1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,920 Speaker 1: The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan, Part. 2 00:00:03,680 --> 00:00:08,240 Speaker 2: One, behind a scene with a member of the show. 3 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: What's up friends, It's time for best Bits and Eddie 4 00:00:11,640 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 1: is joining me. What's up, Eddie? What's thanks for coming on? 5 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:16,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, thanks for having me, especially. 6 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: Since there was drama last time we were on. 7 00:00:18,840 --> 00:00:23,239 Speaker 2: There was no drama, no drama. You got mad at 8 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 2: me though, I got that at all of you, I know, 9 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:28,319 Speaker 2: but I didn't do anything. I was just laughing. I 10 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 2: was just laughing because it's funny. 11 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, you helped the environment. You helped create the environment 12 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:34,360 Speaker 1: that we were in. 13 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 2: If something is funny, I laugh. But there was no drama. 14 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:41,480 Speaker 2: There was no drama whatsoever. And we're not even talking 15 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:42,160 Speaker 2: about that again. 16 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, how's life. What's going on with you lately? 17 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 2: Man? Life is good. I will tell you what though. 18 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:54,640 Speaker 2: Last weekend when the lottery was the billion whatever, I 19 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 2: thought I was gonna win it, and like so this 20 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 2: week's kind of been like a little bit. It happens 21 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 2: to me every time, Morgan, every time there's a lot 22 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 2: a big, big jackpot. 23 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 1: You seriously thought you'd win it, especially after they share 24 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:09,679 Speaker 1: the study of like you're more likely to be a president. 25 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 2: They don't think I can be. 26 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 1: I'm not saying you can't. It's just anybody the likelihood 27 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 1: of there's been how many presidents in our lifetime fifty 28 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 1: six something like that. Right, we're not even at sixty, I. 29 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:25,040 Speaker 2: Understand, But like, I feel like I can do anything. 30 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 2: Like when people say, like, oh, you know what, the 31 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:30,560 Speaker 2: odds are getting struck by lightning, like it'll probably be me. 32 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:32,920 Speaker 1: Like what I do feel that same? 33 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 2: Right, you know, it's pretty bad someone says like you 34 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:37,240 Speaker 2: can't be president. I'd be like, I bet you I could, 35 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 2: like if I really tried. And so when the lottery 36 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 2: comes up and it's like billions of dollars, I'm just like, 37 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 2: we're going to play this and it's going to be 38 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 2: awesome if we win, like oh my gosh. And then 39 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 2: we do this over and over, here comes the numbers. 40 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 2: We don't win it, and then it's back to life 41 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 2: and Monday morning you're like going back to work, which 42 00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 2: I love my job, but god, I can't wait to 43 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:00,200 Speaker 2: like just do nothing. 44 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: And I'm assuming you would be the same as Lunchbox. 45 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 1: If you want the lottery, you'd be like, OK, you guys, 46 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 1: gotta put me. You wouldn't peace out completely, but you'd 47 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 1: be like, my two weeks are in them out. 48 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:10,640 Speaker 2: I don't know, because like my wife was telling me, 49 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:12,239 Speaker 2: because we were talking about it. We went together to 50 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:13,239 Speaker 2: go buy tickets. 51 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 1: Oh it was a little date. 52 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:17,760 Speaker 2: And yes, and she had numbers picked out, like we 53 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 2: did want She had her numbers that she liked. We 54 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 2: did our kids' birthdays, and then we were behind this 55 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 2: like work truck where like their phone number was in 56 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 2: the back. It was like some like car carpenter or whatever. 57 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 2: And she was like, oh my gosh, those numbers right there. 58 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 2: Write them down. And so we broke those numbers down 59 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 2: into six number or five numbers, and so we had 60 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:38,360 Speaker 2: like the numbers that we filled down and then we 61 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 2: did like I don't know, five dollars quick pick. But 62 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 2: she we started talking about like, well, what do we do, 63 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 2: like if we do win it, like and do we 64 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 2: tell the kids? And she was very firm on no, 65 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 2: we will not tell the kids. We won't tell anyone 66 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 2: we want it. We really can't change our life. And 67 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:58,800 Speaker 2: I was like, what, Like, what's the point of winning 68 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:00,959 Speaker 2: the lottery if I'm not gonna buy my boat, Like 69 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 2: if I'm not. 70 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 1: Going to put your job and retire the whole point. 71 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 2: And she's like, we can't, Like, can you imagine they'd 72 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 2: be so bratty if they knew we were billionaires and 73 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 2: we just changed our lives. She's like, I think the 74 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 2: most we can do is probably just buy a new 75 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 2: house with some land, but we'd they'd have to stay 76 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 2: in their same school. They would have to live our 77 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:20,959 Speaker 2: life the way we normally do. And then once they 78 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 2: are out, we'll set a little fund up where they 79 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 2: get so much money when they turn a certain age, 80 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 2: and then we tell. 81 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 1: Them, did that crush all of your hopes and dreams? Right? 82 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 2: Yes? I was like, there's got to in this little 83 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 2: plan of years, there's got to be a way I 84 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 2: can get to the beach in like two hours and 85 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 2: go fishing on my boat without them knowing. 86 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 1: We have a secret private jet that nobody knows about. Right, 87 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 1: Dad just went to the beach for the day. 88 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like why does dad come home with fish every 89 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 2: time it goes to work? You know something? Because like, 90 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 2: how am I going to win the lottery and not 91 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 2: change my life? 92 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 1: Yeah? But it's also hard. I mean, if the guy 93 00:03:56,560 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 1: who did call into our show Chili was actually real Chili, 94 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 1: who knows, nobody knows. 95 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 2: Did you believe him? Though? 96 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 1: I think it would be really hard to not do 97 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 1: something when you win that kind of money. Now, granted, 98 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 1: Chili didn't sound like a guy who played the lottery, 99 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 1: so this wasn't something that he ever really planned for. 100 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:19,200 Speaker 1: And so I could see there's a situation where somebody 101 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:22,280 Speaker 1: wins and it was unexpected and yeah, they're like, oh, well, 102 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 1: I'm just going to stock away the money. I would 103 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:26,600 Speaker 1: be similar, but I would still do something right. 104 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 2: I mean, I work, no, I just I mean, what 105 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 2: would you do something like? 106 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:32,720 Speaker 1: I would do something with that money like I won, 107 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 1: Like I would want to do something right yourself, whether 108 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 1: it's like you get a new car if you needed 109 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:40,160 Speaker 1: a new car, you wanted to do like me, I've 110 00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 1: always wanted to have a farm, I'd buy the farm 111 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 1: that I've always wanted. I would want to do something correct. 112 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:46,599 Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be extravagant, but I'd want to 113 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 1: do something. And the fact that he did nothing is 114 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 1: what makes it. 115 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:51,360 Speaker 2: Chill unreal to me. Yeah. 116 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, and that goes to like do this with your 117 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 1: But if it is true he was responsible and write 118 00:04:57,160 --> 00:04:59,239 Speaker 1: much of which your wife would be also being. 119 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 2: What's funny though, It's like you guys would know, because 120 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 2: even if you don't tell anyone, the news comes out 121 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:08,280 Speaker 2: that there's a winner in Tennessee, and then all of 122 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:12,040 Speaker 2: a sudden, I'm not at work because I really would 123 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:14,600 Speaker 2: like I would just not show up, so you lunch 124 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:17,279 Speaker 2: at least for like a couple of days where I 125 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:17,840 Speaker 2: just don't know. 126 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:19,720 Speaker 1: What would you tell everybody, like I'm not sick. 127 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I feel like you guys like don't you 128 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 2: see Bobby just being like hold on, Eddie never calls 129 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 2: him sick, Like hold. 130 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 1: On, what's happening here? 131 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:34,840 Speaker 2: What could could Eddie have won the lottery? You know? 132 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:37,279 Speaker 2: Like I feel like everyone in this room would know 133 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:39,479 Speaker 2: if it was Amy, if it was Lunchbox, if it 134 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 2: was you, if it was Bobby, we would well maybe 135 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 2: not Bobby because I don't think his I don't think 136 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:45,240 Speaker 2: he would do anything different. 137 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 1: No, I think he was He's already. 138 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:50,279 Speaker 2: Coming to work voluntarily, like wanting to do this, you know. 139 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:55,840 Speaker 2: But like everyone else, I think we wouldn't know Morgan. 140 00:05:56,839 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 2: Morgan's not here the day after the lottery was picked, 141 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:02,160 Speaker 2: and it was picked here in Nashville, Like. 142 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 1: Uh uh, you know, I have always wanted to play, 143 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 1: just for the fact of you guys always talk about it. 144 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:09,159 Speaker 1: And my dad's played the lottery pretty much his whole life, 145 00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:11,719 Speaker 1: and he's played our birthdays and he's done all the things. 146 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 1: He's done so many different numbers, and he's never had 147 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:17,279 Speaker 1: a huge win or anything like that. But I think 148 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:19,520 Speaker 1: about all of you guys who always play all the time, 149 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:20,840 Speaker 1: and I'm like, dang, you know, I just want to 150 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 1: go buy the lottery one time and then like have 151 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 1: a big win so I can just come back and 152 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 1: be like, guys, I've played one time. I think I've 153 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:28,239 Speaker 1: played the lottery. 154 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 2: That's so that's so mean spirited of you. 155 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 1: But it's more fun. You same, But I don't. 156 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 2: I don't play. He plays like every every week. 157 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:39,840 Speaker 1: And there's so many people like that. I know, I 158 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:43,359 Speaker 1: know and like you. But okay, think of your lotteries 159 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:46,359 Speaker 1: and you're gambling. All of them can bined? Have you 160 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 1: ever won anything big? 161 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 2: So like, let me do the sports gambling and I'll 162 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 2: break it down for you. I get fifty dollars a 163 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 2: week for sports gambling a month, not a week a month, 164 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 2: fifty five dollars a month. So it's kind of fun. 165 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:02,880 Speaker 2: It's a project for me. 166 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 1: Was that also allocated to you from your wife? Yes, 167 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 1: it started forty the finances. 168 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 2: It started us forty like two years ago, and then 169 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 2: I was like, come on, like, let me have ten 170 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 2: more dollars. Fifty forty is a weird number, you know, 171 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 2: So like I talked her up to fifty dollars a mon, negotiated, 172 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 2: I did. I did. So I'm at fifty dollars a 173 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:23,320 Speaker 2: month now and sometimes like I will win, you know, 174 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 2: to I will take my fifty dollars balance to two 175 00:07:25,560 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 2: hundred into like three months, so I never have to 176 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 2: recharge and put fifty dollars more into it every month, 177 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 2: so I've got like two months credit. So it lets 178 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:36,400 Speaker 2: me go a little harder on the bets. But for 179 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 2: the most part, I do very low risk, high reward bets, 180 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 2: meaning I bet one dollar, one little dollar for like 181 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:50,040 Speaker 2: ten teams to win, and if those ten teams win, 182 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 2: I win like ten thousand dollars. 183 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 1: But how often. 184 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:56,480 Speaker 2: Never I've never hit the tenth thousand, but I've gotten close. 185 00:07:56,600 --> 00:08:00,239 Speaker 2: I've gotten close to hitting I think eight thousand dollar. 186 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 1: I missed it by one, Okay, so I think I 187 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 1: know what you're talking about because there is a bet 188 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 1: on draftings. I just learned that. Ess I'm very new 189 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:11,120 Speaker 1: to all of it. My boyfriend places a bet. It's 190 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:13,680 Speaker 1: a twenty dollars bet that you can make it back. 191 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 1: It's like a risk free bet. Yeah yeah, yeah, hit 192 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 1: the money back, but you decide what all you're betting on. 193 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:20,760 Speaker 2: They call it that a sweat free bet or no 194 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 2: sweat bet. 195 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. So he had like eight different things in there, 196 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 1: and he hit seven out of eight. He was hit 197 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:27,400 Speaker 1: like if he hit it, it would have been like three 198 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 1: thousand dollars seay rent. And the last one was like 199 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 1: on the last game was about to happen, and it 200 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 1: could have like the one thing that hadn't hit yet 201 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 1: could have happened. Yes, it didn't, And so I'm sitting 202 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 1: there like but really like you, but you spend He's like, well, 203 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:42,679 Speaker 1: it's no sweat, so I get the twenty dollars back. 204 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:44,640 Speaker 1: I was like, that's gambling that I feel like people 205 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 1: would enjoy. But that's how it makes it addictive. 206 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 2: I mean addictive is like I could be like when 207 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 2: I'm out of my fifty dollars, I'm never like, gosh, 208 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:55,560 Speaker 2: I wish I had fifty dollars, So like, I don't 209 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 2: do that. Okay, once the fifties over, it's over. But 210 00:08:57,960 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 2: it's so much more fun to watch a game that's 211 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 2: it's not your team, it's not the Cowboys, it's Washington 212 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:08,200 Speaker 2: versus Arizona. Would never care about that game. But the 213 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 2: fact that I have, like I could win six hundred 214 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 2: dollars off that one game makes it really exciting. 215 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:15,839 Speaker 1: Does it make it more exciting than already being a 216 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 1: sports fan? Or like different exciting? 217 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:20,800 Speaker 2: Different exciting because it's not just watching a fun game, 218 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 2: watching a cool play go down or a comeback. It's 219 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 2: like I can win money off this. It's a whole 220 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:30,199 Speaker 2: different other. It's a different ballgame. But let me tell 221 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 2: you about one time when I is. So those are 222 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:36,559 Speaker 2: called parlays. You what your boyfriend does. You pick six games, 223 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 2: you have to win all of You have to hit 224 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:42,080 Speaker 2: all of those six games. So say, like it's Cowboys 225 00:09:42,080 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 2: and Giants, you pick the Cowboys. Cowboys have to win 226 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 2: that game. Next one, if it's Arizona and Cincinnati and 227 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:51,080 Speaker 2: you pick Cincinnati, Cincinnati has to win that game. If 228 00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:53,319 Speaker 2: you hit all six of those, you get paid. If 229 00:09:53,320 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 2: you miss one of those bets over, you lose whatever 230 00:09:56,280 --> 00:09:59,000 Speaker 2: you put in. So I put one dollar right for 231 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:02,199 Speaker 2: like I think it was a eight games, one dollar, 232 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:05,560 Speaker 2: picked eight teams and it was the last team. I'd 233 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:07,480 Speaker 2: hit them all. And so what they do is they 234 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:09,400 Speaker 2: give you a cash out option, kind of like you 235 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 2: ever see Dealer No. 236 00:10:10,520 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 1: Deal Yeah, So it's like you can cash out right 237 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 1: now and get some money. 238 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 2: But if you win the six games, you get and 239 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:20,600 Speaker 2: I think mine was like eight hundred bucks, and I'd 240 00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 2: bet one dollar one dollar eight hundred is awesome. 241 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:26,120 Speaker 1: And I'm sure there's a timing threshold because they obviously 242 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 1: if you're too much into that last game, it's like, okay, 243 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 1: well you can't pull out now. 244 00:10:30,240 --> 00:10:33,400 Speaker 2: Right or or if it looks like that that you're 245 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:35,679 Speaker 2: in the last game and they're getting beat by like 246 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 2: twenty points, you can't. They don't give you that good 247 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:42,680 Speaker 2: of a of a cash out. But if you're down 248 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:45,120 Speaker 2: to that last game, sometimes if it's eight hundred dollars, 249 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 2: the cash out will be two hundred. You can cash 250 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 2: out right now for two hundred dollars, or you can 251 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:52,720 Speaker 2: keep playing and not get anything or win the eight hundred. 252 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:54,559 Speaker 1: That's what they call gamblings. Yes. 253 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 2: So then I tell my wife. I'm like, oh my gosh, 254 00:10:57,160 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 2: what do I do? Like they're offering me two hundred 255 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 2: dollars and I remember I remember this vividly. They were 256 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 2: college games and I think it was the Longhorns where 257 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:08,680 Speaker 2: that was the last team, Texas Longhorns. And I told 258 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 2: my wife, I'm like, I could win eight hundred dollars 259 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 2: or I can cash out right now and win like 260 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:16,280 Speaker 2: two fifty. And she was like, and how much did 261 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 2: you bet? I was like a dollar. She's like, why 262 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 2: would you cash out? It's a dollar? Like, it's just 263 00:11:22,200 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 2: one dollar, it is true. 264 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 1: Leave it. 265 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 2: So then the Longhorns took the lead and the cash 266 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 2: out ended up being like five hundred, almost six hundred dollars, 267 00:11:31,559 --> 00:11:33,920 Speaker 2: and my wife's like, it's just you're gonna win. Just 268 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:35,880 Speaker 2: to just leave it in there, like just win the 269 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 2: eight hundred and they end up losing the game, and 270 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 2: I was so pissed, like, ah, this could have been 271 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:46,080 Speaker 2: my biggest hit ever, you know, like six hundred dollars 272 00:11:46,080 --> 00:11:48,200 Speaker 2: and I never want it. But the most I think 273 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:51,000 Speaker 2: I've ever gotten is like two hundred, three hundred on 274 00:11:51,080 --> 00:11:52,520 Speaker 2: a dollar though, pretty awesome. 275 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, because you're doing very low risk. Would you ever 276 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:57,360 Speaker 1: do like all fifty on one thing if you're so confident. 277 00:11:57,360 --> 00:11:59,080 Speaker 2: I've done that and I've lost, And it's the worst 278 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:02,200 Speaker 2: falain ever because I'm I'm already kind of tight with 279 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:04,960 Speaker 2: money because I have four kids, And whenever I lose 280 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 2: fifty dollars on one game, I'm like what, Like why 281 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:12,520 Speaker 2: did I do that? Like that could have been pizza night. 282 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:15,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, that fifty dollars could have gone to a whole lot, 283 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 1: you know what I mean there? 284 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:19,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, the fact that, like off a dumb game, you 285 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:22,199 Speaker 2: just lost fifty dollars, Like it hurts my feelings a 286 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:24,840 Speaker 2: little bit, and I feel like a loser. Dad. But 287 00:12:24,880 --> 00:12:26,959 Speaker 2: when I lose, when I lose five dollars a night 288 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:28,960 Speaker 2: because I did five parlays, I don't that bad. 289 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 1: No, that's fair. And also I think that's a good 290 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 1: conscious to have on you, because yeah, that's how you 291 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:36,439 Speaker 1: don't get into a gambling situation where you have to 292 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 1: gamble all the time. You come back to reality and say, Okay, 293 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:41,080 Speaker 1: we're not going to do that anymore. 294 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:43,400 Speaker 2: Did you play the lottery this time around? 295 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 1: No? I didn't. I'm just not why not? 296 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:46,280 Speaker 2: Though? Like why not? 297 00:12:46,440 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 1: It's because I don't you want to talk about being 298 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:51,319 Speaker 1: tied with money. I do not like wasting my money. 299 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 2: It's two dollars for a lot. I want to I 300 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:56,040 Speaker 2: want ticket, two dollars. 301 00:12:56,120 --> 00:12:56,440 Speaker 1: Okay. 302 00:12:56,480 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 2: Still, I spent ten dollars on mine. 303 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 1: Okay, I thought it was like ten or twenty, and 304 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 1: that's why I was like, I don't really care. 305 00:13:02,960 --> 00:13:06,400 Speaker 2: Two dollars a number, okay, well, a number like one 306 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:10,880 Speaker 2: one one, like one strip of numbers, one strip of numbers, 307 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:11,400 Speaker 2: one play. 308 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 1: Well, maybe next time I will. But I've always been 309 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:15,960 Speaker 1: that person. I do not I don't like paying people 310 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 1: to do things that I can do. I don't like ohran, 311 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 1: like for mowing, or you mow your onwn yard? Yes, 312 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:24,520 Speaker 1: well now my boyfriend helps me. 313 00:13:26,760 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 2: Do you do it shirtless? 314 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:30,359 Speaker 1: Sometimes? Well it was really hot out, Yeah. 315 00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:30,959 Speaker 2: Of course he does. 316 00:13:31,760 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 1: It's nice. 317 00:13:32,800 --> 00:13:33,120 Speaker 2: Need to. 318 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 1: Work on the back porch. And he comes over and mows. 319 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:39,439 Speaker 1: I'm like, this is nice. 320 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:41,760 Speaker 2: I wonder if he likes doing that, he loves to 321 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:44,720 Speaker 2: no stop like I wonder, or if he's just mows 322 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:47,640 Speaker 2: my neighbor's yard too, because he wants are you talking 323 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:50,040 Speaker 2: about the strip that you all share or like? Yes? 324 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:52,240 Speaker 1: And so he also mows her backyard too. 325 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:55,440 Speaker 2: Wow. Is it a single lady or something? Yeah, but 326 00:13:55,559 --> 00:13:57,520 Speaker 2: he like, no, no, not like that. I meant like 327 00:13:57,520 --> 00:14:00,040 Speaker 2: a lady that just doesn't probably pay someone to do it. 328 00:14:00,320 --> 00:14:02,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, but her friend would help her sometimes and like 329 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 1: she'll go out and do it, but she just doesn't. 330 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:06,280 Speaker 1: He loves it, like he loves yard work. 331 00:14:06,360 --> 00:14:06,760 Speaker 2: Interesting. 332 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 1: He was so excited to like have a yard to 333 00:14:08,840 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 1: do something with. I was like, have at it. 334 00:14:10,559 --> 00:14:11,720 Speaker 2: Oh, because he lives in an apartment. 335 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, so he was like, yeah, I'll come over and 336 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:15,400 Speaker 1: take care of this. Just tell me when. 337 00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:17,360 Speaker 2: What are your thoughts on that strip? 338 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:18,880 Speaker 1: Like, because shared space? 339 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:22,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, because I didn't when I grew up growing up, 340 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:24,240 Speaker 2: like we didn't have I lived in a lot of 341 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:27,680 Speaker 2: like our house is like on a big lot, and 342 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:30,120 Speaker 2: so we never shared yards. When I didn't live in 343 00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:31,560 Speaker 2: a real neighborhood, it was kind of like out in 344 00:14:31,600 --> 00:14:32,480 Speaker 2: the outside of the town. 345 00:14:32,640 --> 00:14:33,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, you had land. 346 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 2: But so the first time I got i'd moved into 347 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:38,720 Speaker 2: a neighborhood and there's that strip that you share with 348 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 2: your neighbor and they would cut their grass and like 349 00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:45,920 Speaker 2: literally make this imaginary line and just cut half of 350 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 2: the strip and leave the other half for me, and 351 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:49,960 Speaker 2: I was I was like, why don't you just do 352 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 2: the whole strip, like it's it's just two more passes. Well, 353 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 2: but people are so particular about that. 354 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:58,280 Speaker 1: I was going to say, this depends on the other 355 00:14:58,320 --> 00:15:01,320 Speaker 1: person for a lot of ways. Because one, people don't 356 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:04,960 Speaker 1: like you touching their yard. Like some people are very particular. 357 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:07,640 Speaker 1: So like my neighbor when she most she'll never touch mine, 358 00:15:07,680 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 1: She's like, I know Morgan likes her grass a certain way, 359 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:12,600 Speaker 1: so like I'm not gonna I'm not a good mower, 360 00:15:12,720 --> 00:15:14,440 Speaker 1: so like I'm not gonna butcher her yet. 361 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:15,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. 362 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:17,800 Speaker 1: So, but like vice versa, sometimes if I knew stuff 363 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:19,880 Speaker 1: was going on with her, I'd mow our shared strip 364 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 1: together and then she'd take care of the rest. And 365 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:24,960 Speaker 1: like my dad, whenever he'd visit in town, he'd mow 366 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 1: all of it. And he's like, well, why don't you 367 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 1: just take care of it? I was like, this is 368 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:29,760 Speaker 1: a lot of work for me. Like I have little 369 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:33,640 Speaker 1: arms and little legs. You are a dad, Okay, I 370 00:15:33,680 --> 00:15:35,560 Speaker 1: am like a baby t rex trying to use this 371 00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:37,600 Speaker 1: like weed eater, and like my arms feel like yellow 372 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 1: after an hour. Very different experiences. He's like, Okay, I 373 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:42,960 Speaker 1: get that. So like for me, most of the time, 374 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 1: I wouldn't just because I knew she would take care 375 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 1: of it unless she like needed me to. But I 376 00:15:48,320 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 1: always knew most people wouldn't because like people are particular 377 00:15:51,400 --> 00:15:54,040 Speaker 1: about their yards. I get that, and so like unless 378 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:56,680 Speaker 1: you have an agreed upon arrangement or like you know 379 00:15:56,760 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 1: your neighbor's super well, I don't think you've crossed that bound. 380 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:04,040 Speaker 1: I think people really are like stingy about their yards. 381 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 2: I always thought it was just like what just just 382 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:09,600 Speaker 2: do the whole thing, But I get that, like is 383 00:16:09,640 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 2: your yard, Like, what's so particular about your yard? 384 00:16:12,640 --> 00:16:14,480 Speaker 1: Like I used to be, because I'd be really good 385 00:16:14,520 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 1: about lane seed and I'd have good crass And now 386 00:16:17,040 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 1: I've I've honestly given up trying to maintain it because 387 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:21,560 Speaker 1: it's so much work, especially in Tennessee. 388 00:16:21,680 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 2: It is hard. 389 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:25,960 Speaker 1: But I used to have like this really nice, lush yard, 390 00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:28,600 Speaker 1: and so she would always see me and I'd have like, my, 391 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 1: I'm just very particular person in general, like I have 392 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:35,240 Speaker 1: very like I'm very ocd in ways, and like, so 393 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:38,960 Speaker 1: certain maneuvers and aesthetics look better to me, and so 394 00:16:39,040 --> 00:16:40,640 Speaker 1: I would just do it that way, and she's like, 395 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 1: I don't even know what I'm doing, so I'm not 396 00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:44,040 Speaker 1: gonna do y. 397 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:46,520 Speaker 2: Do you ever see those yards they have like checkered 398 00:16:46,560 --> 00:16:49,360 Speaker 2: like they look like baseball fields, yes, or like fairways 399 00:16:49,360 --> 00:16:50,240 Speaker 2: and golf courses. 400 00:16:50,440 --> 00:16:52,240 Speaker 1: Yes, how they do that. That's my brother in law 401 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:55,400 Speaker 1: and my dad. They do that, not kidding. Like when 402 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:57,720 Speaker 1: my my sister first got married, he would they would 403 00:16:57,800 --> 00:17:00,680 Speaker 1: send their grass pictures back to each other in the 404 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:01,240 Speaker 1: group chat. 405 00:17:01,440 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 2: That's hilarious. 406 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:04,199 Speaker 1: And it's in mind because mine's not big enough to 407 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:06,120 Speaker 1: have me that I just have like straight lines. I'm like, well, 408 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 1: my look's pretty too. Yeah, but yeah, people can do that. 409 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:11,639 Speaker 1: You don't do like the line when your kids do it. 410 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:13,280 Speaker 2: I don't know how to. Well, now my kids do it, 411 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 2: But before I made my kids do it. 412 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:20,159 Speaker 1: Wait pause, pause, we need a break really quick and 413 00:17:20,200 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 1: I want to keep talking about this. Pause Okay, please continue. 414 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 2: So before my kids were doing that we're cutting the grass, 415 00:17:30,359 --> 00:17:34,200 Speaker 2: I was doing it. And then I was doing better 416 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:38,560 Speaker 2: help with this with the therapist. Yeah, and I remember 417 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:42,720 Speaker 2: me talking about how I get stressed out about money 418 00:17:43,280 --> 00:17:47,680 Speaker 2: and my wife clicking Amazon and like all that, and 419 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:49,280 Speaker 2: he started talking to me about money. He's like, well, 420 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:52,120 Speaker 2: what's money to you? Like what do you buy for yourself? 421 00:17:52,119 --> 00:17:53,879 Speaker 2: And I'm like nothing, like I don't do anything. I 422 00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:56,080 Speaker 2: played golf, but like I probably play golf like once 423 00:17:56,160 --> 00:18:00,239 Speaker 2: or twice a month, and I walk, you know, and 424 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 2: that's not a money thing, but I just like to 425 00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 2: go walk the golf course. So usually around of golf 426 00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:07,439 Speaker 2: for me is like twenty five dollars thirty dollars versus 427 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:08,479 Speaker 2: like could be one hundred. 428 00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:08,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. 429 00:18:08,920 --> 00:18:10,919 Speaker 2: So I'm like, really, I don't spend that much on me, 430 00:18:11,040 --> 00:18:13,800 Speaker 2: but it bothers me when other members of my family 431 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:15,880 Speaker 2: spend so much on them and I don't spend much 432 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:18,480 Speaker 2: on me. And he was like, look, man, you have 433 00:18:18,560 --> 00:18:21,639 Speaker 2: to invest in yourself, Like what is something that you 434 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:25,160 Speaker 2: just are tired of doing. I'm like cutting the grass, 435 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:30,160 Speaker 2: Like invest in yourself. Take the thirty dollars and hire 436 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:32,919 Speaker 2: someone to cut your grass. That way you cannot do 437 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:36,080 Speaker 2: it and it makes you feel better about like feel 438 00:18:36,080 --> 00:18:39,400 Speaker 2: accomplished or whatever or I don't have to do that anymore. 439 00:18:39,560 --> 00:18:41,120 Speaker 2: And so I did it, and I'm like he's right, 440 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:43,680 Speaker 2: like I feel great that I don't have to cut 441 00:18:43,680 --> 00:18:47,479 Speaker 2: my grass anymore. And so I love that, Like I 442 00:18:47,520 --> 00:18:51,919 Speaker 2: love that feeling. Now obviously like we I don't have 443 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 2: anyone that comes and cuts my grass because now I 444 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:55,320 Speaker 2: have four boys that are older and they all cut 445 00:18:55,320 --> 00:18:55,680 Speaker 2: the grass. 446 00:18:55,760 --> 00:18:56,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's one of the chortes. 447 00:18:56,840 --> 00:18:59,480 Speaker 2: They don't do it great, which is like kind of 448 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:01,520 Speaker 2: makes me a lot upset, Like guys come on like 449 00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:04,359 Speaker 2: take a little pride and like making our yard look good. 450 00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:06,200 Speaker 2: But we're working on it. 451 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 1: Was that an interesting dilemma though, because before that, probably 452 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:11,760 Speaker 1: the oldest is the only one that would have any 453 00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:14,520 Speaker 1: recollection of like you hiring somebody to do it. Do 454 00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:18,119 Speaker 1: you feel like there's that disconnect between them not taking 455 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:20,320 Speaker 1: pride in it because they never really saw you do it. 456 00:19:21,680 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 2: I mean they saw me do it, Okay, they saw me. 457 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:26,640 Speaker 2: I think it was only like a two year, two 458 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 2: year time period where somebody a company came and did it. 459 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:32,200 Speaker 1: Which also I approve of you doing that. I think 460 00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:34,399 Speaker 1: you should do whatever is going to make your life easier. 461 00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:37,359 Speaker 2: I told my wife too, him, like hire someone to 462 00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:40,000 Speaker 2: clean the house once every two weeks or something, you know, 463 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:41,280 Speaker 2: so we don't have to do it all the time. 464 00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:42,560 Speaker 2: Where you don't have to do it all the time, 465 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:44,480 Speaker 2: and it makes you feel better, and it really does, 466 00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 2: like it really does make you feel like, Wow, I 467 00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:48,679 Speaker 2: didn't have to clean the house this week. Yeah, like 468 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:52,440 Speaker 2: that's awesome and so but and then we talk about 469 00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:55,679 Speaker 2: the boys and it's like we have My big thing 470 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:58,560 Speaker 2: about the boys is like we have all these boys 471 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:03,840 Speaker 2: that are able and strong and can do stuff like 472 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:09,720 Speaker 2: cut the grass, wash the dishes, sweep the floors, everything. 473 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:12,800 Speaker 2: But my wife's just like, yeah, but they suck at it. 474 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:15,359 Speaker 2: And it's like we have to end up doing it 475 00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:17,760 Speaker 2: anyway because they're so bad at it. And I'm like, no, 476 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:20,359 Speaker 2: let's take the time in trying to teach them to 477 00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:23,600 Speaker 2: do it better. But it's so hard because like as 478 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:25,399 Speaker 2: a parent, and I know there's probably parents listening to 479 00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:26,880 Speaker 2: being like it's just easier for us to do it. 480 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:29,480 Speaker 1: I think that's how most people feel with a lot 481 00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:32,199 Speaker 1: of things. Sometimes, like teaching somebody a new skill, you're like, 482 00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:34,600 Speaker 1: I would just rather take care of this myself. Yes, 483 00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:38,040 Speaker 1: there is that in most things in life, Like I'll. 484 00:20:37,840 --> 00:20:41,600 Speaker 2: Grab a spoon and be like this is gross, Like 485 00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:45,040 Speaker 2: like this this wasn't even washed, you know, and like 486 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:47,160 Speaker 2: here we go, I gotta wash it myself. 487 00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:49,560 Speaker 1: Now, and it creates more work for you, like it does, but. 488 00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 2: Again, we're teaching them to be responsible boys and able 489 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:55,439 Speaker 2: to do that. What's funny too, is like we've been 490 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:58,439 Speaker 2: playing I've been teaching them poker, okay, just kind of 491 00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:01,280 Speaker 2: not like I feel like they should know poker. One 492 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:03,600 Speaker 2: of them came, like one of them had to sleepover 493 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 2: or whatever, and they were like they were hanging out 494 00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:07,359 Speaker 2: with their friends and like, yeah, they had a poker night. 495 00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:09,959 Speaker 2: It was really cool. We played poker and I was like, oh, 496 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:11,639 Speaker 2: we can play poker here, and they're like, well you 497 00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:14,000 Speaker 2: teach us. I'm like, yeah, so I taught them how 498 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,080 Speaker 2: to play poker, but none of them knew how to shuffle. 499 00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:19,560 Speaker 1: Oh, shuffling is a is a big learn skill as a. 500 00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:21,879 Speaker 2: Kid, yep. And that's when my wife said, like, we 501 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 2: need to teach these boys how to shuffle. They can't 502 00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:26,800 Speaker 2: be like growing up and like get invited to poker 503 00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:28,840 Speaker 2: night and like all right, it's your turn of shuffle. 504 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:30,440 Speaker 2: They're like, we never learned how to shuffle. 505 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:34,760 Speaker 1: I wonder what other things are like that that are 506 00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:38,000 Speaker 1: learned skills that like we automatically just kind of picked 507 00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:40,919 Speaker 1: up because it was the thing. Yeah, like Shuffling is 508 00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:44,240 Speaker 1: something I never realized that other people didn't know. Right, 509 00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:46,560 Speaker 1: whenever I do it, somebody's like, oh, I never learned 510 00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:49,320 Speaker 1: how to shuffle. I'm always like what and I can 511 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:53,200 Speaker 1: do the bridge. I got the whole thing out wondering 512 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:53,960 Speaker 1: what else there is. 513 00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:56,480 Speaker 2: Let me think shuffling was the was the one that 514 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:59,040 Speaker 2: for sure came up recently, where like we have to 515 00:21:59,040 --> 00:21:59,920 Speaker 2: teach our kids how to show. 516 00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:03,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, and maybe it is stuff like mowing the yard 517 00:22:03,320 --> 00:22:05,600 Speaker 1: because I never mowed the yard as a kid. My 518 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:06,440 Speaker 1: dad always mowed. 519 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:08,840 Speaker 2: Because we're about cooking, cooking is a good one. Oh yeah, 520 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:12,359 Speaker 2: because it's a good one. I mean, so many friends 521 00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:14,679 Speaker 2: of mine in college like did not to cook. I 522 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:18,240 Speaker 2: did because I've always loved cooking, watching my mom cook, 523 00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:21,399 Speaker 2: learning from my dad how to grill, and like, but 524 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:23,879 Speaker 2: people don't grow up knowing how to cook. So like 525 00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:27,240 Speaker 2: they're like ramen and then it goes in a microwave, 526 00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:29,399 Speaker 2: like that's what we're having for dinner. And so like 527 00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:32,840 Speaker 2: that's one where I'm teaching my boys, like hey, uh huh, 528 00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:35,800 Speaker 2: stay in the kitchen, learn how to cook this because 529 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:38,240 Speaker 2: I want you to learn. And my wife always says, 530 00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:41,080 Speaker 2: like your wives are gonna love love If you know 531 00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:42,439 Speaker 2: how to cook, they're gonna love it. 532 00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:44,320 Speaker 1: Well, they're also just gonna be able to find for 533 00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:47,760 Speaker 1: themselves a significant amount of their life. Like, yeah, I 534 00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:49,480 Speaker 1: was that way. I knew how to bake. I was 535 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:52,360 Speaker 1: really good at baking because we would always do cookies 536 00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:55,199 Speaker 1: and all kinds of like desserts all the time. But 537 00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:57,679 Speaker 1: cooking I didn't. I was also a vegetarian, so like 538 00:22:57,720 --> 00:22:59,960 Speaker 1: I would make mac and cheese, I knew how to make. 539 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,760 Speaker 2: That's easy, yeah, like or trees. 540 00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:05,639 Speaker 1: Or cheese kseydiya. It wasn't really hard for me. I 541 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:09,679 Speaker 1: didn't really learn to cook until really during COVID. Really 542 00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:12,000 Speaker 1: I picked up on how to make recipes. I started 543 00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:13,080 Speaker 1: getting recipes from home. 544 00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:14,960 Speaker 2: Do you see stuff? Oh do you ask your mom 545 00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:15,439 Speaker 2: for stuff? 546 00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:15,800 Speaker 1: Yeah? 547 00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:17,680 Speaker 2: Recipes? Did you ever see stuff online? 548 00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:19,760 Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, I mean I did, like a little when 549 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 1: I was doing Food World a long time ago. I 550 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 1: was doing like a series where all the restaurants were 551 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:28,120 Speaker 1: putting out like their best dishes, like the recipes to them, 552 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:31,119 Speaker 1: and so I would make them at home to be like, Okay, 553 00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:33,240 Speaker 1: does it actually taste like the restaurant kind of thing? 554 00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:36,160 Speaker 2: That's so hard, right, like because you you do exactly 555 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:38,200 Speaker 2: what they say and then you're like, this tastes nothing 556 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:39,040 Speaker 2: like the restaurants. 557 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:41,399 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, so much so, and like now I 558 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:44,720 Speaker 1: feel like I'm actually really really good at cooking. Yeah, 559 00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:47,119 Speaker 1: but it's only because of COVID. I don't know that 560 00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:50,400 Speaker 1: I would have ever had that without it. I can, 561 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:52,920 Speaker 1: I can follow instructions super well, but there's an art 562 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:55,040 Speaker 1: to cooking and understanding, like you kind of have to 563 00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 1: go off script a little bit. 564 00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:57,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, and so. 565 00:23:57,119 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 1: I've learned a lot of that. 566 00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:01,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, and everyone's taste buds are different. Like a recipe 567 00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:04,399 Speaker 2: like I know, like my this is my mother in law, somebody, 568 00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:06,119 Speaker 2: somebody in my family. I don't remember who, but like 569 00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:09,240 Speaker 2: they were they were doing a dinner for like the 570 00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:11,800 Speaker 2: whole family, and they were reading the recipe and they're like, 571 00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:13,840 Speaker 2: oh my gosh, it calls for a regano, Like we 572 00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:16,200 Speaker 2: don't have a regane. I'm like, relax, Like you don't 573 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:18,320 Speaker 2: need a regano, Like it's not gonna make or break 574 00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:20,600 Speaker 2: the dish or like, oh my gosh, we ran out 575 00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 2: of sugar, and like, well, use whatever you have and 576 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:25,960 Speaker 2: then it'll be fine. No, one's gonna notice, like, hold on, 577 00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:29,639 Speaker 2: we're missing a regano and this dish, you know. Like, 578 00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,639 Speaker 2: but some people that don't know how to cook or 579 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 2: have never cooked really stress out over. 580 00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:38,240 Speaker 1: Recipes very much so. And because you start to learn, 581 00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:40,640 Speaker 1: also what can substitute, you can learn, what you can 582 00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:43,000 Speaker 1: switch out for things. Maybe there's a dish that you love, 583 00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,640 Speaker 1: but there's a certain ingredient you don't like. There's just 584 00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:48,520 Speaker 1: like so much you learn. It's cool in it it is. 585 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:51,360 Speaker 1: I love cooking. I did too, but I don't. I 586 00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 1: love cooking when I get to do it for fun 587 00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:56,760 Speaker 1: and for like other people, or if like I'm sharing 588 00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:59,119 Speaker 1: a meal with somebody, but like cooking for me every day, 589 00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:01,040 Speaker 1: which I'm happy to to do for like my whole 590 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:04,240 Speaker 1: detok thing honestly kind of miserable, mostly just because I'm 591 00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:06,720 Speaker 1: having to cook a whole lot. Yeah, And the dishwasher 592 00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:08,560 Speaker 1: gets run like once a day. It used to get 593 00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:09,960 Speaker 1: run like maybe once a week. 594 00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:12,960 Speaker 2: Really, yeah, twice a day. Really have to run it 595 00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,600 Speaker 2: twice a day, and then we do overnight and then 596 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:16,800 Speaker 2: somewhere in the middle of the day. 597 00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,600 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Yeah, stresses me out. One a day 598 00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:21,960 Speaker 1: is stressing me out, Well, what are you making? 599 00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:24,639 Speaker 2: That's like stressing you out? Like what you your meal prepping? 600 00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:28,959 Speaker 1: Well, so I eat so much more food now. Before 601 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:31,560 Speaker 1: I was such a snacker and I've learned that that's 602 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:32,000 Speaker 1: really bad. 603 00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 2: But now your focus on meals. 604 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:35,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, and so like I have to eat scrambled eggs 605 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:37,359 Speaker 1: and fruit every morning, and I have to do smoothies 606 00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:37,840 Speaker 1: for lunch. 607 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:39,880 Speaker 2: You make the scramble eggs before you come in to work. Yeah, 608 00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:40,560 Speaker 2: well that's tough. 609 00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:42,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, and that would be some nice we're all prepping, 610 00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:43,919 Speaker 1: but it just doesn't taste quite as good. 611 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:45,800 Speaker 2: Doesn't eggs? Eggs have to be fresh. 612 00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:49,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I making moiled hard boiled, yes, And like 613 00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,439 Speaker 1: sometimes I can do like a leftover and add eggs, 614 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:54,280 Speaker 1: but it's just easier to do that. I've really simplified it. 615 00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:56,080 Speaker 1: And then dinner, I always have to cook a meal. 616 00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:59,080 Speaker 1: Sometimes at dinner will last a few days, but like 617 00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:01,600 Speaker 1: it's still I'm still having to make all this food 618 00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:04,920 Speaker 1: all the time, and that's what's like adding and I'm 619 00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:07,040 Speaker 1: not eating out near as much. So if I'm like, 620 00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:09,840 Speaker 1: there'll be times where I've been out socializing and I'm 621 00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:13,040 Speaker 1: like I have to go there. Case in point, I 622 00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:14,959 Speaker 1: had a birthday party I had to go to, okay, 623 00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:17,840 Speaker 1: and I was starving, but like the timing wasn't working out. 624 00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:19,720 Speaker 1: We'd been gone all day. We'd been hanging out with 625 00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:22,119 Speaker 1: different friends and like we were bopping to the different 626 00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:24,439 Speaker 1: places we had to go. By the end of the night, 627 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:26,359 Speaker 1: we ended this birthday party and I still had to eating. 628 00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:28,080 Speaker 1: There were snacks and there was things to eat at 629 00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,119 Speaker 1: this party, but I couldn't eat it yeause of what 630 00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:32,919 Speaker 1: I'm doing. And I'm like, Okay, well I have to 631 00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,960 Speaker 1: go home and cook dinner. Like I can't just like 632 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:38,560 Speaker 1: order something from Uber Eats. I can't eat what's here. 633 00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:42,119 Speaker 1: So we get home at eleven o'clock. I'm making chili 634 00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:44,480 Speaker 1: until twelve thirty. Then I finally get to eat my dinner. 635 00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:45,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's tough. 636 00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:48,360 Speaker 1: So, like that's part's hard, especially if I'm not planning ahead. 637 00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:50,160 Speaker 1: So it's just it's a lifestyle. 638 00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:51,720 Speaker 2: What do you eat? What are you doing? Or have 639 00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:53,119 Speaker 2: you talked about that? Like what are you doing with 640 00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:53,480 Speaker 2: your diet? 641 00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:56,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's like it's full full detox of 642 00:26:56,720 --> 00:27:00,320 Speaker 1: just like whole foods. I'm basically vegan right now, all 643 00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:03,840 Speaker 1: gluten freeze, so same stuff that I've done, but also 644 00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:06,760 Speaker 1: now doing infrared saunas and walking a lot more each 645 00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:10,320 Speaker 1: day and red light therapy and lymphatic drainage. There's just 646 00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:13,400 Speaker 1: so much more going into it than I've ever done. 647 00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:17,320 Speaker 2: The emphatic drainage, what is that? That sounds serious? Yeah, 648 00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:19,960 Speaker 2: what are you draining? You're draining your lymph. 649 00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:23,119 Speaker 1: Nodes kind of because we take in like toxins every day, 650 00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:26,280 Speaker 1: heavy metals and all kinds of stuff, and the drainage 651 00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:27,000 Speaker 1: is supposed. 652 00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:28,679 Speaker 2: To what do you mean heavy metals? What are you taking? Like, 653 00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:29,160 Speaker 2: what do you mean? 654 00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:32,000 Speaker 1: It's just in the atmosphere if you're drinking out of 655 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:35,640 Speaker 1: certain things or having food, this is metal. I don't 656 00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:38,080 Speaker 1: know the exact science behind it, so don't quote me 657 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:41,200 Speaker 1: on that, but yes, there's like heavy metals and certain things, 658 00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:44,040 Speaker 1: just like we hear all the studies. Yeah, so you're 659 00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:47,439 Speaker 1: just it's a constant flow. But like again, once I 660 00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:49,240 Speaker 1: get to a point, I'll be able to balance and 661 00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:52,320 Speaker 1: like have food at different places and not be completely 662 00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,680 Speaker 1: vegan and all this other stuff. But it's just a 663 00:27:56,160 --> 00:27:56,760 Speaker 1: change right now. 664 00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it's hard. It's hard to like cook that 665 00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:04,399 Speaker 2: much and then go places and expect them to have 666 00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:06,760 Speaker 2: something you can eat. Like, that's so hard. Oh, even 667 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:08,760 Speaker 2: just restaurants that you would think like, oh, they've got 668 00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:11,639 Speaker 2: to have something. No, some restaurants don't have anything that 669 00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:13,679 Speaker 2: are good for you if you're trying to. 670 00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:15,880 Speaker 1: Do that, yeah, exactly. So I've had to avoid a lot. 671 00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:18,200 Speaker 1: I've had to stop socializing as much. 672 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:19,480 Speaker 2: I'm sorry it's hard for you. 673 00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:22,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's hard for both of us. Like you are 674 00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:25,000 Speaker 1: most very social creatures. So I've had to very much 675 00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:28,320 Speaker 1: be like we just need to stay home and hang out, Rimmy, Hazel. 676 00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:30,879 Speaker 1: We're all going to get better, okay, Like if we 677 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:32,840 Speaker 1: get healthy, we're just gonna hang out. That's why I 678 00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:34,720 Speaker 1: like redid my whole deck and everything, because I'm like, 679 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:36,040 Speaker 1: I need to spend more time at home for a 680 00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:36,439 Speaker 1: little bit. 681 00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:38,400 Speaker 2: Is it? Is it finally where you want it? 682 00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,160 Speaker 1: Yes? I need I need my boyfriend to come over 683 00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,040 Speaker 1: and install the projection screens. 684 00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:45,360 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah. 685 00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:45,760 Speaker 1: That's the last piece. 686 00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:47,080 Speaker 2: That's really cool. 687 00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:49,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm excited. So the couch is all in and 688 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:51,320 Speaker 1: it's all screened in and stuff. 689 00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:54,160 Speaker 2: But yeah, man, home is like where we I mean 690 00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:58,440 Speaker 2: for us, we spend eighty percent, well maybe less because 691 00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:01,040 Speaker 2: of all the sports stuff, but like we spent most 692 00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:03,280 Speaker 2: of our time at home, you know, like you want 693 00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:03,640 Speaker 2: it to be. 694 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:07,400 Speaker 1: Have you created a space at your house that's like 695 00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:11,440 Speaker 1: your area, dad's area. You don't have a man cave 696 00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:12,360 Speaker 1: or no. 697 00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:14,840 Speaker 2: The kids kind of just take over the house. Like 698 00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:19,040 Speaker 2: I have my office, but like one of my boys, 699 00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:21,640 Speaker 2: that's where kind of he like does all his work. 700 00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:25,000 Speaker 2: So he's in there all the time. Yeah. School, Yeah, 701 00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:27,560 Speaker 2: he homeschools now, so like so he's in there all 702 00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:31,400 Speaker 2: day and then he writes scripts. He tries to he 703 00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:33,760 Speaker 2: writes movie scripts, so he works there like at night, 704 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:36,600 Speaker 2: you know. So like I'll walk in there and be like, oh, 705 00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:37,360 Speaker 2: I guess he's in there. 706 00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:39,280 Speaker 1: Okay, cool, You're like I'm going to wear a cat. 707 00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:40,760 Speaker 2: But it's got all my stuff in there, you know, 708 00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:44,080 Speaker 2: like pictures on the on the wall, trophies, all our 709 00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:47,600 Speaker 2: awards stuff and like whatever. It's definitely my my spot. 710 00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:48,720 Speaker 2: But he's in there all the time. 711 00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:49,600 Speaker 1: He's taking it over. 712 00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:52,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. 713 00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:56,040 Speaker 1: Oh man, Well, I also that's new homeschool. How's it going? 714 00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:59,400 Speaker 2: Good? Homeschool is awesome like for for him. 715 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:01,240 Speaker 1: Because before and I didn't I don't. 716 00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:05,280 Speaker 2: Know, maybe not maybe not. It was. I think for him, 717 00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:09,360 Speaker 2: like school was hard because there's just a lot of distractions. 718 00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:14,320 Speaker 2: There's you know, there's the social aspect of school is stressful. 719 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:17,560 Speaker 2: It was stressful for him, and like he wasn't doing 720 00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:21,719 Speaker 2: well in class, Like the academic part was suffering because 721 00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:25,000 Speaker 2: he was trying to figure out where he'd fit in 722 00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:27,080 Speaker 2: or like, you know, try to make people laugh so 723 00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:29,440 Speaker 2: people think he's funny, And I get that That's how 724 00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:30,960 Speaker 2: I was. You know in high. 725 00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:32,280 Speaker 1: School you had social anxiety. 726 00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:37,680 Speaker 2: No, I was just more I prioritized making friends and 727 00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:40,760 Speaker 2: having fun more than doing the school part. 728 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:42,800 Speaker 1: So is that what more what he was trying to do? 729 00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:46,120 Speaker 2: Kind of yeah, like he's he's a little more socially awkward, 730 00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:50,040 Speaker 2: So I think for him it was more of like 731 00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:55,440 Speaker 2: just kind of that consumed his his mind so much 732 00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:58,600 Speaker 2: that like he wouldn't listen to any lecture and so 733 00:30:58,640 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 2: then when it was time to do his homework, he 734 00:30:59,960 --> 00:31:02,960 Speaker 2: was just like, uh, what, I don't remember us talking 735 00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:05,120 Speaker 2: about that. Well, yeah, because you were so busy like 736 00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:07,360 Speaker 2: trying to make people laugh or whatever. 737 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:09,960 Speaker 1: But are being a teenager is hard when you're trying 738 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:12,360 Speaker 1: to fit in and understand it is hard make friends 739 00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:13,440 Speaker 1: and do the whole. 740 00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:16,160 Speaker 2: Thing very challenging for him, and so when we decided 741 00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:19,680 Speaker 2: to try the homeschooling thing, it was like, wow, well, 742 00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:22,000 Speaker 2: first off, who's going to do it? Like is my 743 00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:25,000 Speaker 2: wife going to do it? Like, I'm not gonna, you know, 744 00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:27,520 Speaker 2: be the what do they call it, I don't know 745 00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:30,440 Speaker 2: what it's called. Whoever like conducts the homeschooling you know, 746 00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:33,200 Speaker 2: Like sure, yeah, but it's like usually a parent who 747 00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:36,680 Speaker 2: has to organize everything. Okay, But we found one that 748 00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:39,160 Speaker 2: we can do online that was done through a university, 749 00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:42,920 Speaker 2: and the university handles all that the university does, the curriculum, 750 00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:48,560 Speaker 2: the university does tutoring, it does you can do zoom 751 00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:50,920 Speaker 2: calls with a professor if you have any questions, but 752 00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:54,000 Speaker 2: you just watch a video and then you do homework 753 00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:56,800 Speaker 2: or you do lessons and you take tests. And like 754 00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:59,720 Speaker 2: he's got all a's and b's. That's awesome, Like for 755 00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:02,000 Speaker 2: the first time in his life, he just like dominates 756 00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:06,080 Speaker 2: school now and he's done by like noon, and he 757 00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:08,640 Speaker 2: goes to the gym from like one to two, and 758 00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:10,440 Speaker 2: then he's got a job that he does at three 759 00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:12,280 Speaker 2: and he's home at like six. 760 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:15,000 Speaker 1: He's getting more prepared for the workforce than half of 761 00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:16,080 Speaker 1: us were by the time we went. 762 00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:19,200 Speaker 2: To totally totally and like I would have never thought that, 763 00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:22,560 Speaker 2: like that the homeschool would have been the answer. You know. 764 00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,080 Speaker 2: Now the social part, he has to do a little 765 00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:27,560 Speaker 2: more effort. Yeah, he has to make, you know, because 766 00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:31,720 Speaker 2: it's all you know how it is like in high school, 767 00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:36,280 Speaker 2: like if you're not around friends, don't think about you, 768 00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:39,440 Speaker 2: Like it's kind of just like where's Eddie? Like, and 769 00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:41,240 Speaker 2: then they try to invite you a couple of places 770 00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:43,320 Speaker 2: and then they don't see you every day, so then 771 00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:46,479 Speaker 2: they forget about Eddie, you know. So like he's got 772 00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:47,840 Speaker 2: to kind of make the effort now and be like 773 00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,240 Speaker 2: what are you guys doing this weekend because the calls 774 00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:51,640 Speaker 2: aren't coming in and being like hey, you want to 775 00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:53,760 Speaker 2: come with us? Because he doesn't go to school with 776 00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:56,400 Speaker 2: them anymore, so that's a little more challenging. And then 777 00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:58,800 Speaker 2: we have to remind him like, hey, have you talked 778 00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:01,000 Speaker 2: to your friends this week? And he's like, no, I haven't. 779 00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:03,080 Speaker 2: I'm like, see what they're doing Friday? 780 00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:05,520 Speaker 1: All right, I have a follow up question. We need 781 00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:11,640 Speaker 1: a quick break, but I have more questions. Okay, So 782 00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:14,640 Speaker 1: it kind of feels honestly like he's having to date 783 00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:16,880 Speaker 1: in a way, like he has to really force energy 784 00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:20,840 Speaker 1: to put his focus on having his friendships and maintaining 785 00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:23,520 Speaker 1: his path. Yeah. Yeah, because so much of the benefit 786 00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:26,480 Speaker 1: of school is that you're around your friends all the 787 00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:30,040 Speaker 1: time all the time, so friendship they can come easy, 788 00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:33,360 Speaker 1: depending on scenarios and so like, the hope is that 789 00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:36,000 Speaker 1: you just make friends naturally and it's it's not something 790 00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:38,000 Speaker 1: that you really have to think about, whereas his is 791 00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:39,080 Speaker 1: really more reverse. 792 00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:43,120 Speaker 2: Yes, but it's weird too because I'm like, and I 793 00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:45,120 Speaker 2: have to be careful how I talk to him about it, 794 00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:47,320 Speaker 2: because I do want to want to let him know, like, dude, 795 00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:51,280 Speaker 2: high school, like sometimes those friends, like you all go 796 00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,640 Speaker 2: to colleges and then you kind of lose those friendships 797 00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:57,200 Speaker 2: colleges where you make those lifelong friends. That's the way 798 00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:59,360 Speaker 2: it was for me. I still know some you know, 799 00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:01,880 Speaker 2: some friends of mine that they're still close to all 800 00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:04,920 Speaker 2: the high school guys. So it's not the same for everyone. 801 00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:09,160 Speaker 2: But since it's so challenging for him, I kind of 802 00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:12,760 Speaker 2: want to encourage him by being like, don't sweat it, sure, 803 00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:17,160 Speaker 2: get your social your need out of it, and call 804 00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:18,960 Speaker 2: him up and go out do whatever you need to, 805 00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:22,279 Speaker 2: but don't put too much pressure on yourself to like 806 00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:25,000 Speaker 2: try to be accepted or find your friend group in 807 00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:29,560 Speaker 2: high school because sometimes like those don't last. In college 808 00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:32,040 Speaker 2: is where I made all my lifelong friends. 809 00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:34,680 Speaker 1: Now, do you think he will go to college? A 810 00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:37,719 Speaker 1: traditional college because of I mean, you want to talk 811 00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:39,280 Speaker 1: about a distraction from studies. 812 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:41,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's every big time I know. 813 00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:44,200 Speaker 1: So do you think that's going to be the route 814 00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:44,800 Speaker 1: that he goes? 815 00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:47,839 Speaker 2: I think that's the route he wants to go. You're 816 00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:50,239 Speaker 2: you worried about that a little bit a little bit, 817 00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:53,359 Speaker 2: and I kind of tell him to, like that's why 818 00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:57,360 Speaker 2: homeschool there. He's got to be up at a certain time. 819 00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:01,960 Speaker 2: He's got to be he's got to be like sho 820 00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:04,279 Speaker 2: He's got a shower like he's going to school. He's 821 00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:06,040 Speaker 2: got to dress like he's going to school every day 822 00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:08,440 Speaker 2: even though he's just going downstairs. He's got to go 823 00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:10,520 Speaker 2: work out like he does, you know, like he would 824 00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:13,560 Speaker 2: at school. He's got it's all those things that we're 825 00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:15,239 Speaker 2: trying to be, Like, you've got to go hang out 826 00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:18,200 Speaker 2: with your friends, like have that social time, because like 827 00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:21,839 Speaker 2: if he doesn't, if he doesn't have that consistency or 828 00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:25,440 Speaker 2: that like pattern. Yeah, I think he will kind of 829 00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:28,520 Speaker 2: go haywire in college and be like woo, do whatever 830 00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:31,640 Speaker 2: I want. But the way his personality is, he is 831 00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:36,359 Speaker 2: just very like like I wake up and I do 832 00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:38,799 Speaker 2: things this way every day. Like even if he doesn't 833 00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:40,640 Speaker 2: want coffee, he still makes his coffee in the morning, 834 00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:42,600 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Like he's a very routine guy. 835 00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:45,480 Speaker 1: Well, and routine is really good for people in general too, 836 00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:49,000 Speaker 1: if they can understand what works best for them. Routine 837 00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:54,040 Speaker 1: can really help people just have consistency and that allows people, 838 00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:56,000 Speaker 1: especially if you have a situation like this where your 839 00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:58,239 Speaker 1: brain can kind of go in all different places. It 840 00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:00,799 Speaker 1: allows him to have some normalcy. But I also want 841 00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:02,800 Speaker 1: to hear about the other kids too. How is everybody. 842 00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:07,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're fine, They're good. They're good. Like with them, 843 00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:11,400 Speaker 2: sports just drives their world. I think there is the 844 00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:18,320 Speaker 2: second to oldest. He's eleven. He is in middle school. 845 00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:20,319 Speaker 2: It's his first year in middle school, so he's kind 846 00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:21,719 Speaker 2: of like we're kind of seeing a little bit of 847 00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:25,680 Speaker 2: stress too. He's not a stressful kid. Everything's easy to him. 848 00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:32,120 Speaker 2: He's responsible, he gets everything done, don't have to check 849 00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:34,600 Speaker 2: his homework. He double checks his own homework, like he's 850 00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:38,120 Speaker 2: that kind of kid. But going into middle school, like 851 00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:42,080 Speaker 2: he's starting to forget things like he forgot to take 852 00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:44,200 Speaker 2: his shoulder pads to school, you know, and he's just 853 00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:46,440 Speaker 2: like little things like that, and I'm like, what what's happening. 854 00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:49,640 Speaker 2: But it's the same thing. It's the same thing of 855 00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:53,319 Speaker 2: like you know, going from elementary school that jump to 856 00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:55,200 Speaker 2: middle school and you're like, oh my gosh, is so 857 00:36:55,320 --> 00:37:00,120 Speaker 2: much bigger. Kind of liking girls now, you know, like 858 00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:03,200 Speaker 2: friends start finding other friend groups and like, well we're 859 00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:07,319 Speaker 2: not just all of this like drama, unnecessary drama that 860 00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:11,239 Speaker 2: we put on ourselves around that time eleven twelve, you know. 861 00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:14,120 Speaker 2: And so I don't know, I just I worry for 862 00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:17,520 Speaker 2: him and then especially you know, my oldest with his things, 863 00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:21,680 Speaker 2: but even him now going into this, like I just 864 00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:26,440 Speaker 2: want them to like realize it's okay, Like don't worry 865 00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:28,600 Speaker 2: too much about this stuff, even though you know that. 866 00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:29,160 Speaker 1: That's not gonna work. 867 00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:30,000 Speaker 2: It's not gonna work. 868 00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:33,560 Speaker 1: I mean, all of us we are. That's I was 869 00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:36,160 Speaker 1: just about to say, I don't think there's enough credit 870 00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:38,760 Speaker 1: given to kids and as they grow up in age 871 00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:41,759 Speaker 1: you go through so many life changes in such a 872 00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:44,239 Speaker 1: short amount of time, and there's so much you have 873 00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:47,080 Speaker 1: to learn and understand, and you're trying to figure out 874 00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:49,359 Speaker 1: who you are and what that looks like and how 875 00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:51,240 Speaker 1: do I fit in here? And who are these people? 876 00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:54,520 Speaker 1: And you can't look at any of that from a 877 00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:56,000 Speaker 1: bird's eye view until you're older. 878 00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:58,480 Speaker 2: I know. And I don't even think they know that 879 00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:00,960 Speaker 2: that's happening, Like he doesn't know that that's what's happening. 880 00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:04,000 Speaker 2: But we're older, we know exactly what's happening. 881 00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:06,239 Speaker 1: You're having that moment as a parent that I'm sure 882 00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:08,120 Speaker 1: your parents have with you and the parents before and 883 00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:10,640 Speaker 1: et cetera, where they're like, gosh, I wish I could 884 00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:12,600 Speaker 1: just shake this kid and be like it's gonna be okay, 885 00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:14,200 Speaker 1: don't think about this and don't worry. 886 00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:17,080 Speaker 2: You worry about that stuff. But you can't. They have to. 887 00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:19,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, they have to go through those things to become 888 00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:21,960 Speaker 1: who they're gonna be mm hmm. And that's hard. Yeah, 889 00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:23,600 Speaker 1: you have to really like kind of let go and 890 00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:26,080 Speaker 1: let life happen. Is that weird? 891 00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:28,440 Speaker 2: It is? It is weird. I mean, it is weird, 892 00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:30,960 Speaker 2: and you just kind of like hope that everything is 893 00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:33,359 Speaker 2: gonna be they'll they'll be fine, and I know they'll 894 00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:37,680 Speaker 2: be fine, but it sucks for them, especially like you know, 895 00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:41,880 Speaker 2: seeing personalities change, because he's always been a certain kind 896 00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:44,200 Speaker 2: of person and now he's kind of forgetting things. And 897 00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:47,759 Speaker 2: I'm like, poor guy, man, Like he's probably thinking like 898 00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:50,399 Speaker 2: what is happening to me right now? Like I never 899 00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:51,080 Speaker 2: act like this. 900 00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:53,040 Speaker 1: You gotta go through a lot of different life stages 901 00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:53,879 Speaker 1: to figure it out. 902 00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:55,560 Speaker 2: And then the two little ones, they're great. 903 00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:57,960 Speaker 1: I mean they're they're still living life normally right now. 904 00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:01,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, yes, our ten year old he's still in 905 00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:04,399 Speaker 2: he's still in elementary school, so like and I think 906 00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:07,600 Speaker 2: the jump from the jump from elementary school to middle 907 00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:09,919 Speaker 2: school is just so big that like they don't even 908 00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:13,520 Speaker 2: see that coming, like right now, you know, are the 909 00:39:14,320 --> 00:39:17,040 Speaker 2: ten year old he's in fourth grade and like he 910 00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:19,600 Speaker 2: has no idea what's about to hit him? Like no idea, 911 00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:22,600 Speaker 2: Yeah we never did. No, you just jump right in 912 00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:24,040 Speaker 2: there and you're like what is this? 913 00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:26,960 Speaker 1: And how are your mom and sister? And they visited. 914 00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:30,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're good, they're good. They so my mom's been 915 00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:35,839 Speaker 2: here for two and a half weeks. She just kind 916 00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:39,080 Speaker 2: of she just loves being around the grandchildren. I mean, 917 00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:41,799 Speaker 2: we keep her busy. Man, Like she comes into town 918 00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:43,160 Speaker 2: and we're like, all right, do you want to go 919 00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:45,400 Speaker 2: to his practice? Or do you want to go to 920 00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:46,920 Speaker 2: his game? Or do you want to come with me 921 00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:47,600 Speaker 2: to that? 922 00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:52,080 Speaker 1: And like she probably really enjoys the busyness she does 923 00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:53,360 Speaker 1: because she lives alone. 924 00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:56,040 Speaker 2: Even though she lives near my sister and they see 925 00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:59,200 Speaker 2: each other all the time, she still lives alone. So 926 00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:01,480 Speaker 2: she loves the busy and this she loves staying busy. 927 00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:04,120 Speaker 2: She loves seeing the grandkids and doing seeing what they do. 928 00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:08,320 Speaker 2: But uh, we never really have fun. Like it's always 929 00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:12,439 Speaker 2: just like boom, practice game, practice game. Once in a while, 930 00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:15,279 Speaker 2: maybe let's go out to eat. But my sister was like, 931 00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:17,759 Speaker 2: I'm coming in and I'm not going to go to 932 00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:20,279 Speaker 2: games and practice the whole time. Like let's go to 933 00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:24,080 Speaker 2: the Opry. And I was like, the great idea, Like 934 00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:25,960 Speaker 2: I've never been to the Opry kind. 935 00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:27,920 Speaker 1: Of just to go watch as a spectator. 936 00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:30,280 Speaker 2: Never and then you know, we've played it a handful 937 00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:32,319 Speaker 2: of times, but like I've never gone to sit down 938 00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:34,759 Speaker 2: on the pews and and watch the show. And my 939 00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:36,400 Speaker 2: mom was like, oh, my gosh, that'd be amazing. You 940 00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:38,920 Speaker 2: think can get tickets and like, yeah, so we went 941 00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:44,239 Speaker 2: the other night and she loved it. My sister loved it. 942 00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:46,240 Speaker 2: It's just cool. It was cool to like, we had dinner. 943 00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:48,680 Speaker 2: We like, I think there's an olive garden near near. 944 00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:50,360 Speaker 1: There, and like, yeah, I love that olive garden. 945 00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:53,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, what what do you mean? 946 00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:55,880 Speaker 1: But I went back with my boyfriend. 947 00:40:56,920 --> 00:40:59,399 Speaker 2: No, hold on, so you had a date. 948 00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:00,319 Speaker 1: Yeah you remember. 949 00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:01,719 Speaker 2: Are we talking about this at Olive Garden? 950 00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:03,040 Speaker 1: Yeah? I talked about it on the show. I got 951 00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:03,719 Speaker 1: stood up there. 952 00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:05,080 Speaker 2: No, I don't remember. 953 00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:08,640 Speaker 1: It was the first day and he just like showed up, No, showed. 954 00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:09,240 Speaker 2: The one by the opry. 955 00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:12,640 Speaker 1: Yeah you know. But then like two months and. 956 00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:14,839 Speaker 2: I do remember. You did get stood out, you got 957 00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:16,200 Speaker 2: stood up, but I guess I didn't remember. It was 958 00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:16,720 Speaker 2: all garden. 959 00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:20,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, but my boyfriend, now, I was like, I've still 960 00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,600 Speaker 1: been craving Oliver. I never got it, So can we go? 961 00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:25,000 Speaker 2: Like, yeah, we can go. It's so good, isn't it. 962 00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:27,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, now that memory, Rice knew one. 963 00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:29,080 Speaker 2: Good forget that crap. 964 00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:32,879 Speaker 1: Well, I'm glad that your your trip with your mom 965 00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:35,440 Speaker 1: and sister that has been good and hopefully you did 966 00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:36,400 Speaker 1: more than just the opry. 967 00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:39,399 Speaker 2: We did the opry. They love, Like my sister loves 968 00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:42,120 Speaker 2: to try new or try restaurants. So like they went 969 00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:44,000 Speaker 2: to a restaurant they I don't know where they went, 970 00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:46,040 Speaker 2: but oh you didn't go with it, no, because somebody's 971 00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:48,160 Speaker 2: gonna stay with the kids. And it's and I get it. 972 00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:50,480 Speaker 2: She has no kids. My sister has no kids. She's married, 973 00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:54,640 Speaker 2: but no kids, and so she's used to like a 974 00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:58,040 Speaker 2: silent life whereas and they get to do whatever they want. 975 00:41:58,160 --> 00:42:01,440 Speaker 2: My life is not that we're all poll her opposites. 976 00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:04,759 Speaker 2: And like she always comes to the house and like 977 00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:09,319 Speaker 2: she hears just rumblings upstairs and like someone falling and 978 00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:13,040 Speaker 2: like tackling. They're playing football upstairs, and she's like are 979 00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:15,640 Speaker 2: they okay? Like yeah, they're fine, Like this is just 980 00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:17,839 Speaker 2: start live. And so sometimes she's like get me out 981 00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:19,920 Speaker 2: of here, like I need to go go to a 982 00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:20,719 Speaker 2: restaurant or something. 983 00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:21,640 Speaker 1: I get it. 984 00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,560 Speaker 2: I guess I get it too. I just they laugh 985 00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:25,560 Speaker 2: because like I don't hear it. 986 00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, well you're so used to it. That's your life now. 987 00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:30,319 Speaker 2: Anytime anyone comes over, like do you hear that? And 988 00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:31,560 Speaker 2: like now not. 989 00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:34,000 Speaker 1: Really like, I've learned how to tune things out, and. 990 00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:35,400 Speaker 2: We know how to get we know how to gauge 991 00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:36,560 Speaker 2: the screams. 992 00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:38,400 Speaker 1: Right, Like, what's an actual importance? 993 00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:42,759 Speaker 2: Yes, like what's a fun funny scream? What's a how 994 00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:45,759 Speaker 2: that hurts scream? But I'm not really hurt? And then 995 00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:47,960 Speaker 2: one like I need attention because I die? 996 00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:56,920 Speaker 1: Yes, Oh that's so funny. Well Dad, Edie, Yes, it 997 00:42:57,080 --> 00:43:00,360 Speaker 1: was Eddie the Dad. Thanks for being on. Thank you 998 00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:02,319 Speaker 1: for everything. 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