1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,960 Speaker 1: I'm now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. If you 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 1: need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:10,720 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com. 4 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:12,720 Speaker 2: We could be reading your letter live. 5 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 1: On the air, just like we're going to read this 6 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:17,079 Speaker 1: one right here, right now. 7 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:18,119 Speaker 2: Who knows it could be you. 8 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 3: Oh okay, ladies and Gentlemen's time for the Strawberry Letter. 9 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:26,280 Speaker 1: Put your hands together for my girl, Shirley Strawberry. 10 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 4: Happen all right? 11 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 1: Subject, Thank you, junior. Subject, I'm tired of sneaking around 12 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 1: with her. Here Stephen Shirley. I'm a twenty seven year 13 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:38,639 Speaker 1: old single man, and I would love to stop sneaking 14 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 1: around with the love of my life. I've been friends 15 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:44,560 Speaker 1: with my secret lover for twenty years, and our parents 16 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:48,240 Speaker 1: are best friends. Our families did everything together for over 17 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:52,720 Speaker 1: twenty years, but they have no idea about our secret romance. 18 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 1: She and I have been best friends since we were seven. 19 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 1: By the time we turned thirteen, she was blossoming into 20 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 1: a woman and I liked it. She was curious about 21 00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: my body and I enjoyed caressing hers. When she let 22 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 1: me on her seventeenth birthday, she told me she was 23 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:11,479 Speaker 1: ready to have sex and she. 24 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 2: Wanted me to be her first. 25 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: That was the moment I had been waiting for, so 26 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 1: we both had sex for the first time. I fell 27 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:22,839 Speaker 1: in love with her by the time I was eighteen. 28 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:27,320 Speaker 1: We continued to secretly have sex throughout college, and now 29 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 1: that we're grown, she still likes to sneak around with me. 30 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:34,960 Speaker 1: I've dated other girls, but no other woman compares to her. 31 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: I have asked her to be my girlfriend so many times, 32 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:41,320 Speaker 1: but she is afraid of what her parents will think. 33 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:44,679 Speaker 1: She's been dating a guy for almost two years and 34 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 1: we still have sex often. But we still have sex often. 35 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 1: She's told me that she's not had sex with him, 36 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 1: and I believed her until recently, when she told me 37 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: that he's talking about marriage. 38 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 2: My heart started. 39 00:01:57,000 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 1: Beating fast, and I panicked and poured out all of 40 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 1: my feeling to her and said I wanted to be 41 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:05,920 Speaker 1: with her and marry her. She said we could never 42 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 1: be together because although we are not blood relatives, our 43 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: families are linked so closely it's like we're related. I 44 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 1: yelled at her that I don't make love to my relatives. 45 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:21,799 Speaker 1: Why won't she give us a chance. I don't want 46 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:25,520 Speaker 1: to lose her for good, So what should I do? Wow, 47 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 1: you don't want to lose her for good? Well, she's gone. 48 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: I mean you've already lost her. She never wanted you 49 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 1: for anything more than a side piece anyway. Everything was 50 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 1: always in secret. Okay, she's never given you any reason 51 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:44,080 Speaker 1: to think otherwise. All you have to do is listen 52 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 1: to her and read between her lines. You are her 53 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:51,119 Speaker 1: side piece, her jump off, her play thing, and that's it. 54 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 1: I mean, there are clues throughout the letter. 55 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 5: You say. 56 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:57,519 Speaker 1: Now that we're grown, she still likes to sneak around 57 00:02:57,560 --> 00:02:59,640 Speaker 1: with you. Yeah, she wants to keep you a secret. 58 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 1: She won't date you because she's afraid of what her 59 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 1: parents might think. Really, but she's grown. You just said 60 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:11,360 Speaker 1: you guys are grown. You've told her you want to 61 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:13,239 Speaker 1: be with her and you want to marry her. 62 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 2: Still nothing from her. Nothing. She's thinking about marrying some 63 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 2: other guy. 64 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 1: She said, you guys could never be together because your relatives. 65 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 1: Excuse after excuse after excuse with this one. She knows 66 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:30,920 Speaker 1: you're not related, but she's using that so she can 67 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 1: keep things as they are, so you can be her 68 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:33,960 Speaker 1: little secret. 69 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 2: Okay, you know she just wants you for sex. I 70 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 2: hope you know that. 71 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 1: And because you're in love with her, you just keep 72 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 1: giving her what you want, what she wants whenever she 73 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 1: wants it, which means she gets to have you and 74 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 1: her fiance. She gets her cake in she can eat 75 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 1: it too. Who is this woman? I mean, what is 76 00:03:57,320 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 1: this old one on you? She has got to move 77 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 1: on from her, you do. I know you've dated other women, 78 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 1: but you can't stop comparing them to her. You got 79 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: to stop that. That's the way you move on. I 80 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 1: mean you got to step back and take a look 81 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 1: at what's really what's really going on here. 82 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 2: I just say, wake up, stay woke. 83 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 1: After you wake up from this dream you're in about her, 84 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 1: then maybe hopefully you'll stop being her little you know, secret, 85 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 1: her little guinea pig, her little plaything, and you can 86 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 1: move on from there. 87 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:39,040 Speaker 3: Steve one hundred percent completely disagree. Hell boy, come on now, 88 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 3: this opportunity pilp. Don't let me walk you through this thing. 89 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:50,600 Speaker 3: I'm tired of sneak it around with her. Twenty seven 90 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 3: year old single man, you want to stop sneaking around 91 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 3: with the love of your life? 92 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:56,599 Speaker 4: What come on? 93 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 3: Do you know how many women are dying to hear that. 94 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 3: That's why I know we got a chance here. I've 95 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 3: been friends with my secret love for over twenty years. 96 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 3: I didn't know what the hell was going on here. 97 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:13,600 Speaker 3: Seven three best friends, our family did everything together for 98 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 3: twenty years, but they had no idea about our secret romans. 99 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:19,159 Speaker 3: Now this wasn't. Let her take a little bit of 100 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:22,560 Speaker 3: a delusional turn. She and I have been best friends 101 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 3: since we were seven. By the time we turned thirteen, 102 00:05:26,839 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 3: she was blossoming into a woman. 103 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 1: Thirteen. 104 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 3: No, dog dog No, she wasn't flo. 105 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:43,040 Speaker 4: Doggie, No, she wasn't Shellie. You was flat chesting. 106 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 2: Okay, keep with thirteen. 107 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:51,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, Rick at Monica over there, shaking her head. This 108 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 3: line healthy. Let she say that. For by the time 109 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 3: and she was timed to thirteen, she was blossoming into 110 00:05:59,360 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 3: the woman. 111 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 4: And I like it. Dog No, she wouldn't. 112 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 3: She was kids about my body and I enjoyed Carress 113 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 3: and Herris. And on seventeenth birthday, she was ready to 114 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 3: have sex. She wanted me to be her first. She 115 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:15,159 Speaker 3: will get that was the moment I had been waiting for. 116 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 3: I do so we both had sex for the first time. 117 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 3: I fell in love with her by the time I 118 00:06:21,839 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 3: was eighteen. We secretly had sex throughout college, and now 119 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 3: we've grown, she still likes to sneak around with me. 120 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:31,839 Speaker 3: I've dated other girls, but no other woman come pass 121 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:35,159 Speaker 3: to her. I've asked her to be my girlfriend many times. 122 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 3: She's afraid of what her parents will think when we 123 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 3: come back. Well, wait fin to get down. 124 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:43,040 Speaker 1: We'll have part two of Steve's response to the Strawberry 125 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:45,720 Speaker 1: letter coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour 126 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:48,840 Speaker 1: subject I'm tired of sneaking around with her. We'll get 127 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 1: back into it right after this. 128 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:55,279 Speaker 2: You're listening hardy morning show. 129 00:06:56,880 --> 00:06:59,919 Speaker 6: Holidays are here, and it's essential to recognize that person 130 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:03,240 Speaker 6: safety is a year round priority. 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Now turn thirteen, 143 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 3: she started developing into a woman. I tried to tell 144 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 3: this boy in this letter she wasn't a woman at thirteen. 145 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:46,640 Speaker 4: Y'all, sir got you. 146 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 3: Seventeen, y'all had sex for the first time for the 147 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 3: both of y'allf you fell in love with her. By eighteen, 148 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 3: y'all had sex all throughout college, secretly without your parents knowing. 149 00:07:57,480 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 3: I don't know how cool these damn parents he is. 150 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 3: Why they wouldn't be alright with their babies linking up together. 151 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 3: I don't know what this damn relationship is y'all parents got, 152 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 3: but it's too big. In this letter, y'all had sex 153 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 3: for the first time. This was the moment I've been 154 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 3: waiting for. Yes, yes it. 155 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 4: Is, boy. 156 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 3: So we both had sex for the first time. I 157 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 3: fell in love with her by the time I was eighteen. 158 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 3: We had sex throughout college, and now we're grown. She 159 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 3: still likes to sneak around with me. Wow, updated other 160 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:36,439 Speaker 3: girls here we go, but no other woman compares to her. 161 00:08:37,640 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 3: No thing compass talk to you. You knew aw man, 162 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:49,520 Speaker 3: that was the jam boy. See, they got songs about this. 163 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 4: I just need to get to the court us. 164 00:09:03,880 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 3: Boom boh. 165 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:11,559 Speaker 2: Not money, you've been gone. 166 00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, but nothing nothing to take away? 167 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:25,599 Speaker 4: Here we go sh come. 168 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 3: Nothing compend do you nothing? 169 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 4: Whoa baby? Whoaby whobby. 170 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:43,559 Speaker 2: It's been so lonely. 171 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 3: Without Thank you so much for that day. 172 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 5: You know. 173 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 3: I just wanted to drop that in there, because back 174 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 3: in the day we wrote songs about situations, and this boy. 175 00:09:54,160 --> 00:10:05,280 Speaker 5: Says nothing compass, no I thing, come pans se you 176 00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 5: that boy met this man. 177 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 4: I just wanted to drop that in the middle of 178 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:09,959 Speaker 4: the letter. 179 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:14,680 Speaker 3: Anyway, man, I've asked her to be my girlfriend so 180 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:17,360 Speaker 3: many times, but she's afraid of what her parents would think. 181 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:19,960 Speaker 3: She's been dating a guy for two years, but we 182 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 3: still have sex often. She told me she ain't having 183 00:10:22,880 --> 00:10:25,440 Speaker 3: sex with him. I believed her till recently when she 184 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 3: told me he's talking about marriage he would go. My 185 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:32,760 Speaker 3: heart started beating fast. I paniced. I poured all my 186 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:34,640 Speaker 3: feelings to her, and I said I wanted to be 187 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 3: with her. 188 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 4: I want to marry her. 189 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 3: She said we could never be together because although we 190 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:43,560 Speaker 3: are not blood relatives. Our families are linked together so closely, 191 00:10:44,080 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 3: it's like we related. I yelled at her, I don't 192 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:51,319 Speaker 3: make love to my relatives. Why won't she give us 193 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 3: a chance? I don't want to lose her for good? 194 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 3: So what should I do? And we got to go 195 00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:59,680 Speaker 3: to wall? Baby, We got to fight, young homie twenty 196 00:10:59,760 --> 00:11:02,319 Speaker 3: seven and listen to somebody that's been the wall before. 197 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 3: You got to fight for this love of your life. 198 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:09,560 Speaker 3: You can't let this poke ass do win? Who is he? 199 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:11,679 Speaker 3: And I said it right, you can't let this poke 200 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 3: ass do win? 201 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:13,600 Speaker 4: Who is he? 202 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 5: She? 203 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 4: No, yes, she do. Shirley, she just got this thing 204 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:21,080 Speaker 4: with this family. She won't him. She just don't know 205 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:22,199 Speaker 4: how to explain it. 206 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 3: All this sneaking around and now she didn't have this 207 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:28,720 Speaker 3: boyfriend for two years, but she's still been sneaking around 208 00:11:28,760 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 3: with the secret lover. She can't explain it because she 209 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:33,840 Speaker 3: in love with this boy. She don't just love what 210 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:36,960 Speaker 3: he do side but the side piece got her turn 211 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 3: up though. See because all through the relationships, she still 212 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 3: got to get the side piece. It's because the side 213 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:45,959 Speaker 3: piece is really the main course. He ain't a side dish. 214 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 3: He the folk piece now see Charlie, he ain't the 215 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 3: cold Slaw. He the folk piece. This dude is the 216 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:56,800 Speaker 3: cold slaw. But the coldslaugh live gone public. So now 217 00:11:56,840 --> 00:12:00,120 Speaker 3: she trying to turn cold slaw and massed potatoes a 218 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 3: damn entree. And it ain't finna work because I ain't 219 00:12:02,840 --> 00:12:04,960 Speaker 3: gonna let it go down like that, got homie, because 220 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:06,480 Speaker 3: we got to get up here and go to walk. 221 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 4: We at work. We're finn to put it in work. 222 00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:09,560 Speaker 6: You let me. 223 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 4: Explain something to you. 224 00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:10,680 Speaker 3: Dog. 225 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:14,840 Speaker 4: She ain't. 226 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:21,720 Speaker 3: Gonna get away. This is your shot, homie. And see, 227 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 3: listen to me. We got to erase what the parents think. 228 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 3: You're still in the game. Compare yourself to him. This 229 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:33,719 Speaker 3: is when it's time. It's time to get the mud out. 230 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:36,440 Speaker 3: Now it's mud slanging time. 231 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 2: Who is he? 232 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:42,439 Speaker 4: And what is he to you? My friend? 233 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:46,199 Speaker 2: You want to hear that? Now it's the hair of. 234 00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 4: Points and do tag. They keep trying to tell me 235 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:53,960 Speaker 4: you with it that I ought to not let you 236 00:12:54,200 --> 00:13:03,559 Speaker 4: just walk on me time. Yeah, yes, she do. Shelny. 237 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 4: You don't know what. 238 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:09,079 Speaker 3: I know, Sheridan, You don't understand shechriff, We come back. 239 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:11,320 Speaker 4: I'm gonna finish up with this letter. Come on, Bill, 240 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 4: take us out. She is Steve Harvey, Marty show man 241 00:13:17,559 --> 00:13:20,240 Speaker 4: stuff that I know. I know, I'm not going. Lord, 242 00:13:20,280 --> 00:13:21,200 Speaker 4: you ever did this here? 243 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 3: You ever told somebody you wasn't home so they wouldn't 244 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 3: come over for you. 245 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:28,040 Speaker 4: They came over anyway, and you was getting. 246 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:28,160 Speaker 5: In the car. 247 00:13:29,400 --> 00:13:30,800 Speaker 4: I'm not the only room. 248 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 3: Like somebody at your church or something gave you a 249 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 3: dish to eat and when you saw him again, you 250 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 3: said you ate it and it was delicious, but you know, 251 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 3: getting damn where you threw. 252 00:13:39,640 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 4: It away because you didn't think the person was clean. 253 00:13:43,160 --> 00:13:45,200 Speaker 4: Show coming up right after the. 254 00:13:47,559 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 6: Holidays are here, and it's essential to recognize that personal 255 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 6: safety is a year round priority. 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Well, see, Shirley, this is the love 268 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:36,640 Speaker 3: of his life, and it's time for her to understand 269 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:39,520 Speaker 3: what they really have. See, she don't even know what's 270 00:14:39,520 --> 00:14:42,600 Speaker 3: the love of her life because they're so busy trying 271 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 3: to keep it a secret. And then Mamma, then well 272 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 3: when you gonna get somebody. Now, she'd have showed up 273 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 3: this boyfriend for two years. Now, how you're gonna come 274 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 3: back and tell her it's always been your friend? That's 275 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:55,080 Speaker 3: the problem she got. She'd have got herself in the 276 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:57,360 Speaker 3: spy the web. Well, since we're in the spy the web, 277 00:14:57,560 --> 00:15:00,320 Speaker 3: it's gonna get all tangled up because now you got 278 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 3: to start slinging mud. 279 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 4: It's mud slinging time now, homie. 280 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:06,280 Speaker 3: You got to start comparing yourself to him. 281 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:09,640 Speaker 4: Who is he and what is he to you? You 282 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:12,520 Speaker 4: understand what he. 283 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 2: Could get enough all these women out here, the one he. 284 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:18,680 Speaker 3: Won't, No, no, the one he won't is the love 285 00:15:18,760 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 3: of his life. 286 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:19,840 Speaker 2: Shirley. 287 00:15:20,080 --> 00:15:22,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't always get what you can fight for 288 00:15:22,040 --> 00:15:23,840 Speaker 3: it though, compare yourself to her. 289 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:26,120 Speaker 4: He can't love you like I do. 290 00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 3: He can't treat you the way I can treat you. 291 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 3: Why he can't won't you the way I won't you 292 00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:45,360 Speaker 3: no moment, June. You don't bring no nineties world in 293 00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:50,200 Speaker 3: the meat un bringing, no damn jagged, no damn jagget as. 294 00:15:50,600 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 4: He can't love you like I love you. 295 00:15:53,560 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 1: What that is? 296 00:15:56,920 --> 00:16:00,840 Speaker 4: He can't protect you like I'll protect you. I have 297 00:16:01,040 --> 00:16:05,280 Speaker 4: loved you since the moment I saw you. 298 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 3: You have been the love of my life, since the 299 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 3: moment we touched one another. I can't live without you. 300 00:16:13,560 --> 00:16:17,160 Speaker 3: I don't breathe without you. I want you more than 301 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:21,320 Speaker 3: I won't air. I love you more than I love myself. 302 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 3: There ain't a lot of women can walk away from 303 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:29,320 Speaker 3: the sun, I'm telling you. But now what you're gonna 304 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:31,040 Speaker 3: have to do is you're gonna have to take your 305 00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:36,720 Speaker 3: love for her public. Oh, public affirmation is about time 306 00:16:36,800 --> 00:16:40,920 Speaker 3: to come. If she don't, then we go for the break. 307 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:44,800 Speaker 3: I'll go public with my love for her. I'll go 308 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 3: online and say I'm sorry, and I just tell her 309 00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 3: in front of the world that it may end it, 310 00:16:53,120 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 3: but this is your shot. Do not let the love 311 00:16:56,080 --> 00:16:58,040 Speaker 3: of your life get away just because she's dating this 312 00:16:58,160 --> 00:17:01,640 Speaker 3: punk ass. 313 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 4: All right? 314 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:03,800 Speaker 2: See that ends? 315 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:06,400 Speaker 1: I hope Part three of today's Strawberry Letter. 316 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:09,400 Speaker 4: Okay, this is Steve albin Man show Man. 317 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 2: Would you rather be a pastor or a lawyer. 318 00:17:13,280 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 4: I'm not visiting the sickest shuddy. 319 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 2: Had here we go. 320 00:17:17,119 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 4: Oh that on. You ain't coming to my office telling 321 00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:21,080 Speaker 4: me your problem, o'y. 322 00:17:21,840 --> 00:17:25,200 Speaker 3: I'll go down there every Sunday. 323 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 2: Shoot job coming up right after you