Speaker 1: So it's on the side. What's up.
Speaker 2: It's Gandhi and we're gonna do a mini SOD because
Speaker 2: I just want to be consistent and release as many
Speaker 2: episodes throughout the year as I can. We're wrapping it
Speaker 2: up soon and next year could look totally different. Still podcasting,
Speaker 2: but we never know.
Speaker 1: You never know what's going to happen. That's Diamond contributing
Speaker 1: quite a lot.
Speaker 2: We were just talking about So today, by the way,
Speaker 2: it is when you hear this, it will be the seventeenth.
Speaker 3: Maybe eighteen eighteenth eighteenth.
Speaker 2: Today as we record it is December thirteenth, Friday the thirteenth,
Speaker 2: which is jingle Ball Day and my birthday. And we
Speaker 2: were interviewing Mark Summers today and then we talked about
Speaker 2: like what a great interview he is because he's one
Speaker 2: of those people who clearly knows how to do an interview.
Speaker 2: He doesn't just one word it. He does the yes
Speaker 2: and and gives you a full sentence and kind of
Speaker 2: leaves things open.
Speaker 1: So timond if we could work on that, that'd be great.
Speaker 4: I'm always like yes, no, don't like that, or mm
Speaker 4: hmm great, wow, yeah, which is funny because you have
Speaker 4: so much to say, just in general, you always have
Speaker 4: something to say until there's a microphone in front of
Speaker 4: your face and then you're like, no, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Man, like okay, don't want this to live forever.
Speaker 2: So I hear tonight at jingle Ball, which is now
Speaker 2: in the past. When you're listening, you have kind of
Speaker 2: some new responsibilities today because you're taking over for a
Speaker 2: person who's not going to be backstage.
Speaker 1: It's typically backstage.
Speaker 3: Yes, and she's very nervous about.
Speaker 1: It, but yolo, she's nervous or you're nervous.
Speaker 4: Me Okay, Hi, I'm very No, I'm not very nervous.
Speaker 4: But this will be the first time that I'm doing
Speaker 4: this by myself.
Speaker 3: I've done it before with people.
Speaker 4: Okay, but I'm also working with you and Danielle, so
Speaker 4: I'm very excited about that. And luckily it's not like
Speaker 4: when I had to do it before. I was working
Speaker 4: with people from a show that I didn't know, and
Speaker 4: so luckily there was somebody else there with me.
Speaker 3: But I'm comfortable.
Speaker 1: Okay. What is it that makes you the most nervous
Speaker 1: about this though, the.
Speaker 4: Fact that you could prep as much as you want,
Speaker 4: but when the mics. Come on, anything could come out
Speaker 4: of anyone's mouth at any time. And okay, okay, you
Speaker 4: and Danielle are lunatics. So I mean, this has happened
Speaker 4: to me before where I've said, uh, Danielle know, this
Speaker 4: is what you say and this is.
Speaker 3: What you don't say.
Speaker 4: And she mixed it up and said something that she
Speaker 4: remember what it was, no, okay, something about an artist
Speaker 4: and she said it to the artist and then she goes, oh, yeah,
Speaker 4: that's right. Diamond told me not to say that, and
Speaker 4: like and so yeah, people were looking at me and
Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, well, at least you know that
Speaker 4: I told her not to say exactly anywhere.
Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, so you can they do so much.
Speaker 2: And then you know, this is when I say all
Speaker 2: the time, if you have a problem with me, you
Speaker 2: have a problem with me, I promise you. For the
Speaker 2: most part, it's probably not with somebody who was around
Speaker 2: me because I usually don't listen to them. But they
Speaker 2: can also only control you so much, which is really
Speaker 2: not at all. You cannot control people and what comes
Speaker 2: out of their mouth. And when you have quote unquote
Speaker 2: talent who has done this for a very long time,
Speaker 2: and we have a microphone, and we know it's live.
Speaker 1: You can't control what happens. You can do your best,
Speaker 1: and that's it.
Speaker 4: Also, I think i've ever worked with Elvis by myself.
Speaker 4: Either he's good about that stuff. He's really good about
Speaker 4: that stuff. Maybe I not by myself, but clearly i've
Speaker 4: worked with him. But yeah, but he's also another person
Speaker 4: who like, you never got a mood?
Speaker 3: Ooh, babes, what the what is it? It's a piece
Speaker 3: of paper with words on it.
Speaker 2: There have been moments where and I will say this,
Speaker 2: you know, there's the whole. You either die hero, you
Speaker 2: live long enough to become the villain. When I was
Speaker 2: a little baby DJ just starting out, I used to
Speaker 2: see things and be like, oh my god, why are
Speaker 2: they acting that way? I don't understand what the big
Speaker 2: deal is. And now I am in my villain era
Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh, I see, yeah, you get it.
Speaker 2: I see where it comes from. I see what happened.
Speaker 2: When we are at an event and it is our event.
Speaker 2: We are the talent on stage, backstage, on the air,
Speaker 2: off the air.
Speaker 1: And you try to kick me out of a room.
Speaker 1: Are you kidding?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I'll go home right fucking now.
Speaker 3: It's the Can we talk about that?
Speaker 4: Ye?
Speaker 3: Watching the temper tantrums of you all.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's probably the most entertaining thing I've ever seen
Speaker 4: in my life. Yeah, Like when Danielle gets mad, you know,
Speaker 4: and then she's like.
Speaker 3: It's Danielle like that. You are very like.
Speaker 4: Kind of like the author me are Arthur Memes, and
Speaker 4: you're like, damn it.
Speaker 2: I think think if Danielle has not even a temper tantra,
Speaker 2: but when she feels a certain kind of way, I
Speaker 2: think it's more shocking because she's so happy and like
Speaker 2: easy and just all like, yeah, everything's good, everything's amazing.
Speaker 1: So she gets upset.
Speaker 3: It's noticeable.
Speaker 2: That is why you have to be like me, which
Speaker 2: isn't a constant state of keeping people on their toes.
Speaker 2: Like you never know what's gonna happen. So when I
Speaker 2: do have a little outburst, people are like, yeah, that tracks.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I want anyway.
Speaker 3: I think it's funny, but nobody is funnier than Elvis.
Speaker 2: Elvis is the best. And I can't even tell you
Speaker 2: some of the stuff he's done because I know he does.
Speaker 2: He wouldn't even want to, but I'll just say this,
Speaker 2: every time I have seen it happen.
Speaker 1: But for once, I was like, you earned that.
Speaker 2: You pushed a nice guy a little too far in
Speaker 2: a stressful situation, and.
Speaker 1: He flipped a table.
Speaker 3: Okay, ten out of ten, ten out of ten. I
Speaker 3: love it. I love it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, hilarious.
Speaker 2: I'll just stand there like looking back and forth, like
Speaker 2: watching a tennis match. I'm like, oh, oh, oh, oh,
Speaker 2: oh shit.
Speaker 4: And then I love the fact that like things like
Speaker 4: that are happening. And then you turn around and you
Speaker 4: just see Siary moseying on in with a drinking food
Speaker 4: in his hand, and I'm like, I'm.
Speaker 3: Waiting for you.
Speaker 1: He's like, this is really good.
Speaker 4: Wow, it would be nice if I could put this
Speaker 4: down and grab something to eat with the scary.
Speaker 2: Yeah of chaos backstage. I brought my sister one time
Speaker 2: backstage and I told her, I do not want you
Speaker 2: to be here. I love you more than anything, and
Speaker 2: I want you by my side for anything.
Speaker 1: But this is a dark place.
Speaker 2: Dark things happen, and you never know, and people are
Speaker 2: gonna push you around until you get the fuck out
Speaker 2: of the way, and they're not gonna be nice. Then
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be mean because if I see someone being rude.
Speaker 1: To you game on. Yeah, And on that night I
Speaker 1: learned something.
Speaker 2: So Elvis always told me, if somebody doesn't want you
Speaker 2: to be there, walk away and let them know. I'm
Speaker 2: walking away because you told me to walk away, and
Speaker 2: you will rue the day.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: So that night it was an after party and I'm
Speaker 2: on the flyer for the after party. I'm on the
Speaker 2: flyer because I'm hosting it. We walked from Madison Square
Speaker 2: Garden in the rain, by the way, and it was
Speaker 2: cold all the way to the club and they didn't
Speaker 2: want to let people in until midnight and it was raining,
Speaker 2: and I said, Hi, I'm here for the after party.
Speaker 2: The fucker at the door said, everybody's here for the
Speaker 2: after party. So I don't know why you think you're special.
Speaker 2: You're gonna have to wait. And I said, well, typically
Speaker 2: I wouldn't think I was special, But since I'm on
Speaker 2: the flyer and I don't want to stand out here
Speaker 2: and get soaked with my family, if you could just
Speaker 2: let us in, I'll stand in the doorway. That'd be fine.
Speaker 2: He said no. I was like, all right, I'm counting
Speaker 2: down from five and if we haven't gotten in the
Speaker 2: door by that, I'm going home and you can explain
Speaker 2: why I'm not here because I'm on the flyer. And
Speaker 2: he let me in, and my sister said, please don't
Speaker 2: ever act like that in front of me. Ever.
Speaker 1: Again, I was like, I'm trying to save you, man.
Speaker 2: I would have loved that. I don't want to stand
Speaker 2: out here and get soaked and be cold.
Speaker 1: Come on, man.
Speaker 2: So yes, I had that moment. And then we were
Speaker 2: at another party in Miami. There was a pool party,
Speaker 2: and again we're on the flyer, and I didn't to
Speaker 2: be fair, I didn't have the wristband I was supposed
Speaker 2: to have because I had met up with everybody later.
Speaker 2: So I told him, hey, i'm here, I don't have
Speaker 2: the wristband, but I can go grab one and I'll
Speaker 2: come back out and give it to you. I was
Speaker 2: by myself. It's not like the pack of people. As
Speaker 2: I'm standing there and this man's not letting me in.
Speaker 2: All these listeners are like, can I take a picture
Speaker 2: with you? Can we take pictures? Yeah, for sure, no problems,
Speaker 2: So I'm taking pictures. He still said, I don't know
Speaker 2: who you are. I can't let you in here.
Speaker 1: Oh Elvis, Froggy.
Speaker 2: Everyone are like waving and yelling like get back here,
Speaker 2: what's taking you so long? So I just pointed to
Speaker 2: the guy, was like, he's not letting me in. So
Speaker 2: I'm going home, and I start walking away and somebody
Speaker 2: comes running out and grassy like.
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, leave she's with us.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, I'm not going to stand there and fight
Speaker 2: with you to let me into something that I am hosting.
Speaker 4: That's crazy. I would have loved to see that in person.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna leave this guy to let me, so I'm
Speaker 4: gonna leave. You know how stressful being a security guard
Speaker 4: must be because like, Okay, I'm following the rules.
Speaker 3: I know I'm being an asshole, but I'm following the rules.
Speaker 4: And now I'm going to get in trouble because I
Speaker 4: did my job and now you're leaving and what happened.
Speaker 1: Here's the thing. There are so many solutions.
Speaker 2: I used to work out a club and one of
Speaker 2: the things, I think we've talked about this before. Never
Speaker 2: get into it with security because you will lose. They're
Speaker 2: bigger than you, they're stronger and you. The cops are
Speaker 2: on their side every time walk away, but they do
Speaker 2: have brains. They can think with them if they choose
Speaker 2: not to. That's not my problem. So when there's a
Speaker 2: guy at the front who sees the entire cabanda of
Speaker 2: people where I'm supposed to be waving and saying come
Speaker 2: in here, you see listeners taking a photo with me.
Speaker 2: At any given point, you could have been like, hold
Speaker 2: on one second, let me go get somebody. Hey, let
Speaker 2: me ask my manager. Hey, there's thirty seven thousand other
Speaker 2: security guards here. Maybe I could walk you back there
Speaker 2: and see if in fact you were lying. You five
Speaker 2: foot shrimp who's probably not going to do anything, but
Speaker 2: instead you choose to just stand there and be a dick.
Speaker 2: I don't think so. We all have brains, let's use them.
Speaker 2: It's important. Oh man, I know I probably sound like
Speaker 2: such an asshole right now, but until you're in these situations,
Speaker 2: it's warranted. These people are assholes. What do you feel
Speaker 2: like in any way you have entered a villain era?
Speaker 2: Are you still in the hero spots? Well, I've always
Speaker 2: been a villain. I'm always a bad guy in a
Speaker 2: lot situation, so I don't really care. Why what makes
Speaker 2: you a bad guy? When you say you're the bad guy,
Speaker 2: what does the bad guy mean? And why do you
Speaker 2: think you're there.
Speaker 4: I think that a lot of the times, my personality,
Speaker 4: like the way that I handle situations, makes me seem
Speaker 4: as if I don't care about things, so it's just
Speaker 4: easier for people to paint me as a villain.
Speaker 2: I think you very much care about things, and I
Speaker 2: think it takes a lot from you to be like,
Speaker 2: I'm not dealing with this, I don't want to address it.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have nothing to do with it. I think
Speaker 2: that takes a lot more from you than if you
Speaker 2: stay and fight about something. And I think that that's
Speaker 2: your sort of declaration of wars when you act like
Speaker 2: you don't care, because.
Speaker 3: I know you care. Usually when there's a declaration of war,
Speaker 3: you're dead to me.
Speaker 1: What do you verrgo?
Speaker 4: Yep. Once you've gotten me to the point where I
Speaker 4: care enough to feel like I just have to walk
Speaker 4: away and detach and disassociate, then like, oh you're done.
Speaker 1: I agree, you are done, done, done.
Speaker 3: Yeah. So people are like, oh my god, she's so cold.
Speaker 3: Yes she is.
Speaker 2: I think it's funny, and again I'm me, So it's
Speaker 2: very much coming from a place of bias. I don't
Speaker 2: think i'm cold or mean, and I get told NonStop
Speaker 2: that I am both of those things, and I'm like, I, uh,
Speaker 2: I thought I was the warmest person I knew you
Speaker 2: and love you and embrace you and try to do nice.
Speaker 4: Things only when you know people or when you're Yeah,
Speaker 4: well you're nice to people that you don't know too,
Speaker 4: But like, I think you're very matter of a fact, right,
Speaker 4: So I think that for some people that could be cold,
Speaker 4: and like, I don't think it's mean, but it's just
Speaker 4: like very blunt, straight to the point, are we doing this?
Speaker 3: Yes or no? Great buye, which I appreciate.
Speaker 2: I think that's the nicest thing you can do, is
Speaker 2: be direct and not waste people's time. And also, if
Speaker 2: somebody upsets you, you owe it to yourself and to
Speaker 2: that person to tell them why something upset you. Otherwise
Speaker 2: you just build resentment because you didn't set expectations.
Speaker 1: For yourself about how you want someone to treat you.
Speaker 4: Okay, well, okay, here's my thing, because I feel like
Speaker 4: everyone has a brain, whether they use it or not.
Speaker 4: Right security, if you know what you did to upset me,
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna waste my time telling you what you did.
Speaker 2: But how do you know that they know.
Speaker 4: You're a security guard does not let me in after
Speaker 4: I've explained this and the third and I decide, fuck you,
Speaker 4: I'm not doing this. I don't feel like I need
Speaker 4: to explain any further. You can't stand there and pretend
Speaker 4: it's if you don't know why I'm upset. You know,
Speaker 4: turn that thing on that's in your skull, Turn it on,
Speaker 4: Turn it on.
Speaker 2: I don't disagree with you. All I'm gonna say is,
Speaker 2: if I've learned anything over the years of my life,
Speaker 2: I'm the main character in my story. I am not
Speaker 2: the main character in everybody else's story. So while I
Speaker 2: would love to think that the world revolves around me
Speaker 2: and people are doing things intentionally with me in mind,
Speaker 2: I don't think that's the case. I actually think people
Speaker 2: are doing things for them. And sometimes when you're doing
Speaker 2: things for yourself and you're not thinking about everybody else,
Speaker 2: you accidentally step on a land mine or hurt somebody's
Speaker 2: feelings or do whatever. And I think I'm being kind
Speaker 2: by telling someone, Hey, this bothered me. You might not
Speaker 2: know that you did something or that this thing bothered me,
Speaker 2: but it does bother me, and I would like for
Speaker 2: it to not happen again, which apparently makes me a monster.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and also I just feel like it could be
Speaker 3: a waste of time. People don't care.
Speaker 2: People do it once and then when they show you
Speaker 2: they don't care, you move on.
Speaker 3: Yeah, piece up, a town down. I feel like any
Speaker 3: of it.
Speaker 4: Maybe I'll grow one day, right, Hopefully I do, right,
Speaker 4: because you're supposed to keep growing and evolving. Absolutely, But
Speaker 4: I don't know. This one thing about me has not changed.
Speaker 4: I can't are you happy with it? Sometimes I think
Speaker 4: that I wonder what my life would be like if.
Speaker 3: I went out of my way to like have I.
Speaker 4: Don't really want to say, confrontation with people, but like
Speaker 4: engage with certain things. Don't really think it would be
Speaker 4: much different, just because it's like, I really believe that
Speaker 4: people know what they're doing when they do you and like, yeah,
Speaker 4: you may not have realized in the moment what you did,
Speaker 4: but over time you know, so fuck you.
Speaker 1: You have more faith in people than I do.
Speaker 3: Ah, Well, you have more faith in.
Speaker 2: People's intelligence emotional intelligence than I do.
Speaker 4: Maybe maybe not, But I don't feel like that's emotional intelligence.
Speaker 4: I think that's just using your brain. I don't think
Speaker 4: emotion has anything to do with that.
Speaker 3: You know when you do something wrong.
Speaker 2: No, I don't think emotional intelligence doesn't have to do
Speaker 2: with being emotional.
Speaker 1: It often has to do with how.
Speaker 2: You read another person, okay, and they're what you perceive
Speaker 2: as their intentions or their energy. I think that's more
Speaker 2: of emotional intelligence than just addressing anger, grief, happiness, whatever
Speaker 2: it is. I think it's it's interpersonal knowing how to
Speaker 2: deal with people just based on vibes and things like that.
Speaker 3: Maybe I'll grow, I don't know, maybe don't need to.
Speaker 1: Maybe you're happy the way you are and it's not
Speaker 1: like that. Cheers babes.
Speaker 2: This is a Minisodam. We really went on for fifteen minutes.
Speaker 2: That's good, perfect, that's perfect, right, Yeah, excellent. Wait, yeah,
Speaker 2: what do you wish for in this new year of life?
Speaker 2: I wish for I know it sounds cliche, I'm gonna
Speaker 2: say it. I'm at the place of my life where
Speaker 2: all I want, if I did have a wish come true,
Speaker 2: was for my family and friends, the people who I
Speaker 2: love to be happy and healthy.
Speaker 1: And that is it.
Speaker 2: If I can see those things, that's all I want.
Speaker 4: What about you?
Speaker 1: I have everything I want? Ah, that's so good.
Speaker 2: I mean it I think every day I have everything
Speaker 2: I ever wanted and more. What am I gonna ask for?
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna ask for anything. I love that it's
Speaker 2: time for me to do so for other people. Wow,
Speaker 2: And I see you get far more fulfillment watching other
Speaker 2: people be happy, because I'm happy as fuck. So I
Speaker 2: love seeing it from other people.
Speaker 3: It's great. I love them.
Speaker 2: I hope you get all of your wishes this year.
Speaker 2: That's my wish.
Speaker 1: I love that. What was your birthday wish?
Speaker 2: What did you want?
Speaker 4: I don't remember the exact because I remember thinking about it.
Speaker 4: My sister and I had a conversation, like what do
Speaker 4: you want in this new year of life? I just
Speaker 4: want to be healthy and happy and not so chaotic internally.
Speaker 4: Other than that, I'm chilling.
Speaker 2: Because that's like, that's the good stuff. That's the stuff
Speaker 2: you can't buy, but if you have it, it is priceless.
Speaker 1: Yeah I don't.
Speaker 2: I mean, if someone can buy it, I can probably
Speaker 2: buy it. And if I can't, Elvis, well it's amazing.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. All right, if you want to find
Speaker 1: you online, where they gonna find you?
Speaker 3: At Diamond Sincere on Instagram.
Speaker 2: I am at Baby Hot Sauce on Instagram. Oh shit,
Speaker 2: you know what we could have done and we didn't
Speaker 2: do talkbacks?
Speaker 3: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: We'll do them in the next episode, A many episode
Speaker 2: of talkbacks. Okay, until then, say bye.