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Speaker 1: What's up y'all? Is your girl lex p and is

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Speaker 1: Sugarl dre and the Cold and.

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Speaker 2: You are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mind.

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Speaker 3: Where a drunk mind speaks sober thought.

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Speaker 2: We are finally here on a solo episode What's up, Girl, and.

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Speaker 3: We see next to each other, reunited.

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Speaker 2: Its sitting across It is because I feel like sometimes

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Speaker 2: I just gotta touch you and see what type of

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Speaker 2: time you won't Why cause I gotta know, because like

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Speaker 2: usually when you're warm, that means you're gonna be nice

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Speaker 2: today when the little chubby fingers are cold, I know

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Speaker 2: that ice queen coming out.

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Speaker 4: Girls shut up, No, but I do think I do

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Speaker 4: agree with our listeners to a certain They said, I

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Speaker 4: do think we should sit on the coat.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yo, because you know why we can't sit on

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Speaker 2: the couch together, because we're not gonna talk to them.

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Speaker 1: Yes we are, No, we're notice we.

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Speaker 5: Are, No, we won't.

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Speaker 2: That's why when we were at the old studio, the

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Speaker 2: guests literally have to sit in between middles because right here.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's a little too close we have.

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Speaker 5: Now we'll have him in the middle.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll get.

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Speaker 1: So what you went up to, girl?

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Speaker 3: You know, new year, new same bitch, Same bitch.

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Speaker 4: Still I ain't drinking. I'm drinking me a little mocktail today.

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Speaker 1: You are good for you.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing a fast to twenty one day fast.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so what is your fast?

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Speaker 5: Consist of.

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Speaker 1: A few things.

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Speaker 4: So I work out four times a week, which is

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Speaker 4: not really hard for me.

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Speaker 3: So I work out four times a week.

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Speaker 4: No social media before twelve, no social media after eight.

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Speaker 4: I'm intermittent intermitted fast thing from that's.

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Speaker 5: A big word, bitch.

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Speaker 1: Yeah no, that's right.

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Speaker 3: From twelve pm to eight pm. So I can't eat

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Speaker 3: after eight, can't eat before twelve pm.

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Speaker 1: It's drinking this bitch.

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Speaker 3: It is obviously no drinking.

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Speaker 1: I can't drink.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing a daily devotion in prayer every day.

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Speaker 1: God is good.

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Speaker 4: Also, I've also committed myself to listening to thirty minutes

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Speaker 4: to an hour of an audio book or info podcast.

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Speaker 5: Info podcast okay, good.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I've been listening to the shopify Master's podcast.

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Speaker 3: You know, trying to get that money.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to be a shopify master.

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Speaker 4: You know people that have really successful e commerce business.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, So there's more so telling like a marketing

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Speaker 2: stuff let me to Mike.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that makes sense. I like that.

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Speaker 4: So I've just been, you know, trying to make the

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Speaker 4: most of my mornings. I wake up every day at

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Speaker 4: seven in the morning and then I can't eat until twelve.

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Speaker 4: So that's been the most challenging thing about the fact.

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Speaker 1: So are you trying to lose weight? I am.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So I'm like one sixty five right now. I want

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Speaker 4: to get down to like one fifty eight. Okay, one

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Speaker 4: fifty seven.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: For the New Year, I had a lot of New

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Speaker 2: Year's resolutions, but my main one has just been, like

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Speaker 1: Hm. So I've been working out.

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Speaker 2: I've been super consistent, which I'm really proud of myself.

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Speaker 1: I said my next like, I'm dating again.

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Speaker 5: You know, I'm getting back out there.

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Speaker 2: So another one of my New Year's resolutions was to

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Speaker 2: not suck dick so soon.

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Speaker 1: And I've done a really good job, all right.

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Speaker 5: I have not sucked dick this year.

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Speaker 3: Today is literally like to day.

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Speaker 4: Today is literally like the second.

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Speaker 3: It does not matter once. It's like the third month

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Speaker 2: Then literally Okay, bitch, now you're being too motherfuckering strict.

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Speaker 2: This ain't your devotion, bitch, let's check in three months.

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Speaker 2: So I think I've done a good job with my

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Speaker 2: New Year's resolutions so far. Yeah, I'm just kind of

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Speaker 1: Mind frame on, you know, the dating scene. So we're gonna,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna see what is what is talking about? You

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: I've been eating healthy, but I always eat healthy healthy.

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Speaker 5: It's easy for me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not like something that's like super super hard.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, girl, that's what I've been you know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's why I didn't even say that part. It's

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Speaker 4: part of my fast because I feel like I do

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Speaker 3: So energized every day, like I do not be tired.

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Speaker 4: And so how long you're gonna keep up the no drinking?

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Speaker 4: I don't try to do thirty days.

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Speaker 3: Wow, I think that's the only thing I'm gonna try

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Speaker 1: Thirty days, Like I do that, bitch. Okay, So but you.

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Speaker 4: Know I always do fast and like give up drinking

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Speaker 4: for a little bit every year drink.

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Speaker 3: That you're good, my little mocktail good.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so we got taught the bartender in the buildings,

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Speaker 2: I can tie. Yeah, okay, tip, this shit good.

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Speaker 5: It's giving me like beach vibes.

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Speaker 3: What am I drinking today?

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Speaker 1: Yes? Mmm mm hm yes, let's have we have, we have,

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Speaker 4: Mmm.

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Speaker 3: Yes this is very delicious.

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Speaker 1: We have mmm.

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Speaker 2: You know it's crazy. I really don't like sweet drinks.

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Speaker 2: I'm like a person like I drink tito straight with

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Speaker 1: But this is really good. And you you're from Atlanta.

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Speaker 2: Well, I was just asking because all the I guess

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Speaker 2: it makes sense though, because all the drinks seem to

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Speaker 1: But we in Atlanta, so that.

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Speaker 3: Makes yeah, Okay.

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Speaker 1: You gotta make me a drink like a Chicago deep dish.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you feel me are.

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Speaker 3: Like a Taxis tree.

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Speaker 2: Oh we need a Texas trill. We kind of like,

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Speaker 2: So anyway, so yeah, this drink is really really good.

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Speaker 2: I don't have dry months because I just don't want to.

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Speaker 2: I'm never gonna stop drinking. I'm never gonna not drink.

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Speaker 1: It's just a part.

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Speaker 2: It's a lifestyle, and you either bout it, are you not?

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Speaker 2: And I'm no quitter.

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Speaker 3: I feel it.

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Speaker 4: I think that it's good sometimes to refrain from certain things.

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Speaker 3: For a little bit. You know, it's just for me.

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Speaker 4: I like to challenge myself and I like to prove

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Speaker 4: also my drinking is not that hard for me. I

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Speaker 2: So I don't drink like that. But if I really

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, it's like to detox and then also too,

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Speaker 4: you know, like drinking being up the number one reason

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Speaker 5: Did you know that detoxing isn't real?

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Speaker 1: What do you mean? I saw? I don't know if

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I saw something like a doctor said, there's no

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Speaker 2: really such thing as like detoxing.

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Speaker 1: Your body, like of course, you know, you.

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Speaker 2: Can start eating healthy and doing things, but there's nothing

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Speaker 4: I don't know, I disagree with that because you know,

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Speaker 1: You don't believe where'd you get your PhD?

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Speaker 3: What you said?

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Speaker 1: I mean, so I'm just asking, I'm just paying.

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Speaker 4: You know, I'm saying I don't. I don't believe that

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Speaker 4: be doing all of these different little detoxes and stuff,

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Speaker 4: like I said, like the parasite cleans and it be

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Speaker 1: It's like I think it's just the word.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know, I don't really like to get

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Speaker 2: I think for me, I'm just all about my lifestyle

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Speaker 4: I'm just I think you have to find things that

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Speaker 4: called the five second Rule, amazing book.

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Speaker 3: If you struggle with have you read that book before?

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Speaker 1: Yes? What's the five second rule?

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Speaker 4: Basically you hunt down from five to one and as

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Speaker 4: soon as you get to one. No exactly exactly, but

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Speaker 4: if you really try to use it and apply it

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Speaker 4: really do work because you're not giving your because basically,

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Speaker 4: I guess the theory is you have five sickonds from

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Speaker 4: you feel like and your feelings kick in and you're like, Okay,

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Speaker 4: I don't feel like doing this. But if you take

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Speaker 4: down to one, you actually just do.

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Speaker 2: That could actually harm people though how I'm not say something, but.

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Speaker 1: Because like, honestly, if you if I think.

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Speaker 2: About doing something and I count down because you said

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Speaker 2: I got to count down.

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Speaker 4: From five to one not one, you can't do one

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Speaker 2: Right, Okay, so I have five. Like if I say, oh,

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Speaker 2: Smoke this crack rock five four three two one, The

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Speaker 2: first issue is, bitch, why do you have a crack

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Speaker 2: rock in your position too?

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Speaker 3: Smoke?

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Speaker 1: Life gets hard?

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Speaker 3: Okay, you don't never get that hard.

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Speaker 2: But I'll say, okay, well let me say this. Sometimes

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Speaker 2: I'll be like, I'm not gonna lie to you. The

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Speaker 2: reason I'm asking because I've been in this situation before.

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Speaker 2: I need I've never heard of the five second rule.

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Speaker 3: You should read the book or listen to an article.

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Speaker 2: Like when I was younger and I would like be

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Speaker 2: messing around with a guy and like he wasn't making

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Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, bitch, just do it just like five

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Speaker 1: Five O three two one.

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Speaker 2: That can get me in trouble wow, because I'm on

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Speaker 2: a dry dick January.

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Speaker 4: Okay, but you could use you But you could also

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Speaker 4: apply the rule in a positive way like five four

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Speaker 4: I don't want to fuck this.

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Speaker 2: I don't need I don't want to look at it

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Speaker 2: in a positive way.

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Speaker 5: That's born.

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Speaker 4: See it's a new year, beach. Okay, you're supposed to

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Speaker 1: Okay, so I'll try the correct way it.

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Speaker 3: Should So I feel like it could keep you from

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Speaker 3: doing something that you're not ready to do. Well, you're

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Speaker 1: Where is the fun?

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Speaker 4: Everything is not supposed to be fun the street, God

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Speaker 4: dam But you're like to have discipline?

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Speaker 1: Maybe, yes, I needed to rub off on me. Let's

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Speaker 1: get into these motherfucking topics.

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Speaker 2: Go ahead with the first one because I don't even

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Speaker 2: know what this is, but I feel like I've done

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Speaker 2: it before.

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Speaker 1: Beat me too.

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Speaker 4: Imagination ships, That's what I want to talk about, Imagination ships.

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Speaker 4: I feel like so many people be in fake relationships

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Speaker 4: with people, and y'all not really in a.

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Speaker 1: Relationship, you know what.

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Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of people do. And the

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Speaker 2: what's really fucking going on. So you're like, Okay, this

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Speaker 2: nigga comes to your house, he stayed to night, You

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Speaker 2: to go to work, all that stuff. So when your head,

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Speaker 2: you're like, okay, we're doing relationship type shit.

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Speaker 5: This is my nigga.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, whole time, he just like shit, she just cooked.

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Speaker 5: Thank you appreciate it. You know she cool or whatever

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Speaker 5: like that.

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Speaker 2: So you're asking your friends are asking you. Okay, so

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Speaker 2: you and day day, what y'all doing? Oh, girl, that's

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Speaker 2: my man. He stayed the night.

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Speaker 1: I cooked him breakfast. You know that he be staying.

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Speaker 1: I ain't going to work for my house. Blah blah blah.

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Speaker 1: Whole time his friend's asking him, Oh, what's up with

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Speaker 1: you with Shamikua? You know what she got.

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Speaker 3: Mental illness?

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Speaker 1: But it's the truth.

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Speaker 4: No, it's nice's imagination. But that's no right, right, right.

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Speaker 4: But I'm saying, do you know what? But you also

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Speaker 4: call it mental illness because at the end of the day,

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Speaker 4: at thirty one years old, I have came to the

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Speaker 4: realization you're not in a relationship with a nigga. A

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Speaker 4: list y'all sit down and have a conversation, and he

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Speaker 4: asked you to be his girlfriend, and y'all agree that

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Speaker 4: y'all are in a relationship.

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Speaker 1: But you know mutually.

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Speaker 2: One thing that I love about poor minds and the growth.

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Speaker 2: First of all, we have cards.

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Speaker 4: It's very I'll be trying to tell y'all it is

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Speaker 4: very professional around this.

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Speaker 3: Motherfucker week, but very professional.

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Speaker 2: Well, I will say the growth about this show is

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Speaker 2: because I can honestly look back and say, you know what,

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Speaker 2: I added a gas in the fire on certain things

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Speaker 5: Me wrong, I am my man, my man, my man.

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Speaker 1: Very much that. But he has to actually be your man, ok.

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Speaker 2: Absolute, he has to actually be your man because like

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Speaker 2: do he know man?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah? And I feel like we need to stop

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Speaker 1: doing that.

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Speaker 2: Like it's funny and it's cute, but like we can

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Speaker 2: all take a joke, but sometimes y'all be taking a

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Speaker 2: joke too far, Like we we don't need to be

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Speaker 2: really calling people our man if that's really not our man, like.

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Speaker 4: Cause that m ain't scared nigga way too before he

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Speaker 4: even can become your man, because you are already.

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Speaker 2: But not only that, you're setting yourself up for heartbreak.

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Speaker 2: Well how so, because if you're calling somebody your man,

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Speaker 2: that's not your man and he do something that a

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Speaker 2: fuck you up because you're gonna you are thinking that

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Speaker 2: y'all are more serious than what y'all are.

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Speaker 4: So really, this conversation did need to be about imaginationships.

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Speaker 3: It really needs to be how can bitch is not

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Speaker 3: be delusional?

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Speaker 1: I don't know because I be a delusional ass bitch?

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Speaker 3: What I have been a delusional ass too?

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Speaker 5: I too?

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Speaker 3: But you know about how can you stop?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 3: How can be stop being delusional?

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Speaker 1: You know what's so crazy? I can't tell you we

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Speaker 1: not in no relationship.

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Speaker 4: No, but I'm saying, if it nigga tell me that

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Speaker 4: I ain't that damn delusional, I would be like, okay, I,

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Speaker 4: but I feel like you have women out here who

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Speaker 4: will tell him.

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Speaker 3: Example, a Nikki Parker.

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Speaker 1: Ended up because he was sitting her the wrong signals. No,

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Speaker 1: he was bitch in what world? Then? Why he married her?

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Speaker 3: From one delusional bitch to or nothing?

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Speaker 1: The why he married her? Bitch?

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Speaker 4: She married her way down the line because she literally

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Speaker 1: That sucked the line. He gave up.

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Speaker 3: He said, you know what, fucking.

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Speaker 1: Some fucking facts here.

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Speaker 2: Nicki Parker was too good for Professor Ogilby.

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Speaker 1: Bitch. She will elaborate she was a good woman.

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Speaker 4: How do we based off of what les I should

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Speaker 4: have to say this? And I'm this is a little

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Speaker 4: I've seen this tweet about baby boy. Okay, this man

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Speaker 4: had retweeted the picture of Jaudy and Pandora and he

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Speaker 4: was like, Joudy dumb because he.

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Speaker 3: Should have stuck stuck with her because she was a

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Speaker 4: She had her own house, she had her own Oh,

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Speaker 4: she was tripping on him.

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Speaker 1: She used to be rich.

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Speaker 4: She would have had his plate ready when he came

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Speaker 4: home from a long day of bootlegging. Like they had

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Speaker 4: made up the whole They made up this whole scenario

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Speaker 4: about this lady that was in the fucking movie for

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Speaker 4: fifty three seconds like.

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Speaker 3: This, we don't know nothing about this lady.

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Speaker 1: First of all, yes we do.

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Speaker 2: I am an avid watcher of the Parkers and Nikki

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Speaker 2: was a good friend.

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Speaker 3: But what makes you think she was a good woman,

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Speaker 3: because when it comes to Davy, how did she come today? Conclusion?

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Speaker 1: Well, first of all, I can't remember the dude name.

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Speaker 2: That she was dating, the man with the gray hair,

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Speaker 2: him too, She was good to him, whatever he she

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Speaker 2: used to cook have game night, all that fun stat

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Speaker 2: a bottle of alice day Wayne, and you know that

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Speaker 2: Kochie was warm, hot and reddy.

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Speaker 1: She was a good one.

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Speaker 2: She had, she did and anytime her friends needed her,

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Speaker 2: she was always down.

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Speaker 1: She was a ride or die.

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Speaker 2: She was dating the god before Professor Ogilvie proposed to her,

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Speaker 2: and he loved her down on the gray No, that

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Speaker 1: It was the dude that was on soul Food.

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Speaker 2: I think I can't remember his name, but it wasn't

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Speaker 2: the dude with the gray hair. He was from another

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Speaker 2: season I think, or earlier. But all I'm trying to

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Speaker 2: say is every man that Nikki Parker dated was obsessed

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Speaker 4: But it's a true telltale sign of like delusion on women,

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Speaker 4: because it's always like that every nigga a girl date

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Speaker 3: The one that don't. We always won, except for the

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Speaker 2: Right, I think we always to a certain extent want

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Speaker 2: the time. You will pop your toes in a nigga mouth,

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Speaker 2: suck his balls, he licking on your nipple, your little coaching,

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Speaker 2: can't ask what.

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Speaker 3: What type of six you'll be having an elbow in

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Speaker 2: It gets a little crazy now, hot dog, hot dog,

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Speaker 2: hot up right. But what I'm saying is you can

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Speaker 2: but you want to draw the line.

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Speaker 3: Niggas booby meet to me, meat to.

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Speaker 2: Me, balooney to balooney. But you want to draw the

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Speaker 2: line when it's time to have a conversation. Yeah you know,

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00:19:51,640 --> 00:19:53,480
Speaker 2: you know sometimes no, okay.

450
00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:56,199
Speaker 3: No explanation, need it.

451
00:19:56,560 --> 00:19:59,480
Speaker 1: But I don't need it. I need it a little baloney.

452
00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:02,000
Speaker 2: But I just think it's crazy that you'll draw the

453
00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:04,440
Speaker 2: line on when it's time to have a conversation on okay, what.

454
00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:04,840
Speaker 1: Are we doing?

455
00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:07,920
Speaker 2: And we also need to have conversations in the beginning

456
00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:10,720
Speaker 2: of dating somebody on what your intentions are. I'm letting

457
00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:12,159
Speaker 2: every nigga know I.

458
00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:13,960
Speaker 1: Don't care if you're just taking me out to drinks

459
00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:14,880
Speaker 1: at Chili's, bitch.

460
00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:17,160
Speaker 2: I want a man, what you want to drink A man,

461
00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:19,600
Speaker 2: I'm letting them know what the fuck is on.

462
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Speaker 4: I agree with you one hundred percent for sure. I

463
00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:26,919
Speaker 4: think that people are definitely afraid to have conversations that

464
00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:27,720
Speaker 4: are much needed.

465
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Speaker 3: I ain't never afraid to let.

466
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Speaker 2: Somebody know what you expect, what you want, what you need.

467
00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:35,520
Speaker 2: That will stop a lot of the delusion and a

468
00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:39,000
Speaker 2: lot of imaginationships. But also men need to stop lying

469
00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:41,520
Speaker 2: and men need to be honest. A lot of times

470
00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:43,920
Speaker 2: they'll leave women on, they'll lot to them just because

471
00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:50,000
Speaker 2: they don't want to lose their best eater. And a

472
00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:52,520
Speaker 2: man lost me, and I know I was his best eater.

473
00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:55,159
Speaker 2: He hurt right now, he hurt. He don't know what

474
00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:57,320
Speaker 2: to do, but that's what happened.

475
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Speaker 4: I think that a lot of the time too, though,

476
00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:03,800
Speaker 4: Women just be wanting to believe what they want to believe.

477
00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:06,600
Speaker 4: Nobody can't convince me otherwise. And I'm not even just

478
00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:09,359
Speaker 4: saying women humans in general. Like sometimes people just want

479
00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:11,479
Speaker 4: to believe what they want to believe. I think niggas

480
00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:14,000
Speaker 4: be lying, but I think sometimes niggas be telling me

481
00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:14,840
Speaker 4: she's the truth that.

482
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Speaker 2: They I agree with that, but there are there are

483
00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:20,160
Speaker 2: situations where men very much lie.

484
00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:23,840
Speaker 1: They're they're trying to they want you around, but they

485
00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:25,040
Speaker 1: just don't want you to be the girl.

486
00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:27,360
Speaker 2: They're like cool with you, they don't want you to leave,

487
00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:30,840
Speaker 2: they'd else. They don't want you to fuck with somebody else,

488
00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:31,960
Speaker 2: but they don't want the commitment.

489
00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:34,359
Speaker 1: But it's like when do we as women?

490
00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:36,360
Speaker 4: But I feel like if a nigga have not committed

491
00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:38,240
Speaker 4: to you, and you know y'all are not in a

492
00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:42,440
Speaker 4: committed relationship, then where is the disconnect coming from?

493
00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:43,960
Speaker 3: Like, if a nigga haven't told you we.

494
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Speaker 4: Committee we get there, I don't feel like they're leading

495
00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:49,880
Speaker 4: you on, give you.

496
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Speaker 1: Hope that y'all are gonna we gonna see and we're

497
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Speaker 1: gonna see, We're gonna see were growing were building.

498
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Speaker 4: I mean sometimes girls be with niggas for like ten

499
00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:04,919
Speaker 4: years and then they finally get a ring, So I

500
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:06,160
Speaker 4: mean they do be building.

501
00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:07,920
Speaker 1: I'm not building ship, bitch.

502
00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:08,480
Speaker 3: Ten years.

503
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Speaker 1: You don't build the Impire state building. Bitch, Get your

504
00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:13,160
Speaker 1: ass on ten years?

505
00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:14,119
Speaker 2: Why I'm not.

506
00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:16,600
Speaker 4: I can't be in a relationship for longer than like

507
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Speaker 4: two years.

508
00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:19,639
Speaker 3: How long they haven't pressed? Okay, so how long are

509
00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:20,119
Speaker 3: you waiting?

510
00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:21,920
Speaker 2: Like if you if you're do you want to be

511
00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:24,480
Speaker 2: in a relationship this year or is that okay? How

512
00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:27,359
Speaker 2: long are you talking to somebody or dating somebody until

513
00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:29,600
Speaker 2: you feel like they playing on your top because they

514
00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:30,359
Speaker 2: haven't committed to you.

515
00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:34,199
Speaker 3: Hmmm, I don't know.

516
00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:36,959
Speaker 4: To me, that's like a tricky question because I also

517
00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:39,680
Speaker 4: I don't want to give things a time limit, because

518
00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:41,240
Speaker 4: I also don't want you to be with me because

519
00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:45,920
Speaker 4: you feel like you gotta be like because I put it, yeah,

520
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:48,159
Speaker 4: like because I made you feel like we gotta be

521
00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:50,800
Speaker 4: in a relationship, you like with Fuki, she said, we

522
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:52,439
Speaker 4: gotta be in a relationship, And I don't want to

523
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:54,440
Speaker 4: lose too, so I'm gonna just get in a relationship

524
00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:56,600
Speaker 4: with her. I don't want to be in no situation

525
00:22:56,840 --> 00:22:59,600
Speaker 4: like that either. I feel like you just gotta let

526
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:01,959
Speaker 4: somebody you do things on their own time. But I

527
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:05,320
Speaker 4: feel like when niggas know, they know, they know. I

528
00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 4: don't think that that I don't think that's saying is

529
00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 4: a sham. I don't think there's some shit. I think

530
00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:11,800
Speaker 4: when a nigga want to be with you, when he

531
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:13,639
Speaker 4: want to be in a relationship and he feel like

532
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:16,200
Speaker 4: you're the one that he want to be we he knows.

533
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Speaker 1: I am thirty three years old.

534
00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 6: So.

535
00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:22,040
Speaker 3: After a year or two, thank you were still not together.

536
00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:24,760
Speaker 2: All I'm saying is like, I'm thirty three. I've been

537
00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:27,880
Speaker 2: dating since I was three. That's thirty years.

538
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:31,400
Speaker 1: I've been in and out of people's lives. One thing

539
00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:34,680
Speaker 1: I know is a man gonna know. He knows.

540
00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:38,000
Speaker 2: So honestly, I feel like, as long as the relationship

541
00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:40,800
Speaker 2: is always growing, especially in the beginning stages.

542
00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:40,960
Speaker 1: I'm cool.

543
00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:41,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, me too.

544
00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:43,639
Speaker 1: I'm cool. As long as we're not doing that.

545
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:46,159
Speaker 2: If we're doing the same shit at six months that

546
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 2: we were doing at the first month, I'm really not

547
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:49,560
Speaker 2: with that anymore.

548
00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 1: Yeah.

549
00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:53,160
Speaker 4: And I'm also just not in a rush to get

550
00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:55,200
Speaker 4: in a relationship too, because there's plenty of people that

551
00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:58,359
Speaker 4: be in relationships and they being bullshit ass relationship unhappy.

552
00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:01,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, It's like, I think some people just want to

553
00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 3: be in a relationship because they feel like that they're.

554
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:04,399
Speaker 1: Scared of lonely.

555
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:07,159
Speaker 4: Well, they scared a lonely into a lot of people.

556
00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:10,480
Speaker 4: A title just makes them feel better and it makes

557
00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 4: them feel better to be a girlfriend, right, And I

558
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:16,240
Speaker 4: don't really care so much about that, Like, because you

559
00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:18,639
Speaker 4: could be somebody girlfriend. But if they cheating on you

560
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:20,960
Speaker 4: all the time, and y'all relationship is fucked up, But

561
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:22,879
Speaker 4: what was the point in becoming the nigga girl? You

562
00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:25,360
Speaker 4: could have just stay one of the girls. He was dainty, right.

563
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 4: You know what's crazy too? My homeboy told me this

564
00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:30,120
Speaker 4: a long time ago. My friend Presston shout out to Preston.

565
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:32,400
Speaker 4: He probably don't even remember telling me this. He taught

566
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:33,000
Speaker 4: me a long time ago.

567
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:34,800
Speaker 2: He's like, it's crazy because a lot of women feel

568
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:36,800
Speaker 2: like because they had the title of a girlfriend, that

569
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:39,640
Speaker 2: they're over the next bitch because they feel like, Okay, yeah,

570
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 2: I had sex with him, but I was his girlfriend. Okay,

571
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 2: but y'all both got fucked and now you're no longer

572
00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 2: with him, it's still another body, you know. So I

573
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:48,560
Speaker 2: think a lot of times the title comes with you

574
00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 2: feeling like you're above somebody like and honestly, when it

575
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:55,520
Speaker 2: comes to the grand scheme of things, unless this is

576
00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:58,639
Speaker 2: your person and y'all end up married and together forever,

577
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,720
Speaker 2: all that shit, them little titles and stuff and the

578
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 2: grand scheme of things, it really low key kind of

579
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 2: don't matter.

580
00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, because the Bible don't say nothing. My boyfriend and girlfriend.

581
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 1: No, don't and you know you went to your devotion

582
00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:11,640
Speaker 1: and you go, so.

583
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 4: You I know you ain't lying for you really don't

584
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:18,439
Speaker 4: not to say and don't get me wrong, like not

585
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:21,440
Speaker 4: to say that I don't respect other like I don't

586
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:24,080
Speaker 4: respect the relationships and stuff like that. But I do

587
00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:26,840
Speaker 4: feel like you're not you're single until you're married.

588
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:28,720
Speaker 1: Can I ask you a question? Sure, this kind of

589
00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:30,399
Speaker 1: off topic. How do you feel about church?

590
00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 3: How do I feel about it? What do you like

591
00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:34,960
Speaker 3: in what's like?

592
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 1: Do you go to church?

593
00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 2: No?

594
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:39,160
Speaker 4: Had I used to go a lot, like I grew

595
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:42,679
Speaker 4: up in church, But since I've been living in Atlanta, No,

596
00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:43,480
Speaker 4: I don't go to church.

597
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:45,959
Speaker 3: I went to church like three times since I've been

598
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:46,360
Speaker 3: living here.

599
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:47,000
Speaker 1: That's why.

600
00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:51,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, sure, I just think as I've gotten older. First

601
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:55,520
Speaker 4: of all, I grew up Catholic, so I which I

602
00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:57,520
Speaker 4: feel like I've said a lot of times on the show.

603
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:00,399
Speaker 4: So I just feel like as I got older, a

604
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 4: lot of my personal beliefs didn't really align with the

605
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:06,200
Speaker 4: churches beliefs. But I like to think that I'm a

606
00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:09,160
Speaker 4: very spiritual person. Like, of course I believe in guy,

607
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:12,040
Speaker 4: I believe in a higher being, I just am not

608
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:13,639
Speaker 4: necessarily really gius.

609
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 5: Okay, I guess that.

610
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:17,240
Speaker 4: And I feel like a lot of church people be

611
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,480
Speaker 4: real hippocrees, you.

612
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:20,240
Speaker 1: Know what's crazy.

613
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 2: I really was like, I told myself, I'm gonna come

614
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:26,439
Speaker 2: become closer to God this year. I did, and I

615
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:28,080
Speaker 2: was like do And I was like do I want

616
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:29,800
Speaker 2: to start going to church again? And I was like really,

617
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:32,000
Speaker 2: the kind of like weighing the pros and the cons

618
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 2: about it, and I'm just not going to church.

619
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Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

620
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:37,639
Speaker 2: You can catch LEXP everywhere at your local hookah spot,

621
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:39,639
Speaker 2: at your local restaurant, but you won't catch me at

622
00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:40,359
Speaker 2: your local church.

623
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:43,720
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but why the hill? I'm not going?

624
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:46,400
Speaker 4: So for what reason did you decide that you're just.

625
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:48,439
Speaker 2: Not gonna I feel like a lot of times, and

626
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:50,280
Speaker 2: I don't want to offend anybody.

627
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 1: But a lot of times pastors be full of shit.

628
00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:56,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like pastors preach now for TikTok and to go viral,

629
00:26:57,400 --> 00:26:58,920
Speaker 2: and my nigga.

630
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:02,920
Speaker 1: Like shut up, shut up, literally shut up.

631
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:04,960
Speaker 5: They'd be like, you know what, you.

632
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:08,080
Speaker 2: Love God and you just want to rock body YadA yah,

633
00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 2: Well he put his body out of ya.

634
00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:10,159
Speaker 5: On the cross.

635
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:14,560
Speaker 2: It's like bruh, Like what are you talking about? Let's

636
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:16,200
Speaker 2: keep it real. And also I just feel like they're

637
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:18,880
Speaker 2: a middleman. You really a middle man to God? Move

638
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 2: your ass south.

639
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 3: The Wales I can't have.

640
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 2: I can have a one on one with a dog

641
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:26,919
Speaker 2: one on Yeah, I agree with it, for I do.

642
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,040
Speaker 2: So it's like, how are you gonna tell me how

643
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:30,720
Speaker 2: to praise the Lord when you up here?

644
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:31,960
Speaker 1: Body YadA ya.

645
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 3: And yeah, I can't agree.

646
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 1: I agree with that.

647
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:39,119
Speaker 4: I just wanted to make sure I wasn't tripping you

648
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 4: not you not, because I definitely feel like that's.

649
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:42,840
Speaker 1: Why I don't go.

650
00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:45,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, it just and church just gets a little weird

651
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:50,000
Speaker 2: for me sometimes, like it just gets I don't know,

652
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:52,400
Speaker 2: it kind of gets like cold tish a little bit sometimes,

653
00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:54,199
Speaker 2: like the way it's just a lot. It's just a

654
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:56,159
Speaker 2: lot for me. And I just feel like I like

655
00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 2: to praise the Lord on my own time chat.

656
00:27:58,119 --> 00:27:59,919
Speaker 3: I do too, And I just feel like you just go.

657
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:00,920
Speaker 1: To live your life.

658
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 4: I think it's so many people that don't just that

659
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,600
Speaker 4: they don't live their life because they go to like

660
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:08,720
Speaker 4: a cult like type, you know, so they feel like

661
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 4: they just have to do this and do that, and

662
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:13,240
Speaker 4: you do need to live your life a certain way.

663
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:14,760
Speaker 4: But I feel like as long as you just go

664
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:18,639
Speaker 4: by the normal foundational principles that you need to go

665
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:20,720
Speaker 4: buy in life, which is like being a good person,

666
00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:24,560
Speaker 4: not going to show way to fuck over people, you know,

667
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:27,640
Speaker 4: having having a relationship with God and all of these things,

668
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 4: I think you will be okay. Like I think that

669
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:32,120
Speaker 4: sometimes they just place way too much.

670
00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:32,800
Speaker 3: Pressure on people.

671
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:34,679
Speaker 4: Then you really need to because I'm gonna drink my

672
00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 4: Jesus juice and I'm a praising well.

673
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:37,960
Speaker 3: I mean, you know, in Ketuli Church.

674
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 4: We drunk wine, real wine, not that grape juice they

675
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:48,960
Speaker 4: be having at the Baptist church, we have real shit

676
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 4: from the bus.

677
00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 1: From the vineyards. That's as I was just wondering.

678
00:28:57,440 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 2: I know we got off topic with that, but but yeah,

679
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 2: I did say that was one of the things I

680
00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 2: wanted to get closer to God this year, So back

681
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 2: to imaginationships, were gonna work on that as well, and

682
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:10,640
Speaker 2: not do so much delusional and delusional things and have

683
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 2: real conversations.

684
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 4: No, yeah, because then, so like you said something in

685
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:16,120
Speaker 4: your friends sold you something that one of my friends

686
00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:19,160
Speaker 4: told me too. Is like if one of my male

687
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 4: friends if a nigga be hot and cold with you.

688
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 1: He just cold facts.

689
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:25,640
Speaker 4: He don't really fuck with you, right, Like it's not

690
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 4: no guessing game. People be like, oh, one day he's this,

691
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:28,960
Speaker 4: one day he's that.

692
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, because he's just not that into you, right, And

693
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 2: it's like, if he really into you, it's.

694
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 1: Always one thing. He's always gonna be men when they

695
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:39,680
Speaker 1: are into you, baby, they are into you, and it

696
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:40,239
Speaker 1: ain't no.

697
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:42,360
Speaker 2: And once you're like, and I'm talking about when you're

698
00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 2: past the honeymoon phase, like you know, I feel like

699
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 2: the first year of dealing with somebody, y'all are still

700
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 2: very much like y'all can't get enough of each other.

701
00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 2: So once your past that year and he's prete months.

702
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:56,200
Speaker 3: The honeymoon phase is probably done about three months.

703
00:29:57,160 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 1: I think the.

704
00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 2: Honeymoon phase usually last, I'll say, for me, about six

705
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 2: to eight months.

706
00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:02,640
Speaker 1: Now. I had a honeymoon.

707
00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 3: Faces for six months, and you know.

708
00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 1: That's my problem though, I'll be dealing with niggas too long.

709
00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 1: It'd be like past days.

710
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:13,280
Speaker 4: Maybe one striking you out at three strike, sweet, one strike,

711
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 4: you got to go.

712
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.

713
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:16,640
Speaker 2: There was a guy that I was kind of like

714
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:19,280
Speaker 2: talking to a little bit and I'm starting to do

715
00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 2: the one strike rule. He did one thing and I

716
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:22,960
Speaker 2: was like, yeah, you're done. You're fucking cause.

717
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:23,680
Speaker 3: If it's too early.

718
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:25,520
Speaker 4: This is my theory with that, because I know some

719
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:28,600
Speaker 4: people might be like, damn, she streaked this fuck. But

720
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:31,840
Speaker 4: I feel like if you do something in the beginning

721
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 4: and this is you already showing me who you are,

722
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:35,080
Speaker 4: it's already early.

723
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:36,720
Speaker 2: So let me go in here and cut. You gotta

724
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 2: look at it like this beginning. That in the beginning

725
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:41,960
Speaker 2: is like you just got a new job. You gonna

726
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:43,720
Speaker 2: show up late to your first day of work?

727
00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 1: No, bitch, you not right.

728
00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 4: So that shouldn't be having this is my opinion, and

729
00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:51,360
Speaker 4: I could be wrong in the.

730
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 3: First three months to Dayton, we shouldn't be having no problem.

731
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 2: If we arguing in the first three why we having problems.

732
00:30:56,880 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 1: I just made you. I don't met you.

733
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 4: That is a red flag to me. So you do

734
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:06,080
Speaker 4: one thing within the first three months, you're out of here.

735
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 2: Pal, you git fucking business, you get fucking business.

736
00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:18,239
Speaker 3: You know play, I don't fuck around fuck around here.

737
00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:23,360
Speaker 4: You're gonna find out the more you fuck around there.

738
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 2: Okay, but that actually goes into our next topic though,

739
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:29,480
Speaker 2: So the next time we're gonna talk about is like

740
00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 2: five reasons to break up or stop talking to somebody

741
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:33,959
Speaker 2: outside of cheating.

742
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 1: So, what are like.

743
00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:38,440
Speaker 2: Things that somebody can do that's just like a red

744
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 2: flag for you and you're cutting them off and it's no,

745
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 2: it's no talking about it.

746
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 3: You all grow people. Well, no, you're saying, why why

747
00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:49,160
Speaker 3: do we gotta not talk about it? Why we can't

748
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:49,720
Speaker 3: talk about what?

749
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 1: You mean?

750
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:51,760
Speaker 3: You say you cut them off and you just don't

751
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:52,240
Speaker 3: talk about it.

752
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 2: Well, you can't talk about it, but you're just like

753
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 2: if you're breaking up with somebody, that means y'all in

754
00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 2: a relationship. And when I say don't talk about it,

755
00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:01,560
Speaker 2: I mean like there's no negotiating.

756
00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:03,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's not like we going back and forth.

757
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 2: Maybe it's just like, nah, it ain't no beef we done.

758
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 1: It could be beef whatever.

759
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:11,520
Speaker 2: But these are reasons to stop talking to people outside

760
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 2: of cheating, trying, and dating.

761
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:16,680
Speaker 4: I think that you're as a person, you should always

762
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:19,000
Speaker 4: be constantly growing, constantly evolving.

763
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 3: If you're not evolving, what the fuck are you doing?

764
00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 5: Right?

765
00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 4: So I think sometimes people just outgrow people, Like when

766
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:27,560
Speaker 4: I got with you three years ago, we might have

767
00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:31,160
Speaker 4: been a match for each other, right, but now I've changed,

768
00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 4: I've grown, I'm a different person. You might have been

769
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:36,120
Speaker 4: stagnant and you're still the same person. You haven't really

770
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:38,960
Speaker 4: had no growth, and we just don't align no more.

771
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 3: And that's cool, it's okay.

772
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 4: I think that's one of the biggest problems with a

773
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 4: lot of people. People be wanting to stay with people

774
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 4: because they'd be like, oh, I've been with these persons

775
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:48,720
Speaker 4: for X amount of time, or maybe if I just

776
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:50,720
Speaker 4: stick it out with them, they'll grow and come to

777
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:53,040
Speaker 4: my level too, because I've grown. But it's like, no,

778
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 4: sometimes you out grow people, and it's okay to leave

779
00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 4: people in the past and leave them where they at.

780
00:32:58,160 --> 00:32:59,959
Speaker 3: And find somebody that match with you now.

781
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 2: Bro.

782
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 1: One for me is people don't keep their word.

783
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 2: Your word is everything that says a lot about your character.

784
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 1: And you know what I really.

785
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 2: Don't fucking like is when people offer to do something

786
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 2: or say they gonna do something and you didn't even

787
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 2: ask for this. They literally are volunteering to maybe do something,

788
00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:25,600
Speaker 2: show up for something, or you know, they say, oh,

789
00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be a better person to you, or you know,

790
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:30,160
Speaker 2: I just feel like I'm supposed to step up or

791
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 2: whatever the case may be, and then they just don't

792
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 2: do it. My nigga, I didn't ask you to do this.

793
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 2: You offered this. So people who can't keep they word,

794
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 2: that is the biggest red flat to me. So if

795
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 2: you say you're gonna do something and you don't show

796
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 2: up and you don't do it, that's no nothing cause

797
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 2: one thing about me.

798
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 1: I keep my word.

799
00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:50,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like no matter what, everybody no lexp

800
00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 2: gonna lie.

801
00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 1: I may cheat, might steal a little bit. You know,

802
00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 1: I'm not okay, But.

803
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 4: That's the reason to break up with yo, ass. That's

804
00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:04,680
Speaker 4: the reason for a nigga to leave you alone. What

805
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 4: you mean you steal a little bit?

806
00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 1: I mean not a lot, just a little, A little

807
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 1: bit you know I had. I was young. I'm gonna

808
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:12,080
Speaker 1: tell the story.

809
00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:16,239
Speaker 2: I'm a shame because I have, you know, asked God

810
00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:18,640
Speaker 2: for forgiveness with all man.

811
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:21,839
Speaker 4: You when you say you mean like stealing from like

812
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 4: a store or you stole from your nigga.

813
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:28,920
Speaker 1: I didn't steal from him, my ba. I took it

814
00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:32,160
Speaker 1: and then I told him later, So you stole it.

815
00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 1: I mean he was mad, he had like a stack.

816
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:38,319
Speaker 1: It was probably like a stack of like he had

817
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 1: two stacks of like ten thousand dollars in on the counter.

818
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:45,439
Speaker 2: I used to take a little little one two.

819
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:48,799
Speaker 1: He ain't noticed. I was like, oh no, he didn't know.

820
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:50,800
Speaker 3: He used to count his money.

821
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,880
Speaker 2: I mean it was just sitting there and I was like, oh,

822
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:55,319
Speaker 2: I took some money because I needed to tell. He

823
00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 2: was like, why you didn't ask me? I was like,

824
00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:00,200
Speaker 2: it was just sitting there. I went over there four

825
00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 2: or five times.

826
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:02,399
Speaker 1: He was mad.

827
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:03,719
Speaker 2: He was just like, why you ain't asking me. I

828
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:05,040
Speaker 2: would have just gave it to you. I was like, oh,

829
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 2: you weren't there. He wasn't there.

830
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:14,360
Speaker 3: He was upstairs, so he was, You're fucking terrible.

831
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 1: But anyway, like I said, I may do.

832
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:20,200
Speaker 2: Some things that are questionable, but I'm gonna always keep

833
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:22,840
Speaker 2: my word. One thing, I feel like your word is

834
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 2: so important. So if you don't keep your word, that's

835
00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:25,680
Speaker 2: the reason for me.

836
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 1: To cut you off. Sex. Sex Okay, that's a big one.

837
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a deal breaker.

838
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:36,080
Speaker 4: That is a deal I can't be with somebody in

839
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 4: the six is not fired Like I'm gonna break up

840
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:39,319
Speaker 4: with you.

841
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:41,719
Speaker 1: See, And that's my part. If it gets like.

842
00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 4: If it's good in the beginning, then he get like

843
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 4: lackluster and it's not a good anymore, Like ye.

844
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:47,759
Speaker 1: See, I'm bak.

845
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:50,400
Speaker 2: Was like waiting for sex, like you feel like, okay,

846
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 2: I want to wait, make him earn it. And it's

847
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:55,480
Speaker 2: like what if you'd wait and the ship is fucking whack?

848
00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:59,040
Speaker 2: Like that be my problem, Like I'll be.

849
00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:01,400
Speaker 1: I want to wait because I like to build.

850
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 2: A bond of friendship, you know, like I want to

851
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 2: have it's hard for me to have. I cannot have

852
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:09,200
Speaker 2: sex without an emotional connection anymore. I can't, so I

853
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:10,920
Speaker 2: have to build that connection. But it's like, what if

854
00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 2: I'm doing all this work to build this connection and

855
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:15,080
Speaker 2: the meat ain't meeting?

856
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:20,440
Speaker 1: What am I to do? So I definitely feel you

857
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 1: on that, because it would suck to be dating somebody,

858
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 1: you know.

859
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:24,759
Speaker 2: You know, you do the ninety days Steve Harvey rule

860
00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 2: and then you hit the three months and the dick

861
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 2: is just not dicking.

862
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.

863
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:33,759
Speaker 4: I think that that shit is stupid anyway, the rule, Yeah,

864
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 4: that shit dumb as fuck meat, no facts, But that

865
00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:41,799
Speaker 4: ain't why though, That's not why I.

866
00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:45,440
Speaker 3: Think it's stupid. I think it's I think it's stupid.

867
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 4: I think it's stupid because it really does not fucking

868
00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:49,960
Speaker 4: matter when you have sex with somebody.

869
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:52,719
Speaker 1: You don't think it matters, No, I don't.

870
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:54,799
Speaker 4: I think that you can have sex with somebody on

871
00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 4: a first date.

872
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:57,720
Speaker 3: It's people who have had sex with each other.

873
00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:00,080
Speaker 4: On the first date and they have been in happy

874
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 4: marriages and have been married for ten twenty years. And

875
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:06,439
Speaker 4: then you have fucking people who wait, who like, oh,

876
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 4: I'm ana wait, I'm gonna make this nigga, We gonna

877
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:10,840
Speaker 4: wait till we get married to have sex, and then

878
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 4: they wait till they get married, and that shit pools

879
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 4: and then they getting a fucking divorce in fucking five

880
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:19,200
Speaker 4: six months, and not necessarily because of the sex. But

881
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:21,840
Speaker 4: I think sex has no bearing on the health of

882
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:27,439
Speaker 4: a relationship. But I do feel like, you know, our longevity,

883
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:29,239
Speaker 4: that I should have said the long It has no

884
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 4: bearing on the longevity of a relationship.

885
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 1: Men are driven by sex a lot of times.

886
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:35,480
Speaker 2: Like a lot of times, when a nigga hit on us,

887
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:38,080
Speaker 2: it's not because of your mind. And we've said this before,

888
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 2: it's not because of your mind. They want to see

889
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:42,719
Speaker 2: what that pussy hitting for. Bitch, they want to know

890
00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:46,360
Speaker 2: what's in them jeans. Yeah, So a lot of times

891
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:48,840
Speaker 2: once they get that, they'd be like, Okay, I'm cool.

892
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 3: And that's what I'm staying there.

893
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:52,120
Speaker 4: You even have niggas to a nigga will wait ten

894
00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 4: months or so to have sex with you.

895
00:37:54,800 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 6: What you mean niggas do mean niggas me waiting, but

896
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:05,440
Speaker 6: it never will wait a long time to have sex

897
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 6: with a girl.

898
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:08,759
Speaker 4: And then whenever he get it, he stopped fucking with

899
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:10,640
Speaker 4: her because that's all he was waiting on, and he

900
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:13,040
Speaker 4: was fucking somebody else the hall of the time. Anyways,

901
00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:14,759
Speaker 4: he was like, damn, bitch, what took you so long

902
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:16,839
Speaker 4: to come up off that pizzy Ooh?

903
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 1: Points were made, So basically, y'all shuld fuck.

904
00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:23,799
Speaker 2: Basically, I've asked all my friends if I should have

905
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 2: sex with this guy.

906
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:25,960
Speaker 1: They all keep saying there.

907
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:28,919
Speaker 4: It is important at this point though, with us being

908
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:30,960
Speaker 4: in our thirties now, if you're really trying to build

909
00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:33,319
Speaker 4: a real relationship with somebody, it is important to get

910
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 4: to know them or whatever, to try to build a

911
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:37,520
Speaker 4: bun with them before y'all have sex. But I feel like,

912
00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:39,799
Speaker 4: whenever you're ready to have sex, have sex.

913
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:40,120
Speaker 3: With the person.

914
00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 4: It's just not that deep, like I wouldn't if I

915
00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 4: was like, for example, okay, if I want to build

916
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 4: a bun with any good but then we end up

917
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 4: in a compromising position.

918
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 3: So where we about to fuck, I ain't gonna be

919
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 3: like shit, I was trying to wait.

920
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:56,919
Speaker 1: Two more weeks. Let me look at.

921
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:02,880
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, like, in what fucking world of me

922
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 3: and a nigga.

923
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:05,879
Speaker 4: Like kissing, we making out, were about to have sex,

924
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 4: And I'm like, oh damn, I wanted to wait two

925
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 4: more weeks.

926
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:09,200
Speaker 3: Fuck that were.

927
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:14,920
Speaker 1: About to have sex. We are, we're grown.

928
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:16,880
Speaker 3: Do what you want to do in the moment. Like

929
00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:19,680
Speaker 3: it be too many rules. And if she don't work

930
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:21,919
Speaker 3: out with that nigga, it ain't because you fucked him

931
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 3: too fast.

932
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 4: Now now you're talking, and she doesn't work out with him,

933
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 4: I highly doubt that that's probably why.

934
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:32,279
Speaker 1: Okay, that makes sense. That's a good one. That's a

935
00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 1: good one.

936
00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:34,200
Speaker 3: Now sometimes that is the case.

937
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:36,719
Speaker 4: Like maybe if you don't fuck the whole bunch of

938
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 4: other niggas they're fast.

939
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 3: And he found out, then maybe that's different. Yeah, but

940
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:41,799
Speaker 3: you know, just.

941
00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:44,879
Speaker 4: Because oh I've been knowing him for two weeks, three

942
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:47,640
Speaker 4: weeks and we had sex, and then say, three months

943
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:49,719
Speaker 4: down the line it doesn't work out. You're like, damn,

944
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:52,040
Speaker 4: I shouldn't have sex with him there quick, that's probably

945
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:52,839
Speaker 4: not why did that?

946
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 1: Why it didn't work out? Okay, points were made, so

947
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:56,360
Speaker 1: sex is a deal breaker.

948
00:39:57,280 --> 00:40:00,920
Speaker 2: Another one for me is I I do not like

949
00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 2: an extremely friendly nigga. I'm talking about the niggas that

950
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:07,360
Speaker 2: be under Everybody comments, yes, sis, you five, you ate

951
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 2: that flaming emojis.

952
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:10,960
Speaker 1: You follow.

953
00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:14,480
Speaker 2: Nine hundred people and eight hundred and fifty of them

954
00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:17,759
Speaker 2: are women that you don't know. I just don't like

955
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 2: overly friendly people. Oh sis, everybody else sees I don't

956
00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 2: know who you don't fuck, the who you haven't fucked.

957
00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 2: I do not like extremely extremely overly friendly people.

958
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:29,160
Speaker 3: I don't like no thirsty nigga either.

959
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:29,480
Speaker 1: Yeah.

960
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:31,120
Speaker 2: No, And now I feel like that'll go and we

961
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:32,480
Speaker 2: can say that's the same We'll go that in the

962
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 2: same category, like a thirsty nigga.

963
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:36,439
Speaker 3: No, that's what I mean.

964
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:38,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just like that.

965
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 3: I like a stiff ass nigga.

966
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 1: Yeah.

967
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 4: Like I don't want you to be mean to She's like,

968
00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:44,840
Speaker 4: I don't want you to be mean to people. But

969
00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:47,879
Speaker 4: I definitely want you to give off like an aura

970
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:50,360
Speaker 4: of like he ain't going, yeah, he suck with me,

971
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 4: that's my nigga.

972
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I like a stiff ass nigga for sure.

973
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:56,160
Speaker 2: Like I don't like somebody that's overly friendly.

974
00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:58,520
Speaker 1: I don't want Like if a.

975
00:40:58,480 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 2: Woman feels comfortable like coming up to you and wrapping

976
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:03,280
Speaker 2: her arms around your neck hugging you, and I'm standing

977
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 2: right there, you're probably not the man for me. Like

978
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:07,360
Speaker 2: a woman can come up and speak to you, but

979
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 2: she needs to be on some shit like oh, hey,

980
00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:12,239
Speaker 2: are you doing and he'd be like, oh yeah, what's up?

981
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 2: Like if he can't introduce all of us in the conversation,

982
00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:16,080
Speaker 2: that's not the man for me.

983
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:23,160
Speaker 3: Yeah. I don't like no cheap nigga. And you knew

984
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:24,439
Speaker 3: that was gonna be in my top five.

985
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:25,200
Speaker 1: Y'all shut down.

986
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:27,880
Speaker 3: If I ain't said it, he was humming facts.

987
00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:30,239
Speaker 2: One thing I said. I say this all the time.

988
00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:31,880
Speaker 2: I don't care about how much money you make, cause

989
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:33,840
Speaker 2: I ain't got shit to do with me. Are you

990
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:34,839
Speaker 2: showing me a good time?

991
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 1: Now?

992
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:37,080
Speaker 2: I'm not saying on the first day, like we ain't

993
00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:39,000
Speaker 2: gotta go buy me a fucking burking bag on the

994
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:41,520
Speaker 2: first day, we can if that's an option, but I'm

995
00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 2: not looking for that at this point. So it's just

996
00:41:43,560 --> 00:41:46,440
Speaker 2: kind of like, I just don't like no man who

997
00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:50,200
Speaker 2: is like pinching pennies and like counting everything, because when

998
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 2: I go out and have a good time, I don't

999
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:55,360
Speaker 2: live like that. So it's okay to budget. I'm a budgeter.

1000
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:58,680
Speaker 2: I love to budget, but being cheap it's two totally

1001
00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 2: different things. Like I don't know, I feel like me

1002
00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:04,239
Speaker 2: and my friends don't move like that. I don't want

1003
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:04,759
Speaker 2: my man to.

1004
00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 1: Move like that.

1005
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 2: So if I notice that you're being cheap, like on

1006
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 2: the first dates and stuff and being like.

1007
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:11,959
Speaker 1: Ooh, I don't care if you're joking or not. Oh

1008
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:16,799
Speaker 1: this is pricey. Where did you take me bottles? You

1009
00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:20,759
Speaker 1: want a whole bottle? Fucking brother, you donna drive the

1010
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:21,400
Speaker 1: koochie up.

1011
00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 4: So for me, it's just more and so about I

1012
00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:27,120
Speaker 4: like today people that live.

1013
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:40,720
Speaker 1: You so you could slap go ahead, spry.

1014
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 4: So yeah, I just like to date people that like

1015
00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:48,040
Speaker 4: have an abundant mind set. I feel like I have

1016
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 4: an abundant mind set, and I don't want to date

1017
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:52,600
Speaker 4: somebody else said don't, so like I feel like being

1018
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:56,320
Speaker 4: cheap is because you lack an abundant mind seed, right.

1019
00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:58,960
Speaker 1: Like I always feel like like.

1020
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:01,640
Speaker 4: I want a nigga who like it's like, of course,

1021
00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:05,320
Speaker 4: don't don't do anything, or like live beyond Joe means

1022
00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 4: means are going on show way to try to impress

1023
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:11,320
Speaker 4: people and stuff like that. But I also want a

1024
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:13,400
Speaker 4: nigga that it's like, okay, cool line tripping. We can

1025
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:14,840
Speaker 4: go on the two hundred dollar a day, we can

1026
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:16,319
Speaker 4: go on three hundred dollar a day. I'm gonna get

1027
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:19,880
Speaker 4: that shit big, right, It's it's just dinner.

1028
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:22,520
Speaker 2: I hate people who look at like dinner and stuff like, oh,

1029
00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:23,480
Speaker 2: this is an investment.

1030
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like, no, my nigga is not that fucking serious.

1031
00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:28,960
Speaker 1: Potatoes.

1032
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:33,319
Speaker 3: Relax, like, calm the fuck down, and you.

1033
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:35,800
Speaker 1: Know what's crazy? And you gus are more strict than women.

1034
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:36,399
Speaker 1: They are.

1035
00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:39,399
Speaker 2: I saw a post the other day and this guy

1036
00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:41,879
Speaker 2: was naming off the reasons why on the first date

1037
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:44,640
Speaker 2: you should only take a woman on a breakfast date.

1038
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:47,560
Speaker 1: He was like, One, it's cheaper, she's.

1039
00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 2: Not gonna be trying to order everything on the menu. Two,

1040
00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 2: it's gonna be right when she wakes up. So she's

1041
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:53,919
Speaker 2: not gonna do a lot of makeup, so it's gonna

1042
00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 2: be light. And it was just like he was giving

1043
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:58,719
Speaker 2: all these reasons. I'm like, y'all are fucking strict in

1044
00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 2: this motherfucker like we gotta jump.

1045
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:03,560
Speaker 1: Through hoops just to get a state.

1046
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:04,760
Speaker 3: I know these niggas.

1047
00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:06,719
Speaker 4: Was lost when they started talking about pre dates. Who

1048
00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:09,399
Speaker 4: about to take somebody on a pre date? You ain'tther

1049
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:11,440
Speaker 4: gonna take me on a motherfucking date, or you not?

1050
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:13,680
Speaker 3: You ain't going on no pre days?

1051
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:15,240
Speaker 1: A long time? About a little.

1052
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:17,040
Speaker 3: Nice little day, like you could take her to a picnic?

1053
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:20,719
Speaker 4: Who about the fucking sit on some grass? My nigga

1054
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:22,200
Speaker 4: a pre date?

1055
00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:25,040
Speaker 2: I went on a pre date before. I didn't know

1056
00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:27,320
Speaker 2: what a predate was then. This was in twenty eighteen.

1057
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 3: Wish your nigga would take me to the donut shop.

1058
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:32,920
Speaker 1: He took me to. I went even worse. Nigga took

1059
00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:35,440
Speaker 1: me to a gym.

1060
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:37,359
Speaker 3: Bitch said, ain't no motherfucking date.

1061
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 1: That's torture. I was so mad.

1062
00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 3: That's not even fun.

1063
00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:43,399
Speaker 4: And even if you're gonna take me on an interactive date,

1064
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:46,480
Speaker 4: like let's go paintballing, let's go do laser tag or

1065
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:47,319
Speaker 4: some bro.

1066
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:49,320
Speaker 2: He took me to the gym. I was so pissed

1067
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:52,319
Speaker 2: and I went. I worked out, but I never talked

1068
00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:53,080
Speaker 2: to that nigga again.

1069
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:54,200
Speaker 1: Never.

1070
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 3: What did he say, like when you got Okay?

1071
00:44:57,719 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 4: So this is what happened. So because I know he

1072
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:02,239
Speaker 4: didn't think you like working out because you.

1073
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:04,560
Speaker 1: Don't work out. Excuse me, bitch.

1074
00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 2: They call me Billy Blanks and this motherfucker watch your tone.

1075
00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 3: Nobody call you this.

1076
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:11,239
Speaker 1: Yes, they used to call me Billy Blanks. You know

1077
00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:16,480
Speaker 1: my name was lex b. I changed it to the Peak. Okay,

1078
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:18,600
Speaker 1: So anyways.

1079
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:22,959
Speaker 4: Bro, the lie, the way you lie is insane.

1080
00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:24,360
Speaker 3: Well a straight face.

1081
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 1: What had happened was mix up my peach what's it called.

1082
00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:33,440
Speaker 2: Again, peachtree peachtree passion, mix on my pea street passion

1083
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:35,200
Speaker 2: for I punched this pussy.

1084
00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I'm weak.

1085
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:40,040
Speaker 2: So anyway, so let me tell all what happened. He

1086
00:45:40,160 --> 00:45:43,000
Speaker 2: hit me on mock till he hits me up and

1087
00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:45,120
Speaker 2: he's like, oh, what you doing today? Let's hang out

1088
00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 2: blah blah. I was like, okay, where you gonna? Where

1089
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:48,880
Speaker 2: are we going? He was like, oh, I haven't figured

1090
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:51,920
Speaker 2: it out yet, but you know, I'll be over there

1091
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:54,239
Speaker 2: around like six o'clock whatever. So I get like, I

1092
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:56,239
Speaker 2: did a full face of makeup. I'm like ready to

1093
00:45:56,280 --> 00:45:59,439
Speaker 2: go somewhere. He was like, you know what, we're gonna

1094
00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 2: do something fun. We're gonna do something different. He was like,

1095
00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:03,319
Speaker 2: wear comfortable clothes. I was like, what do you mean

1096
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:05,319
Speaker 2: by comfortable? Like I need you to be specific. He

1097
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:07,520
Speaker 2: was like like something like if you had to go

1098
00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:09,720
Speaker 2: like hiking or something in So I'm like, okay, maybe

1099
00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:10,600
Speaker 2: we're doing like.

1100
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:12,799
Speaker 1: I don't know. I was thinking like put or something.

1101
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:13,520
Speaker 1: I don't know, bitch.

1102
00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:15,719
Speaker 2: So I put on some comfort clothes and he came

1103
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:17,080
Speaker 2: to pick me up a nigga. He pulled up to

1104
00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:21,120
Speaker 2: the fucking gym and I was like, are you serious?

1105
00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:23,399
Speaker 1: He was like, yeah, I want to see I want

1106
00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:24,359
Speaker 1: to see how you move and girl.

1107
00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:26,320
Speaker 2: And don't get me wrong, some people are like super

1108
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:27,200
Speaker 2: into working out.

1109
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:29,319
Speaker 1: They want somebody who's gonna work out with them. Well,

1110
00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:30,280
Speaker 1: I'm not that bitch.

1111
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:32,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, And it was very weird because I feel like

1112
00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:34,760
Speaker 2: something like that, you should ask somebody.

1113
00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:37,880
Speaker 4: I think that's cool once you really dating somebody for

1114
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:39,600
Speaker 4: y'all to go to the gym together, but taking me

1115
00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 4: there on the first day. You don't watch youwan mother

1116
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:43,319
Speaker 4: fucking mind. Never remind me of when this nigga took

1117
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:44,160
Speaker 4: me to Ring King.

1118
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 1: I remember that.

1119
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:50,560
Speaker 3: I was so mad, so fucking mad, y'all.

1120
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:53,120
Speaker 4: I was so fucking man, especially when I found out

1121
00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:56,920
Speaker 4: the only way to get office to go off, like, oh,

1122
00:46:57,120 --> 00:46:57,960
Speaker 4: you gotta.

1123
00:46:57,680 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 3: Do the whole trailer too, fucking bullshit. I was going

1124
00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 3: pissed off. But we was already dating for a little

1125
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 3: bit before then.

1126
00:47:05,160 --> 00:47:06,200
Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna lie.

1127
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 2: I used to go to the gym with Throwback Baby,

1128
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:11,760
Speaker 2: but that that was a mistake. I went like twice

1129
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:13,799
Speaker 2: and I'll never do that again. Jim, days just aren't

1130
00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 2: for me.

1131
00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:16,799
Speaker 1: I think that it's I do think I like that.

1132
00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 4: I think it's a great bonding experience with somebody that

1133
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:20,520
Speaker 4: you actually dated.

1134
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:23,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, like we but like the beginning, like.

1135
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 4: This our first second date. Don't take me to no

1136
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:27,279
Speaker 4: more the fucking lifetime feedies, bro.

1137
00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:29,120
Speaker 2: And then it's like I'm trying to I'm out of breath,

1138
00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 2: but you don't want to breathe hard in front of that.

1139
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:35,640
Speaker 4: You're like you straight you sweating, bro.

1140
00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:38,720
Speaker 1: That is so embarrassing. All we did was walk aloud.

1141
00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, so niggas being cheating. That goes into the

1142
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:49,839
Speaker 1: pre dating. Yeah, I don't like the card reasons to break.

1143
00:47:49,600 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 2: Up outside of cheating, So let us know what y'all

1144
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:54,440
Speaker 2: reasons are, because I'm interested to.

1145
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:55,800
Speaker 5: Know some other reasons.

1146
00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:59,600
Speaker 1: Okay, So now we're gonna get into the bed.

1147
00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:06,720
Speaker 2: You know, that was one of my favorite parts of Toy,

1148
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:08,760
Speaker 2: whenever we sing the song.

1149
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:13,719
Speaker 1: That is a hit, hunt a hit that sticked like grity,

1150
00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:14,160
Speaker 1: it's a hit.

1151
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:15,200
Speaker 3: So today we're.

1152
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:20,520
Speaker 2: Gonna talk about women's obsession with nut videos. I see

1153
00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 2: women talk about they love a good explosion video. My

1154
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 2: friend shout out to Jazz from High Maintenance podcast. She

1155
00:48:27,160 --> 00:48:30,040
Speaker 2: always like, oh my god, she always talks about how.

1156
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:34,759
Speaker 1: She loves nut videos, and I just I don't like that.

1157
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 1: I don't like that.

1158
00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 2: No, I don't like anything about I'm sorry. I don't

1159
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:43,560
Speaker 2: like men sending me any type of pictures, like if

1160
00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:45,120
Speaker 2: you like in the gym working out.

1161
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 1: Whatever, you're like, oh I'm in a gym. You went

1162
00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:47,799
Speaker 1: to the gym at something like that?

1163
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:51,800
Speaker 2: Cute, that's okay, but I don't want you like taking

1164
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:55,200
Speaker 2: no nudes and oh my god, I have this guy

1165
00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:58,719
Speaker 2: one time, send me a nude and he was like

1166
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:01,720
Speaker 2: in the mirror, nick standing up like posing.

1167
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:04,080
Speaker 1: I don't like that. I don't like that. I don't

1168
00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:06,840
Speaker 1: want none of that on my phone. So nut videos

1169
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:10,600
Speaker 1: are I know for me? You like him? You nasty?

1170
00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:12,000
Speaker 1: I can see you over there, small and.

1171
00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:18,600
Speaker 2: When I brought it up you you are disgusting. I

1172
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:23,120
Speaker 2: like a little nut video slow moo a slow mo. No,

1173
00:49:23,239 --> 00:49:27,880
Speaker 2: you gotta be Steven Spielbar. Okay, feeding it though, see exactly,

1174
00:49:28,640 --> 00:49:29,400
Speaker 2: so he gotta.

1175
00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:31,759
Speaker 3: Like ankles, be ashy like.

1176
00:49:31,800 --> 00:49:35,000
Speaker 2: No, hell go big toe for me every team, I

1177
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,760
Speaker 2: hate niggas big toe.

1178
00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:40,120
Speaker 3: You gotta with a nigga that got nice feeds.

1179
00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 1: I don't niggas big toes always fat.

1180
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:43,800
Speaker 3: They need fat.

1181
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:46,359
Speaker 4: But you got niggas who got the black toe nail

1182
00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:46,920
Speaker 4: and niggas that.

1183
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:49,480
Speaker 1: Don't okay, I feel you, I feel.

1184
00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:52,120
Speaker 3: But either way, I don't want their toe in my videos.

1185
00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:55,040
Speaker 1: So they gotta like how they gonna do it things.

1186
00:49:55,640 --> 00:50:00,480
Speaker 2: Bed like this, laying on the edge.

1187
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:05,240
Speaker 1: I'm weak. That's probably hard to do a nut video

1188
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:08,680
Speaker 1: without your feet in it. No, because he could be

1189
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:12,319
Speaker 1: on the bed like oh, like laying down. Yeah, this

1190
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:14,360
Speaker 1: is so gross? How is he gross?

1191
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:16,480
Speaker 2: I just feel like then niggas laying in the bed

1192
00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:18,840
Speaker 2: he done nutted all over hisself and not just be

1193
00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:22,400
Speaker 2: imagine you stop recording, you're go and clean yourself off.

1194
00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:26,239
Speaker 3: But I just feel like, what's the difference?

1195
00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:29,680
Speaker 4: I feel like people put so much like people make suit.

1196
00:50:29,680 --> 00:50:32,040
Speaker 4: It's so much harder for niggas than it is for women.

1197
00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:35,200
Speaker 4: But like whenmen the talkings in it videos playing with pussy,

1198
00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 4: what's the difference?

1199
00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:41,360
Speaker 1: No, you said pictures, so do you? It ain't about me, bitch,

1200
00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:43,799
Speaker 1: It's not about me.

1201
00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:46,799
Speaker 3: But no, I don't tell the truth. Tell the truth for.

1202
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:49,719
Speaker 1: Me personally, I just don't like that. I just don't

1203
00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:50,000
Speaker 1: like it.

1204
00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:53,000
Speaker 2: Maybe if you have like a long distance situation, maybe

1205
00:50:53,040 --> 00:50:55,720
Speaker 2: you know y'all trying to keep the but nut videos

1206
00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:56,640
Speaker 2: are just not for me.

1207
00:50:56,719 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 1: I don't find it. I do not want to see that,

1208
00:50:59,880 --> 00:51:00,760
Speaker 1: like me, stay.

1209
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:02,400
Speaker 4: In slow mo, but I don't want to hear especially

1210
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:04,680
Speaker 4: but if it's especially if it's in slow mo, please

1211
00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:15,120
Speaker 4: don't be in a like WHOA, what.

1212
00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:28,200
Speaker 1: Are you gonna do? I'm fucking gry.

1213
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:31,280
Speaker 2: Please No, I'm.

1214
00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:32,560
Speaker 3: Only saying it because it happens to me.

1215
00:51:32,640 --> 00:51:38,600
Speaker 1: Before it was all good? Are they supposed to like?

1216
00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 4: Edit?

1217
00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:43,320
Speaker 1: It and put music on the background. No, just mutymuty yeah,

1218
00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:46,320
Speaker 1: oh my god, you want a whole production.

1219
00:51:47,440 --> 00:51:51,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like that videos you like shoot.

1220
00:51:52,160 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 1: So you'd be like, that's an Olympic winner. He's a shooter.

1221
00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:58,759
Speaker 1: He is a shooter. When was the last time you

1222
00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:01,320
Speaker 1: got a nut video? It's been a wall?

1223
00:52:01,560 --> 00:52:03,040
Speaker 3: Yeah it was last year.

1224
00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:09,640
Speaker 4: Okay, like like I'm saying that like there was, but

1225
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:11,839
Speaker 4: it was like earlier last year.

1226
00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:17,120
Speaker 2: Okay, So I'm laughing because if you said this year.

1227
00:52:17,239 --> 00:52:17,319
Speaker 4: I.

1228
00:52:21,680 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 1: Oh my, okay, so you got it wasn't a good one.

1229
00:52:25,600 --> 00:52:27,479
Speaker 1: It was a good production. It was a good one.

1230
00:52:27,480 --> 00:52:28,960
Speaker 3: And I feel you got to coach niggas.

1231
00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 2: You gotta let you got to tell them exactly how

1232
00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:33,000
Speaker 2: you But you know, I'm a little weird, like I

1233
00:52:33,040 --> 00:52:34,719
Speaker 2: would even like, way if a nigga got a ski

1234
00:52:34,840 --> 00:52:35,399
Speaker 2: mask on.

1235
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:45,120
Speaker 1: What, he's propped up the phone in front of his ring, Like.

1236
00:52:45,880 --> 00:52:48,279
Speaker 4: No, I didn't say a ring like you always had

1237
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:51,680
Speaker 4: at it you prop it up.

1238
00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:53,080
Speaker 1: She acts like you ain't have.

1239
00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:55,400
Speaker 4: A nigga rig propping your phone up on the counter,

1240
00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:56,680
Speaker 4: on a water bottle.

1241
00:52:56,440 --> 00:52:59,399
Speaker 1: Or some machine.

1242
00:52:57,280 --> 00:53:01,759
Speaker 2: Then so he's got to prop up the camera, put

1243
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:04,080
Speaker 2: on a ski mask, you want his chains on, You

1244
00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:06,279
Speaker 2: want to change on, you want to change like you

1245
00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:07,160
Speaker 2: know how little.

1246
00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:10,680
Speaker 1: Ruzzle so is he butt naked or he got a

1247
00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:12,440
Speaker 1: shirt on? Winnie the Pool style? You have a wife

1248
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:12,719
Speaker 1: beat on?

1249
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:14,200
Speaker 3: I like Winnie the Pool style?

1250
00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 1: You do because every time.

1251
00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:18,359
Speaker 4: We be on FaceTime looking like Winnie the Pool, y'all

1252
00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:22,680
Speaker 4: legs answers the phone and it's probably tam My will

1253
00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:25,319
Speaker 4: be on FaceTime, should be having on a sports bra

1254
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:27,160
Speaker 4: and no pennies.

1255
00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:30,000
Speaker 1: Looking like Winnie the Pool. I just be waking up.

1256
00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:31,239
Speaker 1: You gotta let that thing air out.

1257
00:53:31,320 --> 00:53:34,239
Speaker 3: But why do you have a bra on and no bottoms?

1258
00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:36,000
Speaker 1: We always still have to.

1259
00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:38,120
Speaker 2: Wear a bra because I just got my titties done

1260
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:40,719
Speaker 2: in August, so I can't be ass naked. But I

1261
00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:42,120
Speaker 2: gotta let garfield errow.

1262
00:53:43,480 --> 00:53:48,280
Speaker 1: I gotta let it breathe stress.

1263
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:52,080
Speaker 4: I always be like like it's one thing to be naked,

1264
00:53:52,120 --> 00:53:54,439
Speaker 4: but it's so awkward when somebody be on the phone

1265
00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:56,520
Speaker 4: they have on the top in no bottom, Like.

1266
00:53:57,160 --> 00:53:58,720
Speaker 3: Why are you just not naked?

1267
00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:01,840
Speaker 1: You were weird?

1268
00:54:02,239 --> 00:54:05,640
Speaker 4: You are rules for everything, just a strange individual.

1269
00:54:06,200 --> 00:54:09,760
Speaker 2: So I'm getting back to your what you like ski

1270
00:54:09,920 --> 00:54:13,640
Speaker 2: mask Winned the Pool Child Winni the pool star looking

1271
00:54:13,680 --> 00:54:17,319
Speaker 2: at the camera beating his me muty okay, I like

1272
00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:19,480
Speaker 2: now when you get them in.

1273
00:54:19,480 --> 00:54:21,640
Speaker 1: Your d ms from strangers the.

1274
00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:25,880
Speaker 3: Ship, No, I don't want it from a stranger.

1275
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:29,160
Speaker 1: No, no, from a stranger danger. Okay. So now we're

1276
00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:31,400
Speaker 1: gonna get into the bout.

1277
00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:39,399
Speaker 2: About So y'all know I've been back on my afrobeat ship.

1278
00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:42,879
Speaker 1: There's a song called Ta Ta.

1279
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:47,240
Speaker 2: Tartar and that motherfucker go hard.

1280
00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:48,959
Speaker 1: Okay. I am so sad.

1281
00:54:48,960 --> 00:54:51,240
Speaker 2: I didn't go to Legos, you know, for the holiday,

1282
00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:55,040
Speaker 2: but it's okay. But Afro Beaches make you feel different,

1283
00:54:55,080 --> 00:54:58,879
Speaker 2: beach like, it's a whole motherfucking vibe. Like. So yeah,

1284
00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:01,120
Speaker 2: that's what I've been jamming and listening to, like on

1285
00:55:01,239 --> 00:55:02,080
Speaker 2: repeat all week.

1286
00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:03,320
Speaker 1: So yeah, that's.

1287
00:55:03,160 --> 00:55:06,280
Speaker 3: Kind My back of the week is called Mama Lisa.

1288
00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:11,640
Speaker 3: It's by lo J. Sars and Chris Brown. Okay, It's

1289
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:15,120
Speaker 3: it's kind of like yes, so it's like with the theme.

1290
00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:17,960
Speaker 2: Of I heard that song like afro BEATSI yeah, I

1291
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:19,879
Speaker 2: think Jesse had did a remix to that, like made

1292
00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:20,800
Speaker 2: her own little version.

1293
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:22,759
Speaker 1: I've definitely heard that song before.

1294
00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:24,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, I really like that song.

1295
00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:27,080
Speaker 1: Okay, I heard it when I.

1296
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:31,280
Speaker 4: Was listening to my playlist with Weeds Kids.

1297
00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 3: One title did bring this over here?

1298
00:55:33,320 --> 00:55:36,960
Speaker 1: The girl is good? You didn't see I'm so aware

1299
00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:44,520
Speaker 1: that God I did not on the marble floor. Okay.

1300
00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:48,439
Speaker 3: So no, I was just saying, that's my bobb.

1301
00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:48,680
Speaker 1: Okay.

1302
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:49,880
Speaker 2: So now I'm gonna get into the item of the

1303
00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:53,200
Speaker 2: week this week? How do you always mess up her

1304
00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:54,719
Speaker 2: last name? And I feel bad because I messed up

1305
00:55:54,719 --> 00:55:58,480
Speaker 2: everybody's name Jilly and I yes, Jilly, and I sent

1306
00:55:58,680 --> 00:55:59,640
Speaker 2: us a PR.

1307
00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:00,919
Speaker 1: Package and it's so freaking cute.

1308
00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:02,480
Speaker 2: I'm gonna grab it real quick and let me just

1309
00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:04,280
Speaker 2: give her a shout out because I'm not gonna lie.

1310
00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:06,480
Speaker 2: Jilly was one of the guests that we had that

1311
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:11,319
Speaker 2: absolutely just surprised the hell out of me. I love

1312
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:14,560
Speaker 2: me from Hoon and she's from Houston, and I feel

1313
00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:16,480
Speaker 2: like a lot of times, you know, people look at

1314
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:19,440
Speaker 2: women who are you know, they look a certain way

1315
00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:21,040
Speaker 2: and they feel like they're not smart. They don't take

1316
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:24,680
Speaker 2: them seriously. But she was so smart, so funny, and

1317
00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:27,000
Speaker 2: I just really love her. So let me get the

1318
00:56:27,680 --> 00:56:34,520
Speaker 2: let me get.

1319
00:56:34,200 --> 00:56:34,520
Speaker 1: Okay.

1320
00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:38,160
Speaker 2: So Jilly sent us a p R package, So y'all

1321
00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:41,000
Speaker 2: know if you follow Jilly on Instagram, Jilly be cooking.

1322
00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:43,160
Speaker 1: And when I say she'd be cooking, I'm not.

1323
00:56:43,080 --> 00:56:46,120
Speaker 2: Talking about making a grilled cheese and tomato soup like

1324
00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:49,160
Speaker 2: the TikTokers be doing. She'd be cooking for real. So

1325
00:56:49,200 --> 00:56:51,560
Speaker 2: she sent us throwing down. She'd be throwing out. She

1326
00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:54,879
Speaker 2: sent us this little pr package and it's so freaking cute.

1327
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Speaker 2: So her cookbook is called She Cooks Too. Now I

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00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:01,120
Speaker 2: think this is her second cookbook. That's why it's called

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Speaker 2: She Cooks Suit as it's the second one, y'all. First

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Speaker 2: of all, you know when you are she's just really

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Speaker 2: good because when you have a cookbook, a lot of

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00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 2: times you don't know where to put it.

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Speaker 3: Has a little has a little.

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Speaker 1: Stand so you can have it like you know, in

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00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:17,600
Speaker 1: your kitchen. She got this little.

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Speaker 2: Whisk yay, and so this is.

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Speaker 1: The stad She Cooks Too on the wig. Yes, it's

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Speaker 1: so cute.

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00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:25,600
Speaker 2: And she has one of her little recipes to where

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Speaker 2: you can like put it somewhere, you know, recipe that

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Speaker 2: you can follow. But I just want to talk about

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Speaker 2: this book. First of all, look how beautiful she is.

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Speaker 2: The picture is picturing, Okay, she got everything all that

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00:57:38,760 --> 00:57:41,880
Speaker 2: very professional. She has some really good recipes in here.

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Speaker 2: And y'all know, one of my resolutions this year was

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Speaker 2: I'm going to start cooking again.

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Speaker 1: And I have been in the kitchen. She has drinks

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Speaker 1: in here, she has everything in here, desserts, vegetarian. I

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Speaker 1: love it. I can't wait to try.

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Speaker 2: She has like all the pictures throughout the book. It's

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Speaker 2: really freaking you. It's a well done cookbook. She has

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Speaker 2: pictures of.

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Speaker 1: All the food. And if you, even if you don't

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00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:07,680
Speaker 1: want to cook, buy the book, cause she fine, like

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Speaker 1: you get to look at it. It's a little cough book.

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Speaker 1: How you're talking about.

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00:58:10,480 --> 00:58:14,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, you gonna cook the mad girls know that's right

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00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:14,960
Speaker 2: up on your walls.

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Speaker 1: So yes, it's a really good cookbook. Thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: Jilly gonna be cooking some recipes out of this, So yeah,

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00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:23,720
Speaker 2: make sure y'all go.

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Speaker 1: To her Instagram.

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00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:28,640
Speaker 2: I'll put the link to the book in the description

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Speaker 2: and yeah, get y'all a little cookbook shout out to Jillie.

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Speaker 2: We love you girls.

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Speaker 1: Yes, thanks poor minds, people love you.

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Speaker 4: All.

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Speaker 5: Right.

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Speaker 1: What we got next, little drill?

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Speaker 4: Well, next, it's time to get into our favorite segment

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00:58:42,600 --> 00:58:45,360
Speaker 4: of the show, which is to pour your heart out.

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00:58:45,640 --> 00:58:47,800
Speaker 4: So you know, if you have any questions that you

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00:58:47,840 --> 00:58:50,200
Speaker 4: want us to answer, you can always send them to

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00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:52,680
Speaker 4: ask poor minds at gmail dot com.

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Speaker 3: That's a skp oh you are in my.

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00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:59,800
Speaker 4: Nds at gmail dot com. Also, you know we accept

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00:58:59,800 --> 00:59:01,800
Speaker 4: his simonials as well.

1378
00:59:02,480 --> 00:59:05,160
Speaker 2: Yes, because sometimes we be fucking y'all up, getting y'all together.

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00:59:05,240 --> 00:59:06,880
Speaker 1: Whatever we did, let's just let us know.

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00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:09,920
Speaker 2: Okay, so we got our little poor man come on,

1381
00:59:10,120 --> 00:59:12,840
Speaker 2: that little cutie thing bringing it all off.

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Speaker 4: All right, that's what for you. Okay, you want to

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00:59:18,720 --> 00:59:21,439
Speaker 4: go far ast dream, Yes, I have question number one?

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Speaker 4: All right, okay, question number one. Hey, ladies, love your

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00:59:25,480 --> 00:59:28,560
Speaker 4: podcast and y'all's advice. So here's the short story. A

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00:59:28,560 --> 00:59:31,000
Speaker 4: friend of mine is pregnant about to have her baby shower.

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Speaker 4: We have been friends for three or four years, not

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00:59:33,480 --> 00:59:36,080
Speaker 4: super close, but good friends. She's sent in the group

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Speaker 4: chat asking how to spell my name for the invite.

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00:59:38,960 --> 00:59:41,240
Speaker 4: I was annoyed because we've been friends for years and

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00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:43,320
Speaker 4: you have me on every social media. You could have

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00:59:43,360 --> 00:59:47,200
Speaker 4: easily found my full name. I never responded, but another

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00:59:47,200 --> 00:59:49,840
Speaker 4: friend in the chat sent a screenshot of my Facebook

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Speaker 4: legal name included. Then my pregnant friend has the audacity

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Speaker 4: to send my invite with my first name spelled wrong,

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00:59:56,320 --> 00:59:59,040
Speaker 4: and my being petty to think this is disrespectful and not.

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Speaker 3: Want to go to the baby shit Hour.

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Speaker 4: My other friends are begging me to join, but I

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Speaker 4: find this rudest fuck. Anyways, girls, let me know what

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Speaker 4: you think.

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01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:10,480
Speaker 2: I think you'd probably has pregnant brain, Like what is

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01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:12,360
Speaker 2: it called when you're like pregnant, you're not thinking straight?

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01:00:12,400 --> 01:00:13,320
Speaker 1: You got pregnancy brain.

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01:00:13,400 --> 01:00:16,000
Speaker 2: Pregnancy brain like you were very like you you're tripping

1405
01:00:16,040 --> 01:00:17,480
Speaker 2: and I don't want to make you feel like you

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01:00:17,520 --> 01:00:21,240
Speaker 2: know bad, But she's freaking pregnant bringing another human into

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Speaker 2: this world, Like, be a good friend.

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Speaker 4: It ain't even about her being pregnant. For me, it's

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01:00:25,080 --> 01:00:29,480
Speaker 4: just about like people. You can know somebody for a

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01:00:29,480 --> 01:00:31,160
Speaker 4: long time, but people can still fuck up.

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Speaker 3: The spelling of your.

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01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:35,280
Speaker 1: Name, Like I still don't know how to spell Drea.

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01:00:36,600 --> 01:00:39,960
Speaker 4: Well you just a little slow, that's all it is,

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01:00:40,480 --> 01:00:42,160
Speaker 4: because it's literally for livers.

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01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:48,120
Speaker 3: I that's Dria.

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01:00:48,680 --> 01:00:51,520
Speaker 2: You know, people call you Drea sometimes because they at

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01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:53,000
Speaker 2: I think it's so weird.

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01:00:53,360 --> 01:00:56,000
Speaker 1: I think it's like, yeah, Drea, who the hell is Dria?

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01:00:57,520 --> 01:01:00,840
Speaker 4: That's how you know people don't know you though, But anyways,

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Speaker 4: I just think that when people sometimes people have like

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01:01:03,920 --> 01:01:06,480
Speaker 4: difficult spellings of their names and different things like that.

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01:01:06,840 --> 01:01:08,480
Speaker 4: So I just feel like that's not no reason to

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01:01:08,520 --> 01:01:09,080
Speaker 4: get upset.

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01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:09,200
Speaker 2: Now.

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01:01:09,200 --> 01:01:11,720
Speaker 3: It would be different than if she was pronouncing your

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01:01:11,840 --> 01:01:14,800
Speaker 3: name wrong. But the fact that he's spilled wrong on

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01:01:14,800 --> 01:01:16,400
Speaker 3: an invite, how do you even know she the one

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01:01:16,480 --> 01:01:18,400
Speaker 3: to put out the invite? Somebody else could have seen

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01:01:18,400 --> 01:01:20,200
Speaker 3: the invite, right, She was probably.

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01:01:19,920 --> 01:01:21,560
Speaker 2: Getting some help, and maybe she just want to make

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01:01:21,600 --> 01:01:22,800
Speaker 2: sure a double check with everybody.

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Speaker 1: I just don't think it's that serious. Yeah, I don't either,

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01:01:25,000 --> 01:01:25,360
Speaker 1: all right.

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01:01:25,520 --> 01:01:29,560
Speaker 2: Question number two haylex Andrea So on December twenty first,

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01:01:29,640 --> 01:01:32,640
Speaker 2: twenty twenty two, my mom gave my grandma money to

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Speaker 2: get me and my siblings' food. For reference, I'm nineteen

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01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:38,360
Speaker 2: and a broke college student. My mom told her to

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01:01:38,400 --> 01:01:40,160
Speaker 2: take us to Wendy's, and it was supposed to be

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01:01:40,240 --> 01:01:43,280
Speaker 2: me and my sister that went, but my grandma invited

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01:01:43,320 --> 01:01:46,920
Speaker 2: my cousins. Shaking my head, we get to Wendy's and

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01:01:46,960 --> 01:01:50,360
Speaker 2: the order as long as fuck as I checked the bags.

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01:01:50,640 --> 01:01:52,640
Speaker 2: My cousin in the back seat is losing her mind.

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01:01:52,760 --> 01:01:55,600
Speaker 2: Asking where her food is. She had somebody else's back

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01:01:55,640 --> 01:01:57,640
Speaker 2: in her hands and threw their food on the ground.

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01:01:57,960 --> 01:01:59,640
Speaker 2: Once I told her to pick it up, she threw

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01:01:59,680 --> 01:02:01,840
Speaker 2: it at me. Then she came from the back seat

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01:02:01,880 --> 01:02:04,320
Speaker 2: and started to jack and grab all the bags, and

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01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:06,400
Speaker 2: while doing that, she punched me in the face.

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01:02:06,760 --> 01:02:07,760
Speaker 1: It was up from there.

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01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:10,439
Speaker 2: I hopped out the front seat into the back seat

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01:02:10,440 --> 01:02:13,600
Speaker 2: and we started fighting. Mind you, my grandma in the

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01:02:13,680 --> 01:02:16,520
Speaker 2: driver's seat watching, trying to tell us to stop. And

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01:02:16,560 --> 01:02:18,400
Speaker 2: we were still in the drive through, so the workers

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01:02:18,440 --> 01:02:21,520
Speaker 2: saw us and were so shocked. My grandma and all

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01:02:21,560 --> 01:02:24,000
Speaker 2: my cousins all got out to try to separate us.

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01:02:24,280 --> 01:02:26,840
Speaker 2: But after we separated, my cousin just kept on coming

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01:02:26,840 --> 01:02:29,440
Speaker 2: from me, and she literally knocked my grandma on the

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01:02:29,440 --> 01:02:32,080
Speaker 2: ground trying to fight me. We wasted forty dollars of

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01:02:32,120 --> 01:02:34,680
Speaker 2: food all over the car. To be honest, I don't

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01:02:34,720 --> 01:02:36,400
Speaker 2: know if I should forgive her or not, because she

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01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:38,240
Speaker 2: was trying to fight me like a bitch off the street.

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01:02:38,840 --> 01:02:41,480
Speaker 3: Ooh, they was fighting over spicy nuggie.

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01:02:42,440 --> 01:02:45,200
Speaker 1: It gets will in the field. So I'll say these

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01:02:47,200 --> 01:02:49,000
Speaker 1: that's a lot future.

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01:02:48,680 --> 01:02:51,120
Speaker 2: Reference you nineteen. If yr Mama, give me your grandma,

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01:02:51,800 --> 01:02:52,840
Speaker 2: the grandma's.

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01:02:52,360 --> 01:02:54,520
Speaker 1: The baby sent it to me. Send me my own money.

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01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:55,360
Speaker 1: I'll go by myself.

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01:02:55,520 --> 01:02:57,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not trying to do all that I feel

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01:02:57,440 --> 01:03:00,160
Speaker 2: like obviously, you know, I get it. Sometimes people get

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01:03:00,240 --> 01:03:02,840
Speaker 2: angry and you know, people get grumpy.

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Speaker 1: So I'm not giving her excuse.

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01:03:04,560 --> 01:03:06,600
Speaker 2: But just for future reference, just tell your mama to

1474
01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:08,720
Speaker 2: send you the money so you can take yourself to

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01:03:08,760 --> 01:03:10,720
Speaker 2: go get some food. Bitch, I'll walk before I got

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01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:13,800
Speaker 2: to fight somebody for some for a baked potato with

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01:03:13,880 --> 01:03:14,280
Speaker 2: some chili.

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01:03:14,360 --> 01:03:18,280
Speaker 1: Bitch, m not happening. Yeah, I agree.

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01:03:18,320 --> 01:03:19,520
Speaker 3: That was a wild story.

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01:03:19,640 --> 01:03:21,960
Speaker 2: That was a wild story, and Paul grandma got knocked

1481
01:03:21,960 --> 01:03:23,080
Speaker 2: on the ground.

1482
01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:27,600
Speaker 4: You know, knocking old people over because they birthday hip.

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01:03:27,600 --> 01:03:28,160
Speaker 1: It's over.

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01:03:28,400 --> 01:03:30,640
Speaker 2: Ruby did not ask for that, okay, So yeah, I

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01:03:30,640 --> 01:03:35,640
Speaker 2: would just say, in the future, Ruby, I see, while

1486
01:03:35,640 --> 01:03:37,040
Speaker 2: you laughing, her name is Ruby.

1487
01:03:38,040 --> 01:03:42,439
Speaker 1: I'm playing.

1488
01:03:42,480 --> 01:03:44,000
Speaker 2: But yeah, I would just say, in the future, just

1489
01:03:44,040 --> 01:03:45,760
Speaker 2: ask your mom to send you the money directly so

1490
01:03:45,800 --> 01:03:48,000
Speaker 2: you can, you know, take yourself to get your food,

1491
01:03:48,120 --> 01:03:50,760
Speaker 2: you know, by yourself. Okay, So don't we got the

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01:03:50,840 --> 01:03:54,000
Speaker 2: voicemail today. If you want to leave us a voicemail,

1493
01:03:54,080 --> 01:03:55,920
Speaker 2: mind you y' all This is not to ask questions,

1494
01:03:55,920 --> 01:03:58,280
Speaker 2: just to just to give us some advice, though you

1495
01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:00,720
Speaker 2: think what we should do, just to if you have

1496
01:04:00,760 --> 01:04:03,800
Speaker 2: anything you want to say about us, about yourself, whatever's

1497
01:04:03,840 --> 01:04:06,080
Speaker 2: going on in your life. We'll put the number below

1498
01:04:06,120 --> 01:04:08,760
Speaker 2: so y'all can call and leave us a voicemail. Amen,

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01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:12,680
Speaker 2: you ready for the voicemail? Okay, let's go here, let's

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01:04:12,680 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 2: hear the shenanigans.

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01:04:13,680 --> 01:04:14,240
Speaker 1: Let's go.

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01:04:22,920 --> 01:04:24,720
Speaker 2: The poor mind hot line.

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01:04:24,880 --> 01:04:31,080
Speaker 3: Like, I don't know, hot.

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01:04:33,840 --> 01:04:36,680
Speaker 5: Thank you for everything for the last.

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01:04:38,160 --> 01:04:42,680
Speaker 3: Period. You might need to write us a little.

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01:04:42,160 --> 01:04:49,720
Speaker 2: She said, hot lie.

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01:04:47,200 --> 01:04:47,880
Speaker 4: She was into it.

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01:04:47,920 --> 01:04:50,240
Speaker 1: Okay, poor mom's hotlight. How you feeling about it? I

1509
01:04:50,240 --> 01:04:50,919
Speaker 1: think that's cute.

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01:04:50,920 --> 01:04:52,960
Speaker 3: We're gonna have to take a boat, you know what's crazy?

1511
01:04:53,040 --> 01:04:55,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, we need to, but we have not even discussed

1512
01:04:55,960 --> 01:04:57,560
Speaker 2: what we're really gonna name this segment.

1513
01:04:57,880 --> 01:04:59,439
Speaker 1: I love this segment.

1514
01:04:59,080 --> 01:05:00,320
Speaker 2: Though, because I actually like you.

1515
01:05:00,800 --> 01:05:03,760
Speaker 1: Like hearing y'all. I love hearing y'all's voices cause y'all

1516
01:05:03,760 --> 01:05:04,800
Speaker 1: be so excited.

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01:05:05,000 --> 01:05:07,000
Speaker 2: But that was cute, baby, she was singing. Now, she said,

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01:05:07,000 --> 01:05:11,080
Speaker 2: this is my moment, bitch. She was not gonna waste

1519
01:05:11,080 --> 01:05:12,640
Speaker 2: you know what I've been laughing at have y'all seen

1520
01:05:12,680 --> 01:05:15,560
Speaker 2: that video that Wild Borral, that girl singing with Future, So.

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01:05:18,800 --> 01:05:19,560
Speaker 1: I thought it was you.

1522
01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:24,479
Speaker 2: I thought it was They said, lex, I tell you

1523
01:05:25,000 --> 01:05:26,360
Speaker 2: everybody has been sitting in there.

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01:05:26,400 --> 01:05:30,200
Speaker 3: No I sto would to God that lady sounded just

1525
01:05:30,320 --> 01:05:30,680
Speaker 3: like you.

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01:05:31,200 --> 01:05:33,600
Speaker 2: I'm away, okay, So what I'm gonna do is, I'm

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01:05:33,640 --> 01:05:36,680
Speaker 2: gonna start a notes for us. We're gonna come up

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01:05:36,720 --> 01:05:40,240
Speaker 2: with we're gonna choose ten, and then we're gonna narrow

1529
01:05:40,280 --> 01:05:42,680
Speaker 2: it down between me and you of five, and then

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01:05:42,720 --> 01:05:44,960
Speaker 2: we'll do like a and then we'll do like a vote.

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01:05:45,000 --> 01:05:46,680
Speaker 1: Somehow we'll figure out we're doing a little post.

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01:05:46,760 --> 01:05:50,520
Speaker 2: So we're gonna start with the poor Mind's hotline and

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01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:52,160
Speaker 2: then we're gonna add to this because we have a

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01:05:52,200 --> 01:05:53,800
Speaker 2: lot of comments that we just haven't look through on

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01:05:53,840 --> 01:05:57,760
Speaker 2: the Instagram. So once y'all see this episode, go to

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01:05:57,880 --> 01:06:00,959
Speaker 2: the Instagram post where we like told you all about

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01:06:00,960 --> 01:06:03,640
Speaker 2: the voicemail and just leave whatever other names.

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01:06:03,360 --> 01:06:05,880
Speaker 1: That y'all think that we should name that segment. This

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01:06:05,920 --> 01:06:06,560
Speaker 1: will be fun.

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01:06:07,960 --> 01:06:09,720
Speaker 3: We definitely need to come up with a little name.

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01:06:10,200 --> 01:06:11,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, it'll be a cue.

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01:06:11,360 --> 01:06:14,440
Speaker 2: Right now, we're just winging it we of course per usual.

1543
01:06:14,880 --> 01:06:15,680
Speaker 2: Now it's time to close.

1544
01:06:15,760 --> 01:06:18,080
Speaker 1: This bit, y'all. I be wanting to sing this to

1545
01:06:18,120 --> 01:06:25,400
Speaker 1: you for a long, long long time. I'm doing this tonight.

1546
01:06:25,840 --> 01:06:28,200
Speaker 1: You're probably gonna start a fight.

1547
01:06:28,720 --> 01:06:30,959
Speaker 3: I know this can't be right.

1548
01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:37,640
Speaker 2: Hey baby, come on, I love you wenlesslie, and you

1549
01:06:37,840 --> 01:06:38,920
Speaker 2: were there for me.

1550
01:06:39,480 --> 01:06:41,760
Speaker 1: So now it's time to.

1551
01:06:41,640 --> 01:06:47,000
Speaker 5: Leave and make it alone. I know that I can't

1552
01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:47,959
Speaker 5: take no more.

1553
01:06:48,280 --> 01:06:49,160
Speaker 1: It ain't know that.

1554
01:06:50,480 --> 01:06:54,120
Speaker 2: I want to see you out that door, baby, Bye

1555
01:06:54,120 --> 01:06:55,400
Speaker 2: bye bye.

1556
01:06:55,520 --> 01:06:58,480
Speaker 1: I don't really want to make it. I want to

1557
01:06:58,560 --> 01:06:59,840
Speaker 1: game a game for two.

1558
01:07:00,200 --> 01:07:04,600
Speaker 2: Way you may me, buddy, it ain't a lie, baby,

1559
01:07:04,640 --> 01:07:05,520
Speaker 2: Bye bye bye.

1560
01:07:06,440 --> 01:07:09,200
Speaker 1: Don't want to be a fool for you. Oh, I

1561
01:07:09,280 --> 01:07:10,080
Speaker 1: keep messing it up.

1562
01:07:10,720 --> 01:07:16,080
Speaker 4: Just ain't sound crazy, buddy, it ain't a lie.

1563
01:07:16,520 --> 01:07:20,360
Speaker 1: Bye bye bye. We ain't that. I don't care what

1564
01:07:20,440 --> 01:07:23,280
Speaker 1: nobody saying. Thank y'all for tuning men. We'll see y'all

1565
01:07:23,320 --> 01:07:26,920
Speaker 1: next week. Just bye bye, comone