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Speaker 1: with I R Radio. I mean, we just keep coming back.

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Speaker 1: We're definitely leaving. This is season five, episode seven, Bin

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Speaker 1: and actually I Almost Famous Podcast. I think it's been

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Speaker 1: a full year. I think it's been a full year

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Speaker 1: as of this week. That's insane. Actually, it's been a

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Speaker 1: great year with you. Um, you just keep getting better.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, stop, thank you. Uh, actually we missed

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Speaker 1: you last week. I missed Lost Angeles to see you,

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Speaker 1: and uh, you disappeared onto the East coast. How was

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Speaker 1: your trip? It was really good. Um, I just I

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Speaker 1: went all over the place, but it was basically New

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Speaker 1: York and Virginia. Um. I went to a bon Jovi

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Speaker 1: concert with one of our favorite producers, Pete Scalatar. He

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Speaker 1: used to work on the show. That was cool. I

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Speaker 1: saw two Broadway shows, Kinky Boots, which was out standing

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Speaker 1: home to Virginia to see my mom on Mother's Day.

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Speaker 1: That's amazing. Well, welcome back to Los Angeles. Hey, everybody,

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, if you for some reason

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Speaker 1: falling uh, into the podcasting world, and you came across

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Speaker 1: to almost in this podcast, and you're asking yourself right now,

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Speaker 1: what is this? And I don't want to listen to

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Speaker 1: these two people any longer. I'm telling you hold up

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Speaker 1: for one second, because here, within the next five minutes,

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Speaker 1: we are about to make podcasting history. We're going to

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Speaker 1: have a surprise guest on this podcast that I believe

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Speaker 1: might make Astley I Cannet East faint. I'm not, I'm not.

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Speaker 1: You know the podcast, you know, the podcast Super Guests,

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Speaker 1: Surprise Guests. Actually, just pause for a second here because

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Speaker 1: we gotta get into Bachelor news before we bring on

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Speaker 1: our surprise guests. Bachelor news. Actually, we've came across the

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Speaker 1: little article this week from an interview between Andy Cohen

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Speaker 1: and Charlie Barron, which is wild to me that she

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Speaker 1: is even comedy on The Bachelor, but she blacked task

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Speaker 1: the Bachelor Ari Lion Dyke, but really promote and supports

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Speaker 1: Becca's uh next run as a bachelorette. Isn't it crazy

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Speaker 1: to think that you know a list actresses or actors

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Speaker 1: or celebrities just so involved in the show. Well, she

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Speaker 1: got Sean Penn into the show back when they were dating,

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Speaker 1: and I remember Caitlin watching I think he was on

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Speaker 1: talking about how much he loved Caitlin and hope that

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Speaker 1: she was the next bachelorette, and it was just like

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Speaker 1: Caitlin was just astonished and yeah again, I mean Charlie

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Speaker 1: Starret it's it's that's no bless celebrity that is straight

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Speaker 1: a list. It's pretty cool. It is really cool. Uh

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Speaker 1: not a fan of Arica. I mean we said it

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Speaker 1: last week on the pcast. I don't know if you're

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Speaker 1: able to hear it not. Actually, Becca will be walking

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Speaker 1: into becoming the bactor has probably the most supported and

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Speaker 1: loved the Bachelor ever. I don't know, come on, Jojo.

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Speaker 1: Everybody was obsessed with Jojo. I get it, No, Joe.

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Speaker 1: I mean, we've had amazing guy threat Like, we could

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Speaker 1: Ari might have done Becca uh the most uh supportive

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Speaker 1: because now everybody loved her. I mean he he. It

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Speaker 1: now nobody wants to see beca kill. Everybody wants to

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Speaker 1: see her succeed. She's walking to this season, I think loved,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, just I'm so happy for her to have

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Speaker 1: it was terrible. It was that, but she's doing just fine.

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Speaker 1: guys this week. Uh, there was a little commercially came out.

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Speaker 1: What about this chicken guy? I mean, every year there's

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Speaker 1: something weird going on, But what makes this guy think

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Speaker 1: that first impression, I'm gonna dress up in a chicken? Sup?

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Speaker 1: Would you be into that? Why is there so many

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Speaker 1: chicken themes in the Batchel I remember a couple of

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Speaker 1: years ago we had Chicken Girl. That was my season.

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Speaker 1: I remember she was in Paradise for like twelve hours

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Speaker 1: I'm like, bitch, come on, now, you can eat a

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Speaker 1: but actually, I gotta be honest. I lived in Peru,

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Speaker 1: that's the thing in Peru. You eat guinea pig. And

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Speaker 1: at one point in my life I had pet guinea pigs.

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Speaker 1: And I still probably get it pet today if I could.

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Speaker 1: I don't get it. You don't get it. It's the

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Speaker 1: same thing. I mean, I don't get how you can

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Speaker 1: you separate that that's like me eating a dog. You well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: understand that fluff. He doesn't taste as bad as he

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Speaker 1: thought he did. Oh my gosh. This goes back to

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Speaker 1: all the things that you were brainwashed when you've lived

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Speaker 1: We just like our animals, like we we support we

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Speaker 1: I had a stuffed animal, a stuffed animal Lamb Lammy,

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Speaker 1: how I feel about this chicken. This just points back,

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Speaker 1: actually to what I say over and over again. You

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Speaker 1: I wonder this season coming up, Rebecca, We've we've met

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Speaker 1: the season, Rebecca, We're in for a good one. I

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Speaker 1: think we're in for love, for catchphrases, let's do this

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Speaker 1: damn thing, and Joe. Joe's advice Rebecca was stay in

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Speaker 1: the moment um. I'm sorry, Ben, I need to interrupt

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Speaker 1: It's gotta be lands back. I have an idea. Should

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Speaker 1: we play a game? Yeah? I have We could have

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Speaker 1: the guests disguise their voice. Disguise their voice. We could

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'll explain that to the guests. Stand by,

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Speaker 1: so maybe use a falsetto or something. But when you

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Speaker 1: You guys? Can I just say that I My heart

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Speaker 1: is beating right now. I'm so nervous. Amy's in here now,

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Speaker 1: ask your question. Okay, were you in a boy band?

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Speaker 1: Quite possibly? Yes? Are you about thirty eight or thirty nine?

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Speaker 1: the late nineties? I would say both both early nineties.

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Speaker 1: whoever you are, you do a great job disguise in

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Speaker 1: your voice. Well, you know, I I spent years doing

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Speaker 1: my life. You were in one other sorry, you were

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Speaker 1: in one other movie that is slipping your mind, but

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Speaker 1: Are you Joey for tone? Am I on the right track? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: You're getting closer, You're you're getting close up but still

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Speaker 1: that's amazing. Yeah, Jay, How are you darling? Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: I'm so good. How are you? I am doing blended

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Speaker 1: going to see you on Wednesday? I have heard rumbling, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what's going on? But I have heard rumbling. Well, I

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Speaker 1: audience that you're surprising than J. That accident was phenomenal. Literally,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you very much. Why are you here?

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Speaker 1: Why are you talking to us? Well, you know, I'm

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Speaker 1: talking to you because we have a brand new single,

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Speaker 1: our first single in five years, uh, coming out on

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Speaker 1: the seventeenth of this month, which is literally in three days,

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Speaker 1: and also the same day a video too coincide with

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Speaker 1: the new single, which is the song was sold Don't

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Speaker 1: go breaking my Heart and uh, you guys are not ready.

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Speaker 1: You're not ready for the single, you're not ready for

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Speaker 1: the video. Um. This is a game changer, absolute game changer.

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Speaker 1: I cannot wait to hear Ben. Do you care the

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Speaker 1: AJ on the phone right now? I I definitely care. Hey,

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Speaker 1: I would love to be able to react the same way.

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Speaker 1: Actually did uh? Huge? Thanks for coming on the podcast.

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Speaker 1: you've got new music coming out this Thursday. But you

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Speaker 1: are still you still have a residency in Vegas? Correct?

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Speaker 1: My my wife watches the show. Um, Jen did get

424
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Speaker 1: me into it a little bit. Um, but what show?

425
00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 1: Jen really got me like over the top about to

426
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:18,760
Speaker 1: the point where like I've become friends with like the

427
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 1: cast is big is Big is Big Brother? Like I

428
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 1: I thought that that was like, in my opinion, like

429
00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:27,639
Speaker 1: really watching a bunch of people in a house for

430
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:29,240
Speaker 1: like twenty four hours a day, Like how can that

431
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Speaker 1: be enjoyable? Oh dear god, I'm up Big Brothers, Have

432
00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 1: you a comeback? Everybody's wanting to watch Celebrity Big brother

433
00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:41,240
Speaker 1: because that was amazing, you know what, that was the

434
00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:43,480
Speaker 1: only one I didn't watch. And I also didn't watch

435
00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:46,160
Speaker 1: season nine Team, which was strictly online, like I didn't

436
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:49,480
Speaker 1: really like, I don't know, but I was gonna watch Celebrity.

437
00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:52,400
Speaker 1: They actually asked me if I wanted to do Celebrity.

438
00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 1: Pardon me, but but we were actually back in Vegas

439
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:58,120
Speaker 1: during that February run. But one of my new now

440
00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:02,240
Speaker 1: closest friends is actually Paul Abraham from season sixteen. All

441
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:04,680
Speaker 1: and I have become friends now for the last couple

442
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 1: of years and one of the nicest guys in the world.

443
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:10,359
Speaker 1: He got shafted twice. He should have won at least

444
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:13,120
Speaker 1: one of those times. But um, but no, I mean,

445
00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:14,679
Speaker 1: it's such a it's such a great show, Like I

446
00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:17,119
Speaker 1: can't wait for the summer for the next season. Like

447
00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 1: I'm I'm like chomping at the bit right now. So

448
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:21,880
Speaker 1: would you do the show if you had some time off?

449
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:24,880
Speaker 1: You know, I think I think I would. If it

450
00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:28,240
Speaker 1: was this celebrity one where the money you win goes

451
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:31,159
Speaker 1: to charity necessarily in your pocket, then I would do

452
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 1: it because that's what it's I think it's only like

453
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 1: a two or three week run. It's not like the

454
00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:40,159
Speaker 1: full ninety days. You know. I can't be away from

455
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:42,879
Speaker 1: my kids for that long. There's just no way. All right,

456
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:45,680
Speaker 1: Well we can go on and on, but just thank

457
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:47,920
Speaker 1: you so much for coming on. This has been a

458
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:51,399
Speaker 1: dream come true, my pleasure, darling, and I was forward

459
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 1: to seeing you very soon. Before you go, I just

460
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 1: want to let everybody out there know once again, on

461
00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 1: June second to Backstor Boys, you will be at Wango Tango.

462
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:02,639
Speaker 1: Actually you're gonna be there in the pit. So if

463
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:05,159
Speaker 1: anybody's listening right now, make sure you buy ticket the

464
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:08,040
Speaker 1: Wango Tango on to second. But if you cannot buy

465
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Speaker 1: ticket from what I understand, and please correct me if

466
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:14,439
Speaker 1: I'm wrong, you can watch Windo Tango on Freeform on

467
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Speaker 1: June third. The next day, d m uh so check

468
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Speaker 1: out the back to Boys there perfect. Yes it's your

469
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Speaker 1: second straight year at Windo Tango. Yes it is, and

470
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Speaker 1: brand new single this Thursday, brand new video, and thank

471
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:31,160
Speaker 1: you for all your love and support. Thank you guys

472
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 1: so much, and I can't wait to see you. What

473
00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:35,920
Speaker 1: you think you guys are ever grands. Yes, I can't

474
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:37,560
Speaker 1: wait to hear the single and see you on one day.

475
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 1: Good bye guys. Ye, how sweet was he? He literally

476
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,480
Speaker 1: could talk to us forever. He's just just so die.

477
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 1: Are you surprised? I was very surprised when the camera

478
00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:54,679
Speaker 1: came in here. I was like, Oh, it's a boy beender.

479
00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:56,679
Speaker 1: It's definitely a boy bender. They know there's no one

480
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,639
Speaker 1: else who can get me as excited. I'm at the

481
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:04,639
Speaker 1: age where I've gotten to, like, I've reverted to only

482
00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 1: getting excited over who I've loved since childhood, like everybody else,

483
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:11,840
Speaker 1: like all these you know, real big celebrities. I'm like,

484
00:27:11,840 --> 00:27:15,680
Speaker 1: oh whatever, hey, hey, but if I've loved you since childhood,

485
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 1: I get excited over you. I mean, actually, again, let's

486
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 1: take a step back. Okay, take a deep breath and

487
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 1: realize that as a child you watch these, you were

488
00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 1: t shirts of them. I've seen T shirts of boy

489
00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:32,719
Speaker 1: band that you've been wearing, and now you're interviewing him

490
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:34,560
Speaker 1: and talking to him, and then, I mean, I don't

491
00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:36,320
Speaker 1: know how long you just straight talked that guy. You

492
00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 1: talked to your off for about twenty minutes. Is this

493
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:44,120
Speaker 1: weird for you? It's it is the most surreal thing.

494
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 1: It's really one of the few things that gets me

495
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,720
Speaker 1: so giddy, Like my my pitch goes up a couple

496
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:53,560
Speaker 1: of octaves. It's so weird. But when I found out

497
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Speaker 1: that I was interviewing the Battery Boys on Wednesday, and

498
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Speaker 1: how I was covering in Sincs Star on the Hollywood

499
00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:01,880
Speaker 1: Walk of Fame a couple weeks ago, there's nothing better.

500
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:04,959
Speaker 1: I can't believe this is happening to me. I am

501
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:07,880
Speaker 1: a professional fan girl, and I love it. I could

502
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 1: not ask for a better profession. You literally are a

503
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 1: professional fan girl. Hey, actually, I hope when you go

504
00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 1: to these events and when you talk to the Backtick

505
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 1: Boys and you do the Hollywood Walk of Fame that

506
00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:22,240
Speaker 1: you're able to see everybody super clearly. And if you're not,

507
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:26,840
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508
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509
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510
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511
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512
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Speaker 1: too much. I got near sight. I'm so nearsighted because

513
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514
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515
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516
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521
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523
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524
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525
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526
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527
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528
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547
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Speaker 1: You know, it's so funny. When we start this show,

548
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:29,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, I have nothing to talk about. I don't

549
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 1: know what happens in my life. I'm not interesting. And

550
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 1: then I'm like, we're reading through all this stuff, and

551
00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 1: then I'm like, wait a second, I have talked at this,

552
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 1: and I have talked about that. I have to talk

553
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 1: about how you just said like, how surreal it is

554
00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 1: that I get to talk to you boy banders on

555
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,840
Speaker 1: the rag And I have to say that they make

556
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:47,600
Speaker 1: it so easy, Like you would think talking to your

557
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:51,360
Speaker 1: childhood crushes and icons would be so nerve racking, but

558
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 1: they're so warm and sweet. I just need to give

559
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 1: them a little shout out for that. But that's great, Ashley.

560
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 1: But let's also give a little credit to people individually.

561
00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 1: I'm sure not every boy bander or every you know,

562
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:04,760
Speaker 1: nineties two thousands musician is super nice. I mean a

563
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:08,120
Speaker 1: J was incredible there. He made me feel comfortable and

564
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 1: I'm nervous all the time. I guess I have to

565
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 1: also like, I think it's particularly because of a J

566
00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:18,960
Speaker 1: who has made me feel so nice in the past.

567
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 1: I remember this one time we were at an iHeart

568
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:22,920
Speaker 1: event last year and he came up to me. He

569
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 1: was like, I've been following you on Snapchat and you're

570
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 1: so funny. I'm like, what is happening? He follows me

571
00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 1: on Snapchat and now Lance Bass follows me on Instagram,

572
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 1: which I mean a pinnacle of my life. Um. He

573
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 1: commented under my instnct picture the other day and he

574
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 1: was like, it was so nice. Seeing you, even though

575
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:40,400
Speaker 1: it was only for ten seconds. Like when I was

576
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 1: at the Hollywood Walk of Fame they weren't doing interviews,

577
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 1: but Lance came up to me and he was like,

578
00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:46,640
Speaker 1: it's so good to see you. I'm so glad you

579
00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:48,640
Speaker 1: came and blah blah. I'm like, oh my god, this

580
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 1: is so insane. My life is crazy. Um, actually, I

581
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 1: I gotta I gotta ask you a couple of questions here. Um, okay,

582
00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 1: So I'm a little confused. Are and thinking back to boys,

583
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:03,480
Speaker 1: like do they see themselves as competitors? Like do they

584
00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 1: dislike each other? Was there a rivalry that relationship play well?

585
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:10,720
Speaker 1: As we were just talking about, I last saw a

586
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:15,200
Speaker 1: J in March at Lance Basses Assistance party, And how

587
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 1: was that Lance Basses Assistance fortieth birthday party? Because my

588
00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 1: sister's boyfriend was DJing it. I didn't get invited. I

589
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:26,280
Speaker 1: don't want people to think I got invited. So they

590
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 1: are friends, like a J was invited to a Lance party.

591
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 1: They're all really, they're all pretty close now. But yeah,

592
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 1: back in the day, of course, there were times back

593
00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:36,240
Speaker 1: in the day where I was like, oh, I can't

594
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:38,440
Speaker 1: I can't go to this concert or that concert, because

595
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:41,400
Speaker 1: that would be you know, traitor like. But that's not

596
00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 1: how it is. We're all allowed to love everyone. That's

597
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:45,520
Speaker 1: the thing. But that's the thing. Well yeah, but that

598
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:47,600
Speaker 1: that's the thing. Actually back in the day in the

599
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 1: boy band here, I forget this and I honestly I

600
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:55,480
Speaker 1: didn't enter into the boy bands derees guy. But being all,

601
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,760
Speaker 1: there was a rivalry, there was that unique is that

602
00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 1: kind of like Edgy? It's definitely the like they never

603
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 1: I Loven didit risk to my My dad always said,

604
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:11,480
Speaker 1: find a man like Nicola, say, a man who will

605
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Speaker 1: go to home depot and do the things around his

606
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 1: house himself, even though he can afford to pay somebody

607
00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 1: to do it. Act, You're gonna be at Lingo Tango

608
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 1: to make sure everybody goes, uh check it out. Because

609
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:25,200
Speaker 1: all of this being said, I know I wanted to

610
00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 1: get my boy band knowledge in and but I have

611
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 1: to say my heart is helping put on Lingo Tango.

612
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 1: It is a huge deal. It is gonna be amazing.

613
00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 1: Go check it out by ticket. You don't want to

614
00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:37,800
Speaker 1: miss that. It's the biggest, one of the biggest defensive

615
00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:40,360
Speaker 1: the year, right Amy, Yes, No, it's our biggest concert

616
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Speaker 1: of the year. I remember when I was younger and

617
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 1: I didn't live out in l A and I before

618
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Speaker 1: I was on The Bachelor, I would see pictures at

619
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Speaker 1: Wango Tango and I'd be like, I just want to

620
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Speaker 1: go to l A and go to Wingo Tango. Now

621
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:55,520
Speaker 1: everyone can watch it on TV. Yeah, So, speaking of TV,

622
00:33:56,200 --> 00:34:00,160
Speaker 1: remember Josh Murray. Of course we do. So he's on

623
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Speaker 1: the line, and okay here, I'm just gonna throw this

624
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:09,600
Speaker 1: out there. I like Josh Murray a lot. Yeah, but

625
00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 1: he is a polarizing Bachelor cast member. So before we

626
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:16,919
Speaker 1: talk to him, I want to see what you guys think,

627
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:19,880
Speaker 1: because it's like I like him, I want to like him.

628
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:22,759
Speaker 1: Did he get a bad rap? Does he get thrown

629
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Speaker 1: under the bus after? Like what happens? Mm hmmm. Actually yeah,

630
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Speaker 1: I was gonna say, oh wow, silent on the podcast.

631
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Speaker 1: It's the best podcast, ones that you know, nobody talked on.

632
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:47,960
Speaker 1: Sometimes silence can say so much. I don't know. I

633
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Speaker 1: don't know, I really and I mean it. I don't

634
00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 1: know Josh well, but I don't think any of us

635
00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 1: can sit here and say that. Maybe we let's you know,

636
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 1: what we've got in trouble for this. Before let's bring

637
00:34:57,680 --> 00:34:59,480
Speaker 1: him on, let's ask him himself. Let's do you know

638
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:02,320
Speaker 1: what he has to about his own character on the show.

639
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:07,399
Speaker 1: I think, well, before we talk about that, I need

640
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 1: to give him my own little two cents, just because

641
00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:12,919
Speaker 1: I have had a season with Josh. I had such

642
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:16,200
Speaker 1: a huge crush on Josh during Andy season he was

643
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:18,400
Speaker 1: I was like, please, let that be my Bachelor, and

644
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 1: then I found out he won, and I was like,

645
00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 1: darn it. But you know, just so charming and so

646
00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 1: insanely good looking. He's like a Gaston like walking around Paradise,

647
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 1: like just like good morning Ashley as he does pull

648
00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:36,080
Speaker 1: ups on the doorway. He's such a character, and he

649
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:39,160
Speaker 1: was always nothing but so nice to me and so

650
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:43,960
Speaker 1: smiley and honestly very easy to talk to. Everything that

651
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 1: I've heard that is poor about him is not something

652
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:52,319
Speaker 1: that I witnessed firsthand necessarily, but others. Okay, so yeah,

653
00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:57,759
Speaker 1: you should tell himuse I think it'll make him more comfortable. Okay, hello,

654
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 1: Josh fame this podcast. Uh, actually, I think we're just

655
00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 1: gonna start with it. Josh. We were just uh talking

656
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:08,319
Speaker 1: a little bit about your story and your character through

657
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 1: the shows and before we get kind of the amazing

658
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:13,879
Speaker 1: cool stuff that you're doing today, Astley kind of has

659
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:16,359
Speaker 1: her thoughts on you personally, and I want to hear

660
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 1: it myself. Hey, let's not hide it. We've heard a

661
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 1: lot about Jock Bury over the years. Actually, what are

662
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:25,880
Speaker 1: you okay? So, Josh, I was just talking about how

663
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 1: you are such a yeah, polarism character. And while we've

664
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 1: all heard things that are not so pleasant, I do

665
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:39,160
Speaker 1: have to say that I've never I've never encountered that

666
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 1: with you. Like I was on a season with you,

667
00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:45,640
Speaker 1: and you're nothing but super friendly and smiley. And I

668
00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 1: even thought that on that season there was a lot

669
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:52,479
Speaker 1: of drama with Nick Um and I was I thought

670
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 1: that that was overblown. I really tried to stay out

671
00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:58,840
Speaker 1: of that drama triangle for on that season because I

672
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 1: always thought you were so nice to me and I

673
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:06,840
Speaker 1: never really saw anything um But Yeah, But then I

674
00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:09,919
Speaker 1: guess I do have to talk about all the other

675
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:13,680
Speaker 1: I haven't experienced all the other like negative things that

676
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:15,879
Speaker 1: have been said about you, because I guess I've never

677
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:19,279
Speaker 1: had like a really deep personal relationship with you. But

678
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:21,200
Speaker 1: how do you how do you respond to all that?

679
00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:24,279
Speaker 1: You even have a book written well before hold Up,

680
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:27,799
Speaker 1: before we get this going, actually called the Gun of

681
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:29,719
Speaker 1: the Bachelor World. He says, you would do pull up

682
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:31,560
Speaker 1: in the moment morning and say hello through with a

683
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:33,560
Speaker 1: big smile on your face and you're super good looking,

684
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 1: like yeah, it's all in that context. Yeah, comment, Okay,

685
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:43,319
Speaker 1: now go ahead, Josh, talk about yourself. No, it's it's

686
00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 1: very tough for me talking about myself. So that's that's

687
00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:48,759
Speaker 1: stuff I go about. Thank you, and it's, um, yeah,

688
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:51,799
Speaker 1: it's been air for a while because there's so much discrimation.

689
00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 1: Of course, I I kind of explayed the way from

690
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:55,799
Speaker 1: the back the world for quite a while, you know.

691
00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:58,640
Speaker 1: I mean, I have very genuine, um, interesting finance to

692
00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:01,000
Speaker 1: be on the show, so I kind of just focus

693
00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:03,600
Speaker 1: all my prints and on that. And obviously it worked

694
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:05,560
Speaker 1: out twice and then it didn't work out twice. And

695
00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 1: you know, the person that that I've talked to you

696
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 1: and that's that's who I am. That's what who I've

697
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:11,719
Speaker 1: always done. That's who I am when I'm not on

698
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 1: TAMA and um, there is a lot of a lot

699
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 1: of drama that goes on in the shows, and I

700
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 1: try my best to stay away from everything as much

701
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 1: as possible. But you know, in sports on the shows,

702
00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:22,560
Speaker 1: I was with two girls who were highly sought after

703
00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:25,120
Speaker 1: by other individuals, And um, as much as I'll try

704
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 1: to stay away from drama, as we know, television creates

705
00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:29,759
Speaker 1: a lot of drama. Um, there's a lot of things

706
00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:32,279
Speaker 1: that happened. You know, it was very tough to be

707
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 1: involved in that stuff. All I wanted to do was

708
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 1: try to try to be friendly with everybody. To be

709
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 1: honest with you, I've always been time to you ask

710
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:40,560
Speaker 1: seeing everybody else that I've met. But um, there are

711
00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:43,399
Speaker 1: other people in this in the franchise obviously, who makes

712
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 1: friends with a lot more people than I have because I,

713
00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:47,239
Speaker 1: you know, was engaged a couple of times. I live

714
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 1: on the South East coast, so it's tough for me

715
00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 1: to to talk to everybody, and um, you know, but

716
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 1: I just I just tried to focus on a positive

717
00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:55,960
Speaker 1: I tried to focus on the people in life, and

718
00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 1: I tried to just move on and do good and

719
00:38:58,080 --> 00:39:00,560
Speaker 1: not really worried about that stuff anymore. So, you know,

720
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:02,759
Speaker 1: people who meet me, you know, I hope they get

721
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 1: a better understanding that's who I am and not just

722
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:07,440
Speaker 1: the edited character on television. I know all of us

723
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:09,720
Speaker 1: have been a part of UM certain times of editing

724
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:11,440
Speaker 1: on TV that we don't like, but you know, what

725
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:14,200
Speaker 1: it is, what it is. There's two words that I

726
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:16,440
Speaker 1: would definitely be you, I would use to describe you,

727
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:21,520
Speaker 1: and that would be passionate and competitive. I would say

728
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 1: there are the two those good adjectives to describe me

729
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 1: as well. I've got a little bit less competitive as

730
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:28,600
Speaker 1: I get older. UM, I kind of give in a

731
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:31,759
Speaker 1: little bit certain things, but I'm definitely very passionate and UM.

732
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:33,319
Speaker 1: I guess one of the things that these years has

733
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:35,000
Speaker 1: been a struggle for me, since being on the show

734
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:38,279
Speaker 1: and obviously having a book UM written, is that there's

735
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 1: a lot of misinformation and there's a lot of lies

736
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 1: out there, and UM, I'm someone who is I try

737
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:45,240
Speaker 1: to be as honest as possible, and it's tough trying

738
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 1: to um, stay above the fray and to try to

739
00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:50,279
Speaker 1: be good and not say bad things to hurt other people,

740
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 1: even though they've hurt you in many different ways. And

741
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:54,759
Speaker 1: that's been a struggle of mind because half, you know,

742
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:56,440
Speaker 1: there's part of me that wants to stay everything and

743
00:39:56,520 --> 00:39:57,920
Speaker 1: tell the truth, and part of me is like just

744
00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 1: move on. Who cares, you know, it doesn't matter. Um,

745
00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:02,759
Speaker 1: So it's that's That's definitely been a struggle over the years.

746
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 1: But I've had so much support and so many people

747
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:07,399
Speaker 1: who know who I am that that's helps, that's help

748
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:10,160
Speaker 1: along the way. I mean, Josh, what I'm listening to

749
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:13,000
Speaker 1: here is you've obviously feel like that the character has

750
00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 1: been portrayed and things are in about you are incorrect.

751
00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:18,440
Speaker 1: How have you handled that personally? And do you feel

752
00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:22,239
Speaker 1: like you've done a good job representing yourself? Uh, and

753
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 1: who you are in the public and in the relationships

754
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 1: that you've been a part of. You know, I tried

755
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 1: to keep my even though obviously then when we're on

756
00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:33,879
Speaker 1: television there's not a private relationship as public. But once

757
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 1: I and then my relationship outside of television, I really

758
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:38,719
Speaker 1: started to focus on keeping it private and doing the thing,

759
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:41,960
Speaker 1: um possible to keep that relationship going. It's really just

760
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:43,840
Speaker 1: to know that person after TV. You know, when we

761
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:46,440
Speaker 1: get engaged on television, it's a very short amount of

762
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:47,880
Speaker 1: time and we really get to need to get to

763
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:50,720
Speaker 1: know these people outside of television as well. And um,

764
00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 1: as in any relationship, there they're ups and downs, but

765
00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 1: it was it definitely wasn't easy for a while in

766
00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:59,600
Speaker 1: these relationships in the public eye, and everybody needs to

767
00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:02,239
Speaker 1: be seen, I mean every bit and piece of your relationship.

768
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:04,600
Speaker 1: And while I tried to stay off for social media

769
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:07,160
Speaker 1: and what people said about me, um, others kind of

770
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:09,600
Speaker 1: kind of got stuck into that. And it's in it

771
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:12,879
Speaker 1: really affective relationships, and UM, you know, I just tried

772
00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:15,400
Speaker 1: to say that just be me, you know I am.

773
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:16,840
Speaker 1: I don't want to be known as Josh Murray on

774
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 1: The Battler. Um, I'd rather be known as Josh Murray

775
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:22,080
Speaker 1: on an MTV show, Chances for Stars. That's going out

776
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:24,640
Speaker 1: there and fighting and working hard for charity. Um, that's

777
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:26,480
Speaker 1: what I really really like and that's what I'm about,

778
00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 1: is trying to get back and just to love and

779
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:30,640
Speaker 1: to be kind of people. Um. So you know, we

780
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 1: all get a certain kind of edit on television no

781
00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:34,719
Speaker 1: matter what. You know, if you don't if you don't

782
00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:38,480
Speaker 1: listen to what certain kind individual safe producer wise, and

783
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 1: sometimes they don't look bad. But um, there's no excuse

784
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:42,680
Speaker 1: for anything, and you live and learn and you move on.

785
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 1: You've been on three reality shows now Champs Fur Stars,

786
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 1: The Bats are franchise and then also a single famously

787
00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:54,759
Speaker 1: single I Have Yeah. Which was the best experience and

788
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 1: which one do you think represented you the best? Oh,

789
00:41:57,719 --> 00:41:59,799
Speaker 1: without a doubt. The last show I was on was

790
00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 1: asolutely incredible, the MTV Chance for Our Starts, um, and

791
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:04,600
Speaker 1: I wasn't going to do it, but then when I

792
00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:06,799
Speaker 1: was told that there was a hundred fifty dollars going

793
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:09,799
Speaker 1: to charity of your choice, UM, I definitely considered it

794
00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:11,360
Speaker 1: and I jumped in. And you know, I do a

795
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:14,400
Speaker 1: lot of stuff with a charity called SPX to Special People,

796
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:16,600
Speaker 1: and um, I was on there and made the finals

797
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:18,719
Speaker 1: and almost one. But when I go back and look

798
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 1: at the show and look how they showed everything, it

799
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:22,680
Speaker 1: was it was pretty on point. There wasn't need to

800
00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:25,239
Speaker 1: be a lot of editing involved, and I really really

801
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:27,560
Speaker 1: appreciated the honesty of the producers in that show. So

802
00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 1: I definitely had been the most fun that I've had

803
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 1: on on a television show. And it was competitive in

804
00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 1: the sense, you know, not competitive trying to find love,

805
00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:38,880
Speaker 1: but competitive as sports style. You know, I think in

806
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:43,240
Speaker 1: relationships in general, and you might have experienced this, there's

807
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:48,880
Speaker 1: two sides, his hers and then what actually is the truth?

808
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:51,160
Speaker 1: And I think that's hard for people to realize when

809
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:54,360
Speaker 1: they're watching TV that it's like you have a version

810
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 1: of your reality. The girl has hers, but the truth

811
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:01,080
Speaker 1: is somewhere in the mid and you know, I think

812
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:05,279
Speaker 1: that that becomes something we realize much much later, sure,

813
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:07,239
Speaker 1: especially when you watched it and you know I was.

814
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:09,400
Speaker 1: I was told by the producer that said everything up

815
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 1: that I was kind of I was an easy target

816
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 1: because I was coming off of, you know, a book

817
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 1: that was written about me that was extremely false, and

818
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:17,879
Speaker 1: then there was an easy target to kind of get

819
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 1: me going on when all I was talking, I was

820
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:21,520
Speaker 1: trying to be kind and then trying to see if

821
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:23,440
Speaker 1: this final a local on the show. So there's a

822
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:25,279
Speaker 1: lot of different motives that we don't realize. So we

823
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:27,600
Speaker 1: looked after the fact. But there's a lot of things

824
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:29,240
Speaker 1: that you know, I've learned from that I've made mistake

825
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:32,080
Speaker 1: to as well. So you know, this is what it is.

826
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 1: I I totally agree. Man, I'm listening to you, and

827
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:37,360
Speaker 1: what is I think everybody out there listening? We often,

828
00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:40,920
Speaker 1: um we were on this podcast. We try to be

829
00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:43,640
Speaker 1: as vulnerable and and authentic as possible so that we

830
00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 1: can relate with the listener. Um, you have been engaged

831
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:50,200
Speaker 1: twice and on The Bachelor and Bathroom Paradise. You honestly

832
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 1: and I think we've all made you've had two of

833
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:53,880
Speaker 1: the messiest breakups and Bachelor history or one too the

834
00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:57,320
Speaker 1: most recognizable. What is something that you've learned about yourself,

835
00:43:57,440 --> 00:44:00,960
Speaker 1: a mistake or a weakness, um, that has kind of

836
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:04,160
Speaker 1: been formed and transformed by being in the public eye

837
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 1: and seeing, uh, some of this stuff to play out

838
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 1: on TV. Yeah, it's really tough because you start to

839
00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:13,400
Speaker 1: examine yourself after two failed relationships on television, and you

840
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:15,520
Speaker 1: don't want to put blame on the other person because

841
00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:18,480
Speaker 1: obviously in any relationship, as we can all relate, it's

842
00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:20,600
Speaker 1: a little bit of both. But I kind of take

843
00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:22,120
Speaker 1: a look at myself and kind of how I handle

844
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:25,479
Speaker 1: relationships or how I handle things, um when stuff is done.

845
00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:27,400
Speaker 1: But you know, I don't want to seat myself up

846
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 1: too much. You know, it is television and people really

847
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 1: get into it quite a bit. But um, the reality

848
00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:34,399
Speaker 1: is when you're there for two months on the first

849
00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:36,680
Speaker 1: back trend mased on a second, you know, you try

850
00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:38,799
Speaker 1: to fall in look for me, I tried. I tried

851
00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:40,960
Speaker 1: to make it work a little bit too quickly. The

852
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:42,800
Speaker 1: one thing I've I've always been missing in life and

853
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:45,239
Speaker 1: I feel very fulfilled with everything, is they're finding a

854
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:48,880
Speaker 1: white and having children. I loved to death, and UM,

855
00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:51,759
Speaker 1: my mistake was pushing those relationships too much even in

856
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:54,160
Speaker 1: the middle. Um, both times I do that there was

857
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:55,839
Speaker 1: things that should have happened, and I should have walked

858
00:44:55,840 --> 00:45:00,719
Speaker 1: away certain circumstances that I just didn't feel we're and

859
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:03,880
Speaker 1: I kind of stayed. And I've learned that, Listen, I

860
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:07,480
Speaker 1: need to expudent all forces with somebody before I get engaged,

861
00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:10,360
Speaker 1: before I make that huge commitment. I can't do pressures

862
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 1: from the outside world and given to those kind of pressures,

863
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:15,560
Speaker 1: and um, I can't live for everybody else. I need

864
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:17,880
Speaker 1: to do what I really feel is right and not

865
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 1: rushing the relationships even though you know you want to

866
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:22,440
Speaker 1: please everybody. So I've kind of learned not to be

867
00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:24,719
Speaker 1: as much of a people pleased anymore. I've got to

868
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:27,440
Speaker 1: do me because when I tried to please everybody else

869
00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:30,840
Speaker 1: by making relationships work that I haven't necessarily totally wanted

870
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 1: to be in, it has just hurt both people in

871
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:35,920
Speaker 1: the long run. And unfortunately, you know, I think I've

872
00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:39,279
Speaker 1: been the only one to get engaged twice on the shows. UM,

873
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:41,839
Speaker 1: it's not a very high success rate of people staying together,

874
00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:45,120
Speaker 1: and it's amazing the people that do. UM. But yeah,

875
00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:46,799
Speaker 1: you know I have to UM. I just have to

876
00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:48,960
Speaker 1: live and learn from all my experiences and hopefully I've

877
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:51,239
Speaker 1: become a better person because of it. Are you doating

878
00:45:51,280 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 1: anyone now? I'm not. I'm not dating anybody right now. No.

879
00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:56,920
Speaker 1: I mean, hey, I get I get everything a thing.

880
00:45:57,120 --> 00:46:00,319
Speaker 1: I I mean, I'm I'm happy. Uh that you are

881
00:46:00,680 --> 00:46:02,880
Speaker 1: hushing pushing on these shows for love. I think that's

882
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:05,040
Speaker 1: one thing actually, I always talked about it. It's awesome

883
00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:07,040
Speaker 1: when you see people go on to this show looking

884
00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:09,239
Speaker 1: for a real love story to play out. I I

885
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:12,160
Speaker 1: know for me personally, these shows have been a a

886
00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:15,440
Speaker 1: self checker many times. I have realized that my reactions

887
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 1: and the things are is absolutely awful. That I'm way

888
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:22,120
Speaker 1: over sensitive UM and often push my relationships outdoor because

889
00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:23,880
Speaker 1: of it. UH. And that's one of the beauties of

890
00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:25,719
Speaker 1: the backtor to me. We talked about it last week,

891
00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:28,440
Speaker 1: is these shows are therapeutic session to really get a

892
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:30,839
Speaker 1: wake up call to who we are as people. Um,

893
00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:32,840
Speaker 1: and so I guess from this podcast we hope you

894
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:35,080
Speaker 1: find love and and actually I don't know. Would we

895
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:38,359
Speaker 1: like to be on Bachelor in Paradise for Josh's sake,

896
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 1: because I know that he doesn't want to do Bachelor

897
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:43,200
Speaker 1: in Paradise or spin off show again, I'm gonna say no.

898
00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:46,759
Speaker 1: I'd like to find someone in real life, you know,

899
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 1: I really you know, we talked about some of the

900
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:50,880
Speaker 1: mostives that happens because of the shows, and there were

901
00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:52,360
Speaker 1: a lot of things that were very hurtful for me

902
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:55,000
Speaker 1: and the way things were portrayed. But at the same time,

903
00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:57,080
Speaker 1: there were so many positives to take away from the shows.

904
00:46:57,120 --> 00:46:59,800
Speaker 1: And like you said, then, you know, learning about yourself

905
00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:01,520
Speaker 1: and which you need to improve upon. I've learned a

906
00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:04,160
Speaker 1: part about that. It's given me a platform to do

907
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:06,520
Speaker 1: even bigger things with the charities I've been involved with

908
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:08,319
Speaker 1: in the really spread awareness. But there's a lot of

909
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:11,400
Speaker 1: positive that comes with that. But as far as relationships,

910
00:47:11,440 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 1: I really like to to find someone in the real

911
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:15,359
Speaker 1: world so I can get to know them off camera,

912
00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:16,960
Speaker 1: to make sure that they're not just putting on an act,

913
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:18,640
Speaker 1: so people can like them. You know, It's a very

914
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:22,839
Speaker 1: different thing well, speaking of charity, you recently took a

915
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:25,880
Speaker 1: fan to her prom. Can you tell us about this story?

916
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:30,320
Speaker 1: It was It was honestly one of the best days

917
00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:32,839
Speaker 1: of my life. But no joke. There was my brother

918
00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:34,920
Speaker 1: and I have help help post an event for usp

919
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:37,480
Speaker 1: of for Special people and Athens, and it was a

920
00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:39,799
Speaker 1: pageant where all the kids and the young people who

921
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 1: have disabilities such as like to ruble, all the autism

922
00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:46,240
Speaker 1: bound syndrome, they perform a talent in front of thousands

923
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 1: of people. And this girl, Mary Catherine, who was a beauty,

924
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:51,839
Speaker 1: she went on stage and instead of performing a talent,

925
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:53,920
Speaker 1: she called me to the middle of the stage and

926
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:56,400
Speaker 1: she asked me to go to calm with her. And

927
00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:58,719
Speaker 1: I was speechless. I honestly I started to tear up.

928
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:01,279
Speaker 1: Of course, I said, they ask and um, you know

929
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:03,640
Speaker 1: months later, we had a problem um a couple of

930
00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:06,560
Speaker 1: weekends ago and it was absolutely phenomenal. It was actually

931
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:08,759
Speaker 1: my first comb I've ever been to as well, and

932
00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 1: it was a senior problem so he just looks gorgeous.

933
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:13,759
Speaker 1: We had a great time and those are the kind

934
00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 1: of things that I really really enjoy doing. And um,

935
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:18,680
Speaker 1: I was thankful that you asked me to it. So

936
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:21,439
Speaker 1: it was a blast. Did you did? You just said

937
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:23,839
Speaker 1: that you was your It was your first problem, my

938
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:25,839
Speaker 1: first problem. You know. Back in high school, I tended

939
00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:28,319
Speaker 1: to focus more on sports to my academics and really

940
00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:30,520
Speaker 1: kind of took all the dances off. But this was

941
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:31,960
Speaker 1: the first time that I went to problem and I

942
00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:34,399
Speaker 1: really enjoyed it. So it was black as the hot

943
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:37,440
Speaker 1: Jockey didn't go to prom to hit it. I didn't.

944
00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:39,439
Speaker 1: I honestly, I was so focused on what I needed

945
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:41,600
Speaker 1: to do to get to the next level, um just

946
00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:43,920
Speaker 1: and kind of rehab and stuff from my surgeries and

947
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 1: everything like that, that I really didn't try to go

948
00:48:46,160 --> 00:48:47,719
Speaker 1: to the dances and problems. I was just kind of

949
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:51,320
Speaker 1: promel vision focus crazy. And you're doing another thing for charity.

950
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:55,560
Speaker 1: It's a live Bachelor auction. It's benefiting the season G

951
00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 1: Coleman Foundation in l A. On June seven. It's called

952
00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:05,279
Speaker 1: bay Abes for Boobs. What is that all about? That?

953
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 1: Um there for Susan Vacoman is tafter in l A

954
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:11,239
Speaker 1: and I was participated in last year. Is going to

955
00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:13,759
Speaker 1: be incredible this year. What I'm gonna be doing is

956
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:16,400
Speaker 1: me and Chase how to be introducing a group of

957
00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 1: eligible bachelors and we're optioning them off for dinner dates.

958
00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:22,440
Speaker 1: So all the protests are going directly to the Susan

959
00:49:22,480 --> 00:49:25,239
Speaker 1: dacom in l A chapter. Um, who's obviously that they're

960
00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 1: promises to save lives and end breast cancer forever. So

961
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:30,439
Speaker 1: there's gonna be a blast. You know, the bachelors haven't

962
00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 1: have an incredible time up there, something even stripped down

963
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:34,920
Speaker 1: a little bit for the fans and everything like that.

964
00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:38,400
Speaker 1: I'm higher fits, so it'll be fun. Girls in the

965
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:41,680
Speaker 1: l A area, think about it. You can go get

966
00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:46,400
Speaker 1: mega successful as it says, mega successful man for a

967
00:49:46,520 --> 00:49:50,719
Speaker 1: dinner date, woo him, and then get a get a

968
00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:55,360
Speaker 1: very successful boyfriend, and benefit the Susan G. Coleman Foundation.

969
00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:59,200
Speaker 1: Like that's a that's a great night. You should definitely

970
00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:04,640
Speaker 1: go curse your black I think got on somebody. It's

971
00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 1: for a good car and that needs to be one

972
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:08,640
Speaker 1: of the fact first. I mean, come on, thank you man,

973
00:50:08,719 --> 00:50:12,480
Speaker 1: everybody was can sit on you all right? Sounds like

974
00:50:12,520 --> 00:50:14,760
Speaker 1: a great event. Yeah, I mean, I'm all for getting

975
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:17,319
Speaker 1: bit on and I'm all for uh trying to help

976
00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:20,399
Speaker 1: you out this. You know, Josh, you're obviously saying very

977
00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:23,960
Speaker 1: busy with all these events and uh, and I guess

978
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 1: from everybody out there. Uh, thanks for raising some awareness

979
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,200
Speaker 1: and and money for charity. Also, thanks for doing this

980
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:33,640
Speaker 1: in the name of the Bachelor. Um, you know, the

981
00:50:33,640 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 1: Bachelor gets a bad rap sometimes and we all know

982
00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:40,279
Speaker 1: that this show isn't as bad is sometimes, Uh, the

983
00:50:40,360 --> 00:50:43,040
Speaker 1: rapid gets So Hey, Josh Man, thanks to come on

984
00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:45,279
Speaker 1: the podcast. Anything else you want to talk about before

985
00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:47,799
Speaker 1: you go? No, not at all. Thank you guys for

986
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:51,040
Speaker 1: having me. I appreciate it. I'm glad we're really awareness

987
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:54,240
Speaker 1: the stuff. And congratulations to you guys. There's successful podcast

988
00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:56,160
Speaker 1: and hopefully guess and have me on again. So I

989
00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:59,520
Speaker 1: appreciate it. Well, thanks for being here, Josh. Maybe maybe

990
00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 1: I'll see you on months. I have business out there,

991
00:51:05,120 --> 00:51:07,960
Speaker 1: so I'll run into all right, I'll see you then. Okay,

992
00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 1: here's what I'm gonna say. He is polarizing, So I

993
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:16,160
Speaker 1: would like to know what the fans think of that interview.

994
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:18,160
Speaker 1: That's great. Why don't they email us and tell us

995
00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:22,000
Speaker 1: what they think? Yes? Please do you guys. It's Ben

996
00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:26,440
Speaker 1: and Ashley at I heart media dot com. We want

997
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:28,520
Speaker 1: to know all your thoughts on Josh Murray and that

998
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:32,959
Speaker 1: specific interview. I don't know if there's been anybody ever

999
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:37,680
Speaker 1: be as polarizing in Bachelor Nation. Maybe Nick File. I mean,

1000
00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:40,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. Nick isn't as polarizings. He used to

1001
00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:43,280
Speaker 1: be nothing now negative towards him. Once he did The Bachelor,

1002
00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:45,719
Speaker 1: people pretty much love him and like him once they

1003
00:51:45,719 --> 00:51:51,839
Speaker 1: did Bachelor in Paradise. Yeah, Josh Murray stands the test

1004
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:56,200
Speaker 1: at the time. Yeah, I don't know. I just I

1005
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:58,040
Speaker 1: just want to hear your thoughts. That's what we're gonna

1006
00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:00,040
Speaker 1: do here. Um. I also want to hear everybody on

1007
00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 1: Blue Apron. Blue Apron is the leading your kid delivery

1008
00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:06,239
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1009
00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:08,879
Speaker 1: what Blue Apron does, many don't know about the types

1010
00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:12,279
Speaker 1: of meals you can eat Blue Apron. I wonder if

1011
00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:18,839
Speaker 1: they have pizza for him. I was going to ask

1012
00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:22,600
Speaker 1: him about them, because like, obviously they dubbed it over.

1013
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:26,360
Speaker 1: They used the same um over every pizza scene and

1014
00:52:26,440 --> 00:52:29,600
Speaker 1: over every makeout scene. But it's still funny, and I

1015
00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:31,320
Speaker 1: hope he has a sense of humor about it, because

1016
00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:34,400
Speaker 1: I mean, I thought it was TV gold it was amazing.

1017
00:52:34,520 --> 00:52:36,279
Speaker 1: Now a lot of that was, um, there's just a

1018
00:52:36,320 --> 00:52:37,719
Speaker 1: lot going on right now. In my mind, you're not

1019
00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:40,760
Speaker 1: just having burgers for dinner. You're making short ripped burgers

1020
00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:43,080
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1021
00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:45,840
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1022
00:52:45,880 --> 00:52:49,680
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1023
00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:52,279
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1024
00:52:52,320 --> 00:52:56,000
Speaker 1: Do I do? It's really really delicious. I love that

1025
00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:59,400
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1026
00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:02,319
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1027
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:06,960
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1028
00:53:07,040 --> 00:53:10,120
Speaker 1: don't necessarily know how to cook, like me, but they

1029
00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:12,960
Speaker 1: make it so easy. Did you hear what Blue Aprons

1030
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:15,239
Speaker 1: doing with Christie Teagan? Yes, that's what it's kind of

1031
00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:17,640
Speaker 1: rat Yeah, no, I wanted I want to do the

1032
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:20,600
Speaker 1: Chrissy Teagan thing. So Christie Teagan, you know, she's really

1033
00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:24,600
Speaker 1: known for her home cooking. She just makes She makes

1034
00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:26,960
Speaker 1: meals that you think that a model can't eat, but

1035
00:53:27,040 --> 00:53:29,759
Speaker 1: she eats them and I love that. So they're using

1036
00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:33,080
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1037
00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:36,680
Speaker 1: in the Blue Apron boxes. I really want to get hers.

1038
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:39,880
Speaker 1: That's just like, it's such a it's such a great gimmick.

1039
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:43,600
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1040
00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:46,759
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1041
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:50,480
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1042
00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:54,640
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1043
00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:59,200
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1044
00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:04,320
Speaker 1: quinoa uh and carrots salad also very summary, and white

1045
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:07,840
Speaker 1: cheddar cheeseburgers with Bill smic glaze onions. Yeah, it's not

1046
00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:10,800
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1047
00:54:10,920 --> 00:54:14,840
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1048
00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:17,640
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1049
00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:20,160
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1050
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1051
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1052
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1053
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Speaker 1: a big foodie. Oh my, let's get some Blue Aprons.

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Speaker 1: That blue Apron dot com back flash almost famous today

1060
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:55,080
Speaker 1: Blue Apron better way to cook. Let's let's talk about Josh.

1061
00:54:55,480 --> 00:54:57,480
Speaker 1: I have some guts, so I'm gonna say, Okay, you

1062
00:54:57,600 --> 00:55:01,759
Speaker 1: can say things I'm gonna say. Not because I like him.

1063
00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:03,719
Speaker 1: I have hung out with him. I went to Disneyland

1064
00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:05,680
Speaker 1: with him a few years ago with Amanda, and I

1065
00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:08,520
Speaker 1: had a really good time with him in an interesting

1066
00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:12,120
Speaker 1: conversations and all that I think. Here's what I'm gonna

1067
00:55:12,120 --> 00:55:17,400
Speaker 1: say is that he does not hold himself accountable for

1068
00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:21,600
Speaker 1: his mistakes. That was my interpretation of the interview, that

1069
00:55:21,760 --> 00:55:26,799
Speaker 1: it becomes someone else's fault. Maybe did you guys get

1070
00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:30,800
Speaker 1: that that it's like a producer or her or the

1071
00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:34,080
Speaker 1: book or this where we all need to sometimes go.

1072
00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:38,040
Speaker 1: You know what, I got engaged too soon, I messed

1073
00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:41,160
Speaker 1: up whatever. You know. Sometimes maybe that's this because I

1074
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:44,359
Speaker 1: like him. Well, I think I think it's okay in life.

1075
00:55:44,400 --> 00:55:49,440
Speaker 1: I mean, I think I did fitches uh podcast a

1076
00:55:49,480 --> 00:55:51,400
Speaker 1: segment a few weeks ago, you know, one of my

1077
00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:54,040
Speaker 1: biggest stepiece. And I think this is why, Like I'm

1078
00:55:54,120 --> 00:55:58,040
Speaker 1: sitting here, my, my, my, I can't even fwallow is. Um,

1079
00:55:59,160 --> 00:56:01,560
Speaker 1: you know you can't swall to be wrong. Well, like

1080
00:56:01,680 --> 00:56:03,560
Speaker 1: he's just at my pight and I'm like, I'm just

1081
00:56:03,680 --> 00:56:05,439
Speaker 1: a little bit like that interview rubbed me a little

1082
00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:07,320
Speaker 1: because it's okay to be wrong. And I think he

1083
00:56:07,520 --> 00:56:10,200
Speaker 1: is like any you told me amazing things I've never

1084
00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:15,520
Speaker 1: met John. Yeah, I think this sho, No, I haven't. Um,

1085
00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:19,280
Speaker 1: It's it's totally okay to be wrong, and it's totally

1086
00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:21,920
Speaker 1: okay to own up the mistakes. And I think this

1087
00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 1: is a good lesson for life for all of us.

1088
00:56:24,239 --> 00:56:29,480
Speaker 1: It is, um, you know, sometimes grace and except this

1089
00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 1: is needed even in the midst of difficulties and uh

1090
00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:38,919
Speaker 1: mistake and so yeah, I just I want people to free,

1091
00:56:39,080 --> 00:56:41,560
Speaker 1: you know, to take a deeper breath and relax and

1092
00:56:41,640 --> 00:56:43,799
Speaker 1: know that, hey, you don't have to be perfect. None

1093
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:47,560
Speaker 1: of us are. Um, you know that's that's kind of it.

1094
00:56:47,760 --> 00:56:51,839
Speaker 1: It's just do you think you make he might put

1095
00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:54,880
Speaker 1: a lot of pressure on himself to be Yeah, perfect.

1096
00:56:55,840 --> 00:56:58,640
Speaker 1: And my thing is, I'm sure Andy's version of events

1097
00:56:58,760 --> 00:57:04,279
Speaker 1: or Amanda's version of events are not accurate either. That's

1098
00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:07,160
Speaker 1: why I kind of said, like, it's somewhere in the middle.

1099
00:57:09,080 --> 00:57:11,879
Speaker 1: But I don't know that everyone's willing to admit their

1100
00:57:12,200 --> 00:57:19,440
Speaker 1: part in the mistakes made. Yeah, here's the thing I

1101
00:57:19,560 --> 00:57:22,520
Speaker 1: did it. Uh, we we all drive at you know,

1102
00:57:22,760 --> 00:57:24,560
Speaker 1: a lot of us have fears of failure. A lot

1103
00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:27,800
Speaker 1: of us have to fears of messing up. Um and

1104
00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:30,520
Speaker 1: And I don't know, you know where the intentions lie.

1105
00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:33,800
Speaker 1: But as long is we're able to admit it when

1106
00:57:33,840 --> 00:57:36,480
Speaker 1: we mess up, there's a ton of opportunities for growth.

1107
00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:38,720
Speaker 1: And I think that's the awesome thing about the show

1108
00:57:39,640 --> 00:57:43,000
Speaker 1: about life in general, is that all of us know

1109
00:57:43,160 --> 00:57:45,240
Speaker 1: that that none of us are perfect. And it's kind

1110
00:57:45,280 --> 00:57:47,160
Speaker 1: of this thing. And I'm wondering, not you oft want

1111
00:57:47,160 --> 00:57:48,400
Speaker 1: a tangent. It's kind of this thing in this new

1112
00:57:48,480 --> 00:57:51,200
Speaker 1: social media world where everybody looks perfect all the time,

1113
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:53,400
Speaker 1: everybody looks like they're always doing so great things. I mean,

1114
00:57:53,560 --> 00:57:56,080
Speaker 1: a last time somebody posted picture them making a mistake

1115
00:57:56,360 --> 00:57:58,640
Speaker 1: that just doesn't happen. Um. And so we live in

1116
00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:00,680
Speaker 1: this world with the only thing we see it's perfection,

1117
00:58:01,480 --> 00:58:03,880
Speaker 1: that's true, and it's very bad. I mean, it's really

1118
00:58:03,920 --> 00:58:06,520
Speaker 1: scary because you know, Instagram makes us feel really bad

1119
00:58:06,560 --> 00:58:08,920
Speaker 1: about everything. I try sometimes to just really take a

1120
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:10,440
Speaker 1: break from it all. Ben, do you ever do that

1121
00:58:10,520 --> 00:58:13,280
Speaker 1: where you just don't look at social media because it

1122
00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:16,880
Speaker 1: can feel like your life isn't as good as everybody

1123
00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:20,760
Speaker 1: else is, oh all the time? I mean I am.

1124
00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:23,760
Speaker 1: I have a huge thing where I especially recently the

1125
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Speaker 1: last few months, just you know, I'm working for Generous

1126
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:29,440
Speaker 1: and and Generous is an amazing company that's going quickly,

1127
00:58:29,760 --> 00:58:32,600
Speaker 1: but I'm not getting paid through Generous, Like this is

1128
00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:35,240
Speaker 1: a job that I work, you know, ten hours a

1129
00:58:35,320 --> 00:58:37,000
Speaker 1: day on that I don't get paid through. And so

1130
00:58:37,680 --> 00:58:39,760
Speaker 1: what happens is there's moments in my life where as

1131
00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:41,320
Speaker 1: I mentioned a few weeks ago, I've had to start

1132
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:43,160
Speaker 1: budgeting for the first time in a long time, and

1133
00:58:43,160 --> 00:58:46,600
Speaker 1: I've really had to start, you know, take being conscious

1134
00:58:46,680 --> 00:58:49,120
Speaker 1: of my decisions in my car. Right now, I don't

1135
00:58:49,160 --> 00:58:51,520
Speaker 1: have any I like breaks, and the computer system it

1136
00:58:51,640 --> 00:58:53,400
Speaker 1: is blown, and I'm not buying a new car because

1137
00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:55,280
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's fitting into my budget. Um,

1138
00:58:55,720 --> 00:58:57,320
Speaker 1: And so I started to look around me and go,

1139
00:58:58,400 --> 00:59:01,480
Speaker 1: what's wrong in I? Am I falling behind? Is? You know?

1140
00:59:01,960 --> 00:59:04,120
Speaker 1: Am I not doing as well as the people in

1141
00:59:04,280 --> 00:59:06,720
Speaker 1: that exist in this world as well? And I realized

1142
00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:09,160
Speaker 1: that I'm very happy. And that's when I The only

1143
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:11,360
Speaker 1: times I get super down on myself is when I'm

1144
00:59:11,400 --> 00:59:14,000
Speaker 1: looking around me at everybody else's life, and I'm looking

1145
00:59:14,040 --> 00:59:16,960
Speaker 1: on social media. Who's traveling to what location, and who's

1146
00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:19,000
Speaker 1: going to what festival, and who's going to WI concert?

1147
00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:21,800
Speaker 1: And who's posting about this and that? Um so amy,

1148
00:59:21,880 --> 00:59:24,560
Speaker 1: yeah I do. I really had to start doing that

1149
00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:26,560
Speaker 1: because I just realized I was sitting in a pretty

1150
00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:28,880
Speaker 1: dark place if I didn't. You know, when I really

1151
00:59:28,960 --> 00:59:31,320
Speaker 1: don't look at social media and this is like I'm

1152
00:59:31,360 --> 00:59:35,560
Speaker 1: really showing you guys my insides here on every single holiday.

1153
00:59:36,040 --> 00:59:39,160
Speaker 1: I hate looking at social media on holidays. Really. I

1154
00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:41,760
Speaker 1: just feel like people feel pressure to post things and

1155
00:59:41,840 --> 00:59:44,040
Speaker 1: be like, look at my perfect family and I have

1156
00:59:44,120 --> 00:59:46,880
Speaker 1: perfect Christmas, look at my amazing New Year's look at

1157
00:59:46,920 --> 00:59:49,160
Speaker 1: how great my Valentine's Day was? And I was like,

1158
00:59:49,520 --> 00:59:51,720
Speaker 1: can I please stick my head in an oven? I

1159
00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:54,280
Speaker 1: hate the peer pressure to have to take a picture

1160
00:59:54,480 --> 00:59:57,720
Speaker 1: to prove that you have a wonderful family, like even

1161
00:59:57,800 --> 01:00:00,800
Speaker 1: on Mother's Day, which yeah, I'm obvious. I'm obsessed with

1162
01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:02,960
Speaker 1: my mom. My mom is the greatest in the entire world.

1163
01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:07,880
Speaker 1: I'm the most blessed. And but she doesn't have an Instagram.

1164
01:00:08,080 --> 01:00:11,520
Speaker 1: You know, I posted with her, honestly because of the

1165
01:00:11,600 --> 01:00:13,520
Speaker 1: peer pressure of it, because I know that she's not

1166
01:00:13,560 --> 01:00:15,560
Speaker 1: going to see it, and it's just like, oh, I

1167
01:00:15,640 --> 01:00:17,200
Speaker 1: just want to prove to you guys, I don't forget.

1168
01:00:17,240 --> 01:00:19,720
Speaker 1: I don't don't worry. I didn't forget my mom today.

1169
01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:22,600
Speaker 1: Here she is for all of you to see, not her.

1170
01:00:23,120 --> 01:00:27,040
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't I honestly don't get it. We

1171
01:00:27,160 --> 01:00:29,320
Speaker 1: don't need to post anything. I don't know. I don't know.

1172
01:00:29,360 --> 01:00:31,080
Speaker 1: There's a lot of peer pressure when it comes to

1173
01:00:31,160 --> 01:00:34,560
Speaker 1: holidays and showing off what you're doing, and it's not

1174
01:00:34,680 --> 01:00:39,160
Speaker 1: what's important being the moment that's right. And and speaking

1175
01:00:39,160 --> 01:00:41,120
Speaker 1: of holidays, I called my mom yesterday. I think I

1176
01:00:41,160 --> 01:00:43,080
Speaker 1: don't know if you saw us on Twitter. I called her.

1177
01:00:43,120 --> 01:00:45,520
Speaker 1: I still, you know, I still pumped, uh there to

1178
01:00:45,720 --> 01:00:47,160
Speaker 1: do a little trip right now, And I said, Mom,

1179
01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:50,480
Speaker 1: happy Mother's Day, goes ah the fruit of my loo.

1180
01:00:50,920 --> 01:00:55,200
Speaker 1: I know I saw your tweet that's not the weirdest,

1181
01:00:56,280 --> 01:01:01,400
Speaker 1: the most disgusting image and thought and spement I've ever

1182
01:01:01,720 --> 01:01:06,440
Speaker 1: looked for. When I saw you taught that, I was like, Wow.

1183
01:01:06,600 --> 01:01:09,160
Speaker 1: When I really take apart the words in that phrase,

1184
01:01:09,720 --> 01:01:14,560
Speaker 1: it's pretty gross. The fruit of my lines anyway, the

1185
01:01:14,640 --> 01:01:16,960
Speaker 1: truth is that, uh, well none of us are perfect.

1186
01:01:17,040 --> 01:01:19,520
Speaker 1: We don't have to be perfect. Uh, we're all trying

1187
01:01:19,560 --> 01:01:22,480
Speaker 1: to trying the best the game. Um So, anybody out

1188
01:01:22,520 --> 01:01:25,360
Speaker 1: there listening to take a deep breath, realize we're all

1189
01:01:25,440 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 1: this together. We all hate holidays. I don't hate holidays.

1190
01:01:30,440 --> 01:01:33,280
Speaker 1: I hate the fact that during holidays you're so focused

1191
01:01:33,360 --> 01:01:35,840
Speaker 1: on getting the perfect picture and not being with your

1192
01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:39,560
Speaker 1: family because you need the perfect picture to pose on

1193
01:01:39,640 --> 01:01:41,720
Speaker 1: Instagram so that other people who don't really know you

1194
01:01:42,360 --> 01:01:44,320
Speaker 1: think that you're having a great time. Here's what I'm

1195
01:01:44,320 --> 01:01:47,040
Speaker 1: happy about. We made it through all my least favorite holidays.

1196
01:01:47,320 --> 01:01:52,000
Speaker 1: Now we are into my three favorites, Memorial Day, four

1197
01:01:52,120 --> 01:01:55,880
Speaker 1: of July and Labor Day. Those are my three favorites.

1198
01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:59,280
Speaker 1: They're really nice because it's like you can do nothing. Yeah,

1199
01:01:59,480 --> 01:02:01,560
Speaker 1: there's a days that you appreciate mores to get older.

1200
01:02:03,360 --> 01:02:06,440
Speaker 1: Pressure on those days. You know what's stupid that I've

1201
01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:11,160
Speaker 1: come across lately. It's good. It's in line with people

1202
01:02:11,240 --> 01:02:14,160
Speaker 1: taking pictures and posting them and proving that they're having

1203
01:02:14,160 --> 01:02:17,520
Speaker 1: a good time. Why do you tape an entire concert

1204
01:02:17,800 --> 01:02:21,440
Speaker 1: on your phone? Why can't you just enjoy the concert

1205
01:02:21,480 --> 01:02:24,840
Speaker 1: and being the moment, because you're taking video of it

1206
01:02:25,240 --> 01:02:27,840
Speaker 1: to prove to people. I think, to post so you

1207
01:02:27,880 --> 01:02:30,800
Speaker 1: could prove to people that you were there. But then

1208
01:02:31,080 --> 01:02:33,160
Speaker 1: when you're not in the moment and to you're never

1209
01:02:33,320 --> 01:02:35,720
Speaker 1: going to watch that video back. Have you ever been

1210
01:02:35,800 --> 01:02:37,600
Speaker 1: lying in your bed at night and you're like going

1211
01:02:37,680 --> 01:02:39,760
Speaker 1: through old pictures, which I like to do sometimes I'll

1212
01:02:39,800 --> 01:02:41,880
Speaker 1: be like, I'll look at my pictures all the time,

1213
01:02:42,360 --> 01:02:44,600
Speaker 1: but I'll never click on a video from a concert

1214
01:02:44,640 --> 01:02:46,560
Speaker 1: and be like, I want to watch this. You'll never

1215
01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:49,000
Speaker 1: see me with my camera out at a concert. I

1216
01:02:49,080 --> 01:02:50,920
Speaker 1: only do it for fifteen seconds. I'll do it for

1217
01:02:51,040 --> 01:02:53,680
Speaker 1: the Instagram start and that's it. Pure from a thousand

1218
01:02:53,760 --> 01:02:56,920
Speaker 1: million miles away. There's that too. Don't even matter if

1219
01:02:56,920 --> 01:02:59,280
Speaker 1: you're in the third row, it still looks like you're

1220
01:02:59,280 --> 01:03:02,200
Speaker 1: super far. So when I was younger and I was

1221
01:03:02,240 --> 01:03:06,480
Speaker 1: at boyband concerts, I would take my camera and I

1222
01:03:06,560 --> 01:03:09,920
Speaker 1: would take pictures the entire time because I'd want a

1223
01:03:10,040 --> 01:03:12,280
Speaker 1: picture to blow up, and that's what I did. I

1224
01:03:12,320 --> 01:03:15,960
Speaker 1: would like blow up poster sized things for my wall.

1225
01:03:16,520 --> 01:03:19,480
Speaker 1: But now I don't understand it. I don't understand being

1226
01:03:19,480 --> 01:03:23,640
Speaker 1: an adult and taking videos at a concert. Then I've

1227
01:03:23,920 --> 01:03:25,760
Speaker 1: I don't go to many concerts that I've never been

1228
01:03:25,800 --> 01:03:30,560
Speaker 1: to a boyband concert, so I, yeah, just watch the concert.

1229
01:03:30,640 --> 01:03:32,560
Speaker 1: Maybe I didn't know this was a thing, So I'm

1230
01:03:32,640 --> 01:03:34,360
Speaker 1: learning as we go. I do see a lot of

1231
01:03:34,520 --> 01:03:39,040
Speaker 1: the stories being pult on Instagram. Uh at concerts. Actually,

1232
01:03:39,360 --> 01:03:43,440
Speaker 1: uh hey, we gotta transition really quickly, um into our

1233
01:03:43,560 --> 01:03:46,360
Speaker 1: email segment. But before we do that, I have a

1234
01:03:46,440 --> 01:03:48,320
Speaker 1: question I've been dying to ask you for the last

1235
01:03:48,360 --> 01:03:52,800
Speaker 1: few weeks. If you were to do one reality show

1236
01:03:52,880 --> 01:03:55,520
Speaker 1: outside of the Bactor franchise, what would it be. It

1237
01:03:55,800 --> 01:03:59,280
Speaker 1: might be Survivor, just so that people could laugh at me,

1238
01:04:00,400 --> 01:04:03,920
Speaker 1: just for the just for the sake of other people's entertainment,

1239
01:04:05,320 --> 01:04:07,600
Speaker 1: just just for the comic relief. Well, one thing about

1240
01:04:07,600 --> 01:04:09,200
Speaker 1: the surviving that I have heard is they don't get

1241
01:04:09,200 --> 01:04:11,800
Speaker 1: a lot of sleep on Survivor. Um, But I bet

1242
01:04:11,880 --> 01:04:14,920
Speaker 1: they would if they had a sleep number bed on set.

1243
01:04:15,320 --> 01:04:17,520
Speaker 1: Every day you heard me talk about my sleep number

1244
01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:20,400
Speaker 1: BET and how great a sleep I get every night

1245
01:04:20,520 --> 01:04:24,200
Speaker 1: my sleep number setting. I've increased my number to a ninety.

1246
01:04:24,480 --> 01:04:27,680
Speaker 1: My sleep i Q score last night was the sent

1247
01:04:28,520 --> 01:04:30,800
Speaker 1: Maybe you consider a sleep number of bed but thought

1248
01:04:30,840 --> 01:04:33,880
Speaker 1: you couldn't afford one, But can you really afford another?

1249
01:04:33,920 --> 01:04:36,800
Speaker 1: Restless night sleep? I wonder that I could question that

1250
01:04:37,680 --> 01:04:39,560
Speaker 1: you sleep at night. I have to say I sleep

1251
01:04:39,560 --> 01:04:43,720
Speaker 1: pretty well because you sleep on a sleep number. Before

1252
01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:45,840
Speaker 1: you do anything, you've got to go to sleep number

1253
01:04:45,920 --> 01:04:48,960
Speaker 1: store and experience the adjustable comfort of a sleep number BET.

1254
01:04:49,440 --> 01:04:52,800
Speaker 1: So many couples disagree on mattress firmness. That's the thing

1255
01:04:52,880 --> 01:04:54,360
Speaker 1: amy you and I don't, so I don't know what

1256
01:04:54,480 --> 01:04:56,640
Speaker 1: that means. Sweet number bed, let you choose your ideal

1257
01:04:56,680 --> 01:04:58,840
Speaker 1: firmness on each side of bed uh so you can

1258
01:04:58,840 --> 01:05:01,959
Speaker 1: figure out what is best for you personally. Sleep numbers

1259
01:05:02,000 --> 01:05:05,200
Speaker 1: are smart, effortless and comfortable to sleep number bed. You

1260
01:05:05,320 --> 01:05:08,160
Speaker 1: choose the comfort and support that's right for you. It

1261
01:05:08,240 --> 01:05:11,720
Speaker 1: adjust on east side, so it's the perfect bed for couples.

1262
01:05:12,400 --> 01:05:13,760
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know what that means for me,

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Speaker 1: be awesome. Go to sleep number dot com today. Hey, actually,

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Speaker 1: we've got a few emails. I'm gonna let you pick

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Speaker 1: the first. You got a good one for us. This

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Speaker 1: is from Susie, and I would really like to get

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Speaker 1: Susie on the phone. We're able to. She is in

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Speaker 1: my I don't get a podcast group. She's a great fan,

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Speaker 1: and this is what she wrote to us. I'm writing

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Speaker 1: you to ask you, guys, if you would like to

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01:06:48,000 --> 01:06:50,720
Speaker 1: create a Facebook group for the podcast. I'm an active

1295
01:06:50,760 --> 01:06:52,600
Speaker 1: member of the Amazing I Don't Get a group, and

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Speaker 1: I think it helps to engage new people and also,

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01:06:55,800 --> 01:06:58,480
Speaker 1: just my own little side note helps us figure out

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Speaker 1: what to talk about on the podcast. That's what people

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Speaker 1: really love and what people don't really care about. Now,

1300
01:07:03,080 --> 01:07:06,040
Speaker 1: going back to Susie, we comment about the podcast and

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Speaker 1: others get curious and listen to know what we're talking about.

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Speaker 1: Um and said, And then she continues to say, I've

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Speaker 1: created the group and she's ready for it to be

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Speaker 1: open if we allow it. And I believe Susie's on

1305
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Speaker 1: the podcast and I am just so excited that Susie's

1306
01:07:21,680 --> 01:07:24,560
Speaker 1: here and getting to talk to Ben, her ultimate celebrity

1307
01:07:24,600 --> 01:07:36,960
Speaker 1: crush dying obviously, Hi, Hello, how are you? We're so good?

1308
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Speaker 1: How are you? I'm freaking out, but I'm trying. Someone

1309
01:07:40,040 --> 01:07:42,480
Speaker 1: saying I come forward to her. So, by the way,

1310
01:07:42,800 --> 01:07:47,760
Speaker 1: I'm sorry of my talk, but I sees so with me.

1311
01:07:48,440 --> 01:07:52,480
Speaker 1: Your accent is beautiful. Oh thank you? So how will

1312
01:07:52,560 --> 01:07:56,000
Speaker 1: this work? The Facebook group? Well, um, I didn't know.

1313
01:07:56,360 --> 01:07:59,520
Speaker 1: There's a great community on Facebook that we've created. Will

1314
01:07:59,560 --> 01:08:02,320
Speaker 1: be out of the get it right right? Right? Um?

1315
01:08:02,840 --> 01:08:06,280
Speaker 1: They almost they almost. Pay must podcast also has a

1316
01:08:06,400 --> 01:08:10,600
Speaker 1: great community and support on Facebook. So we've been thinking

1317
01:08:10,640 --> 01:08:14,600
Speaker 1: about doing one to support the podcast too, because there's

1318
01:08:14,920 --> 01:08:18,800
Speaker 1: there are like different topics, right, and we also want

1319
01:08:18,880 --> 01:08:23,160
Speaker 1: to cuss determination and then the two is our favorite.

1320
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Speaker 1: So we want to beach about so many things on

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Speaker 1: the Facebook group, and we thought that we would we

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Speaker 1: will create a you know, a place where said to

1323
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Speaker 1: teach about every single one. We want to know who

1324
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Speaker 1: the heck are some people that we have no idea about.

1325
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Speaker 1: And so yeah, I reached out and you guys were

1326
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Speaker 1: kind enough to told me if to go ahead, I

1327
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Speaker 1: have to say, it has been so helpful for the

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Speaker 1: I Don't Get a podcast. It's given us so many

1329
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Speaker 1: topics to discuss that we wouldn't have thought of ourselves.

1330
01:08:57,400 --> 01:08:59,880
Speaker 1: And yeah, you're right, we would love some bend bitch

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Speaker 1: as topics. And we would love to know who you

1332
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Speaker 1: guys want to know more of and then who the

1333
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Speaker 1: heck are you? And of course if we talk about

1334
01:09:09,600 --> 01:09:11,400
Speaker 1: something too much and we talked about something too little,

1335
01:09:11,479 --> 01:09:14,000
Speaker 1: you guys can let us know and then you're right.

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Speaker 1: It creates this great friend group. Really, it also helps

1337
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Speaker 1: with the audience because like for the id get so

1338
01:09:22,160 --> 01:09:26,360
Speaker 1: many times, Um, they started discussing the podcast right, so

1339
01:09:26,960 --> 01:09:29,840
Speaker 1: many of it. Those who haven't heard that is so

1340
01:09:30,040 --> 01:09:33,320
Speaker 1: good they will have to find the episode listen to

1341
01:09:33,400 --> 01:09:37,639
Speaker 1: this right now so they can't coming in the conversation. Susie,

1342
01:09:37,680 --> 01:09:40,040
Speaker 1: I am still pumped that you're doing this team. Uh,

1343
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Speaker 1: You're gonna help us out so much. This is a

1344
01:09:41,960 --> 01:09:45,280
Speaker 1: great way to connect. Um. I thank you for listening

1345
01:09:45,280 --> 01:09:48,400
Speaker 1: to podcast. I know actually really appreciate your your work

1346
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Speaker 1: with I Don't Get a Podcast, and the future is

1347
01:09:51,360 --> 01:09:55,160
Speaker 1: very bright for your involvement with the almost Shameman. Wow,

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Speaker 1: I've been then that's amazing. I started using Facebook again

1349
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Speaker 1: because of the I don't get a group because it's

1350
01:10:07,240 --> 01:10:10,040
Speaker 1: so entertaining and it's so much fun to chat and

1351
01:10:10,200 --> 01:10:13,240
Speaker 1: look at all the topics on. So I'm excited to

1352
01:10:13,320 --> 01:10:15,479
Speaker 1: have another reason to go on Facebook now with the

1353
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Speaker 1: almost Famous Podcast group. And what do people do in

1354
01:10:19,840 --> 01:10:22,000
Speaker 1: order to find it? They just type in almost famous

1355
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Speaker 1: podcasts in the search bar on Facebook. Yes, exactly a

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Speaker 1: Facebook som that's book that's almost plain lest podcast and

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Speaker 1: they will find it perfect. All right, Well, I'm so

1358
01:10:32,800 --> 01:10:35,360
Speaker 1: excited to see people join this week. Is it open

1359
01:10:35,439 --> 01:10:39,120
Speaker 1: to all members or do people need to get approved? Um,

1360
01:10:39,400 --> 01:10:43,760
Speaker 1: we've said, but are really helpful for you guys if

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01:10:43,800 --> 01:10:46,560
Speaker 1: you want to get them. Um. We asked about what

1362
01:10:46,800 --> 01:10:49,880
Speaker 1: do they want to hear? A bit about what was

1363
01:10:50,000 --> 01:10:53,599
Speaker 1: their favorite episode so that we can call its better.

1364
01:10:53,680 --> 01:10:57,800
Speaker 1: But everyone, I think that you guys vet for the

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Speaker 1: I don't get it, and you also that for by

1366
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Speaker 1: suck at dating, So let's go ahead and vet ours too.

1367
01:11:03,200 --> 01:11:06,680
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm glad to um go on in here

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Speaker 1: and say please then join the group. Please guys, join

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Speaker 1: guys stuck on dating boo, because everyone wants to tell

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Speaker 1: you I would love to talk from the group and Facebook.

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Speaker 1: I'm not a facebooker. You will be now love to

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Speaker 1: be part of this. I will be now, Susie. Thank

1373
01:11:22,840 --> 01:11:25,559
Speaker 1: you so much for organizing the podcast group for us.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait to start discussing in it. Okay, thank

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Speaker 1: you guys. All right, thanks for being here. Bye. Ben.

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Speaker 1: actually yeah, you're telling me before Ben bitches. Do you

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Speaker 1: guys see that a bachelor got married. Oh yeah, so

1413
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Speaker 1: apparently Jerry O'Connell got married over the weekend to a

1414
01:13:36,720 --> 01:13:41,160
Speaker 1: playboy bunny. Not Jerry O'Connell. He's married to Rebecca. Um,

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Speaker 1: what was his name, Charlie? Ben? Did you ever watch

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Speaker 1: that season with Charlie O'Connell. No, I mean, honestly, when

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Speaker 1: we when I got the news of this today, I

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01:13:51,640 --> 01:13:53,479
Speaker 1: had no clue to this guy was there had to

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01:13:53,520 --> 01:13:55,640
Speaker 1: be a long time ago, I don't. I mean, so

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Speaker 1: if you saw him or heard his name, would it

1421
01:13:57,760 --> 01:14:02,040
Speaker 1: ring a bell that he was one of your fellow bachelor? Um? Yeah,

1422
01:14:02,160 --> 01:14:04,559
Speaker 1: I mean I knew that the O'Connell name was on there.

1423
01:14:05,000 --> 01:14:07,760
Speaker 1: I mean, he's forty three years old. Um, so I

1424
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Speaker 1: bet he was a bachelor. What I mean we got

1425
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Speaker 1: to think fifteen years ago? Yeah, he was the best

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01:14:12,680 --> 01:14:15,280
Speaker 1: A long time ago. How many years ago to ben'sday?

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Speaker 1: I think it was. Yeah. Mark's looking it up right now.

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01:14:24,560 --> 01:14:28,200
Speaker 1: The girl he married looks exactly like the girl he

1429
01:14:28,400 --> 01:14:31,720
Speaker 1: picked on the show. Really, you guys have to tell

1430
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Speaker 1: me that I'm not wrong. That's really funny. There's somebody

1431
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Speaker 1: else in the bachelor community who has a whole bunch

1432
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Speaker 1: of exes that look the same, is it you, Ben? Wait?

1433
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Speaker 1: I know, I don't know what did your girl don't

1434
01:14:48,080 --> 01:14:54,200
Speaker 1: look like your girlfriend before? Lauren? Yeah she was. No,

1435
01:14:54,439 --> 01:14:58,400
Speaker 1: she's a brunette, really beautiful, tall brunami. Both very pretty,

1436
01:14:58,560 --> 01:15:02,360
Speaker 1: but definitely don't look alive, not at all. Okay. Charlie

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Speaker 1: O'Connor was the bachelor in a spring of two thousand five,

1438
01:15:05,520 --> 01:15:09,240
Speaker 1: so thirteen years. Yeah, see, very close. I mocked Ben.

1439
01:15:11,560 --> 01:15:15,320
Speaker 1: So there was not it was there? Okay? So Jerry O'Connell.

1440
01:15:15,360 --> 01:15:18,920
Speaker 1: There wasn't a Baldwin, was there. No. For some reason,

1441
01:15:18,960 --> 01:15:20,840
Speaker 1: I feel like there was a Baldwin bachelor as well.

1442
01:15:21,080 --> 01:15:23,880
Speaker 1: There was a Baldwin, Andy Baldwin, but he wasn't a

1443
01:15:24,040 --> 01:15:27,840
Speaker 1: Baldwin like related to Alec. Oh, he wasn't related. No. Oh,

1444
01:15:27,920 --> 01:15:30,000
Speaker 1: I always thought he was related. No, you thought they

1445
01:15:30,040 --> 01:15:33,240
Speaker 1: had a fifth brother. There's so many Baldwin brothers. Of

1446
01:15:33,320 --> 01:15:36,719
Speaker 1: course I thought there was another. In two thousand seven,

1447
01:15:36,840 --> 01:15:40,040
Speaker 1: Andy Baldwin was the bachelor, but he's not related to Alec, Daniel,

1448
01:15:40,120 --> 01:15:45,519
Speaker 1: Stephen or Billy. Okay, but absolutely if a Baldwin was

1449
01:15:45,680 --> 01:15:48,519
Speaker 1: a bachelor, that would be one of the best things

1450
01:15:48,560 --> 01:15:53,120
Speaker 1: I've ever witnessed. I think no Baldwin's are single, or

1451
01:15:53,439 --> 01:15:57,880
Speaker 1: I would kind of be into that. You chip it.

1452
01:15:58,840 --> 01:16:01,880
Speaker 1: That's something I've learned, something I learned on this podcast.

1453
01:16:02,000 --> 01:16:06,439
Speaker 1: Is you ship it? Okay? Ben? What are you getting

1454
01:16:06,479 --> 01:16:11,559
Speaker 1: a bit about? Uh? Is it time? Is it time?

1455
01:16:12,200 --> 01:16:17,280
Speaker 1: Do you feel ready? It came up today. I've had

1456
01:16:17,400 --> 01:16:20,439
Speaker 1: a lot of time to think about this segment. Obviously.

1457
01:16:20,560 --> 01:16:25,120
Speaker 1: Last week, UM, I passed it off to the to

1458
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Speaker 1: keep you know, myself free from rage um, and this

1459
01:16:29,680 --> 01:16:33,360
Speaker 1: week actually just came to my mind today. I get

1460
01:16:33,439 --> 01:16:35,320
Speaker 1: mad about a lot of things, but there's very few

1461
01:16:35,400 --> 01:16:39,920
Speaker 1: things I get madder about than than feeling dumb for

1462
01:16:40,120 --> 01:16:43,599
Speaker 1: inappropriate reasons. And one thing that always makes me feel

1463
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Speaker 1: dumb are those stupid security check codes that you have

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Speaker 1: to type in when you have to change your password

1465
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Speaker 1: to prove you're not a robot. Do you know what

1466
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Speaker 1: I'm talking about? Like? Yeah, rewrite like capital our lower

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Speaker 1: the like. Then you have to guess if it's an

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Speaker 1: my friend. It's both He's still some Every time I

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1478
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1480
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1484
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1485
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1486
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1492
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1493
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1497
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1498
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Speaker 1: with that? He agrees universal Last night, I was doing

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1504
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1505
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1506
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Speaker 1: our our code famous? Today, astlet, we have a really

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Speaker 1: special guest coming up on the twenty two of this month,

1557
01:21:50,000 --> 01:21:52,880
Speaker 1: where about eight days away from a podcast that I

1558
01:21:52,960 --> 01:21:55,839
Speaker 1: think will blow people's mind. I'm so pumped for. Today's

1559
01:21:55,880 --> 01:21:58,600
Speaker 1: podcast was great. We we got the fangirl out with

1560
01:21:58,760 --> 01:22:02,800
Speaker 1: a jum, but we have Becca, the actual Bachelor at

1561
01:22:02,840 --> 01:22:06,160
Speaker 1: coming on the podcast for one of her first interviews.

1562
01:22:06,479 --> 01:22:08,920
Speaker 1: Are you excited about this? I'm so excited. I'm glad

1563
01:22:08,960 --> 01:22:10,840
Speaker 1: we have an entire hour with her so we don't

1564
01:22:10,840 --> 01:22:14,960
Speaker 1: have to rush. She's just gonna show her shining personality

1565
01:22:15,479 --> 01:22:17,200
Speaker 1: and I think it's a great way to get the

1566
01:22:17,240 --> 01:22:20,439
Speaker 1: audience pumped for the start of her season on They

1567
01:22:20,840 --> 01:22:24,880
Speaker 1: of Me. She's a Minnesota girl from Prior Lake and

1568
01:22:25,040 --> 01:22:27,840
Speaker 1: currently lives in Minneapolis. H do you think she's going

1569
01:22:27,880 --> 01:22:29,640
Speaker 1: to go after that? Like, what kind of guy do

1570
01:22:29,720 --> 01:22:33,040
Speaker 1: you see beca going after? I think she's going to

1571
01:22:33,080 --> 01:22:36,000
Speaker 1: go after like a Midwest sweetheart, just like a really

1572
01:22:36,200 --> 01:22:39,240
Speaker 1: down to earth guy. I actually don't think she's going

1573
01:22:39,280 --> 01:22:41,439
Speaker 1: to be the kind of bachelorette who gets caught up

1574
01:22:41,479 --> 01:22:44,800
Speaker 1: in the appearances. Like if there's like a super hot guy,

1575
01:22:44,960 --> 01:22:47,720
Speaker 1: I don't think she's going to be completely drawn to

1576
01:22:47,840 --> 01:22:49,880
Speaker 1: him just for looks. I think that she's gonna be

1577
01:22:50,000 --> 01:22:55,880
Speaker 1: into guys that for their personality. Genuinely. I think so too.

1578
01:22:55,960 --> 01:23:00,360
Speaker 1: I feel like Becca just kind of represent everything that

1579
01:23:00,439 --> 01:23:02,840
Speaker 1: bachelor is. I mean a lot of our factors have

1580
01:23:03,560 --> 01:23:08,160
Speaker 1: but you know, she's been broken hearted on National TV, UM,

1581
01:23:08,760 --> 01:23:12,160
Speaker 1: she has a great job, She's a Midwestern girl. I

1582
01:23:12,240 --> 01:23:15,599
Speaker 1: think Becca represents a lot of this stuff that we're

1583
01:23:15,600 --> 01:23:17,759
Speaker 1: going to root for and cheer for as a bachelor.

1584
01:23:17,880 --> 01:23:20,080
Speaker 1: I'm personally really exciting to know her better. I've never

1585
01:23:20,120 --> 01:23:22,320
Speaker 1: had a conversation with their have you, Yes, I have.

1586
01:23:22,600 --> 01:23:25,080
Speaker 1: I did an interview with her for Cosmo UM on

1587
01:23:25,240 --> 01:23:28,120
Speaker 1: one of her her first one on one dates, and

1588
01:23:28,280 --> 01:23:31,200
Speaker 1: she really liked that guy. And I'm excited to see

1589
01:23:31,200 --> 01:23:34,040
Speaker 1: how far this guy goes. I think I think you

1590
01:23:34,080 --> 01:23:38,000
Speaker 1: could get up there. So for all the listeners out

1591
01:23:38,040 --> 01:23:40,360
Speaker 1: there they're currently listening to podcast, we are going to

1592
01:23:40,400 --> 01:23:43,160
Speaker 1: have Beca on again on the twenty second of this month.

1593
01:23:43,280 --> 01:23:46,880
Speaker 1: That will be two podcasts away from now. Um, please

1594
01:23:46,960 --> 01:23:49,320
Speaker 1: right in at Ben and actually I heeart meatia dot com.

1595
01:23:49,520 --> 01:23:52,519
Speaker 1: Shouldn't it's your question? Uh, any thoughts on beca anything

1596
01:23:52,560 --> 01:23:55,120
Speaker 1: you're excited about, and we'll try to wrap through. I mean,

1597
01:23:55,320 --> 01:23:56,960
Speaker 1: I think we can do a whole segment with Decca

1598
01:23:57,280 --> 01:24:00,320
Speaker 1: on firing some questions from our listening. Also, you guys

1599
01:24:00,400 --> 01:24:02,800
Speaker 1: don't even have to use the email if you join

1600
01:24:03,000 --> 01:24:06,639
Speaker 1: the Facebook group, the almost famous Facebook group. And one

1601
01:24:06,680 --> 01:24:09,120
Speaker 1: of my first questions I want answered on the Facebook

1602
01:24:09,160 --> 01:24:11,800
Speaker 1: group is spoilers. Do you guys like it if we

1603
01:24:11,920 --> 01:24:14,639
Speaker 1: tease spoilers that we get a hold of or should

1604
01:24:14,680 --> 01:24:16,400
Speaker 1: we just not talk about them at all? That's a

1605
01:24:16,439 --> 01:24:18,400
Speaker 1: great question. Ben, what are your thoughts on that too?

1606
01:24:18,520 --> 01:24:21,760
Speaker 1: Because there was an article on TMZ this weekend that

1607
01:24:22,000 --> 01:24:26,639
Speaker 1: revealed one of Becca's hometown date guys, and I wanted

1608
01:24:26,640 --> 01:24:29,080
Speaker 1: to get your take and Ashley's take on it, and

1609
01:24:29,160 --> 01:24:32,519
Speaker 1: then everyone listening should we talk about those stories or not?

1610
01:24:33,200 --> 01:24:36,120
Speaker 1: You know, the thought is to me, I don't know

1611
01:24:36,200 --> 01:24:39,000
Speaker 1: if those small spoilers are a problem because from what

1612
01:24:39,200 --> 01:24:41,280
Speaker 1: might I understand? And I know that to be true

1613
01:24:41,840 --> 01:24:44,920
Speaker 1: in Denver when there was a hometown date, it was

1614
01:24:45,040 --> 01:24:47,320
Speaker 1: very public. I mean they're tweeting about people should go

1615
01:24:47,439 --> 01:24:49,560
Speaker 1: to this event and go to this date. So the

1616
01:24:49,600 --> 01:24:52,559
Speaker 1: backtor is obviously not trying to hide that their hometown

1617
01:24:52,680 --> 01:24:54,920
Speaker 1: dates existing and who's on them because they're inviting the

1618
01:24:54,960 --> 01:24:57,720
Speaker 1: public in and as long as we don't ruin the

1619
01:24:57,840 --> 01:25:00,479
Speaker 1: major aspect of the show, we should talk about it,

1620
01:25:00,600 --> 01:25:03,080
Speaker 1: right what do you think? Actually? I kind of agree

1621
01:25:03,120 --> 01:25:05,240
Speaker 1: with you on that, Like, if they're not doing anything

1622
01:25:05,479 --> 01:25:08,400
Speaker 1: to stop spoilers and they're inviting the public, how can

1623
01:25:08,439 --> 01:25:10,920
Speaker 1: we not talk about it. But at the same time,

1624
01:25:11,000 --> 01:25:12,840
Speaker 1: when I saw the sheet of paper in front of

1625
01:25:12,920 --> 01:25:15,519
Speaker 1: me with spoiler alert on it and a guy's name,

1626
01:25:16,760 --> 01:25:19,200
Speaker 1: I am kind of disappointed because I don't want the

1627
01:25:19,200 --> 01:25:22,639
Speaker 1: show spoiled for me. So I guess if we do talk,

1628
01:25:22,840 --> 01:25:24,519
Speaker 1: I mean whatever, it's going to be spoiled for me.

1629
01:25:24,640 --> 01:25:27,320
Speaker 1: It's just how it goes. But if the fans don't

1630
01:25:27,320 --> 01:25:28,960
Speaker 1: want it spoiled, then what we're gonna have to do

1631
01:25:29,240 --> 01:25:31,640
Speaker 1: is literally be like spoiler spoiler alert and give them

1632
01:25:31,680 --> 01:25:34,519
Speaker 1: the direct time is when they can start to listen again.

1633
01:25:34,640 --> 01:25:36,800
Speaker 1: We can make all our spoilers like one minute in length,

1634
01:25:36,840 --> 01:25:41,840
Speaker 1: so they well time it. Let's not get to spoiler though.

1635
01:25:41,880 --> 01:25:43,519
Speaker 1: I don't want to become that. I don't want to

1636
01:25:43,520 --> 01:25:47,160
Speaker 1: become those spoiler su podcasts where you know, we're we're

1637
01:25:47,240 --> 01:25:49,519
Speaker 1: dropping these bombs on people to ruin the season. I

1638
01:25:50,040 --> 01:25:52,760
Speaker 1: let's just always stay in the line of hinting or

1639
01:25:52,920 --> 01:25:56,120
Speaker 1: like kind of uh, you know, kipping off a little

1640
01:25:56,200 --> 01:25:58,479
Speaker 1: piece of the franchise that we think will make it

1641
01:25:58,560 --> 01:26:00,679
Speaker 1: more interesting, you know, the men make it a little

1642
01:26:00,680 --> 01:26:03,000
Speaker 1: more engaging for the audience. Okay, Like you know, the

1643
01:26:03,080 --> 01:26:06,200
Speaker 1: Ari spoiler last season I think was great. Yeah, just

1644
01:26:06,320 --> 01:26:08,479
Speaker 1: the one. People were not happy when we revealed that.

1645
01:26:08,600 --> 01:26:11,080
Speaker 1: So we have to trust Ben. We'll just trust that.

1646
01:26:11,240 --> 01:26:15,880
Speaker 1: Oyeah in Ben, we trust that is true. All right. Well,

1647
01:26:16,200 --> 01:26:18,519
Speaker 1: I want to say a huge thank you to Ajian

1648
01:26:18,600 --> 01:26:21,360
Speaker 1: McClain for dedicating so much time to be here today.

1649
01:26:22,160 --> 01:26:25,120
Speaker 1: What a sweetheart. And then Josh Murray, thanks for coming on,

1650
01:26:25,479 --> 01:26:28,320
Speaker 1: especially when you know a lot of people are going

1651
01:26:28,360 --> 01:26:31,200
Speaker 1: to talk about this interview and you know, pick it apart.

1652
01:26:31,400 --> 01:26:34,479
Speaker 1: I'm sure they, yes, and I think they will, and

1653
01:26:34,680 --> 01:26:36,760
Speaker 1: and yes, seriously, Jocks, I know you're risking a lot

1654
01:26:36,840 --> 01:26:38,880
Speaker 1: by coming on the podcast and really speaking about this

1655
01:26:38,880 --> 01:26:40,880
Speaker 1: stuff in general. So thanks for coming on the podcast today.

1656
01:26:40,920 --> 01:26:43,559
Speaker 1: Please write us in about your thoughts on that interview.

1657
01:26:44,000 --> 01:26:45,720
Speaker 1: Uh and kind of you know, all the strutiny that

1658
01:26:45,800 --> 01:26:48,400
Speaker 1: he's faced over the years. Also, thank you to Susie

1659
01:26:48,439 --> 01:26:51,920
Speaker 1: for creating our Facebook group. That is a huge deal. Um,

1660
01:26:52,560 --> 01:26:55,679
Speaker 1: she should be celebrated. And he has joined our team.

1661
01:26:55,720 --> 01:26:57,680
Speaker 1: And I think, I mean, I think everybody here from

1662
01:26:57,720 --> 01:27:01,479
Speaker 1: my heart to ask and I we're excited to kind

1663
01:27:01,520 --> 01:27:04,360
Speaker 1: of enhance our presence in the social sphere, and I

1664
01:27:04,400 --> 01:27:06,240
Speaker 1: think this Facebook group is a great way to do it.

1665
01:27:06,320 --> 01:27:09,000
Speaker 1: So Susie, thank you for listening, and thank you for

1666
01:27:09,080 --> 01:27:12,800
Speaker 1: taking the next step and getting involved more. Athlete the

1667
01:27:12,880 --> 01:27:15,519
Speaker 1: great co host, have an amazing week. I will see

1668
01:27:15,560 --> 01:27:20,400
Speaker 1: you in Las Vegas Live podcast from Las Vegas. Uh

1669
01:27:20,680 --> 01:27:23,240
Speaker 1: that will air Amy, When will that air that day?

1670
01:27:23,320 --> 01:27:25,080
Speaker 1: So we're going to do it live from Vegas on

1671
01:27:25,160 --> 01:27:29,439
Speaker 1: Thursday this Thursday. So we the last week we teased

1672
01:27:29,560 --> 01:27:32,320
Speaker 1: a very special thing that's going to happen this week.

1673
01:27:32,439 --> 01:27:35,240
Speaker 1: What is that special? Feel it? Then? Do you want

1674
01:27:35,320 --> 01:27:39,479
Speaker 1: to reveal since it has to do with you? I

1675
01:27:39,560 --> 01:27:41,439
Speaker 1: would love to. This is such a big deal for

1676
01:27:41,520 --> 01:27:44,599
Speaker 1: me and one that I just still can't really understand.

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Speaker 1: And you know, quite honestly, it's kind of funny. I

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Speaker 1: now get to pay money to play myself. And what

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Speaker 1: I mean by that is I have a along with

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Speaker 1: a couple of backs or guys. We have a um

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Speaker 1: slot machine going into the MGM Cino in Las Vegas

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Speaker 1: and it's being revealed this week. So I have to

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Speaker 1: pay money to play myself. To play me, go out

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Speaker 1: to Vegas, go to the md M Grand play the

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Speaker 1: Bachelor's stop machine is actually a ton of fun. Um.

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Speaker 1: You know. I do think this week is going to

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Speaker 1: be one that is a little surreal. And now I'm

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Speaker 1: sure I will be getting texts and pictures all over

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Speaker 1: the place from people that visit Vegas and see my

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Speaker 1: my bug come across this screen and say, sorry you blosted. Wait,

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Speaker 1: Ben Amy, can we talk about Can we tell people

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Speaker 1: on what time we're going to be there on Thursday? Okay,

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Speaker 1: so you guys want to come see the reveal of

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Speaker 1: Ben on a slot machine. Will be at the MGM

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Speaker 1: Grand at eleven am on Thursday. Hey, we'll see you

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Speaker 1: there with that. This has been season five, episode seven

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Speaker 1: of the almost famous podcast I've Been Been, I've Been Ashley,

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Speaker 1: See you later. Follow the Ben and Ashley I almost

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Speaker 1: famous podcast sun I Heart Radio, or subscribe wherever you

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