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Speaker 1: My sister sold six thousand dollars from me, and now

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Speaker 2: I will never forgive her, am I the able. Just

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Speaker 2: steal her car. Steal her car, car problem, steal Yeah,

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Speaker 2: steal your car. Back story over, I.

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Speaker 1: Think, Oh, just like, steal all of her presentsions, empty

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Speaker 1: your bank account. Oh, trick her to join a pyramid

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Speaker 1: scheme that you create and then have her give you

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Speaker 1: all her money the long game or inventure religion and

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Speaker 1: recruit her to your cult. Wow, and say hey, to

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Speaker 1: go clear, you have to pay this amount of money

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Speaker 1: and buy these these reading utensils.

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Speaker 3: That is the longest game, respect to anyone.

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Speaker 1: I just respect the hustle at that point, l Ron

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Speaker 1: hubb rest in peace.

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Speaker 4: The most wild emlem I've seen was an mlem where

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Speaker 4: you're selling the book that teaches you how to sell

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Speaker 4: the book.

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Speaker 2: Oh well, wow, that was so.

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Speaker 4: I was looking at jobs and for fun and it

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Speaker 4: was and it was like, Graham, this seems like a scam,

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Speaker 4: And so we call because he thought it'd be a

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Speaker 4: funny segment for the Grand Stuff In show and like

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Speaker 4: we were like, yeah, we put like a last dollar

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Speaker 4: and this lady was talking about how it changed your

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Speaker 4: life and everything. And we're like, but like the more

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Speaker 4: we were talking about, like, so, what's the product that

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Speaker 4: we're selling. It like the book, but the book will

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Speaker 4: tell you how to sell it. It practically sells itself.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, so what do you do with the book? Oh,

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Speaker 4: you learn how to sell this guy's story and his book.

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Speaker 5: I'm like, is it the same book you bought? And

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Speaker 5: I'm like and they were like yes.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, what, that's kind of cool. I

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Speaker 1: actually fucked with that idea a lot. That's a sick idea.

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Speaker 1: The book is selling. The whole job is selling the book,

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Speaker 1: and the book tells you how to sell the book.

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Speaker 2: It's so that's all you need.

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Speaker 4: The book is on this life story that led to

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Speaker 4: him writing this book, and then it gives you all

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Speaker 4: his best selling techniques and your job is to sell

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Speaker 4: this guy's life story and the book. Wow, that's using

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Speaker 4: the tactics in the book.

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Speaker 1: That's such a good idea. What's the book called trying.

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Speaker 2: To sell to us? Right now?

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Speaker 1: It was so the toctics get on a comedy podcast

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Speaker 1: and that's a million of the listeners.

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Speaker 5: That sells book.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm sure we can find it. Yeah, we should

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Speaker 6: do a whole episode on that. We should read the book.

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Speaker 6: That's the podcast.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I want to find it because I

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Speaker 1: Well, we'll get back on that in a little bit.

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Speaker 1: But you know what else, we're gonna get back on

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Speaker 1: this story. So, my little sister sixteen has had her

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Speaker 1: fair share of behavior issues throughout the past few years.

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Speaker 2: She doesn't keep up with school lies and.

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Speaker 1: Was diagnosed with depression and anxiety along with everyone else

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Speaker 5: Okay, well, I love it. One of those is not

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no, Google, I don't.

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Speaker 4: Know if you Yeah, I'm not playing with you, Google.

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Speaker 4: Anxiety and depression is in a behavioral issue.

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Speaker 5: That's like, that's.

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Speaker 4: An illness, and it's a mental disorder that people deal with.

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Speaker 4: I don't remember which one is the proper way that

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Speaker 4: I have anxiety, So.

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Speaker 2: I'm after me.

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Speaker 5: I have anxiety. We're pretty sure I have depressions, so

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Speaker 4: My favorite is when you get so stuck being anxious

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Speaker 1: It's in the waves, in the waves, You're like, wow, wow.

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Speaker 5: That's where it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah busted out. So since the beginning of this year,

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Speaker 2: But she insisted it was true. So I got very excited.

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Speaker 1: So basically, sister buys her these amazing concert tickets yes.

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Speaker 4: She's an elaborate liar like this would be a pain

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Speaker 3: How she got.

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Speaker 2: She astle she got. I mean thinking about.

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Speaker 4: It all, think of the last story and how they were,

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Speaker 4: on that lie. She was gonna find out eventually that

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this had.

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Speaker 5: Planning going into it.

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Speaker 4: And this is a sixteen year old and we're talking

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Speaker 4: about that that girl's mom was in her thirties or forties.

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Speaker 2: This, oh yeah, she's sixteen, yeah, sixteen year old?

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Speaker 3: Yeah planning?

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Speaker 1: Wow, yeah, Hey, she's got a future in politics.

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Speaker 2: This lady, yes, literally.

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Speaker 1: While she was having the time of her life, I

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Speaker 2: Buy a new car for six k.

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Speaker 5: Wouldn't you be able to fix a car? How expensive

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Speaker 1: About a week after I noticed my sister buying these

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Speaker 4: Wow, I am impressed at how a sixteen year old

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Speaker 1: My dad immediately checked my little sister's bank and found

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Speaker 4: She just did the foresight tick then go also put

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Speaker 6: Her tebbet card master in the making.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if you really wanted to be sneaky, what

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Speaker 4: But the problem is is that there would be a

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Speaker 2: And if that means but she's a miner, she is

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Speaker 5: What level of illegal things she's.

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Speaker 1: Doing, And if she has never gotten her prints printed,

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean so for something like I actually know.

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Speaker 2: I live here.

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Speaker 4: So for something like this and like a home break in,

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Speaker 5: Three separate databases for prince.

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Speaker 4: There's like victims of crime, missing persons, there are prints

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Speaker 5: In the family.

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Speaker 5: These things I wanted to do forensics.

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Speaker 2: Couldn't it be the perfect crime then for her.

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Speaker 4: To I mean I think that she could potentially if

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Speaker 4: because if she does that, three thousand dollars would be

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Speaker 4: you get a misdemeanor. It's not just like a little infraction.

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Speaker 2: What's a felony? I in some states I thought it

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Speaker 2: It varies state to stay.

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure if felony is like usually, I think

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Speaker 1: felony in New York is a thousand oh.

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Speaker 4: See for Nevada is twelve hundred or more. Less would

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Speaker 1: On that larceny becomes a felling level offense or grand

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Speaker 1: larceny when the value of the stolen property exceeds one

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Speaker 4: So yeah, I mean she was smart not to escalate

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Speaker 2: Does that increase with inflation? Like does does the amount.

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Speaker 4: No, but also a little bit, this was a gift

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Speaker 2: With you pro the sisters, I'm not pro the sister.

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Speaker 2: Well, but he's also the one who's getting.

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Speaker 4: There should absolutely be a punishment. I think there should

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Speaker 5: Yeah, agreed. I think that, like he needs to cut

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Speaker 4: But I do think that there does need to be punishments.

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Speaker 1: But I think I think it would be a totally

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Speaker 4: They don't need to take maybe the full paycheck, but

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Speaker 2: Up, but she only took it. She took three thousand total.

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Speaker 4: I should have led with that earlier. Like it's not

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Speaker 2: You're able to recoup and she could probably sell the PC.

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Speaker 4: And she'd probably sell the PC and get it within

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Speaker 3: That back the majority probably.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly, because you can buy it.

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Speaker 4: You can sell those refurbished and they only lose a

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Speaker 3: That's true.

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Speaker 2: That's true. We know what always retains its value.

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Speaker 6: John, the comments of our beautiful subscribers.

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Speaker 4: I thought you were going to say subscribers, not all

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Speaker 6: sixteen fifty seven. They say, my husband and I picked

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Speaker 5: Think this is in respect I love Hailey.

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Speaker 6: There you have it.

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Speaker 3: What if you got going on?

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Speaker 5: Oh gosh?

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Speaker 4: Okay, so they can find me on my main channel,

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Speaker 4: Macy Savannah. If you search that, you'll you'll find me.

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Speaker 6: My wife was too fast, so I'm divorcing her. But

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Speaker 1: You know, I think it's like, all right, this is

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Speaker 1: Maybe your wife weighs more than two wives over the

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Speaker 1: it's like like if she's, if she's, if she's twice, No,

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Speaker 6: No one's asking about that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we love our fans.

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Speaker 6: took her a while to find the right ones, and

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Speaker 6: she's been fine mentally since she found them. Physically, it's

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Speaker 6: a different story. She continued over the past three years

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Speaker 6: to gain weight. The problem isn't any more than I'm

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Speaker 6: not attracted to her, but that she will pass away

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Speaker 6: if she continues to gain weight. She's currently five to

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Speaker 6: and about two hundred and sixty pounds, and as a

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Speaker 6: BMI of close to fifty yo, that's five to two.

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Speaker 6: Oby says, I don't know what I can do. I

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Speaker 6: feel like I've tried everything. I've asked her to go

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Speaker 6: with a gym with me, gone and die with me,

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Speaker 6: not buys fast food, have some active hobbies. She's turned

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Speaker 6: down every single one of these ideas.

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Speaker 2: But I got a really great, big idea.

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Speaker 6: Let's go eat celery sticks on a five on a

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Speaker 6: five K Babe, Oh my.

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Speaker 1: Gosh, babe, let's go to the grocery store, but carry

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Speaker 1: me on your back.

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Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, that's David Goggins. Yeah, if his wife

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Speaker 6: is ever fun too, five two and six twenty pounds.

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Speaker 6: I feel like I don't have any choice but to

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Speaker 6: give her an ultimatum. Yike, good gravy. Either she genuinely

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Speaker 6: tries to lose weight or I leave. I can't watch

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Speaker 6: the woman I love and mother of my child slowly

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Speaker 6: kill herself. I don't want to be the dude who

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Speaker 6: gives an ultimatum, but I see no other choice. I

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Speaker 6: guess I just want to ask if I'm being an

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Speaker 6: a hole, if there's any other way I could go

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Speaker 6: about this. There is so many other ways to go.

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Speaker 2: I have like a legit conversation, literally a.

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Speaker 3: Legit like like that's.

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Speaker 6: Numero uno, have a legit like hints, you know, yeah,

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Speaker 6: just be like in all honesty, I am worried, and

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Speaker 6: like I think we should say like I'm worried, but

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Speaker 6: like I don't know, like you're not a doctor.

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Speaker 3: I would be like, Hey, this is how I feel like.

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Speaker 6: I know this could come off of like me being

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Speaker 6: an a hole, but like, is there any possibility we

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Speaker 6: could just like, you know, check it out and see,

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Speaker 6: Like I'm just worried, you know, I think that's a

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Speaker 6: way more reasonable place to come from. Then just be like, hey, baby,

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Speaker 6: you want to like go on a diet or something like,

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Speaker 6: I don't know, just like lose a few dozen pounds. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: And there's an update for everyone in the comments telling

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Speaker 6: me that you can be overweight and healthy. You're right,

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Speaker 6: but no, you can't be obese and healthy, at least

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Speaker 6: not long term. Heart disease runs in my wife's family,

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Speaker 6: and while your weight might not affect you, being overweight

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Speaker 6: is directly linked to heart disease.

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Speaker 3: I understand weight loss isn't easy. I used to be overweight, But.

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Speaker 6: My concern isn't that she's not the same way she

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Speaker 6: looked when we got together. It's that she might not

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Speaker 6: live to see our son become a teenager. So I

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Speaker 6: made a post about five months ago because I couldn't

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Speaker 6: get to pass the point of no return with my

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Speaker 6: wife's weight. Now, expectedly, I got called an a hole

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Speaker 6: and every name in the book for even mentioning it.

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Speaker 6: But I also got some real good feedback and decided

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Speaker 6: before I make any real decision, I would sit her

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Speaker 6: down and let her know how I was truly feeling.

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Speaker 6: Thank you Hugh's from the beginning, because at this point

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Speaker 6: we had multiple conversations addressing it, but none of them

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Speaker 6: lead anywhere. So after we put my son to sleep,

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Speaker 6: I asked my wife if we could talk for a

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Speaker 6: minute in the kitchen.

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Speaker 3: Now, I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 6: The conversation was probably the hardest one I've ever had because,

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Speaker 6: despite what.

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Speaker 3: Everyone believed, I do love my wife.

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Speaker 6: Now, I don't want to get into every detail, but

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Speaker 6: the basis of our conversation was that I needed her

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Speaker 6: to at least try to be healthier. I also think

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Speaker 6: she needed to hear how serious I was about this,

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Speaker 6: and when I told her I was even thinking about separating,

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Speaker 6: I think it really put the nail in the coffin.

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Speaker 6: It's been about five months since then, and I'm proud

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Speaker 6: to say that my wife has lost thirty five pounds.

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Speaker 2: That's a lot.

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Speaker 6: Seriously, I'm so proud of her. It's effing ridiculous. The

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Speaker 6: first month was an effing hurdle and a half. But

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Speaker 6: now she's going steady and losing weight at a healthy

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Speaker 6: moderate rate. Recently, she started exercising with me in the morning.

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Speaker 6: I usually jog, but since her knees are somewhat shot,

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Speaker 6: three days a week, we walk about a mile or

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Speaker 6: two together and talk and listen to music. I know

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Speaker 6: it sounds corny to say, but she even seems happier

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Speaker 6: and her confidence is coming back as well. Well, this

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Speaker 6: is my little update and I wanted to finish thanks

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Speaker 6: to anyone who gave advice on my first post.

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Speaker 2: Awesome happy ending.

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Speaker 6: It's great and I can see how this is like

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Speaker 6: a tough one to give, like have that conversation on

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Speaker 6: so I'm glad.

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Speaker 2: Their topic.

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Speaker 1: But like you know, when you if you actually care

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Speaker 1: about that person's health, which it seems like he does.

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Speaker 2: Like, I think it's a good.

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Speaker 3: Sit down, explain yourself and then figure it out from there.

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Speaker 2: There we go.

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Speaker 3: That's it.

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Speaker 2: Bengo, Bengo.

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Speaker 6: If you like this story, check out this hilarious one

547
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Speaker 6: where this guy doesn't help his wife. He actually steals

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Speaker 6: five million dollars and runs away.