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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl Lex Peet.

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Speaker 2: And it's your girls right in the call, and you

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Speaker 2: are tuned in to another episode of poor Minds.

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Speaker 1: Period Pool usually do the line, oh.

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Speaker 2: We're a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts. But I guess

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Speaker 2: today I was feeling like period pool.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, today was a period Pool moment. What's been going on, y'all?

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Speaker 1: The usual for us this weekend is my birthday.

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Speaker 2: Hey, I'll be turning thirty this Saturday, So make sure

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Speaker 2: y'all get thirty. Tell me happy birthday and send me

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Speaker 2: all the love.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and we're going on a trip. We are going

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Speaker 1: on the trip. Make sure y'all stay tuned.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, y'all stay tuned to our pages. And just like

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Speaker 2: all our posts, you know what I'm saying. We turning

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Speaker 2: up for the Big three. Oh, we about to do it.

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Speaker 2: And y'all we're drinking today to turn out for my birthday.

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Speaker 2: And we are not drinking wine. Actually, the we're gonna

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Speaker 2: switch slip the program. I think thirty is gonna be

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Speaker 2: a different year for you. There is gonna be super

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Speaker 2: different because we didn't swee slip the program.

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Speaker 1: We over here drinking bell air Rose, We got.

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Speaker 2: The bear Rose on dick. You know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 2: shout out to Rose, send us this bottle himself one. Okay,

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Speaker 2: let's get us to the topic to Okay, So this week,

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Speaker 2: you know, I was scrolling on Instagram and I've seen

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Speaker 2: a post by somebody and they were basically just saying

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Speaker 2: that women post they asked and ATDs and all this

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Speaker 2: shit on Instagram, basically advertising theyself in that way and

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Speaker 2: then get upset when men want to fuck or when

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Speaker 2: all men want is six Initially when trying to approach

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Speaker 2: them or trying to get to know them, they trying

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Speaker 2: to commit them, like oh I just want to have

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Speaker 2: sex with these women, and a lot of women I

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Speaker 2: guess be fed up by you. But it's like, okay,

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Speaker 2: you're but that's not what you're displaying on your Instagram.

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Speaker 2: And basically was just saying like, okay, when Bentley come

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Speaker 2: out with a new truck or Roseworth's come out with

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Speaker 2: a new car, of course they gonna be putting ads out,

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Speaker 2: they gonna be doing commercials all of these stuff because

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Speaker 2: they want people to see it and they want niggas

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Speaker 2: to want to buy the sheet. So it's like if

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Speaker 2: you don't want niggas to wanna fuck. Now, why the

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Speaker 2: fuck are you posting your ass and your TDS sheet

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Speaker 2: all the time?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so this is how I feel about it.

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Speaker 2: Now. This is excluding people who have like OnlyFans accounts,

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Speaker 2: girls that are dancers, because obviously they are doing it

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Speaker 2: so people can come see them.

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Speaker 1: It's an advertisement.

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Speaker 2: But me, somebody who posts sexy pictures if I'm on

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Speaker 2: vacation and I'm in a bikini, or even if I'm

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Speaker 2: in some lingerie and I'm feeling sexy about myself, this

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Speaker 2: has nothing to do with men. I'm not advertising myself

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Speaker 2: for you because I can't be bought. First of all,

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Speaker 2: so if you everybody has the prible I mean, I mean, well,

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Speaker 2: I'm not if somebody solicits me and comes in my

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Speaker 2: DMS and like, hey, I want to fuck for this

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Speaker 2: amount of money, No, I cannot be bought. Like yo.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes a nigga that I'm like, oh, I don't know

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Speaker 2: if I want to go out on a date with

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Speaker 2: him or not.

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Speaker 1: He can come to it's me.

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Speaker 2: You know, there's ways to convince me to go out

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Speaker 2: on the day with you, yess right, But to be

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Speaker 2: flat out oh, there's a price on that pussy.

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Speaker 1: I want to buy her. No, I cannot be bought.

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Speaker 1: I'm not a.

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Speaker 2: Sex worker for a reason, you know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 2: Because that's not my lane. So I feel like I

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Speaker 2: can't speak for other women. But when I'm speaking for myself,

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Speaker 2: I'm not advertising myself for men to pick me.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I agree with you.

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Speaker 2: I mean cause I feel like I have definitely posted

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Speaker 2: provocative pictures in the past and because it gets the

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Speaker 1: It does get the people going.

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Speaker 2: But then also too, why I can't just be feeling

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Speaker 2: post something on my excuse me if I post something

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Speaker 2: on my Instagram. I posted it because I think it's

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Speaker 2: a nice picture. It's not that I'm necessarily trying to

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Speaker 2: grab yo assensu or get you to want to fuck me,

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Speaker 2: because have the niggas w be heating the dms and

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Speaker 2: be trying to fuck I wouldn't fuck y'all in no

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Speaker 2: way right, And I think what people need to understand.

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Speaker 2: But I do think it needs to be a level

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Speaker 2: posted a picture of me and a thonge, that don't

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Speaker 2: mean that I'm easy to fuck, And that don't mean

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Speaker 2: that you can talk to me disrespetfully.

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Speaker 1: It's a human body.

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Speaker 2: Because if you see me on the beach, I guarantee

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Speaker 2: you you're not gonna walk up to me talking about hey,

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Speaker 2: let me fuck, but you're gonna slide on my DM

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Speaker 2: saying because you feel some type of way nah now

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Speaker 2: because you know that you don't You know that I'm not,

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Speaker 2: don't you. We don't really have access to each other. Right,

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Speaker 2: You could just say whatever you want because oh, ain't

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Speaker 1: Way, right? But I feel like disrespect is disrespect.

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Speaker 2: If you gonna if you don't have that same energy

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Speaker 2: to my face, don't have that same energy online, that's

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Speaker 2: fucking corneous.

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Speaker 1: Fuck.

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Speaker 2: And like I said, anytime I post a picture, it's

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Speaker 2: because it's what I like and I'm feeling good about myself.

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Speaker 2: Everybody on Instagram, I feel like you want to show

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Speaker 2: your best side of yourself.

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Speaker 1: Instagram is to show.

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Speaker 2: The highlights of your life and things that are happy

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Speaker 1: My ass is my big side, right And that's what

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Speaker 1: makes you feel good. I mean, I'm not gonna lie, bitch.

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Speaker 1: I paid a pretty penny for this ass.

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Speaker 2: If y'all think about the show it, but this ass

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Speaker 2: was not for how I talk about my TV's talk

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Speaker 2: about my TVs. THEYD be like, well, you don't never

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Speaker 2: wear bras, bitch, because I paid to not be able

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Speaker 2: to wear a bra to have.

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Speaker 1: My TV sit up like these. But I feel like

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Speaker 1: the same. That is like the same thing.

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Speaker 2: As far as like people saying, oh, if women don't

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Speaker 2: want to get raped, they need to put some clothes on. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's the same fucking thing. No, nigga, keep your fucking

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Speaker 2: comments to yourself or approach me like I'm a fucking

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Speaker 2: woman and control y'all fucking hormones.

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Speaker 1: Why is horny?

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Speaker 2: Like I said, I say this every week. Why the

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Speaker 2: fuck are y'all so horny? You ain't never seen an

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Speaker 2: if I got an only fans account, you know, if

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying disrespect ladies with the only fans account,

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Speaker 2: but go subscribe to they're only fans. There's plenty of

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Speaker 2: or something that you have to pay for, don't come.

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Speaker 2: I hate when y'all do this, honestly, it's a lot

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Speaker 2: of y'all to be sliding my dms telling me to

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Speaker 2: make only fans pages. Okay, ha ha, it was funny

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Speaker 2: like the first few times. But I'm not a set

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Speaker 2: nothing against sex worker. But y'all know what I do.

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Speaker 2: I work at the radio station, I have a podcast.

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Speaker 2: I had a job.

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Speaker 1: But the point is that's insult. That's part of her

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Speaker 2: But I'm just saying like, I just feel like, I

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Speaker 2: don't know. I feel like men are so like that.

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Speaker 2: Not only that, but they think that we do everything

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Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all something. I could walk out. I

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Speaker 1: ain't got no makeup on.

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Speaker 2: I can walk outside right now, and I'm getting hit

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Speaker 2: on period. I don't have to go above and beyond

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Speaker 2: to get y'all's attention. Yes, yes, because that's how these

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Speaker 2: what y'all fail to realize is we don't have to

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Speaker 1: So to sit here and say.

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Speaker 2: Oh, we trying to advertise and we get mad when

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Speaker 2: I'm not trying to advertise.

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Speaker 1: Shit, I'm on the beach and I look good.

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Speaker 2: But also the person who said it, you know, I

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Speaker 2: But it's not just him that thinks that. It's a

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Speaker 2: And it's a lot of men that slide in your

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Speaker 2: you don't want this kind of attention, you need to

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Speaker 2: cover up. Why am I supposed to be wearing blue

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Speaker 2: jeans on the beach? What you want me to do?

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Speaker 2: I'm young, I have a nice body, but this is

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Speaker 2: not for you. I'm showing this because I'm happy with

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Speaker 2: I'm enjoying my life.

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Speaker 1: So like Nigga, say this, and I don't say this.

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Speaker 1: I say this all the fucking time.

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Speaker 2: Like guys will get on social media and preach all

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Speaker 2: be wanting to fuck with exactly. And I'm not talking

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Speaker 2: this and women who do that, But you're trying to

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Speaker 2: date me, right, and you actually really really like me, right,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, So what's t I just think it's corny.

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Speaker 2: I think it's corny how men just try to police

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Speaker 2: industry is a billion dollar industry because of y'all being

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Speaker 2: so fucking horny. But there's women there for that, and

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Speaker 2: the women who aren't doing that leave them alone. If

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Speaker 2: you want to see content like that or you want

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Speaker 2: to talk to people, there's literally women who you can

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Speaker 2: pay you can have conversations with them like that. Seriously,

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Speaker 2: Like there's women who will let you call them a

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Speaker 2: bitch or do whatever.

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Speaker 1: You want to do whatever.

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Speaker 2: Phantasy you want to live out though, Let you do that,

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Speaker 2: but stop talking to women just because they're enjoying theirselves

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Speaker 2: or they like to post sexy pictures on the Internet.

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Speaker 2: That does not mean you can send us a DM

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Speaker 2: talking about, Hey, I want to fuck you in your

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Speaker 2: ass and hear you call me daddy.

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Speaker 1: No nigga, Yeah, niggas are fucking mad, weird. I just

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Speaker 1: have to learn not to cross. That's some fucking yeah,

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Speaker 1: some couth. It's just the line that you just don't

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Speaker 1: need to cross. That's just period. Okay, So let us

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Speaker 1: know how y'all feel about Instagram.

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Speaker 2: Do y'all feel like when girls post sexy pictures they're

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Speaker 2: advertising themselves for.

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Speaker 1: I like just to get to know people. I'm single,

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Speaker 2: So then he's like, we're still on for today. I'm like, yeah, well,

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Speaker 2: This is strike one. He was like, oh, have you

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Speaker 2: if you live in Atlanta, you probably know about kabab Lin.

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Speaker 2: It's like a local little hookahspot. The food is good,

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Speaker 1: For our first day.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was very like and it's for him to

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Speaker 1: That was kind of like, okay, that was strike one.

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Speaker 2: Then I was like, I've been to kabab Land, like

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Speaker 1: And he was like, well, where.

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Speaker 2: just kind of like, well, whenever you figure out what

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Speaker 2: suggesting a club. Then he just suggested that his friend

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So it was just discombobulated and I was annoyed.

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Speaker 2: Then he hit me up like two days ago and

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Speaker 1: It was like nine o'clock at night. I'm old as fuck,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, if you want to go on a date

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Speaker 2: and it needs to be planned out, especially for the

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Speaker 2: first day. If you're asking me out. I don't want

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Speaker 2: ask me what I want to eat. I like men

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Speaker 2: because I just feel like, if you're asking me out,

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Speaker 2: you should have a date planned. Yeah, So I just

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Speaker 2: want to know how y'all feel about that or how

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Speaker 1: I definitely think it's weird.

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Speaker 2: I feel like if you're going to take me on

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Speaker 2: if you're trying to take me on a date or

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Speaker 2: any woman for that matter, you're trying to court somebody,

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Speaker 1: So if you're trying to.

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Speaker 2: Take me on to day and you're telling me you're

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Speaker 1: I ain't never heard of.

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Speaker 2: Like maybe he did think that you had never heard

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Speaker 2: of Kabiblin, but I don't see how.

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Speaker 1: But Caabablin is not a foodie place, right.

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Speaker 2: You don't go to Cabbala and be like, Okay, I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna get this appetizer, you get this, I'm gonna get

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Speaker 2: this ANDREI get these drinks. About the menu itself, it's

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Speaker 2: So I definitely feel like, yeah, if you're trying to

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Speaker 2: I net where you have to understand what I'm going

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Speaker 2: to be expecting when we go on today. And yeah,

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Speaker 2: I just feel like you also just need to have

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Speaker 2: things planned out. Like what happened to niggas being chivalry? Right?

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Speaker 2: It's not chivalrius anymore? Why nigga's not chivalrius anymore? Like

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Speaker 2: why do y'all not plan whole little excursions for us

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Speaker 2: to go on? Right?

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Speaker 1: Because but you have to realize the guy guy? But

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Speaker 2: I just was recently seeing somebody. Remember I told you

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Speaker 2: his name was date Master. Y'all remember date Master. He

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Speaker 2: used to take me on amazing dates. I had a

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Speaker 2: nigga from out of town that I just went on

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Speaker 2: a day on. He took me on an amazing date,

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Speaker 2: not even from here. You know what I'm saying, y'all.

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Speaker 2: I have another a new babe.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call.

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Speaker 2: Him six eleven babe, because he's six eleven day.

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Speaker 1: We went on a cute little date. You know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. It's like, I feel like on a first date.

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Speaker 2: I should not have to plan the fucking day. Why

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Speaker 2: are you being like, oh, where you want to go?

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Speaker 2: I'm not a picky eater. I'm a big bitch.

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Speaker 1: I eat everything. Yeah, I'm gonna find something on the menu.

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Speaker 2: Because if you want to talk about a foodie bitch,

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Speaker 2: I'm a foodie because.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna try anything.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna try anything once there's nowhere you're gonna take

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Speaker 2: me where I'm not gonna find at least one thing

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Speaker 1: Because that's the kind of person I am.

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Speaker 2: I'm not that closed minded person that's like, oh I

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Speaker 1: That's not me.

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Speaker 2: So I feel like men just need to put a

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Speaker 2: little more effort, especially if you are chasing me, like

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Speaker 2: you approached me and asked me for my number, So

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Speaker 2: why are you be like, oh, let's hang And then

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Speaker 2: he try to like be shady and was like, oh, well,

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Speaker 2: I'm a spontaneous person.

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Speaker 1: Well, you know what I'm not.

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Speaker 2: It's nine o'clock at night. Do you know how long

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Speaker 2: it takes me to get ready? I mean, who's trying

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Speaker 1: He tried to offer to take me to oak y'all.

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Speaker 2: That's that's what I'm referring to, Like, who tries to

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Speaker 2: I was trying to do something different, babies, since that

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Speaker 1: That's some regular digulum every day dumb chit.

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Speaker 2: And don't get me wrong, I do like to go

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Speaker 2: that's fun.

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Speaker 1: But that's somebody that I've been dating and we've been together.

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Speaker 1: I think going to the club it's cool too.

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Speaker 2: But like you said, after we've been dating, after we've

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Speaker 2: to the But we haven't even had a conversation. I

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Speaker 2: don't know how old you are. I don't even know

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Speaker 2: I don't know where you're from. We get the basics

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Speaker 2: if I even like you? Cause then it's like if

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Speaker 2: spend some money because me and my girl want some hookah,

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Speaker 2: We want our own bottle of champagne. So why would

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Speaker 2: you just take me on a date that'll be very

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Speaker 2: much cheaper for you since y'all always want to complain

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Speaker 1: So I don't know. I just was really really turned off.

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Speaker 2: And now I'm to the point to where he texts

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Speaker 1: At this point, I'm trying to think, have I ever

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Speaker 2: Like, have I ever had a guy try to take

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't. I won't say it was inappropriate. It

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Speaker 2: But to me, Cabobland, that's inappropriate when you talking about

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Cabbablin is not inappropriate for a first date, but it

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Speaker 2: Like I'm trying to think, have I ever been on

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Speaker 1: Not being all of that. And that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I remember a nigga to me on

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Speaker 2: went on. Yeah, it was when I had first moved

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Speaker 2: But honestly, I'm not even saying I'm not even saying

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Speaker 1: We're gonna do happy hour. But cool.

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Speaker 2: But see what the dude that took me on a

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Speaker 2: he had to do that because of how he presented

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Speaker 1: That's another thing that niggas just be needing to understand.

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Speaker 2: If you're not really about that and you ain't really

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Speaker 2: man who is about their life when you unit because

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Speaker 2: it's okay to just be a regular dude, right, and

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Speaker 2: don't nobody want to be regular to these days. That's

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Speaker 2: another thing. I mean, I know this is getting off topic,

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Speaker 2: what's wrong with I know that we always say we

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Speaker 1: I don't say that.

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Speaker 2: I say that I don't like regular niggas because I don't.

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Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, I just feel like,

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Speaker 1: What's wrong with I mean too like regularly? Right, we're regular?

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Speaker 2: I for sure like regular guys, Like I don't see

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Speaker 2: And I just feel like for the first day, I

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Speaker 2: you should go out of your way because that's showing

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Speaker 2: me effort, Like give me an address, tell me if

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Speaker 2: it's casual, tell me do I need to dress up?

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Speaker 1: And I'm gonna show up.

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Speaker 2: I don't wanna be looking up stuff because I feel

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Speaker 1: I love going to places I've never been.

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Speaker 2: So if you're asking me, oh, where do you wanna go,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, well, let me look up something and

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Speaker 2: see somewhere.

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Speaker 1: I've never been.

437
00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:44,080
Speaker 2: And then I feel like the pressure is on me. Yeah,

438
00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:45,840
Speaker 2: why should the pressure be on me for the first

439
00:17:45,920 --> 00:17:48,120
Speaker 2: day when I didn't come after you?

440
00:17:48,440 --> 00:17:49,160
Speaker 1: I hate that too.

441
00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:51,720
Speaker 2: I definitely don't like when guys tell me figure out

442
00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:53,879
Speaker 2: where you wanna go? My nigga, you supposed to be

443
00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:56,000
Speaker 2: taking me on a day. Why do I need to

444
00:17:56,000 --> 00:17:59,679
Speaker 2: figure out where I wanna go? Yeah? The thun out

445
00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:02,960
Speaker 2: the price and this next topic kind of goes hand

446
00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:05,040
Speaker 2: in hand because I really just kind.

447
00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:08,320
Speaker 1: Of want to rent for a second, y'all. So let

448
00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:09,880
Speaker 1: us y'all.

449
00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:12,760
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I had a long fucking week, y'all, so

450
00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:14,600
Speaker 2: let us know how y'all feel about going on a

451
00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:16,520
Speaker 2: first date with a guy and him kind of having

452
00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:19,440
Speaker 2: nothing planned and him just kind of wanted to be spontaneous.

453
00:18:19,680 --> 00:18:21,359
Speaker 1: Now, before I move on to the next topic, let

454
00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:22,000
Speaker 1: me add this.

455
00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:24,800
Speaker 2: If y'all are on the day and he already planned

456
00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:26,560
Speaker 2: out like the first half of the day, and then

457
00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:29,600
Speaker 2: y'all don't want the date to end and he's asking, oh, well,

458
00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:32,760
Speaker 2: where can we go next, that's different because like I

459
00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:35,840
Speaker 2: went on a date, and I went on a date

460
00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:37,679
Speaker 2: and we had an amazing dinner, and he was like, well,

461
00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:39,080
Speaker 2: what do you want to do next, and then we

462
00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:41,639
Speaker 2: went to Instant Blue because I suggested Instant Blue.

463
00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:42,760
Speaker 1: And we had an amazing time.

464
00:18:43,400 --> 00:18:45,520
Speaker 2: But that's what that was because we didn't want the

465
00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:46,880
Speaker 2: date to end, you know what I'm saying.

466
00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:48,119
Speaker 1: So that's different.

467
00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:50,560
Speaker 2: Like he had the first part of the date planned out,

468
00:18:50,560 --> 00:18:52,600
Speaker 2: but we just didn't expect to be enjoying each other's

469
00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:53,480
Speaker 2: company like we did.

470
00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:54,920
Speaker 1: So that's different.

471
00:18:55,080 --> 00:18:58,240
Speaker 2: So if you want some little after our spots, you know,

472
00:18:58,280 --> 00:19:02,280
Speaker 2: I can always suggest something like that. So let me

473
00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:04,720
Speaker 2: get on to the next topic. I guess we're kind

474
00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:05,919
Speaker 2: of man bashing today.

475
00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:11,280
Speaker 1: What else is new? We don't man bash all man

476
00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:12,359
Speaker 1: bash frequently.

477
00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:19,520
Speaker 2: Okay, So yeah, so I have this person. Actually, let

478
00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:21,200
Speaker 2: me just not make this too personal because I'm a

479
00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:24,240
Speaker 2: little tipsy now, y'all, I'm about to pour my mind, bitch,

480
00:19:24,240 --> 00:19:28,040
Speaker 2: I'm about to pour my motherfucking mind hoes, So.

481
00:19:29,840 --> 00:19:33,399
Speaker 1: I'm dead. Now you need to start calling the x

482
00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:37,000
Speaker 1: dre and licks stick. Oh, y'all, mother, y'r mind see

483
00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:37,960
Speaker 1: your mind bitch.

484
00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:43,240
Speaker 2: So y'all, let me just tell y'all, I hate when

485
00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:46,879
Speaker 2: I see men talk about how they're a gentleman and

486
00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:49,400
Speaker 2: how they're this and they're that, and they're such good

487
00:19:49,440 --> 00:19:52,159
Speaker 2: people and blah blah blah, and they don't know how

488
00:19:52,440 --> 00:19:54,280
Speaker 2: why they don't have a good person in their life.

489
00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:56,439
Speaker 2: And then it's like you hang out with this person

490
00:19:56,600 --> 00:19:59,480
Speaker 2: or you be around this person and they're just a

491
00:19:59,520 --> 00:20:03,639
Speaker 2: complete asshole. You niggas are not gentlemen. Y'all want to

492
00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:06,200
Speaker 2: talk about, Oh I'm a good person, I'm a good guy.

493
00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:09,520
Speaker 1: No the fuck you not not at all. No, you're not.

494
00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:14,359
Speaker 2: Like I had a situation recently were I was just

495
00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:17,359
Speaker 2: kind of left high and dry by somebody I thought

496
00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:21,080
Speaker 2: I was my friend, left like phone dying, didn't know

497
00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:24,440
Speaker 2: how I was gonna get a home type shit, and

498
00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:26,399
Speaker 2: it was just really weird and petty, like I almost

499
00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:29,640
Speaker 2: got left in the club, almost got left like somewhere else.

500
00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:30,719
Speaker 1: It was just really weird.

501
00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:34,200
Speaker 2: And then it's just like, man, then you want to

502
00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:35,880
Speaker 2: act like, oh, what's going on?

503
00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:39,359
Speaker 1: Hey, are you men at me? Like niggas just aren't

504
00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:40,680
Speaker 1: gentlemen day night.

505
00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:44,240
Speaker 2: So I don't understand why guys like y'all try to

506
00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:47,320
Speaker 2: act like y'all are such good good men, and y'all

507
00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:49,720
Speaker 2: really don't be a lot of the time. Now I'm

508
00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:52,920
Speaker 2: not saying all I'm not saying all men are like this,

509
00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:57,040
Speaker 2: but it's like seven times out of ten, you niggas

510
00:20:57,040 --> 00:21:01,199
Speaker 2: are not opening the doors. The doors getting open. His

511
00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:05,560
Speaker 2: friend's helping me out the car the vehicle. Why why

512
00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:07,120
Speaker 2: are you not helping me out the car? I got

513
00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:08,919
Speaker 2: on some sixty chills? Why are you not letting me

514
00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:09,360
Speaker 2: out the car?

515
00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:09,760
Speaker 3: Like?

516
00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:12,080
Speaker 1: Why aren't you helping me? You know what I'm saying,

517
00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:14,159
Speaker 1: like other people opening the door for me.

518
00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:16,240
Speaker 2: Now, I'm not saying the red carpet has to be

519
00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:19,200
Speaker 2: rolled out for me, But I just I'm used to

520
00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:21,879
Speaker 2: getting treated a certain way, so I don't understand, like

521
00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:23,320
Speaker 2: all of these.

522
00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:26,560
Speaker 1: Topics combined, why do y'all make it like rocket science?

523
00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:28,920
Speaker 2: Right? Why is it so hard to make a woman

524
00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:32,400
Speaker 2: feel special for one night? I'm not saying we gotta

525
00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:35,000
Speaker 2: go spend two hundred three, four hundred dollars. We can

526
00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:38,080
Speaker 2: go to a happy hour, like I was telling Marine

527
00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:39,280
Speaker 2: at the radio station today.

528
00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:41,400
Speaker 1: One I went on a date with a guy.

529
00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:43,679
Speaker 2: We went to a happy hour, five dollar drinks. He

530
00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:47,880
Speaker 2: maybe spent thirty dollars, maybe another fifteen dollars on the hookah.

531
00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:50,000
Speaker 2: And that was our date. And he was such a

532
00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:54,000
Speaker 2: gentleman and we had a great time. Yeah, he's opening doors.

533
00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:56,120
Speaker 2: He said, meet me up here, or do you want

534
00:21:56,119 --> 00:21:58,280
Speaker 2: me to come get you? Or do you want me

535
00:21:58,320 --> 00:21:59,359
Speaker 2: to call you an uber?

536
00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:01,520
Speaker 1: You know I'm saying, it's just a.

537
00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:03,200
Speaker 2: Little I swear to God, if I was a nigga,

538
00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:05,560
Speaker 2: I would have so much fucking gang bitch, I would

539
00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:08,359
Speaker 2: be fucking all the hose. I would definitely be fucking

540
00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:09,800
Speaker 2: all the hose if I was a nigga, I ain't

541
00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:10,920
Speaker 2: gonna cause it's so easy.

542
00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:14,280
Speaker 1: It's really easy to like, it's so special. It's so

543
00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:15,960
Speaker 1: easy to make a woman feel special.

544
00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:18,360
Speaker 2: You know how much it is just to get some

545
00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:21,600
Speaker 2: ten dollar roses from Kroger and just be like, I

546
00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:23,800
Speaker 2: just felt like giving me something just to put in

547
00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:26,240
Speaker 2: your kitchen. And dude's gonna be realizing how little stuff

548
00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:28,959
Speaker 2: like that really make women feel important, right and just

549
00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:30,600
Speaker 2: like you really like me, you know what I mean.

550
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:33,720
Speaker 1: It's just little little effort, even seeing in little texts.

551
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:34,880
Speaker 1: Y'all don't even do shit.

552
00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:37,679
Speaker 2: Like no, not even that. No more like remember the

553
00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:39,040
Speaker 2: other dude I used to talk to for.

554
00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:41,280
Speaker 1: A little bit. Oh, I have a list, But he

555
00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:42,560
Speaker 1: used to call me morn.

556
00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:44,600
Speaker 2: He used to call me every morning, like before I

557
00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:46,040
Speaker 2: went to work, and I used to love it because

558
00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 2: it would be like he would wake me.

559
00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:49,399
Speaker 1: Up, we would have a good conversation in the morning.

560
00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:52,840
Speaker 1: Who was this You know who it was.

561
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:55,159
Speaker 2: Because I talked about him on the show before, but

562
00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:56,400
Speaker 2: it definitely didn't work out.

563
00:22:57,000 --> 00:23:01,919
Speaker 1: Woo child the ghetto, I don't remember heard. Uh we

564
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:03,520
Speaker 1: went out to him, we went out with him.

565
00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:03,919
Speaker 3: Uh.

566
00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:08,480
Speaker 2: I can't say that because people don't know who it is, Okay.

567
00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:12,680
Speaker 1: But anyways, Yeah, I just feel like you niggas, just y'all.

568
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 1: The bar is fucking low.

569
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:16,320
Speaker 2: The bar is gonna say this ship every week, and

570
00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 2: I'm tall of mother fucking saying the bars too goddamn low,

571
00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:21,879
Speaker 2: and y'all need to raise this shue. But honestly, I

572
00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:23,639
Speaker 2: don't even feel like my bar is low. I just

573
00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:25,719
Speaker 2: feel like my bars where it should be. But my

574
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:27,000
Speaker 2: bar is not in.

575
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:31,720
Speaker 1: Heaven, nigga, like y'all have in heaven. This But y'all

576
00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:33,720
Speaker 1: acting like I'm asking you to do a bite. Is

577
00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:36,000
Speaker 1: I'm an angel? But no, I'm just saying y'all deserve

578
00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 1: to be treated y'all.

579
00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm asking y'all to do a you

580
00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:42,359
Speaker 2: say boat fucking leap to get to what to do

581
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:44,480
Speaker 2: everything that I need you to do. I just want

582
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:46,440
Speaker 2: you to show some effort and show that you care

583
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:49,160
Speaker 2: and make sure that we can always have a good time,

584
00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 2: because I'm a good.

585
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:51,400
Speaker 1: Time, you know what I'm saying.

586
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:54,160
Speaker 2: Like, I just feel and even those basic needs aren't

587
00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:56,400
Speaker 2: being met. But why do people be wanting to shot

588
00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 2: to portrayed a stiff a certain way when you really

589
00:23:58,440 --> 00:23:59,000
Speaker 2: not that way?

590
00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:00,280
Speaker 1: I guess I don't know.

591
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:03,600
Speaker 2: That's maybe that's something that I just have never really understood,

592
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 2: because I just feel like, be yourself yourself.

593
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:07,440
Speaker 1: But not only that, but.

594
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 2: Because at least you're giving people a chance to to

595
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:15,520
Speaker 2: decide whether or not, hey, I want to deal with

596
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 2: this person or I don't want to deal with them.

597
00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:19,200
Speaker 2: If you're keeping it one, honey, you're giving a person

598
00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:21,560
Speaker 2: a fair chance to be like, Okay, I thought I

599
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:23,440
Speaker 2: liked them, but I really don't like them, like right

600
00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:30,159
Speaker 2: versus when you put your best face forward, starts forward

601
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:31,800
Speaker 2: and then yeah, making it seem like you're such a

602
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:34,680
Speaker 2: great person. Then later down the line, slowly but surely,

603
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 2: the real you starts coming out, and it's like you

604
00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:40,760
Speaker 2: make it seem like everybody be hoeing you and you're

605
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,560
Speaker 2: the victim, and it's like me being the type of

606
00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:46,160
Speaker 2: person I am, I'm like, damn, and I always try

607
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:48,240
Speaker 2: to help people, you know, Like I'm that friend, like

608
00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 2: you can talk to me about anything, and I'm just

609
00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:53,880
Speaker 2: gonna try to tell you, like different ways to look

610
00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 2: at things and how to be you know what I'm saying,

611
00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 2: how to look at it and just try to move

612
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,760
Speaker 2: on from a situation or whatever it may be.

613
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:02,280
Speaker 1: And then I get to know you and I'm like,

614
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:03,679
Speaker 1: you're not the fucking victim.

615
00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 2: You're just a psycho and you need to go to therapy, right,

616
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:09,639
Speaker 2: You need fucking therapy. And like we said before in

617
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 2: past episodes, I'm not a therapist, right, and I can't

618
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:16,520
Speaker 2: help you with your issues. But in this situation particularly,

619
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 2: I know that I did nothing wrong. I just know

620
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:23,159
Speaker 2: that you're just not a good friend. And I've been

621
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:25,120
Speaker 2: a good friend to you, yeah, you know. And it's

622
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:29,240
Speaker 2: like we don't do anything for each other, like financially, physically,

623
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 2: nothing like we just would have good conversations back and forth.

624
00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:35,119
Speaker 2: But to me, that is doing something for somebody, because

625
00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:37,359
Speaker 2: sometimes that's just all you need is to be able

626
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 2: to have somebody that you could talk to andvent to, right,

627
00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 2: and it's.

628
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:42,440
Speaker 1: And I was that person. But it's like I can't

629
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,560
Speaker 1: do that no more because you couldn't even make sure

630
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 1: I got home safe. Like that's weird. So you feel

631
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:50,000
Speaker 1: like it's like no room for you and this person

632
00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:52,480
Speaker 1: to be friends again. No, because I could have been,

633
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:54,480
Speaker 1: because you're not a friend. You're not a friend. You

634
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:57,439
Speaker 1: left me in the club. I told you my phone

635
00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:58,399
Speaker 1: was dying. You didn't care.

636
00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:00,359
Speaker 2: You didn't make sure I got an uber, didn't make

637
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 2: sure I got home safe. So stop acting like you're

638
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:05,440
Speaker 2: a gentleman and you care so much about women when

639
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,439
Speaker 2: you really low key don't. Because one person that you

640
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:11,119
Speaker 2: claim to care about you didn't even make sure I

641
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:12,480
Speaker 2: was fucking safe.

642
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:13,480
Speaker 1: Have you told him that?

643
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:15,680
Speaker 2: No, because I don't care too, because I shouldn't have

644
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:17,679
Speaker 2: to tell a grown ass man. Well, I mean, but

645
00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 2: it's not more so it's not so much you telling

646
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,160
Speaker 2: him like for his benefit.

647
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:24,720
Speaker 1: I just feel like sometimes people just need to know, Like,

648
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 1: I mean, I see what you're saying, but I'm.

649
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 2: Not because I want it's a nigga got me fucked up.

650
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:30,760
Speaker 2: I want you to know you got me fucking club.

651
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 2: I guess I'm just at a point into my life

652
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 2: where God just gives me signs about people.

653
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:38,080
Speaker 1: They show their true colors, and I just keep it

654
00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:41,359
Speaker 1: moving because you can't change a person. Yeah, somebody is

655
00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:42,240
Speaker 1: who they are.

656
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:44,920
Speaker 2: If they want to change and they know that they

657
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:47,679
Speaker 2: did wrong, they acknowledge that they're wrong and that Like

658
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 2: all I really wanted was an apology or to acknowledge

659
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:52,360
Speaker 2: what you did when you know what you did.

660
00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:54,679
Speaker 1: So I can even get that. Couldn't even do that,

661
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 1: So I see what type of person you are.

662
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:59,920
Speaker 2: Now when I'm when I'm drunk and I do something

663
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,439
Speaker 2: night before, I'll wake up and be like, oh fuck,

664
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:04,439
Speaker 2: let me text her or let me text him and

665
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 2: be like my bad. Like you know what I'm saying,

666
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 2: because we all getting our drunk moments and do stupid shit.

667
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 1: Nobody's perfect. I don't expect.

668
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:12,720
Speaker 2: Any of my friends or any of the guys I'm

669
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:15,200
Speaker 2: dealing with to be perfect, but to just try to

670
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:17,119
Speaker 2: sweep shit under the rug and hit me up like

671
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:18,040
Speaker 2: nothing happened.

672
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:18,880
Speaker 1: Fuck out of here.

673
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:23,119
Speaker 2: So that's my issue. Like, if you did something, you

674
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 2: have to you need to acknowledge it. Like if you

675
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:27,359
Speaker 2: can just acknowledge it and apologize for it and not

676
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:29,920
Speaker 2: do it again. We could probably move forward. But it's

677
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 2: the fact that niggas be having their egos be so

678
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:35,440
Speaker 2: goddamn big, I mean women to everybody. A lot of

679
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:37,720
Speaker 2: people just be having large egos and it's hard for

680
00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 2: them to accept the accountability and the meet when they be

681
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:43,600
Speaker 2: wrong and apologize right, And that's and that's my thing.

682
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 2: I have no problem ever admitting I'm wrong. Yeah, as

683
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 2: big as a pride for I'm a Leo. I have

684
00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 2: all the pride in the world. But me also growing

685
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 2: into a woman and becoming an adult, I've learned how

686
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 2: to let that shit go. When I'm wrong, I'll admit

687
00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:01,040
Speaker 2: I'm wrong. I have no problem, especially when it comes

688
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 2: to people that I care about. If I'm wrong, I'll

689
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:06,639
Speaker 2: say I fucked up because I value my friendships and

690
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 2: people that I care about that much. But for people

691
00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:11,360
Speaker 2: who can't cut they prodst to the side.

692
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:14,639
Speaker 1: I say, Okay, we don't like to be wrong.

693
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:18,840
Speaker 2: Ever, Yeah but ever, but when we were well when

694
00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:21,119
Speaker 2: I but now that I'm getting older, when I realize

695
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 2: I'm wrong, I can apologize and be like, Okay, I'm sorry.

696
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:26,199
Speaker 1: But when I was younger, but she wouldn't get no

697
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 1: apology out of me.

698
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,800
Speaker 2: That's why I get to a certain extent, That's why

699
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:31,920
Speaker 2: I do understand people that be like that, But then

700
00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 2: at the same time, I don't respect it, especially when

701
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:35,760
Speaker 2: it's people who are older than me, Like, for example,

702
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:38,880
Speaker 2: the situation that we're talking about with the person that

703
00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 2: you're talking about. This person is like way older than this,

704
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 2: So I don't respect it from people who are older.

705
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 2: I can more so understand things like that with a

706
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 2: younger person because you haven't went through enough yet, you

707
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 2: haven't really had that many life experiences yet. But when

708
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 2: you're like in your thirties and your forties and you're

709
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 2: still stubborn, it's fucked and you still have a large

710
00:28:57,640 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 2: ego and can't admit when you're wrong like that. Shit

711
00:28:59,880 --> 00:29:02,840
Speaker 2: is sad and that's why you'll probably never have any

712
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 2: meaningful relationship relationship because people.

713
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 1: Are not sticking around for that show. People don't.

714
00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 2: No one wants to be around somebody who can't accept

715
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 2: the acountability and at meet when they want.

716
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 1: Right, So let us know how y'all feel about men.

717
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:17,760
Speaker 2: Are some women saying that they're good women because we're

718
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 2: speaking on men because obviously we datemn, but yeah, there's

719
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 2: a lot of women out there too that just be

720
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:24,720
Speaker 2: acting like they act like they're a catch and their

721
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 2: a wife or girlfriend of the year, and y'all just

722
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:28,960
Speaker 2: really not y'all are really just kind of like toxic

723
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 2: people that need to go to therapy and swear that

724
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 2: they're always being important. We need to do an episode

725
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:37,720
Speaker 2: talking about anybody that listened to Atlanta that knows a

726
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:39,920
Speaker 2: therapist or that is a therapist that would like to

727
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 2: come on the show. Yeah, we would love to have

728
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 2: you on the shower and I would love to come

729
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:45,600
Speaker 2: to you because I probably need therapy, my damn, so

730
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:51,719
Speaker 2: I did. So we gonna move on to the baby babe.

731
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 2: So last week we ended the episode and we told

732
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 2: y'all we was gonna give y'all some tea a secret.

733
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734
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735
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736
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:11,680
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737
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:13,680
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738
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Speaker 1: Y'all, Like, I'm not gonna lie, I can vouch for this.

739
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 1: I get it ouch for it as well. I mean

740
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:26,160
Speaker 1: we tried it, yes, and it works, So I'll let you.

741
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:29,160
Speaker 1: I'll let you bring it on in. I feel like

742
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 1: I've been talking a lot.

743
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 2: Of this, Okay, so this episode, I mean put on

744
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745
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746
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747
00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. So this product is so amazing.

748
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 2: Actually, one of our friends, Kiki from Cocktails, put me

749
00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:51,520
Speaker 2: onto the product because she's been taking it for like,

750
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:54,240
Speaker 2: I think a year or so now and she swears

751
00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 2: by it. So basically the product is called she Orgasms.

752
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:02,960
Speaker 2: It's like a sexual stimulant, I guess you can call it.

753
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 2: And you take you take like three to four of

754
00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 2: them before you have six, yeah, and like maybe two

755
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:12,400
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756
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:16,680
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757
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:20,000
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758
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759
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 2: And when I tell y'all, like, naturally, my pussy be weed,

760
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 2: I really ain't bragging. Also, I'm not trying to, but

761
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:35,200
Speaker 2: naturally my pussy be really weird and this sheit just

762
00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 2: make your sheet like ten times withinter Yeah, she's like

763
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:40,720
Speaker 2: crazy as fun and it gets you in the movie

764
00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:41,960
Speaker 2: and it puts you in the mood.

765
00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 1: Yeah. One day we were recording.

766
00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:45,800
Speaker 2: An episode and I wanted to take one because my

767
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 2: little booth dying was at the crib.

768
00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 1: I mean three, Yeah, I took three of them, y'all.

769
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 2: When I tell y'all, I was driving home and I

770
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 2: could feel that, you know, when your little pussy be throbbing.

771
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 2: It was like my pussy was like that heartbeat and

772
00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:59,400
Speaker 2: my pussy was there. And when I tell y'all, we

773
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 2: had a I actually rolled dick because I was just

774
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 2: so like I wanted it how I wanted it. I

775
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 2: was super amped up, Like it's so crazy. So honestly,

776
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:12,640
Speaker 2: I've never taken like a sex pill or anything like that,

777
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 2: like you know how niggas to be taking like the

778
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 2: gas station dig pills and stuff like, yeah, like this

779
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 2: is kind of like a gas station dick pill, but

780
00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 2: for like women.

781
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 1: So I feel like gas station dick pill times ten.

782
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 1: And I feel like it definitely intensified my orgasms that

783
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 1: as well. Yes, oh my god, for sure. I don't know.

784
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:30,920
Speaker 1: I just feel like it's a great product.

785
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 2: And you know, me and Lex, we always make it

786
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 2: a point to never promote anything to y'all that we

787
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 2: don't try or that we haven't tried and had success

788
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 2: a week, because we don't want y'all just buying sheep

789
00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 2: just because we you know, I don't know, but yeah,

790
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 2: so I definitely feel like it's something that y'all should try.

791
00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 2: Y'all should try it out.

792
00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 1: We're gonna have a discount call for y'all, yeah, really soon.

793
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:57,200
Speaker 2: So yeah, make sure y'all check out she orgasms dot com.

794
00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 1: This is not a gimmu. This is not a lie

795
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 1: if you have.

796
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 2: Dry pussy or even if you have wet pussy, and honestly,

797
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 2: for men, like I feel like, if you know your girl,

798
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:08,600
Speaker 2: there's a way to go about it. Like, if y'all

799
00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:10,680
Speaker 2: have been having trouble in the bedroom and it's something

800
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 2: that y'all talked about, suggest her to try she organsic. Yeah.

801
00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:17,680
Speaker 1: It works so good, it does. It does.

802
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of the time people be

803
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:23,800
Speaker 2: just so ready to stop dating people because they feel like, oh,

804
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 2: we're not compatible.

805
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:25,440
Speaker 1: In the bedroom.

806
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:27,719
Speaker 2: But sometimes it's things that you could work you definitely

807
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 2: have to make an effort. Though you're not gonnare about

808
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:32,560
Speaker 2: somebody now, you don't care about the beach or any

809
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:36,360
Speaker 2: good and it's different. But with somebody in the first

810
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:39,600
Speaker 2: time y'all have sex. Sometimes it's good, sometimes it's not.

811
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 2: But if you like somebody, you definitely have to get

812
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 2: to put that effort in to know their body and

813
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 2: know what they like. And so honestly, like I said,

814
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 2: even if y'all already have amazing sex, have her take

815
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:51,640
Speaker 2: them she orgasm pills, I guarantee you it's gonna be

816
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:52,480
Speaker 2: even better.

817
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 1: It's gonna blow your.

818
00:33:53,320 --> 00:34:01,560
Speaker 2: Mind, your mom on your monlu my, y'all.

819
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:04,120
Speaker 1: Know it's not coming the whole episode.

820
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, happy birthday to me.

821
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:16,240
Speaker 1: I'm off that rols there and I'm feeling good.

822
00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 2: You should have said free. No, you're right, because we

823
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:26,799
Speaker 2: ain't never feeling free. That's one thing nobody. I hope

824
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:28,959
Speaker 2: y'all like that breakdown for y'a because I haven't seen

825
00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:32,520
Speaker 2: for y'all last week, and I know you did. I

826
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 2: know you'll be missing me. You sung last week though,

827
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:43,360
Speaker 2: hater go ahead, and I got you hate.

828
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:52,840
Speaker 3: Bah b oh hell no, what a nigga that was

829
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 3: three meets.

830
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:56,560
Speaker 2: Okay, So now I'm gonna move into the ask for minds.

831
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 2: Oh way, do you want to do the bob first?

832
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:01,279
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, so you go for what I don't

833
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:03,200
Speaker 1: know yet? Go ahead, go ahead, Okay. So my goop

834
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 1: of the week this week is how You Want It?

835
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:06,600
Speaker 1: That's my sheep.

836
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 2: I love that song and it's so crazy because I've

837
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:11,560
Speaker 2: been saying lately that I haven't really been into like

838
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:14,879
Speaker 2: remakes or whatever, but I love this remake. I feel

839
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:17,040
Speaker 2: witty Tayanna Taylor and Christian Kohn.

840
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, how you Want Eat? That's my sheet. I'm

841
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:23,719
Speaker 1: shout out to toe Yana because lately she been coming

842
00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 1: through with the bobs.

843
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:29,319
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna even lie, y'all know me. I think

844
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:34,040
Speaker 2: I'm Nigerian and Burner Boy's album drop and it's fucking amazing.

845
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:37,879
Speaker 1: First off, fucking amazing. Well, who's the babing you? I'm

846
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 1: just saying, no, I'm not saying it's fucking amazed, amazing.

847
00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 2: He has a song with Jeremiah and SARRANI called Secret

848
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:53,600
Speaker 2: I know you want to spend more time, spend more time,

849
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 2: and I said, all ship, bitch.

850
00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:56,680
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm on the motherfucking Island.

851
00:35:56,880 --> 00:36:00,399
Speaker 2: Well, it's a good fucking song, y'all want I tell

852
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:03,719
Speaker 2: you theme song? It is like shout out to burna Boy.

853
00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:07,360
Speaker 2: The whole album is honestly solid. Jeremiah has been killing

854
00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:11,080
Speaker 2: all his hooks, all his features, Loki, if y'all really

855
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 2: want to get technical, Jeremiah can really be in the

856
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:17,239
Speaker 2: category with TOI Dollar Sign with killing features. But that's

857
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:20,239
Speaker 2: far my, No, I'm serious, that's for the people that's

858
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:23,520
Speaker 2: really like listens to. Jeremiah knows his features and knows

859
00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:25,440
Speaker 2: his work because even his song that he had with

860
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:28,000
Speaker 2: DJ Snake a few years ago, he kills pop songs,

861
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:31,160
Speaker 2: R and B all that shit, rap songs, hip hop, whatever.

862
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:35,359
Speaker 1: So Jeremiah, no, not even that. But I'm saying all

863
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 1: my music has who really know the slot of my dms?

864
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 2: And let's have a chat about this TOI Dollar Sign Jeremiah,

865
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 2: how they can really be low key in the same category.

866
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:47,880
Speaker 2: So let's move on to the ask for and before

867
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 2: we do. Yeah, I know, we told y'all we were

868
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:52,400
Speaker 2: gonna do the bop up the least, play least, so

869
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 2: we're definitely about to do that.

870
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:57,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're working. It's gonna take some time. We gotta come.

871
00:36:58,080 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 1: We got a lot of song y'all.

872
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:02,040
Speaker 2: Me like, would y'all like for us to have separate

873
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:04,160
Speaker 2: playlist or would y'all like for us to just have

874
00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:07,200
Speaker 2: one collective bop of the week play least where it's

875
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 2: like all of the bops are on there and we

876
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:10,399
Speaker 2: just add to it every week.

877
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 1: So yeah, d me let me know.

878
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:14,920
Speaker 2: Okay, so we gonna go to uh the ask for minds.

879
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:17,360
Speaker 2: Hold on, this is Mandy calling me, bitch. You know

880
00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 2: I'm trying to record right now. Bitch, she gonna call

881
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:23,680
Speaker 2: you bag shout out to Little Mandy. Shout out to

882
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 2: Little Mandy. Horrible decisions. Okay, which one you gonna read?

883
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,839
Speaker 2: I guess I'll just read the first one. Okay, let

884
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:33,359
Speaker 2: me pull it up cause Mandy ass still texting me.

885
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:38,160
Speaker 1: Okay, so sorry, y'all.

886
00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:42,279
Speaker 2: Okay, so I'll read it. Hey, y'all just wanna say

887
00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 2: I love the show. It's like we're long lost bff.

888
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:48,759
Speaker 2: But okay, here's my question dilemma. So I have this

889
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:51,240
Speaker 2: really good friend of mine. Me and him have only

890
00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:54,440
Speaker 2: been friends for about three years. He's always made jokes

891
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:56,799
Speaker 2: about us having sex and things like that. But he

892
00:37:56,920 --> 00:38:00,600
Speaker 2: joked so much that I didn't ever really take him serious. Well,

893
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:02,719
Speaker 2: a few months ago I went to his place just

894
00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:04,839
Speaker 2: to kick it, and next thing you know, we ended

895
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:09,399
Speaker 2: up fucking multiple times on multiple occasions. I've always found

896
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 2: him attractive and things like that, and to be honest,

897
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:13,320
Speaker 2: I planned on having sex.

898
00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:15,799
Speaker 1: With him, but on my own terms. But I find.

899
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:19,120
Speaker 2: Myself catching feelings, stalking his social media page, all the

900
00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 2: shit you do when you really like somebody. So my

901
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 2: problem is I fuck my friend and now I have

902
00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:25,879
Speaker 2: feelings like I want him to be my man.

903
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:28,080
Speaker 1: Feelings help thanks, ladies.

904
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:30,400
Speaker 2: So she didn't say whether to say her name or not,

905
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:31,960
Speaker 2: so I'm just not gonna say her name because I

906
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:36,839
Speaker 2: don't be knowing him. I feel like this, the best

907
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:39,640
Speaker 2: relationships are usually with people that are you start off

908
00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 2: as friends with, but as long as the feelings are mutual.

909
00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 1: So I feel like you need.

910
00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:47,640
Speaker 2: To have a conversation with him because honestly, the comfortable

911
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 2: like y'all are comfortable together, so that's already there. So

912
00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:52,719
Speaker 2: I feel like you should have a conversation with him

913
00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 2: about how he feels and just make sure y'all are

914
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:57,759
Speaker 2: on the same page, because when you're friends with somebody.

915
00:38:58,080 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 1: It can either go really really really right, are really

916
00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:01,360
Speaker 1: really really wrong.

917
00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:04,799
Speaker 2: So before you get your feelings like hurt and find

918
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:07,440
Speaker 2: out he's dating somebody else and doing somebody else, you

919
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:09,200
Speaker 2: need to have a conversation with him to see if

920
00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 2: he feels the same way. I agree that that's that

921
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:15,280
Speaker 2: would be my only advice about the situation as well,

922
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 2: because I feel like it's just nothing worse than going

923
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:22,000
Speaker 2: into a situation and having expectations or having feelings with

924
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:25,080
Speaker 2: somebody and the feelings are not mutual, right because you

925
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:27,480
Speaker 2: doing all of the stalk in his social media and stuff,

926
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 2: it's like you really just making yourself grow more feelings, right,

927
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:35,759
Speaker 2: and before you even know what the situation may or

928
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 2: may not be, Because it would be horrible if you

929
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 2: doing all of these and you're starting to feel this

930
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:42,359
Speaker 2: way about him and then say, come to find out

931
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:44,000
Speaker 2: he got a beach that he really taking furious and

932
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:46,840
Speaker 2: y'all just ended up right not saying if that's what

933
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:48,799
Speaker 2: the situation is. But it's better for you to be

934
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 2: in the know and to know exactly whether or not

935
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:55,680
Speaker 2: he have the same feelings for you or you know,

936
00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 2: like I said, or not, Because I just feel like

937
00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 2: shit like that could be confusing when it comes to

938
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 2: fucking friends. I don't That's why I don't fuck my friends.

939
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:05,560
Speaker 2: I really don't, not know more I used to.

940
00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:08,360
Speaker 1: But I mean, I have one situation where I was

941
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:11,279
Speaker 1: with a guy and when I used to girlfriends not me. Yeah,

942
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:13,920
Speaker 1: but we were like really close, we were really close.

943
00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 2: Friends, and we ended up fucking and we ended up

944
00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:20,879
Speaker 2: having like a really cool, like relationship friendship situation going on.

945
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 2: But we had a conversation and we knew the feelings

946
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 2: were mutual, and we know that that's what we both wanted.

947
00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 1: So the conversation is very fucking important.

948
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:31,719
Speaker 2: Before you try to like just be like, oh I

949
00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:34,360
Speaker 2: want you to be my man, you need to be asked. Okay,

950
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:35,560
Speaker 2: so what do you want to do here? Cause I

951
00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:37,400
Speaker 2: don't want our friendship to get weird? So do you

952
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 2: want us to continue talking? Are we gonna try to

953
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 2: make it more official? Or do you just want to

954
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:43,799
Speaker 2: go back to being platonic friends? Yeah?

955
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:44,880
Speaker 1: I agree.

956
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:46,759
Speaker 2: I mean I've only had one situation where I was

957
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:49,000
Speaker 2: in a relationship with a guy that I was friends

958
00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 2: with first, and that was when I was in fucking

959
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:54,399
Speaker 2: high school, right, So I mean, but I definitely feel

960
00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:56,799
Speaker 2: like y'all need to have a conversation. It's something that

961
00:40:56,840 --> 00:40:58,879
Speaker 2: y'all need to talk about. And just make sure y'all

962
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 2: on the same page which you listen.

963
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:00,880
Speaker 1: To the show.

964
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 2: So I'm sure you a babby, and I'm sure that

965
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:07,160
Speaker 2: you got a great personality, right, so I'm sure that

966
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 2: he probably gonna feel the same way about you, and

967
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:10,400
Speaker 2: y'all just need to have a conversation.

968
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 1: Yes, sister, good luck, good luck. So okay.

969
00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:17,360
Speaker 2: The second question that we have this week is the

970
00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:20,719
Speaker 2: person said need some advice. She said, Hey, loves I love,

971
00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 2: love love the podcast. I've been binge listening at work

972
00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 2: every night, y'all be having me rolling, and I love

973
00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:30,360
Speaker 2: when Leck sing Drea period.

974
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:30,839
Speaker 1: Hold on.

975
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:39,400
Speaker 2: First of all, Drea, I hear you too, Boo, exactly.

976
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:38,640
Speaker 1: True, Queen.

977
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 2: I love when y'all recognize the real vocals. Y'all know

978
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:45,440
Speaker 2: what the real vocals. So she said, Drea, I hear

979
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:45,799
Speaker 2: you too.

980
00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:46,320
Speaker 1: Bool.

981
00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 2: Anyways, I need some advice. I've been dating a man

982
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:52,279
Speaker 2: for a year now. He's in his forties and I'm

983
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:53,080
Speaker 2: in my twenties.

984
00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 1: Her. Don't judge me, girl, don't judge I live. Just

985
00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 1: read it. Hold on. Don't judge me, y'all. I love older.

986
00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:02,880
Speaker 1: In last month, I found out he's married. Now I

987
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 1: knew now.

988
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:06,440
Speaker 2: I knew about the wife without knowing she was his

989
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:07,640
Speaker 2: wife because he just.

990
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:08,920
Speaker 1: Called her his baby mama.

991
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:11,840
Speaker 2: So when I find when she found me through social media,

992
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:13,719
Speaker 2: I brushed it off, like maybe she's just one of

993
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 2: his bms that's trying to sabotage their baby daddy's life.

994
00:42:17,200 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 2: So I had his phone one night and she takes

995
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 2: to a long ass message, and not knowing, I had

996
00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 2: his phone and basically confirmed she was the wife. To

997
00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:26,520
Speaker 2: find out they have been married for twenty years, y'all.

998
00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:29,359
Speaker 2: I missed the fuck out of him, y'all. He took

999
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:32,960
Speaker 2: care of me and my body. I was legit spoiled.

1000
00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:35,040
Speaker 2: Made me feel like I was the only girl in

1001
00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:37,360
Speaker 2: the world. One of the best relationships I've ever been in.

1002
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:40,719
Speaker 2: They're divorcing now and we are still fucking. I know

1003
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 2: morally is wrong. I feel bad, but I'm not finna

1004
00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:46,800
Speaker 2: just go fuck somebody I don't know. I was wondering

1005
00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 2: would I'd be wrong if I took him back and

1006
00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:51,799
Speaker 2: got back to where we lift off, or should I

1007
00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 2: just move on with my life? And she put her Instagram. So,

1008
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 2: I mean, girl, I don't know if you want me

1009
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:56,560
Speaker 2: to say.

1010
00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:58,759
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, at the end of the day, she said

1011
00:42:58,760 --> 00:42:59,759
Speaker 1: that they were divorcing.

1012
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 2: If they're divorcing, so yeah, it's her instagram. Well, her

1013
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:06,160
Speaker 2: name is Shane, that's all.

1014
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 1: I'm a sad. I know we're not gonna put her Instagram.

1015
00:43:08,640 --> 00:43:09,440
Speaker 1: Her name is Shane.

1016
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 2: I feel like this girl, you in your twenty in

1017
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:14,600
Speaker 2: his forties, that's the perfect that's the perfect age because we.

1018
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 1: Love older man.

1019
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:18,880
Speaker 2: I love older men, but older men can be very manipulating,

1020
00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:22,279
Speaker 2: very very especially when you're young. So I just feel like,

1021
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:24,920
Speaker 2: make sure that that nigga really getting a yeah.

1022
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:27,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, like I would. Nigga will tell you what they

1023
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:29,400
Speaker 1: what they want you to hear, and what they.

1024
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 2: Think sound good, right, So I would say you can

1025
00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 2: still talk to him, but I would say stop fucking

1026
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 2: him until the divorce is final, because if he really

1027
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:40,440
Speaker 2: wants to be with you, he's gonna make sure that

1028
00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:43,640
Speaker 2: he gets that done a sap. Now, divorcees sometimes do

1029
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:46,279
Speaker 2: take a while, but I need to see something that

1030
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:48,800
Speaker 2: lets me know that y'all are really in the process

1031
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 2: of this and if he really care about you, he

1032
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:53,040
Speaker 2: gonna be we he gonna be ready and willing to

1033
00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:54,719
Speaker 2: wait on that pussy till after he can show you

1034
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:55,880
Speaker 2: the fucking divorce papers.

1035
00:43:55,880 --> 00:44:01,719
Speaker 1: He's ready to sign on paypus what I like it take.

1036
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying.

1037
00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:05,920
Speaker 2: I just feel like, I just feel like you should

1038
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:09,239
Speaker 2: definitely stop fucking him until you see some papers, because

1039
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:11,080
Speaker 2: you don't want to be that girl that's fucking a

1040
00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:17,040
Speaker 2: merry man like six only just keeps making you closer

1041
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:18,200
Speaker 2: and closer to somebody.

1042
00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:20,239
Speaker 1: It makes you like them even more. It makes you

1043
00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:21,080
Speaker 1: like them even more.

1044
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:23,279
Speaker 2: It's harder for you to not fuck with somebody until

1045
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:24,920
Speaker 2: I deal with them when y'all keep fucking.

1046
00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:26,319
Speaker 1: So I just feel like, like.

1047
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:29,280
Speaker 2: Lexi is in your base entries to just stop fucking

1048
00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:33,040
Speaker 2: him for now until you can see some concrete proof

1049
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:36,400
Speaker 2: that this divorce is actually really happening and that he

1050
00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 2: actually be couks up. Another thing too, people could be

1051
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:43,879
Speaker 2: getting a divorce, but sometimes throughout the process of them

1052
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 2: deciding that they're gonna get a divorce, they'd be realizing, oh.

1053
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:50,520
Speaker 1: And you said that they got a kid together.

1054
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:53,480
Speaker 2: I would say six months at the longest, give him

1055
00:44:53,480 --> 00:44:56,280
Speaker 2: six months if after six months, they're still not divorced,

1056
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:57,399
Speaker 2: you need to leave his ass.

1057
00:44:57,480 --> 00:44:59,200
Speaker 1: Loon married to me.

1058
00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:02,239
Speaker 2: And I always lady Shaw because to me, married men,

1059
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:04,759
Speaker 2: married women, people who are married.

1060
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:07,040
Speaker 1: That she is just messy. Yeah, it's just me.

1061
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:09,160
Speaker 2: So I mean, it wasn't your fault because you didn't

1062
00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:12,279
Speaker 2: know he was married at first, But now that you do,

1063
00:45:12,840 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 2: try to take a few steps back and let him

1064
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:17,520
Speaker 2: handle the things he has to handle because you don't

1065
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 2: want to. He doesn't want to jump from one situation

1066
00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 2: that he's unhappy into another one.

1067
00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:24,480
Speaker 1: So if you're kind of like hovering over him and

1068
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:25,680
Speaker 1: being like when are you getting divorced?

1069
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:28,319
Speaker 2: Da da da, nagging him about it, that's gonna that's

1070
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:30,440
Speaker 2: gonna start arguments between y'all. He not gonna want to

1071
00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:32,719
Speaker 2: be with you either, So just kind of step back,

1072
00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:34,680
Speaker 2: let him handle the things he has to handle. I

1073
00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:37,520
Speaker 2: would say give him six months tops. After the six

1074
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:40,400
Speaker 2: month mark, if you haven't seen any progress, then you

1075
00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:42,960
Speaker 2: should probably leave him alone. I agree, and I know

1076
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:45,520
Speaker 2: it's probably gonna be hard, but see, you will love again.

1077
00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:48,719
Speaker 1: You will find you another nigga who's not married, who're

1078
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:50,520
Speaker 1: not gonna have all of that fucking baggage.

1079
00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 2: But if you really do want to be with these men,

1080
00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:54,040
Speaker 2: because I'm always an advocate for it, if you fuck

1081
00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:55,239
Speaker 2: with somebody, you just fuck with him.

1082
00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:56,279
Speaker 1: You can't help who you love.

1083
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 2: So if you really fuck with these men, just give

1084
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:03,480
Speaker 2: him a little time to finalize his divorced and then

1085
00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 2: y'all could just go from there.

1086
00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:06,400
Speaker 1: That's our advice, right.

1087
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 2: So yeah, as usual, y'all know what the food going on.

1088
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:14,040
Speaker 2: Y'all know what the item of the week is. European

1089
00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:17,879
Speaker 2: Wegg Center right shout out, said Tamika. If you live

1090
00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:20,400
Speaker 2: in Atlanta, yes, make sure you go to the Howell,

1091
00:46:20,440 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 2: Mell and Edgewood locations so you can get ten percent

1092
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:26,720
Speaker 2: off of y'all services. If you mentioned Drea and lis

1093
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:30,080
Speaker 2: p or poor Minds, So make sure y'all go get

1094
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:32,400
Speaker 2: that pussy weg. Hot Girl Summer is almost over, but

1095
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:34,600
Speaker 2: it ain't over. Yeah, and then you just always need

1096
00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:38,360
Speaker 2: to maintain okay, just always maintain period pool.

1097
00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:41,200
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm surprised Hot Girl Summer wasn't your bip of

1098
00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:41,600
Speaker 1: the week.

1099
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:44,080
Speaker 2: I mean, I like Hot Girl Summer, but I feel

1100
00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:47,480
Speaker 2: like I just thought about that. Yeah, Hot Girl Summer

1101
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:49,640
Speaker 2: is a very good song too, well, not very good

1102
00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:50,720
Speaker 2: I'll say hot girl Summer.

1103
00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:53,279
Speaker 1: I love the b I like mediocre. I like Tie

1104
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:54,680
Speaker 1: Dollar sons a hook.

1105
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:56,560
Speaker 2: I feel like he killed the hook for the men

1106
00:46:56,640 --> 00:46:58,880
Speaker 2: to sing along with, cause everybody was like, why is

1107
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:01,520
Speaker 2: Ti Dollar sign on here? He's on there because they

1108
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 2: want the men to sing along too. First of all,

1109
00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:06,399
Speaker 2: because he's like realized they gonna give a fuck by

1110
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 2: the bitch, because they want people to go back and

1111
00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:14,440
Speaker 2: forth in the club. First of all, though people were

1112
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 2: being so fucking did why is tight Dollar sign on here?

1113
00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 2: It's supposed to be they wanted the men to be involved,

1114
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:21,760
Speaker 2: to stop being so fucking dense first of all.

1115
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:25,080
Speaker 1: Second of all, Meg did what she mag did what

1116
00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 1: she was supposed to do.

1117
00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:28,480
Speaker 2: What she always does on her hood, on her versus,

1118
00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:29,799
Speaker 2: and she rapped like she always does.

1119
00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:32,840
Speaker 1: I do feel like Nikki Nikki's versus.

1120
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:34,360
Speaker 2: You could tell it was kind of rush because I

1121
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:38,759
Speaker 2: don't I still know what I I don't know what

1122
00:47:38,800 --> 00:47:42,319
Speaker 2: that means earlier today, I don't know what it means either.

1123
00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:48,040
Speaker 1: Anybody knows, and I mean, please let me know. Maybe

1124
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:51,120
Speaker 1: she's maybe doesn't mean that she's squirky. I squirked then

1125
00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:52,760
Speaker 1: I squirt girl.

1126
00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:58,080
Speaker 2: Anyways, Hot Girl Summer is a good song, but is

1127
00:47:58,080 --> 00:47:59,640
Speaker 2: it BAP of the Week worthy?

1128
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:03,240
Speaker 1: No, I'll see how I feel after this weekend.

1129
00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:05,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll see how we feel after this weekend. It

1130
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:06,759
Speaker 2: might be about for the week next week.

1131
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:11,319
Speaker 1: So uh oh, you have anything else that now? I

1132
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 1: don't have anything I want to add right now. Alrighty y'all.

1133
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:15,399
Speaker 1: We will see y'all next week.

1134
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:18,040
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure we'll have tons of stories for y'all

1135
00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 2: from my thirtieth birthday.

1136
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:23,160
Speaker 1: Weekend might have a bonus episode. Alrighty, We'll see y'all

1137
00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:24,440
Speaker 1: next week. Bye, y'all.