1 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:06,440 Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, it's Bell courting with an army and normal folks. 2 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 1: Welcome to the shop. 3 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:13,039 Speaker 2: Hey Alex, Hey Bill, how you doing. Molly's about to 4 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 2: get married. 5 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:18,640 Speaker 1: My oh, you're time stamping it. I leave tomorrow and yes, 6 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:23,920 Speaker 1: we go off and my youngest daughter, my third child, 7 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 1: hold it. Yes, second child, she's second. Yes, youngest daughter. 8 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:33,240 Speaker 1: Second child is getting married to a guy named Tracy 9 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:38,920 Speaker 1: Z who is really awesome guy. I'm really excited for her, 10 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:43,920 Speaker 1: and I feel sorry for him. She's crazy. My daughter 11 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 1: is a hand full, and then so I think she's 12 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 1: a lot of fun though, and she's got a good heart. 13 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 1: She has a great heart. She's faithful, she's she's spirited, 14 00:00:57,040 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 1: she's very very bright, she works hard, and she's just 15 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:05,400 Speaker 1: nutty as hell. She's basically her mom. 16 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:08,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you're a little crazy too. 17 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 1: No mom, y'all. Everybody thinks because in social settings, Lisa's 18 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:16,480 Speaker 1: kind of this beautiful little thing that kind of keeps 19 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 1: her mouth shut and smiles big and just walks around 20 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 1: with me, and everybody thinks I'm the way I'm telling you, 21 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:24,480 Speaker 1: least is the one. 22 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:26,480 Speaker 3: I haven't seen her crazy yet. I usually just see 23 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 3: you hitting on her in front of me. 24 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:29,759 Speaker 2: That's like the crazy hit on her. 25 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 1: In front of everybody. She's gorgeous and I can't wait. 26 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 1: In fact, now I can't wait to get home and 27 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:37,320 Speaker 1: see her. All right, everybody's shop Talk number ninety one. 28 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 2: You know that's one of them. Job Bill. Oh that's 29 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 2: another one. Dennis Rodman. 30 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 1: Dennis Well, but see he wasn't always ninety but what 31 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 1: it said is on his bowls championship seasons he. 32 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:52,920 Speaker 2: Was ninety one. 33 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:54,640 Speaker 1: Oh okay, well there you. 34 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 3: Go, Serge Federoff and Hockey. I wouldn't have known that 35 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 3: demo the pitch. 36 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 1: Yeah he was ninety one. 37 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 2: Yeah really yeah? 38 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 1: Yeah? Who else? 39 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 2: That's it? That's good though. With Kevin Green, you know, but. 40 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, well Kevin Green, I always thought he was a 41 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 1: hilacious defensive end. Okay, everybody's Shop Talk number ninety one, 42 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:18,639 Speaker 1: in honor of my crazy wife and daughter, has nothing 43 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 1: to do with this. Alex Is teed this up. There's 44 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 1: a book called Bowling Alone. Correct can't wait to unpack 45 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:46,239 Speaker 1: this right after these brief messages from our general sponsors. 46 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 1: All right, everybody, welcome back to the shop Shop Talk 47 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 1: number ninety one. Bowling Alone, or why Everybody's lonely and 48 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 1: nobody knows what to do about it? Read by me 49 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 1: teed up by your very own, lovely and talented Alex Quartel, 50 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:01,919 Speaker 1: who woke up at three point thirty in this morning. 51 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:05,799 Speaker 1: I'm told to put this stuff together for our reading enjoyment. 52 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:08,639 Speaker 2: That's correct, four hours of sleep. 53 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: And then drove up here. I'm driving Oxford by the 54 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 1: way today. 55 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:12,400 Speaker 2: Are you really? 56 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 1: Before I leave on my airplane at six in the morning, 57 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 1: I have to go down to do something with the 58 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 1: charity bowl. 59 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:21,360 Speaker 2: Oh interesting, Yeah, do you hear the train? I do 60 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 2: hear the train? 61 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:25,800 Speaker 1: Okay? Bowling Alone or why everybody's lonely and nobody knows 62 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:30,360 Speaker 1: what to do about it? All right, I'm going to 63 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:32,519 Speaker 1: tell you about this book. It sounds boring as hell, 64 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 1: but explains a lot of what's broken. It's called Bowling Alone, 65 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 1: and no, it really doesn't have anything to do about 66 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 1: with bowling. By the way, there's a book out called 67 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 1: Go to Hell, Ole Miss. Really that's on the National 68 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 1: bestsellers list. Oh wow, has very little to do with 69 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 1: Old Miss. It's about a pilot that got shot down 70 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 1: in World War Two and he was kept in this dingy, 71 00:03:55,480 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 1: dark cabin and he was held captive for like two years, 72 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 1: and somebody who had been captured before him, this back 73 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 1: in the forties had written with a knife on a 74 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 1: wood panel, go to hell will miss, And he said 75 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 1: just that connection to home is what saved his life. 76 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 1: And the book is about his two years. 77 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:16,600 Speaker 2: Are you reading it? 78 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:18,600 Speaker 1: Starting it interesting? Yeah? Really? 79 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 2: Look at it? 80 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 1: Yeah? All right? Anyway, bowling alone. The guy who wrote 81 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:27,920 Speaker 1: this is Robert Putnam, and he noticed something weird. Americans 82 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:31,719 Speaker 1: were bowling more than ever, but they stopped bowling together. 83 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 1: No leagues, no teams. Bowling league participation has declined by 84 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 1: about forty percent, which I think is sad. I think 85 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 1: American bowling leagues are stuff of Americana legend. 86 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:46,120 Speaker 3: I also missed the dingy bowling alley with the pictures 87 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:48,480 Speaker 3: of beer where he could smoke cigarettes. Now it's all 88 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:51,359 Speaker 3: these like professional fancy ones that are super expensive and 89 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:52,520 Speaker 3: you can't smoke inside. 90 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 1: You could smoke whe or not hype cigarette, and you 91 00:04:57,080 --> 00:04:59,160 Speaker 1: got pictures of cheap beer in. 92 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 2: A cheap bowling alley and. 93 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 1: The floor was sticky, and you could get a cheeseburger 94 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 1: at the grill. That's a bowling all. 95 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 2: It looks like Das all, that's stupid. 96 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:13,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's why bowling leagues are down. I guarantee it. 97 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 1: There's other reasons in here, all right, So Americans are 98 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 1: bowling more than ever, but they stopped bowling together, no leagues, 99 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 1: no teams. Bowling League dissipation declined by about forty percent. 100 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:28,719 Speaker 1: And then he realized, that's just not bowling. That's our country, 101 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:33,480 Speaker 1: that's America. We quit showing up, quit joining, quit committing 102 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 1: church groups, civic clubs, ptas, volunteer organizations, neighborhood stuff. They 103 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:45,719 Speaker 1: didn't disappear overnight. They've slowly faded. The Rotary The Rotary 104 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 1: Club has lost one hundred thousand members over the last 105 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:55,480 Speaker 1: twenty years. In twenty twenty, church membership dropped below a 106 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 1: majority of Americans for the first time in Gallops eight 107 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 1: decade polling history, at forty seven percent. Think of that, y'all. 108 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 1: Over the last eighty years, for the first time in history, 109 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:12,559 Speaker 1: fewer Americans attend church than don't. In nineteen thirty seven, 110 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 1: when Gallup measured it, seventy three percent of Americans belonged 111 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 1: to a church, a rate that remained nearly seventy percent 112 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:23,040 Speaker 1: for six decades. That's into the late nineties until a 113 00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:26,919 Speaker 1: sharp decline began around the twenty first century, and the 114 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:30,159 Speaker 1: percentage of Americans who report attending a public meeting on 115 00:06:30,360 --> 00:06:34,279 Speaker 1: town or school affairs fell from twenty two to thirteen percent, 116 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 1: a drop of more than a third. And what Putnam says, 117 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:41,360 Speaker 1: this is the part that matters, is that what we 118 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:45,279 Speaker 1: lost wasn't money or intelligence or talent. What we lost 119 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:49,839 Speaker 1: and what we continue to lose, is social capital. That's 120 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 1: just a fancy way of saying we've lost trust, relationships, 121 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:57,600 Speaker 1: shared responsibility, and the habit of showing up for each other. 122 00:06:58,200 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 1: Here's the line from Bowling Alone that hit me. Communities 123 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 1: don't fall apart because people stop caring. They fall apart 124 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 1: because people stop connecting. That is so true. Now look around. 125 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 1: People are lonely, about thirty to forty percent of adults 126 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 1: being lonely regularly. They're angry, they're cynical, they don't believe 127 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 1: anything they do matters anymore. And we keep trying to 128 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 1: fix that with better arguments, better politics, better posts. I 129 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 1: was about to say, better social media. None of that works, 130 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 1: and the numbers bear that out. Because loneliness isn't an 131 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 1: ideas problem. It's a presence problem. You don't fix it 132 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 1: with a tweet. You fix it by standing next to 133 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 1: an actual human being and doing something hard together. That's 134 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 1: where the army comes in. The Army of normal folks 135 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 1: exists because Bowling alone was right, but we think it's incomplete. 136 00:07:57,480 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 1: Putnam told us what we lost alone, doesn't tell us 137 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:04,960 Speaker 1: how to rebuild it. That's our job, the Army of 138 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 1: normal folks, you and me. When Army members like you 139 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 1: start an A and F service club in their community, 140 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 1: they're not really starting programs. They're just rebuilding muscle memory, 141 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 1: the muscle of showing up once a month, looking somebody 142 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 1: else in the eye in a human way, not through 143 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 1: a computer screen, voting together, serving together, eating together with 144 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:38,200 Speaker 1: human beings, and conversation. A giving circle isn't really about 145 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 1: the money. Certainly, it's about the money, but it's not 146 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 1: really what it's about. It's about doing way more meaningful 147 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:48,320 Speaker 1: things together, way more meaningful than we could on our own. 148 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 1: Army activations. The monthly service days isn't only about the task. 149 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 1: It's about sweat, laughter and doing something together that matters. 150 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 1: Potlucks aren't only a cute little thing. They're radical because 151 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 1: neighbors don't eat together anymore. And here's the thing Putnam 152 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 1: understood deeply. This stuff doesn't scale fast, it doesn't go viral, 153 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:19,880 Speaker 1: it doesn't look impressive on an Instagram. But it works slow, quiet, relational. 154 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:23,440 Speaker 1: That's how America used to run. That's how it needs 155 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 1: to run again. We don't need more heroes, we need 156 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 1: more leagues. We don't need higher fences, we need longer tables, 157 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:34,960 Speaker 1: more normal folks showing up and saying I don't have 158 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 1: all the answers, but I can do this, and I'll 159 00:09:37,640 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 1: do it with you. That's how belief comes back. That's 160 00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:44,679 Speaker 1: how hope sneaks in. That's how an army gets built, 161 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:48,560 Speaker 1: and that's how we bowl together and rebuild America together. 162 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 1: It's good stuff. 163 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 2: Alex Robert Putnam pulling alone. He's like the social capital guy. 164 00:09:57,080 --> 00:10:01,760 Speaker 1: He is the social capital guy, right. And you know, 165 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:05,200 Speaker 1: it's interesting that we have all this data and we 166 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:08,200 Speaker 1: spend all this money to capture all this information about 167 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 1: what's wrong and how we but I mean, we spend 168 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:14,840 Speaker 1: all this time, effort, money and hand ringing over figuring 169 00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 1: out what's wrong and all these dwindling numbers. But the 170 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 1: irony is the answer to it. Is so inexpensive and simple. 171 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 1: It's engage. It's simply get off your and engage. It's 172 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 1: have the courage to sit down across from somebody who's 173 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:36,680 Speaker 1: not your trusted, most trusted confidant and making them so 174 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 1: by growing together in service. And I just feel like 175 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 1: the answer is so very simple, if somehow we can 176 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 1: inspire enough numbers of people to just re engage in 177 00:10:50,840 --> 00:10:55,240 Speaker 1: what made America the community it was up until about 178 00:10:55,240 --> 00:10:56,240 Speaker 1: twenty five years ago. 179 00:10:56,720 --> 00:10:58,600 Speaker 3: I think as a Catholic, I've always thought about this 180 00:10:58,679 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 3: example at the Friday fish ride. I mean, they were 181 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:04,000 Speaker 3: so dominant for like the twentieth century, where even people 182 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 3: who aren't Catholic will go to them because they're so 183 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 3: good and so fun. 184 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 1: I'm not eveywhere near Catholic, but I have been to 185 00:11:09,040 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 1: it least and well in the South, summer fish fries, 186 00:11:12,559 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 1: summer spaghetti dinners, but it's always do you do about 187 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:21,360 Speaker 1: a fish and spaghetti? Perfect? Do y'all still do? Bingo? 188 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:23,960 Speaker 2: Actually we got one this Friday, Yeah, at our church. 189 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:27,559 Speaker 1: Bingo was also part of that sitting at a long table, 190 00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:30,600 Speaker 1: you and a friend with eight other people you don't know, 191 00:11:31,280 --> 00:11:34,200 Speaker 1: all laughing, doing your bingo dots and stuff, and it's 192 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:35,920 Speaker 1: just fun. 193 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 3: But it's the kind of thing that would bring somebody rich, 194 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 3: somebody poor, somebody black, somebody white, like every type of 195 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:44,440 Speaker 3: person in the community to this thing, and we just 196 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:46,439 Speaker 3: have such a declient of that now. It's like rich 197 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:48,319 Speaker 3: people go to rich people restaurants and they go to 198 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:50,679 Speaker 3: their country clubs, and poor people go to poor restaurants. 199 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:52,559 Speaker 3: But it's like, you have no place like really to 200 00:11:52,640 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 3: communally get together and meet strangers anymore until our local 201 00:11:57,920 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 3: service clubs. 202 00:11:58,800 --> 00:12:00,520 Speaker 1: I think, how neat it is to walk down the 203 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 1: street and bump into somebody you didn't know and say 204 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:05,120 Speaker 1: hello because you met them at one of these things 205 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:08,000 Speaker 1: and you know you have common ground. How simple? Is that? 206 00:12:08,760 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 1: So true? So Robert Putnam's the Bowling thing here is 207 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:20,199 Speaker 1: just a beautiful, another beautiful example of we understand what's 208 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 1: happened to us, and the irony is the fix is 209 00:12:23,559 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 1: so simple, and we at an army and normal folks 210 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:32,320 Speaker 1: are trying very hard to create that opportunity through our 211 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:35,319 Speaker 1: service clubs, and we really hope you guys will take 212 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:39,040 Speaker 1: it seriously and think about just showing up just slow, 213 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:41,280 Speaker 1: quiet relational work. 214 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 3: And even if you don't start a service club, I 215 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:46,040 Speaker 3: would say, hope many of you do. But there's still 216 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:48,200 Speaker 3: things you could do, like host the neighborhood block parties 217 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:51,440 Speaker 3: like block Party USA also brings together. You could also 218 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:53,160 Speaker 3: just host a dinner at your house with all kinds 219 00:12:53,160 --> 00:12:55,240 Speaker 3: of random, different people. Right, there's other ways you can 220 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:55,960 Speaker 3: skin this cap. 221 00:12:56,160 --> 00:13:00,319 Speaker 1: So there it is shop Talk ninety one. We got 222 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:05,840 Speaker 1: to quit bowling alone and restore American community and American 223 00:13:05,960 --> 00:13:10,839 Speaker 1: service to its roots. So if you liked this episode, 224 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 1: would you please share with friends on social, subscribe to 225 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:17,080 Speaker 1: the podcast, rate and review it, join the army at 226 00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:21,640 Speaker 1: normal folks dot us. Just get off her and do something. 227 00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:22,880 Speaker 2: Man, be nice to them. 228 00:13:23,160 --> 00:13:26,520 Speaker 1: Okay, and do it nicely. How about that? That's shop 229 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 1: Talk number ninety one, Quit bowling alone. We'll see you 230 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:37,599 Speaker 1: next week.