Speaker 1: It's time to catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show. Roman is on the phone
Speaker 2: today for to Catch a Cheater. He's been with his
Speaker 2: girlfriend Willa for a little over a year, but now
Speaker 2: he thinks something might be going on, so we'll see
Speaker 2: if we can help him out. Roman, thanks for coming
Speaker 2: on the show man. Sorry that you're having a situation.
Speaker 2: But what's going on with Willa?
Speaker 1: Like you said, we met a little more than a
Speaker 1: year ago. Men are in art gallery where she was
Speaker 1: actually working the event, and I just like saw her
Speaker 1: and I spent the whole night kind of like trying
Speaker 1: to be cool check her out, and then was like,
Speaker 1: you know what, if I don't ask her out, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna regret it. So I didn't, And like pretty much
Speaker 1: she's everything I've ever wanted in a girl. Like I
Speaker 1: would I do anything for her, Like truly would. I
Speaker 1: would go to the end of the earth to like
Speaker 1: make sure she was happy. Like she's just the best.
Speaker 2: So what's going on?
Speaker 1: Listen, We'd like to have a good time. We like
Speaker 1: to go do things. We go to our exhibits, we
Speaker 1: go out a lot, we go to concert with my work.
Speaker 1: She definitely like keeps you on my toe. I work
Speaker 1: for my family, like we work in banking and finance.
Speaker 1: She definitely like keeps it interesting because work can get
Speaker 1: like can kind of be a grind, and I don't
Speaker 1: have a lot of like free time, so she fills
Speaker 1: it up. And she's never taken advantage of the fact
Speaker 1: that I actually have money, like, you know, my family's
Speaker 1: pretty well off, right. And I actually took her to
Speaker 1: the Bahamas for like a little kind of getaway, you know,
Speaker 1: and it was this big family vacation thing, and she
Speaker 1: was super excited to go. She said she's never been
Speaker 1: out of the country. And she was really cool because
Speaker 1: my mom was like, oh, I can't get her first
Speaker 1: class ticket, and she was like, no problem. So she
Speaker 1: like sat and coach. But she had a blast the
Speaker 1: entire time. And it was like kind of awesome to
Speaker 1: see like this girl that I really fall in love with, like,
Speaker 1: you know, getting along with my mom. She doesn't like
Speaker 1: a lot of my girlfriends, so that was kind of
Speaker 1: like something I was worried about. Okay, But we got
Speaker 1: back from the trip and in the last few weeks,
Speaker 1: like Will has been totally mia. She like hasn't been
Speaker 1: calling me back at all she's been. She like used
Speaker 1: to come over to my place every night, and she's
Speaker 1: just like she doesn't really return my phone calls, like
Speaker 1: I can't get a hold of her. It's it's like
Speaker 1: a total total one eighty. And I know she's been
Speaker 1: like going through to work. Like the gallery she works
Speaker 1: for is like kind of in trouble. It's like bleeding
Speaker 1: a lot of money, and she's like worried she might
Speaker 1: be out of a job. So I'm trying to be supportive.
Speaker 1: I actually offered to like give her a little bit
Speaker 1: of money, but she wasn't interested in that. She wasn't
Speaker 1: like put off, she wasn't angry. She just was like
Speaker 1: I want to deal with it myself. I'm an adult.
Speaker 1: There's like a few guys that are work. They're like
Speaker 1: more interested in the art world, and they know, like
Speaker 1: you know, they're a little more I don't know, I
Speaker 1: guess it's a little more intelligent than me, and they're
Speaker 1: like more passionate or whatever. And I'm just always kind
Speaker 1: of like threatened by that. That's that's kind of that's
Speaker 1: kind of where we're at. I'm like just a little
Speaker 1: worried because it, I mean, I wouldn't be doing this
Speaker 1: extreme thing like calling you all if it really wasn't
Speaker 1: like if I really wasn't noticing that she just will
Speaker 1: not connect with me anymore.
Speaker 2: So you feel like she's just been spending a lot
Speaker 2: of time at work with these passionate guys.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like, like I said, I know, it's like
Speaker 1: a stressful time at work. So I'm I'm not I'm
Speaker 1: not trying to like create any guys a big conspiracy
Speaker 1: or anything around it. But I'm like, I definitely know
Speaker 1: she talks about these guys. Oh they're so interesting. Oh
Speaker 1: they you know, they they studied this, and they know
Speaker 1: about this artist and this author, And I just I
Speaker 1: work in finance. I don't know that stuff, you know.
Speaker 2: I mean maybe she likes that though, you know, like
Speaker 2: it's a little more stability than the art world.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. So there's this new art exhibit at the
Speaker 1: City Gallery that she's really been talking about wanting to
Speaker 1: go on, and she's on like a million different mailing
Speaker 1: lists for galleries at for work. So I thought, maybe
Speaker 1: like you could call offer free tickets with a plus
Speaker 1: one and see who she invites.
Speaker 2: That's a good idea. Oh cool, Okay, Yeah, that's a
Speaker 2: good idea. All right, we'll do that. Then we'll play
Speaker 2: a song come back and they call her and get
Speaker 2: your to Catch a Cheater next?
Speaker 1: Okay, awesome, thanks.
Speaker 2: All right, right for this? Did you all feel right
Speaker 2: in the middle of to Catch a Cheater? If you're
Speaker 2: just joining us? Roman is on the phone and he
Speaker 2: thinks that his girlfriend of just a little over a
Speaker 2: year named Willa might be cheating on him. We're about
Speaker 2: to call her and see if we can catch her
Speaker 2: if she is. But before we do that, Roman, why
Speaker 2: don't you catch everybody up on your situation.
Speaker 1: My girlfriend, Willa works in art. We met at an
Speaker 1: art gallery. I work in finance, so very different work lifestyle,
Speaker 1: and everything's going great. She loves to go out and
Speaker 1: do things. I'm having great experiences because of her concerts
Speaker 1: and bars, and just took her on vacation with my family.
Speaker 1: She got along great with my mom. Everything was like cool.
Speaker 1: And now she is completely not talking to me. She's
Speaker 1: not calling me back, she's not coming over. She used
Speaker 1: to spend every night over and I'm afraid that because
Speaker 1: her art is kind of struggling, She's been spending a
Speaker 1: lot of time at work. I'm afraid she's maybe like
Speaker 1: spending time with some of her like art bros that
Speaker 1: are a little more cultured than I am. And so
Speaker 1: I just kind of want to know what's going on there,
Speaker 1: why she's just totally kind of ignoring me, because it
Speaker 1: is like we've been in a relationship for a long time.
Speaker 1: It's not like we only went in a couple of days.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a big change, definitely. And you gave us
Speaker 2: the name of an art gallery that has an exhibit
Speaker 2: that she really wants to go to. And she's on
Speaker 2: a bunch of mailing lists. So we're about to call
Speaker 2: and say that she's won free tickets and a plus
Speaker 2: one and we'll see if she makes that plus one
Speaker 2: you or someone else.
Speaker 1: Okay, perfect, Yeah, Okay, here we go.
Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, this is thead calling from them I was
Speaker 2: looking for willib.
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is Ella.
Speaker 2: I'm calling you today because you're on our mailing list
Speaker 2: and I'm not sure if you're aware, but we're doing
Speaker 2: a pop up gallery of coming up in a few weeks.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that sounds awesome. I mean, I'm sure tickets
Speaker 3: are hard to get, but I would love to go.
Speaker 2: Well, they are hard to get, it's already been sold
Speaker 2: out for a while. But guess what willa not for
Speaker 2: you because you just wont two free tickets?
Speaker 3: No way?
Speaker 2: Yes, congratulations. Every single time we have one of these
Speaker 2: pop up exhibits, we call somebody from our railing list
Speaker 2: and they get two free tickets. So you regarded this month's.
Speaker 3: Where great, that's so exciting.
Speaker 2: And so it comes with a plus one. Because it's
Speaker 2: an exclusive event, we do need to get both parties names.
Speaker 2: So I'm assuming you're going to go.
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, I'd love to go.
Speaker 2: So I've got your name done. But do you know
Speaker 2: who you would like to take with you already?
Speaker 3: You know what?
Speaker 4: I have my friend Amanda in mind because she wants
Speaker 4: to go to this exhibit just as bad as I do.
Speaker 3: And that would be amazing.
Speaker 2: You know, this would be a good thing to take
Speaker 2: a date to it. You know, just said it's a friend, right.
Speaker 3: It's kind of a person question.
Speaker 4: I think it's just okay for me to get the
Speaker 4: tickets and go to the exhibit.
Speaker 2: You can throw in a third ticket if you have
Speaker 2: a romantic interest.
Speaker 3: I'll just go with my friend Amanda. But thank you.
Speaker 2: Are you currently dating anybody?
Speaker 3: No, I'm not and this is like super inappropriate.
Speaker 1: No, you're you're not dating anyone, so we're just we're done.
Speaker 1: And you weren't going to tell me that.
Speaker 3: Roman?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Will, this is actually the Jebel Show. It's a
Speaker 2: radio show and we do a segment called to Catch
Speaker 2: a Cheater where we tried to see if people are cheating,
Speaker 2: and that is your boyfriend, Roman.
Speaker 3: Yeah, uh, what is are you kidding me? What is this?
Speaker 1: What is this? I mean, what is it? What is
Speaker 1: what is I don't have a boyfriend? Mean, I mean
Speaker 1: you literally were going to tell me you were just
Speaker 1: going to after a year, you were going to ghost me.
Speaker 4: First of all, you heard that guy he was being
Speaker 4: an absolute creepy wanted me to tell him that I
Speaker 4: had a boyfriend, to like even talk to him for longer.
Speaker 3: No, I wanted to get off the phone.
Speaker 1: Okay, but I took you on like this family vacation
Speaker 1: and now you're you're telling people like that, you're you know,
Speaker 1: you're you're picking your friend Amanda to go to this
Speaker 1: art gallery. The bit you're you're telling this guy you
Speaker 1: don't have a boyfriend. Like, if he was so creepy,
Speaker 1: why wouldn't you be like yes, I have a boyfriend.
Speaker 1: Leave me alone.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, do you not know how women work?
Speaker 3: I this is so.
Speaker 4: I have been protecting myself from you and your pompous, snobby,
Speaker 4: horrible family.
Speaker 2: Oh excuse me?
Speaker 1: What what's wrong with my family? You and my mom
Speaker 1: were getting along great?
Speaker 3: Okay, first of all, Mama's boy. When we went to
Speaker 3: the Bahamas.
Speaker 4: Your mom pulled me aside and told me that she
Speaker 4: knew that I was in it.
Speaker 3: Just for the money. Oh are you here?
Speaker 4: So your mom is threatening that I shut And your
Speaker 4: mom threatens to shut down my quote unquote little art gallery.
Speaker 4: Do I do anything to hurt you or take what
Speaker 4: isn't mine? Why do you think I was sitting in coach?
Speaker 4: She told me that's where blue collar people deserve to stay.
Speaker 2: Whoa, yes, And.
Speaker 4: I've been keeping my mouth shut, trying to work my
Speaker 4: job just so this gallery doesn't close.
Speaker 3: And you pull me on a radio show.
Speaker 1: No hold on, willis she? Are you hitting me? She
Speaker 1: actually said that to you?
Speaker 3: Yes, of course she said that to me.
Speaker 1: Okay, listen, listen, listen. She had never meddled like this
Speaker 1: in any of my relationships. And I am I am
Speaker 1: telling you, I am so sorry. I'm so sorry that
Speaker 1: I had to take you on a radio show. I
Speaker 1: didn't know what else to do. And honestly, if I
Speaker 1: had known this, I would have put a stop to
Speaker 1: this a long time ago. Because listen, she was telling
Speaker 1: me that she really liked you, that you were getting
Speaker 1: along great. She was like, yeah, she really understands me.
Speaker 1: We have great conversations. But clearly she meant something differently
Speaker 1: by that. So I am I am truly, like I swear,
Speaker 1: I am sorry. I had no idea she had never
Speaker 1: done anything like this before.
Speaker 3: Well, I mean, I'm sorry that I haven't been around
Speaker 3: a lot liately.
Speaker 4: But like I said, I you, but I hate your
Speaker 4: mom like I'm gonna stand for the line of snubbery,
Speaker 4: arrogant rich and how dare your mom threaten me or
Speaker 4: my passion and her this relationship if I have to
Speaker 4: be degraded like this?
Speaker 1: Listen, listen, listen, Willa, listen. I promise you I will
Speaker 1: deal with my mother. I love you too. Your job
Speaker 1: is safe. If my mom were to even dare to
Speaker 1: even think about doing anything, I would make her pay dearly.
Speaker 1: I promise you, promise you, promise you that I had
Speaker 1: no idea and there will definitely be consequences for what
Speaker 1: she's done. She gave me control over the over the finances,
Speaker 1: so if she were to mess with that, she'd be
Speaker 1: in she'd be in her own kind of trouble. Please
Speaker 1: don't don't hold it against me. For my mother, that
Speaker 1: kind of that kind of behavior is totally unacceptable, And
Speaker 1: I have no problem telling my mom that.
Speaker 4: Please, as you, we're going to take this slowly because
Speaker 4: I do just love your show so much.
Speaker 3: But like, I can't tell you that if I get
Speaker 3: treated like garbage one more time or told that I'm worthless,
Speaker 3: I will set you up.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I hear you.
Speaker 1: I promise you. I promise you. We can we can
Speaker 1: take it. We can take take all the time you need.
Speaker 1: But can I like make a suggestion here, I actually
Speaker 1: did get tickets to that art exhibit when you said
Speaker 1: you wanted to go like a couple of months back
Speaker 1: when they went on sale, And if it be okay
Speaker 1: with you, like maybe that could be our first kind
Speaker 1: of like date back. Could we can we try that?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, I can do that.
Speaker 1: That's great. I really do love you.
Speaker 2: I love you, and I'm relieved because well will have
Speaker 2: found out that I didn't actually have tickets I didn't
Speaker 2: want to get You know
Speaker 3: You will show to catch a cheeter