1 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:05,040 Speaker 1: So it's on the side. What's up. 2 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 2: It's Gandhi and we're gonna do a mini SOD because 3 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:09,879 Speaker 2: I just want to be consistent and release as many 4 00:00:09,880 --> 00:00:11,840 Speaker 2: episodes throughout the year as I can. We're wrapping it 5 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 2: up soon and next year could look totally different. Still podcasting, 6 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:17,480 Speaker 2: but we never know. 7 00:00:17,680 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: You never know what's going to happen. That's Diamond contributing 8 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 1: quite a lot. 9 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 2: We were just talking about So today, by the way, 10 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:33,240 Speaker 2: it is when you hear this, it will be the seventeenth. 11 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 3: Maybe eighteen eighteenth eighteenth. 12 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 2: Today as we record it is December thirteenth, Friday the thirteenth, 13 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 2: which is jingle Ball Day and my birthday. And we 14 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 2: were interviewing Mark Summers today and then we talked about 15 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 2: like what a great interview he is because he's one 16 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:51,920 Speaker 2: of those people who clearly knows how to do an interview. 17 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 2: He doesn't just one word it. He does the yes 18 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 2: and and gives you a full sentence and kind of 19 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 2: leaves things open. 20 00:00:57,480 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 1: So timond if we could work on that, that'd be great. 21 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 4: I'm always like yes, no, don't like that, or mm 22 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 4: hmm great, wow, yeah, which is funny because you have 23 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 4: so much to say, just in general, you always have 24 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 4: something to say until there's a microphone in front of 25 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 4: your face and then you're like, no, I don't know. 26 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 2: I don't know. 27 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 3: Man, like okay, don't want this to live forever. 28 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 2: So I hear tonight at jingle Ball, which is now 29 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 2: in the past. When you're listening, you have kind of 30 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 2: some new responsibilities today because you're taking over for a 31 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 2: person who's not going to be backstage. 32 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:28,040 Speaker 1: It's typically backstage. 33 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 3: Yes, and she's very nervous about. 34 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 1: It, but yolo, she's nervous or you're nervous. 35 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 4: Me Okay, Hi, I'm very No, I'm not very nervous. 36 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:38,960 Speaker 4: But this will be the first time that I'm doing 37 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:39,959 Speaker 4: this by myself. 38 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 3: I've done it before with people. 39 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 4: Okay, but I'm also working with you and Danielle, so 40 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:47,320 Speaker 4: I'm very excited about that. And luckily it's not like 41 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:49,240 Speaker 4: when I had to do it before. I was working 42 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 4: with people from a show that I didn't know, and 43 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 4: so luckily there was somebody else there with me. 44 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 3: But I'm comfortable. 45 00:01:56,920 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 1: Okay. What is it that makes you the most nervous 46 00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: about this though, the. 47 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 4: Fact that you could prep as much as you want, 48 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:08,080 Speaker 4: but when the mics. Come on, anything could come out 49 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 4: of anyone's mouth at any time. And okay, okay, you 50 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 4: and Danielle are lunatics. So I mean, this has happened 51 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:19,920 Speaker 4: to me before where I've said, uh, Danielle know, this 52 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 4: is what you say and this is. 53 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 3: What you don't say. 54 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:24,160 Speaker 4: And she mixed it up and said something that she 55 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 4: remember what it was, no, okay, something about an artist 56 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:33,839 Speaker 4: and she said it to the artist and then she goes, oh, yeah, 57 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:35,520 Speaker 4: that's right. Diamond told me not to say that, and 58 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:40,240 Speaker 4: like and so yeah, people were looking at me and 59 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, well, at least you know that 60 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 4: I told her not to say exactly anywhere. 61 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:45,320 Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, so you can they do so much. 62 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 2: And then you know, this is when I say all 63 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 2: the time, if you have a problem with me, you 64 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 2: have a problem with me, I promise you. For the 65 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 2: most part, it's probably not with somebody who was around 66 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 2: me because I usually don't listen to them. But they 67 00:02:57,440 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 2: can also only control you so much, which is really 68 00:02:59,800 --> 00:03:02,679 Speaker 2: not at all. You cannot control people and what comes 69 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 2: out of their mouth. And when you have quote unquote 70 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:07,120 Speaker 2: talent who has done this for a very long time, 71 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 2: and we have a microphone, and we know it's live. 72 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:12,959 Speaker 1: You can't control what happens. You can do your best, 73 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 1: and that's it. 74 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 4: Also, I think i've ever worked with Elvis by myself. 75 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:20,920 Speaker 4: Either he's good about that stuff. He's really good about 76 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 4: that stuff. Maybe I not by myself, but clearly i've 77 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:27,240 Speaker 4: worked with him. But yeah, but he's also another person 78 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 4: who like, you never got a mood? 79 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 3: Ooh, babes, what the what is it? It's a piece 80 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 3: of paper with words on it. 81 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 2: There have been moments where and I will say this, 82 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 2: you know, there's the whole. You either die hero, you 83 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 2: live long enough to become the villain. When I was 84 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 2: a little baby DJ just starting out, I used to 85 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 2: see things and be like, oh my god, why are 86 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 2: they acting that way? I don't understand what the big 87 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 2: deal is. And now I am in my villain era 88 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh, I see, yeah, you get it. 89 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 2: I see where it comes from. I see what happened. 90 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 2: When we are at an event and it is our event. 91 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 2: We are the talent on stage, backstage, on the air, 92 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 2: off the air. 93 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 1: And you try to kick me out of a room. 94 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 1: Are you kidding? 95 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 4: Yeah? 96 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 1: I'll go home right fucking now. 97 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:13,160 Speaker 3: It's the Can we talk about that? 98 00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 4: Ye? 99 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 3: Watching the temper tantrums of you all. 100 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's probably the most entertaining thing I've ever seen 101 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 4: in my life. Yeah, Like when Danielle gets mad, you know, 102 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:29,280 Speaker 4: and then she's like. 103 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:34,240 Speaker 3: It's Danielle like that. You are very like. 104 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 4: Kind of like the author me are Arthur Memes, and 105 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:42,840 Speaker 4: you're like, damn it. 106 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 2: I think think if Danielle has not even a temper tantra, 107 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 2: but when she feels a certain kind of way, I 108 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 2: think it's more shocking because she's so happy and like 109 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:55,839 Speaker 2: easy and just all like, yeah, everything's good, everything's amazing. 110 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:56,719 Speaker 1: So she gets upset. 111 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 3: It's noticeable. 112 00:04:58,080 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 2: That is why you have to be like me, which 113 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:02,119 Speaker 2: isn't a constant state of keeping people on their toes. 114 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:04,279 Speaker 2: Like you never know what's gonna happen. So when I 115 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 2: do have a little outburst, people are like, yeah, that tracks. 116 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:07,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I want anyway. 117 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 3: I think it's funny, but nobody is funnier than Elvis. 118 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 2: Elvis is the best. And I can't even tell you 119 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:14,240 Speaker 2: some of the stuff he's done because I know he does. 120 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 2: He wouldn't even want to, but I'll just say this, 121 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 2: every time I have seen it happen. 122 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 1: But for once, I was like, you earned that. 123 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:26,719 Speaker 2: You pushed a nice guy a little too far in 124 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 2: a stressful situation, and. 125 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 1: He flipped a table. 126 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 3: Okay, ten out of ten, ten out of ten. I 127 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:32,719 Speaker 3: love it. I love it. 128 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, man, hilarious. 129 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 2: I'll just stand there like looking back and forth, like 130 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 2: watching a tennis match. I'm like, oh, oh, oh, oh, 131 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:41,679 Speaker 2: oh shit. 132 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 4: And then I love the fact that like things like 133 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:47,040 Speaker 4: that are happening. And then you turn around and you 134 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 4: just see Siary moseying on in with a drinking food 135 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:51,280 Speaker 4: in his hand, and I'm like, I'm. 136 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 3: Waiting for you. 137 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:55,479 Speaker 1: He's like, this is really good. 138 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 4: Wow, it would be nice if I could put this 139 00:05:57,640 --> 00:05:59,839 Speaker 4: down and grab something to eat with the scary. 140 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 2: Yeah of chaos backstage. I brought my sister one time 141 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:05,360 Speaker 2: backstage and I told her, I do not want you 142 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 2: to be here. I love you more than anything, and 143 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:08,800 Speaker 2: I want you by my side for anything. 144 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:09,920 Speaker 1: But this is a dark place. 145 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:14,040 Speaker 2: Dark things happen, and you never know, and people are 146 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:15,600 Speaker 2: gonna push you around until you get the fuck out 147 00:06:15,640 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 2: of the way, and they're not gonna be nice. Then 148 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:19,279 Speaker 2: I'm gonna be mean because if I see someone being rude. 149 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:22,839 Speaker 1: To you game on. Yeah, And on that night I 150 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 1: learned something. 151 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:26,359 Speaker 2: So Elvis always told me, if somebody doesn't want you 152 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 2: to be there, walk away and let them know. I'm 153 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:31,920 Speaker 2: walking away because you told me to walk away, and 154 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 2: you will rue the day. 155 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:33,599 Speaker 1: Okay. 156 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 2: So that night it was an after party and I'm 157 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 2: on the flyer for the after party. I'm on the 158 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 2: flyer because I'm hosting it. We walked from Madison Square 159 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:44,719 Speaker 2: Garden in the rain, by the way, and it was 160 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:47,839 Speaker 2: cold all the way to the club and they didn't 161 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:50,040 Speaker 2: want to let people in until midnight and it was raining, 162 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:52,360 Speaker 2: and I said, Hi, I'm here for the after party. 163 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:54,599 Speaker 2: The fucker at the door said, everybody's here for the 164 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:56,679 Speaker 2: after party. So I don't know why you think you're special. 165 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:59,200 Speaker 2: You're gonna have to wait. And I said, well, typically 166 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:01,599 Speaker 2: I wouldn't think I was special, But since I'm on 167 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 2: the flyer and I don't want to stand out here 168 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:05,720 Speaker 2: and get soaked with my family, if you could just 169 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:07,720 Speaker 2: let us in, I'll stand in the doorway. That'd be fine. 170 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 2: He said no. I was like, all right, I'm counting 171 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 2: down from five and if we haven't gotten in the 172 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 2: door by that, I'm going home and you can explain 173 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 2: why I'm not here because I'm on the flyer. And 174 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:20,160 Speaker 2: he let me in, and my sister said, please don't 175 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:21,320 Speaker 2: ever act like that in front of me. Ever. 176 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 1: Again, I was like, I'm trying to save you, man. 177 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 2: I would have loved that. I don't want to stand 178 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 2: out here and get soaked and be cold. 179 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 1: Come on, man. 180 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 2: So yes, I had that moment. And then we were 181 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:32,240 Speaker 2: at another party in Miami. There was a pool party, 182 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 2: and again we're on the flyer, and I didn't to 183 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 2: be fair, I didn't have the wristband I was supposed 184 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 2: to have because I had met up with everybody later. 185 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 2: So I told him, hey, i'm here, I don't have 186 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 2: the wristband, but I can go grab one and I'll 187 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 2: come back out and give it to you. I was 188 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:47,120 Speaker 2: by myself. It's not like the pack of people. As 189 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:48,840 Speaker 2: I'm standing there and this man's not letting me in. 190 00:07:49,560 --> 00:07:51,239 Speaker 2: All these listeners are like, can I take a picture 191 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 2: with you? Can we take pictures? Yeah, for sure, no problems, 192 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 2: So I'm taking pictures. He still said, I don't know 193 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 2: who you are. I can't let you in here. 194 00:07:57,080 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: Oh Elvis, Froggy. 195 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:01,680 Speaker 2: Everyone are like waving and yelling like get back here, 196 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 2: what's taking you so long? So I just pointed to 197 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 2: the guy, was like, he's not letting me in. So 198 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 2: I'm going home, and I start walking away and somebody 199 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 2: comes running out and grassy like. 200 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, leave she's with us. 201 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 2: Oh wow, I'm not going to stand there and fight 202 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:15,560 Speaker 2: with you to let me into something that I am hosting. 203 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 4: That's crazy. I would have loved to see that in person. 204 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 4: I'm gonna leave this guy to let me, so I'm 205 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 4: gonna leave. You know how stressful being a security guard 206 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:39,400 Speaker 4: must be because like, Okay, I'm following the rules. 207 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 3: I know I'm being an asshole, but I'm following the rules. 208 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 4: And now I'm going to get in trouble because I 209 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 4: did my job and now you're leaving and what happened. 210 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:51,960 Speaker 1: Here's the thing. There are so many solutions. 211 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:53,959 Speaker 2: I used to work out a club and one of 212 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 2: the things, I think we've talked about this before. Never 213 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 2: get into it with security because you will lose. They're 214 00:08:59,040 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 2: bigger than you, they're stronger and you. The cops are 215 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:05,319 Speaker 2: on their side every time walk away, but they do 216 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:08,960 Speaker 2: have brains. They can think with them if they choose 217 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:11,480 Speaker 2: not to. That's not my problem. So when there's a 218 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:14,920 Speaker 2: guy at the front who sees the entire cabanda of 219 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 2: people where I'm supposed to be waving and saying come 220 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:19,079 Speaker 2: in here, you see listeners taking a photo with me. 221 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 2: At any given point, you could have been like, hold 222 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 2: on one second, let me go get somebody. Hey, let 223 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 2: me ask my manager. Hey, there's thirty seven thousand other 224 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:28,520 Speaker 2: security guards here. Maybe I could walk you back there 225 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 2: and see if in fact you were lying. You five 226 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 2: foot shrimp who's probably not going to do anything, but 227 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 2: instead you choose to just stand there and be a dick. 228 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:38,319 Speaker 2: I don't think so. We all have brains, let's use them. 229 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:41,199 Speaker 2: It's important. Oh man, I know I probably sound like 230 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 2: such an asshole right now, but until you're in these situations, 231 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 2: it's warranted. These people are assholes. What do you feel 232 00:09:49,800 --> 00:09:51,840 Speaker 2: like in any way you have entered a villain era? 233 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 2: Are you still in the hero spots? Well, I've always 234 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 2: been a villain. I'm always a bad guy in a 235 00:09:59,840 --> 00:10:02,400 Speaker 2: lot situation, so I don't really care. Why what makes 236 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 2: you a bad guy? When you say you're the bad guy, 237 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 2: what does the bad guy mean? And why do you 238 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:06,199 Speaker 2: think you're there. 239 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 4: I think that a lot of the times, my personality, 240 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 4: like the way that I handle situations, makes me seem 241 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 4: as if I don't care about things, so it's just 242 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:17,760 Speaker 4: easier for people to paint me as a villain. 243 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 2: I think you very much care about things, and I 244 00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:22,640 Speaker 2: think it takes a lot from you to be like, 245 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:25,040 Speaker 2: I'm not dealing with this, I don't want to address it. 246 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:26,600 Speaker 2: I'm gonna have nothing to do with it. I think 247 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 2: that takes a lot more from you than if you 248 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:31,160 Speaker 2: stay and fight about something. And I think that that's 249 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:33,120 Speaker 2: your sort of declaration of wars when you act like 250 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 2: you don't care, because. 251 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 3: I know you care. Usually when there's a declaration of war, 252 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:37,360 Speaker 3: you're dead to me. 253 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 1: What do you verrgo? 254 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:44,080 Speaker 4: Yep. Once you've gotten me to the point where I 255 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:46,840 Speaker 4: care enough to feel like I just have to walk 256 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 4: away and detach and disassociate, then like, oh you're done. 257 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 1: I agree, you are done, done, done. 258 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:56,640 Speaker 3: Yeah. So people are like, oh my god, she's so cold. 259 00:10:56,920 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 3: Yes she is. 260 00:10:59,480 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 2: I think it's funny, and again I'm me, So it's 261 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:05,080 Speaker 2: very much coming from a place of bias. I don't 262 00:11:05,080 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 2: think i'm cold or mean, and I get told NonStop 263 00:11:09,080 --> 00:11:12,320 Speaker 2: that I am both of those things, and I'm like, I, uh, 264 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:15,199 Speaker 2: I thought I was the warmest person I knew you 265 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:17,439 Speaker 2: and love you and embrace you and try to do nice. 266 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:19,520 Speaker 4: Things only when you know people or when you're Yeah, 267 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 4: well you're nice to people that you don't know too, 268 00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:26,400 Speaker 4: But like, I think you're very matter of a fact, right, 269 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:29,320 Speaker 4: So I think that for some people that could be cold, 270 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:32,080 Speaker 4: and like, I don't think it's mean, but it's just 271 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:34,720 Speaker 4: like very blunt, straight to the point, are we doing this? 272 00:11:34,800 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 3: Yes or no? Great buye, which I appreciate. 273 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 2: I think that's the nicest thing you can do, is 274 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:44,559 Speaker 2: be direct and not waste people's time. And also, if 275 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 2: somebody upsets you, you owe it to yourself and to 276 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:51,520 Speaker 2: that person to tell them why something upset you. Otherwise 277 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 2: you just build resentment because you didn't set expectations. 278 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 1: For yourself about how you want someone to treat you. 279 00:11:57,120 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 4: Okay, well, okay, here's my thing, because I feel like 280 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:04,080 Speaker 4: everyone has a brain, whether they use it or not. 281 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 4: Right security, if you know what you did to upset me, 282 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:11,640 Speaker 4: I'm not gonna waste my time telling you what you did. 283 00:12:11,720 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 2: But how do you know that they know. 284 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:19,120 Speaker 4: You're a security guard does not let me in after 285 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 4: I've explained this and the third and I decide, fuck you, 286 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:25,360 Speaker 4: I'm not doing this. I don't feel like I need 287 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:28,319 Speaker 4: to explain any further. You can't stand there and pretend 288 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:30,760 Speaker 4: it's if you don't know why I'm upset. You know, 289 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 4: turn that thing on that's in your skull, Turn it on, 290 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:34,600 Speaker 4: Turn it on. 291 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 2: I don't disagree with you. All I'm gonna say is, 292 00:12:37,559 --> 00:12:40,520 Speaker 2: if I've learned anything over the years of my life, 293 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:43,080 Speaker 2: I'm the main character in my story. I am not 294 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:45,840 Speaker 2: the main character in everybody else's story. So while I 295 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:48,160 Speaker 2: would love to think that the world revolves around me 296 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:50,920 Speaker 2: and people are doing things intentionally with me in mind, 297 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 2: I don't think that's the case. I actually think people 298 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 2: are doing things for them. And sometimes when you're doing 299 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:57,959 Speaker 2: things for yourself and you're not thinking about everybody else, 300 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 2: you accidentally step on a land mine or hurt somebody's 301 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:04,720 Speaker 2: feelings or do whatever. And I think I'm being kind 302 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:06,920 Speaker 2: by telling someone, Hey, this bothered me. You might not 303 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 2: know that you did something or that this thing bothered me, 304 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 2: but it does bother me, and I would like for 305 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 2: it to not happen again, which apparently makes me a monster. 306 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:19,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, and also I just feel like it could be 307 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:21,040 Speaker 3: a waste of time. People don't care. 308 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 2: People do it once and then when they show you 309 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:23,880 Speaker 2: they don't care, you move on. 310 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:28,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, piece up, a town down. I feel like any 311 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:28,319 Speaker 3: of it. 312 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 4: Maybe I'll grow one day, right, Hopefully I do, right, 313 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 4: because you're supposed to keep growing and evolving. Absolutely, But 314 00:13:34,960 --> 00:13:37,160 Speaker 4: I don't know. This one thing about me has not changed. 315 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:42,560 Speaker 4: I can't are you happy with it? Sometimes I think 316 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:46,240 Speaker 4: that I wonder what my life would be like if. 317 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:49,600 Speaker 3: I went out of my way to like have I. 318 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:51,760 Speaker 4: Don't really want to say, confrontation with people, but like 319 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:55,280 Speaker 4: engage with certain things. Don't really think it would be 320 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:58,640 Speaker 4: much different, just because it's like, I really believe that 321 00:13:58,679 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 4: people know what they're doing when they do you and like, yeah, 322 00:14:01,840 --> 00:14:04,800 Speaker 4: you may not have realized in the moment what you did, 323 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:08,880 Speaker 4: but over time you know, so fuck you. 324 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:10,200 Speaker 1: You have more faith in people than I do. 325 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:13,439 Speaker 3: Ah, Well, you have more faith in. 326 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:15,920 Speaker 2: People's intelligence emotional intelligence than I do. 327 00:14:16,480 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 4: Maybe maybe not, But I don't feel like that's emotional intelligence. 328 00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:23,400 Speaker 4: I think that's just using your brain. I don't think 329 00:14:23,440 --> 00:14:24,880 Speaker 4: emotion has anything to do with that. 330 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 3: You know when you do something wrong. 331 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 2: No, I don't think emotional intelligence doesn't have to do 332 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:30,160 Speaker 2: with being emotional. 333 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:32,240 Speaker 1: It often has to do with how. 334 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:34,840 Speaker 2: You read another person, okay, and they're what you perceive 335 00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 2: as their intentions or their energy. I think that's more 336 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 2: of emotional intelligence than just addressing anger, grief, happiness, whatever 337 00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 2: it is. I think it's it's interpersonal knowing how to 338 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:49,240 Speaker 2: deal with people just based on vibes and things like that. 339 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:51,120 Speaker 3: Maybe I'll grow, I don't know, maybe don't need to. 340 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:52,360 Speaker 1: Maybe you're happy the way you are and it's not 341 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 1: like that. Cheers babes. 342 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 2: This is a Minisodam. We really went on for fifteen minutes. 343 00:14:57,680 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 2: That's good, perfect, that's perfect, right, Yeah, excellent. Wait, yeah, 344 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:04,360 Speaker 2: what do you wish for in this new year of life? 345 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 2: I wish for I know it sounds cliche, I'm gonna 346 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:11,520 Speaker 2: say it. I'm at the place of my life where 347 00:15:11,560 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 2: all I want, if I did have a wish come true, 348 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 2: was for my family and friends, the people who I 349 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 2: love to be happy and healthy. 350 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:19,320 Speaker 1: And that is it. 351 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:21,640 Speaker 2: If I can see those things, that's all I want. 352 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:22,240 Speaker 4: What about you? 353 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:25,800 Speaker 1: I have everything I want? Ah, that's so good. 354 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:30,280 Speaker 2: I mean it I think every day I have everything 355 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:33,240 Speaker 2: I ever wanted and more. What am I gonna ask for? 356 00:15:33,280 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna ask for anything. I love that it's 357 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 2: time for me to do so for other people. Wow, 358 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:40,800 Speaker 2: And I see you get far more fulfillment watching other 359 00:15:40,840 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 2: people be happy, because I'm happy as fuck. So I 360 00:15:43,520 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 2: love seeing it from other people. 361 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 3: It's great. I love them. 362 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 2: I hope you get all of your wishes this year. 363 00:15:47,760 --> 00:15:48,720 Speaker 2: That's my wish. 364 00:15:48,920 --> 00:15:51,800 Speaker 1: I love that. What was your birthday wish? 365 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 2: What did you want? 366 00:15:54,480 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 4: I don't remember the exact because I remember thinking about it. 367 00:15:57,440 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 4: My sister and I had a conversation, like what do 368 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 4: you want in this new year of life? I just 369 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 4: want to be healthy and happy and not so chaotic internally. 370 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:09,600 Speaker 4: Other than that, I'm chilling. 371 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:12,480 Speaker 2: Because that's like, that's the good stuff. That's the stuff 372 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 2: you can't buy, but if you have it, it is priceless. 373 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 1: Yeah I don't. 374 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 2: I mean, if someone can buy it, I can probably 375 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:26,360 Speaker 2: buy it. And if I can't, Elvis, well it's amazing. 376 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:32,000 Speaker 1: Oh my god. All right, if you want to find 377 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:33,200 Speaker 1: you online, where they gonna find you? 378 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:35,120 Speaker 3: At Diamond Sincere on Instagram. 379 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:37,600 Speaker 2: I am at Baby Hot Sauce on Instagram. Oh shit, 380 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:38,880 Speaker 2: you know what we could have done and we didn't 381 00:16:38,880 --> 00:16:39,840 Speaker 2: do talkbacks? 382 00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:41,040 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 383 00:16:41,280 --> 00:16:43,440 Speaker 2: We'll do them in the next episode, A many episode 384 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:46,720 Speaker 2: of talkbacks. Okay, until then, say bye.