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Speaker 1: Wait, this Radio Survivor. I've been saying this for years.

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Speaker 1: This is Radio Survivor. We're going to find out in

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Speaker 1: ten years this was a science experiment. No, it's just like,

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Speaker 1: let's just let's just mess with everything and see if

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Speaker 1: they can manage to get people to continue listening. Fred's

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Speaker 1: show is on anything more frustrating, like anything at all

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Speaker 1: than trying to reset a password on something.

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Speaker 2: Don't even get me started.

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Speaker 1: It's like the password has to have a symbol, and

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Speaker 1: it has to have a number, but it can't be

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Speaker 1: two numbers consecutively, and it has to have a capital

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Speaker 1: letter and lower case letters. And then the passwords don't match.

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Speaker 1: And then I try to get cute, you know, with

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Speaker 1: the different passwords to because I'm running out of the

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Speaker 1: same I'm running out of combinations of the same thing.

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Speaker 1: But then I can't remember which combination I used on what,

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Speaker 1: so I'm constantly resetting it because apparently all the Apple

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Speaker 1: devices don't talk to each other. I thought they did,

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Speaker 1: but they don't somehow. Sometimes it's like I remember that password.

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Speaker 1: Other times it's like, eh, you gotta say And then

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Speaker 1: you know, no one knows. It's a wild world. And

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Speaker 1: then I have to reseat and start over again. Then

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Speaker 1: I can't remember. This is what I'm dealing with. Start

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Speaker 1: the week. I can't remember my passwords to anything. Okay, good,

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Speaker 1: I'm glad. I'm glad that doesn't upset. When else to wait?

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Speaker 1: Upset to me?

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Speaker 3: Oh, I've been there already. I've worked through it, I've

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Speaker 3: processed it. I've talked it over with the lady. It's

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Speaker 3: just the lady. Yeah, the lady. Password, Lady, password, lady.

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Speaker 3: I had to talk it through because I'm out of options.

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Speaker 3: I've gone down to Jason and Kaitlin's name, I've uve

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Speaker 3: you and Paulina's name. Now I gotta use Bella figure

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Speaker 3: out her birthday.

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Speaker 2: It's just a lot like why do we do?

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Speaker 1: Just hack me?

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Speaker 2: Bro, take whatever you.

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Speaker 1: Want to access my work email. Have at it like

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Speaker 1: a look at you. You're not gonna like what you see. No,

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Speaker 1: I don't like what I see. You're not gonna like

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Speaker 1: what you see. It's just stuff you gotta do. Inbox

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Speaker 1: is a sad, depressing place full of nightmares.

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Speaker 4: If that's really what you want to break into, by

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Speaker 4: all means you want to get along.

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Speaker 1: Some work, do it? Take a peek? Fineay, right, Hi

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Speaker 1: k On, good morning, Hi Jason Brown, Hi Paulina Hikky,

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Shelby. Shelley will be here with money next

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Speaker 1: hour in the showdown. She is our pop culture expert.

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Speaker 1: If you can beat her in five questions, then you win.

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Speaker 1: I think we're up to two fifty was it? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Two fifty, one thousand and four wins only sixty eight losses,

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Speaker 1: three straight wins for the show biz bellaheminez here as well.

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Speaker 1: We'll get to trending stories, the day's top headlines, the

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Speaker 1: entertainment of port end blogs at this hour this morning,

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Speaker 1: new waiting metaphone. Yeah, Stairgo, you're excited about that one?

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Speaker 1: So excited? Okay, good, I'm glad I got some feedback

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Speaker 1: on that. Stairgo. Will debate some relationship drama and what

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Speaker 1: are you working on for reports?

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Speaker 5: K We got to talk about the sn L fiftieth

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Speaker 5: anniversary because it was all weekend and it was wild.

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Speaker 2: Blake Lively was there.

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Speaker 1: Wild it was it was every day of the weekend

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Speaker 1: because I felt like it was just like new content

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Speaker 1: on my TikTok, just over and over again.

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Speaker 5: I didn't have to watch it Saturday, watched it on

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, well congratulations to them, because I don't know

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Speaker 1: what I watched. I guess I watched bits and pieces

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Speaker 1: you call it? This is what I watched it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't worry. I watched a lot of things this weekend.

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Speaker 1: Clearly Fred show, a fresh show. This is what's trending.

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Speaker 1: It's cold. It's gonna be cold. A lot of places

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Speaker 1: where you can hear us today. Harsh freezing temperatures hit

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Speaker 1: the nation's midsection on Mondays, a polar vortex gripped the

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Speaker 1: Extreme cold warnings were issued for an eleven state swath

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Speaker 1: So it's cold a lot of places. It was cold

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Speaker 1: in Canada. Yesterday. In Toronto, a Delta Airlines flight forty

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Speaker 3: I couldn't wrap my mind around how the plane perfectly

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Speaker 1: I was why, because airplane, an airplane flips over? Last episode,

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Speaker 3: No, No, you're my play friend though, Like you know

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Speaker 2: I can. Actually you're a pilot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't. I don't know what I even called

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Speaker 1: I mean flipping completely over? I don't, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Look I'm a pilot, I'm an aviation guy. I might

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Speaker 1: this again. Today might not be the day.

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Speaker 2: I'm nervous, man.

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Speaker 1: No, don't be okay, it's very safe. Air travels very safe.

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Speaker 4: But no, that's where one of the people on CNN,

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Speaker 4: that's a different way of looking at it, but positive way.

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Speaker 1: I think people just got lucky. Airplane flips over, wings

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Speaker 1: I don't know if they have video of this, because

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Speaker 1: an IRS rebate scam. Uh, it's texts that are going out.

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Speaker 1: This is for you kick you know, you'd have to

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Speaker 1: So there are Reportedly the text message is going out

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Speaker 1: They ask you nicely at first, kind of, and then

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Speaker 1: and take him. But the scammers are playing off recent news.

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Speaker 1: In late December, the agency said it was sending out

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Speaker 1: a call from the IRS. Could I was ignoring their

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Speaker 1: ignoring them just the offshore accounts?

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Speaker 7: Right?

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Speaker 1: Well? They about one of the offshore accounts. I had

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Speaker 1: to move some money around me. Yeah, I called Colina,

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Speaker 1: I said hey, and then I got banned from Venmo.

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Speaker 3: Stop now it's real, je I'm not alone, Jason, I cried, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: When did he get you a hobby or something? No,

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Speaker 1: I love life? Yeah, tig time okay, Ti Tek National

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Speaker 1: Drink Wine Day Today. The Entertainmer Report will do it next.

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Speaker 1: Blogs after that are audio journals. It's Tuesday, which means

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Speaker 1: Kaitlyn's Entertainment Report, and he is on the Fread Show.

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Speaker 5: Have you guys been following this? Elon Musk Baby Mama stuff?

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Speaker 5: WHOA A lot was going on over the weekend and

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Speaker 5: At least she did it on his platform, so he

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Speaker 5: will get money for that. I guess Elon and Ashley

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Speaker 5: the only thing that Elon said publicly so far as

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Speaker 5: he commented WHOA under an ex post claiming that Ashley's

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Speaker 2: For years, So not a denial I guess.

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Speaker 5: Ashley says that she's not after his cash, she just

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Speaker 5: wants what's best for their baby, which would be the

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Speaker 2: So I don't know what's going on.

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Speaker 5: But and he he wants to have all these kids,

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Speaker 5: so I don't know why he wouldn't claim it if

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Speaker 1: Kid, right, Yeah, because he's got one of those complexes

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Speaker 1: right where he wants to like pro create till he's replicated,

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Speaker 1: taking that up. I don't know if that's true, but.

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Speaker 4: Giving that ladies like stop, please stop. This is all

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Speaker 2: Right, and the money is right.

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Speaker 5: And then obviously his son Pemdas was at the White

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Speaker 4: She's like, why are you putting him in these situations

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Speaker 1: But so he revealed to The Wall Street Journal in

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Speaker 1: Well, but yeah, and Elon would have a problem with that.

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Speaker 5: I mean, there were so many stars in one place,

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Speaker 1: Like I saw Pete Davidson walking away from an interview

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Speaker 2: Yes. I just couldn't stop thinking about it.

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Speaker 5: And they did that bit where you know, you have

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Speaker 2: But anyone who as anyone was there. It was crazy.

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Speaker 5: A ton of people were there, Robert de Niro, Jenna Ortega, Halsey,

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Speaker 5: Meryl Streep who Meryl Streep was even in the episode

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Speaker 5: the iconic alien abduction episode. I love that all of

435
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Speaker 5: them were breaking character and couldn't stop laughing. Martin Short,

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Speaker 5: Paul Rudd, craziness, and I'll probably have to talk about

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Speaker 5: this again next hour because there.

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Speaker 2: Were so much going on.

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Speaker 5: Also, Miley Cyrus covering Shinead O'Connor was very, very powerful.

440
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Speaker 2: I saw people arguing that she was doing Prince's version.

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Speaker 5: I don't think so, because I think the Shanade thing

442
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Speaker 5: is very timely for SNL and she passed away, so

443
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Speaker 5: I don't think so.

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Speaker 2: But it was a lot. So I'll talk about the

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Speaker 2: rest next hour. But did you guys watch it at all?

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Speaker 6: Anyone?

447
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Speaker 2: Just on TikTok?

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Speaker 1: I didn't have to watch it. I just watched all

449
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Speaker 1: the clips.

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Speaker 2: There's a lot.

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Speaker 5: The music one is really good if you haven't seen

452
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Speaker 5: that yet. By the way, you can catch up on

453
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Speaker 5: anything you missed from our show by getting the free

454
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Speaker 5: New and Improved I Heard radio app and searching the

455
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Speaker 5: Fred Show on demand.

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Speaker 1: I can context the fread show anytime. Eight five five

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Speaker 1: one three five. I have no idea who made this

458
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Speaker 1: this list, and if these people, I assume that they

459
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Speaker 1: were women, get to speak for all of womenkind. So

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Speaker 1: I want, like the real list. I'll tell you what

461
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Speaker 1: was on theirs, but I want the real Fred Show

462
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Speaker 1: list from you guys. Eight five five, five three five.

463
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Speaker 1: But this article is titled so of course you got

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Speaker 1: my attention. Fifteen things that men are required by law

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Speaker 1: to know about women.

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Speaker 6: Fifteen.

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Speaker 1: Well, I think they took some liberties there, but fifteen

468
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Speaker 1: things that men are required by law to know about women.

469
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Speaker 1: So now do you want to hear what they think this? Like?

470
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Speaker 1: These are the things that men, all men it must

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Speaker 1: know about women? I want to know. Should I tell

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Speaker 1: you the list? See what you think of it? But

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Speaker 1: what I really want to know is what should be

474
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Speaker 1: on this I think there are more practical things that

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Speaker 1: should be on this list? Okay? Number one? And by

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Speaker 1: we I mean women, So I'm speaking from a female perspective? Now,

477
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Speaker 1: which is which is not? I often come from? Yeah,

478
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Speaker 1: I am, it's all in, that's right. Okay. So these

479
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Speaker 1: are the things that men are required to know about women.

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Speaker 1: Number one, We cry, We as women cry for no

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Speaker 1: reason sometimes. Okay, okay, now that's the reason always you've

482
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Speaker 1: never found yourself just crying? Like, why am I crying?

483
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Speaker 2: It might be a dumb reason, but it's the reason.

484
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Speaker 1: What was the dumbest thing you can remember crying for lately? Lately?

485
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Speaker 2: Hmmm? TikTok TikTok was a dumb reason.

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Speaker 1: Lord.

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Speaker 3: One day, I just looked at my dog and I

488
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Speaker 3: was just like, man, I love you, bro happy like

489
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Speaker 3: lex Mann is off of you.

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Speaker 1: Man, you started crying?

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Speaker 2: Yes right now?

492
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Speaker 1: Okay, the dumbest reason you cried lately?

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Speaker 9: Oh well, Hobby decided that he didn't want to put

494
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Speaker 9: like a larger amount of pasta on my plate. And

495
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Speaker 9: I got really offended because I was like, I'm hungry

496
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Speaker 9: and he didn't give me as much as he gave himself.

497
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Speaker 9: I won't eat it all, but I want the same

498
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Speaker 9: amount as he wants.

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Speaker 1: Does that make sense? Was there some left over or

500
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Speaker 1: did he just take Oh no, we had a lot

501
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Speaker 1: left over three days, so you were like, give me more.

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Speaker 9: He said no, Well, things I know, but he was

503
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Speaker 9: just confused because you're not going to eat all this,

504
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Speaker 9: which is true.

505
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Speaker 2: He does eat more than I do. But I wanted

506
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Speaker 2: to match his plate.

507
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Speaker 1: So you start crying.

508
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Speaker 2: I was very offunded.

509
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Speaker 1: I don't I don't know if I'm worthy of this.

510
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Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm worthy of the right of

511
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Speaker 1: having that in my home.

512
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Speaker 2: Like, no, I don't want that in my home.

513
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Speaker 1: No I'm not. I'm not saying that you're wrong to

514
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Speaker 1: express your emotion however you want. I know, Oh no, it's.

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Speaker 5: Just the literal, like you're so literal and I and pragmatic.

516
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Speaker 5: I just I don't know if we're gonna ever see

517
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Speaker 5: eye to eye on the emotions thing.

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Speaker 1: In fairness, though in all fairness, can we can cut

519
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Speaker 1: the bs for one second? Like I love you? But

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Speaker 1: if a woman is crying because I didn't put one

521
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Speaker 1: extra thing of pasta, like that's not I know, that's

522
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Speaker 1: not really defensive, Like we're not talking about logic, but

523
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Speaker 1: you're admitting what I'm saying like that, that's not what

524
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Speaker 1: we're you going, Oh no, Like that's a ridiculous reason

525
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Speaker 1: to cry. There's nothing I can do about that, because

526
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Speaker 1: I could get you're crying and I go one more scoop,

527
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Speaker 1: here you go, and you're still crying.

528
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Speaker 9: Like problem solved. Why are we crying? Well, he forgot

529
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Speaker 9: to make the garlic bread. He forgot to make it too.

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Speaker 1: I want to cry about that. But like my whole

531
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Speaker 1: thing about logic versus reason or whatever, that's that's not

532
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Speaker 1: that's that's this is nothing to do with that.

533
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Speaker 5: But was it a certain time of the month, did

534
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Speaker 5: she have a hard day taking care of the baby.

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Speaker 2: Like That's what I'm saying, is like there's layers. There's

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Speaker 2: layers to the crying. Ish. I mean, I know this

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Speaker 2: is my every day at home.

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Speaker 3: Guys, I don't want to see the I wouldn't want

539
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Speaker 3: this in my house either.

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Speaker 10: Day.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, man, like I know a dog.

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Speaker 9: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: But here's the problem. The problem is like if I

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Speaker 1: see a woman crying, or anybody really, but if I

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Speaker 1: see a woman crying, like I'm going to do everything

546
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Speaker 1: I can to fix it. But like if it's something

547
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Speaker 1: like that where it's that easy to fix and that

548
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:32,280
Speaker 1: inadvertent and not intentional and whatever, it's like I don't

549
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Speaker 1: know what to do with that. And if I if

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Speaker 1: I were doing that all the time, I would just

551
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Speaker 1: be like I don't know what to do with this,

552
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:42,640
Speaker 1: like like penalize like cry, like if you expressive emotions,

553
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Speaker 1: if I screw something up, so then I know that

554
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Speaker 1: I can fix it. But like if you cry about

555
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Speaker 1: a lot of stuff, then I don't know what you're

556
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Speaker 1: really crying about and what you know what I mean,

557
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Speaker 1: Like I don't know what I'm supposed to prioritize here

558
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Speaker 1: another scoop of pasta, or like you know, I don't know,

559
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Speaker 1: not forgetting our anniversary, you know, something way worse. I

560
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Speaker 1: guess that's what I'm It wouldn be very confusing to me.

561
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Speaker 1: I'm not criticizing it. I would just be like, is

562
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Speaker 1: this are you being hormonal? Or are you being this?

563
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:08,480
Speaker 1: Or did I really upset you? Which one is it?

564
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Speaker 1: I don't know how do I what do I do well?

565
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Speaker 1: And then I can't ask questions? So I can't ask questions.

566
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Speaker 1: I can't be frustrated.

567
00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:20,400
Speaker 2: Learning it's exactly right?

568
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Speaker 3: What does hovey do in that situation? Like what does

569
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Speaker 3: he do well?

570
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Speaker 1: First?

571
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Speaker 2: The first thing is for ust He'll say what's wrong?

572
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:29,240
Speaker 2: Like that's where we started? Which is any question?

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Speaker 9: Right?

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Speaker 1: Very nice question where I would start?

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Speaker 9: Yes, And then that does leave the door open for communications. So, yes,

576
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Speaker 9: it was a hard day with the baby, or this

577
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:39,679
Speaker 9: happened you know earlier today, I got this email and

578
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Speaker 9: I'm so upset, And yes, emails make me sad sometimes,

579
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Speaker 9: so like I know the time, so I'm just like,

580
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Speaker 9: you know, I want to just vent, But then you know,

581
00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:50,480
Speaker 9: when I'm not logical, I have to hear about how

582
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Speaker 9: it doesn't make sense to him and he can't really

583
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Speaker 9: wrap his head around it, and.

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Speaker 2: Then I figure there's a circle of that.

585
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:58,040
Speaker 1: No, but here's the thing. Here's what I appreciate about

586
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Speaker 1: that scenario is that if I I'll give you enough

587
00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:03,919
Speaker 1: pasta and you start crying, but then you tell me

588
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 1: that it's because of something else, I can live with

589
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 1: that because I I this, men are no different Like

590
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 1: I will go if something happens here that that upsets

591
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Speaker 1: me or somewhere else. I will probably go into my

592
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Speaker 1: day with an attitude, and I find myself having to

593
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Speaker 1: check myself. And then if I do show somebody some

594
00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:22,960
Speaker 1: attitude I didn't mean to, I try and go back

595
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 1: and tell that, hey, my bad. I'm you know. That

596
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:25,399
Speaker 1: wasn't done you.

597
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 11: That was on me.

598
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:29,360
Speaker 1: So at least there's some communication. But do you always

599
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:31,639
Speaker 1: do that or do you sometimes cry and then like

600
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:34,680
Speaker 1: don't tell him why and then he thinks it's about him.

601
00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 1: I'm sure that's happened, because that's the frustrating part is

602
00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 1: what I think you're emoting about me, and I don't

603
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 1: know how to fix it because I didn't necessarily do it.

604
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Speaker 5: Yeah, I think that's another big issue between men and women. Traditionally,

605
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 5: if you're in that sort of relationship, is you guys

606
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:52,400
Speaker 5: always want to fix it, and sometimes we don't want

607
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Speaker 5: you to fix it.

608
00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:55,040
Speaker 2: We just want to talk and be heard.

609
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:58,440
Speaker 5: So like my boyfriend goes into like fix it mode

610
00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:00,080
Speaker 5: and we're rushing around and we're doing things, and I

611
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:01,600
Speaker 5: don't want you to fix it. I just want you

612
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 5: to hear me. And I think that that's like the

613
00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 5: fundamental difference. So if you ask, like do you want

614
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 5: me to help you solve or do you want someone

615
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:08,480
Speaker 5: to listen?

616
00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 2: That's always really hard.

617
00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:12,600
Speaker 1: I guess just those differentiating factors will be helpful for

618
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 1: us to know on the other side, like, hey, is

619
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 1: this about me? Is this about something else? I did

620
00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 1: this thing that made you cry? But are you really

621
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 1: crying about me? And do you want me to do

622
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 1: anything about it? Because if I don't ask questions and

623
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 1: I don't do anything about it, then I'm insensitive. But

624
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:28,959
Speaker 1: I so it's a very difficult spot, it is. I mean,

625
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 1: we've only gotten through number one, Okay, number two, we

626
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:37,720
Speaker 1: also liked to events, Okay, fine, number three. We have

627
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:41,400
Speaker 1: fears you might see as irrational, Okay, but I don't

628
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,639
Speaker 1: think that's a gender thing. I have fears that people

629
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:46,679
Speaker 1: think are irrational. So yeah, okay, we love it when

630
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 1: you call us. These are fifteen things that men are

631
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 1: required by law to know about women. See, I don't

632
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:52,160
Speaker 1: think that's true.

633
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:53,240
Speaker 2: Don't ever call me.

634
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:56,119
Speaker 1: Oh no, I always call you me.

635
00:27:56,480 --> 00:28:01,480
Speaker 12: No, okay, there's way, Okay, you're fine.

636
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 1: We prefer that you let us know if you're not

637
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:09,159
Speaker 1: into us. I mean the iguin. That'd be nice to

638
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:10,480
Speaker 1: know in any circumstance.

639
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 2: I don't.

640
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:17,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, you might cry in vent but but you want

641
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:21,480
Speaker 1: me to call you and tell you. Would you prefer Hey,

642
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:25,320
Speaker 1: I'm not into you. We don't require grand gestures, but

643
00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:29,240
Speaker 1: they're nice. See. Now that's another one. I've dated people

644
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:32,200
Speaker 1: who do want the grand gesture. I've dated people who don't.

645
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 1: I've dated people who want to be doted on. I've

646
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:36,760
Speaker 1: dated people who don't like it's case by case's true.

647
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 1: I don't know if these are all universal. We don't

648
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 1: define a relationship by the size of a ring.

649
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 12: No, don't Who wrote these? Yeah, it's not universal. I'm

650
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:53,160
Speaker 12: wondering at this point. It says we, But again I'm

651
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 12: saying we, you know, I don't. I don't represent you

652
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:55,480
Speaker 12: guys at all.

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Speaker 1: We love babies, but that doesn't mean that we want

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Speaker 1: to rush into things.

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Speaker 5: I mean, okay not oh women like love are obsessed

656
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Speaker 5: with babies like that, So.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: True, Yeah, I guess I don't assume that every woman

659
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Speaker 1: wants a baby. But when I go when I'm on

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Speaker 1: my second day with you and you say, so, where's

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Speaker 1: this headed because I want to have a kid like

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Speaker 1: that typically indicates to me that you would like to

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Speaker 1: have a baby. Because you just said that, we aren't

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Speaker 1: comparing you to our exes, yeah you are. That's the lie.

665
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Speaker 1: And I think that happens all the time. I think

666
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Speaker 1: people compare the people they are with the their exes

667
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Speaker 1: all the time. Can't deny it, No, But except that's

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Speaker 1: that's a that's a confirmation, because you would just deny

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Speaker 1: it so exatly. Some one says that, I'm like, well,

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Speaker 1: you would just deny it if it weren't true. We

671
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Speaker 1: tend to overanalyze, Okay, we prefer direct communication.

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Speaker 2: I do like that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, okay, but okay, but then the direct communication

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Speaker 1: means that I'm asking questions about things you said. I've

675
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Speaker 1: just been told by you guys not to ask questions about.

676
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Speaker 1: So I'm trying to communicate, but now I'm annoying because

677
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Speaker 1: I'm asking why you're crying. But I just gave you

678
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Speaker 1: more posita Paulinas. It's not crying. That's why I don't

679
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Speaker 1: mess with y'all. Thank you for at least thank you

680
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Speaker 1: for it, maing. It could be a little confusing because

681
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Speaker 1: these are contra even these, even this list contradicts itself.

682
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Speaker 1: So we appreciate courtesy. Okay, we still want to feel feminine,

683
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Speaker 1: beautiful and safe. Yes, okay, we hold you in high regard.

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Speaker 1: Not always. No, I don't think so, I mean, like

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Speaker 1: anybody else. I don't think everyone's all you know. I

686
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Speaker 1: think that's that's situational, and we can still tie our

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Speaker 1: shoes and do any number of other complex, herculean things.

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Speaker 2: H hercules.

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Speaker 1: I don't know who's if you're If you're someone questioning that,

690
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Speaker 1: then your misogynists, your terrible human being. Of course women

691
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Speaker 1: can do many, many, many things. You do it every day,

692
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Speaker 1: So I don't I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Oh that was for me, like I tie my shoes.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm I'm Paulina. Just welcome to the show. I'm

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Speaker 1: reading you a list of We've been talking about the

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Speaker 1: same thing but last time, but I didn't know this

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Speaker 1: is this is the same perspective as the other fourteen.

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Speaker 1: I don't like it either, But I'm He says we

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Speaker 1: can still tie our shoes and do any number of

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Speaker 1: other complex, herculean things.

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Speaker 2: I said complex, Like I'm concerned. Is that complex to do?

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Speaker 1: I mean, you guys can create life and extract it

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Speaker 1: from your body. And I don't know why anyone's not

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Speaker 1: impressed by that. Yeah, maybe not in that moment. You

705
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Speaker 1: can't tie your shoes. But I don't understand this. Last

706
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Speaker 1: I don't want it. Somebody said how many tampons will use?

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Speaker 1: Man needs to know that?

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Speaker 2: Oh he doesn't.

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Speaker 1: Come on, I don't know why I would need to.

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Speaker 1: I mean business, I would.

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Speaker 5: Like I'll tell you what flavor I want if I

712
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Speaker 5: need to send you to get some.

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Speaker 2: But no, I'm kidding. You don't need to know how many.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, really individuals. I think it's nice

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Speaker 1: if a guy has some perspective on that, but like,

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know why I need to know

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Speaker 1: the ins and outside because I don't know what that

718
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Speaker 1: offers to you. At all. But at least you can

719
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Speaker 1: still tell your shoes some days.

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Speaker 2: That's a good thing, you know, not every day.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know about this list, right, no? Wow?

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Speaker 2: Watch, I mean the list is just is just I'm

723
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Speaker 2: with Jason.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well then give me one. Okay, I'm gonna push

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Speaker 1: the button. But you guys, each give me one that

726
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Speaker 1: wasn't on the list that you really want to know, Like, like,

727
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Speaker 1: what is something that a man needs to know about

728
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Speaker 1: you by law that wasn't on this list? So you

729
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Speaker 1: can't come up with anything else. But you don't like

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Speaker 1: this list.

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Speaker 2: I don't like the list at all.

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Speaker 3: Don't you say that I'm a princess and I deserve

733
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Speaker 3: whatever I want, whatever I want a queen? Yes, and

734
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Speaker 3: I should be treated as such at all time period, Boots, Yes, wow.

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Speaker 2: And if I'm crying, it's something you did, right.

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Speaker 1: Okay, thank you? Fred Show. It's the frend Show. Good

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Speaker 1: morning one O three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one

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Speaker 1: hit music station, paying bills all this week, thirteen chances

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Speaker 1: the money? What else do we have today? Jay will

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Speaker 1: get you in Grant Park's Sweno's tickets throughout the morning.

742
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Speaker 1: It's one of those days today, Today's one of those

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Speaker 1: days that's going to be so cold it hurts. Yes,

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Speaker 1: it's one of those days. I mean, like every day

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Speaker 1: I feel like in the winter is cold, but today's

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Speaker 1: like with the painfully cold kind of day. A bitter

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Speaker 1: blast across the entire Chicago area continues today with another

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Speaker 1: cold weather advisory in effect and morning windshills as low

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Speaker 1: as negative thirty degrees in some places. So this is

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Speaker 1: the advisory issued for all of northeastern Illinois, continues until

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Speaker 1: noon today, according to the National Weather Service, some schools

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Speaker 1: have been closed, e learning or delays have been announced

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Speaker 1: in certain places. The Lion School District, the Juliet Public Schools,

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Speaker 1: the River Forest School Corporation. Chicago Public Schools as have

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Speaker 1: now remaining open according to their website. And if you

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Speaker 1: need a list of the school closers, you can go

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Speaker 1: to the Emergency Closing Center for Chicago and it's there. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: eleven states across the US have cold weather warnings for today,

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Speaker 1: So be careful this morning. You got to go someplace.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna feel like negative thirty in some places. The

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Speaker 1: Fred Show is on Good Morning.

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Speaker 2: Do you think I'm building a picture here? I'm on

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Speaker 2: the picture.

764
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Speaker 1: So you're building a picture. Yeah, you're painting.

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Speaker 2: I'm crazy. Ah yeah, painting.

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Speaker 1: Fred's show is on Build it too. Just go ahead

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Speaker 1: and build. It's fine. It's all Good morning everybody, Tuesday,

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Speaker 1: February eighteenth. It's the Fred Show. Hi Calen, good morning.

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Speaker 1: Hi Jason Brown, Hu, Hi Pula, Hi, Ki King, Good morning.

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Speaker 1: Shelby Shelley our pop culture expert. Two hundred and fifty

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Speaker 1: bucks if you could beat her in five questions. He's

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Speaker 1: about to have a baby. Kiky's taken over. Oh yes,

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Speaker 1: but she hadn't had a baby yet.

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Speaker 11: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Hold tight, Shelley, you got you get a.

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Speaker 1: Little bit of time, ye, squeeze for another day, a

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Speaker 1: couple of days. Yeah, I mean it's your We'll get

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Speaker 1: to blogs into a second, our audio journals, stay or go,

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Speaker 1: group therapy sort of thing. The Entertainer of port and

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Speaker 1: a good News stories this hour. What are you working on? Kay?

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Speaker 5: And artists who performed at the Grammys is calling people

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Speaker 5: stupid as hell for accusing he or she of not

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Speaker 5: having a live performance.

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Speaker 2: Also, a joke was made during this.

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Speaker 5: SNL fifty special at oj Simpson's expense and his family

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Speaker 5: thinks it's hilarious, which.

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Speaker 1: I saw this. Yeah, yeah, all of that is coming up.

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Speaker 1: And we're commercial free for the next forty five minutes.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to go anywhere. Yeah, they talk better

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Speaker 1: than they excited about. These are the radio blogs on

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Speaker 1: the Fred Show. It's like we're rinning in our diaries,

792
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Speaker 1: except we say them aloud. We called him blogs Kaylin, Yes,

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Speaker 1: take it away.

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Speaker 2: Dear blog.

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Speaker 5: So we've been talking about women all morning, and one

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Speaker 5: thing about us, women who want to be mothers one

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Speaker 5: day is we are going to have our babies named.

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Speaker 5: Since we're children, we are going to have Okay, you agree,

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Speaker 5: you feel this, Okay, So we're going to have. Some

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Speaker 5: women it's their wedding. Some women it's neither, and that's okay.

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Speaker 5: But if you want to have children's, if you want

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Speaker 5: to have children's, if you want to have children's, if

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Speaker 5: you want to be a mom, you're.

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Speaker 2: Going to have them named. Okay.

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Speaker 5: I have had my children's named since God for years

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Speaker 5: and years and years.

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Speaker 2: My whole friend group knows it.

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Speaker 1: You have a boy and a girl name.

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Speaker 2: I have twins runs in my family.

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Speaker 5: So at first I named twin girls because I keep

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Speaker 5: getting told but yes, I have boy names and girl names,

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Speaker 5: and since I've started a list, so I have a

813
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Speaker 5: whole long list, but I have, you know, obviously, names

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Speaker 5: that are my top priority. So I get a text

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Speaker 5: from one of my best best friends from college the

816
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Speaker 5: other day and she said, hey, are you still going

817
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Speaker 5: to name your baby X? Which I will not be

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Speaker 5: saying the baby name because I know well.

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Speaker 1: Because it would go viral if you said it totally,

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Speaker 1: if you said, if you said your baby name, everybody

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Speaker 1: born today would named exactly totally.

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Speaker 5: And so she asked me that, and I was like,

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Speaker 5: what the why are you asking me this? First of all,

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Speaker 5: I said, second of all, no, I don't think so,

825
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Speaker 5: because another celebrity, not another celebrity, took the baby name.

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Speaker 1: Another celebrity. Yeah, I'm I'm a fellow celebrity.

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Speaker 2: Celebrities.

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Speaker 1: Celebrities are always badly over the names, you guys.

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Speaker 2: I'm so tired.

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Speaker 5: I had I had a weekend, but a celebrity named

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Speaker 5: their baby girl the name that I wanted to name

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Speaker 5: my baby girl. And then the name got really popular,

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Speaker 5: it kind of died down again. Because so that's why

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Speaker 5: I'm not saying it because I might, you know, it might. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: thanks a lot. I said no because the celebrity named

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Speaker 5: it that and the name has been played out.

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Speaker 2: And she said okay, because I wanted to name my

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Speaker 2: dog that, right, And I was like, okay, So it's nice.

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Speaker 5: That she's asking, But what kind of person would I

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Speaker 5: be if I'm not even pregnant? And I'm like, you

841
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Speaker 5: can't name your dog that name. So I was like,

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Speaker 5: deep sigh, all right, go ahead, name your dog that name.

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Speaker 2: What am I going to say?

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Speaker 8: No?

845
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Speaker 2: It's my name?

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Speaker 5: And then she like reversed psychology psychologied me and was like, well, no,

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Speaker 5: I don't want to take that name, give me another

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Speaker 5: name for the dog.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't know what we're doing here.

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Speaker 1: Wow, So you confide it in your friend what you

851
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Speaker 1: want to name your baby? And then she goes, now

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Speaker 1: I want to name my dog that. That's okay, it's

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Speaker 1: different category. If she named her kid that, I would

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Speaker 1: be more offended than if she named her dog that different.

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Speaker 2: Category, different category, which is why I said yes. I mean,

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Speaker 2: who am I to like hold on to a name?

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Speaker 5: But I just I thought it was interesting and kind

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Speaker 5: that she asked but then also, like I don't know,

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Speaker 5: it's very interesting.

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Speaker 1: In our family, it's dog names. We have dog names

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Speaker 1: that we've set aside for each other. Like I have

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Speaker 1: a female dog name that I would like to name

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Speaker 1: my first dog of my own. Huh, And no one

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Speaker 1: in the family is able to name their dog that

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Speaker 1: because that will be mine and I don't yet have

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Speaker 1: a dog, but everyone knows I will at some point

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Speaker 1: and then that will be my dog's name, so nobody

868
00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 1: else can name their dog that.

869
00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:57,319
Speaker 2: I feel that I have a list of dog names

870
00:38:57,360 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 2: in my phone too.

871
00:38:58,160 --> 00:38:58,359
Speaker 8: Yeah.

872
00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:01,040
Speaker 2: I mean when we first got our family dog, Chance.

873
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:02,759
Speaker 5: They wanted to name him one of the boy names

874
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:04,280
Speaker 5: that I have, and I had to put the kebash

875
00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:04,560
Speaker 5: on that.

876
00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:08,759
Speaker 1: Oh wow, they went to your baby list name. Who

877
00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 1: are these people?

878
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 2: They're oh my, that's why you can't tell them. You

879
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:13,719
Speaker 2: can't tell you can't share this kind of information. That's

880
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:14,720
Speaker 2: why I learned my lesson.

881
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:16,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to keep it to yourself. I think, yes,

882
00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:17,480
Speaker 1: I am so.

883
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:20,120
Speaker 2: I don't know. You guys, get one of those.

884
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 1: Diaries with like a little lock on it, like we

885
00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:23,319
Speaker 1: had when you were kids, and so that nobody can

886
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:25,799
Speaker 1: open it up and look in there read that because

887
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:28,239
Speaker 1: you couldn't use a paper clip and just pop it open.

888
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 1: It certainly couldn't. I'm sure nobody did that and read

889
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:36,360
Speaker 1: what I was writing about the parents divorced and number

890
00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:38,319
Speaker 1: camp experiences, and you know, you.

891
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:39,400
Speaker 2: Know what trauma.

892
00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:43,480
Speaker 1: The frend show is on. It's stay or Go the

893
00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:46,320
Speaker 1: same way about vacation spot. Someone texted that too, like

894
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:49,239
Speaker 1: that's terrible when you say this just happened to my mom.

895
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:52,080
Speaker 1: My mom was like, my dream trip is x y

896
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:54,799
Speaker 1: Z no joke. Her best friend took the.

897
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 2: Trip without her yep, jny dog wow, took.

898
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:01,040
Speaker 1: Her entire family on the that trip that my mom

899
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 1: specified was her dream trip, and then didn't invite her

900
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:08,880
Speaker 1: to come alone doing that. Yeah yeah, Now, not that

901
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:10,960
Speaker 1: this woman had any obligation to invite my mom, but

902
00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:12,799
Speaker 1: it's like you could have or pay for her whatever

903
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:14,239
Speaker 1: she You could have at least said, wan't you this

904
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:16,799
Speaker 1: is your dream trip, we're planning it. But I got

905
00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 1: the inspiration from you. Why don't you join us? You know,

906
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:20,800
Speaker 1: pay your own way or whatever, but why don't you

907
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:21,279
Speaker 1: join us?

908
00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 2: Your mom gave her that idea.

909
00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:27,000
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, so it's the same thing. It was

910
00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:29,399
Speaker 1: a very very similar thing where it's like, well, wait, mante,

911
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 1: that was that's my dream. Why are you doing it?

912
00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:34,840
Speaker 1: I told you about him? Hi, Rebecca, good morning.

913
00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:36,240
Speaker 7: Good morning.

914
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 2: How are you good?

915
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:38,720
Speaker 7: Thanks?

916
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:40,759
Speaker 1: How are you guys doing doing great? Thanks for being

917
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 1: part of the show, Systarego. It's kind of like group

918
00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:46,640
Speaker 1: therapy here. You you've been married to this man. I

919
00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 1: don't know for how long. I'm not even sure if

920
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:50,000
Speaker 1: that's relevant, but you're you're a married woman and you're

921
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:53,279
Speaker 1: having an issue within your relationships. What's going on?

922
00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 7: Yeah, thanks so much. It's so here's the thing. My

923
00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:01,600
Speaker 7: husband and I have been married ten years, and we've

924
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:07,400
Speaker 7: got two kids, and he's he's been working downtown for

925
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:09,920
Speaker 7: quite a while, and of course with the kids and

926
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:12,440
Speaker 7: their activities and all, you know, keeps them away from

927
00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:15,800
Speaker 7: a lot of that. So you know, he's started to

928
00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:19,799
Speaker 7: look at the idea of maybe getting a place downtown

929
00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:22,960
Speaker 7: for the nights when he needs to stay in because

930
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:24,439
Speaker 7: the community's gotten really long.

931
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:25,200
Speaker 2: It's over an.

932
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:27,640
Speaker 7: Hour each way, and it's just you know, takes a

933
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:29,960
Speaker 7: lot out of him, but it's expenseful and all of

934
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:34,040
Speaker 7: those things, so you know, it's something we really can't

935
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:36,720
Speaker 7: consider moving right now because the kids are in school

936
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:40,279
Speaker 7: and that's just not really a feasible option. And you know,

937
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:43,120
Speaker 7: he's doing well enough, we're in good shape. We could

938
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:47,000
Speaker 7: really afford to either buy or rent another place. But

939
00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 7: the only thing that's kind of you know, it all

940
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:53,919
Speaker 7: sounds great, but you know, with things going on these days,

941
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:55,840
Speaker 7: all of a sudden, I had this, you know, question

942
00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:58,719
Speaker 7: that came up in my mind. I'm wondering, is this

943
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:00,800
Speaker 7: a red flag? Is something else going on?

944
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:02,840
Speaker 1: Is it normally?

945
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:05,239
Speaker 7: Is what people are doing now because they can.

946
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:09,320
Speaker 1: So this dude's you know, spending what ten plus hours

947
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 1: a week going back and forth that partly alone, going

948
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:15,879
Speaker 1: back and forth from from the suburbs wherever you live,

949
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:19,759
Speaker 1: to the city to work. And so this guy he's like, look,

950
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:22,560
Speaker 1: I'm just going to not do that every day and

951
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:26,319
Speaker 1: I'm going to stay downtown sometimes not. Is he start

952
00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:28,320
Speaker 1: trying to do this like Monday through Friday or is

953
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:31,279
Speaker 1: he just saying like certain days because this is I've

954
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 1: heard of this happening. You know.

955
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 7: Sometimes it just you know, something comes up, it's a

956
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 7: there's a deadline, or there's a client meeting, and something

957
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 7: runs over and by the time he gets home. He

958
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:45,239
Speaker 7: wouldn't even see the kids. So you know, it's it's

959
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:48,799
Speaker 7: reasonable that you know, it's his time and his where

960
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:50,040
Speaker 7: it's wear and tear on him.

961
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, and well I know of I actually know of

962
00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 1: a guy who used to do this. He lives in

963
00:42:56,120 --> 00:43:00,400
Speaker 1: New York and so every day, whatever that process was,

964
00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:02,640
Speaker 1: it was too much, so he would you know, I

965
00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:04,520
Speaker 1: think it was like Tuesday through Thursday. He would stay

966
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:06,680
Speaker 1: in the city in like a studio and he had

967
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:08,279
Speaker 1: all of his clothes there and he could work out,

968
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 1: he could do whatever he did, and then he worked,

969
00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:10,800
Speaker 1: you know, most of the time, because a guy was

970
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:14,040
Speaker 1: working like seven am to seven pm. So the idea,

971
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:15,919
Speaker 1: I mean, even if he did go home, to your point,

972
00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:18,360
Speaker 1: he wouldn't see his kids, he wouldn't be there for

973
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 1: very long, and then you have to turn around to

974
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:22,440
Speaker 1: do it again. So he would work. I think it

975
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:25,080
Speaker 1: was Mondays and Fridays from home, and then Tuesday through

976
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:26,800
Speaker 1: Thursday he lived in this apartment and then you'd go

977
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:29,840
Speaker 1: back for so I don't I mean it's efficient. I

978
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 1: get that. I feel for people. I'm grateful for people

979
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:34,080
Speaker 1: who sit in drab it because you have to listen

980
00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:37,239
Speaker 1: to us. But I feel for people who that is

981
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 1: a component of their day, you know, because it's like

982
00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:42,040
Speaker 1: you work all day and then in my mind I'd

983
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:43,960
Speaker 1: be thinking and then whatever time I have to deal

984
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 1: with all that, and then I'd wake up in the

985
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:47,520
Speaker 1: morning I have to deal with all that. So I

986
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 1: don't people are texting immediately it's a red flag. I'm

987
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 1: not sure that inherently it's a red flag. Now I

988
00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:56,399
Speaker 1: have to ask the question, Rebecca, is there anything else

989
00:43:56,520 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 1: going on? Do you have any other reason if he

990
00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 1: hadn't come to you and said I want to live

991
00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:03,359
Speaker 1: in the city during the week, would you have any

992
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 1: other reason to suspect that he was up to something?

993
00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:09,239
Speaker 7: No, I don't really think so. I mean, he used

994
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:11,959
Speaker 7: to travel a lot for work before we had kids,

995
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:15,120
Speaker 7: so I know what that kind of time away is

996
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:18,960
Speaker 7: like too. So you know, it's it's kind of just,

997
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:21,319
Speaker 7: you know, you hear things in the minute. You sort

998
00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 7: of say, you know, to a friend, oh, you know,

999
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:26,399
Speaker 7: John's thinking maybe we should get a place in the city,

1000
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 7: and then I, you know, and the kids and I

1001
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:30,400
Speaker 7: go in and all of that, and you know, I

1002
00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:33,680
Speaker 7: saw an eyebrow goal office ask why. So you know,

1003
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 7: it's just I don't know why somebody else would even

1004
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:38,280
Speaker 7: plant that seed. But you know, all of a sudden,

1005
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 7: there's some more information to be considered because I guess.

1006
00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 1: If it went from Okay, I'm going to stay down

1007
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:45,759
Speaker 1: there a couple couple of nights a week, so then

1008
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:47,880
Speaker 1: I'm staying down there for a whole week, and all

1009
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:50,200
Speaker 1: I got to say it for the weekend too, you know,

1010
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:53,839
Speaker 1: if it if it turned into that, but it will, yes,

1011
00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:57,759
Speaker 1: we don't know. Then I'm a conspiracy there is here,

1012
00:44:57,800 --> 00:45:00,439
Speaker 1: And I don't know that it necessarily does. I Look,

1013
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:03,040
Speaker 1: if he's got money like that and you guys are

1014
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 1: doing that, well, I could see it every now and again, like, okay,

1015
00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:09,439
Speaker 1: so the guy he's got working maybe a work dinner

1016
00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:11,839
Speaker 1: or something, and then he doesn't want to drive all

1017
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:13,520
Speaker 1: the way home, Like if you got the money like

1018
00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 1: that and he's and he's that successful that I don't

1019
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:19,240
Speaker 1: necessarily think this is a red flag in and of itself, Kiki,

1020
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 1: How would this be any different than somebody who's on

1021
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:22,680
Speaker 1: the road two or three days a week for their

1022
00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:24,160
Speaker 1: for their job, which is very common.

1023
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:26,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, but he's not on the road. He's not on

1024
00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 2: the road. And if you have this much money and income,

1025
00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:30,480
Speaker 2: then move your family closer to your job.

1026
00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:32,839
Speaker 3: But she just said that they don't want to move

1027
00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 3: the kids. Well, get another job or sit in traffic.

1028
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:38,560
Speaker 3: I feel like letting him stay out of his home

1029
00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 3: is a big red flag because it starts with okay,

1030
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:43,239
Speaker 3: he's going to spend the night.

1031
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:46,440
Speaker 2: The next thing you know, the DoorDash lady's getting invited in.

1032
00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 1: As a person, as a person who doesn't leave his

1033
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:56,279
Speaker 1: home and is hoping that one day the DoorDash lady

1034
00:45:56,400 --> 00:45:57,719
Speaker 1: is going to be my wife, because that's the only

1035
00:45:57,760 --> 00:46:00,000
Speaker 1: way I'm going to meet somebody. It hasn't happened yet

1036
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:03,240
Speaker 1: in a lot of years and a lot of orders. Okay,

1037
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:06,719
Speaker 1: look what if they just they established boundaries and then

1038
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 1: if he violates the boundaries, well then I think they

1039
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:11,320
Speaker 1: have to revisit the no.

1040
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:13,359
Speaker 2: I don't like it, Problena, you a married one, Yes,

1041
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:13,880
Speaker 2: I sure am.

1042
00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:16,640
Speaker 1: Okay, Well he goes to the quote unquote firehouse.

1043
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:19,600
Speaker 2: He has to sleep there. He has no choice, save

1044
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 2: it lives, right, Okay, But.

1045
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:24,960
Speaker 1: I don't know what if we found out so there's

1046
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:27,400
Speaker 1: any number of things. I'm picking up a shift and

1047
00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:30,480
Speaker 1: he's not. I don't know for sure. All kinds of variables.

1048
00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:33,279
Speaker 9: I don't think that this is a cheating situation. I

1049
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:35,120
Speaker 9: don't think he's gonna have a whole other family. I

1050
00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:38,560
Speaker 9: just I just see it as the mental load is

1051
00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 9: gonna fall way more on Rebecca. I don't know if

1052
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:43,560
Speaker 9: you work, Rebecca, but I see it as like, Okay,

1053
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:46,279
Speaker 9: it's not a vacation, but it's a vacation if dad

1054
00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:48,800
Speaker 9: gets to be away for whatever Monday through Friday or

1055
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:50,920
Speaker 9: money through Thursday. Because at the end of the day, yes,

1056
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:52,920
Speaker 9: he doesn't see the kids, he gets home too late,

1057
00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:55,800
Speaker 9: but there's still things to do at home. We do dishes, laundry,

1058
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 9: all these things, and everything's gonna fall on Rebecca.

1059
00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:00,120
Speaker 1: You know, I've heard that argument before, but it's well,

1060
00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:04,399
Speaker 1: that's real. Okay, Well I'll finish my thought anyway. But yeah,

1061
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 1: I hear that. Yeah, but I also you're not giving

1062
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 1: and this is a different conversation. I don't think you're

1063
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:14,200
Speaker 1: giving the man or the woman on the other side

1064
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:16,480
Speaker 1: of that argument any credit when you say that, because

1065
00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:19,360
Speaker 1: you're assuming let's say this guy has the best intentions,

1066
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:21,840
Speaker 1: and let's say this guy really does feel that the

1067
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:24,320
Speaker 1: commute is affecting his life negatively. He doesn't get to

1068
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:26,200
Speaker 1: see his kids, his heirs. He wants to spend a

1069
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 1: couple of nights a week, And the thing is that

1070
00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 1: a vacation, maybe, But you're assuming that that dude doesn't

1071
00:47:30,920 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 1: want anything to do with his family and doesn't want

1072
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:34,719
Speaker 1: to be at practice and doesn't want to pick the

1073
00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:36,440
Speaker 1: kids up from school. And I know a lot of

1074
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:39,319
Speaker 1: folks that wish they had that opportunity, but they don't.

1075
00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 1: So I don't think it's fair to say that a

1076
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:45,319
Speaker 1: parent who's not at home doing the parenting job every

1077
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:49,200
Speaker 1: day is just off willy nilly having a great old time,

1078
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:52,359
Speaker 1: because I think there are men and women out there

1079
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:55,520
Speaker 1: who wish that they could be doing a lot of

1080
00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:57,040
Speaker 1: that work and they don't get to do it.

1081
00:47:57,440 --> 00:48:00,239
Speaker 9: Yeah, and no, I'm not discrediting anything he's doing because

1082
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:01,279
Speaker 9: he's making a sacrifice too.

1083
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:02,719
Speaker 2: Parenting is sacrifice.

1084
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:05,399
Speaker 9: It's a lot of sacrifices, whether you're at home, you're working, whatever,

1085
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:08,160
Speaker 9: it's all sacrifice. But what I'm saying is that there's

1086
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 9: still more to do than than just you know, drop

1087
00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:12,239
Speaker 9: off the kids whatever, which he's already missing that, and

1088
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:13,160
Speaker 9: I'm sure it's hurting him.

1089
00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 2: I'm sure it bothers him. Like he's a father.

1090
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:16,160
Speaker 9: I'm sure he wants to see his kids go to

1091
00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:17,879
Speaker 9: practice and dribble the ball and do all these things.

1092
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:19,920
Speaker 9: I'm sure he wants to see that, but he can't

1093
00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 9: as of right now with his job situation, he can't

1094
00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:24,879
Speaker 9: do that. He can't be there, But he sot needs

1095
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:27,799
Speaker 9: to come home at night and still be a husband still,

1096
00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:29,360
Speaker 9: you know, be a part of this household, because I

1097
00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:31,200
Speaker 9: do believe even though he works full time, he works

1098
00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:32,960
Speaker 9: a lot, he saw us to contribute to the home.

1099
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:35,360
Speaker 1: Reckon, let me let me take some phocos on this

1100
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:38,040
Speaker 1: and and thank you for calling. Have the radio wanting

1101
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 1: good luck?

1102
00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:40,280
Speaker 11: Thank you eight.

1103
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:47,320
Speaker 2: Five check that phone. Oh my god, No, he's not nice.

1104
00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 1: I don't know. Like I have a friend who's a

1105
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:54,160
Speaker 1: pilot and he's been a pilot his whole life and

1106
00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 1: for twenty something years it's been an issue in his

1107
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 1: relationship because it's like, well, I have to drive the

1108
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:01,120
Speaker 1: kid to school every day. Well you're in you know,

1109
00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:03,480
Speaker 1: santrope or whatever. And he's like, you know what, I

1110
00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 1: am in santrope because I fly for a gazillionaire who

1111
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:08,680
Speaker 1: wants to be in santrope. But I also don't get

1112
00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:11,160
Speaker 1: to sleep in my own bed. You're not here, my

1113
00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:12,120
Speaker 1: kids aren't here.

1114
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:12,920
Speaker 11: You know.

1115
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:15,400
Speaker 1: Do you want me to sit in my room for

1116
00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:18,080
Speaker 1: a week and cry? You know? But like yet I'm

1117
00:49:18,120 --> 00:49:20,960
Speaker 1: sending you. You know, the life that we're living is

1118
00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:24,719
Speaker 1: provided by this job. So you're right. I didn't have

1119
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:26,959
Speaker 1: to sit in the pickup line today, and I didn't

1120
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:31,160
Speaker 1: have to go get groceries. But what is the alternative? Right,

1121
00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:33,360
Speaker 1: because you know, he's married to a lovely woman, but

1122
00:49:33,520 --> 00:49:36,239
Speaker 1: like there's no income coming from that side, and he's

1123
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:39,279
Speaker 1: not discrediting. That's the biggest thing for me is he

1124
00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:41,279
Speaker 1: doesn't discredit how hard her life is.

1125
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 2: Either exactly, that's a good man. Exactly a good man.

1126
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:47,880
Speaker 1: That's exactly the opposite of what you were just complaining about.

1127
00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:48,360
Speaker 2: No, I'm not.

1128
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:51,839
Speaker 1: He is not discrediting what she does, So why does

1129
00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:54,279
Speaker 1: she get to discredit what he does? Simply because they

1130
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:56,440
Speaker 1: might at times wish that the roles were reversed.

1131
00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:59,200
Speaker 9: I don't think that Rebecca our caller is discrediting her husband.

1132
00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:01,480
Speaker 9: I just think that she, in my opinion, would prefer

1133
00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:03,279
Speaker 9: her husband to come home at night. I know it's

1134
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:05,200
Speaker 9: hard on the commute is a pain in the ass.

1135
00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:07,080
Speaker 1: It is. I don't think Rebecca is. I think the

1136
00:50:07,280 --> 00:50:10,439
Speaker 1: argument that he can't stay in the city because he's

1137
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:13,160
Speaker 1: not doing anything at home and she has to do

1138
00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:16,719
Speaker 1: all of that is discrediting potentially what he's doing to

1139
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:19,400
Speaker 1: provide for the family. Is Well, they're both making sacrifices.

1140
00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:20,120
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

1141
00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:22,560
Speaker 9: They're sacrifices. But I still think he needs to come

1142
00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:24,480
Speaker 9: home at the end of the night. He doesn't live

1143
00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 9: in a different city, that's different, then he really can't

1144
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:27,040
Speaker 9: come home.

1145
00:50:27,160 --> 00:50:31,160
Speaker 1: Hey Lindsey, Yeah, Hi, Lindsay, good morning. Hey, what'd you

1146
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:32,759
Speaker 1: want to say? So?

1147
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:35,040
Speaker 13: I don't think it's a Doe situation. I think it's

1148
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:38,239
Speaker 13: just communication. He had this job obviously.

1149
00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:39,000
Speaker 14: Before they had kids.

1150
00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:40,719
Speaker 13: They knew what it did entailed, so he knew he

1151
00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:44,040
Speaker 13: was going to be leaving early homely, but me having

1152
00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:46,800
Speaker 13: three children and my husband leaning before, Like, he was

1153
00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:48,799
Speaker 13: gone at five o'clock this morning and no one has

1154
00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:50,400
Speaker 13: seen him since yesterday morning.

1155
00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:50,960
Speaker 1: Just because of work.

1156
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:53,880
Speaker 13: But if he doesn't come home and kids his kids

1157
00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:56,520
Speaker 13: and while they're sleeping and get in better with me

1158
00:50:56,560 --> 00:51:00,279
Speaker 13: because I myself am trying. Baby, it was it would

1159
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:03,640
Speaker 13: be a problem. But yeah, he he you know, he provides,

1160
00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:05,800
Speaker 13: he brings all the money, she does all the stuff.

1161
00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:08,680
Speaker 13: But he, you know, should know that he should be

1162
00:51:08,760 --> 00:51:11,320
Speaker 13: coming home every night, regardless of the drive. It's not

1163
00:51:11,480 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 13: like he's in a different state. He should be coming home,

1164
00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:16,480
Speaker 13: whether it's to pick up a little bit asna and

1165
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:19,240
Speaker 13: do whatever he needs to do. But you're a family,

1166
00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:22,000
Speaker 13: you're a unit. You come home and you you start

1167
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:23,920
Speaker 13: your day in the morning off from home, and you

1168
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:26,399
Speaker 13: come home at night to home to your family, whether

1169
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:27,239
Speaker 13: they're sleeping or not.

1170
00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:30,719
Speaker 1: All fair enough. Thank you, Lindsey, Thank you have a

1171
00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:33,640
Speaker 1: good day. Yes, thank you you too. Hi Phil, Good

1172
00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:34,719
Speaker 1: morning Phil. How you doing.

1173
00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:36,120
Speaker 6: I'm good.

1174
00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:37,880
Speaker 1: How are you guys? Hey, I'm doing great. If you

1175
00:51:37,960 --> 00:51:40,640
Speaker 1: just tuned in. This woman is concerned or wants to

1176
00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:42,520
Speaker 1: know if she should be concerned because her husband of

1177
00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 1: a long time, who's been making at least an hour

1178
00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:48,120
Speaker 1: drive each way to and from work, has decided that

1179
00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:51,360
Speaker 1: he wants to get an apartment or something closer to

1180
00:51:51,480 --> 00:51:53,719
Speaker 1: work so that he's not making that drive every single

1181
00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:56,520
Speaker 1: day because it's wearing him out, and you know, he

1182
00:51:56,560 --> 00:51:58,320
Speaker 1: thinks it's having a negative effect on his life. He

1183
00:51:58,320 --> 00:51:59,840
Speaker 1: doesn't get to see his family on those days, and

1184
00:52:00,719 --> 00:52:02,640
Speaker 1: so the debate is is this a good or a

1185
00:52:02,680 --> 00:52:03,879
Speaker 1: bad idea? What do you think?

1186
00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:08,040
Speaker 6: So I've been doing this for fifteen years. I have

1187
00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:10,279
Speaker 6: an apartment up in the city, but my home is

1188
00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:14,480
Speaker 6: three hours away, so the commute is that that's not possible.

1189
00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:17,560
Speaker 6: But we have four kids, we've been married for twenty

1190
00:52:17,680 --> 00:52:21,960
Speaker 6: nine years and it works. But because of the distance,

1191
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:25,080
Speaker 6: it's impossible. Now given their circumstances with him only being

1192
00:52:25,080 --> 00:52:28,160
Speaker 6: an hour away, and if they can afford rent or

1193
00:52:28,360 --> 00:52:31,399
Speaker 6: buying in the city, my suggestion would be for him

1194
00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:34,600
Speaker 6: to contract a black car service that he could call

1195
00:52:34,680 --> 00:52:37,719
Speaker 6: when he's ready to come home, because then he's not

1196
00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:40,680
Speaker 6: doing the driving. Then he can work the drive in

1197
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:42,839
Speaker 6: and he can work the drive out, but then he's

1198
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:45,200
Speaker 6: home every night with with his kids. You know, the

1199
00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:48,160
Speaker 6: problem that we see nowadays is everybody says you have

1200
00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:50,239
Speaker 6: to have a work life balance, and that means you

1201
00:52:50,360 --> 00:52:53,560
Speaker 6: balance life around work, and that's wrong. You should have

1202
00:52:53,840 --> 00:52:57,000
Speaker 6: a life work balance where you balance work around life

1203
00:52:57,320 --> 00:52:58,880
Speaker 6: because those kids are going to be grown up and

1204
00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:01,919
Speaker 6: out of the house much fatter than any time he's

1205
00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:04,279
Speaker 6: going to spend griping about the commute back and forth.

1206
00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:07,160
Speaker 6: If they've got the money and it's only an hour,

1207
00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:09,600
Speaker 6: If it was three hours, I would say, yeah, absolutely,

1208
00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:13,120
Speaker 6: But if it's only an hour, he should contract a

1209
00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:15,960
Speaker 6: black car service that can pick him up and deliver

1210
00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:18,359
Speaker 6: him back and forth every single day, because there's cars

1211
00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:21,920
Speaker 6: out there that will do that. But additionally, in my industry,

1212
00:53:21,960 --> 00:53:24,840
Speaker 6: I've seen a lot of guys try this, and what

1213
00:53:25,000 --> 00:53:28,000
Speaker 6: happens is they gain an independence on their own and

1214
00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 6: they start creating a life on their own outside of

1215
00:53:31,280 --> 00:53:33,000
Speaker 6: the life they should be having with their family.

1216
00:53:33,719 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's an issue. Obviously, that would be a serious issue.

1217
00:53:36,440 --> 00:53:38,840
Speaker 6: When it gets doing this. But given the fact that

1218
00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:42,040
Speaker 6: he's only an hour away, I would say that to

1219
00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:45,400
Speaker 6: save I mean not only to be there for his wife,

1220
00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:47,960
Speaker 6: but to be there for his family and to live

1221
00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:50,799
Speaker 6: like we work to live, we don't live to work,

1222
00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:54,520
Speaker 6: And so he needs to prioritize it, and he needs

1223
00:53:54,600 --> 00:53:57,520
Speaker 6: to put the money into hiring someone to pick him

1224
00:53:57,600 --> 00:53:59,759
Speaker 6: up at his house and take the load off of

1225
00:53:59,840 --> 00:54:02,560
Speaker 6: him driving drive them into the city, and when he's

1226
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:04,759
Speaker 6: done on a late night, have someone drive them home.

1227
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:06,480
Speaker 6: But you know what, he's going to be at home

1228
00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:08,000
Speaker 6: at night and he's going to be at home in

1229
00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:10,160
Speaker 6: the morning and his kids will at least know he

1230
00:54:10,400 --> 00:54:11,000
Speaker 6: was present.

1231
00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:15,840
Speaker 1: Thank you, Phil, that's a good idea. Thanks man. Have

1232
00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:16,279
Speaker 1: a good day.

1233
00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:17,160
Speaker 2: He was a life coach.

1234
00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:18,319
Speaker 1: No, it feels good.

1235
00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:18,960
Speaker 2: I'mired.

1236
00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:21,440
Speaker 1: I just my issue is if the argument is that

1237
00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:23,800
Speaker 1: he's going he's going to cheat, or he's going to

1238
00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:25,959
Speaker 1: disconnect her, he's going to do all these bad things.

1239
00:54:26,160 --> 00:54:28,200
Speaker 1: I don't necessarily think that's the reason not to do this,

1240
00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:30,759
Speaker 1: because if you're in a relationship and you trust the

1241
00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:32,520
Speaker 1: person that you're we talk about this all the time.

1242
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:34,440
Speaker 1: It's like, just because he has a place in the

1243
00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:36,920
Speaker 1: city does not mean that he's to someone's point on

1244
00:54:37,160 --> 00:54:40,160
Speaker 1: he wants to stab in cabin someone texted. I mean,

1245
00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:45,480
Speaker 1: it's not necessarily And if they can establish boundaries again,

1246
00:54:46,080 --> 00:54:48,600
Speaker 1: you know, ground rules on this, Hey, once a week, okay,

1247
00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:51,879
Speaker 1: twice a week maybe under these circumstances for these things.

1248
00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:53,759
Speaker 1: If they can come up with that on their own

1249
00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:55,560
Speaker 1: and then they can stick to it, then I don't

1250
00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:59,320
Speaker 1: think this is inherently a problem. But if maybe it

1251
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:02,520
Speaker 1: goes outside those lines and then maybe she has to

1252
00:55:02,560 --> 00:55:04,480
Speaker 1: reel it back in, I don't know, but just for

1253
00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:06,719
Speaker 1: the argument for everybody going, well, he's not at home

1254
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:08,440
Speaker 1: at night, then he's not this, and he's not that.

1255
00:55:09,200 --> 00:55:13,960
Speaker 1: I don't know. That's not fair. Hey missy, hey, I

1256
00:55:14,080 --> 00:55:16,480
Speaker 1: missed you. Good morning, Good morning.

1257
00:55:16,520 --> 00:55:17,080
Speaker 6: How are you guys?

1258
00:55:17,120 --> 00:55:17,279
Speaker 11: Hey?

1259
00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:18,279
Speaker 1: Great? What'd you want to say?

1260
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:19,719
Speaker 6: So?

1261
00:55:20,320 --> 00:55:23,399
Speaker 14: Okay, my husband and I we've been together for twenty years.

1262
00:55:24,440 --> 00:55:27,240
Speaker 14: We have a beautiful little seventeen year old almost eighteen

1263
00:55:27,320 --> 00:55:29,600
Speaker 14: year old, and he's been a truck driver for the

1264
00:55:29,680 --> 00:55:33,440
Speaker 14: past oh, I don't know, fifteen years or so, and

1265
00:55:34,280 --> 00:55:38,280
Speaker 14: you know, he is rarely home during the week and everything.

1266
00:55:38,440 --> 00:55:42,520
Speaker 14: Do I automatically assume that he's treating Absolutely not, because

1267
00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:44,840
Speaker 14: I mean you have to have like that trust. He

1268
00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:46,920
Speaker 14: does come home once in a while when he can,

1269
00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:50,600
Speaker 14: you know, pops in each shower, sleeps a little bit,

1270
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:54,080
Speaker 14: whatever he can do. But on the weekend, he's always

1271
00:55:54,239 --> 00:55:57,399
Speaker 14: there taking care of things that have to be done

1272
00:55:57,520 --> 00:56:02,399
Speaker 14: around the house and taking care of his family. Okay, Yeah,

1273
00:56:03,239 --> 00:56:06,960
Speaker 14: he does feel bad sometimes that you know, he can't

1274
00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:09,600
Speaker 14: be around and he can't be like involved in like

1275
00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:11,680
Speaker 14: a lot of her stuff because you know, now that

1276
00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:14,080
Speaker 14: she's growing up and she's stopped the college and everything,

1277
00:56:14,120 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 14: it's a little bit harder. But the man is busting,

1278
00:56:16,680 --> 00:56:20,680
Speaker 14: is behind working and everything to provide for our family.

1279
00:56:20,800 --> 00:56:24,360
Speaker 14: And now one single time have we thought or have

1280
00:56:24,560 --> 00:56:27,279
Speaker 14: I even thought that he's cheating. Now, if he's going to,

1281
00:56:27,840 --> 00:56:30,160
Speaker 14: well good luck to him because God only knows what

1282
00:56:30,200 --> 00:56:30,640
Speaker 14: could happen.

1283
00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:33,480
Speaker 1: But yeah, people are people have found much more creative

1284
00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:35,480
Speaker 1: ways to cheeve than to say, you know, to announce

1285
00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:37,920
Speaker 1: they're getting an apartment to stay in the city, if that's.

1286
00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:40,520
Speaker 14: The concern, exactly, And I mean mine's the chuck driver,

1287
00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:41,720
Speaker 14: so I mean mine.

1288
00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:48,719
Speaker 8: Right exactly.

1289
00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:50,400
Speaker 2: But like I said, he does come.

1290
00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:53,960
Speaker 14: Home when he can, and I mean he's always providing

1291
00:56:54,040 --> 00:56:55,799
Speaker 14: and everything for us and stuff, and I mean he's

1292
00:56:55,800 --> 00:56:57,080
Speaker 14: still taking care of stuff.

1293
00:56:56,800 --> 00:56:57,439
Speaker 6: Around the house.

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Speaker 2: So I mean it's just I mean, you can't auto

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Speaker 2: assume that you.

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Speaker 14: Know they're going to cheat on you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, missy, have a great day.

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Speaker 14: Thank you you as well.

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Speaker 1: Glad you call a problem solve Boom, here you go.

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Speaker 2: I just think comparison, no idea is the thief of joy.

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Speaker 5: So like we should never whether it be at work,

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Speaker 5: comparing who works harder, whether it be in your relationship,

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Speaker 5: until you walk in someone choose you just don't know,

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Speaker 5: and so why are we going down that slipper?

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Speaker 2: Like, what where's the respect for people? And how you know?

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Speaker 2: I don't know what your day is like, but we

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Speaker 2: we both have to do things to contribute, so I

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Speaker 2: don't know. I think it's a slippery slope.

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Speaker 1: The Entertainment Report is next. You have to drake in

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Speaker 1: two minutes. It's the Fresh Show. We're commercial free Calin's

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Speaker 1: Entertainer Report. He is on the Fresh Show.

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Speaker 5: Miss Doci is setting the record straight about her Grammy's

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Speaker 5: performance not being live. So I don't know if you

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Speaker 5: guys heard this at all, but in a new TikTok,

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Speaker 5: the rapper addressed her followers amid all of these claims

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Speaker 5: that she was lip syncing during her performance of Catfish

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Speaker 5: and Denial is a River at the award show, and

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Speaker 5: she said, I can't possibly get on here and say

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Speaker 5: this calmly or nicely. She's pissed by the way y'all

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Speaker 5: are stupid as hell, so slow. That's my DJ's voice

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Speaker 5: picking up some lines that I can't say because I'm

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Speaker 5: doing a summersault. And she yelled that very loudly.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why you can't sing in summersault the

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Speaker 1: same time. Everybody can do that.

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Speaker 2: Goodness, I don't know why. Yeah, you were really tickled

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Speaker 2: by that. I was doing a summer salt and if

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Speaker 2: you if you saw.

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Speaker 5: That performance, you know she had acrobatics, complex choreo and yes,

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Speaker 5: at one point she sumrsaults off dancer's shoulders and then

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Speaker 5: walks up a human staircase.

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Speaker 2: And was she lip sinking.

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Speaker 6: No.

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Speaker 2: She went on to say that entire performance was live.

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Speaker 5: I was sick as a dog with bronchitis and the flu,

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Speaker 5: performing my booty off in a straddle on top of

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Speaker 5: human men. I worked my butt off to build a

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Speaker 5: stamina for that, for y'all to play in my face.

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Speaker 5: I don't lip sync. Don't ever effing play with me

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Speaker 5: like that ever.

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Speaker 2: So she wasn't.

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Speaker 5: She was sick, and she's pissed that you're accusing her

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Speaker 5: of that from your couch with your bomb bomb.

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Speaker 8: So there you go.

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Speaker 5: During one of the many S ANDL specials over the

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Speaker 5: weekend to celebrate their fiftieth and of her, the show

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Speaker 5: made light of its more controversial moments over the years,

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Speaker 5: with an in memorium segment highlighting its problematic guess like

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Speaker 5: r Kelly Diddy, OJ Simpson, Jared Foegel, and Robert Blake.

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Speaker 5: So the clip featuring R Kelly shows him on stage

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Speaker 5: with Leta Gaga during a twenty thirteen episode, where she

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Speaker 5: thanks him for performing and leaning into that.

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Speaker 2: A twenty ten clip.

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Speaker 5: Shows Ditty saying, don't judge a book by its cover.

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Speaker 2: My man is like R Kelly.

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Speaker 5: So it's very interesting the things people say before they

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Speaker 5: get caught up. But R Kelly's lawyer, Jennifer Bongean says

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Speaker 5: she's really pissed, and she finds it rather arrogant that

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Speaker 5: SNL sees it as their job to decide belatedly who

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Speaker 5: should and shouldn't be canceled. She thinks that they're getting

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Speaker 5: a little cocky. I think Jennifer and Robert should worry

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Speaker 5: about his case and him being locked up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like you got bigger things to worry about,

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Speaker 2: my girl.

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Speaker 5: And yeah, and if R Kelly's upset, like you do too, Yeah,

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Speaker 5: we got to get you out if you want to

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Speaker 5: get out, and I don't think that's happening anytime soon.

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Speaker 2: So don't worry about SNL now while we're talking about it. O. J.

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Speaker 5: Simpson was the butt of a John mullaney joke and

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Speaker 5: it made the head of his estate laugh.

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Speaker 2: Oh, so he didn't mind.

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Speaker 5: So in the opening monologue, mulaney said, eight hundred and

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Speaker 5: ninety four people have hosted SNL, and it amazes me

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Speaker 5: that only two of them have committed murder. So OJ's

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Speaker 5: longtime lawyer and current executor of his estate, Malcolm Laverne,

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Speaker 5: says John's joke about accused murders hosting the show is

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Speaker 5: very funny. He says, John's delivery force viewers to think

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Speaker 5: about it for a second, and his thoughts led to laughter.

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Speaker 5: So that's very interesting to me. One person's piss and

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Speaker 5: one person's not. And they were referring to OJ and

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Speaker 5: Robert Blake. Of course, lots of controversial moments. I also

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Speaker 5: showed something that was cut. Kanye goes on this rant

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Speaker 5: and they had to go to commercials because he was

1383
01:00:50,840 --> 01:00:52,360
Speaker 5: ranting at the end of the show. I know if

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Speaker 5: you guys remember that, and you heard from the actors

1385
01:00:54,840 --> 01:00:56,640
Speaker 5: who were on stage going, wait, I don't want to

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Speaker 5: co sign this.

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Speaker 2: How do I get off the stage? Really quick? Really good?

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Speaker 5: Spush If you haven't seen them, by the way, if

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Speaker 5: you missed any part of our Show, The Fred Show.

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Speaker 2: You can catch up on everything.

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Speaker 5: It's all there if you get the free new and

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Speaker 5: improved iHeartRadio app and search The Fred Show on dem Shoebiz.

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Speaker 1: Shelley knows everything pop culture and she's very impressive in

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Speaker 1: this game. One thousand and four wins all time, only

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01:01:16,480 --> 01:01:19,080
Speaker 1: sixty eight losses. She's won three straight. Two hundred and

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Speaker 1: fifty bucks is the prize if you want to take

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Speaker 1: her on and maybe win that money in five questions eight, five, five, five, nine, one,

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Speaker 1: one oh three five call now. We'll play next in

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Speaker 1: two minutes after Teddy Swims Fread Show, The Bread Show.

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Speaker 1: Do you have what it takes to battle show biz?

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01:01:34,880 --> 01:01:37,200
Speaker 1: Shelley in the show Biz showdown.

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Speaker 10: Sho mobnoy is Hi Showby's Hi, good morning, Okay, Kevin

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01:01:45,480 --> 01:01:47,400
Speaker 10: is your challenger today we have Kevin.

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Speaker 1: Hi, Kevin, Good morning, Good morning, Kevin, welcome. Tell us

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Speaker 1: all about you.

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01:01:54,000 --> 01:01:56,600
Speaker 7: I'm a high school science teacher on my way to

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01:01:56,880 --> 01:02:00,439
Speaker 7: do some high school science teaching right now, come little

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Speaker 7: guy at home and one.

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Speaker 1: More on the way. Well, congratulations, what's your name? Your son?

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Speaker 1: What's your son? Same? Do you have a Bunsen burner

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Speaker 1: in your classroom? Of course, I have many buns and

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01:02:13,120 --> 01:02:16,880
Speaker 1: burners of the Bunsen burners. I can to this day.

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01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:19,400
Speaker 1: I can't believe that we were allowed to play with

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01:02:19,560 --> 01:02:23,080
Speaker 1: fire in that way, like an open a large open flame,

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Speaker 1: at any time when we're like thirteen years old. I

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Speaker 1: don't know why that was. Okay, you know, you know

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Speaker 1: which you could keep your eyes on when the burners

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Speaker 1: come out, I would imagine, I would imagine. So, all right,

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Speaker 1: two fifties Surprise one thousand and four and sixty eight

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Speaker 1: is Shelley's record three straight wins. Good luck, guys, Okay,

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Speaker 1: good luck, all right. Kevin's like Stone, He's Stone man,

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Speaker 1: He's forget about it man, right, right, exactly, Question number

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Speaker 1: one for you, Kevin. Which iconic TV show celebrated it's

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Speaker 1: fiftieth anniversary over the weekend with multiple specials. Arnold Schwarzenegger's

1425
01:02:55,520 --> 01:02:58,440
Speaker 1: son Patrick had a fully nude scene in the season

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Speaker 1: three premiere of This Max show.

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01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:03,200
Speaker 2: He did he so did?

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Speaker 1: Oh industry? Good guess? But which professional ad because they're

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01:03:08,560 --> 01:03:12,640
Speaker 1: always naked in that show? Which professional sports league had

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01:03:12,760 --> 01:03:15,440
Speaker 1: its All star festivities in San Francisco over the weekend?

1431
01:03:16,720 --> 01:03:20,960
Speaker 1: The NBA, which Bodak Yellow rapper was spotted out with

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01:03:21,440 --> 01:03:26,240
Speaker 1: Texans wide receivers Stevon Diggs on Valentine's Day Cardie B.

1433
01:03:26,680 --> 01:03:30,240
Speaker 1: And which famous rapper and producer who goes by doctor

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Speaker 1: is sixty years old today, Doctor, Dre that is a four.

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Speaker 1: That's a really good score. Let's see how this goes well?

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Speaker 1: Bring Shelly back from the boothpoof uh A four for Kevin?

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01:03:44,800 --> 01:03:48,080
Speaker 1: He is good? Yeah? You ready? All right? Which iconic

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01:03:48,120 --> 01:03:51,000
Speaker 1: TV show celebrated it's fiftieth anniversary over the weekend with

1439
01:03:51,160 --> 01:03:55,680
Speaker 1: multiple specials set out? Yeah, Arnold Schwarzenegger's son Patrick had

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01:03:55,720 --> 01:03:58,480
Speaker 1: a fully nude scene in the season three premiere of

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Speaker 1: this Max show.

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01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:04,120
Speaker 2: Oh Oh White, Lotus is right?

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01:04:04,800 --> 01:04:08,560
Speaker 1: Which professional sports league had its All star festivities in

1444
01:04:08,560 --> 01:04:09,760
Speaker 1: San Francisco over the weekend?

1445
01:04:12,960 --> 01:04:15,440
Speaker 2: Three The NFL?

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01:04:16,920 --> 01:04:23,560
Speaker 1: No, No, the NFL season is over. That was the NBA. Yeah?

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01:04:24,440 --> 01:04:27,160
Speaker 1: Which Bonak Yellow rapper was spotted out with Texans wide

1448
01:04:27,200 --> 01:04:31,320
Speaker 1: receiver Stefan Diggs on Valentine's Day Cardi B. And which

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Speaker 1: famous rapper and producer who goes by doctor is sixty

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Speaker 1: years old today?

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Speaker 2: Doctor?

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Speaker 1: That is a four? That is a tie ken? Hey,

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Speaker 1: Kevin a science teacher? You got to come back tomorrow. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'll do it. Okay, hang out on second. You may

1455
01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:49,080
Speaker 1: have heard yourself an extra fifty bucks up to three

1456
01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:53,600
Speaker 1: hundred tomorrow. But Kevin, the science teacher who obviously listens

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Speaker 1: to the program Intentley, he is coming back tomorrow. So Shelley,

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01:04:58,320 --> 01:05:01,760
Speaker 1: don't have a baby yet. Okay, oh yeah, not quite yet.

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01:05:01,760 --> 01:05:02,840
Speaker 1: We got to solve this problem.

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01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:03,240
Speaker 6: I know.

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01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:04,160
Speaker 2: Okay, sounds good.

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Speaker 1: Have a good day.

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01:05:05,080 --> 01:05:05,640
Speaker 2: All right, you too?

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01:05:05,760 --> 01:05:05,960
Speaker 9: Bye?

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01:05:05,960 --> 01:05:08,720
Speaker 1: All right, good news stories feels good. We'll do it next.

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Speaker 1: Waiting by the phone bonus new waiting today because we

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Speaker 1: weren't here yesterday. Why did somebody get ghosted? The Entertainment

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Speaker 1: Report headlines and the fun fact all next more Fred

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Speaker 1: Show next right here. Wait, we're just missing the guy

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Speaker 1: who breaks every voice of men song down. Yeah, hey baby,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Please forgive me for all the wrong haf

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Speaker 1: done and then you gotta go. Please forgive me, Please

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Speaker 1: forgive you. I love you. I didn't mean to get web.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know she was an Instagram model.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know she was.

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Speaker 1: Fred Show is on Beautiful Song. Hi, Caitlin h Hi,

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Speaker 1: Jason Brown Hill, Shelley bellah Me. Welcome to Tuesday, We're

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Speaker 1: glad you're here on the radio, and the iHeart app

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Speaker 1: Live and anytime search for the Fred Show on de

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Speaker 1: Man good news stories in just a second waiting by

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Speaker 1: the phone. He's new after that, Why did somebody gave ghosted?

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Speaker 1: The Entertainment rep Board, trending stories and fun fact and

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Speaker 1: we're commercial free for the next forty minutes. What are

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Speaker 1: you working on? K?

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Speaker 5: So the assistant living facility where Wendy Williams is has

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Speaker 5: a very different story for why she's in a particular

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Speaker 5: area in a particular room.

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Speaker 2: So I want to hear from them because it's very interesting.

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Speaker 1: All right, that's coming, that show is on. It feels good,

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Speaker 1: good news, happy stories every day on the show. Kay,

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Speaker 1: letting go?

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Speaker 2: What the hell is this?

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Speaker 8: So?

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Speaker 5: A delivery driver in Arkansas walked space heaters to a

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Speaker 5: family during a very bad snowstorm after his delivery car

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Speaker 5: crashed into a ditch. So the woman was expecting heaters

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Speaker 5: and she said that this delivery app showed that he

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Speaker 5: was two minutes away, and after.

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Speaker 2: A half hour, she called the driver to see if

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Speaker 2: he was lost.

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Speaker 5: When she talked to him, she learned that he had

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Speaker 5: crashed into a ditch because of the bad snowstorm, but

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Speaker 5: after he learned that the woman's home lost heat and

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Speaker 5: that her husband is undergoing chemo, he told her that

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Speaker 5: he would take the heaters himself and walk them the

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Speaker 5: rest of the way.

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01:07:11,920 --> 01:07:13,320
Speaker 2: After the heaters were dropped.

1508
01:07:13,040 --> 01:07:15,080
Speaker 5: Off, the woman promised him that she would tip him

1509
01:07:15,120 --> 01:07:16,960
Speaker 5: in the app, but then she found out she wasn't

1510
01:07:17,000 --> 01:07:18,880
Speaker 5: able to tip him in the app, so she used

1511
01:07:18,920 --> 01:07:21,160
Speaker 5: social media to track him down, which is a good

1512
01:07:21,200 --> 01:07:23,800
Speaker 5: example of using it for good. The driver then said,

1513
01:07:23,960 --> 01:07:26,520
Speaker 5: I'll only accept your tip if our families can meet

1514
01:07:26,720 --> 01:07:29,760
Speaker 5: and we can support each other as your husband continues

1515
01:07:29,800 --> 01:07:30,600
Speaker 5: his cancer treatment.

1516
01:07:30,680 --> 01:07:32,920
Speaker 2: So it's a very sweet story. Now they're cool and

1517
01:07:33,480 --> 01:07:34,400
Speaker 2: showing each other support.

1518
01:07:34,520 --> 01:07:34,720
Speaker 6: Wow.

1519
01:07:37,120 --> 01:07:41,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, So a dog named Baghira. I don't know about

1520
01:07:41,680 --> 01:07:45,360
Speaker 1: the name, but b A g h E E r A.

1521
01:07:45,480 --> 01:07:47,680
Speaker 1: How would you say that they hear? I don't know

1522
01:07:47,680 --> 01:07:49,320
Speaker 1: about the name, but a dog has been adopted if

1523
01:07:49,360 --> 01:07:52,880
Speaker 1: you're living in a shelter for over nine hundred days.

1524
01:07:53,600 --> 01:07:56,680
Speaker 1: So the dog came to the Bangor Humane Society. Where

1525
01:07:56,760 --> 01:08:02,680
Speaker 1: is that, Jason? Where Angor? Yeah, Maine, you know, close

1526
01:08:02,840 --> 01:08:07,920
Speaker 1: close up. But the year of the dog came as

1527
01:08:07,960 --> 01:08:10,280
Speaker 1: astray just about a year old, and a resident there

1528
01:08:10,480 --> 01:08:15,440
Speaker 1: has officially adopted the dog last month. Again, I'm not

1529
01:08:15,520 --> 01:08:19,360
Speaker 1: sure today when you have a rescue though, it must

1530
01:08:19,400 --> 01:08:22,360
Speaker 1: be a struggle to come up with names, because if

1531
01:08:22,360 --> 01:08:25,600
Speaker 1: you got hundreds of dogs a year, animals whatever, So

1532
01:08:25,680 --> 01:08:27,040
Speaker 1: I'm not sure if they have just like a list

1533
01:08:27,160 --> 01:08:30,040
Speaker 1: and that there's some significance. I don't know. But anyway,

1534
01:08:30,560 --> 01:08:34,640
Speaker 1: after almost three years, finally adopted, which I think is

1535
01:08:34,720 --> 01:08:37,280
Speaker 1: very sweet. Waiting metaphone is brand new, a little bit

1536
01:08:37,400 --> 01:08:40,800
Speaker 1: bonus new waiting metaphone on Tuesday one, because well we

1537
01:08:40,840 --> 01:08:42,720
Speaker 1: didn't work yesterday, so we got one for you next

1538
01:08:42,960 --> 01:08:47,960
Speaker 1: after and two minutes on the Fread Show. Ever been

1539
01:08:48,080 --> 01:08:52,639
Speaker 1: left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey, Mitch,

1540
01:08:52,680 --> 01:08:54,160
Speaker 1: good morning, welcome to the show. How are you.

1541
01:08:54,479 --> 01:08:57,639
Speaker 15: I'm doing good man, Just have a little issue.

1542
01:08:58,080 --> 01:09:00,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, So Giselle is a woman that you met

1543
01:09:00,200 --> 01:09:02,360
Speaker 1: at a bar. So you guys met out in the wild,

1544
01:09:02,479 --> 01:09:04,880
Speaker 1: you met in public, which I think, yeah, you would

1545
01:09:04,920 --> 01:09:06,559
Speaker 1: think that would make a big difference, right, You would

1546
01:09:06,560 --> 01:09:09,240
Speaker 1: think it would make a difference that uh you know

1547
01:09:09,400 --> 01:09:12,080
Speaker 1: that that that you meet someone out actually so you

1548
01:09:12,200 --> 01:09:14,000
Speaker 1: like you kind of get a vibe for the chemistry

1549
01:09:14,000 --> 01:09:15,360
Speaker 1: and stuff, because it can be hard to do on

1550
01:09:15,400 --> 01:09:17,080
Speaker 1: the apps you don't know who you're dealing with. Yeah,

1551
01:09:17,080 --> 01:09:17,679
Speaker 1: one hundred percent.

1552
01:09:17,760 --> 01:09:21,200
Speaker 11: I prefer I prefer to like connecting real time, you know.

1553
01:09:21,439 --> 01:09:22,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, so what happened? Where are we at?

1554
01:09:22,960 --> 01:09:23,000
Speaker 6: So?

1555
01:09:23,680 --> 01:09:26,680
Speaker 15: Yeah, like we met at a bar and you know, uh,

1556
01:09:27,240 --> 01:09:29,160
Speaker 15: just like off the jump, I thought she was cute.

1557
01:09:29,439 --> 01:09:31,960
Speaker 15: We I felt like we had it off exchange numbers

1558
01:09:32,360 --> 01:09:34,720
Speaker 15: and you know, we're flirty on text, Like.

1559
01:09:34,800 --> 01:09:35,559
Speaker 11: The vibes are good.

1560
01:09:35,720 --> 01:09:38,960
Speaker 15: We even started planning like like our first date, but uh,

1561
01:09:39,560 --> 01:09:43,320
Speaker 15: you know, it just kind of completely disappeared and there's

1562
01:09:43,400 --> 01:09:44,840
Speaker 15: like with no rhyme or reason.

1563
01:09:44,880 --> 01:09:46,680
Speaker 11: There wasn't like a follow up. So I just feel like,

1564
01:09:47,200 --> 01:09:48,960
Speaker 11: you know, I could tell if like I can vibe

1565
01:09:49,000 --> 01:09:50,600
Speaker 11: if it's if it's not working.

1566
01:09:50,400 --> 01:09:50,960
Speaker 1: You know what I mean.

1567
01:09:51,040 --> 01:09:52,680
Speaker 11: But it just felt like it was cool and then

1568
01:09:52,720 --> 01:09:53,479
Speaker 11: it just stopped.

1569
01:09:53,920 --> 01:09:55,880
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm just kind of confused. Let's do this. We're

1570
01:09:55,880 --> 01:09:58,040
Speaker 1: gonna call Giselle. You'll be on the phone at the

1571
01:09:58,080 --> 01:10:00,639
Speaker 1: same time. We're gonna ask some questions on your behalf.

1572
01:10:00,880 --> 01:10:02,599
Speaker 1: At some point you're welcome to jump in on a call.

1573
01:10:02,880 --> 01:10:05,160
Speaker 1: And the hope is that we can figure out, you

1574
01:10:05,240 --> 01:10:07,680
Speaker 1: know why you've never heard from her again after what

1575
01:10:07,760 --> 01:10:09,800
Speaker 1: you thought was a successful date. Hopefully we can come

1576
01:10:09,880 --> 01:10:12,160
Speaker 1: up with something, you know, a good response she's been

1577
01:10:12,200 --> 01:10:14,439
Speaker 1: busy or not feeling well or something came up, and

1578
01:10:14,439 --> 01:10:16,160
Speaker 1: then we'll set you guys up on another date that

1579
01:10:16,240 --> 01:10:17,120
Speaker 1: we pay for us. How good?

1580
01:10:17,840 --> 01:10:18,040
Speaker 10: Yeah?

1581
01:10:18,160 --> 01:10:20,639
Speaker 1: Perfect, Let's see what happens next. Part two of Waiting

1582
01:10:20,640 --> 01:10:23,559
Speaker 1: metaphone after Gaga and Bruno Mars in two minutes Fred's Show,

1583
01:10:24,720 --> 01:10:27,519
Speaker 1: Lady Gag got Brudo Mars. HiT's the Fred Show. Hey, Mitch,

1584
01:10:28,880 --> 01:10:31,320
Speaker 1: let's call this woman, Jaselle. You guys met at the bar.

1585
01:10:31,640 --> 01:10:34,560
Speaker 1: You thought she was cute. You guys exchanged numbers and

1586
01:10:34,680 --> 01:10:37,720
Speaker 1: you started planning your your first date, I guess. But

1587
01:10:37,920 --> 01:10:40,280
Speaker 1: then you've reached out to her since then, trying to

1588
01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:42,240
Speaker 1: you know, you met in person, right, so now you're

1589
01:10:42,280 --> 01:10:44,200
Speaker 1: trying to plan the date you talked about and she

1590
01:10:44,280 --> 01:10:46,519
Speaker 1: gave you her numbers. So these are all good signs,

1591
01:10:46,840 --> 01:10:48,680
Speaker 1: except she's not responded to you since then, and you

1592
01:10:48,720 --> 01:10:51,439
Speaker 1: want to know what's going on? Yeah, exactly, All right,

1593
01:10:51,479 --> 01:10:59,880
Speaker 1: let's call Let's call Jazelle now, good luck, Mitch, HEMI

1594
01:11:00,120 --> 01:11:02,040
Speaker 1: is this Justelle? Yeah?

1595
01:11:02,960 --> 01:11:03,040
Speaker 8: Hi?

1596
01:11:03,160 --> 01:11:04,880
Speaker 1: Youzel Good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from

1597
01:11:04,880 --> 01:11:06,560
Speaker 1: the Fred's Show. The whole crew is here. It's the

1598
01:11:06,600 --> 01:11:08,479
Speaker 1: morning radio show, and I have to tell you that

1599
01:11:08,560 --> 01:11:10,360
Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now and I would

1600
01:11:10,439 --> 01:11:12,000
Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the call.

1601
01:11:12,120 --> 01:11:12,479
Speaker 2: Is that okay?

1602
01:11:12,479 --> 01:11:19,120
Speaker 1: If we chat for a little bit? Okay? Yes, So

1603
01:11:19,200 --> 01:11:21,160
Speaker 1: we're calling on behalf of a guy named Mitch. I

1604
01:11:21,240 --> 01:11:23,679
Speaker 1: guess you guys met out at a bar recently, exchanged numbers,

1605
01:11:23,720 --> 01:11:25,360
Speaker 1: talked about going on a date. Do you remember her?

1606
01:11:25,800 --> 01:11:26,160
Speaker 6: For him?

1607
01:11:26,600 --> 01:11:31,000
Speaker 1: Him? Him, Mitch is a big guy. Sorry, I guess

1608
01:11:31,000 --> 01:11:32,960
Speaker 1: I thought that was implied. But anyway, you remember the guy?

1609
01:11:33,600 --> 01:11:35,640
Speaker 1: All right? So what happened? Because he, I mean, he

1610
01:11:35,680 --> 01:11:37,759
Speaker 1: said he went up to you. You guys chatted in person,

1611
01:11:37,880 --> 01:11:40,000
Speaker 1: you changed numbers, talked about a date. I mean, you

1612
01:11:40,040 --> 01:11:42,080
Speaker 1: knew what you were dealing with. I guess you probably

1613
01:11:42,120 --> 01:11:43,760
Speaker 1: didn't have to give him your number or agree to

1614
01:11:43,840 --> 01:11:45,640
Speaker 1: a date. But then you've disappeared. So what's going on?

1615
01:11:47,200 --> 01:11:47,519
Speaker 8: Sorry?

1616
01:11:47,640 --> 01:11:51,559
Speaker 1: This is weird. No, it's weird. No, it's definitely weird,

1617
01:11:51,760 --> 01:11:52,479
Speaker 1: no doubt about that.

1618
01:11:53,160 --> 01:11:58,960
Speaker 8: Right, Mitch. So well, whatever, I recently got out of

1619
01:11:59,040 --> 01:12:03,000
Speaker 8: a four year relation and like it was bad. My

1620
01:12:03,160 --> 01:12:06,240
Speaker 8: ex cheated on me. It was awful. The breakups been

1621
01:12:06,320 --> 01:12:08,559
Speaker 8: along a lot of hard work for me to get through.

1622
01:12:08,600 --> 01:12:08,840
Speaker 1: Okay.

1623
01:12:09,200 --> 01:12:12,479
Speaker 8: I met Mitch and yeah, he was really cute and

1624
01:12:12,880 --> 01:12:15,720
Speaker 8: I thought we had a connection. But like on the

1625
01:12:15,800 --> 01:12:18,920
Speaker 8: night that we went out, I I don't know, I

1626
01:12:19,040 --> 01:12:22,240
Speaker 8: started kind of like piecing some things together throughout the night,

1627
01:12:22,400 --> 01:12:26,880
Speaker 8: things started kind of clicking. Okay, I realized how small

1628
01:12:26,960 --> 01:12:31,080
Speaker 8: this world is. Mitch, it turns out is the ex

1629
01:12:31,280 --> 01:12:36,200
Speaker 8: boyfriend of the girl that my boyfriend cheated on me with.

1630
01:12:36,680 --> 01:12:41,360
Speaker 1: Okay, Mitch is the ex boyfriend of a woman who

1631
01:12:41,560 --> 01:12:45,840
Speaker 1: your ex boyfriend cheated on. Okay, I'm just having clear here.

1632
01:12:45,920 --> 01:12:48,280
Speaker 1: So you were cheated on by Mitch's ex girlfriend. What

1633
01:12:48,439 --> 01:12:49,160
Speaker 1: was I have to do with him?

1634
01:12:49,240 --> 01:12:49,400
Speaker 11: Though?

1635
01:12:49,680 --> 01:12:54,320
Speaker 8: Well, like the connection, the situation, like, it's been really

1636
01:12:54,360 --> 01:12:56,000
Speaker 8: hard for me to get through. I don't know how

1637
01:12:56,080 --> 01:12:58,519
Speaker 8: you would feel. But if your wife cheated on you

1638
01:12:59,439 --> 01:13:03,200
Speaker 8: and then you started dating, it's just so complicated.

1639
01:13:03,320 --> 01:13:05,280
Speaker 1: I can't even like, do you understand me?

1640
01:13:05,360 --> 01:13:07,120
Speaker 8: You get it like you're in a long relationship with

1641
01:13:07,200 --> 01:13:09,960
Speaker 8: the one and they cheat on you, and then you

1642
01:13:10,120 --> 01:13:13,080
Speaker 8: go on a date with the person that that person

1643
01:13:13,240 --> 01:13:15,479
Speaker 8: was in a relationship with. That connection is not okay

1644
01:13:15,600 --> 01:13:16,160
Speaker 8: in my world.

1645
01:13:16,400 --> 01:13:16,720
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1646
01:13:16,800 --> 01:13:19,160
Speaker 1: I mean, you both couldn't you commiserate over both being

1647
01:13:19,240 --> 01:13:21,000
Speaker 1: cheated on? I mean, I've heard of this happening, by

1648
01:13:21,040 --> 01:13:23,120
Speaker 1: the way, I've heard of you know, it does seem

1649
01:13:23,120 --> 01:13:25,559
Speaker 1: a little strange, but I've heard about people's axes getting together.

1650
01:13:26,080 --> 01:13:27,679
Speaker 5: Right, Well, we don't have to do Mitch was cheated

1651
01:13:27,720 --> 01:13:30,479
Speaker 5: on by the girlfriend. Maybe they had already broken up, right,

1652
01:13:31,800 --> 01:13:32,439
Speaker 5: I guess we don't know.

1653
01:13:32,600 --> 01:13:34,600
Speaker 8: I don't know for sure, but I'm pretty bud of

1654
01:13:34,680 --> 01:13:37,639
Speaker 8: them either way. It's too close to home. Yeah, it's

1655
01:13:37,840 --> 01:13:39,920
Speaker 8: I have too many feelings about the situation to go

1656
01:13:40,080 --> 01:13:43,320
Speaker 8: on a date with somebody that is remotely connected to

1657
01:13:43,400 --> 01:13:45,680
Speaker 8: the woman that helps my boyfriend cheat on me.

1658
01:13:46,000 --> 01:13:46,400
Speaker 2: I get that.

1659
01:13:46,960 --> 01:13:49,000
Speaker 1: Let me. Mitch is here. I forgot to mention the

1660
01:13:49,040 --> 01:13:52,720
Speaker 1: mitches here. I'm very forgetful. I apologize. Mitch. Did you

1661
01:13:53,000 --> 01:13:54,920
Speaker 1: did you put that together? Did you? I guess I'm

1662
01:13:54,920 --> 01:13:57,360
Speaker 1: assuming you didn't. And and by the way, were you

1663
01:13:57,439 --> 01:13:59,400
Speaker 1: cheated on when you were active in a relationship with

1664
01:13:59,479 --> 01:14:00,439
Speaker 1: this woman the other one?

1665
01:14:01,320 --> 01:14:07,920
Speaker 15: Well, hey, Joe, I had no idea. So wait, no,

1666
01:14:08,160 --> 01:14:11,400
Speaker 15: me and Allison weren't together. But wait, went like I mean,

1667
01:14:11,720 --> 01:14:16,160
Speaker 15: that's still weird, like it's Allison right, like you with Allison?

1668
01:14:16,439 --> 01:14:18,599
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, how could I forget?

1669
01:14:19,000 --> 01:14:21,000
Speaker 1: Well, I guess I don't know why he's being penalized for.

1670
01:14:21,080 --> 01:14:22,840
Speaker 1: That is my thing. Why are we taking this out

1671
01:14:22,880 --> 01:14:23,880
Speaker 1: on him? He didn't do anything.

1672
01:14:24,160 --> 01:14:27,559
Speaker 8: It's not that. It has anything to do with Mitch

1673
01:14:27,640 --> 01:14:30,080
Speaker 8: and has everything to do with the hoe bag and

1674
01:14:30,240 --> 01:14:34,160
Speaker 8: the X and looking at the situation, it's too close

1675
01:14:34,200 --> 01:14:36,720
Speaker 8: to home. This is a huge city and that's the

1676
01:14:36,920 --> 01:14:38,600
Speaker 8: person I went on a date with. Are you kidding me?

1677
01:14:40,680 --> 01:14:40,880
Speaker 10: Yeah?

1678
01:14:43,400 --> 01:14:44,559
Speaker 11: That was kind of what I was going to say.

1679
01:14:44,600 --> 01:14:47,400
Speaker 11: I mean, you could have told me that, I'd understand.

1680
01:14:47,760 --> 01:14:50,439
Speaker 1: You know, you're still there, Like, how's that for?

1681
01:14:50,800 --> 01:14:53,360
Speaker 8: How do you bring that up on a first date? Like, hey,

1682
01:14:53,479 --> 01:14:55,360
Speaker 8: i know we've been talking for like an hour, but

1683
01:14:55,360 --> 01:14:58,400
Speaker 8: I'm pretty sure the last person you banked banged my

1684
01:14:58,640 --> 01:15:00,680
Speaker 8: last person I banged, just like that.

1685
01:15:01,200 --> 01:15:03,200
Speaker 2: Is it a good time? Is it a good time

1686
01:15:03,240 --> 01:15:04,960
Speaker 2: to date it? You're still so hurt by it? I

1687
01:15:05,040 --> 01:15:06,280
Speaker 2: wonder like I'm saying that.

1688
01:15:06,360 --> 01:15:08,800
Speaker 8: No, it's not, which is why I stopped talking to

1689
01:15:08,880 --> 01:15:11,480
Speaker 8: this person. I'm clearly not ready to be in a relationship.

1690
01:15:11,560 --> 01:15:15,800
Speaker 1: So well, that's fair that's fair. In a perfect world,

1691
01:15:15,840 --> 01:15:17,960
Speaker 1: you have that conversation with him, and I understand you're

1692
01:15:17,960 --> 01:15:20,120
Speaker 1: not obligated to do that, but I suppose you could

1693
01:15:20,160 --> 01:15:22,120
Speaker 1: have maybe and I'm not criticizing you, but you could

1694
01:15:22,160 --> 01:15:25,240
Speaker 1: have maybe not given him your number or or release.

1695
01:15:26,120 --> 01:15:28,920
Speaker 8: Yeah, this is a soft crash in my world, like, yeah,

1696
01:15:29,040 --> 01:15:30,800
Speaker 8: let me just do I know, I'm going to deal

1697
01:15:30,880 --> 01:15:31,080
Speaker 8: with it.

1698
01:15:31,400 --> 01:15:32,080
Speaker 4: Personally, you know.

1699
01:15:32,520 --> 01:15:35,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, I get that, and I guess the communication here

1700
01:15:35,640 --> 01:15:37,679
Speaker 1: was was broken down. But that is a very small world,

1701
01:15:37,840 --> 01:15:40,599
Speaker 1: I will say, And I think, you know, flex would

1702
01:15:40,600 --> 01:15:42,160
Speaker 1: be for you two to hook up and then, you know,

1703
01:15:42,240 --> 01:15:45,840
Speaker 1: maybe send some pictures accidentally, you know, and be a

1704
01:15:45,880 --> 01:15:46,920
Speaker 1: little little ketty about it.

1705
01:15:47,800 --> 01:15:48,920
Speaker 8: It's that crossed my mind.

1706
01:15:49,000 --> 01:15:51,479
Speaker 1: I was thinking about all the ways we could revenge.

1707
01:15:51,600 --> 01:15:53,280
Speaker 8: But man, I'm trying to be a better person.

1708
01:15:54,200 --> 01:15:58,920
Speaker 1: Why what exactly what good does that do? All right?

1709
01:15:58,960 --> 01:16:00,960
Speaker 1: Because by the way you were so I think, you know,

1710
01:16:01,439 --> 01:16:04,720
Speaker 1: and this wouldn't be wrong. You were wronged by being

1711
01:16:04,800 --> 01:16:07,040
Speaker 1: cheated on. This wouldn't be wrong, and it would be

1712
01:16:07,120 --> 01:16:10,960
Speaker 1: pretty good, you know, pretty sweet revenge. However, I assume

1713
01:16:11,000 --> 01:16:13,280
Speaker 1: you're not interested in going out with him now if

1714
01:16:13,320 --> 01:16:13,760
Speaker 1: we pay for.

1715
01:16:13,840 --> 01:16:16,559
Speaker 8: It, Mitch I think we could be friends and definitely

1716
01:16:16,760 --> 01:16:20,760
Speaker 8: plan retaliation. But yeah, I'm sorry if it hurts you

1717
01:16:20,840 --> 01:16:23,680
Speaker 8: in any way, I'm just not ready for gating. Thank you.

1718
01:16:23,840 --> 01:16:28,080
Speaker 11: Okay, Yeah, I don't want to. If someone's not emotionally available,

1719
01:16:28,120 --> 01:16:30,760
Speaker 11: I don't want to. You know, invention that either, you know,

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01:16:31,000 --> 01:16:33,920
Speaker 11: I understand. I guess. Just you know, it's okay if

1721
01:16:33,960 --> 01:16:36,320
Speaker 11: we stay in touch and you know, if you want

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01:16:36,360 --> 01:16:37,680
Speaker 11: to talk about it or whatever, I'm here for you.

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01:16:37,840 --> 01:16:39,400
Speaker 1: We have a great budget for this because we very

1724
01:16:39,479 --> 01:16:41,080
Speaker 1: rarely hooked people up. So if you guys want to

1725
01:16:41,080 --> 01:16:44,720
Speaker 1: go on a friend date and plan retaliation and hit

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01:16:44,800 --> 01:16:46,880
Speaker 1: us up, we'll pay for it. But thank you both

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01:16:46,880 --> 01:16:48,200
Speaker 1: for your time. That's to look to both of you.

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01:16:50,120 --> 01:16:52,840
Speaker 1: Calin's entertainment report is on The Freas Show.

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01:16:53,680 --> 01:16:56,479
Speaker 5: Wendy Williams ended up blocked in the memory unit of

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01:16:56,560 --> 01:16:59,719
Speaker 5: the assisted living facility that she's called home for eight months,

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01:17:00,120 --> 01:17:02,720
Speaker 5: but they say it's not because of her dementia diagnosis.

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01:17:02,800 --> 01:17:05,160
Speaker 2: It's because she got drunk in the building's restaurant.

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01:17:05,360 --> 01:17:08,200
Speaker 5: So an employee at the facility who's had numerous interactions

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01:17:08,240 --> 01:17:10,280
Speaker 5: with Wendy from the time she got there, said she

1735
01:17:10,439 --> 01:17:12,400
Speaker 5: was initially placed on the third floor of the building,

1736
01:17:12,400 --> 01:17:16,000
Speaker 5: which doesn't have any restrictions on a residence coming or going.

1737
01:17:16,360 --> 01:17:18,200
Speaker 5: But early on in her stay, she went up to

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01:17:18,280 --> 01:17:20,400
Speaker 5: the top floor restaurant bar for lunch and she got

1739
01:17:20,439 --> 01:17:23,040
Speaker 5: pretty hammered. She was there for a long time and

1740
01:17:23,080 --> 01:17:25,240
Speaker 5: when super advisors found out that they.

1741
01:17:25,560 --> 01:17:27,799
Speaker 2: Were serving her alcohol, they were furious.

1742
01:17:28,000 --> 01:17:30,040
Speaker 5: Shortly after that, they decided to move her to the

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01:17:30,080 --> 01:17:32,559
Speaker 5: fifth floor memory unit, where she would not have free

1744
01:17:32,600 --> 01:17:34,960
Speaker 5: access to the elevator. The reason is they didn't want

1745
01:17:35,000 --> 01:17:37,599
Speaker 5: her going up to the restaurant and getting drunk again.

1746
01:17:37,880 --> 01:17:40,720
Speaker 5: The problem was the memory unit was full, so while

1747
01:17:40,800 --> 01:17:44,120
Speaker 5: super advisors waited for a room to become available, they

1748
01:17:44,200 --> 01:17:46,599
Speaker 5: kept her on the third floor, but had employees stand

1749
01:17:46,640 --> 01:17:50,240
Speaker 5: guard outside her room so she couldn't wander upstairs. I

1750
01:17:50,280 --> 01:17:53,160
Speaker 5: guess the employees told Wendy that the restaurant was under

1751
01:17:53,200 --> 01:17:56,639
Speaker 5: construction and was not operating. Days later, a room became

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01:17:56,720 --> 01:17:59,120
Speaker 5: available on the fifth floor and she was moved.

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01:17:59,160 --> 01:18:00,000
Speaker 2: And she's been there from a mine.

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01:18:00,720 --> 01:18:04,320
Speaker 5: As you hear and that TMC documentary, she says that

1755
01:18:04,479 --> 01:18:07,360
Speaker 5: she only gets fresh air twice in thirty days, and

1756
01:18:08,000 --> 01:18:11,120
Speaker 5: she only gets let out for a dentist appointment, but

1757
01:18:11,240 --> 01:18:13,519
Speaker 5: there might have been a little bit more to the

1758
01:18:13,640 --> 01:18:17,519
Speaker 5: story than just they put her there again though she is.

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01:18:17,640 --> 01:18:20,120
Speaker 3: What No, I just believe this, and I've been saying this, like,

1760
01:18:20,200 --> 01:18:22,799
Speaker 3: I think Wendy deserves to be freed in some aspect,

1761
01:18:23,000 --> 01:18:25,960
Speaker 3: but I do believe she needs a sober coach if possible,

1762
01:18:26,360 --> 01:18:28,760
Speaker 3: because she has struggled with sobriety her entire career.

1763
01:18:28,920 --> 01:18:30,080
Speaker 2: She's been very vocal about that.

1764
01:18:30,560 --> 01:18:33,479
Speaker 3: And you don't just end up in these conservatives ships

1765
01:18:33,640 --> 01:18:35,920
Speaker 3: for no reason all the time.

1766
01:18:36,320 --> 01:18:38,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I agree with you too.

1767
01:18:38,120 --> 01:18:39,760
Speaker 5: I mean, she should certainly have been allowed to go

1768
01:18:39,800 --> 01:18:41,400
Speaker 5: to her dad's birthday, and I saw her in Miami,

1769
01:18:41,520 --> 01:18:42,200
Speaker 5: so she was there, right.

1770
01:18:42,320 --> 01:18:44,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's like finessing her way out of this conservative

1771
01:18:44,640 --> 01:18:45,719
Speaker 3: ship really quickly.

1772
01:18:46,360 --> 01:18:47,080
Speaker 2: Girl, do your thing.

1773
01:18:47,200 --> 01:18:49,360
Speaker 3: But I really hope that if anyone cares about her,

1774
01:18:49,400 --> 01:18:50,599
Speaker 3: they will get her a sober coach.

1775
01:18:50,760 --> 01:18:50,920
Speaker 8: Yeah.

1776
01:18:50,960 --> 01:18:52,800
Speaker 2: I mean, she certainly if she doesn't want to have

1777
01:18:52,840 --> 01:18:53,960
Speaker 2: those issues, needs to go to.

1778
01:18:54,320 --> 01:18:56,599
Speaker 5: Meetings and work a program and all of that stuff.

1779
01:18:56,600 --> 01:18:58,320
Speaker 5: So I agree with you, and I do know alcohol's

1780
01:18:58,320 --> 01:19:00,439
Speaker 5: been an issue, So there may be little more to

1781
01:19:00,520 --> 01:19:03,240
Speaker 5: the story, like Keiki said, than just what we heard

1782
01:19:04,240 --> 01:19:07,160
Speaker 5: Aubrea Paza paid tribute to her late husband, Jeff Baina

1783
01:19:07,320 --> 01:19:10,640
Speaker 5: during her SNL fifty the Anniversary special appearance. And this

1784
01:19:10,840 --> 01:19:13,640
Speaker 5: was her first appearance since he committed suicide, and I

1785
01:19:13,760 --> 01:19:15,840
Speaker 5: was honestly very shocked to see her, but happy that

1786
01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:19,560
Speaker 5: she agreed to do something like this. Now while introducing

1787
01:19:19,640 --> 01:19:23,080
Speaker 5: performers Miilee Cyrus and Brittany Howard on Sunday, she wore

1788
01:19:23,120 --> 01:19:26,280
Speaker 5: a pink tiight eyed shirt underneath a black blazer. And

1789
01:19:27,120 --> 01:19:29,360
Speaker 5: like I said, this was her first public appearance, and

1790
01:19:29,400 --> 01:19:32,120
Speaker 5: people were digging up old interviews and they found one

1791
01:19:32,120 --> 01:19:34,880
Speaker 5: when she was on the Drew Barrymore Show back in

1792
01:19:35,040 --> 01:19:36,360
Speaker 5: December of twenty twenty one.

1793
01:19:36,720 --> 01:19:38,200
Speaker 2: She was talking about her husband and said, we got

1794
01:19:38,240 --> 01:19:39,000
Speaker 2: married on a whim.

1795
01:19:39,080 --> 01:19:41,519
Speaker 5: We literally decided around five pm and got married at

1796
01:19:41,560 --> 01:19:44,479
Speaker 5: eight thirty. But she was telling a story saying, Jeff

1797
01:19:44,520 --> 01:19:47,400
Speaker 5: and I got really into ty dying during the quarantine,

1798
01:19:47,840 --> 01:19:49,680
Speaker 5: so I decided that Jeff and I were gonna wear

1799
01:19:49,720 --> 01:19:51,120
Speaker 5: tight ighted pajamas that he made for us.

1800
01:19:51,160 --> 01:19:51,640
Speaker 8: So on that.

1801
01:19:53,120 --> 01:19:56,400
Speaker 5: Appearance, she was wearing these pajamas. And now people think

1802
01:19:56,560 --> 01:19:59,160
Speaker 5: that she was paying tribute to her husband with one

1803
01:19:59,200 --> 01:20:02,799
Speaker 5: of the shirts he made during the pandemic under that blazer,

1804
01:20:02,800 --> 01:20:04,360
Speaker 5: which is, you know, a nice nod.

1805
01:20:04,439 --> 01:20:07,360
Speaker 2: But I can't imagine what she's going through. And like

1806
01:20:07,439 --> 01:20:07,920
Speaker 2: I said, I was.

1807
01:20:07,920 --> 01:20:09,760
Speaker 5: Surprised to see her, but happy that she's sort of

1808
01:20:10,200 --> 01:20:12,000
Speaker 5: getting out and doing things that maybe.

1809
01:20:11,960 --> 01:20:12,840
Speaker 2: Are good for her spirit.

1810
01:20:12,920 --> 01:20:15,680
Speaker 5: So there you go. On a letter note, Kim Kardashian

1811
01:20:15,720 --> 01:20:18,280
Speaker 5: and Fred you brought this up earlier and Pete Davidson

1812
01:20:18,400 --> 01:20:23,040
Speaker 5: ran into each other and it didn't seem like they

1813
01:20:23,120 --> 01:20:24,760
Speaker 5: were on the best of terms, like it was just

1814
01:20:24,960 --> 01:20:27,479
Speaker 5: very odd, just so quickly, like you date someone for

1815
01:20:27,560 --> 01:20:29,880
Speaker 5: so many months and then you see, how are you doing?

1816
01:20:29,960 --> 01:20:30,439
Speaker 2: So I don't know.

1817
01:20:30,800 --> 01:20:34,439
Speaker 5: She also talks about an ex during The Kardashians on

1818
01:20:34,560 --> 01:20:37,160
Speaker 5: Hulu and they bleep out the name, but it seems

1819
01:20:37,160 --> 01:20:38,840
Speaker 5: like it was one syllable, so I wonder if they

1820
01:20:38,880 --> 01:20:41,679
Speaker 5: aren't on great terms. She talked about how it didn't

1821
01:20:41,680 --> 01:20:44,479
Speaker 5: look like no on the and during her interview she

1822
01:20:44,600 --> 01:20:46,560
Speaker 5: was talking about how one of her exes didn't like

1823
01:20:46,640 --> 01:20:49,760
Speaker 5: how much she worked, and she said that that was

1824
01:20:49,880 --> 01:20:51,800
Speaker 5: the beginning of the end. And like I said, they

1825
01:20:51,880 --> 01:20:53,960
Speaker 5: bleeped out the name, but it was one syllable, So

1826
01:20:54,000 --> 01:20:57,040
Speaker 5: I'm wondering if it was old Pete and also so

1827
01:20:57,200 --> 01:21:00,360
Speaker 5: many people in the same room, Blake Lively, Justin beld Zy,

1828
01:21:01,400 --> 01:21:04,120
Speaker 5: just everyone, the fuse, the everything. I don't know how

1829
01:21:04,240 --> 01:21:06,679
Speaker 5: they organized that. They must have had a million producers

1830
01:21:06,720 --> 01:21:09,000
Speaker 5: on that special, but I don't know.

1831
01:21:09,120 --> 01:21:09,599
Speaker 2: It was amazing.

1832
01:21:09,680 --> 01:21:11,160
Speaker 5: The music was amazing. So if you missed it, I

1833
01:21:11,240 --> 01:21:13,200
Speaker 5: highly recommend watching it. By the way, if you missed

1834
01:21:13,439 --> 01:21:15,400
Speaker 5: any part of our show, The Fred Show, you can

1835
01:21:15,479 --> 01:21:17,840
Speaker 5: catch up on everything. It's all up there. Definitely gonna

1836
01:21:17,840 --> 01:21:21,439
Speaker 5: be Paulina Kiki karaoke. Fred's Fun Fact. Just get the

1837
01:21:21,479 --> 01:21:23,719
Speaker 5: free new and Improvedayheart Radio app and search The Fred

1838
01:21:23,760 --> 01:21:24,559
Speaker 5: Show on demand.

1839
01:21:24,680 --> 01:21:27,320
Speaker 1: It's a fun fact today. Let me see. Oh, it's

1840
01:21:27,320 --> 01:21:32,720
Speaker 1: about gambling. So this is for you, Kailin and only you. Okay, yes,

1841
01:21:32,880 --> 01:21:35,120
Speaker 1: you read the hotline thumb. Yeah, well I read this.

1842
01:21:35,280 --> 01:21:37,680
Speaker 1: I read this morning. That a lot of a lot

1843
01:21:37,720 --> 01:21:40,960
Speaker 1: of gambling addictions. The number I guess of. I'll get

1844
01:21:40,960 --> 01:21:42,760
Speaker 1: the story for you, just so I'm you know, so

1845
01:21:42,760 --> 01:21:46,600
Speaker 1: I'm factually accurate here like that? Well, I try to

1846
01:21:46,680 --> 01:21:48,920
Speaker 1: be factually accurate. Yeah, I don't know where it is.

1847
01:21:49,040 --> 01:21:51,040
Speaker 1: I have to find it. I have a deep well

1848
01:21:51,080 --> 01:21:52,760
Speaker 1: I looked well, I can't really talk and look at

1849
01:21:52,760 --> 01:21:57,960
Speaker 1: the same time. I'll find it later. So I have

1850
01:21:58,040 --> 01:22:00,120
Speaker 1: a deep ethical question for you. Eight five. I have

1851
01:22:00,160 --> 01:22:03,080
Speaker 1: five three five, and it's a Bagheera. By the way,

1852
01:22:03,640 --> 01:22:05,800
Speaker 1: was the name of the dog from Feels Good? I

1853
01:22:05,960 --> 01:22:08,479
Speaker 1: was saying it wrong. I believe it's Bagheera, and that

1854
01:22:08,720 --> 01:22:12,920
Speaker 1: is a the panther from the Jungle Book, which I

1855
01:22:13,000 --> 01:22:14,760
Speaker 1: haven't read the Jungle Book in a long time, so

1856
01:22:14,920 --> 01:22:16,880
Speaker 1: I didn't know that. But thank you for the million

1857
01:22:16,920 --> 01:22:19,559
Speaker 1: people that inform you in them My deep ethical question.

1858
01:22:20,680 --> 01:22:22,439
Speaker 1: So last week we were we were traveling. We're in

1859
01:22:22,479 --> 01:22:25,240
Speaker 1: Salt Lake City doing the show from there because our

1860
01:22:25,280 --> 01:22:28,479
Speaker 1: show is on there now, which is apparently unbannounced. Whoever

1861
01:22:28,520 --> 01:22:30,320
Speaker 1: won in Utah our show is on there now because

1862
01:22:30,680 --> 01:22:33,360
Speaker 1: we have zero well, we have two listeners, maybe three.

1863
01:22:33,960 --> 01:22:36,320
Speaker 1: We have we have Jerrem, we have Wendy, and then

1864
01:22:36,400 --> 01:22:39,240
Speaker 1: maybe one more. We're not sure who that person is anyway.

1865
01:22:40,280 --> 01:22:43,280
Speaker 1: So I get on the plane and the plane my

1866
01:22:43,439 --> 01:22:46,280
Speaker 1: seat was a two to two configuration, two seats on

1867
01:22:46,360 --> 01:22:49,600
Speaker 1: each side. Okay, So I get on the plane and

1868
01:22:49,720 --> 01:22:52,720
Speaker 1: there's a guy in the aisle and a woman in

1869
01:22:52,800 --> 01:22:56,960
Speaker 1: the other aisle, and I'm in the window okay, okay,

1870
01:22:57,000 --> 01:22:58,960
Speaker 1: you got me. So two aisles are filled in my

1871
01:22:59,160 --> 01:23:03,680
Speaker 1: row and two windows are open. Okay, okay, so she go.

1872
01:23:04,040 --> 01:23:06,880
Speaker 1: So I walk up and the woman goes, excuse me,

1873
01:23:07,080 --> 01:23:10,640
Speaker 1: I need you to sit here, and she points to

1874
01:23:10,760 --> 01:23:13,439
Speaker 1: the window across the way. I need you to She goes,

1875
01:23:13,479 --> 01:23:14,760
Speaker 1: excuse me, I'm gonna need you to sit here. I

1876
01:23:14,800 --> 01:23:17,880
Speaker 1: want to sit next to my husband. Oh girlfriend. And

1877
01:23:17,960 --> 01:23:20,439
Speaker 1: I look at her and I and I'm I'm halfway

1878
01:23:20,520 --> 01:23:22,719
Speaker 1: in my seat at this point. I'm putting my stuff away,

1879
01:23:22,720 --> 01:23:25,479
Speaker 1: I'm organizing. And I said, you want me to sit

1880
01:23:25,960 --> 01:23:27,600
Speaker 1: in the other window. She goes, no, no, no, no, no,

1881
01:23:27,760 --> 01:23:29,200
Speaker 1: you need to sit in the other aisle because the

1882
01:23:29,240 --> 01:23:31,200
Speaker 1: other window's not my seat. You need to sit in

1883
01:23:31,200 --> 01:23:32,680
Speaker 1: the aisle. I'm going to take the window so my

1884
01:23:32,760 --> 01:23:34,519
Speaker 1: husband and I can sit next to each other. And

1885
01:23:34,640 --> 01:23:40,320
Speaker 1: I looked at her and I said no. You literally

1886
01:23:40,320 --> 01:23:43,080
Speaker 1: said I said no. And she goes, well, what difference

1887
01:23:43,080 --> 01:23:46,280
Speaker 1: does it make? And I said, because I a week

1888
01:23:46,320 --> 01:23:49,840
Speaker 1: ago selected a window, I felt like a jerk. I'll

1889
01:23:49,880 --> 01:23:51,760
Speaker 1: be honest, but I'm like, I want to sit next

1890
01:23:51,800 --> 01:23:53,559
Speaker 1: to a window. I like sitting next to the window.

1891
01:23:53,600 --> 01:23:55,840
Speaker 1: I don't want to sit on the aisle and so,

1892
01:23:56,520 --> 01:23:58,519
Speaker 1: and you're telling me to go sit in someone else's

1893
01:23:58,560 --> 01:24:00,960
Speaker 1: seat entirely, like you're because if I if it had

1894
01:24:01,040 --> 01:24:03,479
Speaker 1: been a windows swap, I would have done it. Of course,

1895
01:24:03,760 --> 01:24:05,400
Speaker 1: I also can only hear out of one ear, so

1896
01:24:05,479 --> 01:24:08,320
Speaker 1: I purposefully put myself on the side of the airplane

1897
01:24:08,320 --> 01:24:10,759
Speaker 1: where I would be able to hear the flight attendant

1898
01:24:10,840 --> 01:24:14,200
Speaker 1: or whatever for whatever reason. So anyway, I'm like, but

1899
01:24:14,479 --> 01:24:16,120
Speaker 1: now you're telling me to go sit in someone else's

1900
01:24:16,120 --> 01:24:18,320
Speaker 1: seat entirely. So somebody was going to show up and

1901
01:24:18,400 --> 01:24:19,720
Speaker 1: be like, you're in my seat. I was gonna have

1902
01:24:19,760 --> 01:24:21,400
Speaker 1: to move to the aisle esus. So I said no,

1903
01:24:22,280 --> 01:24:24,080
Speaker 1: and she looked at me, and her husband looked at

1904
01:24:24,120 --> 01:24:26,320
Speaker 1: me and was like, I guess we'll just ask the

1905
01:24:26,439 --> 01:24:29,000
Speaker 1: other person. But you're gonna have to ask the person

1906
01:24:29,040 --> 01:24:32,519
Speaker 1: whose seat that is, because it's not my seat to move,

1907
01:24:33,080 --> 01:24:34,720
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So then anyway, someone came

1908
01:24:34,760 --> 01:24:37,160
Speaker 1: in and then they worked it out with the other

1909
01:24:37,200 --> 01:24:39,200
Speaker 1: person because the other person was like, yeah, fine, whatever,

1910
01:24:39,439 --> 01:24:41,679
Speaker 1: I don't care because they were swapping aisle for aisle,

1911
01:24:41,720 --> 01:24:44,640
Speaker 1: so it didn't matter. But I thought about this for

1912
01:24:44,720 --> 01:24:49,000
Speaker 1: three hours. I stewed on it a little bit. I'm like, no, no,

1913
01:24:50,040 --> 01:24:52,519
Speaker 1: like I chose this seat I got on the website,

1914
01:24:52,640 --> 01:24:56,080
Speaker 1: I chose this seat. I'm sorry that you didn't you

1915
01:24:56,160 --> 01:24:58,320
Speaker 1: know that you weren't that organized. Yes, Paulina, I'm sorry.

1916
01:24:58,320 --> 01:24:59,000
Speaker 2: I just have to read this to you.

1917
01:24:59,080 --> 01:24:59,280
Speaker 1: Friend.

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01:24:59,320 --> 01:25:00,280
Speaker 9: I want you to take this with you in the

1919
01:25:00,360 --> 01:25:02,800
Speaker 9: next time this happens. If it does hopefully doesn't. Your

1920
01:25:02,920 --> 01:25:04,800
Speaker 9: lack of planning is not my emergency.

1921
01:25:05,800 --> 01:25:06,760
Speaker 1: See like they.

1922
01:25:06,680 --> 01:25:07,439
Speaker 2: Didn't plan right.

1923
01:25:07,720 --> 01:25:09,160
Speaker 9: You want to be by each other till that's to

1924
01:25:09,280 --> 01:25:11,880
Speaker 9: us part or whatever. Then you buy seats. You physically

1925
01:25:11,920 --> 01:25:13,760
Speaker 9: go put your credit card in and you buy seats

1926
01:25:13,800 --> 01:25:16,360
Speaker 9: next to each other. That's not your problem now.

1927
01:25:16,439 --> 01:25:19,439
Speaker 1: The only the only time I might have been amy

1928
01:25:19,720 --> 01:25:22,679
Speaker 1: more amiable would have been if it were a child.

1929
01:25:24,080 --> 01:25:27,120
Speaker 1: But I will also make this argument. If you're traveling

1930
01:25:27,200 --> 01:25:30,400
Speaker 1: with your kid and you're booking a flight, then I

1931
01:25:30,400 --> 01:25:34,080
Speaker 1: would encourage you at that time to find seats together. Yes,

1932
01:25:34,240 --> 01:25:36,599
Speaker 1: And because you can do that, because when I booked

1933
01:25:36,640 --> 01:25:38,400
Speaker 1: the ticket, you know, a month ago, it gave me

1934
01:25:38,520 --> 01:25:40,880
Speaker 1: the option to choose seats. Yes, and so I did.

1935
01:25:41,720 --> 01:25:44,120
Speaker 16: But it wasn't even like a request. It was, Hey,

1936
01:25:44,120 --> 01:25:45,920
Speaker 16: you're going to sit over there. Now, did you tell

1937
01:25:45,960 --> 01:25:47,600
Speaker 16: them you're deaf in one ear? Because that is the

1938
01:25:47,680 --> 01:25:51,280
Speaker 16: perfect time. I wasn't going to drop that one on them,

1939
01:25:51,360 --> 01:25:53,880
Speaker 16: but you deserve, you have. You have to live with that.

1940
01:25:53,960 --> 01:25:55,759
Speaker 2: You're able to drop that. That is insane.

1941
01:25:56,400 --> 01:25:56,640
Speaker 11: Thank you.

1942
01:25:56,720 --> 01:25:58,320
Speaker 1: But I also don't think this person was at least

1943
01:25:58,360 --> 01:26:01,120
Speaker 1: bit concerned about about anything that.

1944
01:26:01,160 --> 01:26:01,760
Speaker 11: Had to do with me.

1945
01:26:01,960 --> 01:26:05,120
Speaker 2: Well, they might start once they realize you have a reason,

1946
01:26:05,240 --> 01:26:05,600
Speaker 2: but I'm like.

1947
01:26:05,600 --> 01:26:08,080
Speaker 1: Working out with the person whose seat you actually want, Like,

1948
01:26:08,160 --> 01:26:09,680
Speaker 1: you don't get to just put me, but.

1949
01:26:09,760 --> 01:26:12,160
Speaker 9: What possess is right to act someone to switch like

1950
01:26:12,640 --> 01:26:13,320
Speaker 9: before a flight.

1951
01:26:13,640 --> 01:26:15,200
Speaker 2: That is your poor planning.

1952
01:26:15,479 --> 01:26:19,080
Speaker 1: You know, I'm work. I figured somebody in here would

1953
01:26:19,120 --> 01:26:20,920
Speaker 1: be like, oh, come on, but good. I'm glad that

1954
01:26:20,960 --> 01:26:21,519
Speaker 1: you agree with me.

1955
01:26:21,760 --> 01:26:24,880
Speaker 5: It's a pressure too, because I was hungover. I want

1956
01:26:24,920 --> 01:26:26,760
Speaker 5: an aisle and you're asking me to switch and sit

1957
01:26:26,800 --> 01:26:27,240
Speaker 5: in the middle.

1958
01:26:27,720 --> 01:26:28,400
Speaker 2: I'm gonna yack.

1959
01:26:28,600 --> 01:26:31,479
Speaker 1: Okay, good, okay, that's just good. I thought when I

1960
01:26:31,560 --> 01:26:32,960
Speaker 1: was gonna bring it up that somebody would be like,

1961
01:26:33,040 --> 01:26:34,320
Speaker 1: oh man, really you can't do it.

1962
01:26:34,640 --> 01:26:38,120
Speaker 2: Just like iron, I'm proud of you for standing on business. Yes,

1963
01:26:38,320 --> 01:26:38,760
Speaker 2: you're proud of you.

1964
01:26:38,920 --> 01:26:41,680
Speaker 3: There's no way you wake up with the audacity that

1965
01:26:41,800 --> 01:26:44,200
Speaker 3: you're gonna tell me. You're not even gonna act me nicely,

1966
01:26:44,280 --> 01:26:47,240
Speaker 3: You're not even gonna offer me a drink before you say,

1967
01:26:48,040 --> 01:26:49,559
Speaker 3: you're just gonna sign my seat?

1968
01:26:50,080 --> 01:26:50,760
Speaker 1: Did I pay for?

1969
01:26:51,200 --> 01:26:55,120
Speaker 2: And I went to TSA absolutely absolutely.

1970
01:26:54,600 --> 01:26:58,160
Speaker 1: Next a Wild World too, because I got upgraded because

1971
01:26:58,160 --> 01:26:59,960
Speaker 1: of my credit card. So that's what I was doing

1972
01:27:00,040 --> 01:27:02,519
Speaker 1: in this world. And you know, I felt very, very fancy.

1973
01:27:02,600 --> 01:27:04,160
Speaker 1: I felt like, if you've seen that Key and Peel

1974
01:27:04,160 --> 01:27:06,360
Speaker 1: skit where he gets the Continental Breakfast, that's what I

1975
01:27:06,520 --> 01:27:08,920
Speaker 1: or he gets he gets upgraded to Premium Economy, That's

1976
01:27:08,920 --> 01:27:11,479
Speaker 1: what I felt like. But I you could also order

1977
01:27:11,600 --> 01:27:14,920
Speaker 1: food on the on the app, it like what meal

1978
01:27:15,040 --> 01:27:17,840
Speaker 1: do you want to eat? Okay, and it specifically said

1979
01:27:17,880 --> 01:27:20,439
Speaker 1: there was shrimp and grits available, but you had to

1980
01:27:20,560 --> 01:27:23,680
Speaker 1: pre order it if you wanted that, Otherwise you had

1981
01:27:23,720 --> 01:27:26,559
Speaker 1: two other options. So anyway, so the lady comes around

1982
01:27:26,880 --> 01:27:29,040
Speaker 1: and she starts with our row and the flight attendant

1983
01:27:29,040 --> 01:27:31,880
Speaker 1: and she says, hey, for whatever reason, I didn't get

1984
01:27:31,920 --> 01:27:33,880
Speaker 1: any of the pre orders, Like, I don't know what

1985
01:27:33,960 --> 01:27:36,360
Speaker 1: everybody pre ordered, but you can just tell me. And

1986
01:27:36,680 --> 01:27:38,479
Speaker 1: but we only have one of the shrimp and grits.

1987
01:27:38,520 --> 01:27:40,120
Speaker 1: So somebody here must have ordered that, and the woman

1988
01:27:40,200 --> 01:27:43,720
Speaker 1: next to me goes, I'll take that, And then the

1989
01:27:43,760 --> 01:27:46,120
Speaker 1: guy crossed the aisle goes, I pre ordered that, and

1990
01:27:46,240 --> 01:27:49,400
Speaker 1: she goes, well, she asked me first, No, it's like

1991
01:27:49,479 --> 01:27:52,640
Speaker 1: we don't do we live in a society people, And

1992
01:27:52,720 --> 01:27:54,320
Speaker 1: the flight atendant was like, well, you did have to

1993
01:27:54,360 --> 01:27:58,519
Speaker 1: pre order that, and you you clearly didn't, so really

1994
01:27:59,120 --> 01:28:00,760
Speaker 1: is it okay with you are? And the guys like,

1995
01:28:00,920 --> 01:28:03,639
Speaker 1: I guess, But again it's like people are so rude,

1996
01:28:03,760 --> 01:28:05,800
Speaker 1: Like when did people become so damn rude?

1997
01:28:06,280 --> 01:28:07,680
Speaker 3: This is why they get in duct taped to the

1998
01:28:07,720 --> 01:28:09,639
Speaker 3: seats on planes, because they would have went down.

1999
01:28:09,640 --> 01:28:11,040
Speaker 2: You took mushup and grades.

2000
01:28:14,400 --> 01:28:16,240
Speaker 1: You could get that duct tap Like you know what

2001
01:28:17,600 --> 01:28:20,920
Speaker 1: I've heard about these stories before? More Fread Show. Next,

2002
01:28:21,680 --> 01:28:25,720
Speaker 1: The Fread Show is on Fread's fun Fact Fred.

2003
01:28:33,360 --> 01:28:33,880
Speaker 4: So much?

2004
01:28:35,200 --> 01:28:39,360
Speaker 1: Did you know? Did you know that the opposite sides

2005
01:28:39,760 --> 01:28:42,960
Speaker 1: of a die, like of dice, the opposite sides of

2006
01:28:43,000 --> 01:28:48,120
Speaker 1: a single die will always add up to seven? Did

2007
01:28:48,160 --> 01:28:50,280
Speaker 1: you know that? So if you take a look, you'll

2008
01:28:50,280 --> 01:28:53,200
Speaker 1: see that like one in six are opposite sides, two

2009
01:28:53,320 --> 01:28:57,439
Speaker 1: and five are opposite sides three, and four and they

2010
01:28:57,520 --> 01:29:01,000
Speaker 1: all add up to seven. Yeah, and I'm sure you

2011
01:29:01,080 --> 01:29:03,280
Speaker 1: knew that as a gambler, Caitlin.

2012
01:29:03,160 --> 01:29:05,439
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, I have a Vegas trip coming up and

2013
01:29:05,479 --> 01:29:08,080
Speaker 5: I'm going to take that there, yeah, and bring home

2014
01:29:08,120 --> 01:29:08,479
Speaker 5: the money.

2015
01:29:08,560 --> 01:29:11,439
Speaker 1: So you're expanding from from just sports betting now to

2016
01:29:11,520 --> 01:29:14,439
Speaker 1: the casino games as well. I I yeah, And that's

2017
01:29:14,479 --> 01:29:17,719
Speaker 1: where that's the that's the gateway drug is the sports betting.

2018
01:29:17,720 --> 01:29:19,679
Speaker 1: And before long, you know you're in the high limit

2019
01:29:19,800 --> 01:29:22,240
Speaker 1: room and you don't have a you don't have like

2020
01:29:22,320 --> 01:29:27,840
Speaker 1: a watch anymore, like shooting dice on a corner, or

2021
01:29:27,880 --> 01:29:29,600
Speaker 1: once they kick you out of the casino. Then right now,

2022
01:29:29,600 --> 01:29:32,240
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, we gotta find other places that

2023
01:29:32,400 --> 01:29:38,519
Speaker 1: show next. Yeah, they talk better than they see. These

2024
01:29:38,640 --> 01:29:41,320
Speaker 1: are the radio blogs on the French cheg a writing

2025
01:29:41,360 --> 01:29:43,640
Speaker 1: and our diaries, except we say them aloud. We call

2026
01:29:43,680 --> 01:29:46,679
Speaker 1: them blogs kicking Yes, I go deer blog.

2027
01:29:46,920 --> 01:29:51,320
Speaker 3: So I'm over here having a slight panic attack. And

2028
01:29:51,520 --> 01:29:53,960
Speaker 3: I don't know if this happens to anyone else, but like,

2029
01:29:54,520 --> 01:29:58,759
Speaker 3: please stop texting me asking me if I'm free? Okay,

2030
01:29:59,320 --> 01:30:01,560
Speaker 3: don't I feel we should as a society, as a

2031
01:30:02,000 --> 01:30:04,479
Speaker 3: race and people, we should just not lead.

2032
01:30:04,320 --> 01:30:07,200
Speaker 17: With that, like people are texting you are you free?

2033
01:30:07,280 --> 01:30:09,120
Speaker 17: Like can I call you right now? It's my brother,

2034
01:30:09,479 --> 01:30:11,800
Speaker 17: just one person. Actually, nobody cares about a guys. But

2035
01:30:11,960 --> 01:30:16,960
Speaker 17: like when anyone just says are you free today? Or

2036
01:30:17,080 --> 01:30:18,679
Speaker 17: are you free at whatever?

2037
01:30:19,120 --> 01:30:21,680
Speaker 3: Like don't I can't answer that because I don't know

2038
01:30:22,160 --> 01:30:24,680
Speaker 3: how to respond because maybe I am, but depending on

2039
01:30:24,720 --> 01:30:25,560
Speaker 3: what you want, maybe I'm not.

2040
01:30:26,200 --> 01:30:31,000
Speaker 1: So like, tell me what you want first. This always

2041
01:30:31,080 --> 01:30:32,479
Speaker 1: I need to be able to make a decision on

2042
01:30:32,560 --> 01:30:33,400
Speaker 1: whether I'm free or not.

2043
01:30:33,720 --> 01:30:37,000
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, it's entrapment, Okay, I agree with you. Yeah,

2044
01:30:37,160 --> 01:30:38,759
Speaker 2: they just want you to say yes to whatever.

2045
01:30:39,000 --> 01:30:42,320
Speaker 1: But it's you're right because you're right because once I

2046
01:30:42,400 --> 01:30:44,840
Speaker 1: say I'm free, well then how do I get out

2047
01:30:44,880 --> 01:30:47,040
Speaker 1: of what whatever you serve me up? Then I guess

2048
01:30:47,080 --> 01:30:49,880
Speaker 1: I can do because because now if I tell you no,

2049
01:30:50,000 --> 01:30:52,439
Speaker 1: it's just simply I don't want to do it for you, right,

2050
01:30:52,640 --> 01:30:55,920
Speaker 1: I have no room for excuses. No, no, no, I'm

2051
01:30:55,960 --> 01:30:58,000
Speaker 1: with you. I agree, Nope, so I should be against

2052
01:30:58,000 --> 01:30:59,040
Speaker 1: the law. Honestly, thank you.

2053
01:30:59,320 --> 01:31:02,000
Speaker 3: We need to just completely stop doing this to each

2054
01:31:02,040 --> 01:31:05,360
Speaker 3: other because it's very rude. It's hurtful, you know, And

2055
01:31:05,439 --> 01:31:06,920
Speaker 3: now I got to figure out another way to lie

2056
01:31:06,960 --> 01:31:09,080
Speaker 3: to you because I don't want to do whatever you

2057
01:31:09,200 --> 01:31:09,800
Speaker 3: just asked me to do.

2058
01:31:10,240 --> 01:31:11,559
Speaker 2: I just feel frozen.

2059
01:31:11,640 --> 01:31:14,040
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm stuck the moment you say, are

2060
01:31:14,080 --> 01:31:16,160
Speaker 3: you free, because like maybe I am, maybe I'm not.

2061
01:31:16,560 --> 01:31:17,360
Speaker 2: Are you looking at me?

2062
01:31:17,640 --> 01:31:19,600
Speaker 3: I have this other thing that when people text me

2063
01:31:20,000 --> 01:31:22,639
Speaker 3: and I'm about to lie, I feel like they're looking

2064
01:31:23,080 --> 01:31:25,599
Speaker 3: like they're in the restaurant, They're in the room somewhere,

2065
01:31:25,760 --> 01:31:28,000
Speaker 3: watching me ignore their text and watching me come up

2066
01:31:28,040 --> 01:31:28,599
Speaker 3: with this story.

2067
01:31:29,280 --> 01:31:32,080
Speaker 1: It's bad now that step is crazy. Okay, the first

2068
01:31:32,120 --> 01:31:33,960
Speaker 1: part of it was normal, but the second part is

2069
01:31:34,000 --> 01:31:38,000
Speaker 1: that RelA and I'm a crazy person that.

2070
01:31:38,160 --> 01:31:38,479
Speaker 2: I don't know.

2071
01:31:38,600 --> 01:31:41,080
Speaker 3: I just feel like I don't know, Like people like, hey,

2072
01:31:41,400 --> 01:31:43,600
Speaker 3: are you at work? And I'm looking around like what

2073
01:31:43,760 --> 01:31:44,479
Speaker 3: if they're behind me?

2074
01:31:44,600 --> 01:31:44,800
Speaker 6: And I.

2075
01:31:46,640 --> 01:31:48,720
Speaker 4: Well, that's weird itself that they're behind you, asking you

2076
01:31:48,800 --> 01:31:49,280
Speaker 4: where you're at?

2077
01:31:49,640 --> 01:31:51,519
Speaker 1: Why am I texting you? If I can see you?

2078
01:31:51,920 --> 01:31:52,040
Speaker 14: Right?

2079
01:31:52,160 --> 01:31:55,719
Speaker 4: But like conversely, can we stop the lying responses like maybe?

2080
01:31:55,880 --> 01:31:58,320
Speaker 6: Like no?

2081
01:31:58,720 --> 01:31:59,840
Speaker 1: Like you being weird to me?

2082
01:32:00,040 --> 01:32:02,519
Speaker 4: He makes me act weird when I'm going to ask

2083
01:32:02,600 --> 01:32:04,120
Speaker 4: you a question. If I think I'm going to get

2084
01:32:04,120 --> 01:32:07,880
Speaker 4: a weirdo answer back right, So, like, maybe.

2085
01:32:07,960 --> 01:32:10,200
Speaker 2: Would you suggest are you suggesting that I tell the truth?

2086
01:32:10,320 --> 01:32:11,519
Speaker 1: I would say I don't want to do that.

2087
01:32:12,479 --> 01:32:16,719
Speaker 2: Jon. When you are something you you are.

2088
01:32:16,960 --> 01:32:19,439
Speaker 1: The king of skins, giving advice of things you wouldn't do.

2089
01:32:20,040 --> 01:32:22,000
Speaker 4: I'm not saying I would do it. I'm talking about

2090
01:32:22,040 --> 01:32:24,640
Speaker 4: thinking specifically. She's calling out her brother. I could call

2091
01:32:24,640 --> 01:32:27,679
Speaker 4: it thinking out. You should just say I don't want

2092
01:32:27,720 --> 01:32:29,479
Speaker 4: to do it instead of us going on this like

2093
01:32:29,680 --> 01:32:32,400
Speaker 4: long diet dribe of like maybe maybe I don't know.

2094
01:32:32,960 --> 01:32:34,680
Speaker 1: No, I want to know what you're asking me to

2095
01:32:34,800 --> 01:32:36,960
Speaker 1: do before I can tell you if I'm available for

2096
01:32:37,120 --> 01:32:37,519
Speaker 1: that thing.

2097
01:32:37,840 --> 01:32:39,559
Speaker 2: Yes, you just say you.

2098
01:32:39,560 --> 01:32:41,760
Speaker 1: Don't want to go because I don't know what I'm

2099
01:32:41,800 --> 01:32:42,400
Speaker 1: not going.

2100
01:32:42,240 --> 01:32:44,840
Speaker 4: To yet, But like, why don't you wait to hear

2101
01:32:44,840 --> 01:32:46,680
Speaker 4: the question and just answer, say you don't want to go?

2102
01:32:47,439 --> 01:32:48,000
Speaker 6: But you can't.

2103
01:32:48,120 --> 01:32:51,720
Speaker 3: The people pleaser in me can never say no just

2104
01:32:51,800 --> 01:32:54,000
Speaker 3: because it's my no is my no. I always have

2105
01:32:54,120 --> 01:32:56,840
Speaker 3: to have a great reason why I'm.

2106
01:32:56,720 --> 01:32:59,120
Speaker 4: Telling somebody, Like what you're saying is but I'm never

2107
01:32:59,160 --> 01:33:01,680
Speaker 4: gonna believe you. Whatever you tell me, I'm not going

2108
01:33:01,760 --> 01:33:03,800
Speaker 4: to think is true. What you're saying is rude. My

2109
01:33:03,960 --> 01:33:07,679
Speaker 4: lie is not rude. What you're saying to do, that's rude.

2110
01:33:07,720 --> 01:33:09,720
Speaker 4: But when I lie to you, that's not rude. God,

2111
01:33:09,800 --> 01:33:11,240
Speaker 4: that's just me protecting my peace.

2112
01:33:11,360 --> 01:33:13,800
Speaker 2: And we care about your feelings. We care about how

2113
01:33:13,840 --> 01:33:15,320
Speaker 2: you feel on the other end of that.

2114
01:33:15,520 --> 01:33:18,519
Speaker 1: No, right, you lie to me, Yeah, got it, it's okay.

2115
01:33:18,720 --> 01:33:18,920
Speaker 6: Yeah.

2116
01:33:19,040 --> 01:33:21,680
Speaker 2: But also conversely, we know that you're lying. Right, the

2117
01:33:21,720 --> 01:33:23,439
Speaker 2: people that are lying, We know you don't have a

2118
01:33:23,520 --> 01:33:24,719
Speaker 2: doctor's appointment at midnight.

2119
01:33:24,840 --> 01:33:28,439
Speaker 1: We know, don't. I don't know that. I often, I

2120
01:33:28,600 --> 01:33:32,160
Speaker 1: often schedule my doctors a play for midnight. They're easily get. Yeah,

2121
01:33:32,520 --> 01:33:34,880
Speaker 1: it's easy to get. That's even if it sounds that crazy.

2122
01:33:35,080 --> 01:33:37,559
Speaker 1: I immediately don't believe you, like, no matter what you say.

2123
01:33:40,360 --> 01:33:41,840
Speaker 4: So why you don't come up with the story, because

2124
01:33:41,840 --> 01:33:43,720
Speaker 4: I'm already not believing that that's rue?

2125
01:33:44,000 --> 01:33:47,040
Speaker 3: Actually, No, and you do this, Jayson, you come up

2126
01:33:47,040 --> 01:33:50,120
Speaker 3: with skits. If I do, no, doesn't it hurt somebody's

2127
01:33:50,160 --> 01:33:51,840
Speaker 3: feelings like I'm hurting you?

2128
01:33:52,040 --> 01:33:54,920
Speaker 4: No, I would rather, I would rather you say I

2129
01:33:55,000 --> 01:33:55,720
Speaker 4: don't want to do.

2130
01:33:55,800 --> 01:33:57,880
Speaker 13: This one time.

2131
01:33:58,320 --> 01:33:59,800
Speaker 2: A lie hurts a thousand times.

2132
01:34:01,200 --> 01:34:03,719
Speaker 4: If you don't know I'm lying, See, but Jason knows,

2133
01:34:04,200 --> 01:34:05,880
Speaker 4: I'm already assuming you're longing everything you see.

2134
01:34:07,120 --> 01:34:09,840
Speaker 1: You assume I lie to you, but everything I assume.

2135
01:34:09,840 --> 01:34:11,200
Speaker 4: If someone says they don't want to go, and they

2136
01:34:11,240 --> 01:34:13,360
Speaker 4: come up with this really long story, you're lying.

2137
01:34:13,400 --> 01:34:15,240
Speaker 1: You make Oh, I don't come up with the story.

2138
01:34:15,400 --> 01:34:17,080
Speaker 1: I just I'm not free to begin with. And then

2139
01:34:17,080 --> 01:34:19,200
Speaker 1: you don't even have to tell me anything else. You

2140
01:34:19,760 --> 01:34:21,720
Speaker 1: tell me what it is. I'm not free that way,

2141
01:34:21,720 --> 01:34:22,880
Speaker 1: I don't have to come up with a story. I

2142
01:34:23,000 --> 01:34:26,600
Speaker 1: am not free. I cannot attend end of story. I

2143
01:34:26,680 --> 01:34:28,759
Speaker 1: don't have to tell you instead of your freaking business.

2144
01:34:28,960 --> 01:34:30,840
Speaker 4: That would be a lie. I'm not That would be

2145
01:34:30,880 --> 01:34:34,120
Speaker 4: a lot. Good answer. No, you're not being free is

2146
01:34:34,160 --> 01:34:40,560
Speaker 4: a lot. We're doing nothing, you know what, and that

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Speaker 4: takes a lot of my concentration. Okay, so I'm not

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Speaker 4: available to you at that time.

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Speaker 1: Friend show