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Speaker 1: it's the French show. You know, only a few people

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Speaker 1: seen it yet. Here it is. See and where we

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Speaker 1: go from? Run it back for more March Madness and

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Speaker 1: the whole dances. Right here in the great state of Indiana,

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Speaker 1: basketball is moving into the fabric of this city. The

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Speaker 1: madness began. We waited two years for this and here

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Speaker 1: we go. So you don't know. If you don't watch sports,

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Speaker 1: guess they only do it for the men the men's

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Speaker 1: March Madness Tournament. After the national championship game, they do

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Speaker 1: this montage. I don't know how they have been doing this. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's been like I don't know my whole life. I

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Speaker 1: think I missed an old song from Luther Androws. I

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Speaker 1: think it's even I'm not even sure if it's his song,

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Speaker 1: but anyway, and they take little bites from the entire

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Speaker 1: tournament which lasts, you know, three weeks, and sixty eight

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Speaker 1: it is, and they it's called one Shining Moment. And

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Speaker 1: then at the end and somebody is hard at work

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Speaker 1: it's not I don't know what it is. It's just

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Speaker 1: you watch these like twenty somethings in their moment of

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Speaker 1: And you know, because I don't know the dudes from

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Speaker 1: even if you don't like sports, it's like, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: every year one Shining Moment, But the other thing that

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Speaker 1: You know, It's like that, it just caps the whole

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Speaker 1: But there it is. So during the break, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: But does anyone else know what I know? Rufio? Does

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Speaker 1: the rest of you know about one Shining Moment? No idea? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Jason Brown sports reporter, Yeah, I mean it sounds like

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Speaker 1: the final Keeping up with the Kardashians, like I'm going

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Speaker 1: Luther van Rosen that you know, one shining moment, and

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Speaker 1: good morning, and that show by Shelley and for Kalin today,

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Shells, Hey, good morning. UM. So we have

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Speaker 1: stair Ago today and this this doesn't happen very often,

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Speaker 1: Now we can start the song on one oh three

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Speaker 1: five Now, I'm ready Rufio really at least five Kiss FM,

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Speaker 1: Good morning, We'll get to us. Stair Go in just

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Speaker 1: And I get that makes sense. No, you're right faulin it.

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Speaker 1: in with him, maybe you intend to marry Do you

424
00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:09,400
Speaker 1: intend to marry him some day? Do you think maybe

425
00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:13,960
Speaker 1: you'll marry him? I'd like, true? Know you're paying the

426
00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:17,120
Speaker 1: next step, right, So you're paying whatever in rent. Let's

427
00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:19,119
Speaker 1: say I don't know, I'm making this up, and that

428
00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:22,239
Speaker 1: goes towards his mortgage, which which goes towards equity for him,

429
00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:23,840
Speaker 1: which is you know, that's the reason that that you're

430
00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:25,960
Speaker 1: agreeing to do that, And Pauline is right, that would

431
00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:29,359
Speaker 1: if you're renting now, then you're paying towards somebody's equity,

432
00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:32,040
Speaker 1: whether it's the investment company or the individual who owns

433
00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:34,120
Speaker 1: a place or whatever. Let's say that you break up.

434
00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:35,600
Speaker 1: I don't know, would it be unfair to put in

435
00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:38,200
Speaker 1: the lease that you want because you've been helping him

436
00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:40,480
Speaker 1: pay his mortgage, that if you break up and he

437
00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:43,520
Speaker 1: kicks you out, that he has to pay um first

438
00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:46,200
Speaker 1: and last month's rent on your next apartment or something.

439
00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:47,720
Speaker 1: I mean, like you know what I'm saying, like so

440
00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:50,520
Speaker 1: that you're not just lost with absolutely nothing when this ends.

441
00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:53,600
Speaker 1: I don't think that's responsible, you know, Like, look, I

442
00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:56,160
Speaker 1: helped you pay your mortgage for three years, so if

443
00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:57,880
Speaker 1: it if it doesn't work out and I can't live

444
00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:00,720
Speaker 1: here anymore, that I want five thousand dollars or I

445
00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:02,840
Speaker 1: want twenty five hundred bucks to get started with my

446
00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:05,040
Speaker 1: next place or whatever, because for the last three years

447
00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:07,680
Speaker 1: I haven't been building my credit. I don't I haven't

448
00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:10,719
Speaker 1: been paying into equity. No, I haven't been doing anything. No,

449
00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:13,280
Speaker 1: they wouldn't do that with Joe Blow, because I feel like,

450
00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:15,080
Speaker 1: what would you do? What you call him and say, hey,

451
00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:17,160
Speaker 1: I want five thousand dollars back. I've lived in your

452
00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:21,119
Speaker 1: building for yea. But he can't Joe Blow can't trust

453
00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:24,280
Speaker 1: me as a It's very difficult to get rid of

454
00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:27,200
Speaker 1: a tenant. It's very very difficult to get you're protected

455
00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:30,080
Speaker 1: by the lease in this case. In his case, he

456
00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:32,080
Speaker 1: can throw her out with no lease and put her

457
00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:36,760
Speaker 1: on the street and whatever and she gets nothing. Yeah,

458
00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:39,240
Speaker 1: but with Paulina on this one, like imagine if I

459
00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:41,200
Speaker 1: was moving with Paulina and she's like, here's a lease?

460
00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 1: What absolutely there would be a lease if we're deating.

461
00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:49,520
Speaker 1: I don't know. For some reason, that really to me,

462
00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:52,280
Speaker 1: And again I could be wrong. It just doesn't feel right,

463
00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:54,200
Speaker 1: especially because I know, like I do want to marry

464
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:56,040
Speaker 1: my boyfriend one day, right, and that's what our sally

465
00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:58,800
Speaker 1: wants to do too, And now we're on a lease agreement.

466
00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:01,600
Speaker 1: Like was this temper? Are you shake hands afterwards? I

467
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:06,160
Speaker 1: want to shake hands now like this, Like you guys,

468
00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:08,560
Speaker 1: you're talking about a bunch of different things here, you're

469
00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:11,119
Speaker 1: talking about a bunch of different things. We don't have

470
00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 1: to just compare everything. I mean, look, moving in somewhere,

471
00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:18,680
Speaker 1: that's that's a business transaction. Everything else is a relationship

472
00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:21,199
Speaker 1: aspect of the things. So really, I just want to

473
00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 1: protect myself so that the the event Girk happened and

474
00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:25,960
Speaker 1: we do break up, I'm not left on the street.

475
00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:28,320
Speaker 1: I like it. I like it. I like it. Let

476
00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:30,440
Speaker 1: me take some phone calls on this, um Ari sell

477
00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:32,200
Speaker 1: you have your radio one, and we'll see what people

478
00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:33,399
Speaker 1: have to say. A lot of people have been in

479
00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:36,120
Speaker 1: a similar situation, so you know, again, I know it's

480
00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:37,840
Speaker 1: not fun to talk about, but you got to cover

481
00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:39,879
Speaker 1: your own ass. I mean when it comes down to it,

482
00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:44,399
Speaker 1: because relationships they they they end. I mean, then it

483
00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:47,280
Speaker 1: can be ugly understatement of the century. And so you know,

484
00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 1: at least I guess iron out what happens if that happens.

485
00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:53,600
Speaker 1: But have a great day. Thanks for telling us your story.

486
00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:57,840
Speaker 1: Thanks guys, Um Samantha, good morning, Welcome to the Frenchie.

487
00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:03,639
Speaker 1: Are you are youthing? Yeah? You think I think that

488
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 1: she should stay. And I've been dating my boyfriend for

489
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:11,159
Speaker 1: six years and we've lived together for five and the

490
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:13,320
Speaker 1: house that we live in is not in my name,

491
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:17,119
Speaker 1: and it does suck that it doesn't go towards my credit.

492
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:20,560
Speaker 1: But I feel like it would be like like I'm

493
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:23,800
Speaker 1: just a business partner if we like live together and

494
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:26,240
Speaker 1: I'm paying, like I have a lease on it. Like

495
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:30,200
Speaker 1: I just feel like I'm just a roommate, not your girlfriend,

496
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:32,480
Speaker 1: like you Just like I feel like there's like a

497
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:34,920
Speaker 1: trust thing, like you should just trust the person you're

498
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:38,520
Speaker 1: with to know that they're not just gonna like like

499
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 1: just kick you out and you have like no option

500
00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:47,840
Speaker 1: after that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean it's it's tricky, right.

501
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:49,720
Speaker 1: You don't want to have to have these conversations because

502
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 1: especially right in the phase where you're moving in with somebody.

503
00:24:54,359 --> 00:25:01,920
Speaker 1: Are you driving a convertible? S? No? I mean when

504
00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:03,600
Speaker 1: you're when you're in the phase that you're moving in

505
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:05,919
Speaker 1: with somebody, I feel like that's the height, right, Like

506
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 1: everything's going so well that you don't want to be

507
00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:11,119
Speaker 1: a part and so you don't worry about this stuff then.

508
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:13,880
Speaker 1: But then a year, two, three year later, if it's

509
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 1: like I want to move out or whatever, or he

510
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 1: wants you out or she wants you out, I don't know,

511
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:21,159
Speaker 1: none of it's it's not as clearly defined and this

512
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:23,199
Speaker 1: is where you live this is a big deal. This

513
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:25,479
Speaker 1: isn't like you know, I don't know. Thank you so

514
00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 1: much for calling out, Samantha. Have a good day. I

515
00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:35,159
Speaker 1: love you too, Tiffany. Hi, Tiffany, good morning, Welcome. How

516
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 1: are you thanking? I want you and let you know

517
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 1: that I think I'm still should leave the relationship. I

518
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:50,040
Speaker 1: think if this gentleman can't even be open to feedback

519
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:53,439
Speaker 1: about something that is this important to her, what is

520
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:57,359
Speaker 1: that going to mean when things are really difficult? What

521
00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 1: is that going to mean when all of a sudden

522
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 1: there is something on the line that is tangible to

523
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:05,680
Speaker 1: both of them. If he can just come in and say,

524
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 1: my foot is down, this is what's happening, that's a

525
00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 1: bad sign. That's a really big red flag. Yeah. I

526
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:16,240
Speaker 1: feel like if they're in a relationship, she's because they're

527
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:19,239
Speaker 1: in a relationship. If she's helping him pay his mortgage,

528
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:21,479
Speaker 1: and again, if she were renting, that's what it would be,

529
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:23,640
Speaker 1: but the terms are different. I feel like she should

530
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:26,680
Speaker 1: get some some protection out of this something. It doesn't

531
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:30,440
Speaker 1: have to be equal to what she paid, but just something.

532
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:34,399
Speaker 1: It's his turf. You know, I was in a marriage.

533
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:38,280
Speaker 1: I owned a home. My name was on the mortgage,

534
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:41,719
Speaker 1: and my ex still changed the locks and the police

535
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 1: said I had to go somewhere else. I don't see.

536
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:47,720
Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about. Divorce lawyers will will advise

537
00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:50,280
Speaker 1: their clients to lock everything up and worry about it later.

538
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:53,160
Speaker 1: And you know, I don't know. That's your that's your

539
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:56,359
Speaker 1: that's where you live, that's your stuff, you know, and

540
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 1: maybe I don't know, maybe she's not from here and

541
00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 1: doesn't have any other place to gow. How simple is

542
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:04,160
Speaker 1: this just to lay some stuff out and the don't

543
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:06,240
Speaker 1: have to be like, you know, forty pages or something,

544
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:08,679
Speaker 1: just a few things like here, you know, in the

545
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:16,840
Speaker 1: event of his character it or the highway, And what

546
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 1: is it going to mean once you're in there and

547
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:22,720
Speaker 1: he holds all the cards? Yeah yeah, Or it's just trust.

548
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 1: Uh yeah. I just think I just think it's about trust,

549
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 1: Like you're not dating someone who's a horrible person, but

550
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:29,879
Speaker 1: saying like, hey, I need this least because I think

551
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:32,160
Speaker 1: you're going to do this horrible thing like that would

552
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 1: have fed me a little bit as well. So like

553
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:35,920
Speaker 1: just to side with the guy a little bit, like

554
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:38,879
Speaker 1: you really think I'm gonna do something that cruel to you,

555
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:41,560
Speaker 1: Like I would be a little offended as well. That's

556
00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:44,400
Speaker 1: how she's only known him for a year. You learn

557
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:47,239
Speaker 1: a lot about someone by living with them. People let

558
00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 1: down their guard after a while with them, That's true.

559
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:52,679
Speaker 1: What if I don't know? And again I'm just I'm

560
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 1: thinking totally black and white here, But if they're planning

561
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 1: on getting married, then what if some of what she's

562
00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:03,399
Speaker 1: paid towards his mortgage then converted to equity when I

563
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 1: guess it does kind of when they get married. But

564
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:09,879
Speaker 1: then again he's bringing that into the relationships. It was

565
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:13,719
Speaker 1: You're right exactly. So maybe maybe then I don't know,

566
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 1: maybe maybe you're getting her name on the title. Is

567
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, like putting her name on

568
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 1: the title or well that's an idea of the house.

569
00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:22,680
Speaker 1: I can see why he wouldn't do that because now

570
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 1: she owns half of it, but maybe it okay, So

571
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:27,879
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying is maybe the least says if

572
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:30,200
Speaker 1: we get married, then the percentage of what I've paid

573
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:32,639
Speaker 1: in rent goes towards equities, so that I have some

574
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:35,240
Speaker 1: ownership in this because now we're married, right, so you know,

575
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:37,400
Speaker 1: I want I want to get something out of this deal.

576
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just about the tangible property and

577
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 1: more about his negotiation skills and what he brings to

578
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:47,840
Speaker 1: the table in communication. I hear you, Tiffany, thank you

579
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 1: so much. Have a good day, have a good day.

580
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 1: Thank you. Yeah, And you see that I you know what.

581
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:57,320
Speaker 1: And she comes from a place where she's been burnt. Um,

582
00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 1: you know, not to get like two into it because

583
00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 1: I was really little, but my mom comes. My parents

584
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 1: got divorced, and my mom I don't think she got

585
00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:07,400
Speaker 1: us and not a lot of the stuff, not a

586
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 1: lot of the money. And it's like because this stuff

587
00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 1: they were married, but this stuff wasn't laid out, like

588
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just I feel like, if I

589
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 1: get married at this point in my life, I'm gonna

590
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 1: lay this crap out because you know, if I marry

591
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 1: somebody close to my age, then that woman probably has

592
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,360
Speaker 1: things by now and I have things. It's like, why

593
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 1: why don't we just not argue about that? If this

594
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 1: relationship ends, it will be painful enough, so why not

595
00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 1: protect ourselves a little bit here when it comes to

596
00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 1: our crap. Amanda, good morning, Welcome to the show. How

597
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 1: are you, good morning, how are you? Hey? What do

598
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:42,719
Speaker 1: you think? So I'll just to recap here. People are

599
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 1: just joining. This woman is moving in with her boyfriend.

600
00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:47,880
Speaker 1: She wants some kind of a lease from this guy

601
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:50,120
Speaker 1: that says something, and we've got a million different ways

602
00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 1: with this. I don't even know what exactly she wants

603
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:55,160
Speaker 1: it to say, but she wants some sort of firm

604
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 1: agreement between the two of them about this place where

605
00:29:57,920 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 1: she's gonna live that he owns, and he is not

606
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:02,400
Speaker 1: not having it. He won't do it. He won't he

607
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 1: won't even negotiate, he won't hear it. It's you move

608
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 1: in and we're not doing a least and that's un

609
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 1: romantic or whatever it is, and she's worried about it.

610
00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 1: What do you think I agree with her having a least. However,

611
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 1: I know when I first bought my home, I was

612
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 1: super all about reading the fine print, and there's certain

613
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:27,440
Speaker 1: things and a mortgage that such as you can't have tenants,

614
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 1: is it for your own personal living or are you

615
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 1: renting it out? And if you're renting it out, that

616
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 1: changes the whole mortgage thing. So there's certain things that

617
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:40,360
Speaker 1: maybe they have to sit down together and look through.

618
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 1: But I don't think she should leave them. Yeah, I

619
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 1: just I think if and I've said this a couple

620
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 1: of times, but if he has the ability to and

621
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:50,720
Speaker 1: I'm reading here from some of the callers that he'd

622
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 1: it would be difficult for him to a victor too

623
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 1: for whatever reason. But at the same time, and we

624
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 1: may have to jump to that, but at the same time,

625
00:30:58,040 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 1: I think there should be something in it, since she's

626
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:02,600
Speaker 1: pay towards his equity, that if he does drop her

627
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 1: ass on the street that she gets, you know, that

628
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:08,120
Speaker 1: he has to help her relocate or something. I'm just saying.

629
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 1: You can say so cynical today, this is all so

630
00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 1: cynical to me to end. So let's plan for all

631
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 1: of it right now. I'm gonna tell you right now, Christie,

632
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:21,160
Speaker 1: right now, I've never met golf guy. Based on the

633
00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,080
Speaker 1: way you've described him, he will serve you with a

634
00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 1: prenup if you guys get married. Yes, he's a little

635
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 1: bit older than you. Apparently he's successful, he's got his

636
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 1: own stuff. Um, I don't know. I mean, he seems

637
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 1: like a nice guy. But for the way you describe me,

638
00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 1: he's got a little bit of money. I promise you,

639
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 1: I promise you he you there will be a prenup

640
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 1: if you guys get married, And I don't know why

641
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:45,960
Speaker 1: that there's a problem with that. What do you care.

642
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 1: You're not there for his money, you're there for him.

643
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:49,719
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't really care either which way. If

644
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,040
Speaker 1: he was super into the prenup, whatever, we do a prenup,

645
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 1: But if he wasn't, then no, Like, I don't really

646
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 1: care that much about it because I don't think that

647
00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:57,560
Speaker 1: if we got married we'd end up with a divorce.

648
00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:01,240
Speaker 1: I'm not planning on the ending. All nobody is, nobody

649
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 1: ever is nobody ever is moving with her boyfriend. That's

650
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:09,720
Speaker 1: the point. She's so excited to live with him. She's

651
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:13,600
Speaker 1: all funny games right now, Christie. It's all funny games

652
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 1: to live with a man. It's all funny games until

653
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 1: he goes to Paul Pierce's stripper party, and then you know,

654
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 1: let's talk to let's jump to rocks In because I

655
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:27,240
Speaker 1: think she knows something about Hey, rocks In. Hello. I

656
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 1: don't say he can't just kick her out. There's squatters

657
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 1: right My boyfriend's son loving with us, and he was

658
00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:35,480
Speaker 1: calling at problems and when I called the police, I

659
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:38,120
Speaker 1: say about this, kick him out? He goes, you can't.

660
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 1: What do you mean, I can't. I can't kick is

661
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 1: twenty two year olds out of my house. He goes,

662
00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 1: Now he has squatters, right, he'll have to take him

663
00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 1: to court. Oh wow, wow, and she's so I don't know.

664
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 1: So now that's a mess. Now you got it. I

665
00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:51,840
Speaker 1: don't know. Why not just write all this stuff down?

666
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:58,880
Speaker 1: Thank you, rocks have a good A good dame. What

667
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 1: is Alicia? I know, I know Paulina. This is hitting

668
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 1: a little close to home for Paulia, who just bought

669
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:06,480
Speaker 1: a house, who was moving in with this my lawyer today.

670
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 1: Hold on, let me which one? Alicia up at the

671
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:13,960
Speaker 1: top Alicia after Mike. Oh yeah, Hi, Hi Elicia, good morning.

672
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 1: Oh so funny. Yeah that's all I want to say.

673
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:20,800
Speaker 1: Oh it says O l e Sia on my screen.

674
00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 1: I don't know why anyway, Hi, how are you? I'm

675
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 1: doing good? Um I think you should go. She should go. Um,

676
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 1: I wasn't an eight year relationship with somebody from teenage

677
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 1: un sold our middle mid twenties twenty five. Um, after

678
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 1: eight years, our plan was to get a home and

679
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 1: get married, So I wasn't planning for the end. Um

680
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 1: we I took out credit cards, got tile, got cabinet,

681
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:43,719
Speaker 1: so we both weren't in a one hundred percent. I

682
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:46,320
Speaker 1: got a lot of things that aren't there, are tangible

683
00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:49,120
Speaker 1: but connected to this home that we slipped um. And

684
00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 1: then about a week and a half into actually living together,

685
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:55,520
Speaker 1: we started having issues. Um. And then two months into

686
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 1: the relationship, he just said one day I'm not happy

687
00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:07,360
Speaker 1: and I had a oh well the cabins. Yeah, now

688
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 1: I got all the appliances, so I was one got

689
00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:14,320
Speaker 1: a lot of credit UM into it, and I didn't

690
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:17,040
Speaker 1: have any say so into when I can leave, what

691
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:18,719
Speaker 1: I should take. It was just you have a week

692
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 1: to leave. Um, that's all I'm going to give you. Thankfully,

693
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:23,799
Speaker 1: I lived close to home and my mom and my

694
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 1: family were there, so I got to move back home.

695
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:28,320
Speaker 1: But after eight years of just being girlfriend and boyfriend,

696
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,239
Speaker 1: our plan was to get married after getting a home.

697
00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:32,359
Speaker 1: Once that home came in, it had nothing to take

698
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:34,319
Speaker 1: with me or a week into it all right, Well,

699
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:36,600
Speaker 1: And I guess you could argue. You know, the counterpoint

700
00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 1: is if you rent an apartment and you paint the walls,

701
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:40,239
Speaker 1: and you paid for the paint, and you have to

702
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 1: pay to put it back but okay, so there's a

703
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:46,720
Speaker 1: perfect example from from this woman. If maybe the least says,

704
00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:49,879
Speaker 1: if I if I contribute to this place, if I'd

705
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:52,600
Speaker 1: put it a new refrigerator in, or if I put

706
00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:54,719
Speaker 1: a microwave in this thing, or if I'd retile a

707
00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:56,759
Speaker 1: bathroom or something, then if you break up with me

708
00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 1: in a certain period of time, you have to pay

709
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:00,920
Speaker 1: me half of that or I don't know, I mean,

710
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:03,319
Speaker 1: I just I know that it's not fun to sit

711
00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:05,439
Speaker 1: down and talk about this stuff. But but why wind

712
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:07,560
Speaker 1: up in a position where you are where you get

713
00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 1: nothing and the other person gets everything. If the if

714
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 1: the love or the like or the romantic part of

715
00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:15,919
Speaker 1: this falls apart, that doesn't mean that your life doesn't

716
00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:17,920
Speaker 1: still have to move on and the Younils still need

717
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:19,319
Speaker 1: a place to live, and you doil still need money

718
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 1: to do it. I don't know. It just doesn't seem

719
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 1: fair to me. But um, thank you so much. Have

720
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:26,880
Speaker 1: a good day. And I hate to sound cynical, because

721
00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 1: you know, deep down inside, I'm a hopeless romantic and

722
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:30,800
Speaker 1: I do want to fall in love, and I do

723
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:32,400
Speaker 1: want to be with somebody forever. I don't want to

724
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 1: have to deal with this stuff. But I'm telling you

725
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:36,480
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. I would not be the least

726
00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:38,640
Speaker 1: bit offended if somebody moves in my condo and wanted

727
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 1: some kind of assurance that they, you know, wouldn't wind

728
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:43,960
Speaker 1: up with nothing in the deal. I mean, it's not

729
00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:45,920
Speaker 1: gonna be I don't think it will be fair because

730
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:48,680
Speaker 1: you're moving into my place, but it shouldn't be nothing. Man,

731
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 1: it is seven forty seven in the morning, and I

732
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 1: already don't believe in love today. All right? Um, By

733
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:58,279
Speaker 1: the way, Shelby, Shelley, are you excited to get married?

734
00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 1: I was just serious. I know. At first I was

735
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 1: with Paula. I'm like, this wouldn't even occur to me

736
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 1: to get a lease, And then after hearing all this,

737
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, whoa, all right, it's something to think about. Okay.

738
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:20,200
Speaker 1: Of course, called the Texas Hammer, hammer and Hammer. And

739
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:23,080
Speaker 1: by the way, those I saw last night, I'm not

740
00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 1: sure if it's in every market, but those Learner and

741
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:27,920
Speaker 1: Row guys have is it master p or who is that? Oh? No,

742
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:31,640
Speaker 1: it's no, who is it? Um? That's no, it's um.

743
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:33,560
Speaker 1: It's a flavor lave. It's flavor of flame and it

744
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 1: oh I haven't seen those commercials. I just see Learner

745
00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:39,319
Speaker 1: and Rowing there, neither themselves. I think it's Flavor of Flame.

746
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:41,160
Speaker 1: It's not master p it's I think it's Flavor of Flame.

747
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:43,040
Speaker 1: I only saw it quickly, but I'm like, is that flavor?

748
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 1: Is it a parody? Is that flavor? Flavor? And row Commer? Yeah,

749
00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:49,560
Speaker 1: I watched too much TV um Okay, so we're running

750
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:51,480
Speaker 1: way late, so let's just get right to it. The

751
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:55,160
Speaker 1: action of the showb Shelley Showdown eight five, five, five, nine, one,

752
00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 1: one three, five thirty one straight wins? Can you beat

753
00:36:57,719 --> 00:37:00,840
Speaker 1: the Gorilla? Five questions? Will play next? Travis Scott on

754
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:04,239
Speaker 1: The Fred Show one h three five It's the Fred

755
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 1: Show on one three fish? Do you have what it takes?

756
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:12,239
Speaker 1: The Battle Showbis Shelley in the Showbiz Showdown. All right,

757
00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 1: shout out to come Ed Shobi, Shelley's here, Good morning,

758
00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:22,960
Speaker 1: Hey whoa good morning? Hi? Hey, hey, hey hey hey,

759
00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:26,919
Speaker 1: let's welcome your challenger. We go live to Chicago. It's Megan, Hi, Megan,

760
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:31,360
Speaker 1: how are you doing? Hi? How are you guys? Good morning? Hey, hey,

761
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:33,319
Speaker 1: good morning. And I just want to say sometimes I

762
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:34,880
Speaker 1: get lazy and I just want to talk and I

763
00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:37,120
Speaker 1: push the buttons, and that's one. Today's one of those

764
00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:38,919
Speaker 1: days the rufio was pushing the buttons. So if anything

765
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 1: sounds messed up, it's not my fault. Thanks every other day,

766
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:44,000
Speaker 1: it's my fault every other day. But today, but so far,

767
00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 1: so good, you know, so far so good. I just yeah,

768
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 1: we're just you'll just see me saying my bad like

769
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:52,719
Speaker 1: every ten minutes. Yeah, well, or maybe it's gonna sound better.

770
00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:54,360
Speaker 1: I never get to push the buttons again. I don't know.

771
00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to make that one shining moment montage

772
00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:59,399
Speaker 1: one day, Fred, So that's what I'm doing for that's

773
00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:03,240
Speaker 1: our one shiny moment montage would just be all Paulina

774
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:07,799
Speaker 1: saying things that's all the good. I feel like that's

775
00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:11,040
Speaker 1: the highlights from this show. Or Paulina on Wednesday Mornings

776
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 1: guessing in her game. But um, anyway, let's play the game.

777
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:19,399
Speaker 1: Megan tell us about you. Hi. Well, I'm from Chicago. Um,

778
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:22,319
Speaker 1: I'm actually driving right now back home from taking my

779
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:26,759
Speaker 1: son to preschool. I'm years old and I'm a I'm

780
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:30,080
Speaker 1: a waitress and a student. That's amazing. What is your

781
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:33,680
Speaker 1: son's name? Facts? Wow, my son's name is junior, and

782
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:37,719
Speaker 1: I haven't an older son named Josh. Sounds okay? All right,

783
00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:39,640
Speaker 1: so you have you have a junior who's what like

784
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:44,440
Speaker 1: maybe three three three? Yeah, yeah, doing not remote doing

785
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:48,280
Speaker 1: in learning in person. That's cool. Okay, So so junior

786
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:51,440
Speaker 1: you wanted Junior was not like, oh my gosh, Junior

787
00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 1: wasn't a love accident then? Um, not a lot of accidents. Okay,

788
00:38:57,719 --> 00:39:00,879
Speaker 1: I love, I love. Plays me up because a friend

789
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 1: of our family has a twenty year old and a

790
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 1: fifteen year old and showed up the other day to

791
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:09,680
Speaker 1: our house pregnant. So, as you can imagine, she was

792
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:15,439
Speaker 1: not anticipating this, uh shall we call it an acquisition? Yeah,

793
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:17,480
Speaker 1: this woman thought she was like three years away from

794
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 1: being home free and having two kids in college and whatever,

795
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:22,359
Speaker 1: and now she's about to have a zero year old

796
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:24,879
Speaker 1: or whatever. So I was just I always wonder when

797
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:26,759
Speaker 1: there's like a big age gap, but I guess it's

798
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 1: not that big. So anyway, UM, let's play the game.

799
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:32,319
Speaker 1: It's five questions. Um, the prize one hundred and three

800
00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:35,200
Speaker 1: dollars and fifty cents. That's really more kind of that's

801
00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:37,000
Speaker 1: more sort of a here, thanks for playing, kind of

802
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 1: consolation thing. But really the glory here would be that

803
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:42,880
Speaker 1: you would snap a thirty one game win streak of

804
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:49,120
Speaker 1: the legend, the the the Queen of the showdown in Chicago, showbit, Shelley,

805
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:51,319
Speaker 1: Are you ready to play? Yes, I'm going to take

806
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 1: a stab at it. I'm ready. Let's do it, all right, Okay,

807
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 1: all right, Megan, good luck, thank you? All right, there

808
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:01,719
Speaker 1: we go off to sound booth. Booth with a due respect, Shelly,

809
00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:06,879
Speaker 1: if you would get out here we go. Question number

810
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:09,000
Speaker 1: one for you, Megan, this I think I'm in love

811
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:12,439
Speaker 1: with you. Singer and newlywed star said she can't watch

812
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:15,399
Speaker 1: the Britney Spears documentary because it reminds her of her

813
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:19,879
Speaker 1: own mistreatment by the media. Oh no, I think I'm

814
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 1: in love with you. I'm wow. I think that love week. Okay,

815
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:30,719
Speaker 1: that really, I know? I know. A Question number two,

816
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 1: Bonaru is officially happening in September. True or false? Bonaroo

817
00:40:34,160 --> 00:40:38,240
Speaker 1: takes place in California. Oh my god? True? These questions

818
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:42,640
Speaker 1: are so hard today. Nah. Yeah, you had a fifty

819
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:45,680
Speaker 1: fifty on that one. Um. Beyonce posted rare photos of

820
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:51,880
Speaker 1: her twins. What are their names? Answer? There you going? Then?

821
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:54,000
Speaker 1: That's a hard one. You got that one right? Um.

822
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:57,839
Speaker 1: This ant Man actor is fifty two years old today.

823
00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:01,680
Speaker 1: Name him Paul rod Yeah. And this Gin and Juice

824
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:06,000
Speaker 1: rapper announced his eighteenth studio album, From the Streets to

825
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:13,319
Speaker 1: the Suits. There you go, you got three. That's not bad.

826
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:17,720
Speaker 1: That's not bad. So we bring Shelley back. It's not uh,

827
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 1: nothing to be ashamed of. Right there? Hello, Shelley back

828
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:25,040
Speaker 1: from the sound booth. Poof Shelley three is the score?

829
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:29,560
Speaker 1: All right? Right? Um, all right, here we go. Question

830
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 1: number one. This I Think I'm in Love with you.

831
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 1: Singer and newlywedge star said she can't watch the Britney

832
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 1: Spears documentary because it reminds her of her own mistreatment

833
00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:44,960
Speaker 1: by the media. Jessica, Yeah, that's right. Bonaroo is officially

834
00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 1: happening in September. Sure false Bonaroo takes place in California. Yeah,

835
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:54,759
Speaker 1: it takes place in Tennessee. Um beyond saying posted rare

836
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:59,719
Speaker 1: photos of her twins what are their names? Roomy? And

837
00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:04,880
Speaker 1: so This ant Man actor is fifty two years old today.

838
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:10,240
Speaker 1: Name him Paul Rody. And this Gin and Juice rapper

839
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:17,600
Speaker 1: announced his eighteenth studio album, From the Streets to the sweets.

840
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:23,320
Speaker 1: Let's go there. It is nice. Jump um so, Megan,

841
00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:25,439
Speaker 1: I mean you clean that up. You know when when

842
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 1: people go over two in the first two questions, I'm like, oh, no,

843
00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:31,319
Speaker 1: here we go, but a three years Yeah you did,

844
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:32,799
Speaker 1: you did, but you have to say it. My name

845
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:36,160
Speaker 1: is Megan, and I got showed up on the showdown. Yes,

846
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 1: my name is Megan and I got showed up on

847
00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 1: the Showdown and I can't hang with the gorilla. Nice good.

848
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:50,640
Speaker 1: That was good. That was really good. Nice Sean Megan. Um, well,

849
00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 1: thank you so much for listening, and have a great

850
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 1: day at work, and say hi to Junior. And uh

851
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:57,719
Speaker 1: hold on one second, yeah, hold on one second, stay

852
00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:02,000
Speaker 1: right there. That was great, it's nice. Jem Well, man,

853
00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:04,239
Speaker 1: I'm just thinking about that lady, a friend of our family. Man.

854
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:06,439
Speaker 1: She got twenty year old and a zero year old.

855
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:08,880
Speaker 1: It's gonna be so hard that happened to my best friend.

856
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:11,880
Speaker 1: They're like twenty years apart her and her brother. It's crazy.

857
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:15,440
Speaker 1: I could never but shout out to mom. My grandma

858
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:17,120
Speaker 1: got pregnant at the same time my mom did. So

859
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:20,440
Speaker 1: my uncle's the same age as mat yea. Yeah, wow.

860
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:23,840
Speaker 1: Look I am of the mindset that you you know,

861
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 1: of course, surprises or blessings and all that stuff. I

862
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:27,400
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't want to hear about it, but

863
00:43:27,440 --> 00:43:30,080
Speaker 1: I just you have to admit, if you're listening with

864
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 1: kids right now, or if you're listening and you and

865
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:33,960
Speaker 1: your kids are out of the house, you have to admit,

866
00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 1: if you have a twenty year old and a fifteen

867
00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 1: year old, you are thinking about where you're gonna go

868
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:42,759
Speaker 1: and what you're gonna what kind of craft room you're

869
00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:45,279
Speaker 1: gonna have when the eighteen year old moves out and

870
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:47,840
Speaker 1: you turn their room into a movie theater or whatever.

871
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 1: And then instead you're buying a crib and you know,

872
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:53,399
Speaker 1: one of those dangly things that goes over the top

873
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:55,920
Speaker 1: of it. So yeah, that's a whole different that's a

874
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 1: whole different wish list at Target, baby, you know what

875
00:43:58,120 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 1: I mean. But now, yeah, forgetting those nude beaches you

876
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 1: were playing on you can't come out. They got a

877
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:13,319
Speaker 1: least though the squads, right, baby. I wish just to

878
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:18,000
Speaker 1: make sure you're damn right, this ends on your birthday

879
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:24,399
Speaker 1: at eighteen years old, and it's not being renewed. Don't

880
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:27,359
Speaker 1: you don't don't you think that you mow the lawn

881
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:30,920
Speaker 1: for free audios to that goes towards your college tuition.

882
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:35,040
Speaker 1: A little jackass him? Does that come after me? Don't

883
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:39,480
Speaker 1: come after me later for some lawnmower money. Let's come

884
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 1: back into good news stories and waiting by the phone.

885
00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:46,360
Speaker 1: Red Show, turn it up live from the Windress Studios

886
00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:52,839
Speaker 1: in America's greatest city, Chicago, five M and my heart

887
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 1: radio station. It's the Fred Show. That one Shining Moment.

888
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, Yeah, you can believe it, believe miracles.

889
00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:11,440
Speaker 1: It's a very sweet song of it. I look at

890
00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 1: the lyrics here. It's a beautiful song by Luther Vandros

891
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:20,680
Speaker 1: the legend one Shiny Moment lyrics. I'm telling you, Shelly,

892
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:22,640
Speaker 1: go watch it and then text me later. And you're

893
00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:25,400
Speaker 1: gonna you don't even care about anything. How do we

894
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:30,800
Speaker 1: find this typing type in one Shining Moment twenty twenty

895
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:33,560
Speaker 1: one and it will come right up? All right? Let

896
00:45:33,600 --> 00:45:36,040
Speaker 1: me see here, we're in the lyrics of this thing.

897
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:40,080
Speaker 1: It's beautiful. So we don't have this in the system either. Yeah,

898
00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 1: because no one in the studio knows the song besides

899
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:45,759
Speaker 1: you too, So that's probably that is well, no one

900
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:47,719
Speaker 1: in the studio does, but everyone at home knows this.

901
00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:50,200
Speaker 1: I'm telling you. It's a beautiful thing. The ball is

902
00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 1: tipped in there you are, You're running for your life,

903
00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:57,120
Speaker 1: your eyes shooting star and all the years, no one

904
00:45:57,239 --> 00:46:00,920
Speaker 1: knows just how hard you work, and now it shows.

905
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 1: I swear. If they didn't write this song for this,

906
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:11,840
Speaker 1: then I don't know what else they wrote it for. Um. Anyway,

907
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:13,960
Speaker 1: it's a beautiful They put together all the little mon

908
00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 1: little little clips from the March Madness and they played

909
00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:18,239
Speaker 1: at the end of the championship. If you don't know

910
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:20,080
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about, and I every year I get

911
00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:23,200
Speaker 1: emotional because I don't know why, and I can't even

912
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:25,000
Speaker 1: relate to it. It's not like I in high school.

913
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 1: We won four games in four years. So maybe that's

914
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:29,480
Speaker 1: why I'm crying, is because there would only be one

915
00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:32,640
Speaker 1: shining moment for me for the entire four years I

916
00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:37,759
Speaker 1: played high school basketball. Maybe that's why. Yeah, that's all

917
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:41,920
Speaker 1: it is. It's me crying. Um, let's see good morning, everybody.

918
00:46:41,920 --> 00:46:43,920
Speaker 1: We'll get see a good news stories in just a second.

919
00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:45,960
Speaker 1: Waiting by the phone. After that, then Shelley's here with

920
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:50,680
Speaker 1: the entertainment reporting for calin let's comment. Uh yeah, so

921
00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:53,680
Speaker 1: a big star finally moved out of his mom's basement.

922
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:58,120
Speaker 1: I'll tell you who that is. The French show is

923
00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 1: on kiss Up. It feels good when I say in

924
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:09,040
Speaker 1: you say goals girls. I almost forgot to say am.

925
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:23,279
Speaker 1: I was like, who was saying? Yeah, that's what I say.

926
00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:25,279
Speaker 1: I have to say in what I say? And you

927
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:29,840
Speaker 1: say goals in girls in Girls. University of Chicago ingles

928
00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:33,000
Speaker 1: Memorial good news stories every morning and Christie's doing one today.

929
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:35,120
Speaker 1: What'd you find? Okay? I think this is the cutest thing.

930
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 1: An eight year old boy is being hailed a hero

931
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:41,000
Speaker 1: after he learned CPR from watching John Cena on a

932
00:47:41,120 --> 00:47:44,160
Speaker 1: Nickelodeon show, and then he later used a CPR and

933
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 1: his sister saving her life. So, his twenty month old

934
00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:49,320
Speaker 1: sister was choking on a chicken nugget in the car

935
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:51,640
Speaker 1: and this eight year old boy told his dad to

936
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:54,319
Speaker 1: pull over so he could give her CPR where he

937
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:57,040
Speaker 1: knew to use the heels of his hands and slat

938
00:47:57,120 --> 00:48:00,840
Speaker 1: between her shoulder blades, and he saved his sister. And

939
00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:02,759
Speaker 1: then he stood over her and gave her a crutch job.

940
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:10,080
Speaker 1: Yeah you can't see me as John Cina. You can't

941
00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:16,560
Speaker 1: see men, so that part was disrespectful. But the kids alive.

942
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:23,359
Speaker 1: So again I feel like all the stories I picked

943
00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:26,439
Speaker 1: these days have have photos to go with him. This

944
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 1: is amazing. In fact, if I'm going to be reborn

945
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:31,000
Speaker 1: as as a rescue dog, I want to be this.

946
00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 1: I either want to be my mom's rescue dog, or

947
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:35,120
Speaker 1: I want to be this rescue dog or these two.

948
00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:38,840
Speaker 1: The amazing lives of two rescued street dogs who travel

949
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:41,480
Speaker 1: with their owner on trips around Europe, had been captured

950
00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:44,719
Speaker 1: in a series of stunning photographs. So their names are

951
00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 1: Finn and Yuri. They were plucked from the streets of

952
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:51,280
Speaker 1: Romania by a photographer name Annie Geyer or Anne Geyer,

953
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:54,120
Speaker 1: where they face being abused to put down in a shelter.

954
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:59,240
Speaker 1: Now Anne or Annie and her two doggie companions enjoy

955
00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 1: traveling to some of Europe's most spectacular gouty spots in

956
00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:06,160
Speaker 1: her camper van. Um, they take pictures of this all

957
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:11,080
Speaker 1: over Norway, the Fiords there, Um, they're all over the

958
00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:15,400
Speaker 1: all over Europe, snowbound mountain peaks and foggy forests and

959
00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:18,839
Speaker 1: crystal clear lakes. And these pictures are amazing, and they

960
00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:22,520
Speaker 1: get to see the whole world. Um, and they were

961
00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:25,320
Speaker 1: on the streets before. They've been to Switzerland, Italy, Germany,

962
00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:29,359
Speaker 1: Austria and Norway. And like I said, the woman isn't

963
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:32,439
Speaker 1: a really talented photographer, and uh and this is really cool.

964
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:34,879
Speaker 1: So I want to be reborn as a rescue dog

965
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:36,759
Speaker 1: that gets to travel the world in a camp or

966
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:39,880
Speaker 1: it's not a bad gig. Um, we'll get it up, Paulina.

967
00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:41,440
Speaker 1: We'll get that up at Fred Show Radio dot com.

968
00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:43,239
Speaker 1: You can go see the picture. See what I'm talking about.

969
00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:46,080
Speaker 1: Waiting by the phone one on second day for this couple.

970
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:48,440
Speaker 1: We'll do it next s after the weekend in three minutes.

971
00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:51,480
Speaker 1: The Entertainber Report Shelley has that and trending stories all

972
00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 1: coming up on The Fred Show one oh three five

973
00:49:57,200 --> 00:50:01,479
Speaker 1: where you left waiting by the phone? Morning Matteo, Morning, guys,

974
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:05,320
Speaker 1: we're great. Well we call this waiting by the phone?

975
00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:08,600
Speaker 1: What's going on with this girl? Mina? Tell us how

976
00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:11,359
Speaker 1: you met about any dates that you've been on. What's

977
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:14,239
Speaker 1: going on now? Well, I wish we were going on

978
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:17,080
Speaker 1: the date, but uh so we just met in mine

979
00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:20,680
Speaker 1: at a coffee shop one day and we talked, we

980
00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:24,920
Speaker 1: exchanged numbers, he texted a little bit, and then we

981
00:50:25,040 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 1: ended up hanging out. We had a great time, and

982
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:31,279
Speaker 1: I hit her up afterwards to make plans for like

983
00:50:31,320 --> 00:50:34,839
Speaker 1: a second date, and she just totally ghosted me, like

984
00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:37,240
Speaker 1: she was not replying in my text, you won't answer

985
00:50:37,280 --> 00:50:41,000
Speaker 1: my calls, my Facebook, like like she dropped off the

986
00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:43,200
Speaker 1: face of the earth. I don't get it, okay, all right,

987
00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:44,799
Speaker 1: And when you look back on this date, you thought

988
00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:46,879
Speaker 1: it was successful, of course, Like you thought you guys

989
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:49,440
Speaker 1: got along while the conversation was good. You were excited

990
00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:52,719
Speaker 1: to see more of her except nothing. Yeah, dude, we

991
00:50:52,719 --> 00:50:56,040
Speaker 1: were firing on all cylinders, like laughing at my joke,

992
00:50:56,360 --> 00:51:04,480
Speaker 1: like us on my shoulder like it was shoulder touching that. Yeah, okay,

993
00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:07,040
Speaker 1: all right. Well, look, it's always disappointing when you when

994
00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:08,799
Speaker 1: you think something is going well and then you don't

995
00:51:08,800 --> 00:51:11,319
Speaker 1: hear from the person. So let me. I'm gonna reach

996
00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 1: out to here. You'll be on the phone and we'll

997
00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:15,160
Speaker 1: see what we can find out for you. Let me

998
00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 1: try and get some info. But at some point you

999
00:51:16,600 --> 00:51:19,240
Speaker 1: can definitely jump in on the call and hopefully whatever's

1000
00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:21,200
Speaker 1: going on, we can fix it for you, straighten it out.

1001
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:23,200
Speaker 1: Maybe there's a good explanation and set you guys up

1002
00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 1: on another date and pay for that. All right, Yeah,

1003
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:28,000
Speaker 1: can you hang on for a second while play a song.

1004
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:30,080
Speaker 1: Let's find out what's going on. We'll do far two

1005
00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:32,680
Speaker 1: of waiting by the phone in two minutes after Arianna

1006
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:37,000
Speaker 1: on one h three five Arianna on one h three

1007
00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:39,960
Speaker 1: five Kiss Family, Chicago's number one hit me as a station.

1008
00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:43,880
Speaker 1: Good morning, it's the Fred's show MATEO. Let's call Mina.

1009
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:46,479
Speaker 1: You guys, um, you met in line at a coffee shop.

1010
00:51:46,520 --> 00:51:49,840
Speaker 1: This is some in person connection here, which you know

1011
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:51,839
Speaker 1: a lot of dating apps on waiting by the phone,

1012
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:53,719
Speaker 1: but you, guys, actually met in person. You went out,

1013
00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:56,480
Speaker 1: you thought everything was going great, you felt a connection,

1014
00:51:56,760 --> 00:52:01,880
Speaker 1: except now she's ghosting you and you want to know why? Yeah,

1015
00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:03,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm hoping you guys can get a

1016
00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:04,719
Speaker 1: hold of it. All right, Well let's see what we

1017
00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:16,839
Speaker 1: can do. Good luck, all right, Mina, Good morning. It's

1018
00:52:16,880 --> 00:52:19,120
Speaker 1: Fred from the Fred Show The Whole Cruise yere one

1019
00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:21,080
Speaker 1: on three five Kiss FM in Chicago, and I have

1020
00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:23,080
Speaker 1: to tell you that we are on the radio right now.

1021
00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:25,680
Speaker 1: I need your permission to continue with the call. Is

1022
00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:30,480
Speaker 1: that okay, oh yeah, high perfect, Thank you so much. Um,

1023
00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:32,760
Speaker 1: appreciate your time. We're calling on behalf of a guy

1024
00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:36,320
Speaker 1: actually named Matteo. Apparently you guys met at a coffee

1025
00:52:36,320 --> 00:52:38,879
Speaker 1: shop and went on a couple of days. We're a date.

1026
00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:46,960
Speaker 1: Um well, I mean I guess not exactly. I'm a realtor.

1027
00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:49,480
Speaker 1: So he told me the an apartment and we went

1028
00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:58,879
Speaker 1: to look at an apartment. That wasn't okay, all out

1029
00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:01,120
Speaker 1: of a second. So because he said that he met

1030
00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:03,440
Speaker 1: you at a coffee shop and that you you guys

1031
00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 1: went on a date. Well yeah, we met at a

1032
00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:09,200
Speaker 1: coffee shop, but I wouldn't. I mean, it's you know,

1033
00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:12,359
Speaker 1: he mentioned he needed an apartment, so I was like, okay, great,

1034
00:53:12,400 --> 00:53:15,319
Speaker 1: I mean that's what I do. So um, I mean,

1035
00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:17,640
Speaker 1: I like I said, I showed him some apartments. We

1036
00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:20,800
Speaker 1: spent like, you know a bit of I'm looking at apartments,

1037
00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:22,960
Speaker 1: but I would I mean, I didn't consider it a date.

1038
00:53:23,280 --> 00:53:27,719
Speaker 1: He was very nice, but um yeah afterwards he did, um,

1039
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:30,600
Speaker 1: you know, keep hitting me up, which I didn't. Okay,

1040
00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:33,240
Speaker 1: you know I thought wasn't coort So I haven't mentioned

1041
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 1: him back thence but yeah, I don't think we went

1042
00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:39,120
Speaker 1: on a date. So this was never anything but professional,

1043
00:53:39,200 --> 00:53:42,720
Speaker 1: like you you went out with him quote unquote because

1044
00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:45,759
Speaker 1: you were showing him apartments hoping that he would write one.

1045
00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:48,200
Speaker 1: I forgot you mentioned that Mateo is here. Mateo. That's

1046
00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 1: a very different story than the one you told. Uh, yeah,

1047
00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:54,160
Speaker 1: what do you talk me? Now? What do you what

1048
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:57,839
Speaker 1: do you mean? It was professional like that wasn't a date,

1049
00:53:58,440 --> 00:54:06,840
Speaker 1: was going out out. I mean, I don't know. I'm

1050
00:54:06,920 --> 00:54:09,880
Speaker 1: sorry if it felled that way. I mean, I I

1051
00:54:09,920 --> 00:54:13,600
Speaker 1: definitely didn't didn't mean to kind of misleader anyway. I

1052
00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:15,560
Speaker 1: just really thought you need an apartment. I had a

1053
00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:19,200
Speaker 1: bunch that kind of like were perfect for you. So

1054
00:54:19,960 --> 00:54:22,480
Speaker 1: I don't know, I just I feel like I'm sorry.

1055
00:54:22,520 --> 00:54:24,800
Speaker 1: I didn't I really I didn't mean it to be

1056
00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:26,719
Speaker 1: that way. For really, I don't know. I don't know

1057
00:54:26,719 --> 00:54:28,480
Speaker 1: that you do anything wrong. I mean, it sounds like

1058
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:31,720
Speaker 1: it sounds like he knew that you were a realtor

1059
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:34,440
Speaker 1: and took you a real tour I don't want and

1060
00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:37,840
Speaker 1: then trick you out and or like you know, asked

1061
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:40,920
Speaker 1: to go out and under the premise the guys that

1062
00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:42,799
Speaker 1: you were going to look at apartment and in fact

1063
00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 1: you weren't. Apparently the time you touched his shoulder was

1064
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:48,600
Speaker 1: like to show him the guest bathroomroom or something. It

1065
00:54:48,719 --> 00:54:51,520
Speaker 1: was like, hey, look at the second bedroom here. Like, dude,

1066
00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:54,319
Speaker 1: I mean you didn't mention that you that you met

1067
00:54:54,400 --> 00:54:56,680
Speaker 1: under the pretense that she's a real tour is going

1068
00:54:56,719 --> 00:55:00,200
Speaker 1: to take you to look at apartments. Dude, it look her.

1069
00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:05,880
Speaker 1: She must do this with with tons of guys her job.

1070
00:55:06,800 --> 00:55:11,439
Speaker 1: Apartments maybe possible. Yeah, I show a little guy on.

1071
00:55:12,920 --> 00:55:16,120
Speaker 1: That's what you're doing. You leave me on trying to

1072
00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:18,799
Speaker 1: get a commission, and then you try to play coy

1073
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:20,840
Speaker 1: and be like, how do you know what I was doing?

1074
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:23,399
Speaker 1: You knew you knew what you were doing. I think

1075
00:55:23,440 --> 00:55:25,719
Speaker 1: you knew what you were doing on. Are you even

1076
00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:34,359
Speaker 1: in the market for an apartment? Yeah? I was, okay, Yeah,

1077
00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:37,400
Speaker 1: I just think this is this is I'm just ridiculous.

1078
00:55:37,560 --> 00:55:39,120
Speaker 1: I don't like that you're flipping this. I mean, I

1079
00:55:39,160 --> 00:55:41,239
Speaker 1: think she probably made it very clear we're going to

1080
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:43,520
Speaker 1: look at apartments, and you're trying to say that that

1081
00:55:43,640 --> 00:55:47,200
Speaker 1: was a date. I mean there's there's really no and

1082
00:55:47,239 --> 00:55:52,320
Speaker 1: you you saw how she was acting towards me, find

1083
00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:55,920
Speaker 1: I mean, how how how decent people behave. Is that

1084
00:55:55,960 --> 00:55:58,040
Speaker 1: what you mean? Just being a kind You twisted this

1085
00:55:58,120 --> 00:56:00,560
Speaker 1: from the beginning, dude, I mean, there's no confused here.

1086
00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:03,200
Speaker 1: Like there's there's no confusion. I mean if you guys,

1087
00:56:03,440 --> 00:56:06,879
Speaker 1: you could argue, maybe if you went for drinks to

1088
00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:09,960
Speaker 1: talk about apartments, you could say, I mean, you might

1089
00:56:10,040 --> 00:56:12,160
Speaker 1: be able to say I was confused at what where

1090
00:56:12,160 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 1: this could go. But you guys went and looked at departments.

1091
00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:17,640
Speaker 1: That's her job. Yeah. But like I said, you weren't there,

1092
00:56:17,880 --> 00:56:22,440
Speaker 1: you didn't. Sorry, I was there. Yeah, we're forgetting there

1093
00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:24,879
Speaker 1: was a second person here. Yeah, it wasn't a date.

1094
00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:27,080
Speaker 1: So and I can comment on the fact that I

1095
00:56:27,680 --> 00:56:30,160
Speaker 1: wasn't meeting you on I was being nice to you.

1096
00:56:30,239 --> 00:56:32,160
Speaker 1: I'm sorry if you took that as as as a

1097
00:56:32,280 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 1: as a state that was to him and you deserve it,

1098
00:56:36,440 --> 00:56:38,319
Speaker 1: you know what. No, you don't. And yeah, and you

1099
00:56:38,400 --> 00:56:41,520
Speaker 1: continue texting me after the fact with the root and

1100
00:56:41,640 --> 00:56:47,319
Speaker 1: money like just I'm impropriated or that. But why did

1101
00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:49,160
Speaker 1: she have to say she was She was never interested,

1102
00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:50,879
Speaker 1: she was doing her job. Yeah, why did you take

1103
00:56:50,960 --> 00:56:54,600
Speaker 1: him into the bedroom moment show him the side of

1104
00:56:54,600 --> 00:56:57,560
Speaker 1: the closet? Okay, you know what I'm sorry to waste

1105
00:56:57,600 --> 00:56:59,880
Speaker 1: your time me and I'm a tale. I don't like this,

1106
00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:03,400
Speaker 1: and um, you know, I think it seems pretty obvious

1107
00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:05,880
Speaker 1: what this was about. Mateo. We're not hitting on you

1108
00:57:05,960 --> 00:57:10,520
Speaker 1: right now, just FYI. Yeah, I think take, like, take

1109
00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:13,479
Speaker 1: some experiences from this. Just because someone's nice to you, Okay,

1110
00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:15,080
Speaker 1: just because a woman it's nice to you. That doesn't

1111
00:57:15,120 --> 00:57:17,440
Speaker 1: mean that you're going on a date. But I agree,

1112
00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:22,120
Speaker 1: and you shouldn't have to other people sometimes, I agree,

1113
00:57:22,640 --> 00:57:26,800
Speaker 1: but this is insane. I agree. No, I agree, and

1114
00:57:26,840 --> 00:57:29,080
Speaker 1: I think that ultimately you shouldn't have to tell every

1115
00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:31,280
Speaker 1: man you go out with before you go out with them.

1116
00:57:31,280 --> 00:57:33,200
Speaker 1: This is not a day, especially when you're doing your job.

1117
00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:37,080
Speaker 1: I don't like this at all. Um whatever, maybe you

1118
00:57:37,080 --> 00:57:39,560
Speaker 1: should have up million dollars listings and maybe she would

1119
00:57:39,560 --> 00:57:43,440
Speaker 1: have been interested. Um, but Matteo's over it, guys, so

1120
00:57:43,480 --> 00:57:46,400
Speaker 1: it's fine. Um, all right, guys, thank you so much.

1121
00:57:46,480 --> 00:57:49,320
Speaker 1: Me good luck to you. Matteo. Um, you have your

1122
00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:53,400
Speaker 1: answer now, Yeah, I guess. So. I're kind of describing

1123
00:57:53,400 --> 00:57:55,360
Speaker 1: how they were going to make breakfast together in the kitchen,

1124
00:57:56,120 --> 00:57:59,000
Speaker 1: in the kitchen nook, and then look, dreams are shattered.

1125
00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:01,720
Speaker 1: Shelby Shelley, is it for Kaylence? She has the Entertainmer

1126
00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:04,200
Speaker 1: Report next after Billie Eilish back in two minutes on

1127
00:58:04,240 --> 00:58:08,840
Speaker 1: The Fred Show one h three five Kiss Up. The

1128
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:12,680
Speaker 1: latest entertainment news is on the Fred Show. Um, I

1129
00:58:12,800 --> 00:58:15,760
Speaker 1: was watching One Shining Moment again. Well, I finally got

1130
00:58:15,800 --> 00:58:17,720
Speaker 1: to see the whole thing, and Shelley said, you watched

1131
00:58:17,760 --> 00:58:20,160
Speaker 1: it during a song, and you see what I'm talking about.

1132
00:58:20,200 --> 00:58:22,320
Speaker 1: You're not even like a really a sports person, but

1133
00:58:22,400 --> 00:58:24,200
Speaker 1: you you felt a certain kind of way when you

1134
00:58:24,240 --> 00:58:27,280
Speaker 1: watched it, Right, I did Kamie Tingley chills and I

1135
00:58:27,360 --> 00:58:29,360
Speaker 1: didn't really understand what was going on. So yeah, I

1136
00:58:29,640 --> 00:58:33,360
Speaker 1: get that. I think someday I want to be reborn

1137
00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:35,960
Speaker 1: in one of my next lives. I want to be

1138
00:58:36,080 --> 00:58:40,400
Speaker 1: reborn as like a kid in North Dakota that grew

1139
00:58:40,480 --> 00:58:43,680
Speaker 1: up raised by a pack of wolves in a wolf

1140
00:58:43,800 --> 00:58:48,320
Speaker 1: dand somewhere and was discovered as a basketball prodigy, goes

1141
00:58:48,360 --> 00:58:50,880
Speaker 1: to like North Dakota State and hits a half court

1142
00:58:50,920 --> 00:58:53,320
Speaker 1: shot to take North Dakota State to the Final Four,

1143
00:58:53,520 --> 00:58:55,640
Speaker 1: and then be featured in One Shining Moment. It's a

1144
00:58:55,640 --> 00:58:58,840
Speaker 1: pretty detailed next life, but I think you know I

1145
00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:02,600
Speaker 1: think that's what I want from myself North Dakota. I

1146
00:59:02,680 --> 00:59:04,920
Speaker 1: love how it's not even like you want to be

1147
00:59:05,000 --> 00:59:06,880
Speaker 1: the kid winning the championship. You just want to hit.

1148
00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:08,720
Speaker 1: You just want to make the one shutting moment by

1149
00:59:08,760 --> 00:59:12,000
Speaker 1: like making the tournament, not even winning the whole thing.

1150
00:59:12,480 --> 00:59:13,959
Speaker 1: You know, I want to be in North Dakota State

1151
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:16,880
Speaker 1: Bison and uh yeah, it was like a big beard

1152
00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:18,680
Speaker 1: and stuff in the whole stories, like this guy you

1153
00:59:18,720 --> 00:59:21,200
Speaker 1: grew up, he was raised by wolves and look at him.

1154
00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:23,080
Speaker 1: And then I hit the half court shot, and you know,

1155
00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:25,200
Speaker 1: I get my one and I get to I get

1156
00:59:25,280 --> 00:59:29,200
Speaker 1: to stand on top of the scores table and like, yeah,

1157
00:59:29,240 --> 00:59:34,600
Speaker 1: I will be because my parents, the two lives will

1158
00:59:34,640 --> 00:59:40,439
Speaker 1: be in the crowd in a cage. You know. Yeah,

1159
00:59:40,480 --> 00:59:42,880
Speaker 1: well no, because my my my wolf parents can't be

1160
00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:45,080
Speaker 1: like on the list because you might need somebody their wild,

1161
00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:47,920
Speaker 1: you know, so they put them in a cage. You know,

1162
00:59:47,960 --> 00:59:50,560
Speaker 1: they're next to sister Jean, who's four hundred at this point,

1163
00:59:50,600 --> 00:59:53,040
Speaker 1: and you know, like, you know the whole thing and

1164
00:59:53,080 --> 00:59:55,400
Speaker 1: I and I howled at my parents because that's their

1165
00:59:55,480 --> 01:00:00,800
Speaker 1: native language, you know, and like his life, so my

1166
01:00:01,040 --> 01:00:03,600
Speaker 1: next life is not quite the same, but I love that. No,

1167
01:00:03,680 --> 01:00:06,080
Speaker 1: I want that. I want that for myself someday. And

1168
01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:08,720
Speaker 1: then I also want to be reborn as Jennifer Garner's husband,

1169
01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:11,040
Speaker 1: so you know, and not Ben Affleck. I wouldn't mind

1170
01:00:11,080 --> 01:00:13,440
Speaker 1: being Ben Affleck because he got with Jlo. But I

1171
01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:16,080
Speaker 1: would be Ben Affleck maybe without some of the issues,

1172
01:00:16,280 --> 01:00:18,640
Speaker 1: so I could stay happily married to Jennifer Garner and

1173
01:00:18,680 --> 01:00:20,480
Speaker 1: not live in the guest house. That would be what

1174
01:00:20,520 --> 01:00:28,640
Speaker 1: I would go for. But anyway about me, Shelley, go ahead,

1175
01:00:29,560 --> 01:00:33,280
Speaker 1: the whole show is just gonna be God. Yeah, that's

1176
01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:42,160
Speaker 1: a great segue. So my ancestors, how yeah, no problem. Um.

1177
01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:45,560
Speaker 1: So the new cover of Vin Styles Jennifer Lopez's colleagues

1178
01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:49,240
Speaker 1: and x is, including Ben Affleck, open up about Jalo's

1179
01:00:49,240 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 1: successful career and the article styled Jennifer Lopez in her

1180
01:00:53,160 --> 01:00:56,840
Speaker 1: own words and everyone else's and um, if you're looking

1181
01:00:56,880 --> 01:01:01,040
Speaker 1: for some really like scandalous or uh interest sting, we

1182
01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:03,160
Speaker 1: didn't really get it. I mean, Ben Afflick said, I

1183
01:01:03,200 --> 01:01:04,960
Speaker 1: thought I had a good work ethic, but I was

1184
01:01:05,000 --> 01:01:08,000
Speaker 1: completely humbled and blown away by what she was committed

1185
01:01:08,040 --> 01:01:10,240
Speaker 1: to doing day in and day out. The seriousness and

1186
01:01:10,240 --> 01:01:12,800
Speaker 1: what she took her work, and the quite dedicated way

1187
01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:15,080
Speaker 1: she went about accomplishing her goals. They basically go on

1188
01:01:15,120 --> 01:01:17,360
Speaker 1: and on about her work, ethic and her other ax.

1189
01:01:17,440 --> 01:01:20,280
Speaker 1: Mark Anthony said something similar. He said, the thing about

1190
01:01:20,360 --> 01:01:23,400
Speaker 1: Jennifer's her ability to see and understand things before they happen.

1191
01:01:23,480 --> 01:01:25,680
Speaker 1: Before she even brings up an idea, She's visualized it

1192
01:01:25,720 --> 01:01:28,040
Speaker 1: a thousand times, and if anyone says it might not

1193
01:01:28,040 --> 01:01:30,439
Speaker 1: be the greatest idea, She'll say, you just don't see yet.

1194
01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:33,040
Speaker 1: So it was just sort of an article gushing all

1195
01:01:33,040 --> 01:01:36,640
Speaker 1: about Jalou interr ex is speaking very highly of her,

1196
01:01:37,080 --> 01:01:40,320
Speaker 1: and I'm in some other news. Pete Davidson finally moved

1197
01:01:40,320 --> 01:01:42,919
Speaker 1: out of his mom's basement. So I remember we didn't

1198
01:01:43,360 --> 01:01:46,760
Speaker 1: every other week how he lives. Paully let it to

1199
01:01:46,960 --> 01:01:49,400
Speaker 1: we are the same. Wait a minute, whoa, whoa, Pauline,

1200
01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:54,200
Speaker 1: are you dating Pete Davidson? The secret sound isn't moving midway?

1201
01:01:54,280 --> 01:02:01,320
Speaker 1: He's moving to midway. Oh boy, imagine? So yeah, well,

1202
01:02:01,600 --> 01:02:03,000
Speaker 1: so I don't know what this is talking about that

1203
01:02:03,000 --> 01:02:06,360
Speaker 1: he's dating Bridgerton star Phoebe Dina Wore, But anyway, they're

1204
01:02:06,360 --> 01:02:08,840
Speaker 1: saying that ever since then, I know. Sorry, Oh, I

1205
01:02:08,840 --> 01:02:10,600
Speaker 1: hope I didn't mess him up there. But yeah, so

1206
01:02:10,640 --> 01:02:13,360
Speaker 1: they're saying that he's said, like this TikTok that got

1207
01:02:13,360 --> 01:02:15,040
Speaker 1: posted over the weekend. I just moved out of my

1208
01:02:15,080 --> 01:02:18,360
Speaker 1: mom's house. I'm fully out. I got a pad and

1209
01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:20,800
Speaker 1: so seems that, yeah, it had people could see kind

1210
01:02:20,840 --> 01:02:23,320
Speaker 1: of inside. It had tall windows and a big screen TV.

1211
01:02:23,920 --> 01:02:26,320
Speaker 1: And I guess his mom still lives in the old house,

1212
01:02:26,360 --> 01:02:28,480
Speaker 1: the one point three million home on Staten Island. So

1213
01:02:28,520 --> 01:02:31,560
Speaker 1: I guess SNL finally he made enough from SNL. I

1214
01:02:31,560 --> 01:02:33,880
Speaker 1: guess to We were talking about that the other day.

1215
01:02:33,880 --> 01:02:35,320
Speaker 1: I don't know if I don't know if you've heard that,

1216
01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:39,120
Speaker 1: but that showed us in pay very well, and maybe

1217
01:02:39,680 --> 01:02:41,960
Speaker 1: it was what do we decide it was? We googled it.

1218
01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:43,400
Speaker 1: It was not a lot. It was like, I was

1219
01:02:43,400 --> 01:02:48,440
Speaker 1: like seven grand an episode. You're on average, you make

1220
01:02:48,520 --> 01:02:49,800
Speaker 1: like one hundred grand a year or so, some one

1221
01:02:49,880 --> 01:02:52,280
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty grand a year doing SNL. Obviously, you

1222
01:02:53,040 --> 01:02:54,400
Speaker 1: which is why I think a lot of people wind

1223
01:02:54,440 --> 01:02:56,360
Speaker 1: up leaving because it takes up so much time. And

1224
01:02:56,400 --> 01:02:57,800
Speaker 1: then you get to a certain point where you can

1225
01:02:57,840 --> 01:02:59,280
Speaker 1: go to a TV show or a movie and make

1226
01:02:59,280 --> 01:03:01,200
Speaker 1: a whole bunch more money. But you know, other a

1227
01:03:01,200 --> 01:03:02,760
Speaker 1: lot of these people, you wouldn't know who they were

1228
01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:05,400
Speaker 1: if not for SNL. So I guess it's you know,

1229
01:03:05,720 --> 01:03:09,240
Speaker 1: you don't you're not eating uh uh flaming you on

1230
01:03:09,280 --> 01:03:12,880
Speaker 1: everything that on SNL. But it's better than the comedy

1231
01:03:12,920 --> 01:03:15,360
Speaker 1: seller in Wichita or whatever, you know, wherever they discover

1232
01:03:15,440 --> 01:03:21,200
Speaker 1: these people exactly. Yeah. So um, if you guys had

1233
01:03:21,200 --> 01:03:24,000
Speaker 1: to guess who made the most or who makes the

1234
01:03:24,040 --> 01:03:26,439
Speaker 1: most from a social media post, who would you say,

1235
01:03:27,000 --> 01:03:29,360
Speaker 1: meaning they get paid the most to post something on

1236
01:03:29,440 --> 01:03:33,160
Speaker 1: social about Yeah Kylie? Right, no, so let me go

1237
01:03:33,240 --> 01:03:37,120
Speaker 1: miss yeah, oh it is Kylie. So Kylie makes a

1238
01:03:37,160 --> 01:03:40,040
Speaker 1: million dollars for a post. I thought she got I

1239
01:03:40,040 --> 01:03:41,880
Speaker 1: thought she got bumped, all right, Yeah, I thought she

1240
01:03:41,920 --> 01:03:45,960
Speaker 1: did too. Well. It says that Kylie makes a million.

1241
01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:48,960
Speaker 1: Ariana Grandie makes nine hundred thousand, Selena Gomez makes eight

1242
01:03:49,080 --> 01:03:51,840
Speaker 1: hundred thousand, Taylor Stiff makes about seven hundred fifty thousand,

1243
01:03:51,880 --> 01:03:55,800
Speaker 1: and then Christiano Ronaldo also makes seven hundred and fifty thousand,

1244
01:03:55,560 --> 01:03:58,200
Speaker 1: and and just some other yeah, and in some other

1245
01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:02,040
Speaker 1: Kardashian news real quick, um him is jumping on Kylie's bandwagon.

1246
01:04:02,080 --> 01:04:06,280
Speaker 1: She also has started filing documents to create a skincare line,

1247
01:04:06,400 --> 01:04:10,560
Speaker 1: so we can probably expect that sometime soon. And finally,

1248
01:04:10,600 --> 01:04:13,800
Speaker 1: Aaron Rodgers has been the host this week of Jeopardy. Rufio,

1249
01:04:13,840 --> 01:04:16,160
Speaker 1: Did you catch it? I did? Yes. I mean I

1250
01:04:17,720 --> 01:04:20,400
Speaker 1: only dislike Aaron Rodgers because he plays for the Packers,

1251
01:04:20,400 --> 01:04:22,360
Speaker 1: but as a person I like Aaron Rodgers. I think

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Speaker 1: he's funny in the commercials he does whatever. If he

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Speaker 1: played for the Bears, i'd love him. But he's a

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Speaker 1: very personable guy and I enjoy He's a hundred times

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Speaker 1: better than Doctor Oz was last week. So I've been

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Speaker 1: joining Aaron Rodgers really yes, Okay, well I guess he's

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Speaker 1: really smart too, right, because I was kind of like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: he won he won Celebrity Jeopardy. Um, yeah, he won

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Speaker 1: Celebrity Jeopardy. He's he's a little this is his favorite

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Speaker 1: game show. He loved Alex Trebek, so there's actually good

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Speaker 1: meaning for him hosting this show as well too. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: so we just have a quick clip. I guess one

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Speaker 1: of the contestants trolled him about game. Here we go, Scott,

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Speaker 1: should you come up with the correct response? I want

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Speaker 1: to kick that field goal. Great question, should should be correct,

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Speaker 1: but unfortunately for this this game today, it's incorrect and

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Speaker 1: you're going to lose zero. That was good. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: don't really get what you y in the In the

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Speaker 1: in the NFC Chance Championship game against the Bucks, the

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Speaker 1: Packers were on like whatever, the eight yard line and

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Speaker 1: Aaron Rodgers wanted to go for it on fourth down

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Speaker 1: to try to score touchdown to tie the game, but

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Speaker 1: the coach decided to kick the field goal and rely

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Speaker 1: on the defense to try to get the ball back,

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Speaker 1: but they never did and they ended up losing. So

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Speaker 1: it's it's whatever, like whose I do visit to kick

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Speaker 1: that field goal? And so it's a little jab at

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Speaker 1: Aaron Rodgers. But it's funny, gotcha. Well you can see

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Speaker 1: that if you'd like. On Fred Show Radio dot com.

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Speaker 1: I just revised my idea of my next life. My

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Speaker 1: next life to be everything I described about being raised

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Speaker 1: by the Wolves and then the North North Dakota State

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Speaker 1: and then the you know, the half Court Championship at

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Speaker 1: one shining moment. But then I also want to have

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Speaker 1: five hundred million Instagram followers as well, so I can

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Speaker 1: make a million dollars a post um, you know, to

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Speaker 1: sustain so I can. I can take care of my

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Speaker 1: family of wolves. Um, let's come back and do trending

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Speaker 1: stories bullet points to start your Tuesday in Chicago blogs.

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Speaker 1: After that, on The Fred Show one h three five one,

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Speaker 1: this is what's trending, all right, President Joe Biden said

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Speaker 1: to announce I believe today that he's shaving about two

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Speaker 1: weeks off his May first deadline for states to make

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Speaker 1: all adults eligible for coronavirus vaccine. So if you're somebody

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Speaker 1: who wants one and you haven't fit into one of

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Speaker 1: the categories one, ABCDG, dd O, J, SIOC whatever it is, yes,

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, if you know, if you know, you know

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Speaker 1: you Yeah, I'm the d O J SIOC, Oh the

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Speaker 1: jojo c um if you know you know. Anyway, everyone

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Speaker 1: will be eligible. So so far, Jason and I are

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Speaker 1: fifty percent of the way there. So is our Rufio

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Speaker 1: and Christie. I heard Christie's no longer allowed to go

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Speaker 1: back to that Walgreens where she got the first one

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01:07:28,840 --> 01:07:31,440
Speaker 1: because she was a spass running up and down the

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Speaker 1: aisles screaming I need a vaccine. Rufio started a fist

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Speaker 1: fight with the employees. So I'm the one that I

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Speaker 1: wasn't the one on Instagram live be like, hey guys,

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Speaker 1: I'm here in Walgreen's getting my vaccine today. I mean, rufio.

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Speaker 1: Can Christie do anything that's not capturing any on Instagram?

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Speaker 1: What is your Instagram? Tell everybody so they can follow

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Speaker 1: your each and every move. It's Fresh Show Radio. Oh

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Speaker 1: I was gonna let you plug your instant, Christie on No,

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Speaker 1: but you can see you can see Chrissy's weekend in

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Speaker 1: five photos on Fred Show Radio dot Com. I saw that.

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Speaker 1: You know what? That got thousands of clicks? Yeah, isn't

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Speaker 1: it wild? Yeah? I saw it works around here. The

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Speaker 1: golf guy's face looks very golf ballish, like, yeah, I

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Speaker 1: love his fire reveal you've been waiting on. I'll have

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Speaker 1: to go. I'll have to go look at that and

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Speaker 1: see what golf guy looks like. Fredshow Radio dot Com.

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Speaker 1: Um everywhere, everyone go, well, we're at it, all of

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Speaker 1: our socials Fredshow Radio, Fred on air and go there too. U. Basically, basically,

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Speaker 1: my Instagram has just become pictures of my knees. So

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Speaker 1: it's it's whatever, and I have to I have to

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Speaker 1: turn off comments on I haven't yet, but I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: have to turn off comments on the nice photos because

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Speaker 1: if I post a story of my niece Polly, I

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01:08:49,040 --> 01:08:51,599
Speaker 1: can't keep up with the comments. Like it's people love

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Speaker 1: a baby photo, they love a dog photo, they love

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Speaker 1: a baby photo. It's amazing. Yeah, anytime they post on

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Speaker 1: the story, we get at hundreds of messages on Frend

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Speaker 1: Show Radio, and like, I like to respond all the

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Speaker 1: messages and what as Paulina, But it's hard because there's

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Speaker 1: so many Fred I do too, I do too. But

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Speaker 1: she's a good looking baby. I'm gonna see her on Friday.

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Speaker 1: She's getting big, her eyes are open. I may have

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Speaker 1: to repost a one on my what's on Frend show Radio?

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Speaker 1: I think it's on the grid. Um my sister has

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Speaker 1: been playing her classical music, or actually it's it's her

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01:09:20,760 --> 01:09:22,880
Speaker 1: sister's husband is a musician and has been playing her

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Speaker 1: classical music in her little bessonette. And I got very offended.

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Speaker 1: I said, you need to be playing her the Fred

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Speaker 1: Show and I heart radio. You know she can hear

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Speaker 1: what her uncle sounds like. And so they did, and

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Speaker 1: she was very captivated by waiting by the phone. I

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01:09:35,520 --> 01:09:38,080
Speaker 1: will say at age six weeks. Yeah, so you know

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Speaker 1: she's learning very early that she'll never be able to

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Speaker 1: go on a date ever, as far as I'm concerned.

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Speaker 1: So um, yeah, let me see here. So number one

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Speaker 1: seeded Baylor stunned the Gonzaga Bulldogs eighty six to seventy

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01:09:52,960 --> 01:09:56,120
Speaker 1: last night to win their first NCAA men's basketball national

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Speaker 1: championship and program history. The Zags were unbeaten, however, they

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01:10:01,160 --> 01:10:04,200
Speaker 1: lost last night. One shining moment. The Colorado Rockies will

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Speaker 1: host the twenty twenty one MLB All Star Game after

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01:10:07,560 --> 01:10:11,320
Speaker 1: the decision to move the event from Atlanta over Georgia's

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Speaker 1: restrictive voting law. The game's gonna go u It will

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01:10:14,920 --> 01:10:19,200
Speaker 1: happen on July thirteenth, of course field in Denver. Last

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01:10:19,200 --> 01:10:20,600
Speaker 1: time there was an All Star Game, there was in

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Speaker 1: nineteen ninety eight. This is not that surprising, I guess.

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Speaker 1: But Netflix has lost thirty one percent of its market share.

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Speaker 1: Why Well, because everybody has a streaming service now. For

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01:10:32,439 --> 01:10:34,000
Speaker 1: a while they were like the only game in town.

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01:10:34,080 --> 01:10:37,400
Speaker 1: Now you'd have to spend a couple hundred bucks a

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Speaker 1: month if you wanted, you know, Netflix and Hulu and

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Speaker 1: Discovery Plus and god knows what else is out there.

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Speaker 1: Um so streaming did skyrocket during the pandemic. Netflix still dominating,

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Speaker 1: but there they hold percent of the US streaming market,

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Speaker 1: which has shrunk from twenty nine percent. I think they're

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Speaker 1: doing okay, but yeah, it's basically it's a competition now

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Speaker 1: between Netflix and everybody else from what you're gonna watch online. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they're gonna lose even more because I've heard they're cracking

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Speaker 1: down on this password sharing thing. Well, they're actually gonna

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01:11:12,439 --> 01:11:15,160
Speaker 1: gain that way. People are gonna have to buy their

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Speaker 1: own Netflix now because Netflix is they figured out a

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01:11:17,760 --> 01:11:20,080
Speaker 1: way to crack down on password sharing. So are they

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Speaker 1: gonna do it? If you're not in the same household,

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01:11:22,080 --> 01:11:24,040
Speaker 1: they're gonna like track your location. I think if you're

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Speaker 1: not in the same household, then they're gonna cut you

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Speaker 1: off the Netflix. That's actually good because mine got hacked

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01:11:29,960 --> 01:11:31,920
Speaker 1: before in the Bronx and then they change everything to

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01:11:32,000 --> 01:11:34,040
Speaker 1: Spanish on me, and my mom was alway gonna try

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Speaker 1: to try to vest with them. So I really like this. Actually,

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01:11:38,120 --> 01:11:42,320
Speaker 1: they're always hacking my Netflix. Why is somebody in the Bronx?

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Speaker 1: Why is someone's tea watching my networks? Wow? Because your

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Speaker 1: password was probably I heart New York one two three.

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01:11:53,400 --> 01:11:59,800
Speaker 1: I love the Yankees. I don't know, I like it.

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Speaker 1: I like where they're going with this. Not me when

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Speaker 1: they when they cracked that down. That's the end of

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Speaker 1: mine Netflix subscriptions, all of my subscription. Um. There's a

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01:12:10,400 --> 01:12:14,680
Speaker 1: ketchup shortage, ketchup packet shortage that we have to be

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01:12:14,680 --> 01:12:18,760
Speaker 1: aware of. And Krispy Creme is announced a Oreo donut. Yes,

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Speaker 1: it looks so good. They teamed up within the Visco.

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Speaker 1: You can now purchase the Oreo Cookie Glazed donut and

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Speaker 1: the Oreo Cookie over the top donut which sounds like

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Speaker 1: a million calories which but you can get it at

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Speaker 1: Crispy Kreme if you are now National Caramel Popcorn Day,

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Speaker 1: shout out to Garrett's National Student Athlete Day, National Library

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Speaker 1: Workers Day, and it's Sam Day of Action, Sexual Assault

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Speaker 1: Awareness Month, the Data Focus uh and bring awareness on

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Speaker 1: sexual violence protection. Let's come back. We'll do blogs next

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Speaker 1: on the French tread show. Yeah they talk better than

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Speaker 1: they tie. These are the radio blogs the Friend Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, audio journals as if we're running in our diaries.

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Speaker 1: Christie is doing a blog today, Okay, dear blog I

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01:13:08,760 --> 01:13:10,840
Speaker 1: think I might get dumped tonight. I'm not really sure.

1406
01:13:12,240 --> 01:13:14,960
Speaker 1: I gotta text, like, how else did we start that off?

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01:13:15,000 --> 01:13:18,040
Speaker 1: I gotta text from golf guy this morning and he said, hey,

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01:13:18,080 --> 01:13:21,160
Speaker 1: we should talk tonight. Oh great, oh great, Oh boy?

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Speaker 1: What happened? We got a huge fight last night. And

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Speaker 1: it started because I was like, Hey, I think you

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01:13:25,360 --> 01:13:27,920
Speaker 1: should maybe respond to my text throughout the day and

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Speaker 1: not just text me once a day, you know, like

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01:13:30,720 --> 01:13:32,639
Speaker 1: I just need a little bit more attention if we're

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01:13:32,640 --> 01:13:35,479
Speaker 1: in a long distance relationship, Like it's hard enough I

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01:13:35,520 --> 01:13:36,920
Speaker 1: don't see you at the end of the day, so

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01:13:36,960 --> 01:13:38,800
Speaker 1: I just need to make sure, like, hey, you still

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01:13:38,840 --> 01:13:44,080
Speaker 1: think of me occasionally, Okay, but realistically, realistically, how many

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Speaker 1: responses are you? How many times are you what's the

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01:13:46,880 --> 01:13:49,960
Speaker 1: ratio of texts that you send him to responses? I'll

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01:13:49,960 --> 01:13:52,799
Speaker 1: send him a couple and he'll respond once, and then

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01:13:53,000 --> 01:13:55,840
Speaker 1: we talk, like right before I go to bed, not

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Speaker 1: even when he gets off a work because I know

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Speaker 1: he works all day. No, and like even yesterday, like

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01:14:00,000 --> 01:14:02,080
Speaker 1: he went to his mom's and something funny happened that

1425
01:14:02,320 --> 01:14:04,559
Speaker 1: like was a story then involved me, and he didn't

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01:14:04,600 --> 01:14:06,320
Speaker 1: call me to tell him me about he didn't text me.

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01:14:06,360 --> 01:14:08,600
Speaker 1: He just still didn't talk to me all day. I'm like,

1428
01:14:08,760 --> 01:14:11,360
Speaker 1: how how did things happen that you would want to

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01:14:11,400 --> 01:14:13,519
Speaker 1: tell me, but you don't even call me, Like, if

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01:14:13,560 --> 01:14:15,519
Speaker 1: something exciting happens to me, I would want to call

1431
01:14:15,600 --> 01:14:18,080
Speaker 1: him and share that excitement, right, Yeah, and I just

1432
01:14:18,080 --> 01:14:20,800
Speaker 1: don't get that same energy. So you got to fight

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01:14:20,840 --> 01:14:23,040
Speaker 1: about it last night, and then we ended up just

1434
01:14:23,080 --> 01:14:25,280
Speaker 1: hanging up on each other and going to bed. So

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01:14:25,320 --> 01:14:29,760
Speaker 1: it was very negative. It was very negative. And then yeah,

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01:14:29,800 --> 01:14:31,679
Speaker 1: then he texts me saying that we need to talk tonight.

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01:14:32,520 --> 01:14:35,880
Speaker 1: Never go to bed angry, but I usually flee the scene.

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01:14:36,360 --> 01:14:40,280
Speaker 1: So yeah, I don't. I'm bad at finishing fights in

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01:14:40,320 --> 01:14:42,920
Speaker 1: the moment, Like I don't. I don't want I don't

1440
01:14:42,920 --> 01:14:46,160
Speaker 1: like confrontation. I don't blame to yell and scream, so like,

1441
01:14:46,200 --> 01:14:50,080
Speaker 1: if there's an argument, if it's uncivilized, then I usually

1442
01:14:50,120 --> 01:14:52,960
Speaker 1: bail and come back later when it's civilized, or never

1443
01:14:52,960 --> 01:14:55,120
Speaker 1: come back at all and leave my crap and never

1444
01:14:55,160 --> 01:14:57,360
Speaker 1: ever see it again. So you know there's that. I

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01:14:57,439 --> 01:15:00,320
Speaker 1: wasn't shouting. I was just upset, and he was like, Okay,

1446
01:15:00,320 --> 01:15:03,320
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about this, and I'm like, oh, awesome.

1447
01:15:04,439 --> 01:15:06,760
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just need to be better like verbalizing,

1448
01:15:06,880 --> 01:15:10,080
Speaker 1: like hey, this makes me feel like I am not

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01:15:10,160 --> 01:15:12,200
Speaker 1: a priority, Like I need to kind of get my

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01:15:12,240 --> 01:15:14,200
Speaker 1: thoughts together before well. And a lot of us have

1451
01:15:14,240 --> 01:15:17,000
Speaker 1: anxiety in the room. I'll speak for myself. I have anxiety,

1452
01:15:17,200 --> 01:15:19,800
Speaker 1: and I think to sense I want to text in

1453
01:15:19,840 --> 01:15:22,800
Speaker 1: the morning, that says we need to talk later. I

1454
01:15:22,840 --> 01:15:25,160
Speaker 1: mean like if if my boss texts me even and

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01:15:25,280 --> 01:15:28,519
Speaker 1: goes like, hey, can you talk at four, I'm like, no,

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01:15:28,600 --> 01:15:32,320
Speaker 1: I can talk right now. Like yeah, I might be

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01:15:32,320 --> 01:15:34,360
Speaker 1: in the middle of conducting a brain surgery, but like

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Speaker 1: I'll be like that that one guy who showed up

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Speaker 1: to court on FaceTime, Like no, we can talk right now,

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Speaker 1: Like don't do that to me. Don't say to me,

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01:15:40,920 --> 01:15:43,800
Speaker 1: don't hang that out there like you know, we'll we'll

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01:15:43,840 --> 01:15:46,679
Speaker 1: discuss something later. It's like, no, we can talk about

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Speaker 1: it right now. And he's like, oh, I'm just very

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01:15:48,720 --> 01:15:51,519
Speaker 1: busy with work. Okay, everyone's busy in life. You can

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01:15:51,560 --> 01:15:54,080
Speaker 1: still make time for your significant other, even if it's

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Speaker 1: something small like hey, I hope you're having a great day.

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Speaker 1: Takes two seconds to do that. I just don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't get how people can use the excuse like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm so busy, everyone's busy. I agree, and this is

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Speaker 1: why though too so being in a new relationship myself. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: one thing that I've always struggled with, even like in

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Speaker 1: my dating life is getting your needs met, right because

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Speaker 1: as a kid, like I never got the met It's

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Speaker 1: a whole thing. Okay, it's a whole other conversation. Point

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Speaker 1: is you have every right to get your needs met.

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Speaker 1: And if this is something that like you require and

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Speaker 1: there's just no ends, ifs or butts around it, like

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Speaker 1: that's fine, Like that's what you come with. I think

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Speaker 1: he should respect it and meet you halfway. It's about

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Speaker 1: meaning a partner halfway. What can he do to validate

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Speaker 1: your feelings, to let you know that he's thinking of

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Speaker 1: you and messaying's gonna be up your butt all day? No,

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01:16:35,600 --> 01:16:37,479
Speaker 1: but he can you know, suit you a text? Right,

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Speaker 1: you're right, Paul, You're right, you're right. I mean, and

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Speaker 1: I think this probably compromise. Yeah, Like I'm not texting

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Speaker 1: much as I used to every day. That's why I was. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: if the ratio is seven hundred to one, then what

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Speaker 1: he's probably trying to send you a message, which is

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Speaker 1: I can't respond to seven hundred, but he should probably

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01:16:57,160 --> 01:16:59,439
Speaker 1: respond to you know, ten or something. You know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, I don't know three three a day I send.

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Speaker 1: Do you put your receipts on? So like no, it

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Speaker 1: says if it's if the text was seen. No, because

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Speaker 1: I'm already overthinking everything. So if I put the receipts on,

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01:17:10,280 --> 01:17:12,000
Speaker 1: I'll just go into a spot. You know. But you

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01:17:12,040 --> 01:17:14,000
Speaker 1: know he's seeing them. That's the crazy part. Is he

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01:17:14,080 --> 01:17:16,719
Speaker 1: seeing these text, sees them and then doesn't respond. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's crazy. I know. Well I don't mean to. Um,

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Speaker 1: you know, we like to take advantage of personal inconveniences

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Speaker 1: and personal downfalls here, so uh, tune in tomorrow morning.

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Speaker 1: You see if Christy got friend