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Speaker 1: Never been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fredshell Adam,

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Speaker 1: good morning, welcome to the program.

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Speaker 2: How are you. I'm doing all right?

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Speaker 3: How are you doing?

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Speaker 4: Man?

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Speaker 1: Doing okay? What's going on with this woman, Kristin? I

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Speaker 1: got to know how you met, about any dates that

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Speaker 1: you've been on and where things are now? In waiting

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Speaker 1: by the phone because you feel like maybe she's ghosting you?

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Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, I mean, so me and Kristin had met

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Speaker 3: by the pool at our gym one weekend, and I

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Speaker 3: mean we were both just kind of hanging out with

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Speaker 3: like I was like, I really wanted this conversation to

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Speaker 3: keep going, So I asked her out and she said yes,

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Speaker 3: So she gave me your number, and so like we

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Speaker 3: texted for a little bit, and then we decided that

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Speaker 3: for drinks and then like drinks that week ended up

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Speaker 3: doing really really well, and so like even before the date,

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Speaker 3: like our artechts were getting super super thirty and I

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Speaker 3: mean even even a little I say, to a certain point,

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Speaker 3: and so like and then when we met we had

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Speaker 3: like just this in person chemistry that didn't disappoint, and

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Speaker 3: it was going really really good. Like I mean I

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Speaker 3: we had ended up having so much late night fun.

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Speaker 3: Oh but okay, but I'm all right, all right, But

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Speaker 3: I mean ever since that day, like I just haven't

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Speaker 3: Things were going well. She agreed that things were going well,

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Speaker 3: and I mean, I don't know what happened.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's always kind of crazy when this happens, because

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Speaker 1: it's like everything was going so well. I mean the

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Speaker 1: way you describe it, all this chemistry and all this

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Speaker 1: you late to work, I mean, this is all this

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Speaker 1: all sounds great, except for whatever reason, something must have happened.

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Speaker 1: And now I assume you've texted, You've called Kristen, you've

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Speaker 1: I mean, she's not responding to anything.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I.

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Speaker 3: Didn't like send her an over abundant, like desperate amount

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Speaker 3: call her one night and she just didn't pick up,

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Speaker 3: And so I don't want to be like a stalker

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Speaker 3: and keep texting her.

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Speaker 2: And yeah, we don't know what they did, right, but.

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Speaker 3: I just kind of want to know what's going on,

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Speaker 3: Like we're going really really well and then nothing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it makes sense. So we're going to play a song.

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Speaker 1: Come back in a couple of minutes. We'll call Kristen.

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Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone, Adam. We're going to ask

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Speaker 1: she's been busy or who knows what's going on, but

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Speaker 2: Back on tracks. Have you on another date and pay

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Speaker 2: for it? Sound good?

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Speaker 3: Thank you?

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Speaker 1: Let's find out what's going on? Part two Waiting about

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Speaker 1: the phone after Shaboozzi back in two minutes on The

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Speaker 1: Fred Show. Stay right there, Shaboozzi, it's The Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, thanks for having us on the radio and

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Speaker 1: the iHeart app anytime search for The Fred Show on demand. Adam,

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Speaker 1: All right, let's call Kristin. You guys, you met at

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Speaker 1: exchange numbers, texted, you know, things kind of got there

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Speaker 2: I appreciate it, but thanks. Hi. Is this Kristin?

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Speaker 1: Ye?

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Speaker 2: Hey, Kristin, good morning.

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Speaker 1: My name is Fredam calling for The Fred Show, the

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Speaker 1: morning radio show, and I have to tell you that

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Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now, and I do

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Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the call. Is it

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Speaker 1: okay if we chat for a second.

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Speaker 4: I guess I guess, I guess that's yes.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, thank you. We're calling out behalf of a

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Speaker 1: guy named Adam. I guess you met him at the

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Speaker 1: at the pool and you hung out a couple of times,

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Speaker 1: and uh, I guess you guys went on some dates

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Speaker 4: Yep?

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Speaker 2: I sure?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so he described to us a minute ago what

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Speaker 1: he thought was, you know, this this great story about

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Speaker 1: meeting and all the chemistry you guys had, the dates

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Speaker 1: you've been on. But he says he can't get a

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Speaker 1: hold of you now, So what's going on with that?

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Speaker 1: Why are we ignoring Adam?

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Speaker 4: Okay, listen, Adam is awesome. Okay, he's attractive, he's charming,

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Speaker 1: Okay, what's the butt? Like, where's the problem?

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Speaker 2: I want to go out with it? So we did.

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Speaker 2: We did go out.

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Speaker 4: Okay, just sex was amazing, but.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so still interesting yet to say, Okay, all right, just.

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Speaker 4: Just wait for he's leaving my place and you know,

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Speaker 4: he's talking about, you know, meeting up again, and he

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Speaker 4: just casually slips in that you know, oh, he just

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Speaker 4: has to work it around, you know, like his kids

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Speaker 2: Oh huh.

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Speaker 4: How do you think I felt having just had this

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Speaker 2: Okay, so hold up.

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Speaker 1: So you guys, you met, you talked, you hooked up,

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Speaker 1: he's like, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, maybe tomorrow, but if

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Speaker 2: Crows it out there like it's nothing.

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Speaker 1: And you didn't know anything about this. You didn't know

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Speaker 4: I knew nothing about it. I would have never gone

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Speaker 2: That's a detail. I had known that he had a wife.

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Speaker 1: Be helpful to know. Let me bring Adam in. I

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Speaker 1: forgot to mention Kristin that Adam is here. I'm very forgetful. Also,

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Speaker 3: No, I'm non monogamous and my wife has agreed to

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Speaker 3: everything to an open relationship. She doesn't want to live

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Speaker 4: So she doesn't want to know about it. Like really, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Sorry that sounds shady, okay, and that would be interesting

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Speaker 4: I don't believe that.

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Speaker 2: I I don't believe that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, hold on, christ in one second, what are you describing?

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Speaker 1: I have heard of existing before whereas.

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Speaker 4: But the wife actually like agrees and like she's available

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Speaker 4: to like talk to, you know, potential partners.

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Speaker 2: It's like they don't believe.

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Speaker 1: Quite a few she's she's wanted to be doing it.

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Speaker 1: But at the same time, it's Adam, you got it.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to rupt you, but you got to disclose

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Speaker 4: I mean if it is about board. Why can't I

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Speaker 2: I have time to you know, with this kind.

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Speaker 4: Of a lifestyle, and they're always allowed to talk to

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Speaker 4: the spouse and get it verified. That's all I'm asking for, Like,

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Speaker 2: This, Okay. The only way I'm in this, Adam, I can.

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Speaker 3: To her about like a verification thing, Like that's not problem.

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Speaker 3: I'm not trying to find anything. Like she just was

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Speaker 2: But I mean, that's you.

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Speaker 1: But let me ask let me ask this guy. So

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Speaker 1: so Adam, let's see Adam, Kristen. Let's say that Adam's

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Speaker 1: You're saying that if you could talk to her and verify,

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Speaker 1: it's okay, Adam, what's the likelihood you leave your wife?

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Speaker 1: What's the likelihood you wind up committed to Kristin in

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Speaker 1: a relationship like without? I mean, Kristin, do you want

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Speaker 1: for that? When you meet a guy or you me

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Speaker 1: when you guys start talking and no one discloses this

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Speaker 2: I mean in your mind, it's it's not make it

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Speaker 1: So, Adam, if you fall in love with Kristin, well,

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Speaker 1: are you going to leave your wife?

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Speaker 2: I mean that's pretty unlikely.

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Speaker 3: But I mean also, Kristen said that she didn't want kids,

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Speaker 3: so I mean, I don't know what's to stop us

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, oh take it.

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Speaker 4: It'll make me feel like I'm a cheater. I'm a

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Speaker 4: cheater for the entire length of our relationship. How do

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Speaker 4: I introduce you to people?

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Speaker 1: Then?

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Speaker 2: What's going to But like, I just want to trying

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Speaker 1: I mean, is that just so that you know you

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Speaker 1: Because he just said he's not leaving his wife, So basically,

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Speaker 4: Going to be if there's no chance of him leaving

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Speaker 3: And I'm just like.

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Speaker 4: Some weird little secret or some shit like that. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I'm probably not interested, honestly, Like I just I don't

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Speaker 2: I can't live that way right.

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Speaker 5: On your head, Kiki, what because this is insane? Like

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Speaker 5: he's insane. This is insane. Like you if your wife

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Speaker 5: to do, do it. But why bring in people unknowingly

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Speaker 5: You don't tell somebody after the fact. I think you

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Speaker 1: I think, Adam, you know that a lot of people

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Speaker 1: want Kristin to say no, so you just didn't tell her.

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Speaker 2: That's what I lied.

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Speaker 4: So he's freaking lied.

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Speaker 3: Can accept that?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: Do we have an accountable person on It's impossible.

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Speaker 4: I was just going to say that I feel I

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Speaker 4: know these things happen for you, and I have bumped

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Speaker 2: About this because you don't believe it happens, but it does.

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Speaker 2: It does, it does.

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Speaker 4: But can the men or the women whoever's doing this,

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Speaker 4: can they have like a sign permission slip so.

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Speaker 2: That we know what's because you know what's giving right, you.

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Speaker 5: Certificate right FaceTime, your wife right now.

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Speaker 2: I need her to agree right now. It's a lot

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Speaker 2: of let's get on a zoom call.

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Speaker 1: It is a strange thing, and like I get it, it

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Speaker 1: Like you've got to tell people, hey, I'm in an

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Speaker 1: that's not going to change because everything changes now for Kristen.

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Speaker 1: Because maybe she didn't want to be an accessory. Maybe

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Speaker 4: It's just really disrespectful, is really what it comes down to.

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Speaker 4: It's incredibly disrespectful and it puts the other person in

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Speaker 1: Have you ever had this problem before, Adam? I mean

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Speaker 1: Like if you had this issue, where when do you

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Speaker 3: I mean usually to kind of gauge how things go first.

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Speaker 2: Way, Hi, why please, you are about to have sex

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Speaker 2: with you? And I am okay with you. I don't

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Speaker 2: want to know.

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Speaker 1: Please use protection and why you're at it? A few

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Speaker 1: things he likes are the airline safety video. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: don't know, man, Adam, I don't It's not gonna work out. Kristin, Hey,

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Speaker 1: thank you for your time, and I'm sorry that you

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Speaker 1: best of Adam.

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Speaker 2: Good luck out there to you as well.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, thanks man, I appreciate it.

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