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Speaker 1: Welcome back to More to It, to show that takes

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Speaker 1: a deep dive into the biggest stories in sports, entertainment,

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Speaker 1: and culture. Start with headline news and then journey to

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Speaker 1: deeper conversations, always finding those life lessons that are presented

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Speaker 1: in every single story. I'm your host, ourselfswhially that dude,

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Speaker 1: I'll be right back. Oh god lord, what happened? I

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Speaker 1: went too far? Yeah, it was one of the weekends.

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Speaker 1: Y'all did too much. Y'all might can hear a tinge

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Speaker 1: of it in my voice? Oh man, but love for

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Speaker 1: you guys. Man, y'all know this show never shut up

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Speaker 1: where we learn those life lessons. Yep, we're gonna talk

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Speaker 1: from sports, but we're gonna also cover those who cover

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Speaker 1: sports like no one else. So let's get the show

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Speaker 1: started with what's up with that dude? Like what you

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Speaker 1: do this weekend? Dog? Look in a little slim. Y'all

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Speaker 1: gonna figure out why, and y'all gonna laugh. Okay, So

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Speaker 1: I played a little pickaball Saturday morning, got up nine o'clock.

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Speaker 1: Has some great people over here. I love doing a

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Speaker 1: pick aball social I ain't gonna lie. It's the best

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Speaker 1: way to just meet new people without it feeling so cold.

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Speaker 1: Call is dick ice. You know how it goes. Man,

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Speaker 1: You want a network, You just want to meet other people,

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Speaker 1: just want to see who else has similar interests. But

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Speaker 1: sometimes it's just the awkwardness of making that happen which

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Speaker 1: stops a lot of us. So me, I have found

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Speaker 1: that pickle ball is doing an amazing job at it,

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Speaker 1: and frankly I love it because I love pickleball. So

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Speaker 1: everybody else who's a part of that, we always have

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Speaker 1: a great time. We had a man Jason over here.

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Speaker 1: He's part owner of LAFC. Tons of work in the community, philanthropists, etc.

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Speaker 1: Carolina's in the house. She helps builds out networks for

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Speaker 1: high networth individuals. High networth like I don't even qualify y'all.

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Speaker 1: This sucker's got do do so anyway, she was there.

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Speaker 1: Mike Wang, my guy loved my man brother from another

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Speaker 1: and my man aj former soccer player. This dude had

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Speaker 1: too many muscles. Soon as I saw him, I was like,

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Speaker 1: you ain't gonna be good at pick a ball. He

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Speaker 1: was like why. I was like, you too athletic. Look

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Speaker 1: you got to bring it down a note. You got

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Speaker 1: to be a tennis player, a former tennis player. You

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Speaker 1: know how they got a little layer on him. Still

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Speaker 1: most of them they ain't like cut up like that.

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Speaker 1: He came in here. I was like basketball court over

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Speaker 1: there too. You can play something else. Had a great time,

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Speaker 1: the same old me. I'm just a C plus B minus.

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Speaker 1: I'm good around the kitchen. Other than that, I suck ahright,

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Speaker 1: that's life, all right? So what else I do? After that?

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Speaker 1: Watched the fight. I know y'all watched the fight. Fight

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Speaker 1: was banging. That was a good fight. It wasn't a

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Speaker 1: great fight because we didn't see enough my man Charlo.

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Speaker 1: But hey, he moved up two divisions A fight Canelo.

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Speaker 1: That's a lot on it. And then now only moved

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Speaker 1: on two divisions fight Canelo. Huh okay. Once you just

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Speaker 1: weight class looked like first look, Canelo looked quicker, looked

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Speaker 1: much stronger, and was he mucking it up? That little

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Speaker 1: across the ring, like, bro, whoever come up here in

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Speaker 1: that was cool to watch. Still went the distance that

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Speaker 1: was fun. Shout out to Ben Horwitz. We go back

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Speaker 1: and forth. He's a boxing official officially, because every time

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Speaker 1: I bet him, I lose, and I shouldn't be Losinguse

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Speaker 1: I thought I knew boxing, but I didn't know that.

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Speaker 1: I thought that Charlo was actually gonna do something in

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Speaker 1: that fight. I was wrong. I woke up the next day,

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Speaker 1: had our game. Paul's right here, and I don't mean

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Speaker 1: Paul's like Cam and Mason. I hear Richard Sherman. Nowever,

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Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. My team is on a two

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Speaker 1: game losing streak. It's crazy. We have lost our last

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Speaker 1: two games by a total combined seven points, so one

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Speaker 1: possession of two games. Right, We're like, if you score

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Speaker 1: get two point conversion, we would have won both these games.

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Speaker 1: Point being very fixable, we played. I hear the two

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Speaker 1: an inch of a flag away. And then I got

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Speaker 1: was like, now, I remember getting yelled at by a

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Speaker 1: ref one time to not teach the kids to jump.

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Speaker 1: I said, I'm not. He's like, well, they can't jump.

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Speaker 1: But then I checked the rules. It's not in the

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Speaker 1: rule books. So I'm trying to clarify that. But my

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Speaker 1: point is I need to start complaining a lot more

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Speaker 1: because it's starting to hurt my kids, you know, at

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Speaker 1: but at the same time, they're also looking for an

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Speaker 1: adult to protect them, right, And I don't want my

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Speaker 1: kids to be complainers, and I also don't want them

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Speaker 1: But we that close. We all make the playoffs, so

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Speaker 1: we all see these teams again and hopefully we'll have

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Speaker 1: the end that we desire. Other than that, went to

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Speaker 1: the Chargers game after that. Look how focused I am.

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Speaker 1: I am such a committed coach and committed father that

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Speaker 1: I actually went to my Charger game late. Got there,

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Speaker 1: Chargers usually beat the agg One thing, the Charge is

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Speaker 1: good for beating the Raiders. We do not lose to

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Speaker 1: the Raiders. I don't even know what the record is.

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Speaker 1: It just don't feel like we ever lose to the Raiders.

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Speaker 1: So it was good. You know stadium, they took over

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Speaker 1: Point being, they circle where they want to go. If

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Speaker 1: That simple, so all good. We won. And now let

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Speaker 1: that moment showing them antics. I am a coach. He's

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Speaker 1: a coach with different level coaches, but coaches. We know coaches.

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Speaker 1: I know coaches. Coaches get it wrong all the time,

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Speaker 1: all the time. Look, I've gotten it wrong the last

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Speaker 1: two weeks, right, the first week a couple weeks ago,

425
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Speaker 1: our first game we lost, told the kids to hand

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Speaker 1: the ball off. I emphasized overhand, the underhand. That matters

427
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Speaker 1: in our league. That's on me. I didn't Also, this week,

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Speaker 1: we up by two points. It's two minutes to go.

429
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Speaker 1: We can't really run out the clock just yet. They

430
00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:04,600
Speaker 1: got two timeouts. We got to get a first down.

431
00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:08,399
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah. But I shouldn't have threw the ball

432
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Speaker 1: where I threw the ball. I told him to throw

433
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Speaker 1: the ball, he threw it. That was his second interception

434
00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:14,920
Speaker 1: of the game. I digressed, could have took care of

435
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:17,560
Speaker 1: him better, put him in a better position to succeed.

436
00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:22,600
Speaker 1: I was wrong in that moment. I feel now coaches

437
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Speaker 1: watch a ton of film for one reason in this conversation,

438
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Speaker 1: one reason because they know they get it wrong what

439
00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:30,439
Speaker 1: I tell y'all to begin in the show. I go

440
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Speaker 1: back and watch clips of my son and everybody, because

441
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Speaker 1: I know in that moment I ain't get it all.

442
00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:36,679
Speaker 1: I didn't catch it all. Now, this was explicit, This

443
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Speaker 1: was simple. Twelve minute the field. Who the hell substitution? Right?

444
00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:44,000
Speaker 1: That's simple. But coach, you still gotta teach the team

445
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Speaker 1: accountability by you also remembering that at times you have

446
00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:52,800
Speaker 1: been wrong. That's why coaches watched that film in the dark,

447
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:55,640
Speaker 1: and they sit there and they learn from it, right,

448
00:22:56,119 --> 00:23:01,359
Speaker 1: and they're quiet corridors. They're allowed to criticize themselves without

449
00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:03,720
Speaker 1: the critics being in the room. But the mistakes are

450
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:06,800
Speaker 1: there on that video, yep. And that's why film is

451
00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:08,520
Speaker 1: therapy so many coach You want to want to know

452
00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:11,320
Speaker 1: why partly they watch so much film because they over

453
00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:15,160
Speaker 1: there without all of the criticism, without all of the noise,

454
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:19,679
Speaker 1: breaking themselves down to get better accountability. So coach on

455
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Speaker 1: the sideline, please don't have the antics to the point

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Speaker 1: to the point where it looks like it's our fault,

457
00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:32,280
Speaker 1: not our fault. I get it. You know, what do

458
00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:35,720
Speaker 1: they say when you win, you say y'all. What they

459
00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:38,439
Speaker 1: say when you win, it is we When we lose,

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Speaker 1: it's me. In that moment, it looked like he was

461
00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:46,119
Speaker 1: saying y'all and that ain't a good coach in that moment.

462
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Speaker 1: But hey, I don't want to micro assess everything, but

463
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Speaker 1: there are moments when you know a coach is trying

464
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Speaker 1: to dictate terms to you. But in this moment, I

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Speaker 1: don't see any positivity that came out of that everybody.

466
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Speaker 1: Now you undress your assistance and coaches, and then it's

467
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 1: gonna try and employ and empower them to now make

468
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Speaker 1: sure that these players know what to do. I have

469
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Speaker 1: to use this them dog cursed him. You think I

470
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Speaker 1: got that same respect for him? H you do? Oh?

471
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Speaker 1: You tripping you bout the fool. So in that situation,

472
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Speaker 1: I was just sitting there like Trent, this ain't gonna

473
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Speaker 1: win in this moment. You may look like the big

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Speaker 1: man on sidelines, but after this guy's gonna lose something

475
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Speaker 1: for you in terms of I respect the meter, trust me.

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00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:31,480
Speaker 1: I've never had a coach like that. Never. Now I

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Speaker 1: think Trent's like that, I ain't gonna lie. This is

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Speaker 1: me being a hypothetical detective HD. I think all of

479
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Speaker 1: that criticism of when he played, he harbors some of that.

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Speaker 1: Why do I say that, because there's some frustration in

481
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Speaker 1: my man when you are a super Bowl champion, a

482
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Speaker 1: former pro no matter who criticizing you on the college ranks,

483
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:59,600
Speaker 1: on the sidelines and their newspapers articles, they ain't trend Dilfer.

484
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Speaker 1: But somehow, some way he doesn't feel like Trent differ

485
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:08,240
Speaker 1: because y'all, when he was turning differ. Y'all were cutting

486
00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:10,480
Speaker 1: them down, y'all were chopping them up. Y'a were chopping

487
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:12,720
Speaker 1: his knees. So I think some of that is there,

488
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 1: the flex you know how it goes. Who are the

489
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:17,400
Speaker 1: worst coaches you see? I tell you who they are,

490
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:22,160
Speaker 1: the ones who didn't realize their dreams, didn't make it,

491
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:25,800
Speaker 1: or in this case, maybe somebody who made it but

492
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Speaker 1: had a tougher experience in terms of respect and acceptance

493
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Speaker 1: than they wanted and then desired. But the worst coaches

494
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Speaker 1: I see are always the same. He was good, not

495
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Speaker 1: good enough, and boy, y'all gonna pay for it because y'all,

496
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Speaker 1: y'all might have a chance. I hate them coaches, So

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Speaker 1: I never had a coach like that. Bill Parcells was

498
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Speaker 1: the only coach that had some of that like gangster

499
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Speaker 1: in them. But even by the time I got to

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Speaker 1: a parcels oh four, he kind of had most of

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Speaker 1: that was going Marty Schottenheimer same way. Marty Schottenheimer had

502
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Speaker 1: converted that to passion. He would cry every day, reci peace,

503
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:03,880
Speaker 1: Marty Sucker cry every day. But he ain't go overboard

504
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 1: like that. So I would never allow my kid to

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Speaker 1: play for a coach like that. Because I know it's

506
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,159
Speaker 1: another way up the mountain, and you can say what

507
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:12,200
Speaker 1: you want and say he's soft. I was like, yeah

508
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Speaker 1: you are food, Yeah you a problem. You got angry issues, bruh,

509
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 1: Like you can't get it out better than that. Tell

510
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 1: me if I'm right, Tell me if I'm wrong in

511
00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 1: those comments right now? And how do y'all think these

512
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:30,400
Speaker 1: public disprays a frustration like what Trent Dilford did impact

513
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:33,719
Speaker 1: his effectiveness for real and the team's morale. You think

514
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:36,520
Speaker 1: they respect him the same, respect them more or respect

515
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:39,240
Speaker 1: them less? And do y'all think this justified? Look? I

516
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:42,720
Speaker 1: don't seen every coach lose it, but at the same time,

517
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:45,399
Speaker 1: this felt different than losing. And asked Marcus Spears, I

518
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,560
Speaker 1: don't know. He donet seen a lot of coaches losing too.

519
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 1: This looked different. And there are any situations where the

520
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:55,399
Speaker 1: actions are justified. You're like, hey, hey, you remembered up, homie,

521
00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:57,919
Speaker 1: you dropped the ball, and it's okay for coach to

522
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:01,760
Speaker 1: go do that skirt skirt. Oh that's another thing if

523
00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 1: you dated somebody, that says s Kirse Kurt, I know

524
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 1: y'all broke up too. Let me stop this judgment. I'm

525
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:09,119
Speaker 1: gonna do it all day. Hey, make sure you go

526
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 1: to Project transition dot org log on. Hey, leave you

527
00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:13,919
Speaker 1: email if you just want to leave you email. Hey.

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00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:15,200
Speaker 1: I want to be a part of the team, part

529
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:17,920
Speaker 1: of the part of what y'all building over there. Same time,

530
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 1: I'm good homing do that or leave a donation, but

531
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 1: the best thing will be to leave a recurring donation.

532
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:26,720
Speaker 1: And you get this book right here, My life right

533
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 1: there comes to you and every single day. I want

534
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:33,240
Speaker 1: to be able to read about you recurring donors every

535
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:36,160
Speaker 1: single day, cause you know why, those kids need our support,

536
00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:40,240
Speaker 1: our reinforcement, our encouragement every single day. So today we

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00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 1: at nine. Whoa go, people, Let's see what we got tomorrow?

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00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:48,280
Speaker 1: All right, Well we saw we got on Saturday a

539
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:51,080
Speaker 1: Tale of two gangs. Well this was a tale of

540
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:53,119
Speaker 1: the man. This ship, I don't know Gilligan's I tell

541
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:55,920
Speaker 1: them to found this Shaw. You remember that no sump

542
00:27:56,000 --> 00:28:00,200
Speaker 1: talking about something this hold up follow up for ah Man.

543
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 1: I hated it when people judged what you liked growing

544
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:04,160
Speaker 1: up like I love Gilligans Out. And then I told

545
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:06,640
Speaker 1: my boys, I remember growing like you like that corny show.

546
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:09,399
Speaker 1: I'm really you know. I like facts of like to

547
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,160
Speaker 1: take the good, you take the badge, to take them both,

548
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 1: and there you got the facts of like I was like, yeah,

549
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 1: I like facts of like who ain't thinking two Dy

550
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:19,160
Speaker 1: the finest woman alive right now? Or Charlene from different

551
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:21,240
Speaker 1: strokes point of being, Hey, you got Judge because you

552
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:23,680
Speaker 1: like the show right and now this one I did

553
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:25,959
Speaker 1: get Dukes of Hazzard. I used to love who just

554
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 1: a good old boy. I had the card every day,

555
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:31,920
Speaker 1: I had the whole city. Then one day somebody like,

556
00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 1: hey man, look at that flag. I was like, yeah,

557
00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:35,720
Speaker 1: it's dope, this General Leaf flag. They're like the food.

558
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:38,880
Speaker 1: Ain't no General Leaf flag? You know that flag is?

559
00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:42,920
Speaker 1: I said, no, my brothers, I'm nine, What the hell?

560
00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:45,320
Speaker 1: I don't even know all the state flags? What you mean?

561
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 1: He's like, oh man. Then I started watching the show

562
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 1: a little different, just like w w F when you

563
00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 1: find out it was choreographed, when you find out that

564
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 1: ain't no brothers on Dukes hass. I was like, really,

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00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: h wait a minute, all let's talk about Gus Johnson

566
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:04,200
Speaker 1: right here, because wait a minute, when you bias towards

567
00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:07,440
Speaker 1: Colorado and not towards USC did you keep a balanced

568
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 1: approach in this conversation. Okay, they got some evidence. Just

569
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 1: go back if you don't believe, because fans are perplexed,

570
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 1: as they said, listening to Johnson do these two different calls. Okay,

571
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:24,520
Speaker 1: when he did a USC call, Marshaon Lloyd scored twenty

572
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 1: seven yard touchdown, he kind of was like, here am radio, right,

573
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 1: and then when all of a sudden thirty yard touchdown

574
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 1: passed from Shaduur Sanders to Jimmy Horn. Now there was

575
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:42,120
Speaker 1: a different level of enthusiasm throughout the broadcast. Let's just

576
00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:44,480
Speaker 1: say that. Some say it was way more animated for

577
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 1: Colorado and not so much USC. Now, I know in

578
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 1: this moment they want to make your racial but they

579
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:54,680
Speaker 1: not because Colorado dion and then link urd USC. But

580
00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 1: I know they didn't go there because that's stupid, right, right,

581
00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 1: even though they saying Colorado games or the BT Awards,

582
00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:05,480
Speaker 1: they saying stilly stupid. Somebody was like BT wards. The

583
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 1: point is, y'all know his brothers all on both sides,

584
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,760
Speaker 1: who cares? All, Right, let's talk about this. I think

585
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,800
Speaker 1: this is where they went because everybody's caught up in

586
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 1: this hype of Colorado and whether it's Gus Johnson because

587
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:19,680
Speaker 1: he's black or Gus Johnson because he's always hyping. You

588
00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 1: can meet hype and hype. He gonna be hyper. Who

589
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 1: I love Gus Johnson's salute to him. He knows last

590
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Speaker 1: time we talked much respect giving on both sides. Man,

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Speaker 1: I got deep love for how he does it. It

592
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 1: was a tail of two games. So watching them get

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Speaker 1: beat down be real. Watching USC beat down Colorado in

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Speaker 1: the beginning, was it twenty eight zero? You're like, all right, expected,

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00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 1: all right? Whatever? Boring rigamaro. Oh see, it just happened

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00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:52,400
Speaker 1: to me naturally. Oh they coming back. It could have

597
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 1: been in USC. Oh, they coming back. That's how it goes, right,

598
00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:03,040
Speaker 1: So he talking about USC, I expected doing it, still

599
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:07,880
Speaker 1: doing my job amazingly. But right here Colorado, oh oh

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Speaker 1: oh eight forty one, Like when you get hyped for

601
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 1: somebody trying to do that, when you get hype rooting

602
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 1: David on to go get your life right. So I

603
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:21,160
Speaker 1: think that's what happened here, more so than he had

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00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 1: a rooting interest with Colorado than USC. But tell me,

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00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 1: come mean, look, he doing the biggest games on Fox.

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Speaker 1: Trust me, he gonna be doing a lot more usc

607
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 1: longer this year and see might not. They got a

608
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 1: hell of a schedule. It's tough, but see got squad

609
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 1: for real. So let me take you guys back to

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00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 1: the days of when you had to hide your fandom

611
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:46,200
Speaker 1: when you were on air. Remember those days when it

612
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:49,000
Speaker 1: was taboo to say what team you really like? And

613
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 1: people who didn't really complain that much. We didn't have

614
00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:54,800
Speaker 1: social media like that, but still people weren't complaining that much,

615
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 1: but they were like, yo, who you think you know?

616
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Speaker 1: You got Jess Patriots? Who do you think who you got? Who?

617
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:02,719
Speaker 1: You'd be like, I'm just doing the game. And then

618
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 1: really it was because there was a battery in our

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Speaker 1: back saying you better not have any energy towards one

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Speaker 1: of those teams and biased the executives. We had an

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Speaker 1: order that we couldn't step in it be neutral, be unbiased.

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00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:18,760
Speaker 1: That was the rule, that was the way. And then

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Speaker 1: all of a sudden, cats, I mean, the industry just

624
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:25,720
Speaker 1: kept growing. Maybe you couldn't police it the same, Maybe

625
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 1: because it became more authentic, more fragmented. You guys wanted

626
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 1: more of the real person instead of just like the broadcaster.

627
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:37,000
Speaker 1: I remember I start banging my Clippers. I start banging

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Speaker 1: them Clippers yep. I was like, what's up this West

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Speaker 1: Side Clippers? Homey? What up Clips City? You know? And

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Speaker 1: I and no, Lie, the more I talk about the Clippers,

631
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Speaker 1: the more the producers in the X was like, talk

632
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Speaker 1: about the Clippers because nobody was talking about the Clippers

633
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 1: were two. It was the whole Like, Wow, I thought

634
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Speaker 1: the fans would be mad that you were biased. They

635
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:03,600
Speaker 1: wouldn't be mad. They'd be like, he doing it tongue

636
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Speaker 1: in cheek or that's who he is, and all right,

637
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 1: as long as you keep it real about when you're

638
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Speaker 1: talking good and bad about him. And I was like,

639
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 1: all right, I will. And I've always even through the process,

640
00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 1: as much as I'm a Clipper lover, I wouldn't a

641
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 1: Laker hater. I always get the Lakers their props, sir.

642
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 1: I mean, I knew a lot of those guys, and

643
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Speaker 1: on top of that, they were just better than us

644
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 1: for a long time. Yeah, we would beat them, we

645
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:24,800
Speaker 1: would win more regular season games, but then they'll get

646
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Speaker 1: the championship. Still, Kobe got two. Then you mess around

647
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:33,040
Speaker 1: to Lebron, I won that's three championships and what thirteen years?

648
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:35,479
Speaker 1: How mean? We got none in it forevery year, so

649
00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:38,720
Speaker 1: I caught it. Point being, it was just amazing to

650
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 1: watch not only the fans changed their minds about things,

651
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 1: but also the executives and the executive orders of now

652
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Speaker 1: lean into it. So now Mike Greenberg Greeney, every time

653
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Speaker 1: the Jets come on, you already know you already know

654
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 1: how it's gonna go down. Stephen A. Smith, the Knicks

655
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Speaker 1: already know you know that's how the game goes, etc.

656
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Speaker 1: Et cetera, et cetera. So it's kind of the same

657
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:06,240
Speaker 1: as gambling. Like gambling at one time was taboo. Now

658
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:08,480
Speaker 1: you got guys talking through the spread. You're like, what

659
00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:10,920
Speaker 1: you who go win the game? Well minus three and

660
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Speaker 1: a halfs? You're like, who's gonna win the game? Seriously? Right?

661
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:21,320
Speaker 1: And that's coming from what executive order? Why US bets

662
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Speaker 1: DraftKings fan duel all up in there. It's real, man.

663
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Speaker 1: So I'm glad it's this way. Now it's gonna go

664
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Speaker 1: even further because I don't like being inauthentic. I hate

665
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666
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667
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Speaker 1: broadcast did y'all see Gus Johnson out there leaning one

668
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669
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670
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671
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672
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673
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674
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675
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676
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677
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678
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710
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Speaker 1: Ebedy k Williams, she's on this show again. She famous.

711
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Speaker 1: She used to be a housewife, so oh better look out, annam.

712
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:02,239
Speaker 1: But to watch yourself, you're about to be famous like this.

713
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Speaker 1: Every time she says something, it seems like it's sparking

714
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Speaker 1: a lot of conversation and controversy. Excuse me, dirty, excuse me.

715
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 1: It's pretty good for her. Let's talk about her next

716
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:17,919
Speaker 1: video that it was trending this weekend, which is about

717
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 1: kind of over here hurting right now. I'm so sorry, y'all,

718
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:25,839
Speaker 1: where she was talking about young black women versus young

719
00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 1: white women and how they go to college with different mindsets.

720
00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:33,399
Speaker 1: I guess that's a general way of saying it. All right,

721
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:35,719
Speaker 1: So it was an article that said that she was

722
00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:37,840
Speaker 1: taking out of context. That's why it blew up. You know,

723
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:39,719
Speaker 1: it's funny. A lot of things do blow up when

724
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 1: you take them out of context. Why because usually when

725
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 1: things are in context properly neat, you know, curated, it's

726
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 1: almost too clean, for you to mess it up, for

727
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:55,560
Speaker 1: everyone to have different opinions on it, it becomes very

728
00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 1: binary almost like yeah, I'm with it. No, well, but

729
00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:01,160
Speaker 1: when it's taken out of context, what what do you mean?

730
00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:03,600
Speaker 1: What they say? Why they do that? And you see

731
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 1: already all these questions and then all of those are

732
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 1: antennas for you to just take a different directions for real.

733
00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:11,920
Speaker 1: I'm not sure people do it on purpose, but I

734
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:14,800
Speaker 1: do know the unintended consequences of something taking out of context,

735
00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:17,239
Speaker 1: even from you, is to be like wait, wait, wait,

736
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:19,240
Speaker 1: wait wait, and then you're gonna have to go clarify

737
00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:21,719
Speaker 1: blah blah blah, and then they're be like noah, nah nah,

738
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:23,759
Speaker 1: I heard this, And y'all just getting to that tug

739
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:25,879
Speaker 1: of war, all right, So she's into this one right here.

740
00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:32,239
Speaker 1: She's talking about the mrs degree right, miss degree. All right,

741
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:36,839
Speaker 1: we already know where women aim to secure fiance by graduation.

742
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 1: That's what the white women were showing in their video clips.

743
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:44,319
Speaker 1: But she emphasized cultural differences and goals between black and

744
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 1: white female college students. Not only am I experienced and

745
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:53,400
Speaker 1: an expert on this subject because I went to college

746
00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 1: and I know women and I dated women in college,

747
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 1: but also have a college graduate what are a master's

748
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:04,359
Speaker 1: and from Columbia as a daughter. So let's talk through this.

749
00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 1: This is real, so she said, Historically, black women have

750
00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:11,160
Speaker 1: been taught to focus on education, careers, and financial stability

751
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:14,279
Speaker 1: before seeking the mate, which differs from the get the

752
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:20,319
Speaker 1: ring by spring mentality of white females. We get those generalizations.

753
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:24,040
Speaker 1: Nobody could lie about that. So it also underscores where

754
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 1: some of the fuel for this thought was, well, look

755
00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:31,880
Speaker 1: at your suitors, look at your counterparts, look at the

756
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:35,440
Speaker 1: men white men versus black men and black men, and

757
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:37,680
Speaker 1: the war on drugs on black men and the mass

758
00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 1: incarceration against black men have influenced the choices of black women,

759
00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 1: pushing them to prioritize their career in financial independence. Basically,

760
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 1: the dudes ain't there in the house. You know, the

761
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 1: welfare state. How that incentivized women to marry the government

762
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:56,160
Speaker 1: and not marry a man. Then dudes are caught up

763
00:39:56,160 --> 00:40:00,400
Speaker 1: in the war on drugs and mass incarceration, etc. Okay,

764
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:03,760
Speaker 1: one thing I want to poke at is the fact

765
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:08,880
Speaker 1: that the war on drugs and mass incarceration. Obviously in sentencing,

766
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:13,520
Speaker 1: we've seen how drastically different. It was for those caught

767
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 1: what crack versus those caught with regular powder cocaine. We

768
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:21,800
Speaker 1: seen those reports, et cetera, and a lot of times

769
00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 1: that is mapped on based on race. It's not congruent,

770
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:30,719
Speaker 1: but it's certainly there was some correlations. Right, Let's say that.

771
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:35,440
Speaker 1: But as a brother, as a dude from the neighborhood,

772
00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:39,120
Speaker 1: there was a war on drugs where there was mass incarceration.

773
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 1: Let me just say this. The sentencing was messed up.

774
00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:44,839
Speaker 1: But you didn't have to join that war. You didn't

775
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:47,279
Speaker 1: have to join that fight. You didn't have to. I

776
00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:49,920
Speaker 1: had uncles who did. I had family members who did.

777
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:51,840
Speaker 1: I have friends who did. I have friends who didn't.

778
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 1: And I'm one of those people who didn't. I just

779
00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 1: want to get that out there. Now, y'all take it

780
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:57,600
Speaker 1: and go where you want. But when we say that,

781
00:40:57,680 --> 00:40:59,880
Speaker 1: let's not be so simple and lazy like the war

782
00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:02,400
Speaker 1: forced you to get drafted into it. This is not

783
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:04,520
Speaker 1: that type of war. This type of war was a

784
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:06,920
Speaker 1: person saying, man, I don't have any options, so I

785
00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 1: got to go make money somehow, So I'm gonna do

786
00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:10,680
Speaker 1: it this way and sell it to my people. And

787
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:13,400
Speaker 1: but you had an option, You had other options. You

788
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:15,480
Speaker 1: didn't liked them options, but you had them. Let's just

789
00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 1: get that. Okay, So now we get back on this.

790
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:21,920
Speaker 1: Ebone and doctor Bean suggest that college is the opportunity

791
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:24,439
Speaker 1: time for black women to meet potential partners who master

792
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 1: educational and life goals. Yes, this goal is kind of

793
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:30,279
Speaker 1: in sync with Tyler Perry talking about struggle love and

794
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:34,440
Speaker 1: the difficulty of finding suitable partners as successful black women

795
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 1: get older. Okay, so they all talk about how you

796
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 1: know this starts off with high standards and not wanting

797
00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 1: to compromise in your relationships. But then if you don't

798
00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:46,399
Speaker 1: do that in compromise, how in the hell you're gonna

799
00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:48,359
Speaker 1: find somebody I love? When people say they I want

800
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:53,640
Speaker 1: to compromise, have you ever looked in the mirror? Your

801
00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:58,200
Speaker 1: ass ain't perfect? How about this? You are far from perfect,

802
00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 1: including me. I got a gut right now. He ain't big,

803
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 1: it ain't little, though. Come on now, I don't look

804
00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:11,319
Speaker 1: like them, whoever they are. I mean, I'm a good

805
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 1: looking dude. I ain't great looking though. It's somebody finer

806
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:17,279
Speaker 1: than me. Like compromise, What the compromise? Let me just

807
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 1: tell y'all. I've had this argument too many times to

808
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 1: even say this. My favorite wildism to shut all of

809
00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:28,640
Speaker 1: this down is this, Stop talking about your standards. Stop

810
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:33,760
Speaker 1: talking about what you bringing, cause that ain't it. Don't

811
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:38,759
Speaker 1: miss the boat waiting on a yacht and let me

812
00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 1: just tell you your ass try to swim across that

813
00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna make it look. I know them for

814
00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:48,680
Speaker 1: every single girl and dude, and none of them are happy.

815
00:42:49,200 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 1: I know dudes who get divorced and already got girlfriends.

816
00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:54,879
Speaker 1: Why cause we built to be together. Now, that don't

817
00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:57,239
Speaker 1: mean it's gonna be perfect together. He may cheat on her,

818
00:42:57,320 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 1: she may cheat on him. It may not end well,

819
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:03,680
Speaker 1: ain't not in like they desire. But we built to

820
00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 1: do it again. We built to be together. We built

821
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:10,080
Speaker 1: this city. We are built to be together, y'all. So

822
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 1: stop the bs. And there's somebody for everybody people say no,

823
00:43:14,800 --> 00:43:18,200
Speaker 1: there's not, Yes, there are now. There are more women

824
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:20,640
Speaker 1: than men. I know, I ain't get it. And if

825
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:22,480
Speaker 1: you master them all up, somebody gonna be left out

826
00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:24,919
Speaker 1: in the dark. I know, I know. But guess what,

827
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:27,160
Speaker 1: y'all have a factory in Some people don't want to

828
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:29,359
Speaker 1: get married, and they gonna fight that struggle. They gonna

829
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:32,799
Speaker 1: swim across. I know a few of my homies they're like,

830
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:35,480
Speaker 1: don't forget that, I'm always gonna be in these streets. Honey.

831
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:40,920
Speaker 1: He don't count then good? All right, guess what I got, homegirls,

832
00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:43,720
Speaker 1: I'm the one. I'm the one. Ain't nobody like being good?

833
00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 1: You don't count you helping the numbers out. Good for y'all,

834
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 1: But don't miss the boat waiting on the yard. I

835
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 1: get sick and tired. My girlfriend, my daughter has a boyfriend.

836
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:58,520
Speaker 1: Let me be real about it. My daughter's a really

837
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 1: good girl. I don't know she gonna marry him. I

838
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:01,960
Speaker 1: ain't even gonna put him on blasts like that. I

839
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:04,239
Speaker 1: ain't gonna put that pressure on him. Live your life,

840
00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 1: young man, Live your life, young woman. However she wants

841
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 1: to get married, she'll get married. Why because she wants

842
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:14,279
Speaker 1: to get married and she's a great person. And it

843
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:19,759
Speaker 1: ain't that deep. I ain't nobody if I have my homeboys, wool,

844
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:21,520
Speaker 1: we used to walk in this party, walking the club.

845
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 1: I mean, ain't nobody in here. Ain't nothing in here,

846
00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 1: whether they were talking about tonight or they were talking

847
00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:30,359
Speaker 1: about for you know, I do they were like, ain't

848
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 1: nobody in here, Ain't no wife's sitting here, Ain't no

849
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:34,720
Speaker 1: wife he's in there, and ain't nobody mess around with tonight?

850
00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:37,439
Speaker 1: And I was like, are you in here? And they'd

851
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:39,640
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, fool, I'm right here. It's time up.

852
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 1: I was like, well, then, if you hear they here.

853
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:45,320
Speaker 1: A law of attraction, a law of association, it always

854
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:48,120
Speaker 1: works that way. If you want it, you go get it.

855
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:49,840
Speaker 1: Somebody else gonna want and go get it with you

856
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:53,400
Speaker 1: because they both wanted. Stop thinking you so damn unique.

857
00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:55,799
Speaker 1: Stop thinking you so you the star of all the

858
00:44:55,840 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 1: shows that only you qualify, only in you wanted only

859
00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:06,200
Speaker 1: in you? Is there one like stop oh imperfect? And boy,

860
00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:08,959
Speaker 1: give me specific names, and I tell you I chop

861
00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:11,200
Speaker 1: them down because I chop myself down first. There I'll

862
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:13,440
Speaker 1: be like, once I'm chopped, you chopped too, or I

863
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:16,040
Speaker 1: could do it? Come on? Oh uh nink in my degree?

864
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:20,799
Speaker 1: Nincot my degree? Eh? Okay? What else? Oh yeah, I

865
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:23,680
Speaker 1: got my own job? What else? First of all, dudes

866
00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:25,839
Speaker 1: in general don't care about how much money you make.

867
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:28,759
Speaker 1: Do feel like that's all him? So you bringing all

868
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:30,520
Speaker 1: that money, like all right, that's cute. I gotta go

869
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 1: get mine still, so like you know, when nobody's trying

870
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:35,480
Speaker 1: to negate that, but they at the same time, if

871
00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:38,239
Speaker 1: you're trying to impress him, gotta come a different way.

872
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:40,840
Speaker 1: You gotta come in one. Let's just be real. You

873
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:42,920
Speaker 1: gotta look good now looking good look different than a

874
00:45:42,960 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 1: lot of people. Me and my boys never fought. Weould

875
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:46,680
Speaker 1: always sayd we never fight at the club, cause well,

876
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:49,680
Speaker 1: why they won't we don't. I used to like real

877
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:52,520
Speaker 1: pretty faces, and I ain't care nothing else. It could

878
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 1: have been on a trot, she could have been her

879
00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:56,480
Speaker 1: legs could have been a tripod, three legs, this kidding.

880
00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:58,719
Speaker 1: I ain't care if her face is pretty. I'm like, oh,

881
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:00,319
Speaker 1: cause I used to always say we go to I'm

882
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 1: just looking. I'm like, oh, you're so beautiful. Stupid. But

883
00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:07,479
Speaker 1: point is or softball players, you know, five to six,

884
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:11,160
Speaker 1: one ninety, you're like got Dad Wiley. Nobody fight with me.

885
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:13,439
Speaker 1: Then my boy's like other types. The point is there's

886
00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 1: a type for everybody, because it's your type, your type.

887
00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:19,440
Speaker 1: Second thing is be somebody's type after that, and be

888
00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:23,040
Speaker 1: a good person. Damn it, stop talking, y'all, be skipping.

889
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:29,399
Speaker 1: Good person. Like, just be pleasant, polite, respectful, emit, emit light.

890
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:34,600
Speaker 1: Cats will will love you. It's that simple. Now, stop

891
00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:36,560
Speaker 1: thinking that means it's gonna be a perfect life. It

892
00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:40,880
Speaker 1: ain't marriage hard, y'all. Why is it hard? Because you

893
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:42,879
Speaker 1: don't even know yourself fully and you trying to make

894
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:45,160
Speaker 1: it work with somebody else who doesn't know them self fully.

895
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:47,480
Speaker 1: Guess what. There's gonna be some gaps and knowledge. It

896
00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:50,160
Speaker 1: ain't that damn deep tired in women always talk about

897
00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:51,839
Speaker 1: they degrees and who they are. It ain't no man,

898
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:53,359
Speaker 1: and I'm tired to do Some of these girls ain't

899
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:56,319
Speaker 1: nothing and they trifle like you're telling on yourself. Bro,

900
00:46:56,640 --> 00:46:58,960
Speaker 1: that's you. They're telling yourself. If you want it, go

901
00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:02,080
Speaker 1: get it, be greater your greatest excuse. Damnit read this book?

902
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:04,719
Speaker 1: Damnit long on the project Transition, do or do so?

903
00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:07,839
Speaker 1: But nah? I saw this and being real to make

904
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:10,399
Speaker 1: it racial like they did, Cause you know, I ain't

905
00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 1: scared of race. I just don't. I don't lean into

906
00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:19,560
Speaker 1: it these conversations. In general, Black people have a survive mentality.

907
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 1: White people have a thrive mentality. How do I know this?

908
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:26,960
Speaker 1: Two ways? One I used to take care of white

909
00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 1: people growing up. That's why one reason I look at

910
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:31,680
Speaker 1: race a lot different than other people. I had white

911
00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:34,720
Speaker 1: people that needed me growing up, like for their basic

912
00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 1: necessities and needs. Yeah, white people, you imagine that. And

913
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 1: everybody tell you, oh, white people are superior. White people,

914
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 1: you know, the supreme, and they run the country. I'm like,

915
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:45,759
Speaker 1: not the white people. I know they need me and

916
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:47,880
Speaker 1: I'm on welfare and I got more than them, so

917
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:53,040
Speaker 1: stop it. That was one. Two is since I'm bilingual

918
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:56,279
Speaker 1: and have and have nots growing up without nothing. Now

919
00:47:56,320 --> 00:48:01,840
Speaker 1: I got five dollars. I've seen my key. They are

920
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:05,359
Speaker 1: not in the same mindset and mentality and mode I was.

921
00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 1: They are not in a survived mindset. They are in

922
00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:13,719
Speaker 1: a thrive mindset. They are the ooh about to cry.

923
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:16,560
Speaker 1: One of the greatest compliments I ever got, And it

924
00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:18,719
Speaker 1: wasn't really for me, but it was. It was from

925
00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 1: my friend Terry. He came over, shout out to Terry,

926
00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 1: who lives in Mexico, just picked up his bags, him

927
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:27,680
Speaker 1: and his wife moved to Mexico. Loved that we had

928
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:30,719
Speaker 1: a party. And all my parties are typical. I think

929
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:32,839
Speaker 1: all of them kid friendly. I don't like having them

930
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:37,280
Speaker 1: adult only parties. I do, but kid friendly lifeguard. Somebody

931
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:39,680
Speaker 1: watched the kids in the pool, everybody else running around,

932
00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:42,880
Speaker 1: kids playing clean version music. So if kids could hear it,

933
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:47,239
Speaker 1: play paddle tennis over there, pick a ball up there, basketball,

934
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:49,319
Speaker 1: kids running around. Look out for the kids. Have fun.

935
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:53,040
Speaker 1: They know those red cups saying gatorade, have fun. Live.

936
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:58,239
Speaker 1: My boy Terry came to me in that moment. He said, Man,

937
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:03,040
Speaker 1: he said, look at it all these kids. You know,

938
00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 1: my kids included their friends, all types. He said, look

939
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:12,320
Speaker 1: at all these kids, and look how free they are acting.

940
00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:16,920
Speaker 1: You know, but gear it to you real. I got family.

941
00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:20,120
Speaker 1: I grew up where you ever see those kids that's

942
00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:24,240
Speaker 1: super quiet, And it's not because they're shy. It's because

943
00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:26,960
Speaker 1: a lot of their enthusiasm got beat out of them

944
00:49:27,560 --> 00:49:30,839
Speaker 1: by the conditions, by the world, by the naysayers, by

945
00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:33,560
Speaker 1: the system telling them they couldn't. You know, I heard

946
00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 1: it too growing up. Oh you ain't gonna be I'm like,

947
00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:37,440
Speaker 1: who is saying this? If I keep hearing it, I

948
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:40,280
Speaker 1: don't see them, but I hear it right, the people

949
00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:43,560
Speaker 1: stepping on your seeds that you're trying to blossom. And

950
00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:45,759
Speaker 1: he said, Daddy said, look at all these kids, and

951
00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:48,440
Speaker 1: the bunch of black kids too. Of course, he was like,

952
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:50,880
Speaker 1: look at all these kids and how free they acting like,

953
00:49:51,000 --> 00:49:54,560
Speaker 1: just free, not no slavery free, just like they doing

954
00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:57,120
Speaker 1: whatever they want to do and ain't doing nothing bad.

955
00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:01,399
Speaker 1: You know, don't touch that cook Jar, leave the house.

956
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:04,400
Speaker 1: Cookie Jar messed up. I'm not even setting rules. I'm

957
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:06,640
Speaker 1: just saying, hey, don't hurt each other, be nice to

958
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:10,359
Speaker 1: each other. Kids run around doing what they do. They

959
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 1: go over here, bay blade tournaments in the corner. Let

960
00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:19,520
Speaker 1: us go bottle flipping. It's just crazy, right. So I

961
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:21,719
Speaker 1: brought all that up to say that I know that

962
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:26,799
Speaker 1: typically black people are in a survive because of all

963
00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:31,040
Speaker 1: the socioeconomic issues, in a survive mentality, more so than

964
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 1: white people in a thrive mentality. So when they hit college,

965
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:37,400
Speaker 1: guess what happens. They ready to go get it, whereas

966
00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:41,840
Speaker 1: the black people are just trying to get something. I

967
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:44,320
Speaker 1: want to remind people that the greatest transactions of wealth

968
00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:48,560
Speaker 1: in this country, Number one is inheritance. Leave it for yours,

969
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:51,920
Speaker 1: leave it for your family. Inheritance the number one transaction

970
00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 1: of wealth. Number two the institution of marriage. Make it

971
00:50:57,600 --> 00:51:00,200
Speaker 1: a black white issue if you won't all I'm saying

972
00:51:00,400 --> 00:51:03,480
Speaker 1: is be a good person. Emit that light and if

973
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:07,040
Speaker 1: you want it, marriage is good for you and it's

974
00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:10,200
Speaker 1: good for yours. So it's many ways up the love mountain.

975
00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:11,440
Speaker 1: So I ain't here to preach. You don't want to

976
00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:12,919
Speaker 1: get married, go ahead, I just know what you're about

977
00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:15,200
Speaker 1: to go through. You want to get married, go ahead.

978
00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:16,719
Speaker 1: I know what you're about to go through too. Food,

979
00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:20,359
Speaker 1: oh man. But there's the all kinds of degrees of success,

980
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:25,680
Speaker 1: and none is full of proof. Married, married or not married, single,

981
00:51:25,840 --> 00:51:28,319
Speaker 1: not single, But many ways up the mountain. Just make

982
00:51:28,360 --> 00:51:30,239
Speaker 1: sure you get to the top, all right, y'all. So

983
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:33,000
Speaker 1: y'all understand and what y'all think about what Ebany is

984
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:35,759
Speaker 1: talking about, what I'm talking about. Y'all agree with me,

985
00:51:35,800 --> 00:51:37,799
Speaker 1: you agree with her, you agree with both of us,

986
00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:45,040
Speaker 1: disagree with both of us, and tell me better lifestyle.

987
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:49,759
Speaker 1: You gotta pick married or single? That's it. Don't say

988
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:53,160
Speaker 1: I don't know. I ain't ask you the third choice,

989
00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:56,800
Speaker 1: and no third choice. I'm about to die married or single.

990
00:51:56,960 --> 00:51:59,000
Speaker 1: Tell me which one you think is a better life?

991
00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:01,480
Speaker 1: Coming up next? Like, oh, I gotta deal with funcus

992
00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:04,439
Speaker 1: with comments? Oh Courtney, huh? Oh I was about to die.

993
00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:05,719
Speaker 1: So I was just trying to leave y'all all right

994
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:08,000
Speaker 1: to focus on commics. Funcus some comments. Yea, he needs

995
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 1: to stand up for WSH. We talk about Ryan Leaf

996
00:52:11,400 --> 00:52:15,719
Speaker 1: since ESPN on focuses on promoting certain universities. Well out here,

997
00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:19,279
Speaker 1: both universities OSU and WSU had good records going into

998
00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:21,000
Speaker 1: the game and trying to get into the Big twelve,

999
00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:22,960
Speaker 1: and then the game day folks made a joke of

1000
00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:25,719
Speaker 1: those two teams. I stopped watching ESPN Game Day once

1001
00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:30,000
Speaker 1: they created the Longhorn Longhorn Network. Okay, yeah, it's tough

1002
00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:32,279
Speaker 1: for me to say ESPN to state just balanced when

1003
00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:34,480
Speaker 1: they they spend a lot of money for the sec

1004
00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:40,960
Speaker 1: certain teams. I'm with Ryan Leaf's side for different reasons.

1005
00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:43,200
Speaker 1: All this realignment on the surface now looks great, but

1006
00:52:43,320 --> 00:52:45,239
Speaker 1: like all things, it would take a few years until

1007
00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:48,799
Speaker 1: we all see all the consequences play out. When big

1008
00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 1: corporate mergers happen. A lot of people that used to

1009
00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:53,600
Speaker 1: have jobs don't. So what will happen here once all

1010
00:52:53,600 --> 00:52:55,719
Speaker 1: the dust settles. We all know big time big boy

1011
00:52:55,719 --> 00:52:59,319
Speaker 1: football is the driver, but what about the unforeseen? How

1012
00:52:59,360 --> 00:53:02,680
Speaker 1: long before travel becomes an issue? What does Wake Forwards

1013
00:53:02,719 --> 00:53:06,319
Speaker 1: versus Stanford girls softball look like I don't know, I'm

1014
00:53:06,360 --> 00:53:09,439
Speaker 1: not watching. Or do those programs now get canceled because

1015
00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:11,359
Speaker 1: they don't bring in that dough though you already know

1016
00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:15,000
Speaker 1: you answered it. How does nil effect this? We've not

1017
00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:17,879
Speaker 1: even begun to see what the big picture will be here.

1018
00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:21,800
Speaker 1: I could see one day one one big singular conference

1019
00:53:21,800 --> 00:53:24,759
Speaker 1: of thirty forty or so teams just for football, and

1020
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:27,239
Speaker 1: if you're in Minnesota or Iowa State or even like

1021
00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:30,080
Speaker 1: a Purdue, it can spell death. All this may not

1022
00:53:30,120 --> 00:53:33,000
Speaker 1: be the best, but we'll see all real points right there,

1023
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:36,279
Speaker 1: big dog, follow the money. You want to know where

1024
00:53:36,280 --> 00:53:39,080
Speaker 1: this is going. Follow the money? Stephen A want skip

1025
00:53:39,480 --> 00:53:41,640
Speaker 1: Shaq in two thousand and eight, Kobe tell me how

1026
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:44,759
Speaker 1: my ass tastes. Kobe have to winning his fifth got

1027
00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:47,960
Speaker 1: one more than Shaq. Come on, y'all, I don't forget nothing.

1028
00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:51,399
Speaker 1: Alpha men at the top are very competitive. It's how

1029
00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:53,319
Speaker 1: they got where they got, and they are the most

1030
00:53:53,320 --> 00:53:57,640
Speaker 1: competitive with the people closest to them. Yep, Stephen, ain't skip.

1031
00:53:58,280 --> 00:54:00,880
Speaker 1: I like to add, when first really got number one,

1032
00:54:01,080 --> 00:54:02,880
Speaker 1: ESPN had great shows from Mike and Mike all the

1033
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:05,200
Speaker 1: way through the afternoon. You could watch ESPN all day.

1034
00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:07,879
Speaker 1: My husband and I would just watch until Sports Center

1035
00:54:08,160 --> 00:54:10,759
Speaker 1: Undisputed is doing well, considering they are even in the

1036
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:14,760
Speaker 1: conversation with an old dog like First Take, and truly

1037
00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:17,480
Speaker 1: they are alone in that conversation. FS one would have

1038
00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:20,920
Speaker 1: to build an amazing lineup, as ESPN did in order

1039
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:23,640
Speaker 1: to achieve the numbers that ESPN is achieved. Too bad

1040
00:54:23,680 --> 00:54:25,759
Speaker 1: they didn't value what they had because I feel like

1041
00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:28,360
Speaker 1: firing all that talent was a mistake as a whole.

1042
00:54:28,600 --> 00:54:30,279
Speaker 1: I don't really even know any other show on the

1043
00:54:30,440 --> 00:54:33,840
Speaker 1: ESPN except First Take anymore or Real Loss. I remember

1044
00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:35,640
Speaker 1: when I first saw you Max and Beatle the good

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Speaker 1: old days. But I wish you could get Max on

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Speaker 1: here too. People want Max on here one day one

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Speaker 1: day I just saw the other day, wink, I just

1048
00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:47,920
Speaker 1: saw the other day. Steven A. Smith actually jogged up

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Speaker 1: the clip of skipping Shannon's spat during the podcast. Don't

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Speaker 1: give me one bit for the audience who may not

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Speaker 1: have seen. That was a thousand percent to maximize the

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Speaker 1: chances he got a good sound bite response. Bring all

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Speaker 1: him a motions right back for that visceral reaction possibility. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he was baiting Shannon on that podcast. I do admit that,

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Speaker 1: like he wanted, he was like, so what is this,

1056
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Speaker 1: what's this doing? What are you feeling in this moment?

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00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:16,719
Speaker 1: What are you thinking? Oh? You mad? Stopped? Nah, it's

1058
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Speaker 1: just all right, said. It's NFL racist. NFL is no

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00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:24,880
Speaker 1: more racist than the rest of the country. The NFL

1060
00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:27,160
Speaker 1: equally doesn't care about their health any of their players,

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00:55:27,200 --> 00:55:29,080
Speaker 1: and have no problem cutting the player if they get hurt,

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Speaker 1: you know, I mean you could. It's hard NFL racist. No,

1063
00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:38,000
Speaker 1: they be cutting a lot of white dudes. No, they'll

1064
00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:40,759
Speaker 1: be paying a lot of black dudes. No, they care

1065
00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:45,560
Speaker 1: about green Dog this country, Green Brouh twenty twenty three.

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Speaker 1: I ain't reading this. Next one channel Jones, let me

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Speaker 1: get this straight. McDaniels brings him to the Raiders from

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Speaker 1: New England. Jones becomes a radic and blames the same

1069
00:55:53,920 --> 00:55:56,360
Speaker 1: man of killing the X teammate who hung himself in prison,

1070
00:55:56,560 --> 00:55:58,400
Speaker 1: and he goes after Mark Davis as well. At what

1071
00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:00,600
Speaker 1: point do you say enough is enough? I would anyone

1072
00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:03,480
Speaker 1: put up with such shit? Well they don't, they haven't,

1073
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Speaker 1: and they're not. You know what's now? Bye bye? He

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Speaker 1: got cut this Saturday I hope it ends well for him,

1075
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Speaker 1: because boy, that ain't no good. Now he doesn't even

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Speaker 1: have any structure. All right, y'all, y'all know were in

1077
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Speaker 1: the show. We ended with a wiy is pray for

1078
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Speaker 1: challenge Jones. Y'all. Yeah, you can't turn back the clock,

1079
00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:31,879
Speaker 1: but you can wind it up again. You can't turn

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00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:33,799
Speaker 1: back the clock. Nah, man, This is something I need

1081
00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:40,200
Speaker 1: to hear, because God dat every night about four four

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Speaker 1: fourteen and then at four forty four. It happens a

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00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:45,319
Speaker 1: lot to me too, which means the angels are looking

1084
00:56:45,320 --> 00:56:47,440
Speaker 1: out for you. They second whatever. But the point is,

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00:56:47,480 --> 00:56:49,719
Speaker 1: I always start thinking about my day, and I start

1086
00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:54,240
Speaker 1: thinking about what I've been through, like, yeah, wait, who cares?

1087
00:56:54,360 --> 00:56:56,920
Speaker 1: Get your ass up? Stop talking about what you've been through.

1088
00:56:56,960 --> 00:57:01,439
Speaker 1: You ain't wanna do it. Go through something and get

1089
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Speaker 1: to it right. But then I catch myself the football

1090
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Speaker 1: player me. Now, I gotta watch film. I gotta check

1091
00:57:06,440 --> 00:57:08,120
Speaker 1: out what I did. I gotta see if I was

1092
00:57:08,160 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 1: doing it perfectly, efficiently, effectively the best I can, all right,

1093
00:57:11,760 --> 00:57:13,920
Speaker 1: because I ain't get the results I desire to the

1094
00:57:13,920 --> 00:57:16,439
Speaker 1: fullest I could do this, And I watch game film,

1095
00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 1: I'll be in that damn film session all the time. Look, Oh,

1096
00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:22,640
Speaker 1: when I was a kid, it was so hard. Look,

1097
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Speaker 1: Oh what happened to her? Oh? Why my boy? Do

1098
00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:28,600
Speaker 1: me like that? Look? I'm like, if you control this,

1099
00:57:30,280 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 1: you let this shine. It's a rap out there, man.

1100
00:57:34,240 --> 00:57:35,840
Speaker 1: So I know a lot of us get caught up

1101
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:40,200
Speaker 1: and looking back, and we sometimes maybe even disguise it

1102
00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 1: like we're trying to look back to get better, But

1103
00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:44,600
Speaker 1: a lot of times you also get bitter, not better

1104
00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:47,880
Speaker 1: in those moments, much better, much more bitter than better.

1105
00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:51,840
Speaker 1: Just know that you gotta go forward or what you're thinking,

1106
00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:54,000
Speaker 1: but you gotta know what you've been through to get there, right,

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00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:56,680
Speaker 1: And I get it, I get it. A lot of

1108
00:57:56,680 --> 00:57:59,040
Speaker 1: this stuff builds us. It gives us the character that

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00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:01,040
Speaker 1: we need to go out there and attack what's next.

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Speaker 1: But just remember as you're going through that process, man,

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00:58:03,920 --> 00:58:06,760
Speaker 1: because sometimes it takes some of your fuel away. Sometimes

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Speaker 1: it takes some of your energy away. And we're all

1113
00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:12,440
Speaker 1: energy vessels just walking around here exchanging it, not creating it,

1114
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Speaker 1: not destroying it, just exchanging it. So remember you can't

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Speaker 1: turn back the clock, b bike, but you can't wind

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Speaker 1: it up again. All right, y'all, that'll do It. For

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Speaker 1: more to It, check the show notes for all the

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Speaker 1: information on our topics today today. Want to keep the

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Speaker 1: conversation going, Let's talk. Find me on all socials at

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Speaker 1: Marcel's Wiley. More Too is a production of Dan Patrick

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Speaker 1: Production That Dude Entertainment and workhouse Media. Show is executive

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