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It is 29 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:26,400 Speaker 1: yet another episode of horrible Decisions And I am your girl, 30 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 1: Monday Bay and you are who are you your co home? 31 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 1: I feel like that was really good. I'm wheezy, hey, 32 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:42,320 Speaker 1: hi guys, um, and we are here. This is one 33 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: of these episodes where we've had a lot of our 34 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: listeners write us in a lot on Patreon and even 35 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: some on our Instagram, and they've been like, y'all talk 36 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 1: all this ship. Look are you gonna read what we got? 37 00:01:57,560 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 1: So Clarissa hit us up there you go and say 38 00:01:59,880 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 1: with She hits up February one and said I love 39 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: y'all show, and I had to ask, well, y'all ever 40 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 1: have a guest on the show that's a gold star 41 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 1: lesbian or at least a full blown lesbian. I understand 42 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:11,280 Speaker 1: you're both bisexual and you've had other bisexual guests. However, 43 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 1: I feel like when you discuss your experiences with women, 44 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 1: there's a little bit of heteronormativity in such discussion words. 45 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 1: I have been listening for a few months now, and 46 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:22,880 Speaker 1: I haven't heard all of your episodes. I apologize if 47 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 1: you did have a lesbian the show, but I think 48 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 1: a discussion about lesbian sex, relationships and culture can lead 49 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:30,799 Speaker 1: us to people more to respecting us, and then it's 50 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 1: on a phase and understanding the mechanics of sex between women. 51 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 1: I still get asked by grown heteroes how sex between 52 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:38,800 Speaker 1: women works. I really love this UM email, and I 53 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 1: really appreciate it. I was actually really embarrassed. I think 54 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 1: I wrote her that. I was like, I can't believe. 55 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 1: We haven't. I can't believe. And so, bitch, look at 56 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:49,679 Speaker 1: that turnaround? What is it? Motherfucking February four? Come on, 57 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 1: turn around? So you better be a fucking patriot, you know. UM, 58 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 1: it just only made sense, UM to allow Weazy to 59 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:02,520 Speaker 1: go out and seek this goal star lesbian? Um did 60 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 1: it only make sense for me to do? It just 61 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 1: made fucking sense. Um for Wheezy to seek out a 62 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 1: gold Star lesbian, which she did with gold Stars. She 63 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:14,240 Speaker 1: found that. UM, so I want to give her a 64 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:17,640 Speaker 1: stick this whole episode. I want to give her a 65 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 1: gold sticker, ye now, because they're really so if you 66 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 1: guys follow um Wheezy on social media, funny guys, just say, okay, 67 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: how we have a wonderful guest in the studio today, 68 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 1: um who is an alleged gold Star lesbian. Well, we 69 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 1: will get into that, but if you've been following Weezy, 70 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 1: you've seen her. She's lit. She has like three thousand followers. 71 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 1: So I do want to ask you because I asked 72 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: Wheezy because she throws all the shade. Are you an 73 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:52,160 Speaker 1: Instagram model? No? Okay, so there's a what's the difference? Okay, 74 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 1: so the differences Instagram motto is known as a girl 75 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 1: who has a ship ton of followers. Okay, what you do, 76 00:03:57,160 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 1: you're right, But they actually you can kind of tell 77 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 1: the difference because they do like flat tummy t and 78 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 1: and and I'm not against that, I'm just saying, but like, okay, okay, okay, okay, 79 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 1: So they do that and then they like, you know, 80 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 1: when they're promoting a brand all the fucking time on 81 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 1: their feet. I'm actually signed Humble Brand and in Paris, 82 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 1: so there's a difference. Okay, global, but it's just so 83 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 1: global goal. It just so happens that I always get 84 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 1: named that. But can you tell us something like the 85 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 1: brands you worked with or whatever? Yeah, um, c K two, 86 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 1: which was the big Calvin Klein reub fragrance that I 87 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 1: did with them, that was worldwide. That was amazing. We 88 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 1: actually shot there in Puerto Rico. Um, I work a 89 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:49,360 Speaker 1: lot with Hello, You're not you don't want that close 90 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 1: to your mouth. I'm cool anyway because of the cylinder shape. Yes, 91 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:58,920 Speaker 1: but they was like alex is over here putting the mico. So, um, 92 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 1: Calvin Klein. I've done stuff for Jill Stewart and Nike 93 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 1: and b A and all that fun stuff, so it's cool. 94 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:11,480 Speaker 1: We were leaving the gym and she's like, I just 95 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 1: want to see if I see myself in here. I 96 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 1: sure said that, and I did, and then she's like, 97 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:20,720 Speaker 1: let's scal you know your famous. No, I just wanted 98 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:23,040 Speaker 1: to see it. Like like, I still get happy when 99 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 1: I get to see myself. Okay, I think that's dope. 100 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 1: I think that's dope too. So Wheezy here has an icebreaker. 101 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 1: So what we like to do with all of our 102 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:32,000 Speaker 1: guests is kind of have an icebreaker. Clearly the ice 103 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:34,800 Speaker 1: has been broken with us, but we're gonna break the 104 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:39,280 Speaker 1: ice just a little bit, um and so we'd apparently 105 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 1: this this game is made specifically for you. Um, how 106 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 1: gay are you? How gay are you? So? I feel like, 107 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 1: because Mandy and I suck dick any pussy, maybe we 108 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 1: don't know as many terms. He played this game with 109 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 1: Michelle Hope where she had his name off. How many 110 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 1: different ways you can say penis? Penis? Yeah? I want 111 00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 1: us to see how many of us can name the 112 00:05:56,000 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 1: different terms for eating pussy. Oh, so I to go 113 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 1: in a row. But it doesn't necessarily have to be. 114 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 1: It could be like it could be like carpet munching, 115 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:10,480 Speaker 1: like ship like that? Okay? Can I be in different languages? Look, 116 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 1: don't be, don't be drop your little other languages? God 117 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:21,279 Speaker 1: damn it? Can you pussy in Brazilian? I? Okay, First 118 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 1: of all, it's Portuguese, get it right. I know I 119 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:27,920 Speaker 1: was sucking around because you know how I feel about John. 120 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 1: What's going on? I want to go first. All right, 121 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 1: go first, and I'm gonna say it in Portuguese. Oh 122 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 1: make us pussy wet. Let me see what's actually I 123 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:47,040 Speaker 1: st sex in the city when Samantha was saying, and 124 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 1: she was like, it's my puss. Yes that too, yes, okay, yes, um, 125 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 1: I'll go next. Um love it the y Oh yeah, 126 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 1: that's the position to do it. Um can I say, 127 00:06:59,279 --> 00:07:05,280 Speaker 1: like eat the bar? Yeah, okay with carpet munching, um 128 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 1: eating out, eating out, well then fine, pussy eating um 129 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 1: ship Now I don't know. Um, you do this way 130 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 1: too much to not have any other names. I just 131 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: do it. I'm going about the names kind of like 132 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 1: that's right, all right here, I have a list of something. 133 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 1: Please give me some go down on, have a box 134 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: lunch munchable, muff dive munching lunch dive, munch dive, give 135 00:07:37,960 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 1: brain eat. I thought that was just for dick eat 136 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 1: hair pie. But not no. No, I like I like 137 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 1: my pussy shaving. No razor bombs, like I think a 138 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 1: lot of people. Right, I don't know that we have Ah, 139 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 1: did you? I know you gotta wax. I was very 140 00:07:57,560 --> 00:08:00,360 Speaker 1: much aware of that. She know she didn't. They're the 141 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 1: Kicking a week. So we have two males in the room, 142 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 1: and I know that while this is the lesbian episode, 143 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:10,680 Speaker 1: I want to know how different it is from do 144 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:13,679 Speaker 1: y'all like the landing strip? Do y'all like hair fully shaven? 145 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 1: How do y'all like eating pussy? Like? How does the 146 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 1: pussy have to look? If you're gonna be a question bear, 147 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 1: So I'm giving you. I've been wanting to you. You 148 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:26,680 Speaker 1: would eat pussy with hair on it? I think guys 149 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 1: are less okay, but like, but like, are we talking 150 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:33,959 Speaker 1: minimal hair? Thank you? Do you mean crazy like trimmed 151 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:36,440 Speaker 1: or just like fuzz before I shave? Like what you're 152 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:38,960 Speaker 1: saying or is it's just peeking out the It can't 153 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 1: look like the fucking Amazon, Like that's not what I'm 154 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 1: trying to eat. But see, guys, I think and it 155 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 1: just you gotta comment you got home your your pussy hair. 156 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:54,440 Speaker 1: I would hope brush your pussy hair. I know, but 157 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 1: I get him. If you're gonna have a lot of hair, 158 00:08:56,120 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 1: like keep it. I like this port she has hair 159 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:02,600 Speaker 1: on her pussy, but it looks neat. I don't know. 160 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 1: So I think we had this conversation with one of 161 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 1: our previous guests, and she said that, and we kind 162 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:11,359 Speaker 1: of made the correlation that maybe lesbians are more particular 163 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:13,199 Speaker 1: with what a pussy looks like than a man, like 164 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:17,319 Speaker 1: I think a man will eat a pussy. However, well, 165 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 1: I was about to say something, but I was told, oh, 166 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 1: but yeah, I don't know what it was, but but yeah, 167 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 1: I think I think men would eat pussy with hair 168 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:34,719 Speaker 1: without hair. Is it just you that likes that, or 169 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 1: do you feel like more lesbians in that way? Honestly, 170 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 1: I prefer it that way. I know I know many 171 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 1: lesbian friends of mine that love the landing stripe. Yeah. Yeah, 172 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 1: but but I can guarantee that majority of lesbians that 173 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 1: I know we don't want it to feel like we're 174 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 1: certain like searching. That's literally landing srip is above your 175 00:09:56,400 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 1: clip's high up. It's not like you can get the 176 00:09:57,800 --> 00:10:01,600 Speaker 1: landing strip in your mouth. Isn't because you kissed the pussy? Yeah, okay, 177 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 1: I'm feeling so that's what you do? Okay, Um one 178 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 1: of my many tricks. Oh girl. I also want by 179 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 1: the way, I didn't add this in there, but I 180 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:14,640 Speaker 1: want to write this down. I want to talk about 181 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:17,160 Speaker 1: some eating pussy tips for men. I think that's yes. 182 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:19,600 Speaker 1: Niggas do not be knowing how to eat pussy, and 183 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 1: I like think they eat the best pussy and I 184 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 1: think it's just something we should discuss. Oh, so before 185 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:25,959 Speaker 1: we get into kicking the week, I want to just 186 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 1: talk about a few lesbian terms. I actually wanted to 187 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:29,839 Speaker 1: hit you up before I made this list because I 188 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:32,679 Speaker 1: couldn't think of any more than these four them. Butch, 189 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:38,880 Speaker 1: DoD and Dyke. Can you explain what a fem is? Oh, 190 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 1: it would be a lipstick on there right now she 191 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 1: thinks everything about her Now. No, I don't have lipstick 192 00:10:53,600 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 1: on bish the list. I don't know what you like. 193 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:57,719 Speaker 1: Um lipstick lesbian know, I don't. But lipstick lesbian and 194 00:10:58,360 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 1: lipstick lesbian are basically the lesbians that you know, go 195 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:05,319 Speaker 1: all out like they had like thirty pounds to make 196 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:09,200 Speaker 1: up high heels up they so they're just considered that. 197 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 1: But but ironically enough, they are the type that will 198 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 1: go for the like the butchiest type of lesbian. It's 199 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 1: that interesting how that works. So that makes and what's 200 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:23,040 Speaker 1: the difference between that and FM um um, butch is 201 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 1: for me, in my opinion, butch is more like there's 202 00:11:27,920 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 1: a man like qualities about them. No, no feministic lesbian. 203 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:36,000 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Okay, Um, well I already told you lives 204 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:43,320 Speaker 1: like femin is like not as crazy. What would you 205 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 1: call yourself me, I'm a cross between fem and like. Now, 206 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 1: I have a word for you that I want you 207 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:53,679 Speaker 1: to describe to our listeners. I would consider you androgynous. 208 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 1: Totally yeah, okay and so um. I guess for the 209 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:00,679 Speaker 1: listeners that didn't know, androgynous would be a female who's 210 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:03,720 Speaker 1: more like chill with maybe style. Do you? I know 211 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:07,079 Speaker 1: you were like but you you just dressed more. And 212 00:12:07,080 --> 00:12:09,559 Speaker 1: I don't want to say masculine because it's still very feminine, 213 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:14,200 Speaker 1: but still it's like a mix between I think. I think, um, 214 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 1: that word can be so misunderstood right now because people like, 215 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 1: oh my god, are you're a guy or your girl? 216 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:20,760 Speaker 1: First of all, I'm not trying to get into this 217 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 1: right now, right but like at photo shoots, it's mainly 218 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:26,079 Speaker 1: like I'll go and I know that I have to 219 00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 1: be extremely girly and they and I let them do that. 220 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:30,959 Speaker 1: Sometimes I'll be doing your shoot and they'll literally do 221 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 1: all corn rows and the like, tease the funk out 222 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:34,720 Speaker 1: of my hair. And then I look like a dude, 223 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 1: but there's still that girl quality. It seems like I 224 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 1: was gonna ask you, do you like a lot of 225 00:12:39,520 --> 00:12:40,840 Speaker 1: the pictures on your page are like a lot of 226 00:12:40,840 --> 00:12:43,320 Speaker 1: your shoots, like that gap thing you did, Like it 227 00:12:43,400 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 1: seems more your style. Do you find that like you 228 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 1: get jobs based on like you have a certain swag 229 00:12:47,920 --> 00:12:50,319 Speaker 1: about you. They like that about America's next top model, 230 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 1: there's always one that looks like her. First of all? 231 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 1: Can I ask the questions a lot off of this podcast? 232 00:12:56,920 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 1: Let me talk, thank you. I'm just saying, do you 233 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 1: do you want me to answer her? Okay, all right, 234 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 1: and answer to your question? I think, um, I think 235 00:13:08,160 --> 00:13:10,160 Speaker 1: I have a good group of people that work with me, 236 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 1: like agencies and owners that sit down me, like at 237 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:16,520 Speaker 1: least once a week kind of like a daily like no, sorry, 238 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:18,680 Speaker 1: a weekly report, you know, to just kind of see 239 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:21,320 Speaker 1: what's working and what's not. But a lot of the times, 240 00:13:21,320 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 1: people they just want me because of how I look 241 00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 1: and because I dance and I do all these cool things. 242 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:28,560 Speaker 1: So they're like, yo, let's just give her a gap campaign, 243 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:31,200 Speaker 1: or let's do this or so. So we we went 244 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 1: down this list and we've had gay men on the show, 245 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:37,120 Speaker 1: and we know what is wrong to label or call 246 00:13:37,200 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 1: it gay man? Are there any terms that are offensive 247 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 1: for lesbians? It needs to be a slur. But then 248 00:13:44,040 --> 00:13:45,640 Speaker 1: when I was looking it up a little bit today, 249 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 1: Urban Dictionary saying there's such a diet community with lesbians 250 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:51,360 Speaker 1: that are self Yeah, but the situation without word too 251 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 1: is how you say it because it's it's it's equivalent 252 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 1: like if one of my gay friends, like like takes 253 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 1: me to the point of like anger, I'll call him 254 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 1: a faggot and then he gets angry at and two 255 00:14:03,160 --> 00:14:06,640 Speaker 1: point five seconds and then we're not talking, okay. So 256 00:14:06,760 --> 00:14:09,640 Speaker 1: I didn't know that. So the interesting thing about dike 257 00:14:09,880 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 1: is a lot of people assume that dyke is butch, 258 00:14:12,520 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 1: but dyke is actually just a slur that people used 259 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 1: to use for lesbians all the time. So here I 260 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 1: think of like manly and it's not okay that I 261 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 1: didn't know. It's just a slur that people were using 262 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 1: for lesbians period. They were calling them dike. Um. I 263 00:14:27,520 --> 00:14:31,640 Speaker 1: have been called that in high school. Why because he 264 00:14:31,760 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 1: wasn't eating pussy back now, but you don't know what 265 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 1: I was doing back But she wasn't eating pussy. I 266 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:45,480 Speaker 1: know that much. Goddamnits That first taste was look, listen, 267 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 1: what we're not gonna do? Okay, anyway, I know how 268 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:49,800 Speaker 1: Mandy really be think is you know my pussy? I 269 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:52,080 Speaker 1: just know that was on the last episode talking about 270 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 1: what we know? Yet do you I know I did 271 00:14:53,520 --> 00:14:56,040 Speaker 1: a bit. I mean, the same thing to spend a 272 00:14:56,080 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 1: license to you? Y, you still couldn't drive your ship 273 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 1: for seven years? UM? Say anyways, like this whole episode, 274 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:12,200 Speaker 1: I appreciate the terms. So what you decided to do 275 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 1: UM this week is of course related the kink of 276 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:19,600 Speaker 1: the week UM to lesbian sex. So do you want 277 00:15:19,640 --> 00:15:22,520 Speaker 1: to I want to tell you how I found this word? Um. 278 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:26,440 Speaker 1: I was looking up lesbian porn and specifically scissoring because 279 00:15:26,440 --> 00:15:28,520 Speaker 1: I like it and I'm kind of tired of watching 280 00:15:28,560 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 1: lesbian porn, and I just want to know we're gonna 281 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 1: talk about how lesbian. But wait, you like it and 282 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:37,880 Speaker 1: you don't? How does that work? Okay? I don't like 283 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:47,440 Speaker 1: watching mediate. Okay, you're supposed to be producing this fucking 284 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:49,160 Speaker 1: show and you're just gonna let her do this to me? 285 00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:54,240 Speaker 1: Are you fucking kidding me? She's because him and outside 286 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 1: do you see this as another gay episode, and she 287 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:59,000 Speaker 1: just did her gay voice on again. I'm telling you 288 00:15:59,080 --> 00:16:01,520 Speaker 1: she changed. No, that was my white like this is 289 00:16:01,600 --> 00:16:04,800 Speaker 1: I feel there's a gay voice. So can you explain 290 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 1: to her the gay I have not heard this. Wait, 291 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:08,920 Speaker 1: you didn't hear that. So she did an episode with 292 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:11,520 Speaker 1: a game mail cup couple last week explain the gay voice, 293 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:14,080 Speaker 1: you know when you get with your gays. And he'd 294 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:20,440 Speaker 1: be like, oh yeah, hey come and then they were like, 295 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 1: oh my god. Yeah. I'm like totally like, dude, you're right, 296 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:26,840 Speaker 1: my god, totally, it's just like natural, like nigga, don't. 297 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:31,160 Speaker 1: When I was a stobell last weekend, Holy fuck, I 298 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 1: think the dude I was it was like she was 299 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 1: another bitch, like like are you a gay man? Yeah? 300 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:39,200 Speaker 1: It was bad. Um, Sorry to get back in the trap. 301 00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 1: So I was I don't like watching lesbian porn with toys, 302 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:43,640 Speaker 1: although I like to use toys, but for some reason, 303 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:45,640 Speaker 1: the toys I feel like they do too much in 304 00:16:45,720 --> 00:16:49,760 Speaker 1: porn with toys. Okay, sorry, I just wanted to add that. 305 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:53,200 Speaker 1: Go ahead. And so I don't like watching it imporn Okay. 306 00:16:53,280 --> 00:16:56,560 Speaker 1: I like scissoring and so it's also called tripping so 307 00:16:56,640 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 1: tripping is our kink of the week. It refers to um, 308 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:03,680 Speaker 1: I have not heard that. It's derived from a Greek 309 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 1: word tribus, which is a lesbian and triboh, which is 310 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:10,760 Speaker 1: to rub. So refers to scissoring, which is when two 311 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:14,080 Speaker 1: women rubbed their vulvas and clips together in a form 312 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 1: of non penetrative sex. It can also referred to be 313 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 1: referred to frautage, rubbing of the vulva against something for 314 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:22,240 Speaker 1: sexual stimulation, which is why I think me and you 315 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:23,399 Speaker 1: were talking about when I was a kid and I 316 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:27,919 Speaker 1: like rubbed myself on the edge and that's just ya, 317 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:31,360 Speaker 1: that's fritage. M. It's not for specific to humans. It's 318 00:17:31,400 --> 00:17:34,640 Speaker 1: also observed in nature with monkeys. Um, we're the same 319 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:38,520 Speaker 1: sex monkeys. Yeah, we're female to female genitalia rubbing is 320 00:17:38,520 --> 00:17:43,280 Speaker 1: common about once every two hours. Wow, that's very act. 321 00:17:43,359 --> 00:17:45,960 Speaker 1: I just learned something new. I did not know that. Um. Yeah, 322 00:17:46,119 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 1: So so when you is scissoring, because it's funny. So 323 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:51,880 Speaker 1: a lot of the a lot of men who are 324 00:17:51,920 --> 00:17:55,639 Speaker 1: ignorant to lesbian sex be like, yeah, so here's what 325 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:58,880 Speaker 1: let's get into it, Like how does lesbian sex work? Okay, 326 00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:07,159 Speaker 1: So for me, Lord's right. Now you can look at 327 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 1: me and thanks. Okay, So for me, you know, I 328 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:15,440 Speaker 1: like to tease, So okay, I'll spend at least hour 329 00:18:15,480 --> 00:18:17,440 Speaker 1: and a half eating you out. That's a long time. 330 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:19,560 Speaker 1: How does your tongue not get tired? Because I've had 331 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 1: my tongue now. I ate pussy one time for a 332 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:23,640 Speaker 1: long time because I really enjoyed her. It was during 333 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:26,520 Speaker 1: a three stime, so there was dick involved, but um, 334 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:29,240 Speaker 1: my tongue for the next two days I felt like 335 00:18:29,280 --> 00:18:31,200 Speaker 1: it was It felt like it was going to fall out. 336 00:18:31,440 --> 00:18:35,199 Speaker 1: How do you Yeah, I paid myself though, so for 337 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:39,480 Speaker 1: a lot of times you're just like, okay, well you 338 00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:41,119 Speaker 1: can like you can come off of it. You can 339 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:44,720 Speaker 1: use your hand. Yeah, wait, okay, So do you use 340 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:47,320 Speaker 1: your nose at all? Yeah? Sometimes? Oh that's a trick. 341 00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:49,800 Speaker 1: I didn't know. Wait, so you put your nose on 342 00:18:49,840 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 1: the clip. You've never sucked someone's nose? No, you don't remember, 343 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:56,440 Speaker 1: like training, I gotta ask that a big and she goes, 344 00:18:56,440 --> 00:18:58,240 Speaker 1: I want to suck your nose if you want to. 345 00:18:59,320 --> 00:19:01,800 Speaker 1: I did not know that. That's what she said. From here. 346 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:10,159 Speaker 1: You got her kind of hard. She's hard in here. Um, 347 00:19:10,280 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 1: but Okay, so you like to tease, so you'll eat 348 00:19:12,760 --> 00:19:14,640 Speaker 1: the pussy for an hour and a half. A lot 349 00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:16,479 Speaker 1: of the guys don't. I don't think you can go 350 00:19:16,560 --> 00:19:19,480 Speaker 1: that long. So when I when I see the female body, 351 00:19:19,880 --> 00:19:22,399 Speaker 1: I want to I want to enjoy that moment that 352 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:26,600 Speaker 1: I'm having with that specific person. Okay, so I love teasing, 353 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:31,160 Speaker 1: and then um, you know, just caressing. And then when 354 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:33,000 Speaker 1: I know I kind of got her right where I 355 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:35,400 Speaker 1: want her to the point of begging on her end, 356 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:48,879 Speaker 1: I cannot look. Okay, the glasses he's keeping them on 357 00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:52,760 Speaker 1: keeping anyways, maybe we shouldn't have said across from each other. 358 00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:56,080 Speaker 1: That's what I said that right, alright, go right, everybody's 359 00:19:56,080 --> 00:19:58,479 Speaker 1: everybody getting hard. I get her to the point of begging, 360 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:03,520 Speaker 1: then you know, I'll gently put not one, but just 361 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:05,639 Speaker 1: two fingers just right in just to see if she 362 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:08,520 Speaker 1: could take it. So I want to say that, um 363 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:11,080 Speaker 1: to kind of our male listeners, because you're you're giving 364 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:13,639 Speaker 1: them gems without even knowing a lot of men, I 365 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:16,920 Speaker 1: feel like I have to ask to finger me um 366 00:20:17,119 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 1: when giving head, right, That's what I'm saying. But no, no, no, 367 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:29,800 Speaker 1: he's right. A lot I have not asked for it 368 00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:31,840 Speaker 1: sometimes because I feel like someone's gonna do it wrong. 369 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:35,280 Speaker 1: There you go, so there's a difference, like they're doing 370 00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:37,800 Speaker 1: it wrong. So the thing is too when you go 371 00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 1: in there, Yeah, you can't be fucking like said, ain't 372 00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:45,720 Speaker 1: no type of order, so you think just be all 373 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:48,760 Speaker 1: over the place. So when you look at first, you're 374 00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:51,679 Speaker 1: getting her wet, you're getting her aroused. You can't just 375 00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:54,840 Speaker 1: shove a pussy into until she's ready down there. You'll 376 00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 1: know because at that point she's secreting, she's wet, and 377 00:20:57,640 --> 00:20:59,320 Speaker 1: it should be very wet before you go to start 378 00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:01,440 Speaker 1: trying to say a question. Normally a lot of people 379 00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:05,760 Speaker 1: want to know that was happening. Oh, what does this? 380 00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:11,080 Speaker 1: What does the shiver look like? Whow No, honestly objects 381 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:16,480 Speaker 1: in the studio? Can I get? It's about its about 382 00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:18,600 Speaker 1: lesbian's but I want to know because we're talking about fingers. 383 00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 1: When lesbians say I want you to fuck me. A 384 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:24,080 Speaker 1: lot of people are really confused when lesbian's fun is 385 00:21:24,119 --> 00:21:27,240 Speaker 1: it scissoring or fingering? What is it's fingering? Right? Fingering? 386 00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:30,360 Speaker 1: Is a lot of us assumed that fucking is dick 387 00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:33,919 Speaker 1: and pussy fucking. I learned from lesbian is just the 388 00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:39,520 Speaker 1: penetration period. That's what it is. We think. I'm I'm 389 00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:44,960 Speaker 1: gonna be honest, you can fuck somebody. Um, I well, 390 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 1: I was informed. I think it's like ten percent or 391 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:50,240 Speaker 1: eleven percent of female and I'm actually one of them. 392 00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:53,359 Speaker 1: I can't get off off of ctoral at all. I 393 00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:59,399 Speaker 1: need penetration until recently, someone doesn't change that. That's a 394 00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:02,879 Speaker 1: Often it's all right, I'm gonna I gotta get some 395 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:05,440 Speaker 1: new air sounds from YouTube so we can like do 396 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:10,080 Speaker 1: like drum you know, drum rolls and ship through. But 397 00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:14,080 Speaker 1: um okay. So so that leads me to ask you, 398 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:19,719 Speaker 1: if you've never been able to come clatorally, why didn't 399 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:27,920 Speaker 1: work clatorally? And it's come from penetration? No, because I 400 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:33,240 Speaker 1: don't need you to check them out words. So if 401 00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:37,160 Speaker 1: you haven't been able to come by clatoral simulation, um, 402 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:41,560 Speaker 1: why not just why not just try it? Nigga dick? Honestly, Honestly, 403 00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:45,680 Speaker 1: what it was was I dated this incredible guy, and um, 404 00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:47,720 Speaker 1: it just got to the point where there was something 405 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:51,720 Speaker 1: inside me that I knew that A at the time, 406 00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:54,600 Speaker 1: it was either I wasn't ready and I didn't know 407 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 1: if I was ever going to be ready, and there 408 00:22:56,359 --> 00:23:00,080 Speaker 1: was always that lingering question of why and then and 409 00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:03,119 Speaker 1: I didn't want to hurt him and I didn't know 410 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:05,200 Speaker 1: how to tell him. So then I took a trip 411 00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:08,400 Speaker 1: to California. I was there for like two weeks working, 412 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:10,800 Speaker 1: and then I met someone on set and then she 413 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:14,880 Speaker 1: came to them. They're all gay out there, don't you know? Um, 414 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:17,560 Speaker 1: and then um, and I'll never forget. She came to 415 00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:20,640 Speaker 1: my hotel room. And then that was like the first 416 00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:22,560 Speaker 1: time I was ever with a girl, and I wasn't afraid, 417 00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:25,639 Speaker 1: there was no and then that's when it happened. And 418 00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:28,040 Speaker 1: then I had to break it to him, and thank 419 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:30,040 Speaker 1: god we're still okay, and good listen. I like pussy 420 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:33,320 Speaker 1: and I don't like your tools because it needs that 421 00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:38,320 Speaker 1: blue pill and we have a problem with that shade. Um. 422 00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:40,800 Speaker 1: I want to get back into the word fucking. A 423 00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:42,119 Speaker 1: lot of people are going to hear this and think 424 00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:45,399 Speaker 1: it's bullshit, but I want to explain how much we 425 00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:47,719 Speaker 1: don't even realize that we use that word for penetration. 426 00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:51,680 Speaker 1: Fuck my face, And that's when you're just thinking. It's 427 00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:55,160 Speaker 1: when anything is like inserting is fucking, or in lesbian 428 00:23:55,200 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 1: it's you're writing her face in lesbian in you I 429 00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:06,919 Speaker 1: can't say, okay. And then also when you say you 430 00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:10,120 Speaker 1: maybe want to funk a guy, you're either riding him, 431 00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:13,800 Speaker 1: you're controlling the fucking or of course, like we've talked 432 00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:17,520 Speaker 1: about with pegging, but that's still penetration with we have 433 00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:20,240 Speaker 1: to like kind of like, let's not make all these 434 00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:26,240 Speaker 1: sound effects back, guys, pegging is a thing, okay, So Alex, 435 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:28,520 Speaker 1: y'all don't even share blunt because it's you think it's kay, 436 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:36,440 Speaker 1: because boy, because germs. So I have a question, um, 437 00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:40,240 Speaker 1: as a male, is there anything about a lesbian relationship 438 00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:43,840 Speaker 1: that either of you feel like y'all don't understand or 439 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:46,399 Speaker 1: don't really or kind of question or don't sure. I'm 440 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:50,200 Speaker 1: not sure how it happens. I mean, you're just gonna 441 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:54,240 Speaker 1: get all by the way, Um, if you guys, listen 442 00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:56,359 Speaker 1: to the last episode, a king dropped in from the 443 00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:59,680 Speaker 1: Combat Jack Show and he is apparently getting on the mike. 444 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:03,879 Speaker 1: Now are you are you well? We got Alex asking, Okay, 445 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:08,400 Speaker 1: go ahead, Alex, I don't know a lot, Okay, So 446 00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:10,879 Speaker 1: what is it? What are questions that guys normally have 447 00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:14,400 Speaker 1: when they meet a lesbian and it's like, you really 448 00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:17,919 Speaker 1: don't want this dude, Like what do y'all think? My question? 449 00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:21,000 Speaker 1: And trust me when we say we don't. We're not 450 00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:22,920 Speaker 1: trying to play hard again, we really do not want 451 00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:27,879 Speaker 1: your dick. So, so I want to say something. I 452 00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:29,880 Speaker 1: went out with Vicky last weekend. We were hanging out. Yes, 453 00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:34,119 Speaker 1: I think everyone here knows. Yeah, these fucking people don't know. 454 00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:37,040 Speaker 1: They might not follow me us. Okay, chill out, I'm 455 00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:39,960 Speaker 1: talking about them. So we were hanging out last weekend 456 00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:43,800 Speaker 1: and we went out, we read The Hair of the Dog. 457 00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:45,919 Speaker 1: We were just like flirting and dancing, having fun, and 458 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,439 Speaker 1: this dude kept coming up to her. What did he 459 00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:51,280 Speaker 1: what was he doing? And at first, off she looked gorgeous, right, 460 00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:52,719 Speaker 1: and so like I get it, like you're gonna get 461 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 1: hit on. But like we were super flirty and it 462 00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:57,160 Speaker 1: was very obvious like we didn't really want male attention, 463 00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:01,440 Speaker 1: and the dude was just like me coming on to her, 464 00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:03,520 Speaker 1: coming on to her, coming on, just like so you 465 00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:07,000 Speaker 1: guys like lesbians and she said yes. So then he 466 00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:09,840 Speaker 1: walks off he comes back, so like, uh, like really, 467 00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:13,639 Speaker 1: like you guys don't want to try something out? Like yeah, 468 00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:15,880 Speaker 1: it happened for a good thirty minutes, like, so it's 469 00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:17,720 Speaker 1: funny and I want to know why guys do this. 470 00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:20,719 Speaker 1: So when I'm out a lot with my female friends 471 00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:23,040 Speaker 1: and maybe I don't feel like getting hit on, or 472 00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:25,520 Speaker 1: maybe just not hit on by that nigga in particular, 473 00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:27,520 Speaker 1: I'll be like, I'm with my girlfriend, hold on, I 474 00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:31,320 Speaker 1: want to play something real quick. Oh you got have y'all? Ever? Um? 475 00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:33,879 Speaker 1: I mean, of course we all have watched Jazz She's dope. 476 00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:36,720 Speaker 1: Um watched jazz as her Instagram name. She made a 477 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:39,320 Speaker 1: video I think, Um, me and Vicky said it to 478 00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:41,840 Speaker 1: each other, right or someone said to us, what do 479 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:43,280 Speaker 1: you know what I'm talking about? With the girl who 480 00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:47,119 Speaker 1: was like, you can't really lie anymore about being gay me? 481 00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:52,359 Speaker 1: Oh no, I want to put it. Okay, listen to 482 00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:54,360 Speaker 1: watch when like a guy trying to talk to you, 483 00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:55,760 Speaker 1: you can just tell him you and your friend were 484 00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:58,480 Speaker 1: lesbians and they leave you alone. What's going on? Ladies? 485 00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:01,440 Speaker 1: Gonna are you a drink? Sorry, this is my girlfriend. 486 00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:05,399 Speaker 1: We're lesbians. Okay, no disrespect, y'all be easy now that 487 00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:08,920 Speaker 1: this ship don't work. Yeah, y'all look good. What's suck 488 00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:12,639 Speaker 1: by yourselon? What's up? Sorry, um, this is my girlfriend. 489 00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:18,440 Speaker 1: We're lesbians. Shit, I'm a lesbians. We don't like men 490 00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:21,639 Speaker 1: me neither ship no, no, no, no, I mean like, 491 00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:23,680 Speaker 1: this is my girl and we don't deal with men 492 00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:26,480 Speaker 1: at all. We're lesbians and you know that's what I'm 493 00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 1: trying to say. I'm a lesbians too. I'll do let's 494 00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:34,159 Speaker 1: just all be lesbians together. Come on, but let me 495 00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:40,080 Speaker 1: get three shots ahead and say lesbians so or or 496 00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:44,240 Speaker 1: they'll do. This is absolutely accurate, but another thing that 497 00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:45,840 Speaker 1: maybe they used to do it more in the days 498 00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:47,120 Speaker 1: than they used to now. If I would be out 499 00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:49,719 Speaker 1: with my friends and I'd be like, this is my girlfriend. 500 00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:56,399 Speaker 1: Let me see y'all kiss, prove it be time and 501 00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 1: I want to let you guys know. First off, it's 502 00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:05,280 Speaker 1: really rape. You know it's got some nerv Did you 503 00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:08,080 Speaker 1: do this? You've never done? Have you heard friends do this? 504 00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:13,680 Speaker 1: Have you seen it? It's try. It's so we have 505 00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:15,840 Speaker 1: to lie and say we're lesbian. Like if you think 506 00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:20,160 Speaker 1: we're lying where you anyway? Calm down? Do you need 507 00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:22,960 Speaker 1: some water? No, I'm tired of you need some mill? 508 00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:29,399 Speaker 1: So you know how like typically hear more from male gaze, 509 00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:34,480 Speaker 1: where do make a guy switched teams like a heterosexual. 510 00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:37,960 Speaker 1: So I think I I sometimes think we have the 511 00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:42,880 Speaker 1: power to turn a lesbian straight. Also, I want to 512 00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:44,920 Speaker 1: say one thing, um that I think a lot of 513 00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:47,600 Speaker 1: lesbians have sometimes found insulting. You were like, well, you 514 00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:49,800 Speaker 1: like penetration and you can't you can't come from your clips? 515 00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:52,880 Speaker 1: Like why not just sucking it? And it's just like 516 00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:54,920 Speaker 1: me saying to a dude, like I think men suck 517 00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:57,480 Speaker 1: better dick for men, but if you like blow jobs 518 00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 1: so much, we don't you have a dude do it? 519 00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:00,720 Speaker 1: Like that's the thing, like where tracted to what we're 520 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,320 Speaker 1: attracted to? If I don't want to be penetrated and 521 00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:05,320 Speaker 1: look at a man on top of me and I'd 522 00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:07,520 Speaker 1: rather see a girl in hair and tits instead of like, 523 00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:11,360 Speaker 1: you know, big, you can't help you to Well, I 524 00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:13,400 Speaker 1: think it has a lot to do to like even 525 00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:16,400 Speaker 1: talking to gay men. If you're a top, bitches have 526 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:19,240 Speaker 1: assholes too, like if you just want to as girls 527 00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 1: have as too. But it's like, yeah, I think it 528 00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:24,840 Speaker 1: definitely has to do with just what you're interested in, um, 529 00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:27,600 Speaker 1: But which is why we always Honestly that argument is 530 00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:30,520 Speaker 1: to the defense of peggang honestly, like if you really 531 00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:31,840 Speaker 1: wanted to get fun in the asked why I do, 532 00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:33,680 Speaker 1: just go do it? But you don't, but you do. 533 00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:35,840 Speaker 1: You want to watch you do it, and you want 534 00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:37,720 Speaker 1: me to do it to you because you're into me 535 00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:40,080 Speaker 1: and you just want some prostate stimulations. She listened to 536 00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:41,880 Speaker 1: the gays talking about how you gotta get a knuckle 537 00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:44,040 Speaker 1: deep and pull back. Oh I already, Well that's why 538 00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:46,720 Speaker 1: so I have they like, yeah, well the strap on 539 00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:49,040 Speaker 1: that I do have. And for any of our female 540 00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:52,880 Speaker 1: listeners interested in buying um a strap on for their 541 00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,840 Speaker 1: for their man um, there's it's. What I have is 542 00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:59,480 Speaker 1: a prostate strap. So it actually is curved at the top. 543 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,320 Speaker 1: And when I asked the lady at the sex store 544 00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:03,200 Speaker 1: how do I use it, she's like, in your mind, 545 00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:05,160 Speaker 1: just know that that curve needs to always face the 546 00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:08,320 Speaker 1: belly button because that's how you're gonna so when you're 547 00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:09,840 Speaker 1: back in there, and you know how they said that 548 00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:13,600 Speaker 1: like that, well like this if he's on his back, 549 00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:17,920 Speaker 1: if it's on the other end, like and that's literally 550 00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:19,800 Speaker 1: because like they told you, you have to act like 551 00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:22,760 Speaker 1: you're doing the coming motion. But yeah, that's how to 552 00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:26,120 Speaker 1: reach the prostate like you want to go ahead and 553 00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:30,720 Speaker 1: like that, So I want to get back into lesbians. 554 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:35,560 Speaker 1: Oh wait, you guys left fingering combo. You didn't really 555 00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:41,040 Speaker 1: go into too much detail. No, no, no, we know. 556 00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:42,320 Speaker 1: We do need to listen, we need we need to 557 00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:46,800 Speaker 1: talk more about lesbian sex. Like, guys, go him with 558 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:50,080 Speaker 1: the fingers, and that's not how you squirt, and it's like, dude, 559 00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:51,520 Speaker 1: chill out and well and there's a way to make 560 00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,160 Speaker 1: a female squirt and if she's not aroused, there's a 561 00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:58,280 Speaker 1: whole lot of it's more psyche. So explain with the fingers. 562 00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:02,800 Speaker 1: So explain with the fingers for our male listeners and 563 00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:07,080 Speaker 1: our other lesbian listeners. When you're fingering a woman's vagina, 564 00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:10,840 Speaker 1: what is the right way to finger a pussy? Alright? 565 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:13,920 Speaker 1: So me, personally, I like to go slow because I'm 566 00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:17,080 Speaker 1: not about the whole take it no, because like honestly, 567 00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:21,440 Speaker 1: I could either hurt her and I didn't, so there's that. Um. 568 00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:24,960 Speaker 1: Normally for me, I like to just go either like 569 00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:28,720 Speaker 1: a simple one stroke in your fingers in because it's 570 00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:31,080 Speaker 1: not too much, just not too little, just right and 571 00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:35,760 Speaker 1: then um, let's see. Basically, I guess slow and steady 572 00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:38,240 Speaker 1: tends to win the race, so that way they become 573 00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:42,400 Speaker 1: adjusted to how slow you can be, right, And then 574 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:45,280 Speaker 1: again I love begging, so then if she wants more, 575 00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:48,120 Speaker 1: then I'm like, okay, and then I like you, and 576 00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:51,080 Speaker 1: then I like and then and then I actually like 577 00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:53,560 Speaker 1: to choke her as I do it, and then I 578 00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:57,240 Speaker 1: just I pick up the pace. Now, Um, I don't want, 579 00:31:57,360 --> 00:32:00,360 Speaker 1: I don't want, I don't want. Can you shoot? I 580 00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:06,120 Speaker 1: love this freaking professional? You be professional or leave weethy 581 00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:11,120 Speaker 1: entire You took your hand and you're like, y'all needs 582 00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:13,720 Speaker 1: need to pay for the video of it. This is 583 00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:16,880 Speaker 1: real life ship, okay. And it's a while you're doing 584 00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:19,800 Speaker 1: the fingering. Are you still playing? Like, are you still 585 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:22,640 Speaker 1: needing cli or have you specifically stopped? Because I want 586 00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:25,320 Speaker 1: her to enjoy that the penetry because it can also 587 00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:27,160 Speaker 1: be too much. But then I always like to double 588 00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:30,640 Speaker 1: back and do it. Okay, so double back, yeah, and 589 00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:34,959 Speaker 1: like do both at the same time eventually, so um, 590 00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:37,920 Speaker 1: I'm choking her and then um I'm sucking her at 591 00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:41,160 Speaker 1: the same time. By that time, you know, my movements 592 00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:47,840 Speaker 1: become quicker and harder and better. Um, and then hello, 593 00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:51,479 Speaker 1: I cannot look at me easy, lord, helping now um 594 00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:54,080 Speaker 1: and then um, I mean we we have like thirty 595 00:32:54,080 --> 00:33:00,360 Speaker 1: more minutes after Um, she got pottery, you have to 596 00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:04,400 Speaker 1: go make a pot I like potter. I'll see the thing. 597 00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:08,080 Speaker 1: She likes to be alone, annoying us. Anyways, moving on, Um, 598 00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:10,400 Speaker 1: So again, I don't want it to feel like I'm 599 00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:14,440 Speaker 1: poking her, which I think a lot of men do poke. 600 00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:17,640 Speaker 1: Don't poke a woman. When you're in there, You're doing 601 00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:21,440 Speaker 1: an actual emotion, like kind of like a wave if 602 00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:24,560 Speaker 1: I could, I guess describe guys poke a lot, and 603 00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:27,840 Speaker 1: it's not enjoyable, like like guys like think about like 604 00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:30,240 Speaker 1: literally poking a girl on her arm, Like that ship 605 00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:35,080 Speaker 1: hurts after a while, so imagine that a boy. Um. 606 00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:37,880 Speaker 1: So it's almost like a wave. And then once I 607 00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:40,840 Speaker 1: get a right right where I where I want her 608 00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:43,240 Speaker 1: to be, and like there's like that arch in her back, 609 00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:44,840 Speaker 1: then I just put three in and then I just 610 00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:48,040 Speaker 1: that's when okay, and then I flip her around and 611 00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:50,479 Speaker 1: then I slap her us and then it's a whole different. 612 00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:53,160 Speaker 1: And at this point I wanted you mentioned slapping ass 613 00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:56,040 Speaker 1: and I wanted to to mention this to all of 614 00:33:56,080 --> 00:34:00,360 Speaker 1: our listeners too. When you reach that level of a cousal, 615 00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:03,480 Speaker 1: the pain or slapping, and asked, that's when it's enjoyable. 616 00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:07,400 Speaker 1: Start by slapping early on or being rough early on. 617 00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:13,680 Speaker 1: It set will terminate. So to take your time and 618 00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:15,480 Speaker 1: to make it to where she has been aroused to 619 00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:18,640 Speaker 1: then you could start doing the slapping, even the choking. 620 00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:23,880 Speaker 1: Are you really texting? No, I'm looking at the outline, Okay, 621 00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:31,560 Speaker 1: checking cool, But I think this is this is a 622 00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:35,400 Speaker 1: lot of tension in here. But yeah, I feel like 623 00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:39,640 Speaker 1: this is more uncomfortable than my mom, which is yeah, 624 00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:42,080 Speaker 1: which is why I'm yo shout out and I love 625 00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:44,400 Speaker 1: her mom and her mom is amazing. She's been on 626 00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:47,160 Speaker 1: our shows. So I want to just say again, so, 627 00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:50,040 Speaker 1: like you said, you get her really aroused before you 628 00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:52,480 Speaker 1: get into the slapping, and I think that that's important 629 00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:55,680 Speaker 1: for all dynamics of relationships or people in bed at 630 00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:58,759 Speaker 1: that point, is because then it becomes more enjoyable. Um. 631 00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:02,640 Speaker 1: I want to talk once more about like scissoring. People 632 00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:04,359 Speaker 1: are like, I heard it's your favorite thing to do 633 00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:10,759 Speaker 1: from who's been around. I heard I'm in these screets. 634 00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:14,080 Speaker 1: So scissoring a lot of people are like this bullshit, 635 00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:16,320 Speaker 1: Like how do girls really enjoy this. Can you explain 636 00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:18,759 Speaker 1: scissoring and talk about like how we get off from it? 637 00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:22,799 Speaker 1: We as in So, I mean scissoring it's like rubbing, right, 638 00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:26,160 Speaker 1: So I don't know. I I personally I love feeling 639 00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:28,440 Speaker 1: if I'm on top or she's on top and I'm 640 00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:32,080 Speaker 1: on the bottom. Um, I just love feeling, you know, 641 00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:35,880 Speaker 1: her pussy against mine and then parts of her body 642 00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:39,640 Speaker 1: well because again depending if she's on top and I'm 643 00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:42,279 Speaker 1: on the bottom, again parts of her body against mine 644 00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:45,600 Speaker 1: as well. So, um, scissoring for me, I just love. 645 00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:48,040 Speaker 1: I guess it's almost like dry humping, but like not 646 00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:51,040 Speaker 1: really it is, but it's not really. I mean it's 647 00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:53,520 Speaker 1: dry humping, but at the same time scissoring, it's like 648 00:35:53,560 --> 00:35:56,320 Speaker 1: you get to like, I'm I love my clip stimulated 649 00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:59,719 Speaker 1: and at the same time someone else is getting into it. Yes, 650 00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:07,359 Speaker 1: clip simulation. That's right now. Look a so so one 651 00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:11,319 Speaker 1: of our UM. I enjoyed talking about even just the 652 00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:13,360 Speaker 1: sex of it. But I think something that me and 653 00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:16,560 Speaker 1: Weezy wanted to discuss with having you, Um, I guess 654 00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:19,880 Speaker 1: we can define gold star lesbian. That's our horrible decision. 655 00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:23,480 Speaker 1: A gold Start gaze on a few weeks ago, we did. 656 00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:26,040 Speaker 1: So a gold star lesbian guys is someone who has 657 00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:29,799 Speaker 1: never been with the opposite sex. Um. In this case, 658 00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:32,480 Speaker 1: you're a female who has never been penetrated or been 659 00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:37,160 Speaker 1: with him. Now, So I didn't believe her because I 660 00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:39,880 Speaker 1: mean one and nigger we talked about Weezy hit me 661 00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:43,160 Speaker 1: up and was like yeah, so she totally did. For like, um, 662 00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:46,840 Speaker 1: leave that out, y'all gonna be out. So she's like no, 663 00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:50,839 Speaker 1: but I thought that it was interesting. So six months 664 00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:53,359 Speaker 1: did you say? Six month? Didn't and he didn't fuck him? 665 00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:58,279 Speaker 1: And what was your reason reasoning for not sucking him? 666 00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:00,640 Speaker 1: This was I guess the story you said earlier. Literally 667 00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:02,600 Speaker 1: just didn't feel comfortable at it. And so at what 668 00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:06,759 Speaker 1: age were you was that he gonna kill me? Um, 669 00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:13,120 Speaker 1: let's see, I was like at the time, okay, again 670 00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:16,520 Speaker 1: you know when you're at that specific that was him, 671 00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:21,440 Speaker 1: That was like probably him and his prime. Six months? 672 00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:25,280 Speaker 1: So so was what was the conversation? Keep your opinions 673 00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:28,600 Speaker 1: to yourself? Okay? So so you met him at this 674 00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:31,319 Speaker 1: point you were clearly a virgin um and you let 675 00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:34,719 Speaker 1: him know that. So how did you, guys go six months? 676 00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:37,640 Speaker 1: Niggas can't go two weeks without getting you find it 677 00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:40,760 Speaker 1: very surprising with him once he actually I wouldn't actually 678 00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:45,320 Speaker 1: because I believe he's a bottom. Um. So actually, um, 679 00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:48,720 Speaker 1: because this is where him and I were very much alike, 680 00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:52,320 Speaker 1: and like, yes, I used to like have my howish 681 00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:55,600 Speaker 1: ways or whatever as as does he or I don't know, 682 00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:59,120 Speaker 1: but once we really really start to like someone, and 683 00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:02,160 Speaker 1: it's we don't want to welcome no, no, no, no, 684 00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:04,719 Speaker 1: it's it's it's honestly more about I want to know 685 00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:07,600 Speaker 1: what's in here first, so that way everything else is perfect. 686 00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:11,640 Speaker 1: And we we actually we just took our time with it, 687 00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:14,120 Speaker 1: and like again, I felt really like I felt like 688 00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:16,680 Speaker 1: a horrible person. And then I had to, you know, 689 00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:18,319 Speaker 1: we went out to dinner and I told him and 690 00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:20,440 Speaker 1: he he kind of he was like, yeah, I kind 691 00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:22,479 Speaker 1: of had a feeling. I was like, okay, you should 692 00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:28,080 Speaker 1: have said I had one about you too. Maybe problem 693 00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:30,120 Speaker 1: both of y'all didn't know that y'all really liked the 694 00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:36,120 Speaker 1: same sex, but y'all were trying to. But I think 695 00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:38,800 Speaker 1: he's really hot, and people came, I like this question, 696 00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:42,560 Speaker 1: um that she has next. So this guy was a celebrity, beautiful, 697 00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:44,799 Speaker 1: gorgeous fucking model that probably all of our listeners would 698 00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:49,400 Speaker 1: fuck what celebrity guy just based off looks, would you 699 00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:52,240 Speaker 1: let funk? Oh my god, Chris Brown? And two, really 700 00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:55,719 Speaker 1: that's such a strange one. Maybe it's a dancing thing 701 00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:58,239 Speaker 1: you like, dancing ship. Maybe it is the first of all, 702 00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:01,160 Speaker 1: you know, it's like, first of all, it is not 703 00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:05,279 Speaker 1: dancing ship, it's dancing ship. Second of all, I'm a 704 00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:07,319 Speaker 1: Kanye fan, right, So i'd give you you would like 705 00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:10,400 Speaker 1: Kanye because I'm a fan. And maybe that's why you 706 00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:14,120 Speaker 1: some groups ship no, no, like J Cole. But I mean, 707 00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:19,879 Speaker 1: like a fan, what I wouldn't know. So I'm gonna 708 00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:22,080 Speaker 1: tell you, guys. Why can I tell you guys? Why? 709 00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:27,080 Speaker 1: So there was this basketball player who is a really 710 00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,200 Speaker 1: big fucking basketball player. I was a fan of his. 711 00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:35,240 Speaker 1: We fucked and it was so bade him so little, 712 00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:41,000 Speaker 1: so bad, really so trash. He's huge, his body is huge, 713 00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:46,879 Speaker 1: but nothing else. It's he's probably six eleven rough about that. 714 00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:48,840 Speaker 1: And so because I was such a fan of his, 715 00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:51,600 Speaker 1: like would watch all the games, like really enjoyed him 716 00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:55,799 Speaker 1: as a player. After I fused him, I was just like, okay, ball, 717 00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:00,200 Speaker 1: those balls aren't the same one now, So you think Jake. 718 00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:03,800 Speaker 1: I would hate if Jake Cole had bad dick because 719 00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:05,759 Speaker 1: I listen to his music. So I mean a fan 720 00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:08,120 Speaker 1: when I say like not on something like groupie, throw 721 00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:10,719 Speaker 1: you the pussy. But like I'm just such so interested 722 00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:14,280 Speaker 1: in him and like so consumed with Kanye, like I 723 00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:17,080 Speaker 1: want that for me so so so I could see 724 00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:19,440 Speaker 1: what you got a question over there? What this is? 725 00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:21,640 Speaker 1: I think this is why guys think that they can 726 00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:26,400 Speaker 1: make you switch teams because you just said fair fair Okay, 727 00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:30,040 Speaker 1: so you guys hope No, no, no, I mean men 728 00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:35,799 Speaker 1: have a celebrity. Absolutely not. You said that guys have 729 00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:37,640 Speaker 1: a celebrity guy they would go gay for if you 730 00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:40,839 Speaker 1: had to go straight, if you had to go gay 731 00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:47,239 Speaker 1: for a guy like girl. No, but like no, dude, 732 00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:52,839 Speaker 1: be like yo, I mean I maybe Jason. Oh my god, 733 00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:56,160 Speaker 1: guys are not here say who they would go gay 734 00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:58,960 Speaker 1: for it. That's a major pause, bro, that's just because 735 00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:02,640 Speaker 1: they're when I realized I was gay, And then I 736 00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:04,920 Speaker 1: was like, yeah, I got this one girl that all 737 00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:08,520 Speaker 1: I want to do is sucker. Oh we're good, Okay, 738 00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:10,480 Speaker 1: I did what I had to do. Wait, and she's 739 00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:12,439 Speaker 1: a very very famous model. So I'm like I'm trying 740 00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:15,680 Speaker 1: to think of a back off. Who So we just 741 00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:18,000 Speaker 1: did guys real quick while we're on lesbian play right 742 00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:20,719 Speaker 1: here and we're all kind of dipping in that pool. Um, 743 00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:22,960 Speaker 1: what is the celebrity girl that she would most want 744 00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:34,839 Speaker 1: to fuck? Chaf Oh, she's on that. Mine is just 745 00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:37,560 Speaker 1: because we actually know a lot of the same people, 746 00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:41,480 Speaker 1: so we know about each other. Ish, but it's just 747 00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:44,360 Speaker 1: the day that happens. I will rita or like, I 748 00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:47,120 Speaker 1: just want her, you know, I do like her. She 749 00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:51,080 Speaker 1: looks like she was fun in bed by the way. 750 00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:53,919 Speaker 1: I do want I feel like I could have said 751 00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:59,400 Speaker 1: a Beyonce or Rihanna or whatever. I feel like that 752 00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:00,840 Speaker 1: was like I was really trying to think I was 753 00:42:00,880 --> 00:42:02,840 Speaker 1: having about Brianna though, I just I just want to 754 00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:05,160 Speaker 1: get high. There's a celebrity couple that I'm like talking 755 00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:07,400 Speaker 1: right now. Okay, so here we go, wait, because I 756 00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:10,120 Speaker 1: have one. Who's the celebrity couple she would have? Three? 757 00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:13,000 Speaker 1: So Altered Carbon is a show on Netflix. The dude 758 00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:16,919 Speaker 1: from Yes I didn't realize how tractive hosted him him 759 00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:19,480 Speaker 1: and his wife Wow, Joel Kinneman and his wife. His 760 00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:22,560 Speaker 1: name is Chloe or something like that. Cleo. Anyway, she's 761 00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:24,759 Speaker 1: like tatted up to her chin, which I'm not into. 762 00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:27,360 Speaker 1: But the two of them together, like they're they're pretty 763 00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:29,960 Speaker 1: consturbated to them already. You definitely episode five, there is 764 00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:36,120 Speaker 1: a great their pictures. I'm I'm probably going to be 765 00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:38,399 Speaker 1: really basic again with this one, but I love them 766 00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:40,680 Speaker 1: and I know they're open and I I've heard that 767 00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:44,440 Speaker 1: he goes, oh, well them too, that's but that's a given. 768 00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:47,439 Speaker 1: I actually would love to have Will Smith and Jada 769 00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:51,200 Speaker 1: Pinkett really yes, and because I love Will Smith, he's taught, 770 00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:53,600 Speaker 1: and I hear that he possibly goes both honestly, they 771 00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:58,480 Speaker 1: see it would be fun, fun sex and then and 772 00:42:58,520 --> 00:43:01,600 Speaker 1: then you lay in bed after you you're fucking dressed 773 00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:03,600 Speaker 1: and exhausted, and he says a joke because he's just 774 00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:06,239 Speaker 1: fucking funny. So I get to laugh after sex too, 775 00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:14,680 Speaker 1: like I would just genuinely for um. Alright, So what's 776 00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:16,720 Speaker 1: your type? And I want to ask this to everybody 777 00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:20,920 Speaker 1: because we all fun girls, like what's your type? Oh? Oh, 778 00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:25,680 Speaker 1: I guess I can go first? Who wants to say? 779 00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:31,279 Speaker 1: I model? So it's so funny that they're not, I G. Models, 780 00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:36,560 Speaker 1: but they kind of are. I actually like really thick women. Um, 781 00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:38,320 Speaker 1: oh name and I model like you would like totally 782 00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:40,520 Speaker 1: well the bitch, that would be so real, Mia be 783 00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:44,480 Speaker 1: that's oh you're really do out here with that pussy 784 00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:46,840 Speaker 1: is great and pierced, and um, she have good. We 785 00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:50,600 Speaker 1: have confirmations. It's really good. It's really good pussy. But 786 00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:54,960 Speaker 1: she claimed that, like I'll be claiming that pussy. Um, 787 00:43:55,000 --> 00:44:00,440 Speaker 1: but Mia has great, She's amazing, not gonna need that 788 00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:03,840 Speaker 1: was the first person. I can't believe you. Oh yeah, no, no, 789 00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:05,960 Speaker 1: Like in real life. We went to the club one 790 00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:09,200 Speaker 1: time and it was all white party and we ended 791 00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:12,200 Speaker 1: up going all white people are like all white Jamaican party. 792 00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:15,240 Speaker 1: Clearly you know my crowd. It was just we dressed 793 00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:20,439 Speaker 1: in all white. Um, everyone else was colored. Um, I'm 794 00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:23,680 Speaker 1: just saying we glue in the dark with our white clothes. Um. 795 00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:25,759 Speaker 1: And then we went to our home girls house after 796 00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:28,960 Speaker 1: and I wanted her so bad. We went into we 797 00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:32,200 Speaker 1: read a condominium and went to like their area with 798 00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:34,640 Speaker 1: the TV and pool table. Took her into the bathroom 799 00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:38,160 Speaker 1: and and she just knows, she's like, but we were 800 00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:39,719 Speaker 1: in the club and I say, I don't give a fuck, 801 00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:43,120 Speaker 1: And it was still just beautifully tasting and everything. Even 802 00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:49,200 Speaker 1: after beautifully tasting, it was amazing beautifully you got know. 803 00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:51,680 Speaker 1: So a lot of the girls that I do or 804 00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:55,719 Speaker 1: have had sex with, I prefer they're all bartender strippers 805 00:44:55,800 --> 00:45:03,400 Speaker 1: as like they're those of that's that's the most start 806 00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:10,440 Speaker 1: start about like my type. Oh lord, here we go. 807 00:45:11,400 --> 00:45:15,560 Speaker 1: I like black, um you like black girls really, but 808 00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:18,399 Speaker 1: they need to be mixed. Like I can't clearly keep going. 809 00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:23,440 Speaker 1: This is so and I feel like girls hate you 810 00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:27,360 Speaker 1: know why, Like fuck you, why can't you suck the 811 00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:29,440 Speaker 1: black girl? We and he went out for sushi with Anthony. 812 00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:31,840 Speaker 1: You okay, And there was a girl in there, you 813 00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:34,560 Speaker 1: bro okay? So what was it? Like four or five 814 00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:37,600 Speaker 1: girls right came in and then like this white chick 815 00:45:37,719 --> 00:45:39,920 Speaker 1: is looking at me, and then she not just like 816 00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:41,960 Speaker 1: the black girl. And then the black girl looked at 817 00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:45,759 Speaker 1: me and goes, I was like shit, so uh no, 818 00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:48,840 Speaker 1: no no, but she's actually mixed too, She's actually actually 819 00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:52,840 Speaker 1: mixed black to me. You look black to me too, anyway. 820 00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:56,520 Speaker 1: Oh don't you don't hang around a lot of black people, 821 00:45:56,560 --> 00:46:03,440 Speaker 1: do you? Anyway? So she buys textured weave. I get it, Okay, 822 00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:11,520 Speaker 1: I'm cut cut this is going on the bonus episode. Listen, 823 00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:13,520 Speaker 1: I am at. I'm gonna tell you what I wear. 824 00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:17,080 Speaker 1: We've I make sure it blends. I like the volume. 825 00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:19,880 Speaker 1: We had this conversation yet, um I like the volume. 826 00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:21,960 Speaker 1: Plus I shaved my head on one side before, like 827 00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:23,560 Speaker 1: all the way back, and like that's she's taking a 828 00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:29,439 Speaker 1: long time. I shaved it always a dome and so yeah, okay, 829 00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:32,799 Speaker 1: I wasn't done alright, So black and mix, like I 830 00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:35,719 Speaker 1: like black and white, black Porto Ricans, we get the 831 00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:45,520 Speaker 1: mixed part black and Israelian, Israeli whatever. Okay, okay, we 832 00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:48,560 Speaker 1: get it. Red Nails Tattoo has a podcast called Horrible Decisions. 833 00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:54,080 Speaker 1: All right, Next, what's your type? I'll say, and I'll 834 00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:56,040 Speaker 1: be honest. I saw the other girl. She was sucking, 835 00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:58,160 Speaker 1: so I don't want to say which you want the 836 00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:09,279 Speaker 1: French back, get bitch the shape. So I will say, well, 837 00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:11,839 Speaker 1: there's not only Collete, there's a couple bitches in them. 838 00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:15,239 Speaker 1: Victoria the one, the one in him. I will say, 839 00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:19,600 Speaker 1: there's definitely there's definitely a difference. I think she just 840 00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:21,919 Speaker 1: genuinely has she has to have a vibe with someone 841 00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:24,160 Speaker 1: because all of her girls, I will say, look, different, 842 00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:27,680 Speaker 1: probably the thickest with a big button, like you're answering 843 00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:30,880 Speaker 1: it perfect. Yeah, so I definitely think just you know, 844 00:47:30,920 --> 00:47:32,520 Speaker 1: she's an email host, so there it has to be 845 00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:36,239 Speaker 1: a vibe. I will say this one thing, um that 846 00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:39,319 Speaker 1: I said to someone, I think there's more like no 847 00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:43,520 Speaker 1: the other morning. So I've noticed with me the reason 848 00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:46,560 Speaker 1: I'm not all the way gay is because when I'm 849 00:47:46,600 --> 00:47:50,799 Speaker 1: with women, I'm constantly thinking about how attracted to like 850 00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:54,560 Speaker 1: that I'm with a woman, Like I'm so excited about 851 00:47:54,600 --> 00:47:57,279 Speaker 1: being with a woman. I like the feminine ship that's 852 00:47:57,280 --> 00:47:59,520 Speaker 1: going on between the two of us, Like that's something 853 00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:01,520 Speaker 1: that I love that's going on, and that's very special 854 00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:03,400 Speaker 1: to me. When being with women, you don't have that 855 00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:06,400 Speaker 1: excitement with men. I don't really think that I'm with 856 00:48:06,440 --> 00:48:08,520 Speaker 1: a man when I'm with a man. When you're with 857 00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:10,799 Speaker 1: a man, who do you think about when you're with 858 00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:13,560 Speaker 1: a man. I'm just saying, like I don't know if 859 00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:16,160 Speaker 1: i'm explaining as well, Like part of the reason when 860 00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:19,040 Speaker 1: I'm with women, I get off of the fact that 861 00:48:19,120 --> 00:48:21,239 Speaker 1: I have a girl like that, she's girly, that I'm 862 00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:25,200 Speaker 1: like that that it's it's not exactly second nature as 863 00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:27,719 Speaker 1: men are to me, so when I'm with women, it 864 00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:29,920 Speaker 1: feels more special in that way. Like I'm constantly thinking 865 00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:32,040 Speaker 1: about the fact that it's a girl, and I wonder 866 00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:35,200 Speaker 1: if that's because I'm not all the way gay, So 867 00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:38,160 Speaker 1: speaking of this not all the way like right, like 868 00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:40,319 Speaker 1: being with a woman out or things like that, Like 869 00:48:40,360 --> 00:48:43,440 Speaker 1: I'm so excited that, like I get to like feel 870 00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:45,320 Speaker 1: like this and be with a girl and feel sexy 871 00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:48,000 Speaker 1: to be with a woman. And and I don't mean 872 00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:49,799 Speaker 1: that to diminish something that I have with somebody, but 873 00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:52,680 Speaker 1: I genuinely feel that, and it's the most exciting part 874 00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:54,600 Speaker 1: for me. I love being with a woman because that's 875 00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:57,240 Speaker 1: what she is, right, And so me and you are 876 00:48:57,280 --> 00:49:00,440 Speaker 1: on this teeter totter halfway mark um, I and joy 877 00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:02,719 Speaker 1: being with women for different reasons than I enjoy being 878 00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:05,480 Speaker 1: with men. I want to bring this back to being 879 00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:09,520 Speaker 1: a gold star lesbian because with when dealing with women, 880 00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:13,520 Speaker 1: I've gone with Mia to gay clubs and I actually 881 00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:17,400 Speaker 1: prefer aside from the stripper hose, I actually really like 882 00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:21,000 Speaker 1: like what like the Brittany grinder studs, like the I 883 00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:25,359 Speaker 1: love like an androgynous tall as female with dreads and 884 00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:29,279 Speaker 1: so but my girl, Britnie Grinder could have it all, 885 00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:32,360 Speaker 1: I would have her inserted baby from whatever however the 886 00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:35,719 Speaker 1: fun she got that sperm. I love Britney Grinder. And 887 00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:37,480 Speaker 1: so I wanted to ask this because when I go 888 00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:41,640 Speaker 1: to the gay clubs where I'm around lesbian women, they 889 00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:44,720 Speaker 1: have an issue with me being bisexual and still wanting 890 00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:47,200 Speaker 1: That's one of our questions. And that's one of our questions. 891 00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:52,200 Speaker 1: What is the issue with lesbians going to or dealing 892 00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:55,239 Speaker 1: with bisexual women? And there normally is an issue. I 893 00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:56,520 Speaker 1: know there is. I think I know what it is. 894 00:49:56,560 --> 00:49:57,799 Speaker 1: I don't want to speak for you, but you know 895 00:49:57,800 --> 00:50:01,560 Speaker 1: what you heard. No, I think it's more of a 896 00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:04,319 Speaker 1: power thing. And I'll explain because it's like, okay, so 897 00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:07,360 Speaker 1: hey you're by Yes, that means I could suck you great. 898 00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:10,719 Speaker 1: But then with I guess a lot of situations that 899 00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:13,680 Speaker 1: I've seen and even with me, I'm like, I don't 900 00:50:13,719 --> 00:50:16,120 Speaker 1: want to think about you fucking a man a man 901 00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:19,680 Speaker 1: because I just gave you all of me. So why 902 00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:21,960 Speaker 1: so I'm not But what if it was another girl? 903 00:50:22,160 --> 00:50:24,520 Speaker 1: What is it still somebody else? Why is it the 904 00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:27,440 Speaker 1: man part? Because because you said I just gave you 905 00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:28,719 Speaker 1: all of me? That's what I mean. Like, so what 906 00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:31,120 Speaker 1: if they sucked another girl? What is this specifically about 907 00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:34,279 Speaker 1: the man that like you? Do you feel like is 908 00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:36,879 Speaker 1: it a competition? Because I was gonna say I think 909 00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:39,800 Speaker 1: that's a problem we had someone. Well, we talk often 910 00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:42,680 Speaker 1: about if a man was bisexual what the issue would be, 911 00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:44,440 Speaker 1: and a lot of women have said I don't want 912 00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:46,680 Speaker 1: to compete with men and women. Let me tell you something. 913 00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:48,799 Speaker 1: I always find very insulting from men when I tell 914 00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:50,799 Speaker 1: them I'm dating a girl, or when I have dated 915 00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:53,759 Speaker 1: a girl while dating another guy, when they'll say things 916 00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:55,480 Speaker 1: like they're not worried about it. I don't care if 917 00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:57,600 Speaker 1: you day girls, Like do you think that she can't 918 00:50:57,680 --> 00:51:00,840 Speaker 1: take me for me? Oh bitch, because I can. And 919 00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:03,920 Speaker 1: I really don't like that because that's me diminishes, Like 920 00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:05,720 Speaker 1: you just think I just want to fucking eat pussy 921 00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:08,040 Speaker 1: or whatever. Like I've had girlfriends, you know, and I've 922 00:51:08,080 --> 00:51:10,800 Speaker 1: had real strong connections with women, and I really don't 923 00:51:10,840 --> 00:51:12,440 Speaker 1: like when dudes will say things to me like you 924 00:51:12,400 --> 00:51:14,040 Speaker 1: can't funk other guys, but you can suck other girls. 925 00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:16,960 Speaker 1: You're only saying that because you really find competition in 926 00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:19,839 Speaker 1: this man. Well, do you know this woman is doing 927 00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:22,080 Speaker 1: better than you and everything. So I actually have a 928 00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:25,959 Speaker 1: question for the bothy of So that's actually extremely true. Um, 929 00:51:26,040 --> 00:51:30,200 Speaker 1: but is it the same way if it's a UM, 930 00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:32,120 Speaker 1: I just totally lost my train of thought if it's 931 00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:36,319 Speaker 1: a if it's a a guy saying, oh, well, I'm 932 00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:39,360 Speaker 1: gonna like like like our girls. Okay with that, No, 933 00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:44,759 Speaker 1: not at all correct. If he's gonna another guy. So 934 00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:47,240 Speaker 1: we've talked about it. I think there's just a huge 935 00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:51,640 Speaker 1: there's a huge bisexual bisexuality, especially dealing when it comes 936 00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:55,600 Speaker 1: to men um specifically black men. Which that's all ideals, 937 00:51:55,600 --> 00:51:58,440 Speaker 1: this is all societal pressures. We all feel like that 938 00:51:58,480 --> 00:52:01,279 Speaker 1: bisexuality is not real with which is total. Not only 939 00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:05,120 Speaker 1: that because even as a bisexual female when I let 940 00:52:05,160 --> 00:52:07,200 Speaker 1: guys know, we talked about this without with the dating 941 00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:11,799 Speaker 1: app with Tinder, Alex was in here to take bisexual off. 942 00:52:12,000 --> 00:52:14,719 Speaker 1: And it's funny because most men who meet a bisexual 943 00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:20,360 Speaker 1: female automatically assume, YEA not going to you. I'm curious 944 00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:23,680 Speaker 1: as a full blown lesbian. Um, full blown lesbian, that's 945 00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:26,400 Speaker 1: sounded kind of bad. Full blown um as a as 946 00:52:26,440 --> 00:52:29,960 Speaker 1: a whole as okay, as a whole last lesbian do 947 00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:32,319 Speaker 1: you bring other women into the bedroom with you? What 948 00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:34,120 Speaker 1: are the what are the lines that are drawn in 949 00:52:34,239 --> 00:52:38,359 Speaker 1: lesbian relationship? I mean, honestly, communication is key with us, 950 00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:41,960 Speaker 1: and like if you say like okay, like if I'll 951 00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:43,880 Speaker 1: go out with a girl and I'm like yo, like 952 00:52:44,480 --> 00:52:47,839 Speaker 1: I'm kind of feeling her. But but when it comes 953 00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:50,399 Speaker 1: to bringing other women in the bedroom, it works as 954 00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:56,000 Speaker 1: any relationship goes. You communists as you're as honest as 955 00:52:56,040 --> 00:52:58,560 Speaker 1: I am honest with you because I don't like the 956 00:52:58,600 --> 00:53:01,319 Speaker 1: whole Oh well, so it was okay with it and 957 00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:03,440 Speaker 1: like no, everyone's naked in bed and you're just like, 958 00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:06,799 Speaker 1: I really do want a bit, but it happens, like 959 00:53:06,800 --> 00:53:08,880 Speaker 1: I think with three sims across part with everybody. Absolutely, 960 00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:10,480 Speaker 1: And I wanted to ask you another question as well. 961 00:53:10,520 --> 00:53:15,520 Speaker 1: So dealing with women and only women, there's this stigma 962 00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:18,040 Speaker 1: that women are caddy, women are jealous, women are needy, 963 00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:20,960 Speaker 1: women are naggy. Do you feel do you feel like 964 00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:24,560 Speaker 1: you get more of why don't be over here agreeing 965 00:53:24,600 --> 00:53:31,560 Speaker 1: with that, I say that ship when you're not yes, yes, 966 00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:35,280 Speaker 1: So when you're as a lesbian only dealing with women, 967 00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:38,920 Speaker 1: do you feel like there's more drama and lesbian relationships 968 00:53:38,920 --> 00:53:41,680 Speaker 1: and straight relationships because everything I go to the Gate Club, 969 00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:43,800 Speaker 1: excuse me, shut up. I'm the one that's supposed to 970 00:53:43,800 --> 00:53:46,919 Speaker 1: be answering. She's I'm interviewing her. Thank you. Think about 971 00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:50,319 Speaker 1: when everybody's they always be fighting. I want to cope 972 00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:52,960 Speaker 1: with Gabana like two or three times for the lesbian 973 00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:55,600 Speaker 1: party during Pride weekend. Fight me and got in a fight. 974 00:53:55,760 --> 00:54:01,959 Speaker 1: We stay getting the fight at the lesbian club. Really mean, look, 975 00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:06,239 Speaker 1: regardless if you're in a a relationship with another girl, 976 00:54:06,920 --> 00:54:10,640 Speaker 1: and especially during Pride, especially like I'm going to Pride 977 00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:13,120 Speaker 1: l A and I'm petrified of what the funk I'm about, 978 00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:15,520 Speaker 1: Like I just got confirmation I'm going on pet It's 979 00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:18,239 Speaker 1: really that much drama. And see what it is? Way 980 00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:23,360 Speaker 1: like because people you love where they're like the circle. Goddamn, 981 00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:27,719 Speaker 1: it's like Adam, you know. But honestly, honestly, what it 982 00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:29,600 Speaker 1: is just like it's Pride, right, so like you want 983 00:54:29,600 --> 00:54:32,560 Speaker 1: to look your best, you wanna be the best ho 984 00:54:32,760 --> 00:54:35,880 Speaker 1: out there. And then and so again, if you're in 985 00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:38,240 Speaker 1: a relationship and then you start bumping into the people 986 00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:40,840 Speaker 1: and then they're like, oh hey, why are you looking 987 00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:43,239 Speaker 1: at it? And I'm like, yo, calm down. So it's 988 00:54:43,280 --> 00:54:47,040 Speaker 1: just a girl thing. But but I love when girls 989 00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:49,040 Speaker 1: get jealous of me because it actually shows me that 990 00:54:49,080 --> 00:54:54,920 Speaker 1: they give a fuck what that's so, let's see. I 991 00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:57,560 Speaker 1: think it's like we talked about that. I feel like 992 00:54:57,800 --> 00:55:02,719 Speaker 1: it's crazy that these certain negative things are associated to 993 00:55:02,960 --> 00:55:05,279 Speaker 1: really wanting me. Oh my god, you're willing to fight 994 00:55:05,320 --> 00:55:07,520 Speaker 1: over me. Oh my god, you're jealous. Oh my god, 995 00:55:07,560 --> 00:55:09,279 Speaker 1: you must really like me because you did that. No, 996 00:55:09,400 --> 00:55:12,960 Speaker 1: I think that everybody can feel that way. Like, I 997 00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:15,239 Speaker 1: think it's not bad to see someone get a little 998 00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:17,680 Speaker 1: your tease about jealousy. I don't like when someone takes 999 00:55:17,719 --> 00:55:21,600 Speaker 1: it too far that. No, But I like kind of 1000 00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:23,680 Speaker 1: cute tee like it. I like. I like the cute, 1001 00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:26,440 Speaker 1: fun type. I don't. I don't like the oh lord, 1002 00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:28,319 Speaker 1: let me leave. No no, no, no, no no. I 1003 00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:30,560 Speaker 1: don't like that. UM. I do want to say, it's 1004 00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:35,400 Speaker 1: funny you mentioned dudes with a threesome thing like I. UM. 1005 00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:38,280 Speaker 1: I was having this conversation with someone recently and telling 1006 00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:39,640 Speaker 1: them how I've been seeing this girl and I've been 1007 00:55:39,640 --> 00:55:41,399 Speaker 1: seeing this guy, and they're like, oh, we're gonna bring 1008 00:55:41,400 --> 00:55:49,000 Speaker 1: it together. His name is Jeeves. So, so what's the 1009 00:55:49,040 --> 00:55:52,920 Speaker 1: girl's nickname? Yeah, what's her nickname? I just want to know, 1010 00:55:54,120 --> 00:55:58,040 Speaker 1: come on, so we I can't figure it out yet. 1011 00:55:58,120 --> 00:56:00,560 Speaker 1: I was gonna say lover girl because how I'm feeling 1012 00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:03,640 Speaker 1: about her, but I also feel like it could be 1013 00:56:03,640 --> 00:56:06,680 Speaker 1: because I had love a boy, but love a boy, honey, 1014 00:56:07,320 --> 00:56:14,200 Speaker 1: that's the past. Welcome to the president. But people like, 1015 00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:18,720 Speaker 1: now do you bring it together? And I think that 1016 00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:21,120 Speaker 1: that kind of annoyed me because just because you've heard 1017 00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:22,560 Speaker 1: I like to have three sims, you know, I'm into it, 1018 00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:25,320 Speaker 1: Like I feel like having separate relationships is okay, and 1019 00:56:25,360 --> 00:56:27,120 Speaker 1: I don't have to just bring these two people together 1020 00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:30,879 Speaker 1: because I enjoyed being with them. And I frankly would 1021 00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:33,319 Speaker 1: be really insulted if he ever said something like that 1022 00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:35,399 Speaker 1: to me, Like if you know I like this person, 1023 00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:36,640 Speaker 1: you know how I talk about it, and now you're 1024 00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:39,680 Speaker 1: gonna be like I want to like, it's very like, 1025 00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:42,000 Speaker 1: why would you be insulted if he just acts a question? 1026 00:56:42,040 --> 00:56:44,120 Speaker 1: Because to me, if I'm telling you that I'm with 1027 00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:47,560 Speaker 1: someone who's a lover girl and love girl or whatever 1028 00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:50,680 Speaker 1: or someone that I'm enjoying, I mean it's a separate space, 1029 00:56:50,760 --> 00:56:52,560 Speaker 1: like I'd kind of be insulted because it makes me 1030 00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:54,200 Speaker 1: feel like you think this is for you to Like 1031 00:56:54,760 --> 00:56:57,319 Speaker 1: what if he just enquires like, hey, would you ever 1032 00:56:57,560 --> 00:57:00,440 Speaker 1: be interested in I guess it have to be how 1033 00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:02,520 Speaker 1: I was brought up, but I I don't even I 1034 00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:05,200 Speaker 1: feel like men shouldn't even bring that to a woman 1035 00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:07,600 Speaker 1: because she's first of all, I don't want to bring 1036 00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:11,400 Speaker 1: to people that I'm really into together unless we all 1037 00:57:11,400 --> 00:57:13,480 Speaker 1: plan on being together. I've had a three way relationship. 1038 00:57:14,080 --> 00:57:16,240 Speaker 1: I would hate to two people have feelings for it, 1039 00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:17,800 Speaker 1: just like that's just weird. And then I'm the one 1040 00:57:17,800 --> 00:57:19,200 Speaker 1: in the middle that it's gonna be weird, like we're 1041 00:57:19,200 --> 00:57:21,720 Speaker 1: gonna have a threesome. Like, let's not choose the person 1042 00:57:21,840 --> 00:57:24,960 Speaker 1: that I'm dating apart from you, Like, let's see that 1043 00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:32,439 Speaker 1: person together. Like, I don't know sex, how what HO ship? 1044 00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:37,120 Speaker 1: How often do I have sex with men or women? Women? Honestly, 1045 00:57:37,400 --> 00:57:41,240 Speaker 1: the girl that I was fucking, she um isn't here yet. 1046 00:57:41,280 --> 00:57:42,920 Speaker 1: If you look at my nails, it's clearly been a 1047 00:57:42,920 --> 00:57:45,200 Speaker 1: while since I sucked a woman. You'll know when I 1048 00:57:45,280 --> 00:57:47,680 Speaker 1: funk a woman because I won't be wanting to have 1049 00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:51,760 Speaker 1: my cry. Oh I already know they're they're short, but 1050 00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:55,040 Speaker 1: I know, but that's I think that that's a lesbian 1051 00:57:55,080 --> 00:57:56,880 Speaker 1: thing too. I was actually gonna bring up your nails. 1052 00:57:57,200 --> 00:58:01,120 Speaker 1: You don't even have color on them. Um, But I honestly, 1053 00:58:01,200 --> 00:58:07,120 Speaker 1: it's more so like a drunken like a drunken night 1054 00:58:07,160 --> 00:58:11,480 Speaker 1: after the club type of thing, or a threesome. Um. 1055 00:58:11,600 --> 00:58:14,000 Speaker 1: There was a relationships. Yeah, I did have a relationship 1056 00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:16,480 Speaker 1: with a female. She treated me probably the best. Um 1057 00:58:17,080 --> 00:58:22,720 Speaker 1: it was in Miami that I always in Miami, live 1058 00:58:22,760 --> 00:58:27,760 Speaker 1: in Miami. Yeah, and that relationship, I will say probably 1059 00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:30,160 Speaker 1: of all of my relationships, she treated me probably better 1060 00:58:30,160 --> 00:58:32,160 Speaker 1: than anyone. And just at that time I was dumb 1061 00:58:32,160 --> 00:58:34,840 Speaker 1: and fast. And I have to have two questions that 1062 00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:36,960 Speaker 1: I really really want to get in before we do 1063 00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:41,120 Speaker 1: whole mail. How did you lose your virginity as in 1064 00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:43,080 Speaker 1: like your hyman, and I feel like a lot of 1065 00:58:43,320 --> 00:58:46,240 Speaker 1: it's still there. How do you talk about why do 1066 00:58:46,280 --> 00:58:49,720 Speaker 1: you think it's still there? Why would we still be there? 1067 00:58:49,760 --> 00:58:52,160 Speaker 1: How does your hyman? How does your chair get popped 1068 00:58:52,200 --> 00:58:55,920 Speaker 1: with fingers? Maybe so, but I feel like that's a 1069 00:58:56,000 --> 00:58:58,400 Speaker 1: very good question because people will always assume that your 1070 00:58:58,440 --> 00:59:01,640 Speaker 1: hyman is still there. Okay, okay. So for me, how 1071 00:59:01,640 --> 00:59:05,720 Speaker 1: it happened was in a relationship with this incredible woman 1072 00:59:05,960 --> 00:59:09,800 Speaker 1: and just we just decided to like not just fun 1073 00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:13,040 Speaker 1: like we both wanted to actually make love. And then 1074 00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:16,400 Speaker 1: she brought the strap on and then I was like okay, 1075 00:59:16,800 --> 00:59:20,360 Speaker 1: and then it happened and I was like, oh, okay, 1076 00:59:20,560 --> 00:59:23,800 Speaker 1: done by simple that's it. And did you ever deal 1077 00:59:23,840 --> 00:59:27,600 Speaker 1: with a strap on again? Yeah? Of course, yeah, you enjoyed. 1078 00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:30,200 Speaker 1: But so you know it's not my first choice. I 1079 00:59:30,240 --> 00:59:31,760 Speaker 1: want to girl to feel all of me and not 1080 00:59:31,840 --> 00:59:35,120 Speaker 1: that dinner. Right. So so you again to me coming 1081 00:59:35,120 --> 00:59:39,240 Speaker 1: off you you even classified yourself as half butch you 1082 00:59:39,480 --> 00:59:43,280 Speaker 1: would consider is a verse a thing with lesbian you 1083 00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:46,920 Speaker 1: you do the strapping and take the strap on. What 1084 00:59:46,920 --> 00:59:56,360 Speaker 1: do you prefer? I'm just curious why sex show did 1085 00:59:56,400 --> 00:59:59,600 Speaker 1: you see? I know it's her face, that's why you 1086 00:59:59,760 --> 01:00:06,600 Speaker 1: little face musya. What do you prefer? I prefer not 1087 01:00:06,640 --> 01:00:11,640 Speaker 1: taking it? I love being always like power. Um. One 1088 01:00:11,680 --> 01:00:14,200 Speaker 1: other question, my last one, UM, what is the hype 1089 01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:16,880 Speaker 1: about sucking straight girls? Because I think me and you 1090 01:00:16,920 --> 01:00:18,919 Speaker 1: both talked about this that we like sucking straight girls. 1091 01:00:18,920 --> 01:00:20,880 Speaker 1: Whatever do you? I don't know if you do, but 1092 01:00:20,960 --> 01:00:22,800 Speaker 1: like like I want to talk about that. Why is 1093 01:00:22,800 --> 01:00:26,040 Speaker 1: it so exciting? Um, they played too many games? No, no no, no, 1094 01:00:27,360 --> 01:00:30,760 Speaker 1: I ain't got a patience. I like, I like, I like, 1095 01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:33,280 Speaker 1: I like fucking straight girls just simply off the again. 1096 01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:37,080 Speaker 1: It's communications. So if I say, um, you know, have 1097 01:00:37,200 --> 01:00:40,360 Speaker 1: you ever you know? And like I get off on 1098 01:00:40,440 --> 01:00:42,640 Speaker 1: the fact, they're like, I've never done this ship before, 1099 01:00:42,920 --> 01:00:44,840 Speaker 1: and those are literally that's way because you want to 1100 01:00:44,880 --> 01:00:48,840 Speaker 1: be able to be Yeah for absolutely hating on the 1101 01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:50,880 Speaker 1: guy if he's trying to do the same to you, 1102 01:00:51,760 --> 01:00:55,120 Speaker 1: because y'all are just all I think. I'm gonna be 1103 01:00:55,120 --> 01:00:57,680 Speaker 1: honest with you. This gets into a totally type like 1104 01:00:57,760 --> 01:01:02,320 Speaker 1: creep culture and men. No, no, no, no no, it's not hating. Generally, 1105 01:01:02,360 --> 01:01:06,160 Speaker 1: men are very aggressive and it's a pressure thing and 1106 01:01:06,360 --> 01:01:11,320 Speaker 1: I women. I never it's gonna sound very cocky, but 1107 01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:14,120 Speaker 1: it's true. I never approached them. I'm like, you know, 1108 01:01:14,200 --> 01:01:15,880 Speaker 1: I believe you on that one because I think you 1109 01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:18,240 Speaker 1: have a look that for a straight girl. They're like, 1110 01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:20,960 Speaker 1: you're kind of boyish, but you're beautiful. So like, I 1111 01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:24,640 Speaker 1: don't know what I'm feeling. I think I didn't. I don't. 1112 01:01:24,640 --> 01:01:26,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest with you. That is why I 1113 01:01:26,000 --> 01:01:28,440 Speaker 1: always actually heals I like I like you, and she 1114 01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:30,880 Speaker 1: loves me and heels and it's crazy because yeah, but 1115 01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:32,680 Speaker 1: then she'd be ever on leather jacket and like little 1116 01:01:32,720 --> 01:01:36,720 Speaker 1: Vienna be married. Cute. I hate you when I tell you, 1117 01:01:36,760 --> 01:01:38,960 Speaker 1: I hate you. So we're gonna go ahead and get 1118 01:01:38,960 --> 01:01:41,640 Speaker 1: into the homemail. UM. I want to thank all of 1119 01:01:41,640 --> 01:01:44,160 Speaker 1: our listeners who oh ship, I played it. I want 1120 01:01:44,160 --> 01:01:47,160 Speaker 1: to thank all of our listeners who are now sending 1121 01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:50,600 Speaker 1: us homemail through our voicemail. UM, if you want to 1122 01:01:50,600 --> 01:01:52,360 Speaker 1: go ahead and leave us a voicemail the number, you 1123 01:01:52,480 --> 01:01:54,600 Speaker 1: just hit the call button on our horrible decisions. By 1124 01:01:54,600 --> 01:01:56,240 Speaker 1: the way, I really wanted us to do this, and 1125 01:01:56,240 --> 01:01:57,760 Speaker 1: I meant and I put it in the notes because 1126 01:01:58,080 --> 01:02:00,360 Speaker 1: I feel like this girl, but this is this is 1127 01:02:00,400 --> 01:02:03,320 Speaker 1: really good. When I listened to it, she was even 1128 01:02:03,360 --> 01:02:05,840 Speaker 1: nervous as to if this is even a real problem. 1129 01:02:05,840 --> 01:02:07,760 Speaker 1: I kind of wanted Alex, I'm actually glad you got 1130 01:02:07,760 --> 01:02:09,720 Speaker 1: the mic there because I don't know what to say. 1131 01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:11,520 Speaker 1: This is a good question. Maybe you can help, sir. 1132 01:02:11,720 --> 01:02:16,880 Speaker 1: So here goes the question. UM, I know that I 1133 01:02:17,120 --> 01:02:24,240 Speaker 1: to say coming from a female. Okay, hey, Weezie and Mandy, 1134 01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:26,120 Speaker 1: I just want to start off by saying that I 1135 01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:32,240 Speaker 1: love the show. I tune in every week. UM with 1136 01:02:32,520 --> 01:02:38,120 Speaker 1: a little bit of home. Male. Oh, I feel like 1137 01:02:38,160 --> 01:02:42,760 Speaker 1: I come too quick to say coming from a female, 1138 01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:48,280 Speaker 1: UM and I only males. But um, let's just put 1139 01:02:48,320 --> 01:02:51,400 Speaker 1: it in short. So every time I'm getting some really 1140 01:02:51,400 --> 01:02:55,000 Speaker 1: good head by guy, I can come within minutes. I 1141 01:02:55,000 --> 01:02:58,240 Speaker 1: don't know if I like just know my sweet spot 1142 01:02:58,440 --> 01:03:02,480 Speaker 1: or what or ain't on my spot or a lot 1143 01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:06,960 Speaker 1: of times when I'm like riding with it. Uh, I 1144 01:03:07,040 --> 01:03:10,040 Speaker 1: just know my thought and it's it's really easy to 1145 01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:14,240 Speaker 1: have an orgasm. I don't want to do that anymore. 1146 01:03:14,520 --> 01:03:17,640 Speaker 1: It's been kind of sucking up my sex life because 1147 01:03:18,200 --> 01:03:20,480 Speaker 1: especially if I'm having sex with a guy that you know, 1148 01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:24,200 Speaker 1: it might be just the flame. Once I have an orgasm, 1149 01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:27,440 Speaker 1: I am done. Like I do not want him to 1150 01:03:27,440 --> 01:03:31,400 Speaker 1: touch me anymore. I want and just leave and I 1151 01:03:31,480 --> 01:03:35,640 Speaker 1: want to go about my day. So please and some 1152 01:03:35,720 --> 01:03:39,040 Speaker 1: insight on this topic. I don't know you've heard anything 1153 01:03:39,520 --> 01:03:44,200 Speaker 1: or anybody say anything like this, but UM, give me 1154 01:03:44,240 --> 01:03:48,920 Speaker 1: some advice. Thanks. Love it. Joe By has she tried 1155 01:03:49,000 --> 01:03:53,280 Speaker 1: vaginal exercises like clenching and ship just like stop herself 1156 01:03:53,280 --> 01:03:59,760 Speaker 1: to stop herself from coming. Yeah right, really, but you 1157 01:04:00,520 --> 01:04:02,600 Speaker 1: to stop from coming. I didn't know that. I thought 1158 01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:04,400 Speaker 1: that was just to make it tighter. I wanted to 1159 01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:08,240 Speaker 1: look up something. Um, there's a desensitizer for men that 1160 01:04:08,360 --> 01:04:12,160 Speaker 1: the spray, and I wonder if she could desensitize her cli. 1161 01:04:12,240 --> 01:04:16,040 Speaker 1: I don't know it's coming to make men last longer. Okay. Well, 1162 01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:19,120 Speaker 1: and it's funny because the dilemma that she does have 1163 01:04:19,840 --> 01:04:23,160 Speaker 1: I've had before and when I'm with a guy that 1164 01:04:23,240 --> 01:04:25,640 Speaker 1: I kind of don't care if he gets off or 1165 01:04:25,680 --> 01:04:29,600 Speaker 1: not if I come before him. All right, I'm done, 1166 01:04:30,040 --> 01:04:33,919 Speaker 1: And I literally be like, I'm I'm done, fucking I came. 1167 01:04:34,200 --> 01:04:36,840 Speaker 1: I'm tired, and as a woman, we kind of get 1168 01:04:36,840 --> 01:04:41,880 Speaker 1: a numbing because that happened. It's I'm like learning to 1169 01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:45,080 Speaker 1: like work through it. I just get immediately, like it's 1170 01:04:45,160 --> 01:04:50,360 Speaker 1: very easy. She's always so I come really easy, which 1171 01:04:50,360 --> 01:04:53,360 Speaker 1: is why I really was hearing her like I feel 1172 01:04:53,360 --> 01:04:54,959 Speaker 1: like I come too quick, to the point where anyone 1173 01:04:54,960 --> 01:04:57,320 Speaker 1: I've ever stopped with always asked me if I'm lying, Like, 1174 01:04:57,400 --> 01:05:00,920 Speaker 1: it's just really quick, Okay, how quick? Maybe two minutes, 1175 01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:03,920 Speaker 1: three minutes the first one the first night, then the 1176 01:05:03,960 --> 01:05:09,760 Speaker 1: second one isn't. It depends, like if it's like going 1177 01:05:09,880 --> 01:05:12,160 Speaker 1: well right, like I can't really hold out that well, 1178 01:05:12,200 --> 01:05:14,240 Speaker 1: and like sometimes I gets tired to come into fast 1179 01:05:14,280 --> 01:05:17,120 Speaker 1: and I don't know what to do either, So no, 1180 01:05:18,720 --> 01:05:20,320 Speaker 1: what do you think? So this is like a whole 1181 01:05:20,360 --> 01:05:23,320 Speaker 1: new phenomenon. I didn't know that you didn't know that 1182 01:05:23,320 --> 01:05:28,400 Speaker 1: that happened. No, I thought you guys enjoy coming multiple times. 1183 01:05:28,440 --> 01:05:30,040 Speaker 1: I didn't know. No, no, no, no, no no. Not to 1184 01:05:30,080 --> 01:05:31,720 Speaker 1: say that women don't or anything, but there are some 1185 01:05:31,760 --> 01:05:33,320 Speaker 1: women that come too fast. I mean, I think we 1186 01:05:33,360 --> 01:05:35,200 Speaker 1: hear so much about women that are hard having a 1187 01:05:35,240 --> 01:05:39,200 Speaker 1: hard time reaching orgasm, but I don't I don't even 1188 01:05:39,200 --> 01:05:42,040 Speaker 1: even say fast. I would think, like you still want 1189 01:05:42,040 --> 01:05:43,520 Speaker 1: to keep it going, keep it going. I didn't know 1190 01:05:43,600 --> 01:05:46,520 Speaker 1: that she said you can't. Sexual desire dies, because that's 1191 01:05:47,240 --> 01:05:50,440 Speaker 1: sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't. It depends. It definitely depends. 1192 01:05:50,520 --> 01:05:53,439 Speaker 1: Like when I came, I think I am gonna make 1193 01:05:53,920 --> 01:05:55,560 Speaker 1: put the blame to the cody, and I was on 1194 01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:58,280 Speaker 1: when I came four times um with from writing dick. 1195 01:05:58,480 --> 01:06:01,400 Speaker 1: But there is times like when all orgasm, Like there's 1196 01:06:01,400 --> 01:06:05,240 Speaker 1: different types of orgasms for women, and so there are 1197 01:06:05,320 --> 01:06:09,000 Speaker 1: some orgasms that when a female reaches it, it's exhausting, 1198 01:06:09,120 --> 01:06:11,960 Speaker 1: and it also changes the sensation of our vagina to 1199 01:06:12,000 --> 01:06:14,520 Speaker 1: where maybe I don't even want to be penetrated anymore. 1200 01:06:14,560 --> 01:06:17,400 Speaker 1: It's like I came, I'm exhausted, and yeah, I get tired. 1201 01:06:17,680 --> 01:06:19,480 Speaker 1: So then it's like damn, and I've now I gotta finish, 1202 01:06:19,800 --> 01:06:21,640 Speaker 1: like I'm done. I got mine, and a lot of 1203 01:06:21,680 --> 01:06:24,800 Speaker 1: women don't get there's so it's just like to really 1204 01:06:25,040 --> 01:06:28,800 Speaker 1: have that sensation, we will be done. But what I 1205 01:06:28,800 --> 01:06:32,320 Speaker 1: would suggest to her is that she gives them head 1206 01:06:32,320 --> 01:06:35,480 Speaker 1: for a really long time, get them right there, and 1207 01:06:35,520 --> 01:06:37,360 Speaker 1: then they stopped working, so then they both come at 1208 01:06:37,360 --> 01:06:43,000 Speaker 1: the same time. Because we always say men should eat 1209 01:06:43,000 --> 01:06:47,600 Speaker 1: pussy and satisfy me first longer, because I just said 1210 01:06:47,600 --> 01:06:49,320 Speaker 1: in the beginning of the show, you you want to 1211 01:06:49,320 --> 01:06:51,280 Speaker 1: eat her pussy, and I mean, but there's a lot 1212 01:06:51,360 --> 01:06:54,880 Speaker 1: of times that women, most women, especially even our listeners, 1213 01:06:55,160 --> 01:06:59,080 Speaker 1: are having a problem reaching these orgasms. So it's funny 1214 01:06:59,120 --> 01:07:01,560 Speaker 1: that on the complete opposite end of the spectrum she 1215 01:07:01,600 --> 01:07:04,560 Speaker 1: says it's ruining her guid honestly, like I've come from 1216 01:07:04,560 --> 01:07:06,400 Speaker 1: giving head before. I mean, if I'm touching myself a 1217 01:07:06,440 --> 01:07:10,040 Speaker 1: little bit, like I enjoyed musing, and I don't know 1218 01:07:10,080 --> 01:07:12,000 Speaker 1: how she's coming too quick, like I don't know where 1219 01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:14,200 Speaker 1: it is, like you know what I'm saying, Like if 1220 01:07:14,200 --> 01:07:16,240 Speaker 1: she's touching herself and coming because she said, maybe I 1221 01:07:16,280 --> 01:07:19,360 Speaker 1: know my spot and stop touching. She did. Okay, okay, 1222 01:07:20,000 --> 01:07:22,520 Speaker 1: she said while she's writing, So maybe she should do 1223 01:07:22,560 --> 01:07:26,320 Speaker 1: more other positions where she's not in control and he's 1224 01:07:26,360 --> 01:07:28,760 Speaker 1: more in control. Let him be more from the bag 1225 01:07:28,880 --> 01:07:32,800 Speaker 1: missionary on the side. Don't allow yourself to have so 1226 01:07:32,880 --> 01:07:35,160 Speaker 1: much control to where you know your spot so you're 1227 01:07:35,160 --> 01:07:37,280 Speaker 1: gonna come. So not a problem, by the way, I 1228 01:07:37,360 --> 01:07:42,080 Speaker 1: know what the why are you complaining? I don't The 1229 01:07:42,120 --> 01:07:44,200 Speaker 1: only reason I got tired of it. I don't know 1230 01:07:44,200 --> 01:07:46,760 Speaker 1: if she can relate, but I would come so fast 1231 01:07:46,800 --> 01:07:50,400 Speaker 1: that I couldn't perform throughout, like I couldn't finish. And 1232 01:07:50,440 --> 01:07:52,520 Speaker 1: that's when I knew it was because that's what it 1233 01:07:52,560 --> 01:07:55,080 Speaker 1: sounds like. Her problem is is like her sexual desire 1234 01:07:55,520 --> 01:07:57,840 Speaker 1: shuts off after she comes. So it's like that's why 1235 01:07:57,880 --> 01:08:01,280 Speaker 1: it's the problem, because it so if anything, if anything, 1236 01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:03,760 Speaker 1: it just sounds more mental than anything. Look into the 1237 01:08:03,800 --> 01:08:07,560 Speaker 1: desensitizing creams and stuff like that online and like make 1238 01:08:07,560 --> 01:08:09,080 Speaker 1: sure you find one that's like safe, you have some 1239 01:08:09,120 --> 01:08:11,480 Speaker 1: good reviews, or going to store and ask somebody. But 1240 01:08:11,520 --> 01:08:14,440 Speaker 1: I would try those. I just think it's van They 1241 01:08:14,520 --> 01:08:16,599 Speaker 1: rush a lot of blood to your pussy. By the way, 1242 01:08:16,800 --> 01:08:18,880 Speaker 1: some of them can keep you horny, so you might 1243 01:08:18,920 --> 01:08:20,880 Speaker 1: want to keep sucking. I will say though, for a 1244 01:08:20,920 --> 01:08:24,160 Speaker 1: lot of the female listeners to me, I will say 1245 01:08:24,160 --> 01:08:26,920 Speaker 1: it's risky for women way more than men to deal 1246 01:08:26,960 --> 01:08:29,759 Speaker 1: with any of these type of topical or creams because 1247 01:08:30,080 --> 01:08:32,760 Speaker 1: the giants very sensitive, and you don't want to just 1248 01:08:32,800 --> 01:08:35,640 Speaker 1: be putting anything up there because then it could just 1249 01:08:35,680 --> 01:08:38,120 Speaker 1: be a problem to war. Then you itch, then there's 1250 01:08:38,120 --> 01:08:41,679 Speaker 1: an issue. Um. So yeah, I guess that's your advice 1251 01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:43,920 Speaker 1: for that. We have one more. I want to like, 1252 01:08:44,000 --> 01:08:45,640 Speaker 1: if you don't mind following up with us and I 1253 01:08:45,760 --> 01:08:47,559 Speaker 1: like text or email or whatever. I want to write 1254 01:08:47,600 --> 01:08:50,800 Speaker 1: Dr Kim and talk to her about that. Okay, okay, um, 1255 01:08:50,840 --> 01:08:54,680 Speaker 1: So this next one is Lord listen. I'm glad you 1256 01:08:54,680 --> 01:08:58,160 Speaker 1: wrote it back first. Oh I did write, So this 1257 01:08:58,200 --> 01:09:00,640 Speaker 1: girl writes us. Actually she wrote me in my d 1258 01:09:00,840 --> 01:09:04,240 Speaker 1: MS and horrible decisions, so I feel like she was 1259 01:09:04,280 --> 01:09:09,599 Speaker 1: really stressed. Mean, she just copy and paste of this ship. 1260 01:09:09,600 --> 01:09:11,240 Speaker 1: Hopefully you guys see this because I need some advice. 1261 01:09:11,240 --> 01:09:12,600 Speaker 1: I'm glad you wrote he back because I I was 1262 01:09:12,600 --> 01:09:14,160 Speaker 1: gonna write her back right away too. I felt like 1263 01:09:14,439 --> 01:09:16,559 Speaker 1: she was tripping, so I decided to make it Tinder 1264 01:09:16,560 --> 01:09:18,400 Speaker 1: because of you two. And I met this guy on here. 1265 01:09:18,439 --> 01:09:20,320 Speaker 1: We were talking on there for about ten days before 1266 01:09:20,320 --> 01:09:24,400 Speaker 1: he designedly deciding finally decided to ask me for my number. Disclaimer, 1267 01:09:24,439 --> 01:09:26,439 Speaker 1: we have yet to hang out. He's had my number 1268 01:09:26,439 --> 01:09:30,960 Speaker 1: since January. We were supposed to hang out before, but 1269 01:09:31,680 --> 01:09:33,720 Speaker 1: there was a really bad snowstorm, so we decided to 1270 01:09:33,760 --> 01:09:36,960 Speaker 1: reschedule Valentine's Day come around. He stops texting me around 1271 01:09:36,960 --> 01:09:39,559 Speaker 1: seven and doesn't even tell me Happy Valentine's Day. He 1272 01:09:39,640 --> 01:09:41,600 Speaker 1: texted me the next day and acted like everything was 1273 01:09:41,640 --> 01:09:43,800 Speaker 1: all good. I'm a cancer. Typically we wear our hearts 1274 01:09:43,800 --> 01:09:45,519 Speaker 1: immerse sleeps. So should I make a big deal and 1275 01:09:45,680 --> 01:09:48,080 Speaker 1: I the side chick? Should I leave him alone? And 1276 01:09:48,200 --> 01:09:53,280 Speaker 1: I overreacting? Sorry? This is so long? I wrote her back, 1277 01:09:53,720 --> 01:09:56,880 Speaker 1: like I wrote her back like girls, wait, wait, hold on, 1278 01:09:56,960 --> 01:09:59,320 Speaker 1: let me Mandy wrote her back. Is it? I want 1279 01:09:59,360 --> 01:10:02,759 Speaker 1: to read this on the show, period, but cis comma? Y'all? 1280 01:10:03,400 --> 01:10:06,120 Speaker 1: Y'all never met he owes you nothing, and you're expecting 1281 01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:09,160 Speaker 1: way too much? Is a text happy Valentine's Day one? 1282 01:10:09,240 --> 01:10:11,519 Speaker 1: Y'all have been talking ten days. I'd say when you 1283 01:10:11,520 --> 01:10:15,080 Speaker 1: have lower expectations, it leads to less disappointment. She wrote 1284 01:10:15,120 --> 01:10:16,479 Speaker 1: back and said, I'm okay with you reading this on 1285 01:10:16,520 --> 01:10:18,760 Speaker 1: the show. No, we talked ten days on Tender and 1286 01:10:18,760 --> 01:10:22,680 Speaker 1: we've been texting every day since January twenties six. Is 1287 01:10:22,680 --> 01:10:24,639 Speaker 1: it bad for me to at least expect a Valentine's 1288 01:10:24,680 --> 01:10:27,040 Speaker 1: Day text? Other homes hit me up but not him, 1289 01:10:27,280 --> 01:10:29,320 Speaker 1: And I'm just overall this texting and I don't want 1290 01:10:29,320 --> 01:10:31,280 Speaker 1: to be too pushy or available. I don't know how 1291 01:10:31,320 --> 01:10:33,200 Speaker 1: to date at all. Once I like you, I like 1292 01:10:33,280 --> 01:10:36,840 Speaker 1: you clearly, and so I wanted to give kind of 1293 01:10:36,880 --> 01:10:39,640 Speaker 1: a p s A too. That's once you know you 1294 01:10:39,720 --> 01:10:42,240 Speaker 1: crazy When I read like we've yet to hang out, 1295 01:10:43,200 --> 01:10:45,360 Speaker 1: I don't want to hurt you have yet to hang out, 1296 01:10:45,439 --> 01:10:48,040 Speaker 1: and you're upset because he didn't text you on Valentine's Day. 1297 01:10:48,160 --> 01:10:51,680 Speaker 1: I wanted to say, like to our female listeners, I 1298 01:10:51,720 --> 01:10:54,840 Speaker 1: feel like a lot of us expect way too much 1299 01:10:54,840 --> 01:10:57,240 Speaker 1: out of these trash as nigas to begin with. So 1300 01:10:57,400 --> 01:10:59,880 Speaker 1: I feel like, I mean, maybe you're not trash Okay, 1301 01:11:00,240 --> 01:11:06,200 Speaker 1: maybe not you you know, kinda forever. But I literally 1302 01:11:06,240 --> 01:11:10,200 Speaker 1: feel like there's things that we expect from men way, 1303 01:11:10,520 --> 01:11:13,920 Speaker 1: not only too soon, but we just don't allow things 1304 01:11:13,960 --> 01:11:17,240 Speaker 1: to be organic or flow that way. You're really upset 1305 01:11:17,280 --> 01:11:20,080 Speaker 1: about not receiving a happy Valentine's Date text, I don't 1306 01:11:20,080 --> 01:11:23,080 Speaker 1: even want to text. I got rose emojis and responded 1307 01:11:23,120 --> 01:11:25,600 Speaker 1: these ain't even real, nigga, get it out my phone. 1308 01:11:26,040 --> 01:11:32,160 Speaker 1: So I don't know. I don't know why a lot 1309 01:11:32,200 --> 01:11:36,040 Speaker 1: of women are expecting so much out of men so soon. 1310 01:11:36,439 --> 01:11:38,080 Speaker 1: I think that it's something that needs to be like 1311 01:11:40,080 --> 01:11:43,400 Speaker 1: she's in her head too much, like a yes, and 1312 01:11:43,439 --> 01:11:47,000 Speaker 1: that's fair. They create these relationships because they like them. 1313 01:11:47,040 --> 01:11:49,400 Speaker 1: But it's like, if you take yourself out of this 1314 01:11:49,640 --> 01:11:54,200 Speaker 1: situation and look into it, you've think about it for 1315 01:11:54,200 --> 01:11:56,400 Speaker 1: a sea. If he's not texting you about like you 1316 01:11:56,439 --> 01:11:58,320 Speaker 1: guys haven't even met, Like, do you not think he 1317 01:11:58,439 --> 01:12:01,439 Speaker 1: was talking to other people? Other people and and that's 1318 01:12:01,439 --> 01:12:07,040 Speaker 1: honestly nothing that maybe he's not been what girl he 1319 01:12:07,520 --> 01:12:10,680 Speaker 1: d How do you know that there's massing niggas? I 1320 01:12:10,720 --> 01:12:12,880 Speaker 1: don't think he's probably dated somebody I don't know he 1321 01:12:12,920 --> 01:12:17,080 Speaker 1: got He got a girl, do you think so? Because 1322 01:12:17,080 --> 01:12:20,160 Speaker 1: he hasn't met her yet. Yes, he's just waiting for 1323 01:12:20,200 --> 01:12:23,200 Speaker 1: an open opportunity to Oh and the other nigga in 1324 01:12:23,200 --> 01:12:31,000 Speaker 1: the wrong clapping, I'm sorry. Oh yeah, because it's been 1325 01:12:31,120 --> 01:12:36,519 Speaker 1: some ship you miss. It's some ship. Goddamnit. Um she's 1326 01:12:36,560 --> 01:12:39,080 Speaker 1: turning into a tomato, y'all. I know she is. It's 1327 01:12:39,080 --> 01:12:45,040 Speaker 1: so cute. Oh my god. Man. He was like, I 1328 01:12:45,040 --> 01:12:47,120 Speaker 1: don't want to do this episode. I want to. I 1329 01:12:47,280 --> 01:12:53,559 Speaker 1: was like, I'm not interested in this, Um damn not 1330 01:12:53,720 --> 01:12:56,320 Speaker 1: because I was just like, you, sure, she's gold star. 1331 01:12:56,720 --> 01:12:59,680 Speaker 1: I just don't even think. But now after the conversation. 1332 01:13:00,600 --> 01:13:03,280 Speaker 1: And also also another thing too, even in the lesbian world, 1333 01:13:03,720 --> 01:13:06,400 Speaker 1: this happens as well all the time. And then and 1334 01:13:06,439 --> 01:13:10,800 Speaker 1: then nothing. Then if I guess you're like the other 1335 01:13:11,760 --> 01:13:13,680 Speaker 1: the other girl, whatever it is. If you are too 1336 01:13:13,760 --> 01:13:15,479 Speaker 1: much in your head and you don't want to enjoy 1337 01:13:15,560 --> 01:13:19,799 Speaker 1: that person you you you most likely just ran them away. 1338 01:13:20,000 --> 01:13:22,479 Speaker 1: You really. I'm like, I'm like, if I want to 1339 01:13:22,520 --> 01:13:24,320 Speaker 1: see you, and I'm gonna look at her as I 1340 01:13:24,360 --> 01:13:26,880 Speaker 1: say this, If I want to see you and you 1341 01:13:26,920 --> 01:13:29,640 Speaker 1: don't give me time, to see you, and I go 1342 01:13:29,840 --> 01:13:33,080 Speaker 1: above and beyond to try to see you, and you 1343 01:13:33,080 --> 01:13:34,920 Speaker 1: don't see me. I'm not gonna lie. That's why I 1344 01:13:34,960 --> 01:13:36,639 Speaker 1: cut Felling Bay off. Y'all don't know he got out 1345 01:13:36,640 --> 01:13:42,719 Speaker 1: of jail. Oh yeah, I was dating a felon everything 1346 01:13:42,760 --> 01:13:46,920 Speaker 1: you just said. I'm sorry, it's resonating with me. So 1347 01:13:47,040 --> 01:13:49,240 Speaker 1: first off, you don't got a job, nigga, and you 1348 01:13:49,280 --> 01:13:53,160 Speaker 1: just gotta okay, okay. But I can say, hey, okay, okay, 1349 01:13:53,200 --> 01:13:55,160 Speaker 1: I guess you have a job. But if even at 1350 01:13:55,160 --> 01:13:57,280 Speaker 1: the gym, bitch, funk your gym, come see me, which 1351 01:13:57,280 --> 01:14:00,720 Speaker 1: is fellon Bayes issue? Work of what gym? When we 1352 01:14:00,760 --> 01:14:04,559 Speaker 1: could just put him but work in the bedroom? How long? Okay? 1353 01:14:04,600 --> 01:14:07,080 Speaker 1: But hold on, hold on, hold on what well, this 1354 01:14:07,160 --> 01:14:09,360 Speaker 1: is my thing, this is my thing with with with 1355 01:14:09,400 --> 01:14:11,760 Speaker 1: Felling Bay guys. So he got out of jail and 1356 01:14:12,000 --> 01:14:16,040 Speaker 1: quickly got cut off. But um, the problem with what 1357 01:14:16,200 --> 01:14:20,040 Speaker 1: that is Abby at work in school, nig you couldn't 1358 01:14:20,080 --> 01:14:22,439 Speaker 1: go to the gym between nine am and eight thirty pm. 1359 01:14:22,560 --> 01:14:25,120 Speaker 1: You gotta go to the gym when I'm out of working. Free. 1360 01:14:25,240 --> 01:14:26,760 Speaker 1: Here we go. You're getting on the mike. What you 1361 01:14:26,800 --> 01:14:30,240 Speaker 1: got to say? What you got to say, King, we're listening, 1362 01:14:30,400 --> 01:14:33,760 Speaker 1: how you don't do you are? Don't hear about this? 1363 01:14:34,080 --> 01:14:36,120 Speaker 1: That Mandy Matt that was about to come to her 1364 01:14:36,120 --> 01:14:46,040 Speaker 1: house that got arrested again, he broll you out there. 1365 01:14:46,439 --> 01:14:48,240 Speaker 1: I was gonna write him a letter because I really 1366 01:14:48,320 --> 01:14:51,080 Speaker 1: enjoyed his company, Like I really enjoyed being around he listen. 1367 01:14:51,160 --> 01:14:53,240 Speaker 1: Mandy told us about this thing on one episode. Literally 1368 01:14:53,280 --> 01:14:54,800 Speaker 1: the next week we were in the studio. She was like, 1369 01:14:54,840 --> 01:15:03,439 Speaker 1: so what here he's not so but anyways, what she 1370 01:15:03,560 --> 01:15:05,400 Speaker 1: was saying it still only got a job but somehow 1371 01:15:05,400 --> 01:15:09,000 Speaker 1: in apartment. I mean, you can pay his rent doing 1372 01:15:12,280 --> 01:15:15,719 Speaker 1: I mean, let's not talk about this. You know, look, 1373 01:15:15,840 --> 01:15:18,639 Speaker 1: let's not one question. One question. What's the question? You 1374 01:15:18,360 --> 01:15:22,080 Speaker 1: said your goals? What is a gold start? Kay? So 1375 01:15:22,320 --> 01:15:26,240 Speaker 1: what if you're dating someone bisexual who wants a threesome? 1376 01:15:27,600 --> 01:15:32,280 Speaker 1: What with a male? Yeah? Again communication and she would 1377 01:15:32,280 --> 01:15:35,439 Speaker 1: need to understand that about me. I'm not but but 1378 01:15:35,479 --> 01:15:37,400 Speaker 1: again that's me. But I mean like say, like the 1379 01:15:37,520 --> 01:15:43,160 Speaker 1: dude never touches you during the interaction, I can you 1380 01:15:43,200 --> 01:15:45,920 Speaker 1: can you can watch a girl get fucked. You would 1381 01:15:45,920 --> 01:15:48,519 Speaker 1: be able to watch a girl that you're fucking. A 1382 01:15:48,560 --> 01:15:58,040 Speaker 1: girl called other guy Oh, I would not. I like 1383 01:15:58,120 --> 01:16:01,280 Speaker 1: kissing and stuff. Would you kiss the guy? Oh? You 1384 01:16:01,280 --> 01:16:04,160 Speaker 1: wouldn't even kiss the guy? Have we ever done? Have 1385 01:16:04,280 --> 01:16:08,240 Speaker 1: you ever? So you wouldn't even suck a dick? And 1386 01:16:08,320 --> 01:16:12,240 Speaker 1: everyone miss okay? So I mean I get that, that 1387 01:16:12,280 --> 01:16:14,439 Speaker 1: makes sense. I get it too. Again, it's all about 1388 01:16:14,439 --> 01:16:17,960 Speaker 1: communications everywhere that like they're girls want other guy, but 1389 01:16:18,000 --> 01:16:19,840 Speaker 1: they're not gay. I feel like we end all of 1390 01:16:19,840 --> 01:16:22,280 Speaker 1: our shows with it's all about communication, guys. It's all 1391 01:16:22,280 --> 01:16:26,240 Speaker 1: about commun all of our shows. And that make time 1392 01:16:26,520 --> 01:16:29,920 Speaker 1: for the person who will agreed, who wants to Again, 1393 01:16:30,040 --> 01:16:34,360 Speaker 1: I respect it, hold on, hold on. If you are 1394 01:16:34,439 --> 01:16:36,720 Speaker 1: busy and you have a ship ton of ship going 1395 01:16:36,720 --> 01:16:39,200 Speaker 1: on in your life, I'm like, I get it. I 1396 01:16:39,240 --> 01:16:44,400 Speaker 1: respect it. But you know, I don't want people drink 1397 01:16:44,439 --> 01:16:46,240 Speaker 1: and you know what you're in the busy. Do you 1398 01:16:46,240 --> 01:16:49,240 Speaker 1: know what you say? Obama had time for Michelle? And 1399 01:16:49,320 --> 01:16:51,720 Speaker 1: that's all the funk. I tell all these niggas who 1400 01:16:51,760 --> 01:16:55,480 Speaker 1: don't have motherfucking time what Obama had time for Michelle? 1401 01:16:56,080 --> 01:16:59,800 Speaker 1: So I don't and to me as as a human being, listen, 1402 01:16:59,840 --> 01:17:02,240 Speaker 1: I'm taking seven classes, I work as busy seas and 1403 01:17:02,280 --> 01:17:04,639 Speaker 1: I have this podcast with this bitch, and she drives 1404 01:17:04,640 --> 01:17:06,320 Speaker 1: me crazy every day, so I have to deal with her. 1405 01:17:06,600 --> 01:17:10,280 Speaker 1: And it's literally like, if I am able to find 1406 01:17:10,320 --> 01:17:13,200 Speaker 1: time in my busy schedule, I literally want to see you. 1407 01:17:13,360 --> 01:17:16,280 Speaker 1: So I feel like when someone genuinely wants to see somebody, 1408 01:17:16,560 --> 01:17:19,400 Speaker 1: they make that time. They don't make time get hurt 1409 01:17:19,439 --> 01:17:23,200 Speaker 1: because I'm like, well, I understand, honestly, I'm going to 1410 01:17:23,280 --> 01:17:27,400 Speaker 1: sympathize with you. Off, Well, I'm gonna sympathize with you 1411 01:17:27,439 --> 01:17:31,040 Speaker 1: because I would feel away if pottery came before me too. 1412 01:17:31,520 --> 01:17:42,679 Speaker 1: I'm just saying I'm going to later this untable. I'm 1413 01:17:42,680 --> 01:17:45,240 Speaker 1: taking sick days, but this is the truth. Since you 1414 01:17:45,280 --> 01:17:48,160 Speaker 1: want to go there, well, I'm going through a breakup 1415 01:17:48,200 --> 01:17:50,600 Speaker 1: and it is I'm my own priority right now. I 1416 01:17:50,640 --> 01:17:51,920 Speaker 1: have to have dates with myself. I have to do 1417 01:17:51,920 --> 01:17:54,200 Speaker 1: ship by myself because I can. I'm not want to 1418 01:17:54,240 --> 01:17:57,880 Speaker 1: jump into something else too fast. And I enjoy spending 1419 01:17:57,920 --> 01:18:00,880 Speaker 1: time with the people I'm dating and make time for 1420 01:18:00,920 --> 01:18:03,719 Speaker 1: them in my life. But I am like serious about 1421 01:18:03,720 --> 01:18:05,840 Speaker 1: my priority because I don't want to get too needy 1422 01:18:05,880 --> 01:18:08,559 Speaker 1: with somebody. Because that's why it's also been so hard 1423 01:18:08,600 --> 01:18:10,240 Speaker 1: for me to let go. He was my best friend 1424 01:18:10,880 --> 01:18:12,200 Speaker 1: and that ship was hard, and I don't want to, 1425 01:18:12,360 --> 01:18:15,000 Speaker 1: you know, keep spending so much time with someone before 1426 01:18:15,040 --> 01:18:20,080 Speaker 1: I'm healed. I think, Um, I have a friend in 1427 01:18:20,080 --> 01:18:22,960 Speaker 1: town from l A. I'm going to go out. UM 1428 01:18:23,040 --> 01:18:25,679 Speaker 1: something else. I wanted to um read off this isn't 1429 01:18:25,720 --> 01:18:27,960 Speaker 1: home male, But I want to shout out to Tierra, 1430 01:18:28,280 --> 01:18:31,240 Speaker 1: who wrote our Horrible Decisions page. Oh maybe not. She 1431 01:18:31,280 --> 01:18:34,360 Speaker 1: wrote me, um, same thing. She said, Hi, Mandy, I 1432 01:18:34,400 --> 01:18:36,080 Speaker 1: was in l A for All Star weekend. I live 1433 01:18:36,120 --> 01:18:37,559 Speaker 1: in the Bay and was so hoping that I would 1434 01:18:37,640 --> 01:18:39,599 Speaker 1: run into you so I could tell you in person 1435 01:18:39,880 --> 01:18:42,360 Speaker 1: how much I absolutely love what you and Wheezy are 1436 01:18:42,400 --> 01:18:44,920 Speaker 1: doing with the podcast. My sister told me about it 1437 01:18:44,960 --> 01:18:47,200 Speaker 1: a month ago, and since then I've gotten all my 1438 01:18:47,280 --> 01:18:50,760 Speaker 1: girls hooked and started listening with my boyfriend too. My 1439 01:18:50,800 --> 01:18:53,360 Speaker 1: sister and I can't even listen to our other favorite 1440 01:18:53,360 --> 01:18:56,240 Speaker 1: podcasts anymore because they just don't compare to it. She 1441 01:18:56,240 --> 01:18:58,439 Speaker 1: ain't say the names, girl, I know, I wanted to 1442 01:18:58,439 --> 01:19:00,760 Speaker 1: know what we was being compared to. I'm sure you 1443 01:19:00,880 --> 01:19:03,479 Speaker 1: both hear this all the time, but Horrible Decisions is 1444 01:19:03,520 --> 01:19:06,439 Speaker 1: so important, not just because it's entertaining and funny as hell, 1445 01:19:06,680 --> 01:19:09,439 Speaker 1: but because women live their whole lives without ever understanding 1446 01:19:09,439 --> 01:19:11,680 Speaker 1: what it feels like to be sexually liberated. And we're 1447 01:19:11,720 --> 01:19:14,040 Speaker 1: really and we're literally taught to think that we aren't 1448 01:19:14,040 --> 01:19:16,800 Speaker 1: meant to experience that. Y'all offer an example of what 1449 01:19:16,840 --> 01:19:19,240 Speaker 1: it looks like to be a woman empowered in her sexuality. 1450 01:19:19,520 --> 01:19:22,640 Speaker 1: It's so necessary, So thank you and I got that, 1451 01:19:22,680 --> 01:19:25,679 Speaker 1: and I was like, you know what, I literally heard 1452 01:19:25,760 --> 01:19:27,840 Speaker 1: the same thing a few nights ago. Um, when I 1453 01:19:27,840 --> 01:19:29,679 Speaker 1: went on that day with Jeeves, right, I was telling 1454 01:19:29,760 --> 01:19:33,000 Speaker 1: him how scared I was to meet new people and 1455 01:19:33,000 --> 01:19:35,400 Speaker 1: talk about this podcast, and he's like, look, you're going 1456 01:19:35,439 --> 01:19:37,280 Speaker 1: to meet people that might think it's fucking crazy. And 1457 01:19:37,280 --> 01:19:38,960 Speaker 1: he's like, but you have to understand what you're doing 1458 01:19:39,080 --> 01:19:41,200 Speaker 1: can be such a turn on for someone that's secure 1459 01:19:41,280 --> 01:19:43,720 Speaker 1: with it because they're going to see it as empowering. 1460 01:19:43,760 --> 01:19:46,160 Speaker 1: They're going to see it as educational thing, like sure, 1461 01:19:46,200 --> 01:19:47,920 Speaker 1: you do it in a fun way to where people 1462 01:19:47,920 --> 01:19:49,559 Speaker 1: do want to listen, people do want to get tested 1463 01:19:49,560 --> 01:19:52,200 Speaker 1: ship like that, and like, I'm starting to learn that 1464 01:19:52,200 --> 01:19:56,080 Speaker 1: that was one of the biggest hardest things. I was like, 1465 01:19:56,120 --> 01:19:57,600 Speaker 1: I knew he loved what I do and was very 1466 01:19:57,640 --> 01:19:59,639 Speaker 1: supportive and like am I going to find somebody else 1467 01:19:59,640 --> 01:20:02,120 Speaker 1: that's gonna to be cool with this, with this someway 1468 01:20:02,160 --> 01:20:05,120 Speaker 1: they shout out to injectors. That way, I got new 1469 01:20:05,120 --> 01:20:10,760 Speaker 1: fucking lips, nigga. The third well in the pictures was 1470 01:20:10,840 --> 01:20:13,599 Speaker 1: kind of confused because it was a curve. There's a curve. 1471 01:20:13,760 --> 01:20:15,680 Speaker 1: We don't really like curve dicks. We haven't really had 1472 01:20:15,720 --> 01:20:18,400 Speaker 1: that conversation out there, but women don't really like curb 1473 01:20:18,439 --> 01:20:22,080 Speaker 1: Phoenix to share this with you, what you have a 1474 01:20:22,080 --> 01:20:26,840 Speaker 1: curve dick? Okay, because it sounds sad over there. Why 1475 01:20:26,960 --> 01:20:33,400 Speaker 1: is that curve? I would not It's honestly real. I 1476 01:20:33,439 --> 01:20:35,400 Speaker 1: don't I don't know. I was watching like a gangbang 1477 01:20:35,479 --> 01:20:38,800 Speaker 1: session and then I was like, what why is this dick? 1478 01:20:38,880 --> 01:20:41,960 Speaker 1: Like it's it's literally like a ninety degree angle and 1479 01:20:42,040 --> 01:20:44,080 Speaker 1: I'm just like talking, I know that hurt. That was 1480 01:20:44,800 --> 01:20:48,599 Speaker 1: It is the weirdest looking dick. I really hope, um, 1481 01:20:48,680 --> 01:20:52,000 Speaker 1: for all of our lesbians listening. I really hope that 1482 01:20:52,040 --> 01:20:57,040 Speaker 1: this episode kind of did justice um for everyone listening. 1483 01:20:57,080 --> 01:20:58,760 Speaker 1: I hope you guys learned how to eat pussy, how 1484 01:20:58,760 --> 01:21:03,280 Speaker 1: to finger pussy, and how no poke, and also just 1485 01:21:03,360 --> 01:21:06,240 Speaker 1: how to not sit here and make things awkward by 1486 01:21:06,240 --> 01:21:09,400 Speaker 1: approaching women asking them the kiss if they're lesbian. Listen, 1487 01:21:09,400 --> 01:21:11,639 Speaker 1: if if a girl. This is a takeaway for the men. 1488 01:21:12,080 --> 01:21:14,639 Speaker 1: If you approach a female she says she's with her girlfriend, 1489 01:21:14,720 --> 01:21:17,479 Speaker 1: you have no hope. There's no chance at zero. So 1490 01:21:17,560 --> 01:21:19,800 Speaker 1: just walk away, be like I respect that ma, and 1491 01:21:19,880 --> 01:21:22,960 Speaker 1: keep it moving. So there's the takeaway for money to 1492 01:21:23,040 --> 01:21:24,519 Speaker 1: be like, oh you gotta do say you ain't interested, 1493 01:21:24,560 --> 01:21:25,920 Speaker 1: I'll be like, okay, well I'm not well, I'm not 1494 01:21:27,320 --> 01:21:30,240 Speaker 1: too um Again, guys, I wanna say thank you guys 1495 01:21:30,320 --> 01:21:33,160 Speaker 1: so much again. We have merchandise coming out. We will 1496 01:21:33,200 --> 01:21:35,719 Speaker 1: be sending out the information for that. If it's already 1497 01:21:35,720 --> 01:21:37,439 Speaker 1: out by the time we release this episode, you can 1498 01:21:37,439 --> 01:21:40,120 Speaker 1: click the link in the bio. Also, we got some 1499 01:21:40,240 --> 01:21:43,000 Speaker 1: last shows coming for you hot So Atlanta in New 1500 01:21:43,040 --> 01:21:45,639 Speaker 1: York City. We are coming to you. I know, listen 1501 01:21:45,720 --> 01:21:47,960 Speaker 1: d m V Chicago, l A. We hear y'all too. 1502 01:21:48,040 --> 01:21:50,040 Speaker 1: We just that's that's too far away. We're trying to 1503 01:21:50,040 --> 01:21:53,880 Speaker 1: get this check and Finley, I am really just you know, 1504 01:21:54,000 --> 01:21:56,120 Speaker 1: me and Alex went to go see Black Panther and 1505 01:21:56,200 --> 01:22:00,160 Speaker 1: like this girl, Well we're gonna see it together there 1506 01:22:00,160 --> 01:22:02,400 Speaker 1: and I'm so excited, so like we went to go 1507 01:22:02,439 --> 01:22:03,920 Speaker 1: see it and I was telling them, like, dude, I 1508 01:22:03,920 --> 01:22:06,160 Speaker 1: feel bad for white boys, Like I just feel like 1509 01:22:06,200 --> 01:22:08,240 Speaker 1: I need to be blacker and black people black, and 1510 01:22:08,280 --> 01:22:13,719 Speaker 1: that's why I'm so happy we're going at Lena Black Like, honestly, 1511 01:22:13,800 --> 01:22:15,000 Speaker 1: what do you mean you say? When we left the movie, 1512 01:22:15,040 --> 01:22:17,559 Speaker 1: I was like I wish I was darker. That's how 1513 01:22:17,640 --> 01:22:21,080 Speaker 1: fucking regal Africans and blacks are, and like it just 1514 01:22:21,160 --> 01:22:24,160 Speaker 1: reminded you how fucking dope black people are. And I 1515 01:22:24,280 --> 01:22:26,400 Speaker 1: just like, like I hated you. I know, I can't 1516 01:22:26,400 --> 01:22:28,960 Speaker 1: wait to see it. I know I'm excited. I still 1517 01:22:29,000 --> 01:22:30,960 Speaker 1: haven't seen it. I got to convince um Alex to 1518 01:22:31,040 --> 01:22:32,479 Speaker 1: take me to a white theater because I want to 1519 01:22:32,479 --> 01:22:37,479 Speaker 1: be able to hear the movie. Not interested in you know, 1520 01:22:37,600 --> 01:22:41,920 Speaker 1: the Magic Johnson Theater in Harlem's are I mean the 1521 01:22:41,920 --> 01:22:43,559 Speaker 1: Eye Pick And I was like, I was excited because 1522 01:22:43,560 --> 01:22:45,280 Speaker 1: I never have been there, but like, y'all should go. 1523 01:22:45,400 --> 01:22:47,640 Speaker 1: Y'all should go right over the bridge to Jersey. They 1524 01:22:47,720 --> 01:22:49,880 Speaker 1: have like the laid out leather sea. First of all, 1525 01:22:49,920 --> 01:22:53,200 Speaker 1: we're city girls. Oh, I'm just saying I'm not trying 1526 01:22:53,280 --> 01:22:55,400 Speaker 1: to another stake to go to a movie theater. I mean, 1527 01:22:55,400 --> 01:23:02,040 Speaker 1: but it's cheaper. You know, I'm good Calvin Claw model. 1528 01:23:05,560 --> 01:23:07,599 Speaker 1: First of all, we're not gonna fuck you, Alex, Okay, 1529 01:23:07,960 --> 01:23:11,920 Speaker 1: I'm talking about Oh we're doing it on Tuesday. Oh yeah, No, 1530 01:23:12,000 --> 01:23:13,840 Speaker 1: I have a thing called a job in all in school, 1531 01:23:13,880 --> 01:23:15,720 Speaker 1: so Tuesday is not gonna work. I'm a weekend only 1532 01:23:15,760 --> 01:23:20,320 Speaker 1: type of girl. Ate Okay, well you could be third. Well, 1533 01:23:20,320 --> 01:23:23,160 Speaker 1: because I can't make way to where I picked him. 1534 01:23:24,000 --> 01:23:28,479 Speaker 1: Get your tickets like now, because it's are we still recording? Yeah? 1535 01:23:28,960 --> 01:23:31,599 Speaker 1: Well sorry guys, Thank sorry, guys, thank you so much. 1536 01:23:31,960 --> 01:23:35,719 Speaker 1: If you listen to this podcast and you have never 1537 01:23:36,360 --> 01:23:43,840 Speaker 1: done pat I'm thinking about dis by. However, if you 1538 01:23:43,840 --> 01:23:46,280 Speaker 1: listen to this podcast and you want to maybe see 1539 01:23:46,320 --> 01:23:48,040 Speaker 1: some of the things we were talking about, UM joined 1540 01:23:48,040 --> 01:23:51,120 Speaker 1: Patreon and you can see hey more. It's just five bucks, 1541 01:23:51,280 --> 01:23:53,599 Speaker 1: and you'd be supporting us being able to me and Mandy. 1542 01:23:53,600 --> 01:23:55,080 Speaker 1: You are paying for this live show by ourselves. By 1543 01:23:55,120 --> 01:23:57,479 Speaker 1: the way. Yeah, we're trying to go promoter free and 1544 01:23:57,520 --> 01:24:00,720 Speaker 1: we're just trying to be too independent pocs and you 1545 01:24:00,800 --> 01:24:04,000 Speaker 1: know that's bout as helps um Yeah, and it's also 1546 01:24:04,080 --> 01:24:06,599 Speaker 1: been helping us be able to get merchandise to y'all. 1547 01:24:07,080 --> 01:24:09,640 Speaker 1: By the way, y'all, we just got T shirts and 1548 01:24:09,720 --> 01:24:12,680 Speaker 1: dad hats. Y'all are hitting me up talking about cropping. 1549 01:24:13,720 --> 01:24:19,360 Speaker 1: Can I get We're not a store guys, um, but 1550 01:24:19,439 --> 01:24:21,479 Speaker 1: we're gonna try to listen to all of your advice 1551 01:24:21,520 --> 01:24:23,559 Speaker 1: and get as much of the merchandise that we can 1552 01:24:23,600 --> 01:24:26,720 Speaker 1: and bring to y'all. Um. Patreon subscribers do get um 1553 01:24:27,080 --> 01:24:29,200 Speaker 1: money off of the live show. Yes, and if you 1554 01:24:29,240 --> 01:24:32,600 Speaker 1: are a top tier patron, we will be um contacting 1555 01:24:32,600 --> 01:24:35,240 Speaker 1: you soon to send you your free merchandise, as we 1556 01:24:35,280 --> 01:24:39,639 Speaker 1: appreciate you so much for donating fifteen dollars a month. Um. Again, 1557 01:24:39,800 --> 01:24:41,240 Speaker 1: that link will be in the bio if you want 1558 01:24:41,240 --> 01:24:43,639 Speaker 1: to become a patron and see the full video edits 1559 01:24:43,680 --> 01:24:45,960 Speaker 1: of this. Don't try to read the lips for where 1560 01:24:45,960 --> 01:24:49,760 Speaker 1: we did our bleefs ho um. But anyways, thank you 1561 01:24:49,880 --> 01:24:54,840 Speaker 1: so very much. Ye anyways, thank you guys so very much. 1562 01:24:54,880 --> 01:25:04,280 Speaker 1: This has been yet another episode of fourble Decisions.