speaker 1: I think she could do it and do great at it, 894 00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:02,000 Speaker 1: I just think her missing on a marijuana farm you 895 00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:04,400 Speaker 1: have to throw that's no longer the thing. What I 896 00:47:04,440 --> 00:47:07,000 Speaker 1: am willing to say, and we have paradise. I will 897 00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:11,640 Speaker 1: bet you, I'll bet you both, okay, one hundred dollars each, 898 00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:15,640 Speaker 1: that the bachelorette is on this season. She's in. She's 899 00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:18,000 Speaker 1: one of Ari's girls. Yeah, I would have like, we're 900 00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:19,960 Speaker 1: not going to go into the catalog and bring back 901 00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:23,760 Speaker 1: Christina or whoever. It will be one of these girls. 902 00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:26,200 Speaker 1: I am going to agree with you, So I'm not 903 00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:28,160 Speaker 1: even gonna play Ben, do you want to go against us? 904 00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:31,239 Speaker 1: I completely agree. I mean I honestly, and I said 905 00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:33,000 Speaker 1: this since the beginning, and I'll say it again. I 906 00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:36,160 Speaker 1: said it every week. Ari has an amazing group of girls, 907 00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:38,120 Speaker 1: and amazing in the sense of this is a really 908 00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:42,200 Speaker 1: great group of women who I think not only is 909 00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:43,880 Speaker 1: he going to find somebody he really cares about in 910 00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:46,000 Speaker 1: this group, but that the Bachelorette could be two or 911 00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:48,359 Speaker 1: three of these girls. And you know, I felt that way. 912 00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:50,520 Speaker 1: I felt that way about Tea, that way about being 913 00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:53,759 Speaker 1: about long haired Becca, short hair Becca. I forgot about 914 00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:57,080 Speaker 1: her great choice. Yeah, So you know, I said it 915 00:47:57,120 --> 00:48:00,879 Speaker 1: every week. I think a group of women is absolutely 916 00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:04,320 Speaker 1: just stacked. So yeah, if it doesn't come from this group, 917 00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:06,440 Speaker 1: I will be shocked because I think they have a 918 00:48:06,440 --> 00:48:10,040 Speaker 1: lot of really great women involved. Speaking of shocking really quick, 919 00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:13,400 Speaker 1: I was very shocked that Chelsea went home. Okay, me too, 920 00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:15,520 Speaker 1: because Chelsea just had a one on one last week 921 00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:18,400 Speaker 1: that went pretty well and she's got a lot of 922 00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:19,840 Speaker 1: screen time and now she's just gone. It was just 923 00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:21,600 Speaker 1: like a week later, He's like, no, m at the 924 00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:24,759 Speaker 1: bottom of my tone and Pole like she's just yeah, 925 00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:27,160 Speaker 1: it's pretty weird. I thought that was crazy, like the litter, 926 00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:30,680 Speaker 1: But then how was Jenna. Jenna lasted as long as 927 00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:34,719 Speaker 1: Chelsea did. And Jenna reminds me of Amanda Cypherd from 928 00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:37,600 Speaker 1: Mean Girls, like she would tell the weather with her boobies. 929 00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:42,200 Speaker 1: What do you mean you know, I'm now drawing him, like, oh, 930 00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:44,839 Speaker 1: Karen Karen for Mean Girls, Like, Jenna is the one 931 00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:47,680 Speaker 1: who's like always strattling Ari and like saying things that 932 00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:51,680 Speaker 1: are just random and very spacey. But we we never 933 00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:53,520 Speaker 1: really got to know her very well, and all we 934 00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:55,920 Speaker 1: did was see her like being kind of drunk, and 935 00:48:56,040 --> 00:48:59,839 Speaker 1: she ruins me so much of Karen. Yeah, I don't 936 00:48:59,840 --> 00:49:01,839 Speaker 1: know what you just do with you You just your 937 00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:05,920 Speaker 1: food and move them in different directions. Seven says, you know, 938 00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:11,520 Speaker 1: I think it's there's a seventy chance of rain today 939 00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:13,799 Speaker 1: and really quickly. I would love to get both of 940 00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:16,719 Speaker 1: your opinions. Because when the girl I don't know her name, 941 00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:18,840 Speaker 1: I feel like her name might be Jacqueline was on 942 00:49:18,880 --> 00:49:21,880 Speaker 1: the one on one with a They're literally I'm like, 943 00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:25,160 Speaker 1: who are you? And then they're discussing logistics of their 944 00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:28,520 Speaker 1: future and it couldn't have been more not gonna work, 945 00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:31,000 Speaker 1: like she be a doctor, would be like some kind 946 00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:33,080 Speaker 1: of psychiatrist. He's a race car driver. They live on 947 00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:35,719 Speaker 1: opposite ends of the country. They're talking all about how 948 00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:38,200 Speaker 1: the logistics will never work. But then he's like, but 949 00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:42,440 Speaker 1: here's a rose, and I'm thinking, well, wow, huh. So 950 00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:45,200 Speaker 1: I wanted to ask Ben, like, would you keep someone 951 00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:51,000 Speaker 1: even though you really know like logistically this is unlikely? No, 952 00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:54,040 Speaker 1: I mean honestly, Uh. That you know played a factor 953 00:49:54,120 --> 00:49:57,960 Speaker 1: in my um decision with Jojo as well, because I 954 00:49:58,000 --> 00:50:01,120 Speaker 1: know that her family really wanted her Dallas. They thought 955 00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:03,080 Speaker 1: she had to be in Dallas. I think Jojo want 956 00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:04,480 Speaker 1: to be in Dallas to her family is there, it 957 00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:06,480 Speaker 1: made sense for her to be there, and as I 958 00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:08,279 Speaker 1: talked to her, it was hard for us to kind 959 00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:10,839 Speaker 1: of come to uh, terms with where would we live? 960 00:50:10,880 --> 00:50:12,520 Speaker 1: Would we live in Denver? Would we live in Dallas? 961 00:50:12,520 --> 00:50:14,680 Speaker 1: Would we live with It didn't make sense, and so 962 00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:18,120 Speaker 1: we weren't making any progress on those conversations. And I 963 00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:20,600 Speaker 1: think we're both just I mean, I'll speak for Jojo. 964 00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:22,040 Speaker 1: I think we're both being a little stubborn as the 965 00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:24,399 Speaker 1: thought of this seems like a lot to talk about, 966 00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:26,680 Speaker 1: and we just are like kind of getting to know 967 00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:29,279 Speaker 1: each other. Uh. And it pushed me back a bit 968 00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:32,560 Speaker 1: because I you know, we weren't coming to a compromise. 969 00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:34,879 Speaker 1: So I do think it would play a role in 970 00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:38,960 Speaker 1: in anybody's decision if logistics weren't gonna work, if you 971 00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:41,759 Speaker 1: could never be together. But I gotta pause you both 972 00:50:41,800 --> 00:50:44,279 Speaker 1: there and say, if they ever do get together, there's 973 00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:46,879 Speaker 1: something they have to do and they have to try. Uh. 974 00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:53,239 Speaker 1: And and that's cooking together. Cooking together. Uh, it's one 975 00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:55,719 Speaker 1: of the best ways to spend your Valentine's which we 976 00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:57,440 Speaker 1: all know is coming up. Some of us will be 977 00:50:57,480 --> 00:51:01,600 Speaker 1: spending it with somebody wink wink, Ashley. Others of us 978 00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:05,759 Speaker 1: will be spending it with maybe other people. Amy, But 979 00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:07,719 Speaker 1: let me tell you all about blue apron. 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Even 1003 00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:34,359 Speaker 1: on Valentine's Day, It's a better way to cook, Hey Ben, 1004 00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:37,560 Speaker 1: every time you record a that, I'm picking at my 1005 00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:40,279 Speaker 1: my fat Burger, because fat Burger was kind enough to 1006 00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:44,840 Speaker 1: deliver some burgers and fries and wings to the I 1007 00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:48,040 Speaker 1: Heart office today. It is like there. I guess it's 1008 00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:51,040 Speaker 1: like your hangover meal from super Bowl, post super Bowl, 1009 00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:54,720 Speaker 1: post tur Bowl party. So I woke up this morning. 1010 00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:58,239 Speaker 1: I made tacos and nachos and just eight queso and 1011 00:52:58,239 --> 00:53:01,680 Speaker 1: salsa all day long yesterday. And I woke up and like, 1012 00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:05,480 Speaker 1: here's your Philly reference looking like Rocky after a fight. 1013 00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:10,920 Speaker 1: My face puffy. I retained so much water in my 1014 00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:13,160 Speaker 1: face and when I eat Mexican food or like other 1015 00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:15,840 Speaker 1: really salty foods. So I was woke up and I 1016 00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:18,399 Speaker 1: was like, you know what sounds good today? No joke, 1017 00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:20,719 Speaker 1: like actually sounded good. I was like a day of 1018 00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:23,440 Speaker 1: just juicing, Like how l A am I? How gross 1019 00:53:23,520 --> 00:53:25,839 Speaker 1: is that? And then I arrive here and right by 1020 00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:29,120 Speaker 1: my mic is a burger, fries and wings and out. 1021 00:53:29,200 --> 00:53:34,279 Speaker 1: Maybe we'll juice tomorrow. I watched I've watched it the 1022 00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:36,239 Speaker 1: whole time of this guy, because you just picking at 1023 00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:39,800 Speaker 1: the burger pick not the fries. Never say no to 1024 00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:44,280 Speaker 1: free food. Some emails, but I would like to say quickly, 1025 00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:46,839 Speaker 1: we're all going on vacation together this week. Oh yeah, 1026 00:53:46,880 --> 00:53:49,879 Speaker 1: that's so much fun. I'm so excited. Ben. What are 1027 00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:53,680 Speaker 1: you doing at the celebrity golf tournament in Carmel, California. Yeah, 1028 00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:57,759 Speaker 1: so this is a really exciting opportunity for me. Our 1029 00:53:57,800 --> 00:54:00,279 Speaker 1: host of The Bachelor and Bachelor at Chris Harris is 1030 00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:02,400 Speaker 1: playing in one of his dreams. That is the A 1031 00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:06,040 Speaker 1: P and t U Tournament at Pebble Beach. What it 1032 00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:08,440 Speaker 1: is is a celebrity plays alongside the pros and an 1033 00:54:08,440 --> 00:54:11,160 Speaker 1: actual tournament and Chris Harrison, one of our favorite people 1034 00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:13,040 Speaker 1: and one of the better golfers I know on the 1035 00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:16,000 Speaker 1: amateur level, is playing in this tournament. They asked me 1036 00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:19,240 Speaker 1: to host a few things, uh, take over the social media, 1037 00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:21,680 Speaker 1: be a part of the hole in one challenge at 1038 00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:24,120 Speaker 1: the tournament and as a result, I get to play 1039 00:54:24,160 --> 00:54:26,760 Speaker 1: some of the most exclusive, some of the coolest courses 1040 00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:31,320 Speaker 1: in the US. I'm playing Tahama out Inn in Carmel 1041 00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:35,399 Speaker 1: and I'm playing um Point. Uh. There's both these things 1042 00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:37,840 Speaker 1: I'm so ecstatic about. So I'm gonna be working the tournament. 1043 00:54:38,080 --> 00:54:39,680 Speaker 1: A bunch of our friends are coming out to watch 1044 00:54:39,760 --> 00:54:42,120 Speaker 1: as well. We're gonna come to support Chris. Just have 1045 00:54:42,160 --> 00:54:44,600 Speaker 1: a great time at Pebble, enjoy this tournament for what 1046 00:54:44,680 --> 00:54:47,200 Speaker 1: it is. So I just really, I mean, I gotta 1047 00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:48,560 Speaker 1: take the opportunity and say thank you to the p 1048 00:54:48,680 --> 00:54:50,319 Speaker 1: GA and thank you to Pebble Beach, and thank you 1049 00:54:50,320 --> 00:54:52,200 Speaker 1: to the A T and T tournament for allowing me 1050 00:54:52,239 --> 00:54:54,600 Speaker 1: to come out and have a great time. And also, um, 1051 00:54:54,600 --> 00:54:56,560 Speaker 1: thank you for Chris Harrison for playing the tournament so 1052 00:54:56,600 --> 00:54:58,239 Speaker 1: we can all get together and have a part of 1053 00:54:58,239 --> 00:55:00,680 Speaker 1: this and just cheer him on. How have you two? 1054 00:55:00,719 --> 00:55:03,320 Speaker 1: People on golf? I don't really get star struck anymore, 1055 00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:06,680 Speaker 1: but like Tony Romo and Rogers, Josh you Mel, They're 1056 00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:08,719 Speaker 1: all going to be there and guys like look out 1057 00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:10,759 Speaker 1: for my picture with Josh you Mel. I'll get to 1058 00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:12,760 Speaker 1: live out my win. A date with Tad Hamilton's dreams, 1059 00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:16,640 Speaker 1: Oh my god. And I'm so supportive of his relationship 1060 00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:19,120 Speaker 1: possibly with Jennifer Garner. All right, and that's for another 1061 00:55:19,120 --> 00:55:22,080 Speaker 1: time in place. Um, I feel like we can't go 1062 00:55:22,120 --> 00:55:25,560 Speaker 1: on and move to our emails for the week until 1063 00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:27,920 Speaker 1: we talked about the two on one, just like a 1064 00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:30,280 Speaker 1: little like two minutes of the two on one, because 1065 00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:32,600 Speaker 1: Kendall and Crystal going to two on one, and if 1066 00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:34,600 Speaker 1: we don't talk about it, our fans are gonna be like, 1067 00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:37,040 Speaker 1: how did you guys miss out on that? How did 1068 00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:39,200 Speaker 1: you miss talking about the two on one? What I 1069 00:55:39,280 --> 00:55:42,799 Speaker 1: loved about this? It wasn't very dramatic, guys, Like I 1070 00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:45,319 Speaker 1: still say I'm holding the crown of the best two 1071 00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:49,760 Speaker 1: on one ever? What I know that's why you asked 1072 00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:52,759 Speaker 1: the question who was your favorite of all times? Yeah? 1073 00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:55,560 Speaker 1: That was a joke, Yeah, hey it was it was 1074 00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:58,160 Speaker 1: you Actually for sure, that was me joking around. I 1075 00:55:58,160 --> 00:55:59,440 Speaker 1: was trying to see what he was gonna say. But 1076 00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:01,160 Speaker 1: I don't think you watch Crystal season. He was like 1077 00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:05,160 Speaker 1: seven back then. That's really really young. So Kendall has 1078 00:56:05,160 --> 00:56:09,560 Speaker 1: this amazing skill of being so calm and analytical and 1079 00:56:09,760 --> 00:56:13,440 Speaker 1: just not letting her emotions catch up with her trying 1080 00:56:13,520 --> 00:56:17,680 Speaker 1: to like communicate something like she she's a very calm communicator, 1081 00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:20,839 Speaker 1: and I think that really helped her in this two 1082 00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:24,720 Speaker 1: on one. Don't you think that? Yeah, I mean, I agree, 1083 00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:27,680 Speaker 1: I mean I think that just this. We were impressed 1084 00:56:27,680 --> 00:56:30,840 Speaker 1: with Crystal last week, We're impressed with Crystal. This week's 1085 00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:37,040 Speaker 1: calm Kendall. Kendall, Sorry, she's calm, she's collected, she communicates yourself. Well, 1086 00:56:37,080 --> 00:56:39,520 Speaker 1: I think Kendall, you know you said the last week, 1087 00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:41,680 Speaker 1: I think she's a force to be wrecking with. I 1088 00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:45,440 Speaker 1: would completely agree. Honestly. It just showed the difference and 1089 00:56:46,480 --> 00:56:51,320 Speaker 1: I guess personality types and what was more um relatable 1090 00:56:51,360 --> 00:56:54,359 Speaker 1: to Ari between Crystal and Kindle, and so it wasn't 1091 00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:56,520 Speaker 1: even a question in my mind that Kendall will be 1092 00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:59,040 Speaker 1: staying around. Yeah. I was really impressed by the way 1093 00:56:59,080 --> 00:57:02,279 Speaker 1: that she was just like Crystal, this is how I 1094 00:57:02,320 --> 00:57:06,160 Speaker 1: think your mind works. And just like when when Crystal 1095 00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:09,520 Speaker 1: guesn't says stuff behind her back, she she didn't get feisty. 1096 00:57:09,680 --> 00:57:12,520 Speaker 1: She just was like she calmly expressed herself, and that 1097 00:57:12,600 --> 00:57:16,000 Speaker 1: is a skill I wish I could obtain. Kendall, give 1098 00:57:16,040 --> 00:57:19,080 Speaker 1: me a lesson. Yeah, but hey, We're impressed with Kendall. 1099 00:57:19,160 --> 00:57:21,200 Speaker 1: I think she is going to be around a while, 1100 00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:24,280 Speaker 1: so kindle, we plan on watching you for a long time. Hey, 1101 00:57:24,320 --> 00:57:26,680 Speaker 1: who knows she's also a bachelor at contender. We can't 1102 00:57:26,680 --> 00:57:30,040 Speaker 1: throw her out there. Um hey, actually, let's do one 1103 00:57:30,200 --> 00:57:33,200 Speaker 1: email before we say goodbye to our listeners and before 1104 00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:35,480 Speaker 1: we sing our bye our listeners. I gotta give U 1105 00:57:35,720 --> 00:57:37,880 Speaker 1: take this second, because you know you and I put 1106 00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:40,240 Speaker 1: a lot of time into this. Are our producers put 1107 00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:43,400 Speaker 1: a lot of time in this we I've talked about 1108 00:57:43,440 --> 00:57:45,760 Speaker 1: Generous Coffee Company a couple of times on this podcast. 1109 00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:48,000 Speaker 1: I promised not to bore you all with it very often, 1110 00:57:48,080 --> 00:57:50,840 Speaker 1: but uh. Generous Coffee Company is a coffee company that 1111 00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:54,040 Speaker 1: my buddies and I started. All profits are donated back 1112 00:57:54,040 --> 00:57:56,880 Speaker 1: to nonprofits and causes that are trying to do something 1113 00:57:56,920 --> 00:58:00,480 Speaker 1: good in the world through sustainable change and through sustainab action. 1114 00:58:00,840 --> 00:58:03,440 Speaker 1: We launched their new website this week. It's Generous Movement 1115 00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:05,800 Speaker 1: dot com. Please go out check it out, order your 1116 00:58:05,800 --> 00:58:08,160 Speaker 1: coffee today. You can subscribe. We will show up to 1117 00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:09,959 Speaker 1: your door as many times as you want a month. 1118 00:58:10,720 --> 00:58:13,800 Speaker 1: We need you. I need you because it is a 1119 00:58:13,800 --> 00:58:15,920 Speaker 1: passion project of mind, So I gotta take that second. 1120 00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:18,200 Speaker 1: I'm sorry for doing that. That's very selfish with me. 1121 00:58:18,640 --> 00:58:21,000 Speaker 1: But oh no, no, no, now that you bring up that, 1122 00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:25,600 Speaker 1: it's my turn. Okay. So my new show, it's a 1123 00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:28,880 Speaker 1: YouTube show with kinetic content. It is the people that 1124 00:58:28,920 --> 00:58:32,360 Speaker 1: brought you Nine Day Fiance and Married at First Sight. 1125 00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:35,560 Speaker 1: We got a team up with them and do a 1126 00:58:35,560 --> 00:58:38,320 Speaker 1: passion project of mine, which is telling stories of how 1127 00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:40,720 Speaker 1: people met and fell in love. So I sit down 1128 00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:43,919 Speaker 1: with eight couples and over the course of a couple 1129 00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:47,480 Speaker 1: of fifteen minute segments on YouTube, you can watch the 1130 00:58:47,560 --> 00:58:50,960 Speaker 1: story of their their love stories. So from the day 1131 00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:54,800 Speaker 1: they met to their first kiss to how he proposed 1132 00:58:54,880 --> 00:58:57,200 Speaker 1: their wedding day, I just tell their entire story. It's 1133 00:58:57,240 --> 00:59:01,000 Speaker 1: my little way of bringing romantic comedy chick flicks back 1134 00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:03,360 Speaker 1: to this world. In Hollywood seems to be in a 1135 00:59:03,440 --> 00:59:05,720 Speaker 1: draught of those kind of stories. So all you're gonna 1136 00:59:05,720 --> 00:59:07,480 Speaker 1: get from this is you're gonna watch it with a 1137 00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:10,560 Speaker 1: smile on your face the entire time watching these two 1138 00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:13,680 Speaker 1: different kinds of perspectives, the guy's version the girl's version 1139 00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:16,560 Speaker 1: on how they met and fell in love. And it's 1140 00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:19,240 Speaker 1: uplifting and if you just want to feel good, a 1141 00:59:19,280 --> 00:59:22,200 Speaker 1: little quick feel good fifteen minutes. Turn on the Story 1142 00:59:22,240 --> 00:59:24,240 Speaker 1: of Us. Just type it into YouTube. Actually like today, 1143 00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:27,480 Speaker 1: Story of Us. I love that. Actually, good luck with that. 1144 00:59:27,720 --> 00:59:30,160 Speaker 1: I think everybody should tune in because you're always entertaining 1145 00:59:30,200 --> 00:59:32,760 Speaker 1: and you're always interesting. Okay, I'm gonna read you one 1146 00:59:32,840 --> 00:59:35,560 Speaker 1: question here one of our emails, and then if you 1147 00:59:35,560 --> 00:59:39,080 Speaker 1: want to pick one for me, that's great because from 1148 00:59:39,160 --> 00:59:42,160 Speaker 1: Megan in Georgia. From Megan and Georgia haven and actually, 1149 00:59:42,200 --> 00:59:44,560 Speaker 1: hope you're all having a great week. Something I've always 1150 00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:47,240 Speaker 1: wondered about The Bachelor is what do the ladies men 1151 00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:49,280 Speaker 1: do when they're not on dates. Are they allowed to 1152 00:59:49,320 --> 00:59:51,640 Speaker 1: bring books with them or at least the Bible? I know, 1153 00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:53,640 Speaker 1: I'm big brother. The only book they can take with 1154 00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:55,840 Speaker 1: them is the Bible, And it got me wondering about 1155 00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:58,760 Speaker 1: the Bachelor's rule on that. As a bookworm, I would 1156 00:59:58,760 --> 01:00:01,040 Speaker 1: not be able to have that much free time without 1157 01:00:01,040 --> 01:00:03,400 Speaker 1: a book. I would just sit around running my mouth 1158 01:00:03,440 --> 01:00:06,280 Speaker 1: all day. I love listening to you all each week, 1159 01:00:06,680 --> 01:00:09,440 Speaker 1: all right through and a half and half. I like 1160 01:00:09,600 --> 01:00:14,960 Speaker 1: that through and half. Hey other, who to my half? Um? 1161 01:00:15,080 --> 01:00:17,840 Speaker 1: What can you do in your free time? On the Bachelor, 1162 01:00:18,520 --> 01:00:22,000 Speaker 1: for me, we played a lot of heads up when 1163 01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:24,480 Speaker 1: we could. When a producer would give us um one 1164 01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:27,080 Speaker 1: of their phones, we play heads up, you know, the 1165 01:00:27,080 --> 01:00:30,439 Speaker 1: Ellen game. So much fun. And as far as alone time, 1166 01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:34,160 Speaker 1: alone time goes um. I'm the Bachelor and kind of 1167 01:00:34,520 --> 01:00:37,000 Speaker 1: on any show, I usually like go to my bed, 1168 01:00:37,080 --> 01:00:41,880 Speaker 1: which is like my my little sanctuary to just kind 1169 01:00:41,880 --> 01:00:44,920 Speaker 1: of depressed, I decompressed. I like think that I'll pretend 1170 01:00:44,960 --> 01:00:47,520 Speaker 1: I'm napping. I usually I'm not able to nap, but 1171 01:00:48,000 --> 01:00:50,120 Speaker 1: I'll say I'm napping so I don't see anti social 1172 01:00:50,480 --> 01:00:52,320 Speaker 1: or like email. I say, like I'm gonna go, and 1173 01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:54,920 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go and just beat by myself for a minute, 1174 01:00:55,120 --> 01:00:57,560 Speaker 1: so I'll go nap or And then during the Bachelor 1175 01:00:57,600 --> 01:01:01,000 Speaker 1: and Paradise, I journaled a lot during that time. I'd like, 1176 01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:03,560 Speaker 1: I'd like to take the top bunk because the top 1177 01:01:03,560 --> 01:01:05,400 Speaker 1: bunk is where you know you can be even more 1178 01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:08,880 Speaker 1: private and secluded from the rest of the group. Yeah, 1179 01:01:08,920 --> 01:01:11,040 Speaker 1: I agree, I mean, and and may just answer you. 1180 01:01:11,120 --> 01:01:14,400 Speaker 1: The rule on books is this, you can't have any electronics, 1181 01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:16,760 Speaker 1: so you can bring books, but you can't bring too many. 1182 01:01:16,800 --> 01:01:18,959 Speaker 1: They'll definitely check and wonder if you bring too many books. 1183 01:01:19,000 --> 01:01:21,640 Speaker 1: But I read during my time owner games. I read 1184 01:01:21,720 --> 01:01:23,320 Speaker 1: during my time on the Bachelor, and not as much 1185 01:01:23,320 --> 01:01:26,200 Speaker 1: in the Bachelor because you're so busy. Um, but yeah, 1186 01:01:26,280 --> 01:01:28,320 Speaker 1: I think reading is important. I brought my Bible. I 1187 01:01:28,360 --> 01:01:30,320 Speaker 1: brought a couple of other books to kind of go 1188 01:01:30,360 --> 01:01:33,720 Speaker 1: along with that. That you're more more novel based. So 1189 01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:38,440 Speaker 1: reading is definitely allowed. But you cannot have any electronics. 1190 01:01:38,440 --> 01:01:42,320 Speaker 1: That is a big deal. Um. You also cannot bring 1191 01:01:42,720 --> 01:01:46,560 Speaker 1: uh your fab Fit fun Box, So pretty big deal. 1192 01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:49,000 Speaker 1: And I don't actually gets really sad because the fact 1193 01:01:49,000 --> 01:01:52,080 Speaker 1: that bum box is one of her favorite things. Then, 1194 01:01:52,120 --> 01:01:55,120 Speaker 1: but you're lying. I I brought plenty of things from 1195 01:01:55,120 --> 01:01:57,920 Speaker 1: the fab Fit Fun Box. In fact, no, yeah, of 1196 01:01:57,920 --> 01:02:01,040 Speaker 1: course I bring stuff from it. In fact, everybody knows 1197 01:02:01,080 --> 01:02:03,160 Speaker 1: I like to ice my face in the morning. Um 1198 01:02:03,160 --> 01:02:05,560 Speaker 1: it's if you don't know that, you find out quickly enough. 1199 01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:07,800 Speaker 1: If you're living in the Bachelor house with me. It 1200 01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:10,080 Speaker 1: is my way to deep puff. But I always feel 1201 01:02:10,080 --> 01:02:12,200 Speaker 1: like I get puffy overnight, and it's just it is 1202 01:02:12,240 --> 01:02:14,040 Speaker 1: actually good for your skin. It doesn't just have to 1203 01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:16,440 Speaker 1: do with your puffy eyes. But you know, between eating 1204 01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:21,360 Speaker 1: a lot and drinking a lot and long nights you 1205 01:02:21,400 --> 01:02:23,920 Speaker 1: get puffy eyes and fat pud. Fund set me up 1206 01:02:23,960 --> 01:02:26,640 Speaker 1: with an amazing ice pack a couple a couple of 1207 01:02:26,680 --> 01:02:30,080 Speaker 1: seasons ago. Um, but this season is the Editor's Box. 1208 01:02:30,320 --> 01:02:34,160 Speaker 1: So if you want the Editor's Box, it's valued over 1209 01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:36,720 Speaker 1: three hundred dollars. And here are some of the things 1210 01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:40,320 Speaker 1: that this one contains. It's got real her eyeshadow palette, 1211 01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:43,040 Speaker 1: a Wish nourishing dew mask which is going to make 1212 01:02:43,080 --> 01:02:48,360 Speaker 1: your skin feel bouncy and glowy. A spongeel body buffer 1213 01:02:48,480 --> 01:02:51,680 Speaker 1: and that's the shower gel is infused in this and 1214 01:02:51,760 --> 01:02:54,080 Speaker 1: it was so great. My skin was really flaky a 1215 01:02:54,120 --> 01:02:56,240 Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago because I was like flaking a 1216 01:02:56,320 --> 01:02:59,880 Speaker 1: tan off which sucked, but this just slhing right off. 1217 01:03:00,040 --> 01:03:07,680 Speaker 1: Did you gross? Then there's the Way of the Way 1218 01:03:07,760 --> 01:03:10,320 Speaker 1: of Will Bath salts to make your bath a little 1219 01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:14,880 Speaker 1: more relaxing. And a makeup Drop silicone applicator, which I 1220 01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:19,160 Speaker 1: love because it doesn't absorb the makeup like a beauty 1221 01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:22,960 Speaker 1: blender would. Um. All these are full size products you 1222 01:03:23,040 --> 01:03:27,400 Speaker 1: normally pay forty each season. Um, but the box is 1223 01:03:27,440 --> 01:03:31,320 Speaker 1: guaranteed a value of over two hundred dollars. But get 1224 01:03:31,360 --> 01:03:34,200 Speaker 1: this because you guys are almost famous listeners. If you 1225 01:03:34,240 --> 01:03:36,480 Speaker 1: go to fab fit fund dot com and use our 1226 01:03:36,560 --> 01:03:40,000 Speaker 1: promo code almost Famous, you're gonna get ten dollars off 1227 01:03:40,040 --> 01:03:42,480 Speaker 1: the editor's box, so your box is actually gonna be 1228 01:03:42,720 --> 01:03:46,560 Speaker 1: thirty nine dollars and cents. So you're getting this editor's box, 1229 01:03:46,600 --> 01:03:49,960 Speaker 1: which by the way, is valued over three hundred dollars 1230 01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:54,919 Speaker 1: for thirty nine nine. That's insane. It's fab fit fund 1231 01:03:54,920 --> 01:03:57,200 Speaker 1: if if you're not familiar, it's a subscription box of 1232 01:03:57,240 --> 01:04:01,000 Speaker 1: full size fashion, beauty, fitness and lifestyle ducks. It's pretty 1233 01:04:01,080 --> 01:04:03,760 Speaker 1: much like Christmas four times a year. It's going to 1234 01:04:03,840 --> 01:04:05,800 Speaker 1: show up to your door and you're gonna be able 1235 01:04:05,800 --> 01:04:09,720 Speaker 1: to discover all these good items and it's for It's 1236 01:04:09,760 --> 01:04:13,080 Speaker 1: a great value. That is fabtid fund dot com. Use 1237 01:04:13,120 --> 01:04:16,840 Speaker 1: our promo code almost Famous. It really is a fast fund. 1238 01:04:17,040 --> 01:04:19,280 Speaker 1: The box I was, you know, I was a little 1239 01:04:19,280 --> 01:04:21,360 Speaker 1: critical of it at first because I you know, I 1240 01:04:21,440 --> 01:04:23,960 Speaker 1: saw just a lot of my friends kind of using it, 1241 01:04:24,000 --> 01:04:26,200 Speaker 1: and I would see it show up to the house sometimes. 1242 01:04:26,280 --> 01:04:29,520 Speaker 1: And after receiving the box myself and being able to 1243 01:04:29,560 --> 01:04:31,520 Speaker 1: give it out a guest, I I really love the 1244 01:04:31,560 --> 01:04:34,000 Speaker 1: fact that fund box. I really think that you know, 1245 01:04:34,040 --> 01:04:38,120 Speaker 1: I might put my guarantee behind it to any of 1246 01:04:38,120 --> 01:04:39,919 Speaker 1: our listeners out through the order of the box, because 1247 01:04:39,960 --> 01:04:41,480 Speaker 1: I think once you order it, you're gonna realize how 1248 01:04:41,520 --> 01:04:44,000 Speaker 1: great it actually is, and you're gonna keep ordering it. 1249 01:04:44,120 --> 01:04:46,600 Speaker 1: It's that awesome. Actually, I know you have one last 1250 01:04:46,640 --> 01:04:48,880 Speaker 1: email for me. Please read it, and then we're gonna 1251 01:04:48,880 --> 01:04:50,760 Speaker 1: say goodbye to our good old listeners out there because 1252 01:04:50,760 --> 01:04:53,760 Speaker 1: they've been great. Okay, so this is from Carrie and 1253 01:04:53,800 --> 01:04:56,760 Speaker 1: I really like this question. It's pretty much designed for you. 1254 01:04:57,560 --> 01:05:00,080 Speaker 1: Um they say, Hey, Ben, Ashley and Amy, you're so 1255 01:05:00,160 --> 01:05:02,040 Speaker 1: fun to listen to. I have one silly question that 1256 01:05:02,080 --> 01:05:03,880 Speaker 1: I've had for years, so I'm really hoping you have 1257 01:05:03,920 --> 01:05:06,720 Speaker 1: a quick secord to answer it. How much are the 1258 01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:10,440 Speaker 1: leads a k. The badchel of the bachelorettes involved in 1259 01:05:10,520 --> 01:05:13,320 Speaker 1: planning the one one date. I don't think I've ever 1260 01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:15,920 Speaker 1: heard alreadys say it yet. This year, I feel like 1261 01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:18,120 Speaker 1: we often hear them saying something like I have a 1262 01:05:18,120 --> 01:05:21,640 Speaker 1: fun day plan for us, or something that infers that 1263 01:05:21,720 --> 01:05:24,960 Speaker 1: they actually planned the date. Do they plan the date 1264 01:05:25,040 --> 01:05:28,040 Speaker 1: for you? Do the producers give you options to choose from? 1265 01:05:28,160 --> 01:05:30,280 Speaker 1: Been really curious about this? Keep up the good work. 1266 01:05:30,320 --> 01:05:35,160 Speaker 1: You're very entertaining. Carry from Utah. Tell us did they 1267 01:05:35,160 --> 01:05:37,080 Speaker 1: tell you what? Did they ask you what you want 1268 01:05:37,120 --> 01:05:38,640 Speaker 1: to do at the beginning of the season and then 1269 01:05:38,680 --> 01:05:42,320 Speaker 1: they kind of arrange the dates around your interests? Yeah, 1270 01:05:42,360 --> 01:05:44,320 Speaker 1: so that Yeah, you're your spot on Athley. So what 1271 01:05:44,400 --> 01:05:47,000 Speaker 1: happened is this at the beginning of the season once 1272 01:05:47,040 --> 01:05:49,480 Speaker 1: he announced to the Bachelor, the producers calling, you have 1273 01:05:49,560 --> 01:05:52,000 Speaker 1: this big old meeting with everybody involved, all the big 1274 01:05:52,040 --> 01:05:56,080 Speaker 1: talking heads, and they say, you know, bachelor or Bachelor arette, 1275 01:05:56,120 --> 01:05:58,120 Speaker 1: what do you like to do? And the Bachelor at 1276 01:05:58,280 --> 01:06:00,439 Speaker 1: or Backer goes, I like to fish, I the hike, 1277 01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:03,800 Speaker 1: I like to race cars whatever that is. And you 1278 01:06:03,920 --> 01:06:05,840 Speaker 1: name off all this stuff and then they say, okay, 1279 01:06:05,840 --> 01:06:07,520 Speaker 1: if you could make these in the dates, what would 1280 01:06:07,520 --> 01:06:09,920 Speaker 1: those ideal dates be? And you give them an example 1281 01:06:09,960 --> 01:06:12,080 Speaker 1: of all the ideal dates that you would love to have, right, 1282 01:06:12,120 --> 01:06:15,280 Speaker 1: and all your all your favorite musicians. You know, my season, 1283 01:06:15,280 --> 01:06:18,280 Speaker 1: amos Lee was there. Love amos Lee as you can 1284 01:06:18,280 --> 01:06:20,800 Speaker 1: see if you remember, he actually came on the season like, Hey, 1285 01:06:20,880 --> 01:06:22,960 Speaker 1: I love amos Lee. I think he's a great artist. 1286 01:06:23,160 --> 01:06:25,800 Speaker 1: They made that happen. Now here's a little behind the 1287 01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:28,600 Speaker 1: scenes truth I'm gonna be able to personally name off 1288 01:06:29,680 --> 01:06:31,800 Speaker 1: ten things at most that I really love to do, 1289 01:06:31,920 --> 01:06:33,400 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna be able to come up with about 1290 01:06:33,760 --> 01:06:36,600 Speaker 1: at most five to ten dates that I could like 1291 01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:39,760 Speaker 1: definitely plan myself. There's a whole team of people on 1292 01:06:39,800 --> 01:06:42,000 Speaker 1: the bach player that kind of take these ideas, but 1293 01:06:42,040 --> 01:06:46,240 Speaker 1: the Bachelor bachelayer at give and explode them into these incredible, 1294 01:06:46,280 --> 01:06:48,880 Speaker 1: cool dates that you could never imagine or dream of. 1295 01:06:49,000 --> 01:06:51,720 Speaker 1: So I would say that the bachelord Bachelor I have 1296 01:06:51,760 --> 01:06:53,720 Speaker 1: a lot of day in the dates in terms of 1297 01:06:53,760 --> 01:06:56,280 Speaker 1: planning and kind of the idea of it, but there's 1298 01:06:56,320 --> 01:06:58,600 Speaker 1: a whole team of people to help it operate and 1299 01:06:58,600 --> 01:07:00,400 Speaker 1: help it go on. Like there's no way he went 1300 01:07:00,440 --> 01:07:02,920 Speaker 1: out and found a yacht that he could cruise on. 1301 01:07:03,080 --> 01:07:05,120 Speaker 1: You know, that's just not gonna happen. That's not that's 1302 01:07:05,120 --> 01:07:07,800 Speaker 1: not that's impossible to do. So there's a team of 1303 01:07:07,800 --> 01:07:10,760 Speaker 1: people that helped him do that. Um and and honestly, 1304 01:07:10,800 --> 01:07:13,960 Speaker 1: after a while, the dates aren't as important as just 1305 01:07:14,040 --> 01:07:16,080 Speaker 1: the moment that the date to bring about, And so 1306 01:07:16,120 --> 01:07:17,880 Speaker 1: you're just excited to be with the person and that's 1307 01:07:17,880 --> 01:07:19,440 Speaker 1: all you really care about. You don't want to stress 1308 01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:22,960 Speaker 1: about planning the date. Um, So over time you kind 1309 01:07:23,000 --> 01:07:25,080 Speaker 1: of like step away from the date planning process and 1310 01:07:25,080 --> 01:07:26,880 Speaker 1: you're more just focused on Okay, who am I bringing 1311 01:07:26,920 --> 01:07:28,760 Speaker 1: on the day? You know what I want to talk 1312 01:07:28,800 --> 01:07:30,240 Speaker 1: to him about, what I want to get to know 1313 01:07:30,320 --> 01:07:33,600 Speaker 1: from him, that kind of thing. Um. And so anytime 1314 01:07:33,640 --> 01:07:35,720 Speaker 1: I watched the show, I know that Ari or whoever 1315 01:07:35,720 --> 01:07:38,440 Speaker 1: the bachelorre at is or whoever the Bachelor's probably came 1316 01:07:38,480 --> 01:07:40,840 Speaker 1: up with some of the ideas, but not all of them. Um. 1317 01:07:40,880 --> 01:07:43,560 Speaker 1: But now the bachelor and bachelor's job is to make 1318 01:07:43,600 --> 01:07:45,640 Speaker 1: the most of whatever date there on. That's my thoughts. 1319 01:07:45,960 --> 01:07:49,600 Speaker 1: There you go. Alright, guys, well we love you. Email 1320 01:07:49,640 --> 01:07:54,600 Speaker 1: more questions or compliments or um. 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That's what we prefer. 1331 01:08:27,080 --> 01:08:31,240 Speaker 1: Um emails, all your questions that actually said, Hey, we 1332 01:08:31,360 --> 01:08:34,479 Speaker 1: love you guys. Yeah. Thank you to Really Great, So Great, 1333 01:08:34,520 --> 01:08:37,200 Speaker 1: I love this episode. Thank you to Melody from People 1334 01:08:37,320 --> 01:08:40,200 Speaker 1: Magazine for shutting some light on the missing Becca story. 1335 01:08:40,640 --> 01:08:43,200 Speaker 1: Thank you to Jack, our ten year old Bachelor critic. 1336 01:08:43,439 --> 01:08:45,519 Speaker 1: Maybe he can fill in for Ben when he's a 1337 01:08:45,560 --> 01:08:49,080 Speaker 1: Honduras that would be awesome. And thanks to you guys 1338 01:08:49,400 --> 01:08:54,120 Speaker 1: for listening so so much. Yeah, we appreciate you. Be, 1339 01:08:54,680 --> 01:09:00,320 Speaker 1: We appreciate you, and I've been Ashley Bye. 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