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<v Speaker 1>for a first date, what criteria do you tend to

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<v Speaker 1>look for? Depends on the date? No fluorescent lighting? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, are you looking for a place with a

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<v Speaker 1>nice atmosphere in romantic setting? Do you look for a

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<v Speaker 1>spot that does live music and entertainment? Do you look

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<v Speaker 1>for someplace that has a dollar menu and toys with

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<v Speaker 1>the met depends on the person, right. I saw two

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<v Speaker 1>seven year olds in big wheels pulling through the drive

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<v Speaker 1>through the other day. Hope they go out again. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's different for everybody. And one of our listeners, Matthew,

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<v Speaker 1>sent us an email asking for help, and in it

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<v Speaker 1>he said he has a very unique and genius way

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<v Speaker 1>of choosing where to take his dates. So I'm excited

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<v Speaker 1>to hear it. Maybe learn something useful. Matthew. Welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>the show. My friend, Hey, guys, thanks for having me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll get to your date strategy in just a second,

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<v Speaker 1>but first, tell us about who we're going to be

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<v Speaker 1>calling today and where'd you meet her. We're calling Julia

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<v Speaker 1>and we met on the dating app Hinge. Okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not familiar with that one. My favorite one? That's your favorite?

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<v Speaker 1>You like it more than bumble? Okay. You can see

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<v Speaker 1>the most personality in people, it's not just pictures. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you put your personality onto a dating and

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<v Speaker 1>you like personality? Well, I could see if they're boring. Okay, Matthew,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think? Why do you like Hinge? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Now I agree with her. That's the reason I like

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<v Speaker 1>it is because it makes you answer questions about yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>so you can kind of tell a lot more about

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<v Speaker 1>a person, I think than some of the other apps. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and what could you tell about Julia? Well, one fun

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<v Speaker 1>thing is that they make you do three truths and

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<v Speaker 1>a lie. And I knew her lie right away. It

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<v Speaker 1>said her favorite animal was a peacock, which is nonsense.

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<v Speaker 1>That's nobody's favorite animal. I didn't know. They're beautiful, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they are beautiful, But name one person you know that's

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<v Speaker 1>their favorite animal. I don't think I questioned people enough

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<v Speaker 1>on that one. I'm not skeptical when I asked somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>what's your favorite animal and they say gorilla? Oh, you liar.

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<v Speaker 1>You were right though Julia's Julia hates peacocks or something.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not that she hates him, but that was her life.

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<v Speaker 1>It was not her favorite animal. I mean, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>good start to your relationship if you're already able to

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<v Speaker 1>call her on her bs exactly. I mean, obviously you

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<v Speaker 1>guys started off with a good connection. What did you

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<v Speaker 1>guys end up doing for your date? We met at

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<v Speaker 1>a restaurant, at Greek restaurant to have dinner, okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>how did you choose that place? Because you said you

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<v Speaker 1>have a unique way of choosing Yeah, yes, I do

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<v Speaker 1>have a unique way of picking a restaurant, And sadly,

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<v Speaker 1>I think maybe this was my downfall with her. One

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<v Speaker 1>thing I do is I wait until the restaurant has

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<v Speaker 1>experienced like a problem like a public fluid born illness

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<v Speaker 1>or something. What No, just hear me out. Hear me out, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I wait because then afterward, One, the lines are always

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<v Speaker 1>shorter for a reason. Yeah, right, But two, the kitchen

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<v Speaker 1>is going to be immaculate and on their best behavior

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<v Speaker 1>because they just got in trouble because you hope. But

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<v Speaker 1>that's why restaurants get shut down all the time. You

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<v Speaker 1>get warning, they get war, and then they don't follow

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<v Speaker 1>up on the warnings, and then they get shut down

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<v Speaker 1>by the health department. Well, yeah, I don't go when

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<v Speaker 1>they are shut down, though. I wait until they're cleared

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<v Speaker 1>and reopened, and then I go, oh, yeah, you see it,

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<v Speaker 1>but you said it maybe your downfall. Please tell me

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<v Speaker 1>this didn't backfire for Juliet. Is there like a big

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<v Speaker 1>f on the front door before you walked in from

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<v Speaker 1>the health department. Now they had a passing grade, which

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<v Speaker 1>I thought was good on a roll. Oh passing grade.

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<v Speaker 1>This place isn't good enough. What happened? What went wrong? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>they brought out our entrees and then it came up

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<v Speaker 1>like how did I pick this place? Because we were

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<v Speaker 1>having a nice time? So you told her? I did?

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<v Speaker 1>I told her, Yeah, I won't get a restaurant that

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<v Speaker 1>had like mice run on the food line. We didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even get shut down. How to get shut down? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you want to know the name of that restaurant?

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<v Speaker 1>Just in case the second day. Yeah, you can get

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<v Speaker 1>that to me off the air one Alexis write it

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<v Speaker 1>down for you. That's a lot of information to give

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<v Speaker 1>Julia on a first date. You know, not only is

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<v Speaker 1>she now scared to eat the food? Had you already

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<v Speaker 1>eaten at that point or had you not? We were

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<v Speaker 1>in mid meal when it came up, and I should

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<v Speaker 1>have thought twice about it. It It just kind of happened naturally. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>did she stop eating? She did flow down pretty hard, yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>oh man, And then I'd just be sitting there scared, like,

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<v Speaker 1>am I gonna get food? Pois starting And it's not

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<v Speaker 1>that you're cheap because it's like the same price. Well no, actually,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, to be fair, they had slashed the prices

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit to get people in the door. Were

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<v Speaker 1>you able to get the date back on track after

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<v Speaker 1>revealing that to her? I mean, we changed the subject

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought we had a good time, But at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the night she got into her uber

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<v Speaker 1>and she kind of lept in a hurry. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean you could see where that'd be a red flag.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you obviously know that maybe you shouldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>brought that up on the first date. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>get sold. But we did have immaculate and exceptional service.

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<v Speaker 1>We had like three waiters at our table basically the

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<v Speaker 1>whole time. There was nothing else for them to do.

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<v Speaker 1>They had nothing to do. Yeah, no one else was there.

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<v Speaker 1>There may be a reason. Yeah, I don't know. It

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<v Speaker 1>could be something else. So that's why I was calling

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<v Speaker 1>you guys. I was hoping we could find it out

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe you guys could help me get an answer

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<v Speaker 1>from her. I feel like this is more of a

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<v Speaker 1>health and welfare check. Yeah, who knows. She made gotten

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<v Speaker 1>something and that's why she left. How you guys gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be shocked. And we call her and she's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I loved the chief discounted Greek food. That wasn't it

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<v Speaker 1>at all. I'm gonna be shocked. We'll find out. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>play a song, we'll come back. We'll call Julia for you,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're trying to get you a second date up

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<v Speaker 1>to date. All right, great, thank you so much. Good.

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<v Speaker 1>If you go to a restaurant and you see a

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<v Speaker 1>little sign up in the window giving it a D rating,

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<v Speaker 1>remember that D stands for date worthy equals diploma too.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, you're going to pass at least it does

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<v Speaker 1>for one of our listeners, Matthew. He recently went up

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<v Speaker 1>with a woman named Julia and took her out for dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>and in the middle of the meal, he told her

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<v Speaker 1>about his unique method for choosing where to eat. He

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<v Speaker 1>purposely seeks out places that have been shut down recently

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<v Speaker 1>for health violations, because when they reopen, they have no

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<v Speaker 1>weight time, the chefs in the kitchen are on their

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<v Speaker 1>best behavior, and the food is sometimes even offered at

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<v Speaker 1>a discount. Yeah. After sharing all that in formation with Julia,

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<v Speaker 1>she kind of lost her appetite and ended up leaving

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<v Speaker 1>shortly afterwards. So now he's reached out to us asking

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<v Speaker 1>for help. And I'm wondering, Matthew, did you ask our

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<v Speaker 1>morning show for help because we have a D safety

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<v Speaker 1>rating and we just reopened. Well, you guys did say

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<v Speaker 1>that D stands for diploma but also for delicious, Right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>there we go. Don't but you know, I actually think

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<v Speaker 1>that this could work out for you because we are

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<v Speaker 1>her security blanket because we will give you, guys a

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<v Speaker 1>date at a restaurant that has a good rating with

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<v Speaker 1>the health department. At the end of this, she can't

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<v Speaker 1>say no to that. Oh. I thought you guys were

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<v Speaker 1>giving gift cards and I could use it at any

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<v Speaker 1>place that I wanted to. No, man, definitely not for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop going to ye. I'm sure we can find a

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<v Speaker 1>spot that was recently shut down and get you. Dude,

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<v Speaker 1>if you really want to, will to help our listen,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just a mild case of giardia. It's fine. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, so you're ready to do this. Matthew about

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<v Speaker 1>to Julia's phone number. Sounds great, let's go. Okay, let's

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<v Speaker 1>do it. Hello. Hi, I'm looking for Julia. Yeah, this

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<v Speaker 1>is she. All right? All right, good Las, nice and healthy.

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<v Speaker 1>My name's Jeffrey. I'm calling from the radio show Broken

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the Morning. How are you doing today? Oh? Um, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know I'm good. But you said your radio station show. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well we are the station. Let's be honest. I like

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<v Speaker 1>that confidence, Jeffreystening. Yeah. But we do a segment on

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<v Speaker 1>our show called the Second Date Update. Have you ever

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<v Speaker 1>heard of that before? You know? I now that I

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<v Speaker 1>think of it, I have a friend I think who

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<v Speaker 1>likes those segments. Um. So somebody emailed us after they

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<v Speaker 1>went out with you. His name's Matthew Uh, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>know who he is. Okay, what was that? Well that

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<v Speaker 1>Matthew told us a little bit about your date together

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<v Speaker 1>and he admits that he may have made a couple mistakes,

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<v Speaker 1>just about the possible salmonella that you may have gotten

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<v Speaker 1>from the restaurant. I mean, what Brooks talking about is

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<v Speaker 1>that he shared with us his strategy for choosing a

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant and he said he told you about it during

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<v Speaker 1>the date too, where he's trying to pick out places

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<v Speaker 1>that have recently been shut down for health violations. Oh yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he told me about that. And you know, the thing

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<v Speaker 1>about it was the timing he picked to tell me.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like when our entrees came out and we

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<v Speaker 1>were in the middle of eating want food if later?

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think he just felt connected to you, though,

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<v Speaker 1>and he wanted to share and be one hundred percent

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<v Speaker 1>honest with you. And you have a nice moment, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 1>Not everything needs shared. I mean, he knows that it

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<v Speaker 1>was a mistake, That's the thing, Julie. He knows he

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't have told you. He feels like that he does

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<v Speaker 1>this often and it's a very safe practice according to him.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, do you really think it was mistake, because

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<v Speaker 1>I got a feeling that this was not going to

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<v Speaker 1>be the last time he did that. It might be

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<v Speaker 1>the last time he does it if you end up together.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, I don't think so. I mean, well, you

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<v Speaker 1>can appreciate a man. You can appreciate a man who's

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<v Speaker 1>good with money. He thinks these things through. He has

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<v Speaker 1>a plan, Like it may not be the best plan,

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<v Speaker 1>but at least he has a plan. Yeah, remember too,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he's alive, he's healthy. No, but he doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>drink at these places. When he said that, in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of the meal, when our entrees came out, it

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<v Speaker 1>all made sense, like it all clicked because before when

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<v Speaker 1>we sat down, he brought out his own silverware, and

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<v Speaker 1>he brought out his own little juice box and a

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<v Speaker 1>travel cup. And I was like yes, And I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>what is all of this? And every time I asked

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<v Speaker 1>about this weird stuff that he was bringing that he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't bring any for me, he was like, Oh, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just the thing I do. Don't worry about it. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why he brought his own set of silverware and

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have anything for you. No, And then the entrees

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<v Speaker 1>came out and he was like Oh, the food is

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<v Speaker 1>really good, don't you think? And I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it's okay, it's fine. And that's what he

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<v Speaker 1>told me how he picked the restaurant. Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's weird man. So was there anything redeeming about him

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<v Speaker 1>or was that just too much? No? It got worse.

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<v Speaker 1>At the end of the meal when we were wrapping

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<v Speaker 1>things up, he says, you know, I really like this place.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to keep the cross down. And he holds

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<v Speaker 1>out this fake plastic cockroach from his jack hip pocket

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<v Speaker 1>and he says, will you go into the kitchen and

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<v Speaker 1>slip it into some of the food without the cook

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<v Speaker 1>noticing and take a picture? Oh gosh, it's got to

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<v Speaker 1>be something. They're just trying to have a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of fun. Then what are you gonna do, Just walk

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<v Speaker 1>into the back of a kitchen at a restaurant look

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<v Speaker 1>the other way, please, I gotta slip this in and

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<v Speaker 1>get a picture of it for the year behind you.

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<v Speaker 1>You think he was being serious? Yeah, I think he

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<v Speaker 1>was serious because he went on to say, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll distruct the chef and tell him it was an

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<v Speaker 1>amazing meal while you do it. That I just can't

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<v Speaker 1>get over the fact if someone would have the audacity

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<v Speaker 1>to just walk into a restaurant kitchen, just maybe all

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<v Speaker 1>those restaurants that have been shut down over the years

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<v Speaker 1>was because of Matthew. Seriously just leaving these plants around.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, man, I need to know whether or

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<v Speaker 1>not he was being serious. And Julia, we have a

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<v Speaker 1>way to find out, because I need to let you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Matthew's on the other line listening. He wants to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Oh my god, No, cockroach boy, you there,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here. What's going on? Well, if you want to

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<v Speaker 1>keep the lines down and the prices down, it couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>hurt the snaff a quick photo hurt. Okay, I'm just joking, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not serious. I'm joke with her. I'm joking with you, funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Your timing needs some work because I'm not able to

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<v Speaker 1>get a read on you. What are you doing just

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<v Speaker 1>walking around with a fake cockroach in your coat? Ready

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<v Speaker 1>for the joke at all times? No, it's in my jacket,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. And I don't understand why you bring silverware

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<v Speaker 1>for yourself but you don't bring it for her. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I told her I was quirky. I particularly like that silverware.

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<v Speaker 1>It's more contoured to fit my hand. I will say,

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<v Speaker 1>a good fork in the hand feels so nice. I mean, Julia, Julia,

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<v Speaker 1>Wait wait, I'm not joking, Juliet. Things taste better when

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<v Speaker 1>they're off of certain material. Do you agree with that?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not you seriously don't think it was because the

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<v Speaker 1>place got shut down and that's why he wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>bring his own cheat. You're don't gonna get sick from

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<v Speaker 1>the utensils. You're gonna get sick from the food. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody knows that. Don't trust Brooks. She brings in like

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<v Speaker 1>old cabbage and crawfish salad. I'm saying I get what

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<v Speaker 1>he's saying, and I don't think that's a reason to

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<v Speaker 1>hate on him, Julia. You know what, even if it

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<v Speaker 1>was a joke, like I don't want that to be

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<v Speaker 1>a first date, I felt like I was being punked

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<v Speaker 1>if he wasn't being serious. Yeah, I agree, Matthew, I

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<v Speaker 1>think you've really put yourself in a hole here. You

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<v Speaker 1>need to talk to Julia and try and dig yourself out.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, I'm really sorry. I didn't mean to

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<v Speaker 1>like ruin our first date. I thought, other than the

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<v Speaker 1>cockroach bit we had a pretty nice time, is that true?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it was a weird date, and I mean

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, okay, conversationalist, he's got a funny sense of humor.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was just too weird. Yeah. Yeah, but weird

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<v Speaker 1>isn't always bad. I'm just saying weird can be good. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you give weird another chance, maybe weird grows on you.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, as long as you go out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with somebody and they're not sniffing their fingers, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a good thing. That I agree with Jeffrey on that one.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right. That is wrong with you? What do you

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<v Speaker 1>guys need for me? At this point? I need to

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<v Speaker 1>ask you something, Julia, and that's would you be willing

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<v Speaker 1>to go out on one more date with Matthew. We

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<v Speaker 1>will pay for it, and we'll make sure that it's

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<v Speaker 1>out of place that has at least a B rating

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<v Speaker 1>or higher, and will make sure they have nice silverwear

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<v Speaker 1>for you. Honestly, I think because of everything he did,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys should just give me the gift card so

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have to watch him bring his own silverware everything.

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<v Speaker 1>You just you just haven't had the right spoon. Once

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<v Speaker 1>you have the right, spoon, you'll understand what Matthew's talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>Old tell you I have the sweetest knife in my hands.

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<v Speaker 1>So Matthew Man, I'm sorry. It sounds like she's not

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<v Speaker 1>interested in seeing you again. I could bring you silverware. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't broken Jeffrey in the bawling