Speaker 1: Second d date. A good general rule for first dates
Speaker 1: is trying not to start drama with other people while
Speaker 1: you're out. Yeah, like that time where I challenge some
Speaker 1: guy to a street race in the middle of a
Speaker 1: date and then he says, no, I can't do that.
Speaker 1: I'm just the valet, and so I called him a snowflake,
Speaker 1: and long story short, I'm not allowed back at that
Speaker 1: sizzler ever again the sizzle. If you go to I
Speaker 1: grew up on the private streets of LA it wouldn't understand. No,
Speaker 1: I do not. But one of our listeners is worried
Speaker 1: that she may have stirred up a little bit of
Speaker 1: drama on her first date, not on purpose, but I
Speaker 1: can't wait to hear about it. Let's talk to her, Waila,
Speaker 1: welcome to the show. Hey, guys, how are you old?
Speaker 1: This like just in picturing you like calling for a
Speaker 1: manager or something where we ad, oh my gosh, Well,
Speaker 1: hoping you guys can help. I met this guy, Brad online,
Speaker 1: and okay, yeah, he's adorable and like you know, it's
Speaker 1: hard to meet people online. But we ended up having
Speaker 1: a first date at this awesome dive bar like in
Speaker 1: between the both of us and let Scott's Hearts and
Speaker 1: skebawl and stuff like. So it was super fun and okay,
Speaker 1: was it his plan or was it your plan to
Speaker 1: meet at that bar? It was actually his plan. I
Speaker 1: like a guy that takes charge. Okay, all right, so
Speaker 1: you're excited going into this. Oh yeah, and I can
Speaker 1: slay at ski ball. I mean, can you hit the hundreds?
Speaker 1: I mean the hundred top quarters every time. I've got
Speaker 1: great aim. Okay. So we're just chilling and getting pictures
Speaker 1: of Bear having great conversation and like really flirting. Like, honestly,
Speaker 1: I'm not even a touchy person, but I was full
Speaker 1: on like touching his leg and shoulder and kind of
Speaker 1: like he ski ball master who loves drinking beer and
Speaker 1: loves touching. Like, how are you not married yet? Wait? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know. She's like, I don't want I don't
Speaker 1: want to talk about just look at her a second date,
Speaker 1: Jeff exactly. Okay, Yeah, so it was just this, you know,
Speaker 1: one kind of weird thing that happened in the night,
Speaker 1: and that's what I wanted to talk to you guys about.
Speaker 1: This is the drama. I don't know if it's drama. Um, well, okay,
Speaker 1: so I went up to the bar to just kind
Speaker 1: of like refill our picture, okay, and how many drinks
Speaker 1: in were you at this point? Were you drunk? No,
Speaker 1: this is this is definitely our third picture, But like,
Speaker 1: oh wow, between the two of you, it wasn't like
Speaker 1: some master brew. It was just you know, light beer
Speaker 1: or whatever. It wasn't like we were drunk. We were silly.
Speaker 1: Light beer difference if you're drinking anything. Yeah. I didn't
Speaker 1: really like that term though, Instead of like I was
Speaker 1: drunk or buzz, I was silly. Okay, so you're you're
Speaker 1: silly getting a refill at the bar? What happened my guy?
Speaker 1: So yeah, so I just asked the bartender for fidger.
Speaker 1: Was totally fine. And then I see this girl just
Speaker 1: like a few chairs away from me, and she was
Speaker 1: like ordering you know, straight up cocktails and putting it
Speaker 1: on Brad's tab And I thought that's weird. Like he
Speaker 1: didn't say he knew anyone there and who I thought
Speaker 1: it was really weird. And the bartender didn't say anything,
Speaker 1: and I didn't say anything. Are you sure it was
Speaker 1: like the same Brad, Like Brad's a pretty common name,
Speaker 1: Like maybe there was another Brad, No, she's full on
Speaker 1: looked over, pointed, and he was just kind of looking
Speaker 1: on his phone, so he didn't even notice she was
Speaker 1: pointing over to him. Okay, can I just say, and
Speaker 1: this is gonna be dumb explanation, but one of my
Speaker 1: favorite movies of all time, this is a move that
Speaker 1: they've done. You just you put your tab on someone
Speaker 1: else's bill, you point and say it's on them, kind
Speaker 1: of wave and even if they look a lot of
Speaker 1: times I'll just talking about the dumb and dumber say
Speaker 1: it sounds like this is what she did. Yeah, if
Speaker 1: you're confident I could see this working. So what did
Speaker 1: you do? Did you Did you call her out? Well, no,
Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't want to say anything to her
Speaker 1: because I definitely didn't want like some cat fight saying happening.
Speaker 1: So I went back with the picture. I just said, hey, Brad,
Speaker 1: like this whole situation happened at the bar, and he
Speaker 1: didn't seem like super pissed, but he did like get
Speaker 1: up and go and confront this girl. They have a
Speaker 1: full conversation, but it wasn't It didn't look volatile or anything.
Speaker 1: It just looked like, you know, what's up? So wait,
Speaker 1: what did he say to you? Did he say that
Speaker 1: oh god? Or like, what was his reaction when you
Speaker 1: told him? Was he shocked? Yah, didn't go over the top.
Speaker 1: He wasn't like super angry. He was just like wow, Okay,
Speaker 1: that's rude. Okay, definitely taking it back though it sounds
Speaker 1: like ye, But it sounds like he handled it in
Speaker 1: a like mature way that he wasn't screaming at this chick.
Speaker 1: So did it turn out that he knew her? No?
Speaker 1: Not at all. I mean, and then he confronted the
Speaker 1: bartender again, like I wasn't overhearing this, but it looked like,
Speaker 1: you know, he was is trying to be straight up? Yeah.
Speaker 1: So and I kind of like that about him too, right,
Speaker 1: He's just like, look, I'm not here to get everyone silly.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah this is this is getting funny, and
Speaker 1: I don't want this funny. Let's keep it still, keep
Speaker 1: it silly. Okay. So, I mean it sounds like he
Speaker 1: handled it pretty well. Did you guys rejoin the conversation. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean we went back to playing games and drinking.
Speaker 1: But it did feel like the rest of the night
Speaker 1: was just a little off, like he was off. I
Speaker 1: was trying to joke around with him and keep it silly,
Speaker 1: but it just kind of never went back to that.
Speaker 1: And then it started to wind down a little bit,
Speaker 1: like people who leave in the bar's getting late. You know.
Speaker 1: We both got to work and then like he got
Speaker 1: me my uber. He even gave me sweet little peck.
Speaker 1: Oh that's a good sign. Yeah, but lose that momentum
Speaker 1: you've been building. Yeah, ill dealing with money on a
Speaker 1: first date. He's like, awkward, It's awkward. You guys stayed there.
Speaker 1: I mean like, now you have the bartender, if you've
Speaker 1: like confronted, and you have this chick that's still there
Speaker 1: that was trying to steal from you essentially, and you're
Speaker 1: still hanging out there, Like it would be a weird
Speaker 1: vibe to stay in. Yeah, it just kind of felt
Speaker 1: a little weird and we just it just even after
Speaker 1: it was like it's been like a week and we've
Speaker 1: been texting, but there's been no light talk of plans.
Speaker 1: I haven't actually liked to talk talk to him on
Speaker 1: the phone, just like kind of texting okay, but I
Speaker 1: like it really does him And I was just hoping
Speaker 1: I wasn't causing anything. I thought like maybe I shouldn't
Speaker 1: have said anything, or should just let the girls get
Speaker 1: away with getting Yeah, you dream said something, he would
Speaker 1: have found out eventually you could be thinking like, oh great,
Speaker 1: this girl's gonna start drama. Every time that we go
Speaker 1: out somewhere. She's going to point out somewhere that's trying
Speaker 1: to buy something, would out and obnoxious about it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but it sounds like girls you're trying. You were just
Speaker 1: being silly. So let's play a song, we'll come back,
Speaker 1: we'll call Brad for you, and we'll try and get
Speaker 1: you your second date update. Okay, okay, cool, thanks, right,
Speaker 1: hold on second day, we're halfway through a second date.
Speaker 1: And depending on who you are, you either just heard
Speaker 1: an awkward situation or if you're a Lexus, you just
Speaker 1: learned a sneaky new way to score yourself free drinks.
Speaker 1: I was a girl to girl like because at one
Speaker 1: point at this bar Wayla noticed two girls trying to
Speaker 1: charge cocktails onto her dates tab. So she went over
Speaker 1: and told him about it, and that led to a
Speaker 1: confrontation between him and the women, also him and the bartender. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I know we kind of asked you a little
Speaker 1: bit about the situation already. But we've done second dates
Speaker 1: in the past where guys will do sneaky stuff and
Speaker 1: they don't tell the ladies what's really going on, and
Speaker 1: then we'll find out the truth later. Like do you
Speaker 1: think there's any chance Brad secretly was interested in those
Speaker 1: women and you accidentally busted him giving them drinks? I'm
Speaker 1: just saying, like it's happened on this show before. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I must be either for a naive or like really confident,
Speaker 1: because I never would have thought that at all. Like
Speaker 1: some guys are really sneaky about it. Though all he
Speaker 1: has to do is go on them and say no, no no, no,
Speaker 1: that's one of my good friends. I don't want you
Speaker 1: to think, like you know, that's like my work. Girls
Speaker 1: always catch guys, so you have to be like pretty
Speaker 1: good at this. Well, yeah, I'll pay for all your
Speaker 1: drinks tonight. The girls. No, But like if he was
Speaker 1: going to hit on him by buying them drinks, when
Speaker 1: would he ever go and talk to them? Like there's
Speaker 1: no follow up on that. Do you see what I'm saying?
Speaker 1: Like sometimes guys just plant the seed one night and
Speaker 1: then they come back on another night, Like girls would
Speaker 1: be just like cool, free drinks. Now, I don't have
Speaker 1: to ever talk to this guy like, yeah, they're interested.
Speaker 1: It's not a great play on it, that's all I'm
Speaker 1: telling you. I'm not saying he didn't do it. It's
Speaker 1: a great Yeah. We haven't spoken to Brad yet. We
Speaker 1: don't know how smooth he is. But we're gonna get
Speaker 1: to the bottom of this. We're gonna call him right
Speaker 1: now and see what he has to say. Are you ready? Wela?
Speaker 1: I am so ready. Here we go down you right now. Hello, Hey,
Speaker 1: is this Brad? Yeah, that's sim Who's this? My name's
Speaker 1: Jeff from a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the Morning, a show that you're kind of on now. Welcome,
Speaker 1: Welcome to the show, Brad. Okay, we're doing a segment
Speaker 1: here called a second Date Update, and we're trying to
Speaker 1: help one of our listeners get a hold of you
Speaker 1: after you went out on a date with them. Really,
Speaker 1: you are the star today. Is this a joke? Like,
Speaker 1: what's going on here? No? Seriously, there's a woman that
Speaker 1: reached out hoping to get ahold of you. Her name's Wayla.
Speaker 1: You remember her? Oh? Yeah, she said you guys have
Speaker 1: been texting but just things have cooled off and to her,
Speaker 1: maybe doesn't feel like you want to go out again.
Speaker 1: Oh man, okay, is she reading that right? Oh? Well, god,
Speaker 1: this sort of a weird situation. Um. Wait, so you
Speaker 1: talked Touela. Yes, we did. We spoke to her a
Speaker 1: little bit about your date and she told us you
Speaker 1: guys went to a dive bar and yeah, had a
Speaker 1: really nice time. She did mention a little bit of
Speaker 1: awkwardness that happened in the middle though, there's some drama. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: this is a man. This is a really sort of
Speaker 1: complicated and weird situation. Jeffrey, did you call it? Brad?
Speaker 1: Did you? Okay, we know that there were some other
Speaker 1: girls that were trying to charge money onto your car.
Speaker 1: Did you know those girls? Oh? No, absolutely not. I
Speaker 1: did not know them. Okay, but did you really know them? No? No,
Speaker 1: no, no no, no, I where to god? I did not
Speaker 1: know them. Okay? Did you want did you want to
Speaker 1: get to know them and that's why you let them
Speaker 1: put the drinks on your tab while you were on
Speaker 1: a date? No? No, no, no, no, it wasn't. It
Speaker 1: wasn't like that at all. Um, what was it like? Okay,
Speaker 1: this has happened before at that bar. Wait, so you've
Speaker 1: been because it was your suggestion to go that bar.
Speaker 1: So it's a place you hang out at, right right? Well,
Speaker 1: my ex girlfriend is the bartend. What oh choosed to
Speaker 1: go there? Wow? Hi Brad? Oh wow, I'm well I'm sorry?
Speaker 1: Was that wayla? Yeah? He who was supposed to wait
Speaker 1: until we call her in? But we have questions about
Speaker 1: the ex girlfriend, like why would you why would you
Speaker 1: bring a date to that bar? Well? I all right,
Speaker 1: because the bar is a cool bar and I really
Speaker 1: enjoy hanging out there and it was like convenient because
Speaker 1: it was in the middle of for both of us
Speaker 1: and I didn't know. I don't know my ex's schedule.
Speaker 1: I don't know when she's working and not working. But like,
Speaker 1: this is the thing. My ex works there, and she
Speaker 1: she does this to screw with me, because you're still
Speaker 1: why do you keep going back if she keeps screwing
Speaker 1: you over? I thought because they have darts, they have
Speaker 1: skee ball, they have a pool table, and they have
Speaker 1: a lot of cool things there. Do you know how
Speaker 1: many dive bars exist that have those exact things without
Speaker 1: a crazy ex girlfriend? I thought, for sure, you're gonna
Speaker 1: be like, oh, no, my ex and I are cool
Speaker 1: and we're all super confused by what's happening, So can
Speaker 1: you explain what's going on? Okay, So what was going
Speaker 1: on is my ex does this to me. So she'll
Speaker 1: tell people at the bar if I'm in there and
Speaker 1: I'm on a date, She'll say, Hey, you see that
Speaker 1: guy over there, he's buying everybody around the drink? Why
Speaker 1: would you even grew with me there? Then, Like, I mean,
Speaker 1: that's so embarrassing for me. Yeah, and I'm I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: and I didn't mean for that sort of situation to happen.
Speaker 1: I really apologize you. I know, when you walk into
Speaker 1: the bar and you see that your ex is there,
Speaker 1: you should just turn around and you go to a
Speaker 1: different ball. Well, I felt that would have been even worse.
Speaker 1: And if I would have explained to her the situation
Speaker 1: at the time, like, that's just too much information for
Speaker 1: I feel like, Brad, when you saying that would be
Speaker 1: even worse, You're just saying, then, how would I make
Speaker 1: my ex jealous if I couldn't bring the date there? Jeffrey,
Speaker 1: that's going on a lot of other girls night though,
Speaker 1: MVP for free drinks. I mean is neither of you
Speaker 1: sound over it if she's still like trying to get
Speaker 1: revenge on you by putting strangers drinks on your tab
Speaker 1: and you're bringing dates to her bar, like the whole
Speaker 1: thing sounds messy, Brad, Wow, exactly, And you know what
Speaker 1: you you don't even know me. Like what would have
Speaker 1: been even funnier is if you said, let's go here
Speaker 1: and we could have uske with her, like we could
Speaker 1: have turned the tables on her, charge the drinks onto
Speaker 1: her tab. She doesn't fraud, that's you're that you were
Speaker 1: open to the idea, but they kind of like that
Speaker 1: openly flirting in front of her or you know, I
Speaker 1: don't think. I mean, what's the situation now with you
Speaker 1: and your ex? Brad? Like, did you talk to her
Speaker 1: about this? Do you tell her like please like stop
Speaker 1: doing this where it gets a little weird? And yes,
Speaker 1: we we did talk a couple of days after the
Speaker 1: date and oh god, I don't know how to say this. So, um,
Speaker 1: she wants to get back together, but I don't want
Speaker 1: to be. I don't want to be. I'm not in
Speaker 1: the point right now where I want to be exclusive
Speaker 1: with that. I'm not at that point. So I just
Speaker 1: and again, I don't know how to say this to Wuela,
Speaker 1: but now thanks a lot, I'm telling her right now.
Speaker 1: So you're you're kind of halfway getting back together with
Speaker 1: your ex seeing each other. No, I don't want to
Speaker 1: get back together with my ex. And it's just like
Speaker 1: I really like Wuela and I really would like to
Speaker 1: go out with her again. But I feel like at
Speaker 1: this point, I just kind of I don't know, Brett,
Speaker 1: you don't really like a girl and then bring her
Speaker 1: to your ex girlfriend's bar. It just you can't have
Speaker 1: those two things. Yeah, you should not want to be
Speaker 1: around your ex. Well, I brought other dates there when
Speaker 1: she doesn't work there, and it's gone great. Because it
Speaker 1: sounds like you were a lot of first dates, not
Speaker 1: a lot of second too. I feel bad, like, yeah,
Speaker 1: so you've been on a lot of dates recently or
Speaker 1: what I don't like why is that I don't understand
Speaker 1: why that's a bad thing. It's not, it's not a
Speaker 1: bad thing. It just sounds like you you are just
Speaker 1: a hot mess. Like the whole situation, I can't a compliment.
Speaker 1: I think jealous. And then the dates you're clearly trying
Speaker 1: to make your ex jealous. That's what you're doing if
Speaker 1: you keep bringing girls there like very clear. You know
Speaker 1: what would make her super jealous is if you went
Speaker 1: on another date with Wayla I don't know, and we
Speaker 1: would pay for that date, not everybody else's tab. Yeah,
Speaker 1: put the drinks on our tap. I mean, if Wayla
Speaker 1: wants to, I'd be up. What do you think do
Speaker 1: you want? Do you want to help him get back
Speaker 1: at his ex by going on another date with him?
Speaker 1: Right in her face? I feel like Wayla's answer is
Speaker 1: solely resting on how hot Brad is. Yeah, right now, Honestly,
Speaker 1: I have so much more fun with my dog and
Speaker 1: also put everything on my tab, So no saying oh well,
Speaker 1: it's your loss. Actually, I think I think what we
Speaker 1: should do is everyone on the show should go to
Speaker 1: this bar. Let's do I mean just trying to get
Speaker 1: free drinks? Thanks Brad. Well, you know, I don't know
Speaker 1: if I'm going to be there or not broken Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the morning. Oh mean, I definitely did not see
Speaker 1: that ending coming. No, no, no, But like my stepfather
Speaker 1: Tea Pain once said, it's all about the bartender. You've
Speaker 1: been waiting for that for a minute. Yeah, yeah, exactly,
Speaker 1: cueing it back. I thought it was a little bit
Speaker 1: weird when Brooke heard that the bartender was charging drinks
Speaker 1: on the ex's card in Brookshead. Oh my god, I
Speaker 1: love her. It's kind of genius. If he's no, If
Speaker 1: you are a bartender and your ex keeps coming in
Speaker 1: with different dates, he deserves it. If it was a
Speaker 1: guy charging money onto a girl's cart, you never would
Speaker 1: have said the girl honest. You never would have said
Speaker 1: yes exactly, thank you for being honest. If the girl
Speaker 1: kept coming in showing off dates in front of her ex,
Speaker 1: then she deserves it. Absolutely. It's just his favorite spot.
Speaker 1: They have ski Ball. No, that's they have his ex.
Speaker 1: So that's that was really funny though, because he look,
Speaker 1: I have ski Ball in this and Alex has made
Speaker 1: of the best comment, like every dive bar ever had
Speaker 1: all those Well, I don't know, I don't know how
Speaker 1: I feel about it. I guess I'm not that sad
Speaker 1: that they didn't go out. You can't feel bad for him.
Speaker 1: I do feel a little bad, oh, because he loves
Speaker 1: the place. Oh, you are so naive. But you know what,
Speaker 1: if you want to get a second date update, you
Speaker 1: can email us we'll call the person who isn't calling
Speaker 1: you back.