1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:00,960 Speaker 1: My husband. 2 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 2: DNA tested our child, so I divorced him, get him 3 00:00:04,920 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 2: out of here. 4 00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 1: I tested for our love. 5 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:11,719 Speaker 2: It failed, so throwaway. As my husband knows my reddits, 6 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:15,040 Speaker 2: I thirty four female, have been with Ken, not his 7 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 2: real name, thirty seven male since I was sixteen, so 8 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:21,120 Speaker 2: they've been together longer than they've been apart. 9 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 3: Wow. 10 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 2: True, that's big, that's big. We met in school as 11 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 2: he was my brother's friend. We've been married for ten years, 12 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 2: have a two year old son and one on the way. 13 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 2: By the way, this comes from Patient Somewhere eighty six 14 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 2: on the r slash Okay storytime Sebright. So Ken has 15 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 2: always been my person, the person who can't picture life 16 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:48,960 Speaker 2: without and honestly I can't remember not loving him. 17 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 1: That's freaking cute. Who doesn't want that? Who doesn't want that? True? 18 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 2: I grew up with him. He's my everything. Unfortunately, Ken 19 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 2: has this issue. He takes on everyone else's feelings to hearts. 20 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 2: I'm not saying it's a bad thing. He's like an 21 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 2: emotional guy. However, recently, his best friend of twenty years 22 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:11,959 Speaker 2: has just found out that his wife has been cheating 23 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 2: on him and none of the children are his there 24 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 2: it is. 25 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 3: Wow. 26 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:22,960 Speaker 4: How many how many whamis are we looking at? 27 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:26,319 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what's the damage. What's the damage are we 28 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 5: talking to? 29 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:27,759 Speaker 4: Eight? 30 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:31,480 Speaker 2: I also wonder how you like like find out about that, 31 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 2: like your DNA test one kid and I was like, 32 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 2: oh man, it's not get that, like that's not my kid, 33 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:38,840 Speaker 2: and then I hate the youngest one, and then it's like, 34 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 2: oh wait, this other kid's not my kid, and then 35 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 2: it just it seems like four or five that must 36 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 2: just be demoralized. 37 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:45,480 Speaker 4: Yeah. 38 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:47,639 Speaker 5: I don't know if you guys have heard of Josephine Baker, 39 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:49,640 Speaker 5: a famous historical figure. 40 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 1: Who've only heard of josephineadla request. 41 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 5: That yes, not to be confused. Both amazing Josephines. Josephine 42 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 5: Baker adopted a kid from every single nationality on. 43 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 1: The planet, and that's like two hundred kids. 44 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 5: No no, no, like like like an Asian kid, a 45 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 5: black kid, a white kid, and like. 46 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 2: Like all like the main ethnic the main ethnic groups. Yeah, 47 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 2: what what how many are we talking? 48 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 5: Because like I think like five, six, seven something like 49 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 5: in that range, and I imagined that that's what his 50 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 5: family looked like. 51 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, all of my kids just you know, 52 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 1: DNA you know, it's it's a weird thing. 53 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 3: That's that's what this guy's family looks like. 54 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:34,799 Speaker 1: I swear they're all mine. 55 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:39,920 Speaker 2: So obviously his friend is devastated and is staying in 56 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 2: our guest room. He's a nice guy, just life has 57 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 2: him down right now. He started the process of divorce. 58 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 2: The more time can spend with his friend, the more 59 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:54,360 Speaker 2: depressing he's become and distant. Our mornings used to start 60 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:56,919 Speaker 2: where I would wake up six am with our son, 61 00:02:57,120 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 2: make breakfast. At about eight a m I could wake 62 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 2: Ken up with a coffee and some breakfast before going 63 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 2: to drop the little one off at the nursery and 64 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 2: go to work. Perfect perfect life, horrible perfect life. Ken 65 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 2: works from home most days, only going into the office 66 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 2: on a Monday, so I give him his coffee. He'd 67 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 2: give me a kiss, and I'd go off on a 68 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 2: happy little way. That was purty little, purty, little family, 69 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:23,679 Speaker 2: so great. Then I'd finish work and get our son 70 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 2: and go home where Ken would be making tea. I 71 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 2: clean up whilst he was bathing our son and putting 72 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:32,799 Speaker 2: into bed. I thought this was my life. It might 73 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 2: sound boring to some, but it was my life, and 74 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 2: I loved it. And I feel like this life is 75 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 2: going to become it's gonna come crumbling down. 76 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 5: Absolutely, timber, timber, timber, timber. 77 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 1: I'm going down. I'm timber. 78 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 2: You better run. You're not my wad kid mother. Our 79 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 2: house was filled with love. We would spend our knights cuddling, talking, 80 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 2: watching a movie date night. Once a month we would 81 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 2: take our son together on a Saturday, and then Sunday 82 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 2: go visit family or have friends over. I was just 83 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 2: about to say, yeah, will ope, he's given us the 84 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 2: full week of this like perfect family lifestyle. Opie then says, 85 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 2: you get the picture. I'm rambling. Sorry, all right, So anyway, 86 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 2: for the past month things have been changing. Ken is 87 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 2: more depressed and make him a coffee in the morning 88 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 2: and just get a mumbled thanks. I come home from 89 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 2: work and the friend and him would be in the 90 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 2: living room watching sports. I'm now making tea, bathing our son. 91 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:42,160 Speaker 2: Neither of them will barely talk to them. 92 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:49,039 Speaker 5: Well, isn't one of baby crazy? 93 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:53,160 Speaker 1: Hey, baby talk to me a vocal. 94 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 3: Gool gool ga? Why won't you say something? 95 00:04:57,200 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 2: We don't go out on the weekends together, and I 96 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 2: feel like a single parent. I've tried to talk to 97 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 2: Ken about it all, but I get one word in answers. 98 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 2: It sounds like a conversation with me and Christian. How's 99 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 2: your day? Yeah, what did you do today? Took pictures? 100 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 2: That's how Christian talks to me. I love him by 101 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 2: the way we transcend words. 102 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 4: Rac is broken. 103 00:05:22,440 --> 00:05:27,119 Speaker 2: Okay, that was a conversation we had right before this stream. 104 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:30,279 Speaker 2: And he stays up till about one am, which I 105 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 2: know it's not super late, but I'm passed out by then. 106 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 2: I'm exhausted alone and mind you pregnant. I miss my husband. 107 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:41,479 Speaker 2: Yesterday I came home from work and you know when 108 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:44,599 Speaker 2: something just doesn't feel right. Well, I went to find 109 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:47,839 Speaker 2: Ken to see what he was doing, as his friend 110 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 2: wasn't in the house, but Ken's carr was. He was 111 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 2: in the office looking up DNA kits for our son. 112 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:01,679 Speaker 2: Question for chat, question for y'all. This is a question 113 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 2: that has come up on this show before, but why 114 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 2: not do a poll at least in the chat is 115 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 2: finding your partner doing a DNA test on your son 116 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:16,600 Speaker 2: or looking up DNA tests on your son? Cause for divorce, 117 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 2: cause for therapy, or cause for no alarm at all? 118 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 5: What do you think cause for divorce because, as we've 119 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:26,159 Speaker 5: covered on the show a quite a plethora of times, 120 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:29,479 Speaker 5: you are not only insinuating that she cheated on you, 121 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 5: not only insinuating that she had the child's with the 122 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 5: affair partner, but that she is living a twenty four 123 00:06:39,480 --> 00:06:44,599 Speaker 5: to seven lie to coerce you into raising that child. 124 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 5: It is accusation on accusation on accusation. Yeah, so it 125 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 5: is a if you are trying to drop that, that 126 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:52,960 Speaker 5: is a big thing to drop. 127 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:56,360 Speaker 2: I think it's a It's like I would actually walk 128 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 2: it back and say therapy, just because they've been together 129 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:03,400 Speaker 2: for sixteen years. But I think what I agree with 130 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 2: with John is it's serious. Like it's the same as 131 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 2: when we've talked on this show about someone going through 132 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 2: someone else's phone. That's an indicator that the trust is 133 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 2: gone and at the very least needs some therapy and 134 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 2: conversation to bridge the gap. 135 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 4: I would also talk to the husband's friend. He's probably 136 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:26,120 Speaker 4: saying some not some nice things. 137 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 2: About he's talking in his ear, talking in his ear. 138 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 2: You know the little the little uh, little little joker 139 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 2: given the king. You know that, you know that uh 140 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 2: in Lord of the Rings where that guy is giving 141 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:39,360 Speaker 2: the King all that advice and he's like Master, I know, 142 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 2: not goll Of. 143 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 1: Not GOLLI. Yeah, I know, I forgot the guy. 144 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 2: But he's like, Master, you should not trust this sleeping 145 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 2: little man. He doesn't have your best interest in mind. 146 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 2: I feel like that's what like this friend is doing. 147 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 2: It's like you think, yes, that guy, It's like you 148 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 2: think you think that those children not yours? 149 00:07:59,000 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 4: Are you sure? 150 00:07:59,720 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 5: Master? 151 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 1: Are you sure? Could be someone completely different that guy? 152 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 3: Can someone give bro a shampoo bottle? 153 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 1: Because man's greasy, he needs you got to give him 154 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 1: your your hair care routine. 155 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 3: That's true. 156 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 2: But yeah, I think it is a serious, serious accusation 157 00:08:17,440 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 2: that carries a lot of baggage and also indicates a 158 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 2: lack of trust most stuff. But I would love to 159 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 2: know what you guys think. And it looks like four 160 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 2: of you are saying divorce. Fifteen votes for therapy, seventy 161 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:32,559 Speaker 2: nine percent therapy. I'm in the therapy camp just because 162 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:35,720 Speaker 2: I think it's something that maybe could be worked through, 163 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 2: but it is serious. 164 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:39,840 Speaker 5: To be clear, me too, To add some slight new ones, 165 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 5: I think if she said, like, I want to get 166 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:44,640 Speaker 5: a divorce because all those layers of trust and those 167 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 5: insinuations are being placed. I would understand where she's coming from, 168 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 5: but therapy first pretty much always. 169 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 2: Also, ja'far is also the evil whisperer and Cataine says 170 00:08:55,880 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 2: it is his name worm Toon. 171 00:08:57,600 --> 00:08:58,719 Speaker 1: Man's name is worm Thon. 172 00:08:58,840 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's his name. That's his name. 173 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:03,320 Speaker 2: That's crazy. If that dude's name is wormed. Why would 174 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:06,000 Speaker 2: you ever trust someone whose name is worm tongue. 175 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:07,440 Speaker 3: That's what that tongue do. 176 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:11,200 Speaker 2: I asked him why, and his response was, well, I 177 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:13,560 Speaker 2: just want to make sure all the kids are mine 178 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:17,960 Speaker 2: before I continue looking after them as I'm not free 179 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 2: child cares. Big yikes, big yikes. This broke me. When 180 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 2: I say I'm devastated, it's an understatement. But if he 181 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 2: thinks I've cheated on him, then surely the trust is gone. 182 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 2: Is there any going back? Am I just being pregnant 183 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:40,319 Speaker 2: and hormonal? Would and she's pregnant? 184 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:41,559 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's it? 185 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 1: Would I be extreme for looking for a divorce. 186 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 2: I could put the papers in an envelope with the 187 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 2: results from the DNA test. 188 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:53,840 Speaker 1: She's already thought it out. She's like, I'll freakin show him. 189 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 1: That's cold. 190 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:58,439 Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna go cry in bed. Now have 191 00:09:58,559 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 2: to take the day off of work as I feel 192 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:02,960 Speaker 2: like I've been gut punched. 193 00:10:03,520 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 1: There is an update the same day. 194 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 2: Oh but it looks like most people have voted therapy 195 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:12,520 Speaker 2: instead of divorce, which I think, you know, you could 196 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 2: do therapy and then lead to divorce. But yeah, it 197 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:18,120 Speaker 2: takes all kinds, says divorce. Nicole Lark says, yeah, he 198 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:22,840 Speaker 2: can GTFO like now. Lily X three says if I 199 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:27,079 Speaker 2: never gave him a reason, so nope, I'm gone, And 200 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:29,439 Speaker 2: I don't think. Yeah, I don't think OP gave a reason. 201 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:34,520 Speaker 2: It wasn't like she was gallivanting around town or strange 202 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 2: men in the early hours of the morning. 203 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:37,640 Speaker 3: We can't. 204 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 5: We can't, you know, hear an experience from someone and 205 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:45,120 Speaker 5: then automatically be it's the like oh someone. 206 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:48,559 Speaker 2: Got Yeah, it's it's that well. I think it shows 207 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 2: also like this dude just can be manipulated so easily. 208 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 2: Like you know, a dude starts whispering in his ear 209 00:10:56,840 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 2: and he's like, oh, do whatever you say where I'm tongue, Like. 210 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:02,680 Speaker 3: Spine is as strong as worms. 211 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:07,199 Speaker 2: Exactly, Dude, that spine is slithering out of his spine. 212 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:10,680 Speaker 1: Sack it says limp as a wet noodle spine right here. 213 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:13,320 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah that that, look at that, Look at that 214 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:17,000 Speaker 2: thing it's got. There's no substance to that. Yeah, okay, 215 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 2: wopping around, flopping around. 216 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 4: What it's like to go home in John. 217 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:27,040 Speaker 1: Before he gets excited, of course? Yeah? 218 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:32,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, God, So we got an update same day. So 219 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 2: hello Reddit, Well after my post earlier this morning or 220 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 2: sorry this afternoon, I cried then read all your lovely comments, 221 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:45,720 Speaker 2: and I couldn't be more grateful. I think posting about 222 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:48,000 Speaker 2: it here really helps for some reason, which I feel 223 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:51,560 Speaker 2: like we've we've found a lot on Reddit and just elsewhere. 224 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 2: Posting about your what you're going through, at least for yourself, 225 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:57,200 Speaker 2: allows you to like clear thoughts, think through it. You know, 226 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 2: they say, uh, writing is understanding what you think. Teaching 227 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:07,200 Speaker 2: is a level further that something like that. Yeah boom, 228 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 2: someone tell me what the quote is. Definitely not even 229 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:16,440 Speaker 2: close to that. Michael Jordan, Dwayne Gretzky, Michael Scott weird. 230 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 2: How telling complete strangers that I'm struggling with life seems 231 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:23,440 Speaker 2: to help? So I think After my pity party, which 232 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 2: couldn't last long due to being a parent, I called 233 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:30,080 Speaker 2: my step mom and Dad my mom when I was 234 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 2: tenth day. They are coming to stay with me on Friday. 235 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:35,840 Speaker 2: Crying on the phone helped, although I'm not really sure 236 00:12:36,160 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 2: they could truly understand a word of what I was saying. 237 00:12:40,320 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 2: I spoken to Ken, well, more like spoke at Ken, 238 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:48,200 Speaker 2: telling him that his friend has till Thursday to leave. 239 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 1: I'm not a. 240 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:51,400 Speaker 2: Monster and can't just tell him to leave at the 241 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 2: drop of a hat. I've also told Ken he needs 242 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:54,679 Speaker 2: to leave too. 243 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:55,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. 244 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:59,079 Speaker 2: Whilst yes, I could go to my dad's house, I 245 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:01,520 Speaker 2: don't want to disrupt my little one more than needed, 246 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 2: and all the things for my baby are here too, 247 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:07,440 Speaker 2: especially as I'm eight months along. 248 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 1: She's about top she prit. 249 00:13:11,840 --> 00:13:15,679 Speaker 2: It just seems stupid for me to be the one 250 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:19,280 Speaker 2: tally Wow. I've made it a point of not pointing 251 00:13:19,320 --> 00:13:22,320 Speaker 2: out it's my house either. I'm trying to be calm 252 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:25,480 Speaker 2: and sensible. I'm not one hundred percent sure Ken listen, 253 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:28,160 Speaker 2: but I did message his sister, who is a force 254 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 2: to be reckoned with, and she said she will make 255 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:35,600 Speaker 2: sure he's gone by Thursday night. Things I've told Ken 256 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 2: I want is yes, he can have the DNA test, 257 00:13:39,559 --> 00:13:44,200 Speaker 2: but I will be danged if I'm the one to 258 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:46,600 Speaker 2: do it, he can also have one for the baby, 259 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:50,679 Speaker 2: as I ain't got no crap to hide. I know 260 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 2: that some people have questioned why I'm so against it. 261 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 2: Let me make something clear for y'all. I would never 262 00:13:58,400 --> 00:14:00,800 Speaker 2: cheat because, as I said on my last post, Ken 263 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:05,720 Speaker 2: is slash or was, I don't know my person. He's 264 00:14:05,760 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 2: the only man I've ever been with, so that isn't 265 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 2: a concern of mine. I'm just hurt that he wants one, 266 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 2: because clearly he doesn't trust me. So the things I want. 267 00:14:16,240 --> 00:14:18,320 Speaker 2: I wanted to have the DNA tests, mainly so I 268 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:21,520 Speaker 2: can make him eat the results, not literally, I'm just venting. 269 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:26,040 Speaker 2: I'm also going to suggest couple's therapy, Okay, love it. 270 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 2: I already see one due to losing my mom and 271 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:31,480 Speaker 2: my little sister in a car crash when I was 272 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:34,320 Speaker 2: a little dang. I want to suggest he sees one alone. 273 00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 2: But you can lead a horse to water, but you 274 00:14:36,120 --> 00:14:38,600 Speaker 2: can't make it drink. I don't want to force him 275 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 2: to do anything he doesn't want to do. I want 276 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 2: him to maintain contact with her son. Yes, he doesn't 277 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 2: believe he's the father right now, but that's no reason 278 00:14:45,960 --> 00:14:48,440 Speaker 2: he should neglect him as he's his and I don't 279 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 2: want to upset my son. 280 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 3: Backs. 281 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 2: Yes, he's only two, but he still deserves all the 282 00:14:54,400 --> 00:14:57,960 Speaker 2: love from both his parents. He's done nothing wrong then 283 00:14:58,000 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 2: obviously this one when he she comes along. Still not 284 00:15:02,280 --> 00:15:04,240 Speaker 2: sure about the state of my marriage, but even if 285 00:15:04,240 --> 00:15:07,760 Speaker 2: divorced is what happens, I need to be able to 286 00:15:07,800 --> 00:15:10,080 Speaker 2: get through to him so he can be the father 287 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 2: he was. Am I going insane? Do I sound insane? 288 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:17,360 Speaker 2: I don't know why writing here helps so much. Thanks 289 00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:21,000 Speaker 2: Reddit and we got another update. Judge Fumadola Berka says, 290 00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:22,400 Speaker 2: no force him to actually eat it. 291 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 3: I would love that. 292 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:23,960 Speaker 4: I would love that. 293 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 2: I actually think Ope is taking a pretty level headed 294 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:31,520 Speaker 2: approach to this, like the idea of all right, I'm 295 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:34,360 Speaker 2: gonna give you the DNA test, but you're gonna at 296 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:37,280 Speaker 2: least be going to couple's therapy and regular therapy. I 297 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 2: don't know if our marriage can make it through, but 298 00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:42,080 Speaker 2: I'm willing to try. 299 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:42,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. 300 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 2: Also, I feel like it would probably be I like 301 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 2: this idea of thinking of the child first. She's like, 302 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 2: all right, what's going to be best for the child 303 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:54,640 Speaker 2: in terms of me moving going out of the house. 304 00:15:54,880 --> 00:15:56,480 Speaker 2: Also what's going to be best for the child in 305 00:15:56,560 --> 00:15:59,880 Speaker 2: terms of having a father that cares, You'll feel it. 306 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 5: You know, look, look this might be a baby. Is 307 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 5: he ugly hideous? Quite possibly? 308 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:08,760 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, John, that's baby's fry. 309 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:09,680 Speaker 3: That's not relevant. 310 00:16:09,720 --> 00:16:12,560 Speaker 5: What matters is is the baby gonna feel the father, 311 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:15,720 Speaker 5: you know, not being as present like in his mind 312 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:18,680 Speaker 5: Ken's mind, He's like, oh there's no more cut. 313 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:21,800 Speaker 3: Kid can feel that no matter how. 314 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 2: And you know what they say, it's like, you know, 315 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 2: if you feel ugly on the inside, you're gonna be 316 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:30,800 Speaker 2: uglier on the outside. So you've just like compounded that. 317 00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:34,080 Speaker 2: Baby's stop stop out that we don't need uglier babies. 318 00:16:34,120 --> 00:16:35,080 Speaker 3: They're going to grow out of it. 319 00:16:35,480 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 5: You know, you never know, baby, no, no, babies are 320 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:41,200 Speaker 5: only ugly at babies. They all babies grow and then 321 00:16:41,280 --> 00:16:42,000 Speaker 5: we're all beautiful. 322 00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 1: But I don't know, I don't know about that. 323 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:47,120 Speaker 2: I think there's a I think people can grow up 324 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 2: to just be big ugly babies. 325 00:16:48,960 --> 00:16:49,760 Speaker 3: I can't argue with that. 326 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:51,720 Speaker 2: I can't argue with it, can't argue with it. Some 327 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:54,600 Speaker 2: people like you know, like one Guy and Spider Man, 328 00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:58,640 Speaker 2: the Pin, the Pin Pin Pin head Man, King Kingpin, Kingpin. 329 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 1: That man is a big baby? 330 00:17:00,800 --> 00:17:01,480 Speaker 3: Is it's the penguin? 331 00:17:01,920 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 4: No Kingpin and spine. 332 00:17:03,400 --> 00:17:04,600 Speaker 1: I don't watch movies fry. 333 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:10,960 Speaker 2: Oh all right, but we got an update, so hello again. 334 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:14,080 Speaker 2: I don't know how to update posts, so I just 335 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:17,960 Speaker 2: have to make another one following my two other posts. 336 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:21,080 Speaker 2: I will answer some questions. Yes, it is my house. 337 00:17:21,440 --> 00:17:24,120 Speaker 2: It was left to me when my mom passed away. 338 00:17:24,600 --> 00:17:28,560 Speaker 2: I've lived here all my life. I didn't move out 339 00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:31,000 Speaker 2: because I have a child and one on the way, 340 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:33,879 Speaker 2: so why should I be the one to leave? I 341 00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:35,960 Speaker 2: get that some people believe I was the a hole 342 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:39,440 Speaker 2: for asking him to leave, but as I was heavily pregnant, 343 00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:43,520 Speaker 2: I have a toddler and it's my house. Dude, I 344 00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:47,120 Speaker 2: wasn't about to leave. Who's telling this woman that she's 345 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 2: in the wrong by kicking this guy out? 346 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:49,920 Speaker 1: Who are you who? 347 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:53,479 Speaker 2: She's pregnant to the max and also has a toddler 348 00:17:53,480 --> 00:17:54,080 Speaker 2: to take care of. 349 00:17:54,119 --> 00:17:57,040 Speaker 5: Beyond the legal one, and it's house like like, legally 350 00:17:57,080 --> 00:17:59,600 Speaker 5: it's her house, but even beyond that, it's like, oh, 351 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:00,680 Speaker 5: who are you? 352 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:03,480 Speaker 2: Yes, he could have stayed, but have you tried living 353 00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 2: with someone who just wants to argue? 354 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:06,879 Speaker 1: Or just not talk. 355 00:18:07,440 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 2: I prefer my child not to live in that environment, 356 00:18:10,480 --> 00:18:13,000 Speaker 2: Thank you very much, Boom. At the end of the day, 357 00:18:13,480 --> 00:18:16,439 Speaker 2: I'm a mother first and a wife second. If you 358 00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:18,720 Speaker 2: think that's harsh, then I don't know what to tell you. 359 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:22,720 Speaker 2: My children come first. End of story or actually she 360 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:26,240 Speaker 2: just says first, end of because it's so end of story, 361 00:18:26,320 --> 00:18:28,760 Speaker 2: doesn't even need to complete it, don't even say story. Well, 362 00:18:29,240 --> 00:18:31,959 Speaker 2: Ken's friend did leave the day I told him he 363 00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:35,399 Speaker 2: had till Thursday. He wasn't happy about it and shouted 364 00:18:35,480 --> 00:18:38,600 Speaker 2: some insults at me, which was amazing. Ken's sister came 365 00:18:38,800 --> 00:18:41,040 Speaker 2: and pick up Ken. I wish I could tell you 366 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:43,200 Speaker 2: what she said, but she didn't say anything in front 367 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:47,720 Speaker 2: of me, just kept giving Ken stairs. We did you 368 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:50,280 Speaker 2: get the DNA test for a little one and Ken 369 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:53,600 Speaker 2: is the father? Obviously? 370 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:55,879 Speaker 4: Oh wow, there you go, there you freaking go. I 371 00:18:55,880 --> 00:18:56,960 Speaker 4: didn't think that was gonna happen. 372 00:18:57,040 --> 00:19:00,399 Speaker 2: Ken, somehow things I've intercepted the results, even though I 373 00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:03,359 Speaker 2: wasn't the one that did it. I wasn't the one 374 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:06,000 Speaker 2: that got handed the results, et cetera. So he's clearly 375 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:09,760 Speaker 2: lost his mind. My eye came over and whilst Opie's 376 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 2: favorite word. I was making tea. My water broke. Oh 377 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:19,440 Speaker 2: my little girl is here. Oh she is healthy and happy. Wow, 378 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:24,159 Speaker 2: she is nine pounds eight ounces, so no concern of 379 00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 2: anything with her. How big were you when you came out? 380 00:19:27,080 --> 00:19:28,400 Speaker 4: Eight pounds six ounces? 381 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 1: Nine pounds is pretty big, right, Yeah? 382 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:33,840 Speaker 4: My little brothers were nine pounds, like twelve ounces ten ounces, 383 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:34,640 Speaker 4: eleven ounces? 384 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, those are that's a those are that's a big baby. 385 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:38,159 Speaker 1: I think it was six pounds. 386 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:42,800 Speaker 5: Oh wow, like fifteen two ounces? 387 00:19:44,040 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 1: Were you actually fifteen pounds? 388 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:49,880 Speaker 4: Probably eighteen months? What do you expect? But I don't 389 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 4: know if they had like a weight metric system then two? 390 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:58,040 Speaker 4: What a weight metrics? Riley? Oh so long ago? The answer? 391 00:19:58,080 --> 00:19:59,879 Speaker 1: So oil different measurement? 392 00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:01,720 Speaker 4: Wake is there so long ago? 393 00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:03,959 Speaker 3: Figure out questions? 394 00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:05,800 Speaker 1: How many stones were you? 395 00:20:06,960 --> 00:20:10,280 Speaker 4: Yeah? 396 00:20:10,320 --> 00:20:11,920 Speaker 1: I'm now a mom of two. 397 00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:13,880 Speaker 2: I am home now, and Ken has been to see 398 00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:16,240 Speaker 2: his baby girl, although I guess she doesn't know that 399 00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 2: she is his baby girl because there's been no DNA test, 400 00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:25,400 Speaker 2: and he doesn't think she's his because his family doesn't 401 00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:29,439 Speaker 2: have many girls yet he has a sister. So I 402 00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:33,359 Speaker 2: rolled my eyes. Ezekiel says, John was waited with clamshells. 403 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 3: I was waiting pearls because I'm a. 404 00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:43,600 Speaker 5: Gem, Sir, you don't understand, honestly, Honestly, I do think 405 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 5: we need to imprison this man because he is too 406 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 5: stupid to function in society. I am just going to 407 00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:49,880 Speaker 5: throw that out there. 408 00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:53,320 Speaker 1: I wish these kids weren't his, because he's infecting the 409 00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:55,480 Speaker 1: world with his awful gene pool bro. 410 00:20:56,840 --> 00:21:01,200 Speaker 5: He is spawning more Halfkens, and we cannot we cannot 411 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 5: afford that. 412 00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:05,480 Speaker 2: Don't need that in this world. Yikes, it's the world 413 00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:08,320 Speaker 2: of videocracy that we're pointing to. With more of this 414 00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:11,240 Speaker 2: man's seed in the world, what the plants crave? Yeah, 415 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:13,960 Speaker 2: because I want him being mulch for the plants. I 416 00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:16,600 Speaker 2: want I want fun guy to eat his remains. 417 00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:18,400 Speaker 3: I mean, I just said, throw him at jail. That's 418 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:19,200 Speaker 3: all I said. 419 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:22,480 Speaker 1: That's what That's what I meant. That's what I meant. 420 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,200 Speaker 2: I don't really know where to go from here. Ken 421 00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:29,840 Speaker 2: is refusing therapy, says there's nothing wrong with him or 422 00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:32,960 Speaker 2: his brain. I beg to differ, and so do all 423 00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:36,119 Speaker 2: of us. He wants to get another DNA test for 424 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:39,040 Speaker 2: our boy, but won't tell me when or where, so 425 00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:42,760 Speaker 2: I can't interfere. Maybe one day he will come to 426 00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 2: his senses. My dad and stepmom are staying with me 427 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:49,400 Speaker 2: for a while to help me with the babies. I'd 428 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:52,840 Speaker 2: like to say I'm okay, but honestly, my emotions are 429 00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:56,040 Speaker 2: all over the show. I don't know which way is up. 430 00:21:56,520 --> 00:22:00,159 Speaker 2: Ken's sister visits the babies, and we've had it unspoken 431 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:02,880 Speaker 2: rule that we don't speak about Ken apart from when 432 00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:04,760 Speaker 2: our son asks about him. 433 00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:06,000 Speaker 1: I wish it. 434 00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:08,320 Speaker 2: Was a kind of update where he got the results, 435 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:11,800 Speaker 2: saw how much of an idiot he's been, and we 436 00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:16,240 Speaker 2: move on. But sadly that is not the case. Michelle 437 00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:21,840 Speaker 2: ev Leen Evelin says that man is trash facts Also, 438 00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:24,120 Speaker 2: if you want atl the arts at the bottom, Mosby's 439 00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:27,560 Speaker 2: husband's distant oppressed and question paternity of their son, leaving 440 00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:32,399 Speaker 2: OPI devastated, So I can't dwell on it too much, 441 00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:35,600 Speaker 2: just take crap one day at a time. I do 442 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:38,199 Speaker 2: miss my person and worry that he's missing out on 443 00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:41,359 Speaker 2: his baby girl's life already, which if I think about 444 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:44,199 Speaker 2: that too much, I will just sit and cry. But 445 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:48,520 Speaker 2: I don't have time for that. As always, thanks for 446 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:51,120 Speaker 2: listening to me, rand I might update if anything else 447 00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:53,080 Speaker 2: happens in my life. We're gonna get that update right now. 448 00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:55,879 Speaker 2: I'm still left wondering if I'm doing right here? Is 449 00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:58,200 Speaker 2: there anything I could do differently? Why are my kids 450 00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:01,480 Speaker 2: so hard for him to accept? All of a sudden 451 00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:07,119 Speaker 2: and we have another update. So the question to you guys, 452 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:10,560 Speaker 2: question to our little little chat, question to John, question 453 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:16,400 Speaker 2: to Riley, do we think this bufus, this dummy, this 454 00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:23,280 Speaker 2: waste of human seed and potential, this spreader of low 455 00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:28,240 Speaker 2: IQ throughout space time and DNA will come around? 456 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:29,080 Speaker 1: No? 457 00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:32,199 Speaker 3: I have basically no hope for him. 458 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:34,800 Speaker 5: I think the plan that Op laid out and then 459 00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:36,360 Speaker 5: that you had kind of laid out is great, which 460 00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:39,480 Speaker 5: is like, hey, let's let's pursue some therapy, if not 461 00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:42,199 Speaker 5: anything for almost like a post mortem or just a 462 00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:43,680 Speaker 5: like due diligence. 463 00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:45,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, making sure we're carrying out. 464 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:47,720 Speaker 1: And he won't even take the first step. You know. 465 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:50,240 Speaker 2: She's like she's kind of saying like, hey, do you 466 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:52,000 Speaker 2: want to stay married? Do you want to keep this 467 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:54,840 Speaker 2: thing going? You better see what's wrong with your head, buddy, 468 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:57,360 Speaker 2: And he's like, nothing's wrong. I don't care if these 469 00:23:57,359 --> 00:23:59,439 Speaker 2: still are my kids. Like he's not even diging the 470 00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:02,480 Speaker 2: first step, so like that is a that is a 471 00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:07,480 Speaker 2: single file march towards the end of the cliff falling 472 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:09,480 Speaker 2: into the deep sea of divorce. 473 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:11,960 Speaker 5: I think, yeah, we're we're literally at this point just 474 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:14,640 Speaker 5: doing due diligence on the path on the. 475 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:16,400 Speaker 1: Yellowick road to divorce. 476 00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:19,040 Speaker 5: That I think is all we're doing at this point, 477 00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:20,960 Speaker 5: with like attempting to go to therapy, her going to 478 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:23,680 Speaker 5: therapy and making sure that like, okay, yeah, we're. 479 00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:26,119 Speaker 3: Just we're on the way. We're absolutely on the way. 480 00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:30,320 Speaker 1: We are on the way. We got an update three y'all. Oh, 481 00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:31,640 Speaker 1: so hello again. 482 00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:38,480 Speaker 2: Read it, my suckling misstress, my sweet savior. Things have 483 00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:43,960 Speaker 2: been bizarre, but now I have closure. I know what's 484 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:49,479 Speaker 2: happened to my marriage. I know the scum, what Ken 485 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:57,359 Speaker 2: really is. He's not my person and never truly was. 486 00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:01,840 Speaker 2: So now I just want to divorce him, cut my losses, 487 00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:05,800 Speaker 2: and move on with my I'm gonna stop right here, bro, 488 00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:09,679 Speaker 2: put I see you in the chat if you know 489 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:13,960 Speaker 2: where it's going. I see Sabby Love twenty five says 490 00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 2: I think he's cheating. Well, you know, not always is 491 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:23,399 Speaker 2: this the case, But often the person who says you 492 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:27,679 Speaker 2: are cheating, is actually the person who was cheating the 493 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:28,160 Speaker 2: whole time. 494 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:30,240 Speaker 5: Wait a second, Sam, I think we're in a classroom 495 00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:32,760 Speaker 5: in the early two thousands because I see a projector. 496 00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:36,600 Speaker 2: I rest my case, rest your case, leave that projector 497 00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:39,479 Speaker 2: on play some Bill Nye the science guys right, and 498 00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,800 Speaker 2: walk away out of that classroom like a cool guy 499 00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:47,000 Speaker 2: walking away from an explosion. Yep, maybe a but maybe 500 00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:48,760 Speaker 2: a baking soda and vindegar explosion. 501 00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:52,879 Speaker 1: That's right, it's freaking Bill Nye. Bill Bill, Bill Bill, 502 00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:54,960 Speaker 1: no science guy hero. 503 00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:58,400 Speaker 2: I'm still at home with my babies, settling into motherhood. 504 00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:00,760 Speaker 2: Did John become a father while I is gone? Because 505 00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:03,720 Speaker 2: that was a total dad joke. You never know, you 506 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:07,080 Speaker 2: never know, you never know me, baby, stay protected, y'all. 507 00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:13,720 Speaker 2: So I'm just I'm still suddling into motherhood. My dad 508 00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:17,600 Speaker 2: and stepmom are still here, but they will be leaving 509 00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:21,560 Speaker 2: soon once I'm more emotionally stable. To say I'm okay 510 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:25,199 Speaker 2: would be a lie. But I now know what I 511 00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:28,359 Speaker 2: need to do. I have some sort of closure with Ken. 512 00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:30,879 Speaker 2: I know what happened with him, and I know that 513 00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:31,720 Speaker 2: it's not my fault. 514 00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:32,520 Speaker 1: That's good. 515 00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:36,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, don't blame yourself. For the sins of a Ken. 516 00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:42,000 Speaker 2: I turns out Ken was having an affair. 517 00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:45,080 Speaker 4: With whom who who do we know? 518 00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:52,479 Speaker 2: And has a baby on the way. Oh wow, even 519 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:55,160 Speaker 2: typing that makes me want to throw up. 520 00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:57,800 Speaker 4: Wow, Oh my gosh. 521 00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:04,400 Speaker 2: I found this out when a visibly pregnant lady knocked 522 00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:08,639 Speaker 2: on my door and asked me when I would be 523 00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:12,240 Speaker 2: leaving the house as it's Ken's house. 524 00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:16,320 Speaker 3: Pregnant on pregnant crime. Wow, this is wow. 525 00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:19,240 Speaker 2: Sanity and Ken Will probably thought he was like being 526 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:22,919 Speaker 2: a big dog, saying like I own this house, dude, 527 00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:25,919 Speaker 2: But he doesn't know lettle does he know? It is 528 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,560 Speaker 2: not his house? Premarital asset boys and girls the smallest 529 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:32,680 Speaker 2: I think, I'm not sure. Small small, small small small 530 00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:37,240 Speaker 2: wiener activity when I say this confused the crap out 531 00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:39,520 Speaker 2: of me. I meant it. I talked to this woman 532 00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:41,080 Speaker 2: for a while to try to work out what she 533 00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:46,520 Speaker 2: was talking about. It turns out that she's Ken's side piece, 534 00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:51,000 Speaker 2: well technically in her head, she's this fiance. A month ago, 535 00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:55,040 Speaker 2: Ken got down on one knee and proposed to her 536 00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 2: in my effing kitchen. 537 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:01,920 Speaker 1: Ken cook it up so both. 538 00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:07,560 Speaker 5: The audacity, aundocity, classy, right. 539 00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:10,560 Speaker 4: Dude, Okay, so you're telling me he was cheating this 540 00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:13,240 Speaker 4: whole time, and his friend gets cheated on funds out 541 00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:14,800 Speaker 4: none of the kids are his, and he's like, oh, 542 00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:17,000 Speaker 4: I have a great idea. I'm gonna try and make 543 00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:19,639 Speaker 4: sure that it looks like she was cheating on me 544 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:20,879 Speaker 4: and it's not even my kid, so I'll have a 545 00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:22,879 Speaker 4: way out. He just got his that idea of some 546 00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:23,440 Speaker 4: his friend. 547 00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:27,200 Speaker 2: I think, you know, he's probably he's probably been emboldened 548 00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:32,120 Speaker 2: maybe by his friend. It's like that that girl can 549 00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:35,920 Speaker 2: can get away with having an affair for that long, 550 00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:39,360 Speaker 2: all those kids like maybe I can't. 551 00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 3: He said, let me take notes, let me take. 552 00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:43,640 Speaker 4: Notes, let me do let me do the mail version 553 00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:44,160 Speaker 4: of yeah. 554 00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:46,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's like, he's like he's inspired. 555 00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:48,000 Speaker 3: I've studied from the master. 556 00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:50,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I've looked at the greats. You know, they say, 557 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:52,680 Speaker 2: they say, if you want to live a life like 558 00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,479 Speaker 2: the greats, you gotta first learn from them, and then 559 00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:56,280 Speaker 2: you gotta act like them. 560 00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:58,080 Speaker 3: You gotta learn, you gotta act. 561 00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:00,640 Speaker 2: You know, walk a walk a thousand steps in their 562 00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:02,360 Speaker 2: moccasins or some whatever. 563 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:03,280 Speaker 1: Exactly. 564 00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:07,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, people are commenting he deserves combo number fourteen, which 565 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:10,240 Speaker 5: again is being blasted through the moon, through the sun, 566 00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:12,960 Speaker 5: through the or cloud deep into a black hole, and 567 00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:16,000 Speaker 5: locked in an eternity prison as a spaghetti. 568 00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:17,440 Speaker 1: Comvo number fourteen. 569 00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:21,480 Speaker 5: That's combo number fourteen, blasted through every wall of universe 570 00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:24,560 Speaker 5: to live in internal hell jail as a spaghetti eaten 571 00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:27,160 Speaker 5: by evil space pigs for eternity. 572 00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:29,600 Speaker 2: All right, that's common number. I think I'm in agreement. 573 00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:32,160 Speaker 2: I think we all all in unison right here. Yes, 574 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,880 Speaker 2: So they've been seeing each other for a while. She's 575 00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:40,720 Speaker 2: having his baby. She believes I'm the ex wife who 576 00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:44,200 Speaker 2: Ken is letting stay in his house till I get 577 00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:47,360 Speaker 2: on my feet. We apparently broke up a few years ago, 578 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:51,120 Speaker 2: and none of my kids are Kens. When I go 579 00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:52,960 Speaker 2: to work in the morning, Ken goes to her house 580 00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:56,400 Speaker 2: and works from there. They were waiting for marriage to 581 00:29:56,520 --> 00:30:00,120 Speaker 2: move in together. How you trying to marry someone when 582 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:07,720 Speaker 2: and you are already married? Just fig WEIRDO. I ask 583 00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:10,959 Speaker 2: for proof of all this. She has pictures of them together. 584 00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:15,120 Speaker 2: Apparently she has an o F account and they make 585 00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:15,960 Speaker 2: content together. 586 00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:16,400 Speaker 3: Perfect. 587 00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:17,720 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh. 588 00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:20,880 Speaker 1: What couples that work together stay together. 589 00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:24,040 Speaker 3: That's what that's what Ken says. That's what that's he lives. 590 00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:27,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, what what where does this even come from? 591 00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:30,280 Speaker 1: He's trying to be a businessman. He's you know, you know. 592 00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:32,960 Speaker 5: He said, like us, we're like, oh hey, we're having 593 00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:36,960 Speaker 5: this conversation. It's totally unmonetized. He said, I am making sweet, 594 00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:40,440 Speaker 5: passionate love to my fiance side piece. 595 00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:43,360 Speaker 3: I'm cheating on with my wife. Why can I not monetize? 596 00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's one thing to cheat on your wife, right, 597 00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:49,200 Speaker 2: and like, you know, that's that's lame. Capitalism says he 598 00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:50,840 Speaker 2: What are you doing, dude? 599 00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:52,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, where's the revenue stream? 600 00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:55,960 Speaker 2: Where's the revenue stream? Then another thing, cheat on your wife, 601 00:30:56,240 --> 00:31:00,120 Speaker 2: but make money from it. Capitalism says, good on. 602 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:03,840 Speaker 1: You, boy. Oh, support everyone, support everyone, right, Yeah, you're 603 00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:07,960 Speaker 1: you're you're supporting your viewers. You're supporting good big daddy 604 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:13,080 Speaker 1: Uncle Sam given thirty to fifty percent to taxes. That 605 00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:16,200 Speaker 1: that's the American dream, that is the American way. And 606 00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:18,680 Speaker 1: Ken is doing that when he's got all American name. 607 00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:22,480 Speaker 5: When he uploads the video that says his chick while 608 00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:25,160 Speaker 5: my wife is away, he doesn't want to put out 609 00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:26,160 Speaker 5: a clickbait title. 610 00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:26,800 Speaker 3: I mean it. 611 00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:29,360 Speaker 2: He has to live up to what he is putting 612 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:32,760 Speaker 2: out their method. He has to live it. It's you know, 613 00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:35,200 Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of creators, you know, they 614 00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:38,640 Speaker 2: do the clickbait. They're not authentic. Wow, But Ken Ken 615 00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:43,000 Speaker 2: is authentic. When he says, pie, my oh, my wife 616 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:46,440 Speaker 2: is at work, he means, he means it, he means 617 00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:48,760 Speaker 2: not joking. Yeah, he's not joking, and he has the 618 00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:49,800 Speaker 2: baby bump to prove it. 619 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:53,760 Speaker 1: He does. Yeah. Both. So everyone put a put a 620 00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:57,240 Speaker 1: finger up for Ken, whatever finger you choose, it could 621 00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:00,960 Speaker 1: be this one or another one, and raise those high. 622 00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:04,600 Speaker 2: But we got more, We got more, We got more. 623 00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:09,520 Speaker 2: So I told her we are still married and explained 624 00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:14,280 Speaker 2: everything to her. I'm not sure what she's going to do. 625 00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:20,360 Speaker 2: But hey, not my circus, not my monkey. Now I 626 00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:23,520 Speaker 2: want a divorce. Is it true that once you talk 627 00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:26,560 Speaker 2: to a solicitor about divorce, they can't represent the person 628 00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:29,160 Speaker 2: in your divorce. I don't know what that means. I 629 00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:31,000 Speaker 2: want to go around our town and meet with as 630 00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:35,080 Speaker 2: many solicitors as possible. Yes, that is true. That is true. 631 00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:37,600 Speaker 2: I have heard that if anyone's seen marriage story, that 632 00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:40,520 Speaker 2: is the thing. If you talk to a divorce lawyer 633 00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:44,240 Speaker 2: so or solicit advice from a divorce lawyer about getting 634 00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:47,640 Speaker 2: a divorce. The other person can't use that divorce. 635 00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:49,400 Speaker 4: Lawyer well for a certain number of days. 636 00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:52,040 Speaker 2: I think I think it's for I think, I mean, 637 00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:54,840 Speaker 2: I think it's for long enough for it to mess 638 00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:56,280 Speaker 2: up divorce proceedings. 639 00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:58,000 Speaker 1: Oh, if you were to go with that person. 640 00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:01,000 Speaker 2: That makes sense, Yeah, Jellybah says. I've also heard conflict 641 00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:04,760 Speaker 2: of interest, So sen as the first hour is free, 642 00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,480 Speaker 2: so that he has a very hard time getting representation. 643 00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:09,280 Speaker 2: Is that too petty? 644 00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:11,000 Speaker 1: No? Chat, Is that too petty? 645 00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:14,600 Speaker 2: The house is in my name only and it's protected, 646 00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:16,880 Speaker 2: so there's no way he can take it. I have 647 00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:18,960 Speaker 2: all my money, and we do have a joint account, 648 00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:21,520 Speaker 2: but that's just what we put our share of household 649 00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:26,040 Speaker 2: bills in. I haven't spoken directly with Ken. His family 650 00:33:26,160 --> 00:33:28,760 Speaker 2: has completely cut him off, and he's been kicked out 651 00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:29,680 Speaker 2: of his sister's house. 652 00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:31,440 Speaker 1: All those people that. 653 00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:33,920 Speaker 2: Were concerned about him having a tumor or something wrong 654 00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:36,400 Speaker 2: with his brain, I really don't think that's the case. 655 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:40,400 Speaker 2: I think his actions just caught up to him as 656 00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:42,760 Speaker 2: his lives were going to come out once the baby 657 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:46,880 Speaker 2: was born. I think that's what happened. He got backed 658 00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,720 Speaker 2: into a corner and tried to fight his way out 659 00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:53,320 Speaker 2: through divorce process. I will get the court to do 660 00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:56,200 Speaker 2: DNA testing so he has proof for both, even if 661 00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:59,080 Speaker 2: he chooses to not believe it. I'm mentally exhausted from 662 00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:03,000 Speaker 2: all of this and sat wondering how I did not 663 00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:06,800 Speaker 2: notice might have to go for an eye test. But honestly, 664 00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:09,640 Speaker 2: would I be so wrong for just making his life 665 00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:12,520 Speaker 2: as difficult as possible to get legal advice? 666 00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:17,600 Speaker 1: Or is that too far? I want to dis server, 667 00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:18,920 Speaker 1: go do it. 668 00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:22,000 Speaker 4: Meet with them all, Meet with all the solicitors in 669 00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:24,239 Speaker 4: your county, in the next counties that are touching it. 670 00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:30,120 Speaker 5: We try to have the most empathetic, positive view of 671 00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:32,160 Speaker 5: things on this show and want we. 672 00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:34,279 Speaker 2: Want y'all to love each other and love up on 673 00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:37,160 Speaker 2: each other and like spill your love into each other. 674 00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:42,880 Speaker 5: But today we are about to reign absolute explosive terror 675 00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:49,440 Speaker 5: on this man's dome piece. We are about to unleash 676 00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:56,200 Speaker 5: the the tsunami preach of Petty upon his mere mortal 677 00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:59,640 Speaker 5: flesh and let nature do what it does best. 678 00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:04,440 Speaker 2: Get caught in a giant wave, push him to another state, 679 00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:07,760 Speaker 2: get all the dolphins to also solicit on your behalf. 680 00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:12,080 Speaker 2: Sure he cannot get a solicitor's lawyer in that state either. 681 00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:15,120 Speaker 4: And not only are we so listening, we're coming after 682 00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:16,120 Speaker 4: his little small business. 683 00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:18,439 Speaker 2: We're coming after a small business. Yeah you know what 684 00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:22,600 Speaker 2: that fans check? Sorry that o f check? I want, 685 00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:26,000 Speaker 2: I want, I want to present it. Those titles kind 686 00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:30,120 Speaker 2: of include me, what that that is? That I'm a 687 00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:33,520 Speaker 2: key player in this creep pie win while my wife 688 00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:37,040 Speaker 2: is not here. I'm the wife. I'm wife, I'm I'm 689 00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:41,440 Speaker 2: my wife. Yeah, okay, so come on, come on, does 690 00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:43,680 Speaker 2: a production wouldn't be possible without me? 691 00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:44,560 Speaker 1: Exactly? 692 00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:49,040 Speaker 2: So here we exactly put some respect on that mother 693 00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:53,000 Speaker 2: f and name another update. 694 00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:53,320 Speaker 3: Finish it. 695 00:35:53,880 --> 00:36:01,840 Speaker 2: I am finally divorced and could not be happier. Beautiful 696 00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:05,360 Speaker 2: preacher from the heavens, Well, hello there again read it. 697 00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:06,280 Speaker 1: I'm okay. 698 00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:09,960 Speaker 2: I totally just forgot about my ramblings on here. Oh 699 00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:14,640 Speaker 2: I'm doing okay. I'm officially divorced from Ken. It took 700 00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:16,680 Speaker 2: a long time to get to this part of my life, 701 00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:19,120 Speaker 2: and at some points I actually felt like I was 702 00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:21,680 Speaker 2: drowning both of my kids at a DNA test through 703 00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:25,200 Speaker 2: the courts, and they are Ken's. He still doesn't believe 704 00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:30,080 Speaker 2: it not my problem. Though Ken is now in prison 705 00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:34,680 Speaker 2: for domestic of I'm not one hundred percent on the 706 00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:38,240 Speaker 2: details because I was not involved. It was his side piece. 707 00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:40,920 Speaker 2: By the way, don't be our side piece. You should 708 00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:44,479 Speaker 2: join us live on YouTube and Facebook every weekday three 709 00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:48,200 Speaker 2: pm PSD. We're probably live right now. It's a taper profile. 710 00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:53,719 Speaker 2: There's another relevant update John, But what the heck? You 711 00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:54,640 Speaker 2: do not see that coming? 712 00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:58,880 Speaker 5: Just when you think Ken is a shriveled up, evil, 713 00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:04,360 Speaker 5: little de devil man, he somehow spawns into mega Satan 714 00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:07,360 Speaker 5: and you. 715 00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:09,480 Speaker 2: Just I mean, he is a He is a shriveled 716 00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:14,279 Speaker 2: devil man. Literally, like every ounce of of wet scruple 717 00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:16,759 Speaker 2: has been wrong out of that man. 718 00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:21,759 Speaker 5: The scruples have fallen to the floor. Yes, they're just 719 00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:25,400 Speaker 5: absolutely not. And you know I I time market editor. 720 00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:28,360 Speaker 5: I did say early in the stream, throw him in prison, 721 00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:29,120 Speaker 5: throw him in jail. 722 00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:29,439 Speaker 1: Yep. 723 00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:31,919 Speaker 3: I'm I'm I'm thrilled he's there. 724 00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:35,440 Speaker 2: I'm not saying John's a genie or a god, but 725 00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:38,640 Speaker 2: I am saying you should start praying to someone, and 726 00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:41,600 Speaker 2: it might as well be him, because he's got that 727 00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:43,759 Speaker 2: that mine that just looks into the future. He's got 728 00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:46,560 Speaker 2: that psychic, little little twinkle in his eye? 729 00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:47,759 Speaker 3: Who else are you gonna do it to? 730 00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:49,840 Speaker 1: Who else? Who else do you get to pray to? 731 00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:51,359 Speaker 1: But our boy John? 732 00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:55,040 Speaker 2: Prayers for John, but not for John with John, because 733 00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:58,880 Speaker 2: of John to John to John, prayers to John. You 734 00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:02,960 Speaker 2: want to be on John's it's a nice list. Yeah, honestly, 735 00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:04,399 Speaker 2: you want to be on John's naughty list? 736 00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:09,080 Speaker 1: You know either? Oh yeah, oh baby? 737 00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:10,080 Speaker 3: Enough said. 738 00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:13,319 Speaker 2: I love to say that sometimes I don't break down 739 00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:16,359 Speaker 2: in tears and I'm completely over it, but I'm not. 740 00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:19,240 Speaker 2: I've now gone back to work though after my maternity 741 00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:22,400 Speaker 2: leave was finished, I got a promotion, and now I'm 742 00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:26,640 Speaker 2: used to living with just us three. My kids keep 743 00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:29,640 Speaker 2: going and I'm so proud of them. They go visit 744 00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:31,400 Speaker 2: their grandparents and dad's side of the family, and they 745 00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:33,000 Speaker 2: have been so loving. 746 00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:33,920 Speaker 1: And so supportive. 747 00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:38,040 Speaker 2: His sister is still amazing at least doesn't run in 748 00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:40,080 Speaker 2: the family. I don't really know what else to say, 749 00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:47,040 Speaker 2: just that I'm okay, I'm divorced and my children are thriving. 750 00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:50,280 Speaker 2: Just I'm okay, I'm divorced and my children are thriving. 751 00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:52,720 Speaker 2: I can't thank Ken for a lot of the things, 752 00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:57,840 Speaker 2: but I'm grateful for my children that are biologically hers. 753 00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:01,200 Speaker 4: What what happened to the friend though. 754 00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:01,600 Speaker 1: I don't know. 755 00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:03,319 Speaker 5: He just got kind of cast out, Yeah, I mean 756 00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:06,799 Speaker 5: started honestly, Yeah, so many things happened. I feel like 757 00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:10,799 Speaker 5: Bro's significance just shrank even lower. And just like at 758 00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:13,440 Speaker 5: this point, so much has happened, like I don't know. 759 00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:14,920 Speaker 5: Hopefully he's in jail two. 760 00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:18,000 Speaker 1: I think I think that's what we need. I think 761 00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:18,680 Speaker 1: that's what we need. 762 00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:21,719 Speaker 4: But the friend that got cheated on, Yeah, after all 763 00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:24,080 Speaker 4: this was revealed, he didn't really do anything. 764 00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:26,680 Speaker 1: Literally, kenn't bad vibes. 765 00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:28,360 Speaker 3: Bro Ken is so bad. 766 00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:32,120 Speaker 5: Anyone in his orbit should just just just for safety, 767 00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:33,960 Speaker 5: just to like just button it. 768 00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:36,960 Speaker 3: Up, just just throw him on in there, go get 769 00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:37,439 Speaker 3: him in there. 770 00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:37,640 Speaker 1: Man. 771 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,600 Speaker 2: But we got another story that I have already queued 772 00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:42,440 Speaker 2: up on John's behalf that is right there. 773 00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:43,359 Speaker 3: It's gonna be great. 774 00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:44,040 Speaker 1: I hit it