WEBVTT - Baby One More Time 0:00:00.320 --> 0:00:02.320 Help We Suck At Being Newlyweds? 0:00:02.360 --> 0:00:06.880 Went Dean Angler, Helen Key, and Jared haven An iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:08.160 --> 0:00:12.080 Hey, welcome to another episode of Help We Suck At 0:00:12.240 --> 0:00:17.200 Being Newlyweds. I'm Jared joined via zoom Helen and Dean 0:00:17.400 --> 0:00:20.600 of course, who are together. It's like the first time 0:00:20.640 --> 0:00:22.079 you guys were together in the podcast in a while. 0:00:22.120 --> 0:00:25.720 I feel like, but that's because Dean, you're literally climbing melons. 0:00:26.040 --> 0:00:29.159 We were supposed to be here last week, but I 0:00:29.240 --> 0:00:33.360 was gone for the day. We were together the week 0:00:33.360 --> 0:00:35.600 before that, we know we weren't. That was Rob Thomas. 0:00:35.680 --> 0:00:36.680 That was like July fourth. 0:00:38.200 --> 0:00:39.839 Oh god, what a man? What a man? 0:00:39.880 --> 0:00:40.720 What a man? What a man? 0:00:40.800 --> 0:00:43.480 What a man? Bro Yeah, it's always good to listen 0:00:43.520 --> 0:00:44.239 to that episode. 0:00:44.240 --> 0:00:47.199 Just quickly podcasting in the same room as this one here. 0:00:47.240 --> 0:00:48.519 I know they should go back and listen to the 0:00:48.560 --> 0:00:49.440 Rob Thomas episode. Though. 0:00:49.520 --> 0:00:50.720 How great was that episode? 0:00:51.520 --> 0:00:52.960 When are we in a podcast in the same room 0:00:53.000 --> 0:00:53.480 together again? 0:00:53.600 --> 0:00:56.200 You think, dude, I don't know. I actually was talking 0:00:56.240 --> 0:00:58.639 to Kalen about that last week on the podcast because 0:00:59.160 --> 0:01:01.160 I just I feel like it's such a different banter, 0:01:01.280 --> 0:01:03.440 you know, when we're on the same room together. It sucks, 0:01:03.560 --> 0:01:04.920 But what are you going to do? You guys live 0:01:04.959 --> 0:01:06.960 in Vegas. I love in Rhode Island. You know, you 0:01:07.000 --> 0:01:10.200 guys are in LA more than me. But we should 0:01:10.440 --> 0:01:12.000 you know what iHeart and put it out there. You 0:01:12.000 --> 0:01:15.440 should just fly us all out on your dime. Put 0:01:15.520 --> 0:01:18.520 us up in a nice hotel. We'll record, you know, 0:01:18.560 --> 0:01:21.440 a few episodes together, really, just you know, laugh, joke, 0:01:21.520 --> 0:01:24.240 get some good content and then you know, fly us 0:01:24.240 --> 0:01:25.000 first class back. 0:01:25.160 --> 0:01:25.920 Yeah that's perfect. 0:01:26.400 --> 0:01:29.920 Yeah, at least us for shorter flight first class for us, 0:01:30.600 --> 0:01:32.200 aren't you guys moving back to LA. Didn't you say 0:01:32.200 --> 0:01:33.160 something about that? Right? 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:35.839 No? What the hell's matter with you? 0:01:35.880 --> 0:01:37.640 Oh? Man? Maybe just wishfle thinking? 0:01:37.720 --> 0:01:40.399 But yeah, I mean Ashley she's doing all right. I 0:01:40.440 --> 0:01:43.160 mean Rhode Island is Here's the thing. Rhode Island is 0:01:43.160 --> 0:01:45.720 so seasonal that right now is a good time to 0:01:45.720 --> 0:01:49.080 be in Rhode Island because summer it's like very beach town. 0:01:49.120 --> 0:01:52.240 Ashley loves being over there. So we really just got 0:01:52.280 --> 0:01:55.080 out of the storm that was January through really April. 0:01:55.440 --> 0:01:59.200 But she's doing all right, like we're in Virginia. God, 0:02:00.000 --> 0:02:00.480 I see you. 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:02.280 I'm so sorry, Helen. 0:02:02.280 --> 0:02:03.520 Did you get mad? At his sneezes. 0:02:04.840 --> 0:02:06.520 You know what, I've learned to accept it. 0:02:06.680 --> 0:02:12.360 And his brother's wife, so our sister in law texted 0:02:12.360 --> 0:02:14.160 me and she's like, just so you know, this is genetic, 0:02:14.240 --> 0:02:16.840 and prepare for your kids to have a loud sneeze too, 0:02:16.880 --> 0:02:19.560 because their baby that's like a month old, she said, 0:02:19.600 --> 0:02:20.720 has the loudest knee she's. 0:02:20.600 --> 0:02:22.840 Ever heard in her entire life. So I just have 0:02:22.960 --> 0:02:23.760 to make doo. 0:02:24.720 --> 0:02:27.040 Ashley will not say God bless you if I sneeze 0:02:27.080 --> 0:02:27.480 too loudly. 0:02:27.800 --> 0:02:27.880 What. 0:02:28.800 --> 0:02:32.280 Yeah, She's like, that's annoying. She's like, you're doing it 0:02:32.320 --> 0:02:35.040 on purpose. And I said, no, I just when I sneeze, 0:02:35.160 --> 0:02:38.880 I'm getting it out, baby, And I'm not this. I mean, Caitlin, 0:02:38.960 --> 0:02:40.679 do you hold your sneezes in? I feel like a 0:02:40.720 --> 0:02:42.640 lot of girls do that, which is ridiculous. 0:02:43.040 --> 0:02:43.120 No. 0:02:43.320 --> 0:02:46.200 Actually, I think my sneezes have become louder since dating him, 0:02:46.520 --> 0:02:49.600 and sometimes they like irk me or scare me and 0:02:49.680 --> 0:02:55.400 hurt my ears, but especially my ears. Your sneezes and 0:02:55.600 --> 0:02:57.560 especially if we're in a car together, they hurt my ears. 0:02:57.600 --> 0:03:00.360 But no, I feel like they've gotten louder. I used 0:03:00.400 --> 0:03:02.600 to have quiet sneeze is another a little loud. 0:03:02.560 --> 0:03:03.919 Good for you, you're coming out of your shell. 0:03:04.240 --> 0:03:05.360 Yeah. 0:03:05.520 --> 0:03:08.720 I can't imagine Klyn having a loud sneeze. It's like 0:03:08.720 --> 0:03:11.000 a little petite one. But Rhene Island's good. She's doing 0:03:11.000 --> 0:03:15.240 better in Virginia right now, visiting her family. It's also 0:03:15.320 --> 0:03:16.960 Dawson has just gotten so much better over the past 0:03:17.040 --> 0:03:19.480 few months. I will never understand anybody who says that 0:03:19.520 --> 0:03:22.560 they're the baby, like the infant phase is their favorite phase. 0:03:23.400 --> 0:03:27.440 You crazy, because, don't get me wrong, babies are so cute. 0:03:27.520 --> 0:03:29.639 Duson's so cute as a baby, and he's Keith and 0:03:29.720 --> 0:03:33.440 he's just he's literally just a blob laying there, which 0:03:33.480 --> 0:03:36.440 is adorable. But he is so much more fun now. 0:03:37.280 --> 0:03:39.160 I was just wrestling with him on the couch and 0:03:39.200 --> 0:03:43.080 he is laughing and he's engaging, and he's talking like 0:03:43.200 --> 0:03:45.160 he's not saying words, but he's like but that boa 0:03:46.240 --> 0:03:48.240 he's pointing, and I'm like, dude, I have no idea 0:03:48.240 --> 0:03:50.600 what you're saying right now. And he's wobbling while walking 0:03:50.640 --> 0:03:52.760 and trying to like put his hand on the table. 0:03:52.840 --> 0:03:55.800 He looks like, you know, a drunk man at two 0:03:55.840 --> 0:03:58.200 in the morning trying to get home, and it's phenomenal 0:04:00.200 --> 0:04:03.640 sleeping through the night. Now he still requires so much attention. 0:04:03.760 --> 0:04:06.760 He's exhausting because you can't sit down with him, as 0:04:06.800 --> 0:04:08.400 every parent will tell you, you know, it's just like 0:04:08.680 --> 0:04:12.080 you don't sit down. But it's so much better now 0:04:12.200 --> 0:04:13.880 than when he was. Oh my god. The idea of 0:04:13.960 --> 0:04:15.240 having a second kid, I don't know if I talked 0:04:15.240 --> 0:04:16.920 about on the podcast last week, but like, I think 0:04:16.960 --> 0:04:18.800 we're gonna start trying next month and I'm just dreading 0:04:18.800 --> 0:04:20.480 every second of it. I want more kids, don't get 0:04:20.520 --> 0:04:23.880 me wrong, but like, holy crap. The idea of getting 0:04:23.920 --> 0:04:26.800 back into that phase of just like Ashley being pregnant 0:04:26.800 --> 0:04:30.160 and sick, and then you know, the baby comes and 0:04:30.200 --> 0:04:33.919 then we're just up every three hours from what Dawson 0:04:34.040 --> 0:04:36.440 was a year over a year not sleeping. So hopefully 0:04:36.480 --> 0:04:39.480 that doesn't happen again, but just like doing that all 0:04:39.520 --> 0:04:42.440 over again while also having an infant and then trying 0:04:42.440 --> 0:04:44.920 to run Audrey's is just gonna and then keeping Ashley 0:04:44.920 --> 0:04:48.520 happy in Rhode Island. I'm like, holy, this is tell. 0:04:48.480 --> 0:04:50.359 Us how you really feel? Keep going, keep going? What 0:04:50.440 --> 0:04:50.960 else you got? 0:04:51.880 --> 0:04:55.520 Well, that's the main objective right now, is that trying 0:04:55.520 --> 0:04:57.360 to figure out we're obviously gonna have more kids. Because 0:04:57.360 --> 0:04:58.919 here's the thing. I was talking to other parents about this, 0:04:59.640 --> 0:05:01.560 and that we're all in the same page. I don't 0:05:01.560 --> 0:05:03.680 know why people don't talk about this. It's like, listen, 0:05:03.720 --> 0:05:07.880 the first year is just it's gonna be horrible. It's 0:05:07.920 --> 0:05:10.479 gonna be bad. It's gonna be great because you love 0:05:10.480 --> 0:05:13.960 your kids, and you know, you see them start to grow, 0:05:14.040 --> 0:05:16.240 and they're here and everybody loves being around them, and 0:05:16.279 --> 0:05:18.279 they're just little babies and like the first time they 0:05:18.400 --> 0:05:20.480 smile or the first time they make eye contact or 0:05:20.520 --> 0:05:23.360 say like a word, it's adorable and it's wonderful. But like, 0:05:23.880 --> 0:05:27.560 those are moments, you know, that make up probably like 0:05:28.200 --> 0:05:30.600 fifteen minutes of what ends up being three hundred and 0:05:30.640 --> 0:05:32.279 sixty five days of the year, you know, and the 0:05:32.320 --> 0:05:34.400 rest of the time, it's gonna be You're just you're 0:05:34.520 --> 0:05:38.120 gonna you just gotta breathe, gotta breathe, Remember to breathe. 0:05:38.200 --> 0:05:40.600 You're alive. And then after the first year and then 0:05:40.640 --> 0:05:42.880 they start like becoming a little bit more independent, and 0:05:43.000 --> 0:05:45.440 Dawson like is sleeping through the night, and then it 0:05:45.480 --> 0:05:47.200 gets better and now they're kids and they get to 0:05:47.200 --> 0:05:49.360 play together and it's so much fun. But like, there's 0:05:49.400 --> 0:05:51.640 gonna be a year it's just gonna it's just gonna 0:05:51.640 --> 0:05:52.400 be bad. 0:05:52.560 --> 0:05:55.000 Do you ever talk to Tanner about this stuff? 0:05:55.520 --> 0:06:00.000 Yeah, it's just like he's you know, it's just terrible. 0:06:00.960 --> 0:06:02.640 How many kids do they have now? They have like four? 0:06:02.720 --> 0:06:06.280 Right, they have seventeen? They have three three. But it 0:06:06.440 --> 0:06:08.320 all happened like because it was three. I think they 0:06:08.360 --> 0:06:11.880 had three under three because they had Emmy, and then 0:06:11.920 --> 0:06:13.760 they were trying for Brooks for a little while and 0:06:13.839 --> 0:06:16.480 I think it took them like seven months, so not 0:06:16.839 --> 0:06:18.479 long in the grand scheme of things, but a little 0:06:18.520 --> 0:06:23.039 while and then read I mean, dude, I think she 0:06:23.160 --> 0:06:27.279 was pregnant like three months after she gave birth three 0:06:27.480 --> 0:06:31.760 to Brooks. Something wacky that it was just like fast, 0:06:32.200 --> 0:06:37.520 and so they had three kids fast. And yeah, I 0:06:37.760 --> 0:06:43.240 just I just rough times, but wonderful times, but rough times. 0:06:44.240 --> 0:06:46.240 I don't know how how you could do that. 0:06:46.320 --> 0:06:49.640 I'm nervous for one, let alone, like be pregnant for 0:06:50.520 --> 0:06:51.400 three years almost. 0:06:51.400 --> 0:06:52.880 Oh my gosh, are. 0:06:52.720 --> 0:06:55.320 We just more selfish as a society now because now 0:06:55.360 --> 0:06:56.479 Ashley and I feel guilty? 0:06:56.920 --> 0:06:59.960 Yeah, I just I don't know the thought of kids 0:07:00.160 --> 0:07:01.040 really freak me out. 0:07:01.120 --> 0:07:04.520 And then multiple, multiple multiple. 0:07:04.640 --> 0:07:06.359 Well, I mean you already take care of one kid. 0:07:06.839 --> 0:07:10.920 It's just yeah, rude. It's funny because you were so 0:07:11.160 --> 0:07:13.880 pro children when we first met, and you. 0:07:14.080 --> 0:07:18.480 Slow, Okay, that's because that's because I was what twenty 0:07:18.480 --> 0:07:20.200 three when I met you, Yeah, and I was like, 0:07:20.240 --> 0:07:21.680 I have so much life to live before I think 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:23.880 about kids. Now I'm twenty eight and I still have 0:07:23.960 --> 0:07:27.679 a few years. But it's like it's a lot closer. Yeah, 0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:30.400 and I'm like, oh, actually, this could happen, and I'm 0:07:30.440 --> 0:07:31.360 a little freaked out by it. 0:07:31.600 --> 0:07:33.440 Oh, I have to feel like you were more excited 0:07:33.480 --> 0:07:35.680 about kids when we first met, as what I'm saying. 0:07:36.120 --> 0:07:38.520 And I said, that's because that was like so far 0:07:39.720 --> 0:07:42.280 in it, you know, years away, and now it's a 0:07:42.360 --> 0:07:42.960 lot closer. 0:07:44.000 --> 0:07:46.280 I don't follow that logic, but because it's okay, I 0:07:46.320 --> 0:07:47.680 don't have to follow it because I. 0:07:47.640 --> 0:07:49.680 Was a young kid who's like, eventually I'll have kids, 0:07:49.680 --> 0:07:53.560 and now I'm older and it could happen, and it 0:07:53.600 --> 0:07:54.840 freaks me out. 0:07:55.200 --> 0:07:57.760 I see, do you not really still know? 0:08:10.160 --> 0:08:14.000 I think parents they because like now I can tell 0:08:14.120 --> 0:08:16.320 someone else be like it's great having kids. You know, 0:08:16.360 --> 0:08:19.280 it really is like I come home and Dawson he 0:08:19.360 --> 0:08:22.239 goes thatad that and I'm like, all right, well that's 0:08:22.320 --> 0:08:25.240 you know, worth every night's rest. I never got over 0:08:25.240 --> 0:08:27.559 the past year that one moment of him just looking 0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:29.920 at me with the biggest s min that that that 0:08:29.920 --> 0:08:36.320 that So it's great, it's amazing, Like you will love it. 0:08:36.320 --> 0:08:39.080 It's just like now Ashley and are getting into the 0:08:39.120 --> 0:08:41.320 phase of being like, all right, this is this is 0:08:41.320 --> 0:08:45.319 all great things now because we've always loved Dawson so much. 0:08:45.640 --> 0:08:47.640 That's the best part of having a baby, is that, 0:08:47.720 --> 0:08:50.000 like you experienced this love over time. Like we've talked 0:08:50.000 --> 0:08:53.760 about the podcasts. When I first saw Dawson, you know, 0:08:53.800 --> 0:08:56.160 when he came out in the delivery room, you know, 0:08:56.160 --> 0:08:59.160 everybody's like, oh, you're gonna get this overwhelming sense of 0:08:59.280 --> 0:09:01.960 love that you for experience before, and it's gonna be 0:09:02.000 --> 0:09:04.480 euphloric and it's just gonna be unlike anything you felt. 0:09:05.240 --> 0:09:06.760 And I was like, guys, I'm not feeling that, Like 0:09:06.840 --> 0:09:09.440 obviously he's my son. It's a crazy moment, but like, 0:09:10.880 --> 0:09:13.640 am I psychotic? And then now it's grown to a 0:09:13.720 --> 0:09:17.680 point where I would, oh yeah, I mean if I 0:09:17.679 --> 0:09:19.080 had other kids who would be a different story, but 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:21.160 I'd probably kill myself with something happened to Dawson. 0:09:21.760 --> 0:09:23.440 If someone came to your house right now and said, 0:09:23.520 --> 0:09:24.320 it's either you or the. 0:09:24.320 --> 0:09:26.719 Baby, oh my god, shoot me seven times before you 0:09:26.720 --> 0:09:29.600 even look at Dawson. Nice, It's not even the thought 0:09:29.600 --> 0:09:31.040 would never even cross my mind. 0:09:31.200 --> 0:09:32.280 It's a good dad right there. 0:09:33.080 --> 0:09:34.600 Well, you guys will experience that, you know. 0:09:34.640 --> 0:09:37.160 It's just like if someone said it's either Dean or 0:09:37.200 --> 0:09:39.120 the baby, I guess I'd probably dead. 0:09:39.160 --> 0:09:41.760 I guess, are you insane? If you didn't tell me, 0:09:42.760 --> 0:09:45.520 I would I would judge you if you told me 0:09:45.559 --> 0:09:46.280 to kill Dawson. 0:09:47.040 --> 0:09:48.640 I would want you to kill the baby. 0:09:49.080 --> 0:09:51.319 I would be like, I would judge you so hard. 0:09:51.760 --> 0:09:54.840 I don't want to die. No, thankfully, that's not a choice. 0:09:54.840 --> 0:09:58.520 Obviously, this is this is the most horrible conversation we 0:09:58.559 --> 0:10:00.760 could possibly ever have on this podcast. But if someone 0:10:00.840 --> 0:10:05.600 came in and was, God, I feel so bad saying this, 0:10:05.920 --> 0:10:09.720 But someone was like, it's either Dawson or Lois. I 0:10:09.760 --> 0:10:13.199 love Lois so much she's I won't even care. I'd 0:10:13.280 --> 0:10:15.240 like that. I can't believe you even think that there's 0:10:15.240 --> 0:10:18.280 a comparison there, you know. And it's but I think 0:10:18.320 --> 0:10:21.160 about before I had Dawson, about the love I have 0:10:21.240 --> 0:10:23.520 for Lowes and still have for Lois. But it's just 0:10:24.000 --> 0:10:27.000 so much different now than it was prior. And I 0:10:27.040 --> 0:10:29.800 know every parent tells you that, but to actually experience 0:10:29.880 --> 0:10:32.080 it and be like, I love my dog so much, 0:10:32.200 --> 0:10:34.640 but if that dog even looks at like there's been 0:10:34.640 --> 0:10:37.080 times when Lois, like you know, has a little moment Dawson, 0:10:37.160 --> 0:10:39.440 and it's like Lois, I will not hesitate to like 0:10:39.559 --> 0:10:42.959 put you outside. Now if you even think about hurting Dawson. 0:10:42.960 --> 0:10:45.280 I thought you're gonna say Ashley or Dawson, not the dog. 0:10:46.040 --> 0:10:48.080 That's you know, that's a that's a tough But of 0:10:48.120 --> 0:10:50.160 course the same thing like if Ashley and I were 0:10:50.200 --> 0:10:54.360 ever in peril, I think both of us would say, 0:10:54.840 --> 0:10:58.920 you make sure Dawson is protected before anything with us. 0:10:59.160 --> 0:11:01.000 Yeah, but you guys, if you guys still have each other, 0:11:01.040 --> 0:11:03.120 you could just make a new one. 0:11:03.240 --> 0:11:05.520 That's true. That's true. I mean I could look a 0:11:05.600 --> 0:11:07.440 Dawson be like, bro, we could just create another. 0:11:07.200 --> 0:11:10.720 One your version one point. Oh dude, we got plenty 0:11:10.760 --> 0:11:13.480 more chances. No, I'm just kidding. It is It's probably 0:11:13.520 --> 0:11:15.680 weird to put yourself on that hypotheticals because it's like 0:11:15.800 --> 0:11:17.800 human nature to kind of think about. But obviously you 0:11:17.920 --> 0:11:19.920 never want to be in those city situations. 0:11:19.920 --> 0:11:20.360 Oh my god. 0:11:20.440 --> 0:11:20.600 Yeah. 0:11:20.640 --> 0:11:22.360 I mean, do you guys ever think about, like when 0:11:22.400 --> 0:11:24.000 you're laying in bed home invasion? 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:24.439 Oh? 0:11:24.480 --> 0:11:26.440 All the time? No, all the time. 0:11:26.559 --> 0:11:27.719 I don't really think about that. 0:11:27.920 --> 0:11:28.360 Yeah. 0:11:28.440 --> 0:11:29.800 Oh yeah, you know where the gun is? 0:11:30.600 --> 0:11:32.080 You don't know how to use it? I need to 0:11:32.080 --> 0:11:33.160 go to a shooting range. 0:11:33.200 --> 0:11:33.680 You sure do. 0:11:34.440 --> 0:11:35.040 Yeah. 0:11:35.160 --> 0:11:36.880 I don't really love having a gun in the house, 0:11:36.880 --> 0:11:40.360 but it's Steen's gun to protect himself in the van, right, 0:11:40.600 --> 0:11:41.360 That's what I got it for. 0:11:41.480 --> 0:11:44.320 Yeah, and you know where it is, you don't, you know, 0:11:45.160 --> 0:11:46.240 just don't shoot yourself. 0:11:46.640 --> 0:11:49.080 My grandpa was the firearms instructor for the FBI, So 0:11:49.120 --> 0:11:53.160 I feel like I've got some good good shots in me. 0:11:53.880 --> 0:11:58.440 Yeah, damn. So where are you guys in the world 0:11:58.480 --> 0:12:00.680 right now? You both in Colorado? 0:12:00.960 --> 0:12:02.000 We're both in Colorado. 0:12:02.800 --> 0:12:06.440 We're in Denver until tomorrow, head to la and then 0:12:06.600 --> 0:12:07.560 back to Vegas. 0:12:07.920 --> 0:12:10.160 Yeah. Caitlin's got a bachelorette party to go to this weekend. 0:12:10.240 --> 0:12:12.200 Dean's got a golf tournament. To go to this weekend. 0:12:12.800 --> 0:12:14.320 Why do you say it like that as if I'm. 0:12:14.200 --> 0:12:16.480 Mike Kellis, Well we both got things in La. 0:12:16.600 --> 0:12:18.120 Yeah, but you said it as like a retort to 0:12:18.160 --> 0:12:19.200 what I was saying, as if. 0:12:19.120 --> 0:12:21.960 It felt like it. Well, I'm not the only one going. 0:12:21.800 --> 0:12:23.440 To La for Oh what I'm just saying? You got 0:12:23.440 --> 0:12:25.120 a fun bachelorrett party to go to this weekend? 0:12:25.360 --> 0:12:27.959 Yeah, Catalina. Never been to Catalina, have you, guys? 0:12:28.320 --> 0:12:31.760 No, just the wine mixer, Yeah, just the wine just 0:12:32.200 --> 0:12:35.319 in Catalina line mixer. Yeah. No, that'll be fun. You 0:12:35.320 --> 0:12:36.160 should have a good time. 0:12:36.760 --> 0:12:39.760 Yeah, it'll be It'll be a good time. And Catalina 0:12:39.800 --> 0:12:42.640 looks beautiful. So and it's going to be hot this weekend. 0:12:42.679 --> 0:12:45.160 It's going to be in like the upper nineties in La, 0:12:45.240 --> 0:12:45.960 which is crazy. 0:12:47.000 --> 0:12:51.200 Uh, Dean, how is your mountain climbing going before the wedding? 0:12:51.240 --> 0:12:52.240 Are you on pace? 0:12:52.920 --> 0:12:55.160 Uh? It's good man. Yeah, I'm actually had a schedule 0:12:55.160 --> 0:12:57.000 which is really nice. But I am taking the next 0:12:57.040 --> 0:13:00.280 five days off, so that'll probably put me like right 0:13:00.400 --> 0:13:03.040 at or behind schedule. But then I'm taking the next 0:13:03.120 --> 0:13:05.320 days on eight days on, so that'll put me ahead 0:13:05.320 --> 0:13:06.679 of schedule. But then I'm going to take a couple 0:13:06.720 --> 0:13:09.040 of days off so i'll be behind all right. Yeah, 0:13:09.040 --> 0:13:14.280 it's going well. I just did the hardest one I've 0:13:14.280 --> 0:13:17.000 done yet, which is like this traverse. There's four great 0:13:17.040 --> 0:13:19.200 traverses they call it, and I did the first one 0:13:20.120 --> 0:13:23.160 three days ago and it was good. It was a 0:13:23.200 --> 0:13:27.280 little scary at times. I finally turned my satellite phone 0:13:27.280 --> 0:13:29.640 on so I can text Kylen basically all the time, 0:13:29.960 --> 0:13:32.480 and we were actually just talking about that because she's 0:13:32.559 --> 0:13:35.760 very stressed out about me going on these journeys by myself. 0:13:35.840 --> 0:13:37.640 So I was like, well, we have this phone now 0:13:38.040 --> 0:13:40.080 and it's twenty cents a message, and she'll send me 0:13:40.080 --> 0:13:42.439 one word messages and I'm like, Kaylen, you need to 0:13:42.480 --> 0:13:45.480 put everything into one message because every message costs me 0:13:45.520 --> 0:13:46.079 twenty cents. 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:48.320 Okay, because that's how I text, I text like you 0:13:48.320 --> 0:13:51.760 know little. I feel like some people text in full paragraphs. 0:13:51.800 --> 0:13:53.440 They get all their thoughts on a full paragraph, and 0:13:53.440 --> 0:13:57.040 then people just like send consecutive messages. And I'm trying 0:13:57.080 --> 0:13:59.920 to teach myself. I've been texting since I was what fifteen, 0:14:00.480 --> 0:14:01.520 how to text differently. 0:14:01.600 --> 0:14:05.320 Now she'd be like, shoot, that's okay, how's your day? 0:14:05.400 --> 0:14:07.440 Going all in different messages. I'm like, Kyl, these are 0:14:07.480 --> 0:14:10.000 twenty cents of peace right now, but I'm all on 0:14:10.040 --> 0:14:11.199 the same message. 0:14:11.400 --> 0:14:14.479 Yeah, Caitlin, you're the sweetest, but my god, text texters 0:14:14.559 --> 0:14:16.840 like you or just the absolute worst. Because, for example, 0:14:16.880 --> 0:14:19.560 when I'm on the podcast, my mom will text me 0:14:19.880 --> 0:14:23.880 and it's like ding ding ding ding, and I'm like, 0:14:24.040 --> 0:14:26.800 someone better have just died if I'm getting five text 0:14:26.840 --> 0:14:30.680 messages in a row. But of course it's not. She goes, Oh, okay, 0:14:31.240 --> 0:14:35.440 love you do you need dinner? We have leftovers? Oh 0:14:35.480 --> 0:14:38.800 my god, please, for the love of God, I'm doing something. 0:14:38.960 --> 0:14:41.120 I have friends who are those texters, and I'm definitely 0:14:41.200 --> 0:14:44.280 not that one. But you know, if I spell a 0:14:44.320 --> 0:14:46.800 word wrong, I'll like, I'll type it and I'm like, oh, 0:14:46.800 --> 0:14:48.800 I guess I don't really need to waste you know, 0:14:48.880 --> 0:14:52.760 correcting my bad grammar or my mistake on you know, 0:14:52.880 --> 0:14:54.840 if it's costing you twenty cents of the message. 0:14:54.920 --> 0:14:57.000 Yeah, yeah, so that anyways, But that's good for us 0:14:57.040 --> 0:14:59.880 because Caylin's been stressed out about me being up there, 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:01.560 so it's nice to be able to stay in contact 0:15:01.640 --> 0:15:02.200 at all times. 0:15:02.280 --> 0:15:04.800 Yeah, well you said it was you said the last 0:15:04.840 --> 0:15:07.800 one was a little scary. What is your definition of 0:15:07.880 --> 0:15:09.400 scary when climbing a mountain? 0:15:10.160 --> 0:15:11.840 Well, yeah, it's a really good question. 0:15:12.040 --> 0:15:13.040 Which are the photo. 0:15:15.640 --> 0:15:17.280 Well, like I said, it's considered one of the great 0:15:17.320 --> 0:15:21.200 traverses in Colorado. There's four of them, so it's it 0:15:21.240 --> 0:15:23.960 really only gets up to class four. But like you know, 0:15:24.000 --> 0:15:26.920 you're scaling the wall basically Tom cruise the intro of 0:15:27.040 --> 0:15:30.680 Mission Impossible three or whatever it is, and you're doing 0:15:30.720 --> 0:15:31.280 that two. 0:15:31.400 --> 0:15:32.120 But I digress. 0:15:32.480 --> 0:15:35.560 Oh my apologies. It's basically like that kind of stuff 0:15:35.600 --> 0:15:39.760 where like you're a lot of exposure, which means like 0:15:39.880 --> 0:15:42.960 if you fall, you're not just falling a couple of feet, 0:15:42.960 --> 0:15:44.600 You're like falling down a mountain. 0:15:51.320 --> 0:15:53.000 Hey guys, it's Joe answering. 0:15:53.080 --> 0:15:54.480 I hear from Bachelor Happy Hour. 0:15:54.680 --> 0:15:57.720 We have a really exciting episode dropping on Wednesday. We 0:15:57.800 --> 0:16:00.760 will be the one and only podcast talking to the 0:16:00.840 --> 0:16:02.760 new Golden Bachelor, Gary. 0:16:03.320 --> 0:16:05.200 I know you've seen the teasers for it, and you've 0:16:05.200 --> 0:16:08.080 probably heard about the show for ages, but now it's 0:16:08.120 --> 0:16:10.760 happening and the Golden Bachelor has been revealed. 0:16:11.000 --> 0:16:13.440 We are talking to Gary about how he's getting ready 0:16:13.480 --> 0:16:15.800 for his journey, what his friends and family think about 0:16:15.800 --> 0:16:18.720 all this and what he is most excited and nervous 0:16:18.760 --> 0:16:22.320 about in taking on the role of the first Golden Bachelor. 0:16:22.760 --> 0:16:26.480 Plus, he is revealing exactly what kind of woman he's 0:16:26.480 --> 0:16:30.000 hoping to meet, only to us in an exclusive interview 0:16:30.040 --> 0:16:31.240 with Bachelor Happy Hours. 0:16:31.520 --> 0:16:34.040 I mean, after talking to him, I personally I think 0:16:34.080 --> 0:16:37.160 he's going to fall in love with multiple women. You think, so, Oh, yeah, 0:16:37.160 --> 0:16:37.600 for sure. 0:16:37.800 --> 0:16:40.080 I think Gary is such a star. I feel like 0:16:40.080 --> 0:16:42.000 the women are going to be head over heels for him, 0:16:42.080 --> 0:16:43.680 and the audience is going to love him as well. 0:16:43.760 --> 0:16:44.520 I think he's a star. 0:16:44.640 --> 0:16:47.160 I think he's a confident man, but I just don't 0:16:47.160 --> 0:16:49.000 think he knows what he's getting into. He's about the 0:16:49.080 --> 0:16:51.640 date of multitude of women. 0:16:51.840 --> 0:16:53.880 I mean, I think the experience will be amazing for 0:16:54.000 --> 0:16:57.040 him and just as amazing for us to follow along. 0:16:57.160 --> 0:17:00.320 Oh I agree, So Bachelor Nation, make sure to tune 0:17:00.360 --> 0:17:03.480 in to Bachelor Happy Hour on Wednesday, just like Gary. 0:17:03.600 --> 0:17:06.200 We promise it will be worth the way, and don't 0:17:06.200 --> 0:17:10.520 forget to subscribe. 0:17:11.760 --> 0:17:13.719 So when you say you, because I guess I always 0:17:13.840 --> 0:17:16.120 envisioned when you said you're climbing these things, especially from 0:17:16.119 --> 0:17:18.240 your Instagram it's like a hike almost. 0:17:18.720 --> 0:17:21.560 Yeah, well there's fifty eight of them and like forty 0:17:21.560 --> 0:17:24.040 five are hikes, but then there's like ten of them 0:17:24.080 --> 0:17:27.480 that are like actual climbs. And Caitlyn was just talking 0:17:27.480 --> 0:17:29.600 to me yesterday because now she's motivated to maybe doing 0:17:29.680 --> 0:17:33.719 with me, and she was like, well, let's do one 0:17:33.720 --> 0:17:35.040 of these ones. I was like, no, I've already done 0:17:35.040 --> 0:17:37.399 all the easy ones. The hard ones are now. Like 0:17:37.440 --> 0:17:38.800 I was doing the easy ones to get ready for 0:17:38.800 --> 0:17:40.960