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Speaker 1: Welcome back, Bachelor Nation. We are so excited for today's

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Speaker 1: episode because we have a few of our absolute favorites

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Speaker 1: back in the studio with us. I'm over here looking

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Speaker 1: at Rachel pouring out the champagne and coffee because it's

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Speaker 1: one of those mornings. But we cannot wait to just

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Speaker 1: talk life after Bachelor again with some of our favorite fellows.

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Speaker 1: We got Garrett and Brian in the house. I can't

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Speaker 1: get right of us to be here again. Thank you

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Speaker 1: for having us. I was like, wait, I can't get

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Speaker 1: a break. I'm like, I feel like it's a guy thing. No,

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Speaker 1: We're so happy to have you here just because you're

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Speaker 1: the man in our life. And I feel like, well,

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Speaker 1: we had such a successful double date the first time

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Speaker 1: when we did this on the podcast, so why not

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Speaker 1: do this again. But I feel like we didn't get

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Speaker 1: to just talk about life and life after the Bachelor. Rhett,

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Speaker 1: don't wait, don't you always say the Bachelor? I always

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Speaker 1: see the Batch were on the Batchrooud. I'm like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was on the bachroom. You know, it's just like

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Speaker 1: a general term. But anyways, I feel like the questions

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Speaker 1: we get the most, and I'm curious about you guys,

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Speaker 1: is what what happens after? You know? There's the day.

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Speaker 1: Oh and our fifth co host today is Minnow she's

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Speaker 1: back with us again. Guys. She always gets upset when

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Speaker 1: we don't acknowledge her, so she'll tell you about life

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Speaker 1: after the batchlor. She's a part of life after the bachlor.

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Speaker 1: We need to talk about our little dog babies. I

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Speaker 1: don't want to say that because I do not consider

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Speaker 1: my dog a dog, So are just our babies. He's

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Speaker 1: not an animal. I'm sure I know we were. I

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Speaker 1: know you think about that the same way I feel

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Speaker 1: like everyone knows. You see our journey, you see us

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Speaker 1: fall in love. You don't see our little rendezvous where

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Speaker 1: we have our you know, happy couple weekends. You see

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Speaker 1: us on stage, we announce who we're with, we go

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Speaker 1: to New York, we do all this press, and then

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Speaker 1: that's it. Don't you feel weird like you're in I'm

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Speaker 1: curious to know how you feel because you're in this

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Speaker 1: weird place where you're like, all right, now you kind

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Speaker 1: of start dating. This is reality. Where do you go

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Speaker 1: from here? Yeah? What did you guys do? First? It's

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Speaker 1: it was a whirlwind, to say the least. I think

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Speaker 1: I never realized how just insanely like passionate the Bachelor

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Speaker 1: Nation family is because when I came off of The Bachelor,

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Speaker 1: I went straight into Bachelorette like we did our after

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Speaker 1: the final rows and then my phone was taken away

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Speaker 1: and I did ooh, I like that sound, and then

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Speaker 1: I became Bachelorette. So it wasn't really until Garrett and

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Speaker 1: I were finally in public where our life really started,

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Speaker 1: where we definitely got to know each other very well

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Speaker 1: while we were still in hiding in the happy couple

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Speaker 1: houses because you're stuck in a house for days on end.

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Speaker 1: But it was just like after that, real life hit us.

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Speaker 1: Where do we live? What are we going to do

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Speaker 1: after this? All those questions and you're trying to form

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Speaker 1: having to say and so it was an adjustment. I

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Speaker 1: think neither one of us were prepared for. I just

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Speaker 1: think the notoriety that came with it. I mean, and Garrett,

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Speaker 1: I can't speak for you, but I was. I was

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Speaker 1: blown away. I didn't really know how to handle it.

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Speaker 1: I felt like I was like this little fresh baby

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Speaker 1: live at first, So it was probably the biggest changing

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Speaker 1: moment of my life, I would say. And then we

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Speaker 1: kind of just figured it out, Garrett and I decided

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Speaker 1: like where we wanted to live together, what we wanted

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Speaker 1: to do, how we wanted our life to look post show,

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Speaker 1: being normal. But yeah, Garrett, what would you say? I

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Speaker 1: don't think she said, yeah, everything you said, but like

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Speaker 1: Was it was I don't know, it was, Yeah, And

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Speaker 1: I think those happy couple of weekends are clutch because

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Speaker 1: basically cabin fever with each other for four or five days.

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Speaker 1: always kept communication. Were FaceTime every day, yeah, talking multiple

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Speaker 1: about you know, we were both on the same page

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Speaker 1: as far as you know, my career allowed me the

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Speaker 1: it very easy for me. Yeah, I mean, I like

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Speaker 1: the commitment was there, you know what I mean, Like

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Speaker 1: we wanted to be together. That came first, and you know,

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Speaker 1: that's that's what we're going to make happen. I think

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Speaker 1: it's interesting what you said Becca about though being in

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Speaker 1: the womb, because what you underestimate, and this is advised

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Speaker 1: to any future Batch people coming to be a part

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Speaker 1: of the batch or franchise if you make it this far,

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Speaker 1: is that you are so protected when no one knows

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Speaker 1: who you chose. People are guessing, maybe they're listening to

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Speaker 1: the blogs or Unreddit or whatever, but they don't know.

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Speaker 1: So you're in this bubble of I've found my person,

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Speaker 1: I'm so in love. You know, production is still putting

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Speaker 1: you up, and it's like that bubble burst when you

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Speaker 1: now all these opinions come flooding in about what you

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Speaker 1: and I we face so much backlash, Like I got

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Speaker 1: so much backlash for picking Brian, even though I knew

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Speaker 1: And I'm very curious, like for us so the first day,

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Speaker 1: and I've spoken about this before, but I don't know

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Speaker 1: if I've ever told you. I know i'd never told

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Speaker 1: you Gary, But when we did that media around in

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Speaker 1: I didn't pick, and it became so heavy because I

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Speaker 1: to honor and protect my relationship. How do I respect

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Speaker 1: Brian but then also respect the process. And it got

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Speaker 1: to just be the two of us, and I baled

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Speaker 1: like I just needed a good cry. I was so frustrated,

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Speaker 1: and we just kind of held each other in that

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Speaker 1: And it was after that that we were like, you

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Speaker 1: know what, if we can get through this and we

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Speaker 1: get through anything. Right. So I'm very curious as to

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Speaker 1: how it was for you guys, because I'm very curious

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Speaker 1: it was for you guys, because you're on a plane,

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Speaker 1: taking a red eye. You land, and then it's like boom,

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Speaker 1: your phone goes off. And that's the thing no one

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Speaker 1: can expect it. When you watch the finale, you watch

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Speaker 1: those couple hours go down, the couple's on stage. You

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Speaker 1: literally hop on a plane, take the red eye, you're exhausted,

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Speaker 1: It's like a full day of non stop interviews and

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Speaker 1: you're you're talking about the same thing. And that what

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Speaker 1: I experienced personally is like it was such a happy moment.

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Speaker 1: I was so excited to finally share like Garrett is

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Speaker 1: my number one pick, Like we're together, it's the two

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Speaker 1: of us now. But the media doesn't always want to

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Speaker 1: interview like the happy like show the happy side of things.

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Speaker 1: They want to talk about the druma, the runner up,

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Speaker 1: totally see why you were like, everyone needs to get out,

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Speaker 1: we need our moment, like we need to just be alone.

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Speaker 1: I think Garret and I got to the point that

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Speaker 1: think it was over the phone. We had all of

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Speaker 1: They weren't asking direct questions first of all, and so

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Speaker 1: Garret and I were looking at each other like are

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Speaker 1: we losing our minds? Here? Are we like living in

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Speaker 1: an alternate, alternate universe where we don't know, like what

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Speaker 1: I thought we were undersing our minds because I didn't

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Speaker 1: want to be like rude on the interview, so I

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Speaker 1: chain reaction of laughs and to this interview, and it

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Speaker 1: was terrible. Yeah, it was so bad because we were exhausted.

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Speaker 1: We had been talking about the same thing and so

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Speaker 1: it wasn't until that night where also too we did

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Speaker 1: not realize, Okay, I'm from small town Minnesota, Garrett is

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Speaker 1: from central California. We did not realize, like once you

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Speaker 1: leave the interviews that day, like Papa Razzi is following you.

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Speaker 1: I never thought that that was going to be a

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Speaker 1: thing in my wildest dreams. I never thought Paparazzi would

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Speaker 1: have gotten in a car and chased us. I was like,

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Speaker 1: what the heck is going on. I was so out

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Speaker 1: of my element. We were just we could not have

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Speaker 1: this day, like Paparazzi. I'm like, I knew what happened.

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Speaker 1: For like Princess Diana and like important people, like why

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Speaker 1: the hell are they chasing us to get a photo

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Speaker 1: just me endorsing one product and slapping my name on it.

427
00:20:55,000 --> 00:20:57,920
Speaker 1: It's so much more than that. And people, My thing

428
00:20:58,040 --> 00:21:00,200
Speaker 1: is like I would never go up to somebody at

429
00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:02,399
Speaker 1: know and be like do you work, do you have

430
00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:04,280
Speaker 1: a four or one K? How much do you get paid?

431
00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:06,080
Speaker 1: What do you do? Like that's one of my business.

432
00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:09,320
Speaker 1: If you are doing something that is fulfilling you and

433
00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:12,679
Speaker 1: bettering yourself and working towards some goal, that's all I

434
00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:15,000
Speaker 1: need to know. Like good for you. And people, I

435
00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:17,439
Speaker 1: think because they feel like they know us and they

436
00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:19,840
Speaker 1: see everything, they want to know all aspects there. They

437
00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:21,920
Speaker 1: just want to know every single detail about your life.

438
00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:23,600
Speaker 1: They think that they have a say in it. And

439
00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:26,160
Speaker 1: I don't think we're saying listen people, We're not saying that.

440
00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:32,199
Speaker 1: We're like, yeah, this is an amazing platform and it

441
00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:34,760
Speaker 1: gives you amazing opportunities, and I think we can all

442
00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:36,960
Speaker 1: agree it has its changed our lives for the better

443
00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:41,720
Speaker 1: in every single way. But don't forget that it requires work.

444
00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:43,959
Speaker 1: Like it just doesn't happen for you and that's it

445
00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:46,840
Speaker 1: and you've got the golden ticket. It requires some work

446
00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:49,879
Speaker 1: as well. It doesn't come easy, otherwise everybody would be

447
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:53,639
Speaker 1: doing this that's been on the show, you know. And

448
00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:58,920
Speaker 1: then I forgot my next question. Like I literally looked

449
00:21:58,920 --> 00:21:59,960
Speaker 1: out like the paper and I was like, oh no,

450
00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:03,160
Speaker 1: we're just shooting the ship. Is good, like playing into

451
00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:07,320
Speaker 1: like how much worlds have changed and just what we're

452
00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:10,560
Speaker 1: kind of thrown into post show. Like for Garrett, even

453
00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:13,040
Speaker 1: this podcast today, like he was a little nervous and

454
00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:16,000
Speaker 1: because he like he'll also watched the show and he's

455
00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,320
Speaker 1: still wrapped up in a little bit. But he's not,

456
00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:21,080
Speaker 1: which I love about him. He's not like wrapped up

457
00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:24,320
Speaker 1: in doing all these appearances and these media interviews and

458
00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:27,200
Speaker 1: all this craziness, and he's just like I just want

459
00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:28,560
Speaker 1: to sit back and like drink a beer in my

460
00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:31,000
Speaker 1: coach and chill. So even like for him to be here,

461
00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:36,400
Speaker 1: props Steve gar, thank you. He is not a fame.

462
00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:40,440
Speaker 1: More people I don't think anybody thinks that about either

463
00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:42,479
Speaker 1: one of them. Oh then they're quick to label you. Oh,

464
00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:49,880
Speaker 1: they're just trying to be relevant, and oh my god,

465
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:58,480
Speaker 1: what do I need to do to put something relevant

466
00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:03,600
Speaker 1: the show? For that second? Yeah, why does that have

467
00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:06,040
Speaker 1: to be? I mean, let's be honest, there are people

468
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 1: in the franchise who do things to stay relevant, But

469
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:14,119
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say anybody here does something like even this podcast,

470
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 1: we're not doing it to stay relevant. I mean, we

471
00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:20,840
Speaker 1: were on this show. We have a like a unique perspective.

472
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:23,440
Speaker 1: We love sitting here talking each other. Mean, my god,

473
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:27,640
Speaker 1: we're dressed alike today and we are guys. You can't see.

474
00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:29,879
Speaker 1: It's just a fun outlet. And I think that when

475
00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:32,080
Speaker 1: you're a part of the franchise, you kind of want

476
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:33,840
Speaker 1: to keep your toe in it and stay connected to

477
00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:35,960
Speaker 1: it in some way because it did do so much

478
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:41,280
Speaker 1: for you. But it's not like we're doing things for attention, right, Yeah,

479
00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 1: for who exactly? And what? Don't confuse me with some

480
00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:46,679
Speaker 1: other people. And I'm not going to name names, like

481
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 1: I podcast with you because like Rachel, when you had

482
00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 1: me on his guest, I had such a good time.

483
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:55,639
Speaker 1: It's just like fun for me to do, to like

484
00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 1: chat for a couple hours about about the show that

485
00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:01,960
Speaker 1: everyone watches. Like that's why I'm I'm not into build

486
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 1: my I don't even know how to like build a

487
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 1: following or like whatever the kids are doing these days.

488
00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:09,200
Speaker 1: I like the outdoors, like hunting and fishing and stuff

489
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:11,480
Speaker 1: like that, and the platform isn't really built around that.

490
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:17,240
Speaker 1: Fishing ducks and people are like, oh, you're a terrible

491
00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 1: human being. Sometimes I'm like watch this Becca or whatever.

492
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:30,439
Speaker 1: She's like, oh my god. Yeah, you feel like you

493
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:33,280
Speaker 1: want to give advice to people who are coming after

494
00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:35,159
Speaker 1: you in the franchise, And maybe this is more direct

495
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 1: like you guys probably Karen and Brod are like no, whatever,

496
00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:40,880
Speaker 1: But Becca, do you feel the pressure too, Like you're

497
00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:43,679
Speaker 1: seeing these people come up, You're seeing them go through it.

498
00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 1: You probably have people reach out to you, and guys,

499
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:48,040
Speaker 1: maybe you do too. I don't mean to count you out.

500
00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:50,320
Speaker 1: Do you feel the pressure to like let me, let

501
00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:52,560
Speaker 1: me help you out a little bit. I wouldn't say

502
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:55,960
Speaker 1: the pressure, but I think I wanted, especially like right

503
00:24:56,000 --> 00:25:00,679
Speaker 1: after my season there was so much change and I

504
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:03,160
Speaker 1: didn't know where to turn to and I really struggled

505
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 1: with that that I more so wanted to be a

506
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:09,760
Speaker 1: place that the girls from Colton season felt like they

507
00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 1: could come to and ask the questions to you. I'm

508
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:15,360
Speaker 1: pretty sure I think you a lot of the girls did. Yeah, yeah,

509
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:20,240
Speaker 1: you didn't there, but I didn't know. But well because

510
00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 1: even like even the advice when you and Jojo and

511
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:25,720
Speaker 1: Kaylin came on prior to my season helped so much.

512
00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:27,959
Speaker 1: Um No, but a lot of the girls did reach out,

513
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 1: which helps tremendously, tremendously because it just it was a

514
00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:33,760
Speaker 1: weird world and I didn't know where to turn what

515
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 1: to do. At that point. I couldn't really talk about

516
00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:39,000
Speaker 1: what had happened because I was still the show was

517
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,840
Speaker 1: still airing, and so I wanted to be a person

518
00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:43,760
Speaker 1: that they felt like they could come to and ask

519
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:48,120
Speaker 1: advice or just eventum and it really and I still

520
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:49,639
Speaker 1: want to be that. So I there's anyone out there

521
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:51,879
Speaker 1: on the show listening, like, please feel free like you

522
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 1: can reach out. Um, please don't feel like we're tearing

523
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:57,280
Speaker 1: your bart on this podcast. But but I think it's

524
00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:59,919
Speaker 1: different now because my I was coming at it from

525
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,920
Speaker 1: an aspect of like social media is crazy, You're being

526
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,400
Speaker 1: bombarded with all of this noise and you just really

527
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 1: don't know where to turn, and and you get you

528
00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:10,640
Speaker 1: hear the best things ever and you hear the worst

529
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 1: things ever. And I struggled with that, and so I

530
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:17,120
Speaker 1: wanted to come from a place of like we all

531
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:19,280
Speaker 1: get that feedback, like don't take it to heart. Like

532
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,679
Speaker 1: if you need someone that's like, they're just as like

533
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 1: eventing somebody to vent to or cry with, Like I

534
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:27,640
Speaker 1: can be that person. Now. Now it's kind of hard

535
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 1: because I think like a lot of people go on

536
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 1: expecting that social media attention, which I didn't. I didn't

537
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 1: go on expecting that, So I came at it from

538
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:38,720
Speaker 1: a different way. Now, I think they're maybe more seasoned

539
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:42,639
Speaker 1: and like want that. Yeah, people say that, Yeah, Demmy

540
00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 1: on the show she said it. I interviewed Jimmy, Jimmy,

541
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:50,479
Speaker 1: I interviewed Jimmy McCarthy a while back. She said it,

542
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 1: and she's like, it's kind of a sign of the times. Yeah, yeah,

543
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:55,919
Speaker 1: I mean people are going walking onto the show with

544
00:26:56,000 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 1: like one hundred thousand followers right Twitter. When I came

545
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 1: on the Bathtor I sold to this day. Don't even

546
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:05,359
Speaker 1: know how to use Twitter that well. I'll like tweet

547
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 1: out once a week. But yeah, I didn't even think

548
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:10,160
Speaker 1: of the Instagram following when I went on the show

549
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 1: until I came out of the shower and there was

550
00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:15,320
Speaker 1: like a group of guys in the bedroom talking about

551
00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 1: the followers after who did who? Who did that? I

552
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:26,879
Speaker 1: I had to guess I could write down names. But

553
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 1: it was in the very beginning, within the first week

554
00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 1: that we had moved into the mansion. Serious, yeah, And

555
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:33,920
Speaker 1: I was like, I remember my joke coming out was

556
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 1: like I was like, guys, I have four hundred and

557
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:43,880
Speaker 1: they were like, you have four hundred thousand followers? Yeah,

558
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:46,680
Speaker 1: but like, okay, you bring up such a good point

559
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:49,879
Speaker 1: that right there shows you and people always joke are

560
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:51,199
Speaker 1: you here for the right reasons? Are here for the

561
00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:53,719
Speaker 1: wrong reasons? And reasons? And it's become such a like

562
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 1: muddied statement. Who even knows what that means anymore? But

563
00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:02,200
Speaker 1: it is terrifying to hear the week one guys are

564
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:06,159
Speaker 1: talking about followers, I mean as leads. Is Becca is

565
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 1: that not so scary? Oh? Yeah? And I literally is

566
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 1: about to ask us questions. So I'm thank you for

567
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:15,439
Speaker 1: the segue. Love a good segue. I'm scared for the

568
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:18,640
Speaker 1: franchise and the people you're bringing through. I mean, we've

569
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:23,120
Speaker 1: watched Peter season and you look at the women and

570
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:26,200
Speaker 1: they just seem to be different as a whole. I'm

571
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 1: not saying every single one there, but as a whole

572
00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:31,879
Speaker 1: different from what we've seen in past seasons, and I'm concerned.

573
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 1: I mean, I think no offense, but I think that

574
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:37,960
Speaker 1: has could have something to do with age. I mean,

575
00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:41,360
Speaker 1: if you get some older individuals who you know, very

576
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:44,080
Speaker 1: advanced in their career, don't really care about all the

577
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 1: social media stuff, and you know, they've lived their life,

578
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 1: they've had experiences, they've been in love, they've had their heartbroken.

579
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:54,720
Speaker 1: I think there's more of a chance that it could

580
00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 1: end up well like it did for us. But what

581
00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 1: about the middle ground of like forty year olds maybe

582
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 1: who are our divorce, had been divorced, and have kids

583
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 1: and are in that I feel like there's no tapped audience.

584
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 1: It's called the Real Housewives. No, no, no, those those women.

585
00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 1: Women are losing their min like that. You know, I

586
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:17,680
Speaker 1: know franchise. Romona Singer told me she should be the

587
00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 1: next Bachelorette. Wait does she single? Yeah, she's single. I

588
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:23,840
Speaker 1: haven't caught I'm sorry, I have not caught up. Girl. Yeah,

589
00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 1: Mario cheated on her. She found this whole Oh my gosh, Ramona. Anyways,

590
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 1: we're digressing. But no, um, I forgot why we started

591
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 1: talking about that, like social media following Yeah, yeah, yeah,

592
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 1: I think and what I've seen in this show and

593
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:42,760
Speaker 1: I was actually talking about this um with someone the

594
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:45,959
Speaker 1: other day. I think this show is now trying to

595
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 1: adapt itself to fit the social world a little bit more.

596
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 1: I mean back in the day, like I think it

597
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:56,640
Speaker 1: was on Colton season, you saw the whole conversation about

598
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 1: like Kaylin and Cassie had been talking about Gwenda these

599
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:01,600
Speaker 1: revolved parties. Well what did you see in Peter's season?

600
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 1: Now revolve became part of the narrative, and so I

601
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 1: think they're trying to adjust a little bit more. I

602
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:10,120
Speaker 1: think it's a conversation like, look, social media and like

603
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 1: these crazy cool parties and opportunities aren't going to go away.

604
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:15,320
Speaker 1: So of course people coming on the show are going

605
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:18,640
Speaker 1: to be open to that world. And I think if

606
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 1: you go on, I mean like, yeah, sure, it's gonna

607
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:22,520
Speaker 1: be cool. I'll probably go to some of those things.

608
00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 1: I'm not going to say no, but to still not

609
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 1: make it like, oh, I would never do that, and

610
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 1: if you would say that, it's terrible. It's like the

611
00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 1: hopefully you're going on the show to potentially find a partner,

612
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:37,640
Speaker 1: Like I'd hope that that was your end goal and

613
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 1: be pleasantly surprised. But I think it's just part of

614
00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 1: the world now that people just have to confront and say, like, yeah,

615
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 1: that's a thing, and we're not going to try to

616
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 1: hide it, but we're not going to make the entire

617
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 1: narrative about that. You know what I'd like to see.

618
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:53,080
Speaker 1: I'd like for them to just wash the slate clean.

619
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 1: Let's just start over. I don't want you to pick

620
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:58,560
Speaker 1: somebody from a prior season. I don't want anybody from

621
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:01,280
Speaker 1: the past. Let's just go back to how they used

622
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 1: to do it. Let's bring in somebody who's you know,

623
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 1: a successful businessman or woman or maybe even a celebrity.

624
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 1: Let them be the bachelor bachelorette. Let's have a whole

625
00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:14,240
Speaker 1: new crop of people, and there's no rules. It doesn't

626
00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 1: matter what age you are, um, whether you have kids,

627
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 1: whether you've been divorced, whether what your sexuality is. I mean,

628
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:24,720
Speaker 1: just like, let's just have a free for all and

629
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:27,120
Speaker 1: start over. Because I think that that's what's so great

630
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 1: about Winner Games, Summer Games, all of this stuff you

631
00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 1: bring in people from the look of confusion on Chared

632
00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:44,960
Speaker 1: face look Summer Games. So I heard I heard Brian

633
00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 1: mentioned Summer Games saying I was like, what is it? So,

634
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: what's so cool about that? I loved it, Like it

635
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 1: was off the beaten path. We never knew what we

636
00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:00,160
Speaker 1: were going to get each episode. We didn't know all

637
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 1: the dates were planned, who was going to pop up,

638
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 1: and all these people from different countries coming together and

639
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 1: it's guys and girls living in the same place. That

640
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 1: was so cool. It was refreshing. I think something like

641
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:13,320
Speaker 1: that needs to continue. I guess why did they switch

642
00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 1: it in the first place. I think it was a

643
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 1: situation where you saw them in the previous season they

644
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:21,040
Speaker 1: got their heartbroken. It's like you followed their journey and

645
00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 1: they want to see you find love. So I feel

646
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:27,440
Speaker 1: like that's why they straight away from the old school mentality. Okay, Becca,

647
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 1: you mentioned something that kind of stood out to me

648
00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 1: when you were talking about how people give their opinions

649
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 1: on what you should be doing as a woman. In

650
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:39,160
Speaker 1: your relationship, which I feel like we get those same

651
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 1: questions too, I guess, so one, how do you navigate that?

652
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 1: And do you feel like I feel like for us,

653
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:50,000
Speaker 1: it's a constant conversation of where are we going to live? Because,

654
00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:51,960
Speaker 1: like you, guys, we lived in two different cities, two

655
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 1: different states. How do we bring our lives together? I

656
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:58,160
Speaker 1: have my goals, Brian has his. I'm very interested with

657
00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 1: you guys where you stand on that and kind of

658
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:03,960
Speaker 1: how you work through it and where you see yourself going. Yeah,

659
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 1: I think like you guys, it's just a constant conversation

660
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 1: and it's just realizing you have to compromise at times,

661
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 1: Like in terms of moving, it was a huge adjustment

662
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:17,600
Speaker 1: to both of us and we couldn't agree. So we

663
00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:20,480
Speaker 1: wanted to come to a neutral territory where we could

664
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 1: start our life together in a new ground, where it

665
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 1: wasn't like, oh, I'm just changing for you or you're

666
00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:28,360
Speaker 1: just changing for me. We really wanted to make it

667
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:32,120
Speaker 1: our own, which is why we came to California. But

668
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 1: even in terms of career paths or and work, like,

669
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 1: I have personally gotten a lot of not a lot

670
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 1: of criticism. I shouldn't say a lot, but some criticism

671
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 1: for saying yes to The Bachelor Live on Stage tour

672
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 1: because I'm gone for three months across the country and

673
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 1: Garrett will be there for part of it with me.

674
00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 1: He's going to travel and come see me. But there's

675
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 1: been a lot of people messaging me being like, I

676
00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:01,920
Speaker 1: can't believe you're leaving partner. He must be so sad

677
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:04,720
Speaker 1: that you're like packing up to leave him, and and

678
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 1: like think, God, you have such a supportive man. It's like, why,

679
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:11,279
Speaker 1: why as a woman can I not say yes to

680
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:14,080
Speaker 1: these amazing opportunities, Like if it was if it was

681
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:15,400
Speaker 1: a man and I And this is something I have

682
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 1: to talk to Ben about. I'm not sure if he's

683
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:18,719
Speaker 1: gone it. I don't think he has. But Ben's in

684
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 1: a relationship with someone, but I don't think he's probably

685
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:24,799
Speaker 1: getting it to the same extent of like, why, why

686
00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:27,360
Speaker 1: as a woman is it frowned upon for me to

687
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:31,840
Speaker 1: leave and travel and focus on bettering myself and this

688
00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 1: career path and this new endeavor. I don't I don't

689
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 1: get that, And like, yes, of course, thank god, Garrett

690
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:40,840
Speaker 1: is so supportive and I have an amazing partner that says,

691
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 1: go do it like you deserve this, like it's an

692
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:48,759
Speaker 1: amazing opportunity. But but all that should matter is what

693
00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:51,359
Speaker 1: what Like if if he wrote wasn't supportive, and if

694
00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:53,080
Speaker 1: he was like, no, I don't think it's best like

695
00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:55,520
Speaker 1: for a relationship right now, I wouldn't be leaving him.

696
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:59,359
Speaker 1: It's it's I didn't even know people. Yeah, I get

697
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 1: it's like the weirdest thing. And I swear it's some

698
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:06,000
Speaker 1: triss with like changing their account names and it's always

699
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:09,799
Speaker 1: under new accounts, but it's I'll screenshot it. I thought

700
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 1: I should it time to get criticize all the time

701
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:14,160
Speaker 1: because people are like, you're not back in medical sales.

702
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 1: You're just writing back as coattails. So that's why I

703
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 1: get like messages about that all the time, like you're

704
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 1: just writing in her shadow and she and I'm like,

705
00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:25,040
Speaker 1: and what you got to chalk it up to is

706
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:27,920
Speaker 1: people don't know. And of course people will have their opinions,

707
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 1: but at the end of the day, what matters is

708
00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 1: what we think and what we feel in our relationship

709
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 1: and what's best. And you just have I've learned to

710
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:35,840
Speaker 1: really just tune a lot of it out. Yeah, Like

711
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 1: of course I'll clod back at some moments and say

712
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:41,279
Speaker 1: something and respond, but at the end of the day,

713
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 1: I'm still going to do what I want to do.

714
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 1: Garrett is going to do what he wants to do

715
00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 1: and what's best for our relationship. Yeah, it's like question.

716
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 1: I would always support whatever she wanted to do. You know,

717
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:53,959
Speaker 1: it's like absolutely, it's in a sense, I mean, you're

718
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:57,840
Speaker 1: becoming a better version of yourself, getting new experiences, you know,

719
00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:00,160
Speaker 1: growing as a person, which feels only going to make

720
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 1: you stronger as a unit, you know what I mean.

721
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 1: Like if you were trying to hold her down and

722
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:05,879
Speaker 1: be like, no, you can't do that, I mean you're

723
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:07,839
Speaker 1: not letting your spread her wings, you know what I mean.

724
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:11,920
Speaker 1: So it actually takes a very strong, supportive and and

725
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:15,520
Speaker 1: secure partner to actually do what he's doing. Yeah. Yeah,

726
00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:19,480
Speaker 1: y'all's dynamic reminds me a lot of Brian you Tune myself,

727
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 1: And just what I think bothers me is that people

728
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:26,759
Speaker 1: try to tell us how our relationship should be, and

729
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 1: it's really the like the confines. I shouldn't say that word,

730
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 1: but just like it really just depends on how you

731
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:35,480
Speaker 1: set it up for yourselves. And I think, why do

732
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:37,560
Speaker 1: we have why does it have to be traditional where

733
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 1: you know, we go into a nine to five and

734
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 1: you know then you you have children and you like

735
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:45,560
Speaker 1: pick them up from daycare, and like this is exactly

736
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 1: how it has to be. And I think that what's

737
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 1: beautiful is because for Brian and I we like go

738
00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 1: like he moved to Dallas for me, and then when

739
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 1: I stopped practicing law, which I got a lot of

740
00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 1: hate for too, well, you just want to be famous

741
00:36:57,239 --> 00:36:58,920
Speaker 1: and you stop practicing, It's like, why can't I just

742
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 1: change my career? And then I moved to Miami to

743
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 1: support Brian and he opened up his practice there and

744
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 1: we are always like okay, in two more years, will

745
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:11,399
Speaker 1: evaluate things, and sometimes things aren't matching up that way,

746
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 1: and you know, like my career is evolving more towards LA.

747
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:19,480
Speaker 1: But Brian has been insanely supportive. And I that's the

748
00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:21,839
Speaker 1: thing that you mentioned this Becca, and I'll just kind

749
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:24,240
Speaker 1: of like tag onto what you said is I couldn't

750
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 1: do what I'm doing if Brian did not support me.

751
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 1: So this is a partnership and why can't our relationship

752
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:34,360
Speaker 1: be okay? Maybe we have to do something by Coastal

753
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 1: for a second and then but we have an end

754
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 1: goal in mind. We're not trying to do this forever.

755
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:42,399
Speaker 1: And every relationship you really have to make it your own.

756
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 1: Like I couldn't do what I've seen other friends do

757
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:48,520
Speaker 1: in relationships, like that's just not for me. And so

758
00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:51,560
Speaker 1: we just have to be there for one another. And

759
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:53,520
Speaker 1: that's what we've learned. Like life is crazy right now.

760
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:55,520
Speaker 1: We're all over the place, and that's just what it is.

761
00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:58,880
Speaker 1: There's no changing that. You just have to adapt and compromise.

762
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 1: And like if Garrett would ever come between and be like, hey,

763
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:04,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this like live tour show for three months,

764
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 1: there's no way I would say no. I'd be like,

765
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:09,759
Speaker 1: go for it, winking, when can I come travel with you?

766
00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 1: You know, I'm gonna be your groupie. It's every relationship

767
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:17,399
Speaker 1: is their own and and and that's one thing I've learned.

768
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 1: It's easy to judge and like I myself even back

769
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 1: in the day, of course I had my opinions, but

770
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 1: I think that's one thing that the show really opened

771
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 1: me up too, was like everyone's different and you just

772
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:31,239
Speaker 1: have to do you and adapt to what is best

773
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:35,040
Speaker 1: for you in your relationship and hope that it works out,

774
00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:37,279
Speaker 1: Like why can't people just support us and be like, oh,

775
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:40,440
Speaker 1: that's really cool that they're doing this thing together exactly.

776
00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:41,920
Speaker 1: That's all I was going to say is there's so

777
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 1: many people that want to insert their just negative comments

778
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 1: and they're just always down and it's like they put

779
00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:51,160
Speaker 1: these opinions out there and comments, but if you see

780
00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 1: them in person, they're like, oh my god, that's Rachel,

781
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:57,320
Speaker 1: that's Brian and I just on social media. It just

782
00:38:57,560 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 1: drives me crazy, so I try to just She gets

783
00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:03,360
Speaker 1: worked up about it sometimes with the comments, and for me,

784
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:06,160
Speaker 1: I'm just like f everybody that leaves comments like that,

785
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:08,839
Speaker 1: they don't know you personally, they don't know where you're

786
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:10,719
Speaker 1: going in life, what you want to do, and it's like,

787
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 1: do what you want to do and go with it,

788
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:15,640
Speaker 1: and go with it with like full force. Don't worry

789
00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:18,839
Speaker 1: about like other people's opinions and don't let them sway

790
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:21,040
Speaker 1: you right or wrong or whatever. Just do what you

791
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:22,759
Speaker 1: know is right and what you want to try to

792
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 1: achieve and go after it. And it's just you and

793
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:28,440
Speaker 1: I and you are families. It's like, I hate people

794
00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:32,279
Speaker 1: just fish and that's what I love about Garrett. That's

795
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 1: why he's fishing and he's away from technolog But he

796
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 1: is my biggest champion, Like he is the one where like,

797
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:46,000
Speaker 1: for instance, one example was like this past week, I

798
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:48,719
Speaker 1: had to do a social promotion for a brand and

799
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:53,320
Speaker 1: I posted the picture and I took a shower, and

800
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:55,560
Speaker 1: he's the one coming back. He's like, I got your back, babe,

801
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:57,239
Speaker 1: Like I'm getting all these people right now, and so

802
00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 1: he's only going through all the comments. I'm like, hey,

803
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:01,640
Speaker 1: I was, you know, yeah anyway, but I'm like I

804
00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. So I don't have to right

805
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:06,960
Speaker 1: now and so and that's just a very small example,

806
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 1: but yeah, I'm very lucky to have him. No, I like,

807
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 1: I'm literally sitting here and I'm like, this is this

808
00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:16,439
Speaker 1: is exactly how Brian and I are, Like I'm watching

809
00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:17,920
Speaker 1: on him like this, That's how we are. And I

810
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:21,840
Speaker 1: think that that speaks to what makes a relationship so successful.

811
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 1: You have a strong foundation, you have open communication, You

812
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:28,839
Speaker 1: understand that things are always changing, you have to make sacrifices,

813
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 1: you have to compromise, and you have to support each other.

814
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 1: And that isn't easy all the time, especially when you

815
00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:38,799
Speaker 1: fall in love in such a public way. Everyone has

816
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:41,600
Speaker 1: their opinions about you, and you have to, as you said, Garrett,

817
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:44,759
Speaker 1: cancel out the noise and just say, you know what,

818
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:47,880
Speaker 1: fuck what everybody else is saying. We know who we are,

819
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:50,480
Speaker 1: we know what we have and that is what makes

820
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:54,600
Speaker 1: us great. Yeah, and all as I was getting out

821
00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:57,320
Speaker 1: what she was talking about. Her point. It's like people

822
00:40:57,400 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 1: in lighthearted situations or pictures or whatever, they insert like

823
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:04,759
Speaker 1: the deepest like hardest, I don't know, negativity and their

824
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:07,799
Speaker 1: opinions and all that, and I'm just like, man, screw

825
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:10,800
Speaker 1: what they say. You know exactly what your intention was

826
00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 1: in the picture or whatever it was. Yeah, and just

827
00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:15,719
Speaker 1: keep moving forward because if you let that stuff hold

828
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:17,919
Speaker 1: you up and just like drag you down, well said.

829
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:21,680
Speaker 1: And for anybody who is letting you know, trolls or

830
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:24,840
Speaker 1: you know, faceless people e. Thugs as I like to

831
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 1: call them, you know, attack you on social media or

832
00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:32,239
Speaker 1: in print or whatever, like, know who you are, stay

833
00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 1: true to that. Your circle of friends and your family

834
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 1: members support you and they know who you are too,

835
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:39,279
Speaker 1: And that's really what you have to rest on. Don't

836
00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:42,000
Speaker 1: try to impress people you don't know. Don't try to

837
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:45,840
Speaker 1: be something that you're not. You know, everybody is made differently.

838
00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:48,319
Speaker 1: We're all unique, and that's what makes you special because

839
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:50,880
Speaker 1: there's absolutely no one out there who is just like you.

840
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:53,080
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm like and thank you for tuning

841
00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:58,680
Speaker 1: into therapy with Becca. Garrett. If you like your coffee

842
00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:01,360
Speaker 1: with heavy cream and scoops that Hazel Nutter or whatever,

843
00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 1: just keep rocking you. Guys aren't aware of this, but

844
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 1: aren't maybe well you should be, because I mean, you're

845
00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:11,400
Speaker 1: listening to our podcast. But I'm bats are happy, ir

846
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:12,959
Speaker 1: Becca and I love to play games with our guests,

847
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:15,880
Speaker 1: so we can't leave you or let you leave without

848
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:17,279
Speaker 1: playing a game with you. So we're going to do

849
00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 1: rapid Fire. I'm going to direct my questions to Garrett.

850
00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 1: Becca's going to direct hers to you. Brian wonderful. I

851
00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 1: asked a question, one word answer. I've added, you just

852
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:31,080
Speaker 1: have to give it to a straight I feel like

853
00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 1: this is from so we're like, do you want to

854
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:38,160
Speaker 1: play again? I wish we are here, because Garrett and

855
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:41,440
Speaker 1: Brian looked terrified, like what we signed up for today? Guys?

856
00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 1: All right, here we go rapid Fire. Garrett, first thing

857
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:52,080
Speaker 1: you ever noticed about Becca? Smile? Sweet? Okay, Brian. The

858
00:42:52,200 --> 00:43:02,440
Speaker 1: cutest thing Rachel does is smile. Okay, No, actually it's

859
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:08,120
Speaker 1: her laugh. It is a good laugh. Oh okay, Garrett.

860
00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:10,480
Speaker 1: If you want a million dollars, what would you buy?

861
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:20,640
Speaker 1: I would invest it? Oh honey, that's the answer. Answered.

862
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:26,520
Speaker 1: You would have said a boat, but no answer those Yeah,

863
00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:32,839
Speaker 1: I got a good guy. Oh sorry bright? Okay, Brian.

864
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 1: If you bought a boat, oh, seg why if you

865
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:39,160
Speaker 1: bought a boat together, what would you name it? R

866
00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 1: and B? I don't get it on the way here.

867
00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 1: I'm like to go buy R and B. Like she said,

868
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:50,919
Speaker 1: we could be the GBS. And I was like, okay,

869
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 1: I said, this is like a disease. Now in the

870
00:43:56,719 --> 00:44:02,040
Speaker 1: studio you have BG's okay, Garrett. Becca's weirdest habit is

871
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:14,720
Speaker 1: whirredest habit. Let's see um sleeping with her um baby blanket. Okay,

872
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:17,120
Speaker 1: I thought, I'm to sleep talking. We'll sleep talking with

873
00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:19,919
Speaker 1: her baby blanket. Do you sleep talk all the time?

874
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 1: I try to shake her and ask her questions in

875
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 1: her sleep? Yeah, hiding my back. And it was like, Becca,

876
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:28,319
Speaker 1: are you okay? And I'm like, yeah, my dad used

877
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:30,320
Speaker 1: to do I used to sleep talk. I don't anymore.

878
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:32,160
Speaker 1: It's so weird. I used to sleep talk and my

879
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 1: dad used to ask me questions like where were you

880
00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:39,520
Speaker 1: less like that kind of stuff. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you

881
00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 1: have to drink last night. Rachel, well, biggest. One of

882
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:44,880
Speaker 1: her biggest breakdowns, I'll make it quick, was when she

883
00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:47,400
Speaker 1: left it at a hotel and they picked it up

884
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 1: with the sheets to take out for laundry. That she

885
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:55,240
Speaker 1: thought it was lost forever. Was literally like this raggedy,

886
00:44:55,400 --> 00:45:01,200
Speaker 1: gross thing. But this late a saint of a soul

887
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:04,640
Speaker 1: went into the laundry, which is offsite, and found her

888
00:45:04,680 --> 00:45:08,880
Speaker 1: baby the hotel laundry. And her name is Jamie. Jamie.

889
00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:12,240
Speaker 1: If you were listening, I still oh you go, dr Jamie.

890
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 1: I have a care bear. I still have like from

891
00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 1: when I was doing I sleep with it. Pig. That pig,

892
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:31,360
Speaker 1: it's Wilbur. Okay, obvious, that's the name. Brian. Okay, Brian,

893
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:40,760
Speaker 1: your favorite thing that Rachel cooks is Honestly, I'm very particular.

894
00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:46,399
Speaker 1: I would say you can be salmon. Salmon. I thought

895
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 1: you can say nothing because I don't or something. I

896
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:53,360
Speaker 1: was like, okay, I do make good salmon. Okay, Garrett.

897
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 1: If you could be any animal, what would it be

898
00:45:56,840 --> 00:46:04,040
Speaker 1: without a doubt. Why give it? Why? I just think raptors.

899
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 1: You know, they're at the top of the food chain

900
00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:07,960
Speaker 1: and they can fly and soar and just look down.

901
00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:13,520
Speaker 1: And then I love sushi, so they're always eating fish before.

902
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:22,480
Speaker 1: That's perfect. No one can touch him, so you are

903
00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:26,640
Speaker 1: so I will say, all right, Brian, the last movie

904
00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:34,239
Speaker 1: you watched together was uh, the last movie. I don't

905
00:46:34,239 --> 00:46:36,879
Speaker 1: even know. It was probably more like a Netflix show

906
00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:44,000
Speaker 1: The Outsider that Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, Well that's it.

907
00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:50,919
Speaker 1: We keep watch No, we've we've seen literally episode. What's

908
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:53,480
Speaker 1: your favorite show that you guys watched together? I got

909
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:56,440
Speaker 1: a couple of power Homelands, by the way, I want

910
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:58,080
Speaker 1: to I want to actually watch Homeland. I have it.

911
00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 1: I have a whole list in my phone. One episode.

912
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:05,319
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's it's great. Okay, Um, Garrett, where would

913
00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:15,840
Speaker 1: you want to retire? Oh? Um, on a golf course? Okay,

914
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:19,160
Speaker 1: but what town? That's a good question, safe answer. This

915
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:21,120
Speaker 1: could be a point of contention between you two. He's

916
00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:25,040
Speaker 1: like Reno. She's like, no, that would be solid. But um,

917
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 1: you can say Tahoe. I wouldn't mind that Tahoe would

918
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 1: be yeah, Okay, on a golf course. We've never been.

919
00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:39,840
Speaker 1: We talk about going. We've never been. You need to.

920
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:43,320
Speaker 1: It's amazing. I love Tahoe and and Reno two. I

921
00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:46,799
Speaker 1: mean it is beautiful, but Tahoe is like this whole

922
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:49,360
Speaker 1: New Brian. If you had access to a time machine,

923
00:47:49,600 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 1: when and where would you want to go with Rachel?

924
00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:57,319
Speaker 1: If I had access to a time machine, Oh wow,

925
00:47:57,960 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 1: um u, I would say back to the proposal day

926
00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:17,400
Speaker 1: A good one. That's a good safe answer, Yeah, Windy, Yes, absolutely,

927
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:19,880
Speaker 1: it was funny. They told me to like pick her

928
00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:24,759
Speaker 1: up and it was just a bad movie, heavy um

929
00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 1: and there was like a bunch of rocks and it

930
00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:30,759
Speaker 1: was like a downhill flop. Yeah, this is probably not

931
00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:32,880
Speaker 1: the best idea is that would either take back up

932
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:34,400
Speaker 1: back to third grade and see how much of a

933
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:36,160
Speaker 1: brat she was, or go to the future and see

934
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:41,040
Speaker 1: how we're looking third grade. It wasn't a bride. It

935
00:48:41,040 --> 00:48:44,800
Speaker 1: wasn't until about that's I didn't think about the future

936
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:48,359
Speaker 1: answer because I was like, there's only a certain number

937
00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:51,000
Speaker 1: of time periods that I can go back to. Okay

938
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:54,480
Speaker 1: for me, So I'm scared if I was a second answer.

939
00:48:54,560 --> 00:49:01,839
Speaker 1: We always have this debate, like college Brian Rachel. Yeah,

940
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:04,560
Speaker 1: we just wanted to see how compatible we are. Back

941
00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:12,600
Speaker 1: at that time. We always talk about that's what we say.

942
00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:20,719
Speaker 1: So funny, okay. Garrett described Beck in three words smart, beautiful, courageous.

943
00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:25,359
Speaker 1: Oh wow, thank you A good one. That's a good one.

944
00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:28,120
Speaker 1: I was not expecting courageous, A good one. He said it.

945
00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 1: I was like, yes, you got to have some courage

946
00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:31,400
Speaker 1: to get out there and do that and travel with

947
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 1: You're doing it with me, so hey, okay, to know

948
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:41,239
Speaker 1: you're coming on sometimes, well I have to fall to lead. Brian.

949
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:44,080
Speaker 1: What are three words that you would describe Rachel Rachel?

950
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:51,640
Speaker 1: I would say ambitious, strong, and beautiful. Very nice of

951
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:59,319
Speaker 1: those guys. You guys, you're getting laid. I have a question,

952
00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:06,040
Speaker 1: This is my question. Do you right now? You know

953
00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:07,960
Speaker 1: how like when you're talking and you're in hearing, you

954
00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 1: have conversation and you're like serious, but you're having fun.

955
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:14,279
Speaker 1: Like when you guys are alone and you go home,

956
00:50:14,680 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 1: do you have do you break into different voices? Let

957
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 1: me give you an example. Please, okay, yes, do you

958
00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:26,520
Speaker 1: all right? Let me hear what yours would be like?

959
00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 1: Like sometimes you talked to her like if you're at home,

960
00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:34,440
Speaker 1: and you were trying to be cute or say something

961
00:50:34,560 --> 00:50:38,520
Speaker 1: funny or whatever. It's I don't think it's necessarily meant

962
00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:42,279
Speaker 1: to be cute. It'll be like little zingers here and there,

963
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 1: like she'll saying like, oh, really, Rachel, is that what

964
00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:53,000
Speaker 1: you're trying? I am Rachel. Random voices. I take it,

965
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 1: y'all do it too? Ye? Hear it to me? I

966
00:50:55,080 --> 00:51:04,120
Speaker 1: don't know. I'll be like uh so many though, laugh

967
00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:07,759
Speaker 1: and too hard that it won't come out right. Wait here,

968
00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:10,239
Speaker 1: paint the picture, like why would you be doing this?

969
00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 1: It'll just be like Becca will ask, you know, a

970
00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:18,719
Speaker 1: question that is so obvious and or like uh so

971
00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:20,759
Speaker 1: in the morning, say she's like, hey, can you run

972
00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:23,360
Speaker 1: down and grab like the mail from the post office

973
00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:24,640
Speaker 1: or whatever? And then I come in She's like, hey,

974
00:51:24,680 --> 00:51:26,120
Speaker 1: did you grab the mail? I'm like yes, And then

975
00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:28,640
Speaker 1: like forty five minutes later, she'd be like, Garrett, did

976
00:51:28,680 --> 00:51:30,680
Speaker 1: you grab the mail? And I'll be like, yes, Becca,

977
00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:34,640
Speaker 1: grab the mail for you. I guess we would do

978
00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:39,400
Speaker 1: like you'd be like yeah. Sometimes it's like we'll go

979
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:41,080
Speaker 1: back and forth and I'm like, oh my god, I

980
00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:43,759
Speaker 1: feel like I just talked like that for an hour. Yeah, well,

981
00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:46,040
Speaker 1: and then he has this voice with minnow I don't

982
00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:49,719
Speaker 1: know if it's like sposo. Yeah, And he'll do it

983
00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:54,800
Speaker 1: sometimes like us, like the one that you've done for

984
00:51:54,880 --> 00:52:00,319
Speaker 1: like the farmer's dog and stuff. It's here we'll talk

985
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:03,239
Speaker 1: about so all in the morning, we'll wake up and

986
00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:05,200
Speaker 1: he'll have like Minno because she sits in bed with us,

987
00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:06,839
Speaker 1: and he'll have her like on his chest and he'll

988
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:08,919
Speaker 1: be like, what are we gonna do it? I can't

989
00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:10,960
Speaker 1: even do it? Okay, wait, wait, do it like a

990
00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:15,080
Speaker 1: voice over and there, like we can't have like, we

991
00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:17,680
Speaker 1: can't humanize a dog, so we don't we do it too,

992
00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:20,840
Speaker 1: And I'll usually say that's not Copper's voice. That's not

993
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:22,239
Speaker 1: what he sounds like. I don't know what it is.

994
00:52:22,560 --> 00:52:24,600
Speaker 1: But we're like, hi, yahi, how's it going. I need

995
00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:30,799
Speaker 1: doing good today? Like little like says she comes towards you. Yeah,

996
00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:36,319
Speaker 1: how's it going? Like that a long time we'll talk

997
00:52:36,400 --> 00:52:40,000
Speaker 1: like that, Yeah, yeah, No. Do you like Auntie Rachel's voice? Rachel,

998
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:42,480
Speaker 1: I will say you have one of the best voices, Like,

999
00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:45,640
Speaker 1: listening back on the podcast, I'm so jealous of your voice.

1000
00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:50,239
Speaker 1: Brian says, it's soothing, too soothing. Well, thank you, it's

1001
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:52,000
Speaker 1: just it's a good one. Thank you. You don't have

1002
00:52:52,120 --> 00:52:56,080
Speaker 1: like the Midwest accent like I do. I'm jealous. An

1003
00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:59,680
Speaker 1: accent comes out sometimes when I'm drinking, and you know,

1004
00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:02,560
Speaker 1: it's like the draw. It's nice. Yeah, I like it.

1005
00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:05,759
Speaker 1: I feel like I was just hitting on you. No, guys,

1006
00:53:05,800 --> 00:53:07,800
Speaker 1: thank you so much for being here. I think I

1007
00:53:07,960 --> 00:53:09,920
Speaker 1: love when you know, when we have our voice. It's

1008
00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:11,800
Speaker 1: great when we have guests come on. But it's so

1009
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:15,000
Speaker 1: great to have the mal opinion but then also just

1010
00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:17,560
Speaker 1: like our significant others here and we can just talk

1011
00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:20,719
Speaker 1: on a completely different level. So we love having you here.

1012
00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:23,600
Speaker 1: That means you have to come back, Honestly, Pecca, I

1013
00:53:23,600 --> 00:53:25,640
Speaker 1: don't think they have a choice. They like you will

1014
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 1: be back here, secretary. But I love these times that

1015
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:32,920
Speaker 1: we have together. And I hope you guys enjoyed listening

1016
00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:35,560
Speaker 1: as well. I hope you learn something not just about

1017
00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 1: the batch of franchise, not just about the background of

1018
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:41,880
Speaker 1: our relationships, but just how to navigate this thing called life.

1019
00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:45,360
Speaker 1: And you know, having a successful relationship and we're just

1020
00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:47,800
Speaker 1: giving you our tools and what helped us. That doesn't

1021
00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:49,239
Speaker 1: mean that it's the same thing for you. You have

1022
00:53:49,320 --> 00:53:52,560
Speaker 1: to kind of figure out this yourself. So anyways, thanks

1023
00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:54,719
Speaker 1: for tuning in. We hope you come back next week.

1024
00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:57,120
Speaker 1: Of course, we're going to have a fantastic episode for

1025
00:53:57,280 --> 00:53:57,320
Speaker 1: you